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I think this is just their weekly fight. She's not leaving him any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 03:42 PM
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Yeah, but there's no "architect" and no real "system." It's just a bunch of individuals trying to get their own advantage. Therapists and counselors make more money if people feel dissatisfied and have problems. Do you think they encourage people to look at what's right in their relationships and find ways to feel good inside and try to make their relationship work? Divorce lawyers make more money when people get divorced. So ... of course they are going to lead potential clients in a certain di…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 11:55 PM
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It's not about getting men to do more. It is ONLY about making men feel guilty, and making women feel abused and dissatisfied. Guilty men and angry women give money and power to the people who make this shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 02:58 AM
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I agree. But think about the people who "honestly feel" that.... it's just hamstering. They are driven by their own ill will and envy, and their NEED to feel important. Have you ever talked to one who felt like he was driven by good will. Most people are not honest with themselves about their own motives!
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:33 PM
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One of the weird things about Feminists/Progressives/SJWs is their belief that you can take power away from the powerful and share it equally amongst all people. All that really does is create a power vacuum. To clarify: They don't believe in sharing power. "Sharing power equally" is just a bullshit rationalization that sounds good. The real motivation is just to take away from people who seem to have power. It's just envy, nastiness, and hatred. They don't want to take away some people's power …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:38 AM
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The founding principle of the progressive ideology is cultural relativism, the belief that cultures are different but equal. But underneath that cultural relativism is a self-loathing, a resentment of one's own culture. This is the critical point. Listen CLOSELY to what they say. It's not just the claim that we should appreciate other cultures, respect them, value our differences. It's never just that. There's something else that always gets snuck in. There's this subtle but fatal idea that we s…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:27 AM
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on an apple in the computer lab?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:18 AM
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How about this, from the New York Times. Much is still hazy about that night. But the police reports and the testimony of officials and victims suggest that the officers failed to anticipate the new realities of a Germany that is now host to up to a million asylum seekers, most from war-torn Muslim countries unfamiliar with its culture. Working from outdated expectations, the police made a series of miscalculations that, officials acknowledge, allowed the situation to deteriorate. http://www.nyt…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:46 AM
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Anybody else stop reading at "1hunna©"?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 03:01 AM
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"No man has been special enough...yet." Those seven perfect words are a great reminder that preserving your self-worth and standards just might be the key to happiness. Huh... Why would the writer say something like that? Let's look at the opening sentence of her article: If you've ever spent time wondering why you're single -- which, please, most of us have at some point -- maybe you should consider flipping your perspective. Sounds like someone's trying to make herself feel better. (NOTE: It a…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 09:46 PM
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I guess she's living the dream "I'm 70, working, happy and still unmarried." Just what every girl wants. "Any particular reason?" "No man has been special enough...yet." Any day now... The article could be kind of comforting or reassuring if the message was: "You can be alright. Whatever happens, it's not the end of the world; you can choose your attitude. You'll be alright. Shit, even if you are still working at 70 and you don't have a partner, you will still be okay." That's an honest and posi…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 06:38 PM
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How about a trigger warning. I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:27 AM
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Also, I if you give an example or two for each of these it would make it very clear. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:53 PM
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I'd like to hear more about: "Pull the background over the foreground and the facts underground !" Obfuscation is where you turn something very simple into something complicated. This technique works as a deception because no one can figure out what you did.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:52 PM
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It's funny you sound a lot like buddhists. The first noble truth is there is suffering and dissatisfaction everywhere. The second noble truth it it's caused by confused desire. The third noble truth is that there's a path out of the trap (and it's not sacrifice/denial OR indulgence). And the fourth noble truth is there is an end to that path--total freedom. I think you and the buddhists are pretty similar on the first two points. It amazes me how this sub seems to get more and more buddhist ever…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 11:07 PM
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Present it to him as a challenge: "I want to create veggie dishes we both enjoy. It's gonna take some creativity and some trial and error. Eventually, I want to have one kick-ass all-veggie dinner a week, but only if we can find stuff we both really like. You willing to give this a shot with me?"
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/15 03:10 AM
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Duh (one word answer to title)
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:40 AM
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I hate to defend the OP, BUT.... Look, she's trying to be responsible for her future. She's with a dude that seems not to give a shit. If she stayed with him and was broke in 20 years we'd all be shaming her for not thinking ahead and making good choices.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:29 PM
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You are right. Advertisers are public servants just trying to help you fulfill your naturally occurring needs and desires. They are practically altruistic.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 06:57 PM
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Advertising gives the people what they want. ... The industry complies No, this is naive. Marketing creates desires by playing on human instincts. It's all manipulation. And it's so effective that you think the desires they create are really yours/you. Look at the history of diamonds, eating bacon for breakfast, smoking. Business created the idea that these things are normal, even necessary. Advertising does not fulfill desires, it creates desires. But it doesn't just create them out of thin air…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:37 PM
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PLEASE LABEL "NSFW" THE LINK WAS INAPPROPRIATE AND DISGUSTING AND I ALMOST THREW UP EVERYWHERE
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:49 PM
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I agree! My point is, it's this whole system, and how telling that these brilliant analysts bash the very weakest people involved, the individual consumers. Could it be because they are.... young men???
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 10:39 PM
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They should be mocking marketers for exploiting men. Some of those products are fucking DUMB. But they sell. Because men like being men, and marketers say "this shit is manly," and guys fall for it. Your fucking shampoo has nothing to do with manliness, or the shape of your soap. Why shit on the guys buying this stuff? Why not shit on the marketers playing young dudes for their money. Maybe there's a bias here....
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:48 PM
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Obviously. Look how the pieces are shaped.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:46 PM
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How Richard talks is just gross cant explain the gut level revulsion i feel watching that video
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:47 PM
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Great interview. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 09:41 AM
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One way I've heard it explained is: The practice is to keep bringing your mind back to the object of meditation. So when it wanders, you don't worry about it, you just bring your mind back to the object of focus, again and again and again. No matter how much you have to do that, that is the practice.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 10:16 PM
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Maybe she's wearing a hat that's just almost a stereotype. Or takes teeny tiny steps or something. Or a joke about committing sepuku if the chicken gets burned.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:10 PM
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I think what would make it really funny is if you act like it's not sexual at all. All the double entendres and close ups, but with a totally straight face.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:04 PM
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Your goal should be to try to get the chefs so turned on they cant think straight to finish the meal. And do it without physical contact. The show would be you seducing women trying to teach us to cook shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:53 PM
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men just want hot girls that are submissive and loyal. That's it. I notice men are really tolerant of a lot of different shapes and sizes of women, and are still capable of making a commitment and feeling all those tender feelings, etc. Really, women dont have to be THAT attractive to win a man's affection and undying devotion. It's not like only supermodel women are getting sex and devotion from men. The problem is, I don't think women or men are really taught how to be attractive to eachother …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:24 PM
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I've noticed - many women are very, very angry that they don't feel loved by a strong man they can depend on.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:18 PM
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95% of guys are rated 6 or less. 6 usually means-- what? Not atrocious. Shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:11 AM
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no Even if you ask questions that lead people to see the contradictions in their own thinking, you will be the enemy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:07 AM
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I'd argue that women's wellbeing and happiness is definitely sacrificed by the movement. Look honestly at the results of feminism, etc. for women. It's well known among activists that you have to keep people unhappy in order to keep your power. So they "rub salt in the wound." Who benefits, who loses? Divorce seems to hit men harder than women in the short term. But look long range. Who's more miserable in old age? The single old men you know? or the single old women you know? When I look around…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:05 AM
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I think that's a "utilitarian" ethics, rather than "altruistic."
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:49 PM
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Wait, we're all missing a GREAT point here. I've never thought of asking a woman to do a polygraph test. Maybe this should be standard advice for prenups. Seriously, look what the REQUEST for a polygraph got for this guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:24 PM
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Yeah, I dont know if it was possible to go RP any earlier. You're right, how would anyone have put all the pieces together, or overcome the social pressures, hold out long enough to get the payoff? BUT.... Yeah, i was handed a crock of shit. But I ate it. No, i didn't know better. But I knew it was shit and i ate it anyway. My hand was on the spoon! Somehow i feel i let myself down, and I think part of TRP is resolving to take care of ourselves. You know, if we treated others the way we treated …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:13 PM
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We are angry at being misled about the true nature of things. I think that's a big point. I think a lot of the anger comes from feeling misled. To make it worse, deep down we all suspected the truth all along, and we kind of felt like we were being fed a line. To buy into bluepill thinking you have to deny your own instincts. You have to accept what someone tells you, even though a part of you is saying "this doesn't seem like it's good for me." And when it suddenly seems that what they (society…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:07 PM
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second word of the title? i wish i'd checked out there too, bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:36 PM
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Doesn't matter if he IS great. All it takes is if she feels she's missing something, IN SOME WAY. It's not hard to make evoke a woman's dissatisfaction with her partner. If he's strong, she's lacking affection and attention. If he's affectionate then he's kind of a pussy. There's always a way. I dont think people are designed to be naturally happy and content in their relationships. It takes a conscious choice. Religion, society, and laws used to help incentivize that, and created fear to reinfo…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:19 PM
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No shit because now he's the guy she gave up everything for. there's no way he can live up to the expectations. he's supposed to be the one. he's the one who makes her feel magical. think that can possible last? The whole thing is kind of sad, actually. And it happens because we're not honest about human nature or female sexuality. Those books take the veil off, and they are really valuable for that reason.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:08 PM
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you should start r/thundercocks
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:48 AM
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Sex should stem from emotional intimacy I cant remember the last time I heard that in pop culture. It actually looks kind of weird to see that written down, actually. All i see in pop culture is women saying it's silly to want intimacy and has nothing to do with sex anyway. huh...
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:39 AM
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How about this twist...the whole point of cave woman falling in love is to cause the behaviors that make caveman fall in love and want to take care of her. Then, cave man stays devoted. Her feelings change and she can work on other goals. It's probably NOT in cavewoman's long term interest to stay infatuated with any specific cave man. It is in her short term interests b/c it makes her do the stuff that evokes devotion from cave man. Maybe her changing emotional state is a feature not a bug.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:21 PM
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The books are like turning on the lights. I cant believe how much sense they make.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:46 PM
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Such important books. Side-bar worthy. The author is pretty objective--she actually doesn't bash women for their feelings or even for cheating. But she's ruthless with the bullshit justifications that people use. They are the best books I know for understanding what the hell women say and mean in relationships. It's dark stuff, man. But so informative. These are required reading for all men. Women too, actually. Women feel can like their experiences in a relationship are so unique and individual…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:14 PM
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angry that their husbands didn't live up to their expectations and almost always place 100% of the blame squarely on them true and tragic on so many levels. There's a lot of angry women out there b/c their man didn't live up to a fantasy. Families are weaker so she doesn't have mom, grandma, and auntie telling her the reality that men are just men. As communities are more fractured, people need to get their social needs met by fewer and fewer people. All these expectations are put on the man, wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:22 PM
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One question: do you think she grew up in a home with a strong, loving father?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:35 PM
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th other girls I've dated when I mentioned Susan is my best friend all of a sudden they stopped responding to my texts and calls without a word of explanation. If only he'd pretended to hide the relationship with her, if only he'd dismissively referred to her as "just a friend." He would have gotten the opposite reaction. Why would a girl be impressed your bestie is a girl? But girls get interested about another woman in your life where there's ambiguity and possibly, "more than meets the eye."
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:34 PM
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1- It's more about despising the man than loving the lion. Also, it's easy to attack someone for killing a lion, because it applies to very few people, so everyone gets to feel superior to the lion killer. If you attack people for eating meat, you alienate the majority of humans. 2- The real hypocrisy: Lions are predators. They brutally kill for status. Why not rejoice at the lions cecil was oppressing? It's not about the lion. It's not about morality. It's about people shitting on other people …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:26 PM
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playful, cocky, dismissive. Pretty good response!
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:24 PM
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You dont pick a girl based on what your parents like.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:21 PM
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She's insecure. It's not a shit test. It's a comfort test. Or it's just another example of stuff people say when they get a little nervous or excited and it means nothing. Options: A) You can try to offer a little comfort. But dont get carried away. "you'll be fine." B) Or you can ignore it. Maybe muster a "Whatever" or "we'll see." C) Or you can be a little cocky and say, "So." or "You're not there for them, you're there for me," or "dont worry about impressing them, impress me." It's a little …
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:16 PM
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This is solid. It's good because there's an element of sharing and opening up. But you're not shooting yourself in the foot. It's actually a healthier way to think anyway. And it's also a more useful way to talk. It shows you're human. And you're taking care of yourself and being proactive. And you're right, this stuff applies to just about any relationship. In our culture, we love hearing a story of a struggle where someone knew they were bigger than the problem, but it was still a problem, and…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:11 PM
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"hey, what about my brother/son/father/husband whom I love?" and that would have been the end of it. fuck. that's brilliant and nauseating. wow.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:28 AM
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"I’m glad because I’m a feminist" This could become a catch phrase around here.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 01:30 AM
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Wait, so this is saying sexual behavior is biological, and is not "culture" or the patriarchy? Hmmmm.... interesting.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:11 AM
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what if what is broken does not want to be fixed Well put. It's seems unimaginable, but people often want their pain and drama. Sometimes the princess in koopa's castle doesn't really want to be saved. Not by you or me, at least!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:52 PM
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I will read it and thank you for the explanation.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:56 AM
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"(the weak, lame, and frankly self-centered), "I'm sorry." I guess that's how it often sounds to me when people use it. But your clarification makes a lot of sense, thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 06:19 PM
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could you give an example of fogging, please
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:34 PM
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I'm starting to come around to OP's point. So let me ask you this: Why would "sorry" be better than just expressing that you care about what happened to her and trying to help? If I was a little old lady, I'd much rather here "Whoa, are you alright, here let me help you up." (which is centered on her, and focused on fixing the problem). I'd rather hear that than (the weak, lame, and frankly self-centered), "I'm sorry."
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:31 PM
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I was unconvinced about your point. But you just sold me. What's more meaningful to the old lady: "OMG I'm so sorry i knocked you down." or "Wow. Are you okay, maam? Here, let me help you up." Not sure if i'm making my point clearly. What i'm trying to say is, there are WAY better things to say, when you care about someone, other than... "I sorry." It's kind of weak and lazy when i think about it. Thanks for the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:26 PM
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No one is smiling but the blonde. Even baby knows this is bullshit!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:54 PM
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Maybe the guy is her butler, he is wearing white gloves!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:49 PM
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How would you feel if the man and women switched seats? Why weren't they? Are they saying only a man can drive, and only a woman can be nurturing?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:48 PM
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At any point this interaction could end if she just said "Yeah, I did cross the line a little didn't I? Sorry man, I didn't mean to do that." Yes. From beginning to end, all she is trying to do is get the upper hand in the conversation. Nothing she says has any meaning, except as powertalk, as a tactic. That's a tough jagged red pill all in itself. Is accepting that some conversations have nothing to do with the words people are saying; that their words don't mean the same as if a normal person …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:31 PM
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Theres kindness in all that energy, too. That's interesting to me. In a way, he's reacting to her in the only way that might possibly dislodge her from her own bullshit for her own good. when he says it's something "she needs to hear" I think he really means it. Maybe he's not just spouting some random shit to keep a crazy lady at bay. There's possibility here he actually gives a shit about other people and is trying to do something positive, using the only communication style that works in thos…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:43 PM
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A buddy of mine put it like this: For a woman, saying "i love you" = "I want you to take care of me" For a man, saying "I love you" = "I want to take care of you" What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 11:28 PM
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A friend made the following observation (What do you think?): For men, saying "I love you" means "I want to care for you." For women, saying "I love you" means "I want YOU to take care of ME."
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:10 PM
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you're instantly disqualifying the only value a woman has on a dating site: her looks. They are compelled to respond and defend their beauty. Yeah, AND you're doing it in a way that's obviously fun, and clearly seems like you'd be fun and stimulating to interact with. It triggers that reaction of "UMMMM, what the fuck? What's up with this guy? What's he gonna say next" That shits like catnip. I'd be interested to hear some of the ways they actually replied to that line. Did they deny it, insult …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:23 PM
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Figure out ways to give them challenging assignments to "take care of you." 1) They are gonna want to do something, so if you DONT give them direction, they're gonna be a pain in the ass. 2) By taking care of you, they are investing in you. (Good) women fucking LOVE taking care of a big strong man. Makes them feel needed and special. And, it can feel good to you. There's a difference between being a big strong man with a wound, vs. a needy little boy begging mommy for milk. You already know what…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:12 AM
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I'm not a grammar nazi but the whoms were bugging me too.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 11:07 PM
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There's no reason you're not enough. Think about it, argue with it, eventually resolve it's already true. Based on that, you can build a life and your relationships. Really look into that statement. See if it's true or not. Most of your misery and dumb choices have to do with not thinking you're enough. And most of your positive stuff that feels good... you arent actively doubting whether you're enough.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 11:29 PM
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Most of the focus on TRP is on how to be more successful with women and in life. But the reality is that getting better with women/money/muscles, etc. doesn't give us the deeper satisfaction we seek. It is great to enjoy women more and see through some of society's bullshit. It is way fucking better than the frustrated chump life. But it's not the ultimate satisfaction that i think a lot of guys are hoping for. Society has all kinds of fucking problems. they are real problems. But guess what, so…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:39 AM
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It's funny--the phrase "try harder and relax" makes perfect sense if you meditate, I think. But I said that to someone the other day, and they acted like it was just impossible or a contradiction.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:23 PM
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A lot of what folks label as "selfless" is just naive. (It's not genuinely selfless or we wouldn't care what results it brought us.) At some point we see we're getting duped. One reaction is to throw the baby out with the bath water, and start idealizing sociopaths or whatever. You are saying something profound: we can and must be more sophisticated in our selflessness and our selfishness.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:12 PM
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We're humans. We are born with all kinds of instincts for: competition, fighting, in-group / out-group stuff, etc. With that guys little post, he gets to a) feel superior to a whole huge group of people over on a 100k sub. b) let out a little agression. c) take sides and define "those guys" as the out group who should be ostracized. It's all just a bunch of bullshit and it has little to do with the realities of the sub, and everything to do with his human instinctual needs. If it wasn't TRP, it …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:23 PM
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New motto: "Who cares what idiots ponder!" Thanks
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:18 PM
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Thanks for sharing something that's both interesting and a little bit different from what we are used to.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:07 PM
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Why refer to this as "feminism" at all? It's just a person not letting someone else totally shit all over her. Isn't that what everyone is supposed to do? When did feminism get a monopoly on that idea? BTW my guess would be the interviewer would not self-identify as a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:49 PM
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like asking a fish how to ride a bike
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:45 PM
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Video needs an NSFL warning... ... I just threw up a little bit in my mouth, listening to that guy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGPYBb2DRsg
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:25 PM
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I think what we're gonna see is men giving up hope that society/women/whatever are gonna fulfill our fantasies. Where we go with that is the big question. Will we 1-replace it with some other fantasy (probably). 2-Or will we get cynical and butthurt (yeah, probably)? 3-Or will we find some more meaningful way to happiness?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 06:12 PM
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the whole paragraph is wasted words. your post stands on its own without it
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 06:09 PM
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dont put it in quotes if it's not a quote dude
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 05:59 PM
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LOL make sure you read carefully the title of this post. It says "mostly" not "100% purely." Your cut and paste function is broken, too, haha
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 05:45 PM
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Practice hobbies, skills and sports that are relevant to your social market value. You have the opportunity to learn a little something about a lot of things. It would be handy to know a little woodworking, a little about cars, etc. A foreign language or two. there's a ton of stuff you can invest your time into. Prioritize the interests that will add to your future social value. That is a piece of advice i wish i had in high school. Dont be afraid to start businesses and fail. Fail often, but do…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:16 AM
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TRP is great. We've been mis-managing our masculinity for a long time and it's caused a lot of needless pain. TRP gives you all kinds of tools for better enjoying your life as a man. But it doesn't provide the ultimate meaning of life or anything like that. Getting laid, being respected, looking good and feeling good are way better than the opposite. But it's kind of a false hope to think you're gonna get lasting, transcendent meaning out of that stuff. I find Buddhism to be consistent with most…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:19 AM
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If you think that sub is currently "overrun" with negativity, then i dont think you'll be happy anywhere! Yeah, there's some vids with bad reflexes, so what. It seems positive overall.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:19 AM
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yeah, that's kind of the point
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:06 PM
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Imagine what would have happened if he was still wearing those shades
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:05 PM
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I am not a lawyer. did not know about that.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:57 AM
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but could be used for public shaming
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:09 AM
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counterbalanced by constant objectifying and sudden acts of barbarism. yes. otherwise the romantic stuff is meaningless!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:31 PM
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Someone once said that what women want is to experience a range of emotions. And its true--they have this capacity to feel all kinds of different things and if you try to be all even keel, they get bored and shit gets gnarly. So here's how i approach it with my GF: there's a baseline of sanity, of being able to be calm and to fucking chill. A baseline of respect. Like a neutral base that we come back to. And then there's all kinds of other shit i pull out of a hat to keep things interesting. Som…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:29 PM
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FTFY Me - "If a woman doesn't want sex, I'll find someone who does. People who don't want sex should stick to others that don't want sex." Her - "A woman might take issue with that." Me - "Then she better convince me to stay." Her - "And the only way she can is sex?! Would her personality ever be enough for you that it wouldn't matter? A woman's personality should be more important." Me - "Sex is not the one determining factor, neither is personality, neither is there a false continuum between t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:58 PM
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This is a very healthy and positive interpretation.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:31 AM
1

Ha, I've found the best comeback is to just say: "your momma." It's so old school that people are shocked and confused and dont know how to respond.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 02:46 AM
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Longterm and shortterm well-being is your purpose. Figuring out what that means is part of your purporse. Getting good at being a man is part of that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:30 PM
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I've seen quite a few women in my circle say this. IRL, or on Facebook. I just discovered, there is an option to "unfollow," on facebook. As far as in person.... I'm amazed at how powerful is the statement "that is just not attractive." It's the conversation ender. Nothing else matters. The advanced version: "Doesn't matter, that's still not attractive."
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:05 AM
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Watch the videos, man you'll like them. Say what you will about the 50's, I think these vids are way more realistic than any romcom i've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 06:39 AM
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As another commenter mentioned, this series is very thought provoking: Marriage for Moderns: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8024A216CE6B21B6 It has videos like "Choosing for Happiness," "It takes all Kinds," "Who's Right," and "Who' Boss." The first video has the quote: "You have to take people as they come, or leave them alone." It Takes All Kinds includes a segment with a weak willed guy who's date ditches him, the narrator says: "The lady wanted a man, not a mouse. Especially not suc…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 05:47 PM
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females will never have genuine romantic feelings for a guy who isn't classically handsome This is just not not true. Looks matter. They are not the only thing that matters. TRP is about accepting truth, even when it's painful. THAT DOESN'T MEAN you believe every painful idea that comes into your mind. Quit being so fucking mean to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:57 PM
2

Interesting exercise. Will give it a shot. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:56 PM
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Maybe it's: recognizing that you missed out on something positive. But why think that you are NOW incomplete? It's just a form of self torment. And actually, it's a slightly more sophisticated form of the same shit cycling in your head that kept you from getting laid in the first place. Maybe your life now would be different, "if only." Maybe it would be better. But you really gotta come to grips with where your value comes from right now. It's not like you're incomplete or not enough. Look real…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:54 PM
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What if we do? The article almost assumes it would be a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:18 PM
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But, in my experience, the fat chicks were sluts in high school and college. Or at least, they were open about it and loved to initiate public or group sex at parties. Wow your friends were way more interesting than mine
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:06 PM
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Ha great stuff! I try to do some stupid shit every once in a while just for the hell of it. Really enjoy the look on her face of disbelief (did you really just...), turning to amusement, to relaxation and youthful playfulness. It's great stuff
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:48 AM
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I read it the other way: it sounded like he stood up for common sense, which is the opposite of the problem Dalrock talks about in Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:35 PM
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Solid response on the part of that religious leader. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:34 PM
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Bottom line, looks matter, but they're not the only thing that matters. Anybody that says differently is trying to manipulate you for some reason or justify why they feel like a loser.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 12:24 AM
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Whatever, she's been lied to her whole life by a culture that openly disrespects this stuff. Now time is short and she feels a biological NEED to reproduce, and it turns out bra-burning doesn't keep women warm at night. She got scammed!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:37 AM
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Yeah, also, do you think she MIGHT carry over some bitterness onto her poor kids when she does get them? This shit's just painful for everyone. It's a far cry from the original impulse to love people and treat them well and try to build good happy lives. I know that's an ideal, but my point is that this ideal gets used to justify shit that does the exact opposite. what a fucking scam.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:17 PM
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Yet another casualty of feminism. Feminism HATES femininity. And yet this poor woman... wants girly things: "One of my dreams in life was to be a mother and now that dream is slipping away." Well, I guess she DOES need a man more than a fish needs a bicycle. Too bad society lied to her about that for so long. This shit is just sad.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:33 PM
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Did you notice this part of the quote: My sister didn't get married for the first time until 35 and has 6 very healthy children. Six. So fuck him and his ridiculous nonsense. She and her sisters sound so sweet.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:31 PM
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Great point. Now that you mention it, it's funny, she never said anything about any of that. It's entirely self absorbed. She's not even sad about losing the dude, just that now she's single and not sure how to achieve her goal. I hadn't noticed that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:28 PM
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no one to blame but herself Wrong. Feminism lied to her. She trusted what was untrustworthy.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:25 PM
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I agree. This is right for a lot of cases. But i think for OP's case, he's talking about women in his extended social circle who he's known for years and years. And they're not really awesome, but it's not like they are treating him horrible or something. Just didn't seem like situation where you need an ultimatum, or to completely cut them out of your life. Just my sense of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:56 AM
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You should be able to stop people from walking all over you by standing up for yourself and holding frame. When you get really good at it, people won't even try to mess with you because your frame says they won't get away with it. You get automatic respect. I think the whole point is... He wasn't there yet. But he took decisive action to improve his situation nevertheless.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:53 PM
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Yeah, I mean, there's an opportunity here, too. You can kind of experiment with different stuff and see what reactions you get. Doesn't have to be hard core RP stuff out the gate. They are basically neutral female acquaintances. So, try stuff and note the reactions you get. What different reactions do you get typing stuff like: -"been real busy" -"gotta go for a bike ride" -"seeing this new girl and that's been my focus lately" -"gotta get going to a thing" Or what happens if you wait a day or t…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:11 PM
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I wouldn't drop the bomb or whatever you called it. If people text you stupid shit you dont care about, dont respond. Be cool. If they at some point ask why you didn't respond, you can just say "i've been really busy lately." And just kind of... be cordial about it. There's no point alienating them. Right? It's not like they're abusing you or really disrespecting you in this case? Right? It's dumb but it's just talking about shit that you USED TO validate for (you trained them). And now you're n…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:11 PM
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All great points. I think you read too much into my use of the term "equal."
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:26 AM
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What you wrote is insightful, but you missed the point i was making. I'm kind of surprised because usually you are sharper. The whole point is that there are different meanings for words like value. Or equality. And you can acknowledge that a person is equal in one sense but not in others. I'd suggest that feminism jumbles this up, and that's why there's a mess. As human beings, my girlfriend and I are in some sense equal. She is not an inferior being. Still, I take a role of dominance and leade…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:21 AM
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Empathy and equality are one part of a relationship with another human being. But a relationship is not just two human beings being partners in life. It's also about being a man and a woman and the primal energy and rawness that comes with that.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:54 AM
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My girlfriend is absolutely my equal. And she loves me dominating her. When i'm less dominant, we both get bored. When i'm more dominant, it's not "oppression." It's really simple, actually. Some stuff gets us hard/wet, some doesn't. why is this taboo. You can have equality, and still have dominance and submission. I don't get why this is even a pretend issue. It's really weird when people assume dominance/leadership = oppression/inequality. And it's weird when people assume equal = 100% samenes…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:59 AM
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Show the way. Try some stuff and tell us how it went.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:40 AM
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So skip them. Why bitch about this? Oh, actually, my bad, bro...let's restructure this sub to meet your whim.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:50 PM
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This shows another set of victims of this madness: She sounds like nice enough woman, who would probably make an alright partner. Guys aren't marrying her--because they think the institution has been made dangerous and hostile to men. Women need marriage more than men do. Too bad that the institution is so screwed up right now. Kind of sad for her, actually.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:50 PM
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You think-- good for him. I'm happy he got some pleasure. Think that, and eventually you'll see that he's not different from you, you dont have to put his advantages on a pedestal, and you can think more sanely about how to benefit yourself. envy is toxic, you're right, and this method i just shared is the best trick i know for counteracting it: as much as possible, choose to be happy for the success and pleasure of others. try it and see.
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:46 PM
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You both know it's a game. You both know you're playing each other. And it feels good. Sweet.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:39 PM
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It's just a chair, quit picking on the poor guy already I think I hear your mom calling. She wants her foot rub.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 01:58 AM
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You can call me Dr House, if you insist
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:51 PM
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One thought is: We have the capacity for brutal behavior, but keep that in check because we instinctually value our social ties, because they were necessary for our ancestors' survival. We have this fear--if everyone knew what a cutthroat manipulator i am, i'd be excluded, i'd be cut off from the tribe. It's not worth to get a little ahead, to risk being seen and ostracized as a manipulator. If you're wealthy, you have at least an opportunity to recognize that you don't need the tribe in the sam…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:20 PM
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You cant learn how to be a man from a woman
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:24 PM
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It's not morality and it's not math Listen up: IT'S A CHAIR
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:14 PM
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bu... bu... what if girl gets inconvenienced... or even... OMG mad at op? they fear a high school girls' disapproval because it feels like mommy Yeah--that's how to be the strong man chicks want.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:12 PM
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why is your first instinct to side against the kid? im sorry Dont be. seriously. You're alright. If you felt alright you wouldn't talk like a white knight.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:09 PM
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This is the right attitude. You're trying shit and learning. It's just highschool. She's just a girl. It's just a chair. It's just one interaction. Today, you practiced not acquiescing. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:05 PM
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white knighting: Your default reaction is to sympathize with a highschool girl's position and side against OP. He's a high school kid trying to learn It's just a chair
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:01 PM
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It makes him appear like a loner with autism who hates to be around people than a pack leader This is making up the worst possible internal narrative. In reality: it is just a chair, it's just a single interaction. the most important point is it's not that big a deal. You cant spin negative stories about every little move.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:55 PM
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Who the told you that you have to fear that a girl might "think you're asbergers. And they avoid you." You say mean shit to yourself, dont you.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:51 PM
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The kid's trying to learn. He's in high school. What the fuck is wrong with you that you automatically side with a girl who.... OMG sat in a different seat. White knighting does not make you a man.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:41 PM
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This is the best response. Listen to this guy. OP did a TRP 101 move which was a big move for him. You're helping him take it a level higher.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:13 AM
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That's OCD behavior. Nope. how it's going to sound when they tell others He should be terrified and comply out of fear that others will talk about this... incident. Hold frame over shit that they won't tell others because they'll feel stupid recounting the story that's dumb. You hold frame strongly enough to project that you DONT CARE if you're wrong. Remember we're talking about a chair. This isn't something that has to be done perfect for fear the old ladies will gossip about you. Why are you …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:12 AM
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Fuck off. Dont shame a dude who's trying to learn how to stand up for himself. Even if it was a douche move, who gives a shit? It's a fucking chair. You need to find your balls.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:09 AM
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You did fine, dude. You got that experience of not giving in, then letting some girls have their reaction... and you found... the world didnt come crashing down. That's what matters, man. It actually doesn't matter if you were right or wrong. It's just a chair. who gives a shit if you were "wrong?" It's not like you did something morally questionable. It was a great experience that you learned a lot from. Sometimes when guys first take the pill, they've been "nice" for so long they gotta do some…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:07 AM
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In europe, "liberal" meant you want people to be free to do what they want with less government intervention. This is what US labels "conservatives." European "conservatives" are pro-government power, which corresponds more closely with american "liberals."
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:49 PM
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There's a lot of times to be very open and have a discussion and engage in active listening and exchanging viewpoints. Disrespectful behavior isn't the time for that. If i see something that feels like she doesn't value my time, or that she's disrespecting me--I'm really clear about being intolerant and not polite about it and not interested in a discussion. Try these in the mirror: "that shit feels disrespectful." "You can think whatever you want. It feels disrespectful to me." "I dont like tha…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:59 PM
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I dont know, you might find some of the other motivational stuff helpful, like maybe listen to some of Tony Robins stuff, or for dealing with girls I really like Alex from RSD (i cannot recommend his natural instincts manifesto enough). Personally, when i look at myself, the times when i thought i lacked motivation, it was more... I was either overwhelmed with options, or i was feeling kind of beat down or pessimistic. It wasn't that i didn't have any gas, it was that i had one foot on the gas a…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:43 AM
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Here are my rules: 1- I dont mention TRP. 2-I dont hold back on redpill truths. But i put them in my own words and i generally just accurately describe what i see in the world and call bullshit sometimes. Dont know whether it makes me popular or not. but my girlfriend is still with me so i guess that's alright. 3-if you try to convert people to trp... you're gonna have a bad time. If you try to make them use our jargon. bad time. But if you describe soemthing they can see and you use natural nor…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:10 PM
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read no more mr nice guy, and children of the self absorbed we get all confused about what we want because of shame, etc. and we try to please someone else. then you recognize this is a losing game, and then you try to make yourself happy. but you've been out of touch with this aspect of yourself so long it's confusing. you cant logically deduce what's good to go for. and it's confusing because you're used to having someone tell you what's good and what's worth going for. and you're used to stam…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:02 PM
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I think the buddhists say that IF you want to go this route, you can visualize how human bodies decompose. Like, you think of a sexy girl and just imagine what she'll look like after death, as her body starts to decay. bag of puss and blood and bile. The more disgusting, the better, i believe. It's not a meditation i use, but you might look into it! Have a blast!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:30 AM
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love and compassion toward yourself-- I was confused and did dumb shit that was counter productive and that fucking hurt. Now i'm a little less confused. that's good
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:22 AM
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Or, more like a young Buddhist, we can see the world (women) for what it can be, and we can seek out those rare instances of beauty and perfection in the world. This has nothing to do with buddhism. The whole point of buddhism is to see clearly and not engage in or indulge in fantasy. Buddhism is explicit in saying that no matter what, you have no possible chance of getting anything that will complete you. Buddhism is very very clear in this teaching: nothing is separate from suffering, as long …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:58 AM
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There are tons of arguments and rationalizations. But there's only one reason people hate-- People hate because they feel their power is threatened in some way. They feel that there's some threat to their ability to protect themselves or to get what they want. Thats the only reason people fight. So you should ask--how does TRP threaten this person's power? If your power is based on misleading people, then you will hate anything that brings clarity and facts. If your power is based on being a lim…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:39 PM
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r/leangains starting strength crossfit are options you might consider
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:33 PM
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Here's a way to think about it: You are a man. This is already a fact. There's no question about it. You, have all the biology and instincts and whatever else of being a man. You gotta get real solid on that point. You are a man. It's nothing spectacular. It's just what you already are, and it's actually prettygreat. THEN: for all kinds of reasons, society has trained us to repress our natural masculinity. A whole structure ofshame, confusing, messages, absence of positive role models, etc. Your…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:44 PM
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huh? Nothing's wrong with going your own way. Just make sure it really is your own way, man.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:16 PM
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Dude, nobody's judging you if you want to MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:04 PM
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I agree with your point--this is more nuanced than just "he's BP!" or "he's RP!" There's something in here that's true, and something in here that's fucking manipulative. And I'm not sure exactly what, just yet. I would say i dont totally buy that he "he does what's important to him." Because it seems like he needs some validation. There's something bullshit about it. But it's not all bullshit either. I"m a little stumped, actually!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:31 PM
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check out Kiva. you might dig it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:27 PM
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obviously this movie was an attempt to pull at our heart-strings I think that's part of the point, maybe. There's something in here that's valid, something that tugs at what's inside us. AND there's some manipulation. At TRP we tend to focus on the manipulation and try to debunk the bullshit aspect. but what would happen if we asked what was VALID in that video. Seems there's something in our natural masculine instincts where we ... we fucking CARE. We want to invest in other people, and we want…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:16 PM
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I'm an average everything regular dude. so my perspective isn't what you asked for but i'll offer it anyway. The most important part is to get your identity under control. The most important part there is, simply to ACCEPT: I'm a man. This is a simple statement of fact. It is totally uncontroversial. And there's nothing that can change that and you dont need anyone's approval or permission or validation. It's a simple fact. We're just men. Then, being men, we already naturally have all this ener…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:56 PM
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So regardless of your height never stop asking yourself if you're doing the things you should be doing This is the point. Guys that look like supermodels, or were born rich, or were captain of the football team--those guys have advantages too. OF COURSE THEY HAVE ADVANTAGES. Who fucking cares. the whole point is: we got enough to work with, we just need to use it well, and we can live a good life. You cant be happy and live well thiking like a self-loathing BP guy. But you got a chance if you ap…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:19 PM
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not extracting max value outta everything The goal is to get to a point where you don't feel needy. You take good enough care of yourself that you got more than enough, and you can enjoy that. That's the whole point. then-you dont have to exploit every situation, you already have more than enough, and it's not worth it to spoil your sense of enjoyment or well-being. It's a way better way to live. Dont take my word for it. Think of the old men you know that think how i just described. Compare the…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:08 PM
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dude, bottom line i'm guessing you're not used to people respecting your boundaries. Rather, you often feel like people are intruding on your boundaries or kind of disrespecting you or taking advantage of you. Here's the deal: people are doing this shit. BUT: Part of it's in you, too, and if you see this all the time, it's gonna sabotage your work and personal relationships--everything becomes a power struggle (a power struggle that you're losing). I'm not pointing a finger at you, or saying you…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:52 PM
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what the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:43 PM
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I will explain the flaw in the author's logic I missed your explanation. please ELI5. How is your last paragraph incompatible with what he wrote?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:57 PM
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It's an instinctive feeling that if they help a wounded man, he will stick with them. Also, it gives them a sense of importance and significance? Also, it's instinctive, women have caretaking instincts. SO.... If you're with a girl you like having around, one way to keep her interested is to have some ongoing little issue that you "need" her for, and let her know how much it means that she is helping you. Dont make this soemthing major, just a little something that can trigger caretaker instinct…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:53 PM
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I was agreeing with your comments and your link. Guess i wasn't clear: I was disagreeing with some of the other commenters giving advice along the lines of: "Dump her again. And again. Make it hurt. Tell her she's unfeminine, uncivilized, and unsuitable" My point was that i'm agreeing with what you wrote, as well as the writer you referenced about compassion and how to dump a borderline. And I'm disagreeing with some of the more brutal fucking mean, "make it hurt" advice showing up in the thread…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:15 AM
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I agree. with what you're saying. Yeah, she's abusive and he's gotta respect himself. but there's also room for compassion for her. She's obviously in a lot of pain. Doesn't mean to let her shit on you. Compassion doesn't mean giving other people the power to harm you. But protecting yourself doens't have to mean damaging them either. There's a ton of options that avoid those extremes.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:28 PM
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Some thoughts. -Text her. three words: "not into sassy." Do not reply to anything she sends until the next day. -When you inevitably hook up with her, pull out and demand she apologize for sassing you. Doesn't matter what the truth is at all, at this point: if you got her turned on enough, she'll give in and apologize just to get you back inside her. Then a little later, smack her ass and call her a "sassy bitch." You two can have so much for with this.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:49 PM
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that sounds kind of fun, actually!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:44 PM
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Here let me suggest a few fixes: I have a friend that's a girl that hates me and loves gets really turned on by me for calling her out on her bitchiness. When she calls me an asshole I just say, "But I thought you like sassiness?"say nothing. Or sometimes I go "you say the cutest things when you're horny."
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:42 PM
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i agree wth a lot of what you're saying. but i also think some of this can be a shit test, and that when you take a shit on a stupid shit test, it's a massive turn on. I think some girls know the stuff they're saying is stupid sometimes ,and they really want a man to just say bullshit, get over here and we're doing it my way. A lot of girls really fucking like that. They like feeling that masculine strength and the only way to get a dose is to say somehting stupid to get it knocked down. Anyway,…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:38 PM
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Dude, here's a good time to use a condescending tone and approach. Sassy is a word for little kids, so you should call it out that way. Just tell her: "When you say "sassy" I hear "bitchy." I don't want to waste my time putting up with a bitch." And just see what she says. She'll try to justify or argue or whatever. Just hold your ground and say: "Look, i'm really not open to discussion on this. say what you want. maybe this just my little hangup or whatever. but that's how it is. I'm just not g…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:32 PM
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You're not wrong. but you're missing the reasons he's viscerally angry
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:46 PM
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Looking back, are there any warning signs you see now that you didn't before? Any indications whatsoever that click now that you know the full story? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:44 PM
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Yeah, it's a shame. we deny ourselves our own natural masculinity, to keep someone happy. she eventually loses attraction becuase she's straight and likes men and we're not acting like men. fucking sucks And it's amazing how poor frustrated schmucks keep perpetuating it. most of my aquintances think i'm a dick. But their girlfriends seem bitchy to me. And my girl is pretty fucking happy, and she thinks they're a bunch of pussies. Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 01:03 AM
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come back and give us a progress report! RE: men's body perceptions -- We value our bodies by what we can DO with them, how we can MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. So it's gratifying to arouse a woman. And, I think that's why impotence is something feels so painful and shameful to men. So, going out on a limb here: My guess is, when he compliments you, what it means is you feel attention and affection. When you compliment him, that means to him: his body has the power to create a response in you. Just a thou…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 12:57 AM
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Try these: 1-When you are having sex, tell him how good his muscles look and how it turns you on. 2-In the middle of dinner, stare at his muscles, tell him you want to stop what you're doing right now and bone because of how his [insert muscle name here]. eg. "sorry, i cant hear you over the sound of your triceps. Let's go in the other room." 3-Compliment him on his muscles in very very erotic ways at very very inappropriate times. eg, in church! standing in line at the movies! when he's on the …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:34 PM
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You can think of it as putting on a front. Or you can think of it as bringing out different aspects of yourself at different times. We are all tough, and soft, for example. Being tough isn't fake, it's just bringing out a part of yourself to respond to the situation. And that aspect of yourself is so effortlessly arousing for women. I don't know man. I found TRP and it was like loosening my belt. FINALLY there's this whole explanation for why i can let go of the bullshit brainwashing i got from …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:44 PM
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You're not gonna get laid being vulnerable in a bar. And if you want a relationship, you're not gonna be happy with a gold digger anyway. I'm talking about an relationship where you are already perceived as masculine and strong, you dont have to constantly bullshit. I dont understand why guys keep talking about an act or a "persona," like its something fake. We're men already, and that's what women want, we just gotta not emasculate ourselves. Just be masculine, like you naturally want to. Somet…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:51 PM
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TRUE. dont cry in bars. it will not get u laid
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:39 PM
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Legs... The problem is: It's not arms. or chest. or shoulders. or abs. or even back.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:08 PM
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dude this shit's hilarious. Come on: "i fly free, affirmed and strong. Majestic." That would be a sweet e-mail signature It's satire, loosen up! guarantee you TLW is gonna divorce rape him
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:34 AM
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It's all me. Just, sometimes it's a conscious decision to bring out one side to respond to a situation, or to balance out if i've been doing too much of the other stuff. But usually by then, I"m sick of being nice and want to do some tough guy shit. or i'm ready to be nice for a while.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:58 AM
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You might like this: One time, i welled up a little reading an inscription my GF's mom wrote to her in a book. The inscription was very very touching. I kind of gave it a little time, then said something stupid about how it sucks having biceps that are so huge i cant even bend my arm enough to wipe my eye when i'm allergic to stuff. My arms arent that big, and it's obvious i wasn't alergic to anything. It was dumb caveman OBVIOUS bullshit. Which was PERFECT. It felt big and strong and guy-ish, a…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:33 PM
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So..... less female drivers on the regular roads? The original proposal must have been a joke by people who don't like female drivers. Here is how the conversation MUST HAVE gone: Guy 1: Hmmmm..... how to get less ladies on the road? Guy 2: I know, let's give them their own roads so they don't use the regular ones! Guy 1: No no, don't be foolish, they'd never go for that, it's discrimination! Guy 2: Well.... But what if... !! Guy 1: Out with it, man. What if... WHAT? Guy 2: What if ... we painte…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:24 PM
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Yeah, and I'd add: They temporarily lose some attraction and idealize you a little less. But if you're not pathetic about it, then it's not permanent and you dont have to get stuck there. You just go do something masculine and you're back on track. Shove her against the wall and bite her neck. Flirt with a waitress. I do goofy shit like tell her how big my muscles are and how strong i am -- it's playful and it works just fine. And we're back in business. Vulnerability isn't the end of the relati…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:03 PM
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Just sit in a chair and look at your life and recognize that you're perfectly fine right now, there's no reason you're not enough. The whole idea you're not enough came from people trying to manipulate you. So just look, and let go of the bullshit idea that you even need a unicorn. It's just bullshit. just look. You're totally complete without it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:58 PM
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This is the point. It's just economics and power. Nobody likes having more competition. Nobody likes thinking that maybe their version is not most desireable.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:42 PM
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This question is probably a distraction from what TRP has to offer you. I suggest the book "how i found freedom in an unfree world" by Harry Browne. The whole point of TRP is that the world DOESN'T and probably CANT work how we want, and that we've been sold ideas that are pretty exploitative. The remedy is to look at what you actually see and experience in the world. Then base your conclusions on evidence, rather than your emotions, wishes, ideas, or fears. Then make choices about how best to b…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:10 AM
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You're absolutely right, there's no way to live life well unless you're a 6 ft tall and a male super model. Also: banging the hottest women is the only thing that makes a man complete.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:19 PM
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Bitch, that's called one-itis, you obviously dont know shit about redpill or pua. Nobody says you can bone ALL woman. And nobody said you can guarantee success with any INDIVIDUAL woman. The whole point is that you can meet enough women and enjoy being with them. AND that boning chicks isn't gonna give you fulfillment anyway. Understanding those two points makes you less needy, and therefore more attractive. Which ends up getting you laid. You're not pathetic, you're not needy, you're not incomp…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:14 PM
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A lot of guys convince themselves they are somehow just inherently not worthy or essentially different from other guys and dont have what it takes to live well for themselves. It's lazy. It's stupid. It's fucking cruel. Focus on reality and on doing good for yourself. And focus on where you can improve. and do that. It's enough. This shit isn't about becoming a fantasy or a superman. (Yes, yes, i know, some guys on this sub are in a dream world. Okay so what? That's how it is everywhere, you don…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:03 PM
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Good job, dude. Keep pressing forward!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:17 PM
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Looks matter; they're not the only thing that matters. Anyone that says different is selling something, or not getting laid. Period.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:04 PM
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current gf is not from us. She's more RP than me sometimes. Openly keeps me in check by making fun of weak dudes, makes fun of women playing victim. She issues very very weak shit tests that are like DESIGNED to be passed. just the obligatory occasional bullshit to make sure i'm not getting too soft. It's almost as if she LIKES and VALUES me as a man and WANTS to be happy together. Fucking crazy, right? Sweet.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:59 AM
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All of man’s work is a bloody business. That fact, today, is considered foolish, affairs are finished cleverly with words alone This is the real issue for TRPers. The real issue is that our brutal masculine nature IS in some ways mismatched to what produces success in the modern world. YET at the same time, this is our instinctive masculine nature. So what do we do with this masculinity, how do we relate to it? I think the whole point is to understand how to relate to and enjoy our own masculini…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 09:36 PM
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welcome, now, put your hat back on and get to work improving yourself!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:05 PM
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No, it's purely manipulative. She uses approving language for shit she wants guys to do, she makes it sound like it's more moral, more intelligent. But actually, there is no regard whatsoever for what's true or good. It's a cheap debate tactic: You give some of your power to me, I call you good and give you approval. This is the essence of how men have been manipulated for centuries.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:58 PM
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Followed the link. Fucking sad. I'd go a little further, that is not just a woman acting like a man and a man acting like a woman--this is a woman acting like a really shitty abusive man, and it's a man acting like a really pathetic dependent woman. and what makes it all even worse is that the man is physically stronger than the woman (usually), so him accepting this kind of abuse and her giving it out looks especially bizarre.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:45 PM
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Great points. You know, the only way I see sexual attraction working is when it's between masculine and feminine. That's just my experience so far. And what I observe is: a. I'm just not attracted to unfeminine women. regardless of what my mind says. I'm not physically turned on. b. Are more turned on by me when i am acting and feeling more masculine. they are less turned on by me when i am less so. c. When i'm not feeling and acting particularly masculine: eg. when i'm doing laundry, i'm playin…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:13 PM
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Great points. Here's a theory on the first example you gave: Many women instinctively fear that they are not worth it. They fear that their man will realize its not in his rational self-interest to stick with her, and they're afraid he will drop them for a better deal that provides more of the value he wants. So they demand shows of affection that include sacrifice, bonus if the sacrifice is for something really trivial ($1000 on flowers would be a winner). The instinct is to make sure your guy …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:09 PM
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stockholm syndrome! Seriously--I like strong women. but it's not attractive and "strong and feisty" is not what i want in a partner. I dont trust any guy that says different. Guys who say shit like that are out of touch with their own cock.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:54 AM
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Cook away! Who said men cant cook? The author was perpetrating this silly nonsense that it's really sexy when men help with housework. Dummies say it all the time but it's not true. Honestly, has your girl ever gotten TURNED ON because you were cleaning the sink? Peeling a potato? Not saying don't do it. I'm saying don't do it to be "sexy."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:09 AM
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This writer lives in imagination land. She is a fantasy writer who obviously doesn't understand either men or women. These men like their women strong and feisty, and have willingly accepted the responsibility to connect in a more vulnerable way. They get it that it's sexy to help make a meal or take the kids away on a Sunday morning so their wives can sleep in. They are the androgynous guys that their women have asked them to become. Which men? Show me one guy who likes his woman being a pain i…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:32 PM
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not relevant. if you want to get laid more--then as far as it matters for you looks matter but they're not the only thing. The only guys who disagree with that either a) dont get laid, or b) they're drowning in pussy and dont know WHY they get laid, or c) they're selling something. Be happy for your super good looking friend. But his story has nothing to do with YOU getting laid a lot.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:35 AM
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Theres a difference between saying "looks matter" and saying "looks are the only thing that matters." Obviously looks matter. Obviously looks aren't the only thing that matters. Anyone denying those two truths is delusional.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:10 PM
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Looks are pretty much everything Not true. You should read the sidebar. Looks matter. Not the only thing that matters. It's fucking stupid to say looks are pretty much the only thing that matters. AND its' fucking stupid to say looks dont matter at all. People who say otherwise are totally out of touch with reality.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:09 PM
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Funny though: seems like the buddhist crowd really isn't comfortable with RP and like the RP crowd isn't too into the buddhist stuff. They seem so obviously compatible and mutually reinforcing. In my own life i think i'm happier as a man due to buddhism, and way way sharper as a meditator due to TRP. There must be others who think like this. But both buddhism and RP thinking resist advocating your views if folks arent already receptive, so usually just keep this stuff to myself. Might be an inte…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:58 PM
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The buddha is red pill as hell. Read about his life and he does and says some serious red pill hero stuff. Meditation is a next step in red pill development. Heads up: Some of the forms of buddhism most prevalent in the west are influenced by the preferences of women, hippies, men who seem "beta," social discontents, folks who want christianity without the Jesus, etc. They were some of the early adopters, and they often frame buddhism in terms of what's comfortable and appealing to them. Who car…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:59 PM
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You might check out: book of pook sex god method no more mr nice guy way of the superior man Models how i found freedom in an unfree world They all have something to offer Also, search the archives for this sub, this question has been asked before and you might find good stuff in previous threads. Best of luck to you
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:20 PM
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are you fucking kidding me shave your head or take the drug whatever but if you worry baldness stops you from getting laid then you no redpill you know what go shave your head tonight and see if the earth stops spinning your question is so redic i cant punctuate
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:03 PM
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We are basically in agreement. All I'd add is--that list seems pretty intuitive. So why is it we had to learn it and have a sub about it? I think it's because we're surrounded by nonsense telling us all these multiple things we need to be, have, achieve, etc. And if you look where those messages come from, you always find some agenda--someone getting money or power at the expense of suckers. Suckers who believe what someone tells them over what they can see for themselves. Whats powerful is just…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:25 PM
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Men are simple. Women are simple. Some people BELIEVE they "need a lot of things to function." This is sold to us by people who profit by others feeing incomplete. We are all still simple.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:00 PM
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usually i agree. BUT in this case, the article is good. perhaps we SHOULD give them hits for this.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:54 PM
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But just consider the possibility it's not so complicated. Who benefits from making it seem complicated? Of course comedians, salesmen, people trying to accumulate political power over others, etc... these folks all need things to seem complicated and complex and chaotic. It's really hard selling to people who feel content and aren't impressed with made-up complications. BTW... i think the book of Pook said what women want is pretty simple. Women want: men. The rest of it is just noise.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:53 PM
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Yeah, but what would you be without that stuff? That stuff is cool. Enjoy it, but you don't need it. If you think that stuff gives you value you're missing the point. You're missing yourself. You're not some character in someone's story. you're a living being. You're already simple and complete before and beneath all that nice stuff. BP thinking says you're incomplete and you need to buy the silly shit they're selling, like female approval. If you see that's bullshit, then just go all the way an…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:43 PM
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We are gloriously complex and fascinating creatures uh...srsly? Dude, do you really think this about yourself? Why on earth would you even WANT or feel the NEED to be "gloriously complex and fascinating"? Gimme a fucking break. What we are is inherently pretty great, just being here. If you see that, you dont need to be complex or fascinating or glorious or any other silly horseshit. People who think they're lame and not enough...those folks say silly bullshit about how "INTERESTING" they are to…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:53 PM
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Men are simple! Women are simple too! The only people making things complicated are people with an agenda.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:46 PM
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pure envy Look: she hates him because he is: "being treated as somehow worthy of the attention and money" "as if this is a good ... cause... to contribute to" "as if he ... deserves love and attention" The point is, HE'S getting what SHE wants. Like she wouldn't love to be worthy of other people's attention and money. She hates him for getting what she wants. Then she rationalizes her hate: it's all about his privelige. Actually, she's disgusted with herself. She hates herself and cant deal with…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:41 PM
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Seriously, it is shitty for HER, too. The system is so screwed up that her BF decides that marriage is just too dangerous. We know the system screws guys. Her post shows one way this system screws women who really WANT to build have a long term, committed relationship with a decent guy? Exploiters ruin the system for everyone, including women like the OP. Which means what? I guess more distrust and dissatisfaction. shitty all around
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:05 PM
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you're right, they dont exist. We are all animals and need to stay aware of that, even when shit's good for a while.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:55 PM
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Maybe: Let's not say she's a unicorn. But let's say that there are a set of conditions in place that lead to her feeling and acting this way. We should try to understand those conditions and try to repeat and sustain them. In other words--it isn't WHO she is. It's how she feels and acts, and those things are influenced by her situation. Let's understand her situation. On a personal note--I notice my girlfriend has this same kind of enthusiasm when: a) we are having sex a lot b) i have recently p…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:53 PM
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Holy shit, watch the video with her. She just exudes feminine energy and excitement and happiness. And she's such a woman about it. Honestly, watch her talk--isn't this how we want women to feel about themselves and us? Isn't this how women SAY they want to feel. I mean, look at this woman, isn't that the feeling women are going for when they eat pray love? Isn't this what women want when they say they're not "happy." Apparently we just cracked the code and figured out part of what it takes to b…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:58 PM
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You can think of masculinity as an ideal that you try to achieve. Or you can think of masculinity part of your nature that you just... express and enjoy. The second approach is better I think. You're already a man, just allow yourself to be masculine. It's the most natural thing in the world if you don't try to repress it. Yeah, we work and strain. We do that because we're men, and we like achieving stuff. It isn't that we are trying to achieve masculinity. Back to the original point--healthy or…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:44 PM
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you guys are using different definitions of ego
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:11 PM
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Dick-waving is not masculinity It can be a part of how men interact. Just because you dont like it doesn't mean it isn't masculine.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:10 PM
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Eastern philosophy has been working with this for thousands of years, because they don't believe in any solid absolute truth. If you practice one of those traditions you end up having to deal with the question of how to live your life without an absolute truth. The point is that they end up saying that even though there is no ABSOLUTE right and wrong, there is RELATIVE right and wrong. Many would argue this is intuitive and that you already know this is (relatively) true. Just... you're right to…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:17 AM
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You're right, there is no way to prove absolute right and wrong. But, for practical purposes, there is right and wrong relative to your aims. Everybody wants to be satisfied and not suffer (whatever the hell any of that means). So if you do stuff that makes you miserable, that stuff is "wrong," as a practical matter. The whole point is to get better and better at benefiting ourselves. So, we should ditch any bullshit version of morality that lets others exploit us. At the same time, we're gonna …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:09 AM
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That's not what he said. He also said there's cause and effect and living with the consequences of what you create. Why does it have to be one extreme or the other?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:38 AM
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I think you said it well--i'm interested in whether he felt she was masking crazy vs. everything felt alright.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:29 PM
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I'd like to hear more. Appreciate your very detailed posts, am learning a lot. It sounds like you really didn't marry a crazy. Sounds like you made a pretty reasonable bet at the time. Would you mind telling us a little about what it was like when you were dating and got married? Were there warning signs, hunches you felt? Or was it just... one day she's cool the next day she's bored and cheating? Thanks for you contributions.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:30 PM
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I wonder if others share this observation? What if we were to replace "sane" with "relatively happy" or "content"?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:54 AM
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Why not just accept your lot and do good from here? And be happy for the guys dealt a different hand. I don't understand this: how come if someone has what you want, the move is to say you're superior to them somehow. How about just... "Good for him." Fuck envy. It makes you feel small. Go to a third world country. Our little struggles don't make us men.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:03 AM
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What about accepting that maybe you were powerless in that situation, but you're not now. What's wrong about what you wrote is-- you describe a situation where you were fucked -- abused even. And you don't want to feel powerless so you say you want that pain and choose it. You are saying to embrace abuse and abuse yourself. An alternative is to say "that was painful and I didn't know any better, or I didn't have power to change it. But I have power now and I can do something with this." That's a…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:59 AM
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Maybe you should also check out Buddhism. Maybe Buddhism and TRP are compatible. Managing your expectations, thinking in a disciplined way, outcome independence, understanding frame, self improvement, facing facts, working with emotions (rather than blindly submitting to them). <-- That stuff is pure TRP, and it's pretty solid buddhism. The difference is: TRP is about living this live well as a man, there really isn't a promise of ultimate happiness there. Buddhism says, yes, there IS a way to u…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:54 PM
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The point is, TRP cant promise transcendent happiness or ultimate satisfaction. TRP's not even about that stuff. TRP is about understanding our nature as humans and men, and the dynamics of social interactions. And it's about living a life based on reality. BUT: But there's no reason to expect ultimate contentment or satisfaction based on getting good at masculinity, or humanness, or social dynamics. TRP's claim is: if you ignore social realities, or if you are living at odds with yourself as a …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:31 PM
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where you are told to go Yeah. I guess what's kind of strange is articles like this... this isn't some kind of powertalk or sinister manipulation, not REALLY. It's just... just bullshit. It's just bullshit she made up and has nothing to do with happiness or wisdom or reality or whatever, she's not even TRYING for what's good. Too bad that people dont have enough positive influences, and take crap like this to have some kind of validity or value.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:25 PM
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The only thing important in this article is: This is not the voice of a person who knows or cares about my happiness or my wellbeing, nor does she have any credibility or insight into how to be wise or happy. Nothing she wrote has anything to do with wisdom or even TRYING to cause happiness. Why the fuck would I listen to this shit, even for a second? Why would I give this shit any power, any validity, at all? This shows where BP thinking is truly sick and insane. BP thinking actually validates …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:06 PM
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Those same achievements, both short (sex) and long term (fame, wealth) will still make us happy, because our "happiness systems", both short and long term, were formed by evolution. I think the article is saying those things just DONT give people the satisfaction they hoped for. It almost sounds like you're saying: whatever our impulses drive us to--that just IS happiness, by definition, regardless of how it feels. Havent you experienced this... you go for something and the satisfaction payoff n…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:50 PM
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You cant really believe that the same impulses/urges/instincts that helped our ancestors survive are now optimized for your life-satisfaction and sense of well-being. Humans are miserable all over. and they're miserable, in part, because they follow these same drives that would have been really really useful under certain conditions. I'm missing your point, or how it is different from what I or the NYT article said. What am i missing about the NYT article that you are reacting to?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:10 PM
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If i feel the impulse to eat a tub of ice cream every night. It will give me pleasure again and again. But this is not going to create happiness over time. In a practical sense, we all think that gratification of immediate urges is different from long-term happiness (or contentment, or satisfaction, or whatever word is best). I'm not sure exactly what you're trying to say. Also, your original post contradicts itself: the whole point is that the aging superstar is "stuck" with a need to pursue mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:46 AM
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You are conflating happiness and pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:44 AM
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Yeah. Important point. Our instinctive impulses are not necessarily gonna make us happy. Getting really good at living according to our primal nature... why on earth should this make us happy? All it did was make sure my ancestors survived. They might have been miserable for all i know. That said, here are a couple things guaranteed to make us unhappy: living at odds with your instincts and masculinity. OR- ignoring/denying your instincts and masculinity. Blue pill thinking denies our masculine …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:40 AM
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What you wrote is not true. It is bullshit. And you know that you are humoring a bunch of silly depressing lies. Why are you feeding your enemies. This shit is not true. You know that.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:24 PM
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Read book of pook. It is thought-provoking. Come back and tell us what you think is the answer.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:19 PM
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you are asking the wrong question. Go out and build experience and this question will answer itself for you. Seriously. I know I sound like a dick. but stop over-thinking this and take action. You will experience some failure and it will not matter and you will eventually experience more success. Dont waste another second over analyzing this shit. Go out and say some stupid shit to women and get shot down, watch what other guys do, then say some other shit and experiment till you find a groove. …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:18 PM
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The whole concept of AWALT and AMALT is that each sex has the capacity for this shitty behavior under the right conditions. The point is to understand that, and then manage those conditions. If all women have the capacity to feel, think, and act in some way, then my girlfriend has that capacity as well. If she COULD be like that, then it's up to me to manage how i relate to her, to manage the circumstances we put ourselves into together. That way, I can influence how likely it is she'll do one t…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:04 PM
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I think a lot of it is just going from one extreme to the other. It's black and white thinking. Women are supposed to be angels and men are devils. thats what we've been told. Turns out that's not true. Must mean women are devils and men are heros. What other options are there? It's an overcorrection. Reality is: women and men are products of evolution and society and chance. There are opportunities to live well if you give up your fantasies. But letting go of fantasy is painful, and it feels li…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:58 PM
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dont use tobacco. work out. eat veggies.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:23 PM
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well, yeah, you're right. i'm sure she wasn't expecting him to react that way. but once he did she lit right up!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:18 PM
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stockholm syndrome that's my theory (here is some decoration for the TRPbot) * * *
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:11 PM
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Thats what it looks like to me too. But the contrast between her words and her body language is huge. [Hey TRP BOT dont delete me!]
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:42 AM
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Did you watch the whole thing with the sound off?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:34 AM
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did you watch the whole thing with the sound off? I'm kidding. But look in her eyes, she looks to me like she's enjoying the arousal more than the victory. If they were in a bar, his next words could be: let's get out of here.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 08:20 PM
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Don’t let your husband pressure you into sex: Most likely your husband will want sex more than you expect. Don’t let your husband pressure you into things you are not comfortable with. Talk openly about sex with him. Discuss your expectations and try hard to understand his. Although sex is important, be sure that you both realize that it is only one part of your marriage, it isn’t the whole marriage. How many marriages or LTR's failed when they were having too much sex? I cant think of one. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:52 PM
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Don’t be afraid to frustrate your husband: This is a good thing. Keep him on his toes. Questioning his motivations and his sincerity will ultimately make him more aware of his actions. Ick. Who would enjoy being with someone who deliberately frustrated them and questioned their motivations and sincerity. This is a gross fucking piece of relationship advice. It makes me want to projectile vomit across this fucking room. This dude gets constantly nitpicked. He cant fix it so he reframes it as a go…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:31 PM
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Here's the cut and paste: 10 Things I Want My Daughters To Know About Marriage By Clint Edwards July 8 Edwards and his two daughters. (Clint Edwards) I have two daughters. Norah is 4 and Aspen is just 3 months. Their lives look very different than mine did as a child. My father left when I was a 9 years old. I was raised half by my single mother, and half by my widowed grandmother. When I got married, I didn’t know much about what it meant to be in a good marriage and I had to learn a lot of thi…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:28 PM
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This is a PUA video. Watch it with the sound off. (SERIOUSLY: GO WATCH THE WHOLE THING WITH THE SOUND OFF) What does this look like? She is getting really, really excited reacting to him. It looks like PERFECT FLIRTING, actually. Ignore the content of the words. This woman gets downright GIDDY! She literally stops making sense at some point. When do you see this? My observation is: women act like this when really turned on. Listen to the words and you miss the point. Pretend the words are even S…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:23 PM
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Because of Patriarchy. (ignore this, it's just here to trick the dork-bot)
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:02 AM
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So are women who lived in places/times where they saw true powerlessness, violence, struggle and oppression. Women who have seen that are less ashamed of being feminine, and of wanting masculine men.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 10:17 PM
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dude, just take it with a grain of salt, test some of it, keep what's useful, and move on. why get hung up on this?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:11 AM
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The buddha was redpill as hell. Whether you think it's literal or ideal, not the story is: -He did what it took to take care of himself; he invested in his happiness, above all else -Once he achieved his goal, he shared freely with others -He didn't sacrifice his wellbeing or himself at all -He didn't need anything from anyone. -He didn't fear anything. -He was happy in himself. -He was constantly on the move, active, traveling around, interacting with people. -And he was a leader of others. -He…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:06 PM
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Meditation is one way to recognize that ultimately, at some level, you are inherently alright and enough. At some level, you dont NEED anything, and you dont have to fear anything. And it isn't something you have to convince yourself of or choose to believe--you can just look and face reality and see how it is. And then a lot of the "Beta" behaviors, thoughts, feelings, etc. seem so unnecessary and absurd. Like a silly waste of energy. And this profound okayness provides a soung basis for self i…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:54 PM
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My girlfriend is pretty level-headed about this stuff, too. I notice that most of her friends are not-- these are very emotional issues for them. I'm Curious: You mentioned immigration, may i ask what country you are from?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:15 PM
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I'm curious--do you think it's fair? (Ignore this part, it's so the bot doesn't delete my comment)
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:00 AM
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[TRP] mentality is both marginal and completely culturally entrenched. Brazen power talk. She's saying TRP is two totally contradictory things, in order to serve two power goals. She calls TRP 1-"Marginal": She paints TRP as the icky, weird, scary out-group minority--in order to to shame and alienate (rather than rationally engage) anyone who considers disagreeing with her. 2-"Completely culturally entrenched": She saying TRP is everywhere and has all the power, it IS the establishment. It's run…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:11 PM
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Sometimes, I feel like my innate sex drive is now buried under so much baggage ...duhhhh.... ya think?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:34 AM
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If they had a kid, how would this guy look his son in the eye without feeling self-contempt? Maybe that's the REAL alpha test: If my dad acted like this, how would I feel? Purely at gut level. If it makes you feel proud... probably a good idea. If it makes you want to fucking throw up... dont do it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:46 PM
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I was upset at her for not telling me she was chatting with her ex, or that he was reaching out to her. I asked her to let me know if she's going to talk to him so I don't accidentally find out on my own. Ugh, second sentence is just... Fucking gross, dude. And then... it seems like she's choosing me over this guy...It's also kind of demeaning... she seems vested in this relationship, but i don't know whether to feel good... or if I should feel upset. Ick. I know what i feel. I feel like I'm gon…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:31 PM
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Too much analysis. Just: Invest in yourself. Approach women. Experiment. Repeat. • A key point of TRP is that we really cant figure out or deduce this stuff from first principles. We need to try again and again and discover what works and how things are through experience. Fear drives us to analyze and figure things out and get it right every time and avoid rejection. TRP gives you the push that men used to give one another all the time: don't be scared, just make an attempt. then move on. Repea…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:46 PM
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I've felt motivated to get girlfriends to save and invest. I think it's because if i settle down, i want her to have a feeling of real skin in the game. Even if she stays at home, i want her to have something to throw in our retirement pot. For getting women to invest, the most effective tactic is shame ("you're not one of those dumb chicks that wastes all her money on beer and shoes and shit, are you? that's so dumb when chicks are like that. SO UNATTRACTIVE..."). Another tactic is pointing out…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 12:58 AM
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Wish I'd heard it when I was 20. I think you're reading way too much bullshit into what she said.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 12:20 AM
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I'm perfectly okay with approaching, taking the first step, etc... as long as I receive the suitable signals of interest from her. It's actually way easier to just approach. I've never been good at reading signals. What works okay for me is to just assume possibility of attraction, approach, maybe get shot down (who really gives a shit). Repeat. This principle I have has never made me act like an idiot with women I perfectly knew were not interested in me. If I tried to avoid that, I would have …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:06 AM
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It might be unwise to penalize short pithy concise comments. Knowing how to be concise and sharp is a skill RP should value. Sometimes a 3 word comment is the most powerful way to make a point. Shouldn't be removed automatically.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:17 PM
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i threw up a little in my mouth reading that comic. gross
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 04:43 AM
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SIDEBAR HER!!!! Whew-- got a bit excited there. Seriously, though, her video playlist is thought provoking.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:01 AM
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be scientific and experiment for yourself
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:51 AM
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Agreed. Buddhism is grimly realistic. It's focused on self improvement. Says you have resources of time and energy and you should use them to invest in your own future and happiness. Says that there's nothing ultimately missing or wrong with you. All consistent with red pill thinking. seems complementary.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 12:23 AM
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read sidebar
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:56 PM
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yep. mysteries and challenges. it's a lot more fun once i realized this stuff
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:29 AM
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Keep a little in the mix. sometimes do a little bit extra caveman shit. Sometimes throw in a little sweet nice guy stuff. Sometimes be aloof and unattainable. But dont make it so any one of those is your only move. Otherwise it's not valued. Aloof gets a reaction because sometimes you are very engaged. Sweet gets a reaction when you just did some caveman shit. caveman shit is great when it feels too boring or too much niceness going on. Just roll with it and try different stuff out. You cant rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 10:52 PM
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Maybe: Some cavemen had a feeling of "caring" for women and babies that somehow felt like "their own." That feeling might have been the only motivation for protecting and caring for a woman and baby in that environment (what value do they have to the survival of the individual?). The guys (and the groups) that had that feeling and followed it- those guys had more and healthier kids who then made more babies. And so that feeling wins. Now a lot of guys feel inclined to take care of others. Now ou…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 01:13 AM
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worthy, but not owed
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:29 PM
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he's not really debating her! Watch with the sound off: He's flirting with her. He's having a good time and building his notoriety, which is good for business. At no point in here is he attempting to have a rational anything with her. Clever dude.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 09:37 PM
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Watch first video without sound. Her body language looks like she's getting really excited about the person she's talking to. What he said was his partner shouldn't HAVE to work if she didn't want to. That is a real turn on for some women. Sometimes when people get turned on, they just stop making sense. maybe this explains the strange stuff she says. TL;DR With the sound off: they look like they're flirting. And whatever he's saying, it looks like its working.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 09:07 PM
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For most men, getting good with women is an important part of being a man. Making this a focus for a while is not the worst idea.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:27 PM
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I think the point is: work for your happiness. Part of that might be doing stuff to benefit others. It doesn't have be sacrifice or manipulation or surrendering to an oppressive system. Defining things that way is to define myself as a victim, rather than a guy with power to act. My opinion, for what it's worth.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:08 PM
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Sound advice. "You are just an ordinary man" is the distilled essence of redpill truth. "Make the best of it" is the distilled essence of redpill advice. All this "be super-special" stuff is purple-pill fantasy. Wish I had more than one upvote for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:02 PM
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Some additional thoughts: 1-It's instinctual to care about the welfare of others. What makes someone bluepill is this instinct CAN GET hijacked and manipulated and twisted together with shame, guilt, neediness. If we are going to live as healthy men we should find healthy ways carry out our instinctive urge to help others. We can take action that is satisfying to us and beneficial to others. We could do that and be self-respecting and outcome-independent. Doesn't have to be needy-pathetic-wierd-…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 09:54 PM
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you have never downloaded music?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:20 PM
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probably not possible. but if aware of the dynamics, you just periodically get back up on that pedestal. doesn't have to be 24/7. Just has to be a regular occurrence. Her instinct is she wants to know you're strong and tough enough to handle trouble if needed. then she can relax. Do caveman shit every once in a while and it's like magic. that's all it takes
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 05:53 PM
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so defensive. missing point Just: You are a man. enjoy it. relax
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:38 PM
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Dude, just get in touch with your primal instincts, and then try a bunch of stuff with women and see what works and feels right, and what doesn't. Then you see and feel in your gut how things are, and posts like this seem kind of silly and kind of dorky. You're really emotional about your post. Your time would have been better spent interacting with women or lifting weights. You're wasting your time and will later regret it. Just enjoy being a man.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:16 PM
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you are very emotional
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:47 PM
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agree--i dont see what's so new here
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:43 PM
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He doesn't care about being a 10 in girls' minds
/r/seduction25/09/13 07:29 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction30/03/13 10:09 PM
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Huh? EDIT: WTF?
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:22 PM
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Who cares
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:19 PM
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