CreativeEngineer689 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ending a convo before 1st date without being rude You have to match their texting style. If you don't they'll flake.	/r/seduction	02/02/24 03:47 PM
1	Being ghosted by different woman frequently . You could start by having standards.	/r/seduction	02/02/24 02:35 PM
2	🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?) I break all these "rules" and still get laid	/r/seduction	02/02/24 12:30 AM
2	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it My ex is a straight up 10 and she loves Chilli's....but I would never take her there of my own choosing lol	/r/seduction	30/01/24 09:21 PM
1	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it I actually have a place that always kicks you out after 60 minutes and it's a cocktail bar that also offers food. When you offer the date it doesn't have to be clear whether it is for dinner or just drinks so you can actually decide that insitu and at the 60 minute mark you can decide to jump to a second place or eject.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 09:05 PM
1	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it Well I wouldn't have scheduled the date if she had not done something dishonest already. Some women have photos that are 15 years old or only tightly cropped headshots. They think they will win you over with their personality, which is not reality. If you ask for a half or full length portrait they completely lose their mind so I usually just assume they are 400 pounds and move on, but occasionally there is one I want to risk. Usually then I'll just ask for a full body shot and risk them flippin…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:23 PM
1	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it Avoid hot sauce. Don't order hot wings then finger her.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 07:51 PM
0	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it In my world, the chair is always out before you arrive. As far as physical touching goes, I am not interested in an average emotional connection or sexual relationship. I like to verbally communicate this pretty much up front. While I don't care when that starts, I do care that it does. The longer it takes the more I'm going to wonder if this is just a platonic relationship and eventually you will be deprioritized in favor of other women.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 07:28 PM
-2	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it If she's not hot I'll split the check.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 07:21 PM
4	Do you want to go back to my place? You guys are the blind leading the blind. Too over complicated. After she blows you or fucks you once in the car, getting her to follow you home is easy. This is how I do it and it is the way.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 04:25 PM
1	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it I prioritize settings that minimize disruptions and uncertainties, period. I don't want to be limited to making dates only during the week, which will only lessen but not eliminate problems. A middle ground might be a wine bar that takes reservations, but such places are rare around here and the drinks will be pricey too. You can spend a shit ton on just alcohol. I won't eat otherwise. My last date was saturday at a really awesome pizza place and only cost 60 bucks with drinks. No I am not drink…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 04:17 PM
1	She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond? The fact that you're struggling to keep up with the many women you're meeting indicates a scattergun approach, which is neither efficient nor particularly strategic. High standards, in this context, would mean selecting fewer targets but with greater potential for satisfaction or benefit. For instance, my preference leans towards non-political, thin blonde women, who are kinky, adventurous, know how to dress, hold stable employment, and are without children. This set of criteria significantly na…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 02:22 PM
1	She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond? What he did I call half-stepping. As a man, when you decide on something, you do it.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 02:17 PM
5	She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond? You can't do what you did, EVER. If it is communicated non-verbally that you are uninterested she's going to feel rejected and walk out of spite. I have had women walk because I left my phone out on the table during the date, which unintentionally communicated disinterest. It can be as simple as that. When you contemplate the pursuit of someone you don't genuinely like, it's crucial to consider the implications of such actions. Engaging with someone without authentic interest isn't just a potent…	/r/seduction	29/01/24 07:06 PM
2	How often do you have your first kisses at home vs out? Almost always the first date in the parking lot. PDA can torpedo the entire date by inviting unwanted attention.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:44 PM
1	What do you currently lean on for success with women? 40% raw effort, 60% Luck (including the situational awareness to capitalize on that luck)	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:34 PM
2	It's not always your fault when you lose a girl A woman can leave you a year later because the sex is too good, as well, if she has mental issues coming to terms with the high frequency of intimacy.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:09 PM
1	It's not always your fault when you lose a girl There are thousands of other factors. The only thing you can control is yourself.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:06 PM
2	It's not always your fault when you lose a girl No, attraction isn't a silver bullet.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:06 PM
8	It's not always your fault when you lose a girl Yep and people actively want to act as if something they could've done would've changed the outcome. Truth is that we have only so much control over anything in this world.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:04 PM
1	Is it a bad idea to just be yourself? No. But, just as a bull rider must adapt and learn to avoid being trampled, so too must one learn from the rough-and-tumble experiences of dating. The process is not dissimilar – it involves facing challenges head-on, sometimes getting 'kicked around', and using those experiences to improve one's approach.	/r/seduction	27/01/24 09:11 PM
3	Problems dealing with and understanding women I have a personal policy where if a match does not agree to meet within a week without a valid reason, I choose to focus my attention elsewhere. This is a boundary I set to manage my time effectively and avoid situations that may not be conducive to what I'm looking for. Regrettably, I've noticed a trend where bad behavior (ie last-minute cancellations) are becoming more common, with little to no social repercussions. From a long-term perspective, these behaviors are not just minor inconvenience…	/r/seduction	27/01/24 06:05 PM