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Any advice for a 32m guy who isn't good looking and no experience with women?
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:45 AM
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Any advice for a guy who isn't good looking?
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:38 AM
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It's crazy to me to read when guy like yourself just get all the women. Reading that 40 or 50 women are dating one guy really does drive home the idea that you have to be in that top % of men in order to really be qualified. I've been trying for years to hopefully one day get a date someday and reading that guys just date tons of women is really crazy to me.
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:03 AM
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It's crazy to me to read when guy like yourself just get all the women. Reading that 40 or 50 women are dating one guy really does drive home the idea that you have to be in that top % of men in order to really be qualified. I've been trying for years to hopefully one day get a date someday and reading that guys just date tons of women is really crazy to me.
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:03 AM
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Yea, I mean I've never had any woman consider me attractive before so I'm in that boat. I unfortunately have confirmation that I'm bottom of the barrel ugly.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:32 PM
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I wish I was average looking. I don't really think I qualify for that unfortunately. At least average guys would be able to be with other average people.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:23 PM
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I mean if a guy is in a relationship then how can he be considered ugly if he's good looking enough to be attractive to women? At that point I don't think they qualify as ugly if they meet womens standards. As I mentioned before I'm not a good looking guy so I was never really given anything to work with as I've never been found attractive by women before.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:12 PM
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I mean I don't really have anything to work with. I wasn't really born with good looks like other men were. I've never had any woman consider me attractive before.
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:12 PM
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Yea, as a guy who isn't really good looking it's something that you can't really do anything about. Given my age and the fact that I've never had any woman consider me attractive I'm starting to think that I may be on the percentage of men that doesn't have good enough genes to be chosen by women.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:47 PM
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Issue is I never really got anything to work with. I'm not a good looking guy so I've never had a woman consider me attractive before. So it sucks that in terms of biology I kinda just got screwed.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:45 PM
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Yea I've done a lot to try and make myself more attractive but unfortunately I'm not really a good looking guy so I've never really had any woman consider me attractive before.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:29 PM
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Im attempting to. Yea I wouldn't be considered a model but man is it hard to just get close. My goal is to one day be good looking enough for women to date someday but I haven't reached that point.
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:24 AM
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Idk how true that is since women are attracted ted to the good looking men. I mean that part is pretty proven.
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:22 AM
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Well he can't really be considered ugly since he's at least good looking enough to be with women. I've never had any woman consider me attractive before.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:20 PM
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I mean I've worked on everything I could possibly work on and I've still never met any woman standards before so I don't really know what all there I'd left to do really.
/r/seduction07/05/24 08:25 PM
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I don't believe there really is any other recourse for me at the moment. Given my age and everything I've done to try and make it work. All the advice I ever got has helped me have a better life for sure but it has had zero correlation to making me any more or less attractive than when I started.
/r/seduction07/05/24 05:39 PM
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Well I've done what I can in order to meet their standards but obviously I never did measure up. Trust me, I wish I were born looking different but as is there is only so much I could've done.
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:35 PM
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More importantly they're good looking by women's standards considering they've reached a point where they can date lol. I think that's the standards that matters when dating. If they're going on dates then obviously they're good looking enough for women.
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:12 PM
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Nah, I mean it's only logical that women want only the best looking men. It's in nature to go for the highest value so I don't blame them, really. I simply wish I had been born with good enough looks to have been able to date. My goal was to one day go on a date or be able to kiss someone or hold hands someday. It just really sucks to never have been qualified to ever participate in all that, but kudos to the good looking guys like yourself who are at that high level of looks who can do it.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:35 PM
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Yea, that's seems to be the strategy lol. Wish I were born good looking too but ultimately there's only so much you can do if you don't have good looks.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:32 PM
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That's correct but from a woman's perspective, it's not your looks that make you attractive, when it comes to dating. I mean, going by this logic then why do women date men who.are attractive? Real life seem to prove otherwise no? Is your father good looking? All the people you know who were born on this planet, are their fathers good looking? Yea my father was good looking. I wish I had more of his looks. People fathers must have been good looking enough to be with women or else they wouldn't h…
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:29 PM
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Well I don't know how true that is given that you have to be attractive in order for women to find you attractive enough to date. If women didn't care about looks then they wouldn't date the good looking men or think good looking men are attractive so idk if that makes much sense. I do wish I was born with the looks that a lot of you guys seem to have to where you're at least good looking enough to date. I've worked hard to make myself more valuable but even after all my efforts I still haven't …
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:51 AM
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Yea I've been doing all I can in order to improve myself. But I still haven't really reached that point where I'm good looking enough for women apparently. I kinda fell for the ruse of thinking thay if I lost weight or started working out or made more money that maybe I'd be at a point where I meet women's standards but obviously that never did end up happening. So while it was a failure on that end, health wise I've never been in a better place so I'm grateful for that. Even though it has no be…
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:05 AM
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I think this only applies if you're good looking enough for women in the first place.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:30 AM
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while this is simple advice for just being casual I've been able to apply it myself in order to make friends. Unfortunately I'm not really good looking enough for women to find attractive so it never translated into anything as I've never had any woman consider me attractive before. So while this may be good for making friends, it has had no correlation, at least for me into any romantic success.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:29 AM
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The problem is that for men like myself who aren't good looking enough for women there really is no recourse. I wad dumb enough to think that if I lost weight and focused on my health and personal life that I'd maybe someday be a higher value person and someday be good enough to at least go on a date someday. Obviously that never did happen and I'm sort of learning the hard way now that I think some men just simply aren't cut out for dating or women and not all guys were blessed with good enough…
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:27 AM
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Problem is that I've done a lot to improve myself such as career, money and gym, etc just better balance of life in general and was hoping that maybe one day if I improved maybe one day I'd be good enough for a woman. My dream was always to one day go on a date or get to kiss but obviously that never happened no matter how much I improved myself or my life. I had to learn the hard way that some guys just aren't cut out for women and dating and now I'm finding out.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:23 AM
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Well not all guys are good looking enough to just go out and get lucky with women so we have to find other ways to try and improve and hopefully get to that point. If I were good looking like a lot of the guys here then yes going out friday and saturday night would be obvious. But my entire life that's never happened "naturally" as you say, I just wasn't really born with that privilege of being in that position.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:21 AM
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Maybe if you're extremely good looking but for guys like myself who aren't good looking enough for women I've never really had to opportunity to ever kiss or go on dates like other men have. So to say it's easy or just something simple just isn't true if you're not at that higher level to be able to do any of that stuff.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:17 AM
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If you're good looking enough to where you're accepted by women then yes I'm sure it's easy but there are guys like me who've never met that standard before and have never had the opportunity to ever kiss or go on dates so to say that it's easy just isn't entirely true.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:16 AM
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I mean if you're a good looking guy then yea this stuff is probably easy, but if you're not really good looking enough for women than this stuff just isn't really feasible. I've always dreamed of one day going on a date but I don't think I'll ever get to the point where I'm able to kiss so saying that it's pretty easy is just not a true statement.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:15 AM
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