| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Question for men | CravenMoorehead143 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 09:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Question for menWhich books??? I'm happy to read them | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Question for menWait, prenups don't include post marital assets? I thought they could be used to protect both pre and post. Well shoot, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Question for menI fully intend on making it to C level at some point down the road. The risk I'm worried about is more future state lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Question for menLMFAO. I love this. Treats her right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Question for menShe will graduate next year (still in school for her masters) so 0/0. I would assume she would start at ~65-70k, so good money but - again - lower than my earning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Question for menOh okay. I think I'm good then. I got that opinion from a family lawyer, but again - I feel like law can be interpreted differently by any judge on any day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Question for menWait, I thought the pre marital portion is safe so long as I have statements and an appraisal proving what % is owned pre marital | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for menVery fair. And I am in finance so I completely understand not wanting to have it just sitting out from a cash drag perspective too | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Question for menFortunately (but unfortunately in this situation) - I have no student loans. If I put extra in retirement - doesn't she get that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Question for men401k worth ~100k. Car worth ~20k House equity of ~150k HSA of ~10k Misc to get to ~300k | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Question for menI consider it as, at best case, a 50/50 split. At worst? You can lose more than half. Not sure if that's accurate, but where stuff is worded vague - we get screwed | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for menWait, you mean legally separate on your own as soon as the marraige is official? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Question for menIs this for similar reasons that (and correct me if I'm wrong as this is all anecdotal for me) they always, always seem to get primary custody of children? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Question for menDamn. That's great to know. If I do get married - I'm 100% going this route. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Question for menHoly shit. That's without kids?!?!? And I'm sorry about your 401k too, man. This forum is really showing me how bad of a deal this is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Question for menThis is what I've seen as a theme too. Regardless, the high earner loses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Question for menAll I've ever been told about is how the American dream is buying a house, getting married, blah blah blah. I bought the house (well, I have about ~65% equity in it. I unfortunately won't have it paid off before marraige), which is cool, but everything I see on here says marraige is a raw deal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Question for menHow can the court justify spousal support if we're both going to have jobs plenty capable of supporting ourselves independently? Is this a real thing?!? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for men~300k. I'm 29 at the moment, but will be 30 when I get married. That amount may go up in the next year, but directionally that's it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Question for menI appreciate the candid advice! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 10 | Question for menShoot man, it's feeling more and more like this is the best advice | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Question for menI am in Michigan, so "equitable distribution" but I think I've seen on this forum what that really entails, and it's not great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Question for menShe feels the prenup symbolizes me planning for divorce. And that's a good point on the risk vs return. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Question for menIsn't it illegal to not disclose cash during a divorce? Sorry I'm not actually versed on this so could be wrong. But that's not a bad idea if it's legal | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 09:50 PM |
| 6 | How much did divorce cost you?Makes me want to leave my fiance and never get married. Honestly, fuck people like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 08:36 PM |
| 4 | How much did divorce cost you?While the entire situation was unfortunate, I'm just happy to hear you've turned it into a positive. Glad to hear you turned things around man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 08:24 PM |
| 8 | How much did divorce cost you?This is sickening. I'm so sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 05:42 PM |
| 49 | How much did divorce cost you?I'll probably get down voted, but this page has made me highly reconsider marraige. Everyone I know (anecdotal, I know) has been absolutely bludgeoned as a male. I'm not asking for misogynistic laws, but damn.... there has to be a better set of laws than what we have today. 500k and all of those character attacks is inexplicable. Feel bad for him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [33M] I've Found Out My Girlfriend's [29F] Past Is Different Than She Told Me. How Should I Approach This?This | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Hiding money during a divorceWhere do you go about buying gold bars for cash? I don't even see them for sale anywhere except online lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 01:27 PM |
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