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17

Laws can change. Judges can rule unexpectedly. He’s taking the safe route. I find the “die alone” as a threat, but it feels like a projection from her. He has three kids, he likely won’t “die alone”, he’ll have his kids and possibly grandkids in his golden years. She will be the one who is alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/24 11:09 PM
3

Just look at Title 9 sports. Average genetically XY athletes are easily winning over champion genetically XX athletes. So, should we have a third category of sports for non-genetically identifying athletes? No, that would take away from Title 9 funding. I can see a new rule that there will be genetically XX and identifying as women (no testosterone enhanced women) only, and everyone else goes into what was Men’s sports.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 03:46 PM
2

Listened to my then Ex, took her career advice. Got laid off, she left. Tried to date for while, saw that it was a raw deal. I had MGTOW feelings since I was 19, but I thought they were wrong since my conservative upbringing. I’ve been in monk mode for years now. Much less stress, the main sources are any dealings I have with the ex, but there is an end date when the youngest turns 18.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 03:32 PM
3

She’s on #2, and he’s a prince. I can’t imagine what #3 would have to be.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 03:14 PM
3

Notice OP didn’t mention if both sisters ate the pizza in the end. Horrified…that she didn’t think of it first.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 03:05 PM
8

She takes the trip, you end up babysitting. Oh, she’ll ask if you can babysit after you paid for a non-refundable reservation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:00 PM
5

If you are in a cold climate, look for a gas fireplace. Gas is usually cheap per BTU, and works in a power outage. No wood to haul/ashes to clean. Heat pumps for HVACs do make sense in most places. Geothermal is like a unicorn where I am. It makes sense when building, but no one actually does it. Then again most new construction are in developments. Single pane glass, crappy insulation, cheapest possible everything, but it has a high square forage and looks nice for the first decade.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 01:45 AM
1

There is a thought process that a happy marriage is a sign that you “healed” from a previous breakup. I fell into this trap for a while after my divorce. I took a red pill, and it eventually took hold. I realized that healing didn’t mean I’m with someone. Healing means I’m happy with myself. Happy marriages really are like winning the lotto, but I’ll never play the odds again.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 12:57 AM
3

And with divorce, you can be paying for those mistakes well into your 40’s while being single.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 12:52 AM
4

Look for a 995 square foot house. With everything online, people put in 1000 as a minimum, so there is less demand for houses under 1k. It’s almost like the 6 foot vs 5 foot 11 inches thing.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 12:45 AM
18

“HVM” that make 6 figures are usually educated. So she’s aiming for a top 20% or so. They other place would be a high end bar near law/finance offices. I’m guessing she doesn’t have the looks for that. Also, how many smart guys sees that she has red flags, then casually drop a GF reference. Men hate to outright say no to women, but this a way to say no without saying no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 09:17 PM
1

She’ll shack up with a richer guy and quit. Then take him back to court and get alimony paying back to her since it’s the life style she’s accustomed to. You might win the first round, but the courts make sure you lose in the end.
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 02:17 PM
3

Divorce as well.
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 02:05 PM
3

I'm sure if they do expand it, it will be on paper only. Much like how divorce laws are written "fairly". They will have many deferments that will make it easy to not serve until they age out of the draft. If you have a child, you can be drafted for 12 years after giving birth. If you are in college, get deferred. If you have a job in Teaching K-12, County Social programs, non-PhD Medical, etc you get deferred. The token few females that are drafted will held as shining examples of "equality", e…
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 08:15 PM
10

I wonder how many fathers there are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 07:54 PM
21

“I know my worth and accustomed”. She is a depreciating asset on the outside and an imploding black hole of a soul on the inside. Her mind is warped if she really believes this to be true. There will never been anything good enough for her, and there is no good in her. Her loyalty is measured in dollars, her happiness reliant upon dopamine hits. her worth is equal what she has contributed to her household, less than nothing. The worst part? I bet the husband will be devastated and want her back …
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 02:15 AM
3

Someone will think this is a good deal. A fool and his money are soon parted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:40 AM
1

She isn’t into you, she’s into what you can provide by any means necessary. Showing her makes you a target for “resource extraction” by any means necessary. If she can’t extract it, then she will try to burn your money in the legal or court of public opinion.
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 01:08 AM
4

My first though was this was setup by the guy and one of his friends. It was a test, and he has the answer he needs to move forward without her.
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 10:00 AM
3

Please have him talk to a lawyer. If he bought the car, and it’s in his name, report it stolen to get it back and sell it for a loss. I hope her name is primary on the student loans. Stop paying for them. Yes, he’s secondary, they will go after him as well, but drag her down as well. 160K debt will crush that man. It will take decades to pay it off. If he’s blue collar it’s basically a life debt. Bankruptcy can forgive student loan debt, but it might help with other kinds of debt.
/r/MGTOW25/04/21 11:42 PM
2

Before I clicked to unblur the pic I knew she would have decent looks and average or better height/weight ratio. My pet theory about action while drunk is that alcohol amplifies what’s already there, and removes inhibitions overall. A normal person that’s a “mean drunk” means the rage is bottled up inside, they just do a good job of hiding it until enough alcohol brings it to the surface.
/r/MGTOW25/04/21 11:20 PM
6

They formed a nice circular firing squad. Sadly, no lessons were learned from this.
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 10:54 PM
3

Imagine being the guy trying to help. With luck, he’d have the old lock off right when the ex-bf rolls up. Since she drove you to her house, you’d be stuck there as she escapes. Besides, would a new dead bolt on an average door actually stop a motivated gentleman?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 10:35 PM
6

No Smokers. So, if I guy leaves for a pack of smokes and never comes back, blame the cigarettes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:22 PM
2

That’s what she had before, and what she aspires to be again. So, that counts, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 10:23 AM
1

In some states it doesn’t matter what’s in the divorce decree. They will toss it, and apply their standard formula. Then file a case that the judge rubber stamps. You then have to file a motion with the court on why the standard formula shouldn’t be applied. The judge doesn’t have to accept your argument, and if they do, it then sets precedent. No judge wants to do that, because well over 99% of family court cases are upheld in appeal, they want to maintain that status quo. You have to negotiate…
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 10:19 AM
2

BE CAREFUL! In many states, a change in 10% of income can trigger a reevaluation of child support. Her not working means she can ask for more money. The legal fight is then between the county and you, she doesn't need to pay a dime.
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 02:53 AM
13

She is "working on" disability. Sounds like she isn't working, and is trying to get them to pay for disability benefits. This sounds like a classic bailout, or trying to find someone to loan money until the free checks start rolling in. Also, the "place" and "car" will likely dry up as the kids are aging out of child support. Hence the need for disability benefits and a new guy to take care of her financially.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:52 AM
3

This is like a contagious mental illness. Divorce among a group of female friends works much the same way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 05:10 PM
4

I don't know Chilean law that well, but it doesn't look like common law is a thing there. That tends to be a thing in former/current English colonies. So unless her name is on the deed, I don't see where she has a case. Now she can sue for civil matters and get damages paid out in cash, but this usually doesn't include property unless the person can't pay, and makes a deal the court signs off on. Maybe he made a verbal promise, those are hard to enforce. If it were a text message it might hold w…
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 12:17 AM
18

It's like this SJW post. She doubled down in a tweet that mass shootings are ALWAYS white men. Put in a second ALWAYS to make sure that point was made. Turns out the shooter she references was from Syria. She then writes that she was saying that it's usually white men. Then goes on a rant about how the workplace she was fired from was racist, one of the examples was a white guy asking her about Indian culture. Asking legitimate questions to learn more about a culture is now racist. https://hemjh…
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 02:36 PM
2

That "seemed to think about it for a second" while she was hanging on to him awesome. She thinks it was swaying him, and you can see how puts herself in the center of his world. In reality, that was time spent composing himself to not go berzerk on her. Smart man, refusing to make her a victim, but still expressing what he is going to do.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 02:25 PM
3

It’s like she’s trying everything to be successful, and doesn’t realize that she is self-sabotaging her own life. But yes, there aren’t enough Kings around so that profile will stay up. There are enough regular guys who see the issue(s), conclude that those problems aren’t fixable, and move silently on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 01:30 AM
14

I love the “if that doesn’t scare you off” as a stinger. Like I’m less of a man for not wanting to raise your kids, but always be reminded that I can be replaced, and her kids’ needs always come before my own. This indicates she will constantly $hit test, and try to poke at the “fragile male ego” to get what she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 12:03 AM
1

We read what comes first, but see what really comes first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 12:48 PM
3

It will be as starfish as possible. Afterwards she will hate herself and you. It's a vicious cycle, that ends in "thank you, next!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 01:06 AM
4

The tattoo. Splits, no top, long blond hair/wig. She's looking for someone to cover rent and give her a lifestyle to enjoy so she can save up for retirement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 01:42 AM
10

It's like a job application. One key difference is that with a job, I get a paycheck, a title that makes it easier to get a better-paying job in the future, increased skills, and sometimes a sense of accomplishment. What does this bring to the table other than a list of "I Don'ts" and a legal contract that is one-sided at the end?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 01:31 AM
3

Oh, it was a police officer that did the murder. Wouldn't it make more sense to ban men from being police officers since they can't be trusted? The curfew won't happen this time, they are just planting seeds at the moment. Never let a crisis go to waste to push your agenda that has nothing to do with the crisis.
/r/MGTOW14/03/21 07:07 AM
5

It's Chipotle and Chick Fil A when she buys for herself. When you buy, the "foodie" comes out and she'll want surf and turf.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 02:53 AM
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I didn't. Every situation is unique though, in my case I knew she would steer it to make me look like the one who made bad decisions (she cheated after I put her through grad school). I saw a different counselor, just for myself. He helped me get over the feelings of guilt I had. I felt responsible for her actions, and I needed help to see that one person can't hold a marriage together. She made her situation, and I had to get the hell out of there and mentally separate myself from what was an "…
/r/MGTOW12/03/21 02:41 AM
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File unemployment as well. They will fight and deny it. More possible damages. Do not go public and blast names unless lawyer tells you. Being blunt, when that first question was asked, I would have shopped my resume around. When told that we can’t fire, I would have called head hunter to get out ASAP. I hope you get a soft landing, and land somewhere better.
/r/MGTOW11/03/21 10:26 AM
11

It also means they concentrate on lifestyle and alimony. “I became accustomed to a better lifestyle”. Remember, this picture is them at their best with makeup, hair, dresses, etc. For the record “sassy” will never get a guy. Sophisticated is never used by people that are. Solvent means you need to maintain them, today and tomorrow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 01:43 AM
15

And banned him from firearms, cause he hunts with friends. Moved him across the world, monitors what he consumes like a hawk, took away his friends and family. My sympathy only goes so far though, he agreed to all of it. He might wake up one day and blink "rescue me" in Morse code one day while Meghan has him trotted out in front of the cameras while extolling the virtues of vegan juice diets, how 3rd wave feminism made him a better non-binary person, and how much happier he is giving up tea/cof…
/r/MGTOW10/03/21 03:00 AM
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Forced to give up friends, fun, and moved away from family, and now had to diss family on international TV. They will likely end up divorcing in a few years, I doubt his family and country will take him back. You're going to see this guy implode in a few years, and you can point to where it all went wrong.
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 02:35 AM
3

Could be a learning experience. I give him 50/50 odds with the internet being a thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 01:39 AM
9

5 comments He was, at best, her 3rd choice. He was told to "take it slow" so Chad can jump to 1st place. Good guys aren't even in the same race, it's just a holding tank they run laps in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 01:38 AM
8

70's were a different time, but this guy deserves mad praise. It was unthinkable then that a woman would leave her kids to her new husband. We know better now. My heart goes out to the now adult kids, I hope they don't have mental issues having been knowingly abandoned by their biological dad and mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 03:58 AM
2

How about "Teacher Aide"? I can't decide if it's occupation or example.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 03:24 AM
11

Growing up I was taught you order something inexpensive off the menu when you aren’t paying. You value the time with the people around you, and thank the person paying. This concept is completely lost now.
/r/MGTOW28/02/21 04:15 PM
2

Another hit piece to blame men. In the U.K. roughly 20% of pregnancies end with abortion (1 in 5). When you look at the numbers, 1-50 for men who decided having a kid at that time/situation was a bad idea, but they have no legal recourse other than duck and leave. This isn’t an anti-abortion post, just looking at how a difference in legal protection affects the numbers. I’m sure that abortion/adoption numbers will never be cited in this TV series, not any scientific paternity fraud statistics be…
/r/MGTOW28/02/21 03:57 PM
2

Beer googles are a thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 03:34 PM
15

I get the feeling they want marriage, just on their terms only, and can end when they want it to. What they don’t realize is that rewriting those rules means there is now zero incentive to marry. The rich marry as a business proposition. Look at Janet Jackson, divorces right after the prenup’s conditions kicked in for her to get a payout. It was essentially a five year contract for employment.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 01:00 PM
9

Agreed, hence why I said choose wisely within the field. Federal contract work is boring, but pays well. Digital Compliance is also hard, you have to know technology and legal at the same time, but the pay is fantastic. Imagine a technology consulting arm of a legal firm, any findings from a pen test is work product, and doesn't need to be disclosed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:49 AM
8

He wrote "Gold digger", then married KK. Also quoted as saying "‘I Do Not Like to Think at All".
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 03:19 AM
24

PLSF=trap to keep you poor for most of your adult life. Do not fall for this unless your going into MD, JD, or Engineering (and pick wisely within those fields). She wants a bailout, butterflies, and a pixie dust cure for a STD that might lead to cancer. She made bad decisions that cost her a good adulthood. She then wonders why no one wants to commit to her? She would literally make all of her problems, your problems!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:03 AM
4

I live near a lake, and back in the 90's there were still a ton of blue collar union jobs in the area. Boats were a status symbol. Odd, since if you made enough to buy one, you were usually too busy to enjoy it. Lots of boats rotted away in driveways. Now I see many guys with a fishing rod, bike, and a cooler in the summer months. They have little but are happy with a full belly, no one to tell them how to spend their weekend, and a general "I do what I want" attitude. I wonder how many of these…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 02:46 AM
2

Matrix and Blade Runner are both regular rewatches for me. I hope for a future like Star Trek, but I keep seeing us heading toward Black Mirror first.
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 01:32 AM
1

Is his name on birth certificate #3?
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 01:28 AM
4

I saw the 1st pic, and thought not horrid for 38. Then I scrolled down and saw her actual age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 10:08 PM
3

Ahhh yes. When average height just isn’t good enough, and you bring enough to the table to be picky about this shit. May she be always carry large sunglasses, find tall men with beer goggles, and never find a thought that differs from her own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:29 AM
2

Made me smile with that comment. You mean as an American you don’t just fall into Red or Blue boxes? I may differ from how you viewed Rush, but I always applaud one who knows that being a citizen of the US requires critical thinking, and it’s ok to have a well thought out viewpoint that isn’t easy to just slap a label on it.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 12:22 AM
4

What’s sad is if she had made different decisions 10 years ago she would have been a decent door next girl type. I’m sure she would fire back “I didn’t want to be a girl next door, I wanted to be me!”. Yes, I’m sure it was fun for a while. The fun is wearing off, and you can see what’s underneath.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 11:34 PM
2

In some states he won’t have to pay alimony. No child support, and the amount she can take half of is pretty limited as long as he pulls the rip cord NOW. Suggest that she move in with one of the AP like now. If not, get a cheap long term motel. Only see her in a public place if you have to. Then ask on the first proceeding to take control of the residence, and for her to move out. Cancel joint accounts, standard stuff. Aaa put your heart aside for a few months, and listen to the lawyer.
/r/MGTOW16/02/21 03:09 AM
2

The part about when she had to go to work but he stayed home that week is classic. I see this ALL the time at work. The jealousy if the weather gets bad and the guy gets sent home but not the women? He has hell to pay for, and had better work on the honey-do list. She gets the days off, but he goes to work? It’s a mental health (binge Netflix and wine) day. What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is mine isn’t just about money, it’s about time.
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 12:50 PM
10

She’s using the counter to push her leg and other muscles out to make it look more curvy that she actually is. There are individual preferences, but there is a generally accepted waist/hip/thigh ratio that men look for. I doubt she has it, but wants to make it look like she does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 07:24 PM
9

She is using reverse psychology. She wants a young, hot, Chad that will commit exclusively to her. But if she bags a rich old guy, all the better since she’ll be banging Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 03:33 AM
8

Alton Brown. While he does recipes, they are really lessons on how the ingredients come together. He evolves over time, and is willing to say that he’s found better ways sometimes. Constantly learn, do better than before, and the journey can be a reward.
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 09:32 PM
5

Here’s an easy test. Leave out “No more Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Glover. Glover isn’t MGTOW, but it tells you if a blue puller is willing to flip over. Glover’s writing were a help as my now ex was doing everything possible to sabotage the relationship. I give it a 50/50 chance that if I had discovered Glover 5 years earlier I would have stopped the downward slide of the relationship. Or it would have ended it sooner with less emotional shrapnel from her.
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 12:52 AM
9

The word “Grunt” on the left is spelled wrong. Don’t go halfway with the stereotype, go all the way.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 12:29 AM
3

Why isn’t this taught in schools?
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 03:57 PM
4

I really do wish the best for your family. I hope they never go through a situation like I did. Similar story to mine in the 20’s. Met young, had kids, weathered the financial crisis, supported each other through school and work. Genuine love for each other. One day, something snapped. She started going off and bar hopping, new “friends”, etc. This wasn’t like her at all. Heard that she had a crush on a younger guy. I caught her cheating with a different guy. She missed out on the party years be…
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 03:38 PM
14

Her happiness has a price that’s paid by everyone else around her. Her child has to give up his mother. His dad has to give up his wife. The kid sounds like a normal kid. The husband sounds like a good guy. What did they do wrong? They “ruined” her, and she’s stuck. No doubt, her looks mirror her mental state, making her even more depressed. I feel like she will make things miserable, and will push away the guy so that HE is the asshole and divorces. No doubt this is also a classic Dead Bedroom …
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 05:04 AM
2

Being a single dad is hard. With the mom taking off, he needs to know that you are there to support him. He’s coming into the real world, and COVID is smacking everyone hard. No, it isn’t fair on him or anyone else. I knew after a year of CC, I needed to find what I really wanted to do. My parents didn’t understand. I blazed my own trail. It took years to find my footing, but I did. I was still blue pilled, and still in the happy years of marriage. I landed on a good career path, and years later…
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 04:42 AM
8

She probably hasn’t surfed in 19 months, but left it up since it’s cool to attract a potential Chad. The nose ring indicates great mother material. The rush for a relationship tells me that the rent is due in 20 days, and she knows that she’s going to be short on cash. OF fans blew their money on Christmas gifts, COVID is still killing the real economy, and shits going down in DC means the numbers from OF isn’t looking good. Yes “OF fans” is intentionally stupid. It accurately describes an OF fa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 03:07 AM
3

I’m waiting for the gender swapping to get so bad that Mulan is a man, the Chinese army are all females, and Mulan marries Shan Yu (who uses gender neutral pronouns) instead of fighting. I think I’ve been watching “The Critical Drinker” too much.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 02:48 AM
1

Before they do that, common law marriages will be brought back.
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 03:51 PM
2

For a long time I felt that after some time off, entering the dating pool post divorce meant that you successfully over the divorce. Totally wrong. Don’t listen to these people. Take the time, even years to get yourself in a good place mentally, physically, and financially. I see dating as a gamble, but investing in me is a sure bet. The stakes are higher now that I’m in a much better place, and I just can’t risk it anymore.
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 04:32 PM
3

But she will always be the victim since she didn’t win the lotto financially and is now an alpha widow. In reality, she fits the mold of a gold digger and crazy ex-gf.
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 04:22 PM
3

So if it’s 127 kings, does that make her a kingmaker?
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 05:29 AM
3

Realistically, pressing charges would have little chance of success. With lawyers involved, it’s an expensive dice roll. Ultimately, you are trying to prove a negative, which is pretty hard to do.
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 05:25 AM
1

Starting the brainwashing at an early age. That poor kids going to be really confused for a long time. But all’s fair in the fight to end the patriarchy, right?
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 05:14 AM
1

“No”. A powerful word that is to be spoken, but never heard. She wouldn’t accept that word from a teenager, the father, or the manager. She’s confident in “her truth”, and her belief in herself means to never compromise from that position. Her words should have absolute authority. Oh wait, it’s in taxi. Nevermind! 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/MGTOW02/01/21 02:11 PM
15

Dude was smart to record the conversation for proof. If he gets a divorce, he needs cause in order to save his reputation. She was outsmarted. No doubt he was told that she had one relationship, but the sex was terrible. Ok, he can overlook that. Then the dam of truth breaks, like it always does eventually, and decides he better start planning for an exit. There could also be a dowry involved, hence having the dad hear the conversation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/21 06:41 AM
73

He made and already transferred the 2 million to her. What has he done for her in the last ten minutes? briffault's law strikes again!
/r/MGTOW01/01/21 06:26 AM
2

Normally I’d applaud someone who kicks an addition, no jokes, I’m serious. No smoking, ok fine...but 420 friendly. Then the red flags starts popping up everywhere. Tons of demands, only offers a 35 year old party girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/21 06:22 AM
4

Remember only 1% of appealed family court decisions are reversed. This is much lower than criminal or civil cases. Family courts are kangaroo courts in the US. Oh, and where I am, every 3 years the state can recommend that child support be modified (usually higher). But it doesn’t take anything BUT income into consideration. You have to argue the case to the judge, but any “deviation” from the recommendation is solely up to the judge, with no clear guidance from the law. So the judge would be wr…
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 04:03 PM
17

Old money thinks like this. My family needs taken care of. A divorcee’s kids “marrying into” the family isn’t our concern. What about her ex husband’s assets for her kids? It’s really all about her. She gets to use a house for life, I hope she doesn’t mess it up since it isn’t really hers. There are those that would endlessly litigate it, meaning everyone gets screwed but the lawyers. This would be fair in some gold diggers mind since she can’t get it, no one else should. Sometimes the family ju…
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 03:55 PM
2

She was saying that “It’s just your turn”. But if you say it, it’s toxic. It hurts at first when men realize this while going through a breakup. This concept ultimately helps men realize that instead of being a bag of resources that gets siphoned off, they are ultimately the one that holds value.
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 03:34 PM
2

Credit Lady Ada for programming, fine. But this? It’s not even close. I’ll use the same logic towards musicians. You can think in numbers other than Base 10, and write in a language that isn’t English. And have modifiers and repeat sections. So you’re a programmer!
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 01:34 AM
3

I agree with getting a paternity test. But get an inexpensive test outside of the court system. Start with knowing. She moved out. She is off her meds. As heartless as this sounds, strike now and file for a divorce. Get a early decision that he should be primary caretaker, even if he isn’t the actual father. Make her pay support. Now he has an upper hand. He can take time and see if he can legally be removed as the father, while collecting checks. The next few years will be tough, but there is a…
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 06:15 PM
1

I’m guilty as charged in that matter as well.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 05:42 PM
16

We only hear one side. We see at the end she admits to getting angry. This pretty much is how she saw him, through angry eyes. We also don't know the exact years, but the employment market has been up and down quite a bit. She may have left him when things were bad, and he took time "messing around with computers" to better himself, but she will NEVER admit it. She likely sees that he doesn't deserve the success he has. There is seriously no winning sometimes. Do better, they are jealous of succ…
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 12:41 AM
5

I doubt the pump even started. Remember Briffault's Law. She likely got a free meal, got the garbage disposal fixed, but then he's dirty and gross from fixing the plumbing. So send him on his way, block his number (likely said she'll pay 2nd date if he pays for the 1st!), rinse and repeat.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 12:14 AM
3

All it takes is for her to read that your horoscope says “new love on the horizon”. She interprets it to mean that you’ll cheat. She preemptively cheats to settle the score, then acts like a victim when you are upset that she cheated and you didn’t. Once you see the patterns, it all makes sense.
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 05:57 PM
8

It sounds like she got hooked on quick dopamine hits from social media and meeting new guys. She’s going through withdrawal, but the Zoom calls and such still happen, keeping her addicted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 02:06 PM
11

I’ll confess. I had to read that line in her bio twice. Once I read it a second time “professional shopaholic” popped into my head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 01:58 PM
4

I’d argue he wasn’t one. He saved that while married. That means saying “no” countless times. Once the divorce it, he probably knew $500K was going up in smoke, she wanted the house, retirement, car, lawyer bills, etc. The additional $300K was to pay her out of those things. She had heard decades of “no”, and felt that she sacrificed and earned that $800K. She was done with sacrificing, and wanted to enjoy it all. Screw the kid’s long term financial prospects, it was her time to be happy. You ca…
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 01:52 PM
4

I always have to wonder about regret. Regret doing those things, or it being known? My other thought is this, if she was coerced, then she was acting for the benefit of the ex-bf. she was willing for him, but not the fiancé. Or she was into it, but doesn’t have those intense feelings for the fiancé. From the OP, there were several videos, so this isn’t a one time thing. Either way, it’s telling. Sadly, this is a story that we have seen time and time again. My thought on the ex’s motivation. He m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 07:45 PM
5

Did anyone else get a mail order bride vibe?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 02:31 PM
17

It’s like a common core word problem. Luxury= no value, but luxury value= high. If you just say it enough times it will start to make sense, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 06:28 AM
3

Sounds like I have a book to read, thanks!
/r/MGTOW25/12/20 05:40 AM
6

U doesn’t equal You. I know that the internet killed grammar, but it doesn’t need to subtract that many IQ points.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 03:33 AM
8

I missed that on the first read. I saw who has a ... and I skipped over it because my mind jumped to “nope, next!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 03:30 AM
9

And dress sizes never lie either, right?
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 11:39 PM
1

I love old fables like this. No PC filter, and it expects you to connect the dots. As I read it, the king was jealous of this power. He wanted to control the power. It going away was also an acceptable outcome to the king. Either way, the dude was screwed. I imagine if the powers weren’t lost, or he didn’t become a servant to the king for “more time with her”, the king’s next order would be to send a soldier.
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 11:37 PM
5

To keep divorce lawyers in business I can see in 20 years making common law and polygamy legal, and like France, paternity tests will become illegal without a court order where you have to convince a judge (case law!) of why you should be allowed to have the test performed. Oh, and for sperm to be obtained, frozen, and used without fathers consent. Since they are common law married (one entity in the eyes of the law), the mother consented, which is good enough. Sperm jacking will be a real conce…
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 10:31 PM
4

They want it all, and for you to have it all, and then hand it all over. Rinse and repeat. Another way to look at it, men realize that for their hard work, post divorce they get screwed emotionally and financially. Or don’t work as hard, just make enough for himself, and forget about long term relationships (or go monk mode). Retirement plans are a joke now, having someone stay through the bad times doesn’t happen, so “dropping out” of societal norms of what’s expected makes sense when these soc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 10:08 PM
3

I’m on the fence with government support. The US M3 supply is basically an oil company backed by amazing armed forces. Thanks to Bush Jr. we stopped testing to keep track of it. Oh, M3 is like 90% of USD. I’m now getting reports of Venezuela government mining bitcoin. I’m sure China is eyeballing it, it’s an interesting way to make money with the cheap electricity of the three rivers gorge dam. They have the manufacturing ability to make the mining infrastructure without anyone knowing. If North…
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 09:46 PM
13

I could be wrong, but here goes. Bi= love male and female Pan= love male, female, trans, non-binary, hermaphrodite, and non-gendered. Slew of other red flags. The time commitments alone should be in selfawarewolves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 09:26 PM
1

Sounds like those old 967 phone numbers for phone sex. So is this retro or just a cam girl too lazy to cam?
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 05:40 AM
3

Everything is a cycle. Right now PMs and Crypto are hot. Oddly, stocks are also up overall. Right now I'm holding everything. I already have PMs,BitCoin, and regular stocks/index funds. If I do end up selling PMs or BitCoin, I'll hold it in an Index Fund until Gold or BitCoin drops. Also, since it's December, it might be worthwhile to look at your workplace 401k and HSA. Reduce your taxable income, and invest in something decent. It isn't liquid, but investing plays the long game anyway.
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 10:44 PM
5

Some fear boredom. Some fear having their time “wasted”, and see others having a great time and FOMO sets in. They don’t see that five sets of friends take one vacation a year. They see 5 vacations, and they are missing out on each and every one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 08:37 PM
11

So, prenups are the male version of the $hit test then?
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 12:59 AM
1

I have a crazy theory that pheromones increase drive. They take a few weeks to break down, so right after a break up they are still around driving you nuts. After a few weeks almost none of are left, and things get better. I don’t think it’s an all powerful thing, but something that can swing the desire higher or lower.
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 02:54 AM
3

I love how in the comments we talk about work/building/earning a better future. We understand that nothing is free, and earning something makes you value it more.
/r/MGTOW28/11/20 02:50 PM
5

Congratulations, you’re in a positive feedback loop. It’s easier now to make changes for even more good things in you’re life. I have a similar story to yours, once the crushing debt was handled, savings in the bank, stocks, etc. it was easier to make changes without having to worrying about how to live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/MGTOW28/11/20 02:41 PM
1

I’ll second the idea of a backup plan. I had to swallow some pride and work a plan “B”. I had $32 in my bank account, credit card debt, mortgage, car payment, and child support. I did plan “B” for a year. I hated it, but I kept learning professionally. It bought me the time for plan “A” to work.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 02:09 PM
1

No, she’s hitched to the guy she had the affair with. He’s much older(20+ years) with many health issues. Her payout will come sooner with him, and she gets the courts to try to milk me dry in the process. She has said that those who marry for money deserve every penny.
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 11:24 AM
1

That $1,000 buys you peace of mind and confidence. Don’t let anyone take that away, or make it feel insignificant.
/r/MGTOW07/10/20 03:28 PM
4

I worked in the public sector. Nice title, supported the (now ex) wife through her grad school. She needed some intern hours, I opened a door that got her the hours and later employment. The plans was for me to go back and get an advanced degree for me. That never happened. She cheated on me with a guy in the office who took a promotion to have a nice title. Blessing in disguise. Dude got fired, had to take a miserable job elsewhere. I went private sector. I now almost make as much as the two of…
/r/MGTOW06/10/20 12:57 AM
3

This and /r/whereareallthegoodmen. I don’t need them daily anymore, but it’s been a journey to get where I am now. I have less stress, career improvements, and an overall calm confidence thanks to these groups. Stay safe, stay true, and enjoy the ride.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 10:52 PM
25

If you are that worried, then consider this. Almost every time I’ve moved to a new company, I’ve gotten a higher salary. You have a job, it’s the best time to go job hunting. You are being considered for a promotion, so your managers see your value. Get a new job lined up, and ask your current manager for a letter of reference. If asked why you left, simply state that others were being promoted, and there just wasn’t room for you at this time with that particular company to advance. No hard feel…
/r/MGTOW15/07/20 06:55 PM
4

Let me guess, after the marriage she wanted you to move?
/r/MGTOW27/03/20 08:14 PM
2

I can sympathize with the guy, but he has to reach his “enough is enough” point on his own. It’s tough to throw away years of sacrifice, contemplate a lengthy divorce process, and to rebuild you life, just to have the kids used as a blunt weapon at every turn by the ex. He’ll reach that point, or he will forever grovel for scraps of attention. My advice if he finds this: Get a good lawyer. File the papers when she’s in Vegas again. Change the locks when she’s gone Do not leave the house except f…
/r/MGTOW27/03/20 08:12 PM
6

Also keep in mind that some states have an odd provision about spousal support. If the ex shacks up with a lover or gets married, support gets yanked. So you'll see a lot of ex wives live in duplexes or apartments with the new lover "living" next door. So it might be worth talking to lawyer in your state, then call in a PI.
/r/MGTOW15/03/18 01:17 AM
4

If it flies, floats, or "Female", it's cheaper to rent.
/r/MGTOW13/03/18 02:00 AM
3

Dude is a Moron. Sell a third, put the original back plus 5-10%. Sell another third, keep it hidden and untraceable. Keep the last third as crypto, let it ride. Take the first third, and up front pay for a divorce lawyer. Divorce, split what's left of the first third. Make her think she's "won". Take the hidden third, enjoy life a little and reestablish yourself someone in a different state or country. Loose all contact with the ex, and follow the 3 F rule about renting.
/r/MGTOW13/03/18 01:29 AM
10

It's a bit like the grieving process, with different stages. You eventually hit the acceptance phase, and learn to live with a new normal. By new normal, I mean one that you want, and are free to make your situation the best it can be.
/r/MGTOW12/03/18 01:19 AM
1

She forgot the W tattoo on each cheek so we'd say WOW.
/r/MGTOW10/03/18 03:46 AM
3

Funny, similar story over here. I tried to make it work after she cheated. She promised that she broke things off, etc. she then asked for an open marriage, that was it for me. Nice turn of events though, I kept the house, no alimony, and she still is paying off her student loans with a salary that never went up after getting her masters. Cheers, sometimes the good guy wins.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 02:17 AM
2

It's all about HWP. So as long as she's 12 foot tall, then I'm ok with that.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 02:11 AM
1

Adblock, avoid feminist websites, Netflix, prime, stream music/podcasts in the car, etc. I encounter very view ads. Blow the money on the ads, I've already pushed them out of my life.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 01:55 AM
1

So she can cheery pick each aspect that she thinks she likes from different men, and hold each potential suitor up against what she knows can be a "perfect man". You aren't being sized up against another guy, your being compared to collective of men she's encountered. No thanks, I have better odds with the PowerBall lottery.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 01:52 AM
5

Generally speaking, unless you cause a scene, no one will notice you. Go have fun, enjoy a no drama night. Also, I was astounded at how much less my nights out were when compared to my blue pill days when I was with someone.
/r/MGTOW04/03/18 04:04 AM
2

Agreed. You will get blacklisted. It isn't legal, but whistleblowers get shoved out the airlock and avoided like the plague. Might be different if you're in a union, but I doubt a posting like that would be in a union shop. Start looking for a new job. Quit the current one once you've accepted the offer at a new place. When asked why are you leaving, don't throw the old place completely under the table, just mention that their policies prevented you from obtaining a promotion, and you are lookin…
/r/MGTOW04/03/18 03:53 AM
6

MRA wants to fix society. MGTOW just wants to fix you and be happy. Both are valid and needed, but MRA is a calling.
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 03:02 AM
1

Acceptance, then nirvana. Instead of seeing what you lost from not having a woman in your life, you see peace of mind and possibilities for doing greater things. Or just more time for Netflix and video games.
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 02:59 AM
2

Keep a few months worth of expenses in the bank. CD or money market to get a little interest. Shift the money you save every month to an index fund. Robinhood is a good way to start, no fees. Crypto is play money. When it goes high sell off what you put in (principle), let the rest float. Gold/silver is a hedge against the stock market and the dollar going belly up at the same time. You won't make much on them, but you tend not to loose much either unless you buy when it's really high. Keep a li…
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 02:52 AM
1

Had it done after I had kids while I was married. The short/long physical effects are already laid out in the thread. The mental effects are great. When I was blue pill, not have to worry about protection until I found her cheating was great. Post divorce it gave me peace of mind on not being hit up for child support in case that protection didn't work. It also kept me off the market for long term relationships until I went red pill. Women that have kids avoided me, since I had kids of my own, a…
/r/MGTOW25/02/18 01:59 PM
1

Friends with benefits, benefits not guaranteed. It can work for short periods of time, but over time either it fizzles, she finds someone else for a BF, or they become attached. Enjoy the short ride, be smart, and use protection.
/r/MGTOW12/02/18 02:28 AM
3

€5,000 is nothing compared to 18 years of child support. Of course the whole thing is stupid, but once you have a negative paternity, you sue the woman for false claims, slander, etc. I know that case would never go through, but it's about raising the stakes for both sides. The "both consent" is a shot across the bow, so in my mind it's time to fight legally and clog "the system" with the truth.
/r/MGTOW12/02/18 02:19 AM
2

I cancelled the dish after the divorce went through. I still have an antenna for the rare times I watch something live. I have Netflix/Prime, but I choose what I watch, read, or visit now. It took a while for the reprogramming to take affect, but watching cable TV is an alien experience now. The constant ads, reality tv, and stupid wastes of time and money.
/r/MGTOW12/02/18 02:11 AM
5

Let's pretend you are a candidate. You submit a quality resume/CV, and get the interview call back. Before the offer can be made word comes down that the entire process for hiring has to be halted, not because of a lack of qualified people, but the preliminary results isn't what's expected. So they aren't even changing the rules, they are just folding up and going home. This sounds like a great time to call a lawyer and get a little justice.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 05:40 AM
1

My $0.02. YouTube is owned by Google. They want "brand safe" content where you supply the content to have eye balls stick around to make them money off of advertising. Freedom of speech doesn't pay the server and bandwidth bills. You want to post videos? Register a domain name, setup a server, and pay the bandwidth bill. Freedom is never free, it's paid for by blood, guns, or money.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 12:57 AM
20

I could write a book on the mental gymnastics it took to create the obstacle course of sadness. Bold face lies, the justification of the lies, envy of everyone around her, resentment of my success, inability to stay faithful, and an ever rotating list of demands.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 12:48 AM
27

Stock photo. Do you really think that is an accurate example of who you'll meet? Plus it's all vegan, if I ate that way my health would deteriorate.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 12:30 AM
3

"Family" courts are a strange thing. They don't follow criminal or civil rules for proceedings. The appeals process is a joke, and how they apply law is based on the whim of the judge. No marriage means you can skip the divorce.
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 07:18 AM
13

Speak to a decent lawyer, but do not move out until they tell you to. This can be seen as abandonment of the child. Also, keep the house if you can, and hope she has a terrible lawyer. Let HER move out, and if she lives with a guy, get evidence of it, and then file to end spousal support. Every state is different, but that counts as a reason where I am. Speak to a lawyer to see if it's worth pursuing. Good luck
/r/MGTOW03/02/18 12:24 AM
1

Be careful. Where I am the state law dictates that the county will force you to do a financial audit every 36 months. The are not allowed to take divorce deviations into consideration. They just put the numbers in a spreadsheet, then recommend to court that's what child support should be. You make more, guess what? Now you have to pay her. Save the child support check to hand it to a lawyer for the legal fight every three years. It's a long uphill fight, good luck
/r/MGTOW01/02/18 01:41 AM
2

I am clean (good hygiene), short beard and hair. I work in a professional office setting, so I have to blend in. I'm instantly forgettable on my off days with a T shirt, jeans, sneakers. I don't chase labels. I have no one to impress but myself and bank account.
/r/MGTOW27/01/18 10:54 PM
2

Before I went MGTOW I tried online dating post divorce. I would visit about 100 profiles before finding one worth messaging. Out of every ten messages I would get a response out of 1-2. Only about 1 out of 4-5 would result in a date. Only 25% of first dates would result in a second one. A female gets 5-10 new messages a day. Stop online dating. Unless you're a rich chad, the math is against you.
/r/MGTOW25/01/18 02:02 AM
1

So, she kicked him out of his own home without a court order?
/r/MGTOW25/01/18 01:50 AM
1

Also, remember that judges are elected officials. It's the one time they have to defend their actions in the court of public opinion. Do they really want it coming out that they decided to benefit with someone who lied on official documents (birth certificates) and not to correct an error when it can be factually proven? How does it benefit society to perpetuate a fraud? Where is the PAC for this?
/r/MGTOW25/01/18 01:09 AM
2

Watch Lopez file a civil case. He's a millionaire who can bury this guy financially with lawyers.
/r/MGTOW25/01/18 12:51 AM
2

No more walking on egg shells. No more having to get bitched at for spending money on necessities. A savings account and investments provide peace of mind, "we" could never afford these things when I was married. I cook or go out to eat without arguments. I can pick a vacation spot without a fight. I can stay home or go out without a fight. I don't have to worry about jealous wife when I come home from work. She thought I was interested in all of the young teachers I worked with. I don't have to…
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 12:42 AM
2

I'm taking the pill. Followed up by wedding vows.
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 12:05 PM
2

You will never make enough to afford her and you at the same time. Pick one, and choose wisely. I've been in a similar situation. It will not gets better when she leaves, and you take charge.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 02:16 AM
4

Never yours she was.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 01:32 AM
1

Currently alimony will reduce your taxes. This may change for divorces granted after the tax change. If you have leverage use it. She will use hers. For retirement accounts, she can only claim for the part that you were married. If you have 20 years in the system, but married for 10, she cannot get half of the account. Also, you can get part of her retirement account. It turns into a tit for tat argument, use it to lower the amount down.
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 12:42 AM
1

I've sat back and watched these claims. There are scumbags, and they need dealt with. Fine. But this isn't just dealing with a few scumbags anymore. This is a shit test on a societal scale. They want men to all be seen as scumbags, and they are indoctrinating women who aren't feminists to join their cause, it's cool, just say how one guy went a little too far, post #MeToo and you're in. This is turning into recruitment campaign for women, combined with a witch hunt on men. I don't have the answe…
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 03:16 AM
3

It takes a while to move past any serious relationship. It takes 6-12 months to mentally process the big changes, sometimes more. I tried to save the relationship I had with me ex for years, and her leaving hurt for over a year. I unfollowed her on Facebook, I leave her one for the occasional picture of the kids. I don't comment, like, etc her posts. If didn't have kids with her I would block her entirely from social media and my phone. I went through a grieving process of sorts. I realized the …
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 03:03 AM
1

I'd say she hit the wall multiple times.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 12:16 AM
4

Talk to your professional organization about a legal consult. If you don't belong, join the one for the grades in your building. Keep all HR and legal stuff in a folder, and keep a copy of it. You'd be shocked what can end up "missing" when there is a discovery or FOIA request. Talk to the lawyer about possibly involving the superintendent. Keep your resume updated. If you think crap going to fly and you might be hit, leave. "Hiring season" isn't that far away. I have 15 years in various Ohio sc…
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 12:10 AM
2

I second the astra. A box of 100 is around $10. It lasts me about three years, and the shave is great.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 12:42 PM
1

ETFs, savings, crypto, PMs, and guns. Most consumer goods drop in value, I'm more interested in items that hold or gain value over time. Also, I buy much better quality food, and have the time to cook more at home.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 03:51 AM
11

I am not a lawyer, but this caught my eye. "The criminal conviction of an abusive spouse shall be considered in making a reduction or elimination of a spousal support award in accordance with Section 4325." https://www.cadivorce.com/california-divorce-guide/spousal-support/how-spousal-support-is-decided-in-california/
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 01:23 AM
2

I've had situations where the law wasn't followed by an employer and I was let go. I would encourage you to get a free consult with a lawyer. However, the consult is going to go one of two ways: 1- retainer, and they bill you hourly. If you win, you still pay them for the hourly rate. All of the risk is yours. 2- they take it on, but only if they think they can win, and recover their time from the 33% of award they are able to take. In my state the award could only be the difference in salary, w…
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 01:06 AM
3

Van is a little small, but a small box truck might be viable for a year or two and let me wander around the US and work temp jobs till I decide to settle in a cool place and put a small home on some land.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 05:09 PM
4

The average guy needs to use any legal thing he can do. I did my homework, gathered information, and caught her cheating. It was really unfortunate for her and him that she was sleeping with a family court magistrate, and her ability to stay cool under pressure is almost nonexistent. No ability to control the feels on her part. Pissed off my judge to no end. Then my lawyer caught her lawyer having an affair. Oops. That lawyer is now divorced. Then my lawyer got caught hypnotizing female clients …
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 05:06 PM
3

$0. She moved in with the guy she had an affair with. My child support total amount is less than her student loans. Her salary did not go up like she thought it would when she got her masters degree. I kept the house, most belongings, etc. but I admit my case was a unicorn. It would be impossible to duplicate.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 10:54 AM
5

I thought we were both ready for a lifelong commitment. As time went on, her wants exceeded my ability to provide. House, car, vacations, kids, grad school wasn't enough for her. She was envious of my salary, she "deserved" more since she had a masters. She thought that I objectified her, since I wanted normal marital relations. That little voice in my head never went away. It sat silent for years, waiting for her wants to get out of hand. Going out late alone, suddenly many political fundraiser…
/r/MGTOW28/10/17 05:58 PM
3

I've had many people tell me that they aren't any happier with their masters degree. After all of the time invested and loan payments, they are constantly pressured to keep trying to climb the career ladder. I'm happy with my AA and $0 student loan. I might do a few online classes and get my BA, paying up front as I go.
/r/MGTOW15/10/17 02:21 PM
5

When I saw it, there was mostly men in attendance. The three women there were on a date. None of the women looked like they enjoyed it. We assume that he dies, but my take away was that he was trying to save the guy. If it was just about the girl, he could have phoned his prostitute friend with the info.
/r/MGTOW09/10/17 03:50 AM
1

Or divorced guy with full custody while paying the ex. Can't afford two vehicles, and I needed something inexpensive and decent gas mileage. After a few tears of savings I can get the car I want, and the teen can drive the van.
/r/MGTOW09/10/17 03:41 AM
1

Hollywood types have a team of people. Handler, chef, fitness guru, assistant, etc are all there to keep things in check. When the checks stop coming, they find a new star to latch onto. So, with a team of people taking care of you, and taking care of most thing "normal" it's no wonder this kind of stuff happens if the star's luster wears off.
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 01:06 AM
5

After viewing The Red Pill, one of the most eye opening things was the pathetic number of battered men's shelters. It becomes obvious why feminists hate MGTOW, they like their cash cow and pride in always being a victim. It's sickening. The other documentary I enjoyed was "divorce Inc". It really hit home with how this has become a monster feeding on ex-husbands money leaving them and their children in its wake. Follow the money. It all becomes obvious why the status quo is in place.
/r/MGTOW27/09/17 01:14 AM
1

By a certain %, I'm still within that amount. But her losing her income could be considered a trigger for it to happen.
/r/MGTOW25/09/17 10:00 AM
2

A few exist, but finding one is nearly impossible.
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 11:56 PM
30

Congratulations. I'm nine years away from my last CS payment. Each year feels great. Funny story, I got a raise yesterday. Two hours later I hear that the ex is now "between jobs". No idea when shes going back to work. I really do not want to go back and get the CS payments readjusted in her favor. I do great work, to see her get the raise I work for (tax free for her) would really tick me off.
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 10:17 PM
1

This is more long term advice, but here goes. Job interviews for me are becoming more about if I think the company is right for me. Yes, I'm showing the company my skills, experience, etc. But it is just as important that they show me that it will be a good relationship. Relationships (even professional work ones) are two ways streets. Learn from each relationship you have on what works, what doesn't, when to fix, and most importantly when to walk away. Work hard, learn. Take promotions even if …
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 11:51 AM
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Men are treated like an investment account that can be cashed out at any time, but still pays out interest.
/r/MGTOW23/09/17 11:36 AM
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All true. My own experience with divorce was horrid, even though by most accounts I came out ok. It still was emotionally crushing, even though I avoided most of fiscal penalties for her cheating. It is a war. The person suing you is no longer your wife, it's almost like an evil doppelgänger. You're told to "think of the kids". All while going to work trying to make ends meet while she enjoys a new relationship, trips, shopping, etc. I was lucky. I flipped the tables, and outsmarted 3 people wit…
/r/MGTOW21/09/17 12:37 AM
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Where I am (Ohio) it's 1/4 of the time you were married. However, they "level and half" the combined income, THEN tack child support on. So you aren't supporting the ex-wife for life, but good luck living while being double hammered. Also, Ohio is "no fault". She cheats, you pay. I have to wonder how much of our housing crisis was due to divorces and forced sale of homes.
/r/MGTOW21/09/17 12:06 AM
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My generator isn't from there, just eyeballing some solar panels. I bought the generator right before Sandy, and it has served me well. Solar cells have dropped dramatically in price, and I'm thinking about it now. My Hf rule is simple: if it has a motor, and I need to use it more than once, then it stays on the shelf.
/r/MGTOW17/09/17 03:37 AM
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Harbor freight has a 100 watt kit. They improved their controller, and upped the wattage from their old kit. It's a cheap way to start, but you will need your own battery. I know that 100 watts isn't much, but it can easily charge batteries, run LED lights, and a fan. I have a generator, but it's small and I don't want to run it 24x7 when crap happens. Plus, if the generator conks out, it's nice having an option.
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 08:14 PM
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Not always. Mine dropped weight after kid #4, and looked better than ever. She then had an affair with a lawyer older than her dad. Now that she married him, she's heavier than ever.
/r/MGTOW09/09/17 07:52 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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