TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

CouldButDoesNot Archive

View 2 posts and 134 comments by CouldButDoesNot on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
24

DiscussionCouldButDoesNot/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:46 PM
6

DiscussionCouldButDoesNot/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:14 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
24

Married men are generally older than single men, meaning they have been in the workforce longer and more than likely in a higher paying position than a younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:23 PM
0

That’s weird… absolutely none of that is in the sidebar for that community. I’ve been a part of that community for 10 years, and none of what you speak rings true for me, or is spoken on from any of the original disciples.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:40 PM
0

That’s not evenly remotely close to what TRP is. You are describing Machiavellian and dark triad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:10 PM
4

“Being the man” gets so overlooked on this sub… I think RP philosophy (which is usually misunderstood and linked to toxic behaviors from men) would make everyone, male and female, more happy in the long run. The basic tenets are - Go To The Gym, Be Your Best Physical Self - Own Your Shit - Be attractive/Don’t Be Unattractive - Be a Leader In Your Own Life - STFU unless you are actually contributing It’s self improvement without the rose colored glasses of “if I’m a good person, good things will …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:27 PM
17

This is a reply worth posting, and I doubt you’re going to get any useful debate because you called everybody to the mat and already blew up their arguments. Solid reply to a very well disguised original post of “we girls get it, why don’t you fellas?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:38 AM
2

This point in particular drives home why TRP is important; it shines the light on keeping your shit tight in all areas in your life or expect the repercussions… they need TRP for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:41 AM
5

This is the most accurate answer of all… women love their power of choice (and often abuse that power) when they are 18-30, then when the tables turn and men between 30-50 now have that power, it is existential crisis time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:39 AM
1

This is a fishing expedition for bashing TRP… the answer is simply read the sidebar over at the TRP subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:30 AM
3

This should be the top comment, and is the only one that actually spells out what TRP is, as opposed to most of the replies here sounding bitter or non informed. With my own TRP journey, it taught me not to hate women, but to better understand them and the sexual dynamics that are hard truths for many men. It got me motivated to go to the gym and put on 40 lbs of muscle, I’m engaged to the smartest and hottest ever, and have built my business into a fat six figure income. So no, it’s not about j…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:29 AM
3

You are just hitting your prime, you can still date girls in their early 20s, but (should) have your job, finances and body in better shape than their counterparts, plus you know more about life now and how to handle it. Your SMV should be spiking within the next 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:28 PM
7

You clearly have not studied TRP, but gleaned what would fit your internal narrative. Read the sidebar, read an actual TRP book (like “The way of the superior man”), and come with more than “Chad” BS that you invented
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:37 PM
1

Isn’t Harry Styles like 27? I don’t understand your points at all. I don’t see any flack given to Madonna or J Lo by anybody save maybe a very small fringe group. General society, and especially the women in it, have no problem with and even applaud it. Let’s be real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:32 AM
3

I don’t know or have ever heard a single person shame about older woman for dating a younger man. Women will actually pay that older woman on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:27 PM
3

Seriously…. The lack of an actual solid rebuttal to this is quite telling. Lots of “but from my feminine POV” responses, but no reply or comment comes close to refuting this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:25 PM
2

Your whole thread and replies are an example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:24 PM
1

Ah… I see the FDS comment later on in the thread. Got it, no need to discuss with you any further
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:44 PM
7

It’s called dating, and both parties times are equally valuable. Yes, men want a sexual partner, and so do women. Your argument here is one sided, and maybe, just maybe, guys want to see what else you got, and that takes time. If you lay it out on the table as things may be heading towards a serious relationship, that’s what you are supposed to do…. If he bails, he did you a favor because he wasn’t into you. We men also don’t like feeling like we are taken advantage of/have their time wasted… if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:47 PM
2

I’ve known women who do this on a constant basis, too many to list. One pair of sisters had a game where they would have a contest to see how much they could get out of their respective dates without having sex with the dude. Drunkenly bragging about how this one guy flew her out to a weekend vacation, bought her clothes, etc. was absolutely disgusting. She didn’t like it when I told her that was surprising, because she wasn’t really that hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:14 PM
4

I’ve seen this too many times to count, and had it personally happen to myself. This is the main reason men keep their emotions to themselves, because we know showing vulnerability can easily be misconstrued as weakness, which is not attractive whatsoever. Is that the case all the time? Of course not, but I’d have to say this trope is a valid one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:08 PM
7

This needs an award, because ladies, this is a scenario played out consistently. Once comfort is given to you, all the positive things your man did that once gave you the feelz early on are now expectations and normal. Then he forgot to put his dish into the sink, and the one wrong answer on the quiz gave him a 98%, and instead of loving what he did right, you focus intently on what he did wrong. So it’s easier to sometimes not deal with that BS. We want you to want us, and if you don’t, then we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:34 PM
7

Every woman I’ve come across will look at a man who expresses his actual emotions as “whoop, into the friend zone”. I’ve seen it dozens of times, and when I was younger and realized why I was being friend zoned, I learned to keep those emotions to a few male friends if needed, and lo and behold started getting the respect and holding women’s attention all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:28 PM
2

We need a super like upvote, because this x100
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:21 PM
1

Link would help, otherwise you are spitting your belief, not actuality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:32 PM
0

This is the best reply to this subject. This is exactly how TRP works and what it’s about. Don’t be the thing you loathe in women (deceitful). Go read the TRP sidebar some more and take the constructive criticism, otherwise WTF did you post this for? So others can agree with your non realistic and wrong example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:15 PM
4

The right job you mean. There are plenty of construction jobs out there for you. Plenty of garbage collector jobs. Plenty of window washers. Pick a less desirable job, and you’ll see a man filling that role
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:25 PM
2

Ride the CC, have a ton of fun, don’t worry how that will look to your future beta husband. The advice that gets spit out these days is so counter productive and short sighted that yes, we are all doomed to live alone. As a man, why would you settle down with someone like this knowing full well you are the end of the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:19 PM
2

I will grant you the titles are over the top. The content is better. while the children post has some condescending tones, there are many many valid points. Give it a read, he is correct for most of it, and that’s probably a hard swallow for women. I get it. There are tough truths The “rape” article explicitly says in the body that nobody here condones actual rape; the article is more about women wanting a man to take charge, be dominant, and have a safe word. This approach has been adored by al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:04 AM
3

Ah, clearly an expert in the field arrives….. finally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:01 AM
2

You are Conflating incel and black pill here… your last part is nowhere on TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:24 AM
1

I agree with almost all of this, except for it being easier to be confident to someone you don’t respect. I respect myself, as most real TRP men do also, and don’t have a disrespect or think women are below us. I just understand how they work better than they think they may want me to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:23 AM
1

You clearly have not read the sidebar, as none of what you espouse is anywhere on there. Prove me wrong with a link
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:20 AM
4

How about some examples? AWALT just refers to the fact that all women have it in their nature to do certain unsavory things; doesn’t mean they will act on it, but be aware that they are fully programmed to do any number of those actions (and then explain it away)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:18 AM
2

Seriously, where does it say that? Do you have a TRP Sidebar link, or is this just your bias without doing the research into posting on a subject you haven’t studied properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:15 AM
5

Read the sidebar. Again, you are conflating. If you can point to something that is in the sidebar, we can discuss, but I’m not doing your homework
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:33 PM
3

Read the sidebar. Again, you are conflating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:31 PM
3

This could not be more incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:03 PM
2

There are definite things that that are discussed there that I don’t agree with, and also aren’t core to TRP… they are posts by douche boys that have that thinking. The sidebar and “priests” of TRP don’t follow that thinking either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:03 PM
5

Read the sidebar, you are conflating black pill, incel, and MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:10 PM
2

This x100
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:02 PM
6

I don’t see TRP doing anything at the expense of women; exposing how they act and react is just giving knowledge, not manipulation. And They are incredibly different. TRP doesn’t blatantly hate on women, while FDS is all about that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:34 PM
5

Two different things…. While TRP has a bunch of donkey young men posing and trying to be Chad, I don’t see the same self improvement at FDS that we have at TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:18 PM
8

I will agree with this point (if you are someone who wants to get married). I’ve found that that sub does get bombarded with young, wanna be Chad’s whose only interest is to spin plates, and if they abhor women for that, then have enough honor in yourself to not mirror that behavior. Respecting yourself means you should respect the other party
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:16 PM
2

Strange… that’s what we see women doing on a constant basis. And your comment is beyond incorrect. Read the sidebar over at TRP maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:25 PM
2

Seriously, this. This PPD sub is filled with uninformed dip asses who maybe looked at the first 4 post at TRP and made their own conclusion (which they probably had before they went there) without even reading the entire sidebar. It makes for discussing anything on here impossible because the other party might as well be talking about astrophysics…. They haven’t done the course work, so shouldn’t spout off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:23 PM
2

Again, are you sure you aren’t my GF? Nice work yourself on keeping that best version of you and understanding what goes into that! It’s not easy, but beyond valuable. I found your comment refreshing not only because I could relate, but I feel that there needs to be much more understanding on this sub that blaming the other sex for your feelings and problems is not going to fix anything. Having a comprehension of the true nature of both sexes and what your role in that will make so many of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:00 PM
1

Are you my girlfriend? Seriously, I have the almost exact same situation to almost the ages…. From the male POV thing, I second all of these things. While it’s top of the list important for both parties to keep their vessel on point, I think the hard part for women is there is a “security” issue (in that the subconscious “does he still love me” dialogue running in the background) of having to do the work and maintain the health/body/beauty knowing that attractiveness is more important to a man. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:01 PM
3

This. So realize when we choose you, we choose YOU. That comes with the expectation that you hold your end of the bargain also (who you are the first couple months of the relationship that got us into that relationship is who we expect you to continue to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:30 AM
6

Bah, I’m a tall, good looking built dude, and have been thrown ass forever. Never cheated. If you have a solid moral compass, it’s not that hard. I didn’t even consider it when I was with my ex wife and it was clear that the relationship was done; I waited until the day I filed for divorce before I made myself available (she was cheating before that, and had a couple other guys she was trying to branch swing to while all this was going down, and I still had enough respect for myself to do it rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:24 AM
1

My GF is a nympho, like sex 8 days a week when we first started dating 4 years ago. She didn’t have sex or physical contact sexually for four years because she was concentrating on her career. While I agree with some parts of your statement, there are always outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:17 AM
5

Save your pity party man. If you are as stated above, you got yourself there, and nobody wants to be told it’s up to you to get yourself out. I get it, it’s hard. So is becoming really good at guitar, building a house, etc. Take the first step, then take another. In your minds eye you have an ideal version of yourself. It’s up to you to be it, and I’m honestly trying to help anybody reading this. Unless you have some major medical condition, you are choosing this lifestyle. It’s not up to the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:11 AM
3

That’s what you see, and you are being conned. Their intent is to sell you more shit. Bad food. Bad health. It’s all for profit, if you think these companies really care about you, I’ve got a bridge you may be interested in. Those that are overweight and think that it’s just fine, and those cheering them on for “owning it” are both doing a disservice to that person. Heart disease is the biggest killer in first world countries, and where we had less than 1% of people having diabetes in the 50s, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:19 PM
1

Seriously... this sub has been pretty intolerable lately, and this post is another shining example of someone with a chip on their shoulder and a platform to post a probably made up and assuredly not well thought out post. OP, maybe talk to 500 people, not your 6 friends (Who probably have the same chip on the shoulders) and see if that changes your view
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:00 PM
16

This x1000. Celebrating “You are beautiful just as you are” has been and will continue to be the lazy persons mantra... its just subconsciously telling everyone that you don’t need to improve.... ever. Are you an overweight 20 something? Don’t go to the gym and educate yourself on proper diet, there is someone just as lazy as you (who you will also not find beautiful or be happy with) waiting for you! It’s time we as a society are open and honest with one another.... improve yourself, stop sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:53 PM
1

I think the market dictates superiority here, and the jury has been out from the men’s POV for generations… the younger woman wins, no contest. Lizard brain doesn’t give a damn about progressive society (and younger women tend to be more fun with less emotional baggage). Women’s POV may be different; if you are wanting to be an independent career woman you may feel more successful in that area, but your relationship options are vastly different than when you were in your younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:43 AM
2

Am a dude, have been around dudes for 40+ years, hang out with dudes all the time. I have never once heard anything remotely close to what you are claiming you have heard “some” say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:37 AM
9

Mid 40s here… Go Lift. Now. I have always been tall, dark, and handsome, but once I put 40 lbs of muscle on myself at age 40(!) I got attention from women of all ages. I never would have believed the smoking hot 25 yr old would chase me down, but here I am. Three things I would have told younger me…. Your focus should be on you and only you… the clock never stops. Get your career, your body, your health, and your social life in tip top form. Lift and continue to lift. What is your passion? Do th…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 01:01 AM
3

While I understand your comment comes out of your gut feeling, In 2019, there were 76,852,000 women aged 16 and over in the labor force, representing close to half (47.0%) of the total labor force. 57.4% of women participated in the labor force, compared to 69.2% of men. This is just employment, not full time. If you want to look state by state, more men work full time in each. https://statusofwomendata.org/explore-the-data/employment-and-earnings/additional-state-data/part-time-and-full-time-wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:08 PM
7

That is a fair comment, but applies to both sexes…. Foolish to say that is not the case or imply so here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:34 AM
1

It’s a scam assuredly… it scams the mind into getting women to think their SMV is higher than it actually is, and men to think that theirs is lower. You want to know your real value? Get off dating apps for six months minimum, go hang out where singles in the age range you are looking to date would be available to meet, and see how you do. It’s too easy for women to sit at home with 4 of their best filtered photos and have their egos fed with receiving dozens of messages nightly from men (who ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:16 AM
5

I feel like women dilute themselves and their actual SMV to a beyond unhealthy degree by using dating apps. You want to know your real value? Get off dating apps for six months minimum, go hang out where men in the age range you are looking to date would be available to meet, and see how you do. It’s too easy to sit at home with 4 of your best filtered and think you’ve got your pick of the litter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:24 PM
1

Thank you for completely embodying everything about that quote and what it represents with your well thought out reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:07 PM
1

I’m not going to do your homework for you, I’ll just leave this here for you. ““all I do is hold up a mirror, you’ve got to want look – and the main trouble with women (and men in some instances) is that after having been immersed for a lifetime in a fem-centric , feminine primary reality they don’t really like what’s being reflected back at them. It’s a very foreign experience for most women to see the root motivators of their own behavior, so the natural reflexive response is to demonize the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:12 PM
2

“all I do is hold up a mirror, you’ve got to want look – and the main trouble with women (and men in some instances) is that after having been immersed for a lifetime in a fem-centric , feminine primary reality they don’t really like what’s being reflected back at them. It’s a very foreign experience for most women to see the root motivators of their own behavior, so the natural reflexive response is to demonize the one illustrating them, or really even making an attempt to understand and educat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:52 AM
0

While those are topics heavily presented there, they are truths and are no different than what a woman does to men. TRP shines that light, and levels the playing field. Dread and game actually make for better relationships, more dating opportunities, and confidence for men. I’m awful tired of TRP being referenced on this subreddit with such a giant paintbrush, but I understand why it is… it’s easy to hate because it shines the light on the true nature of relationships with women, hence the over …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:11 AM
3

Seeing as your previous post was asking about what women are looking for, seeing your responses here, and having been in a few threads with you, the anger phase of understanding the world as it actually is seems to be upon you. Not dogging you, it’s probably healthy. I think it’s fair that unless BOTH sexes want to actively improve themselves and their attitudes, both should plan on being alone…. It just happens to suit men better traditionally, which I imagine can be frustrating for women becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:45 AM
2

That is assuredly not what the red pill is (maybe read the sidebar over there to start). You are describing PUA, which is very different, although they are second cousins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:28 AM
–

It’s way more than that, go read the sidebar. By simplifying it in this way you are just feeding the anti TRPers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:59 PM
–

Clearly someone here hasn’t really looked into what TRP is or what it’s about. Until you do, might want to back off comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:57 PM
7

Anytime I post reality on Reddit like this, I get bombarded with the same thing as you describe... just because you don’t want something to be true doesn’t make it not true. Both Men and women want the opposite sex to love and understand them in the same way that THEY do, and it’s just not a reality. The faux moral panic is ridiculous here, and I find it easy to tell what age and SMV a woman is based on her reply to these topics. I’m sure your comment is downvoted to oblivion, when it’s absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:13 PM
1

There are a lot of assumptions and seeing things from one lens here, especially the first sentence of the last paragraph. Assuming both parties are healthy; a woman can have all sorts of physical and psychological problems as they age, especially if childbirth is involved. Cancers pop up, car accidents happen, etc. While it may be POSSIBLY more difficult for a woman when she is in the latter part of her life, she got to tale advantage of the mans more established (IE his ability to provide) stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:00 PM
2

I don’t want her to feel anything; I don’t think of them at all. In general they aren’t worth my time... I watch actions, and their actions completely back up my thinking, however much that may hurt. I obviously don’t know your dad, but if I had a daughter I would tell her if she is in her mid 20s to date an older man.... they generally have their shit together, know themselves, are better established, are more likely to want to start a family (if that’s your want), know how to to treat a woman,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:53 PM
3

“You don’t think she is too young for you” (She is hotter and younger than me and I can’t keep up) “All she is dating you for is your money” (She is hotter and younger than me and I can’t keep up, and I’m running out of options of men who will take care of me financially) “You must be really immature to date someone half his age” (I think you are fun, and I’m boring and I wish you would treat me to your lightness, because I can’t find my own) “You are just dating her for the sex” (I have nowhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:33 AM
3

You are completely missing the point, or don’t want to see the connection between the two. It’s basically the “nice guy” and the aging woman know that they don’t match up SMV wise, and they spit shame at those who have an SMV higher than they are and they know they can’t compete. I have seen THAT example hundreds of times. I will agree that I’ve never heard a woman say those exact words, but the feeling of the words they do say are in the same vein
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:20 AM
3

Then in this scenario you are just roommates, not a couple, and the relationship is over sadly. If one partner all of a sudden decides they aren’t sexual or don’t want to be sexual like they were when they began the relationship, it’s not fair for the other party who got into the relationship with the idea that that trend would continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:19 AM
6

This is a good list, especially #1. When intimacy dies, so does the relationship, and that is something a lot of people don’t get. I will add... go to the gym together and meal plan together... you’ll both build confidence, health, respect for one another because you know what it takes to keep your body in tip top shape for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:06 AM
4

Agree with all this. Gender roles and traditions have been so hotly debated the last few decades that it has messed up everyone’s expectations. For centuries the trad way has built up our civilization to what it is today. Yes, a patriarchy has existed, but not to the levels that get touted; it has now become an excuse for a lack of success. Playing Mr Mom I think in theory sounds great, but I don’t think women actually want that like they think they would.. nor do I think men would get the best …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:48 PM
2

Real truth here. And unfortunately what happens with a lot of men is they feel like they aren’t doing enough and step up their presents, work around the house, etc thinking that will get a positive reaction, when it gets exactly the opposite... he is showing that she doesn’t have to work for his affection any longer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:23 AM
2

Seriously couldn’t agree more with all of this, but especially the topic of chores igniting a fire in a woman’s loins..... that will never happen gentlemen. Happy wife, happy life was not invented by a man, it’s a saying to make sure the chore list is done. That being said, men have to pull their weight, and if they are and that trope is being pulled, your lady does not desire you, she desires your compliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:29 PM
1

Ah...19 year old.... I get it. You’re trying to punch out of your weight class kid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:33 PM
1

So is STFU. As proven here, anybody can post to Reddit who has no credibility or knowledge.... that is assuredly true on the TRP sub. I said read the sidebar, which is approved and proven material. Try that out instead of gleaning over a subreddit and only seeing what you want to see. And STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:19 PM
1

Clearly an expert this one is... just because you don’t understand something and it offends your world paradigm doesn’t mean you get to shit on it... your post did nothing than to make those who actually do understand TRP remember why we don’t talk about it in public... it’s much too nuanced and deeper than you grasp obviously, so STFU unless you’ve been studying and employing it for a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:52 PM
5

Dude, it’s like you wrote my post for me! Congrats and I know exactly how you feel and have been more successful in every aspect in my life. I second the emotion of read the TRP sidebar, ignore the noise and put it all to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:42 PM
0

This is straight up BS and you obviously haven’t read into what TRP actually is, just the parts that some percentage has taken on (black pilled). It’s about seeing how the world and relationships really work, how to better yourself by having this understanding, getting physically fit, have a goal and passion to life, and making yourself #1. The trope against TRP by those who haven’t spent years studying it gets exhausting to read and immediately disqualifies your responses
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:32 PM
2

Honestly I don’t post too often on here because any amount of “I don’t like that POV” gets amplified by the younger crowd here without them even reading the point of what the post was getting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:27 PM
2

Can confirm the first two.... I kick ass as a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:25 PM
11

This is true.... and we get a ton more attention and because of it. The amount of good looking ladies that have approached me post show is ridiculous; I’ve even had a bride try to kiss me after we played their wedding. This feminine nature alone has showed me that most women love Mr. Right Now (alpha male) over Mr. Right (beta provider)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:50 AM
29

While you got laid, you are a total dick to the bartender who rightly called out your lame ass lay for being cheap, and then you acted a bitch by pouring out your drink on his bar. You have assuredly never been behind a bar. If you think this is you being a bad ass, it’s just you being a douche, the dude must not have wanted to deal with beating your lame ass for multiple reasons, mostly because your cheap ass wasn’t worth going to jail for, and I guarantee this is an inflated story. But congrat…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 01:35 AM
5

Not if you are a shitty person, overweight, make terrible decisions, start talking about how great your ex was.... etc. men are not just dumb cavemen, and women have way more red flag boner killers than you have been led to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:21 AM
0

I find it difficult to have actual debate if you are going to throw out a generic “studies have been shown” and anecdotal opinions. I can copy and paste your same argument again and just flip women to men and I would think I would be correct. Your life experience is not fact for everybody else, your responses are based upon your own preconceived notions, and that is a huge problem on this sub. The argument in general will always be a hung jury because there are shitty dudes and good dudes, and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:11 PM
0

You’d get the same answer from men that women are shitty partners and relationships are not worth the time, drama, risk, money, and women don’t pull their weight. Just depends on what sex you are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:24 AM
2

Roll my eyes.... you are obviously too young to take good comments and run with them, it’s much easier to try and call someone a dumb ass name. I don’t need to retaliate, I am all for civility, and all for calling out the BS of everything you have posted here. I’m waiting for some kind of a rebuttal, but there isn’t one coming because your stance hasn’t been thought through and you don’t have enough experience in life yet... early 20s, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:50 AM
11

We do have a problem indeed. Women do like it, with the right guy... that subject has been beaten to a pulp here. Women have always had the right to say no (rape notwithstanding, those dudes aren’t men), but the problem is expectations and BOTH sides not willing to do the work to make a relationship work, which includes women understanding men beyond “men need sex”. It’s easy to pass it off as “men are pigs, they all suck” when you aren’t even willing to understand and look into why we are how w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:16 PM
9

“I simply don’t care” That about sums it up fellas. It’s time to pack it up and realize we need to put our own wants and needs aside for the ladies, they deserve it! And generalizing a very minuscule percentage of men is dangerous for your psyche... both sexes do terrible ass things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:26 PM
9

I posted something earlier in the week about why men need sex on a conscious and subconscious level to keep the relationship strong, and you would have thought from the responses that I was the worst human alive.... when none of them even read the freaking article I posted or what I had even wrote... they just read into the headline and what they wanted to glean from my post.... the projection of insecurity and unhinged feminism was astounding, and the lack of want to understand a mans psyche wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:23 PM
1

And Too young to understand sarcasm apparently. Sharp as a sock full of soup, this one....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:53 PM
1

You are 2 for 2 on amazing additions to the post. Keep reading those young adult romance novels, I’m sure they are a help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:39 PM
1

Amazing contribution. Did you actually intake anything from that article, read the article, or just read that I’m not having the same amount of sex during pregnancy as normal and I’m boo hooing? Because the latter was assuredly not the point and put out as bait for people like yourselves to prove my pint that women typically don’t care about men’s internal feelings. See, that’s how you contribute to a post....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:34 PM
3

Because men have figured out that women aren’t worth the trouble (circling back to OPs original question), especially post wall. Men will continue to want to have sex regardless of their age, and if a woman no longer wants that, then there is a very good chance she will be single, wether by choice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:47 AM
0

What would you prefer him to use lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:26 PM
0

Dude here, and while it may be on a case by case basis, yep... this description fits well. Just thought you’d appreciate some make input after the females chimed in (and they have their own experiences, but yours is also true)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:25 PM
0

Most women... really? Or just your personal experience (which is fine)? Because that is counter to almost every anecdotal story we have ever heard, and while I know a couple ladies like this, they are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:57 PM
1

That doesn’t mean they are easier to tolerate (OPs question), I’d say that makes them even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:51 PM
4

This is a real account of typical nature of women that I have also encountered... you aren’t attracting those types, they mostly ARE ALL uncomfortable not being in a relationship and need to branch swing as quick as possible for their own primal psyche (gotta find a new caveman to provide). This has happened to me also with each relationship, and my ex freaked the fuck out when I started dating someone hotter and younger than her, even though she had banged 4 different dudes after we broke up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:16 PM
6

Bah, at age 35 is when most guys are hitting their stride and are better looking than their 35 yr old ladies, and dealing with a girl in her early 20s is beyond exhausting (outside of a purely sexual relationship) once you’ve reached a maturity level. What I’m saying is there are equal amounts of hot men and ladies in the world, they just peak at different times (and that doesn’t even count things like money, status, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:46 PM
1

Interesting...Do you think that attitude changes post 30? I can’t say I agree or disagree, but I can see that as a thing in your 20s, making the most of them...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:47 PM
7

I’ll respectfully disagree; the older a woman gets the more I have witnessed the flustered need for a relationship. I’m in a suburb of SF, and have found there is a lot of putting on a game face that they don’t need a man, but after a drink or two the truth comes out. Maybe an overgeneralization, but I think that’s more the norm than you describe above. I have yet to meet a man who isn’t ok with being single; most are looking for some physical affection, but have found what relates to this post.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:45 PM
16

If you are younger, I’ll say that may be true with women being okay single... they are at an optimum SMV and have plenty of options. As years go by and they see their friends with awesome boyfriends, getting married, having kids.... that’s when this all changes and the freak outs about being single become more common and they tend to become less fun to be around because of that internal hamster in their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:54 PM
1

Low effort post. My conclusion is that men also get to navigate their feelings and drives during a time of transition, and gives a basic understanding why we get certain feelings; our subconscious doesn’t care about the current situation. You have no clue what kind of man I am based upon 12 sentences that you read into without actually understanding the words, and we both are stoked to be new parents. She gets it and misses our sex life more than I do, and this is just another part of working it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:00 AM
4

Bah.... totally wrong, sorry. As someone who literally just got a vasectomy yesterday and have a crotch full of frozen peas on me, quite the opposite was true. I had to do a phone consultation, fill out paperwork stating that I wanted the procedure, and I’m the room yesterday was asked three times if this is what I wanted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:31 PM
1

Why would you respond to a subject when you don’t want to talk about the subject at hand? If you want to make a post about you, make your own. This post and the rest on this thread are just mind numbing in that you are missing the entire point and turning it into something that reflects your own prerogative. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:48 PM
1

Merely pointing out that guys have feelings and subconscious needs, and that I’m choosing to navigate those instead of blow up at her (which somehow half of this thread immediately paints the situation as if I am mistreating her in some way). Your statement is obvious... having a baby blows up everything, but a man still has to navigate that new terrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:38 PM
2

This article and post isn’t about a woman or her needs, but you are awfully quick to turn it that way. Amazing that one could take a thought explaining the subconscious thoughts a man has and why he may be unhappy in a relationship and how you, as a woman, could benefit from that knowledge and because it’s not about you, it has no value. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:35 PM
6

Again, as has been posted previously by other women here, read my post instead of project your own feelings into it. I’m merely exploring why my subconscious thoughts are causing an unhappiness, and this article spells it out for you ladies pretty well what we men may not be able to convey. If you don’t like that reality that’s fine, but that’s how men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:20 AM
6

This. Thank you. It’s getting hard to read the responses that seem based on their own personal projections and insecurities rather than actually taking in what I’m trying to convey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:26 AM
0

Did... did you even read the article??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:03 AM
7

Lol... I agree this was a bad place to post this and I was actually kind of interested in seeing some of the projected responses, which their have been plenty. This forum does seem to take on the “my view is best and right, screw your view because it doesn’t fit my comfortable rubric” That all being said, my gal has been doing all she can outside of intimacy and I have no ill feelz for her whatsoever; she has already planned on getting back to her normal libido and is more frustrated than I am t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:00 AM
2

Where I’m the world did I ever say any of the things you are projecting? Read what I wrote... I am understanding my own subconscious needs and how to navigate them. Nowhere in there did I say any of the things you are inventing in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:56 AM
1

While it is Reddit and I’m always amused by the different responses from random people, “o don’t even need to read much” may be my new favorite projection comment. Thank you for the chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:49 AM
0

I agree. If a legal agreement (marriage) is made, then both parties are to do their part in maintaining the original contract that they both signed up for. If the woman decides she is no longer interested in sex for whatever reason, and it is determined that it is not a medical reason and the man has continued his end of the agreement, then that’s not the nature of man, that is holding true to the frame that you entered into a marriage. If the man decides to stop providing, I say the same thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:32 AM
1

And boy did it. The amount of reading into my relationship without actually reading what I wrote or the article is pretty wild
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:28 AM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:48 AM
2

Did you even read the article, or just project your feelings into the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:40 AM
2

You are a troll, beat it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:33 AM
1

I’m sorry for your losses, that is tough and I understand the pain and work to get through it all too well. The point of my post was actually only to help the ladies (who have come out during in defensiveness) understand their man when he may not have the words to express his own feelings. My and my gal are super good, and we’ve talked for hours about our current feelz and how to navigate them. It’s not about my sex drive, it’s about personally navigating my own subconscious desires and why I ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:32 AM
1

I’m not confused to the change in dynamic, I’m trying to understand my own subconscious needs and wants while I attend to her healing and raising the boy. This is my second kid, I clearly remember my foibles from the first
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:21 AM
2

I can see how you may have read into our relationship after only a few sentences, but I romance the hell out of her. The point of my post was more to give ladies an understanding about men that men often have trouble putting into words
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:16 AM
1

I posted this article to give the ladies some insight into their mans subconcious and conscious needs if you want to maintain a relationship. If you are afraid to understand this, then LTRs may be a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:14 AM
1

Where in my post did I say I was putting my own needs before hers? You have no idea what kind of man I’ve been through the journey, and I never said sex is the most important thing.... did you read the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:10 AM
-1

I never questioned my decision to have a child, I merely explored why I might be feeling like the relationship is not as strong due to a lack of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:07 AM
1

I learned a ton from the red pill forum on Reddit and through a book or two. Changed me into a better man no doubt. Just because someone points out problems in a social system and how to work with it doesn’t mean they are scammers. I’m getting remarried only after really swallowing and understanding the pill, but would advise those who haven’t done any work on themselves (which is a giant part of red pill) to never get married. To paint it as simply PU artists and misogyny (which some folks are …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:45 PM
1

Touché
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:31 PM
3

You have a skewed version of traditional masculinity, you need to rethink
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:38 PM
8

Bull shit. Internet stranger, there are thousands of self improvement things you can do, you just have to chose to do them. Hit the gym. Eat right. Get good at a cool ass hobby other than a video game. Learn. Focus on making yourself the man you would like to see reflected back in the mirror and you’ll attract the same types of people. It’s just difficult to take that first step. You got this, you got nothing to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:36 PM
1

Am I missing something? I have never considered myself masculine because I could PROVIDE... I consider myself masculine because I can take care of myself, keep myself fit and healthy, can fix anything on my own, have a well paying job, dress nice and look great but don’t care too much about what someone else may think. OPs post and your statement assuredly make make a smarter man lean towards MGTOW, regardless of today’s economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:30 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter