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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Well boys, today is the day Good luck! When mine was finalized, I felt a huge weight lifted off of me. I hope you leave with the same feeling	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/19 02:54 PM
1	Opinions?? When your emotions are high, I personally think it's best to be cautious. If you think this will cause any sort of problem, maybe hold off. IF you do it, be prepared for a potential emotional crash afterward. I know everyone is different, but after I slept with a woman for the first time after my separation, I freaked the fuck out internally (Not outwardly. I was able to hide it... I think). It was fun at the time, but as soon as I finished, I kinda lost it. Being with a woman other than my wife…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/19 01:23 AM
4	Ex wife’s bf. My advice is to speak to a lawyer and find out how you can best position yourself to protect the kids should this concern continue and if he is found guilty. Regarding custody and provisions on parenting, i don't think it's ideal to live on verbal agreements (assuming that's what you've been doing). If you haven't, I suggest you get a separation agreement written up and ask lawyer what you can include to help you in situations like these. Try not to worry about your ex freaking out when you expr…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/19 06:35 AM
2	Should I date this guy who’s separated if I like him? He brought up his ex randomly after something I said vaguely related to her and then apologized. It’s ending bc she cheated with a mutual friend. I'm a separated man (finally nearing the end of divorce process) and I think this is good advice. I've been separated for about 15 months. And if I'm being totally honest with myself, I'd say I'm just now getting to the point where I could maybe focus on growing a relationship. I know everyone is different, not saying it's a bad idea to give him a chance. But I do agree that open/honest communication and cautious expectations would be a good idea.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/19 09:41 PM
1	What did you guys do with the rings? I didn't take her rings. I didnt want to see or touch them. Dunno what she did with em. Dont care. I dont know what's right or what isn't (or what's legal) in that situation, to be honest. My wedding band is sitting in the cupboard where I keep mail and loose papers. I'll sell it when I get around to it. I kinda forgot about it, to be honest.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/19 05:01 AM
1	Just told the wife officially Congratulations. I hope it goes as smoothly as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/19 04:57 AM
2	My ex-in-laws sent me a birthday card. My ex mother in law sometimes contacts me. Tells me she misses me being part of the family or wants me to visit. My ex's step mom brought a container of cookies and sweets to my office before xmas. And my ex brother in law makes it pretty clear he respects me more than my ex. Mixed emotions. I really want to separate myself from my marriage as much as I can. But it's nice to know that ppl on her side still think positively of me. I'll be polite and friendly as I always have been, but I've defini…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/19 04:55 AM

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