Cross55 Archive

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21	I recently came across this on social media, and got attacked for stating that it's actually black men, not women who are most disadvantaged in US society. How do we, as LWMA's, respond to such misinformed people? Not exactly. Asian men outperform everyone in financial and educational results (The poorest Asian group in America, Cambodians, average an $80k yearly income, for reference, white population is only at ~$72k), while Asian women rank equally to white men in both categories. (Probably why their relationships are so common tbh, they tend to run in the same circles more often than not)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 09:15 AM
1	A lot of people are really trying so hard to demonize single men. But they are struggling though. That also has nothing to do with the topic at hand.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 01:34 AM
1	A lot of people are really trying so hard to demonize single men. But they are struggling though. I don't see how that has anything to do with what I wrote.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 01:27 AM
0	A lot of people are really trying so hard to demonize single men. But they are struggling though. I mean... A. It's not exactly easy to get a GF for most guys nowadays, and B. Yeah, but they're going to be her friends first and foremost, you'll just be a tagalong they happen to accept, but never expect them to care more about you compared to her. (So if something like lying, cheating, or abuse happens and she's the perp, they're going to defend her even if you're the victim)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 01:07 AM
4	A lot of people are really trying so hard to demonize single men. But they are struggling though. I actually spent a lot of my earliest years being friends with girls, never discriminated between boys or girls when it came to who I hung out with and always tried to be inclusive. Most of the boys around that time were open to it as well. What changed is how girls started acting towards me; girls I used to be friends with started distancing themselves or acting uncomfortable around me (And most guys, tbf), and a lot of new girls I met were generally on the defensive and only hung out/socialize…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 12:53 AM
3	A lot of people are really trying so hard to demonize single men. But they are struggling though. For reference, when actual studies were done, most found that married women without kids were the happiest demo, and that women with kids were about equally as happy as single women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/10/24 12:40 AM
39	Study finds that no, its not all men, actually As someone who admittedly deals with low empathy towards people, um, how do I put this.... it's not hard to figure out which buttons to push or which groups to go to in order to get what you want. I've been testing this shit since I was 6 years old, present stimuli that doesn't push too far into someone's comfort and/or annoyance zones and see how they react, then try it again with a different type, and keep doing that until you know which behaviors or actions will get you positive reactions. (A…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/24 08:35 AM
21	Positive male spaces that exist but then you get the "locker room talk" Guys don't do this, this only became a thing because Trump used it as a defense over his admitting to SA. Never have I ever heard anyone talk about sex in a locker room, why would a group of hetero guys get together naked and talk about sex? What logic does that make. In all the lockers rooms I've been in, either it was guys awkwardly changing asap, maybe some dumdums spraying each other in the eyes with cologne, and shameless old men who have no semblance…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/09/24 08:14 AM
6	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… Exactly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/09/24 12:19 AM
17	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… There was an explanation in Askmen earlier that kinda shed light on a lot of this. Women hate men as a group, but they like individual ones. Similar to how your racist relatives can probably list 2-3 Black/Asian people they like (Neighbors, war buddies/comrades, actors/athletes, etc...), but overall, they're gonna be racist assholes to the general Black/Asian population.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/24 11:50 PM
4	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… This is what an In-Group/Out-Group Response looks like. Basically, in Biology and Psychology, there's this behavioral trait called an In-Group/Out-Group Response Factor, which is the likelihood of a specific group to accept those they deem to be an Out-Group, as well as how they treat those in both In-Groups and Out-Groups. Meerkats for example, have one of the highest response rates in the world between male and female members, with them being a matriarchal species where female members are trea…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/24 11:48 PM
0	"MRAs" have never tried to instill a color revolution overseas. Feminists have. The argument, the OP makes isn't very conservative is all I will say He's literally justifying theocracy. You yourself posted that this is what he's doing. And you can look though his other posts, first one being about how conservative capitalist oligarchy Russia is one of the few beacons of freedom in the world.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/24 04:13 AM
1	"MRAs" have never tried to instill a color revolution overseas. Feminists have. There's a large subset on this sub who will bitch, whine, and downvote endlessly if you're mean to conservatives. From the looks of it, their activity rises and wanes depending on the season, Spring was pretty bad, Summer was alright, and it looks like Fall is swinging back to conservative bitching again.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/24 04:02 AM
4	If feminists truly hate the male gaze. Then they should call out women who encourage other women to use sex as a tool of control. They actually done studies of video games. They've found that more often than not, women actually like sexualizing their characters, mainly female characters at that. Likewise, in the fashion world, there's a very, very popular idea that the limiting factor in female fashion is hetero men. Posts about it get stupidly popular as well (Read the comments if you want to give yourself an aneurysm), 'Nother braindead example, and another... Hell, 77% of hentai authors/artists are women. 35mm-Chan has …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/09/24 08:44 AM
4	If feminists truly hate the male gaze. Then they should call out women who encourage other women to use sex as a tool of control. Actually, as per feminist film theory, women cannot have a gaze. The Gaze started around the 1700's/1800's in order to describe painting and other art, namely how the artist may view the work vs. the audience. In this case we got a bunch of Gazes to describe things: Male gaze, female gaze, economic gaze, social gaze, etc... How a rich female audience may view a piece would be entirely different to the poor male painter who made the work. However feminism isn't really good at inventing its own te…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/09/24 08:38 AM
2	If feminists truly hate the male gaze. Then they should call out women who encourage other women to use sex as a tool of control. I think that's mainly because of one woman. Do you think if JK In UK politics, transphobia is the only bipartisan ideal that Tories and Labor can agree with. Most of Labor are transphobic, both Rishi Sunak (Tory) and Keir Starmer (Labor and current PM) blocked Scotland's pro-trans gender recognition reform. You can also see this in Harry Potter actors, those that have spent a lot of time in the US like Daniel and Emma are against JK's beliefs, but Evanna Lynch (Luna Lovegood) who has effectively…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/09/24 08:32 AM
43	Moms think more about household chores − and this cognitive burden hurts their mental health No it's not. Emotional Labor was invented by Marx and Engles to describe the emotional sacrifices the laborer has to make for their employers, such as skipping out on weekends/breaks and family time, being nice to customers all the time even if they don't deserve it, kissing your boss' ass and stroking their ego to stay employed, etc... It was coopted by feminism to become the manipulation tactic we know it as today, but it was originally invented to explain emotional grievances under capitalism…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/09/24 08:22 AM
16	Women's Fears Fueled Sundown Towns, And Continue To Fuel Over Policing, Harsh Prison Sentences, And The Targeting Of Poor And Minority Men 1 in 6 women has been the target of a rape or attempted rape. Uh... This is actually the stat for males.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/24 02:02 AM
1	Conservative women believe that cis men are obligated to serve them by default. Ok, so, you have to understand that in American culture, Right and Left-Wing cultures are 2 very real things. Those on the Right are aok with rampant and systematic abuse, this is because most of them believe they're "Temporarily Embarrassed Millionaires" who believe any attack on corporations is an attack against their future wealth, or practitioners of Learn Helplessness who don't seen anything every getting better and just want maintain the status quo as much as possible. So why would they fi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/08/24 04:40 AM
6	Conservative women believe that cis men are obligated to serve them by default. Yes, mostly from people who don't know what they're talking about. When it comes to the Trades, there are 2 states: Union and At Will States. Union states have effectively state-wide (Or partner with nation-wide) trade unions that pay for pretty much everything and establish salary standards. (For example, where I live no tradesman can earn <$60k and the average is ~$80k for most people who graduate Journeymen status) These states generally tend to be blue. Otoh, we have At Will states, these st…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/08/24 01:00 AM
5	Why I can’t call myself a feminist I stumbled upon a thread there where a lesbian was arguing with a bunch of hetero women about how their standards for men are making them classist eugenicists, because they were demanding the 666 meme as a serious metric, and she was getting downvoted to hell. That was a wild ride. Also got banned there because I pointed out women aren't helpless children. I know, I know, claiming women have agency is misogyny.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/07/24 04:28 AM
18	Reddit doesn’t care about you. I mean, there was that 6 month period of time where every other comic she made was about how she wanted to kill her husband, so...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 11:40 PM
24	Reddit doesn’t care about you. Well, that's cause one of the most prominent admins is a "Progressive" which in reality can be better described as Tumblr-based Maoism. So no, she doesn't care, and is proud of that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 11:39 PM
1	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance The ones who aren't vocal about it Do not exist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 11:41 PM
1	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance Perhaps you just hear the vocal ones and assume they're all like that. Because they're all vocal about it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 12:25 PM
6	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance If women go for older men it’s because they want children No, it's because they want the perks of being rich without needing to deal with kids. They want the trophy wife life, so no kids.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 07:32 AM
11	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance A. Dating apps suck, basically turns things into a meat market where women go through hundreds of men a day to find the perfect Prince Charming. B. Entitlement. This relates to dating apps, but is more so an overbearing trend, basically, a lot of people (Especially American women, nowadays) demand the best of the best with no exceptions excluding the fact that they themselves are often not the best of the best. This can be surmised by 1 simple question: "What do you bring to the table?" C. Refoc…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 04:34 AM
9	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance A lot of people don't understand that Black American culture is very conservative and highly materialistic/status focused. (I mean, if most popular hiphop and trap videos didn't make this clear) So it's not shocking that black women are at the forefront of those types of movements, "What men need to do, what a real man is, etc...". (Especially since Black American relationships statically just suck in general. You know that claim "Men overwhelmingly murder their women!" yeah, that comes from sta…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 02:57 AM
8	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance Sex outside monogamy for women is stupid if their desire is a relationship and kids. Most women nowadays don't want kids and most go for older men for relationships because of financial and social status, so...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 11:53 PM
0	An article from the CBC about Gen Z dating that only shows women and describes men as an addictive substance I mean, that's because most of those types never shut up about them. I knew a MGTOW, every single time he tried to start a conversation it was "So you know how women do XYZ" which made me just want to walk away asap because then he'd give a lecture about his most recent personal offense, which happened ~3x's a day it felt like. And this is par for the course in all of their spaces. Doesn't really feel like they're decentering women if they won't shut up about them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 11:52 PM
1	If I could remove a single double standard from the world: Keep in mind that the CDC definition and the legal definition from the FBI are 2 completely different things. Most states go with the FBI definition that's more all encompassing, where only a few use the CDC's definition, Montana, Alaska, etc... (Which the FBI condemns and has been trying to get the CDC to switch for years now)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 06:36 AM
5	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored They want to keep their echo chamber nice and peaceful full of users who just 100% agree with each other. Tbf, that's how most women's spaces operate. Women have an in-group/out-group response rate* 4x's higher than men. Any percieved threat to the peace and order of their communal areas needs to be dealt with ASAP. *An In-Group/Out-Group Response Factor is the biological determinate through which a group percieves and behaves with those around them. In biology this can be seperated between spec…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 11:07 AM
4	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Well she's also an AW mod, so you know.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 11:00 AM
8	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Fun fact, the mods have it so that posting that word gets you an instaban.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 10:59 AM
17	What's the deal with r/menslib? It's a 2X sock puppet sub mostly made up of transwomen and women (I reverse the demos because the majority of 2X users only have 1 X chromosome) cosplaying as cis men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 12:26 AM
7	“To our horror”: Widely reported study suggesting divorce is more likely when wives fall ill gets axed The authors of the most famous study have retracted the paper This is because of a data error sprung up from using the same variable for divorce and dropping out of the study. Likewise, they didn't bother to look into the reason why it may happen, because medical debt divorce is actually rather common (Like you said), and certain healthcare plans are cheaper for 1 person vs. a couple. Likewise, other studies have been done in the wake of this and found that it's really a coin toss on who leaves …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/06/24 01:45 AM
22	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more 2nd post, sorry about this, but found one! Even that was a pain in the ass to track down. Ok, so I know this doesn't seem like much, but for context, you have to understand that somewhere around 2021-2022, for ~6 straight months almost every comic she posted was increasingly becoming more and more vitriolic towards her husband, to the point where him telling stories about their kids would send her into a deep-seated rage towards him. For example, like if their daughter said something dad did wel…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/24 12:12 AM
9	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more ~1-2 years ago, and I would show you them, even commented in one of the threads where she getting some heat for it so I 100% know they existed, but she deleted all of them for her "mental health." We do however, have evidence of the pity party she threw Pt. 2 of that	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:36 PM
27	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more They're still married. He defends her.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:18 PM
22	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more Eh, I've found that most people don't read the word "most." So "Most men don't" devolves into "Men don't" and then you have a whole raiding party knocking down your door.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:15 PM
55	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more No, they're saying [deleted] [deleted] removed removed [deleted]	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:13 PM
60	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more It gets better when you learn her original comics were all ranting about how much she wants to kill her husband. And then she made an entire pity series ranting about people being mean to her... For pointing how they don't like constant comics about wanting to kill your spouse. Including one really "artistic" piece with a bunch of in-depth drawing to show much these comments hurt her. (This was around the time Jaiden Animations did her artistic video about why she'll never voluntarily do a face …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:11 PM
20	Misandry from a popular webcomics artist and more But women do talk to guys like that. All the time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/24 11:08 PM
2	Why are men turning to the right? Qanon started on 4Ch but moved to 8Ch and is a declared prophet by users as they believe he gives out cryptic messages detailing future events and linking past events to current conspiracies. The main conspiracy Qanon followers claim he's revealing is The Left's Satanic pact with demons where Democrats kidnap children in a global left-wing child sex trafficking network and harvest their adrenochrome from getting SA'd for consumption in pizza (Pizzagate) to extend their lives and enact a left-win…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/24 02:57 AM
2	Why are men turning to the right? I find myself off somewhere in the middle now bc the left moved so far left. lol, no it didn't, this is known Rep. propaganda. The establishment Dems are center-right and haven't been able to accomplish anything semi-progressive without constant kicking and screaming from the Reps. Obama outright said Reagan was one of his main inspirations, and pretty much all Congressional Dems do insider trading during their off hours. Yeah, real leftist of them. The Reps otoh, tried to commit a coup because …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/06/24 03:55 AM
7	Could feminist double standards contribute to rape culture? (Mona Chollet and the topic of mother on son abuse) There is not a single feminist term that originated in feminism, they're all coopted. Emotional Labor is from Marxism, it's meant to be the emotional toll industrialized/post-industrial labor takes on people (Having to keep up appearances and kowtow to bosses, deal with customers, deal with potentially having your house or food on the line, etc...). Trauma Dumping is an abuse tactic that's used to keep the victim under the control of the abuser. In fact, it's actually more common with women as t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/06/24 02:06 AM
16	An apartment complex where men are banned As long as the government isn't refusing to build similarly subsidised housing to help equally needy men Canada's Ministry of Women has declared male-exclusive areas are unconstitutional and are banned. Male shelters for example, are not allowed to be built. (Course, they don't need to enforce that themselves, any that have been tried have been burned to the ground by militant feminists...)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/06/24 12:44 AM
3	An apartment complex where men are banned A 55+ retirement community has every right to turn away a 25 year old trying to move in. They legally don't, no, housing discrimination is illegal. Most of these communities keep a low number of houses in place for token <55's so as to not trigger these laws. Also, they have tried legally turning them away in the past, and it never goes well. (For example, one time a 15 year old's parents died and his closest grandparents who were living at a 55+ community took him in. The community HAO tried ki…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/06/24 12:42 AM
11	Single women are happier... Whats your perspective on this? The 1st is the study I was talking about, the 2nd is only for brain cancer but is listed as a comprehensive study for all cancer for some stupid feking reason. Basically, yeah, guys are more likely to leave over brain cancer, and women more likely to leave over MS. (Notice MS was mentioned in the study but they don't actually go into any detail about it? That's why. In later studies it was found women are 2.1x's more likely to leave their partner if their partner has MS than vice versa) Now, for…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/24 03:40 AM
26	Single women are happier... Whats your perspective on this? There have only been 2 studies about this and both intricately related. The first one was a college campus survey from a basically unknown newspaper called The Independent, and uh, yeah, of course single college aged women were having more fun single than in a relationship. The 2nd was inspired by that survey and was done by a researcher named Paul Dolan, who retracted the study because he misread and fabricated data. Most legit studies show that women in long term marriages without kids are the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/24 12:55 AM
10	"I am trans and hate the online demonization of masculinity" \| The Michigan Daily OP-ED This is how you need to word statements in order to be heard or accepted in these circles. Problems can't affect men unless men created said problems, so any problems feminism might be causing needs to be worded in a way that it affects oppressed groups, and just happens to include men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/24 11:42 PM
1	CNN/2016/Hilary Clinton "I will institute gender-responsive policies in the federal prison system and encourage states to do the same—" Do you legitimately believe Right-Wingers for even a second would vote for a democrat woman if she wined and dined them enough? Do you really think that's how they operate? which claims so much to be the "tolerant side", people seem absolutely unable to consider that people may be able to have valid opinions. Tolerance towards intolerance is just indirect intolerance. It is antithetical to equality and acceptance to accept ideologies that preach inequality and bigotry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/24 11:17 PM
3	Trying to understand this a bit myself but from a more holistic perspective why would a man on the top rather either add hurdles to a man on the bottom of hierarchy or worse, be completely apathetic to his hardships and turmoils? Because women's in-group/out-group response rate is 4x's higher than men's. For those who don't know, that's a biological standard to track how protective a species or group is of their own. In the case of humans, this can also be further split between the sexes and cultural/national groups. And specifically for humans, men on average tend to give less of a shit about other men vs. women who tend to be super protective of other women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/24 11:44 PM
10	Throwing Men under the Bus That's actually how Ur Fascist describes The Enemy in fascist ideology. The Enemy is both stronger and weaker than the fascist group/state, so they're a target of both fear and ridicule. Hitler did this a lot with the Jews and Slavs, where they were both low class pigs who are lower than dirt compared to the genetically pure Germanics, while also being financial and strategic masterminds that have Germany under their boots. Republicans do this with immigrants as well. On one hand, they're incapa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/24 02:12 AM
5	Men don't have the luxury of individualism in society. The comments are full of women claiming “we want real men, not feminine men”. Weird, usually in those types of discussions I see tons of women gushing over feminine men and declaring masculine men/features to be disgusting.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/05/24 03:15 AM
1	Left wing silence is not personal to men, the oppressed/oppression narrative ruins it all The Feenstras, yes. They never bothered to learn a single word of Russian and had their money stolen when they tried to transfer banks and their account got frozen and "hacked." Oops 🤭 (Let's just ignore the fact that this is a noted Russian banking tactic since the 90's) There's also this family vlogging channel called Siberian "Freedom", which is an Aussie family that moved to Russia to escape the decaying wokepocalypse of Aussieland. (Which should key you into how out of touch they are with t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 06:32 AM
18	Is all this a good use of our time? A. Did you seriously come up with an entire thread to make people lose the game? B. I mean, tbh, this is more so just a confirmation space to understand that I'm not crazy. Growing up, I constantly questioned why certain social norms and double standards existed, but no one would ever give me a straight answer. This led to me having to look for answers myself, and led me to understand that either 1. They didn't know why things were the way they were and didn't care to question it, or 2. They kne…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 03:42 AM
2	Left wing silence is not personal to men, the oppressed/oppression narrative ruins it all Current Afghanistan is a Republican Wet Dream. Conservative religion running the nation? Absolute power held by wealthy elders and warlords? Gay people routinely killed for being gay? Abortion is banned and women/girls are property? No Freedom of Speech? If it was Christianity instead of Islam running the show, Republicans would be falling over themselves trying to move there. (Oh wait, that's Russia)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 03:32 AM
8	How bad is the current state of academia? That's only in required union states, at will states will maybe pay you $40k a year if you're lucky. Likewise, you still need to pay for the training and equipment. 1/2 of the electricians in my community college needed to take out loans cause they couldn't get scholarships.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 03:23 AM
38	How bad is the current state of academia? Even papers that relatively try to provide information that supports men's rights issues, but even these papers would begin with apologia with something like: "of course the main goal here is women's welfare, but this particular thing hurts women by hurting men so it's ok to talk about it" That's because modern feminist theory can't accept a situation of something directly and solely hurting men, this is because then it would undermine the basis of modern feminism that men hold all the power. If…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 03:20 AM
2	How bad is the current state of academia? My college accepts Xe/Xer on official forms	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 12:31 AM
1	Update: AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"? I didn't know that I literally told you about the original post and why she did it. First reply, in fact.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/24 11:30 PM
2	Update: AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"? Sure. But in this case it was made for the express purpose of escaping when he starts beating her and/or abusing their daughter.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/24 12:05 PM
3	Update: AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"? In the original post (Which this one is based off of, but 99.9% chance not the same person) she made it because she got the idea from a FB Mom Group that got her to believe all men are latent abusers/sex predators waiting to strike.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/24 09:37 AM
4	Update: AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"? You know, usually in those threads when husbands do something like ask for a paternity test before birth of a kid, the thread erupts with screams that the wife should divorce her husband asap and cut all contact, and usually the OP on there goes through with it happily cause they can't believe their husbands would ever for a second doubt their commitment. Just saying...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/24 05:59 AM
-2	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? Ok, well, we're not taking about Medieval Times (700's-1400's AD), we're talking about at minimum 5000 BC before bronze was invented. you would starve sure Because they weren't allowed to own their own home or land and hence have a stable abode to work. Weren't even really allowed citizenship up until recent history.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 02:09 AM
3	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? They really didn't, no. Gender roles only starting taking hold when agriculture became a thing. Most tribal societies didn't practice them because restricting the overall skill contribution of the group based on effectively surface level details in an era of perpetual scarcity is idiotic. As was stated in Dune "Do I look stupid enough to sacrifice the best of us?" So yeah, men needed to know how to cook or make clothing just as much as women needed to know how to hunt and tend to animals. (This …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 12:16 AM
2	I wonder where the Skittles Analogy originates... oh How fascist of Trump, to call on people to remain peaceful and respect the law. Literally throughout his entire 2nd campaign he said "Stand back and stand by" which is fascist code for wait until you're given orders to attack. Then on 1/6 he actively encouraged his follows to storm the Capitol, which just so happened to have lessened security called for by the Reps.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 08:02 AM
8	Do any other “non-masculine” men also struggle with a lack of acceptance? talk to women This is actually pretty easy tbh. What people don't talk about is what to do after that point. See, most women have a very firm line between friends and relationships (They also have a very firm line between committed relationships and casual), so just talking to them isn't really gonna let you jump that barrier. You can talk to them till their ears fall off, doesn't mean you're gonna get anywhere. (Could actually make them like you less) So yeah, talking to them's easy, it's the m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 06:45 AM
17	I wonder where the Skittles Analogy originates... oh Originally it was made by the literal Nazi's and then got coopted by racist Southern white women to argue against desegregation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 06:35 AM
2	Man Bear Megathread ... Sun Bears look like a man in a dollar store bear costume. Chinese zoos have had to add signs to Sun Bear enclosures informing tourists they're not making a man wear a bear suit.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/24 04:08 AM
5	Apparently 1 in 3 women are attacked by men according to this. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3969807/	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/24 01:34 AM
7	Man Bear Megathread It was also invented in Nazi Germany to describe Jews, and then evolved to be used by Southern white women to argue against equal rights and desegregation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/05/24 04:39 AM
2	Man Bear Megathread Sun Bears are actually pretty vicious, they're very, very territorial. Like, 1 level below Sloth Bears.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/05/24 04:38 AM
6	Man Bear Megathread Ok, but what about threads on Manbearpig?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 10:42 AM
2	The wonderful people on blatantmisogyny are calling one of your threads "misogyny" Unironically the main argument in that thread.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 10:42 PM
70	Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them. This quote was actually invented by Margaret Atwood while researched Handmaid's Tale. Yeah, she came up with this when she was staying at a Radfem commune in the safest area of Canada where a robbery hadn't happened in over 100 years, let alone a murder.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 10:38 PM
4	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. The Bear Question is an evolution of anti-Jew propaganda. This later evolved into the famous chocolate analogy started by racist white women in the South but got coopted to mean all men by the greater feminist movement, and then evolved into the current Bear Question we have today. The feminist movement in a lot of white majority nations goes hand in hand with racism, Susan B. Anthony hated black people for example.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 12:13 AM
4	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. Or try and pin them down on exactly what percentage of men they think would rape them. I did that, one said 99%.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 12:12 AM
5	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. Eh, I mean, if you start bringing out sources to point out their craziness then they'll just have a meltdown and end the discussion for you. Speaking from experience from a few days ago.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 12:11 AM
8	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. Susan B. Anthony was a giant racist, she spearheaded the entire suffrage movement in the US because of how angry she was that black men got voting rights before white women. (You should see her diary, she says very... interesting things about black people) TBH, I find the question is more so an evolution of the Mushroom (Later Chocolate) analogy. "If you had a plate of mushrooms but 1 was poisonous then you'd never trust mushrooms again" is actually anti-Jewish propaganda that was then coopted b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/24 12:08 AM
1	The type of men who feminists generalize men off of (the only kind of men who are misogynistic). Here's some info about them: Ok, so you didn't read my fucking post. Because for most of history, men A. Had much closer relationships and didn't focus on women for emotional support, they gave it to each other, and B. Were seen as the default most attractive sex, and women only invented care routines to try and compete because they were seen as so unappealing normally. If anything, you should be whole heartedly supporting my point because it's showing you natural behavior is more in favor of men. But you can't because you …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/24 01:55 AM
1	The type of men who feminists generalize men off of (the only kind of men who are misogynistic). Here's some info about them: So you just missed the point then.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/24 01:50 AM
1	The type of men who feminists generalize men off of (the only kind of men who are misogynistic). Here's some info about them: ... You didn't read my post.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/24 01:01 AM
-2	The type of men who feminists generalize men off of (the only kind of men who are misogynistic). Here's some info about them: No, it's not, it's pointing out your premise being faulty. Your claim was that it's impossible for men to decenter women from their lives because men's sex drive is too high and women are the only source of emotional fulfillment, when evidently, neither are true, before the 1800's they already had the solution and said solution is still the norm in several areas today. We’ll never shape it that way so I miss your point. Well evidently that's not true given that it has happened. Wanna try again?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/24 11:01 PM
1	The type of men who feminists generalize men off of (the only kind of men who are misogynistic). Here's some info about them: I think it is simply not realistic. It actually used to be the norm, and still is in a lot of areas the West hasn't touched, like Thailand or Ethiopia for example. Basically, before the 1800's or so, society in most areas of the world (Including the West and Asia) had the belief that a person's most important relationships were those of the same sex, and marriages were mainly for kids or business. (This is why if you look up pics from the pre-1920's or so, you can see tons of men, from hard labo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/24 10:25 AM
6	The absolute state that is r/menslibb No, they used to not accept them until they learned they were 85% of the user base. Then the terf users and mods went on to found Pink Pill Feminism and Gender Critical.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 11:02 PM
9	My experiences with misandry being a Trans male victim of a woman. It's actually genuinely scary how many people outright REFUSE to acknowledge Heard's abusive behavior. Like, there are literal hours of audio of her incriminating herself. Explicitly. There's an entire defense force on the site for this. One time I accidently replied to one of them not knowing how batshit she was, and she lost her shit, then I posted evidence of the well known incident where AH beat her gf in public, but that didn't count because her gf didn't press charges (Yeah, assault only c…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 07:06 AM
7	The absolute state that is r/menslibb Eh... it's more complex than that. See, most Menslib users are actually 2X users, of which 85% of 2X user are transwomen. (Bit of a story, 2X held a selfie thread, ~500/600 posts were tw, sub melted down for a bit, broke off into Pinkpill/Gender Critical and current state of 2X) So they're transwomen, pretending to be cis men, ranting about how cis men need to step up and do better for women. Makes sense?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 06:50 AM
2	What is your career/field? Generally there's 2 main ways. There's the certification path which is a series of certification classes/tests that build up to a basic full degree experience and hands on learning, takes 2-3 years and in total ~$3000. The 2nd is Western Governer's University which is one of the only online school worth its salt, they offer fast track degree options for cheaper than regular colleges but require that you actually keep on top of your work. In-depth material but very harsh graders. In my case I'm j…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/24 12:47 AM
21	Discrimination in hospital care It literally says the reason men are less likely to seek care is because they're more likely to be ignored or talked down to by dr.'s compared to women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/24 10:45 PM
17	Discrimination in hospital care It's actually not. Men feeling ignore by Dr.'s is ~80% vs. ~60% for women. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1121551/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6560804/	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/24 09:47 PM
3	Ironically enough male feminists kind of perpaute the worse stereotypes about men. https://youtu.be/lHFKf4hltJU?si=_fmB2RCj3JRfbkvo	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/24 07:02 AM
3	What is your career/field? Business analytics and logistics studying cyber security on the side. (Lots of older people in the industry, real gold star if you have any tech experience cause so much data, invoice info/tracking, accounting, etc... is online now) Might go into logistics law if I can make connections at any company's legal department, or IS analysis.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/24 09:51 AM
20	Why is "positive masculinity" something that is pushed in progressive circles, but nothing like "positive femininity"? No, that time of the month teaches us that hormones supersede accountability.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/24 12:29 PM
58	Why is "positive masculinity" something that is pushed in progressive circles, but nothing like "positive femininity"? Because femininity is inherently positive, the Women are Wonderful Effect prevents women from doing wrong. Whereas, Positive Masculinity is basically just Toxic Masculinity but used for personal benefit. Basically just another rebrand of Benevolent Sexism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/24 01:14 AM
5	On April 22, SCOTUS will hear arguments for and against punishing homelessness (which mostly affects men) Well, in Europe, asylums are more like advanced mental hospitals that keep you there to work out a plan to monitor symptoms or check through medication to find a mix that's not debilitating (Unlike the US where you're just throw outside and forced to deal with side effects on your own). If they can't do either, they go to well-funded and cushy psychiatric wards to get even more help. The wonders that properly funded and operated mental health services can provide.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/24 09:08 AM
4	On April 22, SCOTUS will hear arguments for and against punishing homelessness (which mostly affects men) So, you're not allowed to merely exist in the united states. The US is more of a business or corporation that happens to have people living in it. So yeah, actually, a lot in government would prefer if you stuck to your own little designated cubby hole when not being economically productive. They don't have room in jail Oh boy, let me tell you about the adaptability of the US prison complex...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/24 09:04 AM
1	Is Male Loneliness Self-Inflicted? Absolutely does in this case. In pretty much every society where male bonds are seen as stronger and more valuable than male-female bonds, women's rights or positions of power/influence go down the toilet. This is part of why sex work is so common in Thailand, because women don't have the same opportunities as men do because of the fact that most men see no point in keeping them around other than for, food, orgasms, and reproduction. Most Thai women have to become sugar babies for 50 year old me…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/04/24 06:34 AM
5	why do online leftists outside this sub hate it? No one asked. Everybody knew "trans women are women" was a statement of belief, but hard evidence never meant shit to radical feminists before, and sounded kinda phallocentric and colonial anyway. Sex=/=Gender Sex is the bio determinate of what you are, Gender is the psych determinate of what you are. how many of you here have ever seen a transfem get beaten up for using the men's room? https://www.cnn.com/2024/02/21/us/oklahoma-teen-death-school-fight/index.html	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/04/24 11:59 AM
3	How much do you align with the “traditional” male gender role? On gender role tests I generally score 50/50 masc/fem. So, I don't subscribe to gender roles, too restricting, there are positive and negative traits that both sexes/genders can exhibit, so I'd rather focus on fostering the positive ones while controlling the negative ones. But, overall, I find that constraining behavior by gender/sex has done nothing good for society.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/04/24 07:32 AM
3	Is Male Loneliness Self-Inflicted? I'm gonna be the unpopular opinion: Yeah, kinda. 2 points: 1st: Before the 1920's or so, most American men were actually a lot closer both physically and emotionally. You can find pics circa 1800's-1920's with really tough men (Rail workers, lumberjack, engineers and laborers, etc...) holding hands, cuddling, etc... But what changed? The Great Depression and Cold War. With the former, it really caused people, men in specific, to develop an "Every man for himself" mentality. People weren't coming…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/04/24 11:49 AM
2	Do men blame women for their problems? Societal or Personal? For the former, no, most generally don't. Personally? Well, I seem to have been horrendously unlucky in life in that most of the women in my family and girls/women I grew up around were either horrid or incompetent. So, I do blame those specific ones for problems I deal with, but not the female sex as a whole, no.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/04/24 10:48 AM
1	Lack of touch, my comment and the reactions to it You realize this is a left-wing sub right? Most don't agree nor respect this xenophobic bs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/03/24 12:52 AM
2	Queer spaces are filled with man-hate, bi women most affected This is actually a whole historical thing. Basically, for the vast majority of history, the male form was seen as superior aesthetically vs. the female form. IIRC, there's like 3x's the number of male Rennaissance artwork vs. female work because they didn't believe the female form had any value artistically, and notorious male nympho Raphael really only ever focused on women in his Biblical paintings, everything else he made was of men. Likewise in Asia, most Asian art focused on humans mainly f…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 09:29 AM
6	Queer spaces are filled with man-hate, bi women most affected Hence why a lot of straight women and bisexual women are turned off by the idea of dating a bisexual man. There's also the fear that they can't compete. Women hear what bi women say about men and generally apply that to how bi men think about women, creating the mindset of "How the hell am I supposed to keep him around if I don't have a dick!? He'll probably leave me for a guy anyway!"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 09:16 AM
8	I got banned from r/boysarequirky for pointing out that caring about isolation epidemic that affects men does not make one antifeminist and no its not just happening to incels. Mainly because FDS was scuttled to become a sub promoting the mod's podcast and forum. Oh yeah, the FDS mods started a podcast, and it's wild.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 09:09 AM
1	I saw this stand up short and I think it represents one problem seen in feminist spaces: Not fully questioning gender norms. There was a post about it a little while ago	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/03/24 05:06 AM
2	Has anyone noticed a lack of awareness for the male anatomy? 7 on the bottom 1/2 and 7 constant on the top 1/2. (The number for the top can flip between 11-13 depending on the main milk ducts a woman has) For anyone curious...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/24 10:56 AM
10	Has anyone noticed a lack of awareness for the male anatomy? There have actually been several occurances where women have downvoted me into the double negatives for knowing more about their anatomy than they do. (Was trying for med school) See, it's not about being correct, it's about feeling empowered, no matter how wrong one is.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/24 10:54 AM
4	How is life for young men in Nordic Countries? Yeah. Otoh, countries like the US are the richest in history, so there's really no excuse.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/03/24 11:48 PM
34	'Can't your husband/boyfriend cook for himself?' Does anyone else notice the uptick in aggressiveness toward wives/girlfriends for just doing something nice for their partner? You should've seen the Trader Joe's thread. Basically, a woman had been sick with non-fatal Covid and wasn't allowed out of the house, so to try and ease her boredom, she drew a map of the local TJ she went to a lot but her husband didn't (He preferred different stores) with a bunch of cute inside jokes or funny quips about his shopping habits (Like writing "No!" next to the cookies, because he has a sweet tooth). Anyway, she thought it was cute and posted it to Reddit... First mistake. 8/10 com…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/24 12:26 AM
2	I guess I’m not a woman then? For anyone curious, you should never put your keys between your fingers, that just rips the skin and makes defending yourself harder. You use your longest key as a shank (Hold it between your thumb and pointer), preferably aiming for the eyes, ears, nose, or neck. Stab anywhere you can of course, but try to go for the closest sensitive/vital bits first and foremost.	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/03/24 02:11 AM
4	Is "The Future Is Female" Hate Speech? She was an unapologetic eugenicist, if it wasn't clear by her views. Pretty much all her sci-fi books are about how women run society and men become rabid dogs with no higher thinking skills if you take away female influence over them. Like The Wanderground, where after an apocalypse women have voluntarily segregated themselves and have rebuilt society while hetero men become cavemen, and gay men do nothing but worship women all their lives... (Y'know, despite being a lesbian, I don't think she …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/02/24 05:41 AM
2	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one I'm a month late, but adding to this: Female biology just generally sucks. Human biology in general is pretty subpar (Like our backs not being built to support bipedalism, which is why so many people start dealing with back issues in their 30's despite our standard lifespan being 50+), but female biology in specific is doing them no favors. For example, the orgasm gap will probably never close. Why? Because their biology makes it so orgasms are legitimately harder to achieve, most need the right…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/02/24 02:44 AM
5	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad Exactly what it sounds like, they believe they are justified in their sexism. The men believe all women are hypergamous, gold digging, and sociopathic harpies. The women believe all men are violent and useless tools for social/financial gain. Basically, the 2 sides are the living embodiment of the stereotypes about why they hate each other.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/02/24 12:17 AM
2	r/Ask a feminist 'hey, y'all think it's a heteronormative complex or what?'.... Yeah, but when making a post, particularly in a different sub that has no interaction with ours, discussing a theoretical concept, it is useful to include an explanation of the concept. For clarity. You can't actually do this in most feminist subs. This is because most of the users already assume that you know what they're talking about, so any request for clarification is seen as a set up for a bad faith attack and viciously downvoted with the most condescending replies imaginable that don't an…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 01:31 PM
10	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad I know, I get it, I'm a goddamn misogynist for believing most women are capable human beings. How much do I have to repent before I'm forgiven?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 11:59 AM
4	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad Hold on, could someone explain to me what all this pink pill, purple pill, red pill stuff is? Stupid. I assume it's some reference to The Matrix? Yes. Ok, a bit more in depth into this stupidity. Blue=Feminism Red=Justified sexism towards women Pink=Justified sexism towards men Purple=On the fence, sees why both sides are sexist Black=Incel Doomerism	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 05:05 AM
30	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad I got banned for saying women weren't helpless children in the dating world. Because how dare I... empower women. I'm a real sexist bastard like that, ikik.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 04:47 AM
–	Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do? Where are these subs? Twox, Askwomen, Relationships, Relationships Advice (The S is important in that one), AITA, AITAH, Fauxmoi, etc... Actually, the thing is that most of those subs are part of a network mafia. TwoX and Askwomen's mods don't believe that women should view content that isn't expressly approved by them, so anytime people try to make a female-dedicated sub they fight for control over it. (Askwomennocensor for example, the founder experienced so much abuse that she quit Reddit, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 04:16 AM
3	Dating women as bisexual/lesbian woman is far easier than dating as a heterosexual guy. Except no they're really not. Women have more power than ever to make relationships how they see fit. They basically control all aspects of dating and marriage nowadays in most of the developed world. And in America, the path most have chosen to follow is "Gender roles and perfect performance for thee, not for me" when it comes to dealing with men. Most could make the change for better equality, but they don't want to, because men are in a position with basically no power in that set up, and mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 11:30 AM
1	Dating women as bisexual/lesbian woman is far easier than dating as a heterosexual guy. No actually, lgbt women are very big on "Destroying patriarchal beauty standards." Basically, if you're a straight guy that's 300 lbs and only showers once a week? You're disgusting. If you're a bi women/lesbian that's 300 lbs and only showers once a week? "OMG, you're so hot fighting against the patriarchy!? Take me now!" Yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 03:13 AM
5	Dating women as bisexual/lesbian woman is far easier than dating as a heterosexual guy. ~25% of America's Gen Z identifies as LGBT, with girls/women making up the 20% and boys/men making up the 5%. Granted, this is strictly an American phenomenon, Gen Z lgbt rates in other accepting countries still tends to be pretty equal between the sexes. (Usually ranging between 3%-9% for each sex) So something's going on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 03:03 AM
9	Dating women as bisexual/lesbian woman is far easier than dating as a heterosexual guy. That's cause women tend to view each other as actual human beings with individual quirks and flaws that can be worked on or accepted, while women tend to view men as automatons who are objectified for high status, and whose job it is to provide and be perfect for them and have no maintenance or faults whatsoever. This behavior even appears in bi women. With other women most are all lovey dovey, women are perfect angels, etc... but once they get with men, that whole attitude towards their partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:58 AM