| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to build a social circle from scratch at 30? | Lifestyle | Creative_Wallaby_439 | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you manage inner-game when your life is out of order? | Inner Game | Creative_Wallaby_439 | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 11:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesWomen have been brainwashed that motherhood is slavery and that being a boss babe is what they really want. I have personally seen many women in my family change their tune around 28-32 when baby fever kicks in. Then suddenly they want to stop sleeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 04:23 PM |
| 0 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?No, its not trauma bond, its all just value. The men that are "avoidant" are really just men with options or men that have learned that you get treated the best by women when you dont commit. Anxious attachment in men is really just a scarcity mindset with low self esteem. There is no guy with lots of beautiful women around that has an anxious attachment. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?Thats called Stockholm syndrome | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:35 AM |
| 5 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?Women do not love men. Women do not know what love is until they have children. A woman can love how a man makes her feel, a woman can love what a man does for her, she can lust for and respect him, but women cannot love. Love has a component of protection, and women do not protect men | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:33 AM |
| -5 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Cucks with no self respect | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?Yeah, the WORST, most disrespectful thing a women could ever say is: "my husband wasn't my type at first, but he grew on me". If we translate that, it means "i did not find my husband attractive, like a did with the men in hooked up with prior to him. I grew to settle for him, because I couldn't lock the other guys down" | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:59 PM |
| -22 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?FYI most women these days are seeing multiple men, you'd have to have no self respect to eat out. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?Again, you missed the point. A lot of girls fuk on the first date and will deny plans cuz they are on their period that week. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?You completely missed the point. If you had to "grow on" a woman for her to like you, she doesnt actually like you. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?If she dont like you superficially, SHE DONT LIKE YOU. If you have to teach or coach a girl into liking you, SHE IS SETTLING for you. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?Cant always be within 1 week bro, 1/4 weeks in the month is cooked. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you think reading novels about men written by women would be beneficialWhat women say their preferences are, and what they positively respond to, are 2 different things. Women first and furmost are concerned with public perception. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think reading novels about men written by women would be beneficialI read the 4 most popular romance novels back in 2011. Its very blackpilling to read exactly what excites women, straight from the horses mouth. They ALL contain the same plot: a bland, ordinary girl that doesnt stand out has a beta provider that is sweet to them, then along comes some dangerous, 7 foot tall millionaire with a 12" dick that somehow chooses her and she sleeps with him in secret before fully monkeybranching. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Said she would call but didn'tYou only call out behavior if you are dating/fuking, and you have to call it out immediately. Think of how weak, beta, and butthurt it sounds to bring up "hey you didnt call me 6 months ago". Let it be and move on. If she comes back, dont take her seriously and make her earn any attention you give her | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 07:31 PM |
| 3 | So, you messaged a girl after (you thought) a great first date and no reply. What now? Just give up?Women make it easy for men they like. She wouldn't do this to her celebrity/athlete crush, move on. Its not weak to give up on a woman, they have to earn your time & affection | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Failing to build sexual tension.Eye contact is 80% of sexual tension. Challenging/teasing also works wonders. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Said she would call but didn't6 hours away dude, move on. Dont give BF benefits if she isnt giving GF benefits. Never, ever chase | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 06:41 PM |
| -9 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingNever apologize for interacting with someone. Thats weak cringey behavior. Do you really think so low of yourself that yoy have to apologize for introducing yourself? | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:26 AM |
| -6 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingNever ever do points 6 and 11, I lost testosterone just reading that | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice.Neat, but Hybristophilia still exists. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it?Women cannot tell tge difference between confidence earned from achievement, vs confidence coming from having nothing to lose. You can see many examples of the second in thugs that give off the "I dont give a fuk" attitude. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice.No, its not made up. Theres a reason ted Bundy had women swooning over him during his trial. Dahmer got love letters & marriage proposals, Luigi now has a following | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why am I only approached by women I’m not attracted to?Because women want what they cant have. Treat the women you like, like the women you dont like and you'll see results | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 07:09 PM |
| 3 | What do I even talk about?Dont focus on that yet. You gotta start small with just making comments to strangers about something situational, then progress that into making the interaction fun. Having a mindset of self-ammusement helped me, I go into interactions wanting nothing but the chance of a fun moment in time. All you need for self amusement is to view everything through absurdism. We're literally on a rock floating through space at high speeds, that's actually quite hilarious if you think about it. People like fun… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 05:40 PM |
| 6 | The Secret to Seduction is Love. The Secret to Love is Giving.No, its all about perceived value. You must think of this in a ceo/middle manager relationship. The ceo (higher value) does not chase the middle managers attention, because the ceo is more valuable and so is their time and attention. The middle manager chases the ceos attention for their gold work to get promotions. By chasing women, you are putting them on a pedestal and acting like they are more valuable, when that woman was literally just born with her looks via genetic lottery. Men have to e… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 05:04 PM |
| 8 | What to talk about when making conversations interesting with a date?Hate to break it to you, if she is giving you nothing to work with or is giving you an overly nothing answer, they aren't attracted to you and want you bored so you go away. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Reaching back out to old leadsIs hole really worth your dignity tho? | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Reaching back out to old leadsNever worth it. Gotta strike the iron when it hot, if its cold it went cold for a reason | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think slightly older women (30-40s) are generally less picky about men's height? In the US at least.No, when you're young and attractive, you shoot for guys out of your league. Then as your looks and fertility start declining, you settle. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 01:31 PM |
| 0 | I think this sub's time is passing awayThey had control over their bodies, its called closing your legs or getting BC | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".It means she didnt get the feelings of attraction towards you. It doesnt mean you are unattractive, it means the interaction didnt make her want to fuk you. You gotta get them emotional + get them to validate themselves to you and seek your approval + build tension and anticipation | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Women pull away when you’re needy. Relax and watch what happens.Gleam isnt on android tho | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:25 PM |
| 18 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveThen she spat in your food lol | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Does the approach anxiety ever go awayNo. You just get used to it. I used to do bmx. The anxiety i felt going up to a big jump stayed the same, i just knew what to expect | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 7 | Asking out someone from workIMO its pretty risky to date at work in 2022, even if the female initiates. Most companies have policies against dating at work. Do all you communication in text form, and KEEP those texts. Personally, work is the LAST place I would look if: you work for a corporation you work in a small, niche field finding a new job is difficult If she is a subordinate, DO NOT try anything. That being said, i think the BEST relationships are built when you build them at a common, long term area like college/in… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 12 | Dating seem waste of timeYou NEED to build a social life. Do not get caught in the "focus on career" nonsense, that is pure COPE. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 60 | [deleted by user]Location matters. Move. Was in a rut in the burbs that I lived in. Went on a 8 day trip to cali, never have I ever vibed with so many women in such a short amount of time | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 43 | [deleted by user]I think its always best to frame it as "hey im going to do 'x' on 'y' day if you want to join" If you ask when SHE'S good to hang out, you are saying you are waiting around for her. Things you did wrong in your text: Length You said you liked her. You barely know her dude. Admitted you feel you are socially inept Told her that she made your night. You are saying she is valuable, ypu need to make yourself tbe prize Apologized for feeling awkward Admitted to being nervous (not confident or in cont… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 63 | [deleted by user]Dude your message is full cringe and foesnt sound confident at all | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 7 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.I get what youre saying, but whats the point of bitching about it? You cant change or stop it | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Is Dr. Nerdlove a legit source for advice?Take everything with a grain of salt | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Best thing with work is to: wait til one of you quits increase her interest until SHE askes you out, or askes to come along if you mention something in passing | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Everything is closed and it's cold. Where tf do I meet women?Ski/snowboarding Trails Parks | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Secrets To Cold Approaching Women Anywhere!You sound bitter | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 74 | [deleted by user]Bro, stay away from coworkers unless: THEY (female) initiates, KEEP DOCUMENTATION OF THIS one of you is leaving the job There is no difference in rank It can go south quick. It is best to have a discussion of expectations once things escalate. Edit: im in this scenario right now. It went south, now i have to see them 2x/ week. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to win back respect, or is respect gone once lostThink to your own life. Has anyone ever won back your respect? Also, why does it matter to you? If you are after someone that doesnt respect you, you dont respect yourself | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | What does it mean when a girl takes such long time to reply?In my experience, its a test to see if you reply quicker/have a life/ some women are that busy. Dont over think it, its a game. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How can one create conversation during a pandemic where nothing is happening?I had success with just digging into peoples heads why they like "x" music. Theres all kinds of emotions you can pull up through discussing music | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting friendzonedI dont see the negative here. She is asking to hook you up with her friend.... | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I keep pu$$ying outAsk yourself what you are afraid of | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to seduce someone who's already "moved on"Nope. Out of your control. Move on. There could be things going on in her head tgat you cant control. Focus on making your life better. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | the massive undertaking of getting a girl to take interest in you after she friendzones you. Work on yourself insteadFriendzoned myself w/ coworker because I couldnt see past the "coworker" issue, she showed interest again and I bit, only for her to go cold again. I needed to see this | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 06:32 PM |
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