CrucialMilkHotel Archive

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1	Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying? To your question of "should she (video gal) not be believed?" What in my writing leads you to think I don't believe her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 07:19 PM
1	Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying? Do you think she is among the group of women who say they want men to be emotionally vulnerable? She is not the issue. If all women were like her and explicitly said "do not tell me about your feelings and open up to me; I didn't ask for it and don't want it" we wouldn't be having this conversation in the first place. The issue, as you note, is that many women (unlike video gal) say they want men to be emotionally vulnerable but react negatively and even cruelly when they do. None of that is con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 11:20 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I tend to frame it as the difference between sexual arousal and romantic attraction. Physical appearance is by far the most important factor in terms of sexual arousal. If you are just looking for sex, be it a random hookup or FWB, having someone who arouses you is necessary and generally sufficient in order for you to agree to have sex with them. Personality is less important, though a terrible personality can be a deal breaker or a very winning and charming personality can If you are looking f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:32 PM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already A) a woman who doesnt set dates to come over may still have other men. B) A woman can be very prompt returning calls/texts and still have other men. C) Obviously a woman who drops anything for you is a strong sign. But a woman might be seeing only you but still getting to know and growing to like you, still warming up to you. That doesn't mean she's seeing someone else just because she isn't yet at the stage of dropping everything for you at a moment's notice. That would actually be worrying at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 06:34 PM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already If a woman does this to a guy, it’s obvious and he no longer wants to take her seriously. This is demonstrably untrue as there are countless examples of women juggling multiple men and the men not knowing and still being into her. Conversely, there are countless examples of women breaking things off when they find out the guy they are seeing is seeing other women as well. I can buy that women like men who have the ability to be with many women (i.e. is in demand, has high dating value). That's n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 05:34 PM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:59 PM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already If you let her go for too long she knows she’s just being played and will drop Erm, but if you are juggling and let a ball go too long, it will also drop. You are an example of that, based on what you say. When a woman has you as part of her juggling and doesn't give you the kind of attention you want (whether in terms of frequency or quality, making you feel like #1 option), then the ball has been dropped. Whether spinning/juggling is a hassle or not depends on the doer. Some guys enjoy the var…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 01:42 AM
1	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already Dating guys spin plates, dating women juggle up to these 4 men Trying to understand your metaphors. What is the difference between spinning plates and juggling?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 11:10 PM
3	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Except there are plenty of examples where this isn't true. Just the other day this video clip came across my feed of Bill Burr talking about how he first got with his now wife. In his words he kept asking her out and she kept on being a jerk and "typical woman" rejecting him. Until she didn't. This happens all the time. Let's stop acting like women are obvious and men are clueless. Side note: It is perfectly understandable if a guy (or gal) chooses never to play this game, and completely stops p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 10:05 PM
6	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive It's not that hot guys can never do anything that a woman may deem creepy. They just have far more leeway. Stated differently, if a hot guy behaves in such a way that a woman (who thinks he's hot) decides is creepy to her, an ugly guy behaving the same way will definitely be deemed creepy as well by that woman. But conversely, there are many behaviors that a given woman will deem creepy when done buy a guy she thinks is ugly but not creepy if done by a guy she finds attractive; often she will ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:22 AM
4	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. You’re right, I don’t have an idea how to do that, but at least I’m interested in improving my understanding of how things are really intertwined with one another. You don't seem to realize that there is no study of "how things are really intertwined" that doesn't have the same challenges (and others to boot) as the studies you are criticizing. That's why your glib suggestion of "looking at actual reasons why people cheat" is so hollow and annoying. Oh, if only it were that straightforward. In…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 10:18 AM
2	What are your thoughts on these studies and statistics? u/an_altar_of_plagues, interviews in this sense are bound to cause bias especially among gender lines, with men being less likely to admit to infidelity. Could you please link to your supporting evidence for the above statement? I would be extremely interested in a stepwise-selection of variables, in which variables are removed and/or added in a stepwise fashion to the statistical model. I'd be curious as to the effect of socioeconomic proxies, given that socioeconomic stresses are very strong…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 09:06 AM
9	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. could be explained with a variety of reasons. Could you please mention one or two reasons that you believe are likely confounding factors in this case? but it’s not very accurate compared to looking at actual reasons why people cheat and what kind of people cheat, which will have a correlation coefficient of 1, as you’re looking at causalities, not just probabilities How exactly does one "look at actual reasons why people cheat"? Your statement of "correlation coefficient of 1" suggests examin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 08:06 AM
4	The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debate And you would be confidently incorrect. The average height of US non-Hispanic White males is 5'10". For US non-Hispanic Black males, it's 5'9". Age influences these numbers by a negligible amount (the difference in height between 20-39 year-olds vs. 40-59 year-olds is 0.3inches.) The percentage of US men--whether white, black or in their 20's--who are six feet and over is nowhere near 50%. https://www.medicinenet.com/height_men/article.htm	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 01:24 AM