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With my ex-wife, it wasn’t that she gained a lot of weight, it was, she just stopped caring. She stopped, caring about how she looked, became incredibly lazy and obnoxiously gluttonous. Add that to her in increasing problem with anger management, and she became utterly repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:07 PM
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I think OP is just ran out of things to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:48 AM
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Apparently, you didn’t read up on this. This is not “neutering“. I had one after my second child because I was done with babies. My sex life has been great since then. in fact, it’s better because I didn’t have to worry about birth control. Most insurance companies will do it for free, because it saves them a ton of money on pregnancy and newborns to cover. It’s amazing how ignorant some of the comments are on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:27 PM
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If the adults are the only one involved, that doesn’t bother me personally. I don’t even really understand why people get married if they aren’t going to have children. Marriage exists to protect families in general and children in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:29 AM
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That’s not what OP said. They wrote that ypu don’t need a reason or excuse. Addiction , abuse, abandonment or adultery are reasons. Damn good reasons. Your personal happiness is not. The institution of marriage is to protect a family, children in particular. The legal mechanisms exist to put the needs of the children before the happiness of the parents. Some people simply aren’t happy, no matter what their situation is. If they shouldn’t even be in a relationship in the first place, so be it. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:27 AM
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Because there are usually children involved. The children’s well-being comes before either parents personal happiness. You may stumble into a poor relationship, but once you have children, game over!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:51 AM
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What marriages are you talking about? Doesn’t sound like a 20th century or 21st century marriage to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:44 AM
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You don’t have to research basic logic, but what you gave wasn’t basic logic. It was just a gut feeling that you pulled out of thin air. Nobody said anything about being a sociopath. nevertheless, sociopath stay married sometimes. Some people are just obsessed with instant gratification and have bought the myth that you are entitled to constant happiness. Constant happiness is not living in the real world. Everybody live through struggles and difficulties. The whole purpose of a committed partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:23 PM
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Marriage isn’t supposed to be about total happiness. No one is happy all the time. Marriage is supposed to be about working through the tough times. I hate to be traditional, but “for better or for worse, for richer or poorer” etc. that is what a partnership is about. The way I see it, if you are willing to destroy a commitment just because it doesn’t vibe with you, you are pretty self-centered and pretty shallow and should probably not try to make any commitments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:20 PM
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So basically, you’re telling me that you didn’t research anything and you’re just shooting from the hip. This is what Stephen Colbert calls “truthiness”. there is no data to back it up, it just feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:16 PM
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And you’re basing this on carefully studied statistics? Or maybe………nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:25 PM
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If you are that capricious about commitments, then don’t get married. Ever. Marriage is more than just happiness or lack there of. Marriage is legal and ethical contract. You make vows when you get married, whether it is secular or religious. If you break the vows on a whim, you are basically telling society that you are Essentially a liar and not reliable to keep your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:49 PM
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Well duh! Marriage is a legal contract and in many ethics, a sacred contract. Women initiate 80% of divorces in the US. If they are professional women 90% of divorces. Walking away because you just “don’t feel happy” is simply not justified. that mindset means that woman, or man, who walks away from a legal contract because they’re just not happy cannot be trusted to keep the word on anything. In other words, they are lying. I hate to think of what would happen if no fault divorces returned, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:46 PM
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Nah. It’ll get flat before I’m done. I prefer a tureen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:44 PM
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A bucket of chicken A bucket of shrimp A bucket of french fries …………… That’s pretty much it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:21 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:49 AM
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My point was simply to say that things got better for me after I had hit 60. A lot of those reasons were simply self-care. I lost fat, gained muscle mass, grew a well groomed beard and updated my wardrobe to dress like a big boy. Before I took that effort, I was a freaking slob. Of course, what works for me might not work for anyone else. But things can get better. I’m not saying they will, but they can and statistics bear that out. I know it can be brutal in the prime years. I’m not gonna lie a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:48 PM
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But are you saying that we are of the highest quality to offer women of the highest quality? That doesn’t necessarily change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:36 PM
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No, I’m not dating celebrities. 😅Or bikini models . Just average typical women of a certain age. Some are fit, but ,most have their the physical and emotional flaws . But I’m no Calvin Klein underwear model either. The younger woman I had a fling with is a self described plus size, but she was great for me anyways. And it’s not near geriatric, it is full geriatric. But I didn’t exactly get a lot of attention when I was in my 40s and 50s. I’m just saying that things got better for me when I got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:48 AM
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No, I’m not dating celebrities. 😅Or bikini models . Just average typical women of a certain age. Some are fit, but ,most have their the physical and emotional flaws . But I’m no Calvin Klein underwear model either. The younger woman I had a fling with is a self described plus size, but she was great for me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:45 AM
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She thinks she’s getting a better man. He usually isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:30 AM
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Until you’re above your fifties and sixties when it gets dramatically better for men. I’m 65m and I get a lot of attention dating both online and offline. I can go on 2-3 dates a week easily. That’s because there’s less men with a much larger poll of eligible women. For example, I just finished a date with a woman two years younger than me. Earlier this month, I had a fling with a woman who is 48. I was just doing a video chat with a woman I met online who is 45. That isn’t going anywhere, but s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:30 AM
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I always make sure to have lengthy phone conversations before I meet someone in person. Even if the person lives a couple blocks from me, which happened a while ago. If a person is more than an hour drive away, I will insist on video chat. I believe that a video chat can really reveal Not only their conversational skills, but body language as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:01 PM
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Nope. Facebook dating. It doesn’t cost a penny and I met several women a week on there. But I’m not alpha, so what do I know? Oh, and I’ve dated a bunch of women I’ve met just put and about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:09 AM
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I’ve had sex for four different women I met on the apps since May. I anticipate doing the same tomorrow. So what would make me an “alpha” now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:01 AM
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Thank you, but I’m really hoping I have a girlfriend NOW! This woman is really special and I hope I don’t find a way to fuck it up yet again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:12 AM
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I’m a 65 year-old man. I am seeing this woman who is absolutely delightful! She is funny, smart and simply adorable. We have been on two dates and have been intimate twice. I asked her if she was ready to hide her profile she said it was too soon. That certainly means she has options. And it’s just so happens, I’ve had great luck dating. I can have two or three dates a week easily. If she said she was ready to go exclusive tonight I would dump my profile. But knowing how people dating have a sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:47 PM
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Judge: the reasons the plaintiff gave for wanting a divorce are not justified enough for me to grant it. Now, I want you to to go back to your unhappy marriage, and proceeded to drive each other crazy and possibly kill each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:55 PM
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Let’s say you must have grounds for a divorce, or it will not be granted. Now you have two unhappy people trapped in a legal contract that could be potentially harmful to either of them, but especially the woman. If the couple live separately, while still married, it can be a very big financial burden. Any other hand, anywhere between 80 to 90% of all divorces, depending on who statistics you use, are initiated by women. I know that abuse, addiction and adultery are big part of those, but how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:52 PM
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And it’s true for women as well. Bad boys, the ones who,have lots of women always chasing them , treat these women like shit because women allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:24 AM
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Actually, one in particular makes regular complementary comments about my appearance. In the circle of mutual friends, having a relationship is just not wise. The reason is because it’s a group of alcoholics anonymous in who are in recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:00 PM
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I can speak from my own experience, but I have a couple women friends who are very, very attractive and at one time, were looking for a match. It never occurred to me that we would be a couple. Of course, the circumstances that made us good friends are unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:55 AM
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Agreed. Those gross generalizations are not healthy for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:53 AM
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Boy! You sure got us figured out! That was simple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:27 AM
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It was a REALLY good date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:43 PM
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Nah! Reddit is like dog years. That was a generation ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:25 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:06 PM
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Now, now! Don’t forget sex symbols like Dwayne Johnson, Samuel L Jackson, Vin Diesel or Jason Statham. They are huge stars both in spite of and because of the way they look. Of course, being bald and out of shape doesn’t look good. Being out of shape doesn’t look good even if you have hair. I know plenty of women who prefer bald guys. I oughta know. I do all right when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:08 PM
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She,passed away in 2009. I miss her every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:23 PM
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I like my women young and hot. Fifty years old and higher!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:10 PM
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I hear you. From what I’ve read, it’s the old 90% – 10% ratio. According to this, a tiny percentage of the most “high value men“ have an unending stream of women, throwing themselves at him and expecting nothing in return. These “bad boys“ refused to commit because they simply don’t have to put effort into it. The other 90% of men, end up with less than what they believe they’re entitled to and spend a lot of time whining on the Internet. I guess like I am now!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:07 PM
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Hair transplants? Gawd no! Put me out of my misery now! I rock my shaved dome! Plenty of women dig it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:02 PM
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I tried to keep my marriage together till my ex took the first action. Then I quickly filed for divorce. Her large weight gain was a symptom, but not a a cause of the marriages failure. She was financially irresponsible and her appetite for consumption of material possessions reflected her consumption of calories. She was a semi professional dancer when we met and then she stopped exercising, stopped watching her diet , became insufferably lazy stopped giving a shit, not only what she ate , but …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:58 PM
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This is the exact narrative I hear from those men’s videos shitting on women’s videos shitting on men. The yin and the yang of the dating world. It’s as if those videos are typical of most women or most men. Either way, it makes for entertaining rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:45 PM
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I love how often “ literally” is used inappropriately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:09 AM
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Oh yes they are! The term cattiness is not exactly masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:07 AM
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Online dating. But you didn’t confess feelings at first. These feelings can be mistaken for limerence, which can lead to hasty and poor decisions. Also, you’re very lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:33 AM
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I am Jewish, but only for the jokes,Chinese food on Xmas and smoked fish. If I only dated within the Jewish community, my options would be slim. I’ve only dated one or two Jewish women in this iteration of my search for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:31 AM
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What you did was taking your time to get to know the person you had met. this is how it could be on OLD, but it doesn’t fit in the business model.And this is exactly the problem. In the internet dating universe, instant gratification takes too long. Men and women expect doves descending from heaven when they meet someone in a 45 minute coffee date. I had met a woman once who said that she felt “no sparkles” when we met. Excuse me? In one hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:28 AM
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I’m a 65 year old man. The ratio couldn’t better than it is for me now. I am no Chad; I’m 5’ 7” I’m nothing special . Bit My dating life is so robust, I have to turn women down. I’ve dated women 69 and am going on a date with a woman 47 soon. I don’t think a woman my age would have that wide a range in the eligible men. I still only rarely cold approach a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:18 AM
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Uh? What PNW are you talking about? Portland and Seattle were the breeding grounds for shrill feminism. I Should know, I married one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:04 AM
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So,when she says “ I don’t do hookups”, she either is deluding herself into thinking this guy is different or she’s dishonest about not doing hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:19 PM
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Then she does hookups. Of course its consent . Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:01 PM
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“ I don’t do hookups “( unless the guy is very attractive, then it’s a real connection: “ I never do this”)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:50 PM
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Merci beaucoup ! That is years behind me. The anger and bitterness is behind. My kids are grown and we are very close. They are grateful for me b ing an involved and loving father.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:02 PM
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Ok……if you’re out for dinner, you must be in the Uk or Europe. That changes everything. For all I know, the laws I wrote of ,may not apply. Here in the US, the states determine family and matrimonial law. However, most states grant emergency ex parte OOP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:37 PM
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Oh my ex had reasons: verbal abuse, threatening physical harm, being abusive to the kids, alcoholic, drugs. None of it was true. A plaintiff does not need any evidence in an emergency ex parte order hearing. ( ex parte means only one side ). An evidentiary hearing is then scheduled. A judge may extend the order or vacate the order. In most cases, the plaintiff faces no consequences for fabricating or exaggerating the evidence on the order, even though it’s technically perjury. Again, there are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:18 PM
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Look. I don’t mean to be offensive, but you have obviously never been through this in New York State. Orders of protection by law are ex parte. This is so a woman, and sometimes but rarely a man can testify in a closed session. This is done so the person who the complaint is being leveled against cannot be there to intimidate the plaintiff. Family court in New York State is very similar. Although the defendant is present, most proceedings are not open to the public to protect the plaintiff, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:50 PM
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Nope. I paid support to my first ex until they came to stay with me. My second had a different arrangement. I ende up with joint custody, but they had “ primary residence “with their mothers, which obliged me to pay support to the first one.My lawyer would’ve been happy to take my money-at least $40k- and put me into crippling debt. They made it clear that I was very unlikely to,win this ugly, stressful and expensive battle. A good lawyer will apprise their clients of the probability of the outc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:30 PM
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Maybe I didn’t make myself clear. The women got an ex parte restraining order, forcing me from the home and making th mother’s the de facto custodians. The orders specifically told me to stay away from the house or the schools. I had to make arrangements to see my kids, and it took months to even have them spend overnights with me. This was not my choice. Again, this was a cynical manipulation of the system. And there is a very good reason why the court will give women an instant restraining ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:07 PM
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That’s not the case. In both cases ( two in the first , one in the second) the women had the kids in temporary sole custody for months while it worked its way through court. When it finally got in front of the judge, the grounds for the order against me were instantly dismissed. Again, with no consequences to the plaintiffs. Law guardians were appointed and they usually recommend the status quo. At that point, my lawyers made it clear that fighting for custody would be a losing battle. And unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:59 PM
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I wouldn’t know. It’s never happened to me. But I damn sure wouldn’t do it to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:48 PM
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Nope! And that’s what pisses me off. I’m a teacher , so I spent my summers as the primary care provider. Both exes did some quick maneuvering in family court to guarantee primary custody. They were strong independent women who,wanted their sovereignty, but in family court they were helpless females who needed protection from me. I’ve never touched a woman in anger in my life. Yet, they openly lied in the ex parte complaint. There’s zero consequences if a woman lies in this venue. There’s a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:47 PM
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It’s flattering to me. That doesn’t mean they’re gonna act on it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:38 PM
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I’ve been divorced twice, unfortunately. Alimony was never an issue. Child support however…….
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:37 PM
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It’s like height , many women don’t care,many consider that a dealbreaker. I’m 5’7”, drive 2013 Avalon and get sometimes three dates a week. But plenty of women don’t want to,admit they’re shallow. They’ll say height, income or car doesn’t matter- to other women. They’ll still gravitate to the taller richer dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:26 PM
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Resistance and balance training are crucial at my age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:58 AM
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Mine were too low to get my t levels to a sufficient level despite heavy lifting. The . sleep……..it’s not so easy. Im also,65. I’m on andro gel now and it has been a gam changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:04 AM
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I have tons of confidence. That isn’t my issue. Being “sexually aggressive“ is probably more of a liability for me than an asset. That isn’t to say that I bring up sex early in a relationship. I don’t. I just think that women if they want me toput a move on them, they will make it obvious. And yes, I can read the sign pretty well. I just have not been getting them for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:02 PM
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I know expert, but I believe what you described is more of a symptom of low testosterone. Men start losing testosterone and they’re meant to late 20s and it’s not uncommon for middle ages and senior men to need testosterone supplement. I don’t believe that behavior can affect Hormones, but as I said, I’m not an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:07 PM
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My late wife was an 11/10 in her day . Guys checked her out constantly. she would notice some really hunky guy and comment on it and I would agree with her. Still, even though that smoke show was in my bed every night, I would still look and react to exceptionally hot women I’d see. The wife would say, she’s very pretty, don’t you think? I would concur. that doesn’t mean for a minute that I would act on it. ain’t nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:34 PM
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Did he take her away from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:22 PM
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I e been complimented by women a shit ton lately. Rarely has that translated into romance after the first date. I lack the intangibles that make women want to peruse it any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:21 PM
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Can confirm. OP changed it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:40 AM
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The A’s: adultery, abuse, addiction, alcoholism, abandonment have always been grounds for divorce , even before no,fault divorces became the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:48 PM
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Not exactly. It’s just that Chads don’t have to kind or empathetic because women they allow them to . It’s the same way hot women act entitled. Men bend over backwards to grace them with any attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:25 PM
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That would have been more trouble than it was worth. Besides, with five kids, who tf had or energy for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:29 PM
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My late wife was a smoke show.11/10. I had See’s chocolate every night . Sometimes I wanted vanilla. ( I never cheated btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:48 PM
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Not me! I love tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:40 PM
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Yeah, from nine years ago for a network that threw in the towel decades ago. In the DeSantis era, only right wingers use the term
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:16 PM
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Men are mean to the men they like, women are nice to the women they dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:50 PM
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Exactly! Liberals never use the term woke and only a smattering ever did. This is a tool in the right wing misdirection manual in order to to deflect from the fact they are creating savage economic inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:36 PM
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It’s interesting that the only people who use the term woke in the past decade are right wing culture warriors and never those who supposedly use the term. And don’t send some obscure example out of millions that proves the point of right wing yahoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:32 PM
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I guess you know very little about Canada . It’s the Queen Elizabeth Way, the main highway in Ontario. if you had spent any time within 100 mile radius of Toronto you would know very much of this is. As far as saying “most people” don’t have a high opinion of Toronto, that’s like saying people don’t have a high opinion of New York or Los Angeles. It’s the economic hub in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:52 PM
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I got a royal traffic ticket on the QEW
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:46 PM
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Toronto is a huge international city that could easily be mistaken for any large American city. The only difference is you have “royal this” and “royal that” on tons of stuff every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:52 AM
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And it certainly is true when most of the population of Canadians lives ninety miles from the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:47 AM
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E magazines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:47 AM
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I’m gonna call BS on this OP. I live very close to Niagara Falls/Toronto. I don’t know what she’s talking about. Canadian women are indistinguishable from American. They read similar if not identical, glamour magazines, and dress based on depiction shown in all types of media. Fashion is largely dictated by the garment industry in New York, Paris or Milan. These are the role models for women all over the western world. When I am looking at IG or TikTok post, put up by a young attractive woman, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:58 PM
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