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| 2 | Is being shy and awkward the most unattractive trait?I've been working on myself socially for the past 2 years but I still realize I'm still so behind everyone else. IMO there's an "enlightment" moment in social skills development where you realize that you can't be "behind" other people because social skills are not a contest or a race. Social skills are about extending compassion to other people and helping people feel comfortable (contrary to what TRP teaches); that's it. I think a lot of the time shy men observe that women feel uncomfortable a… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I fucking hate myselfno worries at all, I just thought it was funny. (it's been a long time so not a sensitive topic at all). | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/26 11:47 AM |
| 3 | I fucking hate myselfI try to get them so lukewarmly that a third party might think I have a single testicle. Testicular cancer survivors like me taking strays! What did I ever do to you lol Look, being 20 is not easy. By posting here you suggest that you want to be "ex-red-pill" which involves showing compassion to others; I think you should actually start by extending compassion to yourself. Learning and practicing meditation is something that helped me a lot when I was dealing with those aggressive feelings, that… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/26 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men.I think it's just extremely difficult in general to be a member of a gender that you are not born into. I know I would not want to be a man if I had not been raised as one. There is SO MUCH subtle signalling, body language indicating humor, territoriality, respect, and anger/violence, that ladies do not always get taught about. I know from talking to trans women that it is extremely difficult to live as a lady without being raised to do so, too. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)massive amount of information, data, and evidence Your personal anecdotes do not nullify the volumes of data suggesting so. As if any data had been presented or would be heeded if not exactly confirming your presuppositions. What an absolute joke the arguments here are. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 08:01 PM |
| -1 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)Please take this as a response to both your replies to me. To deny that feminism is anti-male is naive at best, dishonest at worst. Of course you are right in that some feminists are anti-male. I'm not required to defend them just because I am a feminist; those people are obviously terrible. I will say, however, that my experience of feminists shows them to be substantially more rational and less reactionary overall (the ones in real life, not the ones you see reposted again and again on TIA) th… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 05:12 PM |
| -2 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)oh bless your heart. reading game not strong. good night | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)Probably more representative, since this subreddit is MRA's representation of itself, whereas TIA is a selective representation of internet-tumblr-social-justice folks that exists for the purpose of mocking them. Interesting question, why do you ask? Edit: I'd say that a more fair comparison would probably be /r/shitredditsays, which I'm not sure if it's still around or not. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 12:50 AM |
| -3 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)You're only talking to yourself here, man. Even if I wanted to work my way through your reasoning and respond, I would no longer be able to do so. I've been responding to responses from this thread all day and I'm the first to admit that their thoughtlessness and hostility exhaust me. About one poster in 20 here has had something meaningful to discuss; the rest has been all name-calling. You might or might not have something to say, but you obviously can't be bothered to be polite about it, so y… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 12:46 AM |
| -3 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I meant in person. Of course there is name-flinging on both sides if you're going to cherry-pick the worst of the bunch (which is the beginning and end of the interest that anyone here has taken in feminism). The feminists whom I have met in real life have been well-spoken, cultured, and kind. Of course, if all you know about the movement comes from what you read on /r/tumblrinaction and /r/mensrights, then naturally you would have a different experience. You, by comparison, still can't stop ins… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)His comment has been edited from its original, which did contain more name-calling than it currently does. Although it still isn't at zero name-calling; he imagines some teacher of mine and calls her a "dumb bitch" for believing in a feminism which is about equality. Clearly this doesn't make me a victim, just as you say. I am just making observations about both the level, and the tone, of discussion in this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 10:58 PM |
| -3 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)Thanks for your examples; it's clear that this issue is important to you, and I will try to take a look at those stories later on. As for my repeating that, I was just getting a lot of versions of the same reply over and over again, and I wanted to clear up the misconception that I was No True Scotsmaning. It's kind of funny how many people believe that the first step towards learning how to argue is memorizing a long list of logical fallacies from wiki, and then throwing them out as often as po… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 08:51 PM |
| -15 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)"As a feminist who picks some part of my religion to follow while burying my head in the sand about other parts" I am not the one whose eyes are closed to the broader dialog and the history of this conversation. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 07:01 PM |
| -5 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)Fair enough. My point is that it doesn't speak well for this subreddit's community when this is one of the most upvoted responses to me. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 05:19 PM |
| -7 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I encourage you to say, "I think MRAs should be allowed to hold meetings and speak" in a feminist space. Report back if you get some widespread agreement. You made me smile, and I see your point, but while you're right that sometimes feminists (like anyone else) can be rude, I've never heard been called retarded by one. Yet here I am, posting from an egalitarian and feminist position in a "mens rights" space, and I've been called all kinds of things just for existing, so what does that say about… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:57 PM |
| -24 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I would respond to all of the points that you raised, but you're a child who flings names at people. However, one point: feminism (the version of it that I ascribe to, I mean, I'm not talking about the whackos that anyone is able to immediately drudge up from Tumblr) is not against men; it is for women. You should be able to understand that there is a difference. You shouldn't see the statuses of the two genders as a contest or zero-sum game; you should see it as a massive system with bugs (exam… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:42 PM |
| -8 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I am an egalitarian too. If feminism meant that I could no longer be an egalitarian, then I would no longer want to be a feminist, but it has never seemed to me to mean that, even in this day and age. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:16 PM |
| -7 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)Copy-pasted from a response to a comment making the same complaint, I didn't say they weren't feminists; I said they weren't the same kind of feminist that I am. Copy-pasted from a response to a comment making the same complaint, I didn't say they weren't feminists; I said they weren't the same kind of feminist that I am. The fact that you still feel the need to resort to name-calling just shows that you are the one who is not asking or answering these questions seriously. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:14 PM |
| -3 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I didn't say they weren't feminists; I said they weren't the same kind of feminist that I am. Copy-pasted from a response to a comment making the same complaint, I didn't say they weren't feminists; I said they weren't the same kind of feminist that I am. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:13 PM |
| -8 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I didn't say they weren't feminists; I said they weren't the same kind of feminist that I am. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 04:13 PM |
| -45 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)"A feminism with values or priorities that I would agree with," is what I mean to say. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 01:50 PM |
| -83 | Feminists interrupt a Canadian Associaton For Equality meeting multie times, chanting "we don't care what you have to say" (go to 8:40)I am a male feminist, but what's depicted here doesn't resemble my feminism. Are you so small that I have to be retarded if we don't agree on everything? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 01:40 PM |
| 3 | CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men."the salaries are probably not fair to start with. I'm curious, but Glassdoor doesn't have much - the only reported salary is from one front-end dev who makes between $143k and $156k. Sounds about right for SFO, depending on the person's experience? There are also a few interesting reviews, which report a pleasant environment with brilliant people, but an erratic and secretive management team, and both report that it's not unusual for "one day, your teammate [to] just disappear with little to no … | /r/MensRights | 06/04/15 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Possibly the worst possible concocted evidence for male privilege.A bit off topic, but the term "trigger warning" has officially lost all meaning. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/12 07:56 PM |
| 5 | One thing that bothers me most.To be fair, a large majority of violent crimes are indeed committed by men. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 09:42 PM |
| 37 | If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace.Testosterone is a hell of a drug. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/11 05:51 PM |
| 29 | Why You Probably Won't Get Stabbed or Raped if You Go Up the River.I've never been to prison, but the reading I've done suggests that it depends entirely on what prison you go to. Some prisons are wretched hives of gangs, race war and villany, and others are nicer than some college dormitories. Every time a prison post comes up, redditors jump in to say "I've been to prison and this is the truth about what it's like..." The consensus, though, seems to be that there are many different truths as there are prisons. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/10 06:08 PM |
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