Cougarette99 Archive

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28	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world	Discussion	Cougarette99	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 09:03 PM

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4	CMV: Status makes men more attractive to women and that incentives men to create hierarchies On average, rich men are also taller and better looking, so there could be a confounding factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 12:55 PM
–	The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminism I also remember once when I was in college, and we were at some restaurant and some guy in his mid 30s hit on one of the girls at my table. This girl mocked him while rejecting him and made fun of him for weeks afterward. And I remember also finding it funny as the idea of dating someone outside of college seemed so foreign to me at the time. Like the idea hadn’t even occurred to me. I don’t think I ever really thought about that man as a human being until now. At the time, he was so invisible t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 02:08 AM
–	The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminism Shrugs. Neither men nor women ever bothered me about my predilections. I got my Reddit name when I was in my mid 30s and a younger man who was about 25 who had a crush on me called me that. But seriously, there are plenty of western counties where the age of consent is 16 and the fact is 16 year old girls are rarely interested in much older guys. 16 year old girls are really into their high school social world and their crushes on high school popular guys. Men outside a high school girl’s social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 02:01 AM
1	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. Realistically the choice women have is between benevolent sexism and hostile sexism. Egalitarian men are not that common and are highly self aware evolved individuals. They are desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:47 PM
6	Women hate sluts more than men do Agree. I have a few groups of friends. One is more sexually conservative, one is in the middle and one was more into the bar hopping and clubbing scene. The last one racked up more sexual partners though they rejected 99% of the attention they got. But I didn’t think much of it. Once in adulthood, I feel it’s only something men fixate on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:53 AM
5	Women hate sluts more than men do Agree. I can recall many instances where girls gossiped about another girl being slutty in high school and college, and I cannot recall a single instance of this happening after college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:50 AM
5	Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women? The US census says that about 65% of college educated women over 25 are married and that 70% of college graduates educated men are married over the age of 25. There are 17 million single college educated women vs 14 million single college educated men in the US. Those odds are not terrible. Seems there should usually be nothing difficult for a woman that holds the standard that a man should be college educated. Only the least attractive college educated women would struggle with it, and they wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 11:56 PM
5	Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women? lol wut? 100% of my college grad friends had a standard their their SO should be college educated and nearly 100% of them married men who met that standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 11:41 PM
-2	Do women who chase " Chad " have it as bad as men claim ? I totally agree with your post. I’ve always been very hypergamous, but I feel I’m unusual and that very very few of my female friends behave like I did. I feel my hypergamy has been such a plus for my life. Rather than this empty pump and dump that guys here claimed would be my life, being hypergamous exposed me to some really successful guys that have given me great life advice and helped my career a lot. I mostly dated self made multi millionaires who showed me career paths I never would have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 04:25 PM
-1	I'm single because "they're all just intimidated" It’s so cliche. I’ve known women to express the intimidation problem, but they don’t express it so generically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 03:15 PM
1	"Equal contribution" Are there higher earners here in relationships who don’t feel appreciated for the money they bring? Is this a real problem or an online problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 02:51 PM
3	"Equal contribution" I don’t understand this post. Seems meandering and not sure what the final thesis is. Can someone summarize?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 02:39 PM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? Is that what the 6s refer to? 6 ft, 6 pack, 6 figures? Pardon where my mind has been, but I had guessed one of the sixes was 6 inches :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 01:33 AM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? Agree though ‘not all men’. Just the men who share pearl’s value system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 12:38 AM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? Men want to win. Being with pearl doesn’t look or feel like winning and other men would not read it so either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 12:36 AM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? Men are usually simple when it comes to romantic attraction. The number one, two, three and tenth thing you can do to increase your odds of landing a high value man is to look better. After that, you get high value by being in proximity to high value. You get that by belonging to the high value world yourself. Be with the elite, truly belong there. This is why ghislane Maxwell was married to a chief executive worth 100 million dollars AFTER she was with Epstein. There was everything wrong with m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 12:34 AM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? I happened to think about this the other day. My armchair analysis of pearl: she wants a high value man and she doesn’t know how to get it. Her subconscious strategy is by showing extreme deference to male perspectives, as though that will make men like her despite her not being that attractive. But she might not understand that she is deferential to perspectives usually held by low value men rather than high value men. Pearl making a big show out of these extreme red pill beliefs is going to co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 12:27 AM
1	We often talk here about how successful, high-performing women want educated and successful men, but do most educated and successful men want ambitious women? I get what you mean about dating someone with comparable intelligence because you can feel lonely in a relationship if someone is not on your wavelength. I don’t mind someone much smarter than me, and my husband is much smarter but in different areas. The result is that we are both a bit lonely intellectually in the relationship, but at least we can discuss general world matters with no problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:37 PM
2	We often talk here about how successful, high-performing women want educated and successful men, but do most educated and successful men want ambitious women? You’re a doctor so you must have some knowledge about how heritability works. Do you really think intelligence is all nurture? And even if it was, how does a career waitress know how to raise an educated professional child? I’m going to sound like a bigger a-hole than you here, but one of the main reasons i married someone highly intelligent was because I didn’t want to see my children struggle through school and life because they were not smart. Marrying smartie doesn’t prevent that, but I thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 12:37 PM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world Where do you live where having a kid means you can’t do anything else? Very few women have pregnancies that are so debilitating that they can’t do anything else for nine months. Women have done pretty much everything while pregnant, including winning Olympic medals, even in their 2nd trimester. Personally, I had kids with some difficulties during pregnancy which required periods of bed rest. But I kept my job as an executive on Wall Street making 250k a year while pregnant, and I also pursued a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 09:32 PM
2	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world I don’t see this panning out in reality. I don’t see any evidence that married top men cheat more than others. When I think back on the married men that hit on me, I don’t think they were more attractive than the single ones that hit on me. If anything the married ones were less desirable. I never heard of any of my single female friends carrying on with top married men either. The married dudes that hit on them all seemed mid. In the cases I’ve seen where a top guy opens their marriage or relat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 03:43 PM
2	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world Don’t average men settle for average women only after getting rejected by very beautiful women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 01:48 PM
0	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. As a woman who loves tall dudes, I think most women’s preference about height isn’t about wanting actual physical protection. It’s an aesthetic thing. Yes, it makes men look physically intimidating and strong, but it’s really about the look and not the functionality of the look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 01:46 PM
18	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. You are 100% right. Seems a lot of men have fantasies of being a protector, of fending off bad guys and whatnot. Look at reality. This is entirely irrelevant to modern life. I’ve never heard of anyone in my social circles or network having to physically defend a romantic partner. Realistically muggers do not attack people in a group. Even a group of 2 women will not get attacked by muggers. They always attack people walking alone, and mugging is a non-concern in most areas in the western world. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 01:42 PM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world If men don’t have options, why should women let go of their attachment to monogamy? Even a top man that lets go of monogamy means he is creating an opportunity for his wife to have many many more lovers than he is ever going to get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 01:27 PM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world Your statement is so absurd. Firstly, your comment about the male role in provision directly contradicts the statement you made in the previous paragraph. The expectation of provision is shared, certainly before there are kids and oftentimes afterward. Thus, there is no modern expectation that the man be the sole provider among urbanized singles dating. Protection hasn’t been expected of men for centuries at this point. It used to be that all men went around armed with knives at all times becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 01:11 PM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world I guess you could settle down without getting married. Then the lower earner is not entitled to your half of wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:24 AM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world Sorry I don’t understand what you are getting at. What makes men attractive is gone? What are referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:22 AM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world This makes perfect sense though. Women are “divorced” from their traditional role because it is technologically obsolete. When women were assigned to keep home a few thousand years ago, housework was an extremely labor intensive prospect. It took a full day to wash clothes by hand. It took hours to collect firewood and heat the oven. Now women work a company outside the home for a wage, which enables them to purchase access to our first world comforts. Men do the same. Men do not switch to the t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:20 AM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world Also, I agree that AI sex toys are going to get better and better, but even now escorts are an option for a probably a few hundred dollars a session, and this is not an option that many men choose. So many men would rather seethe as incels or keep trying and getting shot down instead of giving up and seeing an escort on occasion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 12:05 AM
1	A great article about the opportunity cost between staying single and settling down in the modern world I’ve read that women are placing more and more emphasis on male looks over the last 20 years. Height is part of male looks. I wonder if this is because single women don’t need men to meet economic needs. Only women who are explicitly looking for someone to have children with have a real reason to emphasis high earning potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 11:58 PM
1	Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually Work That’s funny. I married the first man I met off tinder after having the app for about 3 weeks	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 07:05 PM