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Beyond celebrities and politicians do you genuinely know people who have enough "power" to turn women on? This seems like a very small percent of the population. There may be a few business owners who get into this group if they are business owners of banks or things like that, but nobody gaf that you and I trade ETH and have a few thousand saved up to blow on exotic plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:11 AM
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https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 03:05 PM
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Some looks are immutable. Some looks are mutable. I gave an example of a fatty. Lose weight + gain muscle and people (both men and women) will have more respect for you. End of the day you should improve what you can improve.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 03:04 PM
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Your view is very blackpill that looks are immutable. I gave an example of a fatty. Lose weight + gain muscle and people (both men and women) will have more respect for you.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 03:02 PM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/f3isBNYosUKHT2RY7
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:28 PM
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Ma'am please touch grass. Why is "being fat" a "woman repellent"? Does being fat look ugly? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:21 PM
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My understanding of your post is you think that physical appearance IS NOT the primary barrier to attractiveness. It obviously is the first barrier. Everything that comes next is what people talk about since it's things you can change (like brushing your teeth or touching grass)
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:14 PM
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Please touch grass, it's a Sunday and your kids want to play outside. In thread they say being fat looking unkempt yee yee ass haircut I can send you studies saying the mythical perfect women still care about looks if you want to do some Sunday reading instead
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 01:54 PM
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Your puss is high value <3
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 10:50 PM
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For sure, I might need to check out around eastern Europe and asia when my job permits (hopefully when I'm in my 30s too). The one thing I'm a little worried about is I learned Spanish to visit South America but I know learning Asian languages is quite different than English. So maybe I'll find a chick that speaks English but I'd prefer that wasn't the case tbh
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 11:37 AM
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I genuinely think a large appeal of dating a foreigner is: They're different/unique/mysterious Their culture treats women differently Money goes much further in these countries and you can do fun things Green card The last chick I dated was not interested in a green card (she wanted to stay near her family). She said I treated her super nice and men in her culture weren't like that at all (maybe she was honest idk. South American culture is macho. But not all guys are like that with their GFs). …
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 11:32 AM
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Same, I have had fun in Central and South America since the timezone is the same as my job. When I can I want to go to Asia and have fun there next. There are not a lot of Asian women in my area but I have had a lot of luck in my own country with the few Asian women there are. A whole country with pretty women will surely be better 😉
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 01:50 AM
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Western standards for having sex aren't based on the man being a good person or a long-term partner
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 01:31 AM
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Women in other countries aren't low quality, you can find better quality women outside western countries willing and happy to date
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 01:29 AM
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This is simply not true speaking as someone who has geomaxxed. 100x better treatment outside my country
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 01:27 AM
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At the end of the day, a person's main objective should be to achieve happiness with as little negative impact to everyone else. Geomaxxing will take a native woman away from men she would otherwise pair with in her country. That is a cost you can't deny. But, this is what's necessary to achieve happiness (family, wife, etc) Also, some people are fine with betabuxxing a woman who is worth it (i.e. supporting her). If you are her first is that even betabuxxing if she never even fucked alphas? lol
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 01:26 AM
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So a dude is a chick now? Alright, imma move on from this waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:25 AM
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Do I want to set myself on fire when dudes feels the need to tell me about crypto? Yes. This frames your response about "dudes" This post is specifically about differences between genders and your reply starts with talking about "dudes". You then follow up by saying very often . MOST . These words speak towards a large portion/majority. This isn't projection, this is the English language
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:14 AM
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Whatever. You commented on a subreddit which talks about generalities between genders on a post talking about general interests genders have. Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:50 AM
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Where did I say men are selfish and money hungry? Right here: Do I want to set myself on fire when dudes feels the need to tell me about crypto? Yes. Do people who often talk about investing or economics prove to be shitty capitalist? Very often. Is talking about a investing boring as fuck way of drooling over money? . And fuck off about drones I’m not talking about people who are passionate about them, I’m talking about rich dudes who purchase them and play with them. You actually didn't say wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:27 AM
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So you said men are selfish, money-hungry pigs blah blah blah. And yet you say the interests like: drones, their app, etc Are all bad too. None of these things are even limited, you can talk about drones in many different ways. Racing drones, photography, videography, etc. That's not even a common hobby. Maybe in Silicon Valley it is a common hobby, idk, but you're in a niche market so of course people are proud of the app they made to try to make it big.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:01 AM
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Omg yes 🤑🤑 I love a good wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:28 PM
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You can't have YMS with an aging population. The demographics of this country are already beyond repair with less people in their 20s than their 40s and 50s. Ask your parents how many kids were in their neighborhoods and now look at your neighborhood. It's not even close to the same and Japan is where we are headed. TL;DR you don't have to worry about YMS, but you might have bigger problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:41 AM
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My jeans when my fly is down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:32 PM
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Women evolved so much they don't have kids which is the major biological difference between us. Women aren't even happier, unless you ignore the rate at which they medicate for depression and whatnot. Men are checking out since there's little purpose to try hard if you have no motivation (i.e. a family to take care of). As a single guy I'm trying hard only so I can retire early, but for everyone else they say "why even try?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:50 PM
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Western women: I'm justified in being an asshole because 0.005% of men murder teehee ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:31 PM
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Women don't even out-earn men. Stop it. How should men "catch up" with the times? Do you honestly think men should want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:10 PM
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I've gone to Mexico and Peru. I will probably go to other south/central american countries in the future and when my job is more lenient for what time I work during the day I will go to Asia. I'm white. Even though you don't hear of white fever in South America as much as in Asia it is still there to a degree. I also learned Spanish and talked to girls before I went down so I was already buddy-buddy with them. I'm a 4/10 but tall 5'11". I was a virgin except for prostitutes until i went down (co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:32 AM
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I would not expect for all ugly human males to give up. Time will tell what they do. That's just what I'm doing..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:26 AM
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So a bit of an aside, but if you were an ugly guy what would be your path forward? The only real options I see are: LDAR (give up p much. Play video games) Give up on dating and just buy hookers/sugar relationships Go where you are treated better (seamaxx, going to foreign countries). This is what I do, personally. Improve your value as much as you can (Looksmaxx with surgery/muscles, be "interesting", get money to spend on her)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:35 PM
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I agree. Most people think looks matter to some degree and blackpillers think looks pretty much determine your trajectory in life. Most mannerisms are byproducts for how you are treated based on looks. Good looks begets confidence. Good looks begets admiration from your peers. There's a reason the taller you are the more money you make. And there's a reason why women in studies state shorter people must "compensate" for their deficiency. I for the most part agree with blackpillers. It's hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:21 PM
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When I was in school I would befriend ugly girls while I would try to hit on hot girls. I can't be friends with a girl I'm attracted to. I can be friends with ugly girls and I treated them like any guy friend for the most part. It's not that I "ignored" them, but I rarely thought about them sexually even though I was a horny 18 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:08 PM
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Stop eating Potato chips, problem solved. Anyone can count calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:02 PM
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Affording isn't always best for you. I moved out at 21 after college and lived on my own. It was mostly overrated. I could afford it, but my savings rate could be better. I just moved back home at 23 and now I am able to invest more in my 401K, cryptocurrencies, and my bank to buy a house one day. I think living on your own is mostly overrated, especially if you are saving for some goal. If your parents aren't overbearing I personally feel it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:44 PM
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I never argued women are affected mote than men. I personally think a lot of people, both men and women, will be funded. Women by and large partnered with men, so I don't think being "muh independent wahmen" will make them wealthier than if they were partnered. Also, my point is inflation is making it harder to live on a single salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:52 PM
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That's not much of a prediction if we are already there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:13 PM
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Okay, so women's spending habits are not changed. What are changed then? The economy is more and more stagnant Women will be partnered at a lower rate with men to share their incomes You bring up women are getting better jobs now, and yes diversity hires are now mainstream in fortune 500 companies. Is that enough? I am not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:01 PM
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It's due to how lucrative blue-collar jobs can be. There is a huge push for automating long-haul trucking industry since this is one of the hugest industries in the USA. Unlike HR queens, long-haul trucking is a real, substantial benefit to the economy and it makes sense to automate this. Something like HR is just a bullshit job that won't go away until bureaucracy changes in companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:53 AM
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Funny article with clear bias towards home ownership as a status symbol. Also, from the article: However in 2019, an article from the Sydney Morning Herald on the retirement savings gap explained new research which shows that men have retirement savings worth 42% more than women. It is interesting how women are more interested in home ownership and I guess that's because young guys are ready to move around more-so than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:50 AM
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Dallas Texas is MCL I would say. It's the same as a city like Atlanta. I don't see why you'd be followed around stores tbh, most people mind their business (It's a city/metropolitan area anyways so there are people from everywhere/every race)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:02 PM
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Yeah 6K per month is ridiculous and a HCL area like the bay or NYC. I paid $1600 for a 2/2 in Dallas for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:50 AM
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He's saying if you wanted to show off your wealth you could easily do so by getting a sports car for example so women can see you are rich. I'm the as way as you more or less. I'm young 20s making decent money and don't flex it and drive my early 2000s car from high-school since it hasn't broken down yet and wear my normal clothes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:48 AM
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Well, here are your options: Kill a bunch of men / practice eugenics to keep the population of men low Pick the team of men who don't hate you as much and support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:45 AM
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Covid wiped out two years If he commuted the college experience kinda doesn't exist Social introvert too chicken to go to football game/high energy events I think some guys need a wingman/kick in the butt to get out more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:44 AM
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Did he wrongthink? His theory has already been debunked, didn't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:29 AM
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You can set her up with an anonymous person on Reddit, like me, to appreciate her mommy milkers. Alright real talk because my sister might be like this one day. Just send her the pig-woman experiment to say men will literally fuck anything off a dating app. She might become disgusted with men or maybe she will start to see dating apps in a different way and start swiping and talking based on more than just looks. I think if a woman takes a dating app seriously and presents herself as not a whore…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:20 AM
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Is not a whore Filler Filler Shit I dunno if I pass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:24 AM
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Girlfriend? eew I thought we already went over that men wanna bang like chads. Who wants a girlfriend?? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:23 AM
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It's the next Marvel movie I'm sure, The Invisible woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:20 AM
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Ah interesting. Is it based on race/genetics or something and that's why women get skinnier in the face more? I was curious since Hollywood stars like DiCaprio or John Travolta their faces just round out like the moon (Could be steroid usage??). Kinda wondered about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:19 AM
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Noticed his lazy eye immediately. Women definitely got the ick from that and there was nothing he could've done short of surgery. Either way, if there are any inkwells here I can plan out a fieldtrip to Thailand and we can go bang like chads
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:17 AM
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Is it like some sort of superpower?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:13 AM
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If you were a young 20s guy who still looks 18 what would be your angle for dating? I might be able to pull off androgynous look (skinny, tall, non-masculine face, no facial hair) but I only look that way. I'm working out in the meantime, maybe I gotta get strict with the diet too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:26 AM
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I thought facial features for men become more rounded as they age? It seems that being more dimorphic is what women want. Right now I have a young face for my age which is the worst in your 20s. I could pass as 18 right now. I can't grow a beard/stubble either. I'm hoping by my 30s I start to look more mature facially. Not sure what more I can do besides workout and make more money to invest in my future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:09 AM
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You already hit the wall in terms of fertility. If you exercise and take good care of your skin you can age gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:03 AM
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I did not say there is NO difference in sperm... Either way, women start a rapid decline at ~32 y/o - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24559617/ The percentage of IVF cycle starts that resulted in live births was 41.5% in women younger than 35 years, 31.9% in women aged 35–37 years, 22.1% in women aged 38–40 years, 12.4% in women aged 41–42 years, 5% in women aged 43–44 years, and 1 % for women older than 44 years Men do have some decreased rates, here's an article I found: https://www.healthline…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:43 AM
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I'm stating the same thing as u/johnnyGotHisTabla . OP is misusing a common term. The wall is about fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:02 PM
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The wall is women-specific due to fertility. Men do not hit this wall. Even a woman who ages gracefully hits the wall of fertility in her mid 30s. In terms of looks fat people age poorly, people who do not take of their skin age poorly, and bad genetics age poorly (balding for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:52 PM
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Male swiping on women perspective: Bio with her instagram/snapshat No bio Bitchy attitude bios (e.g. I know most of you are wasting my time, show me otherwise) Alternative women (Tattoos, dyed hair, piercings on an otherwise decent body)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:48 PM
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They are saying you can't fuck my warm hole, because I won't let you. This is less of "can assume" and "also implying" and taking what they say at face-value. The implication can be what you mention, but the funny thing is they don't say you're undateable, they bring up what they bring to the table instead...pussy You are also mentioning "social proof" that women only want men who other women want. Which I completely agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:51 PM
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Do you notice a certain "type" of guys that come to you? Obviously you need some spare cash, but I always hear about powerful businessmen go to dominatrix, for example. What do you normally see in your escort experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:39 PM
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Ah yes a classic. They start to throw in the different features/statistics they always deny, but finally they are honest now that they are emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 PM
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So, in their value system the reward is pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:06 PM
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Monthly announcement that women do not know how to insult a guy without a variation of he must not get laid or is a virgin. Once again declaring the only value women have is pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:02 PM
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No, that's still looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:33 PM
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If it's a chick you would never introduce to your family then that's a temp. Doomed from the start so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:28 AM
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Are you preparing for that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:57 AM
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Gotchu. Do your temp gfs know they're that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah, I know that now. Initially I didn't have that information which is why I said he might have to marry and take care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:54 AM
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What culture? And would it be arranged with someone from your home-country or your current country?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:48 AM
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Keep at it. Definitely continue looksmaxxing. I'm sure athletes would want trainers in good shape as well if they had the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:46 AM
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Do your hobbies attract women / increase your social circle to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:32 AM
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What goals do you have young lad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:31 AM
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Your response literally says "you must have me confused with somebody else". Your plan sounds great if you can do it already without having to take care of kids. Good luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:30 AM
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Mi pregunta es sólo por personas sin novias
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:26 AM
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Q4M (age 20/30s and single) What is your long-term plan to find a partner/sexual fulfillment in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:20 AM
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Did you mention this in a different comment thread? I was just responding on this single-comment thread that we are on ...and do what things?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:18 AM
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Is there a flaw in my plan... YES, there may be a flaw in your plan if you are too short and too ugly to attract a MILF. IF you are able to attract a MILF you may have to take care of her baggage (the children from previous partner). Lmk if that makes sense and explain what doesn't make sense bud
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:15 AM
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I think we're both confused here. Your initial message said: Is there a flaw in my plan to wait until I’m 33-36 to snag a thick older MILF? My reply to that was talking about what potential flaws with your plan could be. Maybe being "Short Baldy" as your flair says will be a potential issue with your plan. Maybe the terms and conditions to thar are you need to take care of the MILF's kids. I hope that clears it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:10 AM
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Millions of views is millions of views :shrugs: He did find someone, good for him. End of the day he isn't bad looking, he has a great conversation starter about how he was internet famous, and the exception does not make the rule. I dunno what the argument here is for lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:06 AM
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Short baldy may be able to get the MILF, but terms and conditions might be marriage and taking care of her Ex's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:04 AM
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Please check your flair and read the fine print if there are any terms and conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:57 AM
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My actual opinion on this is there are always people to lap up a grift. Men idolize these influencers and i think they hear a few good points and then want "the formula" to solve their problems. Unfortunately life is complicated and the formula is mostly: Workout + be born attractive + get lucky + put in effort + randomness = how you do in life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:54 AM
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Your username is ethereum trader. Get real with yourself, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:52 AM
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If you dont want to debate honestly that is your choice. I'm in my 20s grew up western and have traveled to several foreign countries. This is my frame of reference. I can compare a western woman in the USA with a woman from Mexico or a woman from Perú (west countries but culturally not as western). I am talking in the same manner as you were, western vs non-western in an honest way. It's your choice to run from your n-count if it ashames you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:48 AM
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If he is deceitful to the women he is banging he is more of a bad person. Fucking a woman who "feels empowered" is a win for him, and she would feel like she won too. He's not her dad to make sure she's doing what is best long-term. (Although he might be her daddy) Are you ashamed by your n-count? All women love to dodge this question in western countries. Either way your assumption about where I grew up is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:38 AM
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She can make a decision and reap the consequences. If he wants to cum, a warm hole is an easy way to do that. He has his motive and she may have hers. Either way it's not his problem. Do you know how many is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:28 AM
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He's okay looking He has a YouTube video with 86 million views. How is this guy normal? You do realize popularity and money are two major factors for how a woman is attracted to you? The exception does not make the rule. Idk when they started dating, but the advice here from what i understand is to be a popular musician ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:23 AM
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It's not his job to be morally superior. You have the power to make your own decision. We tell you it devalues you and what you do with that is up to you. What's your N count btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:14 AM
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M here. Umm I don't think I've ever been complimented by a woman my age (20s or teens). Edit: to clarify, a stranger or woman I don't know as a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:57 PM
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Gosh darn grannies trying to inflate our egos 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:37 PM
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What country is jbw? Looking for that one rn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:31 PM
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I honestly thought black men would be more of a "novelty" in Asia than Europe, but the European countries you're mentioning aren't like France with some black people so you could definitely find a niche there. I would say don't discount Asia until you try. Same with South America. Black men should be able to pull it off there too. I'm sure some Asians would want some variety from all of the white sexpats lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:24 PM
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I've always looked at PayPal with a side-eye for accounts they closed. I just don't want to put my credit card information on every site which is why I used PayPal. But, these people are ballsy making this stance. Same crowd "debunking" claims. I'm closing my account
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:10 PM
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Culture doesn't dictate if women have a height preference. Many women have a height preference regardless of how tall their culture is. If you are a white guy in the Philippines odds are you WILL be a tall guy in their eyes. You WILL be the hypergamous pick for them. This is just AWALT and I want to frame it that way so people understand the dynamics for women is mostly the same. You will be the "chad" (with a fat wallet) and that's why they will be giggly with you. It's just the only way an ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:04 PM
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Not true. Check out passport bros which is mostly black culture on YouTube/Instagram/etc. I have seen some videos of them talking about Asia dating/hooking up dynamics Black people go to south America. Countries like Brazil, Colombia, and some Caribbean islands have people with more of a darker mix to them. Im white and I went to south America and that went well too. I might try the Asia route when my job won't have any timezone issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:56 PM
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Just got a haircut and then went to Walmart and was complemented by a 50s woman there. Fastest ROI, thank you PPD granny wherever you are on here!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:50 PM
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How many mentally "normal" people go to you in their 20s/30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:48 PM
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Generally men do the "maintenance" of houses though. Fixing things around the house has always been a stereotypical male responsibility while chores (regular jobs) have been stereotypically a woman's responsibility. If the amount of maintenance isn't high then the chores should be shared imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:45 PM
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Biology is science which covers most of those and if you don't think accountants, economists, and finances is math...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:57 PM
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What about its IVs? That's what truly matters. Nature vs Nurture in the Pokémon world lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:54 PM
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It's understandable that if it happened in the relationship (on again off again) that when you ARE done they don't realize it. In my case I would try to break it off she would call me saying how she would change or do X and we would get back together. That happened 2 times I want to say. Well enough was enough nothing had changed and I needed to break it off without any other attempts at getting back together. In this case, I followed the block and terminate contact approach. Seems to be best at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:10 PM
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Yes, this probably made it a "boy who cried wolf" type breakup to her and she still didn't realize I was serious even after a month or wanted to believe it wasn't the end. I just blocked her everywhere since that is for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:25 PM
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I realized this. I just blocked her everywhere. Me messaging her was giving her a feeling that things would go back to normal. I needed to end that for both of out sakes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:23 PM
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I think so too. I'll continue with this for now. I'm hoping it continues to be a "slow fade". I'll explain and block if she starts reaching out more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:38 PM
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Guess that tally is going to the "All men are trash" camp then 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:35 PM
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That's what I initially did. I gave her my reasons said we are over and blocked her everywhere. I talked with my parents about that and they said I was being a POS. I don't have her blocked now. we hadn't talked in about 3 weeks and briefly talked yesterday. Just saying how my feelings haven't changed etc. On one hand I think being transparent and addressing them directly is good, but on the other hand I think blocking is much more clear that I don't want to be back together than what I'm doing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:32 PM
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I think men care to some degree. It is just lower on the priority list for most guys than it is for women. Men care about her personality, her looks, etc before they care about her career. If Men needed to live in squalor to be with the woman of their dreams they would be okay with that. Men generally are less materialistic in that sense. If they have a family, is that better for a child? I cannot say. Women do worry about that more, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:20 PM
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How do you get an Ex to move on from you? I'm just being frank with her and no bullshit that we won't be back together. I think it's slowly working, but she still tries to slip in that we will be back together one day and I keep shooting it down. I don't want to be overly cruel, and I think what I'm doing is being just "cruel enough" for her to know I'm serious. What did you guys do? I don't want to hear ghosting stories, yall are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:09 PM
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EmpatheticGender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:00 PM
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Unironically, yes. I'm not waiting persay, but it's my copium that I can get a 20 y/o foreign wife and have a few kids. I might move to her country if I have to so I don't get divorce-raped
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:56 PM
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Women are more likely to be in stressful careers because any career stresses out a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:02 PM
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Backhanding a 2/3 year old isn't excusable. Idc if the child blows up the house, it's still not excusable. I hope you're doing better and feel safer at home. Fearing a parent is awful. Even in that case, Financial abuse is a real issue. He sounds like a spineless mooch on your mother. I can understand why she doesnt want to date again after going through that. I think an older guy who is remarrying wouldn't feel as big of a need to be the "sole provider". I can understand the sentiment more when…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:17 PM
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What type of abuse with your mom and how did he hit you? No reason other than being drunk/bad mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:51 PM
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I think your dad had his sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere, however, he made a mistake...which was getting caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:47 PM
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When a girl starts saying she wants me to fuck her raw I think this hoe is too much for me. My dick isn't magical so she just wants to baby trap or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:42 PM
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Coward or his homelife was fine, but your mother wasn't putting out enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:29 PM
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You can't do shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:51 PM
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Reddit is mostly american-centric. That cuts down women to 150million give or take. Then factor in single women in the dating range (18 to 35) and the number becomes even smaller. These trends are for that much smaller demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:45 PM
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OP said that all the women subreddits say how women need to be concerned for their safety but men don't. I just said that men need to take precautions too. If I go down my bike path at night I will be jumped by people high on fentanyl just like if a woman went down that bike path. Men aren't immune to getting mugged and murdered by derelicts. That's my only point. It is deplorable women are raped before murdered, but the point here is that men need to take precautions too and still have to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:22 PM
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This means very little if men will be murdered anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:10 PM
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It probably won't crash 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:08 PM
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Seriously. If I go onto my bike path at night I will be jumped by some homeless people hopped on fentanyl. Nobody is safe alone in sketchy areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:29 PM
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Go be well rounded lol. That's like being diversified in the market. You never win a lot that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:53 PM
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Yeah passion/dedication is good. I guess I never was interested in that from a woman though. I would want her to use that passion and dedication for me over a job. The reason some women date career men I assumed is due to how much money they make, along with passion probably
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:53 PM
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Women date career men to mooch off their money. There is no point doing that as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:46 PM
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Why does a guy need to date a career woman? Seems like a waste of time. I propose this replacement: 1) the nerd 2) the party girl 3) the hippie 4) the foreigner 5) he career woman the other foreigner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:22 PM
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This mod won't even say autist,, it's developmentally challenged or some shit to him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:18 PM
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Biology is a bad degree to major in unless you go for a PhD or medical doctorate. Otherwise you'll most likely be a lab techy making chump change. There are a lot of women in that major but it's just like any college woman. Not worth much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:57 PM
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Do a STEM degree (not a soft science like biology which has too many women) and it's mostly guys plus you graduate with a marketable degree. That's the only time I'd recommend college for a guy. Otherwise it's feminist women just being annoying around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:02 PM
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Like 80% of women are straight up losers if they were guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:21 PM
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It's probably because you're lazy and they don't have faith you'll actually change/improve. This is the exact reason I broke up with my gf. I told her some things she had to change for several months and she did nothing. Then I said enough is enough and I didn't want to continue and suddenly she starts to try to put in effort. At that point I was done though and said it was too late. I was patient for months almost half a year and nothing changed until I said the relationship is done
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:18 PM
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Trash class (Poor): Welfare families, section 8 housing, single parent households, kids getting into jail Lower class: working class dad who is a tradesman but isn't in charge ($50K maybe), mom may work or stay at home with the kids. Maybe their grandparents live in the same house and take care of each other. Extended family lives nearby or in the same house. Middle Class: Blue-collar dad with some "respectable" job. A corporate slave with a decent, paid-off house. Works 9-5 and tries to pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:25 AM
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There are plenty of poor women willing to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:10 AM
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Don't worry, you can save her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:31 AM
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Wow she sounds smart. 25, deadbeat daddy, and lives in the hood. Real keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:02 PM
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OKCupid doesn't have an incentive to say how shitty dating sites are...just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:14 PM
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Nice try old man, but I've already seen enough dicks on Omegle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:51 AM
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Every time I'm based on this sub I become banned
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:25 AM
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Once you're close enough she'll disclose the details. Before that is a red flag indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:23 AM
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When she shows you her fortified basement you know she's the one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:15 AM
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Hornier..with you. With Chad, 20s girls are equally horny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:39 AM
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Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Novelty with one person can be special.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:38 AM
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Green card wedding? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:25 PM
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Worth it. I did this and flew out to another continent to meet since we were chatting online. We had a good vacation, continued to talk, but eventually it didn't work out because the relationship wasn't strong enough for the distance. It's something you could definitely make work if you both want it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:22 PM
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It's unwanted by some women but wanted by some others. Men are going to do what they want regardless if it makes some women uncomfortable (they'll survive, such drama qweens)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:48 AM
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Joe Pera teaches you to dance is the only advice I needed to swoon a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:20 AM
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Apparently means sarcasm You're willfully reading this the wrong way to try to make some point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:37 PM
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I lived on my own for a year after college. Overated and the savings rate is worse. Now I live with my parents again, they make me pay rent, but at least the "rent" is going to their retirement and not some random corporation. I also save a little more every month to buy a house one day. I never met a guy in their 20s with a curfew...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:47 AM
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Have fun! I know I have fun as an American expat. The women outside of the USA are much more fun to be with. I always get positive vibes, no bitchy attitudes for no reason, and they always try to look cute with feminine clothing, hair, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:05 AM
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I imagine it is more analytical guys. Financebros who want to "game" the system and STEM guys who want to follow a procedure to resolve the issue (not getting pussy)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:47 PM
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So people in the USA generally eat more and do not exercise (We drive cars to work, don't need to walk around in our cities, do not have exercise schedules generally) That catches up when you get to your 30s, many 30s women hit "the wall" by having their face/body blow out a little bit. Not all women carry weight equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:48 PM
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Do you find when you're in a relationship your libido increases? I am young 20s but I just don't jack-off. When I'm in a relationship my libido is definitely higher though and I'm always ready to throw down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:46 PM
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That's cool and all but still not a planet :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:45 PM
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Man seeking woman: Reciprocates love Adventurous/Willing to try new things Loyal and voices any discontent, so I can try to improve Not lazy / tries to be their best version too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:23 PM
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Dreaming about deflowering all of the giga-stacies here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:58 PM
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It is risky in my country. John's can get arrested for being involved The women most likely don't desire you (really an ego thing). Maybe if we went on a date first and then smashed I could convince myself they wanted me more It's expensive. Several hundreds of dollars for 15 minutes of fun. I can afford that but sex is not really worth that much money. It's a stranger rather than a gf you are intimate with. The one time I tried this I told her to take her mask off and she wouldn't. That mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:51 AM
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They gotta wake up early to give that dopamine hit to her wagie subscribers before they start their day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:31 AM
2

Is now the time to get involved in MMA as a guy? Everywhere I look in the past few years I see boxing influence: Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Paddy Pimblett, Sam Hyde, Logan Paul, and now even chess boxing is in my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:25 AM
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I do, yes. If she doesn't want to be there to bang first, comfort me second, help me improve my life/motivate me third, and I guess make a family fourth, she belongs to the streets. I'm still kinda bummed we never did that vacation thing. Are you still in Houston? I completely left Dallas now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:20 AM
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Lol at all the hoes big mad disliking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:12 PM
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Hoes mad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:01 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:00 PM
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Now. I will work for SpaceX and do what I can to contribute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:10 PM
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One image isn't going to change the fact that men rate better on average when they have hair vs when they do not have hair. Chad bald guy will still be fine, but most people have to maximize their looks because they aren't chad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:08 PM
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The woman is cursed for adulterating. That's the wrongdoing here. The abortion is not the focus at all. It doesn't say there's nothing wrong with abortion, the entire focus is adultery is not tolerated and the woman is cursed for life now. I personally am fine with abortion if a woman is raped or something like that, but I don't read this passage as stating much about abortion. It's stating a lot about adultery. And it is stating a woman will be cursed for life if they adulterated, never to birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:28 PM
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It says she is cursed...that seems doesn't seem like "0 issue" to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:06 PM
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Read it how you want to. The main theme is about adultery and how that isnt tolerated. If you want to read it as "abortion is fine, since the woman who adulterated has a miscarriage" then read it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:00 PM
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This is about adultery. When a woman has sex with a guy outside of her marriage. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers+5&version=NIV I hate how the church now has all of these woke stances to try to get involved in current events. As far as I know, the Bible never talks about abortion and supports the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:49 AM
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Did you read from a Buzzfeed article this is about abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:38 AM
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My LinkedIn stalking sessions just leaves me impressed that all of my peers are doing well too. I was in the nerd classes though (AP or whatever they call them now)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:46 AM
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Nobody brags about eating pussy to their bros
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:18 PM
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I'm captain save-a-not-hoe. I think their culture is less promiscuous so I'm fine with saving them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:06 PM
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Exactly! I will help to stimulate their economy and take care of their gfs while they are busy playing war
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:31 PM
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Any passport bros go to Ukraine looking for some honeys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:57 AM
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You want Chad's life but you will never be able to have it as effortlessly as him. Life isn't fair and you were dealt your hand. I don't blame you for folding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:00 AM
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Yes, by pump and dump I'm just saying casual sex with them. Don't date them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:40 PM
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Dating and marrying women with low or no value. Women are hypergamous and only date/marry men who are better than them. Men should do the same and pump and dump the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:33 PM
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I'm more mentally mature than all women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:13 PM
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And she took advantage of my age, wisdom, and grey beard. Adults make decisions based on reason. If she reasons I am worth her youthful time that is her choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:41 AM
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Most men would prefer to get their dicks wet and keep women happy if they can. But, women need to take accountability for their actions...as they are adults with just as munch capability as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:34 AM
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Well that wasn't the point of the post. Point of the post was a 20 something willingly dating a 40 something. If your daughter doesn't want to she can choose not to date someone older. She's a big gurl that can make decisions now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:14 AM
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Your daughter is legal and that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:53 AM
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When you first started dating her how did you know if she was lazy/not looking for a job or she would change in the big city?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:50 PM
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Nice. Just live and learn and we'll make it one day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:28 PM
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Guess you didn't vet well enough beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:21 PM
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I learned Spanish too for her. Dw there are plenty of Spanish cuties you can practice your Spanish with now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:19 PM
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What was the most you ever did in a relationship for your partner? For me, I was trying to learn another language, enough so that I was speaking fluently in my dream...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:08 PM
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I might be lower than average T. I used to jack off relatively often if I got into the habit and I was horny in the relationship. I think I just broke the habit now and I probably just don't see the point to it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:00 PM
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Did you stop jacking off to porn after your first gf? I had my first gf and we broke up and I still don't jack it like before. My mind knows it's just a substitute for what I want now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:20 AM
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I would look down on someone if they refuse to date my race. Otherwise it's based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:18 AM
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Would you rather be a fat piece of shit or a fit piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:55 AM
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