TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

CraPixelArt Archive

View 6 posts and 80 comments by CraPixelArt on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

I once had a date who was surprised by a peck on the cheek I gave her. End of date she gave me a peck back but later texted me she'd been SA'd before so would like to take things slow. After that I've always gotten verbal consent before doing anything more than touching. Never know what some people have been through
/r/seduction19/07/26 12:59 AM
1

start with people you're not intimidated by, old people, dudes, girls you're not interested in
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:55 AM
1

I had a weekly threesome/sleepovers for a few months. It was fun and healthy group dynamic until one of the girls caught feelings so we stopped. it can be amazing if you're all chill and plan it out
/r/seduction28/05/26 09:52 PM
1

I read your other comment. I'm ~27 as well. The only sport I did before this was bouldering for the last 3 years. I copied some videos on getting aesthetic v-taper body (upper chest, lats, shoulders focus) with exercises I like day a - incline bench, alternating seated row/deadlift, squat, hanging leg raise, alt. tri extension/tri pushdowns day b - lat pulldown, alt. bench press/OHP, lateral raise, face pull, cable crunch day c - squats, RDLs, preacher curls, go bouldering after 2x8-12 to failur…
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:50 PM
1

do you have tips on gym? I've been consistent for ~2 months, 6ft 165lb. my lifts are going up but still feel like I look the same skinnyfat from the start looking at my progress pics. was hoping to see some change by month 3. also hitting 10k steps a day minimum I'm down from 170lb, trying to hit 160lb and see if i cut more or lean bulk 1~2lb/mo from there. mindset, lil habits that helped out, how much time it took you to look good i'm also working on fashion and hair. I was doing decent on apps…
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:08 PM
1

I had a couple gfs in HS but college was a bust, didn't make any friends or social connections with it being covid. mid 20s moved to the big city. living on your own + big city helps a lot. also work out. don't try to get strong, but aim to get an "aesthetic" physique. v taper, abs, biceps, lean. there's some youtube channels / tiktoks that cover how to achieve that look
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:02 AM
1

I have a couple fwbs but getting attached to one. I guess 😩
/r/seduction24/03/26 01:25 PM
4

nice comment. i'm also figuring this shit out mid 20s, wishing i knew this in my uni days
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:49 PM
2

i'm good with phase 3 until i start liking a girl. by then they like me back but I know I'm gonna push them away if I keep acting like it. any advice on that?
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:46 PM
1

I've been using the jenga tech ever since I saw that post too haha haven't had a date with it yet but I'll see how it goes. my cooking dates have been successful with most girls
/r/seduction13/03/26 09:23 PM
1

nice video, it makes sense and it's funny how this stuff translates to a lot of fields like story writing and filmmaking what else I noticed is wow barcelona is so beautiful. US cities are so car dominated that paris, barcelona, they seem like heaven with how many people are just walking about enjoying the day. i live in nyc fortunately but I need to find somewhere I can practice doing this i'm gonna try practicing your technique from now on, in most interactions i have, old young guy girl - it …
/r/seduction12/03/26 09:15 PM
3

thanks! them feeling safe and comfortable is always most important, and the way you go about it makes sense
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:51 PM
3

I did. She was ok with hand around, but said "can I say no to that?" to handholding. I don't have issues escalating with other girls and think I'm pretty good at reading when I can escalate. So I was reading this as "they're not interested". When I feel like I may make them uncomfortable, I straight up ask "hey are you ok? let me know if you're uncomfortable with anything ok" She was also sitting on the furthest edge of my small couch when we were eating, like, obnoxiously so haha. I scooched ov…
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:18 PM
1

yeah, a lot of them work hard, trialing and erroring and studying their way to those aesthetics. just like anyone else, it's embarrassing to first wear those alt aesthetics before they get used to it. so they're even more understanding than someone who's never tried alt fashion
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:11 PM
0

I don't drink or go to bars unfortunately. my dates are all at the park with food or cooking at my place
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:09 PM
2

I used to be shy of PDA too even though I never lived in east asia, bc I consumed east asian media but as for yesterday it was a cooking date, so in my room
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:08 PM
3

haha I get that talkative comment a lot, it's just who I am. I'll try being quieter next time. 1) Do you stare at them or just stare off in the distance? I feel a lil creepy just death staring them. I also feel uneasy escalating touch if it's not an established good vibe, how do you do it I don't drink. A lot of these are at-home cooking dates or at the park with food 2) how do you dress aesthetically? Last year I had dressed softer, boyfriend material. This year I've been hitting them gym and t…
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:26 PM
2

I said mainland to differentiate from ABCs but yeah, that's true never had a date with a taiwanese girl yet
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:23 PM
1

I literally date and sleep with other asians dude. it's not even "east asians" (koreans, japanese, ABCs), it's just chinese born girls
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:21 PM
2

Dude I had this same experience (for the first date) 😭 flirted heavily on bumble, told to come over at like 11pm to her apartment, and then... rejected hand hold or arm around. just ate cheap halal food and sat on her bed for a while talking about whatever for 2 hours before I left. I was so confused. never texted eachother after that
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:18 PM
2

i'm trying to change my aesthetics this year so I can go out with abg / rave types 😔 still working on it
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:16 PM
6

that's what I was thinking, they're still horny like anyone else. I won't put them off the table completely but even on stuff like hand holding, they'll reject it so. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ maybe I gotta calibrate or escalate a little slower I dunno
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:14 PM
17

I do fine on other groups, I just noticed a pattern with this one specific demographic. That's why I'm asking the question
/r/seduction12/03/26 04:33 AM
30

hey thanks, I wasn't expecting an answer but this makes sense On these dates I'll switch up from being flirty to just friendly halfway through the date (to try to make it fun at least). The dates are still awkward and all of them just end up being mutual ghosts after the date. If I'm looking for casual, I'm sure there are exceptions but guessing chinese chinese (in america) aren't interested in that I am sociable and many of them are surprised by it. Especially since moving to nyc I've gained a …
/r/seduction12/03/26 04:30 AM
2

after going on a bunch of dates you start getting experimental and a little bolder on the flirting over time. just take baby steps in trying something new every date know that girls are also horny and also enjoy sex. just don't be creepy about it. you'll calibrate over time to figure out what level of hinting and horny joking is appropriate. them feeling safe and trusting of you is a big thing also try talking to everyone! from the employee to the old lady at the bus stop. the other week I chatt…
/r/seduction06/03/26 11:52 PM
1

(assuming you're online dating), then you gotta improve your profile / looks until you have an abundance of matches. After I was getting a few matches per week (then per day), I could practice chatting to and practice going on dates, and after all that get to sleeping on first dates or having fwbs and shit. but that took dozens of dates to get to if your looks/profile is fine, then maybe your location is bad. try to move to a big city I have a bunch of girl friends but separate them as just frie…
/r/seduction06/03/26 11:47 PM
1

yeah! just cuddling and chatting with them late into the night is as good as the sex. but now it's a problem with one of my fwbs where I don't want to date them but I'm catching feelings for them. I haven't parted ways with an fwb yet so that'll be fun to experience the sadness and missing :')
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:15 PM
1

yeah this is sensible
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:09 AM
2

safety and comfort + good sex + be a good person I get the comment that I'm someone they feel comfortable/safe with a lot. sleep on first date, I usually do groceries -> cooking date. after date 1 or 2 it's straight-to-house hookups. never lie about seeing other people. after like date 3 they ask about your dating life and updates on other girls, even give motivation and advice so I can attract the kind of girl I want to date haha if they want a serious relationship, tell them you're looking for…
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:33 PM
1

how do you develop that amazing sex? Is it just from being w/ a partner for a long time and learning about what eachother like over time?
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:26 PM
1

emotional connection with the fwbs i'm close to def makes the sex way better, even if physically I mesh better with other hookups
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:20 PM
0

uhh I only see my fwbs to fuck, haven't met any of them (except the one i'm actually friends with) outside my apartment after date 1 lol. we chat life updates when they're over and send insta reels to eachother is about it
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:15 PM
0

I think i'm mid lol maybe a 6. they tell me i got a handsome face but I've got small muscles (I'm working on it). being tall and east asian helps
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:14 PM
0

yeah, I'm fine w most of them moving on but some of them it'd hurt to lose 😭 just focusing on making myself more attractive with gym and fashion
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:06 PM
3

oh maybe. i got asked to go on dates and I've declined it with the girls who said they haven't had a partner in a while
/r/seduction03/03/26 04:25 AM
10

they ask me updates on other girls i'm seeing, so naturally i ask them back. once in a while there's a new guy and we'll talk about how it was, but usually there's no updates
/r/seduction03/03/26 04:22 AM
1

!remindme in 4 months
/r/seduction27/02/26 02:16 AM
6

yeah but if you're clear about it being casual (would never do serious with that dynamic imbalance / different stage in life), wouldn't it be fine? i'm mid 20s trying to hit that range (just started dating / sex last year) before I become too old
/r/seduction26/02/26 11:18 PM
1

maybe :/
/r/seduction26/02/26 11:17 PM
1

because it feels exactly like how it was with my ex. It's gonna feel like continuation of close friends after we date but I'm not going to fall in love romantically, I'm gonna have a bunch of doubt and "what ifs" throughout the relationship, and I'm going to hurt them after a year by breaking up
/r/seduction26/02/26 11:16 PM
1

mid 20s that I could be with this person forever, that I'm happy and don't have constant doubts in my head (what I had w/ my ex). I don't think it should feel so wrong all the time when you're dating someone I had a few girlfriends during HS, then one serious relationship after uni.
/r/seduction24/02/26 04:43 PM
3

im a proponent that FWBs should not be people you are in a similar group with or someone you hangout with or talk to regularly outside the agreement. we only hang out to fuck, she doesn't know my other friends, but is someone I talk to everyday now :/ now I reap what I sow
/r/seduction23/02/26 09:20 PM
2

My last relationship was an ex just like this, where I felt very comfortable and was my best friend for years before we started dating. But after we dated, it didn't feel different from being best friends. I never felt romantic "love" (maybe I failed to recognize it) and broke up after 2 years. She said she loved me. Later I burnt that bridge and am no contact with her Since then I've been relying on a gut feeling for serious. When I want to date a girl long term (which I only felt twice out of …
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:52 PM
1

hey if you don't mind could you dm the post to me
/r/seduction16/02/26 08:30 PM
0

i wish lmao some of them are bad
/r/seduction16/02/26 08:27 PM
1

I don't run the group
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:28 PM
-3

not trying to dox myself. it's a niche that attracts some people who aren't socially well adjusted
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:25 PM
1

got ghosted 😔 maybe next time
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:43 AM
1

I do a lot of cooking dates where we go walk to groceries before arriving at mine, and after some banter w/ walking + cooking we sit on the couch to eat, where I slowly hold hands on the walk or escalate while cooking. I guess I'll see how it goes. Just worried since there's no rapport building before physically touching on the couch with jenga date
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:54 PM
3

are you deadass first match I get since reading this post, I do this and she's agreed to come over. a girl I matched with long ago and tried my usual playful texting but fizzled out lmao. ordered a rug and set of jenga blocks. I did tea instead of wine (I don't drink) What does it look like going from meeting to going to your room and starting the game? Any tips to transition it smoothly and not be too awkward?
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:26 PM
1

Just be honest. Ofc not the first thing you tell them, but playful date without misleading that it’ll be serious. I reject girls after a date if they give serious vibes but I don’t want it with them. For threesome, they’re both bi. I’d do another three/foursome but the third girl is straight and said no when I asked. Girls are just as horny as guys and many are down for a threesome. Being bi helps, they find eachother attractive and we can do FFM. I’d never do MMF
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:57 PM
2

do you have some good resources for getting better at sex? The partners I see enjoy me, I always make them cum from oral/fingers 2~5 times before PIV and I know some tech. But I've never had that trembling, mind breaking kinda result. At most was a girl who had to stop because she was cramping up from cumming so much (Needed to take a break and drink water). I want to give them an unforgettable time haha
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:48 PM
7

We're fwbs and talk about eachother's dates/sex lives. They all know about eachother. We're not exclusive and they don't have a reason to lie I didn't realize it wasn't the norm till reading other comments, but you can do this while being ethical. Don't need to lie and hide lol
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:36 PM
40

I have 3 atm, and I'm the only guy they sleep with so they want to see me often. Bundling 2 of them into a threesome group helps a bit, but still it's hard to meet with 3 people semi-regularly. Just started dating again 6 months ago. I still want to go on new dates but I barely have time so I've cut down on first dates a lot. Sleeping around really kills the amount of time you have to work on yourself.
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:51 AM
1

i'm mid 20s, my rule is casual is fine but no serious for anyone +/- 5 years. I also never lead people on, cutting it off they give serious vibes but I don't feel the same way But then again I've matched but never had a date with someone outside my +/- 5 range. So curious to know how it goes with your date
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:31 PM
2

What hobby is surrounding you w upper class ladies?
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:05 AM
1

is there anything in particular you do for them or just treat them the same as any other? I'm 24 but all of my dates have been with 21~25, some 26/7. Want to try 18~20 before I'm too old but haven't had any success with them. I match often but they are usually the worst for even starting flirty convo, let alone getting to a number. I've been texting them the same as I would someone 24
/r/seduction28/01/26 06:56 PM
2

living in a big city is big i'm a tall east asian in the US, biggest boost was moving from the southern suburbs to a global city with more diversity. I'm not into white girls anyways (the dominant population in the US suburbs) so it works for me too. I get the most likes from east asians, black girls, and south asians on the dating apps.
/r/seduction21/01/26 06:25 AM
1

Sorry I don't understand your question, could you rephrase it? You're asking if my fwbs look forward to seeing me or see me as a chore?
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:52 PM
1

what's a hoop? hookup?
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:50 PM
1

I had sex for the first time and started my hookup phase later than you. you're fine. move to a big city (nyc) and socialize, work on yourself, get on the dating apps. most of my hookups are with college girls here
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:11 AM
3

you can talk about it after you do the straight-to-house hookups like 2 or 3 times. For me, all my fwbs were sex on 1st/2nd date, then dates after were all pretty exclusively hookups. Sometimes go out or text as friends I have healthy relationships and clear understandings with all of my fwbs as to what we are.
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:08 AM
1

I'm a sub too but I have to dom whenever I go on dates/hookups. Only after having sex a few times can I open up about being sub and sometimes the girl (now fwb) will learn to enjoy it. But they're still subs at the end of the day :/ I've never met a naturally dom girl yet. So I'm guessing I just gotta keep looking and maybe I'll find one
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:05 AM
2

i moved from red state suburbs to nyc. night and day difference. not just in dating but everything in life, so much happier here. i'm jealous i didn't grow up here but at least i'll never take it for granted
/r/seduction10/01/26 07:54 AM
1

it probably works in your if you're a student but anecdotally: I live in nyc and have gone on dates with some girls from yale (new haven CT, city of 130k, 2hr train). All of them were grad students and not undergrad, but said dating in NYC is way better bc there's just millions of people here and stuff to do. And came here a lot on weekends.
/r/seduction08/01/26 11:04 PM
2

what's an alternative to bars for someone who doesn't drink? also living in a city (nyc) and I go to hobby meets and climbing. maybe the park and (performatively haha) read?
/r/seduction08/01/26 10:56 PM
4

I had a first date once where I gave her a cheek kiss unprompted. later when I asked for a kiss she didn't want to, but gave me a cheek kiss when I dropped her off at the subway. on date 2 she opened up about how she was hesitant to kiss because she had been sexually assaulted in the past. since then I always have some cheesy line that makes it obvious we're gonna kiss and never "just go for" a kiss. If they want to kiss you it doesn't matter how silly the line you say is. consent is important m…
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:59 PM
1

i've only had one girl flirt with me in my life and I flirted back. we exchanged instas, briefly messaged, but then she stopped responding. so, yeah once I guess
/r/seduction06/01/26 04:06 PM
1

exchange instas so you can send reels and reply to stories (just once in a while, not always). then you don't have to text her but you're still on eachother's minds whenever you see eachother's stories. whenever you guys are going to be in the same area you can start normal convo -> flirt -> see if they wanna meet up I live in an international city and have some casual relationships with visitors / cities I visit, we keep in touch on insta
/r/seduction04/01/26 04:16 AM
1

I've only used apps so far, a handful of in person approaches that went nowhere. My goal this year is to get more comfortable talking to girls I find attractive in the wild. Trying new stuff may be fun
/r/seduction29/12/25 09:46 PM
1

while you can attract women effortlessly before even reading this sub. I was getting matches (I'm decent at taking pics) but the dates were awkward interviews that went nowhere Also, a goal I have for this year is to get hit on in person. I've never had that and want to experience it You just previously lacked the escalation skills and the know how of how you can move the interaction forwards / progress, which is why you were interested in this sub. I agree However, you've already learnt that by…
/r/seduction29/12/25 09:38 PM
2

More attracted yeah I think being cool would help sexual attraction and casual compared to being a cute guy who's (attractive but) more boyfriend material. I've had to turn down quite a few because they gave serious relationship vibes. I think that means I'm not filtering them before the date or I'm attracting the wrong crowd
/r/seduction27/12/25 08:29 PM
5

When I'm with platonic friends lol, I act different and escalate fine on dates.
/r/seduction27/12/25 08:21 PM
1

I don't drink either and never been to a club/rave/concert (and no interest). I do well on dating apps (nyc mid 20s) attracting cute nerdy types, like half are internationals students, but I want to attract ABGs this year. Wonder if changing my vibes/aesthetics (softboy -> fuckboy) is enough or if they don't exist on the apps to begin with
/r/seduction27/12/25 07:32 PM
3

what got you to this stage? hitting the gym? getting practice?
/r/seduction18/12/25 09:07 PM
1

tldr: have 2 chill bi fwbs who find eachother attractive I had a bi fwb for a while who's super chill. We've talked about threesomes before so I know she's open to it Then I had a cooking date w/ another girl. we ended up having "cooking dates" like 4 times that week. She seemed to give serious vibes so I told her hey, I don't want kids (something she wants) so anything with us is just casual. She said she wasn't sure about casual at first but really liked the sex so wanted to keep going. On a d…
/r/seduction17/12/25 11:15 PM
2

I like to do headpats. Steer the convo towards positive stuff they're proud of, and give a headpat "reward" I find headpats a nice ramp into handholding because it breaks the touch barrier without needing to ask. I always ask after though if the headpat was ok obv wouldn't do this with someone who might be sensitive to having their hair touched. I usually date east/south asian girls
/r/seduction12/12/25 07:51 PM
1

at 24 I had 1 (serious relationship, and even then it was like twice). had big FOMO of being mid 20s barely having sex. moved to nyc after i broke up with her, took a few months before downloading apps and dating around a bunch. half a year of dating I'm 26 and at like 10. reading this sub helped convert awkward interviews to dates and practicing talking to everyone made me more confident overall
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:48 PM
2

mid 20s broke up w/ ex and moved to nyc last year. got into fashion. built a huge friend network before downloading the apps this summer. get so many more matches (and they're attractive, varying subcultures, and I date any race but finally I can date people of my minority group 😭) than I did in a red state suburb 2 months of awkward interview dates -> started reading this sub + dating a bunch (up to 5x/wk) = got good at fun and flirty dates -> started sleeping on some first dates -> got a fwb l…
/r/seduction11/11/25 06:38 PM
3

same here. red state suburbs -> nyc night and day difference. so much more people, diversity, and higher base level of fitness and fashion. also helped w/ personal growth to force myself from knowing no one to build a giant social group.
/r/seduction06/11/25 09:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter