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| 156 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time? | CrimsonQueso | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 11:21 AM | |
| 1 | My dream girl is spending all her time with me but tells me she isn't attracted. | Conversation | CrimsonQueso | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:27 PM |
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| 1 | What is a cool hobby that has helped you attract?I love magic: the gathering so | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Need dating advice for Indians in USA"who cares about stats" -- person who has a hard time understanding stats | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Need dating advice for Indians in USAOkcupid stats show that race is much more important for women than it is for men. Men, as a whole, find every race equally attractive except black. For women there is a hierarchy with white at the top and Asian/Indian at the bottom. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Need dating advice for Indians in USAMiddle Eastern men had a much easier time dating than Indians on okcupids race chart. If you're whiter it's probably not even that much of a penalty. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thThis is seddit dogma. Confidence/skill helps but stats matter more. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 7 | Best European city for a 30 year old single man to move to?I heard Kherson is pretty nice this time of year | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:10 PM |
| 25 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Man this is some postivity bullshit. Obviously you can't dwell on the disadvantages you have, but ugly/short are real disadvantages (shy/boring are not unless you on the spectrum). Not acknowledging that you have an uphill battle is delusional and possibly harmful for your psyche if you think it's only your game that's the problem. As a community we should be empathetic towards people that legit have these problems instead of gaslighting them with these posts by saying it's all in your head. "Fa… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?I mean I went from deeply unhappy before seduction to a period of growth and fleeting happiness to back to being deeply unhappy again now that I feel like I've hit my "cap". My self-esteem is significantly higher and I would recommend it. Just not sure where to go next. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I agree, ultimately it's not race upon which I'm being rejected, it's status. It gets incrementally harder to gain status though (guy making 70k doesn't get that much more status until he starts making 200k+) , and by default Asian and brown guys will have less status for the same achievements. I don't think I'll ever be a multi millionaire celebrity, but I have an interesting job, am relatively fit, and generally I try to roll up to clubs with some social proof. It feels like a lot of times thi… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.It starts to fuck you up though when a majority of women will not look past your race though. I try to develop my skills but I feel like a large but undiscernable amount of my failures are due to race. I'm East Asian descent and it's still frustrating trying to game women from the west. I've found that it's much easier to seduce locals in Asia and (white) expats in Asia, as well as people that are more socially conscious (SJWs) in general. It's gotten so bad that I attribute most of my failures … | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Racist is a term where the definition is constantly fought over. For you it might mean hate, for me it means prejudice. Not finding sexually attractive I've found is usually correlated with some beliefs about that race. They may not be hateful beliefs, but they're not good beliefs. As an Asian for example, there's always a subconscious idea that we're not masculine, we have small dicks, we're nerdy and socially awkward. It's gotta be at a subconscious level. Maybe it's not the same as "I find yo… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.let's say this test wasn't checking for the association of "bad" but "ugly", which I'm sure would yield similar results. I feel that saying "I don't find black people sexy" is the same as saying "I have an implicit bias where I associate black with ugly". Yeah it's fair, it's how society has trained us to perceive people, but it's not something where you should think it's okay to say to black people. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.lol | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.lol I'm not saying it's inherently immoral, but it's racist (preference of one race over another) in the same way I'm racist when I take the Harvard implicit bias test and find it's easier to associate black people with "bad". I don't think I should be proud and unapologetic of my bias, but it's not inherently immoral to have this bias. I also don't lump white people together, it's literally impossible to get anywhere in a majority white society if you do (just like lumping all women together wi… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.It's hard tho. I'm East Asian and it feels like these women are just the ones vocal about their racist preferences. It feels like 80-90% of women have this belief but aren't vocal but also at the same time you don't want to attribute all your failures to race. It's hard to move past this when it feels like it's omnipresent. My solution was basically just moving abroad. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.you right bruh. It's hard though when this preference is held by most of the women you interact with. It's also hard because I'm pretty sure for him it will affect him in 5 years. Women will not prefer brown for his entire life. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I mean have you taken the (Harvard implicit association tests?)[https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/takeatest.html] Most people associate "older" and "African" with bad and "white" and "young" with good. There's also a strong association with Asian and foreign as well. Try all the tests on the site. I mean we can argue about how broad the word "Racist" should be but there is something innately wrong/unfair here. As I said, it's not immoral to have these prejudices, but to proudly state that at… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Yes but it's devastating or straight up offensive to hear that your value as a person doesn't matter to someone because of superficial reasons. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.There's no hard causal evidence, but do dating sites have stats that show whites doing waaaay better than all the other races because whites are innately better at this stuff or because of media influence (keep in mind dating sites are usually the most superficial places and your average messenger is sending "hi" "hello" messages)? I think the latter is much more likely. There's a compounding factor here where you're most likely to get preferences from your friends who get their preferences from… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Is this even good advice or just 100% redpill bs? When a woman says "you're too short/ugly" or "I'm not into your race" there's both no way you should be attracted to that woman if you respect yourself and also no way you're going to get that woman to go home with you. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:13 AM |
| 3 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Itaewon I think is a different beast. Women who go there are probably white fetishists; even the English teachers I know don't even like to associate with the people that go there (mostly soldiers stationed in Korea). | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I think you're right on the first point, but it's really hard to achieve that as a brown guy in this setting since to some extent most women will have a prejudice towards him. I guess it's a silver lining but that ball might be impossible for him to roll in South Korea (definitely impossible in Itaewon at the very least). | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.The basis for lack of attraction to a certain race, especially if it's that extreme (99%) is socially constructed. Sexual preferences are largely socially constructed and it's racist to say "I'm not attracted to x" because you're really saying "I'm not willing to give x a chance because I have prejudices towards x either from media or experience and have lumped all of you together" I mean you can't help your preferences right? I'd say it's not immoral but it is racist. Proudly stating that you h… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 10:58 AM |
| -1 | [FR]Shattered over a Harvard girl last night and need some adviceWhen I say sarcastic in this context, I mean I know it's not appropriate to say but it's what I mean. I'm am fully admitting that I have this belief that I'm smarter than other people. Does it matter? Are you arguing I shouldn't hold this belief? I hold this belief but I don't actively say it/act it or if I do I do with modesty/self-deprecation. When people comment "you must be smart" I usually respond "only some of the time". This is a belief I should should have though and I'll defend that. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.This is pretty shit commentary. "So they like what everyone else likes that you can never be.. big deal, everyone has preferences but mostly the same preferences" | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.This is a hard mental state to maintain when it feels like a lot of women hold this view or if you don't know when to attribute failures to people holding this view but smart enough not to say it or to your game being off. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 03:34 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Itaewon is probably a bad place. Women that go there are just hunting white dudes/soldiers and you've gotta be a little crazy to be race fetishist or into soldiers when even other expats don't like to associate with them. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 03:32 AM |
| -3 | [FR]Shattered over a Harvard girl last night and need some adviceThanks this is very constructive advice and not at all malicious. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 03:30 AM |
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