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60	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"?	Debate	Crls__	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:08 PM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?	Discussion	Crls__	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:00 PM

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1	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? I meant that that person has a mentality regarding this issue that in my country we would call "flower eater", similar to a do-gooder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 12:26 AM
3	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? What fallacy. How is this a fallacy? it is a fallacy of false equivalence to say that if you somehow consider race when choosing a mate it means that race is the only thing that matters to you and therefore you are a fetishist, same with height, you are not able to see that people are more complex than that simplicity you are positing. Most people would rather think that their partner picked them in a much more wholistic way. We are talking about what it is, not what people would like it to be. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:54 PM
5	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? I dont think learning your girlfriend or boyfriend has fetish for your race would feel great. This fallacy again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:38 PM
1	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Another example <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:53 PM
–	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? What a nice person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:30 PM
11	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Having blue or brown eyes has a small impact on attractiveness, being 6 feet vs. 5 feet has a big impact, don't try to deny something obvious, even if it is just one part it can have a big impact depending on how short you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:18 PM
0	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? The person who believes that just because you don't like one thing about a person means that that thing is your only selection criterion, that is the superficial one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:13 PM
3	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? If in order to remind a person that their value as a person doesn't depend on their physique or romantic life you need to put down other people by basically saying that people who have preferences and tastes when it comes to choosing a partner are crap I think you're going about it all wrong. Which is pretty sad and your comment makes me confirm something I already suspected, people just don't know what to say or how to cope in these situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:09 PM
2	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? if what I am saying is "just an idea in my head" then saying that "the relationship was going to be bad because that person was able to reject someone because of their physique" is also an idea in the head. It is very frustrating because you are missing the point and I don't really know how to explain it, maybe with an extreme example you will understand. people with severe facial disfigurement, deformities, disabilities etc suffer a lot of rejection in dating and very few people want to date pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:59 PM
2	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Explain	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:16 PM
12	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Do you want someone to like you in such large part just because of height? That's a fallacy, you can reject someone because you don't like something about them physically without that meaning that physique is the only thing that matters to you. I think that's how most people work, people when looking for a partner don't consider just physique or just personality but a mix of both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:13 PM
3	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Do you think that's a good way to make someone feel good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:05 PM
4	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? you haven't missed out on anything by not being with a person that doesn't want you. You can't make someone want you. What I mean is that you could have had a normal or even a very good relationship with that person who rejected you if you had met their physical attractiveness requirements and that is something that people who want you to believe that "anyone who rejects you because of XYZ is not worth it" don't want to acknowledge	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:03 PM
2	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? but they don't say it when someone has been rejected or expresses that they have suffered multiple rejections because of their physique, that's the point. when it comes to comforting someone who has been rejected because of their physique people are quick to forget that it's not wrong to want a partner we like physically, and instead of saying that they say things like this and everyone applaud <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:48 PM
6	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Acceptance will always be better than any cope will. Acceptance is the cure for insecurity, cope is just a band aid. "This person rejected me for something beyond my control, but this person did nothing wrong because we all have our tastes." There is nothing more that is needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:39 PM
18	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Example <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:29 PM
7	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Can't see the description of the post? I said it's not about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:20 PM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? those are the strangest examples I’ve ever seen, it’s like, if you’re a woman who would like as a couple a long-haired man but you work as a hairdresser and every day you cut men’s hair, you’re hypocritical for creating more men in the world that you find unattractive? 🤯🤯🤯	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 04:55 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? you’re still asking for something that you don’t have Yeah but people usually look for things in a partner that they don’t have all the time, the only problem I see in this case is how hard or likely it would be to find a virgin person who likes you being you a non-virgin, It may not be the most common but a relationship between a virgin and non-virgin person is not impossible to happen and if you are lucky and you find a virgin person who likes you who cares that you are not a virgin? As long a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 02:25 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? The article in that part does not say that all double standards are hypocritical but that there are other things that can be part of hypocrisy such as double standards and hypocrisy (which is true but does not mean that double standards and hypocrisy are the same, they are two distinct concepts that can converge in some situations but not in all) that all double standards are hypocritical you have invented it yourself. The whole problem in your logic is assuming that just because a non-virgin ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 09:24 PM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Most? double standard and hypocrasy are different things https://differencedigest.com/lifestyleliving/life/what-is-the-difference-between-hypocrisy-and-double-standards/	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 07:05 PM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? the question is just an excuse, I just wanted to generate debate. And I don't put it in a sub about linguistics because that's not where they are constantly calling everyone a hypocrite. why pose your question on a sub that debates relationship ethics Because in a sub that debates ethics and relationships where they are constantly saying that men are hypocritical because of X or women are hypocritical because they demand X you would expect people to at least know what hypocrisy is and yet in thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 04:14 PM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? If you think women who are not virgins are worth less than men who are not virgins, than this is hypocritical. Thats a double standard bro, hypocrasy is other thing. https://differencedigest.com/lifestyleliving/life/what-is-the-difference-between-hypocrisy-and-double-standards/	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 03:50 PM
-1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? the women who engaged in our casual sexcapades are damaged and unworthy of love but the men are fine. Of course, this is a double standard. we all had sex and now I want someone who we didn't all have sex with" But what you had said here is not a double standard in itself you were just explaining something obvious: the fact that the more men have casual sex with more women there will be fewer virgin women or with little sexual experience for men who participate in casual sex and then aspire to c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 06:25 AM
-1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? we all had sex and now I want someone who we didn't all have sex with. Thats not a double standard, read the definition and make a effort to understand it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 04:10 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? 🎉🎉🎉	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 03:15 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Because to be a hypocrite according to the definition, the person would have to have an inconsistency between the values or beliefs they say they have and what they end up doing and that contradiction in the beliefs or values and actions is something that can not be determined just by knowing that a non-virgin person has a preference or requirement for virgin people because that preference could be for many reasons and many of them may not imply a contradiction between beliefs or moral values …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 03:14 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? 🎉🎉🎉	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:57 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? oh I get the point you wanted to make. Maybe the cases you and I both raise are unlikely to happen in the real world, but theoretically they’re not hypocrites, then everyone can already within his personal opinion can opine that a certain preference or certain behavior of a person for their relationships seems strange, egoistic, stupid, unfair, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:51 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Fucking translator (i'm not a native English speaker) i mean the opposite, it's right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:40 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? No. https://differencedigest.com/lifestyleliving/life/what-is-the-difference-between-hypocrisy-and-double-standards/#what-is-hypocrisy	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:37 AM
0	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? No, I don't think anything you just said is right, but I still don't understand what that has to do with what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:34 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:20 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Give me your answer in the case in which the answer is yes as in the case in which the answer is no. Although I think I know where you are going, I will just say that having a different selection criteria for your casual partners and your more serious relationships does not mean that you are a hypocrite, saying that you are a hypocrite because you want a virgin partner but you had sexual relations with non-virgins That would be very far-fetched, everyone has different things they are looking for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:19 AM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? I don't know but to say the first reason that comes to mind I think a non-virgin might prefer to date a virgin because he like the idea of being someone else's first sexual experience, that wouldn't be hypocritical because it wouldn't be contradicting and technically it wouldn't be a double standard either beause he’s not thinking it’s okay for him to do something but the others don’t, it would just be a preference (maybe a bit stupid) for people who have different/less sexual experience than hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:04 AM
0	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Yes, that's what I've been saying all along, it's not hypocritical it's a double standard, we can argue whether a preference is ridiculous or stupid, or we can argue whether asking a certain thing of a partner might be unfair or not but none of that is hypocritical, at least not in and of itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:48 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? I want people to rethink that there are things that they may have been judging in an incorrect or not so accurate way starting with an error in an incorrect use of terms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:41 AM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Finally someone who understood it all. 🎉🎉🎉	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:28 AM
-2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Thats a double standard, not hypocrasy, are different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:35 AM
-1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:33 AM
-1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? It is not hypocritical, perhaps the only reason you think it is hypocritical is because it is the only word or concept that comes to mind, but hypocrisy is a word that has a specific meaning and that is "the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform" anything outside of that is not hypocritical and by that definition the examples I have raised are not hypocritical because in none of those examples is the person in question contradicting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:27 AM
-4	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Your question literally starts with, "Am I wrong..." How is them saying it's technically not "wrong" but the real world will still morally agree that it is wrong? They're literally answering your question. Oh I understand, I am not a native English speaker, by wrong I meant wrong in my understanding of things, not that I was wrong on a moral level. Well, yes, they're mental gymnastics because you're trying to rationalize a double standard. No, I am trying to get people to understand that they ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:20 AM
1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Again this example.... I have said it a thousand times already, what you are describing falls under the concept of double standard not hypocrisy, look up the definition of hypocrisy and double standard and you will see that what you are describing is a double standard not hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:15 AM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? I could not even be considered a hypocrite under the definition of hypocrite that everyone here has as I myself am a virgin although I have no requirement about that in a partner, I am slim and like to exercise and would have no problem losing weight for my partner, I just want to discuss the issue that most people are using the term hypocrisy wrongly in those examples I have posted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:12 AM
0	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? I require my partner to be a woman without any logical reason behind it I just like women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:58 PM
-1	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? What definition of hypocrisy do you base this on and explain how it applies to your example?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:57 PM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:54 PM
-5	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? You keep defending the semantics of the word “hypocrisy” so I’ll just say this: it’s a double standard. You’re expecting something of someone you yourself do not have and virginity is something that isn’t exclusive to either gender. So it’s not the same as me wanting a guy with a big dick when I myself don’t have one before anyone pipes in with a dumb false equivalency. that's what I've been saying all along, it's not hypocritical it's more having different expectations so on this point we don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:53 PM
0	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Wanting a women	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:33 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't despise anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread because there is a difference. Wanting a fit partner while you're a fat ass is a double standard. Wanting a fit partner while you're a fat ass that thinks fat people shouldn't date is hypocrisy. Both are double standards by definition. Hypocrisy is not "doing something you think is wrong" but "the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform." Key phrases: "claiming to have" and "one's own behavior does not conform." The "claiming to have" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:25 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread For God's sake, no. Hypocrisy consists in pretending to be what one is not, or to feel what one does not feel, in order to deceive others or oneself. For example, a person who shows kindness and solidarity with the poor, but in reality despises and exploits them, is hypocritical. On the other hand, double standards are the "attitude that consists of applying different moral criteria according to people or circumstances". In other words, double standards consist in demanding from others what one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 05:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The second one is by every definition hypocritical. Your moral standard for your own body does not count for the other, which is hypocritical That falls under the definition of double standard not hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 04:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hypocrisy- engaging in something that you believe is wrong. Thats not exactly what hypocrasy mean. Double standard- believing a behavior or moral stance only applies to one group of people. Thats the definition of a double standard not hypocrasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 04:17 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Am I wrong in my interpretation of the definition of hypocrisy? I don't know if this is the right sub but I made this post and everyone says I'm wrong and i'm stupid. I have simply always seen hypocrisy as its definition indicates "the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense." And according to that definition, looking for a partner who has something that you do not have, such as virginity, or asking your partner to do somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 03:45 PM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? Yes, the problem is that what I think a reasonable person would think or what common sense tells me seems to be an unpopular opinion, at least on reddit, so I want to debate to try to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:43 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? If a non-virgin doesn't want to date non-virgins for any reason other than because they find non-virgins gross or because they think it's wrong not to be a virgin, would they still be hypocritical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:37 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? Honestly I'm not even interested in which example is used, I use the non-virgins example because that's what is being discussed here, I'm only interested in discussing whether or not it's hypocritical to want something in your partner that you don't have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:20 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? You want something that you yourself are not? You do realize that this reasoning is simplistic and can get ridiculous pretty quickly, right? You don't want things in your partner that you don't have or do you want a partner identical to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:12 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? if a non-virgin doesn't want to date non-virgins for any reason other than because non-virgins seem gross to him/her, would that still be hypocritical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:57 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? how does wanting a socially calibrated man when you are not socially calibrated qualify as hypocrisy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:53 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? do you know what hypocrisy means? hypocrisy is when a person's actions contradict the beliefs or values that person claims to hold. a person who is not a virgin who does not want to date other people who are not virgins could do so for a multitude of reasons, among which there could be hypocritical reasons of course, but that fact in itself is not hypocritical. Because you want something from them that you don't offer if you think this is hypocrisy then all relationships are hypocritical since…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:47 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? if you want a socially calibrated man and you arent socially calibrated... Yeah you are a hypocritical. Thats not hypocritical, is being unrealistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:53 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? what? no, read again. i'm saying the opposite	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:07 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? why is hypocritical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:02 AM
1	Everyone that says men who arent virgins are hypocritical for wanting virgin women, should people with an abusive family and background, only date people with similar backgrounds? I think that in general it is not hypocritical to want something in your partner that you do not have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:59 AM