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| 24 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriages | DISCUSSION | CriticalEggplant6007 | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 01:23 PM |
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| 2 | I’m a virgin waiting for marriage, but my BMI was last recorded at 34. LamentDieting is the way to go, you'll end up less hungry on a daily basis and you'll be able to sustain it long-term. Please don't do weight loss drugs because these don't break your habits and when the treatment ends you'll probably regain more weight, and its side effects are not pretty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Is this what most men would consider the female equivalent of getting flowers?Yeah, sucking a man's penis on the first dates and exposing yourself to getting a std is most definitely the equivalent of getting a pretty plant as a gift. You don't wanna be near men who think like that. The equivalent might be a small thoughtful gift such as a buying a snack he mentioned he loves, maybe a gaming gift card, or a couple homemade cookies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/26 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a gamer?Doctor K on YouTube talked about this not long ago. Basically, if he's struggling and falling behind in other areas of his life because of his gaming addiction, that's a no-go. BUT if videogames are not altering his progress in life or his character, then it's harmless and totally fine. I was a die-hard gamer during my teenage years. And I must recognize that gamers are usually neglecting many areas of their lives. I just realized now that I'm an adult. But to be fair, it's a case-by-case basis … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/26 01:57 AM |
| 19 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThe shift starts from within. Love yourself and truly allow yourself to embody femininity. No amount of cosmetic procedures are gonna make up for the lack of self-esteem, so forgive yourself and work with what you have at the moment. That's step 1. Then, as others have suggested already, grooming can go a long way—long and styled hair, dresses, make-up, a floral fragrance, longer nails, jewelry. You've got this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Finding a partnerI'm on the same boat. You definitely have to move to a big city. Imo it's hard to find potential partners that satisfy your intellectual needs/ personal values in a small town/college town. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/26 07:12 PM |
| 0 | How do you accept no physical contact before marriage when everything else feels right?Maybe he has a micro p. Definitely figure it out before marriage. Maybe have a serious conversation. Idk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/25 09:02 AM |
| 5 | Shall I break no contact and join my boyfriend for his birthday?Well, from now on you know that you keep your past to yourself, lesson learned for future relationships. Now, I think you need to be emotionally independent. Read how to become independent, there are plenty of resources online. Stating you want more physical touch is one thing and ask him to fix your mood is another. Stable People in general get sick of emotionally dependent people. Respect yourself so he respects you too. Regarding your relationship, you need to analyze if you want to pursue it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/25 07:07 PM |
| 10 | I’ve been dating two men for a month but I’m starting to realize that none of them might be a good choice. Am I being unreasonablly picky?Not picky at all. Keep on dating other men! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/25 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Man I’m talking to says he picks personality over looks for me.That's disrespectful imo. Don't take it too personal tho. I'd keep looking for other dating options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/25 05:08 AM |
| 4 | When should I start offering to pay for dates with the man I’m seeing?I'll be the weirdo. Don't offer any cake or anything. Cooking for a man is something only a wife does. Imo, he'll appreciate it if you receive gracefully and show gratefulness. I agree with the others on not offering to pay at all. You'll give it back to him as the relationship strengthens imo, for now I'd stick to appreciation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 05:50 AM |
| 6 | What Are The Best Skills A Girl Can Acquire Before Marriage?Sex education, having self-esteem, being financially literate, having your own hobbies and passions, have a good relationship with your body and know how to stay safe and healthy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/25 01:41 AM |
| 18 | Is it possible to ensure sexual compatibility while waiting until marriage?You'll know what you'll like and dislike with a partner only if you're sexually aware and experienced with yourself first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 07:38 PM |
| 21 | Moving in / splitting billsDont move in until you get married and talk about your financial beliefs now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/25 01:28 AM |
| – | how do i make my husband agree to stay longer at my parents'?I disagree with all the comments above. Your husband should agree and stay—when married, parenting requires BOTH parents—let him go out of town just because he's crybabying on having a child? He is not single anymore. He's not supposed to behave like peter pan. Now—Maybe he's concerned thinking it'll be permanent, he understandably might prefer to have your own space. Maybe explain is only temporary and he'll see the bigger picture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | How do unmarried women manage their expectations regarding wanting marriageYeah if he's not willing to fulfill those needs I think it's time to let him go. I'm only a few years younger than you and I feel the same way about dating. The scene feels awful and I hate how men expect husband treatment without actually commiting and how we, women, are always under pressure because of our biological clock. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesI respect your opinion. From my pov it's not a mindset, it's just how social reality works. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesThank you so much for your input. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesThank you for the feedback. I appreciate this perspective too. So just to be clear, you're aware of where all the money goes? And if you don't mind me asking, you guys have separate bank accounts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesI get your point. I mentioned college educated because I went to college and thought it'd be nice to be on the same page regarding that with a man. So, where can those guys you mention be found? Like, what type of communities within a city? Generally speaking of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesI forgot to add — I think it's also some sort of warranty of commitment. Sure, knowing where the money is won't stop a man from cheating or gambling or whatever, but I think letting the woman handle the money is the bare minimum standard that equals what she's bringing in— she's committing her life, her body, her health and youth, her time, her nurturing nature and so on. On the other hand, since men can get husband treatment without being married, I think it's particularly important for married… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesI totally get it. Assuming the woman isn't a frivolous spender, what would be an effective way to communicate and ask for this style of managing to a male partner? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesHmm it's not about control but transparency and respect imo | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesThank you for the feedback. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesThank you for your first hand experience, I've always been told it was an unrealistic expectation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Traditional-style money management in today's marriagesYes, hypothetically doing most of these being in the position of knowing where every single penny goes | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 01:32 PM |
| 13 | After our engagement, I trusted him to provide while I prepared for our wedding/pregnancy plans for this year. He ended it and began dating right after.Men do this because they get husband treatment without being married. I'm sorry you feel used but honestly you need no closure on his end, no explanations. Carry on and don't be an unmarried wife again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/25 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Help a girl out. How can I actually find traditional men?From my experience, men you'd find at the church are not traditional either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/24 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Help a girl out. How can I actually find traditional men?Nice to know I'm not alone lol. At this point I think it is a widespread issue in the country. I'm currently analyzing my next move. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/24 12:24 AM |
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