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| 1 | Rejected by Ex's Best FriendPut yourself in her shoes, you used to go out with her best friend, depending on how it ended it would make perfect sense that she may not want to date you | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Asking the ones who are really good with women: Is putting women on a pedestal/really wanting to be with a woman always a bad idea?In the past there was no dating apps, night life was very different and I’m sure woman were unlikely to have such a constant supply of male validation. Now days in the case of attractive woman not putting her on a pedestal distinguished you from all those that do and shows that you consider yourself her equal | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 12:08 PM |
| 6 | [M 20y]I got cheated emotionally and lied by my girlfriend [F 19y]Move on, even with her back if she’s still going to have the same dance partner the paranoia will drive you mental | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Girls, 5 questions for you.Agreed, the things woman “hate” they most are what result in attraction and them taking notice. None of them will tell you these are smart things to do and they are | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:42 PM |
| 20 | Losing every girl I go out with + having difficulties with college gameSounds to me like you’re pushing too hard and not building enough comfort, it’s come off like you’re desperate to bang them | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | New school with actually hot girlsIt’s college, so try and build a social circle if possible, talk to guys at the same time. Join clubs, talk to people in your course and you’ll meet woman along the way whilst also improving your quality of life | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Really anxious day after losing virginityLeave it a few days then invite her round again, next time begin having sex before you’ve finished the first time so you can guarantee you’ll get hard | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Should I keep texting her everyday or just once and awhileYou’re asking a question I think you already know the answer to. You can text as much as you like within reason just don’t be predictable and always available. Texting everyday makes you both of these things | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 03:09 AM |
| 41 | Girl from Instagram actually texts me after giving her my numberIf you’ve never met her in person then I’d say yeah move on, she’s probably using Instagram and you for validation. If you have met her in person give her another chance and if she’s still busy drop the ball in her court and tell her to give you a shout when she does have time (she probably never will) and move on | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to girls saying " i dont want you to expect anything from me" ?Cheers man, appreciate the input | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 01:45 AM |
| 11 | How to respond to girls saying " i dont want you to expect anything from me" ?Flip it back on her “Wow let’s not get ahead of ourselves missy, we haven’t even been out yet and you’re already thinking about sex!” | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:26 AM |
| 4 | When to pay for datesPeople don’t tend to leave their house these days without taking a credit card never mind going on a date, how would she pay for transport home and such if necessary? Either way if she’s so entitled that she doesn’t bring money on a first date as she’s that confident you’ll pay for everything she probably isn’t worth seeing to begin The vast majority of women are not going to try and force you into paying, it’s not a big deal | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Cute girl approached me, should I go for her?Was this a question that really needed asking | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 10:35 PM |
| 2 | girl ignoring me to take revenge?You’re being a dick, how could she possibly like you if you never speak to her and how can you be surprised she’s saying to your coworkers that you’re always ignoring her when that is exactly what you’re doing | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | When to pay for datesOnly pay for her if you want to, not because you feel like you have to. Your friends wrong it’s easy, if you’re going for drinks just buy the first round and say she can buy the next If you’re doing anything else just pay for something and tell her she can pay for whatever you do after | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Valentine's day before you're an itemIf you’re not interested in anything serious I wouldn’t worry about it, if you are I’d just ask her how she feels about Valentine’s Day and whether she wants to do something then next time you see her. She’s probably thinking the exact same thing | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | I want to be a playerKnowing the traits won’t help you attain them, you asked how to become a player. But fine confident, unreactive, charming, witty | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I want to be a playerNot something that can be done over night, start with the side bar, search bars and deciding what type of approach and in what kind of settings would suit your personality best and go out and give it a go. Then come back with more specific questions enabling people to provide more focused assistance | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 03:14 AM |
| 3 | First date with herThis is extremely vague, read the side bar, use the search function | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Am I doing this wrong?Do you literally just say “sounds good” turn around and walk off? Cause that’s weird, if it’s “sounds good, have a good day, I’ll catch you later” or any other other form of pleasantry then it’s fine | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I am always scared to make the first move if I am interested in a girl..as a result a girl may make the first move or just ignore it HELP ME PLZ😢😢How about trying? You’re not going to get anywhere otherwise, just sack up and do it. You’ll regret not trying more than you will failing | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 12:18 AM |
| 3 | I choked twice,but I think I learned from it.Paragraphs, but yeah learn from it and move on | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl at a party but we didn’t talk, how can I open with her after he party?You didn’t talk? I wouldn’t bother, next time if you see a girl you like at a party try talking to her | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty when it comes to dealing with certain girlsIf you stated your intentions and she agreed, plough on | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:05 AM |
| 7 | I can't figure out why anyone would want to have guy friendsBanter, companionship, people to discuss women with, opportunities to meet women through them. There doesn’t have to be a tangible benefit, some people just like hangin out with friends while others prefer their own company | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Had great time with girl at my jobs party, chatted a little now nothing, was it all for nothing?Try talking to her | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the pic?Ahahaha how do you not get bored of this shit | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:18 PM |
| 4 | What’s your opinion on this, Seddit?Yeah not worth your time mate, I’d bet she’ll only have something nonsensical to say in return | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:32 AM |
| 8 | What’s your opinion on this, Seddit?She says there’s no such thing as the friend zone, then goes on to say she’s not putting you anywhere where you’re not already, implying the existence of the friend zone, she’s clearly an idiot | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:25 AM |
| 3 | 100 RejectionsAgreed, 15 a day will have a much greater impact than 1 a day | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Into me or no dice?Definitely sounds like she is, either way assume attraction and proceed accordingly | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Text gameUse callback humour, tease, banter, keep it light and non serious. Although still don’t over do the texting, your primary focus should still be on logistics once you’ve reminded her what a cool guy you are | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:33 AM |
| 3 | 100 RejectionsWhy not 100 approaches? I like the idea but calling it 100 rejections isn’t the best of mindset to set out with | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:25 AM |
| 3 | How should you act when you sense a girl is thinking about breaking up with you?What if you’re wrong? | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How to continue from hereLet it go, she turned you down pushing any harder won’t get you anywhere, Invest your time elsewhere for the time being, who knows she could come round if she sees you have other options | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Should I hit these girls up again?Asking someone on a date twice when they gave a reason they couldn’t go the first time isn’t needy on its own, ask them again you haven’t got anything to lose if you don’t know them from your social circle | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Impossible for me to grow facial hair and I look babyface to the max. Any possible medical reasons for this? What should I do?I can’t grow facial hair, no one cares, it’s not even as fashionable as it was currenty, pretend you like a clean shaven look | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Impossible for me to grow facial hair and I look babyface to the max. Any possible medical reasons for this? What should I do?Doesn’t matter, stop worrying about it | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Did I ruin this with poor texting or was the girl just being weird?Despite what’s said often here texting other than plans can be okay provided it consists of banter and teasing, not interview questions about her or her life, you shouldn’t really care enough to ask questions at this point though as she hasn’t earnt it. I’d say back off and let her chase if she’s keen and find someone else to talk to, maybe ping her every now and then when you have something funny to say but primarily look elsewhere for now | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | This keeps happening to me...She must have had feelings when you agreed to be exclusive, did you suddenly become a lot more available or needy? | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | What is the best thing to ask for, Facebook,snapchat or number ?If a girl gives her snapchat to everyone then that’s all the more reason to get her number instead, the question was what’s best not what’s easiest | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 03:44 AM |
| 34 | Few girls complimented my hair in the club“Thanks, I grew it myself” smile, then introduce yourself | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 03:35 AM |
| 5 | What is the best thing to ask for, Facebook,snapchat or number ?Number or snapchat, easier to maintain a bit of mystery and when you’re busy or don’t want to reply she can’t see if you’ve been online | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Virgin and havnt left the house in 2 years because of my looks...advice to improve?At this point I’m pretty sure you’re just trolling | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Virgin and havnt left the house in 2 years because of my looks...advice to improve?Fucking hell, you again ahahah I’ve seen these photos far too many times. Stop looking for validation on the internet and try going outside, you’re fine. | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I kept negging a girl yet she said i seem like a really nice person?Negs are ridiculous, tease instead | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Fun things to do to her?Most girls like some form of light bondage, if you’re wearing a tie or have one handy use it to tie her hands | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it safe to do that?You can only get a disease if she has it mate, if she’s your gf get her to get tested then do what you like, although hiv from head would be pretty hard to catch to begin with, even if she did have it which id bet she doesn’t if she’s your girlfriend and your worrying about this | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Help on asking a girl out at dance lessons to go to a dance venue with me?If you go on our own anyway, tell her where and when you’re next going and say she’s welcome to join you | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is having a small forehead an attractive facial feature?Ahahah what, entirely depends on the rest of the face | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:01 AM |
| 2 | We're having sex now, how do I do my part in keeping up the attraction ?Compliment sparingly when it’s deserved so they don’t lose their meaning and impact. Same with gifts, do something too often and it becomes meaningless, in general reward good behaviour and on the rare occasion spontaneously if you feel like. Basically just make sure you don’t overdo either | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 03:46 AM |
| 12 | We're having sex now, how do I do my part in keeping up the attraction ?Continue to be the guy she clearly likes Be emotionally stable Make her orgasm Don’t get needy or jealous | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | What's your best advice for online dating?Work on your profile first, i found the website photofeeler of use to gauge the strength of your photos, try different locations and angles until you identify the ones where you come off best, once you’ve done that just play the numbers game and talk to as many women as possible | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 12:47 PM |
| 4 | How do you approach and start a conversation with a girl who likes you“Hi, I’m Ly76” | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Strong Case of OneitisSee other people, do you best to forget about her, she comes back great, if not whatever you’re seeing other people | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I think I might've fked up, any ideasDoesn’t sounds like she’s interested, move on | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Texting girls after setting up date on Tinderif you’re only texting 5ish texts to begin with and you’ve got a week long gap id go with occasional ping texts, just something text something funny that happened to you every now and then not looking a response or leave it the week and text the day before to confirm | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Hardcase Newb - How to approach on Fb?Three years ago?! Give her a message if you like but if you’re remembering iois off a girl you never spoke to from three years ago you should be investing your time elsewhere and meeting as many women as possible | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | What should I say / do?I agree, don’t pretend you can play the guitar, just come up with a story as to why you have it in your photo | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Confident, attractive, but girls never love me romantically?honestly it sounds like you’re in a great position but not really trying, all these people that say you’re good looking or love you, why arnt you making any moves or pursuing? You’ll regret not trying more than you will failing | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Stuffed up an opportunity with a girl. She's now messaging me - what do I do from here?Just say you would like to see her when she gets back and leave it at that or send ping texts 2-3 times over the 2 weeks when you have something funny to share or say, dont get hung up in chatting to her the whole time | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 03:56 AM |
| 7 | Can someone please tell me where I messed up?Maybe she actually wanted some food? Just because you said she was pretty and danced doesn't mean she had to go home with you, invite her out on a date | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 05:56 PM |
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