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| 1 | Escalation in restricted areasDo whatever you want to do. If she's into you she'll eat some lunch with you and then go on a hike. Just don't keep taking her on 'dates' expecting to build attraction. It's already there, or it isn't. The longer you wait to do something the more likely you become "just a friend." Girls don't want to be with a guy who's too timid to show her how attracted he is to her. Not much else to say. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Escalation in restricted areasBack in high school I used to go to shitty movies if I wanted to fool around. We'd be the only ones in a dark room for ~2 hours. Nature walks work well if she doesn't mind getting a little dirty. Parties (at someone else's house) work okay, sometimes. You're at your intellectual prime, get creative! | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:19 AM |
| 7 | FR: From meeting at party to fucking up a kiss to fucking her.bein True. Delivery is arguably more important than what you actually say. Two people can tell the same joke but whoever delivers it better is the superior comedian. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 08:36 PM |
| 5 | How can I stop my sister from being a slut?Be her father figure. If your parents are parenting step up if you care. I did it, and I'll never regret it. She's currently enrolled in a university on track to becoming a PA with a full ride scholarship and has been happily married for about 2 and a half years now (admittedly, I was worried about her marrying so young into her first real/serious relationship but he's continued to impress me with his career/life choices). There was one guy in high school she almost started dating, he was 18 and… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Where does the x3 rule come from?You're thinking wayyyy too hard about this. Just imagine the girl telling you how many guys she's been with and multiply by 3. If you're not grossed out by that number maybe it's not a bad idea to keep her around for awhile longer and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 01:13 AM |
| 5 | What is the difference between being fit and fat when having sex? How is sex like when you are fat?Climbing to the top of a mountain is both fun and rewarding, but is much more enjoyable if you're physically fit. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 02:39 AM |
| 34 | Had a fight with my fiancé tonight. Soft Nexted her. Was I right?This. So much this. Also, keep in mind: you are not married yet. Marriage will not improve the worst, it will AMPLIFY the worst. Men get married to women because they want to have kids with them (and much evidence shows this is the most beneficial choice for your future offspring). Women get married for validation and safety. Once that ring goes on all pretext is dropped and you get the 100% fully unabridged version of this girl. Sure you're ready for that? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 04:06 AM |
| 2 | A classic example of irony in toxic feminism"... something branded as a bad thing by weaker men" | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | "Thai porn star, who married elderly American millionaire after turning to Buddhism, gets a divorce and plans boob job to make a career comeback."Let's be real.. he had to consummate his marriage at least once, right? Given his career history he must have known the chances of further consummation, I'd hope? Feel like the constant complaints were a way of reducing the amount of money he'd have to pay eventually.. but hey, I'm an optimist so who knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Indian college girls in US.Is this post troll or serious? Some of the hardest working and sluttiest students at my uni are Indian.. maybe anecdotal. Still. wut? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 09:08 AM |
| 2 | My GF of 4 months has been emotionally distant and I decided tell her I need a break, we talked briefly about getting back together. Can I bang someone else beforehand?Women are generally hornier than men, with exceptions, of course. You sure you aren't deluding yourself into believing what you want to believe? Was there ever a time in your relationship that she was just as horny as you? You don't lose your sex drive over night, that takes decades. Either she's getting dick elsewhere or she's developed hormonal issues. Just my 2 cents. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Beta white knight gets killedI think the issue here isn't alpha vs beta. It's sensibility vs stupidity. Don't be stupid and invite strippers/people with potentially lethal baggage to live with you. I have associates I might enjoy socializing with at a bar, but I would NEVER invite them to my home. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 08:03 AM |
| 3 | GF getting food delivered to a brothel?Let's assume there was an innocent reason for her ordering food at a whore house. Then she still lied to you about her actions over something not worth lying about. Conclusion: If she's willing to lie about innocent things that could be misunderstood chances are she's willing to lie about more serious things. Now, let's assume the likely reason she ordered food at a whore house. Conclusion: Go get tested for anything she may have accidentally given to you. You did the right thing regardless of w… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Friend Just Got Divorced - A Field Report and Reminder of AWALTI may have communicated it badly, I don't condone cheating in any shape or form. However, if you aren't satisfied with your sex life and you want to sleep with other women I do think you should be open about it. "Babe, I love you, and I will come home to you every night. But I'm not a monogamous person and I will probably fuck other women at some point. If this isn't the kind of relationship you can be in I understand and I won't hold it against you for walking away." Of course she'll hate it, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 05:08 PM |
| 12 | Friend Just Got Divorced - A Field Report and Reminder of AWALTThe blatant hypocrisy of the whole situation just seems almost comical. I suppose my mind is "blown" (bit overstated) because of the continued consistency of RP theory I keep seeings in day to day life. I'm glad he's out of it though, if she's cheating with him now chances are she was probably cheating on him beforehand. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Almost fucked friends girlfriend last night, do I tell him?Damn had to go and pull the Archer card. I concede. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Almost fucked friends girlfriend last night, do I tell him?I hate to be a stickler but isn't the Segway the thing that's fun to ride but you don't want your friends to know about? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Ever been with a beta girl?Hmm.. I think it's important not to confuse beta and insecure. Insecurity is typically a turn off regardless of gender and I'd say that insecurity is a subset of beta behavior. However, not all beta behavior is bad. A woman with a set of healthy beta traits (being submissive, adoring, slightly emotionally dependent etc) isn't terrible or unusual. That being said, the reverse would probably be quite be bad if you were a male seeking a traditional relationship. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 09:13 PM |
| 13 | How do conversations look like if you're a Dark Triad?This is both the dumbest and most brilliant thread so far. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Who's home alone tonight?Home sick. Happy new year! Honestly, can't complain though, in the middle of a really good book and haven't been enjoying drinking as much as I used to lately. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/17 05:53 AM |
| 3 | When Is Someone Lying?Would highly recommend reading Spy the Lie, a book written by a few former CIA interrogators, if I remember correctly. Basically, this book teaches a method of detecting lies by using a cluster rule. By noticing certain "flags," you can determine the likelihood of deception by getting a cluster of 3 or more of these flags. It also teaches some methods of interrogating potential liars. One very important thing is teaches is that in order to do this it is important to not blatantly accuse the defe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 01:16 AM |
| 5 | "9 times out of 10, whenever I opened up to a SO, the relationship fell apart shortly after"So much LOL. Time to start new religion with Bulma and Vegeta as all powerful overseeing gods. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 05:00 PM |
| 121 | Never compare your sex life with a girl's sex lifeAnother spin on this I've heard: A good commander can breach the walls of many fortresses. A shitty fortress is easily conquered by shitty commanders. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/16 01:55 PM |
| 5 | For all those who think LTRs are "Blue Pill" or otherwise hate on LTRs:While this sub is primarily anti-LTR I never got the impression it was because this is "beta" behavior. A lot of followers here are anti-LTR because there is a significantly smaller pool of LTR material females out there these days and, sadly, many men are prone to fall into the money trap (i.e. woman marries you for your money or support only; have several rich/well-off uncles this has happened to). Personally, I'm not in a LTR at the moment, but once I'm a bit older and more well off I do plan… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Young men who are looking for LTRs, you'll do well to avoid women with abusive exesThis post was so full of nostalgia. But seriously, the victim mentality is real. It's never their fault when something goes wrong, always some excuse that justifies their shitty behavior.. glad I learned early and got out of that one in high school. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/16 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Have No Problems With Female Friends?I personally don't have a problem with it, but I think the challenge is in actually keeping it platonic. Easier said than done. That being said, is doable, and chick-bros make great wingmen at parties/bars. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How Illegal is This?Are you under the age of 16? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Failing to Plate a Slut while in LTR as Beta [Field Report/Blue Pill Example]If your professor says it's an open book exam, and you choose not to open your book because it "feels like cheating," well.. If your LTR says she's okay with you seeing other women, well.. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The Wisdom of being Poor when Marrying a Good GirlOne, and only one, reason to ever get married as a guy: you want to and plan to have children with this girl. Tons of evidence to support this decision as having a positive impact on your kids. But that's just my opinion, life is too subjective when it comes to relationships.. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this friendship? Best friend of 2 years with a girl who I'd gotten more intimate withSorry kiddo, the truth isn't always what you want to hear. I speak from experience, unfortunately. Best friend throughout high school, full of sexual tension, but we repressed it for the friendship. During the college years things started to escalate - I wanted to believe she'd change her slutty ways for her "best friend." A short-lived dream, sadly. People don't change, they just get better at hiding their true nature. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this friendship? Best friend of 2 years with a girl who I'd gotten more intimate withYou're seriously considering a LTR with a girl who admitted having been ganged banged while she is supposedly "interested" in you? Just imagine the kind of shit she isn't willing to admit to you, or the kind of shit she'd be willing to pull when you two get in a fight; that girl is already broken and contaminated. Would advise staying away both physically and emotionally. That's just me, though. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 07:06 PM |
| 7 | "I knew I could trust you when your hands were around my throat and you were choking me"I know that feeling, brother. I've always strove to resolve conflicts as quickly and peacefully as possible. Needless to say all my relationships have been fairly short-lived. Am finally getting to the point where I speak my mind and purposely word it in a way that seems hostile. And lo and behold, women eat that shit up and fucking love me for it. Completely goes against my nature, but I try to think of it as role-playing. On an unrelated note, while reading this post something clicked: I had a… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Is sex worth it?Its hard though when I've pretty much grown up watching it since I was 13 or so Case and point. It's a terrible habit that can be extremely difficult to break. From personal experience? Weaning off doesn't work. You just gotta decide you want to stop it and stop cold turkey, no exceptions. Find something else to do, ideally something productive, when you get the urge. Going for a run/to the gym is what I usually do now days. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Is sex worth it?As I said, if what you're doing is making you happy not much reason to change it. However, I would strongly urge you to stay away from porn for two reasons: 1) Kills motivation to improve yourself/increase SMV 2) Does not give you the same dopamine/testosterone boost as if you were fooling around with an actual woman. Bonus reason - Very difficult habit to break and can cause ED in a lot of men when encountering non-virtual women. EDIT: Bonus analogy for anyone else who doesn't seem to understan… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation? (Crazy girlfriend)I can't tell if this post is a troll or if he is really asking what to do in this situation. Then again.. guess I did stupid things at 17 that nearly got me and my friends arrested/killed. Though we were playing with guns and homemade bombs, so I guess we played it a little safer than OP. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Is sex worth it?If it were me (and I actually have been abstaining for similar reasons) just stick with oral/handjobs until you meet a girl that you wouldn't mind accidentally impregnating. I have big plans for the future, a lot of which include traveling. Nearly all of which would be completely ruined by having a child. If not having sex isn't making you unhappy then I don't see why anyone should tell you to do otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is sex worth it?Two good rules I think everyone should follow. #1 ALWAYS wear a condom (TRP is pretty adamant about this). #2 Do NOT engage in sexual activity with a girl unless she is on some form of birth control. In this day and age birth control is easily accessible and fairly cheap, if she isn't on it, chances are it's because on some level (consciously or subconsciously) she wants a baby.. EDIT: Condoms - 97% effective; Birth Control Pill - 99.9% effective IF taken correctly. Lets call it an even 95% (whi… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 02:20 PM |
| 5 | A Nice Sugar Coat for Your Fat-Ass Ego2nd Bullet Point hit home, I'm certainly seeing results these past 2-3 months but I used to be a hopeless computer addict. Runescape/World of Warcraft were probably the worst decisions I ever made (6 years sober). Am doing much better now, some days I don't even play video games. Still, was about to start my day off with a little onscreen vegging. I think now I'll instead play a little guitar, go to the pool, then hit the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 12:47 PM |
| 25 | [Update] Girlfriend disrespects me in publicAnd what happened, then? Well, in Whoville they say – that the Grinch’s small balls grew three sizes that day. And then – the true meaning of Red Pill came through, and the Grinch found the strength of ten balls, plus two! | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Social retard here: I'm advancing too fast: Need help to stop the flakingConversations should happen while hanging out, not over text/FB. Keep texts brief and to the point. Also don't apologize for asking a girl out. Or anything, really, unless you've REALLY fucked up. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Red pill gold comment about Tinder, posted on ROK.If you end up finding that stat could you post a reply to this? I'm also quite interested in actually having some concrete facts about this particular topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or is Bender (from Futurama) the epitome of what is known as "The Dark Triad" ?Good call on the TV cut, that shit can be pretty toxic if you're prone to binges, however, I think Futurama is one of those shows everyone needs to see at least once. One of the most entertaining and thought-provoking comedies out there. Also Bender is great. | /r/TRPOffTopic | 19/06/16 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do you keep going ?You sound like me at that age (24/m now). If I were able to go back and talk to myself for a few minutes, I'd probably say something along these lines. Stop paying for university tuition until you know what you are passionate about and do something you enjoy while you figure out your life. I got a bachelor's in Mathematics, and I will likely never use it for any sort of practical purposes. Currently, I'm on track to becoming a medic (just finished my EMT-Intermediate program) and I fucking love … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?To me that only proves the point that men shouldn't spend the effort to try to have a female friend Suppose I didn't really think of it like that, since a lot of men DO spend time searching for platonic female companions (this one just sort of stumbled into my life), but I can agree with that one - spending time and energy searching for platonic female friends is ultimately a waste of time with little chances of any positive returns. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?Though I realize it's incredibly rare, I do have a very good female friend I've known since high school. She buys me drinks on occasion and cooks for me, and occasionally (but not as often) I return the favor. However, she does her own thing/often has boyfriends but still makes an excellent wingman when going out. And she loves doing it. Black Unicorn? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Career Advice for a college juniorHelp them with research (this is my #1 recommendation because of experience and connections, but also you can make money off it as an undergraduate depending on circumstances). Not the only way to do it, but in my opinion it is the best. More generally, all you can really do is put yourself out there and push for a good relationship. Professors have a lot of shit to take care of, and 99% of them only teach because they have to in order to get grant money for their research. I'd say the best way … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Career Advice for a college juniorNot experienced in this particular field, but experienced in education. If no one has yet to tell you: make sure you build some strong relationships with your professors before you graduate. Your degree won't mean shit except giving you the ability to apply to certain jobs. Get some good references. Professors. Know. EVERYONE. Also, if you aren't yet doing research under a professor, start - great way to get "experience." And most places want experience, period. If you're already doing those thi… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys prefer "curvy" women?All about a nice lean girl with a booty. Don't care if she has A cups, tits are nice to look at but they aren't too practical (unless we're talking the giants, but when I look at those all I can imagine is the sagging they'll do in her later years which is a bit of a turn-off). So much more you can do with a shapely butt. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/16 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?I was born and raised Christian, though as I got older and more educated I modified my beliefs to fit a more "logical" approach to religion. Not really sure what I'd call myself, but I suppose I'm mostly Pastafarian at this point. After studying a good bit of astrophysics I've decided that the universe behaves like an extremely complex computer program. But instead of 1's and 0's it's a program made up of tiny strings. Maybe we're all just a thesis project for some computer scientist deity somew… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | The Weakness: Day 2 - MindfulnessVery unorthodox post, but I thought it was an enjoyable read and nice deviation from standard stuff here. "Finding Rabbit Holes," was where it got really interesting (in my opinion) and really hit a chord on a personal level. True, this post doesn't list explicit steps for improving life, but it does give one a LOT to think about, and pretty much leaves any potential for growth to the readers' discretion. For me, this post acted as a reminder that I had been complacent these past few years, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Does working out really help you get girls?35% workout, 35% nutrition, 30% application. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Oddly enough, I used to be able to put down 7-12 beers in a night (occasionally drink an entire fifth of brandy) and wake up the next day more or less feeling "normal," then all of a sudden I started getting hangovers when I'd drink more than ~5-6 beers in a night. Not so much the headache/migraine type, but my entire GI tract would just feel fucked. Nauseous all day and hard enough to keep things as simple as bread and fruit down. Guess I'm getting old (24 yo) ? But I agree with this post, have… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCED] I'm throwing a HOUSE PARTY in 1 month. Input & Experience is appreciated, senior RP members.One very important piece of advice that seems to have been left out: You (and a few very trusted friends) need to act as "party host/bouncer," which means, don't get TOO drunk. Stay sober enough to catch people trying to steal things and kick them out (if you're going for a 50+ party I can pretty much guarantee you someone will try to pocket some things, even if you think you've put up all the valuables). With this many people together and booze there is a good chance a fight or drama might brea… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 07:17 PM |
| 2 | What are the actual benefits of marrying?None, unless you have kids/are planning to have kids in immediate future. Makes medical stuff a lot easier, and the stability can be reassuring for the children once they're old enough to understand relationships (i.e. kids don't want to have to move between houses every weekend). | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Ex wants to chillI am very glad I clicked on this and can't wait to use it in the near future. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Can I just say that I'm tired of all this women kicking men's asses in movies/TV shows etc.?I may be misremembering, but didn't she also kick him in the nuts? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 04:52 AM |
| 1 | If you're lifting, I suggest also taking up a martial-artBeen thinking about starting martial-arts training pretty soon here (inspired in large by TRP) and am still trying to decide between boxing and Muay Thai, if anyone (who has studied a bit of both) has some input on which one to pick up first I'd love some more info. But yes, agree with this post - having muscles is nice but knowing how to effectively use them is really nice. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Field Report - Currently in Awe of How Much TRP has changed social interactions.Agreed, and it's been a slow but fairly steady wean off over the past few months. Finally feel like I get on Steam a healthy amount, but my god if gaming addiction had physical withdrawal I'd have been in trouble. Some of the Steam hours I've logged are embarrassing to look at (damn you Binding of Isaac and Don't Starve Together). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Gym session as first date+1 on this. A State park is a fairly solid first date. A basic rock climbing course might be even better depending on how physically active you two are. But in general the best first date is a creative first date - take her somewhere she's never been to on a first date (even better if it's a place she's never been to at all). | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 01:01 AM |
| 14 | Field Report - Currently in Awe of How Much TRP has changed social interactions.That's the best part - these days, a helping hand is usually a phone call away. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Field Report - Currently in Awe of How Much TRP has changed social interactions.Appreciate the recommendation, I'll look into it for sure. Actually just finished reading Spy the Lie which was recommended by a fellow Red Piller. Both entertaining and informative read, would highly recommend if you're ever in the market for a new book. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I Love Women, I Do Not Respect ThemGreat explanation, and though I'll never be able to be a tall black basketball player (5' 7'' and very white, you were on the money there) I don't mind working with what I've been given. One follow up question, and I ask not because it's been an issue (yet) but how would you reply if a woman responded with the "it's both nature and nurture that identifies what is male/female." I've always felt that with a basic understanding of biology you can see that race/gender/personality is determined by yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 11:53 PM |
| 12 | Field Report - Currently in Awe of How Much TRP has changed social interactions.First one was very minor; was looking/pointing at a bruise on her leg and she told me "don't touch it or I'll smack you!" to which I replied in a smug/playful tone, "you wouldn't hit me.." "yaaa-huh!" [serious tone] and then gave a show of looking at her, to bruise, to her, then slowly placing finger on it. She laughed, didn't hit. Other one was something silly like that, not worth repeating. The third and final (end of trip) was by far most significant, mostly because I had NEVER seen her act t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I Love Women, I Do Not Respect ThemMakes me want to list the ways a woman could "remove," the bumpers. Often times when I get into a discussion with a feminist I get them to agree that they believe male and female are and should be equal in every way. Then I ask them if they've signed up for the draft, to which they always look confused before replying no. And if they counter and say that women should sign up, I can write them off by saying that their actions contradict their words. Point is, I'd love to have a bit more ammunitio… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity and the White Knight as a Perversion of MasculinityAfter reading this reply all I could think about was this honest trailer of Disney's Aladdin. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Oneitis and My BrotherDon't think too many of us are really qualified to give too much advice on a family matter as serious and intricate as this, I really hope your brother snaps out of it before it kills him. However, as someone whose family is riddled with substance abusers, I can at least give you this: if it can happen to your immediate family it can happen to you, I say that from personal experience - practically lost 5 years of my life as far as mental development goes but luckily I snapped out of it. Genetic … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Have people obsess over you to increase your SMVLemma 2.1 SMV - The rational male is assumed to give a shit about himself therefore as the male gives less and less shits the typical calculated SMV = ShitsAbout/ShitsGiven --> ShitsAbout EDIT: In theory ShitsAbout_max =~ 7.125 billion, therefore at this point in human history SMV_max <= 7.125 billion. No infinity SMV for you, friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 4 1/2 months has many guy friends, other red flags; thought was a unicorn, now not so sure . . .You forgot the first red flag: Have already broken up 4 times - Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. Other comments seem to cover the rest, christ man nothing about this girl is worth you going through all this trouble. I might even suggest an extra step and instead of demotion to plate go for a full drop. No more contact of any kind, this girl seems like cancer. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Can you tell me what I did wrong on the date?I am aware, but as I said: bars and restaurants are a very common and cliche first date venues. Go somewhere more exciting next time. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Can you tell me what I did wrong on the date?The first date is important, next time try to avoid bars/restaurants until at least the 3rd date. You want plenty of opportunities for kino, and sitting across a table from someone is one of the worst ways to achieve this. Not to mention lack of excitement, how many guys do you think have asked her out to dinner/drinks on the first date? Second, when she asked you why you asked her out, you immediately dished out the "I think you're beautiful card." Not sure how new you are to the Red Pill, but … | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Never forget why you came here: The number one question to ask yourself whenever you read any post on this sub, or else you're simply wasting time.Feels like you're seeing part of what the Red Pill is about, but I'd advise more sidebars. When I first became a lurker I too thought that this subreddit was dedicated to improving game and experiencing a fulfilled sex life. Turns out that is only a possible side effect of what this sub is about. Ultimately, Red Pill is trying to show you the false "truths" that have been shoved down our throats since childhood, and attempts to replace them with a harsher, but more accurate depiction of the worl… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 10:40 PM |
| 5 | How should I answer when a woman ask me "How do I look?" ?What about about a reply that doesn't exactly answer the question? "You look hungry," or "You look kind of like a girl I know." Not that it has to be specifically those, but I tend to do these sort of things in similar situations. Acceptable or still too much validation (by responding)? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 04:13 AM |
| 14 | Modern Society Intends to Kill the Father FigureDon't forget about Red Foreman. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend in LTR has no sex drive [story inside]A more veteran Red Piller might be able to give some more specific advice, but in a nutshell: just get out of the house and do your own thing for awhile, primarily things that can enhance SMV. If sex isn't happening when you get home, don't pout, just "alright, I'm going out for awhile, be back later," or something to that effect. Give nice general answers when she starts to question where you keep going. If she tries to give you shit about not spending enough time with her (and she WILL, be pre… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend in LTR has no sex drive [story inside]Best bet's going to be to call it off. Sex is an integral and important part of any LTR. Period. If you absolutely insist on not breaking it off then you gotta realize the attraction has waned over time. She's making 4 hour round trips for a bang? She is not asexual and has a drive, it's just not directed towards you at the moment. Start soft dreading and start going to the gym, a LOT. Pick up some new hobbies. Go take fighting lessons (boxing, muay thai, etc.). Up that SMV pronto. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Hambeasts have a bachelorette party with a nude male "model"Suppose in that sense, if you are actually doing everything right as the man in the relationship this sort of situation wouldn't even exist as a potential problem. I guess another way to look at it would be to take note of the types of friends your SO possesses: if the mast majority is single, maybe there's a reason (and maybe she's good at hiding her reason?)? Still relatively new to TRP. Still trying to refine things former-me would find acceptable that should be inexcusable. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 11:14 PM |
| -6 | Hambeasts have a bachelorette party with a nude male "model"Honestly, unless it was went about in a very specific way, I wouldn't be too upset if my soon-to-be-wife went to a bachelor party like this. Not like she'd be spending her money on a male "model," that's what her single friends want to spend their money on to feel better about the fact that they're not the ones marrying me. Note: That being said, I don't really like the idea of marriage (unless you plan to have kids together in the VERY near future). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Looking to Learn a New Fighting Style, any suggestions?Been watching some videos and reading on practicality, looks like Mauy Thai is what I'll be looking into, thanks for input feller Red Pillers! | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Looking to Learn a New Fighting Style, any suggestions?Conditioning is my top goal. Self defense would be a close second (concealed carry permit holder, though, like physical self-defense I hope to never actually have to use it in public). For now, I'll hold off on the competition, though as someone completely new fighting this could change depending on how much I enjoy it. Far as level of contact I'm not too picky, as long as what I'm learning COULD be practical should a situation arise. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Looking to Learn a New Fighting Style, any suggestions?Not too familiar with Mauy Thai but seems like this is a good one to pickup, I'll have to read up on that one today. Although after watching that link Krav Magra sure does seem more practical.. EDIT: Any particular reason you took up multiple disciplines vs. focusing on one at a time? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Any suggestions on books/websites for cooking at home?And cheap! Will look into that for sure. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to travel. Should I demote?I'm a firm believer of honesty here, and she sounds like a respectable woman (unicorn, even) and I think a real man would be up front with her about his intentions if she leaves. She won't like it, but if she's the girl you say she is she will respect it. Also, lying/silent demotion could prevent something from redeveloping when/if she gets back. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Red pill parenting: Why Spanking is breaking frameNever thought of it that way. But I might have to adopt that philosophy of yours IF I ever decide to have a kid of my own. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Red pill parenting: Why Spanking is breaking frameVery true. I can see how spanking in an agitated/angry state could have unintended consequences (psychologically). Suppose all in all I lucked out. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:19 AM |
| 64 | Red pill parenting: Why Spanking is breaking frameI disagree. I was a little shit growing up, always testing the parents' boundaries. Mother spanked me a lot, most of the time I pretended it hurt, but on occasion I would get the dad-spank. And holy HELL did it hurt. That being said, he was always completely calm when he did it, never angry, and immediately afterwards he asked me to explain to him why he did that, and what I should do to prevent that from happening again. I always did, and I usually never got spanked by him for the same reason, … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 12:12 AM |
| 5 | NoFap is REALLY useful for guys with submissive femdom fetishesI actually stopped looking at porn about a month ago (have had two weak moments, though it's gotten easier to abstain and I don't expect any more slip-ups). The effects are quite noticeable - more motivation/energy to go out and meet women is the top pick. I find myself smiling and acting more flirty to random girls I run into, and most of the time they reciprocate. Still too early to attest to long-term effects, but the short-term are undoubtedly there. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Any good book recommendations? Am looking for informative and (preferably) entertaining reads.I'm actually a pretty big fan of Homer's stuff. Odysseus is without a doubt as alpha as they come. I've never heard of Spy the Lie, but just read a few reviews and I think I found my next book. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I think my (23M) Blue Brain and Red Brain are beating the shit out eachother and I don't know what to do.As the general consensus goes, don't do something if you're going to feel guilty about it. However, maybe sleeping with all these girls isn't what is making you feel this way, but your methods in doing it? For example, are you direct and clear with these women about your intentions? That you're just having fun and have no plans on committing? You mentioned that you "start to feel like shit when the girl is really falling for me," could this be because you've somehow deceived her into thinking yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Any good book recommendations? Am looking for informative and (preferably) entertaining reads.Didn't know we had a redpillbooks sub, appreciate for the tip - I'll get on that right away. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and cheating?Personally, I think a man should keep his word - it's a rare ability these days and it will not go unnoticed by your peers and superiors. If you say you'll be faithful, be faithful. If you say you'll try your best, try your best. As far as cheating with a girl who is in a "LTR" while you're single? To each his own. I am not really comfortable doing that, it'd make me feel dirty after the deed, as if I had slept with tainted goods. But many men have no problem with it, and see it as "if not me th… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Stop talking about yourselfEnjoyable and educational read. I don't think I'm nearly as bad as your friend, but I do tend to share things about my personal life without them asking first at times. I definitely need to work on this, will keep this field report in mind during the next interaction I have. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Restore My Faith: A Heart-Broken Man Turns to The Blue PillThat's along the lines I was thinking, but much better said. I believe this is a prime example of the skewed viewpoint guys have these days in terms of relationships. Just because you found a girl willing to call herself your girlfriend does NOT mean you stop working out, eating healthy, etc. etc. The most important lesson TRP has taught me is that self improvement should be a permanent life change, not a temporary one you strive for until you find "the one," or get a good job or something simil… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Restore My Faith: A Heart-Broken Man Turns to The Blue PillYeesh. That was a rough read, but I feel for him, seeing as I was that guy in high school. The title was a bit of a giveaway, but had I not read that "The last 6 months I tried to be the best boyfriend.." would have been my first red flag. OP, if you're reading this: next time strive to replace that line with "tried to be the best person I could be." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Your daughter.I don't have a daughter, but seeing as my parents didn't do much parenting I practically raised my little sister growing up. I taught her to be self sufficient, to play video games, to be wary of bullshitting, and, of course, I taught her about self respect. In short, I prepared her for a world full of options, and that she should strive for the best - both in business and in relationships. Long story short, she got married a little less than a year ago. Her n count is 1 (guy she's currently mar… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 12:34 PM |
| 8 | The Three Major Pitfalls That Lead To Becoming BetaGlad to see posts like this, I'd like to eventually get into a stable, healthy LTR (not for the sake of being in one, but when I'm older and more financially stable I DO want to have kids, feel like it'd be fun to have a little mini-me that I can train to be a better version of myself). Hoping to see a few more posts like this in the near future. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Time to take the red pill about sun exposure, your health and skin cancer.Agreed, for the most part. However, it does seem that certain people with joint pains can benefit more from krill oil. That being said, not an issue for most people my age (myself included) so for now I'll stick with good ol' fish oil. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Time to take the red pill about sun exposure, your health and skin cancer.I was looking at krill oil at the pharmacy the other day, and according to the label it seemed to provide very similar health benefits to fish oil, but at x3 the cost. Is this spike in cost simply because it contains astaxanthin? Or are there other factors at play here? Am genuinely curious. EDIT: Should have clicked your link before posting this. derp. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Improving Posture?General consensus seems to be to continue lifting and let time do its thing. Though I will put a bit more emphasis on traps/rhomboids (admittedly they are relatively weak and this could be a big factor). However, if anyone else is reading this and this issue applies to them on the other thread several people have recommended this 3 minute youtube video to further aid posture improvement. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 02:59 PM |
| 1 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleAlright, there must be something to this is 3 people have recommended this link to me (explanation in video does seem legit) so I'll have to try this out and see what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 02:54 PM |
| 24 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleMath major here, I think I can explain it in terms anyone can understand. After years of rigorous proofs and analyzing the works of his predecessors Archimedes discovered something very interesting. Betas give 100%, alphas 200%. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 04:06 AM |
| 5 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleGot it, I plan on continuing going to the gym and lifting, so that part shouldn't be a problem. However, I'm glad you mentioned the shoulder-blade pinching, I know I've heard that at some point but haven't given it any thought in quite awhile. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 04:01 AM |
| 18 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleSomewhat new Red Piller here - for the most part the questions I've had about improving my SMV have been easy to find on this sub, however, you mentioned "posture" under the "Why?" So my question, any pointers on improving posture, particularly for someone who has spent way too much time looking at a computer screen? I've youtubed things, found a few videos that may or may not be helpful, but still looking for something that can explain why this method works with some concrete evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | On a first date which one shows more dominance: splitting a bill or paying in full?If she says, "you're the man," turn it around again. "Oh? So you're not for equality? Men should take care of women because they can't take care of themselves? Noted." Or some variant. EDIT: If you paying for her is a make or break then she was never interested to begin with. She's a gold digger and you've won by catching her early and scaring her off. EDIT2: And, of course, you don't say these things in a way that sounds like you're accusing her of something. Make it sound playful/you're pickin… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | On a first date which one shows more dominance: splitting a bill or paying in full?"You're not paying for me? That's cheap." "If supporting myself and not paying for someone else is cheap, what is the person who expects other people to buy things for them?" | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Going to college. What should I do?University graduate here: In case no one has explicitly told you, let me give you some advice I wish had been given to me going into my freshman year. Grades are important, so is having a healthy social life. However, the MOST important thing long-term/career-wise, emphasis on MOST important, talk with your professors, meet with them after class. Help them with research. Professors know EVERYONE, they are the single most important connections you will make at university. They are your references… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Theorizing Vs Acting (Is Squirt Piss?)Excellent post, I didn't major in it, but I have covered enough biology to be familiar with the endocrine system. That being said, I probably wouldn't have made the connection with BDSM-type escapades and this particular body system at any point in the near-future. But with what you've shared in this post in mind, it absolutely makes perfect sense. Anyway, appreciate OP for taking the time to write this out for new Red Pillers such as myself; never hurts to know too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 10:54 PM |
| 0 | I am a unicorn and you can't catch me if your playing gamesI have to say, all I could think about when I read this was this old 70s show quote. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | I am a unicorn and you can't catch me if your playing gamesI am a unicorn and you can't catch me if YOU'RE playing games* | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | My best friend was hitting on a FwB of mine and now I am feeling incredibly angryHe was honest about it, if he thought he was doing something wrong he'd be more likely to try and hide it, or at least tell you and expect you speak up if you were uncomfortable with it. Shit friends will lie and manipulate, good friends may fuck up, but at least they're always honest about it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Change of Pace: Kicking bad habits, new diet, new exercise routine, and of course, new to TRP.Right, makes sense. Although there are a lot of religious principles I agree with, there are several others which are just antiquated and wrong (in my opinion). But all in all I think "religion" and one's relationship with "God" should be a very personal thing. Not sure if I fall into any traditional religious group but I suppose I'm mostly Pastafarian. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Change of Pace: Kicking bad habits, new diet, new exercise routine, and of course, new to TRP.Freedom does seem like a good long term goal, though in all honesty I'm not 100% how I'm going to achieve all the parts of that yet. Freedom from bad habits seems like the first check off the list, naturally, and I'm feeling pretty good about that one. If I had to make an educated guess I'd say the next step is to start saving and utilizing all the money I'm saving (from not partaking in former bad habits) to try and break off dependency of the bankers/parents/tax men. That last bit, however.. p… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Change of Pace: Kicking bad habits, new diet, new exercise routine, and of course, new to TRP.Good stuff, think I've found a new goal this week in finding those "physical, creative, and mental" hobbies." As far as the creative goes I actually did pick my guitar back up a few days ago (used to be moderately skilled a few years ago but refer back to the aforementioned slump). Now to find a good physical/mental hobby before the weekend is up! | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 01:54 PM |
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