Cowboy71113 Archive

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1	"Radical Feminazi" documentary the "Invisible War" supposedly claims that women face severe discrimination in the United States military. Some people are just made for battle. In the same way a farmer finds purpose working with animals and crops, a warrior finds purpose in combat and survival. For some they simply lack better options. Plus there’s a lot of really good benefits to being in the military. No judging my dude.	/r/MensRights	04/03/24 12:26 AM
6	"Radical Feminazi" documentary the "Invisible War" supposedly claims that women face severe discrimination in the United States military. The standard exists to determine if you have the physical capability to carry someone off the battlefield among other things that concern war. You either need to be able to run X distance in X minutes, or you don’t. 2 sets of rules for that is ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	03/03/24 11:17 PM
2	Why tf are female to female compliments considered the norm, while male to male compliments are considered "gay"? Bro if you heard some of the compliments my guy friends throw at each other, oh man. Just fuck everyone else’s opinions. Tell your buddy he looks awesome and make everyone around you uncomfortable.	/r/MensRights	27/02/24 06:52 PM
7	Tradcons are worst than feminist Men are choosing to be a tradcon. Even if the reason has to do with society, it’s still his choice. Even if you disagree with it. Die on whatever hill you want, I won’t stay silent while you disgrace a man’s choice because you disagree with it.	/r/MensRights	22/02/24 02:36 PM
6	Tradcons are worst than feminist Your hate weakens the men’s rights movement and makes us no better than feminists. And for what? Because you disagree with how someone else lives their lives?	/r/MensRights	22/02/24 02:28 PM
11	Tradcons are worst than feminist Don’t be like feminists dude. Each guy should have a right to choose how he wants to live. Judging your fellow man for how he lives is no better than feminists demanding each woman work full time and judging housewives. Be better.	/r/MensRights	22/02/24 02:19 PM
1	Surprised by feminist sub? At the end of the day you have to ask yourself whatre your options? What can you actually do about people speaking out against your ideals? You’ll find that most of the time the answer is nothing. No one ever said the fight would be easy. There’s going to be resistance, you can’t expect everyone to just roll over and embrace our way of thinking. When faced with resistance I recommend stoicism. I’m sure there’s other answers but this is mine.	/r/MensRights	15/02/24 10:59 PM
1	Support from Girl No reason you can’t support both. All the same, thanks for your support	/r/MensRights	14/02/24 02:31 AM
3	Why are antisocial behaviors such as destroying a man's property, spreading rumors, or physical assault dismissed when the perpetrator is a female? This goes back to pre-feminism. The world was built for men initially, so all the laws put in place were for men and designed to hold men accountable, where is women primarily had to answer to their husbands, not to say they were exempt from the law, women just weren’t significant enough back then to be taken seriously so the law and law enforcement officials mostly ignored them. Fast forward to now and we basically act the same when it comes to responsibility and accountability, even though wom…	/r/MensRights	13/02/24 03:23 PM
1	I Think I Know Why Feminism is so Appealing to the Left Wing Germany has universal healthcare, so I’ll let you decide if that’s free healthcare or not. The whole country has not “banned free access to abortion,” abortion is illegal but there is a very large amount of subtext put into all laws in Germany to highlight unique circumstances. For example if you’ve only been pregnant for a certain amount of time (I believe it’s 6 weeks or less,) they will allow it with conditions. Germany is an extremely accountable nation, they give access to a lot of resource…	/r/MensRights	13/02/24 03:07 PM
1	I Think I Know Why Feminism is so Appealing to the Left Wing This isn’t true. It’s illegal in Germany. They have certain circumstances that make it acceptable though. For example depending on how far along they are they can get an abortion with conditions such as they’re required to get therapy afterwards among other things. My wife’s studying German law otherwise I wouldn’t know that lol. But just so we’re clear I don’t agree that abortion should be treated in a black and white manner.	/r/MensRights	13/02/24 12:02 PM
3	Does this sub believe in gender equality? I don’t think you’re too optimistic. Time heals all wounds. Might not be in our lifetime but what’s the adage? Plant the seed, so your children can enjoy the fruits of your labor?	/r/MensRights	08/02/24 04:04 PM
2	Does this sub believe in gender equality? My wife and I had this discussion yesterday, because we concluded that “equity,” has its place. For example a dislexic student needs extra help. We got into the subject because she found a post that talked about a female office worker who asked her boss for a trash can in the women’s stall so she could dispose of “feminine products,” (tampons,) in a hygienic way instead of carrying a bloody tampon from the stall to the trash can by the sink. Her boss said no because it was a waste of company mon…	/r/MensRights	08/02/24 12:23 PM
3	Does this sub believe in gender equality? I definitely do. Everyone deserves the same rights and opportunities. It’s just damn near impossible to get there it seems.	/r/MensRights	08/02/24 12:13 PM
1	How I deconstructed out of the men's rights movement Lol	/r/MensRights	08/02/24 11:13 AM
1	My Son is a Domestic Violence Victim I was in a situation like that. Thankfully my job has me traveling a lot. The first time I wasn’t around her and couldn’t reach her was a big help. It might sound silly but the distance gave me a lot of clarity. I told her why I was leaving, let her spew out all of her rage, then broke it off and informed her that she’d be blocked because I needed space. My honest advice is to take your son on a “mother son trip.” The reason you’ll want it phrased that way, is because even if she sees you as a t…	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 06:31 PM
2	Am I less of a man for crying? Cry if you need to, screw everyone else’s opinion, cryings normal. As for not fighting meaning you’re a coward, it doesn’t, it just means you don’t like fighting. If you want to join the military, join the Air Force, they’re closer to a business than the other branches, you could join as a medical specialist, or even end up working in the dining facility, either way not every job demands you to be a traditional “warrior,” type. There’s military subreddits out there you can ask more about it on, …	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 10:44 AM
1	How many people here believe that woman were opressed? To be clear 1st wave feminism believed men and women were both systematically oppressed. That being said the initial goal was to get women equal rights, (voting, working, etc.) in that regard they were oppressed, they could not work or vote and that’s a choice I believe everyone should be allowed to make. Somewhere along the way I believe largely during 3rd wave feminism, they stopped believing men were victims of an oppressive system. I believe this was also the beginning of the end of feminism…	/r/MensRights	31/01/24 01:08 PM
2	Should MRAs acknowledge and call out a$$hole behaviour by other men and boys? I’m active in mra and this community. I’m somewhat moderate on most issues. That being said, I 100% call out toxic behaviors from all of my friends. I had a friend who I found out was cheating and I tore him a new one and he apologized. I had a friend who had poor taste in women and went through some messed up stuff, he started to hate women and drink a lot, I told him I preferred him sober and talked about my wife a lot until he realized good women do exist. I know I’m not the only man who does…	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 04:49 PM
1	Have any of you seen a female therapist before? If so what was your experience like? I’ve seen a couple, tbh I preferred them to male therapists, I’ve got a lot of shit I need to sort through, I never really needed solutions, mostly I needed to vent and get perspective, between the 4 therapists I’ve seen 2 were men and 2 were women. The men offered solutions and the women listened and offered perspective. So far the female therapists were what I needed. Not to say male therapists won’t do this, it just hasn’t been my experience so far.	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 04:43 PM
6	Something that alot of people on this sub need to hear I think most of the people on this sub have heard that. I think we’re worn down, tired and silenced by our feminist counterparts on a frequent basis, so our responses stem from our experiences. That being said I think both movements could benefit from temperance, and I fear that if the people who speak on men’s rights don’t learn to temper themselves we’ll become the very people we hate. I think that’s what you’re trying to say, and if it is, I think you should share this sentiment with the femi…	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 04:35 PM
1	Marriage... If this isn’t a downer I don’t know what is lol. I don’t even know what to do with this adage. When you find the right person all I have to say is you don’t fixate on the divorce you live happily in the present and do everything you can to make sure it never ends.	/r/MensRights	29/01/24 10:20 AM
4	How do you cope with misandry? I stick to my “pack,” mostly. I ignore a lot of the noise from the internet and the people around me, and just focus on what makes me happy. For a long time I simply couldn’t ignore it. Just keep working on yourself, once I met my wife, and started doing things I enjoyed, built a decent social circle, I sort of just stopped caring. I didn’t even notice it, one day I was simply more content and at peace. It was a hard and exhausting journey, but it got better with time.	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 08:13 PM
1	Marriage... Lol she’d say the same 😁.	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 08:38 PM
9	Marriage... Lol yeah life’s thrown more than a few bricks at my head for no reason, but when it came to her I feel genuinely lucky.	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 05:33 PM
26	Marriage... For me I found a woman who made me happy and I wanted someone to love me. Finding the right person was a long journey, but once I found her life became better. We play video games together, watch movies, go on walks, discuss problems (mra, feminism, and others.) honestly I married my best friend. The key is not to settle, know what you’re looking for, and be deliberate in searching for her. I wanted a girl that I found attractive, who was easy and fun to talk to, and who would cook for me. I nev…	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 05:29 PM
1	How politically united is the Men's Rights Movement? I’d be willing to cooperate with feminists with conflicting ideologies if they gave a damn about equality. Honestly I don’t want to fight a fight to screw anyone over though. I’d rather fight a fight to help people as a whole, both men and women. Honestly it’s shocking to me that the men’s rights movement and feminism aren’t allies.	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 10:40 AM
20	Why are South Korean women exempt from millitary service ? South Korean women do adopt more of a traditional gender role. Out of all the countries I’ve been in, American women have the strongest stance against traditional gender roles, the rest are more content with them. Honestly if we get into world war 3, it’s going to be genuinely insane how quickly everyone falls back into traditional gender roles. And the overwhelming weight of reality in that moment is going to humble a lot of people really fast. The only ones it might not is American women and t…	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 10:36 AM
4	Surprised by feminist sub? Lmao some of them might be depending on how you define feminist 😂	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 11:33 PM
9	Surprised by feminist sub? Honestly I mostly ignore them. There’s still plenty of horrible people out there, but there’s some good ones too.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 11:33 PM
34	Surprised by feminist sub? I think the strongest and loudest voices in most movements are extremely negative. I think right now 80% of women don’t want to identify as feminists. I think we’re a lot closer to both genders giving a damn about each other than people may realize.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 07:47 PM
2	What are some examples of female entitlement? No unfortunately not, pretty sure I heard about it in a Reddit thread. I assumed it was a pretty common practice, I mean research takes funding, sometimes government, sometimes private party. If it’s private party, and the hypothesis of the individual funding it gets disproven then the research discredits their agenda, so it doesn’t get published.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 04:52 PM
49	Gen Z and trad wives Pretty much the same as yours, more girls from gen z just don’t feel like being at a job all the time. They’d rather find a partner they trust to provide for them. It’s a choice everyone should be allowed to make.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 03:47 PM
2	MRAs use misleading statistics lol I know I’m torn tbh 😂. Should people like this really have a platform? It’s a tough call tbh.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 03:36 PM
1	MRAs use misleading statistics Let’s upvote the shit out of this idiot and make em famous for this ignorant garbage 😂	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 03:22 PM
9	MRAs use misleading statistics To be clear people living a life of crime are often victims of a broken past. Completely random attacks are extremely uncommon also, so quoting that statistic is also misleading. Fun fact quoting any statistic at all is completely misleading. The commonly advertised gender pay gap is a misleading statistic, because it uses the uncontrolled metric which doesn’t properly measure what’s often being described, it’s a better determination for which gender holds higher paying positions in jobs, where …	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 02:48 PM
6	What are some examples of female entitlement? That’s not entirely true, I heard there was a study on narcissism that found an overwhelming number of women have strong narcissistic tendencies, but it got thrown out so the results weren’t made public.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 12:42 PM
19	What are some examples of female entitlement? I had a coworker who wanted to get paid for doing nothing, those were her exact words to be clear. Now at first I laughed it off and said “who wouldn’t?” That was until her supervisor started giving her tasks and she’d have a full blown panic attack then run to his boss and tell him that he was bullying her. It didn’t take long before she accused him of sexual harassment, she was pretty so most of the people we worked with just blindly believed her, turned the guys life upside down. It resulted …	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 10:12 AM
1	Why isn't false-accusations punished, even though it is perjury? Because innocence until proven guilty dictates the burden of proof falls on the victim of the crime. It’s extremely difficult someone deliberately tried to screw you over via false accusations.	/r/MensRights	25/01/24 01:59 PM
1	Posting in good faith and an effort to understand: So first of all, facts and statistics are tricky in an emotional setting. A men’s rights group is an emotional setting, we’re angry due to certain injustices they’ve faced. Second of all men went through a pretty hardcore identity crisis lately due to the whole “toxic masculinity,” thing. See by reducing the issue down to a cute 2 word statement, the issue became vague, men felt as though masculinity itself was being called toxic, this was true for a lot of us, because feminists were using the t…	/r/MensRights	25/01/24 12:28 AM
1	Posting in good faith and an effort to understand: 1: I don’t think anything’s this black and white. Life’s too circumstantial to create this outcome. My wife and I have discussed this and have our own plan in the horrible outcome we prefer not to talk about so this issues not really a thing for me. 2: I’d rather child support be determined based on a minimum cost of living standard and adjusted according to need. For example if a the minimum standard cost of living for a child is 600 a month and the mother can only afford 400 but has more contr…	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 08:26 PM
5	What are your thoughts on paternity leave? I think after giving birth women should get 3 months maternity leave to recover from their injuries, then I think there should be 1 year parental leave at the parents discretion, they can divide the time however they want. Either one stays home the whole year, 6 months for one and 6 months for the other, or whatever.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 06:22 PM
1	Army dentist who sent revenge porn of an SAS hero to his new girlfriend from the Cadbury chocolate family faces jail after admitting sending indecent images Got some clarity from another comment that this wasn’t in the USA. But just to be clear it’s not an exaggeration lol. There’s an actual rule in the UCMJ that says you can only have missionary sex. It’s punishable by 25 years to life in prison. So is being late to a dentist appointment 🤷🏼‍♂️.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 05:26 PM
1	How Would You Balance Feminism And Men's Rights? I think equality is achievable, but I think equity is what feminism aims at right now. I’m not a fan of equity because it can quickly turn into entitlement. Everyone feels they should be at the top, but didn’t put in the same work as the person who made it, so they assume it was because of some kind of injustice. So to me men’s rights movements should be pushing back against “equity,” and aspiring for equality. Laws that support equity are largely the problem from my perspective.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 05:01 PM
3	Abortion and Men’s Rights I couldn’t agree more, I think feminism was supposed to be about giving women the same rights as men, but it turned into a movement dedicated to new gender roles among other things. They often times speak out against women who want to be stay at home wives/moms. My wife’s a stay at home wife at the moment and will probably be a stay at home mom whenever we have kids. She enjoys taking care of me, and I don’t abuse her trust and take care of her too. At the end of the day though we’re happy, so s…	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 03:07 PM
4	Army dentist who sent revenge porn of an SAS hero to his new girlfriend from the Cadbury chocolate family faces jail after admitting sending indecent images Oh thanks man, I didn’t even see that.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 02:16 PM
2	Army dentist who sent revenge porn of an SAS hero to his new girlfriend from the Cadbury chocolate family faces jail after admitting sending indecent images In the military absolutely. The articles in the UCMJ can get you for a lot of things. Military members aren’t legally allowed to have sex in positions other than missionary. It’s an extremely strict set of rules that’s technically impossible to adhere to. They can get you arrested for almost anything if they don’t like you 🤷🏼‍♂️.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:58 PM
2	Abortion and Men’s Rights Anytime! I’m curious how feminism has made your life worse. I have my own thoughts on it, but those are based mostly on my own experiences. So I’m wondering if yours are different?	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:47 PM
1	Army dentist who sent revenge porn of an SAS hero to his new girlfriend from the Cadbury chocolate family faces jail after admitting sending indecent images Military adheres to UCMJ. They have an entirely different legal system.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:44 PM
9	Abortion and Men’s Rights I personally would not want a child to be raised without both parents. Coming from a broken home I know all too well how much worse off a child is with only 1 parent. That being said life has never once been fair to me, I don’t expect it to be, I make decisions and live with the consequences, that’s why I try and be careful what I stick my dick in 🤷🏼‍♂️😂. Either way, I’m all about more freedom to the people. Women who get abortions usually endure severe psychological stress afterwards and rarely…	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:38 PM
12	"Margot and Greta making a billion dollar movie but Ryan getting nominated is exactly the point the Barbie movie was trying to make" Lmao none at all, getting people to change their ways has always seemed like a waste of energy to me 😜	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:23 PM
28	"Margot and Greta making a billion dollar movie but Ryan getting nominated is exactly the point the Barbie movie was trying to make" No idea who told these women life would be fair. Life’s not fair, never has been and never will be. That being said, I didn’t see that movie it sounded awful, but everyone I know who did, (male and female,) love Ryan gosling in it, I didn’t even know Margot and Greta were in the movie because no one talked to me about them 🤷🏼‍♂️.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 10:22 AM
2	Would I be losing female privileges? What types of female privileges would I be losing?? (FTM Trans Male) Master your emotions asap, contrary to popular belief you cannot express anger anymore.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 10:18 AM
11	I think men rights movement is useless! The feminist movement didn’t accomplish anything until enough people were on board. Think about what’s going on in a lot of Western European countries. Take Germany for example, the lawmakers tried to pass a bill to tax farmers more. Farmers didn’t like this so they protested, (the adult version of complaining,) now half the country is literally outside city hall with pitchforks and torches complaining. They’re doing this to put pressure on their lawmakers to make changes. So to be clear, we the…	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 10:09 AM
5	Men are opting out. Well I was stationed in Germany and swiped right on mine, had no intention of it being serious, it just happened. Just keep doing you bro, your unicorns out there, you’ll find her when you’re not looking probably 👌🏻. Fuck I miss hiking in Europe, and Scotland? I’ve never been but I’ve seen photos and you’ve got a goldmine for nature out there bro! Smart on deleting social media, that happens to me too man, life’s not gonna be constant happy or content, gotta learn to live with the lows. Just do …	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 03:41 PM
7	Reddit makes me angry sometimes When I’m not frustrated yet, but someone’s testing me, I just say, “fuck em,” and ignore it. Once I’m already pissed I just poke the bear. Not sure if I’d recommend the latter, but the first ones good advice.	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 03:30 PM
9	Men are opting out. Not alone at all, I’m right there with you, I even found a wife who’s the same way, so now we are both opting out of society. There’s 2 worlds that I see. My world, and society’s world. My world’s pretty chill, lots of snacks and gaming and laughing, and unfortunately I go to work but no world can be perfect. Then there’s society’s world, and that place is just the worst. Do you man, you’re winning as far as I’m concerned 👌🏻	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 03:26 PM
1	Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against? I mean it’s partially that, but to be clear the majority of the 1% is men, and the 1% holds 90% of the current world’s money, but all of that’s a whole different issue. Regardless, yeah people don’t like to be proven wrong.	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 12:21 PM
4	Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against? I recently learned about this too! Weird, yeah couldn’t agree more. It’s deliberately misleading. I just tell everyone about it. When a woman says “women make 82 cents to the dollar,” I simply say that isn’t true, they get upset google it and show me, then I show them the controlled/uncontrolled pay gap and they get disgruntled and say they’ll have to look into that more. Then I never hear from them about it again and I couldn’t be happier for that.	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 11:52 AM
6	Quick question, was I raped? This is a tough question. Personally I like when my wife does this. I can think of a few other guys who do too. I don’t mind being “seduced,” often times I only want sex if my wife wants sex. So based on my own experiences and bias’ I’d say no. However you should set firm boundaries with future partners, make sure they know if youre not ok with something. If you encounter something like this again just have a respectful conversation with your partner where you tell them you didn’t like that. But…	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 11:47 AM
19	I got my ex girlfriend arrested for attacking me would she be deported from Australia? I’m going to focus primarily on one part of your post, the fact that you still want the best from her. This is a very decent mindset. If you truly want the best for her you’ll let her deal with this completely on her own and be held accountable to the fullest extent. If you try to help her she’ll learn nothing and continue down this violent and explosive path she’s on, and if she’s not doing it to you she’ll do it to someone else. As someone who’s been in a few extremely toxic relationships, har…	/r/MensRights	07/01/24 11:23 AM
65	If we were able to somehow get all men on board, what are the things, that if we all started doing them, would combat male loneliness? It’s a tough one for sure. I think guys hanging out with each other would help a lot. Normalizing the idea of running errands with each other since the regular hustle and bustle of life makes it difficult to find time to do things with friends. Gotta go grocery shopping? Hey so does your buddy. Need to go to the bank, grab your boy. I think that would help a little. I can’t really think of a cure for loneliness other than friendship or a relationship though 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 04:31 PM
1	What society might be better for relationships? I think you might have misread my message. I’m not lonely, engaging in conversations with people ensures I don’t get lonely, I’m comfortable talking to people that’s all. That being said I did prefer germans to Americans, I found them to be more straight forward and authentic. I agree though that the strong walking community, closely built villages/cities and options such as “pedestrian only zones,” make Germany a more comfortable place to live and avoid loneliness. And yeah I honestly hate the …	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 03:09 AM
1	One thing that doesn’t make sense with the Gypsy Rose case Because he did the actual killing he got the harsher sentence, plus he had a worse lawyer and he’s a dude. In terms of the law, it makes sense. In terms of right and wrong that’s a whole different conversation. My personal beliefs are neither of them should be in jail. I have no remorse for gypsy rose’s mother, if she didn’t want to get killed she shouldn’t have abused her power and ruined someone’s life. If I’m being honest I think the fact that either of them are in jail is a joke.	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 08:00 PM
2	What society might be better for relationships? My bad I just realized I didn’t really answer your question. I’m not lonesome but that’s because I don’t have a hard time starting conversations with strangers. I go to restaurants ask the person behind the counter how their days going so far and actually want to know. I do this with everyone and it helps me feel closer to people. So I don’t have any practical or helpful input to the loneliness problem other than focus on yourself and how you can combat loneliness.	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 04:30 PM
1	What society might be better for relationships? I can only speak from my experiences, but I considered Germans as a whole to be very grounded, practical, fair, and efficient. For example the autobahn: the left lane is exclusively for passing, if someone drives up behind you and you don’t move they’ll flash their brights. If you still don’t move they’ll honk. And if you still don’t move you can safely count on the fact that 3 or 4 other cars will start cutting you off and honking their horns, basically trying to kill you so that you understand…	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 04:24 PM
8	What society might be better for relationships? I lived in Germany for a while and really liked it. My wife’s from there so I plan on moving there a few years from now. I recommend traveling, plane tickets to Europe from the USA (not sure if that’s where you’re from,) are very affordable. There are places and governments out there that prioritize these things. My bigger frustration is that I feel like my own country is beyond redemption so there’s no point even trying to fix it. Hope this helps.	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 10:11 AM
10	'Disney's biggest flop yet': Star Wars fans say female-led next installment is destined to fail after 2015 comments from feminist director said her goal 'is to make men uncomfortable' Can you even imagine if a man had said this? 😂	/r/MensRights	04/01/24 03:39 PM
7	A question about responding to public SA claims Because they’re treated as victims before a verdict is reached, if you’re innocent of the crime or not doesn’t matter to the general public, they want to make the “victim,” feel supported, it makes sense if someone actually was a victim of a horrific crime. It’s one of those extremely unfortunate realities of life, pick your injustice, an actual rape victim is accused of being a liar and a snake, or a girl cries wolf and everyone jumps to her defense at the expense of the actual victim, there’s …	/r/MensRights	03/01/24 07:30 PM
6	I can't cry I can relate, there’s a lot of pressure to cry when it seems appropriate, I wouldn’t worry too much about it. When the time comes if you need to you will. Unique circumstances have pushed me to tears, but I usually need to be alone to do it. Don’t put so much pressure on it though, there’s nothing wrong with you, you just aren’t a big cryer, and that’s ok.	/r/MensRights	03/01/24 07:26 PM
2	False accusation Trust me, I get it. Focus on what you can control, and if you’ve already done everything you can, just do things that make you happy. When I was accused I played video games, read books, watched shows, went to the gym, anything to keep myself busy. Physical exhaustion makes sleep come easy, might be a good time to develop a serious gym habit. This won’t be easy, and when it’s done the anger will still be there no matter the outcome. Seek out ways you can be helpful if the anger lingers (like Red…	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 12:46 AM
5	False accusation I was falsely accused of harassment, I have a sense of what you’re going through. It’s hard, keep your head down, try to keep your emotions in check, and do not approach her under any conditions. Get a lawyer and don’t talk to anyone. This sort of thing can really mess you up. I thankfully have a job that moves me around a lot so I was able to move to a different state. You’re 16 so it’s not gonna be that easy, but I promise there’s hope for the future, just stay strong. Feel free to message me …	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 12:20 AM
2	Any books on rhetoric and gaining social momentum ? “How to make friends and influence people.” Good read whatever your goal is.	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 12:00 AM
1	Where do you guys see the future of men heading? Oddly optimistic. I compared the number of followers on this subreddit compared to the feminism subreddit and was pleasantly surprised to see this subreddit had more followers. More and more people are becoming aware of the issues men face, I don’t think politically or publicly it’s going to improve, but I think there’s a good chance that the bulk of the people on here will teach their kids about the hardships men deal with and as a result the long term future will be better. Sadly I don’t think…	/r/MensRights	31/12/23 10:01 PM
1	Do You Feel Obligated To Protect Women As Men? It’s a messed up world for sure when that’s a risk you take when you protect someone. But like I said it’s just an instinct for me. Maybe it’ll be different if I ever do get in trouble for trying. Regardless man or woman, if someone’s in danger I’ve always intervened. As I’ve gotten older I’ve made a deeper effort to keep my head down though. My wife helps with that too. Just to be clear I do not consider this to be the duty of men or some intense philosophy, it’s just how I’m wired.	/r/MensRights	31/12/23 09:54 PM
0	Do You Feel Obligated To Protect Women As Men? When I see someone in danger I just step in, I don’t really have a reason, anytime it’s happened, I did it on instinct.	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 12:45 AM