| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.I read tarot as a side job and I have a lot of single male clients. I’ve been more shamed by religious people of both sexes than anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:26 PM |
| -2 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Whoa what the fuck about the mom shaming though. I’m a single mom because my ex molested oldest son. How the fuck do you “vet” for that. We were married 12 years. I had no idea and the day I found out I left. My mother is a single parent because after she was diagnosed with cancer my step dad bailed. How do you vet for that? This is victim blaming and it’s not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | Trust your instincts: If you feel like something is wrong with him, there is.This is why I don’t date religious men. Also, I do practice witchcraft, so he would have hated my pagan ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 1 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️https://www.smule.com/p/2514030197_3723291930 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️That’s so weird. I literally just recorded it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️I JUST DID THAT ONE LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 4 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️Thank you 😭😊 My ex who I was married to for 12 years used to say it sounded like I’m holding my nose when I sing. I’m really stunned by all the loving words here this morning. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 4 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️I did one last night of Florence and the Machine I think turned out pretty good. Be aware I cannot do Florence justice! https://www.smule.com/p/2514030197_3721872208 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 4 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️Y’all made me tear up. Thank you so much for your kind words. I was told for so many years by my ex that I was a horrible singer so eventually I just stopped. Wouldn’t even sing in the car or the shower. Now I have my mojo back and I want to pursue my dreams again. Thank y’all again for being my supportive internet family☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:32 PM |
| 3 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️I’ve never sang blues but I a looooong time ago I used to sing jazz at a club in Chicago! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 28 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️I made one more. This one is dedicated to YOU LADIES! A love song for FDS ❤️❤️❤️ https://www.smule.com/p/2514030197_3721805156 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 22 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️I had to hold my one year old the whole time so that’s who you hear at the end 😂 I at least have one fan. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 18 | Spiritual people can fuck offWait, I’m a pagan and have alternative spiritual beliefs. I’m vegan and meditate daily. Why is this a bad thing? I’d want a partner to share or at least accept my beliefs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 282 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manThese same men say they would never date a single mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes You Make Your Rapist BreakfastWith arsenic powdered donuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:56 AM |
| 6 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Thank for being dignified and kind. I broke up with him this morning. I appreciate your thoughtful words and for you sharing your own story with me. You sound like an incredible woman and I already look up to you. I’m 30, but my one and only real relationship was my ex husband so when it comes to dating I am sort of like a teenager because I don’t have any experience. But I did end things and I am taking a break from dating for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:12 PM |
| -1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I was single for a year and a half. I’m tired of being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 0 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I take care of my kids and am a damn good mother. Check my post history and see what I’ve done to save my kids and keep them safe. I may need therapy for my dating life but I am a good mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:13 PM |
| 3 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Sorry that was a reply to someone else! Whoops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Y’all preach about women lifting up women and supporting each other but then downvote me to oblivion and say fucked up shit like “no one care about you.” I may have a problem with my self worth and I might love too hard and the wrong people but at least I’m not kicking people when they are down and being a mean and spiteful hypocrite. Downvote away. I came to y’all for help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Why do these women keep downvoting everything I say? Do y’all not want me to be a part of this community? Why are y’all being so toxic to me for seeking help and trying to better myself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Well tonight he called and said when he gets back he has to work until the 7th and I said well you can come see me after work (he lives and works less than 3 minutes away) and he said he doesn’t know about that because his false tooth cane out and he’s embarrassed for me to see him missing a front tooth. So basically he’s telling me he won’t even see me fit at least two more weeks. I texted him and said he has to see me to pick up his dog at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:08 AM |
| -8 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Wow, this is so rude and unnecessary. You think I think I’m above people? I was posting about killing myself like a month and a half ago. I hate myself. Look at my subscribed subreddits. I have an eating disorder because I fucking hate myself. But I refuse to be cruel to others so that means I think I’m above everyone? And you don’t have to tell me that no one cares about me, I’m well aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I have and I’ll reread it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I am listening but also trying to be respectful and respond but all my comments here get downvoted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:01 PM |
| -4 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I was trying to be nice to the other poster and not say that I thought she was evil for wanting to take advantage of others, but to be blunt that’s kind of how I see it. I legitimately don’t understand the need to hurt someone else or take advantage of someone’s heart. To me that is evil and wrong. At the very best it’s sociopathic. So I worded it so that I wouldn’t hurt her feelings because she probably is a good person, not an evil one, and I was trying to express my views without indirectly s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 16 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Thank you so much. I really took this to heart. I actually took a screenshot so I can read it again and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Not fake, check out my post history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 14 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡That makes me want to die a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:21 PM |
| -31 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡On the other subreddits that I posted this to they are saying I’m the problem not him. I’m just really confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:40 PM |
| -2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I’ve tried but I have no one to watch my kids who are very little so my sessions difficult because my kids make noise or touch things in the office and I spend most the time apologizing and trying to wrangle them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:25 PM |
| -31 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡No, he said he was worried about losing hours at work because of the vacation and I said if he needed it I could help him with food or gas money. The next day he asked if that offer was still available and I said yeah. So it’s really my own dumb fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I have a tendency since childhood to use money and gifts to get people to like me. I get taken advantage of a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 35 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Not only am I not getting paid but he asked me for money when he gets back 🤡 🤡 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:05 PM |
| -2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡You would too? Take advantage? See I don’t think I’m capable of that so I tend to be naive about other people and expect them to have the same morals I have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:57 PM |
| -2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡He might be saying I do too much because I’m always sweet to him and encouraging him. I also bought him a $70 record player to surprise him when he gets back because on one of our dates he said he has all these old records but no way to listen to them. When I showed him when it arrived (because I can’t keep a secret) that’s when he said “wow, you really are too good for me”. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 39 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Yeah and then I’m on read all day unless of course I mention the dog and then I get an almost immediate text back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 11 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Is it my fault for offering? I’m too nice, I need to bitch up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I guess it didn’t send up a flag because my ex husband of 12 years asked me to be his girlfriend on the first date. I’m too stupid to be dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:47 PM |
| -10 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡He also asked me if he could borrow some money from me when he gets back, but it’s my fault because I offered when he said he was stressed about missing work (like gas money nothing huge) but he later texted me and asked if I meant that and that it would help him a lot. I was really surprised and it make me frown. I guess I expected him to decline. I do make significantly more than he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:44 PM |
| -28 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Oh I am his girlfriend. Shoot should have mentioned he asked me to be his girlfriend a week ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:42 PM |
| -8 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Oh I need to add that he has Aspergers. High functioning autism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | They would love it if we fought each other and lived in discord, but we refuse.They both got fucked over by their men and were enjoying out fuck men talks I think. Now I’m happy with a seemingly HVM and they can’t stand to hear about it and make fun of me for smiling when he texts me around them. They haven’t met him in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:47 PM |
| 104 | They would love it if we fought each other and lived in discord, but we refuse.I have two best friends and the guy I’m dating asked me to be his girlfriend this week. Ever since they have been distant to me. You can tell they aren’t happy for me, and they act jealous or annoyed that I’m happy. It makes me really sad. We as women should support each other but in my experience that rarely happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 84 | A subreddit for “under 18” aka CHILDREN to ask questions about masturbation exists and is a pedophile trap. WHY DOES REDDIT ALLOW THIS? 🤢Many have come forward about getting sexually Explicit DMS after they post. It’s literally made to find and exploit children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 44 | A subreddit for “under 18” aka CHILDREN to ask questions about masturbation exists and is a pedophile trap. WHY DOES REDDIT ALLOW THIS? 🤢Oh sorry that’s my app color settings. But the place is disgusting for girls and boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | This guy ignored me for over 24 hours including the entire morning/afternoon of the day of our second date so I said goodbye and blocked him. An hour later I get this from him from a different number. 🙄Just want to say the only reason I called back is because I wanted to be an adult and tell him why I blocked him and am no longer interested. He didn’t pick up and sent the second message. Ok, blocked again. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 25 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.I actually like sex and want sex. I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t have a high libido. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | If he says he doesn’t eat pussy or acts disgusted by it, simply say “Oh my god, I had no idea you were gay, you know you could’ve told me from the start I would’ve accepted you! There’s no reason to hide. It’s 202X!”Lol I love doing that though 😱😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Having to explain the novel concept of a dinner date to a 36 year old man...I’m going to be downvoted but I would have just answered him. Sometimes I feel like we are unnecessarily harsh and judgemental. But I’m new so maybe I’m just naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 28 | I have no words.“Kneck” The loser can’t even spell and you expect him to follow boundaries? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 39 | Please share your list of deal-breakers and must haves in terms of values, career, physical, etc.See, a Religous man is an automatic no from me. It’s crazy how different our dealbreakers are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | ReminderThe only person who can love you like this is yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 14 | Why is Gone Girl on the FDS approved film list?I fucking love Amy. But in the end she ends up being a pickmeisha by going back. Should have let him rot in prison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | “I don’t have a child”So I’ll never date? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 75 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.I want to add that all my kids are boys, and there is pressure on moms of boys to provide their sons with a “male role model”. But honestly I don’t want ANY men around my kids AT ALL after what happened. I even made sure their pediatrician was female. I do have guilt that they don’t have that male influence in their life but I am trying to accept that I have to be both roles for them because I’m not willing to expose them to LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 68 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.I actually wrote this earlier in the week, but I’ve deleted all my dating apps for this reason. Every date cost me about $60-100 for a sitter. And for what? To meet up with trash and be treated like garbage? I spent my date money this week on a Vitamix. 😂👌 And you are absolutely right. I don’t want my children ever put through trauma again and I just don’t trust men at all. So even if I meet someone is it really going to go anywhere? Because I’m not bringing any males around my children for a ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 152 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.You made me tear up. Thank you. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t have a child”I have three kids but don’t want more. If I date a man with children chances are I’ll end up raising his for him. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 102 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.The thought of dating a 20 year old repulses me. I’m 32. They are like children to me. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 91 | This was empowering to watch. If you aren’t getting what you deserve, dump his ass!!It’s valid to have emotions over losing something that you invested yourself in. Yes, he is LV, but she is allowed to grieve. She isn’t just crying for a man, she’s crying for the time and energy that she lost as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Found this gem floating around Facebook.This dude is gay and in denial | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 29 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.It’s not a HiCcUp, it’s a loser. Walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?At this point I don’t even want a white picket fence. I want an old cobblestone cottage deep in the woods covered with vines that men are too afraid to approach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 43 | LVM Manipulation Caught Just in Time99.999% we had more traumatic childhoods than they did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Back on dating apps and forgotten how BORING most men are.Yep did this today. Got tired of spending money on a sitter to go out with trash. This paycheck I bought me a vitamix instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Don’t give them a single inchI didn’t even notice that. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Don’t give them a single inchI’m overweight myself, so I try not to judge based on looks too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:08 PM |
| 35 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Was talking to a guy and after we slept together he did the slow fade, cancelled our date on Saturday and then on Sunday didn't talk to me at all. I sent a message Sunday night that said I'm not interested in him anymore but I wish him the best. He wrote me this morning and said "his phone dropped in the toilet and so he just turned on his phone." First of all, he has an iphone 11 which is water resistant up to 3 meters. Anyways, I didn't respond and just blocked and deleted. I am so tired of me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Breakups hurt but the alternative is worseSame girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Love this!!!!!!! No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.Nah I say take it back. Make it lose power. “You’re a bitch.” Yes I fucking am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 40 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.The only thing men don’t lack is the AUDACITY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 29 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.I wish I had, I was in shock. Goddamn it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 171 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.I just got off the phone with them. They were horrified but I told them they need to vet the people they bring with them better and they said they would from now on. They seemed sincerely mortified and apologetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | On a thread about a woman shaving her head and her husband not being attracted to her anymore. Pathetic.Same! As soon as my belly big with my first pregnancy he cheated. I had two more children with him before I left. Wasted my 20’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | DAE feel like there’s no point to even try dating because how awful most men are?Prozac helped me a lot. Talk to your physician or make an appointment with a psychiatrist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | DAE feel like there’s no point to even try dating because how awful most men are?Be your own partner. Go buy yourself some flowers, take yourself out for a candlelit dinner, write yourself self love notes and put them away where you will find them later, like a kitchen drawer. Have sex with yourself, keep a journal to “talk about your day” to. Date yourself for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 5 | DAE feel like there’s no point to even try dating because how awful most men are?The loneliest times in my life were during my decade long marriage. Single me is much more fulfilled. I have no desire in ever dating a man again, I wouldn’t be opposed to a lesbian relationship though. That said, I do enjoy being single! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 17 | How a LVM ManipulatesWhat to say instead: “While I value your contribution to this family financially, I married a man and not an ATM machine. When we chose to have children together we both accepted new roles in our lives that add on to our responsibilities and while these new demands are challenging I still expect you to put forth effort. I value you, and that is exactly why I know you can do better.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 7 | If a Guy Ever Tries to Shame You for Ghosting/Giving Excuses/Not Giving a Hard "No", send him this and TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF!Literally 90% of r/niceguys shows exactly what happens when a male is rejected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?My step dad once sat me down and told asked me if I thought I was pretty. I said yes. He said why do you think that. I said that people told me. He said they might just be being nice. Then he said the only reason guys like me is that I have an odd personality that is interesting for a short time but then get old. I had just turned 16. That shit fucked me up for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Yes. Yes. Yes.This is why I went from being bisexual to being a lesbian. I no longer have any attraction whatsoever to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 4 | You can get more money and respect as a prostitute 🙄One year I got a keychain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I slept with the wrong guy while I was in the Army and for the rest of my contract I was treated like a whore. The other women would spread gossip about me, the men would either avoid me or feel entitled to my body and angry when I didn’t fit the rumor by sleeping with anyone who was interested. I was 18 when it started. 24 when I got out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Men be like: Women’s standards are too high!! They won’t even look at a guy unless he’s a 10/10!! When so many couples look like this:Ladies, never date an ugly man. They will not respect you any more than attractive men. Why lower standards if the output is the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:12 PM |
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