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Lol This reminds me of when I was being cat called at a gas station the other night. It scared the shit out of me. I was coming home from work at midnight, so I really wasn’t expecting it. It seems like guys who catcall are delighted that it freaks women out. Am i making that up? I don’t have proof, but honestly why else would three big men cat call a woman alone in the middle of the night? I guess what I’m saying is - female attraction doesn’t seem as mixed up with fear and control as male attr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:48 PM
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Use “POV” in a casual conversation and look at his reaction. This came up with a guy friend of mine a long time ago and we giggled about it but I imagine it’s a good tell if you’re trying to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:02 PM
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Whomever made this has been HURT before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:21 AM
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I really appreciate this so much. Every word ♥️
/r/askFDS31/07/21 04:45 AM
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Im just so glad I have a place like FDS to to inspire me to demand more respect and give me real advice and support ♥️
/r/askFDS31/07/21 04:44 AM
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The store owners are going to have a full staff meeting about this all on Monday and I feel secretly so proud that i made it happen :)
/r/askFDS31/07/21 04:42 AM
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Ooh I love ”wow creepy“ I can say it like I’m joking back but it should still feel like a slap in the face
/r/askFDS31/07/21 04:41 AM
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Luckily I’m a shift manager, so I have the ability to kick someone out. The people above me also have my back :) i mostly need a script in my head so I don’t just freeze up. I really like that response!
/r/askFDS30/07/21 01:52 AM
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I am 5’1”, and if I had a dollar for every time a guy has ”complimented“ my height I could pay for all of them to go to therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:40 AM
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Troglodytes!! Great reference 😂😂truly Edit: I thought you were talking about the stinky lizard people from d&d, but I looked it up and learned it’s also a word for cavemen, which works too 😅 either way I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:57 PM
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I feel targeted but thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:09 AM
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And God forbid any of those guys get a vasectomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:47 PM
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Ive never dated this type but boy have I been ”friends“ with them. Don’t you dare ever point out that you just want to stay friends!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:09 AM
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That brainwashing thing is real…half of my brain is very spooked and I feel sick when I get a message or see him. I think of everything I’ve ever heard/read about how these type of situations go wrong and I’m scared. A quarter of my brain doesn’t want to deal with what will happen if I make this stop. This isn’t the first customer who’s gotten confused and it was a HUGE to-do when I told my bosses—having to complain to my coworkers and bosses (again) about someone flirting with me is SO VERY UNP…
/r/askFDS06/06/21 04:38 AM
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Its a small business and also kind of a community hangout spot. We have small events and we sell snacks and have tables for people to chill, so there’s retail mixed in with service. With the regulars, the boundary between friends and customers can get very blurry. For the guys who work there, that blurry line is a lot less troubling for obvious reasons. Being all buddy-buddy with customers is good for sales. I literally can’t be as close with our customers (our customers are about 85% male) as t…
/r/askFDS06/06/21 03:04 AM
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I know, that’s how I’m treating it. :( I’m trying to find the best way to not let it escalate. He gave me the gift while I was working, so I didn’t open it until I got home. Now I have messaged him to tell him I can’t accept this, so I can either pay him back for it or return it. He said he just wanted me to have it because he knew I would love it. He was right—it is something I really like. He said he doesn’t expect anything in return, and just wanted to show his appreciation for how well I’ve …
/r/askFDS05/06/21 10:10 PM
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Their knowledge/opinion of female comedians is a big thing for me. Or even what male comedians they like can tell me SO much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:51 AM
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And he makes you feel like it’s somehow a problem with you and your sense of humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah! You know him too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:44 PM
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Oh I know that guy. Doesn’t he also tell the worst jokes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:34 PM
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If they hit their dog! I think a light little spank on the rump is maybe ok depending on the situation, but if they actually hit them hard or hit them on the face I’m DONE talking to that person. Fun fact: my dog is specifically afraid of male strangers. Women are fine. My family members are fine. But most other men are very scary to her. When she meets a new man, their reaction to her barking at them and cowering in fear always tells me SO MUCH about them. Some try to force a pet onto her. Some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:24 PM
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It’s not meant to be the love story of the ages. It’s meant to be a realistic love story with ups and downs. I don’t want to keep arguing about it though. All I’m trying to say is it isn’t black or white. The audience is meant to watch and learn from their mistakes and say “I don’t want to be that guy” which is the whole point of comedy. Telling the story isn’t the same as living it out, even though I think it’s ok for people to be wrong and then grow from it, rather than stay the same. I’m not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:49 PM
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Leaving her career wasn’t forced on her. She could have left Jim at any point if being with him wasn’t worth it. You saw the piece of shit she started with right? You have to admit she at least leveled up. Also I AGREE Jim is in the wrong when he runs off to start his own business and leaves Pam and the kids. She makes him realize it, and SHE turns him around. I thought that was great! I think people interpret it like “oh wow Jim is such a good guy for giving into Pam’s nagging because he loves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:34 PM
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Woah woah woah. Jenna Fischer’s comment was about how audiences interpret the characters. Everyone here is hating on Jim (which I think is justified and doesn’t happen enough considering all the hate Pam gets) BUT I still think Jim is a better example for guys than a lot of male romantic leads out there. I’m rewatching right now, and the way he treats Pam in the early seasons is so respectful! He is flawed, yes, but I love how his feelings for Pam are NEVER about sexual attraction. He loves just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:03 PM
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I agree that it’s all pretty fucking awful. However, I will say the thing I like about GoT is that many of the victims fight back and become literal queens. I like seeing that turn around. I wish it didn’t have a place in the story, but I like seeing a woman overcome these awful experiences. And the fact that it happens all over the place on the show is interesting. People react to it like ”Oh god! There’s so much rape! It’s so awful!“ and its like ”yeah you realize the real world is the same ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:33 AM
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I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:16 PM
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I wonder about that too. It’s probably both. I do truly think that the makeup has an effect for the other people though. I’ve noticed i get away with more at work when I’m more dolled up. Which is so stupid! But hey I’m just trying to live lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:14 AM
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My reason for wearing it is people treat me better when I wear my makeup. Men and women. It's certainly due to the internalized societal norms, which is awful, but that's the truth of it for me. I'd quit wearing it if I could be rich and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:13 PM
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Casually stating that my post is “low quality” makes me feel ashamed for posting it. That’s all I mean by that. I was already mad that anti-feminists are so popular on YouTube that they eclipse the actual feminist searches in the search bar. And then when I brought those feelings here, I was immediately told that I was wrong for sharing/posting about it. So you can see how my feathers were a bit ruffled. 😅 But it’s fine, I understand what you’re saying as well. I just needed to push back and exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:52 PM
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Finding this was shocking to me. It woke me up. Because I'm lucky enough to be surrounded by people who treat me equally most of the time, I forget that I can't simply type the word "feminist" into youtube without being told that I am hated. I think you fail to see the gravity of that fact, and by attempting to shame me you rob others of experiencing it. Maybe it didn't hit you the way it hit me, but it could hit someone else, and wake them up today. That was my intention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:22 PM
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I need this tattooed on my hand or something because I keep forgetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:22 AM
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Like, I almost get being frustrated sexually. I have endometriosis, and it makes me sexually frustrated. But then he was drunk and cheating for 5 years....because....he was on bad meds for two months? It’s all so awful. And not justified in any way under the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:06 PM
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I have no idea what he wanted to hear from people by sharing these thoughts. Get a diary. Read it. Maybe you’ll get some fucking self awareness you prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:07 PM
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I have no idea...It’s just a thing that’s always happened and since they say it with a joking cadence I’ve been kind of programmed to just “heheheh” whenever I’m the subject of it. Like I totally get the vibe of your story and that’s the kind of thing I’m referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:06 PM
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This is just a side note I thought about while reading your comment: I call my mom “Mom” now, but my whole life my dad has called my mom “Mommy” like, for me, even though I don’t call her that anymore😂we think it’s so sweet and funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:59 PM
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In the south it’s like a “cute” thing for older “gentlemen” to jokingly flirt a little with younger women. It rolls right past me now. It’s such a culturally accepted thing, and nothing has ever really happened, so I’m not bothered by it. I certainly don’t LIKE it! But it doesn’t scare me. It’s just words and an attempt to be charming. The ones who spook me are in their 30s. They have no shame and they’re young and strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:20 AM
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I hate this so much. In my head, my father’s name is “daddy.” I also call my sister “sister.” If I called either of them by their real names, they would be SO sad about it. (I’ve tried it out before, and yes, they were each super sad)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:02 AM
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Be a theatre major lol. If you’re average looking but funny you’ll have all the guy friends in the world who exclusively have dysfunctional relationships with super hot girls, but treat you like a guy-friend. It’s fun and strange. Like it was a real slap in the face coming back to the real world where most guys don’t talk to me like I’m just a person anymore! My gals always there for me though🦩🦩🦩🦩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:55 AM
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I will say: guy friends who are more attractive (?) than me behave like female friends - as in genuine, normal, kind friends. The ones who are clearly less attractive, I have to keep at a distance because they try to get a little too familiar and if I let them be too close they end up trying to make a move. It’s not nice but it’s true. I do think guy friends exist though. You just have to be choosy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:34 AM
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Thank you for this advice. I started to look for other jobs, and then I remembered I could just shift back to my old department! He has WAY less say in what I do there, and I enjoy the work more. I went away from that department because it felt like I was needed in this new area. I’ve been told I’m free to do that, but the higher ups won’t be 100% jazzed that I’ve changed my mind. I can’t worry about that though! And I never would have realized how much I love that other work until I started loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:17 AM
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To be honest, I would love to hear his answers to all of these questions. But it would require a lie detector because he would certainly lie. The only question I would change (other than swapping female words for males) is: ​ "How is your vaginal health?" would change to "how often do you wash your ass? do you ever miss the toilet when you're peeing and just leave it there? When was the last time you tested for STDs and what were the results?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:13 PM
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I like how he asks if the woman has been in therapy, because I have the same question for him. Even though we all know the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:04 PM
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I wonder if he knows his mom's birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:00 PM
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come on, we all know he wouldn't be strong enough to punch through a wall. He would punch it, hurt his hand, and give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:54 PM
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WOWWW!!! We all know what a challenge it is for them to make sperm and cum 🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:57 AM
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Im not really against it. A lot of ”dad bods“ tend to be kinder, more empathetic people. But so many are not. You gotta know how to weed out the rotten ones. Edit: also it depends on what you define as ”dad bod“ and I don’t like the term or the implications mixed up in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:14 PM
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But also a lot of small dick men become murderers...aka look up golden state killer and countless others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:38 PM
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I think it becomes voluntary when they actually realize they simply hate women. Sex with women and hating women are not mutually exclusive, as we all know. Good for them honestly. One less creep trying to trick me into being their supportive sexy mommy. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:44 AM
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This made me very VERY sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:14 AM
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Tbh I’m in a hurry so couldn’t read everything but have your own baby on your own!! I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:56 PM
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Me too it was kind of crazy. Any other time I’ve had to shut things down with someone it’s been pretty unpleasant. He did say he got me a gift that he wants to give me...I’m not sure how to handle that (he got it before we had this talk, and the gift is related to my work he says). But other than that it seems like he’s good with returning to customer-employee boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:44 PM
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The funny thing is, I can’t remember the last time a female customer DMed me.😅🙃But yes I agree! Plus this advice worked! In a BIG plot twist the guy realized he was maybe overstepping and asked me if I needed him to stop DMing me so much. It gave me the opportunity to basically say “yes I kind of need you to stop messaging me altogether if possible” and he took it very well! Thank god. I know that’s a rare case but it gave me some hope lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:22 AM
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This is awesome! Thank you so much for sharing this experience! It helps/encourages me to see how someone's advice has already played out and worked, you know what I mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:09 AM
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Thank you so much for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:01 AM
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To be clear, no one is requiring me to respond outside of working hours. I just get the notifications on my phone so if someone messages me flirting or even just asking a regular question, I have think about how I'm going to handle it whether I'm on the clock or not, which is taxing. HOWEVER turning off notifications will help solve that for sure! It wasn't my first instinct because we have a separate discord for the staff to communicate on, and I would be nervous about missing some sort of emer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:00 AM
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I'll admit I'm probably too friendly when responding. I just...like being friendly and talking to people! I love being sweet! Its not fair. Why can't guys just be chill and have a female acquaintance and leave it there?? Looking back, I actually don't share a lot about me though. I talk about the products and why I like them, but that's about as personal as I get typically. I definitely dial the friendliness WAY back once it starts getting personal, but at that point it seems like its too late. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:53 AM
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All of the staff have "matching" accounts. Our usernames are our first names, and our pictures are memojis. However, according to one creepy old man, my memoji must not look like me because he said "I was looking at the staff page on your website and none of them looked like you." LOL But other than that I agree that some sort of statement up top about how all of the messages aren't really private is a really good solution! Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:32 AM
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I did not realize DMs could be turned off based on my role! That would solve the whole frikkin thing! I'm bringing this up to my bosses. Thank you. We have a "ticketing" system that allows people to DM the whole staff if they need to say/ask something they don't want on the public server. If they can't DM us directly, their only option is to do that! Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:26 AM
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The discord was made to try to save the community aspect of our store when we had to shut down for covid. In the meantime we got a lot of customer service type questions from our regulars so we kind of morphed it to serve multiple purposes. We've started a "ticketing" system that people can use to essentially make a DM that goes to the whole staff to try to keep people out of our personal DMs (which has helped!), but unfortunately I'm still getting some DMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:19 AM
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I want to start out by saying this is great advice and I know its super effective! My problem is I really hate lying (I don't mind other people lying, I just feel kind of sick when I do it because I get so scared of people seeing through it). I may just have to get better at it though. I've been contemplating it this afternoon and I got a little excited about getting a fake ring for myself lol. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:12 AM
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Thank you so much for this. I keep thinking my boundaries are strong, and then they find ways to wiggle around them and I have to change my boundaries again! Also I didn't know that about what you said in #3, and now all of this makes a lot more sense. And back to #2, unfortunately I really can't get out of the discord stuff. Its a big part of my job now. That's why I need to figure out how to make it work. I really enjoy it most of the time!! It just gets icky once in a while. I honestly really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:06 AM
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This is an amazing idea and I'm going to bring it up to my bosses. This is exactly the type of thing they would go for, but they just haven't thought about it yet. Thank you so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:54 AM
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I love this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:49 AM
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ugh the "GREY AREA"...that's exactly what I've been calling it in my head. You're totally right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:48 AM
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I actually do work for really great people. I've talked to them about past instances, and they've been extremely supportive and I know if all else fails I can always get them to talk to someone who's giving me trouble and that will be the end of it. I'm not a big fan of getting someone else to deal with my problems though; I just want there to be less problems. I think the main issue is that discord is such a new thing for us, and I'm seemingly the only person on the staff getting in this situat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:46 AM
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I really like the solution of turning off notifications when I'm not working. I was starting to do that a little with this most recent guy. I didn't respond all weekend, and then since I needed to post in the public discord about an event today, I felt like I needed to respond because he would know I was on. We aren't expected to deal with discord when we're not working btw. I just hate that I keep getting messages that make me anxious, but turning off notifications will certainly help! And yeah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:34 AM
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Excuses (ft. Bad Dads) You’re So Sensitive Not My Problem (I Don’t Need Condoms) Virgin Whore She’s DEFINITELY Into Me (Live at The Checkout Counter)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:58 PM
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We literally bleed every month....and we get anemic from it...and we not only don’t cum when we do it, but we are in MORE pain when it happens....and our eggs just fall out of us...and we pay too much money for products that hide the blood from the world....and that’s just a small taste of what women’s “fluids” are doing all the time This guy fucked me up. I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:08 PM
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Should we start saying “pussy to the wall” instead of “balls to the wall” ? (This is not a criticism of you saying “ball it”— it just gave me this idea lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:15 AM
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Maybe it’s because I’m from the south, but I read the guy impression in an old-timey-plantation-owner-gone-with-the-wind-type voice which I think was, perhaps, unintended but also fitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:06 AM
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I like how covid has put a good halt on creepy touching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:45 PM
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I also like helping people through their problems. I like listening I feel like I get to hold all of the secrets 😈; but also jokes aside usually people seem happier afterward which makes me feel good. But now I have seen how some men can take advantage of that and make it not enjoyable anymore. My manager was being CRAZY so I finally was like “you’re depressed. You need to find a way to feel better because your employees are extremely anxious now” and now he thinks I’m his therapist/emotional su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:52 PM
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Pp!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:57 AM
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I do a lot of “wow that’s crazy!” In different inflections
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:51 AM
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This poor woman is finding out he’s squeamish (?) about literally the thing that has made every person exist AFTER she gets pregnant. What a loser. And the rumor is that WOMEN are DELICATE!!?? BAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:22 PM
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Yeah you’re right mansplaining isn’t the right word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:18 PM
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I feel like this guy is kind of mansplaining but I agree. It just feels like he’s doing the thing he’s talking about a little bit. I know his hear’s in the right place, but this bugs me a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:16 PM
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