| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Should I meet him personally even if I am not his type but finds me attractive?You're so young and naive that this guy can neg and manipulate you this way lol. As a matter of fact, the fact that you sent this question to different sub shows that you're planning to meet him despite the fact that many already said it's a bad idea or you just want us to egg on him because he can hit your self esteem that way. Perhaps you're projecting so much of yourself to this guy because he said you're not his type. HE IS DISRESPECTING YOU AND YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM? Please be for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/25 12:11 AM |
| 14 | I struggle to forgive my boyfriend because of the jokes he made about meRed pill or not, he's just an asshole, plain and simple. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Will you pursue a relationship with a man who has a lot of female friends or has a close female friend?Thank you for this. Online relationships always baffled me. It's not for me but some people can survive it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 01:51 AM |
| 30 | Being in shape is truly the keyI highly agree. Staying in shape shows discipline. That's why I will keep myself in shape if I get married and have kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do men care if older single women are lonely?u/BurbnBougie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 10:20 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?u/BurbnBougie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 7 | How to RPW a controlling boyfriendYou're young and you're stressing yourself out over this guy? This is a textbook controlling boyfriend and I don't know why you're putting your 100% to this relationship when it's obvious that this guy found someone he can boss around and control. You're young, vet all guys that come to your life. This is not the only man in the world. Regardless of whether you're red pilled or not, this is a sign of abuse and you should not volunteer to be his victim just because he's a "traditional" man (in yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/24 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Is anybody here a survivor of Schrödinger’s PatriarchyYou literally described my father and he's the blueprint of men I heavily avoid in life. The only positive thing he provided was showing me how I would never make the same mistake as my mother did for choosing him as a husband and a father to her children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/23 08:56 PM |
| – | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.I agree with everything you said here. We have not raised our men to be truly vulnerable, crippling them emotionally. This is exactly true. Society will punish men for showing emotion so it's all bottled up and they explode in the most violent and volatile way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:01 AM |
| 36 | Uhm I commented and got banned from 3 SUBS?!I told a woman that her husband was an incel and got banned lol go figure | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/23 01:19 AM |
| 43 | Is it a red flag if he follows a lot of Instagram models?Every woman has a different reaction to this situation. For me, I don't see a HVM on a guy who has a lot of sexual stimulation (porn addiction, IG model following, etc.). I see it as a disrespect to himself, not just for other women. It seems like the majority of men do that but there are rare unicorns who don't engage in those. There are times where a man will make a throwaway account just for his personal IG following to look clean. Those kind of lengths a man go through to hide his porn addic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/23 07:23 AM |
| 31 | Liberal women have an easier time datingYou're looking at it the wrong way. Think of quality over quantity. Do you think those people will marry each other up? No, they're just dating. Waiting for marriage is not a turn off, again, you're talking with the wrong people if their response is like that. You just have to find a guy that aligns with your values and beliefs. You can meet various men that has the same hobbies as you in some circles, conventions, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/23 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Things men have complimented me onI agree wholeheartedly to this. Men's compliments doesn't have any value no matter what they say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 16 | RPW stance on the "casual" stage?I stopped reading when I saw the age gap. Honey, if he's still not serious with anyone at that age, there's no point in staying with him. You can try to "understand" why he's like that but I'm telling you, you're wasting your time and you're subjecting yourself to a stress someone young like you shouldn't have | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/23 08:49 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?This. Most men here centralize having a relationship with sex and not just knowing the woman better. Then whine and complain their dicks ain't getting wet. Goodness. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:11 AM |
| 24 | Women have it way harder then men in almost everything.I'd rather have my mom's last name than my NVM father. Seriously, he's just a sperm donor and I felt like he's an immortalized infant. Fuck. That's why I'm not having children. You'll never be sure when will the mask slip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:08 PM |
| 45 | NVM Single DadsSingle dads and divorced men are an instant no for me. I just pity the children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 12:58 AM |
| 37 | Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer.My HVM boyfriend, back when we were on our courting stage, treated me on a fine dining restaurant on our first date. We were hanging out for the whole day then when night time came, he suggested steak and wine for dinner. I was so shocked because out of all the NVM/LVM I dated, it's the first time I experienced something like that. Until now, I'm still vetting him but all is green here. I guess it helped that we came from different cultures, that's why he's very different from the other cheap gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:04 PM |
| 108 | Men have such rancid energySame sis. Thankfully I work from home now. But still, on Zoom meetings, you'll get the typical "jokes" of strip on cam or show some skin. Even some pickmeishas on our department are laughing at it. I'm just waiting for our project to finish and I'm out of that place. You can't even report them to HR because most of them are bosses and I know for a fact that the HR protects the company, not the employees 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 07:16 AM |
| 26 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Not to mention him flexing his salary like what's the point? Assholes have money too. Never expect anyone with a high salary to be a HVM just because of his income. Look at this nitwit justifying his stupidity. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 26 | If you still live your life around the mindset "But what would my future HVM think about this?" - you are still stuck in that Pickme mode.I definitely agree to this. Just focus on yourself first. It will ward off NVM/LVM and attract HVM without even trying hard. HVM recognises HVW. Thank you for this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:19 AM |
| 25 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.After all the shitty scrotes I've been with, my HVBF treats me so great that sometimes I wonder why he's like that. I never have to beg him to be nice to be because he is naturally kind. Gone all the shitty pick me attitudes I had before. He reminds me everyday that he loves me and cares for my wellbeing overall. I am beyond ecstatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 04:54 AM |
| 20 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?This sounds like my deadbeat father. My mother did everything to keep our house together. Now as the eldest, I keep the house together while my mom's at work and my deadbeat dad is out on the streets like he's a teenager. It's a scam, ladies. Don't fall for these irresponsible scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:19 AM |
| 12 | Yes, you are. 💋Just happy that Grace doesn't have children with this manchild. Hope she leaves him and be with someone who will love her for who she is. Even if comments pointed out he's an asshole, bet that he wouldn't change his view on her. Poor gal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 03:13 AM |
| 3 | If you’re emotionally recovering from dumping a LVM, avoid listening to sad love songsI actually include music preference on my vetting process. I experienced that their character is somewhat determined by their playlist. If a guy listens to sad sappy love songs, it's most likely that he's well known to play the victim during an argument. If he listens to hiphop or so, he's still on a party phase. Again, these are my experiences, results may vary. I resonate most with men who listens to rock/metal, idk why but I vet properly when I know their preferred songs/bands. My HVBF listen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:42 AM |
| 6 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveThis is why I stay away from men with social media. Just no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 05:01 AM |
| 25 | Women leaving the dating appsI met a guy on a dating app that lied about his age, saying he's 38 when he's really 46. He's in some sort of "real estate" yet his business never thrived because he's just waiting for the right person to buy the properties he's selling lol. Another red flag was him talking shit about his ex girlfriends haha he's a textbook narcissist so I left before anything could happen. It's true that scrotes have us living in their minds rent free when we leave them before the abuse starts. He doesn't stop … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:25 AM |
| 114 | I am just so... disappointedMy boyfriend for 7 years was like this and I broke up with him. He wanted me for sex and would compare me to women he saw on porn. It's devastating because I genuinely loved him but his porn addiction was the end of us. Currently now, all men I've met are porn addicted and proud of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 33 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersMy father is a narcissist NVM. He's a lazy deadbeat and would always comment negatively on my mom's weight to the point that she photoshopped her face on top of sexy actresses that my dad liked (she did this when I was a kid) and she was so proud of it but at the same time, she projected her insecurities at me. Meanwhile, my NVM father never practiced basic hygiene, have bad teeth, never worked in his life, an overweight smelly bum consuming stupid videos on YouTube, never developed a hobby, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 02:09 PM |
| 15 | Be careful of this new generation of “SAHD”, who won’t do any chores, won’t take care of the kids, doesn’t contribute to earning money but will lie and cheatThis scrote is like my father that my mom never left because of religious and cultural reasons. He's the sole reason why our family never thrived no matter how hard my mom worked. He's a NVM and I learned to never be attracted to a manchild wanting me to be his second mother/caretake for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:58 AM |
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