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/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 05:06 AM
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I think just enough, no more, no less. No reason to over think everything and personalise everything.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 02:24 AM
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You think too much big chief.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 01:39 AM
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I just work hard at what I love to do. And try to be a friendly and kind person to as many people as possible, within whom I feel deserve to be treated kindly and with respect. Having things that I organise to invite people to brings in people to my life who I admire and who admire me.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:46 PM
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I like your stealth approach. If you're saying it doesn't happen often, then you just need to stand out more. Become so good at something that people can't help but notice. But if you're married you prob dont care about being noticed anymore, you bagged one eventually. 👍
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:28 PM
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Because you don't go chat up men in the room like that. i don't chat women up either, I just talk to them. Alien concept?. > Why else would you be talking to her but for some kind of positive result. I hope for a positive result in everything I do in life, it doesn't always happen though, so “self deception” is counting on positive results. I would never do that. The positive result I am hoping for is if I like her. If I don't, I leave, simple. > why wouldn't you just walk up to some random dude…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:07 PM
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You're irritating the fuck out of her I wasn't trying to be mean or judge when I asked you if you are scared to talk to girls. I don't think that is anything to shame someone for or to feel bad about, because I think it's normal. I'm not exempt from feeling fear myself, we all do. It's natural. But your arguments you presented me are centered around the premise that talking to women is doing something wrong. And that's how you feel and I understand. But I reject that your premise applies to all …
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:24 AM
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You think someone projecting their own fears and insecurities in the form of lecturing someone who has done nothing wrong is based ?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:08 AM
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I've met loads of women by talking to them. Yes. In fact, It's how I've met most of the women I have dated over the last ten years or so. Edit, also made a lot of friends that way. It's perfectly normal and acceptable, and nothing bad happens as long as you know what you are doing. How is a guy supposed to meet women if he never talks to any?.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 07:24 AM
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So, you're scared to talk to women?.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 07:03 AM
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How so?
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 02:12 AM
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And how's that been working out for you so far?
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 05:03 AM
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Incels in cells.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 11:37 AM
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You can insist on putting words in my mouth and thoughts in my head all you like. I’m not defending myself against inferences you pull out of your ass. That’s exactly what the woke do, invent intent and attack people for it. You’re better than that dude, you’re actually one of the smarter people here.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 11:25 AM
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If you think that talking about something is advocating it then I don’t know what to say to you.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 09:51 AM
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Only an incel would make someone’s lack of sex drive about themselves
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 09:45 AM
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What if you earn ten times more than her and you want to go to an expensive restaurant that’s out of her budget ?
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:51 AM
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At least they will no longer be virgins when they get to prison.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:48 AM
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Throw him in the gulag
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:48 AM
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Definitely a male virgins version of woke. cries oppressed, when someone of the same demographic disagrees then hurl pejoratives and run away
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:47 AM
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Proof that black pill is a male virgins version of woke
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:45 AM
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don’t lay down with dogs and complain you got fleas
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 08:43 AM
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I've said everything I wanted to say, If you disagree, fine.
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 02:18 AM
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The men in the manosphere are not pathetic and annoying ?
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:03 AM
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What about lifestyle upgrades? Got any plans to learn anything?
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 02:26 AM
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How the fuck is pointing out that people had to work their asses off idealising the past ? If anything,I was idealising the present, comparing how much more cushy it is now that we have welfare state and family homes are bigger and can accommodate. Thats why there are more incels. Easy times create lazy, weak men, men of no value. Hard times create strong men of value. There were incels back then too, but they’d be homeless due to not being strong or motivated enough to get a job and wouldn’t ha…
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 02:24 AM
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What you see is what you look for.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:44 AM
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“Women seem wicked when you’re unwanted” Jim Morrison
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:43 AM
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It didn’t give men women, not in the west. Even in arranged marriage culture, families would give their daughters to the most successful men. The black pill is wanting women to be with you with no effort required, but in the past….youd have to work ten times harder than you would nowadays just to make ends meet, if not then you’ll get the bottom scraps….or nothing at all if you don’t work at all. It wouldn’t be a simpler solution, it wouod be a far far harder solution
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:40 AM
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The men in patriarchy were rewarded with the best women through having the best careers or being the biggest contributors to their community. And work conditions were more harsh and brutal than today, those who couldn’t work or produce got nothing. Who you were, what you did and what you stood for counted way more than it does today. Guys weren’t a pack of bums surfing Internet forums, they were out there in coal mines, on top of buildings with no safety gear, were fighting wars, were running bu…
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:35 AM
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What work will you be doing on yourself?
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:30 AM
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I think we all should strive to experience the real world as much as possible. Which isn’t as often as we would like in this day and age where most people are working and trying to make ends meet. People work from home, socialise online and consume a lot of visual content. We are all distracted by technology, it consumes us all. Its often first advice from doctors, go out, be active, be social. I was depressed and lonely once because I was spending too much time alone in my house. One day I deci…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:37 PM
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Fair. What will you do with all that freedom, time and money you save?.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:21 PM
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how has your life improved since this incident?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:32 AM
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I thought the point of touching grass was to get out there, make new contacts and friends. Didnt know you were supposed to stand in the corner and judge everyone around you. Though I can really see how that could be beneficial to improving the quality of life. Cheers for this post, now I know exactly what to do when I finally venture out of my house.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 06:41 AM
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most incels don’t do much outside of the internet. Their whole life has been inside a virtual reality of text, videos and memes. No wonder they struggle with women, hardly would come as a surprise that it you were to put them in front of a woman in the real world and their brain will go into melt down. They literally will not know what they are supposed to do. Because they have no experience of talking to women in real life. They keep depending on apps and social media, but even if they do get a…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 04:37 AM
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Proof that the black pill is a male virgins version of woke. “You’re not the worlds biggest victims….we are!!!” ”it’s not because I’m lazy and useless…..it’s everyone else’s fault”. same shit, different shovel.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 04:26 AM
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Maybe try leaving the house
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 04:13 AM
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Wow, with those impeccable flirting skills, and your deep sense of empathy, it's hard to know why youre an incel
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:57 AM
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Yeah........like that's the ONLY other option he has For gpds sakes bro 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:44 AM
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Everyone is going to be different to you in some way. You will immediately go to that difference to dismiss it as not applying to you and with a dismissive finger click you can shut down dialogue with someone you might benefit from picking their brains. Everyone can teach you at least one thing you didnt know. You will never discover what that one thing that person could have taught you because there isn't even a dialogue. It's always going to be some form of “you are this, I am not that, and th…
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 09:11 AM
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I think you were being more of an asshole to yourself than to anyone else tbh. If you meet an outlier and you're not even inclined to ask a single question. Is your aim to become an outlier? or not?
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 08:10 AM
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I don't believe you are desperate enough yet to want figure this out. If you were, you'd be jumping on situations like this, youd actively be seeking out the people who get the results you want, You wouldn't just simply dismiss people who get the results as outliers and forget about it, you'd be compelled to jump on anyone who is willing to talk in order to pick their brains with 1001 questions. The aim is to become an outlier.....is it not?. Why would you snub anyone who is willing to talk to y…
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 07:43 AM
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I'm dumbfounded right now bro. Here you are, presented with some one who is involved in event that garners the results you wish to attain. Anyone else in your shoes would see that as opportunity to exercise curiosity and think to themselves......“here is someone who is in the position I wish to be in, I wonder what quesstions I could ask as to learn how this is possible”.... Instead you shrug it off and sweep it under the rug. Nothing to see here, move along.
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 07:18 AM
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Incels don't exist, the ones on Reddit who say they are are just victim signalling
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 07:05 AM
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Imagine getting butt hurt over someone dissing the guardian. It's not the holy grail mate 😆
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 01:07 PM
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Humour is a social tool that raises your credibility
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:04 AM
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when you give value, meaning do things that improve the quality of other peoples lives.....you will automatically gain status. What ever community or circles you frequent, to climb the ladder of status, you need to be contributing in a way to contribute to the community and those in the tribe, if not then your status level remains static. The examples I gave encompass various ways in which someone can create value rather than being the beneficiary of other peoples value all the time.
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:43 AM
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If you think charisma and social ability does help then you are in direct agreement with me and direct disagreement with the other guy. The mind is more important to the body, unless you look like a model or an actor, your looks are going to do jack shit, they won't get you jobs, won't get you women. All you have left is your character, your social ability and your competence. Only people who have none of those things believe they don't matter....because they have never experienced those inner q…
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:49 AM
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So how could you know that the most charismatic man in the world wouldn’t be successful ?
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:03 AM
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So how do you know it’s the truth that you can be the most charismatic guy in the world and it won’t mean a thing? Are you the most charismatic guy in the world?.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:44 AM
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So, we will assume you are the most charismatic guy in the world and are talking from experience?. Or is this more horseshit conjecture ?
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:38 AM
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You don’t know what experience means? You sure this will end up being an intellectual conversation?
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:09 AM
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It was easy to figure out, you’ve learned everything you know about women on the internet. Guys with experience don’t talk like you
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:07 AM
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Another boy with no experience of women trying to teach women how women are. Gotta love reddit
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:04 AM
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I think both are ok. Live your life and make it great but while you go about your business , if you see your sweetie , say hello
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:57 AM
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Nah, talking shit seemed to be the best, non serious nonsense
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:43 AM
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No particular strategy, just message and flirt and talk shit then ask them out if they enjoyed it
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:39 AM
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Yep, I spent hours trawling the forums getting advice from every Tom dick and Harry. Nothing worked. I didn’t really meet girls through day game at first, took me years to get good at that, I met girls through social circle and bars. My issue wasn’t my profile, my issue was I had become a lazy bastard who didn’t want to leave my house to find women. Weirdly enough, I had success from social media, but never from dating apps
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:27 AM
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After a year of listening to people like you informing me my profile was the problem and executing their ideas. I finally gave up and ditched online dating and went out side to meet girls and the difference was night and day. If it works for you great.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:20 AM
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Understanding women and knowing how to talk to them
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:17 AM
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Yeah by ditching apps and learning how to talk to women irl
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:57 AM
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Expect the unexpected
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:41 PM
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You can’t, this is normal for online dating. You’re lucky you’re even getting matches and responses, most guys don’t.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:18 AM
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Because someone on Reddit has an opinion.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:10 AM
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How I met my fiance 😁
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:16 AM
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Why does this get downvoted? Of course you're going to get a lot of rejection in a mall. Doesn't mean never do it, but just means expect the obvious.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:15 AM
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I’m sure you’ll find some other spots that are cool. Good luck bro ✌️
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:21 PM
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You have arts events there? Or any alternative cultural or music scenes?
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:12 PM
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They are showing you in the first second what they are like as people. Going to the posh mall is going to get you a whole lot of the same.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:10 PM
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You tell me, I have never been to your city
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:07 PM
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So where else could you find chilled girls who are nice ?
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:05 PM
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Ok, so skip that then. Did anything else I said make sense ?
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:02 PM
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Sounds like you are choosing venues with the snobbiest women in town. And you’re a foreigner from a poorer continent. I think the stuck up reactions you got would be pretty normal with posh mall girls. Why would you even want to be with someone like that?. You should look for more down to earth girls, find some more chilled and happy locations
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:56 PM
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See what you said in the op…..tell her that
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:36 PM
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I get that, you've past the beginner wheels now, next step.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:14 AM
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Were you actually lost?. Why ask for directions if you don’t need them? It’s not very authentic. I get it that you wanna do that to acclimatise, but I would suggest being more honest about your intentions from now on
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:55 AM
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You'd love the book alabaster girl
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:18 AM
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!optout
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:34 AM
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You go to places like yoga because you’re interested. If you meet a girl it’s a bonus.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:33 AM
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Anywhere that there are women. Just go up and say hi
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:31 AM
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Go and get high and have some giggles, if it leads somewhere it does, if it doesnt it doesnt. No outcome dependency bro, always be going with the flow. Be Zen like Buddha and you can never go wrong.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:31 AM
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So you had a bit of luck and now you think you're billy big balls, we get ya.
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:57 AM
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You're great and everyone else is lame. We get it billy big balls
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:54 AM
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That dude seems to think he knows your mind better than you 😂
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:51 AM
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Even pua should be kept to high standards.
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:48 AM
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The old “this only applies to other people” excuse
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:46 AM
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What nonsense. You live in north Korea or what? How did you get into the internet ?
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:36 AM
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You improve status by putting yourself into the position of status. Instead of joining clubs, organise your own. Instead of going to parties, make your own. Instead of going to gigs, book bands and bars and promote your own. Instead of reading books, write and publish books. Instead of watching youtube videos, create your own. Instead of going to meetups on meetup.com organise your own. as well as learning new skills, set up classes to teach people what you already know Etc. Edit. Status comes f…
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:55 AM
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That's the only legitimate reason to get it bro, if that's what you're getting it for and it's under instruction from your doctor then good luck with it. But the OP is not posted in a BDD group, it's in a group for guys who wanna get laid, which is a bit out of place if it really is just advice for mental health patients. What's the relevance to seduction ?
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:10 PM
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I thought you meant that the main reason asian guys dont marry out of their race is because other races dont want asian men.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:01 PM
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I dont wanna say any personal info because i get trolled a lot and narcissist's love to use personal info to ridicule you over :) the white guys getting pissed at you is not tribal, its because they literally suck with women and you are saying its easy when clearly to them it seems impossible
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:00 PM
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So we can say that is the reason more so than racism
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:11 PM
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I’m not personally insulted. I’m used to being preached at for my skin colour. I can get girls so it doesn’t bother me, i know white guys who can’t get laid for love nor money and i know they would be offended by reading this. I think explaining peoples privilege to them is always going to be patronising, even if you were as sweet and polite about it as you were. Privilege applies to individuals, not everyone has such privilege. Especially as I grew up in a mostly white country where anyone non …
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:11 PM
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Know anyone who had the surgery then got all the girls ?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:52 AM
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OP is not a psychiatric professional. This is not professional advice. Please consult your doctor or healthcare worker before making any drastic and expensive decisions. There are other ways to improve the quality of your life without body modification. Typically, psychologists will only recommend body modification to people with severe body dysmorphic disorder as a last resort if all the mental work they try fails.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:50 AM
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Actually, there is strong indication that asian guys choose Asian partners over other races, because of family pressure to marry within the culture.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:41 AM
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This is a seduction group. Not preach at white people because you’re not on top of your game group. Your post is an insult to every white guy who struggles more than you do. The only privilege men have is the privilege of competence. Even that isn’t really a privilege as it’s something that is cultivated and developed by yourself.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:39 AM
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That’s nice of you, but he isn’t looking for a solution. He wants people to validate his resignation
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:27 AM
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It’s not a vent group, it’s a group where people want to learn seduction
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:26 AM
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Nonsense
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:25 AM
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You’re addicted to this argument arent ya?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:22 AM
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How about agree that you're having a hard time right now and you're having difficulty accepting that there is anything else apart from height that matters in life. Depression makes things seem black and white
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:46 AM
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So why not make yourself even more miserable? Makes perfect sense. But depression doesn't understand logic. My heart goes out to you bro ❤️ you're not treating yourself with kindness
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:43 AM
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Venting just makes you more miserable, science shows. https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/venting-just-makes-you-more-miserable-science-shows.html
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:22 AM
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bro, you just asked me to compare two non existent men who are “equal in every way” but you're not wrapping things into a binary?. There is no such thing as equal fields, no two people have ever been completely equall, this is the wonderful part of life, we are all unique and we all have control over what we choose to improve about ourselves. You can't ask me how two hypothetical people will compare without knowing anything about who they are as people, the white guy could be a retarded loser an…
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:34 AM
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Depends on where they both are mentally at the time and how capable they are of emotional connections I know tall blondes who couldn't get laid in a womens prison with a food parcel. And I know short brown dudes who women fawn over. Life is not black and white, no matter how hard you try to fit everything into a binary
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:54 AM
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Nonsense. The rules of the game are the same for all players.
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:28 AM
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I think everyone needs as many advantages as they can get, regardless if they are tall or short
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:25 AM
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This is the truth u/kinghaaris The problem is not them being out of your league, it's you being out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:24 AM
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You're not supposed to get over it. This is your biology. You can't suppress what you feel. You're asking for the wrong advice
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:22 AM
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So ask people for help with overcoming low self esteem. Your post is asking for advice on how to MAINTAIN your sense of low self esteem. The opposite of what you need advice on.
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:18 AM
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You're comparing humans which are diverse in mindset and values to inanimate objects though.
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:12 AM
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I don't think an 8 can pull an 8 if he doesn't know how to
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:09 AM
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Ouch 🤕 😂
/r/seduction23/09/21 04:03 AM
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No. It isn't wrong.
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:55 AM
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That is just one reason out of many why dating apps don't work for guys. Hate to break it to ya guys, I know its scarier to approach women IRL and it's not the easiest thing in the world either, but it's still hands down the most efficient way to get dates.
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:55 AM
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If you don’t want to be labelled as the creep who goes around asking out random girls, there is a great little trick to ensure that will never happen…. Don’t go around asking out random girls. You’re not going to walk up to a girl you don’t know and say “wanna go out?… No?…..ok…….next” then go up to the next girl are you?. You’re going to say hello to random girls and if they are responsive you might make some friends and maybe, just maybe meet a girl to date, but if you’re only intention of tal…
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:35 AM
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First line is from the game isn't it?
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:36 AM
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That's fair. Bit of a different vibe to. “Its wrong and that's that”, though. The dude has been seeing her on weekends for three weeks and he met her on tinder, not really sure what he was expecting?.
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:31 AM
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Do you refrain from sex till you know her well and are exclusive? Or do you expect her to be exclusive to you from the start ?
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:31 AM
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No one said you have to be. Just because you are not comfortable with it doesn't mean it's wrong for others to be comfortable with it in a conensual and honest environment. It's only dating. I don't know how you can expect someone who barely knows you to be exclusive from the get go, its fine once you have got to know each other and had that talk though.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:24 AM
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I've answered your question twice already. Your further stipulations don't change my answer. This is the last time I will answer, please stop making this a circular discussion. You can certainly tell her that, and there is nothing wrong with that but you have to accept the circumstances....which MIGHT be her moving on. But it might not, I don't have a crystal ball. It will be one of those two consequences, and you will have to accept it. And no, there are not only 2 options, there were three, an…
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:56 AM
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Why do you think I'm offended?. I answered the question in the post you were responding to. “You can do that, but don't expect her to wait”. “It isn't changing the situation, it's keeping things the way they are”. You want to tell her you're just a little bit more interested but not totally interested, just throwing her a little bit more rope to remain dangling in the void till you are ready. Certainly you can do that. But you have to accept the consequence of that. Which could be she gives up o…
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:32 AM
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I didn't know this was a debate ?
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:24 AM
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Bro, do as you wish, you've been briefed on your options. Choose an option and accept the circumstances.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:22 AM
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The long distance thing is going to make things more unsustainable the more years you push it off. You can tell her that, but don't expect her to wait. You're not “changing” the situation by doing that, that's doing the exact same thing you've always been doing. You might want to choose option 3.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:54 AM
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Oki doki
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:40 AM
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I think he wants to be platonic friends and a lover simultaneously, as he can't be both, he has defaulted to platonic. But he still wants his cake and eat it. If he doesn't make his mind up soon, someone else is gonna eat it
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:39 AM
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Sure. It would mean end it.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:24 AM
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What do you think ?
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:13 AM
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No no no. He ASKED if you care. And gave answers to both yes or no. Read it again carefully
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:13 AM
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“ If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: remove yourself from the situation. change it. or accept it totally. If you want to take responsibility for your life, you must choose one of those three options, and you must choose now. Then accept the consequences” Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:10 AM
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Only seeing women as a vagina is so bad. But I do agree he should be focusing on other girls, hopefully he is.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:08 AM
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Ask her...
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:07 AM
1

He wasn't being rude, he didn't accuse you of not caring, he was asking if you cared or not? Quite an important question
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:05 AM
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ASK HER. Not us. She knows the answer, we don't
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:03 AM
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You better hurry up dude, you've been rejecting her for way too long. Make your mind up and either let her go and be free or state intentions, it may be too late, it may not, only one way to find out.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:02 AM
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She's getting laid, you're getting laid. What's the problem?. The problem is you're not ok with her getting laid with other people. You either keep it going while you also date around or finish it. If you expect girls you met on tinder in 2021 to be exclusive to you without asking them to, you should probably stop using tinder and go meet girls wt church.
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:30 AM
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No, killing kittens is wrong. Dating multiple people non exclusively isn't
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:26 AM
1

Aw dear. Well, you did get a bit heavy handed
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:37 PM
2

Good to see your light side finally
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:42 AM
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Hey Karen! How's your day been?.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:49 AM
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Read the power of now by eckhart tolle and clarity by Jamie smart. Learn how to be present in the moment and not stuck in your head thinking of the next thing to say. Attraction is spontaneous but calm and peaceful. Not cold and calculated.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:13 AM
1

“Hi, I'm xxxx whats your name” Thats the opener I always use
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:11 AM
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Pretend you're talking to your best friend. Act in the same way
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:45 AM
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It's fine. Though doesnt mean the girl you fall in love with will necessarily end up being white. Love see no colour and we can't help who we fall in love with
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:41 AM
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All statements come in two flavours. Facts. Claims. You made a claim. Not a fact. And your claim is false.
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:51 AM
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All?. coughbullshit*cough
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:49 AM
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You used the word “game” five times in one paragraph. So there is a big emphasis on this word for you. What does “game” mean to you in your context?
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:26 AM
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Ok, well, I don’t think we are gonna agree or find middle ground today. I hope you don’t think I was picking on you or blaming you for anything. All I suggest is that there is nothing wrong with admitting we still have more to learn. You don’t seem to believe you have anything more to learn, if that’s true then you’re probably in a better spot than me, I’m 45 and still learning new things about attraction and improving myself mentally, socially and emotionally. Thanks for the conversation though…
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:06 AM
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If you knew how to make women notice you then women would notice you. You point only to external factors. And by your own declaration, you have already maximised all that and still women are not interested. So, it’s beyond me why you don’t realise that wasn’t the issue. The issue is, as you said….you don’t know how to connect with a girl on an emotional or sexual way that doesn’t involve physical attraction. What’s wrong with that?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:52 AM
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The point is to make sure our definitions are the same. It appears that we have different definitions, this would explain why we have been having two different conversations simultaneously. I disagree that taking responsibility means you are at fault. And I believe this is where our disconnect comes from. I don't agree that it's someones fault for not knowing how to do something. But I agree that it is their responsibility to learn how to do it. If you removed the blame/fault part of it, would r…
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:39 AM
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But what does that mean?. How does one take accountability ?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:31 AM
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I asked you a question. What does it mean to “take responsibility for your own situation”. Can you answer that?.
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:28 AM
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What does taking responsibility for your own situation mean?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:20 AM
1

Can I ask you a question?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:18 AM
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Your “actual issue” is you don't know what you are doing. And you have too much ego and pride to admit it, so you will never learn what to do and will remain perpetually stuck for life......
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:07 AM
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I didn't say anything about blame. We are talking about responsibility. They are not the same. I don't think you understand what responsibility is, that's why you're talking past me the whole time. I give up bro. You can have your victim status. Enjoy. It's gonna keep you stuck where you are for life. I did try my best to enlighten you, but you're too set in your ways.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:54 AM
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Putting your hand up and saying “i still have more to learn” is taking responsibility for your situation. But you kind of just did take responsibly when you said “i fail at escalating and talking and establishing rapport”. That IS taking responsibility for your situation because you are pointing at a problem and admitting you have this problem. It took a long time to get that out of you bro, now we have established your sticking points. This is where you need to improve. And if I were you, this …
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:46 AM
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Look bro, I've been in the manosphere nearly as long as you have been alive. I see common themes over and over. The guys who have too much pride never get out, the guys who swallow their pride and admit that they still have things to learn are the guys who make it, some take years and others get out fast. But the guys who refuse to take any responsibility and refuse to learn more because they have bullshitted themselves that they already know all there is to know and have already done everything…
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:25 AM
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I'm asking why you won't take responsibility for your lack of knowledge of how to spot a girl who is compatible, turn her on and seduce her. Taking responsibility means putting your hand up and saying “i don't know how to do that, but I'm willing to learn”.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:08 AM
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Ah ok, so you've over focused on yourself physically but neglected yourself mentally. Tells me all I need to know. Should be very revealing to yourself too.
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:58 AM
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Question. What is so bad about saying “when it comes to girls, I just don't know what I'm doing yet”?. At least there is promise there, it gives you something to work on. Why are you so opposed to self responsibility as a concept?.
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:54 AM
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Stop putting the responsibility of peoples lives onto themselves....geez 😵‍💫
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:52 AM
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No one has maximsed themselves to the fullest extent. You're talking through your poo hole
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:51 AM
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Nobody who is sure of what they are saying says “maybe” several times in one sentence. “Maybe” is not what you base an argument on. The problem is either. A. All women. B. You don't know what you're doing. Question....what is so bad about saying you don't know what you are doing?. At least there is promise there, it means you have something to build on, means you have knowledge and skills to acquire. Why are you so opposed to that concept?.
/r/seduction02/09/21 11:42 AM
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It very is important. If you can get girls in your homeland but not in Europe, you might be onto something. But because you dodged the question, I'll assume you knew where that question was leading and didn't want to reveal that you did equally as bad back home as you do there. Meaning that the problem is you. Now, I have no issue with you saying “its over” for yourself. But if you tell that to other guys who you don't know, you are being an asshole. Just because you don't know what you're doing…
/r/seduction02/09/21 11:21 AM
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How did you do with ladies in your homeland ?
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:34 AM
2

A crab is trying to get out of the bucket, quickly! Secure the exit! 🦀
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:08 AM
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The reason why you can’t meet German women is because you haven’t adapted to the culture yet and don’t understand dating and flirting from a German perspective or the needs and desires of women. Stop making excuses by pointing at external factors you can’t control, It’s got nothing to do with your eye colour or skin colour. It’s behaviour and attitude. Nothing will change until you can admit this to yourself, and start working on those things.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:56 AM
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Jealousy is the voice of your ego saying “if she could choose, she wouldn't choose me”. Whether that is true or not is unclear. But if you are so convinced of it, then why would YOU choose to be with someone who wouldn't choose you?.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:34 AM
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Ignore the shyness and keep talking
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:19 AM
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A better question would be.....why is this important to you ?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 02:31 AM
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Women usually never make their rejection clear. Get used to that. I didn't say they were into you, I was stating WHY they are not into you. It's YOU they are rejecting, not your race, it's your vibe, you don't put out a vibe that turns them on sexually. It's a half truth when they say they don't date immigrants. They wouldn't normally date immigrants because their experience of immigrants has been negative and they will be putting out unattractive vibes....and the women probably get a similar vi…
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:55 AM
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You're blaming it on being an immigrant instead of taking ownership of your lack of knowledge on how to date and flirt in the west. You'll get further with this if you take responsibility and stop blaming the environment. I'm used to work in sales and the number one no no was to blame your lack of sales on the venue, it's not an excuse. Learn to adapt.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:46 AM
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I know that. Doesn't mean you are not influenced by your culture or that it will be easy to adapt to new cultural norms. Jeez bro, enough guys who grew up in the west are struggling to learn how to fit into the dating culture, for me personally, I wasmt good with girls till I was in my mid thirties. You coming from a different culture and learning from scratch is pretty obviously going to be a set back. But take responsibility, you're still learning and that's fine, own it.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:42 AM
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Because they are experiencing the same cultural hurdles as you. Coming from cultures where sex is taboo and carries a lot of guilt and shame isn't helping
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:32 AM
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My advice is get some feedback from guys who have experience and observe your instructions. Take it or leave it. Your choice.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:31 AM
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Buddy, you're doing something wrong. Unfortunately, I am unable to tell you what becuase I cant see how you interact with women. Other people suggested hanging out with guys who are good with girls, you could let them observe you and offer you feedback
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:03 AM
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Ok, I won't reply anymore then. Bye 👋
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:27 AM
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🥱
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:24 AM
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And you believe it 😅
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:16 AM
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Ok, bye 👋
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:15 AM
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I didn't call you a racist?. Didnt read the rest of your rant, skimmed through and nothing worth reading with any scrutiny
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:13 AM
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It's not about race or skin colour, it's a cultural thing, you need to learn to adapt to the local mindsets and cultures, become more like a Belgian, do you speak the language? Are you enthusiastic about the local culture? Do you understand dating and flirting from a local perspective? Do you embody the local humour?.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:08 AM
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Oh wise one annointed by God, teach us the ways of the confident alpha prophet
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:39 AM
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Complains about poor advice....gives the lamest advice possible
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:34 AM
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That's because those things ADD to the confidence you already have, they are a compliment to confidence, not the foundation
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:33 AM
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Works, but rarely. Defiantly a numbers game. Why would you expect day time approaching to have a high success rate? It's not an environment designed for pick up, it's an environment where pick up isn't practical and isn't always welcome. Bare in mind you are stepping out of the box and doing something unconventional, of course it's not going to yield consistent high results
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:31 AM
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Talk to her casually, pay her a compliment, walk away. Ask her out on anotner occasion once you have gotten to know each other
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:09 AM
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You shouldn't be reserving all of your attention for one girl. The key to getting good at talking to girls is by doing it regularly with all girls around you, it's always much smoother if your friendliness comes from habitual behaviour rather than contrived and premeditated.
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:06 AM
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If you don't like it, don't go.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:22 AM
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Fastest for me was at a festival, briefly chatted to these two girls for about 3 minutes. Bumped into them later, sat down with her for about ten minutes before she started talking about sex, I kissed her and she said she wanted to have sex, so we went. I’d say I knew her for 20 minutes maximum before we were having sex
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:30 PM
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If he is busy then it would explain why he is picking and choosing who to market in dm to?
/r/seduction20/08/21 08:15 AM
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If you're walking on egg shells to prevent anything that COULD trigger an episode, your mental health probably does need some work. If you can't internalise that you are not responsible for others behaviours and are policing your own behaviour to shield yourself against other peoples reactions, this is trying to cope with an anxiety disorder. This is not the group for you right now, you are not ready for seduction if basic human interaction is so potentially distressing that you avoid it altoget…
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:14 AM
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So, your mental health is destroyed by this to the point of feeling worthless....but your anxiety is cured? Doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like text book anxiety disorder based on past experience. Why would you be dishonest with yourself about this?
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:04 AM
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Whats stopping you if it isn't fear?. Why cant you handle rudeness?
/r/seduction19/08/21 06:01 AM
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Would being afraid of talk to girls in case they react rudely count as anxiety?
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:56 AM
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👍
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:28 PM
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Sorry to hear you been affected so badly by it. Sounds like you're not in the right head space for this unfortunately. My advice assumes regular amounts of anxiety, if you have an anxiety disorder then hopefully you have access to the right kind of mental health care.
/r/seduction17/08/21 10:42 AM
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I hear ya bro, I been through the exact same thing. I’ve also had very rude women put me off. It’s all part of the growing process. Don’t think it’s possible to break out of the comfort zone without getting an ego bruising a few times. I don’t think it’s about ignoring what happens, but more a case of not assuming you have any kind of guilt or shame to carry because others cannot control their emotions. From my experience, rude reactions make up about 1% of interactions, the rest are usually neu…
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:43 AM
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NEVER accept responsibility for ANYTHING you cannot ultimately control - such as the emotions or decisions of other people!. As clearly stated in my post, “most of the time, the conditions aren’t right” and “It’s not always appropriate or practical or wanted”. I don’t think I was misleading about this, I was very implicit about this. It’s a given that it’s not always going to be reciprocated or welcomed. And that’s never your fault or your issue, as long as you are being friendly and courteous a…
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:31 AM
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Surprisingly, very little interest. Seeing as this question is raised regularly, I assumed it would get more interest.
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:57 AM
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The trick is to day approach…is to not do any sort of game. Which makes most guys say “what?” if they hear this idea because it is totally counter intuitive to what they want to do. But trust me on this one, the only way to get over your fear and to have awesome interactions with strangers is to remove the pick up element from your interactions. You treat a pretty girl that you see the same way you would treat any other stranger. How would you behave if you met an old man and wanted to make him …
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:24 PM
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Because it's a different thing
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:21 AM
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It’s banned in my region.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:35 PM
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I’d recommend this course https://glocourse.com/product/johnny-soporno-online-successfulness-workshop/
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:34 PM
2

Hand her a note with your number on. No one will know what you did. Leave it up to her if she texts or not
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:04 PM
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Stop pre planning shit. You’ll ruin things if you try to manipulate situations to fit to a pre conceived ideal scenario. Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:51 PM
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I remember a guy asked out my female friend and she suggested bringing friends and he insisted she didn’t. It didn’t end well and he didn’t end up meeting her at all. It either means she wants to be friends or she isn’t sure yet if she is into you so wants to bring friends to feel safe. Either way she is setting a boundary, if you go against that then you are not respecting a boundary. Personally, I would just go. The worst thing that can happen is you go and hang out with some girls and make a …
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:47 PM
1

Go to Redtube and search for how to make a squirting orgasm. Thank me later
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:20 PM
1

It’s true that a lot of criminals sneaked in during the crisis. As well as some terrorists. Seems like it’s a difficult conversation to have though.
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:58 AM
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👍
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:25 PM
1

If she isn’t near you, why bother? You will just have a text relationship
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:46 PM
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So what ?
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:16 PM
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I’ll debate you ben
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:10 PM
1

What makes you think I watch them? Or that I’m not successful?.
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:10 PM
1

I’m 45. What’s your point?
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:09 PM
0

So, letting them know reveals to you who they are. Would you rather find out sooner or later ?
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:03 PM
0

Explains a lot
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:48 PM
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Right?. They would lap this shit up. They get to have a little pet to care about
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:47 PM
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😮
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:46 PM
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If you go for sjw leftist type girls, that’s exactly how they will treat you. You can stop it from happening by choosing your friends wisely. Personally, I would tell them, and use it as a screening process, if they start treating you like their precious little pet……NEXT!
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:46 PM
1

Keep asking questions. Only way to get to the bottom of this.
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:32 AM
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Personally, if I want to know if a girl has a bf, I just ask her. Not everything needs to be a trick.
/r/seduction07/08/21 09:28 AM
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Don’t be put off. It’s all just more reasons to not have to deal with rejection.. There are a million reasons behind each rejection, but we dont need to examine the reasons. All you need to know is that more women will not be interested in than will be interested, with time and experience you become better at knowing who would be interested and who wouldn’t.
/r/seduction07/08/21 08:16 AM
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Impossible to know. And also impossible to test. Just because someone is open to it, doesn’t mean they are open to it on a bad day. Just because someone isn’t open to it, doesn’t mean they won’t have their mind changed under certain conditions. Stop overthinking things and go out there.
/r/seduction07/08/21 08:11 AM
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Yeah, you don’t freak girls out like my giant presence sometimes does
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:47 PM
1

Exactly what I was going to say
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:39 PM
1

I don’t refuse to date someone my age, just never met anyone over 30 who I’ve been attracted to.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:49 PM
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My gf didn’t get the creep memo then. 21/45 ☺️
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:43 PM
1

r/agegap
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:42 PM
1

“Hi, what’s your name?”
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:21 PM
1

Just be normal
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:56 PM
1

Learn some words in their language
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:56 PM
1

It matters just as much as any other physical or personal quality you have
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:52 AM
1

It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. And even if you do…..so what?. The cost of that awkwardness is discovering what the problem is. Or you can live the rest of your life wondering and never being able to get to the root of the problem and fix it……… Perhaps you feel awkward about hearing the truth about yourself, it’s never comfortable when we are told by women what it is about us that is putting women off. But don’t you think that ultimately, not knowing will cause you more discomfor…
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:42 AM
3

General small talk that evolves around you getting to know him and letting him get to know you
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:27 AM
1

This
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:27 AM
2

He wants to approach you, he just needs to be sure he can…. https://youtu.be/6sYm3Y5OGDE
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:26 AM
1

High self esteem does not require validation. Validation is not a cure to low self esteem. Is women checking you out not validation ? Is getting matches in tinder not validation?. You are getting enough external validation already, it’s self validation that’s missing
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:39 AM
1

Well, you want to know the answer don’t you? Who is going to know better? Them or strangers on Reddit ?
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:37 AM
1

So, now we are at the crux of the issue. It’s self esteem.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:11 AM
1

Like, have you ever asked girls why they reject you? Or given an honest account to other girls and asked what they think it could be
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:59 AM
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Wtf bro? Women are checking you out and you…….IGNORE them!?. The more I read your posts, the more I see that the biggest obstacle between you and women is YOU. Can you not see that ?
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:51 AM
2

1000 matches on tinder? Do you know how hard it is for most guys to get even ONE match?. Dude, if you’re getting that many marches it means women find you physically attractive, but if you didn’t convert a single match and you’re getting ghosted by ALL 1000 women. Then there is more to this than you are willing to admit. They are initially interested in how you look, but when they get to know you, something is putting them off……what is it?
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:49 AM
2

One day you will look old. And you will miss the days when you could pass off as younger
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:44 AM
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I know why, it’s called ego. Research ego management
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:43 AM
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Aww you poor wee thing. Having to actually DO things to attract women?. Who makes these rules anyway?. Why can’t we just sit on welfare at home in a string vest, guzzling down Doritos and beer and piling on weight while the women come knocking on our doors and begging us to let them in to suck our weeners?
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:40 AM
1

Have you received any feedback from girls?
/r/seduction03/08/21 02:36 AM
1

These YouTube channels changed my financial life. Watch crypto banter, Michael saylor, coin bureau and Davincij15 and learn how to invest in crypto. Thank me when you’re 40
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:35 AM
1

How do you meet women?
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:22 AM
1

What have you been doing? What have you tried?
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:41 AM
-1

Ownage 👍
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:25 AM
3

….and have no confidence or money or charisma or status.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:21 AM
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You have no experience in anything you preach and can’t give one reason why anyone should take that seriously. Good information bro. 👍
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:14 AM
1

Ok, so why should anyone take what you say seriously?
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:58 AM
1

You don’t ask them to expand on their ambiguity, you refuse to ask them anything and dismiss them before you’ve understood what they are trying to say. Question….why should anyone here listen to what you have to say?.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:52 AM
-3

Keep it in your pants then if you are that scared
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:48 AM
0

Keep it in your pants then if you are that scared
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:48 AM
1

How dare other people give advice that works for them! Lucky you’re here to teach everyone the truth. If people are vague….You can’t even ask someone to expand on what they mean if you don’t understand what they mean, just scoff at them with your “i know better than you” attitude. What makes you the guardian of truths over those who have experience with something you don’t ? You’re clearly here to educate, not to learn. Yet you have no experience to educate from.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:43 AM
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You don’t know the truth. You haven’t figured it out yet. Stop pretending you have. You’re gaslighting yourself
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:37 AM
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Nothing you said can be verified through your own experience. Why aren’t you understanding this?. People here are telling what works for them by their experience and you tell them that you know better than them despite not being able to work anything yourself or having any experience. Your arrogance knows no bounds and you are completely oblivious to this.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:30 AM
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You’re havent found anything what works for you, yet here you are trying to educate others on what works. That’s arrogant man. People are talking from experience and you have none but you still dismiss them like you’re an authority on the subject. You should be here with a learners mindset if you’re still figuring things out, not a teachers mindset. You’re not here to learn though are you? You’re here to disrupt productive dialogue with your “gotchas”. You’re trying to prove we all got it wrong …
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:16 AM
1

So why the fuck are you here preaching what works when you haven’t even demonstrated it yourself what works ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:59 AM
1

So you have one of these aspects and confidence?
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:45 AM
1

So you have one of these aspects and confidence and it works for you?
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:45 AM
1

The point of asking someone to explain something to you is because you don’t understand what they mean. You don’t understand how this could be……so ask……how can this be?. It’s not complicated
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:44 AM
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Who said they don’t?. Nobody said that bro. The argument wasn’t “rich popular cool guys can’t get laid”. The argument was rejecting YOUR claim that it’s the only way to have a chance.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:29 AM
1

Is that what you do to have a shot? Be the best at everything?
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:26 AM
1

Personally, I get what he means, but I don’t think he is explaining it in any helpful way to help you understand it. Here’s a tip. If you think what he is saying is unfathomable, Ask him to expand on what he means in order to help you understand what he is trying to say. Instead of dismissing it outright. The path to learning is through clarity, not dismissal. Everyone has something you can learn from, but without curiosity you will miss the lesson every time
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:23 AM
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The endless discomfort you’ll feel from being alone and knowing you never tried will far outweigh the momentary discomfort you get from a girl not saying hello back to you
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:16 AM
2

Why is it not likely ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:16 AM
1

You should take one week out of each month where you take a complete break from the pursuit of women and put full focus on building up your value as a man through passions and purpose (which will ultimately make you more attractive than cold approach and pick up lines will )
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:55 AM
0

Salsa dancing and bachata if you want to get close to the ladies. And yes….it can be learned, it’s not something people are born knowing or anything like that.
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:14 AM
2

Vietnam’s borders have been closed for a year and a a half
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:04 AM
2

I always found that the times in my life when I was stressing about women was also times in my life when I had waaaay too much time on my hands. On the flip side, when I have been really busy, I have simply not had time or energy to be worrying about things like “does she like me?” Or “why didn’t she reply to me?”
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:01 AM
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Men are taught that their value is decided by how many beautiful women they can attract. This is of course, a lie. But it puts pressure on boys that is totally unnecessary. The reality is that it takes time and effort for young guys to get good at talking to women, then it takes more time and effort to get good at flirting and spotting signals, then it takes more time and effort to learn how to ask out or express intentions. But guys see seeing movies where it’s so easy for the kid to get a girl…
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:56 AM
1

Sounds good
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:33 AM
0

Of course you can’t do it. No one can at first. No one knows how to do anything at first. It’s what classes are for.
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:42 AM
1

Talking to someone you don’t know for the first time
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:38 AM
1

So, you don’t talk to girls but are wondering why you can’t find a gf. All due respect to you…..but isn’t it obvious why?
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:38 AM
3

It helps if you genuinely don’t care 😂
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:48 AM
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That’s also correct, she won’t test for weakness if she doesn’t like you, she is testing because she likes you.
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:47 AM
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Remember though, that you only get shit tests if she thinks you are faking being a cool and fun guy, jabs like that are to test you’re not a prissy who’s pretending to be fun and confident. If you react defensively you have confirmed her suspicion. Getting shit tests is a sign that we are showing possible signs of weakness. The solution to shit tests is not to get better at covering your ass, but to not get them in the first place , if you are integral, honest and always consistent, you won’t ge…
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:24 AM
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laugh and say “I know, crazy right”. Then say nothing else. That’s exactly what someone who doesn’t care would do.
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:18 AM
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He has a forum on Facebook called ars amorata. I’m sure you’ll get some advice. I am very familiar with his work and it resonates with me a lot. To be a lover of women rather than a player of women. To want to connect with rather than conquer, to make love rather than simply having sex, to love the feminine spirit and to love all women even if they are not all compatible as long as they are good and honest people. To me it’s all about being honest and integral at all times with all women, if you…
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:12 AM
1

“we have this community of guys who lookat women and say AHA, we're going to offer women security we're going to present ourselves as being strong independently minded powerful effective guys, we're going to give them demonstrations of our high value so these women will decide yeah this guy's a real winner someone I want to catch and keep and then the guys are going to be going for themselves, running this same charade on many many different women at the same time hoping I can get into their pan…
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:37 AM
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You went out alone but didn’t meet people, that doesn’t mean you never will. You shoudnt have stopped. If you have no friends, the only way is to go outside and try. You could consider clubs and meet-ups which are easier than bars but I would personally use every outlet I could, easy and difficult because we develop more by going through difficult situations than the easy ones.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:51 AM
2

It’s a good book. No fluff, no bullshit
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:46 AM
1

Zan perrion
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:44 AM
1

If you’re so sure you can’t do it, why would you even look for advice?
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:43 AM
1

So it’s feigned confidence.
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:48 PM
1

I see. It’s not money that you attract women with. It’s extravagance and eloquence. If you dressed and looked and acted the same despite being on minimum salary you’d still have banged those girls When I was broke, I knew how to find cheap clothes that looked super expensive.
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:20 PM
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Could you have all that and be broke and still meet some girls?
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:08 PM
1

And it’s your money that’s attracting them to you, in your opinion?. If you made half what you make now, would they have not been interested in you?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:57 PM
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“No” So you don’t practice what you preach?. Bit iffy telling people how it works when that isn’t how you work it?. How do you seduce women?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:43 PM
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You don’t need to control what they want. You struggle to understand that different women want different things, so I don’t know who you think you are to preach about the real world? If you understood the real world you would understand that what one woman likes you for, another will not like you for that. So what you are in control over is developing what you have to offer. If women are not buying what you are selling then it’s because that INDIVIDUAL woman isn’t into what you’re offering or yo…
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:49 AM
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You’re not getting what I’m saying , I’m talking about TYPES of women, there are types of women who attracted to flamboyance and extravagance, I am not interested in these types of women and have never been able to attract them even if I wanted to because I never had money to show off. You probably can attract these types of women by using your own bait, they would not be interested in me because i can’t give them what they want. You probably couldn’t get the types of girls I go for because you …
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:02 AM
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We both can reach the top shelf, we just use different bait. You can control what types of women you attract by using correct bait
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:51 AM
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Getting struck by lightening is not in a persons control. My success with women was in my control. It’s not so difficult if you know what you are doing. You don’t like to let men be accountable for themselves do you?. Edit, Ive picked up girls on the beach before too
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:41 AM
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Thanks. I can definitely attest as a man who lived off a below minimum wage salary and never had money to spend on women that it’s very possible to still meet and attract women.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:34 AM
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I never had security though, that’s why lays were always the end result and never a relationship. I do have security now though. So I can offer that to a woman, but it’s gotta be equal, she has to either have her own security or have strong conviction and dedication to generating it
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:30 AM
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If looks are all a man has to offer, that’s all women will want too. Unfortunately, I never had money or looks, all I could offer women was laughter and orgasms…..and that’s all they ever wanted from me 😂
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:24 AM
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Exactly, if you have nothing to offer women then women will want nothing from you. Your perceived scope of what women want is extremely simplistic and limited though.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:15 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:07 AM
1

You understand it perfectly well
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:06 AM
1

If money is all you have to offer, money is all women will want from you.
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:47 AM
1

Social conditioning
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:46 AM
2

Maybe asking her age might be a better way to find out
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:45 AM
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I find too that it’s difficult to recreate a scenario that worked. If you try to do the exact same thing using the same lines it never seems to go the way it did as the first time you tried it
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:43 AM
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😂
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:29 PM
1

My mums name is Robert
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:19 PM
1

Same here. Online dating was always a waste of time for me. I prefer the old fashioned way too
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:14 PM
3

Wow, Karen is really hurting.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:46 AM
1

I didnt ask you anything Karen.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:32 AM
2

Who let the Karen out?
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:17 AM
3

My friends uncles cousin does
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:16 AM
3

You use dating apps for that?
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:14 AM
1

This is why so many men are direct on dating apps. It seldom works either though 🤣
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:14 AM
1

So, you probably don’t even use online dating right?
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:12 AM
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On social media it makes sense. They just like talking to people. On online dating it’s frustrating, why talk to me if you’re not interested?. The answer is obvious though, she isn’t using online dating to find dates, she is using it for pen pals and attention. There are more girls like this on online dating than those talking it seriously Which is partly why online dating is a terrible waste of time for most guys
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:11 AM
5

I know, just another Reddidiot
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:40 PM
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Even if you were 50, there are college age girls who would be into that. So don’t worry about it. It’s not your age that makes her wet, it’s how cool and charismatic and seductive you are
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:23 PM
3

Karen has successfully policed language, we can all sleep well tonight
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:34 PM
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Calm down Karen
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:37 AM
2

Visualisations are not psychic messages from the future. They are projections of your own bias driven by imagination
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:40 AM
1

Of course, love life is only as complicated as the choices you make. Choose your friends wisely.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 04:37 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 06:23 PM
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I thought it was supposed to be a place to focus on going your own way and not just end up a big complain fest like most mgtow groups. I’d love to talk about travelling and sports and guns and games with guys and not have to listen to people complaining. Those spaces are hard to find these days.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 04:55 PM
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Poor guy ❤️
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 12:24 PM
1

The irony of people quoting songs they don’t understand. I don’t think Bob Marley would want to have become a misused anthem for men who can’t get laid
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 11:20 AM
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That’s a shame. Why?
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 11:18 AM
2

If you want to be a ladies man, then be that man and don’t pretend otherwise. It’s only if you act like someone you’re not that you’ll run into problems. If women believe you will form a relationship with them but find out later that you were just playing, then you might see problems start. Don’t promise anything you can’t deliver and don’t for a moment allow women to jump to false conclusions about you, be transparent about what you want. It’s not like you’d be the first musician and director t…
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:35 AM
4

Incorrect, it’s Jamaican speak. He is telling a woman not to cry “naw wahman, naw cry” https://www.smoothradio.com/features/the-story-of/bob-marley-no-woman-no-cry-lyrics-meaning-video/
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 08:10 AM
2

Or be more choosy about who you date.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 05:52 AM
3

Only snakes play with snakes
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 05:35 AM
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I don’t know who told you that but it sounds like Chinese whispers to me. As a person who can speak two foreign languages and travelled extensively I have never heard of that. Sure, some people like the chance to practice foreign languages, but it’s not any kind of hindrance if someone was to use your own language. I think you think too much. There are many reasons why someone might laugh when you talk their language, could be because they didn’t expect it, could be coz your pronunciation sounds…
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:52 AM
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Why would you take the actions of two idiots and assume all tourists are the same ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:26 AM
4

Can you build bonfires on the beach? If so, make one and invite girls to come join you. If anyone can play an instrument it would help. Or you could consider buying some fire staffs and doing some fire dancing to entice people over. I have no idea why you think that someone would be offended if you talk to them in their own language in their own country?.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:48 AM
1

You’ll live. Your world won’t come to an end because you didn’t get a blow job
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:49 AM
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If money is the only thing attracting women to you then you have a lot of work to do my friend. Raise your standards, only date professional women. Work on style and charisma and learn American humour, you’re from a different culture that you need to adapt to. As for avoiding gold diggers, it’s easy, don’t flash your cash or your wealth, never use flamboyancy or extravagance to bait women, downplay your financial situation to strangers
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:26 PM
1

Who cares, don’t date women who you don’t align with their outlook on life. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:01 PM
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Why are you trying to get sexual with girls you’re not attracted to?
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:09 PM
2

Dance lessons?
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:10 AM
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It wasn’t your clothes that drew them to you, it was because you were having more fun than anyone else, and girls go to clubs to have fun
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:09 AM
5

“Life is essentially an endless series of problems. The solution to one problem is merely the creation of another.” ““If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/or how you measure failure/success.” “True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving.” — Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:52 PM
3

Converting friends to girlfriends https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/converting-girl-friends-into-girlfriends-painlessly.139174/
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:39 AM
1

You: “How would you feel about being more than friends?”. She: I would love to You: great Or.... You: “How would you feel about being more than friends?”. She: I just see us as friends. You: I understand, but I’d be a fool not to ask ☺️ Or.... You: “How would you feel about being more than friends?”. She: wow, I’m not sure, I need time You: sure, no pressure, you take your time, I will respect your choice and nothing will change between us either way.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:37 AM
1

Ask
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:32 AM
1

You talking to me?
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:20 AM
2

Luckily no one gets into debt from apps, but that’s probably just because the developers haven’t figured out how to make that possible or they can’t get past regulations that would prevent them from completely screwing over every man they could
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:19 AM
1

Here’s what you say.... “Hello”. If they don’t respond, leave them be. If they stop and smile and say hello back....you can talk to them.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:15 AM
1

Expand your horizons
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:14 AM
1

👍 my bro gets it
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:13 AM
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Girls are becoming more dependent on apps, because guys won’t flirt with them in real life, because they are all hiding behind their phones talking to girls, that’s a great thing for you and I.....because there is less competition in the real world.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:12 AM
2

You don’t have to handle melodrama, if someone is exhibiting characteristics you don’t like, then why would you continue trying to get to know them? Move on to someone who is on your level
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:03 AM
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Don’t listen to what people say they like or don’t like. Women who have had bad experiences of strangers say they don’t like talk kin to strangers. Naturally if you’ve got bad memories or triggering experiences in the past, the mention of it conjures up some bad feelings. Like dogs who were abused by men avoid men but trust women or kids, but if they meet the right man who treats them well they can warm to him. Same with people. Then you have women who have not had bad experiences with guys and …
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:57 AM
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Best way to not allow them to crush your self esteem is by not using them. Look, it’s not easy for a guy to meet a girl in the real world, but Despite what people think, meeting women in real life is 100 times easier than online. Online is without a doubt, hands down the most challenging way to find a partner and the impersonal factor really doesn’t make it easier.
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:41 AM
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I would say always air on the side of caution , and apologise if you jumped the gun.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:12 PM
1

I can’t believe you stopped using the pronoun though 😂
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:52 AM
1

Don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll find something else to be offended and get hysterical over soon enough.
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:32 AM
1

Thank you for respecting my wishes.
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:27 AM
1

I don’t consent to your use of that pronoun.
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:22 AM
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Don’t talk to other human beings, maintain a healthy distance at all times. If a man talks to a woman, assume he has the worst possible intentions and the girl is a victim. This is what society needs, more guilt, more shame, keep them apart.
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:17 AM
1

Karen is a strong woman 💪 ......or man, sorry if I misgendered you
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:06 AM
0

Yes Karen, talking to people is stalking. George Orwell would be rolling in his grave
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:05 AM
2

Feel what you want....or don’t. Your feelings are none of my business, Karen.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:59 AM
0

*Waving hands in an anxiety driven freak out. People aren’t allowed to make misjudgements, even if they immediately apologise for it, even if no harm was caused to anyone, it doesn’t matter. Those who commit such vile acts must be publicly shamed and flogged for my own amusement and satisfaction. Because my life is so meaningless without spewing my virtue all over Reddit for the world to see.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:58 AM
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Karen, take a deep breath. Hysteria isn’t helping the matter
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:52 AM
2

Calm down Karen.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:48 AM
1

Well said my man. If men didn’t talk to women then we would be wiped out as a species.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:42 AM
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You have a very Orwellian look on social interactions. Conform citizens, don’t step out of your pre determined boxes, do not attempt to think for yourself, do not attempt to show feelings or express interest in others. Comsume, buy, purchase, order, say please and thank you then go about your business, all communication should be only for survival with nothing human required of you.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:40 AM
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You didn’t do anything wrong, you asked out someone who was open, there is nothing wrong with talking to people in a car, and when she revealed her real age you immediately withdrew from the interaction. You couldn’t have handled it any better imo
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:31 AM
1

That’s like saying the only way to make money is to extort. Yes extorting makes money, but it’s not the only way to get rich. Yes, power games can find you relationships , but it’s not the only way. I really don’t think this sub exists to teach people how to psychology manipulate anyway?....does it?
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:51 AM
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You can think too much, when relationships stop being power games can two mature adults enjoy each other’s company fully
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:08 PM
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Observations are anecdotes you stupid cunt, if I observe different things to you that doesn’t invalidate your experience and vice versa, but it’s not proof of anything, even having to explain that to you makes you an idiot of the highest order. “A study of 80 women” 😂 Another study about looking at photos 😂 Not a real world study 😂 A photo doesn’t tell anyone anything about personality. You really are a total idiot with the critical thinking skills of a 5 year old 😂 You consistently tell me to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:25 AM
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I read your personal anecdote you gave me after me asking for no anecdotes yes. That wasn’t answering my request to prove what you claim . I addressed your ugly person question and called it out as a strawman because that wasn’t what we were discussing I know that physical attraction is subjective . Where we disagree is that physical attraction is always the baseline for attraction . Can you prove that it is? No anecdotes. This is where you’re gonna get real slippery again .isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:51 PM
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Still waiting for you to prove that physical attraction comes first for everyone , no anecdotes please. You can’t assume that everyone feels attraction in the same way as you do. Waaaaaaiting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:45 PM
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We are discussing if anything else apart from looks can be what causes attraction, you said there is no other underlying cause , the only base factor is looks and everything else is secondary. I disagree and have proof that you are wrong, do you have proof that you are right? Not anecdotes or strawman or personal theories. I have a paper from a science journal , do you have anything ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:42 PM
1

Of what you just said . Looks are a prerequisite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:30 PM
1

So, where is your proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:29 PM
1

You asked me for studies first, go back and read the conversation. You made the assertion that looks is the only thing that causes attraction . Proof? Because I have proof that it isn’t the only thing . You don’t want to see it do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:22 PM
1

Oh ok, I was happy to initially have a conversation of personal ideas and anecdotes but you were the one who insisted on studies, are we back to anecdotes now? Or do you have any actual scientific papers or research to show that Looks are the only thing that causes arrraction? Coz I have an actual scientific paper that says otherwise, would you like to see it? I’m guess the answer will be no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:13 PM
1

Where did you learn that? From a tinder study?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:08 PM
1

So looks are the only thing that causes interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:02 PM
1

Can those things not be causes of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Are things like body language , facial expression, mannerisms, decorum, emotional projection etc important to attraction ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:58 PM
1

That’s not what I fucking asked dude. Stop avoiding questions . is attraction ONLY physical or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:42 PM
1

And attraction is only physical is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:39 PM
1

You didn’t complete your sentence, allow me to fix it.. Online studies work as a bench mark for how people act ......ONLINE. I never asked you for an online study, you gave me that. It’s not even academic . You’ve nothing to prove that this is a universal thing. You’re right, we are not going to agree , because you don’t care if what you believe is true and you have no way to demonstrate that it is. It’s not a case of me not liking it, it’s a case of the evidence being too frivolous and poorly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:26 PM
1

My old and your old experience are both irrelevant to this discussion , let’s not railroad it. We don’t get to compare experiences and one invalidates the other. Online studies work.....to show us how people behave on that platform. Do you have any other study? No you don’t. You are the “where’s your study ?” Guy but you haven’t done an iota of research to find out of if the okcupid study behaviour is universal, you just assumed it is. I’ll not ask you again for more info because I know you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:17 PM
1

So you gonna ignore my question for the tenth time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:10 PM
1

You can speculate as to what it is all you like. I just put it down to dating apps being shit, being flooded with men, too many girls with no intention of dating and tough algorithms. I know very few guys who have any sort of regular success on apps, yet every guy I know dates irl. Reddit it full of men complaining of using for OLD months on end and getting nowhere. I know one guy who used OLD for ten years before he got laid on it....gotta admire his persistence , but....fuck that!. I know it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:38 PM
1

I don’t have a primary purpose, what ever happens, happens. I barely even got a message back on online dating. As I already stated, I tried every tactic from the online dating experts, direct, indirect, witty, sarcastic, etc. Nothing worked. Ironically, I did get a few dates on social media, just not on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:16 PM
1

I’ve been in every type of relationship, fwb, ons, short term and long term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:12 AM
1

Would you ask a cat how to stroke a pussy ?
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:30 AM
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I did all that and was a complete waste of time, used advice from every dating app expert. In the end I just stuck to what did work, talking to girls irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:28 PM
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Yiu must be better looking Than me because pics nor interpersonal skills did anything for me, I had to use personality, status and noteriety as my way in, all of which have less relevant On a dating app where they are picking the best loookiig guys based on photos and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:40 PM
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Old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:35 PM
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So you do better on alts then real,life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:33 PM
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No that’s not what I said at all. I claim that people behave differently when they meet and interact online compared to when they meet and interact in real life. I’m using context where the first encounter starts offline . I can give you a personal example, I used OLD for a year and didn’t get a date despite having my best photos, the same year I hooked up with 4 girls and went on about ten dates with girls who I met in real life. I think where we might agree , is that interpersonal skills matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:28 PM
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Because.....it isn’t. You couldn’t use it in a court of law or an acedemic debate, it would be thrown out. It proves one thing and that’s how people behave on okcupid, i don’t agree that the internet behaviour is a mirror image of real life behaviour . It’s why I’d love to see any sort of evidence that proves it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:10 PM
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Do you have any actual scientific or academic proof though that this applies equally in real life interactions as it does on okcupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:44 PM
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Glad we could agree on something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:37 PM
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We will have to agree to disagree that online behaviour is the same as behaviour of people who meet in the real world, I don’t think we will find middle ground on that. I think one thing we do agree on is that interpersonal skills are tantamount to meeting and dating women. That’s one thing I definitely agree with you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:30 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:56 AM
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How has she let her self fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:51 AM
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Can you explain what he is saying then because I have no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:43 AM
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Online dating tells you one thing and one thing only, how people react to PHOTOS , if you need that explained to you but tell me to use critical thinking then I don’t know what to say to you. The way people behave online reacting to photos is not the same as how people behave in real life when navigating the social landscape. I can’t believe I have to explain this to you, come on dude, seriously man. It’s not even a scientific study, and it doesn’t even prove your point that 20% of men have hare…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:41 AM
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Yes, it’s about online dating habits, as I said earlier , is the internet real life? Is that your only measurement of reality ? When you asked me to show you studies, I showed you acedemic peer reviewed scientific research based on real world data, not some pocksy study of how people behave on a website, come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:37 PM
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How does an okcupid study prove anything you said ? I don’t agree that 80% of men aren’t sexually successful, i know some guys are unsuccessful, I’ve no idea what the figure is , okcupid doesn’t back that up in any way. I just know some guys are not and stated why i think it’s so, which you seem to agree. ...I just don’t know where this 80% thing comes from , it seems to me that all you are saying is some guys get more sex than others, which is obvious and so what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:32 PM
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Still makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:17 PM
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Don’t know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:59 AM
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Most women find it difficult to orgasm with a man they don’t know , even if he is highly skilled , for most women they won’t feel relaxed enough till after a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:48 AM
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Because they enjoy sex and will only do it when they think it won’t be harmful, duh 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:46 AM
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It ain’t what you do , its the way that you do it.
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:44 AM
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Covert contracts
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:49 AM
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Where you getting your information from about this theory ? what’s your objection to my point?.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:31 AM
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I really tried to get a conversation out of you though, but I regret it now, it’s been like pulling teeth for the most part. You wanted to give up after my first objection and have consistently ignored my point over and over again and creating circular arguments , I am just realising after presenting my case several times that there is no middle ground in this conversation, you believe what you believe and no other perspective is to be considered. Maybe we are just not understanding eachother , …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:58 AM
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Cool man, well we obviously haven’t found any middle ground so no hard feelings, entertaining at least . thanks for the chat and good luck ,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:32 PM
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Oh right, it’s only me who has to back up my ideas, you are exempt 😂 Pigeon chess anyone ? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:22 PM
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You have not demonstrated that 20 % of men have harems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:18 PM
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It wasn’t an answer, it was a question. I don’t believe that 80% of men have harems, and apparently you don’t either? I assume that when you said “Please quote where I said it throws things off balance, nothing I wrote implied such” that you agree with me that having harems doesnt throw things off balance?. A harem would suggest one man permanently removing several women from the mating pool ....no? So do you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:09 PM
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You did answer it did you? . This was my question .... “Why even mention ratios then if you agree that things are not off balance and that enough women are dtf? Infact, why would ratios even be relevant to anyone ?” Can you point me to your answer ? Because I can’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:02 AM
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Answer my question first mr slippy , you’re seriously bad at addressing anything said to you and seriously good at ignoring and changing subjects
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:45 PM
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Why even mention ratios then if you agree that things are not off balance and that enough women are dtf? Infact, why would ratios even be relevant to anyone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:03 PM
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Men sleeping with women at the same time Doesn’t throw anything off balance because not every guy like that is always doing that and some women also sleep with multiple men at the same time....and also at various times throughout her life , I already explained this. It just means some men get more sex, guys who don’t get sex are not missing out because of unbalanced availability rotatios, it’s because they don’t know what to do when a woman is infront of them, even if she was down to fuck there …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:55 PM
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And I refuted your second point by pointing out that cheating is irrelevant, the fact is that women have more than one sex partner in a life time so the problem isn’t lack of vagina and made a counter argument that the real issue is a lack of competence , you failed to acknowledge that , avoided and tried to run away, claimed I made no point when I clearly did, asked me to provide studies, which I did, ignored them and then pointed me right back to your second point which was already refuted. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:15 AM
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Sighs, well it surely does always come down to my study vs your study doesn’t it? Instead of using your own brain , ok I’ll play your silly game... https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.ht https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5795598/ https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/average-number-of-sexual-partners https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women Why do you need to see a study? The point i made was that most women have sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 08:58 AM
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😂 ok hyper focus on that and thinks about nothing else except that as a way to avoid my points entirely and dismiss them out of hand and still offer no rebuttal, keep it up man, this is hugely entertaining 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 08:45 AM
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😂 you still have no retort, why does everything have to be my study vs your study with incels? Like you really believe you are a scientist or something? Well you are not, you haven’t researched what you believe you just pick shit up in Reddit forums from other people who haven’t done any research and take it as gospel. I made a logical argument that if women sleep with multiple men in a life time then there is not a shortage of vagina on offer and presented the idea that it’s not a lack of oppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:56 AM
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Ya you just got owned and have nothing to say, have a great day sir
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:24 AM
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It doesn’t matter what number of women cheat or don’t cheat, women sleep with multiple men over a life time so the 80:20 rule is bullshit. And dear oh dear if you think online dating is the be all and end all of meeting women , big give away to the problem right there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:20 AM
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That’s not always true, but even in the cases where it is true....So what ?. If most hook up with multiple guys in their life then there is enough sexual opportunity for men going on , it’s not like all women are single or hooked up at the same time. The 80/20 rule is an excuse for disenfranchised guys,it’s not because “women aren’t distributing their vaginas “ it’s because a percentage of men don’t know what they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:56 AM
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Pretty sure almost every girl hooks up with more than one guy in her life. I think the average is 7 guys in a life time, though women are known to downplay their numbers so could be 8 to 10. That completely fucks up the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:49 AM
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I don’t even know what you are talking about dude, I haven’t “tried to tell you” anything . “I’m the one who experienced what i wrote” .....What does that even mean? You wrote words but you didn’t say anything , you even say you are not making a point , just spit it out , what are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:04 AM
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That’s not an argument. you can’t just simply say “you’re wrong “ and say nothing else, that’s not how rational discussion works. I don’t even know what you’re trying to say or what point you’re trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:01 PM
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Read comment above again to save me repeating myself. You havent changed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:21 PM
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It wasn’t a rejection. You didn’t offer her anything , so she couldn’t possibly reject
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:55 AM
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And if they just want a hook up then they don’t want a guy who will come looking for them again after, they want a guy who is going to leave and never come back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:06 AM
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Replace the word “hot” with “insecure” and you’re on the right track
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:05 AM
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So basically when you stop acting needy women show an interest. You can still do that without being stone cold
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:02 AM
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I would because he is miserable because he consistently gets dumped and ghosted after a short period of time. He is the most unlovable person I’ve met. The only reason he gets dates is because he is a white guy in Asia, and he uses apps to meet them so they don’t know what he is like till they meet him , then they realise what a selfish , tight arse misogynist he is and split. If he was in his own country he wouldn’t be getting a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:57 AM
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He tries, he even gets dates and nearly always has a woman in his life, but it’s because he is a white guy in Asia, he can’t keep a woman in his life though because he is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:48 AM
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For some reason , us men, we cut ourselves slack for taking a long time to learn things, except when it comes to learning how to get good with women, we expect ourselves to be instantly good at it and if we are not then we bust on ourselves and get angry with ourselves . What we overlook is that amount of pressure puts a tremendous strain on ourselves and makes the learning process harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:01 AM
1

In his 40’s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:27 AM
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How many things in life were you good at first time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:18 AM
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I have a friend who is a lost cause, but only because he is not prepared to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:07 AM
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The getting laid thing works for you, but you’re a rare gem who has the skills to fake it, most don’t possess that ability. I guess it could be argued that the skill could be learned, but if someone is going to go to that effort then they may as well channel the energy into addressing the actual problem and becoming the person they wish to be perceived as
/r/seduction02/03/21 10:39 AM
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I recommend some authors, eckhart tolle, Jamie smart, ankush k Jain, Gary John Bishop, Sydney banks. All are on YouTube too
/r/seduction02/03/21 09:14 AM
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Just because most people do something , doesn’t mean it’s practical or valuable. I want to add that It’s not only women who can intuitively asses people, I am a man and with most poeple I can tell how they feel about themselves before they even open their mouth, others it takes a few days or few weeks or months for me to get a feel after spending time with them and getting to know them, the true self comes out eventually. It’s really better to actually root out your demons and actually be someon…
/r/seduction02/03/21 07:43 AM
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Sorry, I deleted my comment to repost but you replied too fast. This is what I wanted to say... It’s nothing to do with mind reading, it’s about general vibe , body language and unconscious expression, you are a good actor , most people are not. For most people, the self is always coming through or comes out eventually Yes, it is an act if you feel like shit I side but can carry yourself as witty and confident , I wonder though could you sustain that through a prolonged period of time through an…
/r/seduction02/03/21 07:30 AM
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I agree
/r/seduction02/03/21 06:47 AM
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It’s how a guy feels about himself that either makes him magnetic, repellent or neutral
/r/seduction02/03/21 06:36 AM
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It’s a caricature of the truth, it’s not a universal truth. It’s true in some people’s minds, but who cares. Why make a learning conversation into bitching? Leave gender battles for the bitter and disenfranchised
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:05 PM
0

What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:39 AM
0

High IQ response
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:37 AM
1

I wish all red pill men thought like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:34 AM
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The only good choice is choosing you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:32 AM
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Eloquent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:55 AM
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Even if it would be correct that women are privileged and have it easier, so what ? Complaining about it on the internet doesn’t change anything , all you can do is focus on yourself and do what you have to do to move forward. Proving victimhood is a distraction from that, it’s the opposite of self help, it’s self helplessness and self sabotage. Don’t focus on your weaknesses, focus on your strengths, if you don’t have any strengths then stop everything and cultivate some strengths
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:30 AM
1

How about go for a hike and don’t tell me what to do, cheers buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:51 PM
1

How many long term relationships have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:53 PM
1

Do you mean long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:52 PM
1

Have you had no success at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:41 PM
1

That sucks, and I relate to that. How old are you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:40 PM
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Just digging a bit deeper, it’s not really a gotcha, because if he doesn’t have those issues then he will just say no. Then there would be not much more to discuss unless he wanted to share more about himself. Of course there are no solid rules to dating and attraction , there are good looking guys who have mental issues who have women, there are ugly guys with high self esteem who have women too....even ugly guys who are criminals and complete shit heads who are sexist and drug addicts who have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:00 AM
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Why do you need to repel? If you don’t like someone then just tell you’re not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:48 AM
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Personally, I’m not attracted to women who put in too much effort into their appearance, my gf doesn’t wear make up and doesn’t wear expensive clothes or take ages to get ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:46 AM
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Do you have any anxiety or esteem issues? That’s a question, not an accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:42 AM
1

So men are hypergamous bastards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:38 AM
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To get more Instagram followers and to laugh at the stupid messages men send them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:23 AM
2

Yet another total nonsense post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:21 AM
1

So a small group of friends represents the whole planet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:20 AM
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The more effeminate a male population is, the more likely the country is to be dominated by a less effeminate country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:45 AM
1

First you have to demonstrate that men’s value is at all time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:29 AM
1

The response of a boy with nothing to say, goodbye wee man. Blocked .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 04:44 AM
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Good blast big guy , I commend your cheeky eloquence. I fully support your decision to hire a prostitute as it’s better outlet for sexual frustration than butting horns on Reddit . All jokes aside though, Though I might lack tact, and my directness is annoying, I do honestly get that. I’m not here to ad hominem or mudsling, so don’t be thinking that we gonna go that direction. I’m here to discuss and debate ideas, not people. If you don’t like what I say, either state what you disagree with and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:33 PM
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Yeah a guy with experience telling it how it is to the inexperienced. Maybe I should keep my mouth shut and let them keep failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:19 AM
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There was no mention of fault in any way shape or form, has nothing to do with fault and everything to do with responsibility. You should learn the difference (that’s not a jab btw) the most common misconception I see in these pill groups is conflating responsibility as blame, how can it be someone’s fault if they don’t know how to do something?. There is no value In blaming , whether it’s yourself or anyone/ anything else , but if you don’t know how to do something then you and you alone are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:16 AM
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There wasn’t for many years, I was a starving artist, no way I would attract a gold digger, now I am well off but I guess I still don’t have the extravagant persona that such girls are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:06 AM
1

So how far have you got with this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:05 AM
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You haven’t talked about how you are going to change yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:50 PM
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No worries, see ...if you talk straight to me, I talk straight back. I only rip into the foolish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:50 PM
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You’re a change culture instead of changing yourself person. Maybe men should learn to control their desperation and work on bettering themselves, then they won’t just settle for any heartless tramp who shows an interest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:49 PM
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You got plenty of time, look into the three principles by Sydney banks, and you tubers such as Jamie smart, ankush k Jain and Gary John bishop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 02:30 PM
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I don’t think to either. Oh well, can’t win em all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:48 PM
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All experiences have the potential to turn out bad. If you are conditioned, you can uncondition yourself . It sounds to me maybe that you don’t trust your own judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:47 PM
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There are only 2 reasons why a guy can’t get girls. ⁠He doesn’t try. ⁠He tries but doesn’t know how. As for guys who do get girls but have consistent bad experiences, the common denominator is themselves, if you can only attract scum, you gotta do some deep inward diving and ask yourself why, and introspection is like kryptonite to most guys in that situation, to be able to say “I’m doing something wrong “ or “I am making bad decisions “ is very difficult for a lot of guys. I know a guy my age w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:39 PM
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So what’s the issue exactly? Did you read the conversation I had with him? It was just him talking through his ass and me pointing the fact out that he is talking through his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:17 PM
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Well, I hope you have a good life my friend. I ridicule the ridiculous, is that a bad thing? . People who are showing obvious sexism and directing their anger at women instead of looking at their own problems and trying to deal with them get no respect from me. I usually help guys out when I come to social media groups, and I don’t usually post in in this sub, but when i seen the blatant hatred of women in this thread, I am not going to be respectful. Actually, what I said to him might sound har…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:00 PM
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Not so much, DJ and rave promoter for 20 years, travelled the world for half my life, been to over 30 countries , live in Vietnam now and plan to retire next year at 45, but that’s about it. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:45 PM
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I’m not complaining about women, I’m laughing at idiots for my own amusement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:41 PM
0

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:07 AM
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From what you’ve said about the sorry state of your life. You need all the advice you can get. You may feel anger towards me right now, but who else in your life is gonna shake you and try to slap some sense into you by pointing out how utterly ludicrous and out of touch with reality your conjectured imagination is?. You can hate me, I encourage you too, you can try to insult me too, it’s all fine, I hope that this slap to the face will at some point in your life wake you up and realise you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:57 AM
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Stop using conjecture and I will stop calling you out on it lad. Oh yeah , only the elite short guys are happy and the rest are not 😂🥇😂 The more you speak , the more stupid you sound. Maybe you need to step out of your bubble, it could be that your friends are just as useless as you, and your heights are just a coincidence, correlation doesn’t mean causation. How big is your social circle? Do you ever leave your own neighbourhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:50 AM
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That’s just more conjectured bullshit, sorry dude. You are taking through your ass. No guy under 6ft has ever been in a happy relationship??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 do you actually think before you speak? . All this is one big cope to excuse yourself for your shortcomings . Sort it out lad, stop being pathetic and blaming the world for your problems . Fix them. And no, simply getting wealthy and doing nothing else is not the path to attracting worthwhile women, it’s the path to attracting women who will use you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:44 AM
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Yeah coz nobody under 6ft ever did anything with their lives 😂 shit excuse, take responsibility boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:38 AM
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More conjecture! You’re great at prophecies about alternate realities that don’t exist. If you spent as much time focusing on how you could make better choices as a man as you do focusing on what other people are doing wrong , you wouldn’t be on Reddit anymore complaining about women because you would be too busy having an awesome life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:34 AM
1

Why wouldn’t it matter ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:27 AM
0

Nothing at all shallow about what you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:26 AM
0

Why else would they find it? Thats the demographic the cult is aimed at, wounded animals. Same as radical feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:25 AM
1

Maybe stop focusing on the shitty majority and hone in on the specific girls who would actually be good for you. I’d rather be single for a decade than have an abundance of headache and drama filled experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:23 AM
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All womens standards are shallow, unless their standard is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:21 AM
0

I would tell them to forget about Asian women and date women who will date them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:19 AM
5

Whose responsibility is it to deal with their own emotions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:18 AM
0

I’m not from America and I love American women, very easy and very sexually open.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:17 AM
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You’re more likely to run into shallow women if extravagance and flamboyance is your style. Modest men, like myself tend not to attract such types. I’ve never in my life attracted a gold digger or a superficial girl. They train themselves well to spot their target type of clientele , all good sales people have an instinctual eye for prospective clients and non starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:15 AM
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Yes, I agree. Women are a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:11 AM
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What you just said wasn’t at all shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:10 AM
1

Even you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:05 AM
4

Gotta love conjecture, if my granny had balls she’d be my grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 09:57 AM
2

Because introspection hurts, it’s easier to turn it into a gender mud slinging match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 09:56 AM
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Because good women have no autonomy over their lives and even if they want to live their lives or focus on a career and marry later in life, they can’t, because they are all propagated into marriage before they are 21
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 09:55 AM
2

I thought that expression was referring to the individual, not the collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:09 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣 Most oxymoronic thing I have read in this group. Thanks for the laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:09 AM
0

Depends on the type of feminism, but it can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:17 AM
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Women who know what they want, know what they want. Those who don’t , don’t. The problem with “don’t take dating advice from women” is you will get bad advice if.... 1.,) the girl is immature. 2) the girl is insecure. 3) the girl is inexperienced. 4) is influenced by extremist political or religious dogma around sexuality or gender dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:40 AM
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Stop using apps and learn to talk to women in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:36 AM
2

We will we will bomb you
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 12:55 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 12:48 PM
1

😂
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 12:47 PM
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What is the red pill? It’s just a collection of ideas, not everyone who preaches red pill agrees with eachother, not everything is wrong either, but not everything is right. If you dogmatically believe everything you hear just because someone smarter than you made it sound believable, that’s not the smartest way to collect ideas. You can learn things from the manosphere, but take everything you hear with a pinch of salt. try to debunk ideas yourself, don’t be lazy and ask other people to do the …
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:48 AM
0

All incels are silly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:29 AM
2

I would say they need to raise their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:18 AM
3

Yeah social rules are for sheep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:05 PM
3

Every few days? Are you trolling ? Because that’s not needy at all. Of course she will stop after a few weeks. I think you’re trolling, if not....jeez that was a bad move.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:04 PM
1

How did that work out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:01 PM
-2

My ex slept with me after an hour of meeting me, I thoroughly appreciated it. We lasted 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:00 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 11:27 PM
1

Haha you are hilariously right brained. Calm down mr spok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 02:50 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:10 AM
1

I bet you’re the life and soul of the party 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:03 AM
1

It can be. And in this case, It was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:01 AM
1

The wage gap thing has been debunked years ago. There are no women working the same job as men and getting paid less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:14 AM
1

What if they have no drive or purpose and will likely be broke their whole life and feed off you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:11 AM
1

Try to avoid being pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:10 AM
2

Where do you get these stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:09 AM
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You’re thinking of women as a hive mind. How are we supposed to know what any girl means when they say something? Some people mean what they say and others don’t. We can’t know about what hypothetical women are thinking in a hypothetical situation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:07 AM
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I wouldn’t fuck any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 04:20 AM
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If it’s on buzz feed it’s non refutable scientific truth. Seriously though, do people still take buzz feed seriously, been blatantly race and gender baiting for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 04:19 AM
1

How do they keep a boner under duress ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:02 AM
1

I told ya already, not my style . You know dat. Respect to your way though, God bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:43 PM
1

Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:37 PM
1

Of course some are high IQ. But from my experience, most aren't, they think they are, but they really are the stupidest people ive ever spoken to. Just look at incel tears to see endless ridiculousness that makes absolutely no sense. They think just because they like to argue that it makes them smart. It just makes them compulsory arguers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 01:40 AM
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Im not comparing them to my situation lol. My situation is ok. I'm not an incel, I'm noncel (dunno if that's a real buzzword, don't know what the word for opposite of incel is) I've had my struggles like most guys, but I enjoy the struggle, it defines me as a man. Ive never dated a user because for most of my young life I had nothing , you can't use someone who has nothing , I had to learn how to be smart about it, when you have no money, all you have to create value is your mind, it forced me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:13 PM
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It doesn't happen all the time, but for sure it happens . Usually only to rich guys or guys in power
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:27 AM
1

Bingo! Don't give her an excuse to leave . Unless that was her plan all along , meaning you settled and got played. Tough shit for having no integrity .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:10 AM
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Yeah basically, don't correct me. Believe everything women say without question because women are always right .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:41 AM
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I do what everyone else already does, why hasn't the universe awarded me with a girl for being a good responsible citezen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 02:06 PM
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Yes actually, I've no idea what list you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:28 PM
2

It's like rolling a dice with 100 billion sides
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:27 PM
2

The solution is to tell people to stop improving ! Who would have known??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:17 AM
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It's not personality , it's fear , guilt, shame, desperation .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:14 AM
4

Having a hobby and asking 3 girls out 4 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:13 AM
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What do you mean don't put in work ? I already spoken to 3 girls and none of them gave me their number, I have a hobby , I have a job and a car. What more work am I supposed to do???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:12 AM
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You will not talk shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 05:36 AM
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You will not ask dumb questions .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:55 PM
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Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:42 PM
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Yes. And I didn't say that .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:50 AM
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I want to understand the dynamic better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:48 AM
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You listed methods to get into relationships and to be more attractive and I questioned the effectiveness and implications of such methods. Sorry, I will pass on your methods. I been attracting girls my whole life and been near flat broke for most of it, and no , I'm not a Chad . Not telling you not to do what you do, it's just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:47 AM
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I don't know if that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:44 AM
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I know that much. How long you been together ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:37 AM
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There is no need to state numbers and stats. We are discussing YOUR reasons for YOU getting into a relationship which you are trying to sell to me as a good idea. Did you never look at your families behaviour and question it? Has it really made them happy? . Are you happy?.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:37 AM
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How's it working out so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:32 AM
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Yeah so you're friends and family approach it in that way , so monkey see monkey do . Money is certainly a factor of relationships but ...Poor people all around the world somehow manage to stay together , imagine that .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:32 AM
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Is other peoples stupid decisions a rational reason for making stupid decisions yourself ?.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:30 AM
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Irrelevent question . I disagree that a faulty relationship is better than no relationship , reasons stated above. Never mind divorce rape and custody battles. Do you have a reason as to why you think being in a disfunctional relationship is better than no relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:25 AM
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So basically you see that kind of behaviour in your family and assume it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:23 AM
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Disagree. You can't die from not having a relationship. But the wrong relationship can sure help to lead to an early grave , stress, blood pressure, heart attacks etc. I'll happily be single over being with some one I hate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:21 AM
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So your partner is not attracted to you but merely for what you can provide ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:20 AM
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Would you say it's the main factor ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:18 AM
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I agree. My motto is that if money is all you have to offer, then money is all women will want from you. This is a problem with moneymaxxing . You use the wrong bait, you catch the wrong fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:17 AM
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Are those the methods you applied to get into relationships and / or get women attracted to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:12 AM
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You listed steps to getting girls, are those the steps you made to get with girls ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:10 AM
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Is that what you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:09 AM
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Is that what you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:05 AM
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It's simply nonsese that no one has found a way. What about the millions who have ? Are they irrelvent ?. Should they not be listened to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:03 AM
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It’s true, men don’t typically want to hear other men’s problems
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:25 AM
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There’s more of that male privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:25 AM
1

Or learn how to turn women on and playboy max
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:21 AM
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Everybody believes women have it easier in dating. Means as a man you should spend less time worrying about trying to prove it on reddit and more time building your strengths and qualities that will improve your chances
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:18 AM
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I guess, so whats the alternative? Don’t try at all to make sure you never fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:36 AM
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I didn't say anything about morally fair or nobel actions. I just said the more you try something the higher the likelihood of getting an optimal result .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:08 AM
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You answered saying it was weird to ask what does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:05 AM
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How you gonna find that by starting conversations about what doesn’t work? Maybe a better idea would be to find ugly people with girlfriends and ask them what worked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:59 PM
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You must have jizzed your pants then .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 11:27 AM
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Feel better about yourself now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 11:25 AM
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Fuck off you cheeky cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 11:19 AM
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If you do something that has a 1% chance of succeeding 100 times then the probability of not succeeding is 99%, no? Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:43 AM
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And I did ask...and you said it was weird to ask , wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:41 AM
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Well you can do that if you like. But the original comment was not exactly a process of figuring anything out. More like an absolutist statement. Ok, it doesn't work, so what does? is the most important next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:40 AM
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What use is talking about what doesnt work? Why don't you start a discussion on what DOES work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:47 AM
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No , I don't. You are free to explain yourself though .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:58 AM
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If someone does everything right enough times, there will be a pay off sooner or later. If someone is consistently trying and failing , it’s a good guess to assume they are not doing everything right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:59 AM
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“Most incels are extremely intelligent” Are you having a laugh? Most incels I have spoke to are extremely unintelligent, they have a terrible time understanding basic human dynamics concepts regardless of how many people try to explain it to them. They have false beliefs about female psychology, poor social skills , few real life skills, and an unwillingness to develop them, unable to self reflect or self criticise. Not all are like that of course, but intelligent is certainly not the predominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:56 AM
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How do you know how much sex she’s had?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:49 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:46 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:46 AM
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Nope. I can think someone is foolish without being offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:20 AM
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Im responding yes. Never claimed otherwise. Taking offense, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:07 AM
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I'm interacting with you , but I didn't ever entertain anything of your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:04 AM
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There was never any stage where I engaged with your comments , there never was any arguing .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:00 AM
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I'm a man you idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:43 AM
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He is , because he falsely believes he is in a debate . So he really is talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:43 AM
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Look at the responses from the incel that posted that . Pure sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:42 AM
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“Pigeon chess” is defined at Urban Dictionary as “having a pointless debate with somebody utterly ignorant of the subject matter, but standing on a dogmatic position that cannot be moved with any amount of education or logic, but who always proclaims victory.” The term is generally used in conjunction with an explanation that it derives from the image of a pigeon engaging in a chess match by “knocking the pieces over, crapping on the board, and flying off to announce that it has won”:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:31 AM
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Pigeon chess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:27 AM
1

God lord, shut up fool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:24 AM
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It works if you think all women and all men are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:18 AM
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Ummm. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:15 AM
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I don’t need you to be, I worked hard to get to where i am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:14 AM
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That's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:10 AM
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High IQ post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:08 AM
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So incel and mgtow are sour grapes movements?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:05 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:31 AM
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Didn't understand your sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:20 AM
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I am a guy with a large penis, never got an overwhelming positive reaction to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:51 AM
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If you have a small dick, don’t worry. All women care about in bed is being satisfied and being able to orgasm. I’ve made women orgasm with my little finger before, tongue too. There are loads of resources out there on how to be a good lover in bed, do as much research as you can and apply it In your sex life. Worry about being a better romancer, seducer and orgasm donor , worrying about your willy size is not going to serve you in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:01 AM
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He stopped himself when I called him out , I don’t like to allow myself to get snared into blackpill rabbit hole traps . There is a type of incel whose only purpose on reddit it to seek out conflict and argument, they are not using the platform to help better understand life, not to understand other perspectives, but to see how many times they can start an argument and attempt to win. The problem is , they rarely win any argument because they are not using well thought out arguments, they are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:55 AM
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When you going to see chad, that life is black and white, everything is a zero sum game and everyone fits into 2 boxes and that’s all there is to life. Silly chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:45 AM
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Just because you you haven’t changed, doesn’t mean others can’t, it also doesn’t mean that you can’t. It just means that you haven’t. “Personality is the pattern of thoughts, feelings and behaviors unique to a person. People tend to think of personality as fixed. But according to psychologists, that's not how it works. "Personality is a developmental phenomenon. It's not just a static thing that you're stuck with and can't get over," said Brent Roberts, a psychologist at the University of Illino…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:42 AM
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I think it means women prefer men who have their shit together over losers. But as most RP guys only ever knew how to attract women using flamboyance and extravagance, they only ever knew gold diggers and assume all women are like that .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:43 AM
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There is no such thing as an INTP "type". Personalities are always changing, you could have those characteristics now and different characteristics next year, personality isnt fixed in stone, it progresses and alters through life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:38 AM
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All these pills promote black and white ideaologies. It's no surprise that aspies are attracted to it like moths to flames, because aspies are prone to black and white thinking , things are either like X or they are like Z . Simple and easy to understand explanations of reality, so aspies lap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:24 AM
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Why do you want to tell me about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:47 PM
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Why you telling me all this by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:42 PM
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Who told you that you "have to" do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:13 PM
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Now you're being melodramatic and a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:25 AM
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It isn't like that at all, don't be melodramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:19 AM
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Well if you haven't spoken to a woman then you havent tried .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:32 AM
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You said you approached 2000 women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:29 AM
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Well, I think that counts as trying . But after 2000 attempt and nothing , you're doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:27 AM
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It's impossible if you dont try
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:21 AM
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Dating is surely not fun if you never tried . The hardest challenge is the one you never attempted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:11 AM
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You've tried, but you've never spoken to a woman your own age. How have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:09 AM
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It’s up to you, but denial of personal business is not the same as fabricating information to evade accountability, that’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:49 PM
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Most women don’t want guys to go round telling others they had sex with them, it’s personal and private, none of anyone else’s business , frankly. Denying something that is private is not equal to lying about something you did wrong and are avoiding responsibility for. It’s like asking how much money someone has in the bank, it’s not your business so don’t expect to hear the truth . You have no right to the information
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:02 AM
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A boy does not become a man till he overcomes his craving for approval
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:55 AM
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Well, I'm sorry you don't like my choice of words, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:24 AM
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You haven't given ANY advice. He is talking to me in pm now actually about "how" . First and foremost he needed to acknowledge what the problem is, he was avoiding the real issue, the step after is to talk about how, I was waiting to see if he was interested in knowing how , I'm not going to waste time giving advise to those who don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:25 AM
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Ok, well I did not say it was easy so pleaae don't quote me with things I didn't say. And I appreciate you not assuming that I havent been through it. I have. And considering you have been unable to offer any advice at all, I'd maybe try to come up with an answer yourself before jumping in to dismiss other advice . It's certainly not easy to break out of anxiety, the advice is simple. But simple doesn't always mean easy, the only option he has is to challenge him self and confront his fear, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:28 AM
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What do you mean he learned the hard way to not marry a rich girl ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:33 PM
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What makes you think I never had to deal with that ? And where did I say it was easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:25 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:24 PM
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Marriage stats show that most people marry within their own class. So I am not sure where hypergamy being a default human quality comes in?. Would almost make you think it's a phenomenon that's been blown out of proportion by disenfranchised men ? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:34 AM
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So what is better advice to tell someone who goes to social settings and wants to talk to people but is unable to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:54 AM
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Don't do anything you wouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:07 PM
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The only option is to talk bro. Not everyone will want to talk to you in life, but not everyone will ignore you either, just keep it simple, don’t try to impress anyone or show off or scheme anything , just introduce yourself and ask people questions about themselves, if they wanna chat great, if they don’t then oh well, talk to someone else . Your mind is overthinking a lot of things and projecting negative imagination . It’s just ego, it’s not real. But if you can talk to 1 person next time th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:16 PM
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I know, it’s based on your imagination, nothing more . Imagination doesn’t equal reality. Unless you think you can predict the future and the outcome will be identical every time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:02 PM
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Can you see how that is a projection and not backed up by anything except pure assumption ? .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:00 PM
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So if you are not pushy generally, then the concept of being pushy is just in your head right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:06 PM
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So , don't push yourself on others , it isn't the only way to introduce yourself to people you know . "Hi, I'm ***** what's your name?" See? Not pushy at all! Next line...."so how do you know peter?" See? Not pushy at all! Do you see a problem with viewing talking to people as pushy ? Do you tend to be pushy when talking to people ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:49 AM
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Don’t regret it, it’s not your fault people don’t know the meaning of words
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:20 AM
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Because they hate themselves for being slaves to their cocks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:18 AM
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Fair enough yeah, but you didn’t answer my question which suggests that you are still avert to looking at the actual problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:39 AM
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I don’t know if you’re agreeing with me or disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:38 AM
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He will just accuse you of making it up, or dismiss it as an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:04 AM
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If money is all you have to offer as value to women, money is all they will ever want from you. It’s not women’s true nature, it’s what you use for bait determines what kinds of fish you’ll catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:03 AM
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Ok, so they learn how from the best in the business and take a lot of years to learn what they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:23 AM
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By being taught ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:56 AM
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No, I was fishing for your motive before I was going to decide if I should answer the question because I didn’t want to get trolled into a bad faith question. By asking you why you are asking, you revealed your intent and I knew I didn’t have to waste my time engaging with you, I only intend to answer genuine questions that are being asked with the intention of learning from. You must think I’m stupid if you thought you could bait me like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:26 AM
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Have you an example of someone attempting brain surgery who doesn’t know how ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:22 AM
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Only people who jumped were locals who spent years round the rocks, i jump in to it too but from another spot. This was off the path, I’ve done bridge jumps from higher before , but jumping over rocks is too much for me, I did it once in a cave and once was enough , too hairy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:01 PM
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You already answered the question yourself , why ask a question you already feel you have an adequate answer to? That’s not trying to educate yourself or asking in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:01 PM
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Oh ok, so you weren’t asking me because you wanted to learn something but because you were setting up an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:57 PM
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That’s called catastrophism . You need to work on that. You were not “slammed down” , you made the choice to be a wall flower, do you have any ambition to be able to get to a point where you are not controlled by your inhibitions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:52 PM
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You gotta talk to people bro. How can you have fun if you just sit in the corner and do nothing?. you going to talk to people next time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:41 PM
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Why are you asking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:24 PM
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How many people did you talk to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:23 PM
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Yeah but you didn't even talk to any of them so what was the point of even being there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:57 AM
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I don’t need to do anything. She’s not the only girl in the world, I will survive without her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:21 AM
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Maybe, it could also have just been a massive shit test and nothing would have came from it had I decided to do it. She could have jumped off herself if it was so important
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:09 AM
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Haha 😂 I remember once I was climbing on the rocks at a beach and a girl was climbing up too, when she got close to me she pretended that she was scared all of a sudden and couldn’t move, a damsel in distress waiting for her prince to save her. I played along because she was hot and I am a man. But I stopped this damsel and hero charade when she started encouraging me to jump into the sea from the top of the cliff which involved jumping past rocks directly below to make sure you didn’t get splat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:57 AM
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I see, well I have to agree with your idea. I guess I feel the same way about men complaining about dangers of talking to women as you do about women catastrophism over men’s presence. But why are these women scared if it’s not due to paranoia ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:29 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s even illegal, I suppose defamation of character might be a case, but certainly would not be easy to win. It’s still attention that is u wanted because it’s damaging, therefore it’s abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:55 AM
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Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:34 AM
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So if you spread a sexual rumour about someone to ruin their reputation. Would you class that as unwanted attention ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:55 AM
2

Ummm. Jeffrey Epstein kind of proves that wrong .he had women on tap and he still felt the need to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:51 AM
1

I saw a documentary about domestic violence and the staff in a womens domestic violence shelter said that 90% of the women reported being in a mutually abusive relationship. It wasnt a one way street
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:49 AM
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There are no stats on crimes that don't get reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:46 AM
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Ok, paranoia about worst case scenarios was the theme of the conversation . I was saying it works both ways and both genders have people who are capable of being irrationally cautious when there was really no need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:29 AM
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If you don't know what you are doing then of course it's probably going to go wrong .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:27 AM
1

Yeah you sound like someone who knows exactly what they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:18 AM
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Perhaps I did misunderstand you. It's easily done in text forums . I thought you were comparing the validity of women's paranoia to men's paranoia, so correct me if I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:16 AM
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I wasn't talking about pickpockets. The point is that both men and women are capable of assuming worst case scenario , even if they couldn't be more further than the truth. There are all sorts of fears a man can have about approaching women, getting hospitalised by a jealous BF or friend, being humiliated at in public, getting arrested on a false harrassment charge, being slapped, getting a drink thrown in the face, being roofied and robbed etc. All of these things are highly unlikely scenarios …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:00 AM
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Is there a crack head bar in your town ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:44 AM
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Red pill men cant get it without being betabux. So they like to pretend that it's women's true nature that they are feeding into rather than accept that they have nothing more going for them than flamboyance and extravagance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:39 AM
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There are only 2 reasons why a guy can't get with girls. He doesn't try. He tries but doesn't know what he is doing. Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:28 AM
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Just like many men are irrationally terrified to talk to women . Many women are irrationally terrified to be approached by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:27 AM
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Who told you to go to a party and not talk to anyone ?. You didn't step out of your comfort zone, you replaced the comfort zone of your house for the comfort zone of the corner of the party. It's great that you got out of the house and tried a change of environment, but you clearly didn't challenge yourself further than that. Next time you gotta try to go out and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:23 AM
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That’s cool. You’re entitled to your opinion. Agree to disagree it is then ! I’m happy to have had a respectful conversation on the matter, not like the other person who attacked my character for asking questions. I think the abortion debate will never be solved and will go on till the end of time, there is way too much we dont yet understand about life yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:16 AM
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Of course it’s not your responsibility. Doesn’t mean it’s no ones responsibility. Not your responsibility , not your problem. It is someone else’s problem though and abortion gives them an option to avoid responsibility . It’s one of the few things in life we can relinquish responsibility for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:52 AM
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But my position is that abortions are not responsible. I guess we won’t agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:46 AM
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If they really believe that they will abuse the kid, then maybe. But then maybe if this is the case then the responsible thing to do would be not have sex in the first place. (Assuming of course that the baby/child/foetus/object/thing was conceived by sexual consent) And doesn’t take away from the adoption option. Would be more responsible to give it a good life than to take the possibility of life away . I’m not anti abortion , but there are a lot of challenging thoughts that surround the topic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:33 AM
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Responsibility is not always comfortable or enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:14 AM
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I don’t see how an abortion can be considered responsibility tbh, when there are alternatives that suit the unborn child and the parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:49 AM
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It’s a difficult discussion . Taking responsibility for getting pregnant when you didn’t want to could mean surrendering the baby for adoption .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:28 AM
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Because if they could they would. But I guess the fact that they can’t is the root of their issue with other people being able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:46 AM
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Big up to the quality women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:05 PM
2

Everything you say is correct, but why is it a problem for you? You don’t like having to work hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:28 PM
1

What is a whore? That’s an ambiguous term
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:22 PM
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But if you fuck enough women to fill a room, that’s perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:21 PM
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She should have been mature, competent, experienced and knew what she was doing at age 16. Just like I wasn't .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:38 AM
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It means if she has sex or a relationship with anyone at all, then she is a worthless slut. But if it's with me then she isn't .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:31 AM
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I was really hoping to get a response to that, after ignoring your insulting me with buzzwords and assuming my position without asking, I was happy enough to lay out my actual position on this matter, you presented your soul argument and I explained why it doesn’t work for me, I took some time to explain my position too as i thought you wanted an open discussion of ideas but I ended up taking all that time out for nothing , very sad ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:03 AM
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I think anyone who is not used to responsibility will not handle it well when given it, but I do think it’s one of those things that nobody can go a lifetime completely avoiding
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:25 AM
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We are even expected to lay down our lives to protect women. Not complaining about it. But it never seems to be acknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:18 AM
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0.1%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:05 AM
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Yes , and I’ve also had six wih a girl and not bang her friends, and been hated by women but not by their friend. Would be a hive mind if that was the outcome every single time, but it isn’t, its just something that happens less than it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:24 PM
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What? Seriously ? I don’t think you thought about what you were saying before posting. Not wearing seat belts or helmets is NOT taking responsibility, it’s the opposite, it’s allowing kids to do however they wish, not teaching them to be responsible at all. It’s teaching recklessness, the opposite of responsibility. Your silly attempt at a gotcha actually agrees with my point. The kids who are taught responsibility are more likely to survive in life than those who aren’t. I was asking for an ant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:12 AM
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I have no idea about souls or anything like that , I have no idea if a soul is even a thing, never mind be able to know if or when a soul develops . Whether life begins at conception, a heartbeat, a brain, or at birth, doesn’t really matter to me. The when does life begin thing is pretty irrelevant to me, it’s knowing that there was a potential for a life to happen...and the potential for life is something that is impossible to deny, but the potential was removed because of a conscious decision …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:39 AM
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As for what you said about kids having to take on responsibility at a young age, is that really a bad thing? It means they get a head start over their peers when it comes to growing up, they have more experience and wisdom. Compare them to kids who are never taught any sort of responsibility at all, and observe how they struggle socially and spiritually when they reach adulthood and are forced to fend for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:35 AM
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Shitpost is correct. Stop preaching drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:30 AM
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Ok. Well, I’ll answer your question from before , although it wasn’t actually a question , it was more of an assertion about me even though you dont know a single thing about me, but thats ok, I understand this is a sensitive topic and it’s easy to get emotional and irrational. So, you claimed that i could accidentally get someone pregnant, well let me tell you that it could very easily have happened to me in the past because I was reckless and wild and free. I didn’t care about responsibility a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:28 AM
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Cowgating is like side streaming or branching off prematurely. I’m fully aware of what the topic is, but what is wrong with responsibility ? And why is avoiding responsibility a good thing? Honest question . It’s not a gotcha, I don’t have a come back up my sleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:10 AM
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Ok, I’ll let my girlfriend know your thoughts 😂 You are seriously cowgating though, all I commented about was responsibility, didnt give any opinions on abortion or birth control. I just wonder what’s so bad about responsibility? And why avoiding responsibility is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:01 AM
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Responsibility is a terrible thing to lay on anyone. Who wants pesky responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:53 AM
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Oh well, if CORPORATE says something then it’s the ultimate truth , who are we to question authority or form our own opinions ? Get back to your booth and do more programming !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:47 AM
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There’s no such thing as a true claim, a true claim would be a fact. I don’t have to refute a claim, it’s up to you to provide some evidence and then my job as a skeptic would be to rufute the evidence if I thought it was insufficient or faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:43 AM
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Work on insecure and Immature women. That’s why so many mgtow become mgtow, they end up with psycho women or women with Issues. That’s not “ women “ that’s an individuals choice to use psychological manipulative tactics to land women. It’s not how you fish, its about what you use for bait that determines what types of fish you catch. And no, those strategies are not universal and women are not a hive mind, try any of that crap with a woman who has a head on her shoulders , an ounce of integrity …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:38 AM
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Can men post there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:16 AM
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It's unnatractive to those who don't want a long term relationship. Wow what a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:14 AM
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Yes because life really is so simple that male mating habits can be described with 2 short sentences and two buzz words .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:14 AM
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Feminists created an alpha male harem utopia. Is that a fact? Or a claim ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:12 AM
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Total pile of nonsese. No one learned anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:11 AM
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Sharing is caring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 05:03 AM
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On my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:42 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 04:45 PM
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So anyway , if someone from outside the brainwashing cult is having a discussion with someone who is brainwashed by the cult and the brainwashed uses the incorrect group think definition. It's fair to challenge them and point out that they are using a redefinition and that could be a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:22 AM
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I'm not big on ideologies myself. I prefer to think for my self as much as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:16 AM
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Be careful about subscribing to ideologies then if you care if what you believe is true . If not, then ideologies are the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:12 AM
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Ideologies often change definitions to suit themselves. If only the people in the ideology can agree on the definition then they are victims of group think and bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:58 AM
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It’s usually from feeling in these kinds of groups though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 08:55 AM
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Way too much absolutism in this post OP. Women are not a hive mind where you can say "women this age will all do this " and "women that age will all do that " Is this advice something you personally have experience in ? Like did you marry a 20 year old and are now an old man and lived a happy life?. If not , then the whole post is just conjecture .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:53 AM
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= argument from feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:43 AM
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Who has the authority to redefine what words mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:42 AM
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Hypergamy exists, but not as much as mgtows like to imagine . Most people marry within their own class. That's a fact . One thing most mgtows have in common is that they got cheated on and betrayed , as most people have. But when you join a club for betrayed men, it can be easy to assume that that's the status quo in life .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:40 AM
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So it's going right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:14 AM
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So you are afraid of it ending?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:20 AM
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I'm a Muslim so I win
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:10 AM
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Yeah but being cold and calculating is the job of a trader or a salesman , it's not the way for seduction , it has to come from your emotions , not from your mind. Love is an emotional puzzle , not a mental puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:09 AM
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Yeah but being cold and calculating is the job of a trader or a salesman , it's not the way for seduction , it has to come from your emotions , not from your mind. Love is an emotional puzzle , not a mental puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:09 AM
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What is the obesrvable behaviour of women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:06 AM
1

But larping as a mind reader is ....?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:05 AM
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Verbal arousal is also a thing, talking erotically to a woman can make her wet. That's an advanced skill though. Women can also get aroused by arts, dancing, music, emotional expression etc. Theres more than one way to skin a 🐈 who told you there is only one way? I'd knock them out if I were you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:55 AM
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My relationships have never been a power dynamic. Don't know who told you there is no other way, that's also very tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:46 AM
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You can read women's minds? . Can you teach me how to do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:44 AM
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I think the statement reveals more about him than the reality of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:08 PM
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You'd think you were in a casino the way you are taking . Nothing sexier than thinking in percentages .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:56 PM
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It took me years to understand what " there is no such word as can't " meant . It's about conditioning, training the mind to avoid lazy thinking . Words can be so powerful, think the wrong words and those words can have power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:52 PM
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Yes, no one is more marginalised than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:47 PM
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That's a tragic way of viewing relationships, like the entire dynamic keeping things alive is a power play of physical prowess ? . How do you know she can not do better ? .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:16 PM
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As a black Irish bi sexual trans woman, I can say that stepping out of gender norms was not a choice for me, if you are stepping out of choice, you probably are a privileged white person. Don’t be a rebel for nothing , be who you is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:37 PM
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Well as a m to f trans person, I have personally found that feminists are all behind trans women until I show up in the locker room, then all of a sudden I don’t feel so included .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:31 PM
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If you don’t want to improve, then you don’t have to, it’s ok bro, no one minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:27 PM
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I’m a woman and I can confirm this is wrong. I don’t date guys under 6” 11. As we all know, women all think the same, so this applies to all women. Forget about it 6”2cels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:21 PM
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Don’t worry about debts, just write a letter and promise to give no more than 2% of your income every month . If you have no income you don’t have to pay anything . You can even increase debt and still never pay more than 2%, though I don’t recommend it for the sake of it, more just to be aware that debt shouldn’t cripple you. You can even go bankrupt and have all debts wiped out if you want and only forfiet is that you cant get any credit for 5 or 6 years, which isn’t really a punishment , it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:19 PM
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How dare people imply I need to put effort into my own life. I think the issue is a lack of masculine presence for a lot of these guys. I was a bit of spoilt child to an extent , but “ I can’t “ or “ why should I ?” Were statements I could never get away with saying . I was given the minimal amount of push and that meant no excuses. I wasn’t pushed hard or forced to do anything I didn’t want to do, but if I said I was imterested in something , excuses as to why I can’t do it were always cut down…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:10 PM
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Use it and quote me haha It’s not a line JP used, it’s my own adaptation of it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:58 PM
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If anyone is plugging gym as a means to an end. They are full of shit. Should you go to the gym.. .? Yes. Does going to the gym mean women will throw themselves at you? No. It’s just one component (physical health) out of several components that are necessary to attract women. Can you still attract women if you don’t go to the gym? Sure you can, but only if you have other components of attraction. Gym is more for your own health than anything. The components of attraction are being interesting, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:58 PM
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Men have a harder time in divorce courts, this is undeniable, and it’s very easy for a woman to make up shit about him to get the upper hand and she will usually win. This is a real phenomena and it happens frequently, however, it still doesn’t account for 100% of the 70% of the women filing for divorce, what percentage are cold calculated assaults? I don’t know, no one I’ve spoken to has ever bothered to research the multivariates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:48 PM
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Was actually Jordan Peterson I learned that from. Far more eloquent than me, I couldn’t put it into words before about why the divorce stats were being used to mislead men, but I wasn’t acedemic enough, then i heard JP discussing the pay gap stat myth and I had an ah hah moment as to how it affects so much about what people believe if they take stats on face value without delving any deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:44 PM
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Sexual marxists. Want government sanctioned equal sex distribution .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:08 AM
1

What in particular is wrong with your social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:06 AM
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Nice to know you are the spokesperson for all women in their 20’s. I’ll make sure I pm you for women advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:21 AM
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You can't make multivariate conclusions from univariate statistics.. Just like the gender pay gap stat . All it tells us is that there is a pay gap, doesnt explain why or how there is a pay gap. But feminists automatically use the stat to jump to the conclusion of "because misogyny " while that cannot be dimissed as a possible contributing factor , it is certainly dishonest to present that as the single dominating factor with out giving any demonstration that it is, it becomes even more dishones…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:59 AM
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It also doesn't take into consideration reasons for wanting divorce, for example, what percentage were abused?. I always ask that when these stats come up in mgtow and red pill discussions, no one ever has an answer , because no one has ever bothered finding out the nuances or trying to see the other perspective . If you are going to alleviate all the mutivariates and come to a conclusion on a univariate stat then you could just as easily assume that the majority of men make shitty husband's as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:45 AM
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Were you around and dating before feminism ? Because that's the only way you can compare if dating was easier before feminism . I'm guessing you were not dating before feminism or you'd be about 80 years old right now. So you don't know it was easier. You imagine it was easier. I imagine differently , thanks to feminism , more women have sex on the first date and less women expect you to pay for the date, infact...many women will have sex without going on any dates at all (ONS) . Personally as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:38 AM
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So we are on the same page then. I'd love to see an incel put their actions where their mouth is and prove that convicts can get easy pussy by becoming a convict. And like you said, don't have to hurt anyone , just steal some Nikes or something. If you don't get caught , you get free Nikes , if you do get caught , all the women will be lusting over you and you'll no longer be an incel, that has to be worth a few months in the slammer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:30 AM
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And useless to use against the self. It shouldn’t even be about gender, it should always be about personal responsibility, you as an individual chose to date that other individual and you as an individual will choose to date other individuals in future. You are not dating as a collective of all of your gender dating a whole gender, so other men or women do not even have to come into it. And considering that men can date and marry men and women can date and marry women, the wrong doing can just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:51 AM
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Just don’t try then, no one is saying you have to , do as you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:39 AM
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Most people generally can’t tolerate whining from anyone about anything . Unless you are in a victim echo chamber, it’s hard to find people willing to be your emotional tampon. Venting is one thing, but consistent venting with no seek to find solution to the problem is burdensome , many people enjoy helping people fix their issues, but when it becomes apparent that the person has no intention of doing anything about the problem and is just looking for one more person to blow off steam to, well, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:32 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:27 AM
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What ? So you mean to say that a virgin who is fun to be around and respects himself is still attractive to women? But a virgin who views himself as subhuman scum and is depressing to be around isn’t attractive to women?. Well, that just proves that all women are shallow, they shouldn’t be choosing to want to spend time with happy positive guys, they should be throwing bones to the miserable guys and sacrificing their own happiness to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:26 AM
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Why don’t you become a convicted felon then if it’s that easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:22 AM
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Why do we need blame wars at all? How does men and women collectively wagging fingers help anyone ? No one has to take the blame for the awful deeds of another person, however, to learn from it and be better equipped to make sure it doesn’t have to happen again, then each person must take RESPONSIBILITY for their decision to date said person, RESPONSIBILITY for not walking away when they seen red flags early on, RESPONSIBILITY for making them selves aware of red flags in future and RESPONSIBILIT…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:07 AM
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It’s cool, you were using the words we have all been conditioned to use. Blaming yourself or blaming others is almost a cultural norm, it just requires a small reframe and it becomes much simpler and easier to flip the script to a position of power rather than a position of helplessness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:01 AM
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Yes OP, you are right on both points. Except the “Blame” part. No one has to take the blame for the awful deeds of another person, however, to learn from it and be better equipped to make sure it doesn’t have to happen again, then each person must take RESPONSIBILITY for their decision to date said person, RESPONSIBILITY for not walking away when they seen red flags early on, RESPONSIBILITY for making them selves aware of red flags in future and RESPONSIBILITY for preserving their own integrity …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:56 AM
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I wouldn’t know, never been there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:08 AM
1

So you’re not trying to have a discussion, you are pushing for an argument . Proof of which results?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:01 AM
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You asked me how I think it would help, I was saying it’s going to be a long conversation, not something can be explained in one post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:25 PM
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Ummm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:55 PM
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You’re asking me to be your coach really, I’d have to know so much more about you to be able to give any feedback at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:54 PM
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it’s not something I can explain in a single post but im happy to discuss it with you if it’s something you want to understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:51 PM
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That’s what I understood, am I off?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:22 PM
1

You feel you were denied building blocks of life and it’s made you feel less normal than before ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:20 PM
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Depends what they are telling me, if they have interesting stories then yeah it’s fine, people can talk about whatever to me, I’ll listen if it interests me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:15 PM
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are you saying you were normal and then eventually through lack of sex you ended up transforming into not normal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:12 PM
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I agree, it’s not something people are born with, that’s exactly my point actually?! You have not given an example of being unlikable, you gave an example of being incompetent .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:10 PM
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Yep, and slow developers reach their goals at a slower rate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:49 PM
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I agree, no one is born with matrimonial and courtship skills, we are all born knowing absolutely nothing and have to learn how to do everything . But no one is born unlikable, that is also the result of learned behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:48 PM
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Who said that priests celibacy is the reason behind the sex crimes? . I’m from Ireland and know people who were affected by it and heard many a tv and radio discussion on the issue. The general consensus is that priests don’t start off good people and become pedophiles, they were pedophiles before they joined the priesthood and joined to gain access to abandoned children from a position of communal trust. Are you using this bogus point to express an opinion that all incels are potentially sex of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:10 PM
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It’s a sub where people divide themselves into group think ideologies, victims of divide and conquer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:02 PM
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Of course not. That’s dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:00 PM
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What is fully learnable ? Nothing. No mater how much you learn, you can always learn one more thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 01:58 PM
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Yeah, I’m one of the people who was born in shit, and I built a ladder , took my whole life but I got there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:02 PM
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Do you think that being good in one area socially means you are automatically good in another area socially? Making friends and seducing women are both different sets of social skills, it’s entirely possible to be good at one and suck at the other . For the rest of your comment, I think you would love to research “implicit theories of intelligence” or also referred to as “ the winner effect” , if you are fascinated by how the mind works then you will really enjoy that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:00 PM
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I’ve had a bunch of relationships , from ONS to FWB to monogamous relationships . I’ve only had one really bad experience and in higndsight it could have easily been avoided, so even though her meanness was not my fault, I still take responsibility for putting myself into the situation. But anyway, it makes me laugh when I hear guys talking about “ women’s true nature “ there is no such thing, it’s just shitty choices .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 09:13 AM
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I love watching people debate incels, it’s like watching mike Tyson fight a midget baby. Reminds me of theists trying to use logic to prove their theories with atheists who use real logic. No contest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 09:09 AM
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“Why should I work on my social skills when other people don’t have to work on their social skills and still get laid?” . Translates as “ I am too stubborn and lazy to work on myself and this is my excuse”. Some people are more natural at certain things than others, that is not an excuse for you to not bother your ass, unless you really don’t want the result then not bothering your ass is fine. There will be areas of life where you take to like a duck to water while other people struggle to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 09:05 AM
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Because young people are rebellious and the rebel boy can have appeal to young girls. Plus they have status in the party scene, people look up to them and young girls also tend to be attracted to men who have respect of the pack. Though I can say, as an ex drug dealer, I was an ecstasy dealer in rave clubs back in the day, drug dealer groupies are not as prevalent as people think. At least in my experience , I don’t really have too many groupie stories to tell .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:29 AM
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I wish it was bro. I wish everything had a simple explanation that even a toddler could understand, but unfortunately real life is full of nuance and contradictions and grey areas .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:12 AM
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I don’t put myself into little restrictive boxes. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:11 AM
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How about for both of those reasons ? Why not be concerned about what you want AND also about how others feel? Surely a balance of both is a win win for both parties involved ?.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:10 AM
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Why can't women like me for who I am? Answer , because who you are makes them uncomfortable and you have no desire to adjust your behaviour out of a fear of selling out your true self, so now it's their loss right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:43 AM
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Ok. So? It's still a desire and not a need. Do you not understand the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:32 AM
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Thirst does not satisfy being thirsty, drinking water does. Don’t really understand where this is going tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:20 AM
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Sate it? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:19 AM
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Why do you keep talking past me? Who said anything about offending or making fun of people? . You were bitching about the advice given about behaviours like texting too much or being too keen too soon. Do you know why this advice is given? Because certain unconscious behaviours can make women uncomfortable , you were complaining about this type of advice, why? Because you think women should just put up with being uncomfortable to please your desires. Why should people not advise others to not ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:16 AM
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You don’t desire water, you need water. Sorry buddy, but desire and need are not the same thing, no matter how many platitudes you make around it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:07 AM
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I wasn’t suggesting you change yourself completely , I was asking if you think people should tolerate behaviour that makes them uncomfortable just to please you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:06 AM
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Freedom that one didn’t earn for themselves is not freedom, it’s abandonment. This is why it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:59 AM
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So you want to behave in anyway you choose to and people have to just put up with it? Even if it’s triggering red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:52 AM
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A boy does not become a man till he overcomes his desire for approval
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:44 AM
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Yes , life really is as simple at 1 2 3 isnt it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:43 AM
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No one is born likeable . .? Yes I have to admit, I see adults hating on those awful toddlers all the time. People are born innocent and loving, bad traits and unlikable personalities are learned through growing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:42 AM
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I think a lot of their issues come from how they were raised as kids and the relationship they have with their families
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:38 AM
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Just because most men you date have been shitty, doesn’t make most men shitty. It just means most of your choices were shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:36 AM
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Deprived of a desire doesn’t stop it from being a desire .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:32 AM
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It’s a desire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:06 AM
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