CoyoteCookies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	"The Spark" (also known as the LAFS phenomenon) is not caused by high initial passion, intimacy, or commitment: but physical attraction. The spark is not love at first sight, it’s “oh this is going really well- but like really well!!” That’s not based on attraction, but ease of conversation, things in common, etc. So the opposite of your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 04:47 AM
1	Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative) This all seems incredibly obvious. The thirties ladies have more life experience, know what they want and don’t want and won’t string along guys they don’t want. They don’t want incompatible guys, toxic or shitty relationships they might have accepted when they were younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 02:37 AM
4	Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men do What? I’m barely taller than that and was a size 4 at 150. 175 would be just chubby for me. Height and weight aren’t everything man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 06:36 PM
2	Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period. If both work equal hours but the man earns more, just hire housekeeping? How’s she gonna wanna fuck when she’s exhausted from doing everything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:38 PM
3	Racial Preferences in Dating All I can say is that statistics don't predict one-on-one experiences. Statistics are a thing, but that's a whole hell of a lot of people. Meaning a lot of the women you encounter will be attracted to Asians. The only bad thing I can say about Asian guys is that I might be concerned if they were more traditional. My ex's family spewed the most shit about me and that mirrors a lot of what I've heard from others who have dated Asian people. His ideas of dating culture and how to treat women were p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 03:31 AM
1	What does life look like for a late 20s single woman who is single because of a failed LTR, not chasing ‘chads’ or sleeping around. From my experience, I did better after the failed LTR because I was better at picking out things that wouldn't be OK for me, better at phrasing what I wanted and what was a deal breaker, better at finding the "green flags" of compatibility. So I'm more comfortable in my relationship now than ever was in that last relationship because I'm not constantly stressed by dumb shit that I honestly never needed to deal with. When it came time to discuss a serious relationship, that communication came mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 01:41 AM
2	Would you rather have a: Mental illness isn't an easy fix.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 01:30 AM
1	Do women crave to be noticed by men? There are lots of reasons to look good, not just to attract males. People are nicer in general, tend to attribute good qualities to you, you're more likely to get a job, to be taken seriously, blah blah blah. Makeup and nice clothing is there to look nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 10:28 PM
3	How they think it happens vs how it actually happens That's not how birth control pills work... that's how condoms work. You don't take it before sex. You take it regularly. lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 10:21 PM
1	Being relationship material is shit This isn't unrealistic at all. Don't take Reddit people too seriously. They base their idea of norms off extremes. Also relationship material + sexually attractive is kind of a given for a long-term relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 10:05 PM
1	Under what conditions would a brothel made for women be viable? One is maturation and one is sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 06:20 AM
4	What attracted you towards the men you ended up to be together with? Be honest. Brutally honest. Please. He’s emotionally mature (specifically lacking in prior relationships) and communicates with me well. Also he doesn’t act weird about being short (I like short guys anyway).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:12 PM
0	Under what conditions would a brothel made for women be viable? No? Women use sex toys to get off, lol. Nothing to do with men. I’m sure there could be a market for a brothel with males, I just think that’s very niche. Most women don’t see sex the way male customers do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:09 PM
0	From the post about r/askwomen's standards a few hours ago -- these are the actual top answers, which OP had to scroll over and skip to get to the answers he screenshot lol The problem is women ask normal relationship things and by the time they find out they’re already committed and go, “well I guess I can put up with that, maybe it’s normal”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:05 PM
2	Sexlessness = Rape Incorrect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:48 PM
2	Sexlessness = Rape If this were true, men would not be traumatized from being raped. Congrats, your first sentence is already incorrect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:44 PM
2	"Women love it when men have options" Do you think this is true? I’m monogamous and lack any cattiness for “competition.” Moreover if he goes out of his way to let me know he has other girls available to him, that’s scummy. My boyfriend gets easily jealous though, he would never try to make me feel like there’s anyone else to worry about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:43 PM
0	LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members. This is excessively paranoid and almost borders on sounding like a fetish. An FDS user would just act like a normal human being, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:40 PM
1	LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members. When you miss the point of scrote being a parody of what men call women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:39 PM
1	LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members. Reddit didn’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:38 PM
1	I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens. You're comparing friends' experiences with shit on Reddit. Of course the shit on Reddit looks more judgmental. If you were actually friends with women (you weren't, you were trying to date them which is different), you would see how much shit women put up with. "Well I know he's a toxic shithead but he's such a nice family man" type shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 04:25 AM
–	Feel unfulfilled, could use some advice. To build a relationship with those girls you develop feelings for, you need to get to know them. They have their own preferences, so relying on your “game” won’t help because “game” is for casual relationships. You’ll make them think you’re a player and that may not be what they want. But you seem like you’re figuring out what your type is, so I recommend focusing on girls you’re actually interested in. Compatibility helps things move along, so trying to force it won’t go anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 06:38 AM
2	CMV: Men and women are not the problem. Manipulative Time-wasters are the problem From an FDS perspective, I largely agree, though there’s a larger emphasis on avoiding abuse in particular. Personally, FDS values helped me to be more confident while dating and while establishing my current relationship. It helped me to see the green flags too and to be able to differentiate what’s going right vs. what I put up with in past relationships. It got me over a lot of “but is this really what I think it is?” Nerves. You’re the only person fully responsible for yourself, so you shoul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 05:55 AM
0	The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sides I've known dudes who are 5'3, same age group, and get laid more than once per decade. I'm extremely certain it's you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 04:43 AM
1	Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional? Someone this petty would not be considered a HVM by anyone, pill or no pill. People's needs and wants are different and so giving the exact same as what you are given makes no sense. my boyfriend and I spoil each other because we know each other well enough to do that. If he only did for me exactly what I do for him, that wouldn't be special because it'd be what he likes, not me. Moreso, if I found out he had a spreadsheet, fucker's out. Nobody should be tracking the quality of their relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 08:40 PM
3	Women in favour of 'rape by deception' laws, are you also in favour of the criminal penalties for paternity fraud? The law doesn’t and can’t cover all morality. Tired of seeing “well it’s not illegal” thrown around when all we’re saying is you should be nice to your partners, long term or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 05:51 AM
7	How to distinguish between "potential" and low value. I think potential lies in neutral traits. Emotional intelligence is non negotiable for me, I’m not going to deal with a man who can’t maturely handle his feelings, and mine. That said, someone who’s open to thoughts he might not have explored or might not explored that way has potential in that he listens, he respects your opinion, and he has that ability to think outside his own head. I appreciate when my man has a new outlook or appreciation because of a discussion we’ve had.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 08:38 PM
56	QUEENS, How Have You Found Your HVM? Tentative answer because nothing is a given forever but... Evaluate their values early on. Value differences will cause chaos/resentment no matter what type of person they are or how they treat their partners. This is the more personal side of vetting and you should never ever feel bad for rejecting someone based on differing values. I stayed vigilant, kept up on my reading and self-reminders during the early relationship and especially the honeymoon phase. This allowed me to be realistic enough…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 02:47 PM
44	Vetting for rapists Discuss sex and preferences for sex beforehand and make sure his actions match his words when you start cuddling, kissing, etc. If he talks up like he's a wonderful gentleman, but gets aggressive over foreplay, you can be absolutely sure you do not want sex with him. Also just ditch any man whose first idea of sex is BDSM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 08:11 PM
2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? There's a huge difference between someone interacting with sexual intent and without. A lot of the "bad" part of a man's personality comes out when it comes to how he treats a potential partner. Selfishness, aggression, and a lack of empathy are things that may never come out during an acquaintance relationship and may be acceptable to some extent in a friendship. There are lots of things I will accept with friends that I wouldn't accept in a partner because while everyone is flawed and complex,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 06:49 PM
10	Some additional ideas on what to vet for. Politeness towards strangers is definitely something I vet for. He should be kind at a basic level without expecting to get anything out of it, period. Otherwise, really shows why he’s being “nice” to you. Great for catching out men with bad intentions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 01:55 PM
6	Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women? But the fact that so many men are famous for being "hot" and "feminine" at the same time means that a lot of women are attracted to feminine men. This isn't a great leap in logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:32 PM
5	Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women? Famous men can get interest from women through status and money. That's different from being famous because they're considered attractive. Elon Musk is famous through business success. KPop singers are famous through being hot (and talented).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:24 PM
6	Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men? It's all stereotypes. "Ha ha you take dick, you're basically a girl" A bisexual guy who is comfortable with himself will have already accepted that he gets these stereotypes applied to him regardless of what he's like. But "femininity" can mean a lot of things and a lot of them are not bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:30 PM
2	Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men? Sure. But it seems that a lot of women who fetishize gay relationships fetishize the fictional aspect of them. Media about gay men made for women tend to be more similar to romance fiction than not and tend to feature a lot of the same toxic tropes, but with some extra "naughtiness" because gay. It's gross, but doesn't necessarily carry into real life interactions the same way mens' fetishization of women's relationships does. Heck, I've had male colleagues slobbering over a comment/joke someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:27 PM
5	Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men? Because men fetishize lesbian relationships and feel non-threatened in that they think they can still "win" with their magnificent penis. In my experience they tend to see bisexuality as "kinky" more than threatening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:18 PM
9	Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men? I like bisexual men. Men who are overly protective of their sexuality or their masculinity have too much to be angry or insecure about and tend to act like asshats. Of course, I won't bother with a man who's promiscuous or has a history of cheating, so that won't affect my judgment if they've otherwise passed my vetting process. Other than homophobia, I think the bisexual stereotype of being slutty / cheating is probably the biggest issue. But again, that can apply to any man, so my answer is ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:15 PM
2	Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work. Wow, I thought I was putting in the work. Look at all the angry men calling you entitled. Sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:12 PM
1	Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work. FDS is there to encourage and protect women who have a bad history of putting in way too much effort for a bad relationship or careless man. There's no such thing as having no responsibility towards the relationship, but the man needs to openly value the woman, which a lot of men who are used to be spoiled for nothing have issue with. In an ideal situation, all would be balanced because women tend to put in more emotional labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:08 PM
0	Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work. How so? Meals give ample opportunity to talk, which is important to get to know someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:04 PM
0	Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work. Simping means the interest isn't returned. FDS encourages a reasonable pull-back to avoid rushing into something by emotions/hormones, it doesn't encourage just not putting anything into the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:55 PM
2	Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work. Confidence works for both sexes. FDS is heavy on how to vet and red flags, but I do think there's a huge strength in how it encourages women to stop downplaying ourselves. It's a terrible trait so many women are accustomed to, but dating with a bad mindset about yourself just leads to finding partners who fulfill that mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:54 PM
7	[Q4BP] Question for those who think women put more effort into their appearance. Maybe thinking it's complicated to flirt is part of why you have trouble. It's not significantly different between men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:20 PM
1	Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations. PC games are much more accessible. I’ve had non gamer friends... heck I’ve had my parents play games with me just because it was so easy to pull them in. Plus, there are lots of casual PC games that could appeal to everyone. Yeah it gets to be different once you get to the people with fancier setups, but it’s not necessary. My computer was midrange years ago and it still does fine with nearly all games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 04:45 AM
1	Why do girls brag about having simps? It’s a fetish thing. Maybe don’t look to sex workers go get a view on typical women’s behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 01:38 PM
1	Are relationships business transactions? Dating is a numbers game and women are bombarded with numbers when they’re looking for a partner. Weeding out the ones who are going to hurt you or hold you back in life is necessary. Also lots of FDS women post about their SOs or spouses, but FDS is more so about the dating phase, so of course dating related material is most prevalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 01:26 PM
1	Are relationships business transactions? Bad relationships make your life worse. It’s better to stay single than to be in a bad relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 01:21 PM
1	Are relationships business transactions? “Value” is used more like “quality” and no, FDS is more about self advocacy and avoiding bad relationships than the SVM related ideas of dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 01:16 PM
1	Are relationships business transactions? FDS is about not wasting your time and energy on garbage men. Not ignoring red flags so you get free stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 01:05 PM