CraftyDinner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Female Attention?!		CraftyDinner	/r/seduction	26/05/19 07:16 PM

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1	I feel undesirable Sounds to me like escalation anxiety. If you feel like she is comforatble you can be a little more proactive and move a step ahead. A little touch on the arm, lean in a little closer, see how she reacts. Good= ok she's comfortable, keep talking to her and take it step by step neutral= meh. Maybe take it a little slower or try something else. bad= take a physical step back so she has personal space Keep talking to her. If you overstepped boundries acknowledge that and apologise. It's ok to make…	/r/seduction	13/06/19 08:46 PM
2	How long until you see improvements/results? Good. There's one thing to remind yourself of: Actions over intent. You can plan everything you want but dating isn't like lifting because there are other human beings involved. It's not the amount you put in (like how many times you hit the gym) but in my opinion the quality of your effort. If you are struggling with motivation remember you decide your happiness. You are human and therefore have intrinsic value. You are your own motivation you are taking control over your life. Enjoy that and l…	/r/seduction	13/06/19 08:38 PM
1	How to react when a girl tells you about guys trying to hit on her One of my female colleaques uses this to test guys. For her it's a thing to look out if he reacts tto strongly in either way. Total disregard is just playsing it cool, which is a good approach. Absolute jealousy is just being weak. I'd either joke around it like "Oh and I guess it felt terrible right /s ? " or Acknowledge it and just change the subject. "Yeah that's crazy. Anyway how is XYZ going for you / Do you remember the party we wanted to go, wll turns out blahblahblah" .. You get the …	/r/seduction	13/06/19 08:28 PM
1	How long until you see improvements/results? Let me answer your question differently: On average most guys GIVE UP after 3 Months. That is obviously not you. If you are going out 3 times per week (I would mix it up with daygame as well) you should see results very fast. What that is varys on you. For example I approached 20 girls on 1 day and got 3 numbers from 8s. For someone that had no prior experience in daygame that was a huge success for me. What are your goals? How will you react when you can't reach these goals in the set time fram…	/r/seduction	13/06/19 08:21 PM
2	What advice to give my GF when guys are always asking for her number? So here's the deal: The problem isnt your GF being approached, it's how you feel about it. You're feeling insecure about other guys, when for her you're the best option. That's how you should feel about yourself and if not there's something you need to change so do it. Stay on top of your game, lead her, plan fun activities and enjoy female attention you get (you don't have to act on it), that's how you prevent getting drained in a relationship. If she decides to be that person to give out her n…	/r/seduction	13/06/19 08:08 PM
1	Being the badboy is easy, here's how You mean what works FOR YOU in a very specific set of circumstance. If what you're telling is true at all...which I higly doubt...because see above.	/r/seduction	31/05/19 11:31 PM
3	Help after drunken mistake... You did everything exactly the right way. Message her and ask her out. Be radically unapologetic for you being a sexually attractive gus and dont let her butter you up too much. It's already happening. You are the prize, and so far she hasn't DONE a thing to warrant your attention completely. Was there Sex? Did she do something to make you feel good/ your life easier? No? Oh well seems like you're still in the get-to-know-eachother-phase.	/r/seduction	31/05/19 04:20 PM
2	Don't Get Strung Along This is solid. I was some of these apes in the past: Might I add that these are "provider" types. Provide her with X but don't or very sparely get something in return. Cancel out everything that might be due to miscommunication aka show intent and if there's no positive response move on. Providing should be exclusive for relationsships and even then it should be mutually benefitial.	/r/seduction	31/05/19 04:07 PM
3	how to cure oneitis? As others said get other girls or even just approach other girls. Why? Because you are in a scarcity mindeset, you put her on a pedestal and only see her positive sides or even make these up because you glorify her. Once you realise how cool other girls can be you understand how normal she is or even how negative she can be. She's a human being just like you. How many guys do you think are out here who are at least similar to you? How many girls do you think are out there being similar like her,…	/r/seduction	31/05/19 03:52 PM
29	Being the badboy is easy, here's how That or everyone who ever did game knows rejection is part of the game.	/r/seduction	31/05/19 03:42 PM
4	Being the badboy is easy, here's how Do what you want in life, make yourself happy and ignore what others think and do. "Hey I want your car. Give it to me!" You wanna get shot or something? This is what I do, I've never been rejected. I call Bullshit. Everyone gets rejected, that's how you become better at game. But hey.. I know! If you tell yourself she wants you secretly then that's not rejection right?! For everything that is good and holly get some social awareness/get better with people in general. You got the right idea but …	/r/seduction	31/05/19 03:40 PM
2	Female Attention?! I wouldnt even go as far as saying I'm a very attractive (I got ears as big as Dumbo but I dont care) but I got a nice body I guess. The part about the role reversal makes things clearer. I guess if she wants to cheat she'll find a way and even me getting infromation from her cant really stop her from duping me. Thanks man, I appreciate it.	/r/seduction	26/05/19 08:54 PM
2	Any tips for cold approaching women? As others said before: Playful jokes or simply being direct. If they seem confused or taken aback give a statement of empathy and physically take a step back. "Haha yeah I know this is weird but I saw you and wanted to talk to you.." Brightens the mood immedietly and if not .. theres nothing wrong about it right? We've all been there we all been weird so this is funny right? Hope I could help.	/r/seduction	26/05/19 08:47 PM
1	Female Attention?! I guess thats the takeaway from the situation, thank you. What change would you say made the greatest impact for you to bettering yourself?	/r/seduction	26/05/19 08:41 PM
2	Female Attention?! Haha the last paragraph recaps it perfectly thanks man! All of the sudden guys acting like fucking assholes while I just dont seek conflict with anyone, but will put that shit down if necessary. For selecting girls that want to use me: In regards to that, what tests worked for you to find out what her intentions are? Had girls who saw me as a status symbol or sex toy. Made me really relate to hot girls who just wanted to be liked as a person.	/r/seduction	26/05/19 08:39 PM
1	Female Attention?! Does this include approaching but eventually turning down girls of catergory 2 & 3?I got the feeling theres too much social stigma around that. Edit: Thanks for the advice.	/r/seduction	26/05/19 08:33 PM