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| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?I mean the numbers aren't in a man's favor on dating apps either. Like the man to women ratio leaves much time desired. Overall it's a pretty sucky dating strategy. Unfortunately it's the easiest available way to date these days. I just asked my new love interest how many messages he gets a week on average and he said about one. Meanwhile I get on average a hundred a day. However I am considered attractive by societies standards. I don't think the guy I'm seeing thinks much of himself in the loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:28 AM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseYou'll have to excuse my spelling errors but I've compiled this on my break and I don't have the time for revisions. Before I get into it I would like to state that I'm not trying to argue that women don't place importance on attractiveness. Because at the end of the day we're all visual creatures. You can find a great breakdown of the study right here on PPD by searching in the subreddit "What the OKCupid data really says" There are also some other excellent arguments in regards to this study a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:25 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseIt's okay if you don't understand the information available. But you should consider actually looking into that study and understanding it before you misquote it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 04:06 PM |
| -2 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?When they say women have it easy what they're referring to is attractive women. They don't consider any other women because those women aren't on their radar. This is only one of the many holes in the numerous illogical arguments you'll see on PPD. ETA: y'all love down voting logical arguments on here. It's a damn shame, if you opened your mind you might actually learn a thing or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:21 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseAre you talking about that debunked as well as misinterpreted study from OkCupid or some similar dating platform? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 0 | I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standardsYeah I'm not going to reply to that, you are clearly unwell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standards"Men are mad because women collectively claim to be attracted to nice guys with a good personalities, who treat them kindly and respectfully, when in reality, male model tier guys get tens of thousands of women even if they're self admitted "pea doughs" and "grapists", while normal, average guys get nothing. Men are mad because women's words go against their actions" Of course women want a nice man with a good personality who treats us with kindness and respect. These are qualities the vast majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.I'm going to go ahead and guess you are one of those men that have a lot of trouble understanding rules and roles in society. There's a reason the vast majority of people in the world find that disgusting because it's morally not okay. Your opinion on this matter is very wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:47 PM |
| – | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?The dude isn't arguing in good faith to begin with. Which is unfortunately common on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:45 PM |
| – | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?A lot of engineers are type A personalities. That extends to their home life too. Probably why I know a lot of neat freaks. But I didn't say neat freaks in particular. I just meant man that keep the house clean. You kind of put words into my mouth. And then automatically doubted my own experience. Which from my experience men like you don't talk to a lot of women in real life. Cuz we don't put up with that kind of bullshit in reality. So your opinion on women should be taken with a grain of salt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosWell said! I love to see such reasonable perspectives in this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?I've seen way too many men who kept a perfectly clean house. And then they move in with their significant other and decide they're too good to clean anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.What you're saying does not reflect reality or the vast majority of studies on the subject. You're thinking emotionally instead of logically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.I'm glad to have others agree with me in here. I started visiting the subreddit because a close friend's son started getting into the whole red pill bullshit. I wanted to see where he was getting the stuff from why his perspective on women was getting so dour. He's an amazing human being and I didn't want him to go down such a damning path. As it turns out logical women aren't particularly welcome here. But I like to state my case anyway. People like you and I are helping to make sure this subre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.It depends on what you consider being fucked. For instance if you only find women who are 10 out of 10 attractive and the best you could have possibly accomplished is a five. Of course there will be a small amount of straight dimes that are interested in you but for the most part they're going to date within their own general looks match. Yeah there are ways to get straight dimes when you're not particularly attractive like having tons of money. But I can't imagine wanting to be in a relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.You're right it's not illegal. But just because something is legal doesn't make it morally okay in the eyes of the masses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.I'd say pay attention to a bit of both words and actions). But some people are more honest with their words than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 08:48 PM |
| 4 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.Nah dude, women want financially stable men who they find attractive. The only kind of women looking for Uber Rich dudes who live that lifestyle are usually the sugar baby type. Or maybe those super kind of vain women who care about looks and status a whole bunch. That's an incredibly small minority of women out there. Especially the loud minority on social media. Kind of like how the loud minority of men like to conjugate on purple pill debate and throw out these ill conceived perceptions about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 06:24 PM |
| 6 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious."That's the thing. Most men are... average. Women generally pick those who, among the average, have the most confidence and charisma. And that's very hard to pick up when you're consistently being lied to." Women have been falling over boy bands and musical artist, actors, athletes etc as long as I can personally recall. No one is lying to you. Looks have always mattered. Of course personality is incredibly important. But looks have always mattered and they always will. Confidence and charisma w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:25 PM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.The concept of dating seems dead. The original point of dating was to have a baseline attraction or similarity and then go out into a social setting like a movie, dinner, park, etc and see if you two click. (I agree dating is quite convoluted these days) But now women want guys to "check all these boxes" before they even go out on a date. This does not give men a fair shot. There are some guys who appear good on paper and suck in real life, and vice versa. (This in, women are allowed to have sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size?I work in carpentry bud.... I know my numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size?No I'd prefer five over seven to eight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:50 AM |
| – | One of women's biggest advantage: In-group biasSo you're responding with illogical emotional dribble to a very logical perspective with research to back it up. Your post is acutally furthering their point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Does the argument of husband dick vs vacation dick prove that size matters from a purely pleasure point of view?And calling people pussies has been happening for an exuber amount of time.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | A case study on why dating is absolutely horrible for men and all men should go MGTOWBecause when you need things to fit into your diluted worldview, logic is not a priority, facts are not a priority. But anything that helps you to "prove" women are the devil will be taken as an undisputable fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.First off dating a 19-year-old at 40 is fucking disgusting. It doesn't matter what you look like or how you identify, it's fucking disgusting, period. Last but not least, reddit is full of people who would have you believe that a woman who has slept with a small handful of men is a total whore and completely worthless. A woman who slept with a hundred men is like bottom of the barrel status to redditors. I'm not sure where you're consistently reading the opposite on Reddit. Makes me wonder about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 03:53 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Yeah let me just pull that money out of my ass to buy a new car. Dude you are just too much. Quit getting your information on child support from shit like tiktok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:05 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Lol, I can't lower the price of gas dude. I'm telling you right now that that $400 is 100% only from driving to school and back. You are completely unrealistic in your views on a variety of subjects when it comes to child support as well as money management. You're in over your head here bud and it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:19 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Yes that is an unnecessary amount to say the very least, I completely agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:11 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Yeah where I live nobody's forking out $1,400 a month for two kids. It cost me a little over $400 a month in gas just to drive my child to school and back. No other driving just to school and back, 15 minute drive in a small SUV. My kids a teenager now and I've never once tried to up my child support because it's not worth the headache. That being said I'm the only one that pays for clothes and shoes and the majority of my child's medical bills even though we're supposed to split them 50/50. Eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:05 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I mean my ex-husbands child support is based off of a job that made 60 some thousand a year, his child support would barely cover the gas it takes for me to bring our child to school and back. Where are these people who can survive off of child support alone? I don't know anyone like that. Maybe if you have your children full time and lived in a shack that's paid off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:17 PM |
| – | Reality TV Also Caused Issues With Women’s Expectations.quite an infantilising take tbh. "quite an infantilising take tbh" I couldn't have said it better. OP's theory is the equivalent of trash TV. Ain't nothing real about it and anyone with a smidge of common sense can immediately recognize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 03:21 AM |
| – | How do men view sex?I'm more attracted to a person in their totality as well. The assumptions you're making to prove your point are just wild and completely unfounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:11 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?For me sex isn't something that I would do with anyone. I've never had a one-night stand and I have no interest in it. Also I've never had a guy not want to cuddle and kiss me, like that happens a lot in the beginning stages of relationships that don't work out. That's super freaking common in my opinion. I think you might have some kind of disorder thinking when it comes to sexual intimacy. I understand that we are allowed to have our own opinions on a variety of subjects, but this particular o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:09 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?I mean I'm a woman so I'm definitely not the target audience in regards to your question. But for me without a good regular sex life I will absolutely lose interest in my significant other. To me sex is one of the purest forms of intimacy. I like hugs I like kisses I like cuddles. But those don't provide the bonding connection that I feel during sexual interaction. Masturbation is an incredibly poor alternative to sex with someone I love. It's like the equivalent of getting gas station food when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:18 PM |
| 3 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?Every man I've dated who had a genuinely large dick was not advertising it to the masses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?You've got to have your head in the sand if you think that's true. It's the complete opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:50 AM |
| 14 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishThis is one of the few subs where I can read an insanely outlandish message and have to debate on if it's a troll or not. If that dude is not a troll I actually feel bad for him. There has to be something severe going on for him to believe something that insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:28 AM |
| 22 | Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them?Sounds a lot like PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:56 PM |
| 11 | How do women feel about dating reformed players?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 05:11 AM |
| 6 | Valentines Day is for Women not Men.Valentine's Day is a bullshit commercialized holiday. It's important to do sweet things for your significant other on a regular basis in order to maintain the relationship. I'm very glad that my boyfriend feels the same way I do. But if he loved Valentine's Day, I would go out of my way to get him a gift for this bullshit holiday. Because doing so would add to the overall happiness of our relationship. I think if you're at the point in your life where you're spitting vitrol about the opposite se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 05:57 PM |
| 7 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I mean I've heard the same thing from male friends about other men. Adult responsibilities put a heavy weight on our shoulders. So I can see how both sexes might find certain parts of adulting to be unappealing. That being said the vast majority of jokes I've heard in my life in regards to people not growing up were aimed at men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 08:58 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?They say comparison is the thief of joy. I I think most women would not consider a man with such an alarming amount of insecurity to be husband material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:16 PM |
| 4 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?I've never heard of woman say a man that goes to the gym is a loser. P I thought putting effort into your health isn't seen as a negative thing. I do know a lot of women who think watching sports is lame as fuck. Unless sports was their whole personality I can't see why a woman would hate a man because he enjoyed watching them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 10 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Preach!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWhen someone says it like that I'm assuming they are using it to mean the vast majority. I can't imagine the vast majority of women would be upset with men sharing their experiences with each other. I don't personally know women who think like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Red pill men in their 30s overestimate their market valueSo you just added a whole bunch of fluff around an argument that is admittedly your own opinion with no real evidence??? You can go on Google and you can find numerous studies that show people tend to marry within their looks match and age range. You can also find quite a few that say regardless of what age a woman is she prefers to date men generally within her own age bracket. Of course there will be outliers. From my personal experience in my youth the vast majority of young women who were in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:44 PM |
| – | Red pill men in their 30s overestimate their market valueWhat is your estimation based off of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.That's an incredibly flawed thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large?I feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting.Hit the nail on the head with that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date.I think your description of single mothers is more telling about who you are as a person as opposed to an accurate representation. Maybe it's just the people that I roll with but the few single mothers in my group have never been hurting for attention from quality men looking for long-term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | What benefits are there to having a platonic female friend???I don't think it's rare either. Or at least not from my observations or my own friend group... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingI can see why this should be the new standard. However I like to roll with my own standards. For instance during a first date if I enjoyed the date I offer to pay and say he can get the next one. If he insists on paying and cannot handle me paying there will not be a second date. If I do not like the dude I 100% will go out of my way to make sure we split the check accordingly. If he says why don't I get this one and you get the next one and I honestly believe he's going to let me get the next o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?I do the same thing, in my daily goings on I'm not looking to chat someone up for their number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:09 PM |
| 11 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenYou write such persuasive and logical arguments. Unfortunately they will be lost on someone like the OP. I applaud you for your attempt though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How much does it matter that a man dresses well?Absolutely nothing wrong with that wardrobe. I'd be a hypocrite if I said so. I think what a lot of women may take issue with is when youre headed out to a nicer place and your significant other is dressing like they have no pride in their appearance. Also for real though, I've never met a man that looked good in basketball shorts. They're quite comfortable, but they sure as fuck aren't fashionable. Which we're not always looking to walk the runway everyday anyway so who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 11:44 PM |
| 4 | The majority of women that watch porn on pornhub are bisexual or lesbianI'd say like 75% of men who are into femdom are looking for a fetish dispenser. I pulled that percentage out of my ass but I stand by it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:21 AM |
| 10 | The majority of women that watch porn on pornhub are bisexual or lesbianYeah not every femdom porn is about chastity. But the people in chastity get a lot of sexual pleasure from being in chastity. It's kind of why they want to be there. I think that you're kind of confused about the subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:20 AM |
| 11 | The majority of women that watch porn on pornhub are bisexual or lesbianMost femdom porn is still set up where the sub is topping from bottom. She's catering to all his desires not hers, and it shows in the worst way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Like to make arguments with people who's thoughts at least have some kind of statistics to back them up. Your opinion is based on emotions and has no real merit. There's no debating that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:26 PM |
| 5 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.You didn't make an argument for me to refute. It was all emotional battle with zero facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 4 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.This is not a thing dude. You're painting with way too broad of a brush. When you try to make it seem like all women have this mindset your argument looks weak and completely illogical. It's almost as if you're basing your opinion purely off emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:35 PM |
| 4 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenThis very aptly describes the vast majority of posts on this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:09 AM |
| 8 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenThis is the most logical thing I've read on this thread thus fa. It's a damn shame it's going to end up getting buried by jaded people who like to spout opinions as if they're facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Declining birth rates can't be solved by government programs because beta males won't benefit from itOh I understand it just fine bud. Not sure to respond to such a weak uninformed argument though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 11 | Declining birth rates can't be solved by government programs because beta males won't benefit from itThis is just nonsense. You comemt about food alone. Earl Buttz fucked The USA in a sad sad way. The more you factory farm the more you ruin the planet. I think a lot of your posts just boils down to you speak of not what you know but how you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingMost people aren't too keen on receiving backhanded compliments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:37 AM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenWalk into any Walmart. I see just as many fat men as I see fat women. Men out here pushing the bullshit that there's more fat women than men in America must not get out very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityI'm sorry ma'am they don't allow logic in their echo chamber you're going to have to go ahead and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createExactly it's always about the money. If people are okay with that I guess good on them. Sounds like sad existence to me but who am I to judge. Also I don't know if your last analogy holds up. Where I'm from mNy accountants tend to make more than twice the average household with two working parents. So not like yacht rich but definitely a comfortable existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createUm what? Fat is fat man, you can be fat and have muscle and you can be fat and just be fat with very poor muscle tone. A lot of people have a mix of both. Everyday when I go out and take my dog for a walk I see numerous fat people of all sexes because I live in America and most people are fat. It's pretty illogical to pin it on one gender in particular. Women tend to gain fat in their hips area until they get older then they just start gaining it moreso in the gut. From what I recall men tend to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?I'm lucky that my man loves to cook. I'm a good cook but I hate cooking as much as I love baking and I really love baking. I'm also very lucky that my man isn't big into gender stereotypes. Because I'm the one with years of experience when it comes to framing drywalling fixing the car the lawn mower, landscaping laying down hardwood floors etc etc. Jack of all trades master of none over here. I feel like I have to add a little side note to this because people get belligerent quick on this subred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createMy point about the overweight men was a reply to the poster above me who was inferring that men go to get women overseas because American women are overweight. But the reality of it is American men and women are almost equally overweight. Most of us are fat not just women. To reference your last statement it seems kind of expensive to go overseas to get a beautiful sugar baby who only wants you for your money. There's enough beautifulpeople in America but if you want to do that you do you man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createWhy would a beautiful woman overseas settle for an overweight American man? Unless she's all about the money what else would he have to offer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?I just turned 40 this year and my boyfriend is 27. I've had zero interest in dating younger men because unlike a lot of people on PPD I enjoy the distinguished looks that come with aging. I personally find it attractive. My boyfriend however was incredibly insistent. His pursuit was helped by the fact that many men my age let themselves go. Like I don't give a shit if you're bald I don't expect you to be fit as a fiddle either. But I'm not down for dating a total slob, and it seems like this par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)I had big hips when I weighed 108lbs. Woman come in different sapes and sizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the world would be better for women with no men in it?I like men. Not only sexually, I enjoy their company too. I've had male friends since I was a little girl and I'm lucky that my female friends have picked awesome husbands who mesh well with the group. I want you to keep in mind that all the insane things men post on PPD are often rantings from the loud butthurt minority. Same goes for some of men bashing B's on TwoX. Do I have to be more vigilant as a woman, absolutely. I have been put in my fair share of dangerous situations for politely sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.Nothing that you're saying is logical or rooted in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Dudes unhinged. He's either a troll or too far gone to be helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.Dude it's pretty obvious that you are the one who is butthurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What are some examples of "Above and Beyond" behavior you have seen or would like to see from men?I have an SUV. Growing up in a body shop and my family also owning other body shops means that I knew a lot of people that change their oil can you say the same thing? No? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some examples of "Above and Beyond" behavior you have seen or would like to see from men?My vehicle isn't even lifted and I can change the oil without using a jack. I realize not everyone's that lucky. Maybe growing up in a body shop has given me a skewed perspective on what I consider easy work. However I know a number of people that change their oil themselves. Because why throw $70 towards it when you can easily do it yourself. Investing in some beefy jack stands can save you a lot of money over time. But I would like to add onto your argument for a moment. Most of the failure in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What are some examples of "Above and Beyond" behavior you have seen or would like to see from men?Changing your oil is really easy. I can't really see how it would be potentially dangerous work. I think the most dangerous part about it would possibly be if the drain plug wasn't probably tightened. Because you know oil is a lifeblood of a car and you could potentially brick an engine due to such errors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 09:27 PM |
| 6 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.Nope, sorry it's expected of you. Because penis, that's why. Makes so much sense /S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?For real it is honestly like a cult. When first came on PPD I was looking to help out one of my friends kids. He was going down the wrong path towards this kind of bullshit. We shared a hobby and talked a lot. I had to find why this good kid was starting to get this kind of horrible mentality. I used to post in here and refute their "facts" with solid evidence. I'd post links to legitimate articles. They would just get tore up with the most illogical rambling. Then they would point out their one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?"Believing your own personal and subjective experiences over actual evidence." That pretty much sums up the vast majority of posts on PPD. There's no logic involved there's no real evidence involved it's mainly just a circle jerk of men going it can't be my awesome personality turning the ladies off, it's got to be cuz I'm not 6 ft tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:34 AM |
| 3 | How would dating world change if heterosexual men only had sex when in a monogamous relationship?I'd watch that movie. I feel like men would be incredibly surprised how high our libido is when they make our satisfaction as important to them as theirs is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Men's and women's experiences are not equally hard.Lol k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Men's and women's experiences are not equally hard.You okay bud? Your mindset is not going to get you anything that you want in life I can tell you that much. You are the outlier and I don't mean that in a positive way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Men's and women's experiences are not equally hard.The vast majority of the posts are coming from those Fringe freaks that you speak of. And honestly you don't have to care about anything that I write. However, your attitude makes me think that you'd fit in well with those fringe freaks though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Men's and women's experiences are not equally hard.Well there are a lot of outlandish claims by the loud minority in this sub. Oftentimes their lack of socialization is very obvious in the words they write. Especially when their illogical ramblings are disproven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How would the world look if women ruled it?I mean if somebody's doing the fighting for you it might be easier to lean towards physical violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 01:12 AM |
| 11 | How would the world look if women ruled it?I feel like great power and corruption go hand in hand no matter what you've got going on in your pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:44 PM |
| 10 | Which women are allowed to be picky?That tiny majority you speak of is very much the loud minority of men in this particular subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostCuz people with mental health issues on purple pill debate will never be happy in life until they realize their problem. Until they seek help for the issues. As opposed to demonizing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostYour illogical thoughts will get you nowhere in life. If you would actually care to have a woman in your life at some point I strongly suggest that you learn the ways of the world more than the echo chamber that is purple pill debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 12:17 AM |
| -1 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostPeople with beliefs like his are never going to be happy in life. That kind of mindset will get you nowhere fast. It's absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 11:52 PM |
| -3 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostOh wow, that is a really fucked up mentality. I hope for your sake that you recover from whatever caused you to think in such a manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 8 | What do you consider creepy?Oh don't forget if he's the type of guy that thinks women aren't even worth his friendship. As if they only exist for dating. Those kind of guys can fuck right off too. Never met a guy like that that didn't have horrible social skills when it comes to women. It's kind of funny the guy above you didn't pick up on what was being talked about and immediately got mad. You picked it up I picked it up, pretty easy to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Long term relationships fail a cost/benefit analysis for men outside the top 20%You coukd just copy and paste this to so many posts on PPD and it would still be dead on accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:44 AM |
| 2 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?Don't worry, I promise you I don't hold it against all men. I'm not a woman scorned or anything, but I do carry Bear mace on every trip now. Even in areas where I know bear sightings are super rare. I think one thing that men and women could really benefit from is not generalizing a gender because of a few shitty people. Like if you've been sexually harassed or sexually assaulted by a man that's an awful thing to have happened. I can understand being a bit more cautious around men in general bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?I've also been followed by a man in the woods..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?It is so relaxing! I don't know how to say this without sounding all hippy dippy about it but the forest is my preferred place to center myself. To let my worries go and just be one with nature. This conversation reminded me of a ridiculous woods mishap I had a couple years back. Picture this I'm 6 miles out from the "parking area" on an old deer trail, Just me my fishing pole and my backpack. This area is newer to me but I don't see any signs that anyone has been there recently. Like no well wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?I'll agree to that, she misses being seen as attractive to the masses. I can see where that could hit someone hard emotionally. As an introvert I don't invite attention from people. I can't wait for the day that I fade into the background. But I'd imagine attractive men and women for the most part might not feel so great when they realize they don't "got it" anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 05:45 PM |
| 4 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?I feel you on the introvert thing. I love the woods camping, hiking fishing etc. when I'm hiking in the woods alone very rarely do I see any men, especially a man that's anywhere near my age. Basically it's the occasional old man fly fishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?Yeah that's not what I was saying nah to. Most women don't enjoy cat calls it's fucking degrading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?Nah lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you miss red flags in the beginning of a relationship that lead to the reason why you ultimately end your LTR?Of course not because most attractive people want to date other attractive people. Do you think a fat ugly slob deserves a 10 looks wise in the opposite sex? ETA: studies show people tend to date within their looks match. That's just life man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you miss red flags in the beginning of a relationship that lead to the reason why you ultimately end your LTR?How is the fact I stated wrong? Do tell..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 3 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?I'll be 40 soon, still resent the amount of sexual attention I get. I resented it more in my early twenties though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you miss red flags in the beginning of a relationship that lead to the reason why you ultimately end your LTR?I mean America is full of short fat ugly bald broke people who are in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 01:29 AM |
| – | Women never get over the best sex they've ever hadDon't forget we're impulsive, overly emotional and super entitled too. It seems like a lot of people who took the time to read many of the messages on purple pill debate might come to the conclusion that they were written by a delusional man with zero logic and probably very poor social skills. But what do I know I'm just a dumb broad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | "Ok now swap the genders"Trash like this is not worth a legitimate response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | "Ok now swap the genders"In this particular sub brought it logical people fight a losing battle. We fight a losing battle to Men who don't want to admit their own shortcomings and would rather blame an entire gender on them. And then a lot of these men think that women are the least and then a lot of these men think that women are the the less logical sex. Yet they come in here spewing such levels of absolute bullshit that in real life they either don't have friends of their surrounding themselves with an echo chamber b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | "Ok now swap the genders"I'm guessing you have reading comprehension skills. Because logical person would not come to that conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:21 PM |
| -4 | "Ok now swap the genders"I mean PPD proves that an awful lot of men at least on Reddit tend to throw logic out the window. The reason I brought motor skills into it is because the particular study I was referencing was talking about strong suits in general as far as gender was concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:46 PM |
| 4 | "Ok now swap the genders"There are studies out there that show men have better fine motor skills and women are more adept at analytical and intuitive thinking. I find that people who say they are firmly logical thinkers are the type of people that have tunnel vision when it comes to their own thought processes. So if someone else's thought isn't in line with their own they consider it to be illogical. These same people tend to be prone to anger as well. I don't know of any studies on this last part. Just an observation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 07:51 PM |
| 23 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menI'm dating a man 13 years younger than me right now. We're about 8 months into it. I've never considered a man that isn't in my general age range before this point. I've always preferred men around my general age range because even if they grew up in a different area or different class as far as wealth is concerned, there are things men that grow up in my general age range will understand because they grew up with it as well and it just makes things easier. In my younger years I wouldn't have go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:00 PM |
| 4 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex41% of Adults in America are obese these days. So I guess the pickings are getting slim, unlike Much of America :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:03 AM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highI mean you're absolutely right and the purple pill dude is obviously wrong. But also a good majority of threads started on PPD is just some person posting their feelings as if they're fact. I wonder if anyone's ever taken the time to put those statistics together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.No dude I want both. I want to fuck because I like fucking, I want to fuck someone I like because fucking is more than just getting off. ETA: if I wanted to get off just for the sake of getting off I'd just masturbate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 05:02 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Alright I should have been more specific. What I'm trying to say is in the United States it wasn't a very common thing for women to shave their legs and their armpits. And the early 1900s they marketed razors to women and during world war II they started marketing even more hardcore with their own agenda in mind. The reason I didn't think it was worth responding to that dude is the whole sanitary argument. It's just too ridiculous to respond to. But I wasn't even trying to illustrate a point abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:53 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.I don't know man because I need to be interested in the person beyond their dick to want to fuck them. I have a very high sex drive I like to have sex a couple times a day. With someone whom I love not some random penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.I don't know about what they're arguing in regards to social conditioning. But look at shaving, most men want a woman who shaves everything. But why is that? It wasn't that long ago when it was the norm for women to not shave? So why do I feel gross when I'm not shaved? How do I feel less desirable when I'm not shaved? Because during WW2 in the shaving companies decided that they would go crazy advertising to women so they could make some money still... Also had something to do with pantyhose no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Omg no dude, just no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Women have become increasingly emboldened by our gynocentric society and more often than not are rude and disrespectful for no reason even when you are not hitting on themI mean you could copy and paste this response to a very large portion of the posts on PPD and just be dead on accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Last I checked most men are overweight too dude. If you live in the USA most men and women are overweight. Go in any grocery store you'll see a lot of fat happy couples together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 04:42 AM |
| 11 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?Well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagMaybe because complete scumbags can mask who they are in the beginning. But neurodivergent people cannot easily do that? I have a severe case of ADHD, this has never stopped me in the dating world. The worst has come from it is significant others complaining about how often I lose things. My boyfriend has a pretty bad case of ADHD too. It's nice to be with someone who has a similar mindset. I'm assuming if and when we end up living together it could get chaotic. Lost things everywhere late to ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?I appreciate your logical well thought out statements. It's a breath of fresh air made it's way into a sealed echo chamber. In America the economy is one of the major factors and women choosing to have kids at a later age too. Also a number of women aren't too keen on the prospect of working full-time and still doing the vast majority of the child rearing. Which numerous studies in America show is still the case. The red pill guy you were debating with is the loud minority in America. I think pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so keen on having male friendsYep, straight up delusional man. Your perspective is not rooted in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so keen on having male friendsThis is straight up delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsI mean he's basing his pretense on that whole 80% of women find men on attractive OkCupid study. Which the vast majority of people quoting that study on here don't realize that they're taking it out of context to an insane degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?Most of this post is so well written I don't even want to pick and the one part that gets to me. Seriously though man you should be a writer. In short.... at the end of the day we're all just people with our own faults and insecurities. So don't put someone on a pedestal because that makes it a hell of a lot harder to navigate the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 06:06 PM |
| 3 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Numerous studies show that people tend to date within the realm of their looks match. There are also quite a few studies out there that show ugly men are the absolute worst at rating themselves and other men women. It's almost like people with a huge chip on their shoulders have a hard time making rational conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:39 PM |
| 15 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?To further your first point, anyone into genealogy or who is just aware of their recent family history knows that so many of our grandmas were baby factories into their mid forties. Shoot, my paternal great grandmother didn't even get married until she was 30 and she still managed to have 7 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?To tack on to thys, I wish people would stop taking that OkCupid completely out of context and quoting it like they know what the fuck they're talking about on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Committed relationship with a man is a net loss for most women?Lol, if you want to deny reality and be delusional that's fine. PPD is full of people like you you can commiserate with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:10 PM |
| – | Committed relationship with a man is a net loss for most women?Dude get your eyes checked. Statistics prove birds of a feather flock together. By that I mean people tend to marry within their own socioeconomic group. If you live in a large city and you don't see poor people and ugly people and fat people and relationships then you're just lying to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Committed relationship with a man is a net loss for most women?Nope, just the second largest city in my state. But you think you would see that more in a metropolis considering larger cities tend to be more compacted with numerous people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Committed relationship with a man is a net loss for most women?I don't know about you but when I go out in public I see fat people ugly people and people who look to be obviously poor in relationships all of the time everywhere...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Yeah I'll translate this for ya real quick. Fine at the gym or a rave means she thinks it's a non issue there. NOT fine at work or around kids, means she thinks that's not okay around children or the workplace I'm not really sure why you needed a translation for that but there you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menI think getting a female friend would have helped the situation as well. I think that he got a girlfriend because he was still an incredible person at heart and he didn't have all those incel beliefs completely clouding his good judgment just yet. Most people end up with somebody. People from all different walks of life from all different income brackets from all different levels of attractiveness. The loud minority fill this sub with illogical ramblings that just don't reflect reality. If no wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menThat kid is one of the best people I know. It would break my heart if he went down the wrong path. He got his first girlfriend in his mid-teens and that really gave him a lot of clarity I think. I only had a couple talks with them about it. I do think having a girlfriend and seeing that teen girl are just people too, helped more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 7 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menWhy am I here? Well my friend's son started ingesting some incel material and he's my favorite non related kid. I like to think of myself as his almost Aunt. I wanted to see where these kinds of outlandish ideas were coming from. All these concepts overflowing with emotion, completely out of touch with reality. This is one of the first subreddits I'd found where the vast majority of posts were spewing overly emotional illogical trash about women. So I came here to study the thought process and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:27 PM |
| 24 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseThat doesn't sound like submission to me that sounds like people stepping up and doing their part in the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Debate : Most People in Dating strategy Subreddits use extreme examples to prove points, and this needs to stop.Right, as a person who had to deal with measurements in my daily line of work for over a decade, let me tell you.... Y'all can't eyeball 5 inches vs 7 inches well at all. So you're surely gonna have a harder time eyeballing 5'9-10 vs 6ft. The only people who could consistently do that were working in the trades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Is it biologically easier for guys to lower their standards compared to women?Stupid people tend to cluster together too. There are numerous studies out there that prove people tend to marry their looks match regardless of if they're average ugly or attractive. Edited: because words are hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 11 | Women of PPD. Do you encourage your male friends to shoot their shot with women/ approach? Why or why not?The things that many people state as fact or the norm on PPD is seriously wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 01:07 AM |
| 17 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleExactly! Feeling all alone while being in a relationship feels devastatingly worse than being lonely and single in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 07:06 PM |
| 11 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityI mean people with prostates do. About a quarter of the women I've met actually enjoyed anal. I don't know anything about statistics in regards to it, but I bet it's not that far off from the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why aren't yall just content with sharing a guy that has everything you want?Exactly! If there aren't any good men in this whole world, then the women stating that as a fact is jaded AF or crazy or whatever her issue is. It's a huge world and there are so many amazing individuals! If anyone considers half the population no good because of their genitals well then I'm fairly certain they're the no good one. ETA: that was enthusiastically repetitive.... My bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 05:40 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why aren't yall just content with sharing a guy that has everything you want?I don't know any women who say this. I think the kind of PEOPLE who say something so general about one gender and state it as a fact, well maybe they're just bitter. Maybe it's easier to point the finger at other people than to look deep. Inside and reflect on your own shortcomings? When I go to your average eatery or grocery store or concert venue even. I see people from all different walks of life together with significant others. Some of these people are attractive some of them are ugly some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Why aren't yall just content with sharing a guy that has everything you want?Normal awkward guy vs rich charming player? Normal awkward guy for the win every time. I'd rather be alone than with the first man you've described. Also looking into the married women that are in my group of friends they also chose normal awkward guy. Many of them could easily gone with rich charismatic guy who was also monogamous. Yet they've all been married for quite some time, happily might I add. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:52 AM |
| 14 | If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them?This is the most truth I've heard on PPD in a min. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?Same thing with the OK cupid study they like to use all the time on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.It was also heavily misinterpreted. It's not an asset to the OP's cause at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?I think you replied to the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?Yeah definitely a troll. Even most of the neck beard types aren't this dense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?One in four women and one in 26 men have experienced rape or attempted rape in the USA. That's from the CDC website. This is the unfortunate reality we live in. You are either a deplorable troll or profoundly ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:07 AM |
| 11 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?The studies I referred to only cited men as being happier during marriage. However there are also quite a few legitimate studies out there that show happy PEOPLE tend to get married more. Which would lend credence to your statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 23 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Studies show married men are happier than single men. Now I don't have any studies to back this one up, but I've found that the type of people that make general statements like all women are "insert insult" or all "insert minority" are "insert insult" are usually just shit shows themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What to do with the libido gap?I got annihilated as far as downvotes on that thread are concerned just for being high drive. But I think that whenever you're on a thread that has a lot of one type of person you're going to hear a lot of people back up your grievance. I'm a high drive woman and I don't find myself to be very unique in that respect. I also know a lot of high drive women. It's kind of like when I come to purple pill debate and see a bunch of guys sounding like complete ass hats talking about how all women are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 09:55 PM |
| -1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceThank you for such a logical response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:07 AM |
| 39 | “Women” are bad at marriage."Most of the PPD users have little to no relationship experience so it's pointless to have discussions with them. They cannot comprehense women as people." Truer words were never spoken. I don't know any men in my personal life that would spew ANY of the outlandish stuff on this sub. Of course most of the men in my life are happily married or at the very least well adjusted men who happen to be in a relationship. It's absolutely the loud minority that go crazy on here. Because self-reflection is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areThere's a ton of studies out there that show that attractive people are better at rating themselves purely based on looks and ugly people across the board are really bad at rating themselves correctly. ETA: ugly people tend to overrate their looks regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themYou've covered all the bases well. I could say the same thing verbatim. Also I enjoy variety when it comes to men so it's not like I'm dating the same type of guy every time who just happens to be this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:32 PM |
| 2 | The men are better looking at pool parties than womenThe obesity rates of men and women are pretty close in America. Although they are little higher for men, it's a miniscule difference. Women tend to have higher rates of obesity in their 60's but again the difference in numbers is miniscule. That being said, overall men have a faster metabolism. Yet the obesity rates don't reflect this fact. I'm thinking like many people on this sub, the OP has a biased opinion. It could possibly be that where the OP lives there just happens to be a lot more obes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:29 PM |
| – | Is the focus on male height mainly an American thing (or region-specific to any extent)?Husbands may have been walking ATMs in the fifties but it's not like that anymore bud. Considering the amount of people getting married I'd say that the vast majority of men find something appealing about it. In fact numerous studies show that men tend to be happier married and also live longer. I'm guessing due to the way you're spitting vitriol, that marriage was never in the cards for someone like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:14 PM |
| 12 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Thank you for your logical contribution. I very much appreciate it when people bring sanity to the sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the focus on male height mainly an American thing (or region-specific to any extent)?I didn't call the average woman in America super attractive. Nowhere did I state anything remotely similar to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Women actually want to be approached by a manI mean I've been approached by quite attractive men who gave off socially inept vibes. That'll make a woman disappear quickly. I'll take average and funny over knockout level hot and creepy any day of the week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the focus on male height mainly an American thing (or region-specific to any extent)?If they want to settle that's their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the focus on male height mainly an American thing (or region-specific to any extent)?Almost half of Americans are married. Considering the average height in America I'd think that height isn't as important as people on Reddit make it out to be. I wonder if it's just a bunch of short guys on Reddit complaining because super attractive women seemingly only want to date tall attractive guys. But when I go out in public I see numerous examples of not so tall men who are quite obviously in a relationship or are married to the woman they're with. The tallest man that I've dated was 6'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionThat's an excellent point. But anyone who lashes out in regards to rejection, regardless of which gender they identify with should really consider some self evaluation and possibly therapy. Having such an extreme reaction to rejection reeks of emotional instability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:13 PM |
| 7 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionI don't know of the Jonah thing you're referring to. But from my experience lots of women take rejection poorly. Especially attractive women. However men and women seem to react differently to said rejection. Men often don't take no for an answer and continue to plead their case or demand an answer as to why they are rejected. They can go from asking a woman out in a gentlemanly manner to spitting vitriol in the blink of an eye once they are rejected. The amount of times a random man has gone fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 02:33 PM |
| 16 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.This sub is quite literally full of men who like to quote the OKCupid study and misinterpret the data on top of it. But there are numerous studies proving the opposite. Y'all don't want logic, you just want to place the blame on someone else's shoulders. Edited because words are hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:07 PM |
| 3 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"This statement says more about you as a person than it does women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 0 | If large age gap relationships with 20somethings isn't weird, would being friends with 20somethings when you're 30 or 40+ be weird?Your lead argument has merit. That second part is a faulty comparison. There is no logic in that argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".Maybe because it was ONE study and the misinterpreted data keeps getting posted on this subreddit to an insane degree. There are numerous studies done by accredited organizations that prove people tend to marry within their looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".Did you actually read it though bud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:15 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ot4qzd/what_the_okcupid_data_really_says/ This sums it up pretty damn well. People need to stop quoting this okcupid study. It doesn't hold up, it never held up. If you're going to try to prove a point maybe you should use legitimate studies. Notice how I said studies and not study, because you can get one study to prove anything that you want, it's important to see several from legitimate sources to prove one particular subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Foreign brides make better wives for American men than American women do and American men make better husbands for foreign brides than foreign men do (from that same country).There were no facts in your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 04:42 AM |
| 5 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosYou're taking a little thing and trying to turn it into a big thing much like the women in the links you've provided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:09 PM |
| 16 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingPeople claim it's the women's fault for their standards all over this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:11 PM |
| 18 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingIt's especially hard to find sensible responses in this subreddit. People make up the most outlandish things, then pretend they're a fact because they saw it happen once. Thet are all like, fuck self reflection it's the opposite genders fault I can't get a significant other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceIf you've never seen this you're blind or living under a rock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.I agree and you've pretty much said what kayray stated as well. It's more about people dating within the same social class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:36 PM |
| 35 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Thank you for your sound contribution. A number of legitimate studies prove men and women tend to marry within their looks match as well as income brackets. I see this in real life everyday but subreddits like purple pill debate tend to have people spewing nonsense with nothing legitimate to back it up besides their own sheltered opinion... as if it's a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it true young men can handle an older woman better than vice versa, from societies' views?When I was 18-l to mid 20s I would have never been jealous of a friend who dated an older man because the thought of it thoroughly disgusted me. There was no appeal there for many reasons. First off old men weren't attractive to me at all. I couldn't be bought off with some sugar baby BS situation. The power imbalance and materialistic nature of such a relationship isn't to my taste. I was quite attractive in my younger years and when older men would persistently hit on me I did not consider it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:18 AM |
| 8 | Women generally want men desired by other womenAbout that online dating thing that got taken extremely out of context? Because there are actually numerous studies done by reputable organizations that prove that the majority of people tend to marry within their looks match as well as their income bracket. I think way too many people on purple pill debate tend to love to blame anyone else but themselves when it comes to their own dating issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:45 PM |
| 7 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Most couples I see in public are either equal looks wise or the woman is much more attractive and put together. It is extremely rare that I've saw a couple where the man is objectively better looking than the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:44 PM |
| 16 | Are men just not as attractive as women? Every time I see an “attractive man” I just see an average dude.High sex drive woman here. I know I'm only one example, however my experiences align with your hypothesis. I've dated men who are top tier in looks and all the bells and whistles women look for. I've also dated guys who are average as well as ugly by societies standards. I've found every man I've dated to be attractive from the get go, except one who grew on me due to a common interest we share. Variety is the spice of life! So so many of you are conveniently handsome, and so many more of you ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menI was never into feminine looking men. Never got into any boy bands besides Boys2Men. Never had a crush on any pretty boys. However I've met a significant number of women of varying ages who prefer it. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places or maybe it's not your looks you should be worrying about... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Based on my own personal observations I immediately agreed with you. So I looked up some studies in regards to attractiveness. I really enjoy looking at all sides of an argument. Although I did find studies that supported your argument I found one that really made the most sense to me personally. It basically states that unattractive people regardless of gender tend to overestimate their attractiveness. In contrast with attractive people, who tend to be better at assessing their own attractivene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 8 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/amp This study says otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?Yeah I'm sorry but you're just wrong on this one. Get back to me if you ever get a chance to read it. The target group was college aged men by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?I think it's the same group of guys personally. The study shows these types of men are not desired partly because of their aggressive attitude. These are the types of men I've dealt with personally going after me and treating me like a piece of meat. I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this one. Either way you shpuld actually read the study in its entirety if you wish to gain any insight from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?The study shows men with low mate value who were placed in the low mate value group tended to have higher rates of aggression towards other men in general. Had their egos bruised more easily and tended to be more aggressive towards women. That group also had high rates of narcissism.The part about protecting their women in an aggressive manner was a very small part of the study. You can only get so much from an abstract. Maybe read the article in its entirety before you pre judge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?I posted that link however, I'm not the OP of this thread. I read the entire study however and it goes into detail about men who have low mating value tend to be assholes to other normal well adjusted men and women. It also goes into detail about how those kids of men tend to be more violent in general. Again it's a great read, the abstract is a brief summary you know. It doesn't sum up the entirety of the study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?It was published in the American Journal of Psychology two years ago. I read it and included it in a relevant research paper for a college course. As I said it's a very interesting read. Give it a try before you get all uppity about it. Edited to add: Published in Vol. 129 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?http://www.jstor.org/stable/10.5406/amerjpsyc.129.2.0169 “Threatening Men's Mate Value Influences Aggression Toward an Intrasexual Rival: The Moderating Role of Narcissism.” Very interesting read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 01:09 AM |
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