Crafty-Ideal5972 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Gone cold after a few dates	Field Report	Crafty-Ideal5972	/r/seduction	04/03/26 08:53 AM
1	Advice needed	Escalation & Calibration	Crafty-Ideal5972	/r/seduction	12/03/26 03:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Advice needed If this was a standalone occasion I would but given the past this feels too one-sided and I’m not gonna be stuck in oneitis. Better to have her reciprocate then push than to keep chasing without signal Also I am genuinely not free any other day for the next 10 days or so (which I told her)	/r/seduction	13/03/26 12:57 AM
2	Advice needed I invited and she rejected it saying she has another event planned without proposing another time. Should leave her alone I think	/r/seduction	12/03/26 09:43 PM
2	Advice needed Even if she said she wants to be friends from before? I feel like if I escalate directly to my place now that’ll be too much. I can invite her to a movie somewhere else and check the vibe and invite back to my place maybe	/r/seduction	12/03/26 05:39 AM
2	Advice needed I do, she doesn’t clearly flirt back (or I am oblivious) but doesn’t shut me down either. One signal I have is that she laughs a lot at my jokes and gets close to me. She also did tell me she was very nervous when we were dating	/r/seduction	12/03/26 04:12 AM
1	Gone cold after a few dates Yeah you might be right. She invited me to a movie night (community event) yesterday and followed me all evening without engaging much with others. I thought she was going to bring a friend at first but then she came alone and gave an excuse for why her friend didn’t make it. I then escalated a little bit making callbacks to our initial playful phase (i gave her a crochet as a gift at one point on the second date) and she said she loves that gift. I then said we can give each other more in the f…	/r/seduction	06/03/26 07:33 AM
1	Gone cold after a few dates Yeah, that’s a great description. I know what you mean which happened to me in the past where you feel in sync/in the game and conversation flows. It didn’t happen with her during that date mainly because I was too in my head after she met my friends… Next time ig	/r/seduction	05/03/26 04:19 AM
1	Gone cold after a few dates No, I totally agree with this and first tried to escalate non-verbally but she was def closed off. During the first “date” when we stargazed, she also said she wanted to take things slow which is why I didn’t want to push her (even though I tried non-verbally). I think she def felt pressure the second time we came back to my place which is why she was closed off and said not tonight. Wrt attraction, she told me she finds me handsome etc. during that first date so unless that changed, I think the…	/r/seduction	05/03/26 04:01 AM
1	Gone cold after a few dates I’ve only dated seriously/long-term (only had 1 ONS) and am trying to get better at being casual/no pressure. I have this bad mindset that I’m worried I’ll accidentally take advantage of the girl by escalating too quickly or not giving something back like a fancy date or something. What’s the best way to practice getting out of this mindset?	/r/seduction	05/03/26 12:55 AM
1	Gone cold after a few dates Yeah I thought about that and tried to escalate non-verbally at certain times but the vibe was off/she was closed to escalation	/r/seduction	04/03/26 04:29 PM
1	Gone cold after a few dates Yeah, I think mainly I came on too strong with the dinner date and after… She mentioned she doesn’t know her goals with dating and doesn’t want pressure so that checks out. It was also too early for her to meet my friends because that made it serious in my head, which then messed up my game	/r/seduction	04/03/26 04:27 PM