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Nope. It's because you aren't ltr material or she's not seeking a ltr at the moment/she doesn't want a ltr with you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 AM
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Why? Why is it a straw man? It's the same thing. Better yet, force the husbands to wear chastity cages. If they don't plan to bang any chicks, it shouldn't be an issue, right? Install a screen mirroring app to see what your so is up to at any time of day, despite them never showing signs of infidelity. But that's cruel and unhinged, and shows untrust, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:26 PM
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I fully support this. Also let wives know when their husband has a woman with another child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:04 PM
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Let me put a spin on it:why do a man's feelings matter more than the safety of the child? Children need to grow in happy families. See how stupid that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:03 PM
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Everyone should and does lie about the numbers of partners they had in the past. Men or women. Men lie to seem more experienced and women lie to seem more pure. Both are equally as fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:27 AM
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Men have lived without porn for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:09 AM
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Being accused out of thin air and landing in jail on the basis of looking creepy are different. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:19 PM
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dismissal of mental health issues -women are less likely to get diagnosed properly -less likely to be medicated accordingly -more likely to be prescribed birth control/have their issues thrown aside as female hysteria -psych meds are tested on male subjects, to the detriment of women, this means inaccurate results -women are 4 times more likely to suffer with mental health issues -post partum is still not properly understood when it comes to the mental issues that come with it -autism is way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:23 AM
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Nope. They get pumped with roids and other stuff so they last long. Their penis gets hurt/bent. They become impotent soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:41 PM
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I'm anti plastic. What do you want me to do about it? Invent a time machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:20 PM
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Sexual cartoons that depict children. That's what I'm reffering to. What are you trying to argue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:41 AM
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Much better, safer alternative. As long as it doesn't depict children, animals, incest, or non consensual activity, I think it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:40 AM
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You're right. I hate the fast fashion industry, I'm a huge adept of trifting or buying good quality pieces that will last a lifetime, possibly passing it to next generations(like animal fur coats, for example) and I also hate overconsumerism. People out there are getting new phone every year for no reason. I've had mine for 3 years, it's an old model. The only time I buy a new phone is when the cost of repairing the old, unusable one is higher than purchasing a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:43 AM
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No one is above the law. You need to offend to end up in prison, and it has to be a pretty damn metal offense to end up there. No one is sending you there for looking creepy. If you really are a danger to yourself and others mentally ill, you'll be send to an institution over night. That's about it. Even if you do something creepy enough, you have the right to a lawyer and a fair trial. Unless there's substantial proof for your wrong doings, you'll be out and about in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:12 AM
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Unless you're harassing someone, you likely won't end up in jail. I'm not sure where this is coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:10 AM
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We can agree to disagree here. God forbid people aren't allowed to draw child porn, porn including bestiality or incest. They're religious beliefs? They're allowed to be mad over whatever they want? I'm allowed to believe bestiality, incest and pedophilia is wrong and it shouldn't be depicted in a positive/erotic light? It's literally not. Plenty of porn stars have shared their experience with this. Good that they're getting tested, I still don't believe they never get hurt. Genitals are sensiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:02 AM
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That sounds like literal highschool girls. Thats the kind of conversations teenagers have. People in my age group definitely don't act like that. That's definitely not the case. The issue areises when you try to please anyone. You should Have a sound moral background, please yourself and please your partner. You don't have the obligation to be attractive to every female human on this planet. Some girl saying she doesn't like whatever male haircut online shouldn't affect you personally. You'll li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:55 AM
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That's not what reading the room is. You can definitely tell when someone's interested or not. Not with a 100% accuracy, ofcourse. But you can definitely guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:52 AM
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Pardon?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:51 AM
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Thank you for archair diagnosing me lmfao. God forbid I wanna do something meaningful instead of being a ho online. I'm a femcel because I don't post content online? Being better means posting videos of puss online?? Aside from top pornstars, most of them don't even make money. My value is not placed solely on my looks. I look good enough for myself and my partner. To me, that's personally what matters. I am absolutely not jealous of content creators, no matter how they look. I've never in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:51 AM
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Some industries are necessary for human survival. Porn isn't one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:41 AM
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I really don't want to get into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:40 AM
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I have already shared my stance over it. It's unethical because it supports and feeds into a predatory industry. Because it's not. If it includes real actors, it's not possible. You won't even share your stance over it. You're actively trying to corner me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:39 AM
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Try to not nitpick. Then why is it still being produced, huh? Why are people asking for personalized content? Why are porn addicts seeking content on niche sites? You might see it as dishonest. It's a horrible industry that exploits. Obviously not every person in the industry is exploited, the critical point is that we need to stop sexual exploitation to the best of our abilities. !!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:22 PM
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Why don't you research for a bit yourself? I feel like I'm writing an essay, this starts to feel like you're arguing in good faith. There are 4.8 million people trafficked into the sex industry every year. I'm glad that most actors aren't forced. However, as I've said before, I care about people's safety more than the quality of someone's fap session. Those adults feed into a predatory industry, that hurts the viewers and everyone involved, as I said. Because that's what the industry leads to! I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:21 PM
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I get to have a personal point of over it just like you like to be the thought police when it comes to my pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:15 PM
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I haven't consented to people pissing in the streets. You're right. Some people don't care. Doesn't change the fact that it hurt everybody. You might be watching porn of someone who hasn't consented to being filmed or to participating in those sexual acts uh oh. People who are trafficked in the industry actively suffer because people keep feeding into said industry. Their partners likely never consented to being in a relationship with a porn addict. Most definitely! The thing is, porn isn't nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:14 PM
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Try to not nitpick. Then why is it still being produced, huh? Why are people asking for personalized content? Why are porn addicts seeking content on niche sites? You might see it as dishonest. It's a horrible industry that exploits. Obviously not every person in the industry is exploited, the critical point is that we need to stop sexual exploitation to the best of our abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:10 PM
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That's not a good argument. I could probably spend a life time eating every kind of apple out there. That doesn't change the fact that there's a food shortage. Shockingly it is! Because people ask for custom content or more extreme content. Prostitution (goes hand in hand with porn) is also supply-short.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:58 PM
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I said I think it should be banned everywhere. I am but a human, I can't do shit to change the way the world works, and i 100% cannot single handedly stop a multi billion dollar industry. I fully believe it has to stop. There's not much I can do about it but not watch it myself. The argument was about people's bodies, their choices, etc. I gave a comparison. If people can piss and spit on the streets, why can't I free bleed? It's the same thing, no? The point is, we shouldn't br able to do thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:57 PM
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Common sense. The source is common sense. They definitely do. I'm still against ballet, if that helps. That's literally one site and it took them years. There has been a case of an underaged girl that was drugged and filmed while being raped. It took a lawsuit and multiple months for PH to take that video down. If banning porn saves even one person from that, I'm literally all for it. People's safety and livelyhood will always be more important for me than the satisfaction of someone's orgasm. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:52 PM
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You're correct! But it would absolutely slow down the production. I'm not completely against porn, just porn that exploits and hurts. I think ai and animations could replace it realistically. I also have nothing against couples making tapes and watching it together. As long as they're not selling it to other people. Most of it is underground anyway. Why does it matter? Do I have the right to free bleed on the bus? No, because blood is a bio hazard and it affects the people around me. Same as pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:45 PM
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I don't think anyone should be able to produce porn!! Regardless of gender. Unless it's drawn. Or produced with AI. I'm not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:42 PM
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That doesn't really matter, especially when taking into consideration that there are tons of porn addicts out there. Yeah, toes can heal and tbh I don't fuck with ballet either. It's definitely unhealthy and teachers place unreachable expectations to their students. I'd be happier if it was crocheting, reading, sport or any other things that's actually healthy. Again, there's no way to regulate it, if we are being realistic. Yes, and we should all have our rights respected and our taxes should t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:41 PM
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Nope, that's your biased interpretation of what I said. You put words into my mouth and ran for the hills. You aren't able to judge my morality properly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:35 PM
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That's your pov over it. I've definitely seen the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:34 PM
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Those are some wild assumptions. You seem to have already decided what my pov is. If you wanna argue to yourself, I'd suggest using a mirror. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:30 PM
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Anything else to add? Perhaps something valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:26 PM
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I can be worried about women who are exploited while at the same time not agree with women who put sex work in a positive light while pushing young women with actual potential into it. I hate the industry, I hate that it's predatory. I don't wish harm on any sex worker. However, I have a special place in my heart for people who pull other people down just because they're down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:25 PM
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Right, care to debate or are you here to nitpick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:23 PM
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Right, why do you think societal views over relationships and women that favor an egalitarian approach and respect for women would be less impactful over how women are viewed than.. laws over porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:23 PM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:22 PM
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There's a market for everything out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:21 PM
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I don't consider myself a feminist. Someone having a vagina isn't enough for me to like them as a person or subscribe to their views. Hope this helps!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:21 PM
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Yes, that's absolutely the case. Food is necessary though, porn isn't really so. I'm lucky to be able to buy from a farmers market. Buying from small farmers is typical where I live, to the point my partner's parents have a pretty nice piece of land where they grow vegetables and fruits. You can look at the country origin. You can avoid exotic fruits ( no need for them). That way, we can stop feeding into human slavery. Plus, there's something absolutely twisted about sexual slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:20 PM
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I won't repeat myself. This is a debate sub. What's the point of comments like these? They add nothing to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah, and cocaine use can be safe with regulation too! But it actually couldn't. Something tells me it's the same with porn. https://osf.io/a5tnb/download https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6256046/ You'll have to look into it for this one. Plenty of actors and actresses have shared their experience regarding being forced or blackmailed into filming scenes they didn't want to perform in. Why would that happen? They're surrounded by people so they're more likely to be able to ask for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:17 PM
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CORRELATION DOESNT EQUAL CAUSATION You literally said it yourself though. More gender equal societies seem to be more fond of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:04 PM
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No, I literally feel like repeatedly hitting my head into the nearest wall whenever I hear them. This is very personal, but I remember visiting my friend's childhood friend's house. I had just finished highschool, and had gotten a good grade on my exam(where I live we take an exam right after we finish highscool. The grade determines the college you get into). This childhood friend was an only fans content creator. I was talking to friend about the exam, content creator said "smart girls do only…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:04 PM
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You'll need to come up with a better argument, I'm afraid. Do you think you're able to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:59 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:58 PM
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Online spaces where members say awful things? Yeah, those are being eradicated, and I'm glad. Where I live there are a lot of male only spaces and women don't really try to intrude. Most of them include activities, such as gaming, chess, various sports, etc. I hope these spaces stay for a long time, in the same amount I hope female spaces stay around for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:58 PM
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Yeah I have some uncles who are absolute weirdos. My father has never really watched it, and has always been against it. Him and my mother are absolutely in love, and I'd guess they have an active sex life. Having watched porn at some point in their life and actively watching it EVERYDAY are very, very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:55 PM
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The porn industry literally hurts everyone involved. You can't really expect people to have empathy for your inability to get off when you fail to show empathy to trafficking victims, the male actors that are overworked and pumped with God knows what, the little girls stuck in the industry or the men who are scammed into paying thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:54 PM
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Porn isn't a healthy male space. A few decades ago men used to actually gather together and do meaningful things, changing philosophy, literature, physics or constructing things like airplanes... you mean to tell me that the most important male space Today are porn sites? That's absolutely nowhere near that! There's no socialization, there's nothing to gain from there, and it's a literally abusive industry to basically everyone involved. If you want to take part in male centered spaces and activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:52 PM
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Correlation doesn't equal causation. What's the same in those culture is animosity towards women and extremely conservative values.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:48 PM
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It's not fair that people out there are getting exploited for any number of people's sexual pleasure. In my country prostitution is illegal, but as soon as you prop up a camera, then it's suddenly legal. What's the difference? As long as it's drawn and it doesn't depict children, animals, incest or non consensual things, I'm fine with it. Anything else should be banned, in my opinion, and here's why: -female actresses oftenly end up in hospitals due to injuries caused by the filming of the video…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:44 PM
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Nope. Even socially awkward teenagers can somewhat read the room. Mentally disabled men aren't a huge chunk of the population, especially to the point of being socially handicapped. Why are we even talking about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:39 PM
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It can be easily understood with context. Yeah because people don't like admiting that what they're doing is wrong. A lot of men here just like to shit on women, and will upvote every post doing so regardless of validity. I have no way of sharing info since I'm a lesbian. The only times I've shared information is when I was violated in a way or another. That information was shared with my partner. I don't really hide things like this from her. When it comes to info about my partner, I do share s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:51 PM
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I don't care. Double standards exist everywhere and often times they're healthy. As for the difference between male and female talk in this context, I'd 100% rather be talked about like that by a woman rather than a man. Men do it in an utterly disgusting way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah I've literally heard men describe it countless of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:02 PM
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Nope. They always talk about their females partners body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:01 PM
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Nope, men definitely also go into detail, they just use vulgar terms and sort of objectify women in the process. Women talk to their female friends like literal erotica writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:58 PM
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Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:36 PM
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It's literally against the rules to not be civil. Feel free to check.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:17 PM
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I stand by what I said. It's very telling, you're actually the one projecting. Personal attacks aren't permitted here, so I chose to report your comment. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:30 PM
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Please do send over those statistics that show shy men aren't as likely to be abusive. Statistics are based on what people report. Lots of men out there being abused by their female partners who are scared to report or being laughed in the face by police officers when they do try to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:13 AM
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It definitely isn't. It's mostly desperate people in a scarcity mindset that believe they're undyingly loyal. They aren't. They're desperate. My analogy is perfectly sound. The kids who end up being chosen last are consistently being chosen last. No one actually wants to play with them, the other kids need equal teams and that's why they even get to play the game. People want to be chosen, they don't want to feel like they were at the bottom of the barrel and their partner was starving. Theres n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:11 AM
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Ehh not really. I've met really good looking men who were just too shy and they had a lot to lose when it came to dating and sex. Don't get me wrong, ugly, shy guys have way less chances, but attractive, confident guys are definitely at the top of the chain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:39 PM
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I feel like the truth upsests you. It's like being chosen last in gym class, or people using you for skills/resources. The moment a better opportunity comes along, they'll bail. They don't want you, they want someone and you happened to be avaliable. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 PM
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Shy guys settle for what they get. The moment something better comes along... wether she's a bit younger, prettier, has perkier boobs or a rounder ass... They're gonna jump at the opportunity. A man that has a lot of options but chooses you regardless is truly valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:35 PM
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Women are just as abusive and disloyal as men. Shy weird guys are just as likely to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:31 PM
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Male ego. Men like feeling powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:28 PM
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Everything is fair in love and war. I don't see women as inherently worse than men. Men do the same things women do, mostly. There's no reason why women should center men in their lives and do everything in their benefit. The only people who did that for me were my parents, and only recently my now partner, by the grace of God. After all, at the end of the day, it's you who you fall asleep with, you always got your own back and your best interest is and should always be your focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:01 PM
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That's common sense. Sex every 5 years sounds awful, like that's the worst case dead bedroom scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:04 PM
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That's probably what happens to religious women who have their sexuality shamed out of them, or women with husbands/partners who don't care about their pleasure. If you always ended up in pain/unsatisfied/both, you wouldn't want to have sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:03 PM
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Most men, especially after turning 30, stop wanting to sleep around and actually want to settle down with a wife and kids. The desire to sleep around is a trait that mostly unstable people have. Most average men are pretty well rounded, and they'll commit to a woman they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 PM
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Who do you think has more chances? A skinny fat short dude, an obese short dude, or a jacked short dude? This isn't about being a 10/10, It's about self improvement and increasing your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:05 AM
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The divorce rate hasn't been 50% in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:06 PM
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Nah not in hour case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 AM
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Nah I won't. I'll have my partner and/kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:23 PM
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Lmfao more or equally? Absolutely not. The first guy literally has a son and he just looks bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:20 PM
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Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:07 PM
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Then be single and die alone, keep moaning. What do you want me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:06 PM
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The truth hurts doesn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:05 PM
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No. Your mindset is black pilled. You have to pry sometimes, but unless they're attracted to you at least a bit from the start there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:36 PM
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This is a cope. Average men do have girlfriends and wives. Women will cry over the crustiest men if those men have certain personality traits. This is straight up black pill bullsh. Get jacked Learn how to talk to women Get a haircut Clear up your face Get some money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:34 PM
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Not only is she young, she's also really fit and somewhat attractive. Are we really surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:56 AM
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Men will troll ugly women to give them false hope or to get quick sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:51 AM
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The dating market isn't crap, but for women relationships with men nowadays are a net loss. Men don't beautify themselves for women, they don't court them and expect sex almost immediately, they could try harder with hygiene, grooming and hair triming, they're stingy, feminine, emotionally reactive... Women nowadays work and bring money inside the house. Women still do all the child care and house work Men don't make women cum everytime, sex is often unpleasant for women. All of this to have a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:46 AM
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Women are more neurotic they crave excitement and change. Men are more narcissistic. Narcissistic people have a melt down when things don't go as planned, when there's any sort of instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:06 AM
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Hitler didn't invent eugenics, fascism or anti semitis. The fact that there are still nazi circles is caused by human nature. Could have been any other monster in his place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:36 AM
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If you have a vagina you probably don't actually know what it's like. It smells like an organ. It's literally an opening to your body. That releases mucus. How do you think that smells? Sure, if it's freshly washed, it's not going to smell/taste at all. 3 hours after the last shower and it does have a certain scent. Things like using the wrong material for the underwear, changing the soap you use, using the wrong soap, etc can alter the way it smells for the worse. Even diet affects it. And I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:39 AM
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Unless it's literally fresh out of the shower, it's gonna taste like puss. There are subs for every type of dick out there too. The mental gymnastics here are insane. Porn producers know exactly what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:55 AM
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As if men don't shame women for being lose, for how they smell and how it looks. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:27 PM
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Your view of loyalty is not sleeping with anyone else. To some that's not what loyalty means, and that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:16 AM
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No female friends is un acceptable. Has a lot of female friends is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:55 PM
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You're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:49 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:30 PM
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Pursue whoever you want. I'm just telling you who you'll have more chances with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:11 PM
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They aren't attracted to you most likely. Why? Women like tall men the same way men like feminine bodied women (hourglass, small frame).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:20 PM
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Ah there it is. Hit on women who are under 5'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:17 PM
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I'm just saying that if you lack success in both romantic and friendly aspects, that might be something about you that needs fixing. Not necessarily about women as a whole. You know, one is definitely more plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:17 PM
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you admit to not having any friends online. If everywhere u go it stinks like shit, maybe check your soles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:06 PM
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Women don't turn down good looking tall men lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:06 PM
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Some times it is implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:05 PM
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Race wasn't brought up at all. You did mention women blabbering and exhibiting certain behaviors in a negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:37 PM
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Nope, you do exactly that. I gave you a simple example and you keep fighting me over my experience, nevermind calling me a liar, just to fit your narrative. The trauma in question is called being a horny teenager. I desperately wanted to have sex as a virgin/right after right broke up with my first girlfriend. Like severely desperate. The only thing that stopped me was being afraid that people would find our that I'm gay, body issues (nothing wrong with it, literally just teenage girl shit) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:36 PM
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Then you're fat or severely ugly. Or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:32 PM
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I'm not sure about that so I won't speak on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:32 PM
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No woman that's not ugly or fat has every complained about cold approaching, unless you're literally an old creepy dude trying to pick up highschool girls, being overtly sexual, stinky or really drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:29 AM
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I don't think all people of a certain race are racist. Stats don't lie though. I'm not a brain dead leftist. However, I haven't brought up race in our discussion. What kind of debate is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:28 AM
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I was under the impression that it was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:30 AM
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Probably practiced with teens their age. Nowadays, teenagers have way less sex and start having sex way later. Hooray sex Ed. No counter to what? "Wiminz are shiddy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:04 AM
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Not all porn is crappy. I'm not here to buy the bridge you're selling me. Most people watch porn before their first experience to get an idea over what they have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:35 AM
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Thats literally what everyone does before they have sex. Watch porn. They imitate what they see in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:50 AM
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We haven't ignored shit for years. Men are more likely to get properly diagnosed of mental disorders and prescribe appropriate medication. Women get the BPD label (often autism, adhd or other) and then get prescribed birth control. To this day we test psychiatric medication on male subjects, even though we absolutely and logically should test them on both f and m. Most psychiatric medication actually has way more side effects on women than benefits, and it shouldn't be like that. We have heard a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:15 AM
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I mentioned he was her second body. I have heard of plenty. You don't because you're not a woman/girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:56 AM
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The mental gymnastics are insane here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:09 PM
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They were both teenagers at that time. She asked me what lingerie she should wear before they first hooked up. I was there while she was getting ready. She decided she wanted to have sex with him. Lying is a human trait. Men do it more oftenly. Women do it more skillfully. She had no reason to lie to me. Yeah no shit that a cope ugly women use. She wasn't one of them. She wasn't fat, had great facial harmony and an hourglass body. She wanted to get some dick without being his girlfriend. Dude lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:19 AM
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You're not supposed to care. But if you scare someone they might just pepper spray you in the face. Life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:12 AM
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I've known her since childhood dude. When she got dick I was the first one to hear about It. Professionals at gaslighting? Statistically men lie more. Men lie, women wear makeup. You said you wouldn't be attracted to a high n count woman, or that men generally aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:53 PM
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He wanted a committed relationship with her. She only wanted sex. She wasn't really sleeping around. He was her second body. So you agree that biology is what dictates sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:33 AM
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They spoke for themselves dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:20 PM
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God forbid we ask men to pay thr child support they owe. Everyone is expected to be a worker in this society. Nothing is free, from basic needs like shelter, clean water, food and weather appropriate clothes, to luxuries like cars, technology and Marlboro reds. Women wish for Chad the same way men wish for Stacy. News flash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:53 AM
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He is guilty of the very thing he is accusing women of. In group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:51 AM
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Women apparently have more logical empathy (pro social, feeling empathetic towards the weak, innocent) while men have their empathy based on emption. Empathy for pedophiles is still empathy, though not really useful. You can feel with anyone, doesn't mean you necessarily should. Boys as young as 2 exhibit more violent behaviour and break (intentionally) toys more often more than their female counterparts. The lack of empathy exhibited from females towards males is nothing but a survival mechanis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:50 AM
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Are you implying that I'm lying? I'm actually a woman. I chose to settle down with someone with little to no prior experience. I am attracted to women who sleep around, sexually. Sexual attraction doesn't come from morals, it's stupid to think so. It comes from physical, tangible characteristics. If it's something you have no way of veryfing the validity of, then it's not really a criteria of sexual attraction. Just something the "herd" taught you. Sexual attraction is primal. Would I personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:28 AM
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Again, in today's day and age, having a fwb as a woman isn't seen as promiscuous aside from a few pill nerds in niche internet circles. Which means that normal, average people don't see it as such, especially if the girl in question doesn't have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:24 AM
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Desperate men? Had plenty of options, just happened to really like my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:30 PM
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Being fwb with a man especially in this day and age isn't seen as being a whore outside of niche weird internet circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:29 PM
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How would stalking someone like a weirdo and not leaving her alone help?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:53 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:52 PM
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No, do explain what makes men get married, have families, take their significant others on dates and vacations if all that matters is sex. Why don't rich men just get escorts or such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:52 PM
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Who are you to decide how special a stranger is to another stranger? You're supposed to be the logical sex dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:38 PM
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What you're arguing is absolutely ignorant, you're basically saying men don't have romantic feelings when romance is literally something created by men for women. If sex was the only thing that truly mattered men would just go around raping women like apes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:37 PM
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I've literally seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:36 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:35 PM
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Then what is it called when a dude desperately wants a relationship and the girl just wants to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:35 PM
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You're embarrassing yourself hard. All you did was move goal posts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:33 PM
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Yeah, men are weird. Weird enough to also obsess over women over 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:28 PM
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You'd be surprised And even so, why is it all about what men want anyway? She got what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:26 PM
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You think the stay at home milf who fucks the pool boy want to leave her husband of 30 years for the pool boy, in hopes that he'll marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:26 PM
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Thats genuinely what some women want from certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:25 PM
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American men are low tier too, do not be foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:57 AM
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What a total creep lol. A foolish one at that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:55 AM
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Sure. Have you tried to grannies in the nursing home? Some definitely do want to have sex, which is fairly normal, we are made to desire, crave and enjoy sex. Some definitely Don't. And it's especially disheartening when I go with my female partner and men take it as an invitation to try and fuck both of us. Most of the girls you think wanna fuck are in fact just uncomfortable and can't wait to get away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:51 AM
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Obviously not all women do that. But there's a segment of the population that does. Why it's talked about badly when promiscuity in men isn't in the same context.. I don't know. Idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:49 AM
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Does it matter what they're doing for that money, as long as it ain't sex work? No one goes to do their job out of pleasure. Working an office 8-5 is bad too, you're gone for a big chunk of your day, you have to suck up to your crappy boss, you miss your children growing up, you have the stress of finishing whatever crappy project you gotta do with your unhelpful co-workers. I'm not saying it's worse than a blue collar job. But you can't tell me it's pleasant either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:46 AM
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Literally everywhere else but Arab countries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:44 AM
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-anyone is better than American men -fat men going to Asian countries to score an "Asian beauty" that conservative when they're literally going to pester her? Those girls deserve and expect to be provided for, you think they'll accept not even being taken out on a date first? The gender roles there are rigid, the fat slobs without jobs that travel there literally have no chance to date these girls, especially given how strict their families are over who their daughters are dating. -if you're act…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:41 AM
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Isn't the situation so bad in Korea that women refuse to date, sleep, have kids or marry men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:37 AM
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Women do financially worse after divorces on average, because they are mostly left with the child care. Most custody settlements are "settled" outside of court. The fathers sont want anything to do with them. They get away with paying mostly less than 500 usd a month, which doesn't even begin to scratch a the iceberg or a child's needs. As for "they just want to fuck them", you'd mostly be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:35 AM
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Is this something that happened to you? What's the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:30 PM
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"Why do people react negatively when I'm a tactless pig?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:15 PM
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Yall are so out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:35 AM
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I'm in tears from the laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:35 AM
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Ed Kemper had a kill count of 7. Shipman had like 15 that were confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:15 PM
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Dude, if 60% of marriages ended in divorce in 1970 and now 38% of marriages end in divorce in 2020's, isn't that an improvement? Like how do you think statistics work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:13 PM
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Divorce rates have been on a steady decline ever since the divorce spike In the 70s. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:46 PM
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Heard of Ted bundy. The rest no so much. No high kill counts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:45 PM
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Because it's creepy to approach someone with sexual advances without even knowing them. That's gonna creep people out. Imagine if gay men did that to you everyday. Like straight up sexual advances. No "whats your number", "you're cute, wanna grab coffee together", just straight up, I'd love to put my balls on your face
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:05 PM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:04 PM
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Interesting. A lot of the infamous serial killers were gay men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:00 PM
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Lesbians are just giving the "that bitch" energy. If my lesbian girlfriend won't rob Banks with me, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:00 PM
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They aren't the same thing. What it can be compared to is not piercing little girl's ears. Which I'm not against either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:06 PM
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False that's a human trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:16 AM
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Women are the ones bashed for being promiscuous. Lesbians are also demonized. Men only get dunked on when their sexuality is literally problematic, like not giving a shit about their partner, not respecting them or their wishes (meaning consent), liking wayyyy younger girls... do you think these shouldn't be viewed as problematic? It's not natural. Most men have normal sex drives and aren't total creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:48 AM
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Haha male sexuality is demonized? Laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:32 PM
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I get the urge everyday. I don't need further advice, I do get head most days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:01 PM
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I always believed that straight women also hated being straight. Then I found out I was actually just into women and not men. Food for thought. Like never in my life had I felt that being into women was a curse outside of maybe how society treats such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:01 PM
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Why are you making no comments on what the original post says then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:16 PM
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Okay, date men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:14 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:01 AM
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I never said men and women are the same. Rather I said that loyalty is inherently a male trait. Women are supposed to find better and better mates. Sexual fidelity isn't a thing for either gender. Humans aren't naturally monogamous. It's a choice every human makes : to be a bop or to be loyal. Women are just as horny and sexually charged as men if not more. It's just been shamed out of us. There doesn't pass a day without me hoping to get head. It certainly isn't shamed in every culture, and in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:01 AM
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I'm from the Balkans. Girls here make fun of desperate fat American men too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:31 PM
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No one is forced to accept or agree to anything. Plus it's really not the same. What we are entitled to is making fun of them and even critiquing them. Why would they think those women would choose them, I have no idea. Everyone has their own path in life I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:30 PM
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You're not supposed to feed them bread. Feed them corn or peas instead. Frozen is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:45 PM
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If it's boring for a lot of people and a bad date idea in general.. why keep asking people out on coffee dates? Ok, what's fun about coffee dates then? How much do yall work in your country? Where I live you get 2 mandatory free days for ever 1 day of 7-8 hours you work. If you work 12 hours you might work 2 days and have 2 free. You also get paid vacation days. I guess it depends on the work culture. If you don't have 3 hours to spend with someone at the park how do you have time to date/make m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:22 PM
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Haha nope. Loyalty is a masculine trait. Men are determined and logical, women are emotional. Women are supposed to go for whoever is the best man they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:13 PM
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"Women tend to take advantage of everyone and everything, be fake, they can't bond with friends the way humans do and they're superfiecial" ??????
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:12 PM
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Not American. Not a teenager either. It's perfect for young adults too, and certainly a much better idea than coffee. Go feed the ducks at the park and get drunk on cheap wine together as an alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:09 PM
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Coffee dates are inherently boring. Sit down dinners are boring too, but at least you two get to dress up fancy I guess. All you do is slurp some coffee for 10 minutes and done. Coffee dates only work if you already know the person and you have a lot to talk about. If it's with someone new, it's inevitably going to be boring and awkward. A walk at the local park to share cheap wine and feed ducks is just as cheap and it's infinitely more interesting and intimate than a Coffee date. You go with f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:32 PM
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"Men tend to be more violent" MISANDRY
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:27 PM
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Yes but they're cute and they draw crappy drawings of your little family every once in awhile. They might even give you sloppy kisses and make awful gifts like acorns and even more crappy drawings or plastic bracelets. Love is a simple thing that we all seek in pretty much every relationship and aspect of our lives. Its just chemicals in your brain that makes us happy. I think the fact that's important isn't that they're just chemicals, but that love becomes the purpose of our lives, makes us fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:06 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:58 PM
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Maybe because I'm not their preferred gender? How do you think you'd react if gay men kept hitting on you? Ive literally never seen a girl who was hit on by a non monstrous looking, non smelly, age appropriate dude react badly. Worst way they reacted was lying about having a boyfriend, actually rejecting them because they had a boyfriend. Maybe it depends on the country here, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:50 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:45 PM
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I'm a lesbian who grew up in a post communist, extremely Christian country. What do you think my experience trying to date women was like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:44 PM
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That's how I see it as a woman. They don't complain, as long as It's dudes close to their age that don't use "nice ass sugar tits" as their pickup line. They might reject you, but they will likely feel flattered. There's nothing more that women want than to be hit on by men respectfully. A woman's perceived value is based on how attractive men deem her to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:32 PM
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Mini golf sounds great! Why would you invite a person you're interested in on a boring date that they might feel offended by?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:31 PM
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I literally cannot defend myself against a man dude. Men don't carry weapons when they go to the bar or dates where I live. Aside from maybe some teenagers carrying artizanal knives they play with, that's not a thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:30 PM
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You have a long and complicated response to a really simple thing I said. Most sane women have no issue being hit on. The issue only arises when the man is being pushy, overly sexual, insists too much, etc. Women think men have it easier because men aren't as pushed, harassed or women don't insist as much. That's a fair point of view. Getting approached becomes a net negative experience instead of a positive one when the approach Is overtly sexual from the start or the man is being pushy. It bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:28 PM
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Most definitely, as I said in my comment. Women will have a negative reaction to men insisting when she has already said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:23 PM
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Being pursued and being harassed are different. There's no good looking young woman that complains about someone politely asking her for her number. Being overly sexual? Yeah. Being a pervert? Yes she'll complain about that too. Not taking a no for an answer? Again, a fair complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:14 AM
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Oh I see what you mean now. Women aren't in a position of danger in the dating scene by default. They are by simply existing. Everyone sort of is. The difference is that as a man, you can take a man down if it came to self defense. Women really can't. We feel scared when we try to go on about our day, not when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:12 AM
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I'd kinda love to be seen as dangerous. People wouldn't mess with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:10 AM
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For me it's been quite the opposite. Always a dude doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:24 AM
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Coffee dates are sort of boring tho. I suggest going ice skating instead, or roller blading. Let me tell you my genius reasons why! -fun activity. You won't get bored. Relaxed environment, will break the ice. -everyone holds hands so it's expected that you will too -not a boring idea, refreshing, will make them remember you -cheap, but not boring or effortless -you can get hot cocoa after and talk, or get a refreshing drink and talk -will have something to talk about or bond over (talk about fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:40 AM
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Maddison beer is a quite talented pop singer. She's also really, really naturally pretty. We are supposed to believe every man lies because of the Margot robbie thing? Ofcourse not. Every woman is different, though there are patterns that can be explained. You notice how skinny women will think they're fat and fat women will think they're skinny? There will be some that will say the truth about themselves ofcourse, but there's a pattern. Fat women lie to themselves to make themselves feel better…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:47 AM
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I could literally say the same thing but change women with men and lightly alter some of the stuff you said and it will just remain sexist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:39 AM
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Obviously I grew out of that mindset once I turned 14 and I started seeing humans differently, you know? I started valuing my dad's presence, I made male friends that are still very much dear to me. Being over 20 and still thinking half of the planet has no value whatsoever is iffy. However at that time it did help me realize I was gay. That's what I was pointing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:37 AM
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This isn't really appropriate. I'll have to report this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:36 AM
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I live in an area with a lot of Romani people. A certain group of them that lives below poverty line is responsible for roughly 70% of the crime in the town, aside from Maybe drug deals. You can recognize them by how they look, how they smell, the dialect they use and how they act. A lot of them do jenkem, which causes certain behaviors. Everyone is cautious around them because well, they harass random people, they steal, they are aggressive, willing to knock you down just to get 150$ that you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:35 AM
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Its your job to back up a claim when you make one, especially an out of touch one like this. Now be a big girl/boy and backup your claim. You're on a debate sub. Post the link to a credible study. Or did you pull the claim out of your arse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:24 PM
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No recording in public is just as creepy. He was clearly looking at her tho. I don't care who's the purveyor of fat acceptance, and I'm not a fan of the gender war or blaming one gender over another on something so stupid. Some men are into that body positive bullshit, more women are, whatever. By fit I also mean not lanky btw. The certain thing is that you have much lower chances of someone being attracted to you if you're out of shape. That's either rage bait or they're straight up lying to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:41 PM
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"Denigrating men" how? Feel free to block me. Otherwise I'll respond as I wish, but abiding to the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:40 PM
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We can agree to disagree here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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Which ones exactly? How did they come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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I used to think that about men, then I realized I was a lesbian. Just something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:39 PM
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Society in general I believe. Every child needs to go through the schooling system at one point or another. Everyone needs baby sitters, nurses, therapists, pharmacists, dentists, dental hygienists, physicians, childcare workers, hairdressers and so on. I don't think so. Economics aren't black and white. There are more things to take into account. There isn't homelessness just because people are lazy and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:38 PM
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I'm not sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:35 PM
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Depends on the wild animal. Brown bears are easy to deal with! If I had to choose between a man and a killer whale, or a man and a tiger, I'd rather have the man. I'm fact ill have a man who didn't eat for 1 week with a gun than a tiger thats just been fed. Not all heterosexual relationships are abusive, but a lot of people have had only heterosexual relationships that were abusive. This will obviously change their world view. As a lesbian, a lot of my relationships were really shitty. I persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:35 PM
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What women mean by that is they'd rather be in the forest with a bear than a strange man. I'd do too. Ive been in forests and around bears ever since I was a kid. Bears are predictable and they will back off. If a dude wants to rob you, he will. He will do it violently too. You know what would be anti male rethoric? What happened in India and China. They killed so many female babies that now they have the biggest male singleness pandemic there. Not enough women, quite literally. That was anti fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:31 PM
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Lmfao look at his face. He is calling women mid. Yeah I'm not listening to a word that guy says Yes if women are involuntarily single it's their fault. They're 100% unhygienic or unkempt, have a crap tone of issues mentally, they're fat, crazy, whatever. Even worse aee the ones who keep getting dumped after a month or two. You don't have to change that you're a fat, ugly smelly slob if you don't want that. But don't expect any sort of kindness from society. Everyone should be loved! By their mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:24 PM
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What's this heavy tax you're talking about? Looking at someone is not harassment, however, ogling like a creep will get you negative feedback. Like if I just sat there with you on the metro ride and stared at your crotch for 10 minutes straight you'd probably feel weird too. Yes, men who are single and not by choice usually have something weird or wrong with them. Can range from bad hygiene to pushy behaviour or simply being fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:26 PM
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Women are 51% of the population. Why is it a bad thing that politicians defend their interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:24 PM
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The anti male rhetoric being keeping women safe, women taking safety precautions, not allowing men to perpetuate anti social behaviour under the cause of it being "masculine" and Mayne asking men to vacuum every once in awhile because his partner also works and she's tired?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:23 PM
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Cool. Imo it's still not enough for those who are responsible for the well-being of the next generations. Without teachers you don't have any other profession done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:17 PM
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Mostly yeah but I also think it might be because stereotypically female jobs are less valued. Imo we should pay teachers and educators just as much as we do doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:24 PM
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According to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:22 PM
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"Sure it's far from the worst thing, but the thing is, if you want more than friendship, how can you be satisfied with it? It's like applying to a job you want and being rejected but also offered some shitty low paid position."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:27 PM
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Weren't you the one to compare bring friend with a girl without fucking her as getting a shitty job with a crappy salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:26 PM
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Yeah they are. They're people. They should be held accountable for their behaviour. Wether that's rape, murder, lying about rape, whatever else. They should be held accountable. Not only is that healthy for society, but it's healthy for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:25 PM
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Nope, absolutely not. Care to explain to me how you jumped to that conclusion? You can choose to not be friends with someone who rejected you. But acting like someone can ever only be in the life of a woman if they're fucjing her is pretty iffy. Acting like a females friendship is comparable to a shitty Job with a low pay is also iffy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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People who grope other people don't deserve to get an education. They don't deserve to be in an environment with perfectly normal and civilized people because they can't act normal and civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:21 PM
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What? No, that's definitely not how It works. Testosterone isn't an excuse for such behaviour. I had a huge sex drive back then as a girl, I was always looking at girls, having weird fantasies and jerking off whenever I was alone. However I never did weird shit to my female classmates or or female friends. Bad behaviour needs to be stopped. Point in blank. There are boys who never did shit like that. Yes, obviously they acted like teenage boys, but they never touched classmates without consent, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:20 PM
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Yeah, people who like casual sex are sociopaths. What a sensible and intelligent take!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 PM
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The ones that having a female friend get you. Depends from person to person and friendship to friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:15 PM
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You literally took something I did not say and made a remark over it. You're the one who's accusing me of gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:14 PM
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It's really not the same thing. Feeling like the year lasting friendships you had were fake is much different from having sex with someone without them wanting anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:58 PM
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A bad marriage is 100% worse than choosing to have consensual sex with someone who simply doesn't give two fucks about you, yeah. I have no sympathy for women who complain about being fuck zoned. No one forced them to have sex before getting commitment. Having sex with someone doesn't mean they owe you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:57 PM
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As someone who's been rejected a bunch (lesbian who grew up in a homophobic country) It's really not that bad. You are blowing it way out of proportion. You suffer as much as you allow yourself to. You do it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:54 PM
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So just because you don't get to put your dick inside her, her contribution to your life isn't valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:53 PM
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Have you been through middle school as a girl or were you homeschooled??? The way they act is absolutely abhorrent. A child doesn't act like that. Children don't harass other children, they don't touch other children inappropriately. That ain't a child. Children play ball and eat ice-cream, they don't blast porn in computer science class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:45 PM
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I'd just die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:11 AM
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Literally nope that's just the image you projected on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:38 AM
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Emil sounds pretty chill. I'd go for him honestly, if I wasn't gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:43 PM
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Yeah, why wasn't it easy for him to not generalize every woman as opportunistic? For me, both misandry and misogyny should be avoided. Little comments like this aren't actual sexism. Sending men to war is sexism, genital mutilation of male babies being accepted widely is sexism... Men are more likely to have ulterior motives when they're around young female children. If keeping my loved ones safe is sexism, haha. Be my guest. I don't treat my father like my mother. Am I a misogynistic pos for co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:41 PM
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thinking ugly men aren't any different to hot men is literally blue pilled mouth breather bullshit. Thats like saying girls who have a body count under 2 are the same as the ones with 5+. These groups will act really differently from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:29 PM
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No really, I can't be raped if I wanna have sex with them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:28 PM
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Woah woah slow down. No one was talking about that. That's a completely different subject, and that's a really important problem. Should I bring up how we won't have clean water to drink in a few generation too? Let's not derail from the topic. I don't think I've ever heard a feminist blame men who were victimized by other men for their horrible experience. Being a feminist (although it's a vast ideology with good and band points, and with different branches that hold different beliefs) has noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:15 PM
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"Average brainwashed feminist oportunist woman" I'm not pro blaming men for their trauma at all. Don't twist my words and don't make assumptions over my beliefs please. Who was traumatized by what in this case? Please don't call me pet names. Neither did you raise me nor did you eat me out last night. English isn't my first language, it's my 4th. Also, misstypes happen. I never called you an incel neither did I call you problematic. Where is all of this coming from? Who are you arguing with? Per…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:05 PM
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If my child is a young boy I wouldn't let him either. Single moms are known to be problematic in general, more so than single dads. There are women out there preying on young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:01 PM
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Yes this is so important there are so many creepy women out there, and they especially target small boys!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 PM
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Basically I'll put my safety above anyone's feelings. I've been harassed by women too, but mostly it's been men doing it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:53 PM
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Haha i love this. u/thedarkracer Any thoughts you wanna share?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:51 PM
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Sometimes yes. They have baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:50 PM
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There's something called consent. If I wanna have sex with an individual and they make a move then obviously I won't say no. If someone I don't find attractive wants to have sex with me and tries so I'll tell them no. If they keep going then they're just creepy, and I'll likely avoid them. Like rape isn't possible if I actually wanna have sex with them now, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:49 PM
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Men like you make it really hard to be not misandristic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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I personally think my children's safety should come before any man's feelings. That being said, I'd still allow my child to go. I'd teach them how to say a stern no and to run to me if anyone touches them inappropriately + teach them self defense mechanisms. Am I a misandrist for doing so? I'd be a bit more trusting with women, but still wouldn't let my guard down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:17 PM
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I'll ignore your muh misandry take. Misandry is oppression, sending men to war, circumcising little boys. What you said is stuff only snowflakes feel affected by. As for SAHM, they are usually women who want to serve their husbands. Their husbands are happy with the arrangement and that's good for the kids too. I find it hard to believe that well adjusted men would buy sex bots who fold clothes and wash dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:05 PM
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If you were familiar with the way AI acts you'd chance your mind pretty quickly. Those people are disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:06 AM
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What he presented is bias again. No explaining the issue in depth, bringing tangible arguments or proof. Just straight up "women bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:05 AM
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Red pill has nothing to do with this bullsh. These dudes are just the proud owners of a bunch of sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:03 AM
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I really love how you accuse other people of mental gymnastics while you jump to conclusions like your life depends on it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:01 AM
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It's more absurd to think that a silly # on tweeter represent what women think in general. Yeah, if you take the most terrible kind of harpies from tweeter and act like that the average woman, ,you'll grow to hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:00 AM
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Wasn't KAM a response to "rape all women"? It depends on how you look at it. I've seen the sex robot thing used as a threat, as if I or anyone would be scared of total creepy weirdos "opting" out of the dating scene. If anything, both sides are absolutely weird and creepy. No functional, sane human being would choose a machine over a human being with thoughts, feelings and free will. I've talked to AI in an effort to understand the craze over it. It's just a program that is made to please you. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:59 AM
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Are you a lady? Nope. I was using you as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:59 PM
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The problem comes from the fact that there isn't such a big reward for sex for women as there is for men, and with much more risk too. Make women cum and they might just want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:40 PM
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Wasn't talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:34 PM
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Ladies, if any dude tries to be too pushy during your first few encounters, ghost him. If you're looking for a ltr relationship that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:51 PM
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Nothing. There are plenty of unattractive women who will want him though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:16 PM
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Yeah, men don't want monogamy. Men settle for monogamy. As soon as you understand that your view on women will shape for the better too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:30 PM
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I'm toothless actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:07 AM
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Head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:15 AM
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You do. You made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:46 PM
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Mommy's "boy" is an adult that should be able to set boundaries. It all gets a pass up until 25 or so, but after that I'm not sure what to say. When I say "daddy issues" I mean young women/teenaged girls. What's also a significant difference is that mommy's boy behaviour affects your family, meaning your wife and children, possibly his father too. When it comes to daddy issues behaviour, as it's described in pop culture, it's about being a promiscuous woman or a woman that seeks a lot of externa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:56 AM
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Most men go for younger women. That's why I mentioned people in their 20s. As for age gaps, after 25-26 you already have experience as an adult and honestly if you're dumb enough to date someone older than 35 that's your shit to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:44 AM
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51% of the world's pop is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:03 AM
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No, what do they look like to YOU? Most men aren't young and thin. 1.66% of the wolds population is in their twenties, and only half of that are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:02 AM
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This has always struck me as odd. What's with people's obsession regarding saving romantic partners? That not only makes them owe you anything, nevermind love, but it Is likely to not achieve anything. Are you really saving them if you're only doing it to get a relationship out of it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:49 AM
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Mm is there really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:44 AM
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Works of fiction are literally crafted to evoke an emotional response from viewers/readers/listeners. No I do find it cringe when women ugly cry in the movie theater. But acting like dropping a few tears because of a sad movie isn't normal is kind of dishonest. Those are hypocrites then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:37 AM
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Is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:34 AM
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Take responsibility for their father's actions??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:34 AM
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All you do is accuse someone based on ass-umptions. Being emotional is one thing but holding beliefs that don't serve you nor anyone that are completely separate from reality and created from experiences and feelings while preaching them as reality is another. One of such ass-umptions is that women hate it when men are vulnerable. Smashing a keyboard and throwing objects over a video game? That's absolutely not appropriate for adults. Crying over the death of a family member or pet, break up, st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:11 PM
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Men have turned having an absent father into an insult against women. Why did they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:07 PM
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I feel like everyone needs a living wage while not everyone needs to date specifically that hot chick they want to date...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:38 AM
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It's abysmally low because nestle lobbying to daddy gov't. Can't sell fake milk to mothers if they're home, breastfeeding their children. Instead, just send them over to work and feed the kiddos chemicals then wonder why they're obese and impotent by 30. Gosh, I'm glad i don't live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:57 AM
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You didn't tell me how does one earn a standard, just gave me an out of proportion example of a "miss matched" couple looks wise. Sarcasm is also literally not encourages here. Neither is being condescending. You can't be the one tell me I'm not trying to be constructive. To me, earning a right to be attracted to or want something in a relationship is absolutely silly to me. I've seen literal whales with gym rats, and I've seen drop dead gorgeous women with ugly losers. Are we supposed to implem…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:12 AM
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That wasn't a personal remark. I was stating my opinion over a world view. That's why I never brought attention to the fact that you called my view childish. Your remark was pointed towards my view, not me as a person. Why would they "obviously" need to justify their standards? How does that look like? Who decides if the standards are correct or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:11 PM
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Personal remarks aren't encouraged here. Why don't you instead explain why would it be normal to believe people have to "earn" their standards or justify them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:39 PM
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To me, it's childish to expect someone to fold their desires to your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:27 PM
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Why would someone need to justify their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:53 AM
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25
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:28 AM
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Nope. Pretty sure it's a cis woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:39 PM
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This post is really, really weird to me. Both partner should put in effort to turn eachother on, and personally, having my turned on partner touching me turns me on. She does it because she feels the desire to, and I feel the same way. Why is it "choreplay" and not a thing that you like too? Why don't you like putting in effort when it comes to someone you love? Chores should be done by both parties either way. It shouldn't be something you do expecting a reward. Like yeah, if you constantly hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:23 AM
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I'm pretty sure that his wife is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:54 AM
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Personally when something really horrible happens to me, I can't cry either. I feel like you should support him the best you're able instead of judging his reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:53 AM
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My parents have been married 24 years or so. My dad's "mother" was a neglijent narcissistic pos. My dad would always go hungry, his clothes were always ripped, raggedy and old. I don't think I've personally ever seen My dad cry, but my mother. She tells me she's only seen her cry at their wedding and when his grandmother died (she basically raised him since her daughter refused to raise her own son), and when I was born. Aside from that he only cried on One more occasion. It was winter, and real…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:52 AM
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Ascended? What? If she cheats then I'll find another girlfriend. Though I trust her and I don't think she will. I don't really like going with my problems ro my friends either way. If I go out with friends it is to enjoy their company and have fun, not to have a pity party. You're really immature if you expect any friend to put you over their life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:12 PM
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Personally I use my girlfriend to get out of things. My dad did that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:21 PM
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Match made in the third ring circle of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:33 AM
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The dudes who work at mcdos also demand Ferraris, they won't get them. Sure, some women do demand that, just like some 40 year old men want to date 18yo girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:31 AM
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Oh, so now it's not based on "market" value, but entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:30 AM
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Date obese women then. Same market value. Morbidly obese. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:20 AM
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Date anyone you want without shaming others and without being a huge creep. I've had 12 year Olds willing to date me while I was 16 or 17. I bviously turned them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:16 AM
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I never claimed its impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:07 AM
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How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:02 AM
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Sure, blame you being wrong on insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:01 AM
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I obviously didn't mean it literally. But basically thats what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:00 AM
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It's an opiod lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:59 AM
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10 months isn't much. I was on them for 2 years and I gained like 20 kilos. I was able to lose 8 while on them. After I stopped I dropped like 15 more. There are meds that make it harder to lose weight. Anti psychotics, anxiety meds are particularly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:59 AM
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How is it dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:48 AM
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Without its easy, especially when young What medication exactly? How long did they take it for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:48 AM
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I said it was an opiod lite. Yeah just like men have to work harder to breastfeed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:45 AM
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Abuse them? Dude, you have to take those 2-3 times a day, as per your doctor says. Ofocourse you'll go thru wds after consistently using them daily and stopping. Ofcourse not. However. The wds are still similar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:42 AM
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Benzos are basically opiods lite. They have vaguely similar affects and the withdrawals can both send you into a coma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:02 AM
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Xanax Is a benzo. Have to work? Have to work for what dude? It's almost impossible to not gain weight on prescription psych meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:59 AM
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People were not eating nearly as much crap as we do today. They didn't have microplastics in their blood stream. What's not backed by science? Fixing your scoliosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:56 AM
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You make me wanna crawl up a wall. It obviously works different when you're on lite opioids dude. Yes, it does raise your heart rate when you move around. But for people on benzos, and other harder medication, their heart rate will not raise as much as a healthy person's. It will always be slower than normal. My father gained weight after starting hyper tension medication. I wonder why!!! Why is it so hard for you to understand? It's like claiming that running a marathon is just as easy for preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:54 AM
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Yes, because back then people were treating depression with cocaine and crank. Yes, you don't grow in height after awhile. But if your spine is all bendy, then you will appear shorter. No matter your age, if you fix your posture (through exercise), you'll appear much taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:51 AM
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Maybe because you're not on medication that makes you sleepy 24/5. Like you try being on Xanax all the time and tell me how that works for you. THE LITERAL EFFECTS OF THE MEDICARION. THEY MAKE YOUR HEART RATE SLOWER. YOU NATURALLY BURN LESS THAN HALF AS MANY CALORIES NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. Also if you don't have a lot of energy that might be a problem. Depending on how old you are, you might have a sedentary life style or your diet might be shit. Or you might be on literal benzodiazepines, the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:49 AM
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Those 3 others might not have the same effects or there might literally not be 3 others. You can't exercise as much on them. They literally lower your heart rate too, which makes your metabolism slower making you gain weight by default. They make you extremely lethargic making it hard to exercise. Not sure why you can't accept that psych meds make you gain and weight and there's little you can do about it. There have been literal studies done on it. If the psych meds weren't the problem I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:44 AM
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I Gained so much weight after I started psych meds. I was literally horizontally challenged. I'm glad I'm off them. If I would have never gotten off them, I'd have likely never lost the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:42 AM
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Actually yes. A lot of women do have these hormone imbalances. They're really common. They actually run iny family and I'm deathly scared of getting fat. Technically you can also grow in height. A lot of people don't have a straight spine making them appear shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:40 AM
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Isn't pear shape attractive? Like I thought it was a beauty standard or something. As far as I know hourglass and pear shape are the most desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:39 AM
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No one forces you to listen or even read her comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:33 AM
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No that's exactly what it means. Why on earth do you wanna date people who are likely still in highschool???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:31 AM
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If you really don't see an issue with dating an 18 in your mid 40s, then you have.a huge arse issue. As for fat, date anyone you want who is willing to date you, just don't shame anybody. Fat people already know they're an eyesore, they don't need to hear about it anymore. This agreability often translates to something else when it comes to men. Might it he that they mean a doormat? Certainly from what I've personally seen. Now women aren't any better with their doormat boyfriends, don't get me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:29 AM
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When I'm not in the mood I usually just let them do it while touching me and looking at me. Though I have to be absolutely beaten for me to refuse sex. It'd be weird for her to go in the bathroom. She can literally do it next to me and It would be more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:36 AM
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No? That's absolutely not true. Skin will sag either way, wrinkles will show up and metabolism will slow down significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:34 AM
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That doesn't necessarily mean they'd have a higher sex drive. High Testosterone in women is literally bad. I'm more sexually active when I'm ovulating (peak esteogen) and not sexually active at all when I'm releasing more T (around period-period). Women aren't little men. We are different. Again, how would they have more Testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:29 AM
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Bias over how male vs female sexuality works. It wasn't a direct attack towards you, but your views. No, i literally asked you a few comments ago. You're the one who has to back up a shitty claim, not me. How can masc presenting lesbians be more sexual. What does that entail. What logic is that. What is masculine when it comes to lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:10 PM
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You aren't supposed to make personal remarks. You have 0 basis in what you said. All you have is literal bias. No, what is masculinity to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:17 AM
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The reason is that we are literally young adults. We are messy and basically over grown teenagers. You talk like you have 0 relationship experience, and all you learned about sexual/romantic relationships is from the internet. "More masculine ones" what exactly makes a lesbian masc? I pretty much prefer women shorter than me, who wear makeup and girly clothes, and I enjoy being more dominant. How? Literally that makes no sense. Why would it be that way? What makes it make sense in your head? If …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:07 AM
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Yeah, every woman ever just likes bad boys. What is even a bad boy? Breaking laws? Selling drugs? Being a pimp? Preffering to go drink with the boys instead of movie nights with their girlfriends? Not buying flowers? Following insta thots? When I say ratty I'm reffering strictly to looks. The signs for what? Love isn't predictable. People will hurt eachother. It's literally not. You aren't a woman, and you probably aren't that close with women either. Your view is skewed. I'm literally always wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 AM
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I think what she wanted to point at is that parents are supposed to love their young children unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:15 AM
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I'd say it's very conditional and that's what makes it special. I don't like my partner the way I like my dog. I actually simply appreciate and like most things about her. If she was someone else entirely I wouldn't love her. People with "unconditional" love must love everyone, I suppose? If there's no condition for it? Doesn't sound very special or valuable to me. I love her because I'm attracted to her, because she is incredibly fun to be around, because she's easy going, because she's a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:10 AM
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I wish it were incorrect. It's physically painful to watch my friends cry over ratty men. Most of the women here are femcels or bordering asexuals. I'm in no way shape or form asexual. I'd fuck almost anyone given no one would find out if I had the chance. Yeah, women have that too. I wish I didn't have to look at every slightly taller man, or with curly hair, or with baggy jeans or whatever on the street when my friends pointed them to me. I'm literally gay and I don't understand what's so appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:07 AM
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I'm 5'10, gay, and a broke student. Decently Lean. I can eat well but if being lesbian translates to being gay as a man id probably suck at handling dick. Decently extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:02 AM
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Yeah, divorced people are usually older, no wonder they'll be more sad than simply single women. This doesn't take age into account. Filing for divorce doesn't indicate it wasn't mutual bro. Most of the times women handle paper work and legal stuff in a household. Ask your dad where your birth certificate is and then ask your mother. Favor her with what exactly? Custody? When most men literally say they don't want more time with their kids? Money? When women literally do worse financially after?…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:00 AM
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If divorce was really that psychologically hard on men, they wouldn't do much better financially than female counterparts, and they wouldn't have a higher chance to remarry and have kids. Ok, and men initiate more breakups. Often times the relationship is dead and the man is moved out of the house. What's the point of staying married then? There will be dudes with whole new families living in another state and the woman is stuck "married" to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:42 AM
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68% of men are married. In the US. Can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:10 AM
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I didn't edit my post to change the message I'm trying to convey, only to add to it. The cutie with imperfections is a Stacy lite dude. Most women aren't cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:48 AM
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Same as women's. The only difference with women is that they tend to grow even on uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:47 AM
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Men trasmit it more often and women suffer from it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:39 AM
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There's no point in trying to argue with that user. He has a huge chip on his shoulder and wouldn't bodge no matter how good your argument is or how many sources it's backed up by.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:37 AM
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The average men are absolutely chasing after Stacie. Average women are generally not beautiful, nor intelligent. What you're describing is literally a Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:37 AM
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It says they're not looking, not that they don't like middle school girls. Yeah, what kind of people do you think are looking to get sex bots? Totally well adjusted ones, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:14 AM
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Let's say I'm your wife's female friend. Wife and me have been friends for years. Close ones at that. She calls me over to have a drink or two. You are not home. She puts literal ketamine (in large doses) in her drinks because shes an addict or simethung. She doesn't notice anything wrong. She drinks the alc-ket mixture until she passes out. I ask her if i can borrow a few of her stuff and she slurs "yes". I then proceed to steal all of yalls expensive belongings. Grandma's jewelry, expensive el…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:12 AM
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The man was sexually assaulted, not the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:07 AM
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She slept with a drunken person under the pretext of helping him, who was her baby sitter while young. Victim admitted to feeling shame and disgust. Victim doesn't even remember what happened as Victim was severely intoxicated. Victim owildnt have slept with Alice under normal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:05 AM
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It probably was intended from the start. I understand that teenage hormones are raging at that age, but come on. Raping your mf baby sitter while he's drunk shitless??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:03 AM
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This is beyond fucked up. I'd put Alice into therapy if I were one of her parents. The fact that she slept with him while she was there under the pretext of "helping" him, the fact that he literally babysat her when she was younger... I don't even know. Just eughhh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:01 AM
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I literally can't dude. It's a whole text of wall that's written so badly. You think the sexuality of het men is oppressed now or?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:56 AM
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Ok, then young men who like middle school girls. It's still weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:55 AM
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Do you really think a 30 something yo man is more appropriate to speak in the name of young women than a young woman? Some of them are literally stupid and can't see that what's happening is terribly wrong. When I was 17 I "dated" someone who was 32. I've been there, done that. Every single big age gap relationship I've seen was a big shit show. Statistically the bigger the age gap the bigger the chance of divorce. I'm not saying there aren't big age gap relationships that are healthy, but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 AM
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I'm sorry, but caring about this so much is cringe. Who cares what sexuality a character has? Straight men will still exist regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:11 PM
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"Nothing wrong with it" ?????????????? Hell naaaaaw 20 and 30 is ok. 18 and 40 tho absolutely not. I hope yall get shamed and shunned and disowned. I'm in the same age group as them. Don't speak for us, we don't need weirdos speaking for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:06 PM
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Prime for what? In the late twenties the women's hips get wider and that's when they're most likely to have babies that survive and survive themselves. That's also when women are mature enough to have children. If that were the case men would be attracted to saggy breasts, wide hips, a wide rib cage and cunky legs to be able to carry them children. How old is the guy? That's the most important question. Also no, men consistently find 18 yo the most attractive group. For some if they could go low…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah no you've said nothing in good faith. You can't be the one to call me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:38 PM
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For petty crimes? Yeah maybe. For murder? For extortion? Keep them away from society until they're functional again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:38 PM
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Anyway I'm going to barf right now. Some of these takes are absolutely foul. I hope everyone keeps their children away from weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:20 PM
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Brain wasn't developed doesn't mean they can't be a danger to society. The contrary. Plus we need a prison system reform almost everywhere. Should be about education, not punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:20 PM
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Yeah testosterone is meant to make you wanna fuck chicks, which is a pretty harmless( if done safely) and common past time when it comes to young adults. If your testosterone levels are making ya wanna tear down society, commit arson and fuck orphans in the arse, that's a you problem. I promise you, most men don't wanna do that. Incels literally Dont leave their houses. They are scared to speak to women. All the do is larp all day on shitty sites like this one. Not a real danger. They can't walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:17 PM
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"Prove that with evidence" Prove me water us wet dude. If its not morals stopping them from going lower than what is? Is it not off-putting to them? At all? Then the only thing stopping them is law. Yeah it's not fully developed but it's really not that bad either. Similar maturity levels in a lot of cases. Doesn't feel like a kindergartener hanging out with their weird ass uncle in most cases. Some people do develop faster than others. Yes, maturity happens a lot. Like if someone who's 30 would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:13 PM
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Dating an 18yo as anything older than mid 20s? No that's absolutely wrong and weird. Disgusting even and they should be ashamed. Edit: I meant ripe age of 17, not 70. In my country the aoc is gag 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:08 PM
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You know what? As a lesbian, they're right. Most of us are so cringe and off putting it hurts. If my girlfriend wasn't absolutely smoking hot I wouldn't let half of the shit pass that I do. We re literal weirdos. Marginalized? Old men wanting to date highschool girls are being marginalized? Well clearly not enough since it's still happening. What's next? Are we gonna empower dog "lovers" too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:07 PM
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Maybe because he dated an 18 year old? Where I'm from 18 year Olds could still be in highschool. 11th grade or 12.th. I can't even. Do you all not see anything iffy about this? People are legally held accountable since young. They're put into juvi. We can't just let killers on the loose. However I think it's stupid and speeding once or drinking in public once at 21 can fuck up your future forever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:59 PM
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I disagree. I do think that people shouldn't be able to drink or join the military till they're 24-25 tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:57 PM
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People who go as low as the aoc would go lower bud. 30 and 20 isn't that bad of an age gap, especially if the 20 yo is mature. However, people never stop at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:56 PM
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Why is it any different? If the dude's fairly well adjusted and responsible, there's nothing concerning about a dude in his 30s dating a 20 yo. 20 and 40? He could literally be her father. You can't tell me there's nothing wrong about that. "You're just a nosey ass bitch" isn't a good argument. If we all just minded our biz no matter how concerning things around us got, the world would literally turn to shit. Like if my son came home with a 50 yo cougar at the ripe age of 17 I'd be mad shitless …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:54 PM
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Your brain isn't developed till your mid twenties, that's absolutely correct. The difference between people before 30 who are "close in age" I'd astounding. I have little in common with my friends who are in their late 20s, even if there's less than 6 years difference between us. Never mind younger friends who are 17/16. Basically children to me. It's not about the number itself, but the maturity. Yeah, most people are particularly sensitive about pedophilia, grooming and predators, and I feel l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:24 PM
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21 and 30 is very different age gap from 40 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:16 PM
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Orr maybe I'm literally worried for my friends because they're partner hits on everyone including all their closest friends, is a weirdo who sells drugs to teenagers,/ is married with kids and the wife doesn't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:14 PM
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There no chick addicted to meth there so it's not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:53 PM
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Tell Me you know nothing about history
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:29 PM
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No, the problem is expensive healthcare, expensive birth control and the cost of living/having a family being too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:27 PM
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Whats the point you're trying to make exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:01 AM
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No, it actually does happen a lot, and it's sad that we just sweep this issue under the rug instead of adressing it. There have to be reasons for it. Sincerely, a fkin d!ke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:58 AM
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It is punishable by law in a divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:07 AM
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To me it seems like it's fair. If men are predisposed to cheating, women are predisposed to monkey branching. Seems like a response to me. The same way men are taught to teach their partners that they have other options so they act right? You don't know that really. Even if the woman isn't on fds or anything, the women who have these sort of strategies set up are smart the same way red pill men are smart for having them. Ofcourse, both rp and fds people are sometimes extremely undesirable and un…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:15 AM
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Jokes on you, I'm a lesbian in a homophobic country. Not only do i have to deal with the exact same shit straight men have to deal with, but my dating pool is also smaller, and consisting of uglier and crazier individuals, plus women who are actually straight and just want attention/ think women are better than men when it comes to dating. Touche. If they're unable to get laid ever there's something extremely wrong with them. Met shy timid and submissive dudes who got laid a few times. Argument …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:54 AM
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What absurd rethoric? The "rethoric" that letting yourself go may be a sign of being unhappy in a marriage? They probably wouldn't be happy to hear that, because neglecting your spouse isn't a nice thing to do. If I refused sex with my partner for months on end under the guise that I'm unhappy, they'd probably be mad too. It's not always the case either. Sometimes the man truly is just too lazy to put in effort. However, when someone drastically changes after marriage, we can very well assume th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:49 AM
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No I absolutely will judge weirdos who can't get girlfriends and turn to robots instead. Why does that matter if we judge them or not? We have free will just like them. They're allowed to have weird ass artificial girlfriends and we are allowed to judge them and make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:12 AM
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Honestly as someone who was(is)? Addicted to a hard drug I'm much more desperate for it when it's not available and when it sits right in front of me and it's a lot in quantity and it's mine to take I just don't feel like doing it anymore. It makes me sick to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:11 AM
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Do you really believe that letting yourself go is on the same level as hitting your spouse? The going on dates things is absolutely a fair equal, as both translate in putting work to impress your partner/keeping the flame alive/whatever. Cheating is also a pretty fair one, tho it's punishable by law. I definitely think monogamy is a contract and if one of the sides break it the other one is allowed to break it too. Mutuality is definitely something that comes with exclusivity. If you can't fulfi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:06 AM
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You literally claimed that women like to see men miserable. Shall we hold you accountable for that? That sounded pretty shitty of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:58 AM
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Yeah, what does the red pill offer to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:55 AM
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Making men invest with you instead if smashing and dashing is now torture to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:54 AM
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1 year is a whole lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:44 AM
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If the tree was really the answer, we wouldn't have so many men complaining and moaning to women they barely know/ just met in the most self depreciating way + all women are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:46 PM
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I'm not sure what the point of this comment is, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:36 PM
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If you divorce because your spouse refuses sex once or twice, you're twisted. If you divorce because your spouse is refusing sex due to medical reasons, you're twisted. If you keep denying your spouse sex or give them shitty sex (starfish, never making them finish-i.e never putting effort in helping them finish), you're twisted If you think they'll stay/ not stray. Monogamy is like a contract. If you break the rules, the other party is entitled to break the rules too. Exclusivity comes with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:34 PM
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Wanting a maid isn't cool. If you both work, chores get split too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:18 PM
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Its not servitude, it's taking care of the child you helped create. You can literally pass off paternal rights if you wish. Yeah, child neglect is punishable by jail. I wonder why. Ok, you think pregnancy is easy. I'm done here. I have nothing but disgust towards female rapists and I believe male victims shouldn't be made to pay. I wish nothing but death and despair to rapists, especially the ones that keep the child/ forcefully impregnate someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:51 PM
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I'm literally a lesbian, dude. In a long term relationship at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:48 PM
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Hope you never do lol. Daddy's girls are just as bad if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:33 AM
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You should look into emotional incest too. It's really creepy. Basically mothers sort of act like they're barf "dating" their sons, push the son's partners/love interests away and act like no girl will ever be good enough for their little boy. They manage to find a flaw in every female partner they have. They expect the girlfriend to mommy their sons in a similar way. Cook and feed them by hand, never allow them to move a finger, just treating them like a toddler. When the girlfriend obviously a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:44 AM
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You're so lucky that you aren't a woman who has had a mommy's boy as her boyfriend...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:57 PM
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I'm not sure that's healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:31 AM
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Statistically men initiate break ups more and women file for divorce more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:30 AM
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The 4b movement is really not that wide spread, and if you ask the average Korean woman she won't know tf you're talking about. Being a feminist there is a death sentence socially wise. The reason for the population decline is non other than a late stage capitalist disaster. People are so engulfed in work that they don't have time to raise families and meet people anymore. Even school aged kids are encouraged to burn themselves out, you rarely see kids dating there anymore. Pair that with a heft…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:18 AM
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If ugly harpies on the net are all you need to feel oppressed, you aren't oppressed. This whole "western men/women" are oppressed systematically is absolutely laughable. In the same breath you call western women names. Seems like equality to me ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:14 AM
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Okaaay.... can you admit that murder and fraud exist? Even if you've never seen them? Have you ever seen Finland or does that not exist either? Okay, if you want to believe your gender isn't possibly capable of doing anything bad, go ahead. Sorry I dared to imply men might have bad intentions sometimes LOL. Part of what game?? Lying? What lies would exactly be considered ok and where's the line drawn? Lying and manipulating women? That sounds tres grave. What kind of lying and manipulating are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:33 AM
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You seem very eferscent today. The literal women who spoke up about this kind of treatment. Why is it so far fetched to you to hear that some of them are treated really badly? Do you believe men are sent from God and exempt from having bad behaviour??? Again, SOME OF THEM ARE FORCED, NEED TO GET OUT OF POVERTY, OR THEIR PARENTS ARE BRIBED INTO GIVING THEM AWAY. this is the last time I'm repeating this. It would be awesome if it always were that way, except it really isn't. Yeah, it's hard to ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:25 AM
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Because in a lot of cases they are. I'm sorry, but being aware and conscious over a lot of these women are treated seem a tad bit more important to me than the feelings of some dudes who can't get girlfriends where they live. As I said, sometimes it isn't a choice. And even if at first it was a choice, after they're trapped in another country, it's hard to leave. What kind of dude do you think cannot get girlfriends? That's how some men act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:00 AM
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Eh, you have to admit that the western men coming in Eastern countries have a tendency to lie and manipulate these women, look down to them (especially poorer ones).. they might not be holding a gun to their head, but they may manipulate them, bribe parents into giving them away, forcing them to cut contact with family or friends, trap them in various ways. Think mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:53 AM
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Then they aren't treated badly. The poster above said she had no issue as long as no one is treated badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:51 AM
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Yes, this is what irks me so much! A few months ago there was a dude here explaining step by step how to trap a woman from poorer Asian countries. It included finding one without any sort of education, bribing her parents with money to let him take care, moving somewhere in another poor country, far away from her family but where the economy was really fucked, getting her pregnant so she would stay but not marrying her so she wouldn't become bossy or whatever. Like???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:48 AM
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No, absolutely 0 issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:45 AM
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All men are trash, have no feelings and deserve to work in coal mines all day Vs All men like to hang out with the boys every once in a while. What feelings do those vastly different statements bring up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:50 PM
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Start crying hysterically and fall to your knees. Then they'll know to leave you tf alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:47 PM
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Well when someone serves you like a mommy I feel it's pretty fair that they get to be the boss. Like I'm not gonna talk back to someone who washes my underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:03 PM
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Not really Not that it would matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:01 PM
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The rules on this sub say we should refrain from down voting btw. Anything else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:57 PM
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That's still not a good excuse to act like a toddler and throw your smelly socks on the ground. Doing nothing? No. Doing everything that needs to be done. That might include picking up your dirty socks off the ground, If you deserve it. Do you expect your partner to do every single house chore, cook and act like a servant to you WHILE also working? Haha, your balls must be made of gold. Women's bullshit? You expect people to pick up your dirty socks for you. Not considering women as equals is fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:38 PM
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That's the point dude, outside of the courting stage, women are big on gifts. Men don't do it after they feel they "got" the woman. What expectation is there to provide WHEN MOST HOUSEHOLDS ARE DUAL INCOME AND MORE AND MORE MEN AND WOMEN DO 50/50 ON DATES??? Provide what? A 30 $ dinner every month? I've seen only fans models ask for more. That's literally not true. As if it matters if she was spending so much before. I'm telling you, women will spend more when they have partners. Single, ugly wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:27 PM
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Oh no, I'm not scared of male hikers unless I genuinely have a reason to. I haven't had any unpleasant experiences with any of them, male hikers are generally extremely nice and level headed. If they interact with me it's a hey or a normal ass question. What I'm scared is crazos in the forest lol. Of either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:35 AM
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The only scenario where I ever picked up socks for a man or washed his dish after I cooked was for my father. He worked all day and was tired. My mother too. I did it for him because he was deserving of it. Your partner isn't a maid. Unless she's a sahm, you can pick up your own dirty sock and wash your own dishes. Did your mother not teach you how to look after yourself and living space? Why would your equal partner pick up socks for you while you play video games and Crack beers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:34 AM
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What???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:33 AM
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If he smells like alcohol, if he's not groomed properly, if he's talking to himself, if he looks like he slept in the trash, if he has a weird look on his face/mouth moves weirdly, if he stinks, if he approaches me without waving and saying hi from a certain distance. Hikers recognize eachother. I can tell when someone's a hiker vs a total nut case. You can tell when someone's a hiker or lives secluded in the forest. Why would stats matter? I know how to act around bears. Humans aren't predictab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:32 AM
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That would mean women don't get sent to war because biologically we are weaker, therefore we have a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:27 AM
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You think spending money on necessities is fun? You think women don't give gifts to their partners? Men are so terrible at making gifts and remembering anniversaries and birthdays that it's a pop culture trope. You really think women don't spend a lot of money on themselves to look good? All just laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:25 AM
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Making weaker people fight isn't equal at all. Just make the strongest of both sexes do it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:15 AM
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No, that's absolutely not correct. Buying toiletries, buying cleaning products and food is still spending money on someone. In the courting phase maybe. And in the 60s maybe. Now men won't pay for your coffee if you've birthed his offspring. Dual income does change everything man. Both members of the partnership are pouring the income in the household. Women spend way more of their "fun" money on shit that's necessary for the house. Take what for granted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:41 AM
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Are there any stats on women torturing bears? If you feel you're being naged you should try washing your own fkin dish and participating in taking care of the place you live in. Not throwing away dirty socks on the floor would also help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:39 AM
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Are you dating high end escorts 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:21 AM
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Huh? You're factually incorrect. Do you know how expensive groceries and home items are dude?? You think those men take their girlfriends or wives out every weekend? Haha Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:04 AM
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Will you deny that married men / cohabiting spend more more money on cleaning products, personal hygiene products necessities and groceries more than their wives/partners do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:48 AM
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You're downvoting every post lol, and trying to defend yourself instead of actually talking about those hookers you're seeing. Do tell me what bias do I have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:49 AM
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No, really? Humour me please, bias against who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:45 AM
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Women almost always worked. In China they rapped the feet of really young girls (lotus feet) to keep them in once place, so they could work with their hands a lot and not desire to move or play. They were told this will help them get married to rich men, because it's a beauty/symbol status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:41 AM
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Your perspective is that you're the man with the magic disco stick that somehow is lucky enough to only interact with that small percentage of hookers who do it out of pleasure. Having sex with hookers isn't enough experience to talk on the topic too. You know what would help? If your mother had to hook to keep food on the table or if you did it yourself. If you really didn't like having sex with women who aren't into it you'd just have sex with people you don't have to bribe to sleep with you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:38 AM
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If you pay taxes to the IRS from the money you gain by selling drugs you'll likely not face prosecution. 40% of adults are overweight and like 12% obese. There's no maternity leave and in some states you can still get child brides. The US is a fkin shithole. I'm not even sure why we would talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:33 AM
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When it comes to western women and western men no, I don't think either misandry or misogyny is systematic. That's just victim mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:30 AM
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You're arguing in bad faith. I never said all, I just said a good chunk. The point I'm trying to get across is that those women don't necessarily want to have sex with you. It's better than just believing the people you pay to have sex with think you're the most special client they have and it's a pleasure to have you inside of them. These "friends" are either childhood friends or close family members that have worked in the field. I'm not a feminist in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:27 AM
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You keep bringing up how successful attractive men definitely buy services to make yourself feel better. Trafficking isn't just the elephant in the room, it's the whole building. You aren't interested in trafficking women yet you invest in an industry that does exactly that. Sex buyers are all the same. Then don't meet women on apps. Almost like this whole planet is based around heterosexual relationships, and it's almost like both men and women tend to regard me as one of their own. You could l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:20 AM
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If you know bears yes. That's what they do if you just back off when they see you. The man might just choose to follow ya
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:31 AM
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Yeah some women just Base their choice on sexism, but if you like hiking you know exactly what to do when you encounter bears or dogs. With the weird man walking in the forest? Honestly not much can be done if he is dead set on stealing your shit, beating you up or raping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:29 AM
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I feel much safer in public than with weirdos who walk around the forest for little reasons. Where my grandparents lived, there were dudes that would take little kids to the forest and molest them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:28 AM
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Mama bears will leave you alone too if you know how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:27 AM
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Ehh, most bear killers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 AM
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Yes I'm literally delusional enough to think I'll make friends with the bear. Truth be told, bears mostly leave you alone if you know how to act and if I do hike in a forest I know bears will be there most likely. I've met with them before and I know what to do. Having a strange men in the forest with me is sort of creepy, the same way being with a strange woman in the forest is creepy, unless they're obviously just hiking or similar and have the right equipment/don't look like total psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 AM
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Being romantic and caring to have consensual sex is vastly different from paying someone who's potentially trafficked to let you hit. All I can say about high end escorts is that they can absolutely still be trafficked and if they aren't they're just disgusting humans who partake in a disgusting industry, same as the buyers. Those attractive men have women fawning over to have sex with them without really expecting commitment. Women also like having casual sex. Having consensual sex with a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:23 AM
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You like being involved in a predatory industry for your pleasure. Okay! That doesn't mean those women enjoy having sex with you. Would she sit and talk with you if she wasn't paid to do so? You have no way to know what a drug addict looks like unless you're one yourself. And even then, you won't be able to spot each one. Being in a brothel doesn't guarantee the ones you buy are there out of free will. A family member who didn't speak English was literally trafficked in a German brothel for a nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:30 AM
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So we'd have an army that's 50% less effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:05 AM
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No, you misunderstood me. I didn't say no woman would be attracted to you, and I never based my judgement on my personal attraction to you. Not only do I not know you, I'm also quite literally gay. Prostitutes have multiple clients a day, and a lot of them don't do it due to some weird kink, they do it to put bread on the table, because they need drug money, because they're being pimped, or have kids to raise. Or maybe they were groomed into it from a young age (say 14), and were just never able…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:04 AM
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This isn't about accountability dude. It's about dealing with the child. There's no need to punish either men nor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:44 AM
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You're right, that doesn't change the fact that prostitutes certainly don't feel attraction towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:19 AM
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Ok, If everyone goes to war, who keeps society going?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:53 AM
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That doesn't change anything. The point isn't to punish anyone for having sex or producing a child. The point is to deal with the child somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM
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Yeah neither is freedom nor sunlight, internet, or eating anything else but rice, potatoes, eggs and water for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM
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Ok, what if she can't have an abortion due to social matters or health reasons? Do you not realize that if the mother simply bails too after the child is born, then she'll have to pay child support? We can't give men and women the same rights over abortion because men don't get pregnant. What happens during pregnancy is during pregnancy, and what happens after isn't about men's rights or women's rights. Its about the child's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:48 AM
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Men have a choice to. Either go for shared custody or basically pay your way out of parenthood. Once the child is there, you can even use safe haven laws. You can put it up for adoption. You can give up your parental rights to someone else. You can't just back off and screw your child over without first making sure someone takes care of it. Why would your rights after making a few bad decisions matter more than the rights of someone in a bad situation that never did anything wrong and never aske…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:45 AM
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Not what i was refering to. People need food, the war asks for weaponry.. who's going to produce all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:42 AM
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You replied to me dude. Not a woman who said men shouldn't have sex. Ofcourse that should. However If a pregnancy results out of it, they have to be responsible somehow, the way women are. Abortion ain't no easy choice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:38 PM
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good point, but men are simply more fit to operate heavy machinery, and work better in high stress environments. How do you choose who gets drafted then? It's not that they're unhelpful, but most women are totally unequiped for it. A lot of women become useless on their periods. I'm able to carry on as usual, but my girlfriend bitches and moans the whole time. I can tell she's in a lot of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:18 PM
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Child support is a right of the child's, not the woman's. You have to take accountability for a living, breathing being that's here because of you, mainly because poor thing didn't choose to be born to irresponsible parents. If you really don't want kids as a man, just get snipped. Much less invasive then getting tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:15 PM
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Providing =/= pulling your own weight. Most households nowadays are dual income. Both parents work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:14 PM
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The motivation behind what? Haha lmfao no, average women don't look like the women you see on Instagram. Yes, she does look much older. I thought she was 30 or something. Not uncommon for American women to look like that. Most women truly aren't blessed with curves in all the right places. When I look at my age group, sure, we're pretty much all attractive (or at least somewhat cute) , except the every once in a while landwhale or just someone with a hideous face. But we are young women in a cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:13 PM
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What would be the issue if I did? She's an average ass woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:02 PM
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The 30% of wives that don't work? Before yes, that might have well been the case. But now when most women work? I don't think so. Most men don't make so much that their wives live glamorous lives. Most women stay at home because It's cheaper than paying for a baby sitter or kindergarten in some places, or similar reasons. They live frugal lives. They're average people. When it comes to old millionaires dating smoking hot 20 year Olds, it would bad faith to say that those girls are head over heel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:50 PM
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For real. I'm not sure why anyone would think that's a comfortable place to be in at all. Do they think it's similar to taking a shit or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:47 PM
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We can't both draft men and women because women cannot fight in wars as well as men do and someone needs to keep society as we know it going. Women deal with periods and pregnancy. If anything it would be more unhelpful if most of the female population participated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:44 PM
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Who would that help?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:42 PM
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That's like saying that if you don't want to die you can just not drive or leave the house. Please!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:41 PM
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"Future son"? So if it was a daughter then it was a good riddance or what? As sad as it sounds, we can't force people to be incubators for us, for any reason. Just because a random dude decides to nut into someone that doesn't mean the woman is morally forced to go through hell for 9 months and then push a watermelon sized object out of her most sensitive organ. In most countries everyone who earns money in a way or another pays taxes. Men making more means they're taxed more. You're taxed by pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:39 PM
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Pretty sure passing up a fist sized blood cloth and potentially feeling guilty for the rest of your life is pretty good "punishment". Abortion is no easy decision. We need to go easy on people going through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:31 PM
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It's so bad that when a guy walks up to me just to ask for a lighter or just to chat without trying to sleep with me I'm literally pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:28 PM
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Average women are deemed as straight up ugly by just as average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:27 PM
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Do you think all of the house wives stay with their husbands because they provide? You think average women who work too stay with their partner because they provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:26 PM
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No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:56 PM
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I wouldn't hit that either, doesn't change that she's a perfectly average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:41 PM
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I'm trying to help you understand something. He's staying home and she pays for everything is that not beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:40 PM
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Ugly how? Not disfigured, not fat. Features aren't totally terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:21 PM
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The mods asked to refrain from downvoting. Yes, she's the beta bux in this scenario. Had she stayed at home and her husband were to work, she'd be doing all that. Do you understand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:20 PM
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Dude, If you're working all day and your wife stays at home, she'll be doing all the chores and cooking. If she doesn't, she'll be met with scrutiny. Got it now? The spouse that stays at home cares for the home. Otherwise they're lazy bums and will be regarded and treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:06 PM
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You should refrain from downvoting here. And that's an assumption. I didn't call anyone ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:12 PM
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Nope, you're the one who misunderstood the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:55 AM
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The fact that you pretend to not understand why further solidifies my suspicion I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:15 AM
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The men who hit on every other girl before hitting on her out of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:20 AM
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Haha no. Chads who are red pilled get sex with hot women. Sub 5 guys who are red pilled lie about fucking models online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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3.5 would basically be a disfigured woman lol, or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:13 AM
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I'm sorry, but someone with model tier girlfriends would NOT be posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 AM
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This is because average men don't go for average women. They shoot higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:57 AM
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Because she's unattractive physically to them. The men here will swear up and down that she's below average, but they're wrong. And then when you tell them that they over rate themselves and under rate women they'll tell you you're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:55 AM
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What sexual predator?? What on earth do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:52 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:14 PM
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That's.. rape. It's like tampering with birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:57 PM
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So you think I'd be ok for a lady you were intimate in to lie about taking a plan B?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:35 PM
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No, if you tell someone you're going to pull out then you pull tf out. If I tell someone I'm going to take plan B then I'm gonna take that mf plan b.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:35 PM
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Laugh all you want but genuinely that's a good move. Why that lady thought it would he a good idea to sue him over that I have no idea. Waterboarding couldn't have gotten out of me that I picked up a used condom out of the trash and proceeded to attempt to impregnate myself with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:32 PM
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No it's absolutely still rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:21 PM
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Then she's a psycho who needs to be in a facility. Ofcourse that's still rape. Iirc that happened to drake. He put hot sauce in it and the woman tried to sue. If anything you should be cleaning it in the sink and then throwing it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:21 PM
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Yes it's rape. If someone doesn't stop the moment you tell them to during a sexual act it's rape. Especially if it can result in a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:19 PM
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Well, not pulling out can seriously fuck up someone's life. There should be some sort of consequences, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:15 PM
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Not cheating but you need to tell whoever you're seeing if you're sleeping around, and get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:05 AM
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I have absolutely no idea, it's puzzling to me too. If I tell you a bunch if stories like these you won't even believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:50 PM
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No it's an actual thing. Most couples I know stop having sex after awhile, mostly because one or both or them aren't actually lesbians or they withhold sex out of stupid reasons and petty fights. I'm scared that that's how me and my partner are going to end up. She's scared about that too, so we do our best to keep it active and keep the attraction between eachother strong, by trying to seduce eachother all the time (takes effort at first but comes naturally after a while) and keeping in shape/g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:24 PM
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We literally date the same demographic, except my pool is more undecisive, crazier, smaller, uglier and has bad relationship with her parents. Pair that with domestic violence, dead bedrooms and social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:19 PM
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Everything I said was a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:16 PM
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Maybe because you aren't a lesbian??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:14 PM
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this whole text of wall you dismiss the issues I have that you have no idea about. Not all women are beautiful to me. There's a chunk of women that aren't beautiful or attractive to anyone. Sure, they have that little something about them because they're women, and I manage to find something beautiful in every human. But that doesn't mean I'd have sex with them or pursue a relationship. To a certain degree it is virtue signaling. That doesn't mean it's easy to date as a lesbian. Anti male rethro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:06 PM
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We are the ones being called traitors for NOT being attracted to dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:51 PM
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You are being the dismissive one here. Lesbians specifically are treated like deviants. The fact that were not attracted to men grants us some form of social exclusion. No, you literally dismiss the issues lesbians face while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:51 PM
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Having a bi friend doesn't really mean shit to me. I don't know how close you two are, how the dating scene there is, and a bunch of other stuff. Acting like it's easier than for straight men when the pool is smaller, people won't take you as seriously and when society demonizes it is silly. No, lesbians aren't more accepting. I had no girl show interest in me before I went to the gym, cut my hair and curated my wardrobe. Having a good sex life doesn't mean you have an easier time with dating. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:19 AM
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How exactly? Smaller dating pool, high standards when it comes to grooming, quite a lot of body shaming, dealing with homophobia, flakiness due to people being unsure of their sexuality, higher domestic violence and rape rates, I could go on. Your flair definitely doesn't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:21 AM
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I really didn't ask. And you didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:41 AM
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"Far better family lives" Yeah, beating your pregnant wife because the lord allowed you sounds really healthy Projection of what? Projection of what on whom? May I request that you stop with the buzzwords and actually say what you want to say? Abortion is birth control. It's a way of preventing pregnancy. Morally it might be iffy, but as someone from a post communist country that went through an abortion ban, I have to tell you, it's a horrid idea with long term horrid consequences. Besides, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:41 AM
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I had no issue gaining it. Maybe it's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:37 AM
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Yeah, you're Hella condescending. You have way too much of a bias to be able to carry a productive conversation. Women uphold their roles in their traditional system alright, women still take care of household chores, cooking and children way more than men do despite the fact that most houses are dual income. I never see men going to cut trees to warm their families up in the winter, men building furniture for their families, working their ass off, nothing. Most men today are literal little girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:35 AM
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That doesn't matter. What matters is that you purposely miss understand everything said. Ofcourse we need more young people. That's why I think parents should get a lot of benefits for having children, that's why I think paternity testing should be a thing at birth, that's why I think parental leave should be longer, why I think we need to cut back on work hours and encourage young people to mingle. But acting like banning birth control is a good call is silly at best. What happens in religious …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:26 AM
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Right. So how do you know the people who complain don't have a hard life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:24 AM
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No one said that. That's how you interpreted it. People who are educated know how to use birth control. Having a family and popping children like there's no tomorrow are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:22 AM
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What struggles to average men have in western countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:21 AM
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What on earth is womensplaining actually??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:17 AM
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Experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:16 AM
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Okay, what does that have to do with anything I've said? I don't subscribe to the patriarchy theory at all. No one can even give a proper definition. Gender roles have their purposes. I wouldn't let a man babysit my children the same way I wouldn't let a woman repair my car. Unless I know them very well and I've seen them prove their abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:16 AM
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Excuse me but you literally sound homosexual. Date a mighty man who isn't subtle and puts it in your ear on the first date. The subtlety of it is what makes it enjoyable. The grace, the femininity, everything else. Would you rather have your date lightly touch your hand or openly talk about how she wants to marry you and help you trim your pubes??? TEENAGERS? Teenagers are your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:57 AM
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My guy you literally asked a question and I answered it. Why ask if you don't care to hear the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:55 AM
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There are enough blue collar jobs. Most men won't choose those. That means they aren't putting in as much effort as before. Supporting? Supporting what? Men aren't bras. We have equal rights, men are fully capable of working and no one should financially support their short term partner. The only healthy way this sort of arrangement could work is if there are children involved and the partner staying at home homesteads all day, keeps the house sparkly clean and cooks. Now approaching is vastly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:54 AM
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They might have a visceral reaction of disgust. Paying someone to fuck you is pretty damn degrading. It's the same reaction men have when they find out that their girlfriend has sucked 2 dicks at once in the past and has a body count of over 54. I don't have any "trump card" on men, I'm literally a lesbian. If I need anything from a man I ask my father or my friends, and they usually oblige. That happens because I also help when they need something. Most men and women have normal, friendly relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 AM
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Yeah yeah, now tell me what percentage of men work in blue collar, and compare it to how it was 100 years ago. Yeah, quite catastrophic. Never heard a woman complain about those men quitting. Sour grapes like I assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:12 AM
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You are either talking about tweens or women who really aren't into you. While men are more proactive, women should absolutely still show more interest, although they do it in more subtle ways. It should be an enjoyable experience for both sides. So you don't even date! You have no way to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:08 AM
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Fr. Shall I also send flowers to his office for him to enjoy? Perhaps pick out some sexy lingerie for our anniversary for him to wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:04 AM
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Most men do get a thrill. You shouldn't try to woo women who aren't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:03 AM
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You'd be surprised how little people will be affected by your choices. Had you not commented here we wouldn't even had known you exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:02 AM
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No, men really put in way less effort. We're looking at a post made by a dude who said he doesn't want to put in the effort to approach women/take a proactive approach in dating and that women expecting that are somehow deranged. The fact that you think your level is higher than what you attract is also really telling. The fact that you think that because you deem someone "as bad as you" they should date your or be attracted to you is also really, really telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:00 AM
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It's not about any of these, it's about MSN simply being proactive. Men overestimate their abilities, looks, they overestimate themselves is every field out there. Men are socially conditioned to be confident. Women are told to be meek. Furthermore, a man would smash and dash almost anything, there's no reason for a woman to approach. If the man makes up enough courage to talk to the girl, we can assume that he actually likes her, at least a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:51 AM
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This is not about being desperate, and it's not about chasing a woman who doesn't like you. This is about being proactive, like a man traditionally should be. I'm not sure who told you that you have to devout yourself soul and body to a random girl you just met, or that you should pester people who don't want to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:48 AM
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Men are taught to be that sexual. In reality, it's really not such a big difference between men and women. There is a difference, ofcourse, but acting like the sexual appetite of men is what keeps the world spinning is quite comically eronated. Not really. If those men would still get laid they wouldn't complain so much, no matter how the dating scene looks like. These men just have a bunch of sour grapes and like complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:46 AM
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You don't have to take things literally. No, we obviously aren't beasts, but traditionally men have always been chasers. The egg doesn't swim to the sperm. Ofcourse in a healthy relationship both sides put in effort, but in the courting phase, it's usually the man who makes the first steps. It should make the man feel good about himself and the situation too. Heck, as a more masculine lesbian, i love making the first steps too, I love taking the lead. You have to stop thinking about it as hunter…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:40 AM
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That's an assumption you made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:46 PM
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I said "screw my rights". "Your rights are not my issue they are yours" If you are actively fighting against feminism (not just the bad side of it), then you are in fact actively fighting against my rights. That means that my rights are sadly your issue too, though they 100% shouldn't be. I never said my rights were your issue. I'm not sure why you even said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:06 AM
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Definitely. I believe that even if you don't believe someone, it's better that you just shut up about it. People who have gone through stuff like that don't need to be called liars on top. You can just choose to not get involved. Luckily both her and her little brothers are doing great now. She's got a stable job and she has this healthy glow now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:04 AM
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What's correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:59 AM
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Eh, my childhood friend was physically abused by her dad for quite a few years, her 2 little brothers and mother too. I was there to see it. Even seeing it was rather disturbing for me. She never reported ir because well, it was her dad. Once she turned 18 she had no reason to report it because she moved out at 14, and therefore cut ties with her father. Many reasons why someone wouldn't report it, especially when you consider a lot of the times people are victimized by the ones closest to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:56 AM
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You don't need everyone to believe you. They make a pretty good point. Ofcourse there are reasons why some actual victims wouldn't report it, but it's still a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 AM
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Keep refusing sex and refusing sex once are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:29 AM
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I have had a close male friend of mine be accused of assaulting a girl I personally knew. He had a history with doing stuff like that to girls, but she also had a history of exaggerating stuff a bit. I didn't side with anyone. It wasn't my problem. Though I know that male friend absolutely did do something iffy, and I know she might have told the truth, in her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:27 AM
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Naah, it definitely is her. You can tell her how unhinged she is just by looking at her. Definitely her ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:21 AM
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Yeah obviously but that has nothing to do with what we're discussing. Most women don't have a social audience that matters online. Getting creepy dms isn't the same thing as being hit on online. Being fed shit doesn't mean you're actually getting fed. It just means that someone is throwing shit at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:38 AM
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Sexualizing someone and hitting on them are vastly different. Some people get off on making other people uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:52 PM
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Mom Bod refers to post pregnancy body. It's not desirable. It's the opposite of the beauty standards. Stretch marks, saggy skin, more weight, puffy.. Nah screw being fat. We have an epidemic of that crap. It's not healthy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:47 PM
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That's too bad. Undesirable men have no chance anyway, never really had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:46 PM
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People will make assumptions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:05 PM
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I feel like a large chunk of fat people are moms. Or not even fat, just that they lose the nice hourglass shape they had in their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:04 PM
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The lonely harpies do think that. Women in happy relationships can't get enough of their man either, at least when it comes to my age group ( young adults). I hate this "you're entitled" thing. It's a completely natural and healthy want. If anything it shows your partner you desire them. People who don't love eachother don't wanna smash everyday. When someone's really Into you they will adore the idea of being a "sex slave" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:03 PM
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Then we could argue that most men have an audience too. Most dudes I know also get likes on pictures too, from friends and family. Yes, they do. However, average women don't get a significant number of men who do that. Average men still get girls following them because they might want to shoot their shot with them. You don't know how many women spend hours and hours yapping about stuff they did to be noticed by that guy they like. Ofcourse it's really subtle and unhelpful stuff, but the interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:01 PM
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I didn't ask wether you valued it or not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:57 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:57 PM
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If I was into men yes I'd wake up for My partner at 4 am. The way I see it yes. She should be excited that you're interested in her. My grandma always said that true love is non stop, passionate, hard pounding (don't take this seriously and littleraly). Ofcourse, you have to do it in a way she enjoys it too. No one wants to be woken up at 4 am for bad sex. Same for her. She should care about your pleasure and enjoyment just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:56 PM
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Yeah screw my right to vote, own a bank account and buy property smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:54 PM
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Usually mothers get fat. At least where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:53 PM
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Why would I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:53 PM
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Cmon man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:52 PM
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Yeah you absolutely miss interpreted what she said. While I'm not for victim blaming at all, the chances of that happening are pretty small. Or at least I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:25 PM
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Ehh. If you don't pleasure your wife after she gave birth and ruined her body to give you children, you aren't half of the man you think you are..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:23 PM
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Because of feminism men have access to casual sex more than ever.. Uh...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:22 PM
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Your mouth stinks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:21 PM
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You can love someone and not want to spend their life with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:20 PM
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People might need experience to understand what they want from a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:20 PM
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If you don't perk up the second your partner does something sexual (age group 18-45), they ain't the one. I simply can't get it, if she wakes me up to request head at 4 am ill do it gladly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:19 PM
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Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:16 PM
2

Lmfao no they won't. What a stupid concept. That's like saying we should jail men who lie about their intentions to sleep with someone. If you're stupid enough to believe whatever someone says, that'd completely your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:39 AM
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Good thing both men and women lie, so it's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:38 AM
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We are talking about the exact same girl. She has to be a sociopath of some sorts. The "marry me?" Package Is the one that costs a whopping 500 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:33 AM
2

I wouldn't give half an eaten shoe if I didn't have any audience. What matters to me is that I'm able to keep in touch with my family, friends and partner. I really don't get the argument you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:32 AM
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It was implied, dare I say, obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:31 AM
1

No, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:37 AM
2

Women don't want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 AM
2

No, it really wasn't. Wanting revenge on women for not being attracted to is weird stuff. No, it doesn't become rape. I don't think it's morally wrong at all. It doesn't change anything. However, lying about your sexual health and contraception is completely and absolutely messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 AM
4

You think that 34 people that I interact with on a monthly basis irl are a consistent social media audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:27 AM
2

Probably not. The audience is people I interact with in real life. Certainly not simps willing to pay for feet pics. My cousin liking my picture is an audience to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:27 AM
6

Unaware, not really. Unimpressed, for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:26 AM
3

How can wearing a head set during sex fix someone's libido???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:25 AM
1

No I agree it's kind of dumb. However "made him worthy of pussy" just rubs me the wrong way. You always rub me the wrong way. Unless someone lies about not having an std or about the use of contraception I feel it's fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:48 AM
3

I rarely post any content. I just share memes on my story and the thrice a year pic with my girlfriend. My close friends do interact with what I'm posting. Random people from highscool/ other stuff like that mostly just like and don't comment (which is absolutely reasonable to me). I'm I'm a big social media person and none of my female friends are, though they do have a relatively larger following due to having public accounts. I always kept mine on private and closely curate who follows me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:42 AM
1

Never met one singular woman who talked about that. Past a certain age we literally don't care. When you grow attached to someone they become the most attractive person in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:30 AM
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I have no way to know that, I'm absolutely not paying for that bullshit. What I found pretty damn cruel or her was her persona online. She would always make videos of her asskissing men in a way or another, saying random things she likes about men, overly fluttering her lashes and stuff like that in general. Ofcourse lonely men will buy her shit. If anyone is interested I can offer a link to her Instagram page.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:29 AM
2

Like 300. A bit less than that. I use it to keep in touch with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:28 AM
2

What you said has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:27 AM
7

You have virtually 0 way to know that. I'm not sure why you perked up so much all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:27 AM
3

What sane woman would be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:40 AM
1

Desperate ones, yes. Others will not commit to women on their level or higher and would rather just try to hook up with every girl in their vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:40 AM
-1

Flooded is way too strong of a word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:39 AM
7

Imagine being a basement dweller who hasn't been able to convince anyone to sleep with you who thinks that threatening to start jerking off to a robot instead of paid models Is a massive burn to the whole female population, and that it will affect their lives forever. Oh no, please don't stop feeding into a predatory industry that hurts women, traficks them, encourages unhealthy sexual habits, abuses male actors to the point they can no longer get an erection in their 30s and fucks up with the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:38 AM
3

This beta wet dream is nothing but that. A revenge fantasy. Porn didn't stop prostitution from happening, if anything it might have made it worse. If anything, I'd be happy if porn was made without any human exploitation. But I don't think it will happen soon enough for me to see it, sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:32 AM
3

Most women don't have an audience following us in our pocket. The demographic you're talking about is rather small. Most women are average looking humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:30 AM
0

Truly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:28 AM
0

A lot of men think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:27 AM
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Yes. Men pay to have women talk to them. I've seen models on insta with 500 usd packets that included the ability to get priority when it comes to when she responds to your messages, pet names and personalized content. I don't remember wether it's a monthly subscription or a one time thing. She only had 15 spots for that option and all of them were occupied. Mind you she had other options with just some content and she only promised to respond to 5 messages a day or so and other packets that wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:26 AM
5

You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 AM
2

Eh, I wouldn't be so sure about the low cost of it. Chat gpt has pretty basic features that are pay to unlock. If there's a service people would pay for, a better version of it will surely not be free. People want to make money, and this includes the programators of ai.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 AM
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No there obviously should be laws against that, and it should still be obvious that the video was made by AI. Should look nothing like reality. I'm not about to be arrested for crimes I did not commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:21 AM
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I feel like that crosses a moral line, the same way deep nudes did. It's totally ok if women give their consent for that, but otherwise it's pretty weird to make videos of a random person like that, especially one that's not a public figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:19 AM
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You've never been poked in the cervix, as such you don't get to tell women what's preferable when it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:53 AM
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No, not really. Most older men know it isn't really socially acceptable to hit on way younger women or they expect a rejection. There are some weirdos that try. But if social consequences aren't a thing here, and it's just a smash or pass game, deffo the 20 year old body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:27 AM
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Eh, too much size often hurts and not all women want to date millionaires. The weird thing is that women consider men their age as the group the group they're attracted to, while men, no matter how old, always find 18 year Olds attractive. I feel like that should struck anyone as a tad bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:24 AM
0

I really don't think there are any ons that implied or worse assumed a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:22 AM
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Men consistently find women aged 18-20 for every age group. Women however find their own age group attractive. There have been stats done on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:13 AM
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Yes. She was pretty jealous from the start. We worked through it and now it's not an issue anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:42 PM
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I think it's because women aren't taught that they're also really sexual beings and allowed to be as sexual as men. Some women have never had an orgasm or rarely had one and think that's ok. It always struck me as odd. I'm a lesbian, and lesbians seem to be more sexual than straight women, maybe because if you're courageous enough to be "sexually deviant" you have already accepted yourself as a sexual being with needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:51 AM
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This should have been left as a question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:55 AM
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It's a really hit or miss. Depends on who your therapist is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:09 PM
1

I have no words
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:28 PM
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Am I passive aggressive or do you just wanna view me that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:56 PM
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No, you literally cannot accept that men who deserve good treatment are treated well. Men who are useful objects my ass. You don't have to be helpful towards everyone to be appreciated. My dad is appreciated because he's a great snooker player. He is technically useful, but he's not liked for how he can service others. Some men are funny, charismatic, they know a bunch of stuff about a bunch of subjects, which makes talking to them a fun activity. Well yes, you have to bring some sort of value t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:49 PM
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Better yourself or live a life without romantic love. Though I'm sure that there is someone out there willing to love you. Maybe you wouldn't love them back. Who knows? If trolling online makes you happy then go ahead. Not caring about someone's rights and actively rallying against someone's rights are very different things. Like if the government of my country suddenly decided that all men must work in mine without equipment i would have something to say about it. I would not vote for that deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:20 AM
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To the point someone acts like a prissy tween and wishes to have someone's rights taken away? No. That's no excuse. I never found myself wanting straight women to have less rights than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:15 AM
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The personality and loser aspect really shine through even in online conversations. The singleness too. As for jobless, I never commented on that. I never used the word virgin negatively. Even though if you cannot convince someone to sleep with you past a certain age, there has to be something wrong with you. Same concept as that one coworker who never gets invited to things and has no one talk to them during the day. You attempt to include them or talk to them at one point and you realize why e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:30 AM
1

I feel like I got my point across alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:26 AM
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"I have to go all the way" Yeah I certainly cannot magically do that. There's no swap gender potion around. You know I don't have to go all the way. You just cannot admit that I'm right. Men get treated with respect. Losers get treated badly. Twisting my words to fit your narrative won't work on me. I said exactly what I said, and it should be taken as such. Being a loser isn't a good look. This is for both men and women. Yes it was also a "skill issue" on my part. Young teenagers often have a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:23 AM
2

You sound like an angsty teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:16 AM
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Treating romantic partners like garbage and treating a whole gender like garbage are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:19 PM
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Well thank you for your input but you grossly diverted from our topic. Yes and no. I will be treated like a monster more so than men are. I'll be seen as inherently predatory. I've never had fulfilling female friendships because of that. Men have gotten away with much worse things than what I "did". Yes, it is a skill issue to not be able to attract a mate. Men aren't seen as tools at all, but being an incapable, useless pos won't help you when it comes to socializing. Women are objectified just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:16 PM
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Someone not being into you sexually Is a really childish reason to have a negative view over someone. It reminds me of gay people being shitty towards straight people for being straight. Or obese women calling men fat phobic and #notbodypositive for not being attracted to them. Same energy. Same vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:08 PM
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Bullies are typically outcasts too. The outcasts who aren't bullies are generally just cowards. That's not outcasting. People not showing romantic or sexual interest in you isn't that. Being completely avoided even by your own gender group, being shunned, harassed, assaulted, etc, are being socially outcasted. Was I also an outcast because women didn't show as much interest in me as they did in men? Are they homophobic for that? Or is it just that they weren't Into me because they're straight (I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:05 PM
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Ehh, as long as women don't directly bother you with their distrust, I feel like you shouldn't be so upset over it. I'm a dark-skinned person(my eastern European beauty standards). People think I'm a Romani woman. Such, they follow me in stores to check if I'm not stealing anything. I don't mind that. I understand that they have unfortunate events everyday, and while not every person who looks like me steals, 9/10 thieves look like me. The only time issues arise is when they begin talking to me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:59 PM
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Sometimes it is fairly reasonable, yeah. My Roman empire was the Turkish ice-cream man. I've hated men ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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Plenty of gay men hate women because of trauma, or because they see no value in them. Straight men see value in attractive women (mate, sex, love interest, whatever), gay men don't see that. Society also really, really forces them to be into women, which causes resentment, resulting in more hate towards women. It might also be jealousy, because women get the attention from attractive men, while plenty if gay men don't. Might also be because gay men are tired of being treated like pets by straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:55 PM
2

Did what? Not do their best to include outcast men, despite the fact that such a group has no redeeming qualities? Can someone be called evil for simply not enjoying your company?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:52 PM
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Why even speak to him? He chose the outcast title. You're the villain to him. Let him be melodramatic and lonely if that's what pleases him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:50 PM
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There's a reason some people end up social outcasts. Usually it's their own fault. They posses a bunch of severely negative personality traits, and as such no one wants to be around them. Being sexually unnapealing and ignored by really attractive women is one thing, being an outcast is completely something else. Personally, if my child was simply unable to integrate in the social circle, I'd get them help immediately. If people look down on you, they must have a good reason. Like jerking off in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:50 PM
1

I've seen you around before, your personality is certainly .. something. Curious wether the chicken or the egg came first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:47 PM
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Hate is way too strong of a word for someone that simply doesn't wanna fuck you and isn't interested in interacting with you. The word you're searching for is "apathy".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:46 PM
2

I remember the weird kids hating every other social group in middle school but them because no one wanted to sit next to them (they stank). Same energy here. The child that doesn't get the cookie will swear they don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:45 PM
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Yes, because seeing half the population as scheming, inferior and wishing to have "revenge" on them Is much less bad than giving bad dating advice to losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:44 PM
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The whole incel movement too. These woman haters also seem to be cowards, which is why they only share their views online. Maybe cowardice is what makes them undesirable to women, creating a full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:43 PM
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I can't help but notice that a man's hatred for women is invertly proportional with how much attention he got from girls/women in his early teens-mid20s. It's literally always like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:41 PM
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Yes actually, and also to domestic abusers apparently. Or it could be that you need to be in a close relationship with someone for it to count as domestic abuse. Or that you actually have to be around women to be misogynistic towards them. Or we could just throw logic out the window and excuse our crappy behaviour because women are attracted to it. The next time I'll come home drunk at 4 am to beat my girlfriend I'll excuse it with "you're attracted to this anyway". Does that sound right to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:39 PM
0

What else is there to like about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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Well, they're absolutely right. That's what those men are. I've never met a man who got laid before money and fame that hated women. It's all the lonely, autistic, unappealing ones. Same with die hard feminists. Plus, all you do in your post is shame women. Based on what some weirdos said once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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Honestly as a lesbian I'd probably be a woman hater too if I did everything to get that puss, including changing literature and philosophy forever, but still failed. I mean to me it's clearly a skill issue on their part, but I definitely get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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Yeah but it's much more fun to use these quotes as an excuse to make misogynistic jokes. As if one can't have the balls to make crappy jokes/remarks about women without some degenerate autist dude that died long ago approving of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:33 PM
1

He died.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:31 PM
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Ehh, men murder when rejected and criticized. They doxx female streamers for having boyfriends. Now you tell me which is worse. Or could it be that both your statement and mine are irreparably ignorant, and we can't really put half of the population in a certain box because of what some maddened individuals did?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
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This IS NOT arguing in good faith. There are comedy sub reddits out there. Sadly, especially as the op, you have to at least pretend to care about the subject and what others are saying. Can't just be witty when people bring arguments, good or not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:26 PM
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Noo, it surely had to be because women are vain and horrid, that's why these spectacular minds have these incredibly based takes on their nature!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:25 PM
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You literally made it way more complex than it actually is!! People will hate things they don't have access to, or at least pretend to. They all hated women exactly because they had no access to them. It's easy to do that! For every dude that hates women there's a story of being rejected n times or whatever. That's always how the story starts. No wonder!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:23 PM
3

Weird, most likely. Fuck Aristotoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:13 PM
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Wait until you find out that without social conditioning women act in a similar way, and that humans are naturally polysexual and bisexual, being a social sex species. We have sex for reasons other than reproduction and pleasure. If we really let instincts take over, we would all just be fucking everybody, regardless of sex, the way bonobo monkeys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:35 AM
1

Yes, and women do more of the childcare and are generally more involved in children's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:32 AM
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Ejaculating in someone vs carrying them for 9 months, facing severe physical effects and having to push them out/breasfeed are very different things. Not only that, but women are generally much more involved in child care throughout the children's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:31 PM
1

I like pickles and I think men stink This is exactly how you sound sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:30 PM
2

Statistically no it isn't a 50/50 team effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 PM
3

That's your very subjective view which I didn't ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 PM
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No. I never implied that. No, I don't wish to be a man. Having the same legal rights as a man isn't a benefit. It's a necessity of a democratic and modern society. I can't have the same benefits because I'm not a man. Therefore, I can't have the same problems either. Those are yours to deal with the same way mine are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:54 PM
2

I never said we don't have equal legal rights. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:47 PM
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What kind of woman do you think ends up a single mother usually? Now what father do you think chooses to take care of his children despite having no maternal figure around? These 2 demographics are polar opposites. A failed mother and a great father. Rarely do men take responsibility over their children, much less such an active role. Pure devotion vs a broken family. That's because fathers don't take an active role usually. Women are left with post partum depression + a fissy infant to care for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:41 PM
1

Women take and transform. Houses in homes, love into children, the home into a sanctuary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:29 PM
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Wanting equal legal rights and still being regarded as a woman? No, that's not having the cake and eating it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:27 PM
2

I'm not conservative at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:21 PM
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Men don't get. Men give.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:20 PM
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They don't as much, the same way I don't get the same social protection little children get. Men are physically stronger. Men easily overpower women. Therefore, if something might happen, we have good, helpful Men that choose to help both younger/weaker/older men and women. Obviously we have the firemen and policemen who dedicate their life to helping civilians, but until then, usually Men step up because men are more capable physically speaking (Obviously) If I fall over and scrape my knee I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:17 PM
5

That's not objectification. Men court.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:16 PM
3

What you said has nothing to do with what I said. Contribute to the discussion in a constructive manner or don't contribute at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:13 PM
2

Men and women are inherently different. There's no good motivation for a woman to lower her standards and no good motivation for a man to raise his. Although that's how it's been throughout history. Women are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:57 PM
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Why is it wrong to want equal rights legally while also having social protection and privileges? Is it wrong to want to be able to work? While still being treated like a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:54 PM
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Seems like you're so biased over your gender that your own narcissistic traits fly right over your head. Studies have shown again and again that men have an inflated self esteem, that they have the sense of grandiose, that they show more narc traits than women do. It's absolutely funny. Men don't like when women think "highly" of themselves. They don't like when women and like men. They think women should be humble. That has been the case for all of human history. Men painted nude women for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:52 PM
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Narcissistic people love weaklings, narcissistic traits are more commonly found in men (statistically and culturally speaking), while women are more neurotic (weak), easy to lead, easy to control. Someone with a deflated self esteem and no self worth will be your puppet. Men know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:40 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:39 PM
4

Promiscuity and paying for someone's "consent" are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:50 AM
1

Eh i don't know, I'm down for it multiple times a day usually, and depending on how much effort I put into the relationship, my female partners were down for it on a daily basis too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:56 PM
0

As a woman, I'd like to be stuck there with women. Not only am I gay, but I also cannot live without a good gossiping session.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:22 AM
2

8-10% of people have blue eyes. We all know a bunch of blue eyed people. Also, they might not admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:37 PM
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I don't live in Vegas. I live in a no name town and eastern Europe. Almost half of the men boast about seeing prostitutes. Needing to be loved and lusted after doesn't mean they won't take the chance of having a quick nut, no matter how enthusiastic their "partner" is to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:33 PM
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Yes sadly there are. The same way guys have practice girlfriends they feel no attraction to. Although it's not charity work, it's just being cruel. They're not doing these men a service, they're actively expecting more effort for them just because they deem them "ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:31 PM
1

Attempting to cheat and not being able to is worse than just cheating because opportunity arised. Imagine your partner investing time and money into trying to cheat but not being able to, texting random people without them responding, buying gifts for the people they're interested in without showing any interest back... Not only is your partner a cheating bastard, they're a cheating bastard that no one likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:28 PM
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Men have never truly contributed 50/50 to a household. In most families women do moat of the cleaning and cooking + child rearing. Not only that, but having someone carry your offspring for 9 months and then feed it every 2 hours for the first months of their life is pretty priceless. There's no equality between women, just equity. My partner is half my height and almost half my weight. I'm just physically stronger. That means I carry the heavy stuff for her. We're both female. It's not equality…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:20 PM
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How do you cope with this? If you don't like someone's company and they keep repeating a behaviour that bothers you quite a bit, you stop interacting with them instead of complaining about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:07 PM
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Both you and your friend sound like nut cases. You both shouldn't be responsible for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:57 PM
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Nestle bought the government into dismantling parental leave so mothers can't breasfteed and babies rely on formula. You can't be serious lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:29 PM
1

West Europe is a hot spot for human trafficking. The USA too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:03 PM
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Me and my mother went swimming in the sea and a current almost drowned us. A man around helped us and he's the sole reason we are alive. My dad was on the shore and couldn't have gotten there in time despite trying. That man is the reason why I still believe in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:39 PM
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No, screw this sociopathic bullshit. I feel the need to help to the best of my ability even as a woman. If you as a man refuse to protect the others around you, you're a failure. Human society is still going on due to human's innate nature to cooperate and help. If we just stop helping eachother everything will turn to shit. Glad that in my culture this doesn't happen, whenever I needed help someone jumped in and offered a hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:36 PM
3

You think a misogynistic drawing is a good argument? "Hoes"? Well maybe stop going for hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:27 AM
1

I know young girls who look okay and still can't find any dude their age that's interested in them beyond fucking them. That's young men for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:26 AM
2

USA isn't the whole world dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:25 AM
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Some young women don't have bargain power either. They're not that ugly either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:53 PM
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The actual traffickers don't get caught. Are cops really that stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:43 PM
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I knew girls from the industry and pimps. It's really really worse than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:46 PM
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There's nothing to negotiate about it. Some people are undesirable by default. Programs might help those individuals. Prostitution literally means having a segment of society with no other purpose than being a cum dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:49 PM
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Prostitutes are often trafficked, drug addicted, homeless, moneyless, desperate, underaged women. People's safety shall be more important than anyone's sexual desire. Germany has legalized prostitution and brothels, a lot of girls are brought in from other countries, they barely speak German or English, it's a whole crock of shit. Not being trafficked or taken advantage of when you're a mess sounds like a human right to me. Not to mention the men spreading sexual diseases to family members. I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:42 PM
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Kebab spicy. No head after spicy food pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:24 PM
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That's absolutely not what I'm talking about. You're a man, you cannot possibly understand how women's sexuality works because you literally can't feel it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:39 AM
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Yeah I'm not gonna have you tell me how my body works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:27 AM
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Basically this. I'm really curious how op missed all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Or just cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Actually both men and women are non monogamous sexually. If we weren't we'd only have one partner for life and we wouldn't find other people attractive when we are in a relationship. The same thoughts you have about women on the street/your female friends women have too, we just don't really talk about it as much, we keep it more low key. This is because society kind of conditions men to be really sexual and women to sort of repress their sexuality. But yes, a lot of us want to fuck our male fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Yes they do, the same way men learn from other men what's attractive and what's not. This is human behaviour. Remember when all the little boys liked the same girl? It's not really because she was pretty or had a good personality, it was simply because the other boys liked her. You know how rich dudes get arm candy? A lot of them were having sex with everyone they wanted, but committed to only one woman who looked really good. The arm candy girlfriend. Humans love competition. We are programmed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:59 AM
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I literally excused victims of abuse. These are really rare and really bad situations. These are the exceptions to the rule. I'm not really sure what you're trying to imply here. I see both men and women as capable adults, who can deal with their own issues outside of extraordinary cases. Yes, the conversation is about the rights of kids. Why on earth are you devagating so much??? Systemically denied? This is a gross overstatement. It's like saying that women in western countries are oppressed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:56 AM
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There are a bunch of social media trend with guys wearing makeup. Guyliner is now a thing! Eyeliner can look really masculine, and contour can be used to enhance masculinity in the face shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:20 AM
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Are you being purposely optuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:18 PM
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Wanting a kid and actually being a dad to it are different things. Most men aren't that involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:02 PM
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Yes? Good morning???0 Throughout history men haven't been involved enough in their child's lives. Is this the first time you find this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:01 PM
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Ok, if you don't wanna have kids then get snipped. It's still not a good excuse. I don't want to take care of my demented grandma either, yet I'm forced to and I still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:32 PM
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Sorry, I don't understand what you re trying to put down. Be more precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:30 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I hope you and your dad figure it out and mend your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:17 AM
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Adults don't need help! THEY RE ADULTS. Unless they are somehow kept captive, severely retarded, or have no source of income because of family members, they don't need help. If someone wants help they can reach out to friends, a partner, family or a therapist. IF someone is treating you unfairly, you're free to not interact with them anymore. If you feel everyone is treating you unfairly, it might be your fault. You might deserve it if you push your issues down random people's throats and derail…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:15 AM
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Plenty of women also work full time. You can work full time and still raise children and STILL be involved in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:13 AM
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No, that's the least important part. The only thing that actually matters is how the child ends up and if they can grow up and say "me and my dad have always had a great relationship, he's my best friend and no 1 fan even now" or "my dad was a deadbeat loser who I felt was never present and I hope he dies alone in an elderly home"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:11 AM
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Huh??? Not doing 50% of childcare does mean you are a deadbeat. "Giving it all you got" isn't enough, you have the responsibility of your kids' life, the way they end up is highly dependent on you. Even if you don't really wanna do it for their mother (which is also kind of fucked), do it for them, they're your offspring. They're the ones who will carry your legacy and take care of you when you get older. You don't get to have a preference on how you contribute to your kids life, you should lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:09 AM
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Growing up I was shocked at how my friends describe their fathers. My dad was most of the times involved in my life, like an actual parent should. Heck, he even stayed home with me when I was born, because my mom was making more at the moment and it made sense. I was shocked that my friends' dads never took them anywhere with them, never had friendly conversation with them, barely gave advice, didn't ask at least once every few days how they were doing and if everything is fine, mostly didn't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:06 AM
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Not affording it doesn't mean they wouldn't do it if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:02 AM
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Did you really do 50/50 on carrying the baby, feeding it and waking up multiple times a night to change them when they cried/took hours from your time to learn about parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:02 AM
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Not the one of the kid, it's just that the kid is the least able to fend for themselves in this situation. The kid has no choice. Yes it's better, but it's worse if you also have a parent that isn't financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:53 AM
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Again, you're looking at this from the wrong point of view. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:36 AM
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Yup! It sucks but people will always make bad choices. I can't believe people turn it into a men's rights thing instead of focusing on what's important. Aborting isn't always a viable solution for medical reasons. Some women don't know their pregnant and then it's too late to abort too. There's no fix but men or women paying child support, depending on who abandons ship first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:26 AM
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This isn't a women's rights or men's rights type of deal, but a child's rights deal. What the woman and man want doesn't matter. The child should be the priority. That means men pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:04 AM
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If a dude doesn't want a child he can wrap it or get snipped. why punish the child? When one side doesn't pay child support that's directly punishing a child for what their mother and father did. That'd be unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:56 AM
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What really irks me is pit hair. It looks and smells monstrous on both sexes, but on men it's much, much worse. Men naturally kinda smell worse and sweat more due to testosterone. Also lower grooming standards. Please, shave the pit hair. Everyone. Trim it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:10 AM
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I disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:36 AM
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No, that's not what they do. However, if you neglect your partner, expect infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:36 PM
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Absolutely. Especially attractive women. And definitely not as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:34 PM
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Hot take: the women you see as in your league are above you by a long shot. Statistically men over rate themselves and women under rate themselves. That 6 likely is seen as an 8 by most people. You are 2 points lower (at least) than you think you are. A lot of you struggle because of pretty high standards. She has to be good looking, not overweight, not older than you, single, not a mother, not a smoker, not high maintenance, no high body count, etc etc etc... the remaining people are a very nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:33 PM
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You're right, but you commented the same thing already. Maybe expand or something, but I don't think copy pasting the same comment is necessary and might be considered spam
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:27 PM
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Yes yes. It's bad and all. But it's the only way that someone without experience can get it to be more experienced. I think women date men they're not attracted to for similar reasons. As a lesbian, I see a lot of straight women hit on me just so they can have a go at me, enjoy my attention and then leave me for a dude. I've also seen this happen to some of my friends a couple of times. They're nor honest about wanting something casual either. It is what it is! Dating isn't fair and life isn't f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:25 PM
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It's morally iffy imo, but people do what they must do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:22 PM
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I never said you did that. Why do you make so many assumptions about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:18 PM
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You're really good at yapping. You say things that make absolutely 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:19 AM
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Thats absolutely not what I was implying. Reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:18 AM
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Do you actually think women want to be talked to like that??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:36 AM
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No, ignore what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:03 AM
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We were talking about HUMANS. These are ANIMALS. Yes, women are weaker physically. That doesn't necessarily make them weak. Most brain surgeons are most likely not as smart as Einstein. Doesn't mean they're not smart at all. Them prehistoric women were most likely way stronger than you as an individual. It's like you literally can't think. Surviving not as long Is still surviving. The point is to survive long enough to reproduce. You've brought no argument over why women wouldn't be able to surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:01 AM
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Who said anything about feminism lmfao Also, it isn't really masculine to talk shit about women. Talking shit is a feminine activity :).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:27 AM
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Weaker then men? Absolutely. Weak and fragile? Haha Absolutely not. We have a higher pain resistance than you do and it seems like we also recovers faster from diseases and injuries. We also have better immune systems. We are more flexible. We need less food. Gender doesn't matter when we are talking about apex predators. The difference between men and women is absolutely abysmally low if we look into scenarios like being attacked by prehistoric felines, wolves, and other animals. You have as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:17 AM
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Are you like.. 12? Hand waive what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:09 AM
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Maybe she doesn't want Chad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:08 AM
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Genuine question, are you on the spectrum or were you in special Ed classes when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:18 PM
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The way men also were doofus. Learn a thing or two about preistoric humans. Men aren't strong either compared to the beasts. I wonder how they did it? Though you were in university, Natalie!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:18 PM
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Chiar chatter all around. Might as well put on a skirt and bond over, Natalie!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:16 PM
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Dude, first account of whom? It's clear as day that you have no fucking clue about the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:00 PM
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Women talk about these things beforehand. If anyone's if hypocritical here, you're that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:59 PM
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Doesn't change what I fucking said at all. And I don't think you should speak over it considering how uknowledgeable you are on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:59 PM
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Being taken advantage of doesn't seem like equality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:15 AM
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Doesn't matter who does better socially-wise at all. You don't tell someone that has depression that they don't deserve help because they still brush their teeth and they don't piss in bottles in their room yet. Women do suffer from neuro divergency a lot, I would say even more than men do, it's just that they're forced into a cookie cutter model of what a woman should be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:38 AM
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Men are literally disposable. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:36 AM
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Dude, the literal experts, sociologists and scientists tell you that it is in fact a problem. You can't have an opinion over the matter, it's like saying you don't believe in gravity and that you're allowed to have an opinion over it.. this isn't about opinions, this is factual shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:35 AM
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It's not wrong, but certainly unrealistic. Someone who's never been that much of a sexual person won't be your little whore. If you're fine with not having sex that often, then yes, it works. But you can't expect goodie two shoes to act like the pornstars you watch after you married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:30 AM
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Amish were right about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:29 AM
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Might not look drastica to you, but it it is in fact drastic. You don't seem to understand population demographics. If literally experts from your source tell you straight up that it causes problems, you are you, an uneducated, clueless random dude to speak over the matter? Do you not realize how obtuse this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:06 PM
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Friends never do that shit. Chances are the girl wanted to be left alone but the guy didn't get the memo. I spent 20 minutes talking to a guy over how I'm a lesbian and adore my girlfriend, and dude took it as an invite to ask me for a threesome. Men sometimes don't pick up on signals, or try harder without really knowing that what they're doing is annoying. This is the day you learn the truth. The fat friend isn't cock blocking you. You're bothering that pretty girl. If you weren't bothering he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:04 PM
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Are some men so self centered that they think this way? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:50 PM
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Men often won't stop until someone else tells them too. I'm incredibly thankful when my "unnatractive" friends tell men to leave me alone, especially after I've rejected them and they still go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:49 PM
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Exactly, that's why you don't need to be pampered ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Now you can stop being completely useless and start building something cool, instead of chatting on reddit, which is a feminine ass activity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:51 PM
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The gender or sex ratio in China has been a contentious issue since the introduction of the one-child policy in 1979, intended to limit the population of the country. Although the policy is no longer in place, the population gender difference throughout the country is still evident. In 2022, fifteen to nineteen-year-old children had the largest gender disparity of 115.77 males to every 100 females. Literally from the link you sent, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:50 PM
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I disagree. Women are completely capable of that too. There's just no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:49 PM
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Ok and? Are the boys killed in western countries? When it comes to natural parents, About 40% of parents, across the decades, have told researchers that if they could only have one child, they would want a boy. Only a consistent 20% to 30% has chosen a girl or no preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:48 PM
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Is it that women are more depressed or that everyone is more depressed due to our environment? Getting dicked down all day while doing some light cooking and cleaning while your husband's at work doesn't sound too bad too. The issues only arrived when the husband arrived home from work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:46 PM
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Sounds like this assumption was pulled directly out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:45 PM
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Because of the consequences it brought. Misogyny is detrimental to any society. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:21 AM
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I had a vastly different experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:54 AM
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No need, she likely knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:53 AM
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What kind of women are you dating??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:52 AM
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ND is not more common among men, just more commonly undiagnosed/unnoticed in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:51 AM
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Men handle war better, that's why they're being sent. Suicide rates are high for men, but suicide attempt rates are even higher for women. It looks like Men choose guns overwhelmingly while women choose OD and poisoning themselves. Men also commit more crimes and suicide is sometimes used to get out of legal punishment. Some men kill themselves to send a message, revenge suicide fantasy kinda deal. There's also the erotic auto asphyxiation deal, with 250 deaths per year in the USA, and this is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:49 AM
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Men are literally the pillars of society and superior in more ways then a few. Men don't need support, it makes them soft. Women need support because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:42 AM
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My most favorite event in recent history is China's one child policy and the favorization of sons. Now they can't find wives, because the girls were killed as newborns, abandoned to die or aborted. Something similar happened in India too. A lot of the blackpill community is made up of Indian men, and they still blame women for it. It's not really their fault that daughters were seen as a burden compared to sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:41 AM
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You mean the time when women were extremely depressed, infidelity was pretty common, and doctors were prescribing house wives hard drugs??? Fuck no. People aren't meant to live in nuclear families. That's the most unnatural thing ever. Since the begging of humanity everything was based on community. The children were raised together, everybody worked together. The nuclear family bullshit was invented just to make us compete with eachother instead of noticing the bullshit the government is occupy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:36 AM
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No one asked anybody to be an abusive piece of shit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:34 AM
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While I find sex work disgusting and degrading, that still doesn't change anything. You aren't allowed to do shit to someone without their consent. If you half your life savings on pretzels, to buy land on the moon, or to become a lord in Ireland, that still wouldn't give me the right to scam you out of your money or steal from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:33 AM
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You talk about responsibility while putting the blame on someone else for their spouses actions. If your wife left with all your money one day all of a sudden, would it still be your fault, or would it be that feminism is the cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:48 PM
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90% of men don't really want custody of their children. If they were somehow obligated to do so, you'll see actually how many criminals would be a direct result of "single" dads. The child will almost always be put in the mother's responsibility, wether she likes it ir not. With dads is vastly different. It's easy to take care of a child when you wanted it so bad that you chose to take care of it, and having a child be put in your care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:47 PM
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Look, I had this mindset before. I was a horny teenager in a post communist Country and a lesbian. However, I grew out of objectifying random women in my teens. You should be doing that too. Objectify your girlfriend. Leave yoir sexual side out of everyone's lives but your partner/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:58 PM
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That's what 12 yo girls want lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:04 AM
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I like my neighnour too, that doesn't mean I wanna spend my life with them. Liking someone is generally not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:11 AM
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Definition of what? It's absolutely not better. You'll feel just as alone + also being resentful towards your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:10 AM
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By... being glad that other people die alone without having children because "you get more room" ???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:09 AM
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Women's standards raising isn't a problem, it's a symptom of a phenomenon. Mainly, women being able to live without depending on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:08 AM
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Congratulations, you just discovered consent!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:20 AM
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The first profession was probably teaching or midwifery. Fuck sanctity of sex, the issue is proffiting off of someone's loneliness and addiction, rotting people's brains with excesive amounts of porn and prostitution, human trafficking women and girls, posting brain dead shit that encourages abnormal sexuality like violence, incest, being into literal school girls, etc, drugging male porn starts so they last long to the point where they get ED in their 30s, building unrealistic expectation over …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:14 AM
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They don't see any value in the person. They just don't want to deal with being alone. That's it. Most people want relationships to brag or to not face their fear of being single/alone. They don't actually just find a person and feel like they have something for said person. That's fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:56 AM
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Definitely not too late. People leave after being married for years and years and having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:55 AM
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Yes, a lot of women would. Hence why people are single. Are you not able to take any sort of criticism? Is someone not being interested in you such a big blow to you? Why? It's still about dating in general, read the whole post. Settling is bad for all people involved. No matter what standards may op have, that doesn't change that her statement is true. I have high as shit standards and I'm very happy with the person I ended up with, without dropping my standards one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:53 AM
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He's insane. That makes him say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:52 AM
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Wait till you find out what your children will have to go through if men don't get their shit together and the population keeps declining..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:51 AM
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She won't fuck you either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:50 AM
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Because she's a woman and she has am opinion on this sub. These men think their failures in dating are women's blame, in general. They think the cause for their problem are women's standards, and the problem just can't be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:50 AM
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It's not important at all. The post isn't about OP, it's about dating in general. This isn't "am I the asshole". Op has said exactly what they meant in a comment. If someone doesn't make you happy or content, and you don't share romantic/sexual feelings for them back, if they don't treat you right, if they have absolutely 0 drive in life, there's no point in wasting time on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:47 AM
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Please leave that woman alone if you're not head over heels for her. She deserves someone who actually likes her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:43 AM
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Men settle all the time and women too, despite the person not adding any value to their lives and despite the feelings not being reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:42 AM
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What you said has absolutely 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:34 AM
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Personality matters a lot, though looks matter the most. You could be compatible as friends but not as lovers. Not everyone will find you sexually attractive. If you don't understand why you can't fuck all your friends, you might be autistic. I like spending time with my cousins too, with the elderly people in my community, and with men. That doesn't mean I have to want to bang them. Weird way to think you have there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:10 AM
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Not all men. But a lot of them. A lot of them are boundary pushers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:02 AM
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What you said has nothing to do with what I said or what you previously said. But fine. The vast majority of women don't have the means to have those procedures down, and aside from instagram thots women don't get them. Bikini wax? Now removing hair means you're not natural? Lmfao. I promise you, when you see someone you actually have chemistry with naked, you won't be minding attention to the hair that much. Yes they'd be much better off staying natural. There's no point in altering yourself li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:18 PM
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Brother in Christ that's almost the red pill. Except there are a few things you can do to make yourself more attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:14 PM
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You're not gonna tell a lesbian this shit naaawh man. I actually think a lot of them look worse w makeup because they genuinely can't do makeup for shit. Most look absolutely stunning bare faced, or right after they cry/after sex for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:59 PM
2

Good puss Is good puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:08 PM
2

I feel like it is a high. I'm telling you, time spent with that specific person feels better than doing drugs on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:03 PM
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Ok but like would you rather be mistreated by someone with gorgeous shiny hair, long pretty lashes, rosey cheeks and red lips Or a Hairy dude that smells off? In life you kinda pick your battles. It might just be that I'm down bad but the first one sounds way more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:51 PM
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I can't say much because i littleraly do it to other women. I haven't had too many bad experiences aside from posesivenes, jealousy and having no respect towards my boundaries. Dating men was worse in the sense that I was absolutely not attracted to them. If I could choose my sexuality I'd 100% be a straight woman. Men and women aren't all that different really, aside from being physically different and having slightly different attitudes. They're just as shitty, women just kinda have an excuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:42 PM
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Not sure why they asked, but anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:36 PM
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I have horrible body image issues. No matter what I look like I'd think I look monstrous. As for how attractive I am, I don't think I've had a friend that didn't hit on me, and I regularly get asked out by random men. Women do give me the gay stare/ smile. Babies also smile at me and toddlers tell me I'm pretty, which is pretty much the most convincing argument I can bring. I have long curly hair and I dye it blue black usually, I use minimal makeup and do try to keep myself in shape. I'm also p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:35 PM
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Redpilled lesbian here. A lot of you tend to mix up the black pill and the red pill. Women are horrible and the negative female nature shit is pure blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:13 PM
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Mostly no one gives a fuck about anyone's feelings unless they're their child, mother, father, sibling or significant other. Maybe close friends. I don't know how old you are, but my old man always told me that out of 100 people, 80 don't give a crap about you, 18 are happy you have problems and 2 care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:32 PM
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Political issues differ from you not being able to make a woman be interested in you, long term and short term. You are free to not care though. Go on. See how that affect anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:54 AM
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"We didn't fall behind women just stepped on us to get to the top" How would this shit even work in a college/university? It's literally based on your work ethic. There's no 1,st 2nd, 3rd, if two people have the same score they're on the same level. There's nothing you can possibly do to disadvantage another student besides cheating on a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:50 AM
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How did women do that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:48 AM
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Because not even 50 years ago, women weren't really going to college, and parents are more likely to support their son going to college vs their daughters. Men are just as likely (+/-) to enroll in college as women are. They're just more likely to drop out. Men consistently show more anti social traits than women at any level. Women respect authority more and just function better in a school like environment. Ofcourse Men will drop out more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:47 AM
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49% of university students are male. That's literally half. Men already have careers. It's the women who choose bullshit jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:45 AM
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What economic suport do women get?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:43 AM
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The oversaturation of the porn market is caused by men who pimp women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:42 AM
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Sending the surplus of men to die in war, or to work themselves to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:40 AM
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Ask your questions in good faith and I might answer them. Maybe stop acussing me too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:39 AM
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You seem like you literally just wanna place blame. Instead of finding a solution and caring about your relationship. You literally think being an attentive partner and putting your phone down every once in awhile is a big deal. Guess what! Not only are divorce rates high in lesbians (kinda irrelevant, since most of us can't actually get married, there's the fact that some lesbians discover they're actually straight, I know so many women who used being in a lesbian marriage just to get a green c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:33 AM
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She wears skirts usually actually. I'm the taller one and more muscular, plus I'm more decisive. She's more nurturing and all they but surely she does put me in my place when it's needed. I love that about her. I don't care who wears the pants, I'm wined dined fucked and massaged everyday. Sometimes my mind wanders and it's lovely that she brings me back. Oh noes, I gotta spend quality time together w my significant other who adores me, the horror :O If she tells me to do something for her I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:29 PM
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You don't wanna seduce girls? Who said you gotta wait on her hand and foot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:14 PM
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It's literally illegal in my country. She's been here through thick and thin for years. Buuut pop off. I didn't say I fucked your mom. I said everyone and THEIR mom. They definitely can. The difference between me and hoes? I select who I wanna fuck with. I've had my wild days, now i settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:13 PM
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Getting pussy = being a plow horse? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:19 PM
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You sure are bud. Hope that marriage lasts despite this attitude of yours. Arousing your partner is a "nice guy shtick" to you? The dog analogy was on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:18 PM
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Yeah yeah ok. Completely disregard what everyone says and keep complaining. That's always a good strategy to get puss. Might as well make her listen to Roxette and show her your baby pictures instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:09 PM
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Look if you can't even get past the dating stage at the start I don't think I should speak to you. It'd be like explaining quantum physics to a dog who stuck his head in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:08 PM
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Alright. I've dated men shortly too. And my friends talk openly to me, both male and female. Sex isn't just about physical desire, it's pretty much mental too, and it becomes something completely different when you get older/ have been together with the same person for years on end. A lot of the times you neglect your relationship and your partner so much that you literally forget that you're attracted to them. Sometimes it's stress, betrayal, unsatisfying sex, could be loads of things outside o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:22 PM
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You really don't get it, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:42 PM
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Look dude, I'm a lesbian that dated everyone and their mothers. You can't be the one to tell me what and when.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:55 PM
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It doesn't really work that way. When my girlfriends being a bitch i don't exactly feel like eating her out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:53 PM
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Women don't go for men much older. Most age gaps are under 5 years. I wouldn't call that an age gap at all, really... less than 10% of relationships have an age gap of 10 years or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:52 AM
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Maybe you're insufferable, or your mouth stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:01 AM
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The only guys who are "not hard to look at" when they're old are the ones who were complete stallions when they were young. Luckily, women aren't so looks focused as men are. They'll still find women to bang, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:00 AM
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Ah to have the confidence of a mediocre man... Wym you don't curl your lashes every hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:58 AM
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Lmao, what a load of bullsh. It's very simple actually, how it works. People who are good and pleasant get partnered up early on. There's no wanting to be single, or not being ready, or all that bullshit. There's just not finding someone good enough willing to date you. Not finding someone good enough is a tell tale sign that you're personally not good enough. Good people get taken soon because other good people recognize them, and don't wanna lose them. You won't find a good partner in your 30s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:34 AM
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"I'll be nice and empty my balls in you" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:58 AM
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It's in the rules that you have to abstain from down voting:) Come with an argument instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:49 AM
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Great, that still doesn't suffice and people still want partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:48 AM
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Why do you wanna live happily? Hormones? Do you comprehend the dept of what you're asking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:48 AM
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It's worse to actively put in an effort to cheat than just have the opportinity arise..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:40 AM
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Lmao what a load of bullsh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:39 AM
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Guess what! Good people who would make good partners also don't jump from relationship to relationship. If you don't give your partner a reason to break up, there's a good chance they won't! Lack of experience is excusable in teenagers and in religious communities. Certainly not in adults. There's always a reason why that particular reason has been so avoided by people romantically and just as friends so much that they lack key social skills and basic experience when it comes to interacting with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:08 AM
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"Honey"? Yeahh, I won't be responding to this! You're funny tho :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:04 AM
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Good women are never single!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:50 PM
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Good for ya! Then why worry about random people that literally don't want you? You show nothing but sourness. Like a full big bowl of sour grapes. Like corked wine. Like straight up lemon juice with tajin. Impressive. Snarky not at all. Just.. sour
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:49 PM
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That's not why I said what i said. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:46 PM
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That's ok. I don't think op wants to date you! And you're taken anyway.. so why do you care that not everyone sees the value you see in yourself? (If others don't see it oftennly, it might not even exist)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:46 PM
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Women like you usually end up alone. Healthy people aren't sour. Actually good women get taken very soon. They don't complain about people not appreciating them, because they're literally appreciated(there are actual thing to appreciate about them!)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:45 PM
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Reactiveeee. Great, keep speaking about how awesome you are. Very relevant:D For someone with a doctorate, you aren't very smart. Never been in the debating club at your school? You can't counteract with personal experience. You kinda need facts. I do agree that op is very much nuts tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:39 PM
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Ok, I'd be good to stop thinking about hypothetical people who want to date you or not. What's the point in it If you're taken??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:37 PM
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You just kinda give that vibe off. You also seem pretty insecure. Yeah I think you're bitter. So?? You gave me some information that can be true or false. Then the way our interaction went, you should me how unstable you actually are. And close minded. Oh, and also a bragger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:36 PM
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There are obviously very wrong things with you. First it's your reactivity. Then your pessimism. Then your vengeance. Then your fat ego. Then the fact that your single. That speaks volumes. No good woman/guy is single for long. None. I don't need to approach women as a whole as any other than human beings. I have a girlfriend and I've loved her for years. I don't see that changing soon, and if it did, I wouldn't jump straight into dating again. I surely won't think of crappy strategies and just …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:35 PM
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I'm biologically female and taken. Not sure why you'd think I'd want a random bitter stranger on the internet... Have fun getting old with cats, you funky person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:30 PM
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No, there's absolutely something wrong about you. Maybe you're off putting and have 0 pull. Also most people who are insane aren't aware of their insanity. Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:06 PM
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Statistically speaking, women are more likely to push for couple's therapy. This might indicate wanting to fix the marriage. Women also tend to complain more, and nag more, which might mean they talk about marriage problems more often. So, that means there isn't more pressure on men to fix problems. More likely there's pressure to cooperate in fixing their own marriage. A marriage is dead if both the partners don't want and do their best to fix their marital issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:05 PM
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At no point in history was the divorce rate 70%. The highest was close to 50%, in the 70s, during the divorce spike. After that, it's been on a steady decline. Now it sits at around 30%, and it keeps declining more and more. I'm not sure what's to lose. Most households are dual income, and most of the daily household chores + childcare is mostly done by the women. What does suck for men are the shitty chores which have to be done once in awhile (unless you wanna call a professional, which might …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:03 PM
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You could look over it yourself. I'm not gonna search up some study I read 2 years ago so you believe me, as if it doesn't make sense that someone who doesn't have to work a shitty job in the capitalist cog machine on top of taking care of the household, cooking and the children + husband is happier than someone who has to do both. Women aren't meant to work. That's why they choose bullshit jobs. You rarely see women in blue collar jobs, you rarely see women get into stem, there are less female …
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/24 03:31 AM
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Oh shush I literally said that they can do anything they want. That doesn't change what makes them the least depressed, statistically. I can also choose to do crappy street drugs, that doesn't mean it's the best choice for me, is it? Ofcourse they do what they want. Some people just notice patterns. One of them is femininity in certain women, and how the lack of it is associated with another type of women.
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/24 02:05 AM
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If you're insanely attractive as a man it works. Otherwise, no, usually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:48 PM
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Women naturally want to appease men lol. It's in women's biology. Ofcourse they're allowed to do things the way they want, but that doesn't change the fact that married stay at home moms are the happiest demographic of women. I'm not for forcing anyone to do anything. Women and men are legally equal. I don't support taking anyone's rights away.
/r/AntiFeminists29/02/24 01:06 AM
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I feel like the women in Asia are more appreciative of men compared to how the USA women act... Those countries are 3rd world countries for a reason. That shit likely won't fly in the NATO. The police are paid to deal with that. There's nothing to be appreciative of today. The men today don't do shit. Men absolutely do have to lead. Do they? Heck no. I understand wanting women to follow their roles. It's natural for you to want that. But men absolutely don't do that. Men lose their Temper over f…
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 08:17 PM
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I'm sorry to say this, but you attract what you are. Call me a traditionalist, but where I come from men lead women into femininity. Femininity is inherently submissive. Nothing to submit to around. Men lead by example. Men are the pillar of society. Women follow. If the men aren't really men, the women won't be women either. As for nose rings, some cultures consider it feminine. There are little things out there more feminine than decorating yourself with jewelry. Some might not like it, and th…
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 07:34 PM
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It's not even about just marrying. She ought to keep that shit in private. I hate that I was subjected to that. Ehh, anyone who used medicine instead of praying was considered a witch, and personally I don't support public executions. They'll end up alone too, most likely. Someone who cries about "having" to shave or sees not shaving their stinky pits as empowerment likely won't have a long term partner anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 07:06 PM
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Exactly. If she feels like doing that kind of crap she could very well do it at home
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 06:41 PM
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I think the same thing would be men going shirtless and doing weird poses. We absolutely need to bring shaming back, but for everybody. No one wants to see nipples on the street.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/24 06:39 PM
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Prostitutes usually do it because the other option is starving. Now OF bitches who glamorize sex work are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:34 PM
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As a woman, me and other women had ons with undesirable men just to raise our on confidence levels, or as a way to kind of "hurt ourselves", to forget about something else... might be a whole lot of other reasons. Did this despite being a lesbian. I felt like I needed to punish myself for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:31 PM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:30 AM
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"Whats for dinner" "Heard what xyz said??" "This country Is turning to shit" "When we'll have kids, we will only feed them odins mead" "Wanna go for a walk" "Wanna fuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 PM
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Its a signal to make them shut the fuck up. Usually, people who are told that shit are people who excuse their extremely crappy behaviour and self centeredness on what happened to them in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:13 AM
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How does what you said have anything to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:12 AM
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Not everything is about you, once again. I just asked a rethorical question. Did you even read and comprehend the original post? The point is, there is no reason to tell your partner something that hurtful and brand it as "trauma dumping". It's called simply being an asshole. Please do keep your sexual escapades to yourself. We don't wanna no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:10 AM
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Hey, this post isn't about you. Not everything is about you. Op was talking about completely something else. Not putting yourself down is one thing, telling people hurtful things just because you feel like it is another. Like what if your wife of 6 years came to you and told you she misses that good dick she got 12 years ago from that tall handsome dude with black curly hair and hazel eyes? How would you feel if she said she'd suck him off in front of you on your side of the bed if he asked her …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:07 AM
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Likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 AM
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Right? There's no reason to tell your life partner that you'd divorce them over a crush that didn't reciprocate your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 AM
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Not everyone is equipped or wants to hear your shit. People already have a lot on their plates, and putting your issues on top of theirs could be too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:04 AM
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The trauma is not being wanted by the hottest girl at home coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:01 AM
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Then marry her and leave the other woman alone. It's not hypocritical to not want your partner to tell you crap like that. That's not wanting to be heard out, that's purposely being an asshole. If you choose to settle for someone you don't actually want because of a childhood crush you couldn't get over, the least you could do is shut up about it and attempt to not hurt the person you've trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:59 AM
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It's like yall are purposely missing the point. I could be the most horrid guest and I'd still look for the best hotel room I can find for the price I can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:48 PM
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Doesn't it bother you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:49 AM
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Well, we clearly see things differently. Thank you for taking the time to share your view. Have a great one!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:16 AM
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You can try to remove women's rights, on your own. You might even try it with a huge group of people. You might actually have a good point. Perhaps it would be better for society as a whole. That doesn't mean you'll actually succeed. There's basically no way to make the world a perfectly fair place. "Fair" is a thing we invented anyway. It doesnt have to actually be logically fair, it has to be fair enough that most people are compliant of it. Notice that I said compliant, not content. No one wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:59 AM
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People aren't honest about their intentions that often. You'll never meet a guy who wants to score tell a woman that he just wants a quick nut, and he hits on her because she looks easy, not because he's genuinely attracted or interested in her. You'll never find a casino that deters players from paying money, despite the games being rigged. You'll never find an employee that licks their bosses asses because they're genuinely in awe of their superiors. They just want a raise. You'll never find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:51 AM
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Yeah you're right. That's why Americans are obese. I literally mentioned that in one of my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:26 AM
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Bro thinks that not consuming enough calories to feed a whole African village for a month everyday means famine. Try skipping dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:23 AM
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Go stuff your face or sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:21 AM
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The same women who say they're a ten won't go out of the house unless they're wearing a full face of makeup and will absolutely cry in the girls bathroom over how ugly they are and how they wish they looked like (insert any of us present in the bathroom there). Never seen men w that behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:20 AM
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I would say far more likely. It really depends, it varies from culture to culture and person to person. Everyone will date the best they can possibly get, regardless of what their real value is. If I can get a good piece of steak for the same price as a can of spam, I'll get the ribeye steak regardless of what I look like. Ofcourse they're more likely to reject someone, they get more offers. That means they have a higher dating market value. Really attractive men will also do a lot of rejecting.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:17 PM
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Oh no. Gorlock the destroyer is biologically female. She's just insanely fat. Might look like a dude, but if you get too close you'll feel the all familiar fish stink. Hey, don't judge, it's hard to clean herself with all those fat rolls sorry, curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:07 PM
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There are stats on it! It's an interesting phenomenon, men over rate themselves in every field. As I already said, men also score higher in narcissistic traits. Just gender differences. My guess is that it's biological. Women have been obsessed with vanity since the beginning of time, and men were always kind of associated with stoicism and confidence. If you see it otherwise, we can just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:06 PM
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Feel you man. Lots of us have funny looking faces and unfortunately there's not much to do about that. Hope someone looks past that and sees value in you. Good luck man!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:04 PM
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In Europe? I'm not sure. The standards are higher here than in America because the people are also... kind of better? Lower obesity rates, lower unemployment rates, more educated, more social.... it would only make sense that someone who lacks all of those in an environment where most people posses good traits would do worse than those who do. You have to be a complete failure of a person to struggle in Asia (other than Japan, China and Korea) as someone who is way taller than the locals and bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:02 PM
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Males don't lose motivation to work over not getting young hotties. Capitalism makes everyone lose motivation to work. Bad work conditions do that too. If people are living pay check to pay check while working in bad conditions, being overworked, and with studies, they surely won't make children. You have very little chance to score a young Hottie unless you're also a young hottie or very Rich. That sounds fair to me, personally. That face looks uncanny. I'm not sure if you're allowed to post th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:48 PM
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By what he gets to date. That's his value. A broke drug dealer who lives with his mom could also have a high value in the market if he is 6'5 and has good features. Try to look at the full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:39 PM
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You were the one to tell me I'm debating In bad faith 2 minutes ago. I'm extremely confused over what I said that bothered you so much, or went against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:35 PM
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I wasn't talking about passport Bros either. Ofcourse you're going to get attention if you're the tallest one in the room. Tall females also get attention. My take wasn't negative nor positive. I didn't call out anyone. I just said it makes perfect sense that they'd have more luck in poor Asian countries. When American men travel to Europe (western or eastern), they will likely get treated worse than they'd get treated at home. Because in those specific markets, their value is pretty low. No one…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:33 PM
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It's not "bad" for society per se. Just bad for you. And it's not only about your height and weight. Your facial features matter, the way you groom yourself, your ability to socialize with others, your ability to make money and be useful, etc. 200 lbs of what? That could be muscle too. Healthy weight doesn't tell me much. Could be skinny fat, could be a twig. Someone could look emancipated or overweight at "their healthy weight".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:28 PM
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Tricky, because women are more predisposed to storing fat (nevermind pregnancy that really causes weight gain) and men are more predisposed to being hairy. A woman with a mustache and unshaved armpits is a 3/10 or less no matter what, though that's not true at all for men who have mustaches. Women with curves went in and out of fashion, still plenty of enthusiasts out there. Now I'm not in any way saying obese women are attractive to the healthy individual, but deciding who your eq is by BMI is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:20 PM
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It.. doesn't? Unless you don't understand what equivalent means. You won't find a partner thats similar to you in every way. We are talking dating market value here. A woman is more valuable than a man in the market usually. Women are considered the prize. If that wasn't the case, the egg would swim towards the sperm, not the other way. Sure, maybe she's heavy, but she could still look better than you do. You'd have to be Hella ugly for that, but it is possible. Or maybe you're a loser, maybe yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:14 PM
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Who said anything about America? Both the average American men and women are ugly, fat losers. Not to mention uneducated. It's just what it is. You mean in poor Asian countries, where they're 3 times taller than locals and where they could buy a luxurious property of the hefty price of less than 5 k US dollars??? Gee, I wonder why they have so much luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:12 PM
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I was strictly reffering to your take, not you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:09 PM
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Ok, what does that have to do with anything I've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:44 PM
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There are plenty of stats over it. The rage bait you see online of gorlock the destroyer calling herself a 10 is not what usually happens. Even the ones who say that are lying to themselves straight up. They usually hate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:29 PM
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Far fetched at best, insane at worst. I'm struggling to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:28 PM
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Men over rate themselves and their abilities while women underrate them. Statistically speaking. Narcisim is way more common in men than in women, while neuroticism is way more common in women. The beauty industry is based around the fear females have of being ugly. You're not struggling to find your equivalent, you're just over rating yourself by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:53 PM
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As much as our frail bodies allow. Sex isn't only Rough fisting. It can be just cuddling naked and touching eachother softly. We will still makeout, we could still give eachither head, and just be intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:29 AM
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Sex is also an emotional need. That's why sex with prostitutes doesn't count. It has to be sex where both people like what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:07 AM
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Prostitution isn't sex. It's selling yourself to get by and paying someone to allow you to touch them. Nothing more, nothing less. It's not sex. It's not desire. It's not love. Part of our need for sex also stems for the need of being accepted. We are a social sex species, meaning we have sex for other reasons aside from reproduction and pleasure. It's a means of socialization, feeling accepted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:43 AM
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There are. Look at the dark pill sides of the internet. Look how depressed people who are consistently unable to find relationships are. Still, nothing bad happens without sunlight. You can still survive without it, especially if you're given vit D. Yes, and with loneliness and lack of sex you get a shorter life span, you get anti social behaviour patterns, feelings of hopelessness, anxiety, depression, feelings of isolation, suicide ideation and other horrible symptoms. It's so bad that it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:39 AM
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It's not just men. It's about everyone. We need to be more connected as a society as a whole. Paying someone to have sex with you isn't sex, it's just paying for a service. Both men and women need the kind of sex that you have when you want someone and when you're wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:34 AM
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Except bad things do happen if you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:33 AM
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For people who are allosexual (meaning not asexual) love and sex are intertwined. You can give all the platonic love to your spouse if you don't also show attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:32 AM
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Freedom and sunlight are not needs either. Guess what happens when you lock someone in a room without windows, despite receiving food, having where to shit and clean their own body, and some books. They go batshit insane. Sex and relationships are a basic need. Human touch is a basic psychological need. Being understood and accepted are psychological needs too. Sex and relationships do bring happiness. Happily partnered people live more, are less prone to heart disease, have way lower rates of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:29 AM
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You have to have above average social skill to be considered nice, that's obvious. Not being a rude bitch won't turn people on, but being a rude bitch will 100% turn some people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:47 PM
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Motherly characteristics are supposed to be shown towards children. Not. Grown. Adults. If you want someone to treat you like that, see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:53 PM
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A woman should be motherly towards mf children, not GROWN MEN. YUUUUCK FATHERLY CHARACTERISTICS TOWARDS KIDS. NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. WHAT ON EARTH??? I literally have. I literally mentioned that I dated men. No, I'm shitting on you personally. Most men aren't fucked up weirdos who want a mommy for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:19 AM
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Yes, it's wrong, in the way that they mean it its really fucking wrong. Men should seek a partner that cares about them. In fact, no one should be around people that don't give a shit about them. However, your partner shouldn't care for you the way your mother did. Nurture??? Nurture how?? She isn't your mommy, and you're way too big and tall now to be breastfed 💀 That motivation is supposed to come within. No one should have to hold your hand through life. Batshit crazy men look for a mommy. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:34 AM
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If a woman wants to be a sahm, it would make sense that she would need a man that works. Otherwise, it's just single, "I'm a 10" fat ladies saying that. Caring and nurturing is what a mommy should be. Those words are simply associated with motherhood, and it's weird to want that in a partner. If you want your wife to stay at home and raise kids, while you work, it makes sense that she does all the cooking and cleaning. However, if you don't make enough, so that you both have to work, you kinda a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:54 AM
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I can read intent, I'm not autistic. You would be the one to not know, since you were not there. How often do you get hit on by asexual men? Obviously it doesn't mean consent to sex. You can however, really tell if they are trying to have sex with you or just flirting for fun. Wanting to have sex with consensual partners isn't sexually anti social. What a dumb take. Some of them do act that way simply to scare women or get off on it, but if you do give them the time of day they will try ți get y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:39 AM
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Who on earth beats up someone because they took their hat???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:37 AM
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Pretty much. I think men and women are different and shouldn't be treated the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:58 AM
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They often times are. It depends heavily on outside factors, but there are predators out there. You can usually spot them by how they act. However, no one said all of you are rapists or whatever. No one thinks that. We are just wary when it's required to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:57 AM
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Like not wanting to get beaten up? I assume most people don't wanna get beaten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:56 AM
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Equal legal rights and equality in general are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:56 AM
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Without being agresive? That's not scary, most people would expect that if they did something innaproporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:55 AM
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It's not a sexist double standard to be playful with someone you're interested in. The women who don't want their hats taken surely as fuck won't take anyone's hat either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:42 AM
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That wasn't what op was talking about at all. Op wasn't implied that. No one is scared of someone taking their hat back and being told to back off. It's not unreasonable at all. Men also take women's hats at the club. It's literally just being playful and flirty. If someone isn't into it they'll just take the hat back. Women and men aren't equal and shouldn't be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:41 AM
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No, they don't. They'd be diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder if that was the case. You assume every woman think every man wants to rape her. Are you any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:39 AM
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I think it's ok to be scared of someone who forces themselves on you. I think it's ok to he scared of people who can't handle rejection well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:38 AM
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Against a hat thief in a club?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:37 AM
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I don't think so. Most women do expect it, hence why op think they're scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:37 AM
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He really heavily implied it. What other consequences that women could be scared of would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:35 AM
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I don't think we grossly over estimate anything, you just aren't a woman. Young women are often hit on. As someone who dated men and now dates women, all people act really weird when they're horny. Especially when it comes to young women, people will do almost anything to get with them. You aren't a pretty young girl in her early 20s, you literally wouldn't know. Every time I don't assume that's why the man is interacting with me (within reason -I.e at a club, he's being flirty, etc) I'm wrong. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:33 AM
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Op didn't talk about a man being assaulted. That's a serious thing and he should definitely fight back. Op just wrote a crappy ass post about something he doesn't understand, in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:23 AM
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What kind of women are you even talking about? I've never seen this happen outside of the internet. Like ever. Who on earth hits a random stranger unprovoked and then expects other people to defend her with their lives???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:22 AM
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Unless you also hit someone, no one has any right to hit you. Especially not over a Hat. Would it be obnoxious to take someone's hat in a club? To some people yes. There are very little scenarios where physical violence towards anyone is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:21 AM
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The issue is that he acts as if that's why we're scared. Not only was his scenario completely unrealistic and weird, the whole post makes no sense. Women are explaining in this thread why we're scared, and that is has nothing to do with what op said. You choose to dodge the point. Its not only about rape, but violence. A man could easily smack me in the head just to steal my belongings. There's not much I could do due to the physical strength differences. Some dude might be drunk and angry at li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:17 AM
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We are literally talking about the fear women have of strange men. That factor is why some women might be scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:16 AM
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Laser focus on trying to get laid doesn't describe all men or even a majority of them, and even for those who want just that, there's nothing wrong with it. Like someone who's focused on scoring will just ignore you if you reject him to talk to a girl that's interested. The physical differences and what some men do is really scary though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:15 AM
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Men are definitely scared of other men and it makes sense why they would feel that way. I bet op knows this too. I'm not sure why the fear women have for men Is so antagonized, given the fact that men are much more stronger than women and perfectly capable to hurt them a lot. This and given most women have had at least 2 or 3 really shitty experiences with men throughout their lives(not talking about being heartbroken or cheated on or things like that, but being followed, harassed, just encounte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:13 AM
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Taking someone's hat un a club and dancing with it would be seen as flirty, it's kind of socially acceptable to do that. On the street, alone tho? Something else. Like if a man touches me while I dance in the club I'll just tell him I'm not interested, there's no reason to be scared, he will probably back off and the security is there, plus girls never really go to clubs alone, you got your friends there. If a man just started petting me on a dark alley while I'm alone I'd be Hella fkin scared. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:10 AM
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You're right, it never was. Then why are you asking if women should be allowed around kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:00 AM
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You're literally not. I said that kids should be taught to take precautions around Strange adults the way women take precautions around strange men. I never said men shouldn't be allowed near women, so you could equate it with children not being allowed around teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:50 PM
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I'm not. You're just purposely missinderstanding what I said. No, we should however teach them safety precautions. Should men be allowed around women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:35 PM
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Maybe you do, and they're into that shit. Or they have 0 survival skills. Who knows? Or maybe those women don't exist entirely. Maybe you forgot to take the meds. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:17 AM
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It's not the same logic, because you're asking if women shouldn't be allowed students. Not wether the students have a reason to fear their female teachers or not. If I say that women are typically bad drivers and men do a better job, that doesn't mean I said I think absolutely every woman is a shit driver and no one with a vagina should be allowed too close to a steering wheel. It just means I said women are typically bad drivers, and most people will be skeptical/afraid to get in a car with a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:16 AM
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Children need to be educated, and women are less of a threat than men are to them, exactly because women are physically weaker. I think we should examine someone thoroughly before they are let near children. We are way too lax with something that's such an important matter. Also I think classes should be supervised with a camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:02 AM
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You are a danger to half the population by default, because you are much more physically stronger. Everyone on the street is also scared of my mastiff, gee I wonder why is that!! It's because it has the potential to mawl an adult to death. Will it do that? The way I know my boy probably not. Do the other people who are more or less vulnerable to him know that? They don't! That's why they take safety precautions, they even cross the street when they see him, they get scared when he approaches and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:43 AM
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Maybe you give off serial killer vibes. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 AM
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You should have reported that. The fact that you were able to smack her and get away with it is a privilege that women in the same situation as you sometimes don't have. Men have much more physical strength than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:38 AM
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You realize that not all sex offenders are caught and that the rate is different depending on the country? Like I'm sure that none of those men who kept hitting on me despite knowing I was a minor are on any lists, even though they should be. What do statistics have to do with what's being discussed here?? Do you not hear clearly? We all have bad experiences, multiple of them, with creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:36 AM
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What do you actually mean? What are you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:34 AM
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What do you mean? Every woman I know has at least a few instances of encountering creeps. I sure have. What do you mean "you've never run into an actual one?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:32 AM
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Masculine men put women in their feminine energy and role. The masculine LEADS. It all starts and ends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:17 PM
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I already have found my wife, thank you ~ I'm not a man. I'm biologically female and I identify as a woman. I might. Mental illness runs in our family the way calves run on the pasture. She was actually a virgin when we met xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:52 PM
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Pretty much! Whenever I play scander with even the scrawniest of my male friends, i struggle to keep my hand off the table. Mind you I'm not anorexic or unfit by any means. The male strength is just much bigger than women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:10 AM
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We used to do this shit in kindergarten to younger kids or kids with dissabilities "Why is timmy's test different to miiineeee? No faiiiir :(" "why did diabeeto get the other ice-cream? No fair! Hmph!" Men and women are different. We have different needs, there are different expectations placed on us and we act differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:30 PM
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Treat them the way you treat men. Common courtesy is the amount of respect you give to strangers, as long as they haven't bothered you, haven't been a bitch and also show you that basic kindness. Women aren't intricate or hard to understand. We don't expect anymore from you then we expect from anyone else, regardless of gender. They're strangers. You can't always bend over backwards for everybody. And even if you were seeking advice over how to be curteous, you'd need a good manners guide, not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:37 PM
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Most takes there are absolutely horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:31 PM
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You dont need to understand women, you need to treat them with common courtesy and that's it. Open the door for them if they're carrying something heavy, say sorry if you bump into them, don't cut in line, if you see someone who's pregnant you might want to let them sit down on the bus, but that's about it with strangers. The women who are close to you will tell you their boundaries and needs. You can respect them or choose not to. It's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:08 PM
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No. A relationship is only monogamous after it has been discussed that it is in fact a monogamous relationship. You should be fucking bithces in that time frame of freedom. Not being a prissy tool You're not redpilled. You're pussy boy pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:30 AM
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Please stop calling yourself red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:01 AM
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We have a lack of younger population and too many old people. We literally need more babies. It's not about biological proximity at all. You just made a baseless assumption over my statement because you're desperate to prove.. what? That you're highly egotistical and compare being lied to and cheated on to being afraid for your life? Fuck outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:27 PM
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It's literally against the rules to call someone something they're not. Nowhere did I say I'm a feminist or imply it at all. I'm not a feminist at all. I don't believe men and women are equal and therefore I think we have different needs/need to be treated differently. If I were a feminist, I wouldn't have compared you to a teenage girl in a derogatory way. Doofus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:25 PM
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I'll likely adopt. I don't care if it's yours or not. It's gonna be mine If I sign those papers, bond with the kid and do my best to be a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:54 PM
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Nvm, you sound like a teenage girl. Have a nice day, "redpilled" "man".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:54 PM
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I'm actually all for paternity test at birth. If the woman feels unsafe she can go to a shelter. She was the one who betrayed her partner. To me, that's also abusive. Definitely not on the same level as lying hands on your partner, but it's still bad. If you're in an abusive relationship and instead of planning an escape you just fuck someone else raw, then you're already messed up as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:19 PM
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No idea why. I personally wouldn't. Nah, I do call women egotistical for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 PM
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That's not how standards are measured. Standards are measured by the market. If no one else but single moms hit on you, and you want something better than a single mom, your standards are too high. There are almost 80 million single mothers in the USA. Rejecting 80 million people sounds like high standards to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:05 AM
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There is no biological reason, the reason is entirely social conditioning. Pre agricultural evolution, everyone was fucking everyone and the children were raised by the whole community. After we began keeping animals and growing our own food, men needed to pass down their property to someone. That's when they started treating women as property too. Before that, we acted like bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:05 AM
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I'm empathetic towards men who are sent to war, men who are disabled, men who work blue collar jobs, men who lost their families. Not egomaniacs who are obsessed with their own sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:03 AM
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Yes, it has to do with your ego. You're not scared because you're way more physical capable to defend yourself. Would you rather that your child isn't yours or would you be rather mauled by a tiger? I do understand it because I'm not autistic. But its still just an ego thing. If it's about the child and not the relationship (meaning the lying and deceiving), it can only be about ego. Oh no, the child I raised isn't biologically mine, the horror. Ok and? That's still your child, because you liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 AM
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What else could it be that's put in danger??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:46 AM
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Please calm down, I'll try to explain it again. Being fearful for your life is one thing, and being afraid your partner strayed is another. You can search for evidence, you can ask your partner, but you cant openly ask if they'll ever hit you. They're completely different things. You can't talk to your partner about the abuse they're putting you through. The only solution is to literally flee. No one gets scared without a reason to get scared. You being scared Is different than your partner chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:39 AM
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I do understand that it hurts to be lied and deceived by your partner like that. Infidelity would hurt me just as much as it would hurt you, and I'd be really, REALLY hurt if my long term partner got pregnant by a man. Me being a lesbian doesn't mean I'm stupid or not empathetic. Instead of seeing it as grounds for divorce, stable, healthy people would analyze their behavior. Are you in a relationship? I find that people on healthy relationships can reason enough to not break up instantly when p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:19 AM
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I think that's just how you see it. One is for safety, and the other is more of an ego thing. I'm a lesbian, and if I found out my way shorter partner who's 20kgs lighter than me had a go bag, I'd personally analyze my behaviour, I'd try to understand what made her scared, especially with me not being the most stable person. That man doesn't look too table either to me, since his first taught was automatically divorce. My partner sometimes acusses me of cheating without any basis due to her self…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:49 AM
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Go bags are a tool of defense against abuse. The dv rate is low, but it's sucks when you get stuck in an unpleasant situation and you aren't prepared to leave. Paternity tests are a whole other thing. If you have no reason to believe your partner cheated, it's very weird to ask for one. That's why I think all kids should be tested at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:40 AM
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Perfectly fine, no trafficking there, if the babies are healthy, then by all means go ahead!! Just please pay those factory workers that make them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:34 PM
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You're naive if you think it's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:44 PM
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Sperm and eggs are ok imo, but using someone as a personal incubator just rubs me the wrong way, especially given the fact that human trafficking goes into it a lot of times, or that really poor women choose this. I believe there's a reason it's illegal in a lot of countries, but donating sperm or eggs or breast milk isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:42 PM
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Extremely condescending and uneeded post. Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:33 PM
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Sure, we're useless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:12 AM
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And women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:05 AM
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Yall are also the cause for chlamydia. Also, the reason why you have internet to write this comment is because of a woman. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:05 AM
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This isn't a matter of opinion. This is a matter of fact. Pre recorded history or pre history. Its the same thing, we just used different terms for it. Both are correct. You just didn't express yourself properly at first. It was a hypothetical scenario. I'm not sure why you think it's not possible. Just a few centuries ago we believed that virgin boy piss would cure a lot of diseases. Obviously it doesn't, and it didn't. We got rid of that way of thinking. Or we thought that women are dirty whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:00 AM
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Sorry you view beautiful women that way. I personally don't. I don't know any mortal woman that's not a celebrity that has that many men interested in her sexually, nevermind romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:35 AM
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You never asked my question. Not really that it's triggering, I find your response really emotionally charged and I don't understand why you would care so much about people wanting to appear more attractive. Ofcourse women will do everything to seem more attractive to men if they're straight. That's the most logical course of action. I always wear makeup and dress in a way that makes me look good when I know I'm going to see my partner. I would call it simp behaviour, but not necessarily in a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:56 AM
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All of that has no value if you don't also like/love/lust over whoever lusts over you. Only egomaniacs want that. Healthy people want whoever they love to love them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:52 AM
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Selling your dignity is a pretty big price. I can also get money by donating blood or selling my own organs, and I have to do next to nothing. Still, does it sound appealing? Most men aren't being sent to war in today's age. Specifically in the EU. During an emergency, the first evacuated are children and the elderly. Women are given priority due to their more active role in raising ckhildren. Had more been more involved, more so than women, it would have been different. People will likely look …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:40 AM
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Why do you care so much about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:04 AM
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I'm talking pre history, that's the point. After the agricultural revolution, yes, way less men reproduced, with multiple women most likely. The ones with land did. Because they literally decided so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:46 AM
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No bubble burst here. Yes, love fades for lazy ass people. Do you still buy her flowers every week? Make sure she finishes multiple times every session? Tease eachother all day, even outside, with comments or subtle touches, knowing what will happen when you get home? Do you cook for her? Rub her feet? Make her compliments? We still do all of this Years later, and more. It's not always milk and honey, but when it isn't, we do our best to fix it. The honey moon stage doesn't just end or go away. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:44 AM
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Fuck out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:32 AM
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What's even the point of this post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:29 AM
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False. Both sexes have higher success rates with multiple partners. Before we started agriculture, everyone was fucking everyone. We are a social sex species. We have sex for reasons other than pleasure and reproductive reasons. Then, we started keeping animals and growing our own food, which meant we needed land. Everything was not communal anymore. It now became important to men who their children were, so as to know who to pass the property down to. A wide array of genes is healthier for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:47 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:40 AM
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All of this doesn't matter. It's not ok to lie to someone about liking them just so you're not lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:40 AM
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Love and sex aren't sepparate. Only asexual people view it that way. Sex is a kind of love, and it's not impure or bad. It's not bad to only want sex, as long as you're honest about it and your partner is on the same page. Rape is separate from sex doofus. Just like drowning is separate from swimming. I don't define romance. I just state what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:39 PM
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A relationship doesn't need to check all the boxes. It just needs two people who like eachother and are willing to work together to keep the connection healthy. No one checks all the boxes. If they did, the people in the relationship would have nothing to work on and no chance to grow. We aren't talking about settling in that way doofus. I thought that was clear. We are talking about genuinely not liking who you're with but not being able to find anyone else who wants to be with you. Physical at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:37 PM
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Let me get this straight. You think it's ok to just lie to someone about liking them so you don't end up alone? You think it's ok to use someone like that? And I don't reffer to casual relationships. Most of us had that one night stand we aren't really proud of. Im reffering to a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:05 PM
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We are talking about a clearly negative scenario. There's nothing positive about being trapped in a loveless relationship. There's nothing positive about dead bedrooms, pain, rejection, and being lonely despite being married on paper. People deserve marriages and relationships full of love, happiness, great memories, sex, intimacy and desire for one a other. Appreciates "me" for what? Keeping them company? That's very selfish of them. Their decision doesn't mean shit. All that it means is that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:52 PM
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Yes, I'm ok, thanks for checking in. The OP clearly talks about it clearly. People getting into relationships with people they don't really want, just so they're not lonely. Obviously this is not good for them long term. This shouldn't happen. People should get in relationships with people they actually like. Most people manage to do this. However, there are some psycho narcissistic pos that do otherwise. They waste people's time and hurt their feelings. They might even trap them in a loveless m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:37 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:29 PM
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What you said has 0 sense. Stay on the subject. It's even in the sub's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:53 PM
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Rape and raping a corpse are separate from sex. It's obviously not the same thing and I was obviously reffering to sexually healthy people. You dont get to define romance. A lot of people find ons enjoyable and romantic. It can include leaving, or getting breakfast together. It could lead to a relationship, or a friendship, or just pleasant memories. It's a consensual sexual encounter, two adults enjoying eachother. Thats pretty romantic to people who aren't on the asexual spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:48 PM
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Swap it with any race that isn't you. I mainly used black men as an example because of porn tropes. Not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:45 PM
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Not a guy. Yeah? Everyone is aware of that? That doesn't mean that people in general are asexual like you. Sex includes the whole body, and a breathing, consenting, enthusiastic partner who also stimulates you mentally. If someone only needed that specific part to feel wanted and to be satisfied, they'd get a toy.. Yeah?? I never pretended otherwise? ONS are still romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:25 PM
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Some things are obvious, or theres plenty of research over it that's one click away. People are free to document themselves. There's no need to spoon feed links to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:04 PM
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What does this even mean??? Yes, being sexually attracted to someone means liking them. It's more than just wanting to touch their genitals, although having someone want to touch your genitals that youre also attracted to is pretty special. It's how most romantic relationships start, it's what keeps a relationship alive, and it's what separates romance from friendship. Are you asexual by any means? That's what you sound like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:02 PM
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I'm not responsible for what other women here do, neither does it have anything to do with what I said. I will not engage in crappy gender wars, i don't have a bias, I am completely aware that both men and women do this. Everyone is capable of wasting someone's time and being dishonest. I don't care what you think happens to men. No one but you, your family and your partner is supposed to care about you. You are an adult, not an orphan kid with leukemia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:58 PM
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They were obligated to choose you. You weren't actually chosen. Then get a pet and a roommate. You don't get to fuck over someone, waste their best years and their best chance at finding love. This crabs in a bucket mentality is really shitty of you. Imagine if your wife of 20 years only married you for money and you found her jerking off to black men, while she refuses to touch you for months on end. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:23 PM
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Good for you, then this thread and comment isn't directed to you. The OP pushes to "normalize" settling out of sheer desperation and loneliness rather than actually being attracted to the person you're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:22 PM
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No, people do settle. The ones who didn't get any attention from the sex they're attracted to, so they took the first person that showed interested in them despite not being attracted to them at all. What I'm talking about is normal people who don't desire super humans. Normal people who actually like their partner as a person, desire to spend time with them, desire them sexually and romantically, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:20 PM
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No one is entitled to sex or love, but we are entitled to honesty in a relationship. Working on yourself won't fix the fact that your partner is a peice of shit that drags you down, lies and prevents you from finding someone who actually wants you just because they're scared of being alone. It's ok if you can't find love, or someone that wants you (although someone like that is weird if they really can't and there must be something terribly wrong with them), but let others do. No point in draggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:17 PM
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Women are entitled egomaniac for wanting a partner that desires them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:33 AM
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If you're only with someone out of sheer loneliness and desperation that's what will happen. Infatuation doesn't just "fade" over time. Love is even better as it ages. It turns into true commitment. The first stages are nice, sure, but there's nothing like deep, sincere love and understanding. Infatuation fades if you get with your partner out of loneliness, and if you aren't really into them. You won't put effort into someone you just tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:32 AM
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OP, the thing Is, if a woman chooses you, she actually likes you. That's the point, she has countless of options. Yet, she chose you. Women don't have that reassurance. The man didn't choose them, they were just the first one to have said yes to him. He can up and leave at any time, he will lust over other women, if a prettier girl says yes he might leave. Imagine knowing your partner is almost always trying to cheat but can't even succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:00 AM
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