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No one cares about your misogynistic outdated rhetoric that yall like use to scare women into settling for men like you. We can all see with our eyes that the wall doesn’t matter and there are successful beautiful women dating well into their 30s and 40s. Also women are increasingly becoming okay with not being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:57 PM
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status co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:44 PM
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Yes? Why would you think it’s right? You just made this up..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:25 PM
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Or maybe a better idea is to delete this silly post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:57 PM
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I would say the only time you should refrain from cold approaching is the gym and work. Everywhere else is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:26 PM
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It depends on the woman tbh. There are plenty of women wondering why men aren’t approaching them anymore. At the same time, there’s a time and a place. You just have to understand social cues and be able to read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:52 PM
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True. When men cold approach me I always admire their confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:27 PM
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Beautiful straw man you’ve got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:21 PM
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It’s controversial (and wrong) because yes, women are only attracted to a fraction of the population but not all women are attracted to the same fraction of men, and that’s what a lot of you imply when saying that. And then a lot of you tie it together with a big misogynist bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:35 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:06 AM
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Why weren’t you into her anymore if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:35 PM
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But I hear all the time about men approaching women they don’t see as relationship material mostly because they aren’t satisfied with their attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:11 PM
1

Really? Most guys I talk to have an extremely high body count so that’s interesting to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:42 PM
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Sure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:54 PM
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That makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:53 PM
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I think there are certain go to lines some men say. Not an actual script but just repeating certain compliments to women, suggesting the same kind of dates, doing the same nice gestures, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:47 PM
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Awww lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:46 PM
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Everybody else seems to understand the question. You’re the outlier here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:36 PM
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I have. I just wanted to know if men say relationship type things to women they actually aren’t seriously interested in. Maybe I was too wordy with my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:32 PM
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I don’t think you understood the question, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:30 PM
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I don’t know why anyone would want to date someone that isn’t interested in being sexually intimate, that wasn’t my question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 PM
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Do you tell her things that makes her think you would want something serious if you know you actually don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:12 PM
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Fair enough. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:11 PM
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How scary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:10 PM
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That’s true, we can realize scripts. I guess what I’m asking is, do you speak to a hook up as if you’re wanting something long term with them? Or is there a distinction in how you approach a hookup vs a serious potential partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:49 PM
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Well you don’t necessarily have to make a persona but are you telling a woman who you just want to hook up things that they would want to hear from a man that is interested in long term commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:48 PM
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How are the women delusional if many average men swoon over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:45 PM
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Because we like having sex, as most humans do. Also, sex can and usually does include clitoral stimulation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:50 PM
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That still doesn’t mean they’re “used”. Women can be jaded and carry emotional baggage at any stage of life for many different reasons, not just because of failed relationships/getting older. Women are nuanced, too. It’s apart of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:40 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ we’re still referring to older women as “used”? Women are human beings not perishable objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:49 AM
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Ew. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:54 AM
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What would you have in common as an old man with an 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:42 PM
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So true. I also have a divorced aunt in her late 40s who kept her super hot body. Men drool over her everywhere she goes! She’s been proposed to at least twice now lol. She’s dating this guy right now who buys her any and everything, I hope I age like she does 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:34 PM
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I’m 27 and get more attention now than ever. And no, not just sexual attention. Dating dynamics are also changing. Many women are holding off on dating in their early 20s now so they can establish education/career/stability
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:25 PM
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Nah she’s right. As a participator in the current dating market a lot of men think you chronically online rp zombies are psychos and they pity you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:13 PM
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What woke shit are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:10 PM
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I’ve slept with guys on the first date if the chemistry was strong. I want nothing to do with men I don’t find attractive so I wouldn’t waste any time with them. If I initially found him attractive and then became unattracted after our first date, he would not hear from me again. I stopped ghosting, I would just say something along the lines of “we aren’t compatible”. I’ve held out on sex before only because I kept hearing it’s what “you’re supposed to do” if you want a guy to take you seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:41 PM
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Not true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:37 PM
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I think when men say they don’t care about them, they mean they don’t factor education/career into whether they want to be with that woman or not, whereas woman typically do factor in those things. I’m sure some men would be interested in your educational background or career, it just wouldn’t impact if they want a relationship with you or not (depending on the career and man ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:09 PM
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They don’t want to disrupt their world view so they create scenarios that are completely divorced from reality to make them feel more comfortable about their unrealistic beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:01 AM
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..sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:35 AM
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They only believe their dating struggles come from women’s “overinflated” expectations, they will never look in the mirror and reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:35 AM
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Right out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:25 AM
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If a woman can successfully date men out of her league then it doesn’t seem like they are out of her league after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:25 AM
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You do not know on average how virgin women operate within the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:23 AM
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It would be more rational to draw conclusions about issues based on the information given not create one up with no basis. And not really, I wasn’t even accusatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:50 AM
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No that’s not the case. Wonder why you just came up with an entire thesis on someone you do not know at all lol seems like a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 AM
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I have a close friend that’s a virgin for personal reasons and she has such a hard time dating because of it. Men don’t want to wait or deal with being her first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:35 AM
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I don’t know why some men in this sub are hell bent into believing most women share the same 1% or whatever of men. It literally takes stepping outside for two minutes to see this isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:22 PM
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I will never understand where you guys got the idea that most ugly fat women can pull hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:01 PM
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You must not have seen the comments if you’re really asking this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:55 PM
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Uh.. no. I just don’t live under a rock. It’s common sense that people have different things/kinks they enjoy in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:43 PM
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That’s like asking for a source when someone says people prefer different flavors of juice. Go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:39 PM
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Sure buddy. Let’s just say there’s a particular type of guy who complains about these things and they aren’t the attractive ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:35 PM
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I see now, you’re good! But idk man.. if a woman is frustrated with a man because he can’t do chores you really can’t understand how that would translate into the bedroom? A man who can’t pick up after himself or expects the woman to do everything around the house is understandably annoying and it feels like a mother son relationship, which isn’t sexy. I don’t think that’s women weaponizing sex and making men jump through hoops. I think if a woman is telling her man that picking up some chores w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:52 PM
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And where are you getting this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:30 PM
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When courting a woman is there really a pattern where she won’t have sex unless you do her dishes or clean her house more? That seems more in reference to an already established relationship where the two cohabitate. And I personally don’t think chores (something every adult should be doing anyway) or dates is as difficult as jumping through “flaming hoops” implies lol Personally I believe if a woman is making you wait 6+ months to have sex then she is not that interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:26 PM
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The only ones complaining the most about women having sex with attractive men are guys like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:26 PM
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What “flaming hoops” do men need to jump through to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:22 PM
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What a simple minded view. People have different sexual preferences that go beyond attractiveness. It doesn’t even make much sense to wait until marriage to have sex with someone you’re not that attracted to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:19 PM
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Plenty of stable, secure women have sex with men solely because they want to hook up.. as do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:13 PM
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Yup I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:43 PM
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Every conservative “alpha” I’ve met has been a condescending smooth brain and they honestly don’t appeal to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:08 AM
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Exactly! But we’re woman we have no idea what we want!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:29 PM
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Could you provide one study with the numbers you pulled out of your ass please?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:09 PM
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Women in general do not think it’s fashionable to be with a man that every woman has had. Although, being with a man who is highly desired is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:05 PM
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Is it not possible to see sex in a different way depending on the circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:02 PM
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They simply just want to shame women for doing what they want with their bodies. I think it’s jealousy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:59 PM
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I actually didn’t finish the question. I was specifically talking about the topic at hand. The … would have led to why would any woman willingly choose that option given he’s an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:25 PM
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Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:02 PM
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Did you read the description of the person? He is no where near Chris Brown status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:01 PM
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Is that even biblical? I don’t remember reading anything but anal as a sin in the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:56 AM
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LMFAO like… why would any woman willingly..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:53 AM
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I need to be physically attracted so I would say 8. I’m 5’9 so I wouldn’t date anyone below 5’8. I’m very into fitness so I would like my partner to be the same. I take really good care of my body so I would prefer my partner to look as fit as me but I’m not as picky about that, as long as we can workout together. And this is so superficial but you have to be able to dress at least a little bit lol. But what I find attractive some of my friends don’t! And what they find attractive I don’t find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:47 PM
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Hope you heal soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:52 PM
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Exactly this! Looks matter but Jesus that isn’t the only thing that determines commitment. You have to be so simple minded to even truly believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:37 PM
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Rightttt because this is only dependent on looks and absolutely nothing else. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:06 PM
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Sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:18 AM
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I’ve heard this too!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:44 AM
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I think it’s banter with lots of smiling and undivided attention. Idk if it’s just me, but you can often even tell by how their eyes are looking at you. Of course flirting has a plausible deniability factor tied in, to allow one to save face if need be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:59 PM
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It still doesn’t make it objective because there are people who find perfect symmetry uncanny and prefer asymmetry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:21 AM
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I would sure hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:39 PM
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I’m sure there will be someone out there that would find them attractive but it’s a reach to say an ugly fat women would be racking in a ton of likes… unattractive women struggle with dating too. It’s a myth that it’s only a real problem for men. Funny how now all of a sudden men aren’t visual creatures and don’t like natural women when it comes to unattractive women’s struggles with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:49 PM
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It’s not, though. Disabilities, genetics, personality, etc. also play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:24 PM
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I think you’re missing the very large elephant in the room which is that most societies are dominated/controlled by men and they make sure these societies function primarily for the benefit of men. So of course they aren’t going to stigmatize their own desires. Many men, however (especially historically) believe women exist for them, so they do not think they should have the same sexual autonomy as they do. You simplified something that has much more nuance to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:22 PM
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Well duh they could lose weight, what I’m saying is that it’s not true that any woman regardless of her looks are going to have a ton of likes, especially from Chads if she’s fat or very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:19 PM
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This is so false. Men are visual creatures and there are countless women struggling to get matches because they are overweight or very unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:43 PM
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Interesting. I personally see that there are still strong stigmas associated with women’s sexuality, and I think women would be more open to being sexual if they weren’t so stigmatized for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:40 PM
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No one gives a fuck about passport bros.. just don’t be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:30 AM
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In what situation would a conventionally attractive man be in where there are no average to attractive women around but he’s surrounded by ugly women… ? And 9 times out of 10 that man is still not desperate enough to say fuck it and hook up with the ugly woman.. he likely has options readily available in his phone that he is actually attracted to if he wants to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:12 PM
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That phrase doesn’t even apply here. An example of what I mean is like if men practice the action of only pursuing women who are in shape…then thats fine. But if a man does that action and pair it with the words “ I hate land whales I tell them to fuck off whenever they come near me”, then that’s different and you’ll likely look like an asshole vs just partaking in the action of pursuing your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:01 PM
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Maybe, but by like a point. I don’t see conventionally attractive men having sex with ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:57 PM
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Right I’m talking about the men who do have that option. Many men here seem to think chads like to fuck ugly women and that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:56 PM
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Attractive men aren’t fucking ugly fat women when there are women who are 5s and up throwing themselves at him. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:55 PM
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It’s less about the action and more about the way they describe women/the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:14 PM
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No im talking about sex. The post I made… is about sex… my statement stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:02 PM
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Wow. You seem like such a great guy, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:01 PM
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I don’t see any super overweight ugly women pulling conventionally attractive men. Idk where you guys get this from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:02 PM
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Are you unable to entice and fuck a woman you’re attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:34 PM
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Why would they care? The forum is mostly anonymous..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:33 PM
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I think similarity to women, men won’t lower their standards to a certain threshold that would allow them to easily access sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:32 PM
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Thanks for giving me a well thought-out answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:30 PM
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Isn’t a 6 considered above average? Men aren’t attracted to 6’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:26 PM
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I guess if that’s what you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:23 PM
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I mean I think that’s just the average person right? I can’t think of many men or women in my life that are undateable and unfuckable..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:22 PM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:21 PM
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So basically uglier women are easier to have sex with than conventionally attractive women..? But that would also depend on how attractive the guy is no? I feel like it wouldn’t be much harder for an 7-8 guy to have sex with an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:20 PM
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Cook!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:13 PM
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Yeah.. but it’s likely that woman have conflicting opinions simply because we’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:09 PM
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They might be picky, I agree. That wasnt the point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:07 PM
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Both exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:06 PM
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So you just want sex so badly that you will just have sex with whatever woman you can find even if she’s unattractive? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:06 PM
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Ewww that’s so gross to me lol I can’t imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:05 PM
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I think we all know this, my question was how often and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:03 PM
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A quick scholarship search finds meta-analysis that suggests this is far from the truth. Look up “How Large Are Gender Differences in Toy Preferences? A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis of Toy Preference Research.” Here is the abstract: It is generally recognized that there are gender-related differences in children’s toy preferences. However, the magnitude of these differences has not been firmly established. Furthermore, not all studies of gender-related toy preferences find significant gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:02 PM
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How do you know.. these women literally say they feel invisible. You think they are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:54 PM
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Have you ever considered that the reason you hear opposing narratives is because women aren’t a monolith and have differing opinions maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:53 PM
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What does this have to do with what I’m asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:51 PM
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That’s a completely different concept then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:50 PM
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Attraction is subjective. It is yours to define.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:48 PM
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Ok I guess that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:47 PM
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Men and women are more alike than they are different. Most of our differences are due to nurture not nature. But I agree men are generally hornier, but they are still socialized to do the approaching and women are socialized to not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:46 PM
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Hmm I don’t know if statistics on dating/initiation is a good indicator that most men find most women attractive since men are socialized to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:25 PM
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But.. if they can’t pull a woman they find attractive to fuck.. how will they find an even more attractive woman to date? I never understood that rhetoric. Unless they just like to fuck ugly women, which I don’t understand that either if you could fuck an attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:23 PM
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But they don’t think most women are attractive enough to date/take seriously, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:01 PM
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Wow.. I am so intrigued. What makes you believe most men think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:54 PM
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I’ve seen so many (unfornately unattractive) women and femcels talk about how they also feel invisible to society and struggle with dating and sex though? They also talk about how society is especially mean to them because as women they are expected to be valued for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:49 PM
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It seems like a lot of men in this sub believe even “land-whales” have no problem getting laid, especially with a “chad”. I haven’t seen it in reality yet so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:47 PM
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Really? You think most men think women on average are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:46 PM
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How sad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:40 PM
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What are you even talking about? Stay on topic. You sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:18 AM
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A lot of women (especially on the apps) are wanting casual sex so how exactly are they the suckers for hooking up with “top hot guys”? I would argue the bigger suckers are men having to hook up with women they aren’t even attracted to..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:09 AM
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Men say all the time how they just swipe right on almost everyone and then pick who they deem attractive enough to actually message. Women actually swipe right on the guys they initially want to talk to, so that stat may be misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:27 PM
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I would never embarrass/humiliate someone who respectfully approached me. I understand how much courage it takes to approach someone in the first place, and I usually just say I have a boyfriend to try to preserve their ego as much as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:09 PM
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Exactly. Like usually these women want millionaires, athletes, etc. Idk why these average men are even talking about those type of women like they would even be in the same rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:52 PM
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I’m almost certain you will neverrrrrrr have to worry about a materialistic woman wanting you. Find someone with similar values as yourself, it would probably be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:51 PM
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True. That’s something I practice myself. But people can also be offended by someone who wasn’t even trying to offend them, and that doesn’t make it any less real is what I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:45 PM
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Not true because there are specific qualifications for things to be racist. Something being offensive falls more on the side of being an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:43 PM
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You can’t determine whether someone is offensive or not, though. It depends on the person feeling the emotion. People can get offended for a variety of reasons and there will always be someone who doesn’t think it’s offensive. It’s about intention vs impact. Another example is the feeling of being annoyed. Someone fidgeting might make someone annoyed, even though others may not find the action annoying, or the person who is fidgeting may not have intended to be annoying, but it still impacted th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:40 PM
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That makes no sense. If someone was offended then that person did something offensive to them. That doesn’t mean that person intended to be offensive, but the impact is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:41 AM
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Yeah that only works if the old man is loaded. No prime woman is going to go for an old, out of shape man (who is also likely insufferable) because now he jumped to 80k from 50k as he got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:56 PM
1

Okay so guys want it to be easy but not too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:07 PM
1

Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:58 PM
1

So men don’t like a chase? Interesting. I wonder why people say that so much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:41 PM
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I really want to know this from a guys perspective because I always hear conflicting theories on if they like a girl to play hard to get or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:30 PM
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Lol they always reveal themselves if they talk long enough. Then wonder why women won’t touch them with a 10 ft pole
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:25 PM
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Women also use makeup as a way of expression and/or feeling good about themselves so it’s silly to generalize the use of makeup as sexual objectification. Such an overstatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:20 PM
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Makeup is not exclusively for the male gaze. Believe it or not women do not do everything with men in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:58 PM
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You don’t think it’s possible that makeup can be worn for personal reasons? And some do wear it to appear more attractive but I think it’s a reach to equate that to sexually objectifying themselves? A bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:31 PM
6

Are you saying women who wear makeup treat themselves like sex objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:11 PM
2

It’s actually very hard to be tried for rape. And if the woman wasn’t able to get a rape kit? Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:59 PM
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holy shit LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:39 PM
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No believe it or not everyone has not done it. Most people are overweight (in the US) so that should tell you it’s not a priority for everyone. Of course you’re still going to get rejected, you’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea.. you should still strive to be the best version of yourself for you and for who you’re pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:28 PM
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Something this simple really has to be spelled out for you like this? It really isn’t as hard as you make it seem. Read books, prioritize your health, learn basic social skills.. if that’s too complicated idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:53 PM
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Red pill is only big online. If you took most of RP rhetoric into the real world people would think you’re a weirdo and that’s probably why you have trouble dating. And there are still more people getting married than not, and they aren’t making six figures..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:16 PM
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Women can do what they want now and you are seething so hard lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:05 PM
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A lot of men (not all) are undesirable because their only strategy is to make money. They still won’t realize that won’t cut it anymore. Invest in your looks, work on your personality, have style, be a good person, learn how to talk to women. What else are we going to do? Force women to desire men? The responsibility is yours not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:03 PM
27

Most men aren’t even touching 80k and are pairing off so idk what reality you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:23 AM
19

Natural selection will take course 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:20 PM
7

A lot of these red pilled guys are involuntarily celibate so that’s why it’s so easy for them to believe that egregious claim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:34 PM
1

What? Do you think women are delusional? Many of us are not going to call a man our boyfriend unless he asks/have that conversation… women don’t want their time wasted and would really benefit from your honesty. A lot of guys just know that if they were honest about their intentions women may not stick around so they are vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:32 PM
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It’s crazy because it’s literally just communication. Idk why something so simple is so hard for people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:30 PM
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Lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:28 PM
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First off women can’t help that. And what kind of power can we utilize from men’s thirstiness? It seems to be more of a disservice if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:12 PM
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You’re so out of touch. In reality, many rape accusations get swept under the rug and often times it’s hard to prove and the woman gets victim blamed. But anyone can make allegations about someone that can defame them, that’s not exclusive to women. How is me too, a movement to bring awareness to the many women assaulted and silenced and example of soft power?? Men literally dominate the media and almost every other aspect of society and now you’re mad that women are wanting to be included and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:10 PM
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What does soft power entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:17 PM
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Telling you is different from them having “marks” left on them. Not all sex positive women have mental health issues and it’s kinda sad that’s a point I even have to make. It’s pretty clear you have no real way of knowing (duh, it’s a made up concept) and you just go by whatever random assumptions you come up with in your head. Also… prey on them? What is this, National Geographic? You sound like a creep and based off our interaction I don’t believe women talk to you much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:03 PM
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People can have behavior and mental health problems for various reasons.. virgins and sex positive people alike. How can you tell it’s due to a high body count specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:22 PM
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How can you tell and what marks are left?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:42 PM
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Wow someone with sense in the comment section??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:39 PM
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Is this a joke? There’s no way you confidently believe this to be a credible source lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:14 PM
1

Nice post captain obvious!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:31 PM
0

Most of us can choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:12 PM
1

I think many factors play a role! Increased isolation, changes in gender norms (more women becoming career focused), or some women just aren’t satisfied with the current pool of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:11 PM
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Okay good to know? Feel like we’re straying away from the main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:59 AM
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Actually, no. I know the difference between “femcels” and women who can date. I am clearly saying average women and attractive women who normally have no problems getting men have been opting out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:46 AM
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I’m referring to women who are opting out of dates all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:28 AM
2

How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:20 AM
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Tbh a lot of women especially attractive ones don’t need the dating apps to garner attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:06 AM
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Women do not love the dating world right now, which is why more women are choosing to stay single now more than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:05 AM
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So it seems like that 10% concept you red pillers recite as scripture isn’t so true after all, welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:56 PM
2

I’m not coping.. I’m one who is part of your number 3 crowd, but me and my FWB go on dates all the time! We like to have fun, try new restaurants, we take turn footing the bill, we buy each other things for our birthdays, and we have good sex. It honestly just depends person to person. I don’t feel used or discarded. And if he or I decided that they want more and the other disagrees, I still wouldn’t feel “used” or “discarded” because we agreed to be FWB, that wouldn’t make sense. We just develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:31 PM
2

Because in FWB they are both having consistent sex with each other. Some type of relationship is established. A pump and dump is using someone and then discarding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:17 PM
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Yeah you’re too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:06 PM
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No… you misunderstood. I’m not saying people who are normal get in relationships and people who aren’t normal don’t.. I’m confused as to how a lot of you guys don’t go outside and see average joes and plain janes of all ages in relationships with one another. I see average and unattractive men who are married, in relationships, with their kids, every time I step outside so this “Chad” phenomenon seems purely online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:39 PM
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Huh? I’m sure in some way it does… economical factors aren’t exclusively dependent on men though..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:36 PM
1

I don’t agree. Pump and dump is literally that: pump then dump. A situationship where there is casual sex and then one person wants more which ruins the FWB is not a “pump and dump”…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:28 PM
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Uh… I mean yea that’s just what’s needed from every citizen. I’m sure the commenter was inferring not needing men in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:02 PM
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Where do you guys live where you don’t see normal people in relationships? This “chad” shit is getting annoying and it’s so divorced from reality that it’s laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:00 PM
0

For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:57 PM
5

How would you even enforce that? That sounds awful. Not everyone wants to get married..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:55 PM
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I doubt you would too, which is why it would be silly to make generalizations about groups of people when you have little to no evidence. Just shows you believe be it to be true because you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:13 PM
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None. And reliable evidence /= multipart essay, but you knew that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:04 PM
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The problem is your one experience you mentioned isn’t sufficient evidence to claim that it’s “lots” of women. So you may as well just kept it to yourself, you added nothing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:15 PM
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Why even respond to my comment with such an irrelevant story? It didn’t answer any of the questions I asked. Thanks for the anecdote I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:59 PM
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Are you serious? I see it in the comments every day on this sub. Literally go scroll. If you really think it doesn’t exist at all on this sub then you’re too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:58 PM
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Well I hope you have a good laugh.. because I’m not explaining an idea to you. But I understand you reducing it to that and not wanting to believe it to support your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:44 PM
1

This sub specifically, which has a large presence of red pilled misogynists but keep pretending to be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:31 PM
1

Men on this very sub have been very vocal regarding women and policing their body count but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:27 PM
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I immediately knew from the first point. They may as well just said “i don’t think the following feelings often expressed by women are valid:” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:04 PM
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Exactly lol like what can be done about it? They feel the way they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:03 PM
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Genuine question… how many women do you think do this? And how would you know that the same women that have a “cave-like” mentality for Chad are also the same ones who have many expectations for the average man? So much so that you make this generalization and imply it’s a problem within modern dating? It happens that much? How do you track this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:34 AM
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This is such a stupid take. Your worth isn’t defined by how attractive you are, that’s honestly sad that you think that. And so what if a 4 thinks they’re a 9? Unattractive people can have high self esteem and like how they look, regardless if you agree or not. Also.. what is a “4” wanting a “9” do for you specifically? That’s really what you would want to change? It literally doesn’t affect you… sorry but you sound miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:34 AM
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I think women would be if men/society didn’t shame women so much regarding sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:28 AM
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You have to take into account serial divorcers. Skews the results
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:03 PM
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Most tv programs reinforce those things goofy. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:28 PM
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Men that think resources are the only thing needed from them to get relationships, men that do not value emotional maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:25 PM
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True, but I think the post is talking about initial attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:06 PM
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You’re crazy if you don’t think women are interested in men they find physically attractive initially..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:27 PM
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Nice answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:46 PM
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What the actual fuck. This is the stupidest post I’ve ever seen, and not to mention offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:30 PM
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Black and brown women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:27 PM
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Actually it does happen. I’ve seen it many times. Looks don’t mean everything to everyone believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:18 PM
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I’m truly just shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:06 PM
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But the body count is still high so that’s a lot of “high quality women” that can say they’ve had a piece too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:45 PM
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Where did I say body count doesn’t matter? And some women may feel the need to lie about it because they know it may matter to the man they’re pursuing (them asking for the count usually gives it away) or they themselves might care/be ashamed since women are shamed for being openly sexual. But like I said, anyone can say a random number of bodies and you would never be able to actually verify
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:44 PM
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Women tell you exactly how women think/act yet we’re the ones in denial 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:39 PM
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Yes, because as previously stated some women don’t want a man that every woman can say she’s had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:36 PM
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But most of us are average… the average person isn’t wealthy or super attractive, so having a good personality actually plays a large role for the average woman in this day and age..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:35 PM
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I am so dead at this response! This is golden 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:32 PM
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Upset? Women can easily sleep around and just say they have a low body count. There would be no way of knowing, it’s all made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:30 PM
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So a guy can only be confident in himself if he sleeps with a lot of women? That’s what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:00 PM
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How? It’s not like whenever a man approaches us we get a breakdown of their experiences with women..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:59 PM
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Agree. Something off putting about a man any woman can have or has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:51 PM
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This is actually very true. Women love funny and witty men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:49 PM
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I think a lot of women don’t like the double standard of it. Like some men have high body counts but won’t date a woman with a high body count. But if you’re a man who is saving yourself for the right one or has a low body count, it’s not irrational to prefer your partner to have those same values/qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:48 PM
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You can have experience talking with women without sleeping with all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:46 PM
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That makes sense. But you don’t need a high body count to do that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:45 PM
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But… you haven’t lived your whole life yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:30 PM
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There’s a difference between having some experience with women, and having a crazy high body count. I’m asking what do men think women find appealing or valuable about a man having a super high body count? And how is that woman even supposed to know unless you directly tell her “btw I’ve slept with 200 women before you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:25 PM
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2-3 women in a LIFETIME?? That can’t be the average man’s experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:21 PM
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“Slightly different personalities” lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:11 PM
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I say it to guys I have no interest in all the time lol yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:07 PM
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Agree. A man having hundreds of bodies is actually off putting to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:04 PM
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From various topics on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:01 PM
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This seems like men only value high body counts because it impresses other men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:59 PM
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Sounds like a cartoon plot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:54 PM
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No actually I don’t. I do have some Christian friends so they obviously think that way, but I also have very attractive and outgoing friends as well. But even scrolling through social media like Twitter, women often voice how they don’t like men who have been with everyone. The posts typically go viral with hundreds of thousands of women agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:47 PM
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I’m going to be honest… we say that to almost anyone.. just playful banter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:45 PM
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Thanks for the explanation.. I have noticed that body count seems to be more of a meaningful topic to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:44 PM
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What?!? I had no idea about this. That completely changed my perspective of this sub lol. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:43 PM
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Okay I see what you mean. It seems like it’s not the fact that you have a lot of bodies, but the fact that you have a lot of experience with women which allows you to move confidently and have more self assurance.. but I don’t think you need to sleep with a lot of women to develop these traits..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:41 PM
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So you think if a man is attractive we can assume he has a really high body count? It’s interesting women sees it as a slight positive in your case, a lot of women I talk to view a high body count for men similarly to the way men typically view it for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:38 PM
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I see what you mean. Having a high body count can translate to confidence, but you don’t need a high body count to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:36 PM
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But I always hear men say that woman like men with high body counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:35 PM
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But as a woman, how am I supposed to know you are often pre selected or not? You’re a stranger to me..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:34 PM
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This is what I have always thought.. but some of the comments I’ve seen in this sub made me think maybe I live in a different reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:34 PM
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Why does whenever women speak about their dating troubles it gets dismissed? Why can’t we just be believed? We aren’t all lying or delusional or unrealistic or whatever other dismissive explanation men like to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:28 PM
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So true. There’s so much nuance that people fail to see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:27 PM
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lol I just know you were grinding your teeth as you were writing this! Even if what you say is true, so what? Theres all kind of delusional people and inflated egos of all ages. Who cares? Let women enjoy themselves at whatever age they are. Mind your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:28 AM
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Translation: just trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:30 PM
2

wtf is wrong with you..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:53 PM
4

Dismissive about what? What are you on about? You don’t have a clear point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:33 PM
8

Okay, men are hornier… now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:13 PM
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It’s so weird how the red pillers assume no man will ever say no to sex. Not every man is desperate enough to sleep with any woman who’s interested. Do they not realize how bad that rhetoric makes them look? Ridiculous take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:05 PM
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Do you know what being used means? It means that a woman is only seeking sexual pleasure from the man. She wants nothing else but to get pleasure from the man’s body. It has nothing to do with all the other things you’re yapping about. Also… many women agree that we do not like a man who has a ton of sexual partners, we like a man who is sexually desired. A man who every woman has had a piece of shows a lack of self control on the man’s part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:04 PM
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Usually when they’re chronically online they’re also easily triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:47 PM
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?? What does my interaction with a sub have anything to do with being able to separate online topics from reality? Go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:55 PM
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No I wouldn’t. It’s a chronically online take, I’ve seen it many times. I just know how to separate it from reality, you should try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:29 PM
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A lot of people actually don’t encourage women to start onlyfans at 18, if at all.. especially if they also hold the opinion that an 18 year old getting attention from a man is being preyed on.. so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:45 PM
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Why are you airing out your grievances about an unrelated topic? Go talk to a counselor. Not all women feel that way about blue collar workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:06 PM
6

That just can’t be. The problem is always women!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:12 AM
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the numbers game is subjective, that’s why OPs comment is what’s actually deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:07 AM
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What? If I don’t believe something is natural then the only other option is for it to be nurture? It’s like if I don’t have sufficient evidence for a God that is based in science, the only option is to reject that and not believe or be agnostic. I can’t prove that something isn’t, I can only observe what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:35 PM
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Yeah sure… but the situation you described with the woman you know should be attributed to her character not her gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:10 AM
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Liberal men.. only because a lot of the conservative men nowadays are bat shit crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:23 AM
3

Well that’s to be expected in any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:17 AM
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Thankfully women aren’t a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:17 AM
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So do you think most women who are married/in relationships are just settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:32 PM
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..do men believe that they will lose no SMV if they have kids, are old, or have a sexually transmitted infection?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:26 PM
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Because there’s at least qualitative accounts for what I’m saying. There hasn’t been any scientific studies to back up that nature plays a role in this. It’s either nature or nurture. I’ve seen more evidence for the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:30 PM
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Exactly. My whole point is that I don’t believe it’s biological, and I don’t think anyone should really without sufficient evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:42 PM
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There’s differences in the way men and women release hormones but there’s no evidence that supports that it means men are naturally able to have casual sex without feelings attached and women aren’t..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:10 PM
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Can you name the biochemical responses that are only triggered in women that causes this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:35 PM
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Way to stay on topic 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:35 PM
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I said a lot of MEN think this not me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:15 PM
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I would like proof if you believe men can have casual sex without involving their emotions because of something innate within them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:25 PM
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I already know what you’re saying.. it’s just that why your saying hasn’t been factual proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:12 PM
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I never claimed men avoiding feelings is easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:10 PM
1

What… does this have to do with anything I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:46 PM
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Um.. yes I know that. How does that correlate to being able to not catch emotions on a biological level? Because testosterone, like other hormones, influence emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:37 PM
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This could be true too. And I agree with the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:29 PM
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Huh? Men having more “testosterones” does not scientifically correlate to them not catching emotions as easy. I really can’t even believe you did much research on this after that response because that honestly sounds like you just pulled it out of your ass, respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:28 PM
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Why should I accept something that has not been proven to be factually true? Is that what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:22 PM
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What?? There’s no way you think this is common in dating lol especially in this time and age.. a lot of women who want serious relationships do NOT want to discuss sex and if anything, they are turned off if a man brings up a conversation of sex early on. That’s why some men literally pretend to be romantically interested and don’t mention just wanting sex in the beginning like I said in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:17 PM
1

“Trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:06 PM
1

Bro are you good? If you’re going to claim something is biological you need actual science and data to back it up. A social experiment you saw on YouTube isn’t going to cut it when discussing if something is biological. Jesus I thought that was common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:04 PM
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No.. it’s just that your little social experiment has little implications on it being biological in men… you made that inference on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:54 PM
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I know men and women whose experience contradicts yours so whose experience is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:47 PM
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That’s normally women who want something romantic. If a woman wants casual sex a lot of them just need trust and sexual chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:43 PM
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How do you know this? Because this hasn’t been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:40 PM
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Duh? I know it’s a general known and accepted consensus. The point of my post is to debate whether that discrepancy is biological or social, and your response had nothing to do with that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:35 PM
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I’m sure there are some women who knows a man wants sex and will withhold sex to get something from a man, but that doesn’t mean that a woman who isn’t quick share her future goals of love marriage family with someone she doesn’t know very well yet is operating under a dating strategy..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:33 PM
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How am I coping? I never said that your anecdote can’t be true. You don’t think it’s manipulative for a man to pretend to be romantically interested in a woman when he really just wants sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:28 PM
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I honestly have no idea, a large enough percentage for it to be a phenomenon in dating, at least in the US. My definition of manipulation is influencing someone to your advantage. I don’t think it’s manipulation if your intentions and boundaries are clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:26 PM
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Right.. and your argument is totally valid with that one random social experiment you referenced!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:17 PM
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You really want to die on the hill that women can’t do it too because of the few women you’ve met that had mental issues? Lol. I’m sure there are plenty of men who do it and have mental issues but I’m sure you wouldn’t discredit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:11 PM
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What’s not the case? That it’s not biological? Because you didn’t prove that with your anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:08 PM
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Hello?? Women can do the same thing! That’s the point! It’s not biological to men, like you said it’s about ethics and what people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:07 PM
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I’m so sorry but this proved absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:54 PM
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I don’t think women withholding their future goals is a dating strategy. I think a lot of women do not see a point in talking about marriage and kids with a man if she is not certain the man she is interested in is someone she wants to share that future with.. that’s not manipulative. Lying to get sex is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:53 PM
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We know men can have sex without emotional attachment. The point is it’s not innate in men to do so, it is much more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:50 PM
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Thanks. I’ll check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:42 PM
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Interesting point.. so then you agree it’s more so socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:42 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:39 PM
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I agree with most of your opinion. Like I said, the subject is nuanced and people are unique so I’m not denying that there are women who lie or still catch feelings after intentions were made clear. I do not agree with the implications you think I have. I began my statement saying “a lot” of men in order to avoid generalizing but I can see how you would think some of my statements meant all men. The point I want to make is that the only reason some men believe they are the only ones who can have…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:19 PM
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Well I didn’t mean to frame casual sex in a negative light. I don’t think anything’s wrong with casual sex as long as you’re honest about your intentions.. And I’m sorry I’m just not seeing how a woman waiting for the right time to share her long term goals or future plans about someone their interested in is analogous to a man lying about being interested in a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:06 PM
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Hmm good question… I mostly think a lot of women are socialized to want a relationship. I think casual sex for women is still heavily stigmatized which is why some men pretend to be interested and some women want something more even if a man might be honest about his intentions. I think men would have an easier time finding women who want casual sex if they weren’t shamed for it as much. My thoughts are still involving though as I continue to learn about dating dynamics. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:54 PM
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Thank you!! Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:48 PM
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Where are these quotes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:48 PM
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Can you please point to where I said all men? I tried to be careful not to generalize and I even said at the end that the subject is nuanced and does not always apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:47 PM
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Sure, I don’t really care for the semantics as long as the point connects!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:46 PM
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Socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:45 PM
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I’m sure this happens too as I’ve seen it myself. I just don’t believe it has much to do with the biological nature of men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:37 PM
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If a random stranger came up and asked if you wanted to smash just out the gate, I would hope everyone would be smart enough to say no? But anyways, women who want casual sex exist… but unfortunately some men would rather just pretend to be interested in a woman looking for a partner than finding a woman with the same interests . And if the woman you want to be sexually involved with can’t without getting her feelings involved and so you capitalize off that to get what you want, you can’t turn a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:31 PM
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The red pill is birth control for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:38 AM
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You really don’t know women as much as you think you do. Most women aren’t going to intervene if they know their friend genuinely likes the guy. Even if she does do it out of “jealously”, the friend getting hit on will likely let her know it’s a go. If she doesn’t, that means she wanted to be saved from you. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:17 PM
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We’re animals yes but I think they mean we’re not animals in the sense of not having to lead with biological instincts and being able to rationalize our thoughts and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:59 PM
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A lot of women don’t like or want to do it if it’s their “2nd shift”. Most women work nowadays, so for men to expect a woman to work 8-9hr shift, and then come home and do all the cooking, cleaning, raising the kid, is ridiculous. It still happens unfortunately, but if women are working, men need to step up when it comes to household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:33 PM
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Both men and women are expected to provide some sort of value to a relationship. Traditional norms (created by MEN) would say that men provide finances and women provide homemaking duties (cooking, cleaning, raising children). Now I don’t know if you were in a coma since the early 1900s, but we are in the 21st century now and most women work! Your average couple (in America at least) are both providing financially for their families. In fact, the reason why there is a pattern where women are cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:19 PM
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Wrong. No one is saying men don’t view women as human beings or female. They are saying that men USE women for sex even if they do not like them. Men literally shout this from the rooftops all the time as if it’s some beacon of good character. You guys love to talk about how men can sleep with all different kinds of women and feel no emotional connection. It’s just sex. So yeah it can be transactional. And I would also like to add: many men expect women to do most of the household chores, cook, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:11 PM
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When are you guys going to realize that this concept is mostly an internet phenomenon and people in reality mostly date people who are on the same level as them statistically.. ? Please..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:07 PM
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What is the cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:29 PM
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I agree with you, but I also met such an amazing guy off hinge. I guess it depends on your mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:27 PM
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This isn’t comparable because no one can get rich standing in a bank. That’s nonsense and clearly wouldn’t work for anyone. However, being in social settings would obviously increase the likelihood of making connections and possibly romantic ones vs staying home and never interacting with anyone. But I agree that it does take more than just being in a social setting. Charisma helps, being socially competent, knowing how to have conversations, and how to present yourself all play a role. But this…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:18 PM
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This is your source?? I’m not going to reduce this to common sense because maybe not everyone knows how social media works, but controversial videos are often going to be pushed into the spotlight on social media. Social media is NOT representative of the population. Negative opinions in videos often thrive because it’s entertaining. Also, your feed is cultivated to the things you interact the most with. If these videos are all you see, it’s because that’s what you enjoy watching. Maybe you shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:07 PM
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You sound so sad and bitter and you’re obviously projecting. Just because the only thing on your mind is getting your dick wet, doesn’t mean other men are like that. News flash! Some men actually like women! I know that’s a shocker to you, but some men want to do something nice for a woman they’re interested in! And here’s the crazy part: they don’t always expect sex just for paying for a date!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:57 PM
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What source can you provide that concludes majority of women are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:51 PM
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If everyone had the same mindset as you we would be living in hell. Morals matter to society, and without it society would crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:42 PM
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If all you want is sex, why not hire a sex worker? Why would you rather manipulate a woman who’s not interested in just sex? It would be easier on both parties if you got a prostitute..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:39 PM
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Actually, a liar does lower the bar lol. Many women and men have trust issues because of lying exes. There isn’t one reason for the barrier being higher. Both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:36 PM
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I’m sure OP is the same guy who would blame women for picking shitty men or tell women to “choose better”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:32 PM
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Do you think your odds of dating would be better if you put yourself in social situations or if you give up hope and decide to live under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:29 PM
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Yeah I don’t know what OP is yapping on about. Most women I know are in support of it being legalized for the safety of sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:03 AM
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Um.. also false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:00 AM
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