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CraigInTulsa/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 02:14 AM
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Thanks bro. I appreciate the kind words. Just hurting. right now. Have no desire to see r date anyone for a long time. I have nothing to offer anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 08:45 AM
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I was fully healed from the first one. Genuinely loved and cared for this one. Was ready to try and love again. We met at a seminar and became great friends. I developed feeling and told her. She reciprocated. We met back up and she started talking about getting married on our first weekend together. She’s been in a relationship since she was 15. From first husband to several year relationship to me. 36 years of being in a relationship seems odd.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 12:38 AM
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Yeah. No chance of that happening.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 06:49 AM
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Haha. Need to learn from both mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 06:30 AM
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I know man. This was to be our ending love story. I’m to blame as well z. Talked to first one the day. She gave me a pet talk and told me all the things she loved about me. Neither one of us were perfect spouses, But she’d turned into a pretty damned good friend.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 06:22 AM
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True bro. We met at a health help workshop. She told me as soon as I came n true room m that I would be next husband. Guess not, but she has the most sexiest ass I’ve her seen Like I’d try to goose her. We came together and fell apart.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 06:00 AM
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My dude, I’m trying. The writing has been on the wall for some time The lack of respect broke me. She was broken when we met. I thought I “rescued” her. Maybe that’s why it hurts so bad. ETA I have no desire to be n a relationship or date. I have nothing to give anybody.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 05:16 AM
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Bro, I don’t believe much that comes out of her mouth, but I don’t think there’s anyway she’d make false allegations against me.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 05:03 AM
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Bro, thank you. I’m hurt and broken. We tried to have an”adult conversation” last week. Didn’t go well. We both need time to heal and be good. Maybe someday I can think about her with a smile on my face
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 04:50 AM
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Kind words friend, thank you. After my first one, i loved in with a dear friend who is an attorney. She told me that by me moving out is considered abandonment. Is that true? We were sleeping in the same room in different beds. I have a rental house available in a few weeks. Legally, can I stake a claim to the little sliver of bedroom I had available until it’s ready?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 04:28 AM
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Hey thanks man. Playing golf with a good friend tomorrow. No desire to see or date anybody. Gonna hit the gym, prioritize self love and get better and be a better man
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 04:02 AM
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Thank you friend. Sage advice. Need to heal. Hav me no desire to see or date anybody ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:41 AM
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Man, just weird trying to juggle emotions. She always left for work before I did. I’d always ask her to say goodbye before she left. I’d get a shitty peck on the forehead but it kept me going. For three seconds I felt loved.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:35 AM
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Thank you for the words. No kids involved. She has three. I have none. I don’t completely believe a whole lot from her right now, but there is no doubt in my mind that she would claim false abuse on me. Have no desire to date or see anybody for many years. I have nothing to offer anybody. I talked to a dear friend that loves me last night. She always said my weakness was the “damsel in distress”. My wife was hurt and broken when we met. Her ex choked her and raped her on their kitchen floor. I g…
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:25 AM
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It’s been a rough time friend. Didn’t help that after all her kids moved out that we built a house and downsized. She told me in June that her daughter, her husband, their two kids under the age of 2, two large dogs, and two cats were moving in with us. Was supposed to be”two weeks tops”. Still there now. We have no kids together. Just middle class people with some assets.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:09 AM
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Thank you. I’m not blameless in this thing, and I know that. We just broke somewhere along the way, and that’s on me too. I’d love to be civil, I just need to let my brain catch up to my heart. We met a week ago and emotions and feelings were still bad enough to not have a decent conversation.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 02:30 AM
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She was my HS sweetheart. Got married too young and fell apart like HS romances do.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 02:18 AM
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Thanks for the response. I just looked up the silver bullet divorce. Never a history of violence. No kids involved, she has 3. I’m pretty positive I need to seek legal advice. We agreed over text today to a payment plan to buy me out of the equity of the house. We’re middle class working people. Not a ton of assets. I’ve got a rental house lined up that will be ready in 3 weeks. I’m sure it will be awkward, but could I have a right to sleep on my room until it’s ready?
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 01:23 AM
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I’m curious too. We built a house 3 years ago. I’m in night 4 of a hotel room. She moved her adult daughter, her husband, two kids under 20 months old, two large dogs, and two cats in our home. I’m in the process of collecting things. She told me she’d call the cops if I stayed too long. I’m hurting bad and lost. We had our own language at this point. Her son n-law threatened me the last night I was home. Slept in the same room but separate beds. I’ve got enough goodwill with friends to couch su…
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 01:08 AM
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