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| 82 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacy | Feminism | Crazy_Venus_Crew | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 10:08 PM |
| 11 | How do you do a "choosing signal" approach, without coming across as a desperate, opportunistic bottom-feeder | Conversation | Crazy_Venus_Crew | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 04:24 AM |
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| 1 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyGo to a bar by yourself and hit the dancefloor lol. Then wait for the insults and threats to come. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 12:48 AM |
| 0 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyYes. Men who go to bars with female friends, their partner, or mixed friend groups tend not to be labelled creepy. Men who go to bars with male friends are usually not called creepy out loud, but some other people there think it without saying it. Men who go to bars alone are almost always called out in some way just for being there. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you do a "choosing signal" approach, without coming across as a desperate, opportunistic bottom-feederYa I find it easier to approach without choosing signals, because usually I noticed something about her that I can talk about, and I feel in control and that i'm going after what I want. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How do you do a "choosing signal" approach, without coming across as a desperate, opportunistic bottom-feederIt is good to just go for it. However, I'm worried I'll let slip something like "You were totally checking me out weren't you", if I don't have anything else to say. And saying that would be a great opener in a bar or something. But somewhere like a library or food court might be a bit inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The Silent Epidemic of Men Pretending They Don’t Want RomanceDo hard drugs and chill date lol. (Do your research first tho) Shroom dates are the best dates | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 08:46 AM |
| 1 | ghosting after a good date?True! The egg does not verbally say no or yes to the sperm. It physically rejects or accepts. There is no need to verbalize what can clearly be observed in body language. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyYes there are many solutions to this problem | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyWomen have the right to straight up ignore a guy if they don’t want to talk to him. Once they realize this, then they can be okay with guys shooting their shot, and choosing which ones to engage with. In the mean time, guys should adopt a rebel mentality and go after what they want, when they want, and how they want, with little regard for social norms and cultural expectations. If more guys do this, it will become normalized and indignant men will no longer need to commit sex crimes to reclaim … | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 12 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyCrazy times! Sexual liberation for women, but prudism for men. Blatant double standard lol. I am lucky to live in a relatively conservative part of Canada, so you never hear metoo stories coming from here. But still I rarely see cold approaches go down when I am out and about in public. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 04:04 AM |
| 12 | If Feminists want sexual harassment and assault to stop, they need to start respecting a Man’s right to pursue intimacyNot all women are against approaching. But probably around half of them are. Just bring the topic up with friends, and you will probably find around half will be pro-cold-approach, and half will be anti-cold-approach, both guys and girls. Dating apps have become the new normal, and going up to someone in person is considered weird. Some women find it refreshing-weird, but some find it rude-weird, and a minority will attack you verbally or even legally. It doesn't matter that some women are okay … | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I need your opinion on meeting people to go out to partiesAre there meet ups, sport leagues or hobby groups in your city? It’s better to meet people there, then go party lol. Sometimes they will even go to a bar right after the session/practise. Who knows, maybe you could even hook up with a girl from the group right after practice! | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat… at age 25. This app feels incredibly uncomfortable and “off”What’s actually wild is it’s only current 20-somethings who have ever used Snapchat. Teenagers don’t use it LOL | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?Haha nice. To make a complicated order is to practice free speech, self-expression, audacity, and rejecting social norms in favor of your own lifestyle choice. These are skills you also need to approach and flirt with people, in our neo-feminist, woke-prudish society. However, ideally you would warm with with one person, and actually flirt with someone else haha. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 08:46 PM |
| 8 | What is the difference between talking and flirting really?It has to do with escalating. Talking to a female friend to turn her into a GF or FWB is flirting. Asking a classmate or coworker out on a date is flirting. Even chatting with another dude in a park and inviting him to a party is technically flirting because you are escalating from neighbours to friends. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?It’s okay! I really really appreciate your apology though, and it means a lot to me! | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?It literally required me saying “hey my coffee is over there! Can you bring it please, sorry for using the washroom after ordering, I should have gone before.” Worker replies “it’s okay!” I say, “you really sure it’s okay? That means a lot to me.” Having odd conversations like that, warms you up for a daygame session of asking women out. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:19 PM |
| -2 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?If you want to flirt-shame men, consider instead doing that in the feminist subreddit. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?One time I ordered at McDonalds, used the washroom, then came back and apologized sarcastically for using the washroom and making them wait for me. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 06:33 PM |
| -3 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?Actually, making complicated or specialized orders is a good way to “warm up” before doing daygame and approaching women in a more seductive way. If you can handle the nuanced communication of asking for special treatment from restaurant staff and asking for what you want, you can probably handle communicating interest to a woman and asking her on a date. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The best time to approach a woman is with her friendsWell in that case, grab a megaphone and a boombox and the two of you can yell or rap at women from your home! | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting ghosted after messaging girls I met at a club/barDo cycle timing, and text them exactly one month after you meet them. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The best time to approach a woman is with her friendsThe best is to go out with one friend, and approach women who are also with one friend. This way your buddy can carry the convo for a bit if you run out of ideas, or the other way around. 3 or more girls together tend to become cliquey and not very receptive tho. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Need help letting go of the hot to the ego when you don't get the girl or someone else in the bar pulls her instead?Wait for the guy to disappoint her in bed so she comes back to the bar that same night, then make a move. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Didn’t use protectionNext time, put on a condom every time you leave the house! | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever approach one of those loud intimidating girls?Usually the really crazy ones go for average guys | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on how can be really desired by woman mostly mentally and emotionallyYes! Living by your own rules, and which social norms you adhere to or don't adhere to, is great! Both for attracting women, and also just for having a good life in other ways. Don't be a people pleaser. Cold approach/daygame is a fantastic way to do this. A lot of women claim to hate when guys cold approach them, and cold approach violates social norms. But a lot of women love it, so adhering to the social norm would be unfair to yourself, and the set of women who enjoy it and may be interested… | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:23 AM |
| 17 | Why You Fail with Women: “Tea Over Rice” EffectTea and rice, Sugar and spice, Eggs and bacon, Don’t be too nice! | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Would you ever approach one of those loud intimidating girls?Usually they’re the ones doing the approaching, you can just wait for them to come to you lol. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatchedEssentially just trolling lol. They want to get guys all riled up for no reason, just for a laugh. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatchedlol this happens to me all the time. I find even most women who put down the “short term fun” flair tag on Tinder end up unmatching very quickly. Sometimes they will even send the first message, then unmatch before I even get to read it! | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Looking for female opinion - Getting hit on by someone in your social circleI think it’s okay. Game can be pretty subtle, so your friends may not notice, and she may not even be aware that she is being seduced. You can just keep building sexual tension, without saying anything directly. However, everyone in this sub is going to be biased towards thinking it is a good idea, so you should also ask this question in the general dating advice subs, the sex sub, too afraid to ask, or maybe even one of the feminist subs to hear the opposite side. You could even say “never ever… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.Travelling just makes you more well-rounded as a person. No offence but if you are 26 and never left your home state, you are behind on life. Even after you come back home, you can leverage your travel experiences/memories to get girls back home. It gives you conversation material during cold approaches and dates. These guys who are getting girls in your town probably did leave the state before at some point, or are just super hot so it doesn’t matter. This has been going on for millennia, there… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.There is your problem right there. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.Have you tried travelling anywhere? Go to any "party" hostel in Spain, Southeast Asia, or any Ski/Mountain town in Colorado and you will meet women who throw their standards and rules out the window! In "normal" cities, women are always trying to impress everyone by bagging only the hottest guy they can. How would you feel if a 2/10 woman approached you and you dated her or went home with her or something? Probably pretty embarrassed right? That's what women feel when they accept even a 5/10 dud… | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.Do another 400. It's like gambling for free, you can't lose! She says no? Ew, even? You only need to care what she thinks, if she likes you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 11:45 PM |
| 3 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.Yes! Too many men can’t process banter. The whole #metoo movement is just banter, and some guys think they are actually being told to never flirt with anyone! It’s sad. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 11:40 PM |
| 0 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.Luck and “numbers game” is the same thing. It is a dice roll. If you are super attractive, you are rolling a 4-sided die hoping for a 4. If you are somewhat attractive, you are rolling a 10-sided die. If you are average looking, you’ve got a 100-sided die. The ugly are rocking the 1000-sided dice. Regardless of which dice you roll, if you roll enough times, you will score! Luck is about probability, and probability is about numbers. Therefore if dating is about luck, dating is also about numbers… | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Blocked by a another girl when approachedIt also has my LinkedIn handle lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Blocked by a another girl when approachedI have my Instagram handle written on many pieces of red construction paper, along with a flirty message. I bring these with me everywhere I go, in case something exactly like this happens. Sometimes that 1 minute it takes someone to type their number in your phone, is too long. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?Pick him up and pin him against the wall | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching men?Yes! The PUA community is always encouraging this. But I could never see it working on me. Teasing and banter are great, but shouldn’t be used as an opener. If I haven’t seen the normal you, how am I supposed to know what banter looks like? | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching men?Yes. This is a good idea. Don’t just throw yourself at him, he will think it is a prank. But also don’t get to the point of being arrogant or cocky, like you are the prize to be impressed and won over. He is just a normal stranger that you are potentially interested in, pending further information, and is to be treated as such. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 04:45 AM |
| 3 | She sat right next to me even though there were other free seats left and right , did she wanted me to approach her ?That’s a damn good quote. Could write an entire essay trying to explain what that says. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 3 | She sat right next to me even though there were other free seats left and right , did she wanted me to approach her ?No. She only wanted to smell you, not talk to you or look at you. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Calling all professionalsStanding your ground is very powerful. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Calling all professionalsConsider approaching women during the daytime. Some of them may come clubbing with you lol. Just say you are from out of town and are wondering which spots have a good vibe and good atmosphere. Since you guys are a group, approach other groups, and they could be locals or other tourists, both can be helpful! | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessMost of the backlash against cold approach is perpetuated by alpha men in attempt to hoard all the dates and women. Feminists and a vocal minority of women merely echo this narrative. They criticize you for working on your game or communication skills, saying that you should "just be yourself", or "stop trying and the right person will come along when you least expect it", or "talking to a strange woman is creepy. Dating apps are the only acceptable way to meet women these days, and you need to … | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Best way to find horny, hedonistic women?I literally sexted a bipolar girl on Tinder (initiated by her) for 8 hours straight, and then she just ghosted me lol. So that one is a bit of a dice roll haha. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Best way to find horny, hedonistic women?Certain tourist/travel destinations. In these places, social order, shame, and inhibitions go out the window, just because everyone is somewhere they have never been before, or only visit every few years. Women feel like the rules don't apply when travelling. Think Philippines, Bali, Brazil, and some parts of Europe (Barcelona, Prague, Berlin, less so in Italy, UK, Southern Spain, Scandinavia). Also any popular ski town in North America attracts debauchery. Also listen to the Call Her Daddy podc… | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 10:56 PM |
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