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If you are in trades then you have seen it time and time again, and experienced it yourself: when you set out to learn a new skill, you fuck up. This is to be expected because is it the normal process of learning things. Where successful people differentiate themselves is not getting psyched out and buckling down to try again. If you have a learning disability or just don't do well on theory, then expect a few snags. Apportion more time to your studying. Allow for setbacks. Studying itself is a …
/r/askTRP27/12/15 03:27 AM
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First of all, stop making excuses about not having the time. It serves the double misfortune of lowering your credibility with others and thwarting your desire and attempt to improve. You have the time. Pull out your schedule and mark it down. Second, the fitness sub has some great information on beginners programs. Implement a basic Starting Strength or StrongLifts program like the other guy said. When you reach a point where these no longer suit your needs, you'll have the knowledge and experi…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:44 PM
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Nothing she says or does actually presents a material fuck to you, so do what another poster suggested and practice. Practice your shit test game. Practice your laws of power. Practice winning friends. Practice manipulating. Our natural tendency is to avoid or reject these cunts, but you can actually stand to benefit from them. Right now she is an undergrad who will blow the TA for an A on her lab report, but learning to manipulate her will benefit you when she stands between you and an annual b…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:25 PM
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What is the meaning behind this? She used to get attention from you, but now she doesn't. This is a grave injustice to her.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:12 PM
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You didn't reply. Good. There's absolutely no need to humor her. Putting out that novel is a tactic for trying to justify her anxiety - she is literally saying in couched language, "I am upset by your response, but am not sure how much of a right I have to my feelings, so I want you to confirm or deny them." By ignoring her you deny her feelings legitimacy and retain the frame. Betas always get this wrong because they think reason and explanations will work, when all she wants is validation. She…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:48 PM
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That's one year away from voting and drinking, and she could already be fighting in a combat military role, but heaven forbid she dates a 35 year old? I am raising adults, not perpetual children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 03:28 AM
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Really? Slut-shaming is literally a form of gossip, which forms the backbone of our social cohesion. You're kidding yourself if you think your modern noble savages don't gossip and shame over who is fucking whom. I can't persuade you that pre-historic humans lived radically different than modern day stone-age humans, but since that argument is contingent upon a non-existent knowledge of pre-historic sociology, it would logically, and similarly be impossible for me to persuade you that modern, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:02 PM
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It's all a frame game, my friends. The man in question exhibits value and treats her right, but she is so shook by social proof and her own solipsism that she cannot trust her own impressions and judgment, and needs to turn to the internet for the affirmation of strangers. You're witnessing the red pill in action. She literally has no idea how to process basic, simple facts about her interest's actions and character based on what she's heard others says about a socially-constructed boogeyman. Hi…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 04:18 PM
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This is the interesting takeaway - we're watching an excellent demonstration of how pushing the ends/outliers broadens the middle. Two years ago MRAs were the endpoints of misogynistic shitlords. Now you have posters defending the MRM on a default sub and getting upvoted for it. Think about that for a moment. This is no different than when ladder theory was introduced in the mid-00s and widely derided. Yet a decade later, the word 'friendzone' is used in the popular lexicon with nary a blink of …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:31 PM
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LOL, time to oil the hamster wheel, feminists and bluepillers are gonna be putting some miles on this one.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:15 PM
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The most frustrating thing about BP 'ideology' is that it promotes a veneer of tolerance and equity that is compromised by an unprincipled core of identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:20 PM
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Men and women are distracted by different things at different times. Sounds like her high over you wore off quickly and she was easily influenced by her parents who may have given her things, pressured her into conforming, bargained a deal, bad-mouthed you, or sold her a better vision of the future that didn't include you. Who knows? There's not always an easy explanation because you're never working with all the information. The red pill moral you should take away from this is a Stoic one: it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:11 PM
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Remember that no career is going to provide existential meaning. You've heard the saying, "good, fast, cheap - pick two," right? Well, the vast majority of jobs exhibit a similar trade-off: wage, quality, stability - pick two. Hell, make your own: time, wage, experience. If you want a high quality job and a lot of pay, you need to seek out risky, unstable options (e.g. entrepreneur). If you want a high wage and a stable job, you need to target options that are dirty or dangerous (journeyman trad…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:57 PM
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My buddy has a bad-ass truck. According to him, he needs it because it snows a lot here and he needs to haul shit. Conversely, I drive an econobox and have for over a decade. I have not been able to drive due to snow three times over that period. When I need to haul shit, I rent a truck or a uhaul. Hmmm. What the heck? Surely he must need it, no? I mean, he said so, rite? And in fact, at the dealer, the salesman sold him on those very merits: its 4x4, clearance, and increased hauling capacity. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 04:02 PM
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Partially, yes. I put a huge asterisk on that statement. This problem has a number of factors that are causal but not exclusive. Some will feed back on each other and others are entirely emergent. I always wonder what our society would look like if every man had the ability to compete in a meaningful way right from the get-go. I believe the emergence and attraction of video games feeds into this; it's a merit-based competition with little meaningful impact to failure. Some of the most masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 03:52 PM
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It's advantageous to keep it hidden. Someday one of you will come across a fit, attractive man who is kind and generous and promotes feminism in the workplace. You are going to appreciate working with him, under him, and will benefit from his professional mentorship. And you will never expect that he is RP. "What, you mean like the Matrix? Love that movie. Do you know if it's on Netflix? I'd love to see it again!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 03:37 PM
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Hey guess what? I decided this morning I am really female. Thanks free tuition school.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:30 PM
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It's so blatant now it completely jars my suspension of disbelief. A few weeks ago I decided to check out Quantico after seeing an ad. Hot chick, guns, explosions, MURICA - why not? Easily something I can PVR to watch while I cook and eat dinner. Turns out the female lead is a man. Of course, this 5'8" 120-pound woman is a swaggering badass who emotionally and physically dominates the show's male lead, an ex-marine. So what do I do? I know! I'll watch Blindspot instead! Cuz hey, doing the same t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:22 PM
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There was an interesting thread in the relationships sub a few days ago where a high-earnings, top 10%-income woman was freaking out that her wealthy fiancé had hidden his income behind trusts. The peanut gallery was resoundingly in her favour, which poses the question, if women are not obsessed about their partners' financial viability, what is with all the angst?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:10 PM
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It is a solution, but not realistic. Male birth control, public child support, or paternity insurance will happen before financial abortion. Society is just too unwilling to give women responsibility (or make them responsible depending on your frame) for their reproductive choices. Paternal financial support is the 'not going to the club bathroom alone' of reproduction. Women just can't do it without help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:58 PM
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MRAs: they are employing identity politics and embracing victimhood to push their agenda, and while I am vastly curious to see how that works out, I do not align with them. MGTOW: if my current LTR failed I would probably adopt the term for myself. I align with their principles strongly though not always the justifications of individuals. Omegasphere: human cesspools.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:52 PM
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Heat: wood stove supported by electric Fire: yes Density: 1.5/km2 Reinactment: no, that's not a thing where I grew up Clubs: no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:43 PM
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It's selective, not comprehensive, and thus will never achieve its goal. Take gender, for example. Anyone who studies it recognizes the debate swirls around three mechanisms with some empirical basis - social, evolutionary, and cognitive - yet the cultural Marxists will only recognize one. If we wanted to lower the incidence of traffic fatalities, we wouldn't focus on vehicle design to the exclusion of roadway design, speed enforcement, or alternate transportation. That would be unscientific, ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 03:41 PM
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Trump crystallizes the efficacy and allure of redpill frame, but demonstrates the necessity for it to derive from something real. Granted I haven't been paying too much attention, but my impression from news blurbs is that cracks are starting to appear and it will be interesting to see what mechanism of the fall will come first: him retracting his persona or apologizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:47 PM
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The wild man is driven from within; he is selfish/personal, primal, instinctive, realistic/anarchic. The civilized man is driven from without, by a system; he is global/impersonal, principled, reasoned, structured/moderated. The wild man is a positive feedback loop, while the civilized man is a negative feedback loop. The challenge of masculinity is to: harness the wild for constructive, civilized ends express the wild without inducing social disorder limit the civilized to retain the soul
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:38 PM
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I am willing to concede that you may not have said there was none of our metaphorical shit if that is an important distinction for you to have recognized. My point is that you stated/implied a qualified threshold of cynicism whereby what redpillers believe is not empirically credible but mere projection. In lieu of some metric that can quantify that empirically or conceptually, I reject that construction. what do you mean by this? that red pillers are more diverse in population, or individual be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:26 PM
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Sorry, I initially responded as if you were questioning those who believed AWALT explicitly. Deleted that post since it was irrelevant. Regarding what you actually meant, part of the reason may be what I mentioned above: the more extreme the outliers, the broader the middle. Another reason may stem from its relevance as a precautionary principle, and this ties into your thoughts about utility. We are not concerned about precision because no practical truth (i.e. utility) is lost with imprecise l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:06 PM
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I agree that we humans have a range of behaviour and that redpillers and bluepillers exhibit a difference of opinion on the mean. However, this now becomes a matter of quantity as opposed to quality, which I think hurts your argument. How much shit there is in the alleyway is largely irrelevant if the original assertion was that there was none. Whether it is familial, civic, or national, we have unequivocal evidence of social contracts breaking under a range of conditions and it is not projectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:45 PM
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Some redpillers believe AWALT explicitly, others take the hyperbole stance. So what? The fact remains the language is never going to be policed because it creates a space for redpillers to express themselves. Whether some men are or aren't in on the game doesn't matter to the in-group dynamic because of the means expressed and the ends achieved. For that reason out-group criticism has no potential effect except on an individual level (e.g. redpillers who may visit this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:31 PM
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so you are saying the red pill projects their own behavior as the way things are in general? they are shitty, so they think everyone is. No, they project an empirical tendency of human relations to exhibit itself under certain conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:24 PM
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If I understand your choppy language correctly, yes, I disagree with hate speech laws. While I accept what classic liberals have long demonstrated regarding the need for certain restrictions on free expression, I do not believe they should extend to hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:21 PM
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You're not welcome: read my post again. I am not contesting whether or not such a law exists, but criticizing the moral behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:15 PM
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Everyone is selfish, but we moderate the tendency to varying degrees depending on how solid we regard the social contract to be. Those who are principled, optimistic, inexperienced, or socially blessed, or who experience abundance will be more inclined to mitigate their selfishness and expect that others will also. But note that while this is true of our relations, it's not comprehensive, and that's the critical piece. It's like putting a photograph of your quaint, picturesque town on a postcard…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:10 PM
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LOL. Look, I think you have an interesting discussion so I don't want to be flippant. I want to see some more direction from you so that we can drill down to the core of what you may be pondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 03:00 PM
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That's a good abstraction of alpha, and it helps illustrate why a skinny man with confidence may be more attractive to women than a powerful man who wilts under pressure. Frame denotes the core component of RP, and that's why I diverge from some RP men in thinking that it applies to life in general and not just sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:58 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:44 PM
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The alpha/beta dichotomy can be demonstrated empirically, but we're not talking about pool table mechanics. Human sexuality is founded on an empirical basis - in the sense that that you can observe and test it - but there are so many variables it is difficult to generalize. No one ever controls for the variables. To one woman, a physical brute is alpha. To another, a physically-average man making $140k/yr as an executive is alpha. To another, a poor, portly man commanding a full room with his st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:43 PM
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In this simple construction, no - as far as I am concerned that's unethical. In reality, things are much more complex, so I am not sure how you would apply this. I can make a lot of money by selling others' possessions, but that's unethical so I don't, regardless of the law. Conversely, I can make a lot of money on oil stock dividends (well, I could... Still can, depending) but despite an environmentalist complaining about it because of their half-formed morality, it is not unethical. I do many …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:31 PM
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People won't respond well to an explicit RP system no matter how tone-sensitive it is, because the implications are still too raw. A certain measure of powertalk will always be needed. However, that does not stop even the most ardent feminist from agreeing with, or even deriving specific Redpill ideas in certain contexts. I attended a couple of weddings this summer and it's amazing what an inebriated feminist will say in response to the actions of other, not-so-sober women at the venue. Some of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 01:56 PM
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You created your situation and TRP explains how you did it. However, that doesn't mean you need to be punished for it in perpetuity. In some things you do get a second chance, which is why most of us will advocate that you walk away. It's like starting a business and having it fail. You get to walk away. Just learn from it and don't make the same mistakes. So basically... what the fuck is going on with me? Your biological imperative is to accrue resources and status so that you can fuck and repr…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 02:44 PM
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Nailed it. You can use this to your advantage if you so desire. I have a female friend who thrives on this kind of drama and is only too eager to share her data. I just have to sit there and make the appropriate sounds: "oh my god!" "no way!" "really?" "i don't believe it!" I learn more about my social circle in an hour for the price of a Starbucks coffee than I do in two months of personal interaction.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:21 PM
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In the "men aren't taught to be attracted, women are born into it" thread the OP sounds a little purple pill. Don't get me wrong there's a lot of gold in there, but because he's trying to logic a girl there's a lot of "meet me halfway here" sentiment in his explanation and she doesn't budge a fucking inch. This is testament to the notion women see any attempt at male self-improvement that may possibly undermine their monopoly on social power as nothing but a threat to be thwarted. Men believe th…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:14 PM
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Holy fuck, was this article written by a 67-year-old empty-nest woman? I fully expect to see this shit sandwiched between videos of toddlers singing country songs and pink comic sans graphics of depicting undying love for one's daughter on my Facebook feed shortly.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:03 PM
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I agree with the assertion that Our Glorious Revolution will never occur, but we should still promote it for the simple fact that outliers broaden the middle. In other words, the more omegas, MRAs, anti-feminists, and MGTOWs there are running around, the more it suits redpill interests. We have more room to differentiate, and do so comfortably. If you want to spin plates, go for it. If LTRs are more your thing, more power to you. I'd argue that if you are using redpill effectively, no one is rea…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:50 PM
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Piggybacking your comment to agree and point how how fucking absurd this thread is. The mainstream media spent hours talking about the wrong fucking guy so pretty much everything you heard about the misidentified killer does not actually apply to the real killer. Let that sink in for a moment. Everyone got played by the freaks over at 4chan, and everything you think you know about the killer and his so-called 'beta uprising' is almost certainly bullshit. I would be laughing if it wasn't such an …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 01:24 PM
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This needs to be upvoted more. The CNN clip in the OP was just a small piece of what they discussed in aggregate. Later on with Erin Burnett, she had a panel that was clearly discussing Eggman's videos as if he was the shooter. This mean's that an entire audience had motivations ascribed to Mercer that he may not have held. It's fucked up. CNN and every other media outlet who fell for 4chan's prank need to get blasted. Such a fucking failure of the mainstream media.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:14 PM
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Good thoughts. The take away is to demonstrate power, and then to exercise it in a way that reflects your ultimate goal. For nice guys, or men who don't necessarily want to play the game, make a point of displaying your power right from the first, and then once it has sufficiently been demonstrated, use it in a manner that may be seen as equitable or nice to women/feminists so long as it maintains your interest. But never relinquish it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 03:33 AM
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Women are pretty legit physically. It never ceases to amaze me what they have going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:18 AM
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False hopes suck. I try to avoid giving them, and I try to counsel others on avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:11 AM
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I wrote a big post that somehow never got through, but the gist of it was to consider literary non-fiction works like Wind, Sand & Stars, The Snow Leopard, Endurance, The Worst Journey in the World, Starlight and Storm - basically men doing male things in the absence of women, unabashedly.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:34 AM
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The first step is to realize that at an objective level, what you actually choose doesn't matter as much as you think it does. It really, honestly doesn't. I say that as a 32 year old man who is utterly bored with modern living. What matters is whether you are getting bullied into one position or another. Your task is to make sure that YOU decide what happens to you. Beyond that, having children really won't impact you in a significant way unless you 'opt in'. Right from the get-go you can asser…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:27 AM
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When in Rome... It all depends on your constitution. Do you like creating and fighting enemies and does that fuel your motivation and will to action? Or do you get more of a kick out of subverting and undermining aspects of culture? In other words, do you want to remain pissed and fight this issue head on, or do you want to transition to a state where you seemingly champion these causes, but are actually working to undermine them from within? Or do you just reject the construction outright? Figu…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:10 AM
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It's a case of what people say vs. what they do. People want transparency, but I have never seen anyone actually appreciate it. Airing interactions between mods and problem users promotes the view that moderators are fallible and can be challenged at will. Frame issues. It's better just to act consistently with simple, established rules. That said, I will be happy to eat crow six months from now if it does work in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 01:55 AM
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Look man, there are a shit ton of factors that play into your SMV. If you suck on looks and height, guess what? Work on others. You're black. At your age, that automatically makes you cooler than every single white guy. Throw on a flat brim and some supreme - or whatever the fuck is popular with kids these days - and hit the town. Shave your head, drink, meet people, have fun, be interesting, follow every opportunity even if it seems like it will suck. Millions of dudes have figured it out - you…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:45 AM
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Exactly. She's not doing you a fucking favour; you are setting aside your resources to accommodate her. That requires a very strong recognition on her part. If your gesture is met with even the slightest amount of disrespect, then guess what? You trade her in for a better model, no lease required.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:39 AM
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I don't know whether I should admire your restraint or pity your weakness in literally not throttling your wife for such contempt.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:34 AM
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Edit 2: To anyone who thinks "why is this stupid thread allowed up, this is a waste of our time" I'm sorry. We are moving towards more transparency, and I want users to feel like they know what is going on with the sub. That's unfortunate. I have yet to see transparency work as intended on online communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 01:08 AM
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Feminism as a sexual strategy... Maybe it the future it can entertain this role, but I think for now it is still emotionally centered in reactionary terms. Some women will flourish under conditions of free sex and numerous partners. For them, feminism will be a positive force. Other women who are more sexually conservative due to religion, culture, sensibility, or libido may see this as an anathema, and I am not sure that feminism provides a good framework for expressing their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:50 PM
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My pleasure. My loyalty is conditional, but I think my partner and I have struck an equitable balance on that front. Dread is a fine line to walk. I find that the application of dread as generally promoted by TRP to be heavy-handed. That doesn't mean it's not called for in certain contexts (were I in my early 20s playing the field it would probably be very relevant), but it is definitely out of place in my relationship. I employ it in a subtle manner not by courting the attention of other women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:41 PM
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A man's man is not necessarily going to open up or have any desire to do it. My dad is one of these old school fuckers, and honestly, it's best just to hang out with him and do something he likes. Speak freely. Don't apologize for who you are. Respect his masculinity and his choices. Bond over deeds not words. If he wants to open up, he will in his own time. Barring that, having his son nearby will work just as well.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:07 PM
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Biggest regret is focusing on my studies to the exclusion of networking. This doesn't mean partying hard, getting smashed, and fucking up your courses. This means: Meeting as many people as possible regardless of their degree, path or immediate use Forming relationships of mutual benefit Maintaining these relationships through parties, school events, classes, social media, internships, coffee dates, etc. Always pursuing new opportunities and connections the use of which you cannot foresee, but m…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:04 PM
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How are the two concepts different? They are not, but the source of this tension lies in the fact that the goal of feminism is not what it explicitly claims. We think of feminism as a principled position that places the flourishing of the individual on a safe and equitable environment to be the number one goal. This is framed typically in gender/sex terms, but the obvious extension is to all forms of demographics. Of course, as you point out, this is not what really happens. Feminism is more abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:58 PM
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On one hand no one's private activities should be aired, on the other you need to stand by your actions and take responsibility. If I were on the site I wouldn't apologize for my behaviour and deal with whatever fallout came my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:47 PM
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In no particular order: education, intelligence, earning power, upper-middle class sensibility, physical and emotional fitness, loyalty, commitment, guidance, stability, support, entertainment, advice... Partner of five years doesn't seem to complain too much about my RP leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:46 PM
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I look to the primary research and it seems to suggest there are at least three argued bases to gender ranging from social to cognitive to evolutionary. Anyone who frames this as an either/or debate is not educated in the subject and has done NO reading or research on the topic, so why would I waste my time responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:42 PM
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You are allowed to be 'hypocritical' in whatever way you want, because it's not actually hypocrisy. Unlike most social phenomenon where specific rules or standards are imposed by the group or some outside authority to smooth relations or eliminate collective action problems, there is no over-arching principle to relationships apart from consent, and thus hypocrisy bears no relevance. Feminism tries to police individual relationships, but fails to realize they have no business being there so long…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:49 PM
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Education itself is not an issue, but education is often a good proxy for things like class and level of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:32 PM
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Some aspects of 'left'-thinking are incompatible with TRP while others are not. Asking the question betrays a lack of nuanced understanding of political philosophy and its application. I support the modern welfare state on two bases: the liberal notion of rational self-interest, and its empirical demonstration. This differs widely from other leftist notions applied within a social democratic, socialist, or communist context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:29 PM
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Why did he wife a whore? Why is he talking about her ex-boyfriends? If you have your shit together, you will never reach that point. It's like asking how to pay off a gambling debt when your credit card is maxed out. Sorry, but we can't help you - your sole purpose in life is to now serve as a warning to others.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:10 PM
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Fascinating article. It helped to ground and connect some of these ideas I had independently observed. One of the biggest 'ah-has' is that the rise of political correctness, the nanny-state, feminists, SJWs, etc. is actually better categorized as the rise of the 'new Utopians'. Several philosophers predicted first-wave Utopianism in the form of communism and national socialism in the first-part of the twentieth century. We were sufficiently cowed by the disastrous economic, social, and genetic e…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:52 PM
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Good, fuck that useless cunt. She is sitting on a $600,000 asset more liquid than her dried up pussy and she still can't find a way to pay the bills without stealing someone else's money? Again, fuck that useless waste of human being. What's hilarious is the closed comment thread. Guess it didn't mirror the reaction they were aiming for.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:46 PM
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He's not rewarding her behaviour because there's no basis for cause and effect. Part of his job as the man in the relationship is to have cultivated interesting qualities instead of spending five nights a week watching Netflix. This means that this should be normal behaviour for him, and he's 'rewarding' her for being with him. Where else would she have such a good time? And if she's not with him, someone else might be there to enjoy it for her - dread. One of the reasons you want to be a fun gu…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:30 PM
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Don't buy into her assumption(s) or frame; when you do, that gives her an excuse to think her feelings are justified no matter what your position on the matter is. This is one of the reasons we council men not to argue with their partners. Simply engaging in the act feeds the hamster. You broke frame, so you have to dig yourself out of a hole. A few steps you can take: Add more people on Facebook. You like reconnecting with old acquaintances. So what? Act normal - no more feelers to gauge her em…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:38 PM
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It would be harder to fake it, but those men who fail would not suffer the torment of not understanding why.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:30 PM
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I have not made the transition from STEM to art myself, but that is my long-term goal. My art of choice is writing, and five days a week I work on spewing out and eliminating my first million bad words. You've made a sound choice in being practical about it; continue working with the skills you have to make money and pay the bills. Regarding savings, set more aside than you think you should because if in the future you make the jump, you will be glad for that extra cash. Art is not magical. It's…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:28 PM
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You may be doing an admirable job of holding down your shit, and if so, pat yourself on the back. But she is definitely alpha widowed. Not a single-fucking-question in my mind. The two of you can likely have a decent relationship if you continue to perform. The question I would ask is, why would you want to? You can have a revolving door of alpha windows, why commit to one who is on the record for wanting to have a second go with her ex while she is in an exclusive relationship?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:18 PM
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I don't know, I have to call foul on the credibility of this video. I am pretty sure this shot right here is actually a deleted scene from 22 Jump Street.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:55 PM
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Three-part process: Develop a network of acquaintances based on common interests Form rudimentary friendships with those personalities that align or complement your own Strengthen bonds based on shared, exclusive experiences Most people if they are introverts, lone wolves, or newcomers have trouble with the first. They are not sure where to go to meet like-minded people, or they may be reticent to network being shy, awkward, or prone to confusing a casual encounter with intimacy. Practice makes …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:16 PM
2

Let's start with the assumption and realization that you are going to experience some form of buyer's remorse no matter what you do. Understanding that this could be your natural inclination, now understand that it is purely emotional, and that it should always be pushed aside in favour of an objective, committed, principled assessment or plan. In other words, you may not think painting is for you. It may not be fulfilling. You may resent it, think it's pointless, and wish you had taken up law. …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:59 PM
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If that's the case, we agree. What concerns me about the OP - and maybe I read it wrong having skimmed the post - is the impression that he is overly concerned about what TRP thinks. I'm trying to express a way he should look at the issue to figure out what he wants, not what he thinks he should want according to the internet.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:37 PM
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There is certainly a hierarchy and I don't even think you need to justify it on the basis of reason. If it's real for you, that's enough. That said, it's still important to recognize at a principled level you are still engaged in the consumptive process, and that if you are not someone who is fulfilled by that (most of us are temporarily, at least), you may want to start turning to more creative or constructive pursuits in your career, family, hobbies, spirituality, etc. I don't think video game…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:32 PM
2

Sure, TRP developed as a sexual strategy, but countless examples demonstrate that it consists of a core set of principles that extend to every facet of a man's life. In fact, I would argue that expansion is a natural progression that comes with age and experience. For those men whose ultimate goal is to fuck as many women as possible, spending video game time in the club makes perfect sense. For those men who find more fulfillment in other pursuits, banging fifty club sluts is not an valuable us…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:05 PM
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In contrast, look at how Donald Trump handles an accusation that he's a misogynist, a far more dangerous situation: clip. Trump is a fucking trainwreck, but this is absolutely glorious. Perfect example of frame, perfect example of agree & amplify. With three words he won the crowd, distracted from the question, and undermined the credibility of the moderator. The kicker? He did it by doing exactly what he was being accused of. Amazing. Little wonder the mental midget John Q Public loves him.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:02 PM
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Cheating is always a possibility, but I think this was simply a comfort test. When your woman is having a meltdown like this, it is tempting to want to ask what's wrong so that you can get information. To you, this information will lead to a solution to eliminate the pain. To her, this signifies that you don't know what you are doing and thus, comfort test failed. All you need to do is be physically and emotionally reassuring. As for what's causing it? Who knows. Could be hormones, could be some…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:36 PM
1

Age-wise? Probably 28. I had started the first job of my career, and for once actually felt like I was encountering meaningful challenges that I could overcome in reasonable, measurable ways. That confidence bled over into all aspects of my life. Now that I am older, that confidence is boosted by my apathy for the values of others. My girlfriend is significantly younger than me, and it's always instructive to hang out with her friends to see what it is that they care about. This is not because t…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:39 AM
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No, it's not too late, but chances are good you will never be 'great' at anything either. It depends on how you define the term. You also need to start thinking about what appeals to you concerning greatness. Is it mastery? Or is greatness a proxy for something else like respect, fame, or wealth? Be careful with those, because while mastery is entirely within your scope, respect, fame, and wealth are not always so and you may waste a lot of time chasing after things you cannot control. That's a …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:29 AM
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Built into the suggestion to eliminate video games is the assumption that they are taking away from more important things. If you have desires and goals around women, careers, education, fitness, and/or creative projects, then yes, spending four hours a day in front of the TV is blowing your self worth. We understand this as a simple form of opportunity cost - video games cost a lot of time, so they had better be worth it. Thing is, you can make that argument about anything. If you try to tell m…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:12 AM
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In simple terms, being stoic is facing shit and letting it roll off your back. Break your collar bone? You can moan and cry and beg for sympathy, or you can grit your teeth and move on. It comes from a school of philosophy called Stoicism, which I highly recommend you start learning about. It will benefit you your entire life, especially when you start taking on the challenges of adulthood. Here are three threads to get you started: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ruugd/how_to_beco…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 01:51 PM
1

How did you find your purpose? what is your life purpose? I thought about this problem for many years, and I kept reducing it down to four basic principles or methods of human living: Observation Exploration Creation Expression Whether you travel, read, assemble widgets, program, talk, or play baseball, these principles underpin your entire human experience. Sometimes they overlap and sometimes they don't. Making a sand sculpture at the beach is creating and expressing. Someone performing a piec…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:35 PM
3

Mineral exploration and the sector of the industry where there is no revenue, only expenditure from equity and sometimes debt financing.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:02 PM
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An industry that is high risk, high reward, but very easy to get chewed up and spit out if you're not careful.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 07:52 PM
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This guy was the manager and he knows me professionally. When it comes to these deals interviews are almost never a thing. Year contracts are standard in the industry, hence my assumption, but having been absent I was not prepared for how much has changed. Live and learn, don't make my mistake. If you're in the ring, expect a few bruises.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:06 PM
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Never tell them how much you want first, just say you are exploring options and aren't sure what your minimum is, let them give you the first number. No matter what the first offer is, always say it's much lower than you're expecting. Having done some negotiation in previous contracts, one thing that I really respected about this guy was his fair offer right from the start. I would not have gotten a better one, and I guarantee the person he hires next won't be getting that. It was for this reaso…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 04:46 PM
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what kinds of studies would you need to see to believe female hypergamy is not a huge organizing principle in modern society? If a study came out showing that a majority of young Western women have low partner counts and consistently chose nice guys over jocks and committed to them faithfully over the long term, this would put a serious dent in female hypergamy. What do you mean when you say AWALT? It's possible that you may work for a company that gives you a sweet raise every year, continually…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 04:22 AM
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Human evolution selects on different criteria, and on the matter of sexual selection culture is going to play a huge role. What other reason did blond hair develop in Northern Europe? Vitamin D deficiency is only one part of the answer. In the modern Western world, this has its own consequences. This does not necessarily equate to 'biotrufs', but then again, the field is more concerned about those mechanisms that are deterministic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 04:10 AM
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TRP is a set of principles and methods that allow for very different implementations. How a 22 year old pick up artist employs TRP is much different than how a 42 year old married father of three does. If you come from a political philosophy that derives its foundation from identity politics, for example (e.g. feminism), understanding TRP will require a paradigm shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 03:54 AM
1

Then ask the question with specific reference to what you don't understand. Most RP men haven't read the sidebar. Does anyone seriously expect us to believe that its opponents have waded through all of that bullshit? It's a giant shit test designed to expose all the morons who pretend to understand TRP (which is half the joke).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 03:49 AM
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Of course male hypergamy is a thing. Redpillers have often made the analog to how we treat career progression. The more relevant question is why would the average RP poster give a fuck? And therein lies the answer to many of your issues with TRP and its adherents: missing the point about what is relevant or of interest. In a comment thread about space exploration, you're that buffoon crying about world hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 03:44 AM
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Big fan of this plan. I entered university in my mid-20s, but wasted most of my time prior to that. Still, with maturity and experience, I excelled as a student. Any distinction you feel studying with 18-19 year olds as a 24-26 year old will be positive. Getting military experience would benefit you for the rest of your life. If I had a do over I would go into the military right after high school.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:25 PM
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Except that is not a forgone conclusion of a meritocracy at all. There is still a constitutional tradition. There is still a judiciary with jurisprudence. There is still a free press. There is still the mechanism for mobility, iteration, oversight, and recall. Crowdsourcing decisions based on specialization and merit would not lead to a ruling class, and anyone who keeps repeating this lame canard either needs to demonstrate in clear, reality-based terms how that would occur, or needs to spend a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 02:00 PM
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Specialization and merit never 'sucks'; it's why, for example, we entrust educated professionals to make decisions about vaccines instead of stay-at-home-moms who get their medical information from Dr. Oz. What 'sucks' is that any notion of democratic reform is always viewed through the lens of the party-based form of representative democracy. They are other options if we could just take five minutes to think about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:44 PM
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Plato's concept is very far removed from what I am describing, which is, at its core, a model of direct democracy based on merit and mobility. It also contains mechanisms for iteration and empirical best practice, and since it rests on the backbone of modern liberalism - a phenomenon that post-dates Plato by 2000 years - your comparison does not bear weight. It would be like comparing the absolute engineering of the Flavian Ampitheatre to that of Madison Square Garden - absurd in real terms, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:33 PM
1

Replacing the party model of representative democracy with one that favours a more direct approach with the strength of expertise from specialists would suppress existing corruption, especially since such a change would not necessitate the elimination of other democratic institutions that seek to limit or mitigate corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:57 AM
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No, as mentioned in the parent comment, voting weights would be based on education, intelligence, or capacity for reason, not wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:50 AM
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There's no requirement for anyone to be voted in, much like how the existing bureaucracies in the West currently function.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:48 AM
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There are a number of institutions in a liberal democracy that can derive authority from the executive or sovereign, and, in turn, apply it to the citizenry. Take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:43 AM
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Most women AND men should not have the right to vote, or, more preferably, their vote should be weighted on some metric of intelligence, learning, and/or reasoning. Edit: It blows my mind that youngthugtranslator is receiving upvotes for his or her asinine questions. Here is a user who does not understand how modern, liberal democracies work, has no conception of the various institutions that make them work, and yet is still is receiving approbation from like-minded morons. At least use the appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:37 AM
3

I do not have a quick list of cheats on frame, but I do have a three insights as a man in his 30s: Learn the difference between principles and values, and how principles can lead to integrity and a strong self of self. A very secure, internally-consistent worldview is magic when it comes to frame, because you will know exactly how to act in nearly every situation. Throughout your daily activities, constantly take a moment to consciously reinforce the strength of your frame in the current context…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 01:24 AM
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If he's a man and not a chump, he can handle knowing that you know he has other plates. He can also handle you telling him about the problems with the other woman, and your reticence to not use protection if he keeps sleeping with her. Don't put your health at risk for this man. There is no further reward or benefit you can get from this exchange than each respective fuck you two enjoy.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 01:09 AM
1

Just remember that there's a world of difference between a one-time thing where she is drunk and letting her guard down leads to a "one thing led to another, and before I knew it" circumstance, and a continued sober premeditated affair. You have to be fucking kidding me. How far deep into the bluepill asshole does one need to bury himself to say things like this? So a one-time orgasm fest with the pool boy is different than a premediated affair? I can't even begin to understand what damage femin…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:03 AM
1

It's a hard pattern to break, and not knowing you personally, there could be a number of approaches to take. One approach might be to randomize aspects of your daily life. Take a different route to work or stop at a new coffee shop. Always at home by 6 pm? Guess what, you're going to do something else and be home at 7 pm instead. It gets you in an adaptive mode of dealing with unpredictability, and fostering your own proactivity to new things. If your problem is more financial, make of point of …
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:56 PM
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And the whole time the thought of her going back to her ex was there since "she still loved him and wasn't sure how she felt yet" the whole time.. so maybe it was a quick rebound? Translation: "You haven't yet convinced me you're the superior product and your time is running out." Guess what? Time ran out. You fucked up, it happens. Can't change it. Your task for your shift tomorrow is to be extra social and engaged with customers/co-workers. Don't be manic, but be professional and involved. Thi…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:31 PM
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Integrity is 1) behaving in a consistent manner 2) in accordance with your principles 3) that derive from your underlying desire and motivation. Compromising any one of those factors compromises your integrity, and there is ample opportunity for that to occur in your daily life. TRP is about reasserting the validity of #3 in men, and then realigning #1 with a new understanding of #2. Most Bluepill/Beta anxiety stems from a conflict between #2 and #3. Young men have the desire to enjoy to fulfill…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:10 PM
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I recommend the Penguin Classic edition. The translation is very easy to read, and it has notes for nearly each passage. Many of Aurelius' ethical meditations are self-explanatory, so the notes are useful for context on his more metaphysical meditations.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:53 AM
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The real hilarity is what's beneath the surface. One of the women involved has a decade-plus history of sleeping through various social scenes, doing softcore bondage porn, and making false reports. At one point she was even a groupie to a shitty nu-glam rock band from England in the early 00s. Her life is a shitty Redpill movie, and the field report that Bluepillers and feminists can't believe is real. She is the Redpill cornucopia from Hell. Now that she is slamming head first into the wall, s…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:06 PM
2

You didn't do anything wrong, necessarily - you blew up the 'friendship' and discovered by her reaction that you had absolutely no value to her. Dog dies? LOL, ok. House burned down? LOL, ok. Doesn't work like that, does it? Chump doesn't want to be an orbiter any more? LOL, ok, cool, more where he came from. This is a good lesson. You now know not to let it get to this point. You also know that women aren't going to spend a single ounce of fuck on maintaining ties with you, because guess what? …
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:30 PM
1

Example 1: As your companion, any threat to your status will be immediately conferred to her. This is distressing to her first because of the personal affront, but also for the fact that she must now manage the risk that comes by associating with you. For you, it's no big deal. You put on your big boy pants and handled it with aplomb. But did you communicate it to her? No, you said that she shouldn't care. You think you said, 'honey, don't worry, I got this' but what she heard was, 'I am not goi…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:03 PM
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If you consider the general public's pathetic grasp of current social, economic, or political issues, it would then be no surprise that your co-worker has such an inaccurate and incomplete understanding of these communities. Are you in North America? Start a conversation about Keystone XL or the TPP or something. If you don't first get a glazed expression, you'll at least get an entertaining view into the mind of a literal idiot. Of course, as infuriating as it can be to tolerate these people, i…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 02:55 PM
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But why is it that I still feel I have something to prove? It's because you are a man. You have an innate drive to compete, conquer, and push on to the next fight. The fact that you feel like someone has played you and got one over on you is proof positive. You will feel this every day of your life. The day you don't feel that is the day someone has snipped your balls. So what I'm saying is that it's a GOOD THING. It sucks to fail. It sucks to be shamed, even if it's self-shame that no one knows…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:16 PM
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Other men provide some of the best and worst examples of how to behave. As I approach my mid-30s, it never ceases to amaze me which ones end up teaching those respective lessons.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:00 PM

Society puts pressure on people to live because of our ingrained tendency to WANT to live. It's a biological impetus that stems from our evolutionary past, full stop. The thing is, society also implicitly understands that the wish to kill yourself reflects a mental illness. For example, I have studied a lot of philosophy and have come to the conclusion that life is meaningless, yet here I am still alive, still kicking. Why? On the basis of reason alone, you could make a case for suicide, but on …
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