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| 734 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my Game | Creevy | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 05:05 PM |
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| 1 | How to stop my hyperactive imagination when dating?I view having a crush a lot like being drunk--it feels amazing and warps your worldview. That's not a bad thing if you're mindful about it. Even when you're drunk unless you're totally smashed you can usually tell that you aren't observing the world objectively, but that doesn't matter because it feels good. You're more careful with your decisions and you enjoy the ride. This isn't something to avoid, it's something to use responsibly. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Girl sent me a friend-zone text. How was my response? Would like to know for learning purposes.Great response. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 10:03 PM |
| 7 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalThis is correct, every time someone posts about it, it tells women they should care more than they actually do. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalHe can absolutely comment on it, you don't have to have lived an experience to have any sort of opinion or empathy about it whatsoever. By that logic no short man should ever comment on height because they've never been tall. I'm 5'6", people use height as a crutch instead of actually putting in the work and owning themselves. This guy is explaining that you can be tall and still not get women, which is absolutely helpful to anyone who wants to move beyond their crutches. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I (F20) flirt with guysA lot of guys gave good responses on how to flirt. Arm touching, laughing, smiling. Asking for help is a big one. Guys like to feel like we impress you. Anything an extreme feminist would be pissed off at you for, is probably something that gets a guy's attention. But to be honest, a lot of guys struggle with approaching because there's a lot of social messaging given to us that it's creepy to show interest. Which we both know isn't necessarily true, but it can be hard for guys, especially young… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I (F20) flirt with guysThe funny, slightly cute girl is sexy. You have to try pretty hard for guys, especially guys in their 20s, not to sexualize you. It's more about what vibe of sexy you are. What I'm hearing is either that you don't realize your vibe can be sexy, or you would prefer to be a different sort of sexy. If it's the first, stop worrying. You're sexy, I promise. If it's the second, you can try to switch it up, but honestly I would say own yourself. Tons of guys find that vibe hot, and it's a lot easier to… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itCongrats on having sex, it's a big step for growing up, imo. You should be excited for that. Sorry about her attitude. She sounds awful. She probably gets away with being rude because she's pretty, but nobody is rude without cause. She's dealing with her own shit. Happy people don't act like that. Don't let it skew your image of women. Most girls aren't like that. You got a bad apple. Don't let it fuck with your confidence, if someone made fun of a person doing something for the first time, you'… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | 30 Quick Tips For Attracting WomenCatch her gaze and stare at her lips. If she wants the kiss she won't look away, might even smile. Then just go for it. | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Yep. All roads lead to Rome. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Optimism. It's an underrated attractive quality. | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 11 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?That's incredibly inefficient. There's a reason recorded knowledge is so useful, it provides a shortcut on acquiring information so you don't have to waste time replicating mistakes. | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Yes it matters, but it isn't the be all end all. I'm also 5'6", I just don't let it affect me. It's one of my many qualities, many of which I feel are more attractive than the average man. I'm sure some girls wouldn't be with me because of my height, and that's fine. That's their choice, I wish them happiness. I also know enough girls are into me that I feel satisfaction. You're so much more than your height, but you have to believe in that or your height will end up taking more emotional real e… | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.My advice is to not take it personally. Everybody wants what's perceived as high value, it's really not about you. This is about making you the best version of yourself, and of course more girls will want you for that. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me.Based. | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 9 | EYE CONTACT WORKS!!!This. Have fun, but don't get attached. If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 03:46 AM |
| 18 | Is it typical to go out with girls and not a feel connection?This is great news, it shows you're looking for women you actually like and have standards, and aren't just trying to fuck anybody who will give you the time of day. Good for you, brother. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I've taught infield pickup for over ten yearsWhat would you say was your biggest misconception about women or game that you got past in your career? | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 12 | Tips for women to be seductiveThis. Men don't typically get the same level of affection that women do. Make him feel special. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Okay I get it nowWhat this means, when extrapolated, is that making an effort is virtually without risk. You can quite literally only go up. You fear a consequence that does not exist. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:48 AM |
| 0 | How much does a good personality increase attractiveness for you?Honestly, it's a bell curve for me. If she's really attractive or really unattractive, her good personality isn't doing much to improve her (but a bad one can definitely lower her). But it does wonders for girls in the 5-7 range. I guess that wouldn't technically be a true bell curve, but you know what I mean. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 08:23 AM |
| 5 | I posted this in r/female_dating_strategies and immediately got bannedYeah, you can't post that sort of shit there, you make too much sense. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 14 | Matt Damon's Insight On Why You Should Not Fear RejectionThat in itself, is one of the games. Congrats my dude, you made your Will save. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 16 | Matt Damon's Insight On Why You Should Not Fear RejectionNo, I do agree. This was me trying to say the same thing in a different way for the nerds out there. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 141 | Matt Damon's Insight On Why You Should Not Fear RejectionWomen are the dungeon masters of dating. They set up obstacles because they want to see you overcome them and be the hero. That's why they call it games. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Men, please approach!Judging the OP to try and dispute her claims is a red herring fallacy, my dudes. The only reason she brought up her perceived value was to contrast it with the few times she's been approached. This post isn't meant to attack, it's meant to offer support. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | She is rooting for youThis is so goddammed true. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 09:16 PM |
| 11 | Help girlfriend shit test me all the timeShe sounds awful to be around. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.This was not a fuck up, this was the correct move. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 12:06 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Daygame pickup in a mall (AND saved money)That Bruno Samsung line was artistic. | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of IconographyI don't know where you can find his RSD stuff, but he posts new videos on youtube under the name Todd V Dating. Lots of great material. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of IconographyTodd Valentine is my favorite PUA, man's great. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Why does this girl do this?This is so true. I have few regrets, but I regret not gaming more in high school. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | How did you beat the “you’re too young for me” shit test?Tangentially related, do you have facial hair? Speaking as a babyface myself, it did wonders for aging me up. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop prioritizing a woman’s looks?Look for her flaws. Nearly every woman has at least a couple. Focus on it. Think of it whenever you start to put her on that pedestal. Make her a human being in your mind. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women/chicks in see through shirts with no bra on?If you're affected by the lack of clothing on the women, all the other men are too. Treat her like any other person, imagine her in a fucking parka if you have to. If she has her tits out and you can still game her like normal without losing your cool, you just disqualified every other man in the room. Who cares what she has? You've had better. Still, she seems interesting enough, and you need help stretching. Maybe if she acts cool you'll ask for her number. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | A good tip to know if she wants you to make a move...To be honest, even if that was true, and I'm not saying it is, it's not worth it. You'd be setting yourself up for trouble down the road. I guess you could also act tipsy and then it's a fun thing for the both of you? Too risky for my blood. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 06:33 AM |
| 8 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameRight you are, friend, thank you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 12:30 AM |
| 61 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameI totally understand, tone is lost in writing. Yes, it was playfully given. We say that sort of stuff to each other all the time, it's just a part of our relationship. It would have been smart of me to put an explanation of that in something meant to be educational, thanks for catching that and starting the conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 29 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameThat's a great idea, I hadn't even thought of that. I'll study that next. | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:05 PM |
| 335 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameGreat question. One thing that I believe really helped was that I started talking with a deeper voice, and slowing down my speech. I think it made me seem like I always knew what I was doing and was calm in all situations. I made conversations happen at my pace. I was also more affirming in my opinions, I made a conscious choice not to use any qualifiers. No, "I thinks". "Do this". One interaction we had last night, I wanted to eat some leftover spaghetti but we didn't have a fork clean. Me: "He… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?I'm a big fan of wearing your natural scent. Also, what might smell slightly bad to you, might be manly to women. Definitely don't go overboard with this, but that tree sap smell probably smelled very differently to the man than it did to Lavandar, had he been able to smell it. A hint of your natural dude smell may not go amiss, if you have a good one. I read an article that said a bunch of things can be picked up in your scent by women, both positive and negative. The big one the article focuse… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm Always Social. I'm Always On.I just struck up a ten minute conversation with a colleague of mine that I would have never done if not for this post. He's a ceramics instructor (I work in a college), and I learned a bit about ceramics and why he personally values it, and what makes it different to him from other art forms. He seemed excited to talk about it with me, it being a passion for him. I thought you'd like to know what occurred as a direct result of your post. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm Always Social. I'm Always On.This was the next thing I needed to read for self-growth, thanks friend. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is confidence the key to everything?Charisma is the key to everything, but confidence is the key to charisma. So, yeah, essentially. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I just got approached by a guy who played the game perfectly!I'm really sorry for all the hate OP, it's not deserved. Thanks for the positivity in your post. This should have been a better experience for you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?In fact, changing your core values as a bargaining chip for sex is the exact opposite of what it is to be masculine. Women will sense that from a mile away and know that they have all of the power in the interaction. It's about framing yourself in a masculine way, not about changing who you are. I'm sorry that you're so angry; that's not an easy load to carry around. Let me know if I can help from my computer at all. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Asking out two cashiers who work together - Good or bad idea?Do it and let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Confirmed; I'm 5'6" and haven't been single for longer than a month at a time since I started dating about ten years ago (I prefer long term relationships to hookups). It's a non-variable. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 05:09 AM |
| 19 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Stop, friend. Breathe. Don't worry about how you come off. What you're thinking of as masculine, is not the only thing women are attracted to. You either already know, or soon will know, the fundamentals of game. The rest is just developing your own style and owning it. You can't be something you're not. Game is more about highlighting what you are in a favorable light. Some girls will like that, and some girls won't. It's a numbers game. You can be you, and women will be aroused by that. Intern… | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 01:30 AM |
| 4 | “How many times has that worked for you”"Tonight? Three or four, depending on what you say next." | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a guy is just friendly chatting with you or its something more? I'm a girl btwIt's something more. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 05:17 AM |
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