You would be amazed at all the attractive women I work with who's husbands don't fuck them. Usually WOW or COD widows, or the guy is getting plastered as soon as he walks in the door from work.
Yes, I was elected for my 8 year term two years ago, on a platform of coming together to please not only the penis, but also the taint and scrotum. Maybe it's just me, but I'm getting the impression that you're not here for an honest debate, but rather to grind that giant, SRS-emblazoned axe.
Just so we're clear, it's not that the quality of self-esteem is completely disregarded as an attractive trait, it's just not as important as appearance. Besides, who are you to second-guess what most men find attractive?
How much time and effort should one put into picking someone up off the floor like you describe? My sister, who I love dearly, has serious depression/BP issues, but I am not the person who is responsible, or capable of helping her beyond sibling support. This reeks of the people who start dating damaged people for the sole purpose of trying to fix them, and inevitably failing.
You've inspired me, and I decided to swallow the blue pill too. I will dedicate my life to making this world safe from hurting women's feelings and eliminate any challenges they may face as they make their way through life. Man, I am so excited.
Strawmen aside, this just shows how little you've actually read about TRP. Vast amounts of prose have been put forth about taking personal responsibility for your appearance and actions. The calling out of hamstering is pointing out how some folk won't take that personal responsibility and be honest with themselves.
Everything about PUAs and red pillers is tied up in a carefully constructed mythology that protects them from ever having to accept blame You're gonna have to back this statement up.
It's not the carousel riding itself that's the problem, it's the denial that the carousel riding has any consequences. Red Pill isn't pining to buy the world a Coke, they laugh at the people who think they can do whatever they want and have the world coddle their bad decision making.
If a man is really so miserable because of wife not wanting to have sex with him that he is considering divorce or cheating I think he should tell her that. They often do, and the wife turns it around for a couple weeks or months, then it's back to normal like the discussion never happened. Also, the shaming language comes in: "all you want me for is sex!"
Subconsciously the girlfriend taking the dance class is a means to interact with men, the hamsterization is the rationalization that it's just a hobby and totally innocent.
Yes, but our wall isn't related to our looks, it's related to our ability to provide. So depending on how well your 401K/Roth looks, a man's wall is at about 65-70.
Right around that timeframe people seem to get more serious about having a real relationship with a guy who respects them. I'm sure it's coincidental, but that usually occurs around when women hit the "wall."
In regards to the threats, most men have rose colored glasses on when it comes to how a relationship will play out; there aren't signs that any of those circumstances are coming down the line before you get married.
