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CousinBethMM/r/seduction31/05/15 05:11 PM
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CousinBethMM/r/seduction12/07/15 07:13 PM
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Relationships are a bit like losing your virginity. A lot of people who haven't experienced that yet tend to rush into the first opportunity that comes along instead of actually taking time to find someone who they genuinely enjoy spending time with. Just take the time to get to know her and whatever happens happens. Don't force something that you might not end up wanting with her.
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:37 AM
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Ask her face to face. Just say you're going to X place on Y day and she should come. Or just flat out ask her to grab a coffee. From your post it sounds like you're putting way to much emotional value into this girl, when you're asking her just remember that if she says no, flakes or brushes you off that it's fine because you'll get other chances with other girls.
/r/seduction11/08/15 07:59 AM
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The reason I ask is because I used to have a similar problem. I found girls never seemed to meet my standards either in looks or personality or both. For me at least it turned out that I was having enough fun. I was too caught up in what people would think if they saw me with this girl to actually just step back and realise how fun it is to interact with people. Once I started learning to have fun by myself and stop taking things so seriously I found myself open to girls I would previously turn …
/r/seduction10/08/15 06:30 PM
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Do you enjoy your own company?
/r/seduction10/08/15 08:15 AM
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Well we're only going off what you've told us which is about this guy and manipulative bitch who apparently you couldn't care less about. If it keeps happening with multiple girls then it's something you're doing that's making them react that way but we can't offer suggestions because unless you explain how you're talking to/acting with these girls.
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:35 PM
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Why do you have any reason to hate a guy who's been friendzoned by a girl who you've lost interest in? As for preventing it, you just stop caring about it. These girls probably know that talking to other guys gets under your skin. The moment you stop caring that they're trying to test you, then that's the moment they stop actually testing you.
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:43 PM
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Just because they can, doesn't mean they will, start trying to connect with girls emotionally isn't of assuming that they're shallow money chasers.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:44 PM
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Start searching for X and you'll find it, ignoring Y along the way.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:40 PM
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Ah okay that makes more sense. Just do t get to hung up on the idea of a relationship just enjoy spending time with her and take it for what it is. You can always go for a coffee or milkshake before somewhere that allows for conversation where her attention is on you and not the film. Good luck man.
/r/seduction10/07/15 01:44 PM
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You don't have feelings for her but want a relationship with her? That's a recipe for disaster. Figure out if you want a relationship in general or a relationship with THIS girl. Once you know your intentions it'll be a lot easier to put them into action. But if you're hellbent on making a move then take her somewhere before or after the movie. Grab a drink, talk, kino make your intentions obvious. All though if you're going into this as friends you have to be willing to take the risk that you m…
/r/seduction10/07/15 12:40 PM
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I have no idea what this contributes to this sub, it's just a bragging post.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:02 PM
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I'd be interested in this
/r/seduction21/06/15 12:02 PM
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Don't message her on Facebook this is something I've actively had to stop myself from doing. If she's working at the store go back and talk to her. If not move on to the next girl you meet tomorrow.
/r/seduction16/06/15 06:00 PM
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Why don't you want to tell her where you live or how many girls you've met on Tinder? As long as you tell her in a confident manner and give the impression that you have no problem with the answers to those questions, then I doubt she'll have any problem with them either.
/r/seduction15/06/15 07:22 PM
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Sounds like inner-game. Work on confidence, abundance mentality, assume attraction and don't be afraid to get rejected. You sound like you've got your life in order (compared to some of the posts I've seen here). So just get out and enjoy yourself work on eye contact and body language on girls with the aim of improving them...that's your goal, not to get laid but to get used to the things you aren't good at. Getting used to these will give you a massive confidence boost regardless of what happen…
/r/seduction10/06/15 09:38 PM
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Just talk about things you're interested in. Lead the conversation and if you feel she's getting a bit distant ask her about herself.
/r/seduction02/06/15 11:00 AM
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Put a load of sleeping pills in someone's drink then when he passes out and the cabin crew ask for a doctor confidently walk up to them and tell them you need some aspirin, duct tape and a beer. Once the stranger is safely secured back in his chair you will have displayed enough value for it to be back on with the lawyer.
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:02 PM
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We were outside at this point. I leant in to kiss just as a gust of wind blew a load of her hair in her face. Luckily she rearranged her hair pretty quickly and leant in for the kiss too. On the lips not too long around 5 seconds or so then I pulled away.
/r/seduction01/06/15 05:57 PM
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I looked over the sidebar too. Read a couple of the top posts in here. For me I felt that once I realised there wasn't a script or a magic trick you can pull to make it work it was more natural and allowed me to be myself. I found the areas I thought I was weakest in (eye contact and body language) and practised that on people I talk to anyway (work and friends). From there it's just about jumping in and having fun. Don't try too hard and don't take things personally if they go off track.
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:36 AM
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From what I've read at this sub, her seeing/hearing about you with other women might be the catalyst for her to start chasing you. Good luck man.
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:54 PM
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The girl who's number I picked up a couple of weeks ago had me thinking the same thing. She had a boyfriend but was very up for going on a date with me. I struggled a bit internally before deciding I didn't want to do that to a relationship so left it how it was. I think it depends on the personal involved if you're comfortable with what you were going to do then fair enough, but there's plenty of single girls out there.
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:07 PM
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In terms of Day time approaches yes. I've talked to random girls before either at bars/clubs etc but yeah 2nd time when going with the intention of hitting on them.
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:03 PM
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