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The guy has virtues, it's just not at all what I associated with "amused mastery".
/r/askTRP08/11/14 05:51 PM
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Ramsay, really? Mostly just associate him with getting very upset and verbally aggressive. Could you give some specific examples where he's more laid back?
/r/askTRP08/11/14 10:57 AM
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Sever.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:53 PM
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You use glucose as a reward to alter your behavior? Does this work? It doesn't taste very good, but I suppose to the brain it's all sugar. Could you elaborate a bit on how you use it? Where did you get the idea? I'm familiar with the idea of using chocolate for instance to increase compliance with an exercise habit, but the choice to use glucose sounds strange to me.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 09:51 AM
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Personally, whichever is closer to the gym. Has a big effect on my compliance and is the #1 criteria when I decide where to live.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:37 AM
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Fuckers ought to pay for gas and for your time when they do that.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:54 AM
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A few things I've thought about since I replied. I think it's good you raised this question and it's a shame you were downvoted because it's a very valid question. Your reactions in the other subthread below were reasonable and I upvoted them. If you want to learn more about this topic I recommend reading Mindlines by L. Michael Hall and Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff. I might even recommend reading Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl though it's been a while since I read it. None of thes…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:32 PM
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These two paragraphs added zero information and can be deleted. That's rude man. You've also mentioned that women have their own frame, which is different from the "right frame" for a man. Maybe I was unclear, that was just an example. There are no right or wrong frames (but some are useful). Women don't all have the same expectations. So let's pretend we're trying to be the best (teacher, prison guard, parent). Frame has nothing to do with becoming good at something. If you're a student interac…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 09:43 PM
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Almost nobody in here has a clue about what's meant by "frame" or "holding frame". Assume that nothing in the world has any inherent meaning, the only meaning that exists is that which people assign. "Nothing good or bad, but thinking makes it so", as Shakespeare put it. A frame is simply an interpretation of reality. You get fired from work, that could either be a horrible blow or an opportunity for growth. You make the interpretation, you pick the frame. A girl expects you to court her with gi…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 05:37 PM
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Probably should've mentioned this in the OP but vulgar and sexually suggestive behavior is the norm in my industry (I cook for a living). I see guys being sexually aggressive, both verbally and physically, towards girls all the time at work and them being very receptive to it. In an office my behavior would be normal but in a kitchen it's very easy to see that I'm different. That's why I thought it would be the right strategy to start touching her in a playful but non-accidental manner at work. …
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 08:41 PM
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Yeah, I've been lying about who I am and what I want all my life. I'm finally starting to move past that and it feels great but there's still a long way left to go.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 08:07 PM
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I think I see where I'm getting mixed up. I want to live the frame where my goal isn't to take something from her but to add something positive to her life. But I'm too inexperienced to have fully internalized and be congruent with that frame. If I'm giving off selfish/insecure vibes to you then I'd probably be doing it with her even more.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:56 PM
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That's just the fucking thing, I don't feel any regret about being turned down, but the fear of not even having the balls to try and then looking back and knowing that I didn't get all I could out of life, that feels fucked up.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:44 PM
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You're right. I should decide what I want to do, ask her out and then be cool with whatever happens. I'm aware that I need to work on my outcome independence. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:32 PM
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I'm not feeling too concerned but I may be a bit naive due to inexperience. You're probably right that it would be more prudent to not be so overt while I'm still learning. Thanks for the advice. I do care about her and want her to have a good time and I do want to live my fantasy of banging her in the pantry. No conflict there.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:28 PM
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You're right but I like some elements of it. I'm a good cook but obviously I'm missing all of the sexual intent that guy is showing.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:19 PM
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I see other male co-workers hug girls, tickle them, swat their asses with side towels, talk dirty to them (I even managed to tell another co-worker she gives me a hardon, which would have been unthinkable for me a year ago. She was flattered and told me it confirmed her suspicions.) It makes sense to me that I would try to act more like those guys and be more openly flirtatious at work. I feel pretty anxious about taking her out on the town, a lot of things could go wrong. We've basically worked…
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 08:39 PM
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Haha, now I feel embarrassed. I did say I was clueless though.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 07:39 PM
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Now, this isn't the best dread game out there. The best dread game out there is obvious interest from other women. But not every guy can produce that on demand. So the next best thing is apparent willingness to abandon the relationship without any emotional upset whatsoever. This struck a chord with me. Been at the wrong end of that exchange too many times and I never really figured it as a conscious tactic, though it's obvious in hindsight. Thanks for the excellent advice.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:09 PM
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Slowly, and not by accident.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:45 PM
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I like this. Can I ask you a follow-up question? We had some apple pie left that I'm experimenting with for the new menu. I was going to treat the dishwasher and whoever wanted it to some pie before we left but the rude girl got me entirely sidetracked. Do you think I should've ignored her and had pie with the dishwasher and made her wait? I wouldn't do it just to piss her off but I really don't see why I should let her tantrums interfere with my normal actions at work (including sampling new me…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 04:07 AM
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She talked you into going, that means it was your decision, right? You could have refused. If she fucked someone else weeks after breaking up with you, I can see why that hurts but do you honestly think you should have any say in who she fucks? What can you learn from this? Be more selective about what you choose to spend money on and don't let people talk you into spending more than you would like. I used to wash dishes ~10 hours in a row to earn $100 so I know it hurts to waste that much. You …
/r/askTRP03/08/14 02:38 PM
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This sounds a bit out there and I must admit I thought for a second you might be joking. I kinda like it though. I used to have very negative feelings around people who were openly aggressive in that manner but I can see how it could be just another tool in the toolbox. Of course that sort of behavior is considered highly anti-social and like you say it might not be a good idea at work. I really like the unpredictability of it. I hate feeling that people see me as meek or harmless.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:53 PM
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This is good. I told her to respect me while walking past, no eye contact, non-assertive body language and she easily ignored me. I think my biggest insight is that whatever method I choose I have to commit to it fully. If I'm going to confront her directly, I'll need to have her stand still and look her in the eyes. If I choose to make fun of her I gotta take it all the way and if I have to get angry I may have to get really angry.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:45 PM
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Ugh fucking hell, I just realized how the waitresses have been using that on me.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:18 AM
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Haha, okay, I like it. It's going to take some practice but I think I could pull it off. Thinking about it, maybe I should only escalate conflicts (louder voice, aggressive body language, physical violence) in situations where I can realistically follow through on those threats (not with bratty little girls at work). Otherwise I'll just reveal how powerless I am when all I can do is yell back.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:12 AM
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That's familiar thinking about shame, I usually read www.therawness.com on shame but I think I need a refresher. Any advice for further resources that would help me in these kinds of situations? She was already asking me for tasks to do and completing them, but it was part of her aggressive behavior. "Does this go here? Does this need to be done?" and so on. If she was just moping around doing nothing then your approach would have been the only sane one but she was already helping out. I think y…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:49 PM
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I like the agree and amplify up to a point but she was aggressive enough to yell at me to "let's gooo! get out the door NOOOW!" at which point I told her to mind her tone. If I ignore her completely I feel like a tool but if I choose to confront her at that point it feels like I'd have to pretty much become aggressive (obviously not physically but body language and tone). I think you and Misteralcala are spot on about letting it go, no way to make it better. Edit: One thing I tend to do in less …
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:40 PM
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