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1	"Responsive drive" is just a politically correct way of saying "women do not have sex drives" For women to have children they must fuck. Therefore they like to fuck. Personally, I don't have a big d* and very rarely give women orgasms. I admit this because I kinda believe women don't care that much for those. But one thing I'm sure. They really love sex! Why they love sex? I'm not sure I've the answer to this question and I don't know how sex feels for a woman but you can tell easily when someone really enjoys something. If a woman is attracted to a man, if she imagines having babies wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 06:18 PM
1	When it is said that women want less sex than men, what exactly does it mean? I've had 2 serious girlfriends, 1 for 10 years and another for 6 months and several hookups, around 30. I could say when women are in love and really attracted to me they want sex almost all the time to the point I had always sex on demand. I don't get why redpill insists women don't like sex. That's a big lie. On the other hand, I tried to fuck at least 300 women and most of them rejected me. So, men want sex quickly and now with lots of women. Women wants with fewer men but they still fuck a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 04:37 PM
87	Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshit Just 20-24 years? I would stretch that to 18-30. And still, there are some hot women in the 30-35 age bracket. But I generally agree. The competition for hot women is fierce. Men from 18-49 compete for young women thus more men for available women. Red pill is bullshit because it paints men as the virtuous sex. It's not true, men are pieces of shit and women are also pieces of shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 04:29 PM
3	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? Having sex with multiple hot women is very hard and only attainable to very few men. My advice would be: 1 - Looks Maximize your appearance. Hit the gym, dress very good, whiten teeth, nice hair, do everything to maximize your looks. 2 - Energy and drive To pull lots of women you need energy and drive way above average. This is personal but do what it takes to have high energy and have a sexual libido very high. So stop masturbating and watching porno. Pumpo those energy levels that prompt you t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 04:51 PM
2	Guys seem obsessed with getting cheated on or being the ones who women cheat with I don't know man. Women are very sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:09 PM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... As a man a dead bedroom and being cucked is why always avoid getting in a relationship. In the last 7 years my "sexual strategy" was pump and dump. This year I was beta with this woman and we fall deeply in love and we have a connection I didn't know was possible. Don't form connections and end toxic and lonely...makes a lot of sense to me now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 09:32 PM
6	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? Very good comment.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 10:11 PM
2	Going clubbing alone after casual sex Already done that, I noticed a neutral effect.	/r/seduction	13/02/22 04:46 PM
2	Do women really approach guys at bars? I've already been approached and seen many friends be approached in bars or nightclubs. It happens but it's very rare, normally men are the ones who approach. I don't think I'm that good looking, is more when I'm in good mood and with a good vibe. Seriously, get some balls and stop getting validation from strangers about your looks. Everyone has insecurities but don't let them eat yourself alive.	/r/seduction	23/10/21 07:43 PM
4	Self improvement is sure way to get more attractive girls in your life When you improve your status gets higher. Women are attracted to high status males therefore you become more attractive. Status is a broad range because it encompasses looks, money, social skills, confidence. This is an oversimplification of course life is very complex.	/r/seduction	09/10/21 09:17 PM
0	[deleted by user] I'll quote Roissy who beautifully described why is hard to return to exes: One of the hardest feats to accomplish is re-igniting an ex-girlfriend’s attraction for you, especially if she initiated the breakup. Unlike guys, who are perfectly OK with return trips to the well no matter how dry, women have a no-looking-back switch that, when flipped, desexualizes the man she had spent months or years enslaving with her body. In her eyes, he is reduced to possessing the animal magnetism of a toll bo…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 06:49 PM
0	Does the scale really exist? I devised my own personal scale 1) Women that I would marry in a heartbeat and wanted to have children 2) Women that I would love call my girlfriend 3) Women that I would gladly date and be publicly visible with her 4) Women that I would fuck just in a ONS 5) Women that I would fuck but I had to be drunk 6) Women that I would fuck but only if my friends didn't know 7) Women that I would fuck but only if my friends didn't know and I had to be drunk 8) Women that I would fuck if I had been in 5-ye…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 06:43 PM
2	Question for the naturals I have the same age as you and I was very shy and insecure while teenager then I had a 10 year old LTR with a very cute woman who I was completely crazy for. Then in the last 7 years, I've been on casual dating. I improved a lot and however I'm not a natural and I still get nervous and anxious in certain social settings it's the way it is and sometimes it's better to just accept it. However, my self-worth has never been higher than now. Here what you can do: First, increase your self-worth. Stuf…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 06:34 PM
1	[deleted by user] First improve your looks: Low body fat Gain some muscle definition Get some good clothes Fix and whitening your teeth Take care of your skin Second, stop watching porn and masturbate so you can gain some sexual motivation. Third, stop being a bitch and grow some balls, and have some self-respect, even if you're really ugly there is a lot you can do to get women, I know plenty of men like that. Now, if you're ugly and a little bitch then you're fucked up.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 06:11 PM
1	[deleted by user] Looks definitely matter. However, confidence is very important. Problem is, most newbies think confidence can be faked. Newsflash it can't be faked and women have a sixth sense for spotting neediness and if you try to fake it until make it I can assure you that you're trying too hard to be cool therefore coming as needy.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 05:58 PM
3	[deleted by user] Agree, he is a good writer. Many of his articles changed me.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 11:37 AM
3	[deleted by user] I like Mark Manson and from personal experience his book Models is one of the most balanced and has actually pratical advice and maybe the one I recommend the most.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 11:36 AM
11	If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive? Agree. That's why I'm not a big fan of build and they'll come. Guys who are bolder will always get better chances than if you keep still in your corner. For me, the best strategy is to improve your life, always and play the game at the same time.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 05:53 PM
3	[deleted by user] Looks definitely matters and play an important role and agree with most of your comment. Saying looks don't matter is being delusional. However, I don't agree when you say women are the same as men. It's not easy to explain but women's attraction for a man is way more complex. For example, if a man is average looking however he is energetic, confident and has a devil may care attitude he will trigger attraction mechanisms on most women. Hint: You can't fake confidence, women have a sixth sense f…	/r/seduction	28/09/21 12:04 PM
7	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? Ya, it's like being 5'11 and feeling very short around NBA players where the average is 6'6. If I had to give one piece of advice to young men would be stop watching porn. This will help in seduction too.	/r/seduction	14/09/21 08:41 PM
8	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? 5 is around average so don't sweat it. Porn is another category of big schlongs, add camera tricks and petite women and voilá.	/r/seduction	14/09/21 05:59 PM
4	The cold approach method is unhealthy, and frankly a cringeworthy attempt at picking up women (or men) One time, when I was new in town and didn't know many people I once went out at night with a so called PUA (we met in FB city group) and he approached like 50 or more women and not a single number. It was a disaster, that was the only time I met a "PUA" and this guy was supposedly one of the most popular ones in the group. Later that night he even told me it was nice to meet me because I was a kinda cool and socially balanced guy. I was surprised by this comment and then he told me most guys he …	/r/seduction	09/09/21 10:14 AM
1	It's crazy how important social circle and status is It's not social circle, it's more status, and yes, status is king and far from easy. The guys I know that had huge status cleaned the floor. The problem you must have power, like being rich, very popular, or something along the lines. You don't have to be famous but you need to be among the elite.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 09:46 AM
2	It's crazy how important social circle and status is Back in my hometown, I had this short friend, maybe 5'7. Really smart and witty but his father is very rich so he took the opportunity and cultivated an insane status. Everyone wanted to be his friend, everyone loved him. He was really nice. Every time we went out women would throw themselves at him, it was crazy. He was the one who rejected most of them. That time I learned a valuable lesson, yes looks matter, but status is king. That's why most men fight for status in a way or another.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 09:38 AM
2	The Real Secret of Confidence (Advice from an Old Man) First, age doesn't guarantee wisdom. Second, 40 is not that old. Third, your advice is cliche and unhelpful. Seduction and attraction are deeply complex, there is not a straightforward and trick to get women. Trust me on this, getting women is hard, especially the hottest ones, and harder if you want to have multiple encounters. Who says otherwise either is lying or it's a very attractive man where women flock to them easily (very rare in my experience). There are no simple formulas but there ar…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 12:38 PM
3	Sex with multiple girls and STDs Here's a highly unpopular opinion - I think STDs are greatly exaggerated. When I started indulging in casual sex I lived on fear and always used condoms. Then one night I said fuck it and started getting raw with multiple women. Just prior to the Covid pandemic, I had sex with 9 different women in a 6 month period, all except one without a condom. I got tested after and cleaned and still not a father (I think) Why I risked so much? The feeling is so much better and the level of intensity goes th…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 01:11 AM
2	Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands? Here is my point of view. In my city, the nightlife is pretty good. Lots of beautiful women every weekend. If you put your best clothes, have energy, burned with desire and guts you can meet women. At night I have way less competition. It takes balls and skill to approach and take the girl home, thus only some guys are suitable for the task. Online I've wayyy more competition. At night I can check if the girl is really attractive or not. Online it's always a hit or miss. Or they are fat, flat as…	/r/seduction	24/08/21 07:02 PM
4	I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me. If she is a 10 what is she doing in Tinder in the first place?	/r/seduction	30/07/21 03:43 PM
2	Why exactly are you here? I love women and have a very analytical mind so I enjoy dissecting the psychology behind seduction. Is like a hobby to me. Also, I want to improve my English writing and communication so Reddit is a great place to do that. When I was a teenager I was very shy so I kinda empathize with this community. Nowadays I'm older but with more experience, an LTR of 9 years, lots of ONS, and other short-term relationships (spinning plates). But I don't consider myself a PUA or redpiller or casanova, I hones…	/r/seduction	30/07/21 03:38 PM
2	Other than being at a healthy bf% and dressing well, what can a guy do to increase attractiveness? Good and healthy teeth. Nice clothes. Own place and car. Testosterone and energy, that's super important. Hell, I dare to say that's 50% of the game.	/r/seduction	28/07/21 11:40 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yes, the same applies to money and charisma. The more you have in looks, money or charisma the less game you need. Men are superficial but women are holistic.	/r/seduction	28/07/21 11:37 PM
1	Don’t be this guy Maybe is simple but far from being easy or maybe your definition of success is another man's definition of failure. As a man your sexual options expands as your social status increases (looks, money, confidence, charisma ...). This is a given. You must continually improve this. Not easy because there is a cut-throat competition for the most beautiful and younger women. If you want to have a great relationship or sleep with several beautiful women you most became the best version of yourself and …	/r/seduction	26/07/21 12:06 PM
1	Don’t be this guy I found this sub a while back and thought it was wildly hilarious there’s an actual sub dedicated to seducing other people Many people aren't broke by still visit finance/career subs. Many people are fit but still visit r/fitness. Don't assume all guys in r/seduction are bad with women. Maybe some have ambitious sexual/relationships goals and we're men, we love to analyze stuff. But the advice on here isn’t half bad (some of it is total garbage) Be careful. Many times we're deeply attracted to w…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 11:50 AM
2	Girl said she liked me a lot, wanted to come over to me. However she often goes cold. Why? Because actions speak louder than words. Many people, especially women don't mean what they say. It's not they lie per se but their emotions get on the way and also they avoid conflict. When dealing with people observe their actions and listen to your gut feeling and things will make sense.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 06:17 PM
5	The Importance of Being Good in Bed If you've to masturbate do it without porn this way you'll feel the need to masturbate less. When you go out to meet women don't masturbate for weeks or more it'll give you the extra motivation you'll need. Porn is insidious and it is by far one of the main regrets of my 20s. It depletes you of the masculine energy that you need to win at life.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 01:23 PM
1	Do compliments work as good openers at loud bar/dance clubs? Avoid compliments. I tried this so much that I care to admit. Approach, do 90% of the talking in the first 3 minutes. Keep it simple.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 03:20 PM
5	I don‘t get clubbing. People go to bars and clubs because that is where the most attractive women are at. There is almost no other place where you are going to find that number of women, and that number of attractive women in one place. Its where you can practice your social skills and improve yourself. Agree. I don't know where you guys live but where I live if you don't go to bars and nightclubs you are missing lots of opportunities. Lots of beautiful women and is way easier to approach them. During the day is way …	/r/seduction	21/07/21 10:45 PM
1	I don‘t get clubbing. Party guy here. I used Phenibut ad nauseam for clubbing and bars and it served fairly well. How does Kava compare to Phenibut? Have you tried?	/r/seduction	21/07/21 10:40 PM
1	I don‘t get clubbing. Clubbing and bars are by far my favourite way of meeting women. I only had 4 tinder dates which 3 lead to sex but the quality is not the better and I rarely have matches and when I do they're not very attractive. Day game is out of question I just don't have the drive and is goddamn hard to me. I'm not a smooth talker. Social circle? Ya right, my first girlfriend was from my social circle and the only woman I met in my group's friend. So it leaves with nightgame. 95% of the women I meet were in …	/r/seduction	21/07/21 10:34 PM
12	Sex won’t make you happy Sex > No Sex. Don't fool yourself.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 07:07 PM