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It sounds like your self worth is based too heavily on external validation. Find internal fulfillment and then you won't be so crushed by a rejection. Rejection is part of all facets of life and learning to deal with it in a healthy way goes way beyond the scope of this sub.
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:54 PM
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Dog have ever seen a shredded up dude with a 6 pack and thought "Oh yeah, no one would ever be into him, his face is too ugly." Of course not. Even if someone truly has a bad face, if you're otherwise attractive then you're fine. Even Danny DeVito is married so get out of here with the poor me attitude. Hit the gym, watch what you eat, ask for advice in /r/fitness, get a good body, and watch how suddenly it doesn't matter so much what your face looks like. Oh, also make sure you shower regularly…
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:33 PM
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Okay, then what is a 10 by your standards?
/r/seduction12/06/16 07:14 PM
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That's what I came to say. It's Netflix and chill, not Netflix and have a mild panic attack thinking about what to do next.
/r/seduction12/11/15 05:39 PM
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If you define how cool you are by how many random girls you fuck then you definitely need to work on yourself. That sounds like you do it more because you want people to admire you for it than because you actually want to. This is further supported by the fact that even though you have an awesome girlfriend now, you're depressed when you are feeling validated by her presence. You need to be happy on your own before anyone else can make you happy. Get a hobby. Do something productive. Enjoy your …
/r/seduction11/11/15 04:57 PM
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Dude, try and use that "perfect skin" thing to your advantage. Girls are asking to touch your head, so while that may not be ideal attention that you are getting, its still something you can work with. If they found you truly repulsive, they wouldn't want to touch any part of you.
/r/seduction10/03/15 01:20 AM
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No, he's just putting it out there.
/r/seduction02/01/15 06:34 PM
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Let's just say he's no competition.
/r/seduction23/04/14 07:35 AM
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I agree with the first half of what you said, but stop agreeing upon the permission part. I knew as I toured that that someone would say something about. As per our mutual agreement I am asked to fuck other girls. I don't cheat, I don't like it, I don't think it feels good. If I committed myself to someone I wouldn't do it without a mutual understanding. So according to our relationship, I am permitted to have sex with another woman without hurt feelings. But it's much easier to say what I said …
/r/seduction25/02/14 01:52 AM
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I find it depends on the girl. I usually only approach women that catch my eye, not just physically but personality wise because most women where I live are boring, shallow, sorority girls. Some odd them give me playful sit tests but I always know exactly what they are doing and seems enjoyable. Recently, however, I've been in quite a conundrum in the field. I have a polyamorous relationship with a girl. According to the trends of the relationship I'm allowed to have sex with other girls, but I'…
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:12 PM
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Do you have some suggestions?
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:34 PM
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I think it depends on the girl. My current girlfriend hates if I pay for everything all the time. Every now and then is nice, but she is an independent woman and likes to do things for herself, including pay for herself.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:14 PM
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I'm always searching for dates other than eating a meal. I find its just so overplayed. Not that it's not nice every now and then, but it's such a go to thing.
/r/seduction24/02/14 05:02 PM
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This is an interesting approach. Too bad it's so boring where I live.
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:04 AM
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This is good advice, thanks!
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:03 AM
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I didn't mean necessarily dinner. Pretty much a date anywhere costs money, unless it's like a going to the park or something. Even as much as buying a drink or coffee. Do you still feel the same about those? /u/rusty84 makes a valid point, sometimes, they just stare at you expectantly. It makes for a weird exchange and can completely kill it at the end, not that someone that expects me to pay is someone I want to take on more dates anyway. But sometimes things are going well and then they just h…
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:02 AM
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I wish X could read this. Dude, the way you described her, this is the perfect one. I know the feeling and what it's like to have a person so special that they made your life better, even if they are no longer in it.
/r/seduction21/02/14 12:29 AM
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The hole that got a way, as my friend would put it. Sometimes things have a way of working themselves out, and they come back to you.
/r/seduction21/02/14 12:22 AM
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Maybe if you meet on Christian mingle, Mr. White Knight
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:24 AM
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It's not that it's unattractive, it's that you've set yourself up to always pay for everything. Which in my opinion, fuck that. I personally don't want a girl that would only be interested in me if I pay for them because that shows where he priorities are.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:57 PM
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I don't much like movie theater dates. Hanging at my or their home is one thing, but in a movie theater you can't really talk or anything. You just sit next to them in silence. I want them to remember me from the date, nor the movie, and that's a good 90 mins I've lost from the night.
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:45 PM
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I feel like this is a contradiction. You're basically saying "be yourself on your own time so that you can be someone you think other people would value when you're in public." The way you described yourself is pretty close to how I identify with my introversion. I feel like I'm making an effort when I am acting extroverted, because the real me is an introvert. Same goes for you. That's not being you, that's being the version of you that is sociable and you wish you could be. Not that it's a bad…
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:10 PM
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And how can you develop your singing voice so that it didn't sound awful?
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:05 PM
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I have had several women tell me they look through guys' photos to see what the girls they are with look like. The hotter the women they are on pictures with, the more these other women find him attractive. I had a friend saying that she thinks this guy is ugly bit she's attracted to him because he gets hot girls. Mind you, this is superficial women, but apparently this is a thing.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:49 PM
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Good for you dude. My advice would be at that very end, I personally would not have told her that you sat next to her specifically because you thought she was cute. Some girls might find it flattering but in my opinion it sounds like you had a plan and comes off as stalkerish. Obviously you did have a plan and I'm assuming you're not a stalker but you just want it to feel really natural.
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:38 PM
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I like that, except the ice skating part. I think my biggest problem is knowing places to take chicks that aren't cliche: bar, movies (I know these are horrible for dates), dinner, ice skating. But the whole shall we go [insert event] Thursday night thing is pretty smooth.
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:16 PM
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Fortunately, seduction is a numbers game. Just slightly alter you game until you get it right. If you do anything enough, you'll learn the ins and outs. I like to think I'm always learning how to do something better. If you're never learning, you're never living.
/r/seduction27/09/13 03:55 AM
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If this is serious this is the worst advice in this whole thread. Every situation is different and no specific set of rules will work for everything. Sometimes you have to adjust to your surroundings.
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:10 PM
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Just make sure that when you are actually utilizing this skill, you aren't talking endlessly about nothing.
/r/seduction03/05/13 06:10 PM
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It really depends on the type of girl your girlfriend is. My girlfriend would show me something like that because she would find it humorous, but she generally has pretty high self esteem.
/r/seduction20/04/13 07:10 PM
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The problem with this is that it's hard to seperate lust for other girls while being seductive when you're already in a relationship. I just go with the be myself approach at all times and fortunately it works wonders.
/r/seduction19/04/13 10:39 PM
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I hate texting. My strategy with texting is make to make the conversation as short as possible. I just cut to the chase anyway. If they want to do something in person, we make plans. Texting game is boring, unsatisfying, and unnecessary, at least in my opinion. But hey, to each his own.
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:14 AM
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I think an important thing to mention is that just because a girl doesn't use kino, it doesn't mean she's not interested. We always hear about guys on here that don't use kino and the girl assumes she's not interested and moves on. There are girl versions of this too that are shy about flirting/kino. That doesn't mean relentlessly talk to a girl that isn't desplaying interest, it just means don't forget that girls are people with the same thoughts, fears, and desires as men.
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:33 PM
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My preferred tactic for meditating is to think of my thoughts as water flow. It starts as a waterfall, then a river, until slowly the thoughts stop altogether, a pond.
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:13 PM
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I met a girl a long time ago and I got friendzoned. It really sucked because I was totally in love with this girl, but she just became one of my best friends, and I had to accept we wouldn't be more than that. Years later we started fucking and then we started dating and it's been the best relationship i've ever had. It's hard to get out of the friendzone but if you can it's fucking great.
/r/seduction04/02/13 11:02 PM
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The problem is that guys think that women are this mystical puzzle that need to be figured out. Some try the beta approach, some try others. Some solve the puzzle, some don't. But it's really as simple as this: women are people too. They have the same thoughts, same feelings, same fears, and same desires that everyone in the world experiences. Obviously, there are some very different traits, but those are usually cultural. If you can appeal to the human side of anyone, you'll have won them over.…
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:56 AM
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It's not about changing yourself. It's about getting yourself to a point that you are happy with. If you are truly happy being that fat guy, and you truly don't have anything that you think you should change about your appearance then it's all good. It's when people hear this and thing they can just be cocky assholes that it becomes a problem.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:19 AM
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Nice! A lot of girls respect guys that aren't going to beat around the bush with them and get straight to the point. Post how it goes!
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:02 AM
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Well put. Something good to add about emoticons; I read a study that women often find men who don't use them more attractive than men who do. Just one more reason not to use them.
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:11 PM
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What is "neg?"
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:04 PM
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I often have this problem. I feel like such a wiener if I put in too much effort and I feel like she sees that too. It's really a hit or miss. I've found blunt honesty is the way to go. "You're attractive and I find you interesting. If you're not interested I'll be on my way" etc.
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:02 PM
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That one isn't even a joke. It's just answering a question.
/r/seduction23/09/12 10:51 PM
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I've had many relationships before, some serious, some not. But I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Someday I will be again, but at this point in my life I'm not trying necessarily trying to. It's difficult to find women that are interested in polyamory like that, but certainly doable. But regardless of the type of relationship I form with the girl, I'm not looking for advice for girls at the club, it's more the girls that you see day to day at the library or random places you may th…
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:20 PM
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You should make a post about how this turns out. I'm intrigued to find out what she looks like.
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:18 PM
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You said you don't want to seem like you are trying to hard, but the fact that you are putting this much thought into your cologne means you are trying too hard. I found, at least for me, be hygienic and interesting and your scent shouldn't matter because it won't be bad. If you really want to put on something special, pick something YOU like, not what you think other people would like and use it conservatively. If you are really going for the novelty of your scent, pick something unique, someth…
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:08 PM
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I pretty much cover that in my original post. I more or less agree with what you've stated, but I figured I would critique and add to it.
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:51 AM
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I like this post a lot. Very informative for those who get friendzoned a lot. My only concern with it is that it's about establishing LTR right? So it seems like this is almost all about physical and emotional attraction and very little on personality attraction. If it's just to have sex, personality doesn't matter. But I've dated my share of annoying girls to realize you gotta find out what she's really like as close to the beginning of the relationship as possible or you may finding yourself w…
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:37 AM
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Are you asking from a philosophical standpoint, like what does it mean to truly have confidence? Or have you never heard the word before and are inquiring about it? Because I find it hard to believe you've grown up without hearing this word unless english is not your first language.
/r/seduction22/08/12 10:11 AM
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Can't tell if serious...
/r/seduction21/08/12 01:38 PM
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The proper term you are looking for is "confidence," not "broadcasting a wavelength of attractiveness." Women like men who are confident. The more confident you are in yourself, the better your game will be and the better your chances will be, regardless of looks. And I mean really confidence, not some pseudo-bullshit front where you act all cocky in front of people and frown at yourself in the mirror. I mean real confidence that springs from self-acceptance, loving yourself and who you are. Loo…
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:22 AM
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This is fantastic. Thanks for the words of advice.
/r/seduction10/05/12 07:01 AM
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Well there's a difference between falling over drunk, and under the influence. I agree, that's a level of sloppy that I would not like to indulge in. But the fact that it makes them so much more relaxed and "friendly" is exactly my point.
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:46 PM
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Lesbian means you are a female homosexual, not that you love women ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:44 PM
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Read the Glossary for terms you don't understand.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:41 PM
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I'm new here. What's the 30 day challenge?
/r/seduction27/03/12 12:49 AM
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You just gotta be friendly and likable. Make jokes. If you can make her laugh, that's good. But let it come naturally from conversation, don't go up to her with a knock knock joke or anything like that. And build the sexual tension.
/r/seduction20/03/12 05:56 AM
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