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FDS HUMORCowgirlMolly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:51 PM
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FDS is a much better dating framework. Women don’t have a place of privilege in the dating world. Stop being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:14 PM
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If only men would just break up with women instead of trying to coerce us into sex. They go on and on about how sexual compatibility is important but when a woman proves sexually incompatible by saying no, they still try to coerce her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:47 AM
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I experience learned helplessness over my child’s autism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:13 AM
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I’d say FDS has greatly improved my opinion of men. Prior to FDS, I believed there was no such thing as a HVM, I believed all men nowadays had some fatal flaw that made them undateable and unmarriable. Mainly, I didn’t believe there were truly any men left who didn’t watch porn or cheat or play video games. I didn’t believe there were any men left who wouldn’t try to anally rape me, cum on my face or hit me. I didn’t believe there existed men who wouldn’t try to undermine me when I was doing wel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:46 AM
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“I have an avoidant attachment style” is just a line. Men have co-opted the language of psychology and weaponized it for their own benefit because they know women take an interest in psychology. Men also use that line because they want to trick women into believing they have insight and have spent time working on themselves. You can avoid falling for this line by simply being careful to judge a man by his actions, not by his words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:46 AM
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I deliberately chose to be a single mom, and the relationship you will have with your child is a million times more rewarding, loving and valuable than any relationship you could have with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:04 AM
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I hope she leaves before the baby is born. It would be so much better for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:57 AM
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Did your uterus get externalized during your C-section? Through the curtain, I saw this pink thing flipped out of my body and when I asked what it was after, I found out it was my uterus! 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:55 AM
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I want to know where this guy comes from because I legitimately don’t know any adult men who are like “ew breastfeeding!” because it’s normalized where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:51 AM
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He doesn’t see her as an individual, he just projects his stereotype of what a woman is and how she should function onto her, and he expects everything she does to benefit him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:48 AM
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I have it too. I live in a part of Canada where it’s brutally hot in the summer but brutally cold in the winter. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:47 AM
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And they vomit on the cat....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:44 AM
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What a total piece of shit. This is why vetting is so important. You just “this stuff is gory,” is going to turn into “diapers are gory,” “vomit is gory,” and “drool is gory,” and that she’ll be doing all the work. I’d love to give him a NoseFrida and see his reaction. I also have to say I really look down on men who can’t handle female bodily functions as cowards. They’re definitely not HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:43 AM
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It’s disrespectful even when not in a relationship because porn is degrading to women and most women in porn are trafficked, tricked, coerced or poor. It’s mass rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:21 AM
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Ooh! That’s fantastic! I would like to get my own kiln as well but I need to investigate the issue of running an exhaust to the outside. I’m thinking my next purchase might be a Giffin Grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:21 PM
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Really? Men will really put their dick in anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:04 PM
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Inexperienced men can finish faster too because they haven’t learned how to control the timing of their orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:04 PM
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“Accidentally”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:03 PM
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I hope nostril kink doesn’t really exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:02 PM
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I suspect he’s making sex feel like a chore for you because he doesn’t want you to enjoy it. He wants you to feel controlled and unhappy. Have you read Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do That”? I think it would be really helpful for you. I have ADHD and PTSD and my ex used to work me up specifically to try to get me hospitalized so he could paint me as crazy and him as the benevolent caretaker. I suspect your husband is doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:44 AM
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Just like how baby formula is locked up to deter women from buying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:44 AM
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I have absolutely been in this situation. He doesn’t want her but he doesn’t want anyone else to have her. He likes the emotional support. I bet she’s more intelligent and accomplished than him and that’s one of the reasons he doesn’t want her. He feels lesser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:43 AM
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ED? Do you mean eating disorder or erectile dysfunction?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:38 AM
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I’d get a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:33 AM
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Pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:34 PM
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If sexual frustration is so common, we should force sexually frustrated men to be chemically castrated for the sake of the good of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:09 PM
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This man is not psychologically well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:06 PM
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Yes, call the school, call local media, make fliers about how it’s rape culture and hand them out to the girls at that school. Encourage them to boycott prom. Go to whatever lengths you want to go to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:52 PM
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This is exactly how I feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:49 PM
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The eroscillator is also a good vibrator. It moves from side to side rather than vibrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:46 PM
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Likewise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:38 AM
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I do pottery too! So excited to find another potter here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:57 AM
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My NVX was jealous I had a good career used to constantly “make jokes” about me sleeping my way to my position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:18 PM
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Men in the 90s were more involved dads than their fathers or grandfathers. I think Millennial men are much worse fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:16 PM
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Population reduction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:07 PM
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The one-child policy was meant to reduce the population and that it has!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:05 PM
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Porn addiction is really no different than any other addiction. My NVX was addicted to alcohol and porn and cocaine—in fact he’d take any drug he could get his hands on—and the behaviours he engaged in to access porn and drugs/alcohol were the same: lying, deceiving, ignoring his responsibilities and commitments, staying up all night to consume porn, stealing, becoming defensive. I knew I needed help to get out of the relationship because I became codependent so I started going to Al-Anon and Na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:26 PM
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I don’t think they’re too scared to be vulnerable but rather their sense of entitlement is through the roof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:15 PM
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My NVX used my having PTSD as an excuse for everything he did, including watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:11 PM
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Porn is a real societal ill, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:10 PM
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A man who complains about a woman’s natural hair is a pornsick man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:03 PM
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When I was in middle school, the most attractive girls were the ones with perms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:53 PM
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That’s the best speech I’ve ever heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:22 PM
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Walking away when someone is yelling at you is not stonewalling. You’re protecting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:04 PM
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Oh my God, the ego....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:54 PM
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jUsT gO tO a SeX wOrKeR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:49 PM
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Men’s aspirations involve porn, video games and eating unhealthy food to show they’re not “gay.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:43 PM
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I love being a single mum. I get to make all the decisions without male input, which is why I chose to be a single mum. I could have had an abortion but instead I chose to leave a NVM and have the baby on my own because I had enough family support and financial security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:41 PM
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That’s right, the average guy is NOT good enough for me because average men are not high-value. They’re pornsick, low-effort, entitled losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:38 PM
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That is weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:44 PM
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Or how they’re arguing because he wants to transition their kids from a crib to a nest instead of a bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:43 PM
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I have a mentally disabled child and I don’t want incels using up resources meant for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:41 PM
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Occupational therapist. Psychiatrist. Honestly, this man has some problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:40 PM
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Abusers will definitely deliberately display red flags if they believe they will work to get you under their control. For example, when men show anger, they aren’t really angry, they’re purposely showing aggression to intimidate you into shutting up, they just believe you’re going to let it slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:24 PM
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That’s happened with my brother but not my father. Yikes. Awful, I’m sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:17 PM
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I did once and he was a disaster. So abusive. Resented me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:10 PM
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I truly don’t believe that men forget birthdays or anniversaries. I rather believe they deliberately choose not to observe them as a deliberate tactic to lower women’s self-esteem. Or he won’t celebrate them with her but will with his friends and family in order to isolate her. My NVX didn’t celebrate holidays, he claimed he didn’t believe in them. He’d often disappear around those times and refuse to tell me where he had been, or he’d say he was staying home. Then I learned he was celebrating t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:42 PM
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That’s what I do too. They’re going to call me crazy no matter what so I refuse to play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:05 PM
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Men use their children as shields like that. It’s sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:02 PM
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He probably refers to his wife as his “relationship” when he has to admit being in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:00 PM
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I want to start a domestic violence database for my city by watching domestic violence court or bail court all day and cataloging all the men into a searchable online database called “Alleged Perpetrators of Domestic Violence of (insert my city name).” It would have their name, birthdate, any details of the alleged crime that are publishable, whether they made bail, whatever other info I can legally publish. I haven’t done it because I don’t know how to build it, and I’d need volunteers unless w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:58 PM
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You ought to turn it into a story book for little girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:45 PM
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I did that once and it was even worse, he kept going soft and rewinding back to one part so he’d get hard again. It was demoralizing, I just felt like a stage prop, there was no “watching together,” it was him watching and I was expected to emulate her and her responses. There ended up being a pretty degrading scene with him cumming on her face, which I had never allowed before and never will again, and he could ultimately only manage to release a tiny bit of clear liquid. I almost wonder if it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:42 PM
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If you have to use porn to get aroused for your partner, you are not attracted to him. If he has to use porn to get it up for you, he is not attracted to you. If you can’t get aroused AT ALL without porn, you need to abstain from porn and get therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:26 PM
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Likewise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:39 PM
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🎶 one bad apple don’t spoil the whole bunch girl 🎶 Sounds a lot like “not all men.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:30 AM
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When he says bald does he mean his balls? 🤮 Don’t respond. Ignore, block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:10 AM
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I never have compromised my child’s safety for a man. I left my NVX before he learned I was pregnant, moved away because I had “fuck off” money, haven’t entertained a man since and can’t imagine doing so again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:01 AM
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I have totally developed an avoidant attachment style with men. You know what, though? I hate this talk of “attachment styles.” It’s victim blaming. I can form secure attachments with women because I have had largely and consistently had good experiences with women and have found female friendships to be reciprocal and respectful. Not so with men. When I started dating in my 20s, I certainly didn’t start out being avoidant, anxious and insecure. Nor did I subconsciously seek out men who were, ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:48 PM
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Labeling people with stereotypes can definitely result in them behaving in ways to confirm those stereotypes but it doesn’t completely override one’s sense of right and wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:44 PM
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Definitely more about misogyny than race. I came to that conclusion because I think it’s more likely white women would be victims of a similar crime than Asian men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:41 PM
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How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:36 PM
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I’d love to be a PI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:18 PM
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I often use the terms “females” and “males” because the legal definitions of “women” and “men” have changed in my country. I didn’t realize it was a red flag when men said “females.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:17 PM
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I hate being called a stalker for running background checks on men. I discovered one man who’d been on coming on to me was in a relationship, after that I went to his FB page and saw a photo of him with another woman. I told a Pick Me I know and she said “careful, you don’t want to get accused of harassing him.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:15 PM
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The freedom and relief is like no other. I remember the first time I stood my ground and refused to let my NVX in my apartment. He was living off me, would drink and smoke weed with his friends all day, commit petty crimes, terrorize me at night. He was screaming at me over the phone from outside my apartment to let him in. His goal was to always cause a disturbance and try to get me evicted, he succeeded twice and I decided I didn’t care any more that I had to get away from it at all costs and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:18 AM
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He wanted to trap her with a child. He didn’t want the child. He wanted to own her. My child’s sperm donor is the same way, and he made sure he’ll never be more than a sperm donor because he’s so negative value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:48 AM
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“As a mental health clinician...” Jesus Christ. Spoiler, but several pages in, this man announces he’s a mental health worker. He needs to be fired, kept away from women at all costs. I bet he gets off hearing about sexual trauma. I stopped reading when I found out he was a mental health worker, just as he was getting into his thoughts about incest. A paragraph earlier, he gives BDSM two thumbs up because it’s how some people learn to cope with the trauma of being raped and abused. He also admit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:36 AM
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This reads like it was written by Narcissus himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:41 PM
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Ooh I got tingles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:30 PM
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How did you feel when you read that? I’m not trying to bring back the pain but were you just numb and done?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:02 AM
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I winced especially at “son” and “bro.” Yikes. So glad you’ve moved on and are levelling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:48 AM
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The phrase “bachelor spaghetti” really made me laugh. It’s so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:10 PM
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That’s one of the scrotiest quotes I’ve heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:08 PM
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I once told an NVX not to smoke in my apartment. Instead, he went into my spare room and ripped a hole in the screen so he could stick his cigarette in it and smoke without thinking I’d find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:47 PM
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Pottery on the wheel. I’m in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:25 PM
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That tweet sounds like wishful thinking by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:41 PM
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The police are like the mafia. They protect their own. The officers involved in this should all be fired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:35 PM
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Have you ever looked at the diagnostic criteria and symptoms for Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome? I know doctors decry google self-diagnosis but that’s really your best option when you’re being dismissed. I have EDS, I self-diagnosed and my diagnosis has now been confirmed by multiple specialists including a geneticist. For years I was told I had anxiety when it a problem with my autonomic nervous systems’ regulation of my heart rate and blood pressure. That’s just one of the symptoms. Are you double-joi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:42 AM
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I developed “anger problems.” It was just gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:29 AM
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I can relate. I had an ex with a porn addiction too and I’d panic about leaving him at home alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:27 AM
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As much as I’m disgusted by how men sexualize her image, and her purposeful cultivation of that image, I can’t help but feel sorry for her. She has a lot of money but at what cost? Is that going to undo the trauma she’s going to experience in porn? I have to suspect she was sexually abused in childhood. I wonder what this woman would have become if she hadn’t been Belle Delphine? What are her hobbies and talents? What were her dreams before she ended up in this life. It should not be legal to pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:25 AM
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I think she’s terrific and proud that she’s Canadian. 🍁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:16 AM
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I really had not noticed neck length correlates with height. My mind is blown. Also not keen on her using Chris Brown as an example. Yes, he’s tall but he has no qualms about brutalizing women and creating baby mamas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:05 AM
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Men are always looking for a power trip to go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:01 AM
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Men believe they are the natural leaders of humans, that it is their right to lead, and that we ought to bow to them and further appreciate when they take an interest in us. They also believe women want nothing more than marriage and to please men. As such, they preach at us to try to maintain the status quo. They don’t want women developing any ideas of our own about how society should be structured or how relationships between men and women should be conducted because controlling the narrative…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:56 PM
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It’s so sad. Women always marry with good intentions but men, you never know. They marry women they don’t love, like or even respect simply to get status, money, a caretaker and an incubator. They really don’t view us as people, just as objects born to benefit them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:48 PM
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I’d consult a family lawyer and definitely get a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:46 PM
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It is not misandry. If misandry actually existed, which it doesn’t, only saying untrue things would be misandry. Speaking the truth is absolutely not hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:51 PM
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She may not have read the handbook. It’s possible one of her editors read the handbook and told her about those portions or that she just read a bit of it. Also possible she read it in another article about FDS or another comment on Reddit. It would be absolutely fair for you to follow-up with her and specifically ask her to describe the depth of her research and to provide links to her sources. I’m a journalist and I’d do that if someone from an organization or group I covered questioned the in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:33 AM
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I think you ought to submit this to Vice and ask them to run a correction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:18 AM
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Credible news outlets will only use anonymous sources when the source’s life or livelihood is at stake. Even then, most credible journalists only use anonymous sources for background information and will find credible sources to go on record to back up the anonymous source so they can leave the anonymous source out of the article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:17 AM
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I have a feeling her comments about porn, BDSM, kink and polyamory are going to bring A LOT of women here. We have a class consciousness, we just don’t get to express it. All women know those things exist only for men’s benefit. Men are TERRIFIED women everywhere will collectively raise their standards and choose singledom over copulating with the common man. That’s why they malign us—the common man isn’t good enough for most women and he knows it. Men need to stop riding on entitlement and actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:11 AM
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That’s how I found this sub too. I had read it was so incredibly toxic but it all made sense to me, really put my experiences in perspective. Since I’ve found the sub I’ve read Lundy Bancroft’s book about abusive men, “Why does he do that...” and started trauma therapy to work through the domestic violence I experienced in a six-year relationship with a man I have come to learn is negative value. That phrase describes him perfectly. Others just didn’t understand, didn’t believe me when I told th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:44 AM
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It sounds like you’re being surrounded by a tornado of stinky dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:28 AM
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I would love to see Sisley’s first draft and to know how many males copy edited the piece before it was published. I’m a journalist and I’m genuinely curious, is Sisley THAT MUCH of a Pick-Me Cool Girl or are her editors just misogynists? (It’s Vice, we already know the answer to those questions. Yes she is and yes they are).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:25 AM
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Just don’t settle for a man who can’t bring as much to the relationship as you can. Men are meant to enhance your quality of life. That’s what relationships are supposed to be about. If he doesn’t add to yours as much as you do to his then move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:13 AM
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I can’t count the number of physical attacks I have endured in my lifetime, and I’m a white upper middle class woman. I’ve endured male violence my whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:06 AM
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That was really inspirational. Have you considered giving it as a speech?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:37 AM
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That’s deplorable. I was a Vice fan back in my pickmeisha days, when I was a journalism student. Now I feel sick to my stomach when I read about their depraved support of sexual acts that degrade women. I don’t know where men got it in their heads that prostitution is the world’s oldest profession or that it’s necessary for a civilized society but I strongly believe both are myths, misogynistic propaganda. I really believe men want prostitutes to exist simply as a symbol of their domination over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:21 PM
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