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It's not that hard to estimate someone's weight from how they look...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:49 PM
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Condoms are used in casual sex? News to me, I never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:28 PM
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This pretty much sums it all up and should be enough to shut this sub down from future arguments. I think like 5% of women are attractive and that might be being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:49 PM
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This is the only logical take. She doesn't owe future partners what she did in the past and future partners don't owe her their time. Case closed, go home everyone and stop talking about this dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:16 PM
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Evidently it was so miserable you transitioned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:03 PM
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There are equal numbers of men and women. If all these women have someone, either the men also all do, or the women have a #1, but they're his #3 or 4. Do you really envy that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:53 PM
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And if he works more hours, she should do more house work. Oh wait, that's sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:25 PM
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What's the risk of pregnancy if on bc? We're not living in 1940.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:24 PM
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Men have higher paid positions because they work more hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:31 PM
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I'm pretty sure Lilith makes about 50% of the posts in this entire sub. It's actually insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:26 PM
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You're working your own job, but expect the men to pay / provide. What are you doing with that money? Hire a housekeeper from your own excess budget you got off the backs of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:22 PM
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You made it one...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:18 PM
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Most women are on bc and the ones who aren't shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:15 PM
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A woman who expects men to pay for her shows low agreeableness and lack of interest in his company, beyond what he can provide for her. There, combine our two statements and it's accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:13 PM
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So fix it and find a partner? I don't understand so much whining here. I stayed single in my late 20s for 4-5 years because it was fun and I enjoyed the freedom. Then I grew up, got in a serious relationship, and am moving towards that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:12 PM
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If you were this successful, you wouldn't be complaining on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:23 PM
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I feel like politics disproves this. At least 1/3 are absolutely awful people, and another third are awful by virtue of not caring enough to vote when it's so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:56 PM
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Yes, those trolls married in trailer parks are two trolls married to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:28 PM
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Unless women are prepared to spend money on porn, like the weird men who do, it's not going to happen. It's still a business at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:22 PM
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Eh, they just look for men who make more. My girl makes a lot but is perfectly happy to still spend mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:10 PM
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No because the women have the choice of aborting or adoption… literally nobody forces women to raise a child they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:09 PM
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Only if the man was insistent on having the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:55 AM
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Condoms are awful and sex wouldn’t even be worth bothering to have when wearing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:34 AM
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Ngl, your last line had me cackling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:15 AM
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Be better? After my last relationship ended, I had about 11 partners in 4 months and it honestly felt like a dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:33 PM
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No, and this dumbass take is how we got fucking MAGA dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:41 PM
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There is no worse fate for a man than marrying the first girl he sleeps with, unless they were both saving themselves for marriage. I truly cannot imagine anything more embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:05 PM
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It just means they think you're ugly but like your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:01 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:01 PM
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Most of my longterm relationships had sex very early on, so this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:43 PM
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Only if they're in the top 10% of income. Hell, I'm in the top 10% of income and I don't think I could enjoy that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:42 PM
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Yes, usually because women pressure them into it with ultimatums.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:05 PM
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Check out the Blue Mountain State episode about Thad's pocket pussy. Nothing gay about that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:29 PM
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Robosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:21 PM
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Pussy is not a finite resource bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:51 PM
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Nope, I remember back in college reading my gf's birth control. It said it was 99.8% effective when taken correctly and that means 2/1000 people get pregnant over the course of a year while taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:26 PM
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I'm a man, I have a dick, and I think death grip is bullshit. I also think condoms make sex ridiculously bad to the extent I wouldn't even bother trying to get laid if it required one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:16 AM
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It’s almost like the porn death grip was actually an excuse created by women who hate men who hate condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:35 AM
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Doubtful. If you get used to 3000 rpm, a tongue at 60 ain’t gonna cut it. Why would it only affect men that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:57 AM
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Pregnancy changes the body in some ways that are irreversible and are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:21 PM
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Vibrators are just death grip for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:15 PM
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Flair doing a lot of lifting there. The "pill" women also don't have to worry about pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:34 PM
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Yeah, but did you take their word for it or actually measure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:18 PM
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I'm a man and I'm only attracted to the top 5% of women too. Most people are just not good looking tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:17 PM
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Your son has likely never fucked a 10 in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:45 AM
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Nah, he's just looking for a zero effort fuck which she provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:38 PM
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Nah, a dinner date is not "fun". Drinks at an arcade is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:41 PM
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You're the outlier, not the norm. I've had an abnormally high number of partners and it has never once deterred any women, even those with very modest pasts, from pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:30 PM
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More men and women need to listen to Kanye's workout song. It tells girls to get fit and then they can at least land a dude with a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:00 PM
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It certainly makes them have less choices of partner, that's a given. They may also still be able to find a partner, but it's likely a step down from what they otherwise could've gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:11 PM
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That wouldn't happen outside of a singular world order. In that scenario, the countries doing so would just be conquered and subjugated by countries that continue to have 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:44 PM
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I'm saying women have far more rights to decide what to do. Men's reproductive rights end at the tip of their dick. They could use a condom, throw it away, she grabs a turkey baster and gets pregnant, too bad men still have no rights there. Women have readily available birth control, potential abortion, and adoption, all available to them at any point in the process. There is almost no scenario where a woman would ever have to pay child support for a child they didn't consent to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:42 PM
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Doubtful it'd be that difficult as a woman to just contest paternity, claim it was someone else's and still put it up for adoption. The men would have to make a legal claim to the child, which can happen, but has far more roadblocks to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:37 PM
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Not really no, because the mother would have to sign off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:35 PM
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Then I guess they can have an abortion? Guess that's no longer guaranteed in the backwater parts of the US, but it used to be less of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:33 PM
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Haven't you heard of adoption? If the woman has the baby, she can put it up for adoption and owe nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:27 PM
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Dumb question, because nobody would ever say that's the reason. This type of knowledge would be a likely candidate to put someone in the fuck zone instead of the date zone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:52 PM
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Tbf, the virgins / minimal experience men don't get to be choosey at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:33 PM
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Obviously you don’t have to and if you couldn’t get laid before, you still won’t after. I’m just saying it’s a cheat code if you already had no issues to basically be pursued like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:31 AM
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You don’t look like a mutant without gh slin and insane dedication to eating and lifting constantly. Tren and gym bro diet and routine just makes you built like a more vascular Henry Cavill in Witcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:17 AM
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A cycle of tren will have women throwing themselves at you fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:04 AM
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When I was single, I generally had anywhere from 1-4 fwb's at a time, sometimes with some random hookups in there as well. It's absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:31 PM
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"Be attractive" could really mean anything from 20% of the population to 0.2% of the population, so it's bad criteria to try and base as "objective".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:28 PM
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Everyone finds women in their 20s to be more attractive than older women, I'm sure that applies to women viewing men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:19 PM
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You seem bitter, you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:23 PM
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Maybe they're right though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:26 PM
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Yeah, but your bf severely missed out on having fun himself. I truly pity guys like that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:24 PM
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Many young attractive women just want money though, so even if the looks fade, they can still buy their way to beautiful women. It's kinda gross but many do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:15 PM
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90% of women are not attractive, so it really goes both ways. About 50% are fat from the get go, so things aren’t real promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:19 PM
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Every woman I've ever dated has wanted way more sex than I do, it's honestly exhausting sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:01 AM
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I'd argue that most men and most women aren't good enough. 90% of women are ugly / fat / both and think by existing, they deserve love. 90% of men are basically in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:12 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:40 PM
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Pretty much every woman will try out a handful of casual experiences, even if they deem it "not for them". I've met and been with plenty of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:08 PM
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Most people get married, so it's not really an "exclusive club"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:39 PM
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Maybe your friends, but certainly not always the case. I'd have much rather gone home alone than sleep with someone not conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:32 PM
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As an attractive guy who slept around a ton, I would've never even considered sleeping with a 4 or 5, just hard and fast no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:34 PM
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Most women are on birth control, pregnancy is not a risk for anyone who takes a semblance of precautions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:50 PM
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I was a fuckboy for years and never had a single woman judge me for it. Plenty of women friends who thought it was funny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:32 PM
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I'm dumber for reading this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:36 PM
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It has nothing to do with thinking "men are dirty". It has to do with, there's zero effort required to sleep with her, so why would I want to commit to her? Everyone else already got it, why put in effort beyond what they did, there's nothing special or accomplished by being with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:35 PM
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I'm always intrigued by the "false claims are 2-10%". If 90%+ of rape accusations don't end in a conviction, yet is frequently cited in statistics for how common it, wouldn't the same apply the other way. The ones found not guilty could either still be guilty or it could be a false accusation, so the number would realistically fall somewhere between.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:07 PM
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The difference is condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:19 PM
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As a formerly very promiscuous man, no women cared literally at all. I dated a Christian virgin for a couple of weeks and she would've married me on the spot if I asked. I can guarantee you she knew what I was like before and during our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:18 PM
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Women who don't want to have a one night stand just won't have one night stands. It's not that complicated. They may not want to have a pattern of it, but almost all of them are down for it in the right conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:15 PM
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No correlation, I think it's completely dependent on the woman. I've dated very attractive women with amazing personalities, as well as ones with shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:13 PM
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The sex work thing is most damning to me because the man can’t otherwise get sex, so they’re low value. The woman giving herself freely to many men is damning because it means there’s nothing sacred or achieved bu having her, thus also low value. One and the same for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:26 PM
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I’ve never met a woman who expected 1/100th of what you listed and I’ve been with more than my fair share. You’re delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:22 PM
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Nah, fuck that noise. I’ve never had any shortage of women interested, so why date a ho?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:07 PM
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From this post it’s very clear why women don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:00 PM
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I'm a child of a blended family. I have an older sister and my mom remarried my stepdad when I was 2. He also had a son, older than me, and I view him as my brother. My stepdad was way more of a dad than my real dad could ever hope to be. I personally wouldn't want to be a stepdad, but I'm very thankful he came into my life, or I'd have been in for a MUCH tougher upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:52 PM
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Or they have a man at home that actually earns money to pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:05 PM
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Paying your own bills is getting "used" now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:01 PM
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Women suck dick and swallow, because if you don't, you may as well not even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:58 PM
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This is so fucking cringe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:25 PM
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If this were true then why do many women have casual encounters with varying frequency of "almost never" to "all the time"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:59 PM
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"It's a 24-7 job durr hurr" Age Group | Recommended Sleep Duration (Hours) ---|:---| Newborns (0-3 months) | 14-17 Infants (4-11 months) | 12-15 Toddlers (1-2 years) | 11-14 Preschoolers (3-5 years) | 10-13 School-age children (6-13 years) | 9-12 Teenagers (14-17 years) | 8-10 Young adults (18-25 years) | 7-9 Adults (26-64 years) | 7-9 Older adults (65+ years) | 7-8
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:53 PM
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Probably has plenty of options then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:35 PM
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I have never dated a woman in my life that wanted less sex than I do... This shit about low libido women is just outright false.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:30 PM
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So they should be judged more harshly for who they fuck then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:15 PM
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Why does it affect you, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:40 PM
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And also human nature? People always want limited edition, exclusive, blah blah, whatever luxury, etc. because it feels good to attain what others can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:12 PM
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Nah, that's just a cope people have. It 100% has to do with feeling like you got something others couldn't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:16 PM
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Does this apply to the future too? Like why would I want to marry someone who let anybody have the goods and then restrict them and myself from that point on? There's nothing gained by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:11 PM
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Only 9.99% of the time? That's not much...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:10 PM
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delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:14 PM
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Many women look good enough naked to pass for "porn". This is likely only a real problem in unattractive (not fit) women, or those who don't groom as much. Nobody cares about the size of labia in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:10 PM
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Narcissism would be making someone else's sex life, that has no relation to you, about you....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:07 PM
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The reasoning is who cares about someone else's sex life unless you're jealous or want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:05 PM
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Those guys aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:20 PM
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Depends what "tier" of man you are tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:57 PM
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The only guys who hate women who sleep around are guys who can't get laid. Not wanting to date =/= hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:53 PM
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I’ve never met these fantasy women who make more and contribute more than me financially and I’m not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:22 PM
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I’m saying I’ve lived it and could still control myself just fine, not use hormones as an excuse for my behavior. Tren is not test, it’s 5x stronger per mg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:18 PM
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Every time I’ve ever rejected a woman for sex they’ve gotten extremely pissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:05 PM
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Hormone excuse is garbage. Try taking 750mg of tren and keep acting like a normal human, then talk to me. That’s orders of magnitude stronger and more intense than any hormone women will ever produce naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:45 PM
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Fat ugly men aren’t getting pretty women unless they’re loaded. Let them scream into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:42 PM
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The day farts stop being funny is the day I don't wanna live on this Earth anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure all types are heavily represented online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:50 PM
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>9 is like 0.0001% of the population, so you're quite a rarity to stumble across 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:42 PM
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Agreed. And women should stop getting mad if someone out of their league pumps and dumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:53 AM
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The difference is the average women can probably get a hot guy to fuck them for a night, the same can't be said about the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:38 PM
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Your number 2 is literally every woman on Tinder, except they match with the 3s, think that's their desirability level, and get deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:31 PM
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Nah just a juicy boy. Women don't want emaciated, they want Chris Evans Captain America / Thor build.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:30 PM
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6'3 225 and 10-12% body fat. Easy to maintain, just sprinkle a little tren in your protein shakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:29 PM
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6'3-6'4 and 177 lol? Did you just get rescued from a concentration camp twinky boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:15 PM
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90% of women on bumble used to just initiate with "Hey there" anyway. Ofc they're getting ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:13 PM
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Good joke, no truly attractive guy is out banging 2-3s unless they are fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:18 PM
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As a man, I agree with this take. I always dragged my feet as long as possible on any exclusivity talks all my life while first starting to date someone. It's always worked out well in my favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:02 PM
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I right swiped about 5% on dating apps too as a man and I had good success.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 08:55 PM
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I think most women have a better shot of meeting a guy with an actually born baby than when pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 08:15 PM
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The men doing it probably don't even feel strongly about politics. It's just a way to filter for more liberal women, who are probably more promiscuous than trad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:06 AM
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I think trump is objectively the worst president in history and McConnell the devil reincarnate. I’d still be wary of someone with “no republicans” in their profile, as I’d assume it’s someone who just wants to complain and pick fights with the other side constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:26 AM
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Of all my hook ups in my life, maybe 5 were adamant about using a condom. A lot wouldn’t ask and the ones who did just let it fly when I said I didn’t have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:09 AM
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Sex with a condom as a man is guaranteed frustration and disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:03 PM
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Oh I definitely don't tell girls how many people I've slept with. If they ask, I just say I don't remember or it's not important or "a handful". My current gf says I'm a whore all the time though and I'm sure she has a rough idea, although if she's to be believed, she's slept with only 1 other guy. The virgin I dated didn't care at all, even though she was batshit crazy religious, she just wanted a guy who would know what he was doing when the time came.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:44 AM
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I've been in 2 - 3 year relationships and a 1.5 year relationship from 20-30 and I still had plenty of time to get around between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:37 AM
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Or maybe he's just attractive and went out to bars a lot while single. Most of mine came from OLD casual hook ups, trying to date someone and seeing if we had chemistry, or some girl throwing herself at me while out at the bars with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:15 AM
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Guy here with a very high count. I've dated a range of women from virgin to pretty damn slutty. I'd say it's more likely than not that I'll end up with someone below 5 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:13 AM
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This woman quite literally has a mental impairment, why choose her to rag on?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/20 06:03 PM
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MRA's complain about factual things like sentencing disparity, child custody, etc. You complain about getting your feefee's hurt in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:58 PM
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Were 5/6 examples literally from middle / high school. Why would anyone take this seriously using anecdotes of when you were 12 and thinking it applies to adulthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:29 PM
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Except it’s not. Some resources from a lot of men might mean dinner occasionally. Marriage resources of potential full support of never working doesn’t even compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:25 PM
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As a guy, this is the easiest cue in the world to pick up. That is pretty much how 90% of my bar / club ONS started because I don't cold approach women who didn't show some semblance of interest in my appearance first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:49 PM
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Logically you would think it makes sense to pursue multiple men for more resources. However, most men if they're not receiving exclusive sexual commitment are not going to put forth any significant amount of resources. That's why marriage with a HVM is the ultimate goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:41 PM
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I know, it's also used as a payment method for lemon stealing whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:39 PM
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Title makes post. That said, risk of raw sex is overblown. I’ve been with well over 100 women at this point and only the clap and gonorrhea once each. I take male bc, so I don’t concern myself in pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:37 AM
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Condom sex is 100% worse than rubbing one out, which is why I have essentially never used them in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:52 PM
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Almost never happens and generally only with inexperienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:50 PM
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They do have men's birth control, it's called anabolic androgenic steroids. The government made them illegal though because "masculine things bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:35 PM
2

Small and petite is sexy and feminine looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:10 PM
1

¯_(ツ)_/¯ I'm sorry you feel that way. Personally as a guy, a blowjob isn't a good one if they don't finish the job and pulling out to finish in a towel or something is the least sexy orgasm ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:59 PM
1

That's your opinion, I'm giving you the perspective of someone on the other side. A woman disgusted with your cum probably isn't all that attracted to you in the first place. If a guy went down on you but looked like he was disgusted doing it the whole time, would you be turned on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:51 PM
2

The times you can eat at home, you get quality food. The times you can't, you prioritize protein macros and minimal added fats and sugars. It all balances out in the end for a better diet than still 95% of the country probably eats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:50 PM
2

I used to travel a ton for work and ate on the road constantly. I was the leanest I've probably ever been in my life during this time, as I only ate chipotle burrito bowls (double chicken, no cheese, no sour cream) and chick fil a grilled options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:46 PM
1

If some guy posted how he refuses to ever give a woman oral, and someone responded that the women in his life are going to have an unsatisfying sex life, I somehow don't think people would be calling them triggered. I don't really care what you do with your life, I'm offering you advice that what you're doing is a huge turnoff to men in general, take that and do with it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:44 PM
1

Wrong, 90% is genetics for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:41 PM
1

Trigger is a strong word, the correct word you're looking for is "pity". Why does anything that happens to anyone trigger other people that's unrelated to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:36 PM
1

I never said you won't, I pity the men who have to put up with bad sex out of desperation and lack of options elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:23 PM
2

Any guy who has slept with more than a handful of above average girls is a Chad on here. Above average would be like a 6/10 by real world standards but by Reddit, they're an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:15 PM
1

Sorry, but most men are never going to be truly fulfilled having sex with a woman with this mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:05 PM
1

They never go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:19 PM
6

Now this is a person who gets the struggle. This has been my life from 22 onward and I suspect it's never going to change. Don't be like me and just cheat to get what you want from both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:05 AM
2

I don't consider it much of a problem either. Seems like the vast majority of women, if they want you bad enough, will let it slide. I just never would keep condoms around and if they were adamant about using theirs, I wouldn't ever see them again after. Pretty easy solution ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 09:20 PM
0

Careful = no casual sex ever or when you do have it, you might as well not, because condoms suck so bad it ruins the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 08:45 PM
0

I never wear condoms with strangers and some of the most intimate sex can be with someone you recently met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 08:17 PM
0

Condom sex is not the norm, regardless of what they say on reddit. I've probably worn a condom with 5-10% of my total partners, if that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:25 PM
4

Anybody who posts online about giving women "orgasms after orgasms" falls into the latter category too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:24 PM
2

Relationships sex gets old quick, anybody who actually slept around a lot would know, that's why they choose to pursue more casual flings in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:22 PM
0

Anything bigger than size 2-4 is too fat and the 4 is for 5'8+ women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 04:47 PM
1

Yes, but the sexual exclusivity means nothing if every other guy in your city got it first. You're just the one paying more for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:48 PM
0

That nut should have never turned into a baby in the first place, when they made their intentions clear upfront they did not want a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:57 PM
1

I'd say they would certainly be a higher risk of cheating because the men with high n counts have more chances to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:48 PM
1

Why are these women sweaty?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:40 PM
1

I can guarantee I do. That said, I think it would be universally agreed that it's weird to keep track of your number to the extent you do, as if it's some badge of honor. Like bro, just go enjoy your life and if you're having a lot of sex, enjoy the moment and then move on and find something else to chase your interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:38 PM
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No, I'm saying you go out, have fun, be yourself, hang with friends, get drunk, meet people, and sometimes go home with somebody and hook up. These experiences blend together when you do the same shit over and over again, month after month, and you just lose track of your number. The only way to actually keep track of a number is by logging it somewhere after each encounter, and that is weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:35 PM
1

What value is monogamy if you're the 100th man in line? In the most traditional sense, monogamy benefits women from enhancing their resources, and it benefits men through exclusive access to sex. Your access isn't all that exclusive if you're the 100th person to have access to the club. That said, I don't agree with that viewpoint of a relationship, but many men, particularly on here, do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:28 PM
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Anybody with a mentality of "any hole is a goal" is a type of person that is living in scarcity and desperation. Maybe that reflects most men, I don't really know, I don't think so from my friend group bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:24 PM
1

Fake it till ya make it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:22 PM
1

3/12 without a condom is comically low. I've had more encounters than I can count and probably 95% of them have been without a condom because condoms are awful, awful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:21 PM
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You do you bud, I find it incredibly weird. It tells me you put in way too much effort into something that should realistically come very natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:14 PM
1

Sorry, but unless I was autistically spreadsheeting my life over the past 12 years, I would have absolutely zero idea how many people I've slept with. The type of person to autistically spreadsheet something like that isn't the type of guy who gets laid, hth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:10 PM
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I would never go to a glory hole, nor would I value sex with an unattractive woman. I guess I look at it the same way women do then, by your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:07 PM
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Not the point I was making at all. When it's easy come, easy go, they all blend together and you forget about a lot of encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:06 PM
0

We know this is a lie because anybody over 15-20 doesn't count and forgets a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:00 PM
1

If that were true, women wouldn't have casual sex with men they know they'll never see agian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:51 PM
1

I can't say I agree 100%, but I definitely get where you're coming from. It's a sad state of affairs, but your perspective is probably more accurate than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:46 PM
1

He would be providing utility of good sex....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:43 PM
1

I don't, I'm good friends / have dated plenty of women I started off with casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:30 PM
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LOL, at least you're honest. You're pretty much the embodiment of why men on here are the way they are though. You view men as utility, shouldn't it make sense they view women the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:28 PM
7

Sounds like you should date a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:11 PM
1

From the guy who responded "nope" to the person who was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:30 AM
5

I've spent about 5 minutes one time reading it and the only thing I could feel was pity for the women on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:33 AM
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Sure thing bud. The most confident, and certainly not insecure, people are the ones needing to reassure themselves and others by writing shit like that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:44 PM
1

A few years ago, I probably would've qualified as a Chad by this subs standards. It feels more or less like living your life has always been. It doesn't feel special if it's just your normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:21 PM
2

Every post you make makes it sound more and more like you're LARPing with no real world experience. I'm trying to understand how anybody who actually has sex can type out "perfect my ability to give orgasms" and not collapse in on itself in a black hole of cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:17 PM
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Yeah bud, anyone who is actually good in bed doesn't feel the need to shout it out in a reddit topic.... Mostly same goes for dudes who sleep around a lot. Frankly, I don't tell anyone but my closest friends my ballpark N count, and especially not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:57 PM
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Sorta, but you still have to know how to socialize and escalate. The most you'll likely get is the occasional girl approaching you, but far more common is making eye contact and they give you the "look" to go talk to them. As long as you can hold a conversation at that point and are charming, you're usually in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:53 PM
1

how black dudes buy condoms That's how I buy condoms too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:45 PM
2

This post is peak reddit sexgod cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:22 PM
1

Sounds like you have no experience in the matter...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:13 PM
1

This explains the lack of sex from the men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:12 PM
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I was mostly being sarcastic in line with the thinking of this sub. Based on the numbers, your explanation actually makes sense. Based on my life experience, it's very much the opposite though, but I'll take statistical over anecdotal any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:10 PM
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Anyone with an ounce of self respect is a LVM by FDS standards though....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:02 PM
1

Obviously it's because all the women in relationships are sleeping with "Chad" and then passing it onto their beta buxx boyfriends....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:01 PM
1

You should probably go post this on slutty confessions with all the other literotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:58 PM
2

Why did you make this account to spam troll posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:55 PM
1

Maybe you just have a bulkier bone structure. Eat healthy moderate / low calorie and lift weights, focusing butt and glutes, if you want to get more curvy. Bret Contreras is a great resource for women interested in the science of lifting on their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 03:39 PM
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I'm talking girls who are model attractive - i.e. 18-19 BMI and conventionally beautiful face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:19 PM
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Attractive girls fuck on the first date all the time for attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:57 PM
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23 and 27 BMI are both way too fat for a woman to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:18 PM
1

I got bad news for you bud
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:15 PM
1

Thirsty simps are bad for everyone, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 12:36 AM
1

By that logic, I also don't want to fuck the vast majority of women because they're overweight and unattractive. The easy solution to that is... wait for it... to just not fuck the ones you feel that way about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 12:09 AM
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You must not like it much if you consider it "giving" the guy something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:46 PM
1

Agreed, any woman who thinks they're doing you a favor by having sex with you is a bad partner to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:20 PM
1

Sounds to me like you just don't enjoy sex then. All the women I've dated want way more sex than I ever do, so clearly they're enjoying it. Frankly, the only time I want sex more than women is when it hasn't happened yet or is just starting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:36 PM
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I was always a semi-narcissistic asshole and that led to lots of ONS / casual sex over the years. It didn't change my personality, it was just a natural effect of my personality from the getgo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:31 PM
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No, because women aren't giving anything away by having sex, it's a mutually beneficial activity. Men who get fleeced for money are actively losing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:27 PM
1

Gonna guess it's the person posting on a month old post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:24 PM
3

Damn, your standards must be atrocious to swipe right 7/10 times. Whenever I used tinder, even in dream cities like NYC, I'd be left swiping like 9/10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:49 PM
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I always tell girls I don't have a condom and ask if I can just pull out and regardless of age group, 90% always say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 08:33 PM
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I do, it's only the spineless cucks who get taken to the cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:05 PM
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LOL this does not hold true at all. My current gf had one other partner she slept with, her first boyfriend, and while she probably has no idea the true extent, she definitely knows I slept around a fair bit and always jokes about me being a ho. I've casually fwb with many women who had somewhere between 1-10 partners over the years and a lot of them caught feelings eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 02:39 PM
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I don’t judge them in the sense I badmouth them or aren’t friends with girls like that. I just personally wouldn’t date them, but I’m also not gonna list that as the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 11:59 PM
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And all I'm saying is until the culture changes, those double standards will stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:02 PM
1

Unfortunately sex will forever be viewed as something women give men as long as men are the ones out chasing it 98% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:48 PM
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Not at all, I'm very confident in myself, and on top of it, I couldn't care less for people I just sleep with. It solely boils down to something involving commitment with women that have that type of past. I feel no value in committing myself to someone that lots of other people got to have without having to commit. It's irrational and I know it's wrong, especially given I've essentially slept around for 10 years, but it's some deep gut feeling that I can't shake. My educated guess is that I fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:24 PM
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I'm not possessive over someone's past, I think people should do whatever makes them happy, and I have a very, very storied past. That said, there's something inherently unappealing about serious relationships with a girl with shit like that in her past, it just makes committing to only fucking her feel pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:14 PM
4

Facial appearance can be ruined by lack of fitness, it doesn't make an ugly person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:48 PM
2

In reality, if she told him 12-15, it's probably more like 25-30. It's really cute when people say they'd be "happy to watch those ones leave" until it's the guy they're interested in and that's what ends things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:47 PM
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You seemed to miss facial appearance for core tenet of attraction, which is 1st or 2nd most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 03:38 PM
3

NGL, a LOT of men would probably consider that experience a huge dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:26 PM
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It's clickbait dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 02:58 PM
2

I'm a gymrat, I see plenty of women who work out all the time and lift weights like men do. Pretty much none of them put on serious muscle, aside from maybe their legs and butt. Upper body they definitely do not put on significant mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:31 PM
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Women don’t have real muscle and curvy is code for fat. I like girls who look like models, or gal gadot body. Every man does, most just can’t get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:51 AM
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Women only look good below 20 BMI, so even "healthy weight" women often have bodies that look like shit IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:35 PM
1

97% of women are completely unfuckable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 10:52 PM
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You don't have much testosterone, so you don't know what men actually feel. It's the same reason men look at women who break down and cry over minor shit as being emotionally weak, estrogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 10:51 PM
1

Men should have higher BMIs by nature, we have more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 07:29 PM
29

This. Discussion over, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 07:23 PM
0

And men are the only ones who don't even feel sex when a condom is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:07 PM
1

If we go with the argument, "men don't pressure women to do x", then we can use the same argument for shitty things men do. Men shouldn't be blamed for sleeping around and being a fuckboy because women let them in their pants anyway, it's actually the women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:04 PM
1

There is entirely WAY too much literature on the subject for you to even consider taking recommendations from a guy on Reddit. Common practice dictates you should start by taking 500mg of test per week as a first time cycle though. If you're actually serious about looking into it, spend multiple months doing lots of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:26 PM
2

Guess they don't make millions for their forward thinking and intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:47 PM
1

Lift 4-5x a week, focus on compound exercises with free weights. Eat your body weight in g of protein per day eith minimal fat and rest carbs based on TDEE if cutting or bulking. Take steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:45 PM
1

Sure but it’s not as imbalanced as you’re making it sound for the vast majority of average people. Why would an athlete marry a ho also?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:41 PM
1

The rundown on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:09 PM
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There is no such thing as a professional athlete that hasn't slept with probably hundreds of women. As far as the others, they could've just been late bloomers who focused on their career and were ultimately settled for their money. You do realize it is mathematically impossible for all men to marry women with double their count, it takes two to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:08 PM
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Yeah, I'm saying why would 7 make you uncomfortable when it's such a low number?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:46 PM
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Damn girl, run for the hills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:37 PM
1

7 people is like a few months of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:35 PM
0

I'm not concerned with the number you stated, I'm just pointing out how buying escorts is stupid if you can get casual sex, which is undoubtedly better sex, for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:28 PM
2

That means you hang out with all low tier men who are being settled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:24 PM
1

Try living in a city with millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:18 PM
0

Thanks, good for you for making a point so easy to refute.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:15 PM
1

For $300 a month, I could get multiple women over dates and I also don't have to wear a condom like I would with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:13 PM
2

Most high earners are still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:06 PM
1

Devoting a ton of effort into a strict diet, exercise, and "supplement" routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:27 PM
1

You just keep posting about these studies that exist and I'm waiting to see what they actually claim. Your claim is that face matters most, ok, so if that's a 9/10 on importance and body is an 8/10, does that mean body doesn't matter? No, so post your fucking sources you mongloid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:23 AM
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Link one. You might as well be up here arguing women care more about face than height, when they both matter extensively and either without the other is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:48 AM
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And I’m saying all those studies ask women what they look for most. Much like they’ll always say personality, that shit just isn’t true. Want real life experience, get jacked and tell me what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:25 AM
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And I'm saying I've lived on both sides of this and you're objectively wrong. Studies are done based on what women SAY they want, not what they do. Never listen to what women say they want, always watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:47 AM
1

I never said you NEEDED it, I said they go fucking nuts for it. I've lived on both sides bud, the number of looks and attention you get after reaching that point is like playing with cheat codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:00 AM
1

That was my point. Women go most nuts for the “on” steroids but uninformed people will jist think they’re natty ripped look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:39 PM
2

This is wrong. Girls don't like the cloud bodybuilder look, but the lean 8-9% body fat and 26FFMI makes them go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:18 PM
1

Lean 6'2 180 is not big at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:17 PM
1

Women don't care at all. I'm with a professional white collar chick who slept with 1 other guy and I've been with probably triple digits. She's never asked, but I assume she has a rough idea of how much I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:30 AM
0

I never am exclusive wrt sex until we have a talk. That usually occurs after sleeping together consistently for a few months. In the meantime, I am usually very open to meeting, dating, and fucking other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:54 AM
1

I'm a millenial and 5 years ago, when I first started online dating, I slept with them on the first date like 90% of the time. It's not just zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:52 AM
1

I'd only go through the trouble if you're feeling strongly in your convictions. Bet your account since you're so sure and I'll take the other side of that bet. The person who's wrong takes a ban from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:12 PM
1

I'm glad my life sounds so unbelievable that PPD thinks it's fantasy. Happy to provide any proof you'd like if you bet your account on it. I win, you take a ban from PPD, I don't follow through, I'll take the ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:59 PM
2

There are no actual top tier men who would deal with a radfem. Ya'll are absolutely batshit insane and only a truly omega beta could put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:03 PM
5

Congrats, you're dating a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:34 PM
2

I have multiple close friends who are women that I value very highly. That said, at one point or another, I've slept with pretty much all of them. There's no sexual tension or lingering thoughts anymore, now it's strictly platonic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:14 PM
2

I'm saying you better find something else of value you can offer up quick, because 35 year old ovaries aren't going to cut it for remotely successful and attractive men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:19 PM
2

Nah, but you insinuated I'm some fuckboy degen with your comment, so I thought I'd show you otherwise. The funny thing about men, is that we're humans, just like women, and we also want to feel that our partner is interested in us and wants to treat us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:07 PM
3

I'm tall and handsome in a happily committed relationship with a 25 year old who also makes around 6 figures and is a size 00. She is the polar opposite of FDS though, she regularly treats me, although I try to stop her from doing it too much as I feel bad when women spend money on me. When we first started dating, she would regularly insist on picking up the tab, even when I'd protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:03 PM
2

Nobody can truly be so delusional as to think their value as a woman at 40 isn't less than at 20, can they?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:58 PM
2

1/1,000 women are hot enough to be that demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:54 PM
1

You know, sex is fun. You're missing out on a huge aspect of life by treating it as some gift to be won. Pretty much every girl I've dated seriously is constantly begging for more sex than I even care to have, lots of women just can't get enough of it. You're only hurting yourself by missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:53 PM
3

Yet in another post you said you mostly date average guys and they're still fuckbois. I'm just not understanding how you're accomplishing any of the desired outcomes from FDS. You're 35 sweetie, the prospects are only going to get worse from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:40 PM
1

I always pay for drinks at the first bar, but expect them to cover us at the second, assuming I want to keep hanging out with them. It usually ends being slightly cheaper at the second location, as I tend to want to start at a nice cocktail bar and then move to an activity bar, like a beercade, to keep things more interesting. I make it crystal clear when I pay at the first that they'll cover us at the second, say it in a lighthearted manner, and I've never had a woman back out or decide that if…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:37 PM
2

You talk the FDS talk, so why don't you walk the walk? Their entire premise is around securing high value men for long term commitment, so where is yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:34 PM
3

I've seen men thirst after land whales, that's not saying much. Tell me how that marriage with a HVM is working out for you, if you're truly as great a catch as you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:31 PM
1

And here she is at 35 posting on Reddit. It's clearly working out for her LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:29 PM
1

My first dates 99% of the time throughout my life were drinks at a bar. I'd then pay and tell them they can spot me at the next bar and we'd move venues. This worked to get first date sex far more often than it failed. Then again, I'm tall, attractive, and workout religiously, so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:29 PM
6

You're 35, you're not exactly in a position to be making demands as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:20 PM
2

Nobody wants to eat at Texas Roadhouse you mongloid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:19 PM
1

Every post I've ever seen you make on here cements how low your standards are. Just because you're willing to fall on a grenade to get your dick wet doesn't mean others want to. People who can afford to be choosy should be choosy, evidently you're just not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:28 PM
3

Men don't actually want thicc, it's a cope to deal with the fact that they can't get the few % of women who are thin. Every gf I've had that's like 17-18 BMI was thirsted on by dudes so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:42 PM
1

oops
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:07 PM
1

Yet, here I sit on the couch, drinking a coffee that my gf got out of bed to make me, alongside my breakfast. When I'm done, she'll come clear my plate and cup, and do any other dishes in my sink, since we're at my place. She also brought over a bunch of clothes that she recently ordered for me, because she makes about as much money as me and generally spends more on the relationship than I do. I generally do the cooking of real meals though, because I'm a better cook, but she recently cleaned m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:59 PM
10

Because when you're a top % lookswise, hot girls are easy too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/20 02:47 PM
14

That sounds less appealing than not. That said, I'm 6'3 and handsome, so fucking ugly girls is completely foreign to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/20 02:45 PM
26

Only gutter trash is swiping right on this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/20 02:43 PM
1

There's nothing difficult about dating women my own age, I just don't want to. I dated women my own age when I was younger and now I would prefer to date younger women because they are more attractive to me. You're acting like men who date younger do it out of desperation, they do it for the exact opposite, because they're the ones who can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:28 PM
-1

Ironic, given your original post was insulting by arguing that men who date younger women for any reason "just can't handle their peers".' You - Insults men Also you - Don't insult women!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:12 PM
1

I do get tested on occasion, but I'm certainly not stressing myself worrying about HIV. I could bang a different girl, chosen at random, raw, every day, for the next 10 years straight, and it's way more likely than not that I still would not get HIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:59 PM
1

I've slept with over 100 women and my current gf has slept with 1 other guy before me. Anyone talking about HIV testing in hetero relationships doesn't understand statistics and is too stupid to be my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:51 PM
0

Only old women seem to think men "just can't handle them". I don't care what cope you tell yourself, younger women are hotter and more fun, so I'm going to stick with that. I don't need 10 extra years of wrinkles in my partner, just so I can prove to the world that I can handle a woman who is probably rushing to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:48 PM
3

It's incel literotica, so I wouldn't stress it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:38 PM
0

Or they just want the new car, not the used camry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:36 PM
1

You’re living in fantasy world where finances aren’t shared in a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:04 PM
2

Nah it’s because they have a kid you have to contribute to that doesn’t benefit your genetic line. Wasted resources on non genetic material goes against our biology. If you didn’t care, you’d adopt instead of having birthed your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:50 PM
1

In what world does a dual income house with a child not spend that money on a child? It’s also a rarity that most single mothers in their 20s have good careers and aren’t just hoping for a bailout.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:12 PM
1

That's fine, but if you date with the intent of marriage, the kid becomes your own. A lot of people don't want to expend resources on someone else's creampie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:04 PM
0

Maybe, but usually childbirth does some irreversible changes to the body that are obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:58 PM
1

You can probably understand why most people without kids don’t want someone with tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:43 AM
4

Doesn’t mean I have to date one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:42 AM
6

Guys thirst isn’t something to brag on. Simps will hit on obese grandmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:30 AM
3

It can be done, my sister has kids abd is back to her pre baby weight. But she actually like exercises and has a strict lifestyle diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:29 AM
4

Been seeing someone 7 years younger than me since just before Covid started.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:55 PM
3

People want to view children as a "blessing", so it hurts to hear that this "blessing" is actually the reason that they're disqualified from people they'd otherwise deem on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:23 PM
6

The truth about their situation hurts because they know it's true. Single moms are wayyyyyy down on the value totem pole for dating, unless they're older and looking for other divorced / single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:06 PM
9

Mad moms downvoting me LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:59 PM
4

98% of women who have kids gain 20 lbs that they never lose again. So I'd say damn near basically zero of them are hot enough to justify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:50 PM
4

At least those are kids learning how the real world works. At 15, you shouldn't be listening to a bunch of 30 year old incels and crazy cat ladies arguing about who has it worse. There's some good debates in here from time to time, but the vast majority of this sub is people who failed in every aspect of life and are looking for somewhere to vent. For your own mental health, I'd stay away until you have more life experience to make your own judgments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:22 PM
6

95% of it is pure poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:20 PM
25

Easy to find a girl with daddy issues when you're the source of those issues. That's some galaxy brain thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:08 PM
18

I'm in my early 30s and date women in their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:06 PM
0

I have no issue getting attractive women, they're still relatively easy pickings. Why would I go for someone whose body has been ravaged by childbirth, when I'm solely attracted to tiny, petite, thin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:01 PM
7

You’re 15, don’t read this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:54 PM
38

Single mothers who want kid free, attractive men are delusional tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:50 PM
50

I don't blame you, seems fair from both perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:22 PM
1

If you truly like someone enough to do this, the smart play is to just casually fuck on the side but try to win the main girl over time. It's what I'd personally do, if I ever felt that strongly towards someone. That said, all the girls I've ever felt an incredible connection with started with sleeping together very early because the chemistry was fire from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:43 PM
0

Novelty is fun. I've probably slept with well over 100 women in my life and aside from a few short periods, I was never truly just "chasing" pussy constantly. It's something that just kinda happens if you have a close friend group and go out to bars a lot in a big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:31 PM
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As a 30 year old male, yes I immediately disqualify any woman who has kids. It's not even a consideration or up for debate, it is a 100%, hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:27 PM
0

High quality sex Condom Pick 1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:17 PM
1

Probably, but why would you want to chase cougars when 20 year olds exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 03:12 PM
1

Anyone continuing to pay the lion's share after a date or two is a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 09:25 PM
2

The easy solution is to be attractive and take a woman for drinks. Get a couple at a bar, then tell them you want to go to a second bar and insinuate they'll pay there. Works 9/10 because they want to keep spending time with you, you end up essentially splitting the costs, and it leads to easy sex a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 09:24 PM
2

I don't think anyone ever made the claim vaginas aren't robust enough to take a beating, nor that dicks should be enough to birth a child through them... Not sure how that has any bearing on how women evolved to need resource providers for their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:55 PM
1

Sure, everybody offers various things in a relationship. That said, the entire point of pair bonding throughout human history was to provide fidelity for the man and resources for the woman and child. That is at the root of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:21 PM
1

Okay, I'll take your stance. Let's say I decide to date a partner who expects me to contribute more resources to our communal pool, i.e. she wants me to out earn her. I then expect, given her role in the relationship, I can have as high of a body count coming in as I want, but hers needs to be on the lower end. Want to be the princess, taken care of by the prince, you have to play your part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:15 PM
1

Sounds like a roundabout way of saying, "rules for thee but not for me". Women double standard good, men double standard bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:10 PM
3

Oh, I'm sorry that's really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:04 PM
2

So a baby can fit through....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:01 PM
3

It's definitely not discussed like it is here, but pretty much everyone tries to gauge it tactfully and makes relationship decisions based on what those assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:00 PM
1

Women by and large want men who earn more money than them. Does that make them hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:55 PM
2

Damn yo, were you a prostitute lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:50 PM
1

It's because for the majority of us, capital gains taxes are a tax on income that was already taxed once before, so it would be shit to raise it. That said, for the outliers, people making $1M+ in cap gains, I'm all for raising it to higher levels, closer to what we see in income tax brackets, given that at that point, cap gains ARE their income.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:46 PM
3

Nice Penis Asian I'm sorry for your struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:32 AM
1

Need to viable and have a functioning brain to be considered human, fetuses are not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:39 PM
1

And if you start altering your future plans on the assumption that you'll win the lottery, that makes you an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:23 PM
1

A cluster of cells is not a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:23 PM
1

Based on your other posts, it seems painfully obvious why women would view a bombastic talking, closet beta as not worthy of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 06:48 PM
1

Pretty much everything you listed is vanilla in 2020. Even the most timid, shy girls do all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 04:07 PM
1

Third wave feminism has literally taught women to perpetually play victim. It's why a good litmus test for women is if they are / are not a feminist. If they are, run, run far away, and don't look back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:46 PM
1

Is life fun when you live in constant fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:43 PM
2

Why do people throw this "risk of murdered" shit around, like it isn't less likely than winning the fucking powerball.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:39 PM
3

Abortion isn't murder bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:37 PM
1

I don't think anyone has ever denied that. Even in the cases of women trying to kill their intimate partner, chances are they'll try to get a new guy to do it for them, rather than actually go through with it themselves. Violence is not and has never been women's weapon, manipulation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:36 PM
1

It’s more of a challenge and thus more rewarding getting a less slutty girl into bed quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:40 PM
8

Wouldn’t it be biologically natural but socially disgusting....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:35 PM
9

This is entitled. I’m a 6’3 guy and I love short girls. 5’1 - 5’6 is perfect range.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:33 PM
1

Yeah, I was curious about your perspective since you're such a huge outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:55 AM
1

Well you said in another post you slept with triple digit men, so I'd consider that pretty hefty sleeping around as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:05 AM
1

If that’s the case, why not stick to the same partners? The only reason I slept around so much is, novel pussy is best pussy, and the chase itself is fun. What’s the incentive as a women to sleep around if it’s worse and you get no accomplishment cuz you’re not chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:28 PM
14

This very much. As a guy, when I bring a girl back, I try to make my intentions as clear as possible too. I don’t say, “let’s go back and have one more drink / watch a movie / blah blah”. If I know it’s in the bag, I outright say I want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:33 PM
3

It means whatever people believe it means, everyone has a different take on sex. But I also occasionally use the "talking to" phrase, especially with my parents to keep it PG if they ask if I'm dating anyone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 02:34 PM
1

Well the ones with kids are hoping for something "real", as we commonly see. If that's the case, eventually they'd find out you have kids and it will probably be a dealbreaker, so it's best to just get it out of the way and filter upfront.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 02:32 PM
5

"talking to a guy" means fucking bud. Hate to break it to ya.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 02:20 PM
1

Get it out of the way because 95% of men will nope out on them during the first date if they find out they hid having kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 02:18 PM
1

As a good looking guy, I don't go looking for commitment but if I find a person that I truly care about, I'm open to it. When I date, I'll usually sleep around, have a handful of girls on rotation that I casually see, meet new ones, shuffle out old ones, etc. until I meet one that I really click with. Then when that happens, I want commitment and exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:10 PM
3

Have more muscle for higher tdee. I cut on 2.8-3k and bulk on 4.5-5k.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:22 PM
1

I was in one of the top 2 frats at a huge greek life university (40k+ students) and I still got way more pussy from 25-29 than I did in college. I did well in college, but my upper 20s after a few life changes and living in one of the largest cities in the US, made it comically easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:03 AM
1

If you wanna take your physique to the next level, you gotta be eating carbs bruh. I'm 6'3 235 at ~11-12% body fat and I eat around 700g of carbs a day right now while bulking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:01 AM
1

It's pretty weird if you're seriously dating someone to not sleepover or have them sleepover regularly. My gf would get mad at me if we didn't sleep together at least 2-3 nights a week and I prefer it that way. Personally, when I'm dating someone, I sleep better when they're in bed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:58 AM
1

I don’t demean or call anyone sluts irl. A lot of my friends are promiscuous women, I don’t care one bit. The only feelings I have towards them are an aversion to dating seriously. Casual flings are still on the table though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:52 PM
2

I'd still rather be raped by a woman I found unattractive than get paid for gay sex, by a large margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:00 PM
1

Women doing porn are at least straight, so they're fucking their preferred sex. Gay for pay is not a comparable option, straight men are repulsed at the idea of partaking in gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:53 PM
1

That's because the average body is gross to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:53 PM
2

They're just an accessory, I don't care as much. The skinny girl with big tits looks great but in practice it doesn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:53 PM
1

Well it's a good thing I rarely ever dumpster dived then. Sex ain't worth the time spent thrusting if you wear a condom, so why would I even chase women at all if that was the expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:33 PM
2

If I add blow or molly, it shuts down. If I'm just drinking though, I rarely have issues, maybe only 20-25% of the time and that's talking straight hammered? If a condom was involved though, even like tipsy will just shut me down, so that plays a huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:26 PM
2

White, asian, or latina, 5'1-5'6, small framed and around 18-19 BMI. Pretty face, good teeth is a must. I don't care that much if they workout, as long as they're skinny and have a flat stomach. My last ex never worked out a day in her life, but was 5'4 98 lbs and had c cups with a perky ass. I can't really say what I look for in their face beyond attractive, but it's hard to quantify what makes people attractive from that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:25 PM
2

I would never dumpster dive, I have extremely high standards for who I’ll fuck in terms of appearance. I don’t want to be seen leaving a venue with a chubby or unattractive girl. Chubby to me is >21 BMI. If I’m ~10-12% body fat and muscular, I expect very fit bodies in women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:03 PM
2

I only ever meet anyone in public first. Nonetheless it’s common knowledge the hardcore slutty girls are the ones who are 100% condom always. The only ones I ever met like that were always the clear feminist, sex positive type. It’s not hard to read women, the ones nervous to ask about a condom or who don’t stand firm don’t have hook ups often / at all regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:35 PM
1

Depends entirely on the girl. The ones who sleep with 5 guys in their life are far less adamant about condoms than the ones who sleep with 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:16 AM
1

Well the math is easy enough to do, knowing the transmission likelihood and cases per capita of the general pop. Doctors are there to mitigate risk at all costs, of course they'd encourage condom use, because even low risk is bad risk when you can (just wear a condom). The thing is, they're not the ones who have to suffer through terrible, feelingless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:46 AM
1

The only time I've ever fucked girls I deemed less attractive, which are probably still attractive by reddit standards, are when I completely black out. Generally though, when that happens, I feel shame the next morning, so I've learned to not do that when I drink heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:41 AM
1

They may be closer in age, but you do a hell of a lot more aging from 10-20 than 20-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:27 AM
2

60% are overweight by BMI. 18-25 is the range, 21ish to 25 is also unattractive on women, so that leaves about 10-15% of the population, maybe? Of those, maybe 1/3 have a fuckable face. Why would I bang slump buster looking girls when I'm in the top 1-2 percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:24 AM
0

girls from 18-25 are the peak, I have no interest in the young teen look, it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:22 AM
5

That age range is disgustingly low
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:02 AM
1

I'm actually very picky about what girls I pursue to sleep with. I have turned down many interested girls because I didn't find them attractive enough. I'm only easy in the sense of that, if they're hot, I'm in. I also have to do the chasing, if it was 200 girls throwing themselves at me of any attractiveness and I sleep with 100 of them, then I would be easy. Also seems like men instinctively have a distaste for being exclusive with a girl who sleeps / slept around. Probably no different than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:12 PM
1

STIs are so laughably overblown it's just plain stupid. The only true bad one is HIV and I recall I did some spitball math the other day and the odds per unprotected encounter with any woman chosen at random was something like 0.0000002% based on transmission and infected rates. I've had curable ones here and there, shot and a pill, and you're all chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:07 PM
4

Almost all my female friends are girls I fucked at one point or another. Now we can just be platonic with no sexual tension and neither of us are interested in anything further sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:46 PM
2

I've never fucked an escort because I don't consider sex worth my time if it's with a condom. I also don't think I'd be excited by paying a woman to fuck me, I want them to find the prospect of letting me in raw overwhelm them, so they just do it in the moment. The hottest sex ever is with someone you barely know, lets you go raw, and finish wherever you want because they feel so much attraction to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:43 PM
1

At best 5% of the female population is fuckable and that's generous. They are far from a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:37 PM
2

For the right woman, I would wait a long time, but I would also expect that we are not exclusive and I can chase purely physical gratification elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:30 PM
1

Access to contraceptives that don't make us not want to have sex*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:27 PM
2

It honestly always sounds more fun in theory than it actually is. When I'm in a relationship, I crave casual sex, and when I'm single and fucking around, I just crave intimacy and a relationship. Life's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:22 PM
2

"1st, 2nd, 3rd... 20th date". Who the fuck does she think is going to date someone 20+ times without fucking?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 09:04 PM
2

When I go out regularly, it would generally happen with multiple girls, multiple times a night and I'd go approach the one I liked the most, if I was open to hooking up that night. Sometimes it didn't work out, or they'd try to spin it into a date, but usually they'd be all over me pretty quick and making it clear we're going home together. I sang karaoke once at my favorite bar and afterwards my friend pointed to two girls and said, "those two girls want to hook up with you tonight", and they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:21 PM
2

Because I honestly believe that men and women sleeping around are different because of the different approaches we have to dating and sex. Our brains our not the same, our approaches are not the same, and our experiences in getting casual sex are not the same. I don't want to be with a girl that is easy to get to say yes. I've had more options than I can count, I don't want the one that a bunch of other guys got to have first too, especially for someone I'm committing to being with solely. I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:48 PM
2

It was fun, but it really wasn't anything over the top special. I also don't really have "skills" beyond beyond outgoing / charming. The only reason it worked so well for me is because I went out with friends the better part of a decade, every single weekend, sometimes twice a weekend, and 99% of the time I was the best looking guy in any given bar. I won't say I didn't still have to do the pursuing, but when a girl gives you the "nod" to approach, you kinda know it's already in the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:42 PM
1

Never in my life seen a 20s go for a 50s and I live in a huge city. Only sugar babies do I see that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:02 PM
7

I’d say she can do whatever she wants. I’d never date or consider her for long term, but casual hooking up is fair game. There is no art to a chick sleeping with 100 men, it just means she said yes to 100 men asking to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:34 PM
1

I highly doubt any hot 20s women are chasing 50 not rich or Brad Pitt looking dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:24 PM
1

Oh, so it's attention from women in their 40s. LOL then who the fuck cares, 99.9% aren't attractive anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:51 PM
1

Well given I recall what it was like going from 6'3 - 205 and lifting for 12 years to using AAS and 6'3 230 at 10%, I can tell you where the real magic happens. Protip, it's the jump from normal to superman body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:19 PM
8

In his scenario, it's not about odds of her cheating, it's about self respect. How can you look at some woman who's had 33x the number of partners of you and not feel like you're just an absolute loser in comparison who missed out on casual fun and settled for the "reformed slut"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:13 PM
1

Sounds like you don't hang out with normal and definitely not attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:04 PM
2

Almost every relationship I've been in started with casual sex / fwb and then eventually transitioned into more after having the "talk". I'd say there were no expectations or lies leading up to that point and for the ones that it was just casual with, that's generally where it ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:03 PM
1

A few months under the barbell ain't shit to even make women look at you twice for solely your physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:02 PM
2

Scenario 2 is funny to me because he knows and is still too pathetic to do anything about it. Scenario 1 is just sad, but I'm sure that happens to a lot of inexperienced guys who can't read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:54 PM
1

Handy's don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:56 PM
1

Only virgin I ever casually dated told me she would never date a virgin guy herself because someone has to know what they're doing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:55 PM
1

I'm dating a semi-nerdy girl who slept with 1 other person before me and is 8 years younger. I was a frat douche in college and all through my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:34 PM
2

They're not disagreeing, they're just also saying the older women aren't entitled to men's commitment in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:11 PM
1

I don't know where you got any idea they "must" be intelligent and interesting. I'd say women have to be attractive, fun, and kind / loyal. Intelligent is a perk, but I've had good relationships with average intelligence women. If anything, they're more wowed by fun science facts because it blows their mind and thus makes telling them more exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:46 PM
5

I once dated a girl I met while traveling for work. The second time I came to visit, I texted her after having not spoken for months, at the airport, telling her I'd land in her city that night and I wanted to take her out. She immediately dropped everything and made herself available for later. If a woman doesn't give you that kind of interest signals, she's not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:40 PM
5

I just call out hypocrisy and feminist posts mostly. Or speak candidly when someone asks how much weight matters to appearance for women, that usually gets them riled hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 12:24 PM
23

I've been called incel on reddit more times than I can count and I've probably slept with 120+ women (frankly I'm not entirely sure of the count beyond ballparking).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:33 AM
1

Who decides what is and isn't moral. If you solely believe in a God, but absent of any organized religion, I suggest you look into entropy. The universe is in a never ending quest for chaos and disorganization, if there is a god, above all else, it enjoys destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:52 PM
1

Why do you think a hypothetical God cares if you're "living in sin". Wouldn't it have better things to concern itself with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:19 PM
1

Believe in God or some type of organized religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:11 PM
1

A lot of people view sex as something women "give" to men. Even just go browse sex threads and women will say things like, "the guy should be happy I let him near my pussy...." etc. As such, men view women who have "given" that to many others, as less valuable because what they're giving isn't as special / rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:06 PM
1

This tame as hell, only on PPD could someone think that was a "red flag" past lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:54 PM
1

"live in sin" "not religious" Pick 1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:53 PM
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Some men care, some don't. I've been a huge slut all through my 20s and I would never seriously consider a woman with that count for anything long term. Short term fling, sure, but not wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:46 PM
3

You wouldn't be posting this if you weren't hoping men would settle into that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:38 PM
1

Hey girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:23 PM
3

Those things you posted do have value, don’t take this sub as law. That said, looks are still more important in the grand scheme of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:51 AM
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I’d politely shut it down. Then again, unattractive women don’t approach guys they know are way out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:34 PM
2

Replace sluttiest with rapiest, and yep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 12:14 AM
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I don’t give a fuck what test you use if the test is commonly known to be bullshit. It’s on you to ensure your data set was taken with reliable instrumentation before pushing claims on the results. The simple fact is you made an outrageous claim, could’ve been seen how ridiculous it was within 5 minutes of googling, and you’re embarrassed you got called out. Based on your past, I don’t doubt you’ve got some obscure iq test showing you’re 200+ too. Seems about as plausible as your first claim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:42 PM
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One is an actual reflection of your body fat percentage as it truly is, the other is not. 6% is Mr. Olympia levels of body fat, it should be obvious that that's WAY too low given how you looked, it's just straight up common sense. I've used dexa before, which is far more accurate than anything but water weight, and about on par with that. Even those have issues, but at least they get you within a few %. I just find it comical you didn't see an obvious glaring flaw with thinking you're as big and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:43 PM
1

The caliper test is less reliable than just looking at someone and ballparking it. Take your calipers, make your measurements, then crumple them up and throw it in the trash, because that's all it's good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:25 PM
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I hope to educate you to never make such outlandish claims again and for other people to read it and learn how to sniff out bullshit. It doesn't take a scientist to google what 6% body fat looks like and realize if it's lean enough for someone to on to win Mr Olympia, it's too lean for them to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:40 PM
1

Because that's like someone claiming they can beat Michael Jordan in basketball, despite having never played beyond high school hoops. The claim is so ridiculous, it's hard to read without laughing at how stupid you have to be to believe your own bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:14 PM
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Sorry but if you're going to make claims as outlandish as dumb shit a middle schooler would say, I'm gonna call you the fuck out. What you have described for yourself is physiologically impossible to achieve natural by a LONG shot. It would take years and years of gear abuse, alongside slin and gh to ever hit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:41 PM
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Sorry but the absolute top competing naturals in the world have nowhere near that level of size and leanness. You're either full of shit, or off on your body fat % by about 12%. The fact you think you had a natural FFMI of 29, which is MONSTROUS, while somehow being 6%, which is Ronnie Coleman lean, is so laughable it hurts. Educate yourself. Here you go bud, here's 2 professional non-natural bodybuilders, one of whom literally won Mr. Olympia. Both have higher body fat % and lower FFMI than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:26 PM
1

Guy here, I've probably slept with ~100ish women. I've worn a condom for maybe 10, and of those, I can recall finishing maybe once. Generally if a girl is 100% adamant on condom use, I just won't sleep with her and definitely not twice. Usually girls will ask if I have one and I say "no, can I just pull out", and that's usually enough convincing. I'm considered very attractive though, so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:47 PM
1

This sums up my thoughts on Chicago women pretty well. https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/c056d2d5-b67f-4cca-9a17-9415ade54b7a
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:42 PM
2

So you quite literally looked like a Mr. Olympia stage competitor? Pics of this 220-230 at 6%, you'd literally be on boatloads of tren, possibly gh and slin too to hit that size and leanness at 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:38 PM
2

Sounds depressing, as the best sex is usually the 2nd or 3rd times with a girl when you're slightly more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:31 PM
3

Eh maybe so. I still find it hard to believe anyone had that kind of time. I used to go out every weekend and was single for a lot of my 20s and hooking up with new people, keeping them around for a few weeks, rotating new girls in and out, etc. constantly. Doing all this, I come nowhere near 4 digits. This guy must have been single his entire life, never sleeps with a girl twice, and goes for anyone he can on every single night, be it weekday or weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:07 PM
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Having fun and playing games is a good time in your 20s. I'm currently dating someone who's 25 and makes low six figures, just like me. If anything, she probably spends more on the relationship than me, but it's pretty close to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:57 PM
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Well we know which side of the attractiveness spectrum you fall on. Women love to fuck bud, they'll beg for it at the end of a 1st date, if you play it right and are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:49 PM
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Then she's just out looking for casual hook ups with lots of partners and probably not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:43 PM
2

They can't fuck your wallet. Appearance matters far more for a ONS but money will get your further with women who want to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:42 PM
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Fair enough, I don't know enough about Russian culture to understand but I guess I can see it. I was thinking anywhere in like Europe / US / Asia aka basically anywhere not the Middle East and Africa, there's always tons of people into casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:42 PM
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I'm curious what "region" you're in that doesn't have a lot of them. Essentially every city in the modern world has plenty of women open to casual hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:39 PM
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You should still play as the ONS type to see if she'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:36 PM
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Anyone who's a 6 in the 4 digit range is undeniably banging 3s and 4s on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:35 PM
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This is why my advice to men on how to get women is always the same. Be attractive Be handsome Don't be unattractive Literally those 3 things matter above all else for having success with women in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:31 PM
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If you find that still attractive, you got some rock bottom standards bud.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 02:22 PM
2

Anything above size 4, and that's for women who are like 5'8+, is too big.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 02:21 PM
3

Your viewpoint of this is pretty fucked up. You truly support false rape allegations?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:52 PM
1

Reporting it would be a crime, as it is a false allegation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:50 PM
0

I think there are definitely women who look more attractive at 28 than at 18, but probably not the majority. Youthfulness is incredibly sexy and some women who don't have that awkwardness at a young age will look best around early 20s. A lot of men still have baby faces at 20, so the 10 years (assuming they take care of themselves) will benefit them in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:21 PM
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I can only speak from my personal experience. I was probably most attractive at 27, but that was because of lifestyle at the time. Now that quarantine's over, I give it about 2-3 months before I'm back to that level of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:17 PM
2

Do you have the stats to back up your claim? Once again, you can feel however you want to feel, but if it's so statistically improbable that you could live a million lifetimes and never have it happen, it is completely irrational to have those fears. Do you panic every time you have to get into a car and drive somewhere? You're far more likely to die from that than a random date going awry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:58 PM
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Uh, it's pretty much a requirement to be higher t to have a traditionally masculine look. The vast majority of women want masculine looking men, so there may be a few exceptions, but it's going to be the case the VAST majority of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:40 PM
2

I don't think you understand testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:39 PM
3

Ah, so you a hypocrite. You don't get to pick and choose what are and aren't ok to put in your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:21 PM
3

It sounds like you're the butthurt one now. People can use whatever substances they want, I'm sure you're completely free of all alcohol and drugs yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:18 PM
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I'm not butthurt, I feel pity for you that you think it's something to brag about as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:15 PM
1

Some women dig the soy look of guys who aren't physically imposing nor could ever protect them should worse come to worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:12 PM
1

21 BMI is below average female weight. You can delude yourself all you want, you’re built like a middle schooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:00 PM
1

I dunno, general boyfriend stuff. She makes about as much money as me, so we split things evenly on that front. I don't ask her to do the chores, she just wants to do them, even at my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:57 PM
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The way you talk tells me you're not getting with any type of quality women. You sound trashy and uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:48 PM
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Americans are just ugly in general because we're such a fat country. I always joke that a Swedish 8 is an American 13. The women in Europe are leaps and bounds more attractive than US women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:41 PM
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21 BMI is beyond twinky for a man. My FFMI is about 5 pts higher than your total BMI, you're a twig.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:38 PM
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I'm a much better cook than her, so I'll usually boot her out when she tries to cook anything semi-complex. I'm very particular about food being cooked properly, so that's the one area I don't let her do much on. For basic shit like oatmeal, of course if she wants to make it and serve me and take my dish, by all means. It might be rooted in control in some aspect, but I don't think much, because it's just the little mundane shit like clearing dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:38 PM
1

What do you think the statistics are on getting murdered by someone you go on a date with? If that's truly your biggest fear, you have no comprehension of math. That's like buying a lottery ticket and planning your life around the winnings you "might" get, like you already have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:35 PM
2

Nobody wants to pay $200 for a shitty, condom fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:30 PM
1

The harem discussion was about men who are committed to only the woman, otherwise she's just the town slut getting pumped by a bunch of different dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:26 PM
1

The average man is viewed as unattractive by women. Technically 80% of men are viewed as below average, so you're only talking about the upper 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:09 PM
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21 BMI as a man LMAO. Try picking up a weight and laying off the soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:07 PM
1

Tretinoin is retinol technically, it's just more potent and generally prescription only. Retinols in OTC creams are just watered down versions of tret. If you have prescription tret, you don't need retinols.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:05 PM
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Not every guy goes bald. I've run some ridiculous hormone cycles that are notorious for demolishing hair and I've got full luscious locks in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:04 PM
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I've got bad news for you, but group 3 probably overlaps with 4 significantly. Go read the comments on slutty confessions from thirsty betas creaming themselves over women being promiscuous. I promise you, all of them are pathetic simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:02 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but the vast majority of men AND women are unattractive as hell. The average woman is a hard 0 on the binary scale, just as the average man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:59 PM
1

So basically the beta-est of the beta men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:56 PM
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How many attractive men do you know that are subservient though? The only ones who are, are the ones who are too pathetic to be dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:48 PM
1

Men want paternity assurance, women want resources. Harems of women with men that have enough resources to support all of them can work. Harems of men can never work because paternity assurance cannot be guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:43 PM
2

I dunno, my lady never lets me do any chores when we're at her place and she consistently gets mad if I make my own food, do my own dishes, etc. at my place. She wants to take care of it for me, even as far as doing my laundry though we don't live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:34 PM
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Or the 4th option, guys who will take any crumb of pussy thrown their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:28 PM
4

Ignore the haters, you made a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:24 PM
2

There are plenty of hot women who aren't entitled if you're also incredibly hot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/20 02:14 PM
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Attractive women won't want to use it if it means they have to message with ugly men without knowing. This is like some incel's fantasy dating app, when it would never work in practice because nobody attractive has any reason to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:58 PM
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You are so delusional it hurts. People lose weight all the time, CICO is a law of thermodynamics it can't not work. I'm sorry you feel attacked because your physique is shit, but people are responsible for how they look. Done arguing with someone who believes people have zero agency over what they eat and do, it's just flat out sad and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:33 PM
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You are straight delusional if you think people who are fat are not because of lifestyle choices they make. You must be fat as fuck if you're arguing this hard in favor of people having no agency of what they put in their mouth and how much exercise they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:01 PM
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Anyone can lose weight, it is simple thermodynamics. Keep treating people as having no agency on their life choices though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:58 PM
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We may have different bodies but they all function based on CICO. Everything else is just willpower and managing QoL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:46 PM
1

True, but it's going to take more effort. I prefer to stick to social situations where it's expected people are aiming to meet those of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 06:20 PM
1

You ain't meeting girls for hook ups at the library or coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 06:02 PM
1

Cool, so attractive men are unlikely to use it and as such, 90% of women also won't use it because it won't give them access to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:48 PM
1

Well I'm obviously not going to be going out most Sundays through Thursdays, as I have to also be a responsible adult. It's pretty easy to spend 10 minutes swiping on a weekday, message a couple women for boring conversation, and setup a weekday casual date to fill the time between weekends. It just gives you way more opportunities to meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:05 PM
1

Well this makes a ton of sense for why I've only worn a condom with a very small percentage of women I've slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:58 PM
1

I'd say my hook ups throughout my 20s were split about 50/50 from people I met out and about and OLD apps. I will say that the hotter ones were generally women I met out though, so I can agree with this sentiment. There is something to be said for swiping from the comfort of your home though and not having to deal with a bar scene regularly, as it does get old over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:43 PM
1

Tren is probably the most abused steroid and was invented for cattle to keep them from losing muscle mass as they're transported to the slaughterhouse. EQ is a veterinary horse steroid that is also very common, but I can't recall specifically what it was created for in horses. The rest are just different synthetic variations of testosterone, generally created for some medical purpose or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:41 PM
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Not see the photos until they match LOL. That is quite possibly the stupidest fucking thing I have ever heard. Why would any attractive people use an app like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:37 PM
1

Maybe, there are certainly no shortage of model thin girls in nyc. Guess that city just has good genetics 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:49 PM
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Weird, cuz my ex was like a 17 BMI but with c cups and a perky ass, and pretty much got eye fucked everywhere we went to the extent it was annoying. Most guys who want chubbier girls do so because they're lower on the totem pole and thus seem easier to pursue. Go look at Dan Bilzerian's instagram, every single girl (insta prostitute) that is on there is a dime and they're all around 18 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:27 AM
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I don't care that doctors say 22 is ideal, if 18 looks ideal. Pretty much every single attractive model, actress, and petite girl I see in my life has been around that BMI. Girls who are bigger tend to just carry more fat and it does not look good. Men also don't look good carrying 25 extra lbs of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:13 AM
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25 BMI on women is huge, since they have essentially zero muscle mass. 123 at 5'4 is flabby and those 20 lbs above 107 are all fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:59 AM
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130 is generally pretty overweight for women. One of my exes was like 128 and she was 5'9 and pretty muscular. For a girl that's like 5'4, that's fucking huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:52 AM
1

Would you date a fat woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:50 AM
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Just because a bunch of people can't lose weight over time, doens't mean it's not possible. It just means the vast majority of people are uninformed or lazy as shit. I regularly gain and lose anywhere from 20-40 lbs, dieting is fucking cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:46 AM
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Losing weight is easy, I do it all the time when I cut to high single digit body fat. Height is unchangeable, but I'm 6'3, so be as shamelessly shallow as you want ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:44 AM
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Women equivalent to me in looks. I'm most particular about body type, petite and thin is all I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:25 AM
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You're more than welcome to check my recent post history if you're curious what I look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:20 AM
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I've dated plenty of attractive women, most were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:01 AM
1

You’re not wrong, it’s probably very uncommon to baby trap like that. That said, you have absolutely zero protections as a man, should the rare ones choose to do it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:24 PM
2

Good joke, the courts will always side with mother and child to get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:14 PM
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There might be a lot of women like this but certainly not the majority. The problem is these are the only ones you can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:39 PM
2

Men and women look for different things. Is it blatant hypocrisy for rich ugly men to use wealth for young hot women? Technically it’s hypocrisy on both parts, women want money they don’t have, men want beauty they don’t have. The dating world is full of hypocrisy from both sides, so why would I feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:30 PM
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Probably not, but nothing is a 100% hard and fast rule. It would be a massive turnoff, I feel like 20 is already pretty lenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:20 PM
2

Gorgeous, fun, not sarcastic and bratty like us girls, actually for equality, not superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:09 PM
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30M I generally only consider women with less than 20 past partners to be LTR material. I've probably slept with 120ish women, maybe? Very ballpark guessing on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:40 AM
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Pulling out lol? Condom sex is worse in every conceivable way, who cares if you have to pull out for 99.9% more feeling during the act.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 07:21 PM
1

It’s been over 14 years of my life, I never really started counting to keep track of in the first place and on some years I was 20+. It’s basically impossible at this point to get more exact than a ballpark of within 15-20 accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:11 PM
2

Yeah I’m sure people who sleep with ten in their life have no issue counting or remembering everyone. Once you get above like 25-30 though, you just lose count and forget about most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:00 PM
1

15 in a year is easy to lose count of, since they’re not serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:55 PM
1

I know this post is a lie because fucking on coke is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:33 PM
1

Not when you’re talking over years. I sometimes lose track of who / how many women I slept with in the past year and it was a pretty tame year all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:28 PM
2

Very well said btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:14 PM
1

Fat hips on women is gross, love handles are nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:26 AM
1

As someone with triple digits, you just don't sweat the small things. STIs are stupidly overblown in their risk and affect on your life. Do your own research and you'd see for yourself how worrying about that shit is worse than getting actual STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:00 PM
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If you're that worried about her fucking with a condom, you're better off going raw and pulling out....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 03:42 PM
1

So fat people who don't care their partners are fat are also uncaring about their health if they don't push them to eat less? What about the people who chubby chase and want them overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 02:20 PM
1

I think worrying about overweight people is a better use of time, given there’s probably 50 of them to every slightly underweight person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 02:03 PM
1

Most models are 18-19 BMI, I'm going to stick with finding that physique most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:03 AM
1

Someone doesn't know how to clean....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 07:49 PM
1

At 27, you should be absolutely killing it if you're attractive as a guy. That was the year I used tinder, got upgraded to "select" to have priority in match queues and automatic filtered out low ELO girls. I'm sure now at 30, even though I look just as good, I'll never have it as good as I did then, at least for OLD targeting young 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:56 PM
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I suspect a "get out of pregnancy free" card wouldn't really change much. I'm fairly confident that I am borderline incapable of getting someone pregnant, but still practice basic precautions like pulling out and going for women who are on bc. I think most men would still prefer this to using a "get out of jail free card" but getting hammered with social consequences as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:55 PM
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Who are these land manatees you're sleeping with that can't reach around to clean themselves properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:42 PM
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Everyone is responsible for their own orgasms, so if the woman is shitty in bed, the man takes responsibility for it and gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:39 PM
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Why does every reddit topic on sex have to have some cringe fedora lord talking about how he gives a woman multiple o's before they even engage in PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:36 PM
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Well believe it or not, I'd have to actually catch an STI to give it to someone else. Your argument doesn't hold any water, because the women are the ones more likely to catch an STI and thus more likely to have one, thus being the more risky partner for someone to engage with. Men are less likely to catch an STI, thus less likely to even have it in the first place to give it to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:35 PM
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Do you have any idea how awful sex is with a condom as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:32 PM
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I've slept with probably triple digits women and the vast majority raw and only had the curable STIs a couple of times. STIs are stupidly overblown by people who don't even get laid enough to catch them in the first place with any real frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:25 PM
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AAS already work to curb fertility in men, it's just illegal because "toxic masculinity".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:21 PM
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If this were true, no woman would ever have incentive to engage in casual sex, going into it knowing it's casual. That's obviously not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:59 PM
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She gets something out of it too, sex. If women don't like sex, don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:49 PM
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I'm 6'3 and I LOVE short women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 04:44 PM
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Cool, and someone 25.5 is clinically overweight but nobody ever says shit about that do they? Maybe it’s individual and they should listen to their doctor, not some Reddit chubster. Last 3 girls I dated were all around there, none had issues with their doctor, weird huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:43 PM
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LMAO, I like your style. I feel the same way when people complain about women being shallow. I wish they were even more shallow, makes it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:19 PM
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"drain them of their money, time, and resources" sounds a lot like money to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:08 PM
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As a guy in the top few % of looks, I'd consider about 10% of women in the 20-30 range fuckable and maybe 3-5% dateable. I'd assume most guys like me feel the same and there's only so much makeup can do for you. As far as fitness, that's just something that everybody should do regardless, for their own health, but I think the stats alone show that's not remotely the case in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:06 PM
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Maybe you're attractive enough to pull this strategy off, I don't know anything about you. I'm just saying that for the vast majority of women, it's not going to work with guys they consider a 1 on the binary scale, if they're not also in the upper echelons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:01 PM
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Lowering standards to men who would actively pursue something long term with you isn't "lowering your standards" in the general sense of the word. Not everybody is a 9 or a 10, but lots of women who are 7s can still fuck those men on occasion, doesn't mean they can date them. Be realistic in who you pursue, assess your actual dating value and go for the best you can get, explicitly for an LTR. Also, what you say may work in theory but many women when they see a truly hot guy who wants to fuck th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:55 PM
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Plenty of people get into fulfilling relationships with those who they sleep with early on. It's about the two being compatible with one another and batting in the same league. If you're a 7 and you fuck a 10, of course he's probably not looking to relationship you up. But if you're a 7 and have great sex early on with another 7, chances are that they'll be thrilled at the prospect of something more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:46 PM
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Body portions can play a big role too, but it's hard to say without seeing a person. The sexiest girl I ever dated was 5'4 and 98 lbs, 00 waist, c cups, and a healthy sized perky ass. Yes, she was tiny, but she didn't look anorexic or grossly skinny in any way shape or form. Maybe her bone structure was just accomodating to being that small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:45 PM
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I personally don't find blowjobs any less intimate that full on sex. I've had casual relationships where the girl wasn't willing to have sex but gave bomb head and it was still sexually satisfying, but if it didn't even have that, it would've been very difficult to pursue for any real period of time. ​ Getting fuckzoned can happen from putting out too fast, but it's probably not the underlying issue. The underlying issue is that these women are probably chasing men who are out of their league an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:34 PM
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Reddit hot and real world hot are very different, but f you’re happy, why do you care what others do anyway? For me, sex is an integral part of a relationship and without it, it’s just a good friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:23 PM
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120 at 5’3 is a bit of an odd weight. If you’re muscle, you’re very fit and some guys like that, some don’t. If you have no muscle, you’re definitely carrying about 15-20 lbs too much fat. I don’t think race comes into play as much as you think, I find women who are white, asian, Latina, middle eastern, all can be equally beautiful in their own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:22 PM
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Why do you care if they fuck others if you won’t fuck them but you didn’t care they sowed their wild oats? If you’re the one withholding something, you should be understanding they go elsewhere for just that. There are plenty of men who will accept your arrangement but they’re probably not the hot successful types you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah but anyone who fucked around before is going to expect some minimal level of sexual contact, be it from you or someone else. I’d never go exclusive with anyone I hadn’t already been fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:49 PM
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Both, and lean. I have essentially the same build as Chris Hemsworth in Thor. When I cut I’m usually leaner but fuck cutting for a non existent fun summer, rather just bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:48 PM
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I'd say like 1/4 women can actually finish me with a blowjob if they haven't had multiple times to practice. Pretty much any can learn after a few times, but it's incredibly rare for a first time hook up to get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:44 PM
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I pretty much used to try and fuck all of my 1st dates and I'd say it works out about 70% of the time. If it doesn't on the first, usually the second and absolute worst case (like 5%) the third. It's not desperate, it's capitalizing on easy sex with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:42 PM
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You can have whatever standards you want my dude, I personally find it disgusting. Women should be petite and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:35 PM
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What you're talking about is fat, not thicc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:34 PM
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The stats about who the biggest earners, spenders, net taxpayers, etc. between men and women would disagree with you. I'm going to choose to believe the summation of data over your anecdotal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:31 PM
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Why do you expect men to remain celibate for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:28 PM
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And rolls on rolls on rolls to go along with it. Pass. Even women like Kim K are ugly as shit, that level of "thicc" is not remotely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:25 PM
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This is a very low bar to set. Tits should always stick out WAY farther than a stomach because a stomach should be flat from sternum to legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:21 PM
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The way he talks, he's not getting anybody but straight obese chicks and he can have all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:16 PM
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LMAO gross, I feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:14 PM
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As someone who is very built and lean, the only attractive women are ones who are sub 21 BMI, preferably around 18-19. Men can look decent up to 24ish if they don't workout and as high as 30 if they lift a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:13 PM
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Depends on how guys carry it. Dadbod is definitely fat, but at least they still have muscle and look like a man. Skinny fat or just massive fat men are truly disgusting things to behold, they have bigger tits than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:11 PM
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There was a reddit post the other day about a woman who was 5'6 and 285 fucking lbs, dating multiple men simultaneously. How does she even fit through the front door of their houses?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 01:41 PM
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Having high standards when you can easily meet them aren't an issue. Yes, it can get exhausting left swiping 97% of women on tinder, but that's a cesspool of ogres anyway and you get what you expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:56 PM
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I don't know anybody with a healthy sex life that believes sleeping around increases your value. Sure a lot of them may think it would be fun to do, or are jealous of the different experiences they don't get to have, but to be as delusional as thinking the act of fucking many women makes you a high value male is comical. Not to mention, there are some low value men who sleep around a lot, they just fuck girls who look like Shrek.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:42 PM
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Because it's something they idolize in other men for something they could never do. They don't realize that sleeping with lots of women doesn't increase your value, the men who sleep with a lot of women already had the increased value to begin with and that's why they were able to do it. They're flipping cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:24 PM
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In the end, who cares what the stats and BMI says about people. I go with my feelings about what I see in the world around me, and what I see is that about 80% of women are what I consider overweight to the extent of being unattractive, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:13 PM
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Preferences go out the window when other things of more importance trump it. The guys who have ridiculous body counts have enough of the other things to trump their distaste for it because that's what allowed them to rack up a huge count in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:11 PM
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Men and women shouldn't have the same BMI range either, given that men are naturally built heavier, even at the same height. You don't find it odd that both men and women aren't classified as overweight until the same 25 mark? I'd consider a woman at 22 BMI to be overweight, for men, some might be at 24 or 25, but some might not even be at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:27 PM
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Everyone says this, but most women I've been with have had sub 10 partners and I have absolutely no idea what my count is. Many of them wanted to pursue dating, even knowing it was likely that I slept around a lot. I never go into details or give a number, but I'm sure they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:14 PM
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Fat sluts are a common trope because they're desperate and will bang anything that gives them the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:05 PM
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Overweight / obese is based on BMI. BMI for men can be incredibly unreliable if they lift weights. I have a BMI of around 29 and about 12% body fat, sometimes as low as 9%, which is leaner than 99% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:04 PM
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They wouldn't, I've traveled to Sweden many times and they're the exact opposite of conservative. Very fun loving and beautiful women, definitely a ton of high quality partners, but they're not conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:53 PM
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You have unique tastes, but I get it. Henry Cavill appeals to the general pop far more than someone like Tom though and that's what most girls go crazy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:30 AM
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Ultra marathoners are twinky little boy builds. I’m taking built like Chris Evans or Henry Cavill, not Conan O’Brien.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:47 PM
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This is arguably the single stupidest statement I've ever seen on here and I've seen a lot of really dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:06 PM
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Lends some credence to the fact that unattractive women are invisible to men haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:51 PM
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I'd say if it happens often enough, it can be concluded that a significant portion of women care greatly. It's not hard to read people's faces as you pass by. The vast majority of women would go for a guy with a grade A body, IF, and it's a big if, they could actually attain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:24 PM
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I was 6'3 and 160 lbs in high school and I have massive shoulders now from 15 years of lifting weights. You are wrong, stop making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:19 PM
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Any man who finds 70% of women attractive is a dunce. Maybe 5% are attractive and that's generous, given 60% are overweight and the cutoff for overweight is 25 BMI. 25 BMI is gross on women, they look best around 17-20, which is probably about 5% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:15 PM
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Women definitely care about a nice body. The moment I started taking PEDs and got ripped, the frequency of women initiating / being open to approaches / attention in general skyrocketed. I never had much of an issue with women because I'm tall and have an attractive face, but adding 40 lbs of muscle and having very low body fat made it shooting fish in a barrel. They care very much, watch what they do, not what they say. Granted, I'm not complaining about any of this, I frankly wish they were ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:00 PM
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I'm all about dating women who are successful themselves, nobody wants to be another person's personal bank account. Part of the issue though is that it's been proven time and time again that women want men who earn 30-50% more than them. So these women with houses / careers / etc. are only interested in men who already have that and more, so what additional value is it adding?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:51 PM
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I find it pretty rare to see attractive white women with ethnic men. 99% of the time, it's the overweight ones because black guys love thicc white girls that white guys find fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:44 PM
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I certainly have a lot of respect for people who do the work, don't take my comments the wrong way. I just think it makes less of a difference in outward appearance for most women because generally being skinny is enough to look damn good as a woman. The biggest thing for people who do put in the work, like yourself, is that you'll age much better, as a lot of people fall off when their genetics can no longer carry the load beyond their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:46 AM
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I feel like very few women with attractive bodies do, nor even need to do this, vs men. To have a good body as a guy, you have no choice but to be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:25 AM
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People calling others incels on Reddit are common enough I pay no attention to it. It’s an insult that lacks teeth because of how often it’s thrown around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:28 PM
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Ah, so you’re a hypocrite. Women’s choices matter more than men’s. Women also know how to prevent pregnancy, take bc, don’t have sex, or abort. It should be no surprise, so accept your decisions have consequences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:26 PM
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Ah yes, it's the MAN'S fault for women's decisions. Classic feminist defense, find a way to spin it as men causing the issues. Next up, our article on how more women than men are getting into college and unable to find suitable spouses that make more money than them and how men are to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:48 PM
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Sometimes it's unfulfilling and sometimes it's great, it varies pretty greatly between interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:47 PM
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So you're pro-life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:46 PM
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Someone posted some data on here about differences between standup comedians and women comedians told BY FAR the most sexual jokes per session. They're the ones who revert to sex humor as a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:01 PM
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How would you know? I find it pretty fun tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:00 PM
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The biggest difference is makeup and women who need a lot of makeup are unattractive anyway. So I'll give them an extra 20 minutes per day to do that, bonus points if they know how to get the "natural" look. Everything else is basic shit that both men and women should be doing, shaving, grooming, showering, etc. It's not like only women follow a skincare routine, the men who want to look good also do that. I think you vastly underestimate how much time (good looking) men have to spend to stay th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:41 PM
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Women just need to be skinny to be attractive, not muscular. It’s much much easier to be skinny than it is to be muscular and lean. Every girl with a good body I know just eats healthy, that’s a fucking cakewalk compared to what I do for fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:30 PM
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So basically shower and groom? That’s just like bare minimum shit everybody should be doing. Talk to me when women need to spend 6+ hours a week lifting weights to have a good body, on top of tracking calories and protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:10 PM
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You shouldn't give an opinion on what men should do with their dicks if you don't have one. I don't tell women they should take bc or suffer the consequences, because I don't have a uterus, and thus it's not my place to dictate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:10 AM
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There are a lot of women who sleep with less than 10 men in their life that will fill out 2 or 3 of those with a ONS or 2nd / 3rd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:45 AM
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I've probably slept with over 100 women, not entirely sure on actual count as it's been over about 15 years. That said, I casually dated a hyper religious girl who was a virgin and let me tell you, she was batshit insane. Ultimately broke up with her and she married the next guy she dated within the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:39 AM
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You've revolved your life around charity work and I respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:34 AM
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Anyone who talks like this has assuredly never fucked anyone not cringeworthy to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:12 AM
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Both men and women vastly overestimate their attractiveness. Source: I'm a 9/10 guy by my own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:36 AM
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One of my exes ate like shit, barely ever exercised, and was a size 00 with c cups and a perfect perky ass. Genetics are 99% of the battle for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:55 AM
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Try BMI over 21 for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:42 AM
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One of my best friends is a girl I used to date for a little over a year. It ended because I still wanted to go out and pursue other girls, but we've remained very close and it is a very good, two sided friendship. I have multiple other girls who I'm also friends with and all none of them expect me to do favors / etc. for them, they're all just supportive friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:39 AM
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Don’t get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:57 AM
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Don’t get caught seems to be the obvious solution. Don’t shit where you eat. Always did it traveling to different cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:15 AM
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Worried of what? Getting caught or guilt? Never been truly caught, despite the number of occasions over the years I didn’t feel much guilt either, last ex was kind of easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:18 PM
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Lots of reasons. You get comfort from a partner, sleeping alone gets old, consistent sex all the time, as opposed to chasing new partners for flings that may happen every 1-2 weeks, etc. Also pretty much all non-feminist women love to take care of men by doing the bulk of cooking / cleaning / etc. which I hate doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:10 PM
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Ain't no thang, 99% of men wouldn't be turned off by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:57 PM
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We do, I've cheated on every girl I've ever dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:43 PM
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No they didn't, his brain chemistry did. I've dabbled in things much, much stronger than testosterone and they certainly never caused me to become violent. Women's hormone fluctuations are laughable compared to what some men take with tren.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:50 PM
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Why are women so attached to their estrogen if all it does is make them highly emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:59 PM
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Well I guess I’m the exception as are my friends who slept around thru college and early 20s. Pribly should’ve noticed you made that account just to troll ppd lol. I think you’ll find most women who sleep with 30+ men have some internal issues. The men who do it, do it just because we can and it’s exciting. No fear of aging etc. that causes us to rush into feeling a need to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:17 PM
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I used to because it can be fun and sleeping with new people is exciting after relationship sex starts to get stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:52 PM
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I think you're missing the point, I'm not agreeing with the hyperbolic nature of this sub where people expect a virgin. I'm saying that the most desirable men are not going to want to date a girl who casually slept with 30+ people in her young 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:29 PM
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I'd disagree, most guys who can get whoever they want take a girl who had healthy relationships in the past and a proven track record of being a good long term partner. Not someone who slept around for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:17 PM
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I disagree with the hyperbolic nature of this sub, I don't think a normal dating life makes someone a less attractive partner. Realistically, I just expect someone who kept ONS / hook ups to a reasonable number. Everybody has sex when they date and people date, I just would rather date women who have a count anywhere from 2-20. Once you start getting into the 30s+, it becomes unappealing to me and I have to assume they're easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:47 AM
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It's one facet of them, all other things being equal, it can tip the scale. Why would I want to commit to only having sex with one person for the rest of my life, if I'm 1 of 50 guys who got to get it. The difference between a relationship and a best friendship is sex, so the value of that sex is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:12 AM
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It's not about thinking they've changed or not, it's about wanting what others can't have. Scarcity = value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:02 AM
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To be fair, pretty much nobody wants to date a "reformed slut" archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:54 AM
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A very small percentage of men hold more power than women (and all other men) in society. Men as a whole, on average, do not hold more power. There's a ton of power in social currency and women have far more of it by mere existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:27 AM
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The manosphere is a fringe group of outcasts, it has no bearing on anything. People who fight for actual, legitimate gripes that affect men are treated the same way the fringe manosphere folks are by women, who hold actual social power. You are either arguing in bad faith or too stupid to bother arguing with if you can't see the difference. I suspect it's the first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:16 AM
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I don't think men collectively band together to shame feminists, if anything we're basically forced to agree with them or be shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:07 AM
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I’d say shaming men who make any effort to address things that affect men negatively is pretty easy low hanging and obvious fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:42 PM
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When have women ever fought with any tactic other than manipulating others to do what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:06 PM
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Sorry, you don’t understand if you don’t have a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:02 PM
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Do you have a learning disability or just struggle to comprehend logic? That has nothing to do with the convo you were having and I chimed into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:01 PM
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I'd sooner not have sex than wear a condom and I have regularly passed on it when they're adamant. Fuck that noise, wearing a condom is shit and will always be shit, no matter how much you get used to them. Girl insists on condoms, I insist on oral only and never contacting them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:15 PM
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I have no revenge fantasies nor anything of that nature. I don't have anything against women, most are good people with good intentions. Sexual peak may be women's 30s, but that doesn't mean they're at the peak of their sexiness, which is really what I care about the most for the moment. Maybe in 5 years things will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:49 PM
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Condoms lol, good joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:47 PM
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You're probably not attractive enough to have it make the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:25 PM
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The issue isn't expecting women to fight for the cause, it's woman collectively fighting against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:14 PM
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People will always want the most attractive person they can get, while meeting said personality traits that are important. None the less, your statement basically plays into the fears all the men on here have about women settling for those they're less attracted to for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:55 PM
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Promiscuous dude here, nobody cares. Only close friends really know and even then, they just laugh about it or say I'll never change, but beyond subtle jokes, they don't think anything of it. New women I obviously don't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:32 PM
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Defensive much? Pointing out the flaw in your argument that women over 30 are pursued by what this sub considers "Chad" for anything serious by men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:31 PM
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The age thing is fairly generous. As a 30 year old man, and what most would consider the upper few percentile of appearance, I have zero interest in pursuing 30 year old women for relationships. Current gf is 24, last one was 21 and I met her at 27. The only enticing thing about 30 year old women is they know what they want and are more willing to jump right into sleeping together casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:15 PM
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20% of men being alpha is pretty god damn generous. I'd say it's more like 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:12 PM
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When I was single, I would regularly go on a few dates / sleep with / ONS with 15-20 women per year in my 20s. 3-4 is a month or two of being hyperactive. I think this sub vastly underestimates how much single people date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:34 PM
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I'm not a woman, so I can't say if your assessment is true or not, but maybe you're right. I was just trying to paint an equivalent and I think it's fairly accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:20 PM
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Generally my method to figuring it out is sharing stories that may insinuate hook ups, but doesn't explicitly say it, then listen to various stories they share back. If they have a lot of them that sound like it probably lead to a hook up, you can be pretty sure at least a portion of them did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:09 PM
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Nah, it has nothing to do with comparing. It has to do with wanting something that others can't attain, scarcity is value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:00 PM
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It's physical, not mental. The younger woman mentality is pretty annoying, but god damn do early 20s girls look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:33 PM
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Very promiscuous guy here - I care, but probably not to the extent of people on here. I consider anything below 20 to be reasonable, given I have many times that. I'm 30 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:30 PM
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Women and men want different things. Women want access to men's resources, men want access to her body. I'm sure girls would be displeased dating a guy who acts frugal around them, but was generous to previous girls he wasn't even dating with gifts, jewelry, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:27 PM
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All of my long term relationships were ONS, but most of my ONS were never anything more than that or a casual few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:25 PM
0

Can anything really be intimate if you're banging tons of dudes on the side. How would you feel if a male partner was fucking other women in a relationship with you? Are you open to open relationships, given your choice of jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:50 PM
1

Helps in both aspects tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:29 PM
1

Evidently you live in fantasy land if you think PPD's definition of Chads are sleeping with 6s. Anyone who is capable of having sex is not a "Chad", that's the upper 50% of men. You don't get into that territory until you're talking top few % in terms of looks / success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:24 PM
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I would not be voluntarily celibate for a partner, if they're not fucking me, someone else probably is. Exclusivity talks can only happen after you've been sleeping together for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:20 PM
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Haven't really slept with many college aged girls in the past few years, since I'm 30 now, but it certainly was never an issue when I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:19 PM
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I wouldn't even fuck a 6 for a ONS, so I highly doubt this. There are far Chadlier Chads than myself too that would have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:19 PM
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Women don't look good thicc, they never have. Size 2 or smaller, preferably 0 or 00, is all that's truly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:59 PM
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Had very few ONS that refused to give head or made me wear a condom, and I've had a pretty sizable number. Some of the best sex I've ever had has actually been a passionate ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:59 PM
0

Best of luck finding a reasonable partner who's ok with dating an escort....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:46 PM
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Ugly women can't easily get hot guys, dunno where this keeps coming from. Source: Even in a near blackout state, I'd feel disgusted if I slept with someone below what I deem attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:35 PM
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Yes, but they're an objective better gauge of it than you are, wherein your first called yourself "(no brag) an attractive guy". I'm telling you, if you were actually sitting pretty, you would objectively save more time by being selective in who you swipe, rather than waiting to sift through hundreds of matches later. You'll also only get shown hot women if you have a good tinder ELO, which goes down if you swipe unattractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:16 AM
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If your match queue doesn't end up in the hundreds within a week or two, you're less attractive than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:35 AM
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Condom sex feels quite literally like almost nothing. I've probably used one less than a dozen times throughout my 20s. I've been in 2 longer term relationships, mostly casual fwbs and hook ups over the years though. When you're attractive enough that girls are thirsting for sex in that moment, it's pretty easy to have the need for one thrown out the window. I never carry them, if they ask me to run and get one, I just tell them we'll skip sex, and then they generally just say do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:41 PM
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Generally women only hook up with guys who are out of their league, so they get to have their ego pumped for a night. On that note as well, condom sex feels like absolute trash, so there's really nothing in it for men either if you use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:00 PM
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I mean you can never really know right? I'm sure I come across as a charming, nice person and there have been times I've slept with different women back to back to back nights. I highly doubt they know that or suspect it and I'm not going to share that info if I'm just looking for a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:43 PM
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I already said I have no issues giving oral to women I'm dating, just not ONS where I don't know where they've been recently. HPV is also extremely common and the transmission is highest probability in the person giving oral to women, which can cause throat cancer. We have the same reason to be wary of giving oral that women do to wear a condom for protection from hpv cervical cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:37 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. Either way, I wouldn't drink running water with a bunch of shit upstream either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:30 PM
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I had a feeling that was going to be the argument you'd come back with. I think anyone who has ever had sex is well aware that when women get wet, it comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:27 PM
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It's a lot easier to clean an exterior sex organ than an interior one. Either way, it's not so much the actual hygiene aspect as it is the disgust putting your mouth where other dudes could've been recently. I'll go down on girls I'm seeing regularly and exclusive with, but not randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:10 PM
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5'3 125 is far from skinny. Ex was 5'4 100 and she was perfect size 00 but still curvy. Anything above size 2 is thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:48 PM
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If you're an attractive guy, you're not swiping on 4s or better. I only swipe on girls I consider an 8 or better and still would regularly run into issues of having too many matches to bother initiating discussions with most. It would literally completely overflow the match queue to swipe on average and ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:47 PM
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Most men don't want to give oral to a woman that's open to ONS. Pretty safe to assume if it's a Saturday night, they could've had another dick in them the day before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:38 PM
1

I get the vibe most of you guys don’t know any real chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:31 PM
1

I have had tons of casual sex in my life and I can count the number of times I've worn a condom on both hands. The "AF" aren't wrapping it up to bang the future wives of "BB".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:38 PM
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Guys who can sleep with 8s and 9s aren't going to ever fuck 6s and probably only 7s while drunk. Once you hit a point of being able to sleep with women you find incredibly attractive, you just feel gross fucking uglier girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:24 PM
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This reply was essentially jibberish, I can't follow what you're trying to say. The only thing I could make sense of was "condoms don't make sex unbearably bad", which has nothing to do with sex ed. I know from experience in which the times I've had sex with one, I would've rather walked out and found something else to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:28 PM
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The responsibility falls onto women because they have all the options for birth control that don't make sex unbearably bad, as well as all the options post conception, should they choose it. Age is relevant because if I've been having sex for half my life and never had a pregnancy, despite wearing a condom a handful of times, I'm clearly doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 08:14 PM
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Well I'm 30 and it hasn't happened yet because I know how to pull out, so it seems I'm good. FDS was created to manipulate men, just like TRP was created to manipulate women. They're both gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:55 PM
1

White knighting won't get you laid bud. Somehow being an asshole doesn't seem to have an effect on my ability though, weird how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:01 PM
1

Sorry you don’t get an opinion on things like how condom use affects men, since so many women also say we don’t get opinions on how bc affects women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:42 PM
1

This is a thread about fat guys whining for support to be fat. Nobody cares fatties, fix your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:19 PM
1

Not sure what you mean by "username proof". That is definitely me, 6'3 230. Bench ~375, Squat ~455 (LOL who cares about legs), Deadlift ~605.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:17 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/xmBkDBz
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:06 PM
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You're carrying about 8% too much body fat. That midsection is an atrocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:58 PM
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Then you have no drive and already lost the battle before it began. Don't like something? Change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:26 PM
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I'm tall and ripped and I got that way because I hated my body, even when I was upper few % of fitness and looks. It kept me pushing myself to be stronger, leaner, etc. Body dysmorphia works wonders for your physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:21 PM
1

To man up and stop being a pussy. Being fit isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:15 PM
1

The day you're able to experience having sex as a man with a condom, you'd understand. No sense in putting up with the bullshit to get to that point for something that feels negligible in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:46 PM
1

There are no Chads fucking 35+ year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:24 PM
1

This is the funniest thing I've read on here and this place is filled with laughably stupid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:27 PM
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Yes and those are all in untrained individuals. If you look like an untrained individual, you've already failed. If i stopped lifting and just took steroids, I would 100% lose mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:49 AM
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Obviously depends on the attractiveness of the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:18 PM
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Not really true, they encourage the women to have sex with FWB partners that they don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:35 PM
1

I've had women tell me they thought it was hot when I gave them a ballpark number.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:26 PM
1

The hottest women are 18-24, I'm 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:23 PM
1

Yes, I've met a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:17 PM
1

Does nothing to men, may / may not cause outbreaks but usually only 1 or 2 then stops forever in healthy adults, had before and curable nbd, had before and curable nbd. None of those even come close to impacting your quality of life as much as wearing condoms do. But the fact you said “super-aids” from the get go tells me you’re uneducated, reactionary, and inexperienced in the realities of sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/20 03:43 PM
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Here, I thought I'd do your dumbass a favor since you're too stupid to critically think on your own. Copied from another person who said the same thing because clearly some people never did any research on sex themselves. I know math is hard and that's why you went into nursing, but see if you can understand this. Data coming from here: https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/overview/index.html CDC estimates 1.1 million people with HIV in the US. Heterosexual women will make up ~50% of this, that's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 06:33 PM
1

You’re retarded. I’ve slept with an obscene number of women raw and only had the clap a few times. Shot, pill, cured. Only virgins think everyone has STIs and that they’ll catch shit from a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:32 PM
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Sorry incel, only virgins don’t actually understand basic statistics of STIs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 03:14 PM
2

It’s because men give up more to be in a relationship than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:27 PM
1

I’m sure the fat dude really is just rolling in it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:48 PM
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I’m 29 and college aged girls seem pretty into me still. That said, I’m in very good shape, full hair still, tall, et.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:07 PM
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No one cares about smashing 5/10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:01 PM
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“30 lbs too heavy”? I’m crying, 30 lbs in those cheeks alone maybe, that bitch definitely lugging 100 too many lbs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/20 08:15 PM
1

Read between the lines, don't need to say it explicitly to see what you're getting at. That said, you're a cancerous individual and I truly pity any man dumb enough to start trying to pursue you. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:21 AM
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Who the hell wants to wear a condom when you fuck someone? Girls not on BC are out immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 10:34 PM
1

Honestly how old are you? If you’re older than 16, you’re fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:29 PM
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It's literally the reason you made this topic. You're insufferable, sex or no sex, wouldn't come near you with a 10 foot pole. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:26 PM
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Except it is the issue because you seem to only care about a relationship having no sex. If anything, you're obsessed with not having sex more than men are obsessed with getting it. Wanting sex in a relationship doesn't mean it's solely about sex, I have fuckbuddies for solely sex. The relationship means I want sex AND companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:13 PM
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It’s not red pilled to expect sex in a relationship. I’ve never heard of one without it that wasn’t religious fundies. You’re the broken one for not wanting it. Live your life how you want, just don’t expect most men to be willing to accommodate you, you’re no more entitled to sexless attention than they are sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:54 PM
1

Ever noticed how everyone on here disagrees with you? Go force your beta partner to be celibate, nobody is stopping you. Guys with options aren't going to go voluntarily celibate for you, there's no benefit to it. You may think you're a catch worth chasing in that regards, but to any high value guy, you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:22 PM
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I'm 6'3 and 220 lbs, I'd rather not. I'm just saying I got WAY more attention from women after I got jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:45 PM
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I never said it's not slightly skewed, it's just not skewed to the extent of what reddit claims to. Reddit pretends the bottom 50% of women are fucking the top 10% of men and that just does not happen on any sort of regular basis. I don't think I'm a 10, but I don't have much issue pulling 7s with ease, 8s regularly, and the occasional 9 or 10. Women will sometimes go for their equal too, it's just not their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:51 PM
1

Where is this "stick thin" body type idolized? Women pretty much everywhere want Henry Cavill / Chris Hemsworth body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:55 PM
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This sub always talks about average women fucking high tier men, but I can promise you that is not the case. I wouldn't even look twice in the direction of a woman under 7, which means they must have sub 20-21 BMI, average or semi pretty face, etc. There are no mythical 9s and 10 men fucking 5-6 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:47 PM
1

We don't only want sex, but we sure as fuck want it occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:59 PM
1

Just because men are less picky and are willing to drop a load of cum in a higher % of women doesn't mean they're inherently higher value. Women are as high value as the men who will commit to them and men are as high value as the women who will fuck them. If women can't find a man that wants to commit to her that she feels is in her "league", then she's not as high value as she believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:32 PM
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Sex with a condom is so bad, it makes the effort to get to that point 100% wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:28 PM
1

Men want sex, if he's not getting it from you, he's getting it from someone else. Maybe you should be content dating men who are platonic with you but fucking others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:48 PM
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You’re fucking outside your league if you can’t get commitment. Men will fuck lower than they’ll date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:23 PM
1

I quit for months at a time with someone I like but the itch always comes back eventually after 5-6 months. No clue when it’ll ever end but I’m 30 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:16 PM
1

Women can do what they want for grooming but I’ll 100% akeays find the completely shaved ones more attractive. I definitely won’t be going down on any women with more than a tiny bit of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:11 PM
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That doesn’t mean the women are actually as high value as they think, it means they’re pickier. Men will fuck below their level, women won’t. When it comes to actual dating and commitment though, they pair off exactly as they should. If all the women only want the top 5% of men and only 5% can have them, it just means the other 95% are deluded in their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:31 PM
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Guys who fuck around are higher value and have more options, so why would they settle with a promiscuous women. The men that settle for slutty women are desperate, low value, low n count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:20 PM
1

Or their standards are higher than they deserve, hence why men aren’t interested in dating them. They have inflated self worth and the dating market shows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:39 PM
1

What makes you think the women are t equally low in quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:12 PM
2

My hinge is nothing but skinny smokes how girls. Tinder is filled with 80% obese single moms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 04:03 PM
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Attractive guy here, I swipe right on maybe 2-3% of women's profiles or I get way too many matches and 99% of them are girls I'd never give the time of day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 05:24 PM
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Have fucked an obscene number of women, the vast majority with no condom. Worst I ever got was the clap a couple of times, and maybe HPV but no warts / cancer causing ones, so who gives a fuck? Only retards overblow the severity of STIs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 04:43 PM
2

150 lmao, whale alert.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 04:38 PM
2

Definitely don't have a 12" penis, but I fit the other criteria and I'm definitely a huge asshole. Women still throw themselves my way though and always after a few weeks of casual dating, expect me to want to get more serious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 04:35 PM
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