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DATING ADVICECrazy_Cranberry666/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:52 PM
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Crazy_Cranberry666/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 12:39 AM
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I'd consider fasting regularly. Both because of it's religious benefits and because it can decrease libido
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 01:03 PM
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Op never mentioned comitting adultery.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 01:02 PM
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There is a church near me that is rapidly growing. I think there is a rising number of young people in western countries who miss the community religion brings and like the benefits traditional gender roles bring to a family. The idea of having kids only to have to put them in daycare brcause you need to work fulltime is quite bleak. It's not a large number that picks christianity as a fix though. Some pick other communities or decide not to have kids. Others are fine with how things are.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 04:55 PM
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Hi! First wanted to say it's really clever that you're already thinking of what you want and how to get there. It's hard to say. I think it's very important that you marry the right person and are mentally ready for it. This could be at 18 for some, 35 for others etc. If you want kids you have to take into account that gets harder as you age. So the more kids you want, the earlier marriage becomes something to put your focus on Focus on self improvement. This could be education (college), but al…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 11:58 AM
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Do you have an example of a white lie that could work? I struggle with the same
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 06:09 AM
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Hi! Have you ever looked into Kibbe typings?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:04 AM
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While i think it's a great option and compromise, i do think it's important to note OP living in a muslim majority country. Baggy clothes may be the norm/most respectable option.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 10:06 PM
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How are your financial situations? Do you work? How expensive is the plain ticket?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 05:41 PM
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I read this as 'controversial' and was already halfway through my list when i realised. I'll add foraging to the ones already mentioned, it can be a bit more outdoorsy, but still pretty feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 05:35 PM
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I see you have received a lot of great advice already. I'd also reccomend you don't hold it all in, knowing it'll explode eventually. Talk about it before that, in a solution oriented, non blaming way. Tell how you feel, what would help you. This is completely normal, and you shouldn't blame yourself for needing help. It takes a village to raise a kid, being a SAHM doesn't mean you're on your own I was also wondering if any of your husbands' colleages possibly have wives in similar situations? M…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/22 09:43 AM
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It depends on the tattoo and their significance, i see it as a way of expression. I wonder about the bloody tree.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 04:07 PM
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It would be!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 06:41 PM
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A lot of suggestions for religions have been made. If you're not religious then i'd suggest trying a more serious dating site and just put it on your profile. Sure, a lot of women will be turned off. But for those who are interested in the same, it can be great to know. For a woman who would like a big family, finding a man who wants the same is just as difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 12:03 PM
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Lol, love that comment
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 11:40 AM
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To be honest i could understand asking for a work phone number for emergencies, but 'just out of curiousity' would make me nervous too. Especially with his history of people calling him at work for no reason. Why are you so intent on getting that number if you have no reason for it? Is this worth fighting over?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 04:02 PM
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How to stand up for yourself in a feminine way, how not to be a doormat. How to communicate your needs in a healthy way. My mom also knew how to sow very well, but never taught me. Make sure to offer to pass on any skills you have
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 04:02 PM
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This is adorable and exactly what i hope to one day have.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 09:45 AM
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Seconding this, great answer
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 06:04 AM
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Explain to him why you want to get married. Why is it more than a piece of paper to you? How important is it to you?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 06:03 AM
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Just wanted to say i love the way you worded that. It brings a lot of things into perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 04:39 PM
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Unless you just told him the baby put a huge strain on your relationship, you weren't happy, or if the baby wasn't well taken care of that doctor was completely out of line. He shouldn't bring his home life into his work. Everyone is different and i know more unhealthy single children than unhealthy kids from bigger families.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 08:25 AM
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The thrift store cookbooks are such a great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 11:29 AM
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I'm glad i wasn't the only one lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 01:00 PM
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Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 12:59 PM
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I find it difficult to give the advice you asked for here, because repeated lying/breaking of trust is the biggest dealbreaker for my own relationships. Do you trust him with the bigger things, or does he lie about more than details? Are you okay with him lying about things like this? If not, have you ever tried to create a boundary? It is hard to be happy in a relationship if normal boundaries constantly get crossed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 02:16 PM
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Writing down the good things can be nice. I am curious though, what exactly did he lie about/did you catch him doing? Do you think more happened than him staying out with friends later than expected?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 01:09 PM
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What made him interested in you in the first place? Has he seen you around somewhere? Seen your work ethic, how you treat others etc.? Does your family look rich from the outside? If he has his reasons he likely already knows you're not swimming in money, and so it wasn't part of why he likes you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/21 04:43 AM
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Would you grab someones sigarette and throw it out? It's great that he treats you well otherwise and it's not bad that he cares about eating healthy. However, i think it's important to set a boundary if it bothers you. See if he can respect that. Something like you not wanting him to throw away your items, or letting you eat what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 01:03 PM
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You don't have to text all day. Just be honest, tell him you'd prefer to hear his voice and ask to call. If he only wants to tekst he may just not be the guy for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 04:42 AM
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Sometimes it's less work if one person does a chore for both people. One big load of laundry instead of two smaller ones. The person who didn't do laundry can then do another chore. I thing dishes are a good example. Would you both wash your own plates after dinner, or would one person wash and the other dry? Or maybe one cooks and the other does dishes. You live together, so you can split work and make things a little easier. When there is a stay at home mom, she does most of the chores and the…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 06:04 AM
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You deserve better.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 02:04 PM
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In that case it doesn't sound like he cares. If you've tried and he won't consider your feelings, he won't change. You can't force that. I think your request was reasonable, you're not overreacting. especially if you've talked about it and he won't compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 02:01 PM
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You have to communicate. If you didn't tell him you were making time for him on the weekend, you can't be upset that he makes other plans. He might not realise how important quality time is for you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:40 PM
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I don't think i agree with this either. That would mean a man would never do something nice if you didn't do something for him first, doesn't sound very kind.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 08:29 AM
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Every subreddit has a list of rules and guidelines you can find on the side tab. If anything there is unclear i can answer more specific questions though :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 12:09 AM
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Glad you're happy now. Why post it on this sub though? It's for women.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 07:03 PM
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My mom presents herself as a tough feminist woman. She's a cop, and regularly protests when someone assumes normal gender roles. She is adamant about me sleeping around a bit before settling down, not doing it too early etc. Yet, while she presents herself like that, she has a pattern of going for dominating men. I think that because she doesn't step down voluntarily, they often end up being abusive types, forcing her to. The first two (2nd being my dad) where physically abusive. The third is at…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/21 11:26 AM
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You are on this world to offer a different perspective. To notice things a man wouldn't. To recognise the needs of yourself and others and do your best to make sure they get fulfilled. Sure, traditionally this would be done as a mother. To teach kids what love is, how to be functional adults that offer something usefull to society. Or as a wife, making sure there is a safe place for your family to come home to. To have a healthy base to root and grow from. But you can show your worth as a doctor…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 01:55 PM
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They're not from my understanding, they just want to get something out of marriage that benefits them, not just the woman. Which is a more traditional marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 09:10 AM
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I think there is a middle way, something like: 'how would you feel about us going out sometime?' Or just being a little more obviously flirty.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 12:15 PM
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I agree that you don't necessarily have to count calories to lose weight. I think the biggest changes in our culture are: 1. The availability of fastfood 2.busy scedules (with both partners working, kids, and hobbies, good cooking gets put in 2nd place)? 3. Eating alone. When you eat together, you automatically adjust portions to eachother. This is because in tribal times, binging while others are starving would make you very unliked. Redpill relationships could solve most of these. It's a good …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 05:28 PM
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Oh yes, i think that's very normal. I would prefer a monogamous relationship. All i said was that if he was absolutely the perfect guy for me, and he could explain why he wanted to sleep with others, and was very open about it, i would think about and maybe accept it. If he did it behind my back the relationship is over, thats it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 07:15 AM
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Personally i wouldn't. I have a high sex drive too, but have to be very comfortable with someone before i'm sexually attracted to them. One guy is enough for me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 06:44 AM
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That's why i'd rather he is honest than lying and doing it behind my back. One shows he at leasts feels comfortable enough with me to talk about it, the other would make me feel like i'm not good enough. A woman wouldn't hide a kid from the sibling because she's afraid of their reaction either, just to go with the analogy I'll add that i'd have to be very happy in the relationship to even consider being okay with it. However, if he cheats behind my back the relationship would be over.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 08:47 PM
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I guess that's not for me. But even then, i'd prefer them telling me they weren't happy and open up the relationship to casual sex, before them doing it behind my back.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 07:22 PM
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You mention cheating like it's a perfectly normal thing. Making sure you don't find out doesn't feel respectfull at all to me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 07:08 PM
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Maybe it's an idea to talk about some things that you do like? Maybe there is one thing that you've always wanted?
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 04:11 PM
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Being angry sometimes is normal, but what if every day is a bad day.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 09:55 PM
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R/redpill used to be quite different, i think it still has that reputation. At the start it was all comments like 'all women are bitches. Lie to them and they'll let you fuck them' 'don't take women seriously, they'll ruin your life' Now it's more 'focus on self improvement, be your best self and the women will follow' It's a lot less radical, and way more positive now. But why would anyone actually read what's being said right?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 07:23 PM
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Thank you. I think it's time for a slice of homemade caramel walnut pie and a face mask now 😊
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 04:21 PM
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I just broke up with him. This sub has definately opened my eyes to what a healthy relationship can give you and how not to be a doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 04:05 PM
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Intesting post. Here is my story: At the end of last year i moved to a new city. I share a house with several others. The landlord lives here too and his kindness keeps surprising me. He made a bed to size for me, so it could fit in the room in a way that'd maximise space (it's a 5m2 room). He heard me mention i didn't have some baking equipment that i needed, so he bought some. He runs a drugstore and heard i'm interested in skincare, so he got me a bag full of 30 (30!!) samples and employee di…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 02:25 PM
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I am not sure what an underground club is, would he be doing anything illegal? If not, then i think you have to let him enjoy his passion. Only doing it once a week already sounds like a compromise coming from him. My brother is a DJ. He likes it because of the ambiance, the mood, and that he's good at it. What's wrong about that?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 07:08 AM
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If my standards are 'kind and can communicate', my future relationships will already by better than those of my parents. I think that's why those qualities are so high on my list. It's nice to hear it's the bare minimum. That gives me hope. This sub has been slowly peeling away at years or fear for me. That maybe finding a good man is less rare than i thought.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:25 PM
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I think thats what i needed to hear, thanks
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:15 PM
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Haha no it's not. Just thought it was funny, not what i was expecting to read. I have found the right one ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 09:18 PM
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Um.. What's it called? First thing i found was this 😂: https://wikidiff.com/submissive/doormat#:~:text=As%20nouns%20the%20difference%20between,which%20one%20wipes%20one's%20shoes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 09:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 09:05 PM
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Wait.. There is a wiki?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 09:01 PM
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I would stay with him because he's kind, caring and a good communicator. Those are my biggest green flags, especially in a 19 year old. Yes, leaving because he's young and we have different future desires feels shallow. But maybe it's not.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 08:18 PM
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The sex thing doesn't apply, but you may be right about the others. Maybe we're both better off finding someone with future plans more similar to our own
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 08:11 PM
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I am not a jealous person, nor would i mind paying a part of the bills. We both aren't very materialistic, so we could make due with less. We've also had an open conversation about our different stages of life and talked about scenarios that could work out for both of us. I do think there are a lot of green flags, but you're right in saying that maybe the difference in maturity is just too big.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:50 PM
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I am generally a people pleaser. I like baking, cooking, sowing etc. I am fine with letting someone else make decisions, but i don't like the idea of my feelings not mattering in a relationship. I think that's what many people assume submission is, and it's why the word makes me nervous. At what point would it be enough.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah, it's not a reliable career. I am in the medical field, he is more creative. I just feel shallow breaking up over it, since he's great in other aspects. He would accept me not wanting a threesome. I'd be happy with trying other things to spice things up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:02 PM
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Would you stick with him even if he'd be abusive? Or ask you to help him cheat?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:53 PM
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I would think he'd need to know in order to be supportive
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:28 PM
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What would you do if the man asks something the woman doesn't agree with morally?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:27 PM
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What if the man asks something the woman doesn't agree with morally?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:25 PM
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To add to that comment. I wonder. What do you expect from him when you are very confident or passionate about something, or need support?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 07:32 AM
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What if you're really passionate or confident about something, or just need some support?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 07:31 AM
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I like your reply here best so far. I think that's something i do naturally, when someone i deeply care about is passionate, confident or needs support regarding something.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 07:28 AM
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I agree that other passions can help too. Many hobbies that used to be very common have all but dissapeared. Woodworking, reading, knitting, playing an instrument, cooking/baking etc. They where hobbies that allowed people to be active, healthy and grow their knowledge while having fun. The story about fishing with friends in extreme circumstances was a great example of it, since it covers a lot of what i believe people need to be happy. You're active, being social, out in nature, increasing int…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 03:08 PM
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If someone holds you back from reaching your goals and dreams, you shouldn't be with them. That's not a healthy relationship. 100% agree on that point.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 07:58 AM
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I've had a similar experience. I've felt depressed for years working, studying, eating crap food. Now i'm going to the woods regularly, learning what is edible/unedible. The satisfaction that comes from a meal you made from nature is quite amazing. The thing is, if everyone went on fishing trips/gathered like this, there wouldn't be enough food to get. It can't be a solution for everyone
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 07:49 AM
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