CrunchyMama42 Archive

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17	Has anyone had an honest conversation about men's rights with a woman? I am a woman. I find that when I talk to other women about men’s issues, they listen pretty well. I’m in education and am deeply concerned about the Boy Crisis and have brought it up with a lot of women, and other women will hear me out, though they don’t always agree with me about the underlining causes. I think it might be easier for them to hear these things from me, another woman. But maybe I’m just working with open minded people and they would actually listen well to anybody.	/r/MensRights	23/12/25 03:05 AM
-1	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood I just want to point out that abortions and “paper abortions” are not really equivalent. They’re about as equal as possible given the asymmetrical nature of procreation, but they still have some pretty deep differences. One thing to consider is the fact that pregnancy has physical effects on mothers that it doesn’t have on fathers. In the case that he chooses to leave, and she consequently chooses to get an abortion, He is left 100% free and clear whereas she might suffer any number of complicat…	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 05:25 PM
2	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. Grown women and men should be loved conditionally. Why are you loving another adult unconditionally? Save that for your kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:04 AM
3	If someone were to have won a lot of money, millions, while separated, can they get out of paying their spouse? This might depend on your state, but if you’ve won the money after an official date of separation, then it should be yours and not included in equitable distribution. If you haven’t had an official date of separation established yet, push for it. Your ex will likely argue for a later date of separation, as she has millions of reasons to want your winnings to come BEFORE the date of separation. Be prepared to make your case. You don’t have to be living separately to be considered separate, look u…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 01:57 AM
2	There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in dating If your one and only goal is to be partnered to a man with the highest value possible, then your theory is logical. If all you want is to find and keep a man—the higher value the better— and the men you like aren’t responding to your attempts to find and keep them, then you should lower your standards and try again. Totally. But most women aren’t willing to be partnered at any cost. Most (straight) women want to find and keep a man, but they also have other goals. And if the only type of man you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 02:03 AM
-1	Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men. I agree that women tend to be more empathetic. But men tend to be more brave, and that’s a path to kindness too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 06:55 PM
6	No more dates with girls that have no kids Hi OP, I’m on the other side of this, and can tell you that for me it is a HUGE green flag for a single dad to have a good working relationship with the ex. It is so toxic and exhausting to be in a perpetual battle over the children. I can kind of get why a childless woman wouldn’t be cool with it: she probably wants her life and family centered on her, and not your ex. But as somebody who has been there and done that, having to fight the ex is awful, and not worth it.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/24 05:52 PM
2	Why does the mensrights subreddit get such a negative reputation? The men’s rights movement in general has a very negative reputation. And Reddit skews left wing, which in practice doesn’t line up much with the MEM, so it’s a compounded force of disapproval.	/r/MensRights	08/05/24 02:53 AM
8	How do women expect men to take women seriously after the whole men vs bear debacle? Exactly. Use it as a litmus test and move on.	/r/MensRights	05/05/24 12:07 AM
5	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? The biggest determining factor is children. If you have no (young) children, it makes total sense for a stay at home partner to do the work of the home. Of course! Maybe not 100%, depending on all that needs to be done, but at least the vast majority. But if you have kids too young to go to school, watching and raising THEM is the stay at home parent’s job. Cleaning etc should be divided in good faith based on the available time and resources of each partner. If you have one parent who works 9-5…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 01:43 AM
–	Is height the most important physical trait women value in men when it comes to being attractive? Eh, I like broad shoulders best. Like a man who looks like he can pick me up. I think a lot of women like feeling delicate and feminine with their partner, and having a tall man can do that, but it’s not the only thing that can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 03:44 AM
24	What’s a fact you wish more women knew about men? Have you ever heard the phrase “women are human beings, men are human doings”? I think that fundamental recognition of men’s humanity is not universal.	/r/MensRights	18/01/24 11:59 PM
2	Experienced wife going batshit crazy? Yeah… my partner’s ex was the one who filed for divorce, and it looked like things would be civil. The peace didn’t last. She pulled a lot of stunts that nobody would have predicted. She filed for a restraining order, told their kids that their father had gone crazy and was unsafe, pulled them out of school to keep them from him, constantly changed her story, lied to law enforcement, accused him of things that didn’t make any sense… it was wild. There was no reasoning with her. He had to just br…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 08:32 PM
2	You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guy I have literally never dated a man with an Instagram account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 01:14 PM
2	do you agree with chat gpt on bodycount? It’s okay to break up with anybody for any reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:30 PM
2	What age do you think a man should legally be able to sever his obligations towards a kid in the case of paternity fraud? It’s my understanding that the time limit starts when the “father” DISCOVERS that he isn’t really the father, and NOT when the child is born. So if you discover that your 15 year old isn’t really yours, and you immediately petition, then you can get out of your parental responsibilities. If, however, you meet a woman who is 9 months pregnant, you KNOW that child isn’t yours, but raise him anyway, and then 9 years later you decide you don’t want to, then it’s too late for you. I think that’s how …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 10:33 PM
0	Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? The Modena whore Complex would only be the mirror image of the AFBB situation that you describe if men loved “whores” and wished they could get these kinky women to settle down, but the “whores” would refuse and so the men would settle for the “pure virgin” as a consolation prize. But that’s clearly not the MWC you described. They aren’t mirror images of each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:33 PM
0	Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public? C, almost never. I’m about a 5 - 5.5, and have an infant. In years past I was probably a 7 on my best day, and I’d say B or C for that time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 08:34 PM
3	What is the most intimate way someone can show you they care? B, female	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 11:23 PM
2	How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man? I would do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 10:51 PM