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Nope. It's because you aren't ltr material or she's not seeking a ltr at the moment/she doesn't want a ltr with you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 AM

Why? Why is it a straw man? It's the same thing. Better yet, force the husbands to wear chastity cages. If they don't plan to bang any chicks, it shouldn't be an issue, right? Install a screen mirroring app to see what your so is up to at any time of day, despite them never showing signs of infidelity. But that's cruel and unhinged, and shows untrust, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:26 PM
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I fully support this. Also let wives know when their husband has a woman with another child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:04 PM
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Let me put a spin on it:why do a man's feelings matter more than the safety of the child? Children need to grow in happy families. See how stupid that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:03 PM
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Everyone should and does lie about the numbers of partners they had in the past. Men or women. Men lie to seem more experienced and women lie to seem more pure. Both are equally as fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:27 AM
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Being accused out of thin air and landing in jail on the basis of looking creepy are different. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:19 PM
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dismissal of mental health issues -women are less likely to get diagnosed properly -less likely to be medicated accordingly -more likely to be prescribed birth control/have their issues thrown aside as female hysteria -psych meds are tested on male subjects, to the detriment of women, this means inaccurate results -women are 4 times more likely to suffer with mental health issues -post partum is still not properly understood when it comes to the mental issues that come with it -autism is way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:23 AM
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I'm anti plastic. What do you want me to do about it? Invent a time machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:20 PM
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Sexual cartoons that depict children. That's what I'm reffering to. What are you trying to argue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:41 AM
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Much better, safer alternative. As long as it doesn't depict children, animals, incest, or non consensual activity, I think it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:40 AM
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You're right. I hate the fast fashion industry, I'm a huge adept of trifting or buying good quality pieces that will last a lifetime, possibly passing it to next generations(like animal fur coats, for example) and I also hate overconsumerism. People out there are getting new phone every year for no reason. I've had mine for 3 years, it's an old model. The only time I buy a new phone is when the cost of repairing the old, unusable one is higher than purchasing a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:43 AM
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No one is above the law. You need to offend to end up in prison, and it has to be a pretty damn metal offense to end up there. No one is sending you there for looking creepy. If you really are a danger to yourself and others mentally ill, you'll be send to an institution over night. That's about it. Even if you do something creepy enough, you have the right to a lawyer and a fair trial. Unless there's substantial proof for your wrong doings, you'll be out and about in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:12 AM
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Unless you're harassing someone, you likely won't end up in jail. I'm not sure where this is coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:10 AM
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We can agree to disagree here. God forbid people aren't allowed to draw child porn, porn including bestiality or incest. They're religious beliefs? They're allowed to be mad over whatever they want? I'm allowed to believe bestiality, incest and pedophilia is wrong and it shouldn't be depicted in a positive/erotic light? It's literally not. Plenty of porn stars have shared their experience with this. Good that they're getting tested, I still don't believe they never get hurt. Genitals are sensiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:02 AM
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That sounds like literal highschool girls. Thats the kind of conversations teenagers have. People in my age group definitely don't act like that. That's definitely not the case. The issue areises when you try to please anyone. You should Have a sound moral background, please yourself and please your partner. You don't have the obligation to be attractive to every female human on this planet. Some girl saying she doesn't like whatever male haircut online shouldn't affect you personally. You'll li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:55 AM
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That's not what reading the room is. You can definitely tell when someone's interested or not. Not with a 100% accuracy, ofcourse. But you can definitely guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:52 AM
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Pardon?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:51 AM
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Thank you for archair diagnosing me lmfao. God forbid I wanna do something meaningful instead of being a ho online. I'm a femcel because I don't post content online? Being better means posting videos of puss online?? Aside from top pornstars, most of them don't even make money. My value is not placed solely on my looks. I look good enough for myself and my partner. To me, that's personally what matters. I am absolutely not jealous of content creators, no matter how they look. I've never in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:51 AM
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Some industries are necessary for human survival. Porn isn't one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:41 AM
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I really don't want to get into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:40 AM
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Try to not nitpick. Then why is it still being produced, huh? Why are people asking for personalized content? Why are porn addicts seeking content on niche sites? You might see it as dishonest. It's a horrible industry that exploits. Obviously not every person in the industry is exploited, the critical point is that we need to stop sexual exploitation to the best of our abilities. !!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:22 PM
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Why don't you research for a bit yourself? I feel like I'm writing an essay, this starts to feel like you're arguing in good faith. There are 4.8 million people trafficked into the sex industry every year. I'm glad that most actors aren't forced. However, as I've said before, I care about people's safety more than the quality of someone's fap session. Those adults feed into a predatory industry, that hurts the viewers and everyone involved, as I said. Because that's what the industry leads to! I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:21 PM
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I get to have a personal point of over it just like you like to be the thought police when it comes to my pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:15 PM
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I haven't consented to people pissing in the streets. You're right. Some people don't care. Doesn't change the fact that it hurt everybody. You might be watching porn of someone who hasn't consented to being filmed or to participating in those sexual acts uh oh. People who are trafficked in the industry actively suffer because people keep feeding into said industry. Their partners likely never consented to being in a relationship with a porn addict. Most definitely! The thing is, porn isn't nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:14 PM
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Try to not nitpick. Then why is it still being produced, huh? Why are people asking for personalized content? Why are porn addicts seeking content on niche sites? You might see it as dishonest. It's a horrible industry that exploits. Obviously not every person in the industry is exploited, the critical point is that we need to stop sexual exploitation to the best of our abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:10 PM
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That's not a good argument. I could probably spend a life time eating every kind of apple out there. That doesn't change the fact that there's a food shortage. Shockingly it is! Because people ask for custom content or more extreme content. Prostitution (goes hand in hand with porn) is also supply-short.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:58 PM
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I said I think it should be banned everywhere. I am but a human, I can't do shit to change the way the world works, and i 100% cannot single handedly stop a multi billion dollar industry. I fully believe it has to stop. There's not much I can do about it but not watch it myself. The argument was about people's bodies, their choices, etc. I gave a comparison. If people can piss and spit on the streets, why can't I free bleed? It's the same thing, no? The point is, we shouldn't br able to do thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:57 PM
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Common sense. The source is common sense. They definitely do. I'm still against ballet, if that helps. That's literally one site and it took them years. There has been a case of an underaged girl that was drugged and filmed while being raped. It took a lawsuit and multiple months for PH to take that video down. If banning porn saves even one person from that, I'm literally all for it. People's safety and livelyhood will always be more important for me than the satisfaction of someone's orgasm. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:52 PM
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You're correct! But it would absolutely slow down the production. I'm not completely against porn, just porn that exploits and hurts. I think ai and animations could replace it realistically. I also have nothing against couples making tapes and watching it together. As long as they're not selling it to other people. Most of it is underground anyway. Why does it matter? Do I have the right to free bleed on the bus? No, because blood is a bio hazard and it affects the people around me. Same as pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:45 PM
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That doesn't really matter, especially when taking into consideration that there are tons of porn addicts out there. Yeah, toes can heal and tbh I don't fuck with ballet either. It's definitely unhealthy and teachers place unreachable expectations to their students. I'd be happier if it was crocheting, reading, sport or any other things that's actually healthy. Again, there's no way to regulate it, if we are being realistic. Yes, and we should all have our rights respected and our taxes should t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:41 PM
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Those are some wild assumptions. You seem to have already decided what my pov is. If you wanna argue to yourself, I'd suggest using a mirror. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:30 PM
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I can be worried about women who are exploited while at the same time not agree with women who put sex work in a positive light while pushing young women with actual potential into it. I hate the industry, I hate that it's predatory. I don't wish harm on any sex worker. However, I have a special place in my heart for people who pull other people down just because they're down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:25 PM
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Right, care to debate or are you here to nitpick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:23 PM
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I don't consider myself a feminist. Someone having a vagina isn't enough for me to like them as a person or subscribe to their views. Hope this helps!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah, and cocaine use can be safe with regulation too! But it actually couldn't. Something tells me it's the same with porn. https://osf.io/a5tnb/download https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6256046/ You'll have to look into it for this one. Plenty of actors and actresses have shared their experience regarding being forced or blackmailed into filming scenes they didn't want to perform in. Why would that happen? They're surrounded by people so they're more likely to be able to ask for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:17 PM
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No, I literally feel like repeatedly hitting my head into the nearest wall whenever I hear them. This is very personal, but I remember visiting my friend's childhood friend's house. I had just finished highschool, and had gotten a good grade on my exam(where I live we take an exam right after we finish highscool. The grade determines the college you get into). This childhood friend was an only fans content creator. I was talking to friend about the exam, content creator said "smart girls do only…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:04 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:58 PM
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It's not fair that people out there are getting exploited for any number of people's sexual pleasure. In my country prostitution is illegal, but as soon as you prop up a camera, then it's suddenly legal. What's the difference? As long as it's drawn and it doesn't depict children, animals, incest or non consensual things, I'm fine with it. Anything else should be banned, in my opinion, and here's why: -female actresses oftenly end up in hospitals due to injuries caused by the filming of the video…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:44 PM
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Nope. Even socially awkward teenagers can somewhat read the room. Mentally disabled men aren't a huge chunk of the population, especially to the point of being socially handicapped. Why are we even talking about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:39 PM
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I don't care. Double standards exist everywhere and often times they're healthy. As for the difference between male and female talk in this context, I'd 100% rather be talked about like that by a woman rather than a man. Men do it in an utterly disgusting way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah I've literally heard men describe it countless of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:02 PM
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Nope. They always talk about their females partners body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:01 PM
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Nope, men definitely also go into detail, they just use vulgar terms and sort of objectify women in the process. Women talk to their female friends like literal erotica writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:58 PM

Please do send over those statistics that show shy men aren't as likely to be abusive. Statistics are based on what people report. Lots of men out there being abused by their female partners who are scared to report or being laughed in the face by police officers when they do try to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:13 AM

It definitely isn't. It's mostly desperate people in a scarcity mindset that believe they're undyingly loyal. They aren't. They're desperate. My analogy is perfectly sound. The kids who end up being chosen last are consistently being chosen last. No one actually wants to play with them, the other kids need equal teams and that's why they even get to play the game. People want to be chosen, they don't want to feel like they were at the bottom of the barrel and their partner was starving. Theres n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:11 AM

Ehh not really. I've met really good looking men who were just too shy and they had a lot to lose when it came to dating and sex. Don't get me wrong, ugly, shy guys have way less chances, but attractive, confident guys are definitely at the top of the chain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:39 PM

I feel like the truth upsests you. It's like being chosen last in gym class, or people using you for skills/resources. The moment a better opportunity comes along, they'll bail. They don't want you, they want someone and you happened to be avaliable. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 PM

Shy guys settle for what they get. The moment something better comes along... wether she's a bit younger, prettier, has perkier boobs or a rounder ass... They're gonna jump at the opportunity. A man that has a lot of options but chooses you regardless is truly valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:35 PM

Women are just as abusive and disloyal as men. Shy weird guys are just as likely to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:31 PM

Male ego. Men like feeling powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:28 PM
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Everything is fair in love and war. I don't see women as inherently worse than men. Men do the same things women do, mostly. There's no reason why women should center men in their lives and do everything in their benefit. The only people who did that for me were my parents, and only recently my now partner, by the grace of God. After all, at the end of the day, it's you who you fall asleep with, you always got your own back and your best interest is and should always be your focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:01 PM
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That's common sense. Sex every 5 years sounds awful, like that's the worst case dead bedroom scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:04 PM
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That's probably what happens to religious women who have their sexuality shamed out of them, or women with husbands/partners who don't care about their pleasure. If you always ended up in pain/unsatisfied/both, you wouldn't want to have sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:03 PM
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Most men, especially after turning 30, stop wanting to sleep around and actually want to settle down with a wife and kids. The desire to sleep around is a trait that mostly unstable people have. Most average men are pretty well rounded, and they'll commit to a woman they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 PM
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Who do you think has more chances? A skinny fat short dude, an obese short dude, or a jacked short dude? This isn't about being a 10/10, It's about self improvement and increasing your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:05 AM

The divorce rate hasn't been 50% in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:06 PM
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Nah not in hour case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 AM
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Nah I won't. I'll have my partner and/kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:23 PM
0

Then be single and die alone, keep moaning. What do you want me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:06 PM
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No. Your mindset is black pilled. You have to pry sometimes, but unless they're attracted to you at least a bit from the start there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:36 PM
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This is a cope. Average men do have girlfriends and wives. Women will cry over the crustiest men if those men have certain personality traits. This is straight up black pill bullsh. Get jacked Learn how to talk to women Get a haircut Clear up your face Get some money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:34 PM

Not only is she young, she's also really fit and somewhat attractive. Are we really surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:56 AM

The dating market isn't crap, but for women relationships with men nowadays are a net loss. Men don't beautify themselves for women, they don't court them and expect sex almost immediately, they could try harder with hygiene, grooming and hair triming, they're stingy, feminine, emotionally reactive... Women nowadays work and bring money inside the house. Women still do all the child care and house work Men don't make women cum everytime, sex is often unpleasant for women. All of this to have a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:46 AM
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Women are more neurotic they crave excitement and change. Men are more narcissistic. Narcissistic people have a melt down when things don't go as planned, when there's any sort of instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:06 AM
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Hitler didn't invent eugenics, fascism or anti semitis. The fact that there are still nazi circles is caused by human nature. Could have been any other monster in his place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:36 AM

As if men don't shame women for being lose, for how they smell and how it looks. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:27 PM
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Your view of loyalty is not sleeping with anyone else. To some that's not what loyalty means, and that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:16 AM
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No female friends is un acceptable. Has a lot of female friends is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:55 PM

They aren't attracted to you most likely. Why? Women like tall men the same way men like feminine bodied women (hourglass, small frame).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:20 PM

Ah there it is. Hit on women who are under 5'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:17 PM

I'm just saying that if you lack success in both romantic and friendly aspects, that might be something about you that needs fixing. Not necessarily about women as a whole. You know, one is definitely more plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:17 PM

you admit to not having any friends online. If everywhere u go it stinks like shit, maybe check your soles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:06 PM

Women don't turn down good looking tall men lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:06 PM

Then you're fat or severely ugly. Or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:32 PM
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I'm not sure about that so I won't speak on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:32 PM
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No woman that's not ugly or fat has every complained about cold approaching, unless you're literally an old creepy dude trying to pick up highschool girls, being overtly sexual, stinky or really drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:29 AM
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Probably practiced with teens their age. Nowadays, teenagers have way less sex and start having sex way later. Hooray sex Ed. No counter to what? "Wiminz are shiddy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:04 AM
2

Not all porn is crappy. I'm not here to buy the bridge you're selling me. Most people watch porn before their first experience to get an idea over what they have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:35 AM
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Thats literally what everyone does before they have sex. Watch porn. They imitate what they see in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:50 AM
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We haven't ignored shit for years. Men are more likely to get properly diagnosed of mental disorders and prescribe appropriate medication. Women get the BPD label (often autism, adhd or other) and then get prescribed birth control. To this day we test psychiatric medication on male subjects, even though we absolutely and logically should test them on both f and m. Most psychiatric medication actually has way more side effects on women than benefits, and it shouldn't be like that. We have heard a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:15 AM
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You're not supposed to care. But if you scare someone they might just pepper spray you in the face. Life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:12 AM
2

God forbid we ask men to pay thr child support they owe. Everyone is expected to be a worker in this society. Nothing is free, from basic needs like shelter, clean water, food and weather appropriate clothes, to luxuries like cars, technology and Marlboro reds. Women wish for Chad the same way men wish for Stacy. News flash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:53 AM
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He is guilty of the very thing he is accusing women of. In group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:51 AM
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Women apparently have more logical empathy (pro social, feeling empathetic towards the weak, innocent) while men have their empathy based on emption. Empathy for pedophiles is still empathy, though not really useful. You can feel with anyone, doesn't mean you necessarily should. Boys as young as 2 exhibit more violent behaviour and break (intentionally) toys more often more than their female counterparts. The lack of empathy exhibited from females towards males is nothing but a survival mechanis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:50 AM
1

Desperate men? Had plenty of options, just happened to really like my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:30 PM
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Then what is it called when a dude desperately wants a relationship and the girl just wants to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:35 PM
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You'd be surprised And even so, why is it all about what men want anyway? She got what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:26 PM
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You think the stay at home milf who fucks the pool boy want to leave her husband of 30 years for the pool boy, in hopes that he'll marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:26 PM
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Thats genuinely what some women want from certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:25 PM
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American men are low tier too, do not be foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:57 AM
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What a total creep lol. A foolish one at that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:55 AM
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Sure. Have you tried to grannies in the nursing home? Some definitely do want to have sex, which is fairly normal, we are made to desire, crave and enjoy sex. Some definitely Don't. And it's especially disheartening when I go with my female partner and men take it as an invitation to try and fuck both of us. Most of the girls you think wanna fuck are in fact just uncomfortable and can't wait to get away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:51 AM
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Obviously not all women do that. But there's a segment of the population that does. Why it's talked about badly when promiscuity in men isn't in the same context.. I don't know. Idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:49 AM
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Does it matter what they're doing for that money, as long as it ain't sex work? No one goes to do their job out of pleasure. Working an office 8-5 is bad too, you're gone for a big chunk of your day, you have to suck up to your crappy boss, you miss your children growing up, you have the stress of finishing whatever crappy project you gotta do with your unhelpful co-workers. I'm not saying it's worse than a blue collar job. But you can't tell me it's pleasant either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:46 AM
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Literally everywhere else but Arab countries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:44 AM
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-anyone is better than American men -fat men going to Asian countries to score an "Asian beauty" that conservative when they're literally going to pester her? Those girls deserve and expect to be provided for, you think they'll accept not even being taken out on a date first? The gender roles there are rigid, the fat slobs without jobs that travel there literally have no chance to date these girls, especially given how strict their families are over who their daughters are dating. -if you're act…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:41 AM
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Isn't the situation so bad in Korea that women refuse to date, sleep, have kids or marry men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:37 AM
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Women do financially worse after divorces on average, because they are mostly left with the child care. Most custody settlements are "settled" outside of court. The fathers sont want anything to do with them. They get away with paying mostly less than 500 usd a month, which doesn't even begin to scratch a the iceberg or a child's needs. As for "they just want to fuck them", you'd mostly be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:35 AM
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Is this something that happened to you? What's the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:30 PM
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"Why do people react negatively when I'm a tactless pig?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:15 PM
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Yall are so out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:35 AM
-2

I'm in tears from the laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:35 AM
0

Ed Kemper had a kill count of 7. Shipman had like 15 that were confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:15 PM
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Dude, if 60% of marriages ended in divorce in 1970 and now 38% of marriages end in divorce in 2020's, isn't that an improvement? Like how do you think statistics work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:13 PM
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Divorce rates have been on a steady decline ever since the divorce spike In the 70s. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:46 PM
0

Heard of Ted bundy. The rest no so much. No high kill counts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:45 PM
1

Because it's creepy to approach someone with sexual advances without even knowing them. That's gonna creep people out. Imagine if gay men did that to you everyday. Like straight up sexual advances. No "whats your number", "you're cute, wanna grab coffee together", just straight up, I'd love to put my balls on your face
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:05 PM
0

Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:04 PM
2

Interesting. A lot of the infamous serial killers were gay men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:00 PM
3

Lesbians are just giving the "that bitch" energy. If my lesbian girlfriend won't rob Banks with me, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:00 PM
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They aren't the same thing. What it can be compared to is not piercing little girl's ears. Which I'm not against either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:06 PM
1

False that's a human trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:16 AM
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Women are the ones bashed for being promiscuous. Lesbians are also demonized. Men only get dunked on when their sexuality is literally problematic, like not giving a shit about their partner, not respecting them or their wishes (meaning consent), liking wayyyy younger girls... do you think these shouldn't be viewed as problematic? It's not natural. Most men have normal sex drives and aren't total creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:48 AM
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Haha male sexuality is demonized? Laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:32 PM
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I get the urge everyday. I don't need further advice, I do get head most days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:01 PM
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I always believed that straight women also hated being straight. Then I found out I was actually just into women and not men. Food for thought. Like never in my life had I felt that being into women was a curse outside of maybe how society treats such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:01 PM
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Why are you making no comments on what the original post says then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:16 PM
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Okay, date men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:14 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:01 AM
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I never said men and women are the same. Rather I said that loyalty is inherently a male trait. Women are supposed to find better and better mates. Sexual fidelity isn't a thing for either gender. Humans aren't naturally monogamous. It's a choice every human makes : to be a bop or to be loyal. Women are just as horny and sexually charged as men if not more. It's just been shamed out of us. There doesn't pass a day without me hoping to get head. It certainly isn't shamed in every culture, and in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:01 AM
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I'm from the Balkans. Girls here make fun of desperate fat American men too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:31 PM
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No one is forced to accept or agree to anything. Plus it's really not the same. What we are entitled to is making fun of them and even critiquing them. Why would they think those women would choose them, I have no idea. Everyone has their own path in life I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:30 PM
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You're not supposed to feed them bread. Feed them corn or peas instead. Frozen is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:45 PM
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If it's boring for a lot of people and a bad date idea in general.. why keep asking people out on coffee dates? Ok, what's fun about coffee dates then? How much do yall work in your country? Where I live you get 2 mandatory free days for ever 1 day of 7-8 hours you work. If you work 12 hours you might work 2 days and have 2 free. You also get paid vacation days. I guess it depends on the work culture. If you don't have 3 hours to spend with someone at the park how do you have time to date/make m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:22 PM
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Haha nope. Loyalty is a masculine trait. Men are determined and logical, women are emotional. Women are supposed to go for whoever is the best man they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:13 PM
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"Women tend to take advantage of everyone and everything, be fake, they can't bond with friends the way humans do and they're superfiecial" ??????
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:12 PM
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Not American. Not a teenager either. It's perfect for young adults too, and certainly a much better idea than coffee. Go feed the ducks at the park and get drunk on cheap wine together as an alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:09 PM
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Coffee dates are inherently boring. Sit down dinners are boring too, but at least you two get to dress up fancy I guess. All you do is slurp some coffee for 10 minutes and done. Coffee dates only work if you already know the person and you have a lot to talk about. If it's with someone new, it's inevitably going to be boring and awkward. A walk at the local park to share cheap wine and feed ducks is just as cheap and it's infinitely more interesting and intimate than a Coffee date. You go with f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:32 PM
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"Men tend to be more violent" MISANDRY
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:27 PM
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Yes but they're cute and they draw crappy drawings of your little family every once in awhile. They might even give you sloppy kisses and make awful gifts like acorns and even more crappy drawings or plastic bracelets. Love is a simple thing that we all seek in pretty much every relationship and aspect of our lives. Its just chemicals in your brain that makes us happy. I think the fact that's important isn't that they're just chemicals, but that love becomes the purpose of our lives, makes us fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:06 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:58 PM

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:45 PM

I'm a lesbian who grew up in a post communist, extremely Christian country. What do you think my experience trying to date women was like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:44 PM

That's how I see it as a woman. They don't complain, as long as It's dudes close to their age that don't use "nice ass sugar tits" as their pickup line. They might reject you, but they will likely feel flattered. There's nothing more that women want than to be hit on by men respectfully. A woman's perceived value is based on how attractive men deem her to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:32 PM
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Mini golf sounds great! Why would you invite a person you're interested in on a boring date that they might feel offended by?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:31 PM

I literally cannot defend myself against a man dude. Men don't carry weapons when they go to the bar or dates where I live. Aside from maybe some teenagers carrying artizanal knives they play with, that's not a thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:30 PM

You have a long and complicated response to a really simple thing I said. Most sane women have no issue being hit on. The issue only arises when the man is being pushy, overly sexual, insists too much, etc. Women think men have it easier because men aren't as pushed, harassed or women don't insist as much. That's a fair point of view. Getting approached becomes a net negative experience instead of a positive one when the approach Is overtly sexual from the start or the man is being pushy. It bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:28 PM

Most definitely, as I said in my comment. Women will have a negative reaction to men insisting when she has already said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:23 PM

Being pursued and being harassed are different. There's no good looking young woman that complains about someone politely asking her for her number. Being overly sexual? Yeah. Being a pervert? Yes she'll complain about that too. Not taking a no for an answer? Again, a fair complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:14 AM

Oh I see what you mean now. Women aren't in a position of danger in the dating scene by default. They are by simply existing. Everyone sort of is. The difference is that as a man, you can take a man down if it came to self defense. Women really can't. We feel scared when we try to go on about our day, not when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:12 AM

I'd kinda love to be seen as dangerous. People wouldn't mess with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:10 AM
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For me it's been quite the opposite. Always a dude doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:24 AM
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Coffee dates are sort of boring tho. I suggest going ice skating instead, or roller blading. Let me tell you my genius reasons why! -fun activity. You won't get bored. Relaxed environment, will break the ice. -everyone holds hands so it's expected that you will too -not a boring idea, refreshing, will make them remember you -cheap, but not boring or effortless -you can get hot cocoa after and talk, or get a refreshing drink and talk -will have something to talk about or bond over (talk about fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:40 AM

Obviously I grew out of that mindset once I turned 14 and I started seeing humans differently, you know? I started valuing my dad's presence, I made male friends that are still very much dear to me. Being over 20 and still thinking half of the planet has no value whatsoever is iffy. However at that time it did help me realize I was gay. That's what I was pointing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:37 AM

Its your job to back up a claim when you make one, especially an out of touch one like this. Now be a big girl/boy and backup your claim. You're on a debate sub. Post the link to a credible study. Or did you pull the claim out of your arse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:24 PM

No recording in public is just as creepy. He was clearly looking at her tho. I don't care who's the purveyor of fat acceptance, and I'm not a fan of the gender war or blaming one gender over another on something so stupid. Some men are into that body positive bullshit, more women are, whatever. By fit I also mean not lanky btw. The certain thing is that you have much lower chances of someone being attracted to you if you're out of shape. That's either rage bait or they're straight up lying to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:41 PM

"Denigrating men" how? Feel free to block me. Otherwise I'll respond as I wish, but abiding to the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:40 PM
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We can agree to disagree here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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Which ones exactly? How did they come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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I used to think that about men, then I realized I was a lesbian. Just something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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Society in general I believe. Every child needs to go through the schooling system at one point or another. Everyone needs baby sitters, nurses, therapists, pharmacists, dentists, dental hygienists, physicians, childcare workers, hairdressers and so on. I don't think so. Economics aren't black and white. There are more things to take into account. There isn't homelessness just because people are lazy and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:38 PM
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I'm not sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:35 PM

Depends on the wild animal. Brown bears are easy to deal with! If I had to choose between a man and a killer whale, or a man and a tiger, I'd rather have the man. I'm fact ill have a man who didn't eat for 1 week with a gun than a tiger thats just been fed. Not all heterosexual relationships are abusive, but a lot of people have had only heterosexual relationships that were abusive. This will obviously change their world view. As a lesbian, a lot of my relationships were really shitty. I persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:35 PM

What women mean by that is they'd rather be in the forest with a bear than a strange man. I'd do too. Ive been in forests and around bears ever since I was a kid. Bears are predictable and they will back off. If a dude wants to rob you, he will. He will do it violently too. You know what would be anti male rethoric? What happened in India and China. They killed so many female babies that now they have the biggest male singleness pandemic there. Not enough women, quite literally. That was anti fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:31 PM

Lmfao look at his face. He is calling women mid. Yeah I'm not listening to a word that guy says Yes if women are involuntarily single it's their fault. They're 100% unhygienic or unkempt, have a crap tone of issues mentally, they're fat, crazy, whatever. Even worse aee the ones who keep getting dumped after a month or two. You don't have to change that you're a fat, ugly smelly slob if you don't want that. But don't expect any sort of kindness from society. Everyone should be loved! By their mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:24 PM

What's this heavy tax you're talking about? Looking at someone is not harassment, however, ogling like a creep will get you negative feedback. Like if I just sat there with you on the metro ride and stared at your crotch for 10 minutes straight you'd probably feel weird too. Yes, men who are single and not by choice usually have something weird or wrong with them. Can range from bad hygiene to pushy behaviour or simply being fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:26 PM

Women are 51% of the population. Why is it a bad thing that politicians defend their interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:24 PM

The anti male rhetoric being keeping women safe, women taking safety precautions, not allowing men to perpetuate anti social behaviour under the cause of it being "masculine" and Mayne asking men to vacuum every once in awhile because his partner also works and she's tired?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:23 PM
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Cool. Imo it's still not enough for those who are responsible for the well-being of the next generations. Without teachers you don't have any other profession done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:17 PM
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Mostly yeah but I also think it might be because stereotypically female jobs are less valued. Imo we should pay teachers and educators just as much as we do doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:24 PM
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According to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:22 PM
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"Sure it's far from the worst thing, but the thing is, if you want more than friendship, how can you be satisfied with it? It's like applying to a job you want and being rejected but also offered some shitty low paid position."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:27 PM
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Weren't you the one to compare bring friend with a girl without fucking her as getting a shitty job with a crappy salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:26 PM

Yeah they are. They're people. They should be held accountable for their behaviour. Wether that's rape, murder, lying about rape, whatever else. They should be held accountable. Not only is that healthy for society, but it's healthy for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:25 PM
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Nope, absolutely not. Care to explain to me how you jumped to that conclusion? You can choose to not be friends with someone who rejected you. But acting like someone can ever only be in the life of a woman if they're fucjing her is pretty iffy. Acting like a females friendship is comparable to a shitty Job with a low pay is also iffy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM

People who grope other people don't deserve to get an education. They don't deserve to be in an environment with perfectly normal and civilized people because they can't act normal and civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:21 PM

What? No, that's definitely not how It works. Testosterone isn't an excuse for such behaviour. I had a huge sex drive back then as a girl, I was always looking at girls, having weird fantasies and jerking off whenever I was alone. However I never did weird shit to my female classmates or or female friends. Bad behaviour needs to be stopped. Point in blank. There are boys who never did shit like that. Yes, obviously they acted like teenage boys, but they never touched classmates without consent, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:20 PM
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Yeah, people who like casual sex are sociopaths. What a sensible and intelligent take!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 PM
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The ones that having a female friend get you. Depends from person to person and friendship to friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:15 PM
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You literally took something I did not say and made a remark over it. You're the one who's accusing me of gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:14 PM
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It's really not the same thing. Feeling like the year lasting friendships you had were fake is much different from having sex with someone without them wanting anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:58 PM
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A bad marriage is 100% worse than choosing to have consensual sex with someone who simply doesn't give two fucks about you, yeah. I have no sympathy for women who complain about being fuck zoned. No one forced them to have sex before getting commitment. Having sex with someone doesn't mean they owe you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:57 PM
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As someone who's been rejected a bunch (lesbian who grew up in a homophobic country) It's really not that bad. You are blowing it way out of proportion. You suffer as much as you allow yourself to. You do it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:54 PM
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So just because you don't get to put your dick inside her, her contribution to your life isn't valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:53 PM
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Have you been through middle school as a girl or were you homeschooled??? The way they act is absolutely abhorrent. A child doesn't act like that. Children don't harass other children, they don't touch other children inappropriately. That ain't a child. Children play ball and eat ice-cream, they don't blast porn in computer science class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:45 PM
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I'd just die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:11 AM
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Literally nope that's just the image you projected on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:38 AM

Emil sounds pretty chill. I'd go for him honestly, if I wasn't gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:43 PM
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Yeah, why wasn't it easy for him to not generalize every woman as opportunistic? For me, both misandry and misogyny should be avoided. Little comments like this aren't actual sexism. Sending men to war is sexism, genital mutilation of male babies being accepted widely is sexism... Men are more likely to have ulterior motives when they're around young female children. If keeping my loved ones safe is sexism, haha. Be my guest. I don't treat my father like my mother. Am I a misogynistic pos for co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:41 PM
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thinking ugly men aren't any different to hot men is literally blue pilled mouth breather bullshit. Thats like saying girls who have a body count under 2 are the same as the ones with 5+. These groups will act really differently from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:29 PM
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No really, I can't be raped if I wanna have sex with them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:28 PM
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Woah woah slow down. No one was talking about that. That's a completely different subject, and that's a really important problem. Should I bring up how we won't have clean water to drink in a few generation too? Let's not derail from the topic. I don't think I've ever heard a feminist blame men who were victimized by other men for their horrible experience. Being a feminist (although it's a vast ideology with good and band points, and with different branches that hold different beliefs) has noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:15 PM
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"Average brainwashed feminist oportunist woman" I'm not pro blaming men for their trauma at all. Don't twist my words and don't make assumptions over my beliefs please. Who was traumatized by what in this case? Please don't call me pet names. Neither did you raise me nor did you eat me out last night. English isn't my first language, it's my 4th. Also, misstypes happen. I never called you an incel neither did I call you problematic. Where is all of this coming from? Who are you arguing with? Per…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:05 PM
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If my child is a young boy I wouldn't let him either. Single moms are known to be problematic in general, more so than single dads. There are women out there preying on young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:01 PM
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Yes this is so important there are so many creepy women out there, and they especially target small boys!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 PM
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Basically I'll put my safety above anyone's feelings. I've been harassed by women too, but mostly it's been men doing it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 PM
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Haha i love this. u/thedarkracer Any thoughts you wanna share?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:51 PM
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Sometimes yes. They have baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:50 PM
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There's something called consent. If I wanna have sex with an individual and they make a move then obviously I won't say no. If someone I don't find attractive wants to have sex with me and tries so I'll tell them no. If they keep going then they're just creepy, and I'll likely avoid them. Like rape isn't possible if I actually wanna have sex with them now, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:49 PM
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Men like you make it really hard to be not misandristic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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I personally think my children's safety should come before any man's feelings. That being said, I'd still allow my child to go. I'd teach them how to say a stern no and to run to me if anyone touches them inappropriately + teach them self defense mechanisms. Am I a misandrist for doing so? I'd be a bit more trusting with women, but still wouldn't let my guard down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:17 PM
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I'll ignore your muh misandry take. Misandry is oppression, sending men to war, circumcising little boys. What you said is stuff only snowflakes feel affected by. As for SAHM, they are usually women who want to serve their husbands. Their husbands are happy with the arrangement and that's good for the kids too. I find it hard to believe that well adjusted men would buy sex bots who fold clothes and wash dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:05 PM
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If you were familiar with the way AI acts you'd chance your mind pretty quickly. Those people are disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:06 AM
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What he presented is bias again. No explaining the issue in depth, bringing tangible arguments or proof. Just straight up "women bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:05 AM
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Red pill has nothing to do with this bullsh. These dudes are just the proud owners of a bunch of sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:03 AM
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I really love how you accuse other people of mental gymnastics while you jump to conclusions like your life depends on it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:01 AM
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It's more absurd to think that a silly # on tweeter represent what women think in general. Yeah, if you take the most terrible kind of harpies from tweeter and act like that the average woman, ,you'll grow to hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:00 AM
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Wasn't KAM a response to "rape all women"? It depends on how you look at it. I've seen the sex robot thing used as a threat, as if I or anyone would be scared of total creepy weirdos "opting" out of the dating scene. If anything, both sides are absolutely weird and creepy. No functional, sane human being would choose a machine over a human being with thoughts, feelings and free will. I've talked to AI in an effort to understand the craze over it. It's just a program that is made to please you. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:59 AM
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Are you a lady? Nope. I was using you as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:59 PM
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The problem comes from the fact that there isn't such a big reward for sex for women as there is for men, and with much more risk too. Make women cum and they might just want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:40 PM
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Wasn't talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:34 PM
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Ladies, if any dude tries to be too pushy during your first few encounters, ghost him. If you're looking for a ltr relationship that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:51 PM
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Nothing. There are plenty of unattractive women who will want him though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:16 PM
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Yeah, men don't want monogamy. Men settle for monogamy. As soon as you understand that your view on women will shape for the better too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:30 PM
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I'm toothless actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:07 AM
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Head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:15 AM
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You do. You made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:46 PM
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Mommy's "boy" is an adult that should be able to set boundaries. It all gets a pass up until 25 or so, but after that I'm not sure what to say. When I say "daddy issues" I mean young women/teenaged girls. What's also a significant difference is that mommy's boy behaviour affects your family, meaning your wife and children, possibly his father too. When it comes to daddy issues behaviour, as it's described in pop culture, it's about being a promiscuous woman or a woman that seeks a lot of externa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:56 AM
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Most men go for younger women. That's why I mentioned people in their 20s. As for age gaps, after 25-26 you already have experience as an adult and honestly if you're dumb enough to date someone older than 35 that's your shit to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:44 AM
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51% of the world's pop is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:03 AM
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No, what do they look like to YOU? Most men aren't young and thin. 1.66% of the wolds population is in their twenties, and only half of that are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:02 AM
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This has always struck me as odd. What's with people's obsession regarding saving romantic partners? That not only makes them owe you anything, nevermind love, but it Is likely to not achieve anything. Are you really saving them if you're only doing it to get a relationship out of it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:49 AM
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Mm is there really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:44 AM
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Works of fiction are literally crafted to evoke an emotional response from viewers/readers/listeners. No I do find it cringe when women ugly cry in the movie theater. But acting like dropping a few tears because of a sad movie isn't normal is kind of dishonest. Those are hypocrites then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:37 AM
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Is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:34 AM
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Take responsibility for their father's actions??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:34 AM
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All you do is accuse someone based on ass-umptions. Being emotional is one thing but holding beliefs that don't serve you nor anyone that are completely separate from reality and created from experiences and feelings while preaching them as reality is another. One of such ass-umptions is that women hate it when men are vulnerable. Smashing a keyboard and throwing objects over a video game? That's absolutely not appropriate for adults. Crying over the death of a family member or pet, break up, st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:11 PM
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Men have turned having an absent father into an insult against women. Why did they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:07 PM

I feel like everyone needs a living wage while not everyone needs to date specifically that hot chick they want to date...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:38 AM
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It's abysmally low because nestle lobbying to daddy gov't. Can't sell fake milk to mothers if they're home, breastfeeding their children. Instead, just send them over to work and feed the kiddos chemicals then wonder why they're obese and impotent by 30. Gosh, I'm glad i don't live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:57 AM
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You didn't tell me how does one earn a standard, just gave me an out of proportion example of a "miss matched" couple looks wise. Sarcasm is also literally not encourages here. Neither is being condescending. You can't be the one tell me I'm not trying to be constructive. To me, earning a right to be attracted to or want something in a relationship is absolutely silly to me. I've seen literal whales with gym rats, and I've seen drop dead gorgeous women with ugly losers. Are we supposed to implem…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:12 AM
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That wasn't a personal remark. I was stating my opinion over a world view. That's why I never brought attention to the fact that you called my view childish. Your remark was pointed towards my view, not me as a person. Why would they "obviously" need to justify their standards? How does that look like? Who decides if the standards are correct or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:11 PM
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Personal remarks aren't encouraged here. Why don't you instead explain why would it be normal to believe people have to "earn" their standards or justify them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:39 PM
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To me, it's childish to expect someone to fold their desires to your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:27 PM
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Why would someone need to justify their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:53 AM
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25
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:28 AM
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Nope. Pretty sure it's a cis woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:39 PM
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This post is really, really weird to me. Both partner should put in effort to turn eachother on, and personally, having my turned on partner touching me turns me on. She does it because she feels the desire to, and I feel the same way. Why is it "choreplay" and not a thing that you like too? Why don't you like putting in effort when it comes to someone you love? Chores should be done by both parties either way. It shouldn't be something you do expecting a reward. Like yeah, if you constantly hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:23 AM
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I'm pretty sure that his wife is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:54 AM
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Personally when something really horrible happens to me, I can't cry either. I feel like you should support him the best you're able instead of judging his reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:53 AM
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My parents have been married 24 years or so. My dad's "mother" was a neglijent narcissistic pos. My dad would always go hungry, his clothes were always ripped, raggedy and old. I don't think I've personally ever seen My dad cry, but my mother. She tells me she's only seen her cry at their wedding and when his grandmother died (she basically raised him since her daughter refused to raise her own son), and when I was born. Aside from that he only cried on One more occasion. It was winter, and real…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:52 AM
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Ascended? What? If she cheats then I'll find another girlfriend. Though I trust her and I don't think she will. I don't really like going with my problems ro my friends either way. If I go out with friends it is to enjoy their company and have fun, not to have a pity party. You're really immature if you expect any friend to put you over their life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:12 PM
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Personally I use my girlfriend to get out of things. My dad did that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:21 PM
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Match made in the third ring circle of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:33 AM
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The dudes who work at mcdos also demand Ferraris, they won't get them. Sure, some women do demand that, just like some 40 year old men want to date 18yo girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:31 AM
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Oh, so now it's not based on "market" value, but entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:30 AM
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Date obese women then. Same market value. Morbidly obese. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:20 AM
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Date anyone you want without shaming others and without being a huge creep. I've had 12 year Olds willing to date me while I was 16 or 17. I bviously turned them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:16 AM
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People were not eating nearly as much crap as we do today. They didn't have microplastics in their blood stream. What's not backed by science? Fixing your scoliosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:56 AM
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You make me wanna crawl up a wall. It obviously works different when you're on lite opioids dude. Yes, it does raise your heart rate when you move around. But for people on benzos, and other harder medication, their heart rate will not raise as much as a healthy person's. It will always be slower than normal. My father gained weight after starting hyper tension medication. I wonder why!!! Why is it so hard for you to understand? It's like claiming that running a marathon is just as easy for preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:54 AM
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Yes, because back then people were treating depression with cocaine and crank. Yes, you don't grow in height after awhile. But if your spine is all bendy, then you will appear shorter. No matter your age, if you fix your posture (through exercise), you'll appear much taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:51 AM
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Maybe because you're not on medication that makes you sleepy 24/5. Like you try being on Xanax all the time and tell me how that works for you. THE LITERAL EFFECTS OF THE MEDICARION. THEY MAKE YOUR HEART RATE SLOWER. YOU NATURALLY BURN LESS THAN HALF AS MANY CALORIES NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. Also if you don't have a lot of energy that might be a problem. Depending on how old you are, you might have a sedentary life style or your diet might be shit. Or you might be on literal benzodiazepines, the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:49 AM
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Those 3 others might not have the same effects or there might literally not be 3 others. You can't exercise as much on them. They literally lower your heart rate too, which makes your metabolism slower making you gain weight by default. They make you extremely lethargic making it hard to exercise. Not sure why you can't accept that psych meds make you gain and weight and there's little you can do about it. There have been literal studies done on it. If the psych meds weren't the problem I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:44 AM
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I Gained so much weight after I started psych meds. I was literally horizontally challenged. I'm glad I'm off them. If I would have never gotten off them, I'd have likely never lost the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:42 AM
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Actually yes. A lot of women do have these hormone imbalances. They're really common. They actually run iny family and I'm deathly scared of getting fat. Technically you can also grow in height. A lot of people don't have a straight spine making them appear shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:40 AM
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Isn't pear shape attractive? Like I thought it was a beauty standard or something. As far as I know hourglass and pear shape are the most desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:39 AM
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No one forces you to listen or even read her comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:33 AM
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No that's exactly what it means. Why on earth do you wanna date people who are likely still in highschool???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:31 AM
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If you really don't see an issue with dating an 18 in your mid 40s, then you have.a huge arse issue. As for fat, date anyone you want who is willing to date you, just don't shame anybody. Fat people already know they're an eyesore, they don't need to hear about it anymore. This agreability often translates to something else when it comes to men. Might it he that they mean a doormat? Certainly from what I've personally seen. Now women aren't any better with their doormat boyfriends, don't get me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:29 AM
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When I'm not in the mood I usually just let them do it while touching me and looking at me. Though I have to be absolutely beaten for me to refuse sex. It'd be weird for her to go in the bathroom. She can literally do it next to me and It would be more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:36 AM
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No? That's absolutely not true. Skin will sag either way, wrinkles will show up and metabolism will slow down significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:34 AM
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Yeah, every woman ever just likes bad boys. What is even a bad boy? Breaking laws? Selling drugs? Being a pimp? Preffering to go drink with the boys instead of movie nights with their girlfriends? Not buying flowers? Following insta thots? When I say ratty I'm reffering strictly to looks. The signs for what? Love isn't predictable. People will hurt eachother. It's literally not. You aren't a woman, and you probably aren't that close with women either. Your view is skewed. I'm literally always wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 AM
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I think what she wanted to point at is that parents are supposed to love their young children unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:15 AM
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I'd say it's very conditional and that's what makes it special. I don't like my partner the way I like my dog. I actually simply appreciate and like most things about her. If she was someone else entirely I wouldn't love her. People with "unconditional" love must love everyone, I suppose? If there's no condition for it? Doesn't sound very special or valuable to me. I love her because I'm attracted to her, because she is incredibly fun to be around, because she's easy going, because she's a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:10 AM
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I wish it were incorrect. It's physically painful to watch my friends cry over ratty men. Most of the women here are femcels or bordering asexuals. I'm in no way shape or form asexual. I'd fuck almost anyone given no one would find out if I had the chance. Yeah, women have that too. I wish I didn't have to look at every slightly taller man, or with curly hair, or with baggy jeans or whatever on the street when my friends pointed them to me. I'm literally gay and I don't understand what's so appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:07 AM
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I'm 5'10, gay, and a broke student. Decently Lean. I can eat well but if being lesbian translates to being gay as a man id probably suck at handling dick. Decently extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:02 AM
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Yeah, divorced people are usually older, no wonder they'll be more sad than simply single women. This doesn't take age into account. Filing for divorce doesn't indicate it wasn't mutual bro. Most of the times women handle paper work and legal stuff in a household. Ask your dad where your birth certificate is and then ask your mother. Favor her with what exactly? Custody? When most men literally say they don't want more time with their kids? Money? When women literally do worse financially after?…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:00 AM
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If divorce was really that psychologically hard on men, they wouldn't do much better financially than female counterparts, and they wouldn't have a higher chance to remarry and have kids. Ok, and men initiate more breakups. Often times the relationship is dead and the man is moved out of the house. What's the point of staying married then? There will be dudes with whole new families living in another state and the woman is stuck "married" to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:42 AM
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68% of men are married. In the US. Can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:10 AM
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I didn't edit my post to change the message I'm trying to convey, only to add to it. The cutie with imperfections is a Stacy lite dude. Most women aren't cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:48 AM
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Same as women's. The only difference with women is that they tend to grow even on uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:47 AM
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Men trasmit it more often and women suffer from it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:39 AM
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There's no point in trying to argue with that user. He has a huge chip on his shoulder and wouldn't bodge no matter how good your argument is or how many sources it's backed up by.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:37 AM
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The average men are absolutely chasing after Stacie. Average women are generally not beautiful, nor intelligent. What you're describing is literally a Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:37 AM
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Let's say I'm your wife's female friend. Wife and me have been friends for years. Close ones at that. She calls me over to have a drink or two. You are not home. She puts literal ketamine (in large doses) in her drinks because shes an addict or simethung. She doesn't notice anything wrong. She drinks the alc-ket mixture until she passes out. I ask her if i can borrow a few of her stuff and she slurs "yes". I then proceed to steal all of yalls expensive belongings. Grandma's jewelry, expensive el…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:12 AM
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The man was sexually assaulted, not the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:07 AM
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She slept with a drunken person under the pretext of helping him, who was her baby sitter while young. Victim admitted to feeling shame and disgust. Victim doesn't even remember what happened as Victim was severely intoxicated. Victim owildnt have slept with Alice under normal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:05 AM
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It probably was intended from the start. I understand that teenage hormones are raging at that age, but come on. Raping your mf baby sitter while he's drunk shitless??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:03 AM
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This is beyond fucked up. I'd put Alice into therapy if I were one of her parents. The fact that she slept with him while she was there under the pretext of "helping" him, the fact that he literally babysat her when she was younger... I don't even know. Just eughhh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:01 AM

I literally can't dude. It's a whole text of wall that's written so badly. You think the sexuality of het men is oppressed now or?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:56 AM
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Do you really think a 30 something yo man is more appropriate to speak in the name of young women than a young woman? Some of them are literally stupid and can't see that what's happening is terribly wrong. When I was 17 I "dated" someone who was 32. I've been there, done that. Every single big age gap relationship I've seen was a big shit show. Statistically the bigger the age gap the bigger the chance of divorce. I'm not saying there aren't big age gap relationships that are healthy, but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 AM

I'm sorry, but caring about this so much is cringe. Who cares what sexuality a character has? Straight men will still exist regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:11 PM
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"Nothing wrong with it" ?????????????? Hell naaaaaw 20 and 30 is ok. 18 and 40 tho absolutely not. I hope yall get shamed and shunned and disowned. I'm in the same age group as them. Don't speak for us, we don't need weirdos speaking for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:06 PM
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Prime for what? In the late twenties the women's hips get wider and that's when they're most likely to have babies that survive and survive themselves. That's also when women are mature enough to have children. If that were the case men would be attracted to saggy breasts, wide hips, a wide rib cage and cunky legs to be able to carry them children. How old is the guy? That's the most important question. Also no, men consistently find 18 yo the most attractive group. For some if they could go low…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah no you've said nothing in good faith. You can't be the one to call me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:38 PM
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For petty crimes? Yeah maybe. For murder? For extortion? Keep them away from society until they're functional again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:38 PM
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Anyway I'm going to barf right now. Some of these takes are absolutely foul. I hope everyone keeps their children away from weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:20 PM
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Brain wasn't developed doesn't mean they can't be a danger to society. The contrary. Plus we need a prison system reform almost everywhere. Should be about education, not punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:20 PM
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Yeah testosterone is meant to make you wanna fuck chicks, which is a pretty harmless( if done safely) and common past time when it comes to young adults. If your testosterone levels are making ya wanna tear down society, commit arson and fuck orphans in the arse, that's a you problem. I promise you, most men don't wanna do that. Incels literally Dont leave their houses. They are scared to speak to women. All the do is larp all day on shitty sites like this one. Not a real danger. They can't walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:17 PM
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"Prove that with evidence" Prove me water us wet dude. If its not morals stopping them from going lower than what is? Is it not off-putting to them? At all? Then the only thing stopping them is law. Yeah it's not fully developed but it's really not that bad either. Similar maturity levels in a lot of cases. Doesn't feel like a kindergartener hanging out with their weird ass uncle in most cases. Some people do develop faster than others. Yes, maturity happens a lot. Like if someone who's 30 would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:13 PM
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Dating an 18yo as anything older than mid 20s? No that's absolutely wrong and weird. Disgusting even and they should be ashamed. Edit: I meant ripe age of 17, not 70. In my country the aoc is gag 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:08 PM
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Maybe because he dated an 18 year old? Where I'm from 18 year Olds could still be in highschool. 11th grade or 12.th. I can't even. Do you all not see anything iffy about this? People are legally held accountable since young. They're put into juvi. We can't just let killers on the loose. However I think it's stupid and speeding once or drinking in public once at 21 can fuck up your future forever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:59 PM
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I disagree. I do think that people shouldn't be able to drink or join the military till they're 24-25 tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:57 PM
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People who go as low as the aoc would go lower bud. 30 and 20 isn't that bad of an age gap, especially if the 20 yo is mature. However, people never stop at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:56 PM
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Why is it any different? If the dude's fairly well adjusted and responsible, there's nothing concerning about a dude in his 30s dating a 20 yo. 20 and 40? He could literally be her father. You can't tell me there's nothing wrong about that. "You're just a nosey ass bitch" isn't a good argument. If we all just minded our biz no matter how concerning things around us got, the world would literally turn to shit. Like if my son came home with a 50 yo cougar at the ripe age of 17 I'd be mad shitless …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:54 PM
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Your brain isn't developed till your mid twenties, that's absolutely correct. The difference between people before 30 who are "close in age" I'd astounding. I have little in common with my friends who are in their late 20s, even if there's less than 6 years difference between us. Never mind younger friends who are 17/16. Basically children to me. It's not about the number itself, but the maturity. Yeah, most people are particularly sensitive about pedophilia, grooming and predators, and I feel l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:24 PM
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21 and 30 is very different age gap from 40 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:16 PM
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Orr maybe I'm literally worried for my friends because they're partner hits on everyone including all their closest friends, is a weirdo who sells drugs to teenagers,/ is married with kids and the wife doesn't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:14 PM
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Tell Me you know nothing about history
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:29 PM
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No, the problem is expensive healthcare, expensive birth control and the cost of living/having a family being too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:27 PM
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Whats the point you're trying to make exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:01 AM
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No, it actually does happen a lot, and it's sad that we just sweep this issue under the rug instead of adressing it. There have to be reasons for it. Sincerely, a fkin d!ke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:58 AM
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It is punishable by law in a divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:07 AM
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1 year is a whole lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:44 AM
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If the tree was really the answer, we wouldn't have so many men complaining and moaning to women they barely know/ just met in the most self depreciating way + all women are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:46 PM
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I'm not sure what the point of this comment is, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:36 PM
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If you divorce because your spouse refuses sex once or twice, you're twisted. If you divorce because your spouse is refusing sex due to medical reasons, you're twisted. If you keep denying your spouse sex or give them shitty sex (starfish, never making them finish-i.e never putting effort in helping them finish), you're twisted If you think they'll stay/ not stray. Monogamy is like a contract. If you break the rules, the other party is entitled to break the rules too. Exclusivity comes with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:34 PM
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Wanting a maid isn't cool. If you both work, chores get split too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:18 PM
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Hope you never do lol. Daddy's girls are just as bad if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:33 AM
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You should look into emotional incest too. It's really creepy. Basically mothers sort of act like they're barf "dating" their sons, push the son's partners/love interests away and act like no girl will ever be good enough for their little boy. They manage to find a flaw in every female partner they have. They expect the girlfriend to mommy their sons in a similar way. Cook and feed them by hand, never allow them to move a finger, just treating them like a toddler. When the girlfriend obviously a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:44 AM
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You're so lucky that you aren't a woman who has had a mommy's boy as her boyfriend...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:57 PM
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I'm not sure that's healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:31 AM
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Statistically men initiate break ups more and women file for divorce more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:30 AM
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The 4b movement is really not that wide spread, and if you ask the average Korean woman she won't know tf you're talking about. Being a feminist there is a death sentence socially wise. The reason for the population decline is non other than a late stage capitalist disaster. People are so engulfed in work that they don't have time to raise families and meet people anymore. Even school aged kids are encouraged to burn themselves out, you rarely see kids dating there anymore. Pair that with a heft…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:18 AM
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If ugly harpies on the net are all you need to feel oppressed, you aren't oppressed. This whole "western men/women" are oppressed systematically is absolutely laughable. In the same breath you call western women names. Seems like equality to me ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:14 AM
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Okaaay.... can you admit that murder and fraud exist? Even if you've never seen them? Have you ever seen Finland or does that not exist either? Okay, if you want to believe your gender isn't possibly capable of doing anything bad, go ahead. Sorry I dared to imply men might have bad intentions sometimes LOL. Part of what game?? Lying? What lies would exactly be considered ok and where's the line drawn? Lying and manipulating women? That sounds tres grave. What kind of lying and manipulating are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:33 AM
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You seem very eferscent today. The literal women who spoke up about this kind of treatment. Why is it so far fetched to you to hear that some of them are treated really badly? Do you believe men are sent from God and exempt from having bad behaviour??? Again, SOME OF THEM ARE FORCED, NEED TO GET OUT OF POVERTY, OR THEIR PARENTS ARE BRIBED INTO GIVING THEM AWAY. this is the last time I'm repeating this. It would be awesome if it always were that way, except it really isn't. Yeah, it's hard to ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:25 AM
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Because in a lot of cases they are. I'm sorry, but being aware and conscious over a lot of these women are treated seem a tad bit more important to me than the feelings of some dudes who can't get girlfriends where they live. As I said, sometimes it isn't a choice. And even if at first it was a choice, after they're trapped in another country, it's hard to leave. What kind of dude do you think cannot get girlfriends? That's how some men act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:00 AM
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Eh, you have to admit that the western men coming in Eastern countries have a tendency to lie and manipulate these women, look down to them (especially poorer ones).. they might not be holding a gun to their head, but they may manipulate them, bribe parents into giving them away, forcing them to cut contact with family or friends, trap them in various ways. Think mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:53 AM
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Then they aren't treated badly. The poster above said she had no issue as long as no one is treated badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:51 AM
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Yes, this is what irks me so much! A few months ago there was a dude here explaining step by step how to trap a woman from poorer Asian countries. It included finding one without any sort of education, bribing her parents with money to let him take care, moving somewhere in another poor country, far away from her family but where the economy was really fucked, getting her pregnant so she would stay but not marrying her so she wouldn't become bossy or whatever. Like???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:48 AM
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No, absolutely 0 issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:45 AM

All men are trash, have no feelings and deserve to work in coal mines all day Vs All men like to hang out with the boys every once in a while. What feelings do those vastly different statements bring up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:50 PM
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Start crying hysterically and fall to your knees. Then they'll know to leave you tf alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:47 PM
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The rules on this sub say we should refrain from down voting btw. Anything else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:57 PM
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That's still not a good excuse to act like a toddler and throw your smelly socks on the ground. Doing nothing? No. Doing everything that needs to be done. That might include picking up your dirty socks off the ground, If you deserve it. Do you expect your partner to do every single house chore, cook and act like a servant to you WHILE also working? Haha, your balls must be made of gold. Women's bullshit? You expect people to pick up your dirty socks for you. Not considering women as equals is fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:38 PM
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Oh no, I'm not scared of male hikers unless I genuinely have a reason to. I haven't had any unpleasant experiences with any of them, male hikers are generally extremely nice and level headed. If they interact with me it's a hey or a normal ass question. What I'm scared is crazos in the forest lol. Of either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:35 AM
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The only scenario where I ever picked up socks for a man or washed his dish after I cooked was for my father. He worked all day and was tired. My mother too. I did it for him because he was deserving of it. Your partner isn't a maid. Unless she's a sahm, you can pick up your own dirty sock and wash your own dishes. Did your mother not teach you how to look after yourself and living space? Why would your equal partner pick up socks for you while you play video games and Crack beers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:34 AM
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If he smells like alcohol, if he's not groomed properly, if he's talking to himself, if he looks like he slept in the trash, if he has a weird look on his face/mouth moves weirdly, if he stinks, if he approaches me without waving and saying hi from a certain distance. Hikers recognize eachother. I can tell when someone's a hiker vs a total nut case. You can tell when someone's a hiker or lives secluded in the forest. Why would stats matter? I know how to act around bears. Humans aren't predictab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:32 AM
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Are there any stats on women torturing bears? If you feel you're being naged you should try washing your own fkin dish and participating in taking care of the place you live in. Not throwing away dirty socks on the floor would also help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:39 AM
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Women almost always worked. In China they rapped the feet of really young girls (lotus feet) to keep them in once place, so they could work with their hands a lot and not desire to move or play. They were told this will help them get married to rich men, because it's a beauty/symbol status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:41 AM

If you pay taxes to the IRS from the money you gain by selling drugs you'll likely not face prosecution. 40% of adults are overweight and like 12% obese. There's no maternity leave and in some states you can still get child brides. The US is a fkin shithole. I'm not even sure why we would talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:33 AM

When it comes to western women and western men no, I don't think either misandry or misogyny is systematic. That's just victim mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:30 AM
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If you know bears yes. That's what they do if you just back off when they see you. The man might just choose to follow ya
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:31 AM
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Yeah some women just Base their choice on sexism, but if you like hiking you know exactly what to do when you encounter bears or dogs. With the weird man walking in the forest? Honestly not much can be done if he is dead set on stealing your shit, beating you up or raping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:29 AM
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I feel much safer in public than with weirdos who walk around the forest for little reasons. Where my grandparents lived, there were dudes that would take little kids to the forest and molest them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:28 AM
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Mama bears will leave you alone too if you know how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:27 AM
6

Ehh, most bear killers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 AM
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Yes I'm literally delusional enough to think I'll make friends with the bear. Truth be told, bears mostly leave you alone if you know how to act and if I do hike in a forest I know bears will be there most likely. I've met with them before and I know what to do. Having a strange men in the forest with me is sort of creepy, the same way being with a strange woman in the forest is creepy, unless they're obviously just hiking or similar and have the right equipment/don't look like total psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 AM
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No, you misunderstood me. I didn't say no woman would be attracted to you, and I never based my judgement on my personal attraction to you. Not only do I not know you, I'm also quite literally gay. Prostitutes have multiple clients a day, and a lot of them don't do it due to some weird kink, they do it to put bread on the table, because they need drug money, because they're being pimped, or have kids to raise. Or maybe they were groomed into it from a young age (say 14), and were just never able…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:04 AM
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You're right, that doesn't change the fact that prostitutes certainly don't feel attraction towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:19 AM

That doesn't change anything. The point isn't to punish anyone for having sex or producing a child. The point is to deal with the child somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM

Yeah neither is freedom nor sunlight, internet, or eating anything else but rice, potatoes, eggs and water for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM

You replied to me dude. Not a woman who said men shouldn't have sex. Ofcourse that should. However If a pregnancy results out of it, they have to be responsible somehow, the way women are. Abortion ain't no easy choice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:38 PM

good point, but men are simply more fit to operate heavy machinery, and work better in high stress environments. How do you choose who gets drafted then? It's not that they're unhelpful, but most women are totally unequiped for it. A lot of women become useless on their periods. I'm able to carry on as usual, but my girlfriend bitches and moans the whole time. I can tell she's in a lot of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:18 PM

Child support is a right of the child's, not the woman's. You have to take accountability for a living, breathing being that's here because of you, mainly because poor thing didn't choose to be born to irresponsible parents. If you really don't want kids as a man, just get snipped. Much less invasive then getting tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:15 PM

For real. I'm not sure why anyone would think that's a comfortable place to be in at all. Do they think it's similar to taking a shit or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:47 PM

We can't both draft men and women because women cannot fight in wars as well as men do and someone needs to keep society as we know it going. Women deal with periods and pregnancy. If anything it would be more unhelpful if most of the female population participated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:44 PM

Who would that help?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:42 PM

That's like saying that if you don't want to die you can just not drive or leave the house. Please!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:41 PM

"Future son"? So if it was a daughter then it was a good riddance or what? As sad as it sounds, we can't force people to be incubators for us, for any reason. Just because a random dude decides to nut into someone that doesn't mean the woman is morally forced to go through hell for 9 months and then push a watermelon sized object out of her most sensitive organ. In most countries everyone who earns money in a way or another pays taxes. Men making more means they're taxed more. You're taxed by pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:39 PM

Pretty sure passing up a fist sized blood cloth and potentially feeling guilty for the rest of your life is pretty good "punishment". Abortion is no easy decision. We need to go easy on people going through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:31 PM

It's so bad that when a guy walks up to me just to ask for a lighter or just to chat without trying to sleep with me I'm literally pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:28 PM
2

Average women are deemed as straight up ugly by just as average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:27 PM
1

No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:56 PM
2

I wouldn't hit that either, doesn't change that she's a perfectly average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:41 PM
2

Ugly how? Not disfigured, not fat. Features aren't totally terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:21 PM

Dude, If you're working all day and your wife stays at home, she'll be doing all the chores and cooking. If she doesn't, she'll be met with scrutiny. Got it now? The spouse that stays at home cares for the home. Otherwise they're lazy bums and will be regarded and treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:06 PM

Nope, you're the one who misunderstood the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:55 AM
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The fact that you pretend to not understand why further solidifies my suspicion I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:15 AM
0

The men who hit on every other girl before hitting on her out of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:20 AM
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Haha no. Chads who are red pilled get sex with hot women. Sub 5 guys who are red pilled lie about fucking models online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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3.5 would basically be a disfigured woman lol, or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:13 AM
3

I'm sorry, but someone with model tier girlfriends would NOT be posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 AM
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This is because average men don't go for average women. They shoot higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:57 AM
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Because she's unattractive physically to them. The men here will swear up and down that she's below average, but they're wrong. And then when you tell them that they over rate themselves and under rate women they'll tell you you're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:55 AM
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Not cheating but you need to tell whoever you're seeing if you're sleeping around, and get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:05 AM

How exactly? Smaller dating pool, high standards when it comes to grooming, quite a lot of body shaming, dealing with homophobia, flakiness due to people being unsure of their sexuality, higher domestic violence and rape rates, I could go on. Your flair definitely doesn't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:21 AM

I had no issue gaining it. Maybe it's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:37 AM

Yeah, you're Hella condescending. You have way too much of a bias to be able to carry a productive conversation. Women uphold their roles in their traditional system alright, women still take care of household chores, cooking and children way more than men do despite the fact that most houses are dual income. I never see men going to cut trees to warm their families up in the winter, men building furniture for their families, working their ass off, nothing. Most men today are literal little girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:35 AM
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That doesn't matter. What matters is that you purposely miss understand everything said. Ofcourse we need more young people. That's why I think parents should get a lot of benefits for having children, that's why I think paternity testing should be a thing at birth, that's why I think parental leave should be longer, why I think we need to cut back on work hours and encourage young people to mingle. But acting like banning birth control is a good call is silly at best. What happens in religious …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:26 AM
1

Right. So how do you know the people who complain don't have a hard life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:24 AM
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No one said that. That's how you interpreted it. People who are educated know how to use birth control. Having a family and popping children like there's no tomorrow are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:22 AM
1

What struggles to average men have in western countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:21 AM

What on earth is womensplaining actually??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:17 AM

Experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:16 AM

Okay, what does that have to do with anything I've said? I don't subscribe to the patriarchy theory at all. No one can even give a proper definition. Gender roles have their purposes. I wouldn't let a man babysit my children the same way I wouldn't let a woman repair my car. Unless I know them very well and I've seen them prove their abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:16 AM

Excuse me but you literally sound homosexual. Date a mighty man who isn't subtle and puts it in your ear on the first date. The subtlety of it is what makes it enjoyable. The grace, the femininity, everything else. Would you rather have your date lightly touch your hand or openly talk about how she wants to marry you and help you trim your pubes??? TEENAGERS? Teenagers are your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:57 AM

My guy you literally asked a question and I answered it. Why ask if you don't care to hear the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:55 AM

There are enough blue collar jobs. Most men won't choose those. That means they aren't putting in as much effort as before. Supporting? Supporting what? Men aren't bras. We have equal rights, men are fully capable of working and no one should financially support their short term partner. The only healthy way this sort of arrangement could work is if there are children involved and the partner staying at home homesteads all day, keeps the house sparkly clean and cooks. Now approaching is vastly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:54 AM

They might have a visceral reaction of disgust. Paying someone to fuck you is pretty damn degrading. It's the same reaction men have when they find out that their girlfriend has sucked 2 dicks at once in the past and has a body count of over 54. I don't have any "trump card" on men, I'm literally a lesbian. If I need anything from a man I ask my father or my friends, and they usually oblige. That happens because I also help when they need something. Most men and women have normal, friendly relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 AM

Yeah yeah, now tell me what percentage of men work in blue collar, and compare it to how it was 100 years ago. Yeah, quite catastrophic. Never heard a woman complain about those men quitting. Sour grapes like I assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:12 AM

You are either talking about tweens or women who really aren't into you. While men are more proactive, women should absolutely still show more interest, although they do it in more subtle ways. It should be an enjoyable experience for both sides. So you don't even date! You have no way to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:08 AM

Fr. Shall I also send flowers to his office for him to enjoy? Perhaps pick out some sexy lingerie for our anniversary for him to wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:04 AM

Most men do get a thrill. You shouldn't try to woo women who aren't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:03 AM

You'd be surprised how little people will be affected by your choices. Had you not commented here we wouldn't even had known you exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:02 AM

No, men really put in way less effort. We're looking at a post made by a dude who said he doesn't want to put in the effort to approach women/take a proactive approach in dating and that women expecting that are somehow deranged. The fact that you think your level is higher than what you attract is also really telling. The fact that you think that because you deem someone "as bad as you" they should date your or be attracted to you is also really, really telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:00 AM

It's not about any of these, it's about MSN simply being proactive. Men overestimate their abilities, looks, they overestimate themselves is every field out there. Men are socially conditioned to be confident. Women are told to be meek. Furthermore, a man would smash and dash almost anything, there's no reason for a woman to approach. If the man makes up enough courage to talk to the girl, we can assume that he actually likes her, at least a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:51 AM

This is not about being desperate, and it's not about chasing a woman who doesn't like you. This is about being proactive, like a man traditionally should be. I'm not sure who told you that you have to devout yourself soul and body to a random girl you just met, or that you should pester people who don't want to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:48 AM

Men are taught to be that sexual. In reality, it's really not such a big difference between men and women. There is a difference, ofcourse, but acting like the sexual appetite of men is what keeps the world spinning is quite comically eronated. Not really. If those men would still get laid they wouldn't complain so much, no matter how the dating scene looks like. These men just have a bunch of sour grapes and like complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:46 AM

You don't have to take things literally. No, we obviously aren't beasts, but traditionally men have always been chasers. The egg doesn't swim to the sperm. Ofcourse in a healthy relationship both sides put in effort, but in the courting phase, it's usually the man who makes the first steps. It should make the man feel good about himself and the situation too. Heck, as a more masculine lesbian, i love making the first steps too, I love taking the lead. You have to stop thinking about it as hunter…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:40 AM
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Definitely. I believe that even if you don't believe someone, it's better that you just shut up about it. People who have gone through stuff like that don't need to be called liars on top. You can just choose to not get involved. Luckily both her and her little brothers are doing great now. She's got a stable job and she has this healthy glow now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:04 AM
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Eh, my childhood friend was physically abused by her dad for quite a few years, her 2 little brothers and mother too. I was there to see it. Even seeing it was rather disturbing for me. She never reported ir because well, it was her dad. Once she turned 18 she had no reason to report it because she moved out at 14, and therefore cut ties with her father. Many reasons why someone wouldn't report it, especially when you consider a lot of the times people are victimized by the ones closest to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:56 AM
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You don't need everyone to believe you. They make a pretty good point. Ofcourse there are reasons why some actual victims wouldn't report it, but it's still a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 AM
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Keep refusing sex and refusing sex once are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:29 AM
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I have had a close male friend of mine be accused of assaulting a girl I personally knew. He had a history with doing stuff like that to girls, but she also had a history of exaggerating stuff a bit. I didn't side with anyone. It wasn't my problem. Though I know that male friend absolutely did do something iffy, and I know she might have told the truth, in her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:27 AM
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Naah, it definitely is her. You can tell her how unhinged she is just by looking at her. Definitely her ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:21 AM
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I didn't ask wether you valued it or not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:57 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:57 PM
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We are talking about the exact same girl. She has to be a sociopath of some sorts. The "marry me?" Package Is the one that costs a whopping 500 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:33 AM
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It was implied, dare I say, obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:31 AM
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Women don't want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 AM
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No, it really wasn't. Wanting revenge on women for not being attracted to is weird stuff. No, it doesn't become rape. I don't think it's morally wrong at all. It doesn't change anything. However, lying about your sexual health and contraception is completely and absolutely messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 AM
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You think that 34 people that I interact with on a monthly basis irl are a consistent social media audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:27 AM
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Probably not. The audience is people I interact with in real life. Certainly not simps willing to pay for feet pics. My cousin liking my picture is an audience to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:27 AM
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Unaware, not really. Unimpressed, for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:26 AM
3

How can wearing a head set during sex fix someone's libido???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:25 AM
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No I agree it's kind of dumb. However "made him worthy of pussy" just rubs me the wrong way. You always rub me the wrong way. Unless someone lies about not having an std or about the use of contraception I feel it's fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:48 AM
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I rarely post any content. I just share memes on my story and the thrice a year pic with my girlfriend. My close friends do interact with what I'm posting. Random people from highscool/ other stuff like that mostly just like and don't comment (which is absolutely reasonable to me). I'm I'm a big social media person and none of my female friends are, though they do have a relatively larger following due to having public accounts. I always kept mine on private and closely curate who follows me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:42 AM
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Never met one singular woman who talked about that. Past a certain age we literally don't care. When you grow attached to someone they become the most attractive person in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:30 AM
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I have no way to know that, I'm absolutely not paying for that bullshit. What I found pretty damn cruel or her was her persona online. She would always make videos of her asskissing men in a way or another, saying random things she likes about men, overly fluttering her lashes and stuff like that in general. Ofcourse lonely men will buy her shit. If anyone is interested I can offer a link to her Instagram page.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:29 AM
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Like 300. A bit less than that. I use it to keep in touch with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:28 AM
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What you said has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:27 AM
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You have virtually 0 way to know that. I'm not sure why you perked up so much all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:27 AM
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What sane woman would be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:40 AM
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Desperate ones, yes. Others will not commit to women on their level or higher and would rather just try to hook up with every girl in their vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:40 AM
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Flooded is way too strong of a word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:39 AM
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Imagine being a basement dweller who hasn't been able to convince anyone to sleep with you who thinks that threatening to start jerking off to a robot instead of paid models Is a massive burn to the whole female population, and that it will affect their lives forever. Oh no, please don't stop feeding into a predatory industry that hurts women, traficks them, encourages unhealthy sexual habits, abuses male actors to the point they can no longer get an erection in their 30s and fucks up with the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:38 AM
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This beta wet dream is nothing but that. A revenge fantasy. Porn didn't stop prostitution from happening, if anything it might have made it worse. If anything, I'd be happy if porn was made without any human exploitation. But I don't think it will happen soon enough for me to see it, sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:32 AM
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Most women don't have an audience following us in our pocket. The demographic you're talking about is rather small. Most women are average looking humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:30 AM
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Truly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:28 AM
0

A lot of men think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:27 AM
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Yes. Men pay to have women talk to them. I've seen models on insta with 500 usd packets that included the ability to get priority when it comes to when she responds to your messages, pet names and personalized content. I don't remember wether it's a monthly subscription or a one time thing. She only had 15 spots for that option and all of them were occupied. Mind you she had other options with just some content and she only promised to respond to 5 messages a day or so and other packets that wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:26 AM
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You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 AM
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Eh, I wouldn't be so sure about the low cost of it. Chat gpt has pretty basic features that are pay to unlock. If there's a service people would pay for, a better version of it will surely not be free. People want to make money, and this includes the programators of ai.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 AM
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No there obviously should be laws against that, and it should still be obvious that the video was made by AI. Should look nothing like reality. I'm not about to be arrested for crimes I did not commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:21 AM
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I feel like that crosses a moral line, the same way deep nudes did. It's totally ok if women give their consent for that, but otherwise it's pretty weird to make videos of a random person like that, especially one that's not a public figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:19 AM
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You've never been poked in the cervix, as such you don't get to tell women what's preferable when it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:53 AM
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No, not really. Most older men know it isn't really socially acceptable to hit on way younger women or they expect a rejection. There are some weirdos that try. But if social consequences aren't a thing here, and it's just a smash or pass game, deffo the 20 year old body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:27 AM
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Eh, too much size often hurts and not all women want to date millionaires. The weird thing is that women consider men their age as the group the group they're attracted to, while men, no matter how old, always find 18 year Olds attractive. I feel like that should struck anyone as a tad bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:24 AM
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I really don't think there are any ons that implied or worse assumed a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:22 AM
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Men consistently find women aged 18-20 for every age group. Women however find their own age group attractive. There have been stats done on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:13 AM
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Yes. She was pretty jealous from the start. We worked through it and now it's not an issue anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:42 PM
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I think it's because women aren't taught that they're also really sexual beings and allowed to be as sexual as men. Some women have never had an orgasm or rarely had one and think that's ok. It always struck me as odd. I'm a lesbian, and lesbians seem to be more sexual than straight women, maybe because if you're courageous enough to be "sexually deviant" you have already accepted yourself as a sexual being with needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:51 AM
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This should have been left as a question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:55 AM

It's a really hit or miss. Depends on who your therapist is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:09 PM
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Am I passive aggressive or do you just wanna view me that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:56 PM
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No, you literally cannot accept that men who deserve good treatment are treated well. Men who are useful objects my ass. You don't have to be helpful towards everyone to be appreciated. My dad is appreciated because he's a great snooker player. He is technically useful, but he's not liked for how he can service others. Some men are funny, charismatic, they know a bunch of stuff about a bunch of subjects, which makes talking to them a fun activity. Well yes, you have to bring some sort of value t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:49 PM
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The personality and loser aspect really shine through even in online conversations. The singleness too. As for jobless, I never commented on that. I never used the word virgin negatively. Even though if you cannot convince someone to sleep with you past a certain age, there has to be something wrong with you. Same concept as that one coworker who never gets invited to things and has no one talk to them during the day. You attempt to include them or talk to them at one point and you realize why e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:30 AM
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I feel like I got my point across alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:26 AM
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"I have to go all the way" Yeah I certainly cannot magically do that. There's no swap gender potion around. You know I don't have to go all the way. You just cannot admit that I'm right. Men get treated with respect. Losers get treated badly. Twisting my words to fit your narrative won't work on me. I said exactly what I said, and it should be taken as such. Being a loser isn't a good look. This is for both men and women. Yes it was also a "skill issue" on my part. Young teenagers often have a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:23 AM
2

You sound like an angsty teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:16 AM
2

Treating romantic partners like garbage and treating a whole gender like garbage are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:19 PM
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Well thank you for your input but you grossly diverted from our topic. Yes and no. I will be treated like a monster more so than men are. I'll be seen as inherently predatory. I've never had fulfilling female friendships because of that. Men have gotten away with much worse things than what I "did". Yes, it is a skill issue to not be able to attract a mate. Men aren't seen as tools at all, but being an incapable, useless pos won't help you when it comes to socializing. Women are objectified just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:16 PM
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Someone not being into you sexually Is a really childish reason to have a negative view over someone. It reminds me of gay people being shitty towards straight people for being straight. Or obese women calling men fat phobic and #notbodypositive for not being attracted to them. Same energy. Same vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:08 PM
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Bullies are typically outcasts too. The outcasts who aren't bullies are generally just cowards. That's not outcasting. People not showing romantic or sexual interest in you isn't that. Being completely avoided even by your own gender group, being shunned, harassed, assaulted, etc, are being socially outcasted. Was I also an outcast because women didn't show as much interest in me as they did in men? Are they homophobic for that? Or is it just that they weren't Into me because they're straight (I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:05 PM
2

Ehh, as long as women don't directly bother you with their distrust, I feel like you shouldn't be so upset over it. I'm a dark-skinned person(my eastern European beauty standards). People think I'm a Romani woman. Such, they follow me in stores to check if I'm not stealing anything. I don't mind that. I understand that they have unfortunate events everyday, and while not every person who looks like me steals, 9/10 thieves look like me. The only time issues arise is when they begin talking to me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:59 PM
1

Sometimes it is fairly reasonable, yeah. My Roman empire was the Turkish ice-cream man. I've hated men ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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Plenty of gay men hate women because of trauma, or because they see no value in them. Straight men see value in attractive women (mate, sex, love interest, whatever), gay men don't see that. Society also really, really forces them to be into women, which causes resentment, resulting in more hate towards women. It might also be jealousy, because women get the attention from attractive men, while plenty if gay men don't. Might also be because gay men are tired of being treated like pets by straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:55 PM
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Did what? Not do their best to include outcast men, despite the fact that such a group has no redeeming qualities? Can someone be called evil for simply not enjoying your company?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:52 PM
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Why even speak to him? He chose the outcast title. You're the villain to him. Let him be melodramatic and lonely if that's what pleases him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:50 PM
2

There's a reason some people end up social outcasts. Usually it's their own fault. They posses a bunch of severely negative personality traits, and as such no one wants to be around them. Being sexually unnapealing and ignored by really attractive women is one thing, being an outcast is completely something else. Personally, if my child was simply unable to integrate in the social circle, I'd get them help immediately. If people look down on you, they must have a good reason. Like jerking off in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:50 PM
1

I've seen you around before, your personality is certainly .. something. Curious wether the chicken or the egg came first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:47 PM
2

Hate is way too strong of a word for someone that simply doesn't wanna fuck you and isn't interested in interacting with you. The word you're searching for is "apathy".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:46 PM
2

I remember the weird kids hating every other social group in middle school but them because no one wanted to sit next to them (they stank). Same energy here. The child that doesn't get the cookie will swear they don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:45 PM
2

Yes, because seeing half the population as scheming, inferior and wishing to have "revenge" on them Is much less bad than giving bad dating advice to losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:44 PM
1

The whole incel movement too. These woman haters also seem to be cowards, which is why they only share their views online. Maybe cowardice is what makes them undesirable to women, creating a full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:43 PM
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I can't help but notice that a man's hatred for women is invertly proportional with how much attention he got from girls/women in his early teens-mid20s. It's literally always like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:41 PM
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Yes actually, and also to domestic abusers apparently. Or it could be that you need to be in a close relationship with someone for it to count as domestic abuse. Or that you actually have to be around women to be misogynistic towards them. Or we could just throw logic out the window and excuse our crappy behaviour because women are attracted to it. The next time I'll come home drunk at 4 am to beat my girlfriend I'll excuse it with "you're attracted to this anyway". Does that sound right to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:39 PM
0

What else is there to like about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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Well, they're absolutely right. That's what those men are. I've never met a man who got laid before money and fame that hated women. It's all the lonely, autistic, unappealing ones. Same with die hard feminists. Plus, all you do in your post is shame women. Based on what some weirdos said once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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Honestly as a lesbian I'd probably be a woman hater too if I did everything to get that puss, including changing literature and philosophy forever, but still failed. I mean to me it's clearly a skill issue on their part, but I definitely get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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Yeah but it's much more fun to use these quotes as an excuse to make misogynistic jokes. As if one can't have the balls to make crappy jokes/remarks about women without some degenerate autist dude that died long ago approving of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:33 PM
1

He died.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:31 PM
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Ehh, men murder when rejected and criticized. They doxx female streamers for having boyfriends. Now you tell me which is worse. Or could it be that both your statement and mine are irreparably ignorant, and we can't really put half of the population in a certain box because of what some maddened individuals did?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
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This IS NOT arguing in good faith. There are comedy sub reddits out there. Sadly, especially as the op, you have to at least pretend to care about the subject and what others are saying. Can't just be witty when people bring arguments, good or not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:26 PM
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Noo, it surely had to be because women are vain and horrid, that's why these spectacular minds have these incredibly based takes on their nature!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:25 PM
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You literally made it way more complex than it actually is!! People will hate things they don't have access to, or at least pretend to. They all hated women exactly because they had no access to them. It's easy to do that! For every dude that hates women there's a story of being rejected n times or whatever. That's always how the story starts. No wonder!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:23 PM
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Wait until you find out that without social conditioning women act in a similar way, and that humans are naturally polysexual and bisexual, being a social sex species. We have sex for reasons other than reproduction and pleasure. If we really let instincts take over, we would all just be fucking everybody, regardless of sex, the way bonobo monkeys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:35 AM
2

I never said we don't have equal legal rights. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:47 PM
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Wanting equal legal rights and still being regarded as a woman? No, that's not having the cake and eating it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:27 PM
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Men don't get. Men give.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:20 PM
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They don't as much, the same way I don't get the same social protection little children get. Men are physically stronger. Men easily overpower women. Therefore, if something might happen, we have good, helpful Men that choose to help both younger/weaker/older men and women. Obviously we have the firemen and policemen who dedicate their life to helping civilians, but until then, usually Men step up because men are more capable physically speaking (Obviously) If I fall over and scrape my knee I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:17 PM
5

That's not objectification. Men court.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:16 PM
3

What you said has nothing to do with what I said. Contribute to the discussion in a constructive manner or don't contribute at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:13 PM
2

Men and women are inherently different. There's no good motivation for a woman to lower her standards and no good motivation for a man to raise his. Although that's how it's been throughout history. Women are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:57 PM
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Why is it wrong to want equal rights legally while also having social protection and privileges? Is it wrong to want to be able to work? While still being treated like a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:54 PM
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Seems like you're so biased over your gender that your own narcissistic traits fly right over your head. Studies have shown again and again that men have an inflated self esteem, that they have the sense of grandiose, that they show more narc traits than women do. It's absolutely funny. Men don't like when women think "highly" of themselves. They don't like when women and like men. They think women should be humble. That has been the case for all of human history. Men painted nude women for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:52 PM
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Narcissistic people love weaklings, narcissistic traits are more commonly found in men (statistically and culturally speaking), while women are more neurotic (weak), easy to lead, easy to control. Someone with a deflated self esteem and no self worth will be your puppet. Men know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:40 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:39 PM
4

Promiscuity and paying for someone's "consent" are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:50 AM
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Eh i don't know, I'm down for it multiple times a day usually, and depending on how much effort I put into the relationship, my female partners were down for it on a daily basis too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:56 PM
0

As a woman, I'd like to be stuck there with women. Not only am I gay, but I also cannot live without a good gossiping session.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:22 AM
2

8-10% of people have blue eyes. We all know a bunch of blue eyed people. Also, they might not admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:37 PM
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I don't live in Vegas. I live in a no name town and eastern Europe. Almost half of the men boast about seeing prostitutes. Needing to be loved and lusted after doesn't mean they won't take the chance of having a quick nut, no matter how enthusiastic their "partner" is to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:33 PM
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Yes sadly there are. The same way guys have practice girlfriends they feel no attraction to. Although it's not charity work, it's just being cruel. They're not doing these men a service, they're actively expecting more effort for them just because they deem them "ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:31 PM
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Attempting to cheat and not being able to is worse than just cheating because opportunity arised. Imagine your partner investing time and money into trying to cheat but not being able to, texting random people without them responding, buying gifts for the people they're interested in without showing any interest back... Not only is your partner a cheating bastard, they're a cheating bastard that no one likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:28 PM

Men have never truly contributed 50/50 to a household. In most families women do moat of the cleaning and cooking + child rearing. Not only that, but having someone carry your offspring for 9 months and then feed it every 2 hours for the first months of their life is pretty priceless. There's no equality between women, just equity. My partner is half my height and almost half my weight. I'm just physically stronger. That means I carry the heavy stuff for her. We're both female. It's not equality…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:20 PM

How do you cope with this? If you don't like someone's company and they keep repeating a behaviour that bothers you quite a bit, you stop interacting with them instead of complaining about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:07 PM

Both you and your friend sound like nut cases. You both shouldn't be responsible for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:57 PM
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Me and my mother went swimming in the sea and a current almost drowned us. A man around helped us and he's the sole reason we are alive. My dad was on the shore and couldn't have gotten there in time despite trying. That man is the reason why I still believe in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:39 PM
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No, screw this sociopathic bullshit. I feel the need to help to the best of my ability even as a woman. If you as a man refuse to protect the others around you, you're a failure. Human society is still going on due to human's innate nature to cooperate and help. If we just stop helping eachother everything will turn to shit. Glad that in my culture this doesn't happen, whenever I needed help someone jumped in and offered a hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:36 PM

Some young women don't have bargain power either. They're not that ugly either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:53 PM
3

The actual traffickers don't get caught. Are cops really that stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:43 PM
2

I knew girls from the industry and pimps. It's really really worse than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:46 PM
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There's nothing to negotiate about it. Some people are undesirable by default. Programs might help those individuals. Prostitution literally means having a segment of society with no other purpose than being a cum dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:49 PM
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Prostitutes are often trafficked, drug addicted, homeless, moneyless, desperate, underaged women. People's safety shall be more important than anyone's sexual desire. Germany has legalized prostitution and brothels, a lot of girls are brought in from other countries, they barely speak German or English, it's a whole crock of shit. Not being trafficked or taken advantage of when you're a mess sounds like a human right to me. Not to mention the men spreading sexual diseases to family members. I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:42 PM
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Kebab spicy. No head after spicy food pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:24 PM
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That's absolutely not what I'm talking about. You're a man, you cannot possibly understand how women's sexuality works because you literally can't feel it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:39 AM
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Yeah I'm not gonna have you tell me how my body works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:27 AM
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Basically this. I'm really curious how op missed all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Or just cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Actually both men and women are non monogamous sexually. If we weren't we'd only have one partner for life and we wouldn't find other people attractive when we are in a relationship. The same thoughts you have about women on the street/your female friends women have too, we just don't really talk about it as much, we keep it more low key. This is because society kind of conditions men to be really sexual and women to sort of repress their sexuality. But yes, a lot of us want to fuck our male fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Yes they do, the same way men learn from other men what's attractive and what's not. This is human behaviour. Remember when all the little boys liked the same girl? It's not really because she was pretty or had a good personality, it was simply because the other boys liked her. You know how rich dudes get arm candy? A lot of them were having sex with everyone they wanted, but committed to only one woman who looked really good. The arm candy girlfriend. Humans love competition. We are programmed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:59 AM
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There are a bunch of social media trend with guys wearing makeup. Guyliner is now a thing! Eyeliner can look really masculine, and contour can be used to enhance masculinity in the face shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:20 AM

Are you being purposely optuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:18 PM

Wanting a kid and actually being a dad to it are different things. Most men aren't that involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:02 PM

Yes? Good morning???0 Throughout history men haven't been involved enough in their child's lives. Is this the first time you find this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:01 PM

Ok, if you don't wanna have kids then get snipped. It's still not a good excuse. I don't want to take care of my demented grandma either, yet I'm forced to and I still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:32 PM

Sorry, I don't understand what you re trying to put down. Be more precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:30 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I hope you and your dad figure it out and mend your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:17 AM
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Adults don't need help! THEY RE ADULTS. Unless they are somehow kept captive, severely retarded, or have no source of income because of family members, they don't need help. If someone wants help they can reach out to friends, a partner, family or a therapist. IF someone is treating you unfairly, you're free to not interact with them anymore. If you feel everyone is treating you unfairly, it might be your fault. You might deserve it if you push your issues down random people's throats and derail…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:15 AM
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Plenty of women also work full time. You can work full time and still raise children and STILL be involved in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:13 AM
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No, that's the least important part. The only thing that actually matters is how the child ends up and if they can grow up and say "me and my dad have always had a great relationship, he's my best friend and no 1 fan even now" or "my dad was a deadbeat loser who I felt was never present and I hope he dies alone in an elderly home"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:11 AM
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Huh??? Not doing 50% of childcare does mean you are a deadbeat. "Giving it all you got" isn't enough, you have the responsibility of your kids' life, the way they end up is highly dependent on you. Even if you don't really wanna do it for their mother (which is also kind of fucked), do it for them, they're your offspring. They're the ones who will carry your legacy and take care of you when you get older. You don't get to have a preference on how you contribute to your kids life, you should lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:09 AM
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Growing up I was shocked at how my friends describe their fathers. My dad was most of the times involved in my life, like an actual parent should. Heck, he even stayed home with me when I was born, because my mom was making more at the moment and it made sense. I was shocked that my friends' dads never took them anywhere with them, never had friendly conversation with them, barely gave advice, didn't ask at least once every few days how they were doing and if everything is fine, mostly didn't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:06 AM
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Not affording it doesn't mean they wouldn't do it if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:02 AM
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Did you really do 50/50 on carrying the baby, feeding it and waking up multiple times a night to change them when they cried/took hours from your time to learn about parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:02 AM
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Again, you're looking at this from the wrong point of view. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:36 AM
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Yup! It sucks but people will always make bad choices. I can't believe people turn it into a men's rights thing instead of focusing on what's important. Aborting isn't always a viable solution for medical reasons. Some women don't know their pregnant and then it's too late to abort too. There's no fix but men or women paying child support, depending on who abandons ship first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:26 AM
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This isn't a women's rights or men's rights type of deal, but a child's rights deal. What the woman and man want doesn't matter. The child should be the priority. That means men pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:04 AM
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If a dude doesn't want a child he can wrap it or get snipped. why punish the child? When one side doesn't pay child support that's directly punishing a child for what their mother and father did. That'd be unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:56 AM
1

What really irks me is pit hair. It looks and smells monstrous on both sexes, but on men it's much, much worse. Men naturally kinda smell worse and sweat more due to testosterone. Also lower grooming standards. Please, shave the pit hair. Everyone. Trim it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:10 AM
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I disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:36 AM
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No, that's not what they do. However, if you neglect your partner, expect infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:36 PM
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Absolutely. Especially attractive women. And definitely not as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:34 PM
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Hot take: the women you see as in your league are above you by a long shot. Statistically men over rate themselves and women under rate themselves. That 6 likely is seen as an 8 by most people. You are 2 points lower (at least) than you think you are. A lot of you struggle because of pretty high standards. She has to be good looking, not overweight, not older than you, single, not a mother, not a smoker, not high maintenance, no high body count, etc etc etc... the remaining people are a very nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:33 PM
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You're right, but you commented the same thing already. Maybe expand or something, but I don't think copy pasting the same comment is necessary and might be considered spam
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:27 PM
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Yes yes. It's bad and all. But it's the only way that someone without experience can get it to be more experienced. I think women date men they're not attracted to for similar reasons. As a lesbian, I see a lot of straight women hit on me just so they can have a go at me, enjoy my attention and then leave me for a dude. I've also seen this happen to some of my friends a couple of times. They're nor honest about wanting something casual either. It is what it is! Dating isn't fair and life isn't f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:25 PM
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It's morally iffy imo, but people do what they must do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:22 PM
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No, ignore what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:03 AM
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We were talking about HUMANS. These are ANIMALS. Yes, women are weaker physically. That doesn't necessarily make them weak. Most brain surgeons are most likely not as smart as Einstein. Doesn't mean they're not smart at all. Them prehistoric women were most likely way stronger than you as an individual. It's like you literally can't think. Surviving not as long Is still surviving. The point is to survive long enough to reproduce. You've brought no argument over why women wouldn't be able to surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:01 AM
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Who said anything about feminism lmfao Also, it isn't really masculine to talk shit about women. Talking shit is a feminine activity :).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:27 AM
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Weaker then men? Absolutely. Weak and fragile? Haha Absolutely not. We have a higher pain resistance than you do and it seems like we also recovers faster from diseases and injuries. We also have better immune systems. We are more flexible. We need less food. Gender doesn't matter when we are talking about apex predators. The difference between men and women is absolutely abysmally low if we look into scenarios like being attacked by prehistoric felines, wolves, and other animals. You have as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:17 AM
0

Are you like.. 12? Hand waive what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:09 AM
1

Maybe she doesn't want Chad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:08 AM
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Genuine question, are you on the spectrum or were you in special Ed classes when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:18 PM
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The way men also were doofus. Learn a thing or two about preistoric humans. Men aren't strong either compared to the beasts. I wonder how they did it? Though you were in university, Natalie!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:18 PM
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Chiar chatter all around. Might as well put on a skirt and bond over, Natalie!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:16 PM
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Women talk about these things beforehand. If anyone's if hypocritical here, you're that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:59 PM
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Doesn't change what I fucking said at all. And I don't think you should speak over it considering how uknowledgeable you are on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:59 PM
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Being taken advantage of doesn't seem like equality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:15 AM
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Doesn't matter who does better socially-wise at all. You don't tell someone that has depression that they don't deserve help because they still brush their teeth and they don't piss in bottles in their room yet. Women do suffer from neuro divergency a lot, I would say even more than men do, it's just that they're forced into a cookie cutter model of what a woman should be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:38 AM
1

Men are literally disposable. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:36 AM
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Dude, the literal experts, sociologists and scientists tell you that it is in fact a problem. You can't have an opinion over the matter, it's like saying you don't believe in gravity and that you're allowed to have an opinion over it.. this isn't about opinions, this is factual shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:35 AM
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It's not wrong, but certainly unrealistic. Someone who's never been that much of a sexual person won't be your little whore. If you're fine with not having sex that often, then yes, it works. But you can't expect goodie two shoes to act like the pornstars you watch after you married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:30 AM
1

Amish were right about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:29 AM
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Might not look drastica to you, but it it is in fact drastic. You don't seem to understand population demographics. If literally experts from your source tell you straight up that it causes problems, you are you, an uneducated, clueless random dude to speak over the matter? Do you not realize how obtuse this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:06 PM
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Friends never do that shit. Chances are the girl wanted to be left alone but the guy didn't get the memo. I spent 20 minutes talking to a guy over how I'm a lesbian and adore my girlfriend, and dude took it as an invite to ask me for a threesome. Men sometimes don't pick up on signals, or try harder without really knowing that what they're doing is annoying. This is the day you learn the truth. The fat friend isn't cock blocking you. You're bothering that pretty girl. If you weren't bothering he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:04 PM
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Are some men so self centered that they think this way? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:50 PM
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Men often won't stop until someone else tells them too. I'm incredibly thankful when my "unnatractive" friends tell men to leave me alone, especially after I've rejected them and they still go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:49 PM
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Exactly, that's why you don't need to be pampered ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Now you can stop being completely useless and start building something cool, instead of chatting on reddit, which is a feminine ass activity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:51 PM
-1

The gender or sex ratio in China has been a contentious issue since the introduction of the one-child policy in 1979, intended to limit the population of the country. Although the policy is no longer in place, the population gender difference throughout the country is still evident. In 2022, fifteen to nineteen-year-old children had the largest gender disparity of 115.77 males to every 100 females. Literally from the link you sent, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:50 PM
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I disagree. Women are completely capable of that too. There's just no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:49 PM
0

Ok and? Are the boys killed in western countries? When it comes to natural parents, About 40% of parents, across the decades, have told researchers that if they could only have one child, they would want a boy. Only a consistent 20% to 30% has chosen a girl or no preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:48 PM
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Sounds like this assumption was pulled directly out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:45 PM
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Because of the consequences it brought. Misogyny is detrimental to any society. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:21 AM
3

I had a vastly different experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:54 AM
4

No need, she likely knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:53 AM
5

What kind of women are you dating??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:52 AM
4

ND is not more common among men, just more commonly undiagnosed/unnoticed in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:51 AM
1

Men handle war better, that's why they're being sent. Suicide rates are high for men, but suicide attempt rates are even higher for women. It looks like Men choose guns overwhelmingly while women choose OD and poisoning themselves. Men also commit more crimes and suicide is sometimes used to get out of legal punishment. Some men kill themselves to send a message, revenge suicide fantasy kinda deal. There's also the erotic auto asphyxiation deal, with 250 deaths per year in the USA, and this is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:49 AM

Men are literally the pillars of society and superior in more ways then a few. Men don't need support, it makes them soft. Women need support because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:42 AM

My most favorite event in recent history is China's one child policy and the favorization of sons. Now they can't find wives, because the girls were killed as newborns, abandoned to die or aborted. Something similar happened in India too. A lot of the blackpill community is made up of Indian men, and they still blame women for it. It's not really their fault that daughters were seen as a burden compared to sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:41 AM
-1

While I find sex work disgusting and degrading, that still doesn't change anything. You aren't allowed to do shit to someone without their consent. If you half your life savings on pretzels, to buy land on the moon, or to become a lord in Ireland, that still wouldn't give me the right to scam you out of your money or steal from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:33 AM
4

90% of men don't really want custody of their children. If they were somehow obligated to do so, you'll see actually how many criminals would be a direct result of "single" dads. The child will almost always be put in the mother's responsibility, wether she likes it ir not. With dads is vastly different. It's easy to take care of a child when you wanted it so bad that you chose to take care of it, and having a child be put in your care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:47 PM
0

Look, I had this mindset before. I was a horny teenager in a post communist Country and a lesbian. However, I grew out of objectifying random women in my teens. You should be doing that too. Objectify your girlfriend. Leave yoir sexual side out of everyone's lives but your partner/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:58 PM
0

I like my neighnour too, that doesn't mean I wanna spend my life with them. Liking someone is generally not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:11 AM
0

Definition of what? It's absolutely not better. You'll feel just as alone + also being resentful towards your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:10 AM
-1

By... being glad that other people die alone without having children because "you get more room" ???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:09 AM
0

Women's standards raising isn't a problem, it's a symptom of a phenomenon. Mainly, women being able to live without depending on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:08 AM
-2

Congratulations, you just discovered consent!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:20 AM
1

The first profession was probably teaching or midwifery. Fuck sanctity of sex, the issue is proffiting off of someone's loneliness and addiction, rotting people's brains with excesive amounts of porn and prostitution, human trafficking women and girls, posting brain dead shit that encourages abnormal sexuality like violence, incest, being into literal school girls, etc, drugging male porn starts so they last long to the point where they get ED in their 30s, building unrealistic expectation over …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:14 AM
1

They don't see any value in the person. They just don't want to deal with being alone. That's it. Most people want relationships to brag or to not face their fear of being single/alone. They don't actually just find a person and feel like they have something for said person. That's fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:56 AM
-2

Definitely not too late. People leave after being married for years and years and having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:55 AM
2

Yes, a lot of women would. Hence why people are single. Are you not able to take any sort of criticism? Is someone not being interested in you such a big blow to you? Why? It's still about dating in general, read the whole post. Settling is bad for all people involved. No matter what standards may op have, that doesn't change that her statement is true. I have high as shit standards and I'm very happy with the person I ended up with, without dropping my standards one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:53 AM
7

He's insane. That makes him say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:52 AM
2

Wait till you find out what your children will have to go through if men don't get their shit together and the population keeps declining..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:51 AM
8

She won't fuck you either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:50 AM
9

Because she's a woman and she has am opinion on this sub. These men think their failures in dating are women's blame, in general. They think the cause for their problem are women's standards, and the problem just can't be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:50 AM
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It's not important at all. The post isn't about OP, it's about dating in general. This isn't "am I the asshole". Op has said exactly what they meant in a comment. If someone doesn't make you happy or content, and you don't share romantic/sexual feelings for them back, if they don't treat you right, if they have absolutely 0 drive in life, there's no point in wasting time on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:47 AM
-2

Please leave that woman alone if you're not head over heels for her. She deserves someone who actually likes her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:43 AM
2

Men settle all the time and women too, despite the person not adding any value to their lives and despite the feelings not being reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:42 AM
3

What you said has absolutely 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:34 AM
1

Personality matters a lot, though looks matter the most. You could be compatible as friends but not as lovers. Not everyone will find you sexually attractive. If you don't understand why you can't fuck all your friends, you might be autistic. I like spending time with my cousins too, with the elderly people in my community, and with men. That doesn't mean I have to want to bang them. Weird way to think you have there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:10 AM
4

Not all men. But a lot of them. A lot of them are boundary pushers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:02 AM
1

Brother in Christ that's almost the red pill. Except there are a few things you can do to make yourself more attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:14 PM
0

You're not gonna tell a lesbian this shit naaawh man. I actually think a lot of them look worse w makeup because they genuinely can't do makeup for shit. Most look absolutely stunning bare faced, or right after they cry/after sex for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:59 PM
2

I feel like it is a high. I'm telling you, time spent with that specific person feels better than doing drugs on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:03 PM
5

Ok but like would you rather be mistreated by someone with gorgeous shiny hair, long pretty lashes, rosey cheeks and red lips Or a Hairy dude that smells off? In life you kinda pick your battles. It might just be that I'm down bad but the first one sounds way more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:51 PM
9

I can't say much because i littleraly do it to other women. I haven't had too many bad experiences aside from posesivenes, jealousy and having no respect towards my boundaries. Dating men was worse in the sense that I was absolutely not attracted to them. If I could choose my sexuality I'd 100% be a straight woman. Men and women aren't all that different really, aside from being physically different and having slightly different attitudes. They're just as shitty, women just kinda have an excuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:42 PM
3

Not sure why they asked, but anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:36 PM
9

I have horrible body image issues. No matter what I look like I'd think I look monstrous. As for how attractive I am, I don't think I've had a friend that didn't hit on me, and I regularly get asked out by random men. Women do give me the gay stare/ smile. Babies also smile at me and toddlers tell me I'm pretty, which is pretty much the most convincing argument I can bring. I have long curly hair and I dye it blue black usually, I use minimal makeup and do try to keep myself in shape. I'm also p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:35 PM
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Redpilled lesbian here. A lot of you tend to mix up the black pill and the red pill. Women are horrible and the negative female nature shit is pure blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:13 PM
2

Mostly no one gives a fuck about anyone's feelings unless they're their child, mother, father, sibling or significant other. Maybe close friends. I don't know how old you are, but my old man always told me that out of 100 people, 80 don't give a crap about you, 18 are happy you have problems and 2 care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:32 PM
2

Political issues differ from you not being able to make a woman be interested in you, long term and short term. You are free to not care though. Go on. See how that affect anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:54 AM
1

"We didn't fall behind women just stepped on us to get to the top" How would this shit even work in a college/university? It's literally based on your work ethic. There's no 1,st 2nd, 3rd, if two people have the same score they're on the same level. There's nothing you can possibly do to disadvantage another student besides cheating on a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:50 AM
0

How did women do that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:48 AM
2

Because not even 50 years ago, women weren't really going to college, and parents are more likely to support their son going to college vs their daughters. Men are just as likely (+/-) to enroll in college as women are. They're just more likely to drop out. Men consistently show more anti social traits than women at any level. Women respect authority more and just function better in a school like environment. Ofcourse Men will drop out more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:47 AM
-1

49% of university students are male. That's literally half. Men already have careers. It's the women who choose bullshit jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:45 AM
1

What economic suport do women get?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:43 AM
2

The oversaturation of the porn market is caused by men who pimp women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:42 AM
5

Sending the surplus of men to die in war, or to work themselves to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:40 AM
1

You really don't get it, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:42 PM
1

Look dude, I'm a lesbian that dated everyone and their mothers. You can't be the one to tell me what and when.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:55 PM
1

It doesn't really work that way. When my girlfriends being a bitch i don't exactly feel like eating her out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:53 PM
5

Women don't go for men much older. Most age gaps are under 5 years. I wouldn't call that an age gap at all, really... less than 10% of relationships have an age gap of 10 years or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:52 AM
1

Maybe you're insufferable, or your mouth stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:01 AM
0

The only guys who are "not hard to look at" when they're old are the ones who were complete stallions when they were young. Luckily, women aren't so looks focused as men are. They'll still find women to bang, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:00 AM
0

Ah to have the confidence of a mediocre man... Wym you don't curl your lashes every hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:58 AM
-1

"I'll be nice and empty my balls in you" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:58 AM
3

It's in the rules that you have to abstain from down voting:) Come with an argument instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:49 AM
4

Great, that still doesn't suffice and people still want partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:48 AM
1

Why do you wanna live happily? Hormones? Do you comprehend the dept of what you're asking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:48 AM
5

It's worse to actively put in an effort to cheat than just have the opportinity arise..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:40 AM
1

Guess what! Good people who would make good partners also don't jump from relationship to relationship. If you don't give your partner a reason to break up, there's a good chance they won't! Lack of experience is excusable in teenagers and in religious communities. Certainly not in adults. There's always a reason why that particular reason has been so avoided by people romantically and just as friends so much that they lack key social skills and basic experience when it comes to interacting with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:08 AM

Reactiveeee. Great, keep speaking about how awesome you are. Very relevant:D For someone with a doctorate, you aren't very smart. Never been in the debating club at your school? You can't counteract with personal experience. You kinda need facts. I do agree that op is very much nuts tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:39 PM
1

Ok, I'd be good to stop thinking about hypothetical people who want to date you or not. What's the point in it If you're taken??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:37 PM

You just kinda give that vibe off. You also seem pretty insecure. Yeah I think you're bitter. So?? You gave me some information that can be true or false. Then the way our interaction went, you should me how unstable you actually are. And close minded. Oh, and also a bragger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:36 PM

There are obviously very wrong things with you. First it's your reactivity. Then your pessimism. Then your vengeance. Then your fat ego. Then the fact that your single. That speaks volumes. No good woman/guy is single for long. None. I don't need to approach women as a whole as any other than human beings. I have a girlfriend and I've loved her for years. I don't see that changing soon, and if it did, I wouldn't jump straight into dating again. I surely won't think of crappy strategies and just …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:35 PM

I'm biologically female and taken. Not sure why you'd think I'd want a random bitter stranger on the internet... Have fun getting old with cats, you funky person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:30 PM
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No, there's absolutely something wrong about you. Maybe you're off putting and have 0 pull. Also most people who are insane aren't aware of their insanity. Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:06 PM
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Statistically speaking, women are more likely to push for couple's therapy. This might indicate wanting to fix the marriage. Women also tend to complain more, and nag more, which might mean they talk about marriage problems more often. So, that means there isn't more pressure on men to fix problems. More likely there's pressure to cooperate in fixing their own marriage. A marriage is dead if both the partners don't want and do their best to fix their marital issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:05 PM
1

At no point in history was the divorce rate 70%. The highest was close to 50%, in the 70s, during the divorce spike. After that, it's been on a steady decline. Now it sits at around 30%, and it keeps declining more and more. I'm not sure what's to lose. Most households are dual income, and most of the daily household chores + childcare is mostly done by the women. What does suck for men are the shitty chores which have to be done once in awhile (unless you wanna call a professional, which might …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:03 PM
1

You could look over it yourself. I'm not gonna search up some study I read 2 years ago so you believe me, as if it doesn't make sense that someone who doesn't have to work a shitty job in the capitalist cog machine on top of taking care of the household, cooking and the children + husband is happier than someone who has to do both. Women aren't meant to work. That's why they choose bullshit jobs. You rarely see women in blue collar jobs, you rarely see women get into stem, there are less female …
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/24 03:31 AM
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Oh shush I literally said that they can do anything they want. That doesn't change what makes them the least depressed, statistically. I can also choose to do crappy street drugs, that doesn't mean it's the best choice for me, is it? Ofcourse they do what they want. Some people just notice patterns. One of them is femininity in certain women, and how the lack of it is associated with another type of women.
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/24 02:05 AM
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If you're insanely attractive as a man it works. Otherwise, no, usually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:48 PM
2

Women naturally want to appease men lol. It's in women's biology. Ofcourse they're allowed to do things the way they want, but that doesn't change the fact that married stay at home moms are the happiest demographic of women. I'm not for forcing anyone to do anything. Women and men are legally equal. I don't support taking anyone's rights away.
/r/AntiFeminists29/02/24 01:06 AM
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I feel like the women in Asia are more appreciative of men compared to how the USA women act... Those countries are 3rd world countries for a reason. That shit likely won't fly in the NATO. The police are paid to deal with that. There's nothing to be appreciative of today. The men today don't do shit. Men absolutely do have to lead. Do they? Heck no. I understand wanting women to follow their roles. It's natural for you to want that. But men absolutely don't do that. Men lose their Temper over f…
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 08:17 PM
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I'm sorry to say this, but you attract what you are. Call me a traditionalist, but where I come from men lead women into femininity. Femininity is inherently submissive. Nothing to submit to around. Men lead by example. Men are the pillar of society. Women follow. If the men aren't really men, the women won't be women either. As for nose rings, some cultures consider it feminine. There are little things out there more feminine than decorating yourself with jewelry. Some might not like it, and th…
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 07:34 PM
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It's not even about just marrying. She ought to keep that shit in private. I hate that I was subjected to that. Ehh, anyone who used medicine instead of praying was considered a witch, and personally I don't support public executions. They'll end up alone too, most likely. Someone who cries about "having" to shave or sees not shaving their stinky pits as empowerment likely won't have a long term partner anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 07:06 PM
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Exactly. If she feels like doing that kind of crap she could very well do it at home
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 06:41 PM
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I think the same thing would be men going shirtless and doing weird poses. We absolutely need to bring shaming back, but for everybody. No one wants to see nipples on the street.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 06:39 PM
4

Prostitutes usually do it because the other option is starving. Now OF bitches who glamorize sex work are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:34 PM
3

As a woman, me and other women had ons with undesirable men just to raise our on confidence levels, or as a way to kind of "hurt ourselves", to forget about something else... might be a whole lot of other reasons. Did this despite being a lesbian. I felt like I needed to punish myself for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:31 PM
1

False
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:30 AM
5

"Whats for dinner" "Heard what xyz said??" "This country Is turning to shit" "When we'll have kids, we will only feed them odins mead" "Wanna go for a walk" "Wanna fuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 PM

Its a signal to make them shut the fuck up. Usually, people who are told that shit are people who excuse their extremely crappy behaviour and self centeredness on what happened to them in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:13 AM

How does what you said have anything to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:12 AM

Not everything is about you, once again. I just asked a rethorical question. Did you even read and comprehend the original post? The point is, there is no reason to tell your partner something that hurtful and brand it as "trauma dumping". It's called simply being an asshole. Please do keep your sexual escapades to yourself. We don't wanna no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:10 AM

Hey, this post isn't about you. Not everything is about you. Op was talking about completely something else. Not putting yourself down is one thing, telling people hurtful things just because you feel like it is another. Like what if your wife of 6 years came to you and told you she misses that good dick she got 12 years ago from that tall handsome dude with black curly hair and hazel eyes? How would you feel if she said she'd suck him off in front of you on your side of the bed if he asked her …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:07 AM

Likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 AM

Right? There's no reason to tell your life partner that you'd divorce them over a crush that didn't reciprocate your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 AM

Not everyone is equipped or wants to hear your shit. People already have a lot on their plates, and putting your issues on top of theirs could be too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:04 AM

The trauma is not being wanted by the hottest girl at home coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:01 AM

Then marry her and leave the other woman alone. It's not hypocritical to not want your partner to tell you crap like that. That's not wanting to be heard out, that's purposely being an asshole. If you choose to settle for someone you don't actually want because of a childhood crush you couldn't get over, the least you could do is shut up about it and attempt to not hurt the person you've trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:59 AM

It's like yall are purposely missing the point. I could be the most horrid guest and I'd still look for the best hotel room I can find for the price I can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:48 PM
1

Doesn't it bother you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:49 AM
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Well, we clearly see things differently. Thank you for taking the time to share your view. Have a great one!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:16 AM
2

You can try to remove women's rights, on your own. You might even try it with a huge group of people. You might actually have a good point. Perhaps it would be better for society as a whole. That doesn't mean you'll actually succeed. There's basically no way to make the world a perfectly fair place. "Fair" is a thing we invented anyway. It doesnt have to actually be logically fair, it has to be fair enough that most people are compliant of it. Notice that I said compliant, not content. No one wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:59 AM
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People aren't honest about their intentions that often. You'll never meet a guy who wants to score tell a woman that he just wants a quick nut, and he hits on her because she looks easy, not because he's genuinely attracted or interested in her. You'll never find a casino that deters players from paying money, despite the games being rigged. You'll never find an employee that licks their bosses asses because they're genuinely in awe of their superiors. They just want a raise. You'll never find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:51 AM
2

Oh no. Gorlock the destroyer is biologically female. She's just insanely fat. Might look like a dude, but if you get too close you'll feel the all familiar fish stink. Hey, don't judge, it's hard to clean herself with all those fat rolls sorry, curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:07 PM
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Tricky, because women are more predisposed to storing fat (nevermind pregnancy that really causes weight gain) and men are more predisposed to being hairy. A woman with a mustache and unshaved armpits is a 3/10 or less no matter what, though that's not true at all for men who have mustaches. Women with curves went in and out of fashion, still plenty of enthusiasts out there. Now I'm not in any way saying obese women are attractive to the healthy individual, but deciding who your eq is by BMI is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:20 PM
2

It.. doesn't? Unless you don't understand what equivalent means. You won't find a partner thats similar to you in every way. We are talking dating market value here. A woman is more valuable than a man in the market usually. Women are considered the prize. If that wasn't the case, the egg would swim towards the sperm, not the other way. Sure, maybe she's heavy, but she could still look better than you do. You'd have to be Hella ugly for that, but it is possible. Or maybe you're a loser, maybe yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:14 PM
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Who said anything about America? Both the average American men and women are ugly, fat losers. Not to mention uneducated. It's just what it is. You mean in poor Asian countries, where they're 3 times taller than locals and where they could buy a luxurious property of the hefty price of less than 5 k US dollars??? Gee, I wonder why they have so much luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:12 PM
3

Ok, what does that have to do with anything I've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:44 PM
3

There are plenty of stats over it. The rage bait you see online of gorlock the destroyer calling herself a 10 is not what usually happens. Even the ones who say that are lying to themselves straight up. They usually hate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:29 PM
2

Far fetched at best, insane at worst. I'm struggling to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:28 PM
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Men over rate themselves and their abilities while women underrate them. Statistically speaking. Narcisim is way more common in men than in women, while neuroticism is way more common in women. The beauty industry is based around the fear females have of being ugly. You're not struggling to find your equivalent, you're just over rating yourself by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:53 PM

As much as our frail bodies allow. Sex isn't only Rough fisting. It can be just cuddling naked and touching eachother softly. We will still makeout, we could still give eachither head, and just be intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:29 AM

Sex is also an emotional need. That's why sex with prostitutes doesn't count. It has to be sex where both people like what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:07 AM

Prostitution isn't sex. It's selling yourself to get by and paying someone to allow you to touch them. Nothing more, nothing less. It's not sex. It's not desire. It's not love. Part of our need for sex also stems for the need of being accepted. We are a social sex species, meaning we have sex for other reasons aside from reproduction and pleasure. It's a means of socialization, feeling accepted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:43 AM

There are. Look at the dark pill sides of the internet. Look how depressed people who are consistently unable to find relationships are. Still, nothing bad happens without sunlight. You can still survive without it, especially if you're given vit D. Yes, and with loneliness and lack of sex you get a shorter life span, you get anti social behaviour patterns, feelings of hopelessness, anxiety, depression, feelings of isolation, suicide ideation and other horrible symptoms. It's so bad that it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:39 AM

It's not just men. It's about everyone. We need to be more connected as a society as a whole. Paying someone to have sex with you isn't sex, it's just paying for a service. Both men and women need the kind of sex that you have when you want someone and when you're wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:34 AM

Except bad things do happen if you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:33 AM

For people who are allosexual (meaning not asexual) love and sex are intertwined. You can give all the platonic love to your spouse if you don't also show attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:32 AM

Freedom and sunlight are not needs either. Guess what happens when you lock someone in a room without windows, despite receiving food, having where to shit and clean their own body, and some books. They go batshit insane. Sex and relationships are a basic need. Human touch is a basic psychological need. Being understood and accepted are psychological needs too. Sex and relationships do bring happiness. Happily partnered people live more, are less prone to heart disease, have way lower rates of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:29 AM
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You have to have above average social skill to be considered nice, that's obvious. Not being a rude bitch won't turn people on, but being a rude bitch will 100% turn some people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:47 PM
0

Motherly characteristics are supposed to be shown towards children. Not. Grown. Adults. If you want someone to treat you like that, see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:53 PM
0

A woman should be motherly towards mf children, not GROWN MEN. YUUUUCK FATHERLY CHARACTERISTICS TOWARDS KIDS. NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. WHAT ON EARTH??? I literally have. I literally mentioned that I dated men. No, I'm shitting on you personally. Most men aren't fucked up weirdos who want a mommy for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:19 AM
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Yes, it's wrong, in the way that they mean it its really fucking wrong. Men should seek a partner that cares about them. In fact, no one should be around people that don't give a shit about them. However, your partner shouldn't care for you the way your mother did. Nurture??? Nurture how?? She isn't your mommy, and you're way too big and tall now to be breastfed 💀 That motivation is supposed to come within. No one should have to hold your hand through life. Batshit crazy men look for a mommy. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:34 AM
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If a woman wants to be a sahm, it would make sense that she would need a man that works. Otherwise, it's just single, "I'm a 10" fat ladies saying that. Caring and nurturing is what a mommy should be. Those words are simply associated with motherhood, and it's weird to want that in a partner. If you want your wife to stay at home and raise kids, while you work, it makes sense that she does all the cooking and cleaning. However, if you don't make enough, so that you both have to work, you kinda a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:54 AM
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I can read intent, I'm not autistic. You would be the one to not know, since you were not there. How often do you get hit on by asexual men? Obviously it doesn't mean consent to sex. You can however, really tell if they are trying to have sex with you or just flirting for fun. Wanting to have sex with consensual partners isn't sexually anti social. What a dumb take. Some of them do act that way simply to scare women or get off on it, but if you do give them the time of day they will try ți get y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:39 AM
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They often times are. It depends heavily on outside factors, but there are predators out there. You can usually spot them by how they act. However, no one said all of you are rapists or whatever. No one thinks that. We are just wary when it's required to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:57 AM
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Without being agresive? That's not scary, most people would expect that if they did something innaproporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:55 AM
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That wasn't what op was talking about at all. Op wasn't implied that. No one is scared of someone taking their hat back and being told to back off. It's not unreasonable at all. Men also take women's hats at the club. It's literally just being playful and flirty. If someone isn't into it they'll just take the hat back. Women and men aren't equal and shouldn't be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:41 AM
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No, they don't. They'd be diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder if that was the case. You assume every woman think every man wants to rape her. Are you any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:39 AM
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I think it's ok to be scared of someone who forces themselves on you. I think it's ok to he scared of people who can't handle rejection well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:38 AM
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Against a hat thief in a club?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:37 AM
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I don't think so. Most women do expect it, hence why op think they're scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:37 AM
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He really heavily implied it. What other consequences that women could be scared of would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:35 AM
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I don't think we grossly over estimate anything, you just aren't a woman. Young women are often hit on. As someone who dated men and now dates women, all people act really weird when they're horny. Especially when it comes to young women, people will do almost anything to get with them. You aren't a pretty young girl in her early 20s, you literally wouldn't know. Every time I don't assume that's why the man is interacting with me (within reason -I.e at a club, he's being flirty, etc) I'm wrong. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:33 AM
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Op didn't talk about a man being assaulted. That's a serious thing and he should definitely fight back. Op just wrote a crappy ass post about something he doesn't understand, in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:23 AM
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What kind of women are you even talking about? I've never seen this happen outside of the internet. Like ever. Who on earth hits a random stranger unprovoked and then expects other people to defend her with their lives???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:22 AM
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Unless you also hit someone, no one has any right to hit you. Especially not over a Hat. Would it be obnoxious to take someone's hat in a club? To some people yes. There are very little scenarios where physical violence towards anyone is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:21 AM
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The issue is that he acts as if that's why we're scared. Not only was his scenario completely unrealistic and weird, the whole post makes no sense. Women are explaining in this thread why we're scared, and that is has nothing to do with what op said. You choose to dodge the point. Its not only about rape, but violence. A man could easily smack me in the head just to steal my belongings. There's not much I could do due to the physical strength differences. Some dude might be drunk and angry at li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:17 AM
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We are literally talking about the fear women have of strange men. That factor is why some women might be scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:16 AM
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Laser focus on trying to get laid doesn't describe all men or even a majority of them, and even for those who want just that, there's nothing wrong with it. Like someone who's focused on scoring will just ignore you if you reject him to talk to a girl that's interested. The physical differences and what some men do is really scary though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:15 AM
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Men are definitely scared of other men and it makes sense why they would feel that way. I bet op knows this too. I'm not sure why the fear women have for men Is so antagonized, given the fact that men are much more stronger than women and perfectly capable to hurt them a lot. This and given most women have had at least 2 or 3 really shitty experiences with men throughout their lives(not talking about being heartbroken or cheated on or things like that, but being followed, harassed, just encounte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:13 AM
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Taking someone's hat un a club and dancing with it would be seen as flirty, it's kind of socially acceptable to do that. On the street, alone tho? Something else. Like if a man touches me while I dance in the club I'll just tell him I'm not interested, there's no reason to be scared, he will probably back off and the security is there, plus girls never really go to clubs alone, you got your friends there. If a man just started petting me on a dark alley while I'm alone I'd be Hella fkin scared. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:10 AM

Maybe you do, and they're into that shit. Or they have 0 survival skills. Who knows? Or maybe those women don't exist entirely. Maybe you forgot to take the meds. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:17 AM

Maybe you give off serial killer vibes. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 AM

You should have reported that. The fact that you were able to smack her and get away with it is a privilege that women in the same situation as you sometimes don't have. Men have much more physical strength than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:38 AM

You realize that not all sex offenders are caught and that the rate is different depending on the country? Like I'm sure that none of those men who kept hitting on me despite knowing I was a minor are on any lists, even though they should be. What do statistics have to do with what's being discussed here?? Do you not hear clearly? We all have bad experiences, multiple of them, with creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:36 AM

What do you actually mean? What are you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:34 AM

What do you mean? Every woman I know has at least a few instances of encountering creeps. I sure have. What do you mean "you've never run into an actual one?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:32 AM

Masculine men put women in their feminine energy and role. The masculine LEADS. It all starts and ends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:17 PM

Pretty much! Whenever I play scander with even the scrawniest of my male friends, i struggle to keep my hand off the table. Mind you I'm not anorexic or unfit by any means. The male strength is just much bigger than women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:10 AM
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We used to do this shit in kindergarten to younger kids or kids with dissabilities "Why is timmy's test different to miiineeee? No faiiiir :(" "why did diabeeto get the other ice-cream? No fair! Hmph!" Men and women are different. We have different needs, there are different expectations placed on us and we act differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:30 PM
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Treat them the way you treat men. Common courtesy is the amount of respect you give to strangers, as long as they haven't bothered you, haven't been a bitch and also show you that basic kindness. Women aren't intricate or hard to understand. We don't expect anymore from you then we expect from anyone else, regardless of gender. They're strangers. You can't always bend over backwards for everybody. And even if you were seeking advice over how to be curteous, you'd need a good manners guide, not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:37 PM
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Most takes there are absolutely horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:31 PM
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You dont need to understand women, you need to treat them with common courtesy and that's it. Open the door for them if they're carrying something heavy, say sorry if you bump into them, don't cut in line, if you see someone who's pregnant you might want to let them sit down on the bus, but that's about it with strangers. The women who are close to you will tell you their boundaries and needs. You can respect them or choose not to. It's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:08 PM

No. A relationship is only monogamous after it has been discussed that it is in fact a monogamous relationship. You should be fucking bithces in that time frame of freedom. Not being a prissy tool You're not redpilled. You're pussy boy pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:30 AM
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Please stop calling yourself red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:01 AM

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:54 PM

Nvm, you sound like a teenage girl. Have a nice day, "redpilled" "man".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:54 PM
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I'm actually all for paternity test at birth. If the woman feels unsafe she can go to a shelter. She was the one who betrayed her partner. To me, that's also abusive. Definitely not on the same level as lying hands on your partner, but it's still bad. If you're in an abusive relationship and instead of planning an escape you just fuck someone else raw, then you're already messed up as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:19 PM
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No idea why. I personally wouldn't. Nah, I do call women egotistical for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 PM
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That's not how standards are measured. Standards are measured by the market. If no one else but single moms hit on you, and you want something better than a single mom, your standards are too high. There are almost 80 million single mothers in the USA. Rejecting 80 million people sounds like high standards to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:05 AM
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There is no biological reason, the reason is entirely social conditioning. Pre agricultural evolution, everyone was fucking everyone and the children were raised by the whole community. After we began keeping animals and growing our own food, men needed to pass down their property to someone. That's when they started treating women as property too. Before that, we acted like bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:05 AM
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I'm empathetic towards men who are sent to war, men who are disabled, men who work blue collar jobs, men who lost their families. Not egomaniacs who are obsessed with their own sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:03 AM
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Yes, it has to do with your ego. You're not scared because you're way more physical capable to defend yourself. Would you rather that your child isn't yours or would you be rather mauled by a tiger? I do understand it because I'm not autistic. But its still just an ego thing. If it's about the child and not the relationship (meaning the lying and deceiving), it can only be about ego. Oh no, the child I raised isn't biologically mine, the horror. Ok and? That's still your child, because you liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 AM
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What else could it be that's put in danger??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 AM
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Please calm down, I'll try to explain it again. Being fearful for your life is one thing, and being afraid your partner strayed is another. You can search for evidence, you can ask your partner, but you cant openly ask if they'll ever hit you. They're completely different things. You can't talk to your partner about the abuse they're putting you through. The only solution is to literally flee. No one gets scared without a reason to get scared. You being scared Is different than your partner chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:39 AM
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I do understand that it hurts to be lied and deceived by your partner like that. Infidelity would hurt me just as much as it would hurt you, and I'd be really, REALLY hurt if my long term partner got pregnant by a man. Me being a lesbian doesn't mean I'm stupid or not empathetic. Instead of seeing it as grounds for divorce, stable, healthy people would analyze their behavior. Are you in a relationship? I find that people on healthy relationships can reason enough to not break up instantly when p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:19 AM
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I think that's just how you see it. One is for safety, and the other is more of an ego thing. I'm a lesbian, and if I found out my way shorter partner who's 20kgs lighter than me had a go bag, I'd personally analyze my behaviour, I'd try to understand what made her scared, especially with me not being the most stable person. That man doesn't look too table either to me, since his first taught was automatically divorce. My partner sometimes acusses me of cheating without any basis due to her self…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:49 AM
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Go bags are a tool of defense against abuse. The dv rate is low, but it's sucks when you get stuck in an unpleasant situation and you aren't prepared to leave. Paternity tests are a whole other thing. If you have no reason to believe your partner cheated, it's very weird to ask for one. That's why I think all kids should be tested at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:40 AM
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Perfectly fine, no trafficking there, if the babies are healthy, then by all means go ahead!! Just please pay those factory workers that make them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:34 PM
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You're naive if you think it's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:44 PM
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Sperm and eggs are ok imo, but using someone as a personal incubator just rubs me the wrong way, especially given the fact that human trafficking goes into it a lot of times, or that really poor women choose this. I believe there's a reason it's illegal in a lot of countries, but donating sperm or eggs or breast milk isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:42 PM
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Extremely condescending and uneeded post. Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:33 PM
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Sure, we're useless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:12 AM
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And women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:05 AM
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Yall are also the cause for chlamydia. Also, the reason why you have internet to write this comment is because of a woman. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:05 AM

Sorry you view beautiful women that way. I personally don't. I don't know any mortal woman that's not a celebrity that has that many men interested in her sexually, nevermind romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:35 AM

You never asked my question. Not really that it's triggering, I find your response really emotionally charged and I don't understand why you would care so much about people wanting to appear more attractive. Ofcourse women will do everything to seem more attractive to men if they're straight. That's the most logical course of action. I always wear makeup and dress in a way that makes me look good when I know I'm going to see my partner. I would call it simp behaviour, but not necessarily in a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:56 AM

All of that has no value if you don't also like/love/lust over whoever lusts over you. Only egomaniacs want that. Healthy people want whoever they love to love them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:52 AM

Selling your dignity is a pretty big price. I can also get money by donating blood or selling my own organs, and I have to do next to nothing. Still, does it sound appealing? Most men aren't being sent to war in today's age. Specifically in the EU. During an emergency, the first evacuated are children and the elderly. Women are given priority due to their more active role in raising ckhildren. Had more been more involved, more so than women, it would have been different. People will likely look …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:40 AM

Why do you care so much about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:04 AM
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No bubble burst here. Yes, love fades for lazy ass people. Do you still buy her flowers every week? Make sure she finishes multiple times every session? Tease eachother all day, even outside, with comments or subtle touches, knowing what will happen when you get home? Do you cook for her? Rub her feet? Make her compliments? We still do all of this Years later, and more. It's not always milk and honey, but when it isn't, we do our best to fix it. The honey moon stage doesn't just end or go away. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:44 AM

Fuck out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:32 AM

What's even the point of this post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:29 AM
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All of this doesn't matter. It's not ok to lie to someone about liking them just so you're not lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:40 AM
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Let me get this straight. You think it's ok to just lie to someone about liking them so you don't end up alone? You think it's ok to use someone like that? And I don't reffer to casual relationships. Most of us had that one night stand we aren't really proud of. Im reffering to a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:05 PM
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We are talking about a clearly negative scenario. There's nothing positive about being trapped in a loveless relationship. There's nothing positive about dead bedrooms, pain, rejection, and being lonely despite being married on paper. People deserve marriages and relationships full of love, happiness, great memories, sex, intimacy and desire for one a other. Appreciates "me" for what? Keeping them company? That's very selfish of them. Their decision doesn't mean shit. All that it means is that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:52 PM
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Yes, I'm ok, thanks for checking in. The OP clearly talks about it clearly. People getting into relationships with people they don't really want, just so they're not lonely. Obviously this is not good for them long term. This shouldn't happen. People should get in relationships with people they actually like. Most people manage to do this. However, there are some psycho narcissistic pos that do otherwise. They waste people's time and hurt their feelings. They might even trap them in a loveless m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:37 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:29 PM
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Rape and raping a corpse are separate from sex. It's obviously not the same thing and I was obviously reffering to sexually healthy people. You dont get to define romance. A lot of people find ons enjoyable and romantic. It can include leaving, or getting breakfast together. It could lead to a relationship, or a friendship, or just pleasant memories. It's a consensual sexual encounter, two adults enjoying eachother. Thats pretty romantic to people who aren't on the asexual spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:48 PM
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Swap it with any race that isn't you. I mainly used black men as an example because of porn tropes. Not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:45 PM
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Not a guy. Yeah? Everyone is aware of that? That doesn't mean that people in general are asexual like you. Sex includes the whole body, and a breathing, consenting, enthusiastic partner who also stimulates you mentally. If someone only needed that specific part to feel wanted and to be satisfied, they'd get a toy.. Yeah?? I never pretended otherwise? ONS are still romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:25 PM

Some things are obvious, or theres plenty of research over it that's one click away. People are free to document themselves. There's no need to spoon feed links to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:04 PM
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What does this even mean??? Yes, being sexually attracted to someone means liking them. It's more than just wanting to touch their genitals, although having someone want to touch your genitals that youre also attracted to is pretty special. It's how most romantic relationships start, it's what keeps a relationship alive, and it's what separates romance from friendship. Are you asexual by any means? That's what you sound like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:02 PM
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They were obligated to choose you. You weren't actually chosen. Then get a pet and a roommate. You don't get to fuck over someone, waste their best years and their best chance at finding love. This crabs in a bucket mentality is really shitty of you. Imagine if your wife of 20 years only married you for money and you found her jerking off to black men, while she refuses to touch you for months on end. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:23 PM
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Good for you, then this thread and comment isn't directed to you. The OP pushes to "normalize" settling out of sheer desperation and loneliness rather than actually being attracted to the person you're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:22 PM
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No, people do settle. The ones who didn't get any attention from the sex they're attracted to, so they took the first person that showed interested in them despite not being attracted to them at all. What I'm talking about is normal people who don't desire super humans. Normal people who actually like their partner as a person, desire to spend time with them, desire them sexually and romantically, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:20 PM
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No one is entitled to sex or love, but we are entitled to honesty in a relationship. Working on yourself won't fix the fact that your partner is a peice of shit that drags you down, lies and prevents you from finding someone who actually wants you just because they're scared of being alone. It's ok if you can't find love, or someone that wants you (although someone like that is weird if they really can't and there must be something terribly wrong with them), but let others do. No point in draggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:17 PM
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Women are entitled egomaniac for wanting a partner that desires them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:33 AM
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If you're only with someone out of sheer loneliness and desperation that's what will happen. Infatuation doesn't just "fade" over time. Love is even better as it ages. It turns into true commitment. The first stages are nice, sure, but there's nothing like deep, sincere love and understanding. Infatuation fades if you get with your partner out of loneliness, and if you aren't really into them. You won't put effort into someone you just tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:32 AM
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OP, the thing Is, if a woman chooses you, she actually likes you. That's the point, she has countless of options. Yet, she chose you. Women don't have that reassurance. The man didn't choose them, they were just the first one to have said yes to him. He can up and leave at any time, he will lust over other women, if a prettier girl says yes he might leave. Imagine knowing your partner is almost always trying to cheat but can't even succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:00 AM
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Has it ever dawned on you that most people don't want models, super stars or actors? We ate capable of love outside of what some crappy social media tropes push us to "like". Are Rockstar women hot? Probably, that doesn't mean I'd switch my partner which I deeply love with one of em
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:52 AM
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No, they don't. Yes, there are some shitty women that do that, but acting like all of us are like that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:50 AM
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Then you die alone. You don't get to pull someone back because you aren't capable of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:49 AM
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Wanting someone for sex is actually wanting them. Wanting someone for money is a whole other story. You don't even like them at all , you just want to use their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:45 AM
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I am head over heels for my partner, even if she's not the best looking in the room. I was always attracted to her, but now I see her as the most beautiful woman. That's what she is to me. Settling in this context means selfishly keeping someone behind despite you not wanting them, simply for company. It's just as bad as being used for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:44 AM
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Most people don't like the idea of being married if your partner or you will sleep on the couch and never touches you. Why is that hard to understand??? Or a partner that keeps staring at other people, or trying to cheat without even suceeding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:43 AM
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Tolerates you but resents you, and would leave at the drop of a hat if the right person hit on them. It's like being chosen last because they needed teams with the same number of players.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:41 AM
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God forbid women want partners that actually want them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:39 AM
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Do you not understand what she said???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:38 AM
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Yes, it is. Let the poor person you "chose" as a partner go find someone who actually wants them. I can't believe people are so selfish and scared of being alone that they would resort to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:37 AM
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Boys will be boys is a statement used to excuse certain behaviour in young boys that isn't acceptable socially. The only people who say all men are pigs are brainwashed feminists who never felt the genuine love of a man. Their father or otherwise. Toxic masculinity is when men let their emotions guide them. It could be anger, sadness, frustration, ego, whatever else. Men aren't allowed that. Men are the pillars of our society and should act as such. Why do you care that a random woman called you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:00 PM
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They literally aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:49 PM
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I'm a female. Most of my female friends agree. Boys will be boys is literally used as a scape goat. Unmasculine behaviour is excused in men, masculine behaviour is not punished. No one will punish you for developing a stoic stance, for protecting those close around you, not taking any bullshit from anyone whatsoever, never whining and moaning and doing your own shit. Actual masculinity is useful for society the way actual femininity is used for society. Playing pool, having a beer gut, stinky ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:33 PM
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I think men's masculinity shouldn't be rooted in women. Men are the pillars, certainly not women. When Men are masculine, women are naturally feminine and submissive. If men can't even find solutions and instead complain like women do, why would women be feminine??? Men are supposed to lead women. Men are supposed to set an example. If they succeed, women will follow. That's the woman's job. To follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:38 PM

Do you think that keeping people alone in the house will result in more babies???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:24 PM

What are you trying to say? We aren't swans, we are humans. We don't "pair" like that. We need to be more sexual in general, everyone, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:19 PM

Why are you asking this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:18 PM

Wasn't my intention. I don't have a bias towards neither women or men. I have a bias towards the greater good for our society. People socializing more and having more sex will lead to lowered depression rates, lowered suicide rates and more children, which will lead to a better economy. We need to encourage men to stop being afraid and actually talk to women. It's better for men and for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:13 PM

Female language isn't a thing. If men don't talk to women it's because they're unsure of their abilities. They lack confidence. They're insecure. We need to teach men to be more confident, more impulsive, and more decisive. Both men and women should take more action, but we mainly place the expectation on men to take a more active approach. If we stop slut shaming and encouraging women to take initiative in dating too, then it'll be perfect! We don't need to further inhibit men. So what if the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:07 PM

Not everything is misogynistic. Get over yourself. Young girls can't get their rocks off either, that's the issue!!! Maybe you're asexual, the rest of us surely aren't. Do you really think that women aren't sexual beings?? You think we aren't human? You think we don't have needs??? Go check your hormones. Why on earth would anyone marry anyone without having sex first??? Some people are gay, they need to experiment to find that out. Some people are incompatible. We don't need even more dead bedr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:04 PM

The advice we should give to men is to be less insecure, and to go out and fuck some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:49 PM

You literally admitted to people being less sexual now. I think you should explore the matter. There are plenty of materials on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:39 PM

I'm not interested in the gender wars bullshit, or who does what. We need to stop slut shaming, and we need to push our young men out more. We need to encourage them when it comes to interacting with women, instead of just letting them give up and turn to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:35 PM

Slut shaming is way more common now than it was in the 2000s and the 80s. As I said, the last 2 gens are the least sexual generations ever since the golden generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 PM

Chill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 PM

I'm not only talking about casual sex, I'm also talking about relationships and marriages. Why so many dead bedrooms??? Why so many single adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 PM

Unruly kids?? Who said anything about criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:31 PM

If we don't push young people to socialize so they have children, there won't be children to create a healthy home life. And the little children there will be, they'll grow depressed and asocial, struggling so much in their adult life with work that they'll be more likely to kill themselves. Why do yall demonize sex and socialization so much?? Has it really gotten this bad, are we really THIS prudish???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:28 PM

The benefit of what? Us not dying? Us not having to work until we are 80? Not having to sustain a population of over 60% elderly people? People being happy and sexually liberated? Being able to express and explore your own sexuality? Having children? Socializing?? Benefits to normal people, probably. The undesirables can cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:26 PM

Care to further explain??? The big problem is the state of our economy and the fact that we don't push younger people to socialize more. Instead, we force them to socialize less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:18 PM

Stay away from eachother sexually? Until they're 30? How are they supposed to learn how to be sexual then? How are they supposed to understand what they like and what they want? Young people are the most interested in sex. That's when they're the most fertile, and able to raise children. You think a 40 year old will run after their kids in the park? They won't have the patience nor the physical abilities to do that by that age. We should have free health care everywhere, and free Healthcare is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:15 PM

You are absolutely right, the economic crisis we are going through is also a huge factor that influences our birth rates, maybe the biggest one. However, you don't need money to fuck. You do need money to raise kids, but definitely not to have sex. And most young people aren't having it, both men and women. Some of them even think they'll never get married or find a long term partner, they have a bad view of the opposite gender and generally don't look up to the future in a good light. Healthy y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:00 PM

There are 0 benefits of people staying with one partner apart from offering comfort to some undesirables..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:55 PM

Not having enough babies is a crisis. What you wrote there are basically baseless theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:47 PM

How are they racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:45 PM

Single moms are better than a literal dying population, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:45 PM
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A small portion of men. What I meant is that men don't do it at the rates they used to, which is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:27 PM
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Depends, because there are extremes. I think in general women have it easier. Nowadays though, men aren't really men, so I would argue that they have it easier. They don't build shit Most of the time, they don't defend their land, don't work manly jobs... might as well just wear wigs and put in implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:15 PM
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Clearly. Why do you care that they also want women in the office? You know they're useless either way. Go be a man and find a place that sees your value. Can't find any? Maybe you over estimated your qualities. Go become a plumber. No women there guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:25 AM
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Loneliness??? Loneliness is the environment in which men THRIVE. Women are meant to sit around and chatter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:54 PM
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You aren't supposed to have it easier because you're literally capable of more. Sitting around and comparing yourself to a woman while moaning. You're worse than those highschoolers comparing themselves to 8 year Olds. What's next? Are you gonna wear a pink skirt and shop for Dyson air wraps with the squad? You think men commit suicide and moan about this type of shit? The men are too busy keeping things running smoothly to think about silly shit like this. This is what the problem is, some "men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:38 AM
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Your mistake is seeing emotion in women as a bad trait. It's not. Emotion doesn't mean lack of control. It simply means emotion, it means femininity. Masculine men don't get emotional and they surely don't talk about feminism. Go build a fortress or something. Women sit around and talk about feminism. You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:58 AM
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No need to. I don't feel like fucking every woman I see on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:56 AM
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Better than women? Depends in what way. I don't believe in equality, I believe in equity. I think a working man shouldn't be expected to cook and clean at all, if his wife is at home all day, or works a bullshit job just for fun, and he makes money to spoil her and the children. I think his wife should submit to him in every way, make him all the meals he requests, and she should go over the top to please him in any way. Do the best to look good for him. Real men deserves virgin, beautiful, devo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:53 AM
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No, men are supposed to be stoic. You are the pillar of our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:17 AM
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Because it's worse in men. Women are meant to be emotional and sensitive. Men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:39 AM
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Ofcourse, but it's worse in males. No one likes someone who can't cook a basic dish either, but it's muuuuch worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:39 AM
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If you're really willing to have sex with just about any body, you aren't a healthy person, you're either desperate/frustrated oe hypersexual. We need to stop describing male sexuality like this. Male sexuality absolutely isn't like this, and men are capable of seeing women as more than things to have sex with, and capable of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:31 AM
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I think that we should view wanting sex with someone as less perverted and weird than we do now. Sex can also be pure, a way of expressing love and affection. It's ok to want to bang your friends. Not sure why it's predatory. You can wanna bang and still see them as full people with enjoyable company.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:11 PM
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"Take some time off the internet". You can tell me that it only happens online without making assumptions about how I live my life or dirrectly addressing me. This is a debate sub, not a therapy office.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:39 PM
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Sorry, it's weak behaviour to absolutely expect cuddles after sex like you're a middle schooler. F off with that crap. Some people like their space
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:54 PM
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Saying things like these, and using personal remarks is against the sub's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:53 PM
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Yes, for a man it's weird. For anyone, it's really weird. Offer your partner space if that's what they want, you aren't a 18 year old high-school girl who just lost her virginity ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:52 PM
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Yeah, the girl was wearing them pants. All jokes aside, i hate the notion that I'm obligated by law to cuddle after sex. Some people prefer space afterwards, me included. Wanna cuddle? Go home to your pet or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:51 PM
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You'd be surprised. No personal remarks, please. It's literally against the sub's rules. Stay on subject, and stay out of my personal life that you literally know nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:50 PM
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Historically, everyone was fkin with everyone, and everyone helped raise every child, as a village. Where do you think the "it takes a village" saying comes from? When property became a thing, it was in men's interest to know who their child was, to know who to pass property too (land, animals, whatever). After that, the human population met a significant drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:18 AM
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If as a man, you thin⁰k that you re the prize, then you aren't a man. "I'm the prize" is that XX bullshit you're talking about. What's next? Going for a Brazilian wax? Calling her mom to make her her favorite childhood meal? Painting your nails the color of her nip?? Expecting flowers??? Cumming first??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:57 AM
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Please, no personal remarks. How is it not predatory? Not in the way it actually is, because there's nothing problematic about healthy male sexuality. I'm talking about the way some men choose to portray it (their sexuality being their sole motivator, not being able to pair bond, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:42 AM
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That's why i said in multiple comments that it's a minority of men that say this shit. All yall here to discuss or are you just here to nitpick and yap about what about? Literally said that it's weird how some men claim all men just want to spread their genes when over half of the men are married, obviously meaning they're monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:42 AM
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I don't think people should focus on who's at fault, but rather how to fix it. It's both parties' responsibility to fix it, 50/50. If one or both isn't willing to work on it, a breakup is the only solution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:19 PM
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Why? I still listen to them and do my best to intentionally support them. Like, I also find playing with my nieces very annoying, but i still do them and do my best to participate and be excited to play, because I love them and I know they enjoy it when I also play with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:39 PM
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I think the way someone approaches really matters, and I personally haven't seen men approaching women (of close ages to be clear) Called creeps as long as they weren't literally acting creepy. I was certainly talking about a specific scenario, and you chose to run to it. No, it's not normal to hit on absolutely every woman that lives in the same city as you. It denotes desperation, and it also shows those women that You're not actually interested in them and would settle for anyone. Yeah, corny…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:19 PM
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I don't view asking and pursuing women as predatory at all, in fact i think that the only women who see it as predatory ar those fat and ugly women who are literally jealous of their better looking friends. Cock blockers if you will. I think we should encourage men to approach women they like more, as long as they also back off when needed. What I do see as kind of weird is asking absolutely any girl out, despite not finding her attractive. I understand it's good practice but there's just someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:01 PM
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What does that have to do with the discussion at hand? I wasn't talking or asking about women at all. I don't want to engage in what about isms. I asked a simple question, because I want to understand male sexuality better. I already understand female sexuality since I'm a woman and I date women. I find that I relate more to men, and I try to understand also in an effort of understanding myself. There is no problem, since most men aren't like that. How can I expand on a question??? I have no rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:50 PM
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Obviously. What I'm interested in, is how this "spreading my seed" rhetoric is justifiable for men in some peoples eyes but not for women, when in both genders they produce better offspring with sexual variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:29 PM
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I have no expectation of that, and furthermore, this is a debate sub. You shouldn't get personal at all. Answer my question, or don't bother answering any further because I won't be engaging. What I don't understand about the spread the seed bullshit Is the contrast between the expectations placed o men and the ones placed on women. Both genders have better chances of producing better offspring if they have access to sexual variety. If women don't go around spouting "i have to spread my genes" r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:22 PM
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Ok, then what's the reason men generally prefer smaller/cute partners? Again, please refrain from personal remarks. This isn't therapy 101. Stay on subject
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:06 PM
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I know the logic behind it, it's just that females have better chances of offspring being healthy if they mate with more males.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:05 PM
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I wouldn't say that not having a beard resembles children. Male beauty standards point way less towards child like attributes when compared to women's. I literally didn't say that, i myself prefer petite women. Not projecting anything, it's just what it is. No personal attacks please :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:02 PM
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I don't understand what you're pointing at. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:54 PM
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1st it resembles children 2nd most men want that for the same reason I do, i can do whatever I want to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:52 PM
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Both females and males produce better offspring if they have sexual variety
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:51 PM
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Though I'm guilty of this too, preferring way shorter/ petite/ cutesy women, smaller framed women, specifically because i can do whatever the fuck I want to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:16 PM

Never saw that happen, unless the woman was already planning to leave, but she didn't have enough money to safely do it. I have more guy friends than girl friends. Straight girls often times avoid lesbians, because they see us as predatory in a way, more than they would see men with the same/worse behaviour. I came out pretty early, in my pre teen years, so all my childhood I was surrounded by boys and hung out with them. That only changed when i became interested in sex/romantic relationships m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:11 PM
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It's not only this sub, some men talk about male sexuality in a very weird way, with all the "spread my seed" bullshit and honestly the porn they enjoy. If women talked about men like that for a while, you'd be rightfully creeped out too. Obviously not all men talk about their sexuality like that, but there's a certain chunk that does. I'm trying to understand it better, is all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:31 AM

You are really over exaggerating what I said. I never said men are inherently toxic, or that they need to bully themselves into being feminine and submissive. I think its cool that women are trusted more with certain things, and men with others. For example, I hate when my Uber driver is a female. Women cause more road accidents, have worse reflexes and generally they're bad drivers. I would trust a woman to recommend a certain makeup brand or I'll trust that they'll give me a sanitary product i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:29 AM

We literally do. In my area, roma people act horribly, harassing people on the street, stealing dogs and then literally asking the owner for a "caution" so the they give the dog back to them, beg (aggressively), shit on the street everywhere, steal, break public property, hit people for seemingly no reason, I could go on. For this reason, they are largely avoided. Sure, I've met some great roma people, but when there's a 50/50 chance they'll hurt you or leave you alone, you tend to be cautious, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:21 AM
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No woman is loved unconditionally. The condition is that she has to act a certain way, weight a certain amount, be white, have a certain complexion, have a certain behaviour pattern, have a certain voice, not be Hairy, have a certain bone structure, have pleasant features, a small frame... I could go on. All of these ARE CONDITIONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:15 AM

Isn't sending gifs as reactions kinda against the rules? I simply asked you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:15 AM
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Is it not predatory? In the way the red pill and the dudes here express it, it seems largely predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:22 AM
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5 is literally average and a pretty high score
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:18 AM
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I think that men get thrown shade at when they express preferences in an unpolite manner. You can express that you like thicker girls without calling anyone an ironing board, and you can express that you are attracted to tall, graceful and thin girls without calling anyone a land whale. Don't call anyone disgusting, don't bring anyone down, just state NICELY what you like/preffer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:17 AM
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Yes, at some point in my life I felt no need to settle down and casual sex was making me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:25 AM
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Yes, it does. I find it extremely annoying when people of both genders tell me about their problems or complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:24 AM
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Casual sex can also be fulfilling for some people. At a point, it was for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:14 PM
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If you don't want to feel hollow, change the way you see women, and the way you see sex with women. Understand that you're not hurting them or breaking their heart. You're two consenting adults enjoying eachother and having a fun time. It's like saying that you playing ping pong with a stranger at the park and never talking to them afterwards would live you hollow and make you feel like someone who bails on people. No, you just enjoyed a day together and then parted ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:38 AM
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Justify what???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:22 AM
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Ok, and? Plenty of men like it when their female partners shave for them, without their partners expecting their male partners to also be cleanly shaven and smelling like strawberries and warm vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:52 AM
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That would be sad. We should do things just because we should, and we shouldn't do things just because we shouldn't. Like, someone burying their mother isn't a good time to crack a yo mama joke, and it would be really shitty to close the door in someone's face. What's with some people and the anti social behaviour? We're humans, we act like like it or go live alone in the woods if that's perhaps what some prefer. The normal ones definitely prefer common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:50 AM
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You're not really arguing in good faith either. Reading erotica doesn't mean you do it to pleasure yourself, or that you're incapable of feeling arousal for anyone else than an imaginary half wolf half vampire macho mafia boss Italian gang man. You can watch porn with black chicks all you want, if you only ever date white women ill know what your type is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:46 AM
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Yes? If they don't eat animal produce, they're vegan. If a dude only jerks off to gay porn but only dates women, and only fucks women, I'm not gonna call him gay. Plenty of men watch gay porn without being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:45 AM
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Sure man, man milk or sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:21 AM
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It's not really settling, I think social media set unrealistic standards for both genders and relationships in general. I think men should look at real women more instead of egirls. As for sex, that's something that you have to practice to get good at, typically with every new partner. There's no "bad at sex" partner, there are just partners who are willing to learn and eager to please you, and there are partners who refuse to learn and are generally unenthusiastic. Your job is to be the first o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:06 AM
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It's not really common for your husband to have a thing for your fucking sister, I'll tell you that. 2nd, you can't be so self centered to think that once you get with someone, their whole sexuality has to spin all around you. I'm a woman and I think of other people other than my partner sometimes when I pleasure myself, yet I've never really had any thoughts of cheating on her or really found anyone irl attractive besides her. I'm sure she feels the same, and I'm sure she also found other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:02 AM
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Hey dude, prolactin is a hormone released from the anterior pituitary gland, that stimulates producing milk after childbirth, for the newborn, and certain development for the breast tissue. Men don't have it. What you said is absolutely hilarious and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:58 AM
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Why Blame the women tho? Clearly OP is exaggerating, or has like 2 friends who are shitty men. You're right, there's no way there are 12+ men who keep saying they got bored if their girlfriend's vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:56 AM
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Both genders bond through sex. Both genders are also perfectly capable of bonding with multiple people in their life time, through sex. Women aren't swans, of penguins, or whatever else monogamous animal. Most humans are serial monogamists. They don't just find a singular partner and if that fails they're broken and never the same again. If that were the case, women wouldn't be attracted to anyone else during or after the relationship. Again, that's not the case. All scientific evidence points t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:54 AM

The men should just kiss the women's ass if they wanna get laid, and then talk shit behind their backs like they always did. But no, now they want equality, like those insane wine drinking cat lovers feminists did. Look at yall, you thought about your feelings a bit too long and now you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:17 PM
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I listen to them yap about their problems. I know a lot of people don't give them the time of day and view them as weak, so no matter how annoying it is (coming from both) I make an extra effort to listen to men vs to women because I know women usually have tighter knit social circles, and that there's likely always someone listening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:13 PM
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