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Ur vernacular is spectacular. You make really good points but unfortunately they’ll be missed by a lot of people because of the wording. This all goes back to outcome independence which is a core red pill tenet. Stoicisim, mindfulness and a TRUE confidence and assurance in yourself can attribute to that mindset.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:55 PM
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tldr; have fun and she will follow
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:37 PM
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Might be best to post this in the bodybuilding subreddit.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:21 PM
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Before I even got to the end I could tell you had been watching some Patrice. Don’t self edit yourselves men!
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 06:32 PM
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What’s the purpose of all these mental gymnastics? You’re dating a stripper and trying to leverage honesty while doing 007 recon bullshit? Get busy and quit worrying about her shit.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:24 PM
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It’s saddening that Reddit admins can’t see this sub for what it is rather than the demonized picture that others paint of us. Soon, other men won’t be able to stumble on this subreddit and change their lives for the better like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 02:51 PM
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I normally like your content, but this post screams out of sync boomer.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:25 PM
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Sidebar man. AF/BB.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:13 PM
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DaBaby, Future, B.I.G., N.W.A., etc... any 90s hip hop will show you the true path to bitches and happiness.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 09:19 PM
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Rejection is okay. You must be comfortable with it. However, never disqualify yourself. You seem like you don't have a problem with approaching so adjust your approaches to get the girl more engaged. Speak slow and express your voice and be sure to hold eye contact. Follow the dicarlo escalation ladder as much as you can in your approaches and try to keep the interactions short but meaningful. If you feel your rapport has reached a peak, go for the number close then and leave on that high note.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:03 PM
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There's a dopamine high you get after leaving the gym knowing you accomplished something difficult. You're probably carrying that high and it leads into the date where you're even more pleased cause look at you doing RP shit. Post gym will always have you feeling like you're the shit.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 07:37 PM
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You've got balls which is good. I like your train of thought, but the execution needs adjusting. Don't go for kisses so quick unless she gives you the signs she's into it. Also, get her talking more rather than just spewing random shit. Ask questions, shut up and listen. Eye contact and kino are your best friend. Also, slow down on going for the kiss on every first interaction. I get a feeling you've been watching those pickup videos or kiss challenges on youtube and are maybe trying to emulate …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 07:08 PM
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I dealt with this fear for awhile. Truth is, if you don't make it happen, it won't. Don't go straight for the pussy next time. Touch the thighs, the groin and hips, smack her ass. Tease the shit out of her so she's basically begging for it by the time you get down there. Once you feel she's ready, grab her hand and move it to your dick. If she's DTF this damn near has a 100% success rate.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:36 PM
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L-Citrulline. Converts to L-Arginine which promotes blood flow through the muscles. Get some pills you take daily and pop some of those suckers before you're going to fuck, maybe an hour before. Your dick will be like a mallet.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:09 PM
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Your lifts are solid so I'm not really sure why you struggled to carry her. How were you carrying her?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:07 PM
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An acid trip alone with a girl is like a guaranteed layup. I might be alone in this train of thought, but acid makes me (and others I know) incredibly horny. I imagine it's the feeling of euphoria that accompanies a trip. Trip with her and plan the day so that she has to follow your lead. Then plow her to another dimension. I did this with a chick in my social circle and she went from denying me just the previous week to texting me every day for weeks straight looking to get some dick.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:02 PM
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Kiss slower. Don't try to make it like the movies where they're tearing at each other's face in passion. Take your time with it.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:21 PM
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Mate-guarding doesn't mean securing her safety. It means warding off other potential mates. Think of a walrus kicking another walrus' ass to keep him away from his female. It's a strategy in the animal kingdom and in humans to keep your opportunity for a sexual interaction or reproduction. Yes, women value the quality that you can defend and protect her. But, if a woman knows she can get you to lose frame and initiate violence over her pussy, that's all the validation she'll need to know she has…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:47 PM
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The action of mate-guarding is inherently beta. It shows insecurity and a lack of abundance. Not sure if the guy himself is really beta, but his actions in that instance show complete lack of frame.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:52 PM
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Sex God Method. You can probably find a free pdf download online. It's a short read and incredibly useful. Learn that like the back of your hand. I think the biggest issue with men during sex is getting caught up in your own head. Learn to be immersive and in the moment and do what makes YOU feel good.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:50 PM
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Pre-selection is the most powerful tool for getting bitches. If they all know each other they're going to talk about you sooner or later. Let the one girl you smashed talk you up to the other girls and their hamsters will spin out of orbit. It will make fucking the other two incredibly easy and you can probably set up some threesomes this way. Just make sure your stroke game is on point.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:54 PM
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There's always this risk when dealing with betas. Don't let it bother you too much. Don't get suckered into a fight as it will literally never have a good outcome even if you kick his ass. Your response sounds perfect. In these situations I try to defuse the guy with something like "You should be happy you have a girl that other guys want". Basically letting them know their girl is attractive and throwing them a compliment to deflect some of their aggression.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:49 PM
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I'm still learning this myself. I definitely hit a point of going full blown alpha and while it will lead you to some success, there's a point where you become off-putting. Listen to Patrice O'Neal's talks on Youtube. Look up the Black Phillip Show and anything posted by "BlackPhillipCult". That man had the game figured out better than anyone in history and it's a good example to follow of what it means to find that alpha balance and be able to lead women.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:45 PM
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Girls will leave if they don't sense any hint of commitment to you. You need to find a balance between alpha/beta. Hint at the possibility of commitment. Ex: "I'm not looking for anything specific, but who knows what kind of people or connections I'll make" or something along those lines. When you find that perfect balance, girls will want to stay with you on your terms. A girl would rather share a high value man then settle for a loser.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:20 PM
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TRP is a philosophy. Do you only want to hang around people who subscribe to your lifestyle? Betas are CEOs, priests, doctors and whatever else you can think of. Find people you enjoy and add value to your life. Not everything has to be viewed as alpha or beta.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:16 PM
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I smoke pretty consistently. Too much THC and I get caught in my own head. Try out CBD cigarettes. One of those puts me in a very calm state without the mental fuck ups I get from too much THC. Never tried vaping CBD, but I imagine it would have similar effects.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:38 PM
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I like to engage them, make eye contact, escalate slightly then ditch them for a friend. Build just enough rapport where you re-engaging them later won’t be an obvious play. Think about when you move past that awkward introduction stage with someone new and you actually get to a fun conversation or interaction and leave them there. Game other girls, let her see and go back if the IOIs are there. Your focus should never be 100% on one girl, but don’t be dumb and think blowing them off without bui…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:12 PM
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Get your ass on youtube and watch every mixology video you can find. Learn all of the common cocktails and drinks and practice your counts and ratios. Bring friends over and get their asses plastered while you practice.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:00 PM
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Discipline helps reinforce your frame. If his frame his strong, words won’t shake him.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:30 PM
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This is a lot of mental gymnastics. A) You should never go through a plate’s phone, even if your reasoning seems valid. It’s a poor precedent to set, especially with a plate. B) She’s probably bored and you fuck her right. Nothing else. She doesn’t have many options and you’re her go to when she gets bored and needs dick. No need to over complicate things just let it be.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:28 PM
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Delicious. Finally, some good fucking content.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 04:20 PM
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I was just in a very similar situation as you but with a girl in my social circle that I saw nearly daily. I had to soft next her for some time and it’s helped significantly. I even felt bad sometimes like I was hurting her feelings, but I understand that this was my still my blue pill brain rationalizing my attachment. Take a good week break from her and approach other girls. But, ACTUALLY approach other girls and you’ll be surprised how quickly that investment with her fades. Someone else comm…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:42 PM
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Came here to say this but you put it beautifully. It's the ego that makes us feel entitled and when our reality defies this it affects people significantly. She's not yours, its just your turn OP.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:22 PM
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The right thing to do is whatever you want. Do you want to fuck her? Do it. Just be aware that it may come with consequences.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:19 PM
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My guess is ASD kicked in and she felt like you had it all planned. Maybe skip the music or preface it with something like “so the neighbors don’t hear us”.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:58 PM
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You’re slipping down the slope of oneitis again. Plate status ONLY and I’d say no more than twice a week should you fuck her. Find other plates ASAP. It can be tough and nerve racking to make the approaches but take that leap TODAY and don’t look back. Another day waited is another one lost.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:49 PM
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You could also pressure flip. “My friend was too nervous to ask for your workout routine so I figured I’d ask” Don’t be afraid of being sexual just don’t make it weird. Comment instead of compliment so it doesn’t seem like you’re fawning over her.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:58 PM
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Agree and amplify but don’t go into over complimentary beta mode.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:52 PM
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I can’t argue whether this is true or not, but he asked for high smv examples. I can’t speak on whether he understands game or is an alpha. However, he clearly has massive social standing and is always in the company of bombshells, paid or not.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:34 PM
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I doubt it too. But, it’s a good example of high SMV and what to emulate in his own regard. Girls are really good at doing this on instagram, like posting the same damn vacation pics periodically over the course of a few months to keep her life looking exciting.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:30 PM
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The problem with that is drills will only get you so far in having applicable experience. You need live-fire training to be comfortable in executing techniques and maintaining composure in a real fight.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 03:13 PM
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Check instagram for Dan Bilzerian, therealtarzan, and any slightly famous male influencer for examples.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:54 PM
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I made a decent amount of money as a kid playing games professionally and I can still agree with this sentiment. For majority of people, it is going to be a huge stunt to your development as a Red Pilled man. When you have your shit in order and discipline is on point, you can then afford to introduce more leisure bullshit activities like gaming.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 04:06 PM
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Ever listen to a couple of girls have a conversation? They’re never really saying anything that’s worth a damn or interesting. But it’s HOW they talk. The conversation is emotionally charged and gets them invested. Go watch some bullshit morning show or The View and learn how girls interact with each other. Now i’m not saying talk to her like your one of the girlfriends, but understand what engages them by watching other women. The specifics of what you talk about matters very little, you just n…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:09 PM
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Ask questions and listen. Really isn't too hard to get a girl talking about herself. Mix in kino, eye contact, and covert language and she'll drop her pants in heartbeat.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:19 PM
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If you're making it up to her you're falling into her frame. When you genuinely fuck up or hurt her don't be afraid to apologize. Sounds like you need to go ghost for some time to reset your frame as breaking down a door is pretty fucking dumb.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:13 PM
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I did it on two separate occasions. One ended in a F close that night. The other actually approached me in the gym to “spot her on leg press”. I ended up approaching her again before i left the gym to get her number and invited her later in the week. F closed that night as well. Patrice is king.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:38 AM
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This x100000000. I spent ~2 years absorbing info from TRP before finding the Black Phillip Show. I'm a black male and it was like having a rosetta stone for the Red Pill the way Patrice would explain it. Played that shit in the gym too and it gave me confidence to approach banging ass girls right then.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:46 PM
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Sick humble brag bro. But, maybe add some details to make this a real field report.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:03 PM
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This should be posted to asktrp. As for your question, try swinging? Chances are those thoughts are rooted in some insecurity that you don't deserve her. Your ego wants to possess her and TRP has shown you she's never truly yours.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 03:02 PM
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This is woman level hamstering my dude. Love your roots my man. Be black. Be proud. And don't ever let a girl trick you by saying she has a "type". Their types are fucking alphas and as a black person this stereotype of a dominant, fbgm can actually work to your advantage. But you need to learn to be unapologetically YOU.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:45 PM
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Research has already proven mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety are much more than brain chemistry. Our neurochemicals play a part, but there's so much more the brain and mind then this.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:53 PM
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Posts like this will never be talked about by the masses when they preach TRP is a "misogynistic, women-hating sub". Fantastic work man.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:25 PM
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As funny as this comment was, this doesn’t seem like a good path for building a name as a reputable trainer. I know you can’t force the horse to drink, but if all of your clients are seeing shit results they will quickly shift the blame to you.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 03:26 PM
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This is something I've struggled with at times even though people around me would label me an extrovert. Start small and learn to enjoy human interaction. Practice speaking to everyone, everywhere. Most people stay on autopilot throughout their day and we rarely acknowledge the fact that we're all moving through life together. Start simple by speaking to your cashier the next time you're at the store. Ask them about their day. If you enjoy painting, maybe look to join an art class. It would be a…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:57 PM
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My guess is American Psycho
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 03:20 PM
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I’m not really sure why this is a question. Do you want to go on a date with her? If yes, then invite her to do something with you. If you don’t want to, don’t extend an invitation. You already have interest there’s no need to really overthink it.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:40 PM
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I'd have to disagree. As long as you're getting from a pure source there's little to no risk on a low dose trip and it can have a profound impact on your life.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:24 PM
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Unproductive people use weed. Weed does not make people unproductive. That’s a clutch for the lazy who don’t want to make real life changes. If used properly, weed is an incredible tool.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 07:35 PM
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Sounds pretty insignificant. She made light of it in order to ease the tension so I don’t think she’s completely turned off to you. Wait a few days and hit her up again like it was nothing. Have a day meet up if it makes her more comfortable.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:08 PM
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If she didn’t mention it, she would feel like she’s doing wrong by not saying anything. Its ASD. Go on the date and don’t mention or even think about the boyfriend in conversation. If it comes up ignore it and change the topic.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:05 PM
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Understandable. One thing to realize is everyone holds their own insecurities as well. That guy deadlifting 300+ is still on his journey and probably has someone he envies himself. Also, if you’re embarrassed about lifting at the gym because you’re not where you want to be it’s important to know that literally no one cares how much you lift. I used to have this fear pretty bad, but the truth is everyone is too busy minding their business and actually getting shit done to worry about someone else…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:04 PM
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Never compare yourself to others, but always measure against who you were yesterday. Or last week. Or last month. Whether it’s sex, lifting, career or anything in your life, self-improvement is a personal journey. You can never know your own success or progress if you’re measuring with someone else’s ruler. Drake is a megastar but if we compare his net worth to someone like Jeff Bezos, he’s nothing. Know that this is your journey to take and grow on so you should only be looking at yourself.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:54 PM
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Most girls aren’t going to care about your age if they’re already attracted to you. Keep your frame and ignore the question altogether. You can tell them after you’ve bagged them. They’ll probably be even more obsessed with you.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:47 PM
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This question is really all over the place. What exactly are you asking?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:39 PM
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Read into the philosophy of Stoicism and related articles on the main trp website. I’m sure other members can direct you to specific links.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:11 PM
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she sounds BPD tbh but thankfully no one is white knighting in the comments tbh
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:50 AM
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Mid 30s is not old. That 17-21 is also a really specific age group i guess you’re looking at the college demographic? Either way, AWALT. This couldn’t be more true for that age group. Whether she’s a “church girl” or party monger, AWALT AWALT AWALT. If you’re chad she’ll smash.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:58 PM
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Choke her and put your dick in her
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:58 AM
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Tf bro just dump her. All these mental gymnastics is for girls.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:45 PM
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Family guy has so many red pill examples in the show that i noticed after visiting here. A certain episode in season 4 comes to mind I believe when Stewie gets together with an actress he used to work with. Covers things like asshole game, hypergamy, and the sorts. Not exactly any alpha characters but you’ll be hard pressed to find that glorified in TV anyways.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:48 AM
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it’s just a shit test i wouldn’t A&A but ignore it and setup the time anyways.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:32 AM
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you don’t you do it in person
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:27 AM
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yeah i might create a new one just to comment the same thing on this shit post 1/10 mate
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:45 PM
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this is one of the most autistic posts ever
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:10 PM
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It seems like you’re looking for validation on playing. Make whatever goals you have set specific and timely, then be consistent in making progress in them. Whatever you do in the time between is completely up to you as long as it doesn’t interfere with your mission. People say stay away from video games because it activates endorphins or basically rewards your brain for no work. I can understand that, but so does watching a good movie or eating your favorite food. Do whatever you want and conti…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:01 AM
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use your peepee
/r/askTRP29/11/17 01:50 AM
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“Cavemen that were swole as fuck” good lord the autism.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:17 PM
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I can attest to this. My first serious girlfriend was BPD and had suicidal thoughts. Absolute shitstorm of a relationship and oddly enough made me pretty RP near the end of the relationship before I actually discovered TRP. Shitty to go through, but for some kickstarts the beginning of their new life.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:38 PM
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Go meet people. Literally the best and easiest opportunity to meet new people and girls. Everyone there is meeting new people for the first time.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:28 PM
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Sounds like she could have a boyfriend or LDR? Is ASD post coitus a thing? That’s honestly a pretty baffling situation. Considering she blocked you on social media, it doesn’t seem like she’s BPD and trying to manipulate you, but potentially she is and flips the fuck out after sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 08:00 PM
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Well written post man. I’d love to hear more insight and discuss.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 07:26 PM
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You answered your own question. Instagram post photos with other good looking girls. If you’re running dread i like to use snapchat but be subtle about it. Post a picture of you out doing something but snap just a part of the girl like her watch or part of her blouse. I’ve done this just for dread and girl’s hamsters spin so damn fast to try to figure out what’s going on (whether you’re fucking, friends etc.)
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:15 AM
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Came here to say what everyone else is saying. LIFT. You were blessed with height so take advantage of it and turn yourself into a fucking greek god.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:48 PM
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Yeah I can agree with that. Most girls don’t want to be a ONS or pump and dumped. There’s other avenues to reach that. I tend to agree more with TRP philosophy that sexual strategy is amoral. Women will do the opposite and lock a beta into a relationship to have security and still get her rocks off on the side. Is it right or wrong? Who’s to say, but it’s just how they go about things. We’re just making the playing field equal.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 06:58 PM
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20 minutes is a long ass time man. Sounds like a good way to dry a girl up and get locked in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:30 PM
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He told it how it is. Your ego is hurt because she’s ghosting you. Don’t message her shit. And in the future don’t text her every other day unless it’s to meet up.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:21 PM
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Sounds like Red Pill in action. Keep. Yo. Frame. The second you go BP and enter her frame she’ll lose attraction.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:16 AM
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She’s already inviting you to engage in kino and created plausible deniability for you. Turn that cuddle sesh into pound town.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:27 AM
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Quit overthinking it and do whatever the fuck you want with confidence.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:04 AM
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She hit you with a 25 piece Monster combo. No recovering from this OP. This isn’t friend zone, that’s her being a validation loving bitch. Tell her you can’t be friend zoned because you’re not friends then block like you’re Mutombo.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:04 AM
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Joe motherfuckin Rogan
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:23 PM
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Couldn’t agree more. He’s more attractive than a lot of people. Get yourself an Adonis body OP and watch your life change. Also, stay the fuck off those depressive reddits. TRP hands you truth and imo REAL advice for self improvement. No sugar coating, BP bullshit. You can take action in your life or you can sit by and have nothing change.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:35 PM
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You're right to be skeptical. The idea that the your thoughts affect the universe in a tangible way is rather far fetched. However, I do not discount the power of the mind and belief that it preaches. Unshakeable self-belief drives your actions and makes achieving goals that seem impossible to others completely normal. It's no different from what many self help books preach, but it's spin on it with manifesting realities definitely helps it reach a larger audience so good on them for that. Of co…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:28 AM
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A lot of this shit could and should definitely be trimmed out, but I liked your point on feeling energies in the room. I've had this feeling after smoking occasionally and I think it's not so much an enlightening as it is letting your ego dissolve and being able to be natural. We struggle to adopt RP principles because of our ego and insecurities prevent the transition. It's why having a few drinks to loosen up can make you feel like a party animal or natural flirt. It makes it even easier to pi…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:21 AM
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my significant other of 15 year's So you bash this guy's advice and call him beta for saying some alphas prefer LTR's yet...
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:09 AM
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This is the kind of guy who tries to start fights to impress girls in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:09 AM
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Wrestling is a fantastic sport for self defense. Ground control is great and if you’re good enough at it you can defend yourself against much larger opponents than you. Boxing has probably the best cross over to actual defense in street fights other than training in multiple arts at once. I see someone mentioned to look for gyms that encourage full contact approaches which i agree with to an extent. Trainers should know what level you’re at and what you’re looking to reach. Basically you shouldn…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 11:43 PM
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I’m a big fan of the comics so i was too busy enjoying how they expanded into that story arc rather than some deeper bullshit like feminism.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 09:37 PM
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I’ve always held this sentiment. Lifting is still very important because of the fitness gains as well as the discipline it teaches. But, there’s something about being disciplined in an effective martial arts that contributes to a rock solid frame. You feel in control in most situations you find yourself. It is also much easier to have the mindset of an Alpha, given that the Alpha historically is the strongest or most fit warrior. I still recommend lifting for the functional strength and aestheti…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:30 PM
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Instead of name calling like an 8 year old why don’t you offer alternative advice?
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:59 PM
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Seems like it would be best to completely break this off. You've begun your journey and there is no need to look back. Cut all contact, keep improving, and pick up more plates. Good luck man.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:41 PM
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As far as the other "alphas", you should not try to be in competition with them. True alphas work together and you will find it much easier to pick up women together when you're cooperative. Do not try to out alpha anyone. Maintain your frame, pass the shit tests and they will either become friendly and cooperate with you or their social value will drop in the group as you continue to hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:25 PM
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48 Laws of power say otherwise.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:05 PM
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Interest is not a shit test. She was interested, conveyed it to you, and you didn't respond accordingly. If you pursue her hard she will lose attraction and it puts the power in her court. If she engages you again, man up and make a move. Otherwise, learn from your mistakes and it's on to the next one.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:58 PM
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It's a shit test. Hold frame man. Tell her it's your profile so you want a picture of YOU.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:37 PM
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Seems like you like the validation from having her reach out to you occasionally. That's girl shit. Block her asssssssss
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:11 PM
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Yes, social media should not matter to you in any respect. I have a decent social media following but rarely post and only use it for entertainment value. However, high numbers are instant social proof to some women. Easiest way is to live a good life, meet people, and drop the @ name. Don't overthink it and be a flat tummy tea insta bitch that filters every photo and has to post at an EXACT time.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:06 PM
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Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them? Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk." Copied that exactly from the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:04 PM
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There is nothing cool about sociopathy. It's a mental disorder. It's not going to make you some mysterious character that slays pussy like Mersault from The Stranger or something. If anything, read into Machiavellianism and the dark triad traits. More importantly though, improve your god damn self and look back later how stupid this post was.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:55 PM
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For future reference, say "hey" with a warm smile and wave and then ignore her. Enjoy yourself with other friends. If they are girls and attractive, all the better. If she has any interest, watch the hamster hit maximum overdrive.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:51 PM
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Weed does not make you a person with no motivation or drive. It's a misleading stigma. That change isn't going to happen by dropping weed, but I can say for those using, dropping it is a good start to create discipline. See Joe Rogan, Matthew McConaughey, etc.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:39 PM
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This seems to come up a lot and I may be wrong here but there is not a disconnect between emotional connections and TRP philosophy/principles. Red pill simply accepts the world for what it is and looks to exploit it with sexual strategies. Of course there are other aspects such as self improvement and dealing with life issues. However, the point is still the same. Women are humans, men are humans, and we all create emotional bonds. Even people who spin multiple plates can have real emotional bon…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:22 PM
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Delete this nephew.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:08 PM
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I'd be weary of too much alcohol because it definitely makes you less sensitive down there and can have an adverse affect. On the other hand, if you're good to go you'll last a ridiculously long time with alcohol.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:04 PM
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I was having issues with not getting to 100% length. Someone suggested L-arginine powder. I've been taking tablets and the results have been awesome. Also, completely cut out porn and learn to meditate Monk Mode style. If it is a mental block, learning to tap into that state of thoughtlessness will help you let go of any insecurities and just be in the moment. Has worked wonders for me.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:03 PM
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Sounds like she wanted to get touchy with you. Contact her and tell her you want to learn moves from her then smash her instead.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 10:12 PM
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First, I'm sorry for your loss. Death is always a painful thing to cope with especially if you don't have the proper resources to do so. Look for those in whatever it may be (as long as it is not destructive behavior). As for your situation, recognize that your human. We have emotions and shit gets to us. Holding frame and IDGAF attitude should be applied to bullshit. By this, I mean tests of frame. The death of a close family member does not fall under this category in my opinion. If your girl …
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:26 PM
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If she really wanted it bad then bang her on her period. If you don't want to do that and she really does want to fuck, tell her don't waste her time coming over unless its to fuck. Then ghost mah dude.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:20 PM
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Update on this?
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:43 PM
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Have you tried any mass gainers? I've been taking one recently and it easily adds about 2000 calories to my daily count, plus a bunch of protein and amino acids i need for athletics.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 04:29 PM
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100% a shit test. Hold frame and don't be afraid of that kiss man. It's 100 percent better to shoot your shot then live in regret.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:31 AM
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Find someone in mind and start warming her up to the idea of it during sex. Start mentioning the other girl and how great it would be if she was doing certain things to you or your girl. ONLY bring this up during or immediately after sex, but obviously better during. She'll become accustomed to the idea.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:28 AM
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I've seen some of those videos and the Asian guy seems to put on a front for these lame ass videos but he gets paid so who can blame him.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 10:28 PM
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This post is shit. Delete this nephew.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:12 PM
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If a girl is waiting nearly a week to reply they're not worth your time. I think this is thinking way too much into it. Text back whenever you can or feel like and set up the date.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 09:48 PM
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Fantastic post my man. Saved this one for a reminder if I feel I'm stagnating.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:10 PM
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No problem man. Check out his interviews of him talking about his sex life. He received a lot of backlash for them and his career somewhat fell off after these, but that's the feminist, BP world we live in. He shows a fair balance in putting out music he enjoys and still living a RP life.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:31 PM
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Look at John Meyer for an example of a RP man who makes ultra beta songs (although he can sing like a god). His songs put women in a pedestal or speak from a romantic's point of view then he has interviews of how he was smashing Taylor swift and Jennifer Lawrence or something of the sort.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:01 PM
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If that's the case then it's typical ASD/shit tests. Maybe they see you as high SMV and are trying to lock you down into exclusivity or pull you down to their level. Hold frame my man. Never open up emotionally, unless its immediately after sex when she's coming down from an orgasm. Work on upping your emotion levels during sex and you'll find yourself avoiding this behavior in girls. They'll feel deeply attached to you, may even say I love you, but will not look to shit test you in such a way. …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:49 PM
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I was going to say LDR's are always a shit idea, but 25kms is not far at all. Make her work to see you more. If she isn't willing, but still hangs with her male friends, then demote, apply dread, and spin other plates.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:39 PM
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Turn the conversation playful or pressure flip. Tell her "And I feel like I'm only being used for great sex. Is that why you're back?" and say it with a smug smile or smirk. Make sure to read Sex God method to improve your sex game because she'll become obsessed with your sex. It could just be your pick of girls or maybe you're making some beta moves in between the two dates? (texting too much, did you pay for the date?, etc.) Maybe she thinks she can lock you down into BB territory. A bit more …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:37 PM
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Also cut that emoji shit. Can't stress that enough. I almost never use them anymore unless I'm making some kind of inside joke. Never to game.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:30 PM
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Could also be The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Either way, lazy ass post. Wants his bar mitzvah but hasn't read the Torah.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:26 PM
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Would you mind elaborating then as I rather not spread poor information on this? I'm not super interested in LTRs so i really only skimmed over that information in sidebar material and other posts.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:20 PM
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I fucked up through misinformation or by mentioning LTR's?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:13 AM
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There's such thing as too alpha. From what I've read in LTR's or exclusive relationships you have to pass comfort tests, which require some betaness. Something along the lines of 1 beta move for every 10 alpha moves. If your sex is back up, dread probably isn't necessary anymore so look into passing those comfort tests.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:02 AM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:42 PM
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Definitely demote and find other slam pieces to destress with. At this moment it seems like she's treating you more how a RPer would treat a plate.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:40 PM
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Seems like she's not interested in carrying your emotional baggage. Find other outlets to destress other than acknowledgement from her. It seems at this point she's only adding stress to your life which seems like something you don't need anymore of. I was getting anxiety just reading this shit. Consider breaking this off or demoting her. But, first I'd say make your concerns clear that you don't appreciate being disrespected like that. You don't want to come off as a needy bitch, but if you're …
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:50 PM
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Also, do you have recommendations about dosage? Is it just a scoop with every meal? A daily thing or should i alternate days?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:14 PM
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I've heard this is bad to take if you have cold sores as it strengthens the virus. Any truth to it?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:02 PM
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a bit confused by the reverse aspect? I've practiced kegels before so would reverse be more like trying to force piss out?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:22 PM
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Thank you I'll do some research on that. Have any links yourself to exercises that you found helpful?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:02 PM
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I do not. Why?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:38 PM
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I've cut porn out of my life quite some time ago but does not masturbating really help a lot? And yeah cute girls isn't an issue I feel like i'm a rather shallow person sometimes haha.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:12 PM
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If she's aware she's a plate then don't even bother with these loyalty tests. Improve yourself constantly, apply the sidebar, and her loyalty to you won't even be questioned at least for some time. If she isn't aware then you're cheating on her and you shouldn't care about her loyalty. As far as your actual question in the post just the fact that she's trying to scare off your former plates is a bit of a red flag for me and her hiding the conversation could simply be trying to avoid any unnecess…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:46 PM
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But AWALT my man. If she's going to cheat she will but thoughts like these and little tests just push her to that end result. Also, were these other girls she told off former plates? Or are you plating this girl as well?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:34 PM
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Upvote for the coked out Air Dad New Balances
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:31 PM
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This is some immature shit right here dawg. Sounds like no trust on either sides. You're insecure on whether she'll tell you about other guy's and she's controlling in the fact that she forced you to give her plates numbers to tell off. This isn't going to work out so end it.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:27 PM
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underrated comment
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:20 PM
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haha that wasn't really meant to be taken seriously just a bit of banter but definitely solid advice nonetheless
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:14 PM
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lol maybe so but hamster gonna spin what can you do. But, one thing i love about this sub is the brutal honesty at times.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:33 AM
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hahahahaha maybe so. I could give detail and explain why but i prefer to keep things obscure and not compromise anyone, but to be fair she's done all the chasing so far besides my initial contact with her.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:34 AM
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fair enough. I don't believe i've reached that point but i've only hard nexted two girls and it was obvious at that point when I needed to. The situation seemed a bit ambiguous so I wanted to get other people's opinions and experiences of it. But, you're definitely right in that if i'm asking myself is it time, it probably is.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:05 PM
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No haven't really had a meetup that would end in that. Definitely part of that can be put on my blame for not escalating enough and trying to get her back to my place but some of the circumstances have prevented that as well. She has asked to come to my place for a meal so the interest is there I believe. As for now she's only in potential plate territory.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:39 PM
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We've met up about 4-6 times compared to her flaking twice. It might be worth mentioning that these haven't really been planned dates but more of we're both doing things at the moment and either of us initiate for a meetup (ex: we're both out with friends at a bar and she texts me saying she's changing locations to mine, or invites me out for a drink) She apologized but didn't offer a rearrangement, but the prior time she did and we ended up meeting later.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:18 PM
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alright thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:59 PM
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alright thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:59 PM
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I completely agree and i've actually made it known that i don't really care to have my time wasted. So at this point, simply let her initiate and she will if there's still interest? Or wait a period of time and act like nothing has happened and initiate myself?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:41 PM
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Don't train like a meathead plain and simple. Find a proper gym with intelligent trainers and partners that are going to understand what you are looking to get out of training. If you aren't training for competition there isn't a real reason for you to be taking heavy blows to the head that will affect your brain. Sparring should be done with closed head gear and 16oz gloves anyways. Light sparring and technique drilling will also do you wonders, but the feel of hard sparring is what prepares yo…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:06 PM
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I've always had an inherent ability to read people very well and i'm actually relatively new to TRP. It's just when you read the sidebar and people's FR's (i recommend searching things like "AWALT" in this and askTRP sub) you start to notice red pill truths in encounters and you can apply them to other situations. As far as texting her, i personally feel that texting her back is falling into the bait that she's setting because i feel that she's trying to pull you back into an orbiter spot. I've …
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:49 PM
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Could be she's trying to pull you back into the friend zone/orbiter spot. Maybe she was getting her monkey slapped on the side for some time and now it's passed and she's feeling lonely. It could also be that your improvements are being noticed and combined with the lack of communication she's starting to feel interest in you. If you're not personally interested, there's no point in texting her back. But, if you do attend the same school you can have the chance to game her in person if you choos…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:34 PM
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Once again you use a condescending tone because your statements don't have merit. You can call it indifference but when you try to diminish the accomplishments of someone based simply on your opinion and no facts we like to call those people "haters". Get with the times kid.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 10:56 PM
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You boiled down his ability to get into this fight as a mouth. His charisma has taken him significantly farther than most MMA fighters ever could but none of it is possible if he isn't winning fights. That's not debatable. Additionally, spare me the condescending tone like you're so enlightened on the subject and see ultimate truths. Everyone recognizes the absurdity of the event and only two things are propelling it: two massive names in combat sports and the big what if if Conor somehow pulls …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 08:47 PM
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The man is two weight world champion. Don't diminish his accomplishments and ability to manifest himself into this fight to a mouth.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 08:26 PM
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i'm beginning to see a common theme in these lol. so when would you say slow plays are applicable?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:31 PM
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Great response man. It's well thought out and informative.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:11 PM
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excellent point. i don't want to truly say it's oneitis YET mostly because i'm in a good position with my plates and generally happy in life. however, i don't mind the thought of an LTR eventually and she happens to tick the right boxes that add value to my life so the thought was there. Either way, I think you're right in that having abundance would answer this question in itself in that I wouldn't be trying to keep her interest but rather vice versa. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:10 PM
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what would you say about girls with LTR potential? I've read that slow plays can be even better with them as it builds a sexual tension with no LMR and that the sexual connection is even better. There's only one girl in my rotation i know right now with LTR potential, but at the same time i don't want to risk slow playing and having her lose interest. i know it sounds a bit like one-itis but as far as social interactions and communication she brings a lot more value than others i know.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 05:52 PM
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Lol not gonna lie I cracked a chuckle from that. Might be worth mentioning i'm on mobile so downloads for a pdf might cause some issues but it usually works fine on other files. Have an upvote and i'll keep looking for the pdf 👍🏽
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:56 AM
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lol so much bitterness in you people. Yes: I've used the search engine. Yes: I've googled for it. Everything i've reached is a broken link. You had the energy to reply with a lame ass comment instead of something halfway helpful.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:50 AM
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where do you find sex god method? i've heard people mention it but don't know where to look.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:44 AM
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I've read the sidebar plenty but I've seen mixed views on it all over the inter webs, but that's likely to do more with someone else who's equally confused. It would probably be best to take sidebar as bible then.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:04 PM
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i'm no expert on TRP, but even with its truth it doesn't seem to dismiss love or true emotion with a partner. It simply embraces self-worth and encourages perspective which leads to things like break ups or loss not as emotionally devastating. You realize your worth and also realize things could be worse; it allows you to plate if things may become shaky but it also enables you to keep a girl rather easily. I don't think TRP is about losing emotion but rather controlling it within a realistic pe…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 05:41 PM
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