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| 1 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startI'm well aware it's life changing advice for some people! Any personal story to share? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startWell that's what I'm talking about with all the steps from A to Z. You gain dopamine squirts just from eye contact and smiles and it gives you reward to seek more. You are now organically chasing after all the little things that will get you to ultimately 'Z' which is sex. Noticing girls look at you is coming from two things. You have a much more energetic aura to you, first of all. You're going to be beaming a lot more when you aren't dopamine fried and lethargic and depressed from it. Secondly… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startAlso the other thing is to rethink what boredom is. That's your dopamine circuit screaming for you to seek, whether that's through Reddit, YouTube, 4chan, whatever. That's not you feeling bored, it's your dopamine circuit trying to get you to do what it's wired to believe are behaviors and actions necessary for your survival. It's this sense of boredom that kept Grug busy doing productive stuff in his downtime. Your measure of boredom is going to recalibrate as your dopamine circuit reboots. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startThe younger you start and the harder your addiction, the longer the withdrawal process. Gen X aren't having the same issues of quitting this stuff that Gen Z is. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIt really won't work like this, you cant trick the circuit like this. What it will do though, is associate coming home from a workout with masturbation. You won't get a stronger desire to work out like you intended. Instead, you'll get a feeling of wanting to masturbate every time you come home from a work out. And working out will feel duller because you've desensitized your dopamine circuit. You're better off with your dopamine circuit rebooting so that the endorphins you get from working out … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIf you want to go cold turkey; Gym/running, socializing, reading a book, study, your job. Give yourself option a) stare at the wall, or option b) one or those activities mentioned above. You're going to feel bored, depressed, agitated, etc. It's just your dopamine circuit trying to get you back to whatever habit you had before. It takes days to weeks for dopamine to reboot but once it does you come out feeling better than ever. It's why rehab clinics just lock people away from everything while p… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIt's hard to do and you'll revisit tackling this issue more times in your life. But I hope this is putting some concrete meaning behind what you already felt was true. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startNope. You are far better off using your own imagination or a handful of static images. It's the whole part of unlimited novelty and scrolling through options which is frying your dopamine circuit and desensitizing it to its productive applications. Youll find you get bored of using your imagination and static images to the point where masturbation doesn't feel as fun anymore. That's your dopamine circuit screaming for novelty. Things like scrolling through Facebook feed, Reddit feed, pulling the… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startSome people abstain entirely and that's its own thing called semen retention. The most damaging aspect of all this is high speed porn like Pornhub or Xvideos or anything else that has a catalogue of infinite novelty available to you. That's hijacking your seek and reward circuit because you're seeking through infinite choice and youll get max dopamine squirt from novelty. Your dopamine circuit demands novelty. Even porno magazines would drastically reduce the dopamine frying to your brain compar… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 23 | Why do chads not want to have a relationshit with me 😢🥺😭? Because Sweaty they know that they can get away with fucking you like piece of meat with 0 commitment and no consequences. There are guys who want relationships but they r too subhuman for kaweens like yourself now, aren't they?These are Chad's, top % guys who live in a world where women throw themselves at them so they're used to speaking like this and getting sex. The girl is complaining that these guys won't settle with her. They're not talking about guys like you. You're invisible to these girls. You're just another NPC in her world. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startMolecule of More is about dopamine Your Brain On Porn is about porns influence on dopamine. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startPorn magazines. 90's internet speed where you'd see a dozen pics. Pornhub and other catalogue sites are high speed. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startThank you for your input and I really wish you were here to comment hours ago before the bunch of retards arrived claiming this post is bogus. Good on you for getting over your addictions and getting your life back on order. These are stories I always like to hear. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startYour Brain On Porn might interest you as they compile studies and receive their own anecdotes from work they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startYes I have. I got over them which I haven't discussed the how-to in this at all yet. I actually ended my post mentioning how some things I cycle in and out of and it's a constant game of keeping myself in check. It's partly why I feel I can write this post, having lived an existence in and out an addicted mind. I recognize the symptoms when I see it in people. I believe it's far more common in young men today than when I was young. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startOf course. But if people understand the theory they will better understand why they need to work on getting over addictions. The complexity of addiction is why I didn't explain how to get over it in this post and instead focused on dopamine circuit itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 09:05 AM |
| 9 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startThat advice was for women you idiot. To stay slim. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startThanks your feedback means a lot. I hope people gain something from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startSpot on. It will make us or break us. On an individual level and as a society. We don't have to go monk mode but we need to be self aware. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 08:07 AM |
| 8 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startMasturbating alone does not have the same impact on your dopamine circuit as high speed porn, neither does porn magazines. Your Brain On Porn covers this and explains why high speed porn specifically is the issue. You'd know that if you actually understood what you're claiming is debunked. Your Brain On Porn is not debunked and is constantly compiling new studies backing up its assertions that porn is bad for the brain, you just don't understand what you're talking about. I didn't even get into … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 03:50 AM |
| 8 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIt's hard to tell when enough people genuinely think like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startSugar is addictive it sits in the spectrum of all things listed. They all sit within a spectrum of influencing your dopamine circuit. Hard drugs being the worst, porn coming second. I personally haven't quit sugar because I still eat junk food. When people talk about comfort eating it's often referring to sugar. It ties to a context that you have it in. For example, watching TV or playing video games. If you wanted to go monk mode, you'd quit sugar, alcohol, gambling, etc. I'm not suggesting thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIf it's not your style then pick up the books Your Brain on Porn and Molecule of More for actual science of it. My post just fits it all into a more concise narrative of ~3500 words. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startYes it certainly does depend on how it's used. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startAll you have to do is check out other subs like nofap and pornfree and see people self reporting how their lives changed. Or don't make any changes and expect things to change. Your choice | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 10 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIt's important to actually read it. I explicitly said it's unnecessary to go monk mode, but there are key things to take out of your life and I stressed the issue of porn. I also talked how it relates to women. I used extreme forms of dopamine stimulation between over and under stimulating to stress the point of how the dopamine circuit can work for you. At the end of the day, you need to pick your own poison. You'll be fine with these artificial stimulants but you'll keep living life feeling li… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startLacking the physical good looks is just experiencing life on hard mode. People still make it. Your dopamine circuit is critical to it. Step 1 and Step 2 deals with shortfalls like height and hairline. You can't fully grasp how much Step 2 helps you until you've done it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startAs Molecule of More explains it, your brain will return to functioning normally but it leaves behind its own kind of infrastructure to retake an addiction. For example, if you were an ex-smoker that has long quit, you will still take up smoking much faster than someone that has never smoked before. The infrastructure is still there, but your brain is incredibly plastic and will return back to functioning completely normal in time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 9 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startGetting over addictions is very difficult. I thought about making a post about a strategy for that in itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 22 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startYou're on the right path already. I would recommend to just be self-aware of when you're using things like Reddit for the wrong reasons, like dopamine squirts which you get from scrolling through news feeds and chasing karma. I have to quit Reddut because I'm in my 30's and I'm at the point in my life where I gain nothing from being here. Maybe try just stick to Lurking unless you have questions that need answering. The key is to be self-aware about it and getting back in control of it when you … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 11:52 PM |
| 22 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startYep. You can't chase happiness from both artificial and natural sources. If you go back to your life of being on the internet, being on your phone, using lots of porn.... then being surrounded by people and socializing just isn't going to give you any sense of happiness or fulfillment. You can't have both, the artificial sources will desensitize you to real world rewards. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 6 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startI did think about it but it's hard to explain thoroughly in less than a thousand words. I'd need a whole new post. I'll see how people react to this first. Grug is important to this because this was the conditions our dopamine circuit evolved in. It's important for understand why the modern world can be toxic to us. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startIt just starts with this post. Try it for 3-6 months before you think it's not going to work. Dopamine circuit can take awhile to reboot depending on how young and how hard you started with these sources, such as porn. Rebooting the dopamine circuit doesn't set it towards sex and money in itself, but it will set it towards all the little things that eventuate to sex and money. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 10:48 PM |
| 20 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startNo they don't have to be replaced with high-dopamine activities. This very incorrect. You will go through withdrawl for a couple weeks while your dopamine circuit screams for what it wants, but it reboots and reattaches itself to new activities. You feel absolutely fine after the reboot, but the world will seem that much more colorful because you're no longer dopamine desensitized. During the withdrawal stage you're going to feel very depressed and agitated. That's normal before the reboot. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 63 | Chapter 4: If your objective more sex and money, this is where you need to startThis was my last planned post, anything more I post will be because someone is requesting it or if I've left gaps somewhere. If there is anything else people want me to discuss before I eventually quit, let me know. I might make a Chapter 4 Part 2, but will wait and see. If anyone has experience with cutting out stimulants and how it has impacted their lives, I ask you please share it in the comment section. There's always huge resistance to this discussion, particularly with porn. There's a lot… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)I haven't reformulated anything. Ambition and status jobs are more attractive to women than money in itself. Thats even included girls getting off the CC looking for their BB. Rollo Tomassi talks about this too. He actually talks about it in a number of his YouTube Epidodes. I completely agree with him here because it's what I've seen with my own experience. Money in itself is not as attractive as people assume. Only the most money grubby gold diggers go for money in itself. These are the types … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 09:05 AM |
| -1 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)Rollo Tomassi also says this about money and it's been true from my experience, as I'm someone that's known a bunch of rich kids that were goobers and struggled with girls. Money isn't as important as ambition and status. Rollo says it too. Go deal with it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 05:34 AM |
| -2 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)Money just doesn't generate attraction like a guy who is ambitious or confident. A guy with a lot of money but otherwise some ugly and timid incel is still going to struggle with women. People are way overstating the importance of money here. money is a new concept and wasn't what female attraction evolved around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 05:25 AM |
| -3 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)Yes and that still doesn't make a difference. Status job and ambition still matter more. Money in itself is not that attractive to most women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 03:36 AM |
| -7 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)Money is actually less enticing than most guys assume. Job status and ambition are more attractive for women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 10 | The Future Of Many... (reposted on the correct day. Thanks, Mods)The generation of women getting into their 30's are largely aware of the cat owning spinster stereotype and avoid it. They mostly go for dogs in the place of kids these days. It's a real common trope for girls to act like their dogs are their kids. For Father's Day I saw one girl added photos of her dad holding her dogs, as if they were his grandkids. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?You're really just creating a fictional argument in your head. You're living in your own fantasy. I'm not angry about using social media, I'm fully aware Reddit is social media. So is everyone else in TRP. you're trying to bring it up like it's some kind of hypocrisy or something people aren't aware of. That's why I initiated this conversation because I was trying to understand what you were on about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?None of this matters at all and you're trying to throw in pointless semantics because you've got no argument. TRP is primarily online. It's always been on forums. It's men around the world sharing experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?It's used as an online forum. The fact it's on a social media doesn't change much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Why do we villify wome for only being pyshically attracted to the top portion of men?Thanks for your non-contribution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?How is it taking social media seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?On what aspect do you think TRP takes tv and social media seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 13 | Why do we villify wome for only being pyshically attracted to the top portion of men?Women are not being vilified for it. TRP is about explaining that women have that side to their sexuality which is very different from what most men get to experience. BP men get in denial or outright angry when TRP discusses it, women get angry too. If a man gets attractive enough, women get just as thirsty as men are and they get sexually aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What does the romantic life of a betabux look like?Women don't actually care about that stuff although we have to pretend to That's what I'm saying, you don't care about that stuff but you pretend to. The misdirection leads to guys doing all the wrong things to romance women. Quickest way to make her lose attraction is to make her your world. The other stuff you listed might be applicable to some relationships, but it's also misdirection as it's not related to libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them?Hot tip but chemistry and vibing isn't a real thing. It's purely felt on a woman's end. That's when men are hitting arousal cues which have a huge psychological element for women. Men don't feel chemistry or vibing because our arousal cues are largely physical cues. Men never talk about experiences with women as having chemistry or vibing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them?That's a perfect world for women. In a perfect world for men, they arent shamed enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them?Women don't even give that though. Listening to women is a one way street to a deadbedroom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What does the romantic life of a betabux look like?I turned into this guy in my marriage and a past relationships because I thought it's what women want. It's what they say they want, after all. Including on this sub. This is what happens. She loses her libido and she starts fights over trivial shit. Women are completely clueless on how their own sexuality works or what makes them happy. Sex dries up. Never in the mood. Every night it's excuses. Start fights over trivial shit and I could never do anything right. If you want to fuck up your marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 5 | To what extent are modern female standards inflated or just revealed preferences?Yes that's how Hypergamy works. It calibrates to the environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Didn't say that. They don't want sluts, even if they're hot. You're probably a troll so I'm just going to ignore you from now on. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Yes because women largely don't care if he's hot and got his shit in order. Being a slut doesn't matter for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Yes that's just the way it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY upfacebook came out before I was married and I kind of went dormant on it early. I couldn't articulate what it was, but something felt off about using it, like it wasn't good for me. 2 girls saw my profile through a mutual friend and got my number to meet up. Then I met my wife and I was cashed out the dating scene. I'd totally have an instagram account and all that if I was single (and still in shape, which I'm not now). I get what you're saying. But you'd have to be so disciplined on how you use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:02 AM |
| 5 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY upIn a globalized society we no longer just have to compete with the ~100 people we know, but everyone else on the planet too. We don't have to, but our biology drives us to. It's why keeping off social media is healthy, keeping our network to our locality is healthy. I don't like looking because I get nothing out of it except lust and I'm a married man and can't do anything about it. Also if there's an off chance they're looking for validation I don't want to give them that either lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY upI actually try to avoid looking at some of the women at all on my gym. It's a high end gym and some of the girls are high end too. Some of them really only work on things like their ass giving them the proportions i'd only see on Instagram or in the gym. I totally expect what you're saying will go mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 09:12 AM |
| 10 | Land whale must think shes a 10 with expectations like thisMore like; my friends are going to be super jelly! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY upI think we are just polarizing more. I'm in my 30's, there's more obese people and computer addicted people than when I was younger. But I notice the nature of gym and exercise and healthy eating has changed too. You didn't really see women doing much but cardio and maybe some light weights when I was younger. Now I notice all the girls in their early 20's are working hard on their ass, thighs and abs. There's women in my gym who seem to only work exercises related to their ass, that was not a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?It's too much man. Youre only coming across as very young and inexperienced with women and with other cultures. I'm telling you this as a married man with some quiet confidence I know traditional foreign cultures better than you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 9 | Land whale must think shes a 10 with expectations like thisI will defend women on this in that they really don't know what 6 ft is. In their heads they're imagining someone closer to 5'10. It comes from guys exaggerating their own heights. You really just have to be taller than her. Women are bad at judging penis size too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 07:55 AM |
| 7 | Land whale must think shes a 10 with expectations like thisIt's the equivalent of how size DD tits are seen by men. They thirst for it | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomSeems like a dead sub | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingI was taking it to an extreme. If we take it the other way, and all women who were even semi attractive just wore lingerie and done up as sexy as possible all the time, that society would be more controlled by women than any. It's where their sexual agency would max out. The burqa is weird to me because you can't see their face and you need that for proper interaction. But that culture doesnt let unmarried man and woman interact anyway. But yeah, if you banned makeup and forced all women to dres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingIf women are covered up they lose their sexual agency. Think Burqas as the extreme end. They lose their ability to influence change in a direction they want and society becomes run by men. The quickest way to destroy feminism entirely is if women were all covered up. Men would stop listening to them entirely. You'd see a huge pull back in the amount of simping and beta behaviors and a lot of men would go back to masculine inclinations. I don't think these religions and cultures developed these r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingIt gives her confidence because women have a subconcious awareness that their sexual agency is their most effective agency. Men have intimidation, violence, reasoning. Women have those at their disposal too but sexual agency generally is more potent for her. Even girls in all-girls schools figure this out without boys around to rank them and validate them. So in trying to maximize their sexual agency they work to look their best. It makes them feel more powerful and hence more confident. In this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingYes agreed somewhat. Some women generally slut it up on a night out purposefully to be more enticing to men. But as a whole, all the investment they make in their own appearance is about the self confidence and strength it gives her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingNo, it's not about what they're saying. They're doing it because there's a power dynamic even within women based on sexual agency. If men all disappeared today, women would still be trying to look their best. Even in all-girl schools, girls are trying to look their best and look better than the other girls. The functional outcome is obviously becoming more attractive to men, but that's not what's driving them. They feel more confident when they're looking good because sub-conciously they're awar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingThey really do do it for themselves though. They inherently know their sexual agency is their most powerful. They do it because it makes them feel stronger and more confident. If all men disappeared immediately, women would still carry on trying to look their best among each other. It's a power dynamic going on even between women. As I said to someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingThey really do do it for themselves though. They inherently know their sexual agency is their most powerful. They do it because it makes them feel stronger and more confident. If all men disappeared immediately, women would still carry on trying to look their best among each other. It's a power dynamic going on even between women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothingYou're missing the main reason for why this is happening. Women do it for themselves. Women have an inherent awareness their sexual agency is their most effective agency and they feel 'stronger' and more confident when they're looking good. Even if men disappeared from the earth, women would still be trying to look their best in a world occupied only by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngYou're completely wrong on this. Porn and video games have fried young men's dopamine circuits effectively turning them into the lite version of junkies. It fucks with their motivation and turned them into miserable people, unless they're sitting at a PC. They aren't interested in committing to personal development or socializing, they're just horny and getting frustrated they aren't wanted on OLD. They just want to get to orgasm but haven't done anything to get there. They aren't motivated to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 03:51 AM |
| 14 | Where have all the good men gone and where are all the Gods? Where's the street wise Hercules to fight the rising odds? Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed? Late at night I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need I need a hero I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night..... Also I'm 37 and have 3 young kids you'll need to pay for and raise. Teehee! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations?It's going to be pushed mostly in very feminist relationships where women have married up to some double distilled beta who she was never that aroused by to begin with. I've seen cases of feral AF/BB in the real world where girls partner up with the most weakest, beta men, but they are doing the whole open relationship too where she's sometimes having sex with other men on occasion and he just sort of accepts it. These are never normal relationship dynamics, the guy is always a complete beta and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Sex with 37 guys in 6 years, still can't find a good manI think back to highschool, work and large social groups. I always thought 95/5 was more accurate. I think it's people trying to force for the 80/20 rule into this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/21 09:38 AM |
| -2 | Advice Mega-ThreadEvery time, man. Every time the women in here talk earnestly about their real world lives it's like you have to pull out the proverbial redpill map and show them how they followed the exact route from A to Z they TRP says women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:22 AM |
| -2 | Advice Mega-Thread😂👌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:21 AM |
| – | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveIt's wishful thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations?It always starts with agitation and outrage, that's how social change always starts. You might not remember back when the discussion about gay marriage legalization was going on there were people pointing out the next step is trans acceptance and people that were pro gay marriage but thought trans acceptance was ridiculous were brushing it off as nonsense. I'm not making an argument for or against gay marriage or trans acceptance, im just remembering all these discussions taking place which all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Are you even old enough to be posting here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations?There's articles out already encouraging men to give a free pass to their wives for Christmas and articles about polygamous relationships for women with multiple male partners living in the same house, which men are accepting. If you want I can source you those articles. That's the current furthest extremes of feminism going on already. My earlier prediction wasn't saying this will become broadly accepted, I'm saying this is going to become a subculture of the feminist movement that some men wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Día dea, she sounds nice...Hypothetically I'm very young or an idiot and don't understand not to stick my dick in crazy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Día dea, she sounds nice...Just out of curiosity, if you hypothetically wanted to pickup a girl like this... How would you approach it? Do you just approach her mirroring similar psychotic traits? If you could pick how you looked, would you go for a convict vibe with face tatts? What kind of guys are filtering through her system here and looking attractive to her? Some of these profiles make my head spin | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/21 04:39 AM |
| 9 | Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations?Not only is there a societal shift on accepting this but there's already been a shift towards accepting open relationships. We've seen feminist outlets promoting the idea of open relationships and passes for casual encounters as birthday presents. It's going to go even further with the next generation of feminists. My prediction is that the next generation of feminists will push for ideas like married women being able to choose who is seeding them, as in selecting men for insemination who aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?You missed the point. Those older generation Redpill guys will tell you what I'm telling you, that Hypergamy and shit tests have always been the same and it's hardwired. It didn't come with feminism or modern culture. That's hardwired. The older guys will tell you. The problem is that you don't have much experience with women and don't understand shit tests. When women see you as alpha they don't really shit test you as much, they dial it right back to the point it's rarely happening or its real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/RewardGood luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressivewhat is your life experience drawn from? Men openly taunt women all the time. just lol. Men are constantly treading on egg shells with women these days. Otherwise it's straight to HR or something else ridiculous. Men treat women like kid gloves compared to how they treat each other. Women are very fragile at the tiniest slight. It's like you have zero experience dealing with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardno that's just selfish projection. It's not where the joy in having children comes in. The happiness from children comes from the moments with them. They're incredibly funny and interesting, all unintentional. It makes you reflect on yourself and your own life with it. You get to see them go through new experiences and special times in a year are so much fun. You can also hate them sometimes but when they're you're apart you miss them terribly. You have to sacrifice a lot to become a parent, som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/RewardI think it's different for different people. Material wealth and travel never made me any happier. I went through some boy's toys and I spent maybe $40,000 on travel in my 20's. At the end of it, you get bored of what you own and travel becomes nothing but a distant memory. Having kids has been the most rewarding and fulfilling time of my life and most parents feel this way. People have regrets though. They can regret having kids, they can regret not having kids. You speak about age 45, but that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/RewardJust hope you aren't like a lady I know who swore up and down she never wanted kids. That was until she got into her 50's. Far too late and she's broken for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.lol yes they are fucking those too. It's basically a numbers game. Start at the hottest girl and work your way down until one says yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?They aren't feminized at all. In Saudi they only just got the right to drive a car. Women in eastern Europe are still much like what western women were like decades ago. They still prioritize beta traits over alpha. As in your looks don't matter so much. This is what women are like in traditional cultures. Hypergamy and shit testing is still there because it's hardwired. I guess at the end of the day, you're telling me stuff based on conversations with your family and the "Godfathers" of the ent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 37 | Sex with 37 guys in 6 years, still can't find a good manOh dear it seems she's entered the uber-Chad loop. She attracted one so she thinks that's what she's worth. She thinks it's just a matter of attracting one again and just locking him down this time. Normally, not even the epiphany phase pulls them out of this loop. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm genuinely predicting the rise of a sub culture among very far left / feminist where women will assert their right to the father of the baby they have. They will be in marriages but will tell their husbands they want Brad's baby from work and there will be cultural pressure on husband to agree to it. They Brad is just a sperm donor and while husband is the real father because he's raising it. There will be the my body my choice narratives and then attacking men's insecurity over it. These fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Traditional cultures still exist in the world. Shit testing is the same there. Women are hardwired to do it. They do it in Saudi Arabia and they do it in Eastern Europe. Men all talk about it. Shit testing is just worse when youre acting beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Do men enjoy being desired more?I was Chad in my early 20s but not anymore since I gained weight. The difference between being an average guy and Chad is this. Back when I was Chad, I actively avoided women in the work place and other environments where I didn't want women's attention. It was a common enough thing where after awhile some women would just get weird. Women always shoot their shot for guys they find very attractive, if not explicitly then some very obvious hinting trying to get you to make a move. Women are much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?Don't get ahead of yourself. It's not a scientific book because there's no scientific method applied. stop pretending all of TRP are guys with dating issues. They're just the most vocal ones because they're angry. If you were right then PUA wouldn't work. If you were right, wouldn't be able to fix deadbedrooms the way I did and others did. There's a whole other side to women's sexuality that's missed which accounts for why some men can use tinder like it's a free brothel and some can't. There's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUltimate end game is that their comfort and security is looked after. Every guy is raised to be a pure beta where his world revolves around a woman. Raising her kids. Paying for her shit. Being the man that stepped up. Women are free to explore their sexuality. Someone could write a good dystopia novel about it and include these themes. A world where a guy becomes a pariah because his wife says she wants the babies of another guy and he's expected to say yes, but he says no because he doesn't wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'll do it later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou get her to sign the enthusiastic consent forms first. Duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah I was about to comment about this but decided not to. I know that in Australia you can get charged with rape / sexual assault for lying to a woman to bed her. Like telling her you're a lawyer when you're actually working at Wendy's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's so hilarious. You should get him to show them his shoe lifts after they've hooked up and show how them he's not as tall as they thought. I really wonder how they'd react to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Shit tests are universal with women in all cultures in the world. You talk to anyone from other countries on the planet and they will tell you women in their countries do shit tests and they complain about it exactly the same as we do. It's because women are just wired for it. It's not something just developed by modern western women in modern times. Men in the middle east, asia and africa all talk about this stuff too. I will tell you this, as a married man. When you are passing shit tests and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have to think it's more likely just giving him a boost of self confidence in a kind of placebo way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt means you aren't hitting the alpha cues. See my first post on the alpha / beta dichotomy on its definition. Then you need to understand that women experience arousal cues in a different way to men. I talk about this very briefly in Chapter 2; The way women feel arousal (alpha) cues are not the same way men would feel it because arousal cues for men are all physical but arousal cues for women have a strong psychological element. Women will talk about their one night stands in the frame of how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:54 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's fucking hysterical. I mean we are all for a free and equal world. Women do all sorts of shit to themselves to fake their beauty so the shoe lifts should technically be fair game. Oh man it's so fucking funny. I just want to know how women react after finding out you're wearing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?The indirect result will be that women will give their husbands further bad advice on getting their libido going again. Men will listen, try to serve her comfort and security more, and it will make the bedroom more lamer and sparse than ever. This shit does not drive a woman's libido. A man's good shape and self confidence does. Anyone using TRP to fix the sex lives in their own marriages will tell you the same, including what I went through. women don't understand their own sexuality. Books lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?you're very young and have no idea what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?It's comparatively a lot more work and it comes with her rules and stipulations of what she's willing to do. The other side is porn star access and she will do shit she refused to her past serious relationships. That's the difference between sexuality in the AF / BB dichotomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Of course but it's not a common expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?Oh no I totally get that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?Do you reckon Chad Thundercock (archetype) really has a grasp of the contents in that book to live in this world as a free brothel? Big hint, but it's the other side of women's sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?From my own experience from my early 20s, from the experience of any hot guys you can ask, it's the totally lame side of women's sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Could y’all send me good literature regarding gender and sexuality ?Looks like it's about the comfort and security side (beta) of a woman's sexuality. That's the lame side! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex?It most definitely is a hook up app. In fact, it's a free brothel for very attractive men. Even women with profiles stating quite specifically they are not for hook ups and only for serious relationships will occasionally get into the guilty pleasure. Tinder came out after I was already with my wife but I know some good looking dudes and seen exactly how women use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Based on the RedPill philosophy, shouldn’t men who desire monogamous long term relationships be considered as “beta males”?This is not exactly correct to TRP. Men can have alpha or beta or both or neither. Women want both in a man, ideally. Incels have neither. Men only need alpha to fuck around. Women typically prioritize alpha in their 20's and more beta traits in their 30's. Men all exist in a spectrum of alpha and beta as two different axis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Well it's a different kind of issue. These single women get into their 30s, don't look as good as they they used to, they often have kids by this point, and there's less single quality men available. Partly because all the good men are taken and partly because they have to compete with younger women. Women don't tend to go for escapisms like video games and porn like men do, they'll find coping mechanisms like dogs and social media. Lots of miserable single women in their 30s looking at being al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It flips at around age 30-35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It still doesn't make sense. Why would you be into inceltears. I didn't think that's much of an issue in Russia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.If you've only had one relationship and everything is fine with your husband, how did you even end up here? How do you even take up an interest in gender dynamics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.I think it's still working itself out. The community has evolved over 20 years. I will keep posting some content there because it's been met with some warm reception and when I feel it's diminishing returns I'll stop and quit this. Already learned what I need to so need to and hanging around these places doesn't give me any benefits anymore. I think that's what happens to most normal people getting redpilled. They get it and they move on. It's why I hang out here more than TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.There's content creators that benefit purely from rage filled Redpillers. They feed them red meat to keep them angry and bitter. The red meat is addictive and keeps them hooked and consuming. Others will sneak feed political extremist ideas in with redpill theory. I wrote a chapter 2 getting over your anger because women don't deserve it and it was removed by TRP mods because it's not validating the rage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.TRP won't ever work as a strategy. It just explains what women respond to, why PUA works etc. I actually wrote something under the title chapter 3 about it. I did actually use TRP to fix my marriage and turn a deadbedroom around. Turns out I just had to stop listening to my wife and instead revive my old alpha personality I had when we first met. Field Reports I'm guessing are a huge LARP. I read maybe 1 or 2. There's always going to be angry and bitter guys in TRP. Guys basically go through the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It works perfectly for my past experience with women and most western guys that get involved TRP. I get told by western women it's true after reading it. You've been with one person, maybe it just doesn't ring true from the lack of experience with anyone but the one guy. Starfish sex is taking it to the extreme but women definitely are far more open to doing wilder things with guys hitting the arousal cues. I know this from my past experiences too. Women with beta guys give them very different t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 01:38 AM |
| 10 | [Q4All]Is it really that hard to tell if someone likes you?Yes if girls find you attractive they always shoot their shot. They're far more sexually aggressive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.If you're a woman you will most likely fit into the redpill predictive framework. If you look at my first post about the alpha / beta dichotomy it will clear some stuff up. The only thing I didn't include in it is that women will prioritize alpha or beta depending on their cultural background and age demographic. For example, women in their 30s and women in poorer countries will prioritize beta side of the dichotomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Some guys get off on the revenge porn of it. Check out WhereAreAllTheGoodMen and there are loads of men there like it. I'm guilty of this too. I have an ex that became a leftover woman now in her 30's and it's very validating for me to see I turned out to be right from our arguments over 10 years ago. She tried to come back on my radar but didn't know I was already married. The total surprise of this was actually partially what brought me to the redpill. TRP actually provides predictive behavior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined?I'm redpill and I post here because TRP has too many angry people and I appreciate a community with diverse opinions. I can't stand being around angry and bitter people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:16 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Tradcons think a good quality woman is a virgin holding out for the man that will take care of her and provide for her and will love him for him, unconditionally. It's just not how women are, even the ones genuinely in the conservative religious scene. They try to fit redpill concepts into their tradcon ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Guys don't care. They don't want sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It's not really an ideology, it's just a prism to understand female nature and female sexuality through. If you look up my very first post on alpha / beta dichotomy and women's dualistic mating strategy, that explains what the redpill is. What people do with that is there own business and you will see all kinds of ideologies in TRP community that attach to it. Tradcons are typically hugely bluepill and try to fit TRP concepts into their understanding of women. They think women should just apprec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.That's not so common. Most guys just don't want a woman who spent her college years with a history of casual sex and one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.What? Those guys are fucking almost all the women, not just the top ones. Their availability of options was why they became community dick. Youre not the only one giving your holes to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Are you sure your husband is beta though? Read my first post on alpha / beta dichotomy and women's dualistic mating strategy. Usually women on here claim they have a beta husband and sex life is fine but then come to realize he isn't that beta. Beta probably isn't what you think it is. None of the beta guys I know have ever been particularly lucky with women and their LTRs go the same way too. Because listening to what women say they want is a fool's errand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Good grief woman you think there were no other options but ex fuckbois / community dick? You really are WhereAreAllTheGoodMen material. Those men are the tiniest minority and life for them is a free brothel because there's loads of women like you willing to give it up to them. The other 90% of men are invisible to you. You're trying to refine the argument from slutty women to normal sex / relationship history too. That's not what we are talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Do you listen to yourself? You don't give a shit about what men want but expect men to give a shit about the hypocrisy of what they want? Men don't give a shit about what you want either. biological reality is that women don't care so much about a man's slutty past, they want the best guy they can get and the scorecard you rank men on doesn't really factor in where his dick has been. That's because she isn't the one hardwired to care about paternity. My post isn't saying you need to care about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 6 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.You can do what you want, you'll just end up a leftover woman when men choose younger, less sluttier women. they're going to pick that option over you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.The mountain of the bellcurve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | What TRP is and what it isn't, and why most guys don't succeed with itNo it doesn't. Read my first post on alpha / beta dichotomy. That applies to women only. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It's kind of connected to my point. All the entitlement but no sense of responsibility. No concern for what the husband wants. I know these women somewhat. They don't have to work and barely do anything at home but for the husband to expect sex is out of line. These guys beta'd out to their wives over time and it killed the libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.You're right, it's an expression of your uneducated opinion. Back to the drawing board! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Try again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 01:01 PM |
| -2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.It's the right way to view it if she goes 6 months with an excuse every night as to why she can't open her legs for 5 minutes. I know one dude that doesn't the cooking, cleaning, takes the kids out, his wife doesn't even work. That's a harsh example but I know a lot of dudes with deadbedroom relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 01:00 PM |
| 6 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Nope men don't really experience this at all because men don't come out of puberty as a hot commodity with the world at their feet and all the options in dating. Most men come out of puberty worth zero and have to work on themselves to become attractive to women. Women come out of puberty with options and they will use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:56 PM |
| -1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.That's pretty active on your part. I know guys that are in shape and look good and their wives are lucky to put out once per week. One guy could go months. I put it down to simping out for the wife which is very unseductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 6 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Ummm all my points are always excellent. Including when I insult people and mods give me warnings, which are just censorship of excellent points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 4 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.I wonder if we asked your husband about the sex life if he'd give the same answer, that everything is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:37 PM |
| 13 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Yes a large part of TRP is dedicated to explaining the fact that women go through their party years while they're young and hot and as their looks start to decline and they become self-aware of it they change their preference in men as they enter a new stage of maturity. They look for beta traits instead of alpha traits, as described in my very first post about the alpha / beta dichotomy. Women begin prioritizing the other side of their dualistic mating strategy and expect guys to forgive a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 6 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Women are all the same in some regards. They are all wired with Hypergamy and will all shit test you. The quality women are the ones that aren't cheaters, know how to compromise and are self-aware of their contribution in a relationship. Girls you've described in your past are eerily similar to my own experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:24 PM |
| 9 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.tradcons are like halfway to being redpilled. They sit in the bargaining stage. They're ridiculed within the TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 34 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.You're trying to change a biological reality that exists just as much as women prefer taller men. Men do not like slutty women and never will. It hits them on an instinctual level that she is a bad bet on paternity. The idea of monogamous relations with a woman with a slutty past is repulsive to men in all cultures in the world. It's why no men ever line up to wife up prostitutes even despite they are young, attractive and know what to do in the bedroom. Women with a broad sexual history will al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadObviously. But on the whole it's a man's market >30 years old. Women in their 30's have to compete with women in their 20's to get commitment for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 11:08 AM |
| 82 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.I don't think this is too popular among TRP. Most men I've encountered through TRP are just wanting a woman who isn't going to cheat, try to monkey branch when better options present themselves to her, get bored with the stability of family life with routine, spent her youth getting railed by numerous dudes, etc. You ask most guys how they got into TRP and they've got some insane story connected to one of these themes. So many modern women have all the sense of entitlement but zero sense of acco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveyou tried! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:41 AM |
| -1 | Too many men seem to misunderstand women's reaction to guys hitting on them who they don't find attractive.lol dude don't try to argue the logic of what I'm saying. It's just how it is. They have an aversion to male aggression and it's why they will mostly reject men in the way that they do. I'm just explaining where it's coming from. Women will sometimes be mean but it's more of a maturity thing than anything. It's like "how dare a peasant like you even dream of having a chance with me" shit and it mostly comes from high school and other low maturity environments. In that case it's people thinking t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Women haven't changed man, they were still giving shit tests and still wired for AF/BB as they are now. It's just the older generation of men were 'tougher' (more alpha in their behavior) and had very different opinions on women and how to manage women. They just didn't bend over for shit tests and didn't give a shit what they thought. Shit tests aren't a new thing, it's just something women naturally do to test their partner if he really is alpha or not. When you pass shit tests she dials them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveCompletely delusional and nobody buys it no matter how much you insist on it. It's no different then highschool, though it somewhat softens up. Women are hugely sensitive to social acceptance. If men could openly taunt your gender like we taunt other guys just for fun, you would absolutely get emotionally crippled by it. If you point out to a girl she has big gorilla arms or dumbo ears, that shit sticks with her for life. Women care far more about social acceptance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not indefinitely like this. It becomes a man's market at around age 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Too many men seem to misunderstand women's reaction to guys hitting on them who they don't find attractive.Women are inherently concerned about their own safety with how a stranger (man) might react which influences how they let a guy down. Their fear is the guy getting aggressive. So that's why it's not so direct. Women get a creepy vibe from any guy that shows a romantic interest in her who doesn't make the cut (eg. he's not attractive enough). It's just something a guy has to learn to embrace as a learning experience rather than a failure if he wants to get into pickup because it really is a numbe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitarousal traits isn't just for no strings attached sex. Women want that in their ideal husbands too. But yes a lot of women aren't into casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:14 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's definitely rewarding but the real rewards are in the moments you have with them, not working on future goals and aspirations. If you try to look too far forwards it just becomes stressful. Kids can be incredibly interesting and funny and it's all unintentional. Every week its new surprises and new stories. You can hate them but then you miss them terribly when they're away. It's not always good times. Last week I tried to take my toddler to a strawberry farm to pick some strawberries but he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 09:02 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmen and women are wired differently on a primary objective level. Women are wired to serve their personal comfort and security first. Sex comes second. Men are wired to seek sexual access first. The comfort and security they offer women is to make themselves more enticing for sex. Women fundamentally don't understand men's obsession with sex because they don't understand men are wired to fuck and fuck lots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?I know plenty of church going girls marrying ages 18-24 as virgins (as far as I know they are), it's still happening in social circles I'm connected to. Women haven't changed, men had to be redpill aware in the past as much as they are today. What's changed is that women have more beta side taken care of and men started treating women with BP ideals. women havent changed since hunter-gatherer times. TRP is about how you manage women to avoid getting fucked over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 17 | What TRP is and what it isn't, and why most guys don't succeed with itIf you mean biproduct of having a family then yes. TRP can be used for managing your relationships with women, I just don't see why anyone would chase monogamy outside the purpose of family if they're redpilled on female nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?That's my story too. My BP ideals come from my family's history from a long like of stable, traditional families. But yes TRP is basically just a lens to understand female nature and sexuality through. It does this by providing abstractions based on their biological wiring. I didn't understand how insane things had become since become redpilled. It's a hate crime for a man to even list what he wants in a woman in his dating profile. Only women can set expectations anymore. It's not to say you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:39 AM |
| 19 | What TRP is and what it isn't, and why most guys don't succeed with itMonogamy is the goal if you want to raise a family. How the fuck is it going to work if you want kids etc. I want to be in the same house as my kids and they need their mother and father. TRP helped me fix things with my wife and we have a happy relationship again. TRP can be used to manage your relationships with women. It's definitely not a script to negotiate your oneitus into desiring you but it can tell you what's going to work and what's not going to work. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 4 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveUhhh yes they do. So delusional. That's why negging was one of the first tactics spread in PUA. It's why so many women trap themselves into validation addiction on social media with all the simps online these days. Women would get very emotionally crippled if men could openly taunt them without getting blowback for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?I'm not sure myself but they aren't all the same. The 'enjoy the decline' shit is from the MGTOW guys and a bunch of doomers. I wouldn't even say they're the most common. These guys don't even fully comprehend the redpill and often think things were great during the 50's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?That's from certain mods of the subreddit. They don't represent it and even the so called godfathers of the redpill don't agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testYes to a degree but most women inherently don't know what men find disrespectful, honorable, duty all this sort of stuff unless it's explained. Genuine 404 error for them. These concepts are different between male and female. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?I just said why. It's only the doomers within the TRP community. Laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 10:57 AM |
| 21 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Wrong. That's tradcons that think this way. TRP is trying to shake tradcons out of this. Tradcons idealize the 50's. Holy fuck man nobody understands TRP at all in this sub. It's like people trying to condemn Christianity while using the Quran to do so. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 09:07 AM |
| -1 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Christ, it's definitely not the motto of TRP. That's the motto of doomers that come out of TRP thinking there's no hope. They are one group within TRP. Lmao at someone paying gold for this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 09:04 AM |
| 4 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testWomen don't fuck beta orbiters. They tell them how great they are and maybe soft flirt a little back to let them think they have a chance. They give them just enough mass to keep them orbiting. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 7 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testWomen offen don't understand what's disrespectful to men. They operate under their own moral framework. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 07:00 AM |
| 17 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testLook man by all means give her a chance on it. Could just be a maturity thing she will get out of. The shit tests will never end, but triggering your mate-guarding like this is crossing a line. Having orbiters is an insecurity thing. I used to date a 9/10 that had her orbiters and this was back before social media. I met some of these guys and I never felt insecure because I knew she wasn't going to fuck any of these dudes. She was doing it for her personal validation. She never grew out of it t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Lol don't get angry at me in not seeing the logic in it. It's just how women are and you're too young and too inexperienced with women to understand it. Women absolutely don't see things the way you're describing. It's extremely validating for women to fuck a hot guy, it makes her feel special that she's attractive enough for the hot guy. That she's been chosen. Theyre conciously aware Chad can get who he wants but the lizard-brain doesn't get that. The validation is happening in the lizard-brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Holy shit this is so deluded. Are you a guy? Women don't get this at all. They aren't even aware guys see them as sex holes. They think when guys are fucking her it's showing an interest in her. Ugly chicks that fuck Chad think that's the standard they're at because they've attracted a Chad. Women are absolutely god damn clueless to what you're saying. getting pounded by Chad and getting attention from chad is extremely validating to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 04:40 AM |
| 55 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testIf she's trying to trigger your jealousy then don't give her what she wants, it's probably best to fuck her off. I would first tell her that this is quite disrespectful to you, if she doesn't seem to care about that or get it, then you need to dump her. If she doesn't get it or care then she never will. This is not normal shit testing, it's a huge red flag and I wouldn't put up with an LTR for a girl doing these kinds of shit tests to trigger your mate-guarding. It's incredibly disrespectful. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Most women have absolutely no fucking idea how much poon Chad gets. They absolutely do feel validated that Chad 'chose' them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)I said "don't really". Even fatties and Gilfs can make a horny profile on tinder and expect a new fuck every weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyIt's not based on wolves. You're deeply confused. Alpha and Beta come from the fact that arousal and attraction are two separate things for women. Arousal traits are given alpha and attractive traits are given beta. I explain it in the post you refuse to read. It has nothing to do with alpha wolf of the pack of anything like that. You're confused because both abstractions are using the Greek letter alpha. Men are angry for other reasons but you're far away from understand that just yet. You prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyYou're denying something you don't even understand so go read that first before you lecture me on how it's nonsense. The redpill just explains female sexuality for what it is. Many men genuinely don't understand it. The alpha and beta divide isn't nonsense, plenty of women here admit to it all being true and say it's not redpill it's just truth. That's exactly what redpill is, the truth. It's a bunch of abstractions to help men understand how female sexuality works. It's not making any argument … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?What's the revenge fantasy here? You're post wall and men prefer younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?Have you noticed that high end escorts are all young? Have you noticed that all makeup and operations are designed to make women look younger? Have you noticed all high end models are young? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?Have you noticed how they come back with women from those countries in their 20s and not in their 40s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?that doesn't mean anything at all. Most of those couples have been together for decades. The point is women hit the wall in their early 20's. You're post wall. Men would ideally want women looking like they did at age 21-24 as per study I showed you before. You have depreciated in value, you're barely even fertile. Men prefer younger women just like women prefer taller men. No amount of cope will ever change biological realities. And you know it too. That's why all makeup and operations are desi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?nobody wants 50+ women, they can't even have kids. high end escorts are also all young, not in their 40's and 50's. It's because men chase youth and you're very post wall. Only men without options want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?You can have whatever opinion you want. Every guy is still laughing how naive this is and you projecting what you like in men as if men think the same. Have you not noticed all these men going to Eastern Europe and SE Asia for wives return with women half their age and not 41 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?I read perfectly fine. You're laughing at the existence of the wall and trying to project the woman's desire of 'age and life matching' onto to men. That's laughable. Here is a study showing the age of which what men and women find attractive. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ You will see men find the age of 21-24 the most attractive. No matter how old the man is, they always answer the same. That's the wall, women begin their decli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?honey you're just as beautiful as any 21 year old! Lmao holy shit how can you be this delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?Oh so you're delusional. A man your own age would much rather be with the younger version of you, all else being equal. You've depreciated in value. The 20's version of you is far more valuable in men's eyes. That's the wall. You peaked back then. Guys picking you at 41 are doing so for lack of options, not because they prefer age and life matches. Men preferring younger women is as universal as women preferring taller, broad shouldered handsome men. It's a hardwiring thing and you're just delud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?Yes it's earth shattering news for basically all women under the age of 28-29 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Men have a preference for younger partners. How much is thus preference strengthened by porn use?There's porn categories for everything. There's porn of gilfs, midgets, fatties etc. That's all related to dopamine and porn and it's unrelated. Women still hit the wall some time in their 20's. That's the best looking most women are ever going to get. Women depreciate in value over time, it's something you'll find out for yourself. You're still in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyNo guy I know needs a scientific study to know how women argue. Everyone just knows it through experience. Regardless we are diverging from the point. Vetting because she's looking for a potential long term partner. Yes that's the redpill. Men have issue with this when they come to realize some girl they're interested in and worked for has been getting pounded by other men for no effort. A lot of men are not aware there's a whole other side of women's sexuality that exists, as explained in my fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyYou're definitely a woman. And yes by using the multi-faceted definition of it that makes it misogyny to say men are stronger than women even despite saying it without contempt. Misogyny is now a meaningless word you can throw at anything that makes you feel bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)lol, no, you are crazy. Go make a profile of a 60+ year old woman and put in the profile you are just on there for hookups. You will get hundreds of matches. Try the same as a 60+ man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyI didn't say anything in contempt. I correctly guessed you were a woman by the way you were having this discussion, because this is typically how women have discussions. You can tell who is a woman on this sub very easily after a few comments back and forth. It's as misogynistic as me saying men are stronger than women. Statistically, it's the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To Hypergamybecause that's what you're doing. Misogynism is hatred of women. That's not what's going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyYou're making assumptions about me. I'm just using Chad as an abstraction so I don't have to write out "very hot and confident guy" every single time. It's normal enough to say all women are Hypergamous, much like it's fair to say men like slim girls with big boobs. It's hardwired. Hypergamy is hardwired to achieve an individual woman's best mating strategy and carry on her genes. If you want to understand why men get angry, take a read of my very first post about the alpha / beta dichotomy and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | What makes a woman high value?Yeah that's the point. I said in the beginning I'm answering the question like I'm an FDS girl listing demands for a HVM. It's why they're all going to die alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.No. Western men go to eastern Europe and east Asia because they can get young, feminine women to marry. Women there have far less expectations, theyre more open to him if he's got a job and he's a kind person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.If you arent aware of something so simple, nobody can help you. Why do you think so many men go to Eastern Europe and Thailand for brides? The women there are more open to their beta traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.It's a free brothel if you're Chad. Every day there's a new divorcee or recently single girl looking to get her fix for what she missed out on for years. Sometimes they aren't even single yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:43 AM |
| 6 | I feel like its messed how people get judge for their looks.Women just call them creepy instead (not to their face) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyIt's not misogynism. It's about you being purposefully obtuse because you aren't interested in a genuine discussion, you're trying to work a discussion around your feelings and you're discussing things like a woman with hurt feelings. Nobody has time for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyYou don't remember because you're a woman and the original contention was something I said made you feel bad. It was how you felt that brought us here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyI'm starting to wonder if you're purposefully being obtuse because it's getting ridiculous. You're definitely a woman anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Does a lack of sexual confidence keep average/ugly men from pursuing interesting lives?No, not directly anyway. It starts with using porn and video games as escapisms and then they turn into dependencies. Cue wasted youth getting satisfaction from artificial hormonal stimulants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:37 AM |
| -3 | What makes a woman high value?I'm going to answer this question like I'm an FDS woman answering about HVM. She must be in the range of 5'6 - 5'10 No older than 26 Slim but her tits must be cup EE at a minimum No debt. $100k+ income. Loves giving head Virgin Amazing cook. loves cooking every night keeps the house clean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)It's 2021 she can just go to an online platform to nag men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Fatties still get matches. Women all the way into 60's will have no problems getting pounded by men of all ages. Good luck being a 60 year old man getting some thirsty 18 year old girl asking to come over to get pumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:43 AM |
| 10 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.It's more so for guys in dispair about tinder etc. Why set your environment to hard mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyThe redpill is no such thing. It just explains how women are. What people do with it is their own problem. Redpill is just a prism to understand women through. It explains why they they make some men wait and some men get it the same night. It explains why women often deadbedroom in a LTR. It explains why women come into their 30s looking for Billy Beta who they ignored for the previous decade. It explains to men that if they just want to get their dicks wet, they don't have to work on beta game… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyGuys are just trying to access holes. They develop either alpha game or beta game depending on how they understand women's sexuality. Guys that weren't popular with girls steer towards beta game. It's why the redpill makes so many men so angry, because they come to learn beta game doesn't matter and their oneitus got her insides rearranged by a guy she met that night only because he was hitting all the right alpha cues. They feel like they've been lied to. Or that women have been dishonest with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.You're confused how the argument that environment matters if a study that's shows an environment with more pool size makes women more selective? If you can't put 2 + 2 together here I can't help you. Women growing up in 5000 BCE among tribes of between 30-120 people were judging their options based on the men available to them. They weren't judging men based on what was going to exist 8000 years later or men that were in tribes they've never come across. Hypergamy calibrates to its environment. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.Not everyone uses it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyIt's not the same. A lot of men don't understand there's an alpha side to women's dualistic mating strategy which comes from a separation of arousal and attraction. Those are two separate things for women. It's not the same for men because men don't really have an arousal floor. As long as the woman isn't too obese and is within the fertility window (not too young and not too old) men will want to fuck her. A lot of men genuinely aren't aware women have an arousal floor but it's high enough that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadYes women are fine using Chad for a good session in bed. Other stuff doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyThere's no problem. It's just explaining how it is. A lot of guys have it in their head that only Beta matters. The problem is for them. Are you a man or woman? It matters to how I explain this to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.Yes this is redpill stuff. A woman's hypergamy recalibrates to her environment. You don't have to be the top 10-20% of all men, you have to be on there in the environment you meet her and the environment she's used to. Whether that's the village, at work, in your social circle. It means your chances are going to be far lower on tinder or at a party for male models. Women that are very active on social media using it for the wrong purposes becomes damaged goods because it becomes her environment.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Your comments are almost incomprehensible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadHuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)You probably don't know enough english to understand it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Is English not your first language? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)If you distil the reasoning it comes back to validation. Alpha guys / chads / badboys don't give validation to women in any other way. They're hot and self confident. They don't validate women in any way that nice guys give. The only way women can get validation from them is using their holes. Chad has options, Chad can get any girl he wants. It's validating to her because Chad chose her and he could have anyone else. That's the validating side of women's sexual experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Yes they are. I discussed it in my first post the alpha / beta dichotomy. Arousal and attraction are two separate things for women. Read that post and tell me your issue with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)They are right. I was Chad in my early 20's, I lived the experience. That's compared to highschool when I was lanky and pimply and no girls liked me. Or now when I'm a bit overweight and I don't get much attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Can you translate that to english? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyI talked about this in my first post. Women ideally want both alpha and beta in a partner. Confidence is an arousal cue it generates a woman's feelings towards the guy. It's in my first post too. I gave no estimates over how unfaithful women are. I'm saying women give it all to their alpha experience. Read my first post it covers all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Sex toys won't give women the validation that Chad's hard dick gives. Some women need billy beta for comfort and security and can't sort themselves out alone. The subreddit WhereAreAllTheGoodMen exists for that very reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 15 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)That's all men. Men don't really have an arousal floor. As long as she's not too obese and she's within the fertility window (not too young or old) men will want to put their dicks in her holes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyNope it's not this at all. It's a mixture of physical good looks and high confidence. Women that go through this might marry and love another man but in their hearts they still love another and if that person came back into their lives they'll go back to them in an instant. Are you a male? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadYes. If the guy is Chad enough, she sees her as just a human dildo and what he says and thinks doesn't matter to her. The guy she has serious relationships needs to be a real gentleman and he has expectations and qualities to meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyThis is incorrect. It's not just lust. Women's love for an alpha is a lot stronger than for her beta. It's where the concept of Alpha Widow comes from. You also see it in themes like the ending of Titanic or Katy Perry's video clip The One That Got Away. Women are loyal to their alpha experience. Women will settle with betas when they're out of options and need to fulfil their primary objective of personal comfort and security. They love their beta for being the perfect husband and father, but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyOh no I believe the love is there. But the different kinds of love aren't equal. The love for alpha is not the same as love for beta. Both are love, but they're different because women have a dualistic mating strategy. Read my very first post on the alpha / beta dichotomy and dualistic mating strategy. Women will read that and tell me I'm right. Go have a read please. And the reason I see the world is like this is because it how it works most of the time. Even when you break down peoples relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadWomen don't give a shit about misogyny if he's Chad enough. If he's hot and confident enough she will still see him as someone for fucking. Not relationship material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadIt probably takes a few times for you to understand the point being made. The fact you're not single isn't even relevant to what we were discussing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadAlso doesn't matter if he's Chad enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:13 PM |
| -2 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyDid she find her good billy beta? Are you a "great catch" and a loving and doting husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyI wouldn't be so sure about that. How long have you been together and how old are you guys? Unicorns don't exist. All women are wired for hypergamy and the same alpha vs beta dichotomy I've described in my very first post. Whether they cheat or not and whether they go out for ONS and casual sex relates to their quality as relationship material. Not all women cheat or do casual sex, but all women are wired for AF/BB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 10 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyThat's men understanding women through their masculine moral framework. It seems quite conniving, deceptive and Machiavellian if you try to understand women through a masculine moral framework. Guys outside of the redpill literally don't know you think like this and they'll attack us for saying this shit that you're agreeing with. They literally have no idea there is a whole other side to women's sexuality that only Chad gets to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyI was pretty Chad in my early 20's. The difference between my experience with women and other guys experience was it literally didn't matter what I said or did. It didn't matter all I owned was a mattress on the floor of my apartment and my bathroom hadn't seen chemical cleaner for a couple months. Girls didn't care about any of that they just wanted to get railed on my mattress. These same girls were going on serious dates with guys putting in loads of effort and weren't putting out. Nobody is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 17 | Alpha widow right from the sourceThe vibing and chemistry is completely happening on her end. Never in the history of mankind, since Grug was living in the cave, has a man ever talked about a woman he was hot for in terms of vibing and chemistry with a girl. Even Grug was telling the boys he met some girl-slur from the other cave and the funky caveman moves he got to do before he bailed out of there. The way women feel arousal (alpha) cues is not the same way men would feel it because arousal cues for men are all physical but a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To Hypergamyhave you ever had conversations with a hot guy and his experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 14 | Women Do What They Think Is Best For Them — An Alternative To HypergamyWomen are all the same when it comes to things like Hypergamy. That shit is hardwiring. Good moral character just means she isn't going to cheat on you, she knows how to compromise, she's aware of her own contribution to the relationship, stuff like that. There's certain things women are all the fucking same on. Hypergamy, hounding you with shit tests, the alpha / beta dichotomy, all this shit is hardwired into them and is a part of being female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed?I have a social media friends list built up since the thing started so I have seen a lot of people I've known grow up since high school all the way into our 30's. Women either found a guy and got married or their standards were high back then as well as right now. Now we are in our 30's I'm seeing that they're either still single or they massively reduced their standards where they are dating guys that they never would have given the time of day to back when I knew them. It looks like it's been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksbecause he lacks self control or he just doesnt respect his wife. some men are like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveGuys keep in mind that attractive and arousing are two separate things for women, check out my first post on alpha / beta dichotomy. You'll see women talk about being well groomed, great smile, etc. When they're talking about this attractive side of physical looks, they're talking about fitting into their comfort and security. Read their comments and see whether they're explaining what they find arousing or what they find attractive. Women almost always answer on what they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksMen that leave their families for upgraded pussy never really loved their wives and kids. Guys can still cheat on their wives and love them. It's not the same thing. That side is more to do with his moral compass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 13 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadIf he's Chad enough you won't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Widow game in the 19th centuryThat's interesting, thanks for sharing. Tune in tomorrow to find out what was really happening! Was she riding the cock carousel until she's far post-wall and eventually settle down with a beta provider? Or was she just wading through the scrotes until she finds a HVM? Be sure not to miss out on tomorrow's episode of Purple Pill Debate! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's a happy medium. First night is a redflag but if she's making you wait numerous dates then she probably doesn't find you sexually attractive and wants to feel comfortable first. You can tell if she's into you or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. That's a redflag in itself. Pump and dump that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksThat very rarely happens and when it does its always more complicated than the woman just being younger. Cheating happens but they normally stay with their wife because they still love her. In the case where men ditch their wives for other women it's normally in the circumstances where the wife gives no sense of appreciation for him at home and his efforts at home to fix things amount to nothing. This is where men start finding romance elsewhere. The idea of men ditching their wives for a younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksSo it kind of fits the point I'm making. But if you got it in your head you can do better you'll lose attraction for him. That's how women's love works. Men's love doesn't work this way, it's not wired to emotionally pair off with upgrades. Men and women cheat for different reasons too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksIt's likely you don't have better options then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyNot exactly. If you look at my post history called Chapter 3 I talk about it, sort of. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksI should have said love for a woman is far more conditional than a man's. Depending on your age you can see value in your beta, that's also part of the redpill. How old are you? Roughly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 01:04 AM |
| 0 | some mgtow really sucksYou're completely detached from reality. You just have to look up dating profiles on any platform to see which gender writes the list of demands and which gender talks about what they offer. Even look at the extreme examples of TRP vs FDS. TRP is primarily concerned with wanting women without a slutty past who isnt going to cheat. FDS have an insanely long laundry list of demands for men which are maybe 1-2% of the male population. Men will cheat depending on their moral compass and the opportun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksWrong. They're quitting women because they know their unconditional love (or not conditional enough, which ever way you want to take it) just leads them to heartache. They're being conciously aware it's not beneficial to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksMGTOW isn't because women stopped serving men, it's because for some men, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. These are guys that have been cheated on, surprise dumped/divorced, they can't figure out how to handle women. Do you think the kinds of men that are abandoning their families were in love or capable of love? They didn't fall out of love with their kids too because of lack of sex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksIt should have said women's love is far more conditional than a man's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksMost women get obese as they have kids and get older and their husbands still stick with them. They might cheat but they don't fall out of love with the presence of better mating options. That's a female thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksIf a man with an “average” wife hit the lottery, he’d be looking out for the next best looking woman to show off on his arm the next day, It's a nice fiction but it just doesn't happen. You're projecting your female concept of love. Men might cheat but they still stick with their wives, because men don't fall out of love when better options present themselves. They'll just put their dicks in them. monkey branching is a female thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksI didn't mean in the strictest terms. Men just don't fall out of love when they think they can do better. That's something women do. Probably more accurate if I said a woman's love is far more conditional. You're projecting female things by the way. No man ever loved a woman for being able to pay bills and provide income or not, that's something on the female end. Men don't fall out of love for a lack of sex, they'll just go getting it elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyIt's fucking easy. I did it to return my wife's libido in my own marriage. Keep yourself as your mental point of origin. Stop doing shit for your wife with the intention of showing how helpful, kind and dutiful you are. It doesn't mean you aren't doing stuff around the house anymore, it just means you aren't trying to win her favor through anything but your own confidence. It comes into play when she's giving you shit tests. Stop complying to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksMen will still love her but they won't be sexually attracted to her. Men don't fall out of love when they get it in their heads they can do better. That's something women do. Men will just cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 0 | some mgtow really sucksYour argument is that both men and women look after their best interests and that's a Negative, Ghostrider. That's specifically your gender's experience of love. "Redpill tactics" aren't a thing. The redpill is just how women are. It's not an ideology, it's a prism for understanding female nature through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | some mgtow really sucksWhen you truly understand how women think and how women experience love, it will kill those old ideas of needing affection and love from them and you can go about living your life. Whether that be MGTOW or still chasing long term relationships. Women do not experience love in the same way that men do. They do not have the same kind of idealistic love for their partner that men have. Women don't love men unconditionally or love men for who they are. Functionally, women love men that represent the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women care about lifestyle over money/wealthOh ok that's different. What I was referring to was women start looking for different things when they get older. When I was young all I owned was a mattress on the floor and women didn't give a shit, they were just there for a good fuck. I'm in my 30's now and women are caring about career and all sorts of things related to the ability as a provider. I'm a married guy now but I've had women try to suss me about by the car I drive and what I do for a living (not aware that I'm married). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyYes and when alpha males beta out over time in the course of a relationship it kills a woman's arousal and leads to a deadbedroom. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women care about lifestyle over money/wealthAre you sure 7 figures is that likely? That means $1,000,000+ If women are expecting nice shit from you it means they don't see you as physically hot. You've been pigeon holed as a beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyThat's the redpill explanation of female sexuality | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I hate the fact that I been red pilled…I think your steered too far with the doomers. Women can be extremely loyal but they're loyal to their alpha. That's the alpha widow concept. If you are the alpha experience for a woman then she is loyal to you and all other men become invisible. Managing your end of the relationship is about maintaining your alpha side and understanding that trying to show her how dedicated, kind, generous, romantic, etc you are just isn't going to do you any service. Since I understood this my marriage has bee… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyI think it's more accurate to divide it into alpha or beta. Women have an arousal vs attraction side of their sexuality. Look at my first post explaining alpha / beta. They're both a set of traits that serve women's arousal or attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men and women are not the problem. Manipulative Time-wasters are the problemManipulative time wasters are just one aspect among many many problems that can exist in both genders. FDS and TRP exist to get themselves the best deal. I don't think many men get into TRP from manipulative time wasters. They get into it because they've been cheated on, been surprised dumped/divorced, or they're incels and feel like they're invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?I dont think it's so much a concious thing she can do better. Women give warning signs you're on the rocks with shit tests. When she's getting to the point she thinks she can do better she starts initiating fights and drama over trivial shit. By this point she's already losing attraction. The change back can happen pretty fast if the guy gets himself together and knows how to handle these shit tests with self confidence. Women's love is more pragmatic than a man's, it's more like fitting into he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?Women just experience love differently. There's a connection women are feeling on their end but it's not the same connection men feel on the other end. Women's love is far more conditional and represents her best opportunity. If she gets it in her head she can do better she falls out of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?At your age I wasn't into dating younger girls because of the maturity but I think because the gap between 18-25 is a big leap in maturity. Now that I'm in my 30's I'd definitely prefer to date younger women if I was single. I'm a happily married man though and married a fantastic woman my own age. I think you're right to be skeptical of older women. My advice is to especially stay away from single women over the age of 30. If you have your shit in order they try to get their talons into you bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?My experience has been that highly ambitious men don't chase highly ambitious women. They tend to go for younger and beautiful women because attracting those kinds of women are a status symbol in themselves. Good luck with the soul connection stuff. Its not how women love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?They're both related to money. Ambitious women are attractive to you? I find most guys to be pretty neutral to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:29 AM |
| 10 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?I'm a guy in the redpill axis but I don't think women do. Women care more about ambition and status than money. A man who is ambitious and has a high status is very attractive. Money by itself doesn't attract as many women as you'd assume. The attraction is tied into other traits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI will send it to you later, I'm a bit busy. Haven't forgotten you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleYes. Basically we got to a deadbedroom at one point and constant fighting. I had beta'd out over time thinking that's what my wife wanted but it would just make things worse. It's partly what led me down to the redpill because I went online looking for answers to my problems. Then it all clicked with my past experiences with women. Regarding my marriage. I basically had to revive my old single self from back when I was giving pretty alpha cues when we first met and started dating. Drop all the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleyou're saying that with hindsight of everything I mentioned. I guess you don't need to read next chapter because the advice is limit your artificial dopamine stimulants. Apparently you don't need to know anything else? Apparently you don't need to know the why's and how's? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/21 08:13 AM |
| 27 | You can tell if a guy is a player by looking at him. It shows. You can't do that with girls: A scientific papera lot of women genuinely don't get on the cc. You can tell if she's been on the CC or given a guy alpha access in the past by how she is in the bedroom. It's very obvious when a girl hasn't done anything but missionary or they've never given head before. There's a genuine awkwardness and unsureness to how she is. The AF/BB hardwiring is completely true but a lot of women dont go down the route of the CC and hoe phase because casual sex and random hookups just aren't their thing. I have girls fro… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text)I was a Chad in my early 20s, I really didn't think foreplay was a real thing and honestly thought it was just something from the movies. I only understood female sexuality much later in life. Women have a sexuality tied to their comfort and security and then there's another side of their sexuality tied to arousing men. The hot and arrogant kind. I never had to do foreplay or shit if they were taking their clothes off and telling me to put it in. It wasnt until I was married and over time it bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenIt's not. As long as she's not too obese and she's not too young or old, a lot of guys are willing to have a go. There's enough sex stats out there. Women are having the same amount as sex as they have been for 20-30 years. It's men having less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenThanks for the anecdote! I'm just going to focus on the meat of the bell curve though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:13 AM |
| 0 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenThere's degrees of obesity. 30% of women are overweight even then most aren't gross enough for guys not to stick their dicks in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenIt's going to get worse too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:39 AM |
| 6 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenIf that was the case we wouldn't be at the point where 30% of men are still virgins by age 30 in the USA. People have no fucking idea what "average" is anymore. Men have avenues at their disposal which relates to good beta game but unfortunately the average male has had their dopamine circuit fried from modern tech like porn and video games. These addictions are out of their control now. It means unattractive guys are shit out of luck. Tinder still works as the best metric. It's on looks alone. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:12 AM |
| 9 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenIt's not horniness. It's a different arousal floor. Women are just as horny but the arousal floor to meet that is much higher, so much fewer men meet the cut off. There comes a point where women actually turn just as sexually aggressive as men are. The horniness is the same, the arousal floor is different. Once the arousal floor is met, women are just as ready to go. It means unattractive women have it easier than unattractive men because they're going to meet the cut off. I think "gets more mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:00 AM |
| 23 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenNot really. Men don't really have an arousal floor. As long as she's not too obese and she's in the fertility window (not too young and not too old), men will want to fuck her. Female dating strategy is just a two step program for great results. 1) be under 30 2) eat <2000 calories a day Outside of this it gets exponentially harder for women which is why FDS created the whole "level up" stuff for obese 30+ women to follow, which is actually misdirection and a huge waste of their time. Just be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Study: No evidence for the link between women’s preference for cues of masculinity and their hormonal status, adding up to the growing body of research failing to find support for dual mating strategy hypothesis.If anyone is interested on dualistic mating strategy of women and the alpha / beta dichotomy the please look at my posting history and check out my very first Post on the redpill subreddit. I provide clarification there on what it all is. Ovulatory shift might not be a thing but dualistic mating strategy is derived from the fact that arousal and attraction are two separate things for women. It's not the case for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Oh sorry I think I misunderstood your original comment and i thought you meant the girl wants to fuck the orbiter. It's the orbiter that wants to fuck her but she sees him as a "brother". Before this term beta orbiter even existed i was seeing different girls with their own orbiters. It made me understand very early that nice guy game doesn't get you laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.Correct. That's not what an orbiter is. An orbiter would be the guy that dropped her off at the bar because she asked him to, so she could go on a date with you. Then when you pump and dumped her , he is the shoulder for her to cry on in the next morning. He's trying to show all his best qualities as his front foot thinking she will eventually see his quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Women would be more insecure than men if they had to deal with female orbiters.No it's not. That has its own name. Orbiters come from the longer form of Beta Orbiters. Those are "nice guys" that want to get with a girl and show her his worth and like a puppy dog follow her around. The girl doesn't have a sexual interest in him and "sees him like a brother". But he's still trying to prove his worth! She will eventually notice it surely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How frequent is the AF in AF/BBThey are abstractions pulled from the fact that arousal and attraction are two separate things for women. You don't understand what it is. People are misusing it in the thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How frequent is the AF in AF/BBYou don't understand what AF and BB is. Look at my very first post in my post history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleNo I'm saying I didn't work on girls that way. Wild side was brought out in bedroom setting. It's not the same as what you're talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI wouldn't even be the best on this sub to do it. I've been married for years it's been too long. Maybe I'll get around to it but there's other things I want to post first with my limited time. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleAnyone can do it I prefer to work on other stuff | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI can't really comment on your post because I can't relate to it. I don't think the sorts of girls I've dated would not respond well to this sort of stuff. They were mostly nice girls and dated a few very nice guys. Hadn't been on the CC. I always stayed away from girls with major red flags even if they were ready to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyInternalizing is exactly what you're doing. Your using your past experiences to see how it fits into the redpill framework I set out in my first post. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI'm thinking of doing a book but I'm not sure. I'll post a few more essays and then if the mods let me make the post I'll ask a question on what people would want to see in a book. I have my own ideas but posting these essays helps me get some feedback. I'm hoping this Chapter 3 will help get the ball rolling. my next essay will be for helping too. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleWell the sex is bland and comes with strict conditions, but it's genuinely a type of arousal for a woman. It's more like comfort sex. Makes her feel good and she gets an orgasm and she enjoys it. There's definitely a sexuality tied to her comfort being served. Women that experience the other side of sexuality for the first time have their minds blown by how exhilarating it is for them. The sexual experience is very different for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI'll check it out. The attraction is genuine, I don't think comfort describes it better. There's a sexuality assigned to it, women aren't lying when they ask for more communication and comfort to get them in the mood. That's their default sexuality that they want foreplay and massages for. They need to feel relaxed and comfortable. That's the sexuality for Billy Beta. Women just don't understand where the other side of their sexuality is coming from, which turns them sexually aggressive. I've fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleThat wasn't your point. Your point was misinterpreting what I said for two posts in a row. I'm not having this discussion dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI'm not defining beta by scarcity mindset I'm defining beta by beta traits. As mentioned in first post. So you're still not understanding. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleNo I didn't. I said beta was useful for making male friends. Not that having male friends is beta. My post was about the utility of Beta Game. Beta Game is for yourself and for building rapport with men. I also said Beta Game is hard work. It's a lot of personal development. Alpha Game is relatively much easier, once you get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleMy next chapter is really going to rustle some jimmies | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyRead my other posts it's all relevant to your situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleYes that's the right move. You don't demand anyone to enter your frame or mental point of origin, or try to force it. When you're doing the confidence cues right and she's picked up on enough of them she will willingly join it and it's her decision. Everything gets easy after that. If you try to force it, it comes across as insecure and hurt feelings. If someone is being disrespectful it's different and you have to consider how your response is interpreted as self confident. Sometimes the most c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleSeems like a default engagement,nothing to make of it Work place is tough because it's going to be where indirect game works better and is safer. You'll know when your confidence cues are done right because you'll see men and women will come into your frame and mental point of origin rather than you falling into theirs. That's a natural response and it happens very quickly when you're doing it right. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleI'll answer you with some details in about 13-14 hrs. Just letting you know haven't forgotten you. Are you looking for a list of confidence cues? Because it's not going to work like this. You should surely be able to recognize confidence when you see it in people. They are giving off confidence cues. You should surely have some self-awareness of how you are in moments when you're in your element and feeling invulnerable. You're giving off confidence cues in those moments. If you're looking for a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 13 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleIt going to be different for different people. I'm not going to go be charismatic and extroverted because that's not me. My own version of confidence is in being calm and cocky-funny. One example is a girl I took on a date years ago. Took her to see one of the Hobbit movies. Back then a common fashion for women was a belt around the waist to show off the hourglass figure. She opened her front door wearing a loose white blouse and belt. The first thing that came out of my mouth was asking if she … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleIt doesn't take as much as you'd think. You'll be a lot more encouraged with it when you see results the first few times you are reframing things with a selfconfidence cue. The trick is to just do it as opportunities come to you, not to go looking for it. Just do your normal day and when an opportunity comes to pick a cue, give it a go. it's hard to define confidence cues because it looks different for different people. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Beta Game and its purposeGo for it. I've never really seen this work, from my experience. I think in these cases she's reacting to alpha cues but you're presenting her with your Beta Game. Good Beta Game is what gets you called "a great catch!" and "the perfect guy!" Women have a sexuality tied to their comfort and security but it's not the same, it doesn't make her sexually aggressive and getting her take the initiative. When you're hitting the arousal cues right you barely have to do anything, she's at the very least … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 40 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleMy entire post is about not trying to be Alpha because it backfires. As to the micromanagement stuff; it's about compartmentalization of how you behave and talk. I have to do it for my job because I have 70+ people working for me in a high intensity, all male environment. If I talked to my wife the way I talked at work, she would be in tears all the time. If I talked at work like I did to my wife, I'd be shit at my job. Separating the trait from the behavior is something I learned from my job. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Do average men really meet partners from dating apps? Or are you lying?it's because women actually do this. For hot guys they do it. I know dudes that use tinder like it's a free brothel. These guys put on a few modelling pics of themselves and it's open season. One of them I know will not even agree to meet up with a girl unless she's within 15 minutes walk for him or if she drives over to visit him. It's quite literally a different girl every weekend. If tinder existed back when I was in my early 20's and fit, I'd be using it the same. (I'm overweight and married… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?oh dear you think you're going to get "super hot guy" at the sperm bank? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about snooping?No I think snooping is necessary at times if you feel your partner is cheating. Cheating happens and behavioral changes are noticed by the partner. In those times, sure, check it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.holy shit do you know any single women over 30? They're not "doing fine" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:59 AM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").Did I hit a nerve or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Beta Game and its purposeDefining alpha and beta that way is pulling the cart before the horse though. You have to assign alpha and beta traits to each side of the arousal / attraction dichotomy of dualistic mating strategy. From there you define what it is about people that feed each side of dualistic mating. From there you decide which people are alpha and which are beta. Do you think that maybe abundance and scarcity mentalities are arguably traits in themselves that would fit into arousal (alpha) vs attraction (beta… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Beta Game and its purposeI speak about Alpha Game in terms of hitting arousal cues and Beta Game in terms of hitting attractive cues. alpha game and beta game is the difference between PUA and how Billy Beta uses his simp tactics. Billy Beta uses his best Beta Game to get his dick wet. It's not the utility of Beta Game, which is the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Beta Game and its purposeI guess that depends on the lifestyle and career choices. I need it for some elements of my work, for example. If you're a solitary kind of guy it's of no use to you. beta game is how you start building a rapport with people. It's not how I normally function at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").Is he someone you would have dated when you were 20? The qualities you see in him now, are they what you would have appreciated back then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itLook up my posting history. First post. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Beta Game and its purposeI did an entire post on arousal / attractive as the alpha / beta dichotomy. It's the only way to fit alpha and beta into dualistic mating strategy of women. You have to attach one to arousal and one to attractive. Otherwise you are attaching beta to something intangible other than just saying "not alpha". Read my first post and get back to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Beta Game and its purposeHave you read my first post on the alpha / beta dichotomy? Social influence would be an attractive quality (beta). That's not arousing (alpha). The confidence associated with the social influence might be arousing but by itself it makes a man attractive, which is beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Beta Game and its purposeThen I'm writing it right here. I'm connecting the dots behind stuff that Dale Carnegie found and how it fits into Alpha and Beta traits and working on your Alpha and Beta traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").About what? She's living the redpill. Found her billy beta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Beta Game and its purposeIt's not the post I promised next, I just wanted to clarify why beta isn't bad and what it's for. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Beta Game and its purposeRead my first post about what alpha and beta is. Also understand I'm not saying that building rapport and friendships is beta behavior. I'm saying that is what beta is for. I'm also not saying you should be beta with men as default. I'm saying that Beta Game is specifically for your own personal development and is a good tool for building rapport with men and maintaining friendships. That's why beta isn't bad. It's just got a different utility. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Beta Game and its purposeI don't think it is. Someone else has pointed out I'm not the first person to put alpha and beta on two separate axis. Read my first part about putting alpha and beta on two different axis. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").If it's dumb then why is she so predictable through the redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").Beta bucks isn't referring to money itself. It's about comfort and security. Women choose different types of guys during different stages of their maturity. Beta bucks is the nice guy. A FWB would have been an alpha fucks guy who isn't suitable for the a relationship . Instead you found a guy for your comfort and security. Everything you're saying is exactly the redpill. Everyone read up on redpill is just nodding your head as you explain yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.That's male biological hardwiring. Men are programmed to seek sexual access. That's the primary objective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.You're confused. It's not that they feel their value is determined by how many women they sleep with. It's when they aren't able to sleep with any women that they feel worthless. It's not that men slept with 4 girls and feel worthless because they didn't sleep with 40. It's that they've slept with 0 girls and it's staying at 0. Men are hardwired to attain sexual access. If they aren't getting it it's a psychological mindfuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.enthusiastic consent, holy shit it never ends does it. I want to write a dystopia novel where it's the future and it has all sorts of feminine bullshit like post-sex consent. Like a woman is able to withdraw her consent because it turned out he's not the dolphin trainer at Seaworld that he said he was and the guy goes to prison over it. It'd be like 1984 and I'd just fill the book with all sorts of side bullshit but instead of totalitarianism and surveillance it'd be bullshit like a guy a gets a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:14 AM |
| 10 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").Yes this fits in redpill theory. That's because you were 40 years old and looking for your beta bucks and comfort and security. It's women that still have options that are enticed by pre-selected men. Women in their early and mid 20's. Which means they're men that other women also are attracted to. You don't have options at your age. I have no doubt your spouse doing that kind of gesture was very attractive to you. It was completely beta move of him, very attractive to a woman in your demographi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | The Hierarchy Of GameChasing excellence is what Beta Game should be. It's personal development and self actualization. Because in the process of that you become attractive to women as her source of comfort and security. If you have good Beta Game you've personally developed well and simultaneously become a "great catch" for a woman in her 30's. Beta Game between men makes allies. That's stuff like Dale Carnegie's "how to win friends and influence people". That's a doctrine Dale Carnegie developed studying how influe… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThat's Acceptance. You'll notice the pushback for not validating their anger. The intensity of their feeling gives a feeling of righteousness. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itFor what purpose is your anger? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itIf you thought I was excusing cheating etc then you missed the point. The detail in my post was meant to get this through. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itEastern European women live in a world where they don't have their own comfort and security. Hence, they prioritize Beta Game as priority. You take them out of there and put them in a Western country and they adapt to the new environment. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itIt's Redpill 101 that the hardwiring is different. It's not men that have Hypergamy, for example. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itAnger is only useful for other peolle taking advantage of you. It doesn't help you analyze or plan rationally. You're likely either in Stage 2 yourself or you're taking advantage of them by validating it. They need to get to Acceptance of women being women. Or it's just perpetual noise and negative attention on this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI'm not going to go point by point but you're very much incorrect on the nature of pre-agricultural societies. They were monogamous in the sense that people paired, but sexual relationships were not strictly monogamous. You are being deliberately obtuse or just did not have the social awareness to see women pine for the top men in their environment. We got better at monogamy with technology and traditional and religious institutions. For the previous 100,000 years, not so much. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itYou misunderstood and maybe I wasn't clear. I simplified it for keeping an already huge essay small. Alpha male is just an abstraction to separate arousing traits from attracting traits. I didn't mean alpha male in the sense of a harem owning alpha male. Anthropologists actually say of pre-agricultural tribes (hunter-gatherer) that the tribe raises the children together regardless of who is their's. On the surface it looks that people pair off 1:1. That fits with what you say about no harems and… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itHow long have you been redpilled for and how did you come to this point in your life? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Infidelity and number of sexual partners are both under moderate genetic influence (41% and 38% heritable, respectively) and the genetic correlation between these two traits is strong (47%)I don't think it's genetics so much as it is people learning from their parents on how to compromise. That means watching mom roll her eyes over Dad once in awhile. At other times watching dad snap at mom to stop carrying on about bullshit. They settle their shit and the music keeps playing. People that are raised with parents that didn't stay together pick up on all the habits and cues that are repeatable. I have kids of my own and it's quite frightening what they pick up on. Even before they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itunconscious opportunists is correct. If you don't mind, I'll borrow the phrase. I think the more correct moral framework depends on the circumstances. If we leave it to pure female morale framework, it'll be for the overwhelming disadvantage of men. I think this is a zero sum game, that there are a lot of things where one side has to lose for another to gain. That's the stage we have got to now. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itit's in my post history. I've only made 2 posts | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itwould you agree that a woman with narcissism and BPD is of worse quality than an average woman? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itAnd how long have you been reading redpill content? For how long have you been in this? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itYou're telling me stuff im already aware of. Ive been where you are. Back when I didn't get it. Tell me, what was the trigger point for you to end down the path of the redpill? What was your personal experience? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itIt's just part of Grief. Most will get through it but it takes time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThis post won't get upvoted high because of the number of Stage 2's, 3's and 4's downvoting as I'm not validating their feelings. It's like arguing with women, you can't change minds when feelings are this intense. I expect my 4th Chapter will get the same pushback. The people like my post have accepted women for what they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 06:26 AM |
| -1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itYou misunderstood what I meant by role models not working. some guys just don't get it, they live around it in high school and they still don't get it. The fact you can't grasp different moral structures exist shows you have very limited interactions with other cultures and with women in general. We just don't define right and wrong the same. Gender affects moral structure. Culture changes moral structure. It's not uniform. People see things differently. Women see things differently. If you can'… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThank you, your feedback means a lot to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itplease check out my first post as well. Once you truly accept women for what they are it really sets you free. You can see the Stage 2, 3 ,4 guys in this thread aren't accepting it. Trying to tell me stuff I already know. Maybe this post was a waste of my time, it was meant for them... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI was planning on that in the next Chapter. but there seems to be a niche in everything I'm discussing so I'm wondering if I should just do an amazon kindle book or something. To explain it comprehensively without gaps I'd need to explain the Alpha / Beta dichotomy, female hardwiring and explain how to implement working around with it in about 10,000 words which is the size of an Amazon book. I've got about 1000 words done for this Chapter but the more I write the more I'm realizing there's noth… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itWe've already been here. You assume too much and still try to fit women into masculine moral framework. Like a cat telling a dog it's a shitty cat. It's just women being women. Once you're over the anger and depression you can deal with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:03 AM |
| 13 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI'd rather head to eastern europe and be treated like a king Stage 3: Bargaining Women are the same everywhere. The hardwiring is the same. Another tough lesson to learn. When you get that you'll really hit rock bottom in Stage 4, like there's no hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itRole model doesn't work. Some men just don't have the social IQ to understand what is going on around them and even in high school didn't pick up girls were into the few hot arrogant guys. It takes some degree of social intelligence to work. Your second paragraph is still understanding women through a masculine morale framework and expecting them to fall in line, have libido because of his good Beta Game. That's not how female sexuality works. You know this already. You're the cat telling the do… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThanks it means a lot to me | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 12:44 AM |
| 9 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThose men are still in Stage 1 or not even there yet. It usually takes a trauma or something to that regard. For me personally, my marriage went deadbedroom and simultaneously I had an ex-gf from many years ago who had pigeon holed me as her Beta try to come back onto my radar. I was at a loss over what the fuck was going on and in the process of finding answers I came across Redpill Theory. I went through the same stages of Grief even while I was married, with kids. It got to Acceptance before … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 12:10 AM |
| 7 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI'm mad at the idiot cucks who passed feminist laws and the idiot cucks who would turn against a brother because they put some wet hole on a pedestal. I wanted to write about these people too in this post but I didn't want to add another 500 words either. You're in Stage 2 and you aren't understanding these men are operating under the masculine moral framework too. They see things through Beta Prism. They believe Beta Prism is how it works so being men they turn it into a competition to out do e… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:49 PM |
| -1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI didn't say loyalty is a masculine trait. Loyalty is a feminine trait too but it has a different form. It's why women are generally more offended by the emotional betrayal of infidelity rather than the act of sex and visa versa for men. Women can be fiercely loyal to men, if they're the alpha. In that case, other men become invisible to them. That's where the concept of Alpha Widow is pulled from. Even loyalty expresses itself differently between genders. Which is the point of the post. You are… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itLying doesn't fit into either morale framework. That's still a bad woman under the feminine moral framework. If that's what you took out of it, you misread. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itYou'll see it in the thread over the next couple days. Some guys have given up (stage 4 depression) some guys are brushing it off because I'm not validating their feelings of rage (stage 2). Another guy says he'll go to Eastern Europe to be treated as a King (stage 3). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 11 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itYou're still in the anger stage. What you're saying isn't lost on me, already been there. It takes time. I was expecting comments like this. It's as predictable as a woman through the redpill prism (extremely predictable!) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI'll get into this more in chapter 3 and 4. Women aren't being monsters. Youre operating under different moral structures. You're a cat telling a dog he's being a bad cat. In some cases women are monsters, BPD and narcissists, cheaters, etc. But it's your job to keep her in a frame of masculine morale structure or things will work better for her than both of you, and I get into that in the next chapter. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 16 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itThanks for feedback it means a lot to me. I'm sure I properly grasp how to apply redpill I've seen my own results first hand. I'm wondering if I should write a book (kindle etc).... Through a book I could make it far more comprehensive and clear cut. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itChapter 1 is in my post history. First post. Next chapter I haven't finished yet | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itWhat was it in your life that brought you here? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 12 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itSounds like you're in Stage 4: Depression. Everyone follows this path, bud. Chapter 4 I will address the rise of inceldom and its reasons, but next chapter is relevant to you too and these two chapters will help you moving forwards to solve this. You won't start on it until you've accepted the reality of it. Also, you're probably not even sufficiently Beta which I address in previous Chapter if you haven't read it already. You're addressing Beta Game with a good job but that's not what Beta Game… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itI really did try to keep it concise but the examples are important. You will see the different stages of Grief expressed in this thread. People in this community in Stage 2 and Stage 4 will not like my post because it doesn't validate how they feel. You will see people push back at them who are in Stage 5. Everyone goes through the process of Grief and it's not until Stage 5 you start looking at ways to making the most of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Not a fair thing to say. Women don't really go on mass shootings, not a female way of raging out. Women do other stuff instead like kill own kids, make false accusations to send men to prison or lose access to their kids, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:42 AM |
| -2 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).The difference is sexual agency is the most powerful thing women have. Most men never had it to begin with and relied purely on their own merit. Women live life as men by age ~35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyStarfish sex is to overemphasize the point. It's the difference between your gf doing vanilla sex with you and setting rules on certain things she's willing to do with you vs the next guy is that comes into her life she pigeon holes as alpha and she willingly gives him pornstar access. Girls don't need to feel heard, that's rules for Billy Beta. they just need to pigeon hole you as alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 06:15 AM |
| 5 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyYou get it already. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyIt's a Beta trait because it's a trait to serve her comfort and security. It's not something in itself that gets the 'gina tingles. Realistically, it's usually tied in with confidence in the social setting, it's the confidence that's tied into it which is Alpha | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Sexual peaknot long left to go! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyThis is chapter 1. Topic you're talking about Ill get into after I do chapter 2 | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyIt's not about staring them down either. It's about being hyper-aware if your eye contact is a cue for shyness or self confidence. You don't want your eye contact to signal your shy, timid, nice, etc. You want it sending the cue you're confident. Do it wrong and you'll give creep vibe which I'll expand on what creepy is in the next chapter about female morale framework. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyIt's a good thing to call her bs out and I will get into this in Chapter 3 on how to set yourself up to be able to do it as a default | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyyes it would be Alpha-Omega and Beta-Omega. X and Y graph and Coordinate 0,0 is ultimate Omega. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategy"being Alpha" is a spook and I'll get to that in Chapter 3. "being Alpha" is just women forming an idea of you based on the cues you give her. You are in complete control of the cues you give out. Focus on fixing all your cues rather than being an Alpha. It starts with your body posture and body language, and then it's holding eye contact and how you talk to people. "Being an alpha" is also about stopping yourself from behaviors and actions you once intended to send cues of being a funny, nice, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyChapter 3 and 4 will focus on that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyIt's absolutely not just about that. Game is more important outside of dating apps, but guys won't want to hear it. Game is about projecting high self-confidence cues. It's not about having high-confidence, it's about the cues. I will explain it more in Chapter 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 09:27 AM |
| 7 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategythis feedback means a lot to me, it's exactly what I was hoping to get through | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Your 30s are the most ideal time to get married.Women age 35 have little to no sexual agency to influence men. That's what it means when I say they're basically living life as men. I disagree that they have more value than men at 35, I think the switch happens closer to around 30. At age 35, the music in the game of musical chairs has stopped and she better scramble for a good one because most of them are broken or divorced chairs with little baby chair children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Funny and smart do not work female sexuality. Unless worked from a cocky angle. Funny and smart in itself don't get them giddy to go, it's not how it works. I actually just made a post on theredpill about common misconceptions I posted it today. I know what you said. Several times a week implying every day and possibly more than once. We don't do it even that much because we have duties to do, unless you don't have kids.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Several, implying you are sometimes doing it twice a day? Come on at least make it believable if you're going to lie. Who the fuck has time and energy for that much intimacy with all the responsibilities and hobbies/interests built up over over 9 years? I'm almost 10 years myself. Great sex life with my wife but I wouldn't get anything done properly if we were banging this much. Life gets in the way sometimes. Reading your posts you claim your wife is hot and you used to bang hot girls and you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?And how active is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 16 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyI'm still warm and sticky on the inside. Also, not an argument! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?No you aren't. One of you is leading in different situations and you change it up depending on the circumstance. There is no such things as an egalitarian relationship. If you think you're equals, she's probably leading but in the feminine form of leadership. And you're in denial. How long have you been together? This generally kills the bedroom over time and creates deadbedrooms in long term relationships. Female libido is connected to male dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 8 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyI thought about graphing it for the sake of explaining it in this post but I don't have the artistic ability anyway. You could put archetypes of both pure alpha and pure beta on the far ends of the X and Y axis and male celebrities in territory where X and Y values are both high. You get incels as you get closer to (0, 0) values. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 10:18 PM |
| 11 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyUnlike TRP which is just a prism to understanding women through, nofap/pornfree is a movement based actual biological science on the neurochemical hormone Dopamine which drives all our motivations in life. Not just getting our dicks wet, but everything we do from cleaning our room to making a new friend. Porn fucks with our dopamine circuit in the same way that hard drugs do. High Speed Porn with unlimited novelty (eg. pornhub) is essentially Meth-lite and is turning you to a half-way junkie. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyporn is the biggest reason, you don't even need Chapter 4. Porn kills all aspects of Beta Game and elements of Alpha Game. You've figured it out already I just didn't want to fill this thread up with something I haven't written up comprehensively yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 08:53 PM |
| 13 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyWomen control access to sex and men control access to relationship. Incels are defined by women's mating selections. If you don't make the cut, you're an incel. I think it might be as high as 30% but that's a discussion for Chapter 4 if I get around to making it. You're definitely on the right path, it's largely a self-inflicted wound. It relates to our dopamine circuits and artificial stimulants in the modern world. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?If you are a vidya-playing, chore-shirking American dipshit, she will devour your kidneys before your very eyes. You're throwing a whole other issue in the mix to invalidate my point. I was never suggesting 'vidya playing chore-shirking Americans' can solve their problem for seeking female femininity. I'm saying the HVM will take that over (and the Eastern European woman will appreciate it). I was pointing out an example of female femininity done attractively. Regardless, I've spent enough time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 07:47 PM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?It's not the same between men and women. If you let women lead they lose their libido it results in a dead bedroom relationship. It's to do with the way female sexuality is wired, which isn't the same as it is for us. I'd be happy to let women lead otherwise. Regardless of this, I still find submissive women naturally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?it has nothing to do with submissive women being naturally more attractive to most men. Feminine, demure, submissive women. Not loud, assertive, bossy, masculine women which is getting more common in the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Russian women were submissive before the change in laws. Women in every country east of Germany were submissive before the change in laws in Russia. You brought domestic violence to the table because it's something you could tie to my morals. You're being disingenuous then and you are now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?So you want women from countries where domestic abuse isn’t a crime? I gave you a second chance for discourse after this nonsense and you tried round 2 and tell me I want a woman with no thoughts of her own. You're being disingenuous as a tactic. It has no place here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?If you just want a woman who does you whatever you want with no thoughts of her own, Alright we are going to stop this discussion here because you're trying to have discourse through disingenuous positions and strawmans. You should be banned for it really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?That's not why women behave submissive you clown. Every woman East of Germany is like this. It's old order culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?I want women who are as feminine as you but are actually biologically women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyfor a man yes, not for a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Your 30s are the most ideal time to get married.I'm a guy in my 30's and that's my experience too (although I'm married). Many seem kind of unhinged if they've remained single into their 30's. I think it's connected to some deeper self awareness that they don't have the sexual agency they used to and a lot of them develop coping mechanisms which seem out of place. Like how they post on social media. Life after 35 for a woman is living as a man. Sexual agency has no potency anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyI can guarantee your arousal floor is far lower than that of a typical a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?The Russian girls I knew were married with deadbeats and prolific cheaters. Except one Russian lady whose husband was looking after her 2 young kids at home and she was out at a bar to cheat on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?The Russian girls I knew were married with deadbeats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Oh you're looking for a beta male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Men marry women expecting them not to change. Women marry men expecting they can change them. It often works out this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 02:00 PM |
| -3 | What's the appeal of women to you?who is on your radar? Simps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?All well and good but you just hurt your own chances at getting the highest quality man you can achieve when the girl next to you is doing it right. There's only a limited number of them to go around. It's all up to you how you do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?pretend or not pretend, it's all very attractive. It's the same way men pretend to be something they not to fuck a woman, which is what he's trying to get. Russia has a lot of deadbeat men, I noticed that. What are you? Tatar? Kafkas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?I know some Russian women and I've been to Russia. It's the same deal. Women act feminine and submissive and it's very attractive to men. It makes these women very magnetic. Not in the way to control them, but to be the man who is providing comfort and security (which women want anyway). There are feminine qualities that men judge women by in the same way that women have masculine qualities they judge men by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?No but expectations are very high. Common phrase is leave your feelings at the door. I'm one of the good ones actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?That might be it. We're very busy and don't have time for bullshit. Women in the environment create bullshit. It's very rarely the women doing it, it's the men and how their behavior changes. It's so much easier when it's all guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:13 PM |
| -3 | What's the appeal of women to you?I used to work in an all male environment and I strongly prefer it. There's a bit of a hierarchy that forms but it works and it's functioning. Whenever a woman got thrown into the mix it really upset the dynamics of everything going on due to the way some guys get around any woman, I felt like I was on animal planet with the chest beating and peacocking. It was a high testosterone environment though. In saying that, through my experience of being married, I think man and woman together get the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?Maybe eventually, there's something else I want to write up first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?The guys that are repulsed by sluts are seeing women through the ideals of monogamy. Dudes like you love sluts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?To marry/LTR? Or just to fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:32 AM |
| 2 | What's the appeal of women to you?That full list could be pages long. I think different men fall for different traps. I've avoided some but fell for others. These are the kinds of red flags i didn't pick up on because of youth/inexperience etc. avoiding women with a string of simps/orbiters that she kept around while I was banging her. 10+ years later i still don't understand what drives some girls to do this. Seriously, some girls had like a harem of orbiters. This was before age 21 or so, we were pretty young. Avoiding girls w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 4 | The Direct Approach vs the Indirect ApproachYes women generally follow the same trend in thought during different points of their maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 08:58 AM |
| -1 | What's the appeal of women to you?I don't know what planet you're on but here on earth, everyone has had the same experience as me in that Eastern European women famously submissive and feminine relative to the women in western English speaking countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?It's not about serving men. It's about letting men take the lead, which eastern European women do. Your men also behave more dominating than western men too. You have much more structured gender roles in your culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:21 AM |
| 3 | The Direct Approach vs the Indirect ApproachWomen are as predictable as the tides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:13 AM |
| -4 | What's the appeal of women to you?I've met loads of eastern European girls and yes you are. Relative to western Anglo girls. It's all in order of degrees. Polish Trad cons have much different expectations than western Trad cons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:10 AM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?Women have it easier in our field in some sense. There's more opportunities, for starters. That's because of the drive to get more women into it. But after this you obviously have to succeed on your own merit. Don't stress over going dualistic split over work and home. Guys at work might be a little brow raising at times seeing an assertive female setting her expectations and showing a little more disagreeableness than an average woman, but when they see you out of work they'll appreciate there'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | The Direct Approach vs the Indirect ApproachYou're in exactly the age bracket I'd expect to say your original comment. In fact I literally thought to myself 'most likely she's 34-35'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:56 AM |
| -1 | The Direct Approach vs the Indirect ApproachHow old are you now? Roughly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:47 AM |
| 11 | What's the appeal of women to you?I understand exactly what you're saying but people need to learn how to compartmentalize. I do it for my job. If I talked to my wife like I do at work she'd be in tears all the time. If I talked at work like I do to my wife id be very shit at my job. Being attractive to men requires different traits to surviving in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:44 AM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?Obviously those are movies and they're pushed to the boundaries to show caricatures. It was relationship porn for men in those decades. But that is the direction to go. Look at that for any tips or inspiration when trying to figure out what is feminine and submissive. I'm actually an engineer too, engineering manager I have 70+ working for me. A good engineer is an assertive engineer, you're going to have to develop masculine traits to be good at your job. It's more so how you manage your relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:37 AM |
| 4 | What's the appeal of women to you?It's high agreeableness personality traits on the Big Five Five test. I don't think it's socialized as much as it's hardwired. Femininity and submissiveness is easy just look up old movies and see how the attractive women in these stories are behaving. These movies were made by men and to fit themes appealing to men. Nothing has changed on an instinctual level, men are still eeamoured by women like this. I'll give you the heads up. A lot of women want masculine and dominant men and make the mist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:23 AM |
| 7 | What's the appeal of women to you?Outside of fertility cues like tits and ass, men typically value femininity and submissiveness, it's very attractive. Submissiveness doesn't mean like a dog or slave. It means she is considerate to what the guy is doing and letting him lead when he wants to lead. In modern culture this is becoming a thing women should refuse to do but that's an argument for another thread. Men still find submissiveness very attractive. I banged a bunch of women in my 20's including some hot but insane ones. I le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?Women dont think like that. If he's heavily hitting alpha cues then she sees him as a human dildo and that's it. Women just want to fuck and they want to lock down a guy that can provide for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?They don't demean a girl because she didn't bang him. They demean a girl because slutty women are inherently repulsive to men on an instinctual level. It's a male feeling that women don't experience. Women have their own instinctual feelings, like some guys are creepy (men don't have this feeling). If men think you're a hoe it's not a good thing, it means they find the idea of a monogamous relationship with you utterly repulsive. It's basically the equivalent of a woman thinking a guy is creepy,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?Yes that's the redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?Upvoting this because it proves the redpill community so correct lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Is the rise in selective promiscuous women noticeable to you?What's the colored light shit. What you've said is exactly the red pill. Women confirming your post is exactly the red pill. Red light are omegas, theyre the incels Yellow light are betas. These are husband material and good father material. Girls call these guys "a great catch" and "the perfect guy". Women make these kinds of guys wait for sex to prove she is the comfort and security she's looking for. Green light are alphas. Physically hot and very confident, they have Game. Women feel like th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:39 AM |
| 13 | The Direct Approach vs the Indirect ApproachWomen say this more and more as they get past the age of 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 05:34 AM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyYes youre a typical woman. Men don't really have an arousal floor. If she's not too obese and she's in the fertility window (not too young and not too old), men will want to fuck her. Women have a much higher arousal floor, only a minority of men meet the cut off. Women chase quality and men chase quantity. It's not that you're literally turned "on" and ready to go. It's that you identify a minority of men are for fucking, as opposed to men identify all women are for fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.Your angle of abuse and violence isnt working totally safe environment. You're trying to reframe everything I've said in a different way that fits the narrative. Women loved getting fucked hard doggy while pulling on their ponytail and slapping them on the butt and pulling their arms behind their back. Consensual sex, both parties enjoyed it. Also you're right that presence draws submission by his presence. That's always how it's worked. If the guy is doing it right she will willingly be submiss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.If your active sex life is going on 20 years you're actually not much older than me, you might even be the same generation. Again with the narrative of violence and abuse. Nobody was physically harmed in the making of those orgasms. You're inventing a scandal. Every woman I have ever fucked like this loved it. It didn't matter how nice and innocent (little experience) they were. They wanted it consistently after. Even my wife loves it. Vanilla is actually really complex and here is me trying to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Question about “the wall”Men still have a growing career and income into their 30's. I don't think their physical looks plummet so much between early 30's and late 30's. The cliff drops in the mid-40s. Men arent gonna get with a woman who looks good and that's all she has to offer. Huh? It's the most important thing she has to offer. If she's looking good and acting feminine and submissive to him then almost nothing else is going to matter. That's what men principally care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.I have my doubts seeing as the domination vs submissive dynamic was how the Romans understood sex too. It's why they found the act of cunnilingus to be scandalous for a man because in this case he's being submissive. In male homosexual acts it wasnt so bad to be the top but it was scandalous to be the bottom. "It's all men's fault she's being dominated and degraded in sex or she learned to enjoy it" This is typical woman logic, I guess that hasn't changed between generations. The woman never has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.Not necessarily. Certainly porn is very damaging to men and I write about it often here. I don't actually get off on degrading or too much domination. I introduce it because women really love it. I'm perfectly fine not spitting in a girls face it doesn't do anything for me but some girls really get into it. My experience is women are loving it. The dominant vs submissive dynamic is very real. I put anal on the category of degrading/humiliating by the way, if they like getting fucked in the ass t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.The ones doing it might not be telling you and a lot of women don't explore it or think of it unless the guy leads on it introduces it. By the way, guys leading in sex is also another element of dominating. Doggy is also in that spectrum. In my experience, and experience of advising guys on it, women who are only used to vanilla sex go wild for a bit of domination vs submissive dynamic once they've tried it. The amount of dominating steps up in order of degrees. I've never found a girl to dislik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Question about “the wall”Men peak more like late 30's because they have other factors that make them attractive to women like their career and self confidence. Women don't have that going for them. Men value women principally by fertility cues, weight and femininity/submissiveness which peaks early 20's. Men don't really give a shit about her career or shit like that. A pretty, feminine 23 year old beats her 33 year old version of herself every time. We are talking about potential of course because lots of men get obese… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Women are the "wild" gender nowIf they can't achieve alpha game to fuck women then they're going to need beta game to do it. I was going to say it's a man's choice to prefer escapisms like video games and porn as an alternative but it actually isn't. Video games and porn start as an escapisms and because it's enjoyable but they become dependencies with time as it's giving you dopamine squirts, which is how addiction works. At this point you feel the need to jerk off to porn as a routine and sit in front of your computer and e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Is this considered misogynyThe fact I could tell you were a woman from your initial comment says otherwise. Guys and girls interpret what is and isn't degrading differently. If you even highlight a way men and women are different in any way it generates negative feelings in a woman and that's misogyny to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Despite TRP claiming that most women have violent rape fantasies, in reality it's mostly just victims of childhood sexual abuse that do.I'm disagreeing I think the rape fantasy is very common in women principally because sex has a dominant vs submissive dynamic at play and most women want to be submissive. It doesn't mean they actually want to be raped though, but it's in that theme of being submissive so I'm sure it comes up in fantasy. 90% of women love hard doggy while you pull on their hair, hold their arms behind their back and shove their face in a pillow. Doesn't matter if they're church-every-Sunday types and prim and pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Women are the "wild" gender nowArousal (alpha) and attraction (beta) are two different things for women. Arousal comes from masculine good looks and the bad boy archetype. attraction comes from everything women say they like in a man, he's husband material and provides comfort and security, it includes things like status job, ambition, generosity, kindness, respectfulness, funny, educated, etc. Beta game is the strategy men naturally develop to entice women typically when they weren't hot enough to easily attract girls during… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:21 PM |
| -2 | Women are the "wild" gender nowNo it's not it collects all research papers into porn, sex and internet addiction into one site. Go have a look at it. The papers themselves are concluding addiction model around porn use, not the website. It's an excellent website and the author puts together a thesis around what the research is showing. It includes shocking discoveries like porn/internet addiction actually reduce grey matter and fuck with the functions of your frontal cortex. Molecule of More is another great book but is speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:07 PM |
| -2 | Women are the "wild" gender nowIt's high speed porn specifically that messes with your dopamine circuit. Stuff like Pornhub. Inceldom kicked off in rates when access to high-speed porn happened. Yourbrainonporn has a lot of research into how high speed porn specifically is responsible for it. Go hang out in nofap and pornfree communities and loads of people self-reporting life changing results from quitting porn. Getting their first girlfriends, getting promotions at work, making loads of friends and hobbies etc. It's all rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Is this considered misogynyYes I knew you were a woman because you used it in such a broad encompassing way. It takes a woman to use that term and just assume everyone knows what you're talking about. Guys have fatigue from the term because it gets thrown around any time when it's not even applicable. Common denominator is always a woman being offended or feeling negative emotions about an opinion expressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Is this considered misogynyThe problem is that misogyny to women is anything that makes them have had feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 7 | It seems to be common knowledge that fewer men are dating and in relationships than women. But if the gender ratio is roughly 50/50, how can this be?Women are god damn clueless dude. You talk to any of them in this sub and they're so damn detached to what's going on. They think for their ONS they're "vibing" and "hitting it off" and it's just Chad warming her up for the pounding she's going to get later in the evening. In the history of mankind there has never been a man talk about a girl he picked up in the terms of "oh we were vibing and hitting it off, there were sparks omg!". It's always "yeah she was dtf so she gave me a bj in the back … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Women are the "wild" gender nowThere's truth to this in that seeing as women can provide their own security and comfort it means men have to do even better Beta Game to get ahead again. But men frying their dopamine circuits is an even bigger part of this I think. I don't think banning women from the work force is fair on women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:18 AM |
| -5 | Women are the "wild" gender nowMen are incels because they fucked up their Beta Game with escapisms like video games and high speed porn which fuck up dopamine circuits. If you're interested to know more I can backsearch one of my comments explaining the science behind why young men are so fucked. Incels largely did it to themselves. Beta Game has always been the #1 way for men to fuck often, by becoming attractive enough for a woman to partner with. Beta Game is hard work and energy and takes years and you can't do that when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are the "wild" gender nowWhat are you talking about taking men's reason for living? It was always like this, nothing has changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Question about “the wall”It's because guys get better jobs as they get older, you goober. Obviously guys in their 30's are going to have better jobs than guys you match in your 20's. Guys keep getting better jobs and job titles into their 30's and 40's too. Also you're in a stage in life where you care a little less about his arousing qualities and a little more about what comfort and security he can provide for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Question about “the wall”yeah these are largely Beta's who they weren't interested in in their 20's. I actually feel pity for the guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Question about “the wall”Women increase their standards into their 30's as they become more experienced in life and figure out exactly what they want in a man which by this point none meet. Mix this in with the fact that she has to compete with younger women and it's just really limiting her chances of getting a guy she wants. That's not what 'the wall' is. The wall is a phrase from athletics when they've peaked and it only declines from there. Women peak in their looks at some point in their 20's (normally) and then th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:34 AM |
| 21 | Women are the "wild" gender nowAre you a guy? You either just can't relate or you're a woman and have no awareness of what the average population is like. 50%-60% maybe can make themselves have decent arousing cues through physically getting in shape and get an attitude adjustment, but it's different leagues. Talk to any hot guy and ask his personal experiences with just how slutty women can be. I was the hot guy for part of my 20's, I'm telling you women can be surprised at their own slutiness during and after the fact. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:25 AM |
| 6 | Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferencesIt's just not how women are biologically wired. Arousal and attraction are two different things for women. Arousal cues are cues you're complaining about. Women aren't conciously doing this Women are wired to be aroused by this as men are wired to love big titties on a slim 20yo. Men don't really have this distinction between arousal vs attraction because we don't have an arousal floor. As long as she isn't too obese and she is within the fertility window (not too old and not too young) we will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Big argument in LTR. Advice?you get used to unresolved tension once you start seeing things from a higher order perspective on what's going on. I used to try to be the big responsible man and approach my angry wife for a peace deal after every fight but it's the Beta play and failing the shit test. Made me feel like I was doing the right thing but it never fixed anything. I really don't know what you can do specifically. Just don't go pinging her with apologies and promises and all that. Stop mediating the unresolved tensi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Big argument in LTR. Advice?I'd really have to know more info and it's not the kind of thing I'll ever get from not knowing you or your partner and discussing this with your perspective of how it played out. I don't advise breaking up over it either. This is nothing man, it's reversible. Stubborn is fine just don't forget to remind her at some point that she's so stubborn that her Patronus Charm is a donkey, but do it when she's calmed down a bit so it's not starting another fight. You need some ice breakers for when she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?The hot and handsomeness are arousal traits, that's alpha game. He's not that much of a pure beta if he's physically hot. Seems like he has a mixture of both alpha and beta traits. When your libido scales back over time just be aware he might be being a little too Beta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:34 AM |
| 16 | Big argument in LTR. Advice?Hi guy, Crusty the Jizzsock here. Crusty on the outside but still warm and sticky on the inside. You just failed a shit test, my friend. What's done is done but you'll get more of these as bad as this one or worse, because you failed this one. When you pass a few of these they'll scale back in levels of drama so don't freak out over it. Women dial this shit upto hardcore mode the more you fail them and dial them back down the more you pass them. They'll never end though. When she became an emoti… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 09:16 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?All of that is why you're attracted to him. What about him makes you aroused by him? Unless you want to tell me that house chores arouses you. He definitely sounds like you found your Bily Beta to fulfill your comfort and security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 07:44 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Are you sure he's a beta by redpill standards? Seems like a lot of girls here don't understand the dichotomy, what are alpha cues and beta cues. One said she found her husband's voice and the way he walks arousing. So he's got alpha cues. You're talking about foreplay but what is it in your fiance you find arousing in him? He likely has alpha and beta cues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Question for women: have you ever actually dated a red pill man?Acting like a douche specifically doesn't mean anything. It's usually girls with low self esteem and somewhat damaged that respond well to it anyway. You get what you work for. The arrogant douchebag is one archetype of the alpha vs beta dichotomy but there's many. The common theme is usually masculine good looks and badboy archetype personality traits. It doesn't mean you can't be pleasant or sweet but you have to be this at the appropriate context where youre not seeking her validation for it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Question for women: have you ever actually dated a red pill man?Being confident and letting girls know you want to be with them and not getting hurt by rejection is what work That's is the red pill.... Welcome to the redpill brother. As for your girlfriend not sleeping with you because you might have been a player. Some girls are in this looking for a relationship and don't want to get pump and dumped. Not every woman is out there wanting casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Question for women: have you ever actually dated a red pill man?This is not what TRPers stand for at all. TRP is just accepting that attraction and arousal are two different things for women, alpha fucks and beta bucks stems from that distinction. What guys do with this information is their own choice. I'm still kind to my wife but I do it from a red pill prism. For example, I wouldn't buy her flowers to get back in her good books after a fight and i wouldn't do romantic shit on a schedule like Valentine's Day or her Bday. I did buy her surprise flowers to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkI'm upvoting you to leave me alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 12:34 AM |
| 21 | Summary of the academic consensus on the impact of sexual history on infidelity and divorceThat's women hissing about men judging them for their sex history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYou're downvoting me each comment. I know who's crying and it's hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Sweety those are alpha cues, except humor normally isn't if he's just simply funny. But there can be arousing sense of humor, teasing and self confidence etc. So he's hitting arousing cues. Sounds like he has both arousing and attractive qualities. If he talks and walks a little more beta hows that sex drive going to go? That's what it means about beta'ing out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | How to Change your Personality and Quality of Life.For me the red pill is accepting that arousal and attraction are two different things for women. That's the nature of female sexuality and everything stems from that. Alpha fucks and beta bucks stems from the fact that arousal and attraction are two different things. What you do with that information is your business. Men don't really have a distinction between arousal and attraction because we don't really have an arousal floor. As long as she's not too obese and not out of her fertility window… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 5 | How to Change your Personality and Quality of Life.It's all truth how dare you | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYou're still screeching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?What is it that makes him sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkour sex life is good, our family life is good, all this despite your hurt feelings. Don't worry about it and move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkI don't value women any less than I value any man. Welcome to equality. I look after my wife and she knows it. I do my beta bucks duty to her and our family. If I seem like an asshole it's only because for too long I was rewarded for it. That's an issue you need to take up with your own gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkNothing in my comment is about respect or value, you're inventing shit now. You've gone shrill and hysterical and need to sit down and drink some water | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?arousal and attraction are different things for women. That's how women are fundamentally the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?I get what you're saying here I'm just making the distinction between hot and handsome. Handsome is definitely both, it's definitely important for beta game. Hot is a different kind of handsome, it's alpha handsome. I don't disagree with you at all I shouldnt split hairs on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?being hot is part of alpha game. Beta game doesn't kill sex drive, lack of alpha game does. If all you have is beta game she's going to starfish sex you in exchange for good boy points because her libido just isn't going to be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 69 | How to Change your Personality and Quality of Life.This is completely wrong about what Beta traits are. People are treating Alpha and Beta like they are on a single axis and if you aren't one then you're the other. Or that Beta is a bad thing. All of this is wrong. Alpha and Beta are pulled from the distinction that Arousal and Attraction are two separate things for women. Arousal is Alpha traits. This piques a woman's sexuality. That is masculine good looks, he's physically hot and has the badboy archetype and all the personality traits associa… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 10:10 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?oh sweety you're only early. I was still getting a blowjob every morning at this point. Beta creep takes time buddy but you seem to be on your way there. The 7 year itch for women exists because of the length of time it takes. It's actually the year in the relationship women are most likely to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Depends on where they are in the menstrual cycle and stage in maturity (age). What they want from a man can be divided into arousal traits (alpha) and attraction traits (beta). They want alpha and beta but applied at different times. Alpha traits drive a woman's sexuality and beta traits drive her comfort and security. That's the redpill. Men are much easier. balls emptied and stomach full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Maybe it's just easier for men to understand what I meant by that. Guys are doing all this shit hoping to get their woman happy because they come under the false belief that doing things for wife = she doing things for him (ie. good sex life). The best they get out of this is deadbedroom and starfish sex and sometimes it takes soul crushing levels of beta game. If it really worked as easy as you say you'd see husbands doing backflips into the kitchen every afternoon to wash the dishes, followed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 09:40 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?That's not the reason why it's beta. It's beta if you think she's going to reciprocate with the sexuality you desire just because you're eating her out. She won't. She isn't going to fuck you any better for doing housework either. It's not how women's sexuality works. Nice attempt at reframing this though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?This is how it normally starts but the beta creep seeps into his personality and then you lose the libido in the relationship for reasons you can't explain other then being out of the honeymoon phase or he needs to help out more with the housework, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?My earlier comment was what I believe. Women don't understand their own sexuality or what drives their emotions. It's why my friends listening to their wives exist in dead bedroom marriages no matter what beta game she gets them slaving for while I was able to fix mine. Key difference was I stopped listening to my wife on certain issues and understood female sexuality through the red pill lens. In fact it helped me understand all my successes and failures with women going back to being a teenage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Why do you suppose every single married man would disagree with what you've said here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 07:10 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?My opinion is women don't know what they want. They'll give a laundry list of beta traits like one person here saying to "kill the bugs, take the kids out and lick my pussy". This is all satisfying the beta side of the arousal (alpha) vs attraction (beta) dichotomy. Gentlemen, if you work purely on your beta traits and drop your alpha traits you'll just end up with a dead bedroom where she loses interest in regular sex. Happens to every man that goes beta in a relationship. Don't sacrifice your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 06:25 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?You say that but then all women seem to be getting wet from hot guys with too much confidence. Sort it out with your gender I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 05:32 AM |
| 175 | womp womp: Someone found 23F married former pornstar's video and tagged her on social media"grrrrrrr the real bad guy in my story is the person making me face consequences for trying to deceive everyone, including my husband" A classic. It's like a woman in my department at work who was banging our boss while engaged to a guy in a different department. We didn't know for sure but we all suspected it, not certain enough to make it our place to say anything. One of the other guys in my department blew the lid on it because he didn't give a fuck and her fiance promptly ditched her. The w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreI think what's driving the discrepancy between modern men's beta game being insufficient for modern women is two things. 1) women can look after themselves more than ever and are less reliant on men's beta bux so it takes even greater beta game to attract her. 2) men have poor beta game because a lot of modern men have been addicted to their escapisms like porn and video games which i discuss a lot. It's fucking with our dopamine circuits and it sedates us, it kills any motivation to work on bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreOh no there's many reasons a woman might prefer to be alone other than alpha widow. Usually it's from an overinflated sense of self worth and over entitlement. Not talking specifically about you here because you're actually quite young, but a lot of women are fighting over the very top percentage of guys. Ridiculous numbers of women expect 6ft and 6 figures which is 3% of men. Only 0.3% if you actually go by ones that are actually single. That's not including any other detail you add to your lau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreWe are talking specifically about girls that have been fucking Chad. Alpha widow is a real thing it happens often enough the abstraction was created to label it. it's why Katy Perry writes a hit song like "The one that got away", it's because it has themes women audiences understand. While men listening to the song and watching the video interpret it as her being so ungrateful for a guy that provided to her for so long and she's still longing for the guy giving her a good fuck all those years ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreSo you didn't bang Chad so my comment doesn't apply to you. Why the fuck would you even make it about yourself if we are talking about girls banging Chads? Typical woman holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Woman complains that the jerk she hooked up with gets back on Tinder right after sex.That's basically half the women from my past social circles now we are all in our 30's. This half are posting idealistic photos of their weddings and family lives, great highlight reels. The other half of women are single and seething in their 30's and use FB posting as a coping mechanism. I know these women pretty well, I know how miserable they are and the more miserable they are the more they are posting how great their lives are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?No I disagree on this, it's not how the process of addiction works. Men start with video games and porn because it's more enjoyable. When their dopamine circuit attaches to it, it becomes a dependency and your brains wiring signals to you that you need it to survive. It does this by making you feel lethargic and miserable when you're not sitting in front of a computer playing video games and masturbating. Everything else in comparison feels boring and unrewarding, such as studying, socialising, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?I should explain it better then, a man's perspective would have understood what we were talking about there but it's not something women would naturally understand. Women shape men into men they despise because they are constantly hitting them up about their beta game. Being more helpful, kind, respectful, generous, status job, ambition. All shit women find attractive. Men listen to this and follow and side effect coming from it is that they drop all their alpha game which is what arouses women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: education and income/ genders -- why is there a discrepancyI'm a feminist ally muwhahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?You're speaking about the far end of the bell curve. Lets stick to the mountain of it. I'm guessing you're a woman because it's another thing women share in common; dismantling a congruity using extremes on the bell curve. Using that tactic you can tell me dogs don't like playing fetch and cats don't like hunting birds. We are talking about partnerships where women have the lower libido, which is extremely common in long term marriages. For situations where it's men with the lower libido, that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?They are on some things just like all men are the same on some things. A lot of women genuinely don't understand their own sexuality, for starters. Classic cliche is why they're not in the mood for sex and they will rationalize their low libido all sorts of ways like 'its normal once you get out the honeymoon phase' and 'if my husband helped out around the house more'. All married men hear this and it's not women lying, they genuinely don't understand what's driving their feelings. And I can tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:25 PM |
| -7 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?It's true I think. Love my wife to pieces but treating her like I would another guy by listening to her and responding to what she says killed our relationship for awhile. Ignoring her and bringing back my old alpha traits I had from years ago sparked our sex lives back and she's happier than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:37 PM |
| -7 | Q4M: What do you think is involved in being a wife?Men fuck it up by losing their alpha traits in a slow grind of a LTR. Any married or LTR guy can admit to themselves they soften up over time and work on their beta traits in an effort to keep their partners happy. After all, women say they want their husband to be like this and that and men are listening and doing it. This kills the alpha in yourself and kills her arousal, leading to a dead bedroom in the long run of beta creep in the relationship. If you want your wife to retain her libido you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you go there often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkWell I'm not an incel, I'm married now and half my twenties was spent as a Chad archetype. If you're hitting alpha (arousal) cues as a man, women have a man's level of sexuality. What I mean is they just want to fuck you and nothing else, I know this from my own experience. Girls didn't give a shit about my personality or anything about me or that my apartment was basically just a mattress on the floor, they wanted to get on all fours for a good fucking and then they'd be going on serious dates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Woman complains that the jerk she hooked up with gets back on Tinder right after sex.Meh guys like this do exist. One I know is a genetic freak with his tanned skin and bright blue eyes and a body made by the Gods (or roids to be more accurate). He's so hot that women off tinder pay hundreds in flights to visit them totally on their expense to fuck him. Women just drool over him, you see it when they're interacting. He's genuinely pretty dumb and he's a real dark triad asshole, he's fucked loads of his friends girlfriends and wives while they were at work. He was homeless for a … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 17 | Woman complains that the jerk she hooked up with gets back on Tinder right after sex.Noooooo he was supposed to fall in love with her! He was the one! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnyone with the redpill lens will notice all the heart breaks over their man paying for sex. It's instinctual, they're taking this that their man is a total beta and is exchanging for sex in its purest form by paying her directly for it. Girls don't want to be with a beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:15 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyes because that's when fathers get advised by their lawyers that they have a realistic shot because they aren't in normal conditions and the mother is arguably inept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadrich dad poor dad is a notoriously poorly rated book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:11 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthis is such a classic NPC thing to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreI think we need to see other people. It's not me, it's you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:49 AM |
| 4 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreIt's quite relevant. As I said, if she's attracted Chad once before she gets it in her head she can just do it again. She holds out because she tells herself she can do better. There's a whole abstraction around this called Alpha Widowing. I'm pretty sure I've done this to girls I used to pork 10+ years ago who are still refusing advances by guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: education and income/ genders -- why is there a discrepancyHow do you not agree with Point 1? You think women are working high paying jobs more than men or that it's even equal? Different jobs attract more male/female. As to point 2. Someone else can pull out the data somewhere. In the USA, colleges added 40,000 new degrees/certificates since 2012. Nothing is designed to appeal to men so much anymore, not even a lot of degrees. Scholarships are for women. Advertising is aimed for women. It's all geared for women. Men are picking much the same degrees th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:43 AM |
| 24 | Q4all: education and income/ genders -- why is there a discrepancyMen are more inclined to do jobs that pay more money, like trades instead of hairdressing. It's not that they're getting paid more for doing exactly the same jobs. Women and men aren't evenly spread out through sectors and jobs. Google just did an internal study and found they pay women 8% more than men. There's loads more degrees to select from than in the past, and most of them aren't particularly appealing to the male mindset. The selection available 30+ years ago was far narrower and tended … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreI'm honestly done talking to you, you're either a troll or something that will get me banned for saying it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't mean it'll be all relationships I mean it will be normalized enough you're going to hear about it and it will cause a stir in Reddit and other mediums with people taking sides on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's what's coming, my prediction. It's feral hypergamy going mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreYou still fail to grasp there's two axis, arousal (alpha) and attraction (beta). Men can have both and they can have neither. Chad isn't always a broke ass idiot. He can have all the provisioning qualities too. He can have both alpha and beta qualities. Brad Pitt is both, he has alpha traits and he's a rich af motherfucker looking after his family. Chris Hemsworth is both. Jason Momoa is both. The Rock is both. Someone who is pure alpha would be a fun fucking experience but a normal woman would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends on the context. Adopting a kid? yes. Meeting a woman with kids and adopting them with her? sure, if she's worth it. What about your wife telling you she's going to fuck her coworker to get pregnant by him and then everyone around you expects you to raise the kid as your own, because that's what real men do? This is where it's going, culturally. For some parts of the world/country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree with some of the narrative and comparisons but nothing is collapsing. USSR collapsed because the communist system doesn't work and it's economic viability was dependent on 90% of its export being petroleum related products. Neoliberalism works in that nothing is going bankrupt and there's no great collapse. There's no sign of this. We are just transitioning back to pre-settled societies where monogamy wasn't so much a thing, women were banging whoever was turning them on in the tribe and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreyou're surely a troll account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think this is more to do with another issue going on and that's modern men have fried their dopamine circuits from too much artificial stimulation with things like video games and porn. It's a real issue, it makes you lazier, apathetic, reclusive, etc. Yourbrainonporn has done a lot of work on this and the book is really eye opening. It takes a lot of work and personal development to have good Beta game to become attractive to women and men just don't have the motivation for it because they've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreYou can have alpha traits and beta traits. Sports stars, musicians and celebrities often have both. They're both provisioners and they're alpha. Go google sexiest man alive and it's all men who have both alpha and beta traits in one person. Or pick up any romance novel for women and the dudes are all billionaires but alpha as fuck. Those are men with both alpha and beta traits. Beta traits aren't a turn off, they just aren't arousing. Beta traits are absolutely attractive. You ask what women wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:20 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they won't. Plenty of Billy Betas out there working hard on their Beta game waiting for a girl to appreciate him and finally get the girl who's in her 30's and ready to settle down. They'll raise the kids. You really underestimate the amount of Billy Betas there are and always will be. Male hardwiring demands frequent sex. For a lot of men they figure out their best strategy to complete that base hardwiring is an LTR so they can bang that one woman and for that they need awesome Beta game. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:12 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt'll go mainstream my dude. As in if you are in the wrong part of the world/country, and your wife becomes pregnant by another man and wants to keep the baby - you will be ostracized and vilified by people around you, friends and family, for not stepping up as 'the father'. You'll be portrayed as a monster and a sick fuck. Obviously you can get paternity tests the way you want but the Law will make them invalid and the courts will hold you financially liable for the kid for 18 years no matter w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere you go then. it's starting. Just wait until you see guys starting to get vilified by feminists and feminist allies (simp men) that their wife/partner is pregnant to another man and they refuse to accept it. They'll push the narrative that he's the true real father because he's raising the kid, the 'sperm donor' doesn't mean anything. It's going to be a full culture shift where women will get pregnant by who they want and the husband/partner is culturally inclined to not care and will still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhat if employer's expect employees to have the vaccination? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNext stage feminism is they'll eventually make it illegal for fathers to get paternity tests without the mother's written consent and use bullshit reasons like "it's humiliating for her". They'll also push the rhetoric of brushing off the biological father as "just a sperm donor" and the real dad is the man who 'steps up'. They'll push a new version of masculine heroism as the guy that helps raise kids that aren't his and the masculine villian-ism as the guy who cares if the kids are biologicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women?If she's young, slim, feminine and submissive to him, men will overlook she's a barista without college education. Women will fuck guys from any class too, they will prefer to marry the class up though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not morePure betas don't get first date sex. A lot of them don't even attract women until women get in their 30's. With some alpha traits to balance it out, they will. Women can sense alpha and beta it's obviously going to be cringe if a full beta guy starts trying to act alpha. You're hung up on Meeks and you aren't understanding the point being made. Women will give it up faster and easier for a guy with alpha (arousing) traits than a guy without it. It's where being the 'nice guy' fails. First you ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreThat's the distinction of alpha fucks and beta bucks. It's not normally so extreme, it's in order of degrees. It's when women make some guys wait for sex and other guys get it for nothing. Meeks is absolutely slaying pussy and you're delusional if you don't understand that. Meeks is only one version of the alpha archetype I threw out there but you probably know some in your own life. Football players, rockstars, boxers, etc. These are guys that bang loads of girls and don't need any beta game to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreAmbition and status job are attractive which is beta on the arousing (alpha) and attractive (beta) dichotomy. Women want both alpha and beta traits in a man, ideally. Arousing is masculine good looks and badboy archetype personality traits. He can be an unemployed drug dealer / felon, his beta traits don't matter to her because he's that arousing. Think Jeremy Meeks as one version of an alpha archetype. He's famously dark triad and a felon but women are totally willing to get pumped and dumped b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreMoney in itself isn't that attractive. Both status job and ambition as a personality are more attractive to women. But these are all beta qualities which average looking guys need to up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreOnce a woman has been dicked by Chad she assumes she can attract another one. Women don't go backwards on it, and if the they do they aren't happy about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreYes it was my experience too. I've lived life both ways. Men have to accept that if they aren't Chad then they were born into this world on hard mode. If they aren't good looking then they have to up their beta game to entice women. Work on their personality, career, humor, education, generosity, kindness, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreThis is absolutely how it pans out for so many women I've known. Except I think women want betas for most of their 40's too. There's a time in there around 40 (give and take) where they want to experience youth again. Typically they are lacking some self-awareness by this point. They've come out of a divorce and they're looking to have some fun. Cougar phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not moreYes guys with low social intelligence never pick up that all the girls cream for the hot confident guys in high school. I was not popular with girls in high school and neither were my closest friends. I could understand what I was seeing but some of my friends couldn't. Theyd go simp tactics with no results and they remained this way into their 30's. One of them married an absolute slut of a stripper because he's the ultimate billy beta that never learned. He was dating her sister first and she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYoure a girl. All you have to do is ask for sex and someone will give it to you. It's not the same for guys. Most guys have little to no attraction floor, they'll stick their dick in anything with a heart beat. I'm sorry but 'high standards' is not the reason for incels existing. Try making a tinder profile as an average guy and a hot guy and contrast the difference. It's as simple as that. As an average looking girl you will still get loads of matches. 80% of guys get 0. You can find plenty of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYou're on one end of the bell curve. That's why you were made fun of for your standards. Your personal experience doesn't negate the meat of the bell curve. Those 30% of men don't have the arousal cues to fuck women for nothing so they need to work on their beta game. That's the red pill. Sex is absolutely not easy for guys. That's why so many are raging incels. I was a lanky and pimply dude in my teens and couldn't get a girl to save my life. It was only after puberty it was easy and I noticed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkTell this to ~30% of men that are virgins by age 30. That's where we are at in 2021. I think you really overestimate the average and median guy. Men and women don't pair off 1:1 anymore. Women are fucking just as much as always but it's far fewer men getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYeah the gay community is notorious for it. The major point I'm making is if you're hitting arousal cues its way less effort than attractive cues (good husband material). Women lift rules and standards for a guy hitting the arousal cues. It's all in degrees. I knew guys much hotter than me putting in even less effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkWhat's that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkOh yeah it's the timid nerdy types laying pipe in college, sure. Lol. The terminology is from the red pill community. There's loads of incels in it for sure. Also I'm not particularly attractive anymore, I've gained weight and don't do sports like I used to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkI spent half my 20's as Chad and no it requires no effort at all. Girls didn't care about my personality or the fact my bedroom was just a mattress on the floor covered by a bedsheet. We were just having a good fuck and moving on. Some of these same girls had their orbiters trying to prove their worth in all sorts of ways. Beta game is hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedI didn't say it's bad. Im saying men have it tougher. If you're not hot enough (average guys) then you need all the right beta game. Which is a lot of work and personal development. Career, charm, attitude, humour, education, etc. Arousal and attraction are two different things for women, that results in alpha game and beta game. Alpha game is arousal traits and that's hot guys with high confidence. That's a minority of guys getting easy sex. Average guys get left swiped and 0 matches on tinder.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkI don't mean the tinder pics make these women aroused. Their profiles just have the right arousal cues. Women looking to get boned off tinder will be looking for arousal cues; Hot guys with confidence. I take it youre not using tinder to get pounded on a Friday night. In which case, arousal cues are working on you in the right place and context. For example, on the dance floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkOh yeah, look there's still the caveat that 'not all women are like this' you still use your rational mind to figure out where you draw the line on it. But women are wired for alpha fucks and beta bucks, which is hypergamy. You're still aroused by the hot and confident guy but you're attracted to the guy that'll make the great husband. That wiring is still there. Unless you want to tell me the meek and timid guys get you wet? Women with absolute feral hypergamy will be riding Chad for casual sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkMasculine good looks, super confidence to the point of arrogance, a 'take it or leave it' attitude, he's doing shit for himself rather than doing it for her, he might even have some dark triad traits, even face tatts and neck tatts for some women. Think Jeremy Meeks as 1 type of archetype but you could think of your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedNope. You're almost there. Girls have much higher standards of attraction. Try making the profile of an average guy for tinder. You'll get 0 matches. Even average girls get plenty of matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedRight. women just feel safer with really hot guys off tinder as opposed to average looking guys who they won't message. Is that what you're saying? Or did you just completely misunderstand the point of trying to make a tinder profile and see what it's like for an average looking guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkObviously not, I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. There's a time and context required obviously. The dichotomy we are speaking about is commonly referred to as alpha fucks and beta bucks. Some guys are for fucking and other guys are for partners. Women will put out for nothing if you're hitting the alpha cues and are in the right time and context. And the same girl will make you date for a bit until she's comfortable. I can link you to women admitting to it here like nothing is wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYou're almost there buddy. Arousal (alpha) and attraction (beta) are two different things for women. You are talking about women from your experience in the attraction side (beta). This is where women need to feel comfortable and beta traits are qualities they will tell you they like (good looks, status job, kind, generous, respectful, good father material, etc). There's another side to the dichotomy of female sexuality you haven't had experienced, which is arousal (alpha traits) and this is whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkNo it's the same category, it's feeding arousal dichotomy (alpha) as opposed to beta traits (comfort and attraction). Dancing is display of confidence. It's how you can pull this shit off without her knowing who you are or caring. Tinder is also arousal side of the dichotomy, when used for hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkBy her friends accounts she hadn't been with anyone in two years. It was part of the tirade "she's not that kind of girl!" Well she is if the guy is hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkShe was a quiet accountant, dressed and acted modestly. Women are much the same in this, they shoot their shot for hot guys. Not usually explicitly, they usually show their interest in a way where I still had to 'make the first move' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkNot exactly. It's more of the case of inviting her back to your place "for more drinks" or "work on a project" or some realistic scenario. It's so she can rationalize to herself "one thing led to another!" You don't really tell her "lets go to my place to bang", you sense she thinks you're hot and give her a way to rationalize everything she's doing. It's her way out so she's not feeling slutty about what's definitely about to happen. Man you have no idea how slutty women can be for good looking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkIt's not different but that's how women will rationalize their open sexuality for a hot guy "oh I was at a bar" " I was travelling so it's different" etc. If you met the girl while she's at work she will rationalize it another way. Women are good at rationalizing anything they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Ch@d has to lie or pretend to get sex more often than people thinkYes it can be literally that easy. I got a girl back to a hotel room after maybe 5-10 mins with her on the dance floor she didn't know my name or particularly care. I left the next morning and wasnt interested in exchanging details or anything. Her friends tracked me down through social media and hounded me that she wasnt that kind of girl and she had been single for 2 years etc. If you're a good looking dude and show interest in a girl she will lift all sorts of rules and standards for you to k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapseI was getting that first. Turned out really hot women are really insane. Got a new take on what's important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Europeans on this subreddit. What do you think about American dating culture?it's sowing season in Manchester and your sister is getting plowed, dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedtry creating a Tinder profile as an average guy and come back to us. Men don't fear gold diggers or catfish, you don't understand men apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What do you think of the saying “There’s someone out there for everyone”?you don't need either if you have a sledgehammer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women?that's more to do with social affiliations if anything. Guys do not care about education and income if she meets certain other qualities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree principally because Trump got even more votes the second time around. There's a lot of fear simmering under the surface on both sides which is a dangerous place to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:40 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually fear for the USA. It seems like Democrats aren't able to deal with a huge contingent of clearly very disenfranchized Americans. Trump has created the blue print of politics for someone very dangerous to come to power. Nothing is going to change under Biden. 2024 is going to be a doozy. What baffles me greater is how so much of the TRP community sunk its Talons into that orange clown. The Venn diagram of all these groups is fucking strange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe whole red pill community is founded on people having this happened to them and people they know. I know people in my own life that this happened to. It's a more common theme than anything you see in the movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThose scenarios happen so often though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think it matters as much as you think. Being brutally honest here, but the most points you'll ever score, as a woman, is from being young and slim. Your value to men plummets fast with age and weight gain and overrides any other qualities you attach to your identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?I flatly disagree with this. You talk about it like it's an opportunity cost weighed against each other, but addiction is a process. It starts with enjoying it, until it becomes habit and then it's necessity. It's fried the dopamine circuit of a good deal amount of men who don't even realize it because they've been using high speed porn and video games since they were so young. They are operating at 50% of their capacity and for many of them it's not enough to bring them above the threshold to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:50 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapseI don't think it's so simple. There's times I dominate and there's times she dominates. It's not an equal relationship at any point and we both assert ourselves on stuff we care about. I manipulate in the fact that I upped my alpha traits to get her sex drive back up again after a long period of a dead bedroom. Because guess what, alpha qualities are the arousal qualities. I think she's capable of love in the feminine way. It's not the same way i love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapseI'm married and what I saw in my wife was that she had a very rational mind, she was easy going, she was able to compromise and she had a great moral compass. I learned to value these qualities after experiences with the other kind of women in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?That's true but my point is more that if you pulled artificial dopamine sources out of this grand experiment we would see a lot better beta game and a lot more paired couples. Anyone that has abstained from porn, video games, gambling and all things addictive can testify to the crazy levels of energy/motivation you have to do anything else. This is how men were before recent technology. Our grandparents were giving us nuggets of wisdom decades ago screaming that TV was turning us into zombies. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapsewell it's not that I think I'm smarter than women, women just don't understand their own sexuality. Some of them don't understand why they deadbedroom a marriage from low libido, some of them don't understand why their dating experiences are with a series of one bad guy after another, they don't understand why they get into their 30's and they start liking nice guys. The red pill lens explains it all. I can't really stand theredpill subreddit because it's overloaded with angry and bitter guys. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 05:02 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapseYou didn't understand what you thought you were "in". The red pill isn't justifying anything, what you do with "the red pill" is your own business. All the red pill does is explain what are arousing traits in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill, and ideologies similiar to it, are an attempt at taking advantage of a society in cultural and economic collapseWelcome to the subreddit. The redpill doesn't do any of this, you just don't understand it yet. The redpill is a prism to understand female sexuality through. Many men, including myself, are able to backtest it on their past experiences with women and see it works quite accurately. The principle of it is this; arousal (alpha traits) and attraction (beta traits) are two different things for women. Everything in the red pill community stems from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?Not really. AF and BB is the dichotomy of female sexuality where arousal and attraction are two separate things. Attractive qualities (beta) are everything that women say they want in a husband/partner. That is kind, generous, good father material, good status job, helps around the house, good looks (have to be good looking too!), etc. Arousal qualities (alpha) are masculine good looks and the badboy archetype personality traits. So in the AF/BB dichotomy, women will make Billy Beta wait for sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?how old are you, approx? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?Men in developed countries have worse beta game than ever. I think more and more are using easy dopamine fixes like video games and porn as forms of escapism so they aren't working on themselves, which is beta game. Lots of men just aren't going to reach the cut off for beta game and be attractive enough options because of the time they put into shit like TV, video games and porn. Beta game takes time and effort, guys just aren't doing that anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?no, alpha and beta are two different axis. You can have both. You can also have neither. For example, incels have neither, being unable to attract women through lack of both alpha and beta traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB?I don't think it's that. BB game takes a lot of work and motivation. I personally think things like video games and porn have had really underrated damage on the dopamine circuits of men in the modern world. They just aren't motivated to develop beta game and just want to disappear from the world using video games and porn as escapism. That's not all guys, but it's enough to make a large number of guys not meet the cut off for beta bux attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:04 AM |
| -1 | Podcasts like "Fresh and Fit" profit from the female sexuality they shame/criticize, and prove men's actions also contradict what they say they want.Looking at them through the red pill lens, they have gone feral with hypergamy and lack higher order thinking to keep them grounded. The male equivalent would be a guy thirsting after every woman, the attitude of every hole is a goal, including his brother's and best friend's wives. Guys like this exist but it's not fair to construct a show around portraying this male mating strategy gone feral as normal. These are people on the far end of their gender's bell curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 14 | Podcasts like "Fresh and Fit" profit from the female sexuality they shame/criticize, and prove men's actions also contradict what they say they want.I think the show really appeals to low social intelligence / experience guys who are chasing these types of girls. I consider myself on the red pill side but there's a huge danger that when you view women like this then you will attract women like this, because you'll accept they're behaving totally normal. I'd obviously have to know these girls to make a proper judgement but some scream red flags to me just from hearing them talk for a few minutes. Even the way they look often has me pigeon hol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomThat's basically it. Women aren't as consistent as men in this. Even as women go through maturity or their phase in menstruation, their need for alpha or beta game changes. It's really just a game of tweaking both alpha/beta game as you sense it is required. Alpha game to keep her sex drive but actually most of the time it's beta game especially as she's into her 30's. Guys that can't adapt to it end up with dead bedrooms, cheated on, divorces for being deadbeats, etc. Once you understand the sp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomNope. Haven't read anything really, just reading shit online and putting pieces together in my head. I'll check it out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomGood stuff. Don't talk about this shit with your wife either, as in explaining any of this to her. Women are inclined to operate under the assumption that men are born with alpha game or beta game, that it's not learned behaviour. It's actually a huge turn off if they figure it's learned. I'm not sure why this is, but I theorize it's coming from the fact that women come into puberty at their max sexual market value and theyre valuable just for being. They fundamentally don't understand that most… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 0 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Yes this is a rationalization developed around a feeling. First the man feels repulsed then he is trying to understand why he is feeling repulsed and put explanation to it. It's instinct driving the feeling. Much like when women feel a guy is creepy, it's instinct driving the feeling and she will then try to explain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | What women wantIt's basically it. A man with options drives women's desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomKeep me updated with how things are working out between you two. I'm interested to know where my advice has and hasnt worked. Remember that you kind of have to figure out where alpha and beta game are applicable and it's a balancing act. If you have too much of one and miss out on the other then you're in for some problems. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 11 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomShe didn't ask anything when I came back because she was angry at me and giving me the silent treatment. Don't beta out by giving in first or you make it worse for yourself next time. In the past I was trying to be the responsible big man and would try to break the ice and work us both to an agreement after a fight. This was failing the shit test and not being a man and asserting myself. She of course would remember I walked out and in mysterious circumstances, she'd bring it up days/weeks later… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 11:47 AM |
| 2 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?I don't think women have particularly good cognitive empathy. As in putting themselves in other peoples' shoes and seeing things through their eyes. That's about entertaining another perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 09:53 AM |
| 10 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomI was a natural Beta too, it's the mating strategy I developed out of my adolescence because as a teen I was lanky and pimply and couldn't get a girl to save my life. It completely reversed as I came out of puberty a very good looking dude and that lasted from like age 18 to age 25 (I became overweight at the end). So I had received first hand experience in being invisible to women to as well as being the super hot guy. Being the hot guy was a huge hit on my personal development and turned me in… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?Not quite. Our feelings are derived from our base hardwiring. It's our higher cognitive function that overrides it. Some people are better at this than others. A huge issue is men and women tend to assume what they are feeling is morally correct. It means both men and women develop different moral codes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 04:09 AM |
| 10 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomI'll give some real world examples of what I went through later, I'm going to be pretty busy for the next 6 hours. Shit testing for women is about as natural for them as it is for you sneaking a peak at some great cleavage. Women are wired to constantly wonder if you're the best opportunity for them. Don't hate on it, shit tests are all opportunities to show alpha game. You actually need them for your sex life and it's cheap and easy compared to upping your beta game for good boy points, which c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?It's not about being unattractive or losers. Those men never get anything at all, those are the incels and plenty of them in TRP community. I think you're misunderstanding what TRP says about dualistic female mating strategy so I will explain it. It's about the dichotomy of alpha game vs beta game. It comes from the fact that arousal and attraction are two different things for women. Alpha game is arousal traits and are things like masculine good looks and badboy archetype personalities. This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?UN can't do anything about anything. That stuff takes time to change, it takes fresh generations to come in living in more modern conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 12:03 AM |
| 7 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?You aren't understanding the male perspective and it's an offensive oversimplification that disregards men's feelings on it. Men are wired by concern for paternity. It's evolutionary from a hundred thousand years of our male ancestors (yours too) caring for who is the real father of their kids. The topic of virginity vs sluts hits men on an instinctual level. It's why men are almost universally repulsed with the idea of monogamous relations with a woman with a particularly slutty past. This is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 0 | People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true?These were values back when little girls were betrothed and wed between the ages of 12-16. I'd care about it too if I was marrying at that age. But after a certain point it's just weird if she's a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | What happens to women and go their own way?I know this because out of half the women I've known got married in their 20's, leaving the other half to follow exactly the path I've described. It's programmed into your gender just as much as the lust for big tits is programmed into men. I've seen many of my own male friends, who had zero appeal with women when they were younger, now finally finding women are interested in them. One of them was orbiting a girl since they were teens and she always declined him, and then they both hitched up at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?You'll find your options are far less at 36 because of a few issues. Men with their shit in order around this age are snapped up by women like pieces of gold, so there's a lot less available quality men on the market. Secondly, men with their shit in order have a lot more options going for them and they will often prefer to date younger women rather than a woman his own age. Women's preference in men changes as they get older and go through different stages of maturity. Preferences stay a lot mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?You're misreading it. The data isn't saying the average lawyer or doctor is making under <$100k at 42. The data is saying the unhappiest demographic are women with professional position (gives examples of lawyer, doctor but it could mean any professional position) and earning <$100k. So the unhappiest people are women in their early 40's who are unmarried and no kids, who are professionals and earning <$100k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What happens to women and go their own way?yes I bet they married 'great' guys. If they didn't end up alone, they married dudes they would have turned down if they were 10+ years younger and still had options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | What happens to women and go their own way?Men and women have different coping mechanisms to deal with it. I've seen my old social circles grow up. Women seek validation and they'll do something like a highlight reel on social media to show they're having a great life. I know these women, they're fucking miserable at home. The more active they are on social media correlates with how miserable they are. They'll get a dog or two and cope. Men generally get into escapism, stuff like video games and porn. Meeting husband in late 30's is basi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?The data is fine. There's swathes of women still looking for Mr Right. Women work on their career up until that point and hope to find a man to her caliber. Except he's normally dating women younger than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?Guys caring about your fertility window is intrinsic, they aren't even conciously thinking "she can't have kids". Women's attractiveness to men absolutely plummets as the fertility window closes, that's all biological hardwiring. If you indeed do not care about height or income, then you're at the very far end of the bell curve. Any guy can tell you height is the first filter that comes into it. Income is up near number 2. The reason why guys are put off by you is not because of your income, nob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 10:27 AM |
| 2 | What women wantI’m talking specifically about their own sexuality that they don’t understand. It's essentially coming from the fact that their rationalizations are derived from their feelings, which were derived from their biological hardwiring for hypergamy. It's important to first understand that both men and women judge what they're feeling to be morally correct. So if something makes you feel bad it's natural to conclude it's morally bad and visa versa. Our feelings implicate our morality. Men and women ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?A lot of men did not want to date me because my salary was an issue for them (not me This is cope you tell yourself. Men do not give a shit about income, that's a masculine trait that women judge men by. There was likely some other red flags at play. Men do not give a shit whether you earn a lot or very little, income has a very minor factor into your value relative to feminine traits. At 36 years old it's not like you had much a wide pool of available men. Your age is at the very upper limits o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?Meanwhile, in the real world; https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadeww gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | What happens to women and go their own way?I'm in my early thirties and have seen my old peer groups grow up with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | What happens to women and go their own way?Especially if you're a spinster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexWhat's not true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:16 PM |
| 0 | What women wantI'll talk more later I got busy stuff going on in the real world but anything in particular to elaborate on let me know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | oh fucking DAMN...she just NUKED that relationship to oblivion and 28 at the time, by now she must be asking the 1 million dollar questionYou can't really trust what a woman says about her notch count but if you start seeing a girl and she's really bad at giving head at first and awkward getting herself into the doggy position then you can safely know you aren't with another one like her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/07/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Will we start to see a rise in frustrated WOMEN, confused as to why their beta sons never managed to have families?That's one example of it but there's many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Will we start to see a rise in frustrated WOMEN, confused as to why their beta sons never managed to have families?I've said it like 5 times in the last few days. Women genuinely don't understand their own sexuality. Women feel a certain way and then they develop rationalizations around their feelings. Edit: anyone that has lived with a woman can see this shit play out in anything. They can have the much the same day back to back but their emotions act as a filter on it to whether the day was great or was completely fucked. The emotion/feeling comes first and then the rationalization is built around that to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Will we start to see a rise in frustrated WOMEN, confused as to why their beta sons never managed to have families?Yes it's happening right now and no they won't blame themselves for their role in raising Billy Beta. It's because women are generally raising kids when they're in their 30's and 40's when they're max valuing beta traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOxytocin is released numerous ways you should read up on it before trying to pull apart the science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?what's your age bracket, if you don't mind me asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit doesn't even matter how she's having orgasm. If she orgasms she's releasing oxytocin. Even skin contact like hand holding releases it. Women get oxytocin from physical relationships and breastfeeding babies and it's a pair bonding hormone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOrgasm doesn't need that, women can orgasm in a rape. Part of therapy for rape victims tackles helping the rape victim deal with that. Pair bonding is linked to oxytocin which is linked to orgasm. If you're getting orgasms you're squirting oxytocin which over time is going to make you feel bonded to that person. You'd have to do your own research into oxytocin and pair bonding. Men release vasopressin but during the arousal stage. Its also a pair bonding hormone, which is supposedly slower actin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think it was ever implied it was permanent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhat's called lust? Oxytocin is called the love hormone for a reason. It's specifically related to feelings of connection and women release it after orgasm. They also release it during breastfeeding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?Women with successful jobs price themselves out of the dating market and their options are even more bleak. Women generally aim upwards, successful women want to date successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOxytocin doesn't really work like this. Oxytocin is called the love hormone for this reason, it creates pair bonding. It's something that if it's released over time it will create bonding. So that would require a decent sexual relationship over time to contribute to it. A lot of women struggle do the FWB thing because they develop feelings for the guy and it's specifically oxytocin that's responsible for this. Some women aren't even interested in casual sex with a stranger because they want to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | What happens to women and go their own way?There's loads of good men out there, the problem is they're already taken by the time they're in their 30's. The women that are miserable I think are exposed to better quality men and don't develop the same mindset that there's none out there anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyes women release it from orgasm too. Men release more vasopressin I believe but it's in the arousal phase. Women with incorrect oxytocin levels have low libidos. This is often the case when they're breastfeeding which is when they're bonding with the baby. There's another level to this which some elements of the TRP community take it and I don't think has any scientific validity to it. They assert that women constantly forming pair bonds and breaking them through casual sex and the release of o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's absolutely a real thing. Women release oxytocin when they're breastfeeding a new child and it's why they encourage skin contact between parents and newborns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:46 PM |
| 4 | What happens to women and go their own way?ooo sassy I get we are both talking about anecdotes but how many people could you possibly have in your family to pull results from? I'm looking broadly at all the women I've known since I was young and I just don't see this. I see a huge shift when single women hit their 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 12 | What happens to women and go their own way?"poor her, do you think she's lonely, should we hook this one up with this single guy we know of the same age although they have nothing in common etc..." I have never heard a guy speak like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | What happens to women and go their own way?the... what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?only if they don't want kids and correctly spent their 20's developing a career. Otherwise it's not a happy experience for a lot of women seeing their friends married off and too busy for them with their own families. If they wind up in their 30's without much of a career than financing your lifestyle is a struggle too. There's plenty of very unhappy single women in their 30's and 40's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 5 | What happens to women and go their own way?I find dogs are popular these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 12 | What happens to women and go their own way?bullshit. My social media feed says otherwise. I knew these women in their youth and I recognize cope posting when I see it. These women are god damned miserable and plenty of them are settling down with guys they would have called creepy just 5-10 years earlier. Even taking my anecdotes out the picture, where do you think the biological clock cliche started from? From single women playing musical chairs and scrambling to find the last ones now that the music has stopped. Men have coping mechani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 4 | What happens to women and go their own way?mid life crisis for men happens in late 30's to early 40's and is very different. That's when a lot of men hit their stride in career and self confidence and they want to take advantage of it and live life to the fullest, usually after years of feeling tied down to mediocrity or tied down to marriage and family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:08 PM |
| -2 | What happens to women and go their own way?it's dog ladies these days and yes they are miserable. Happy facade on the outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexI didn't say men know it better as a whole, I just said women dont understand their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 05:44 PM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexGuys that are consistently able to get the peepee in really do understand women's sexuality. A successful fisherman also understands how to catch fish too. What you're doing is playing into the whole feminine mystique nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub get annoyed that men don't want to be settled forThe split is coming from the difference in gender perspectives. Women think their commitment is the grand prize in all this and they assume men think the same way. So they really don't get why this is an issue if the guy has "won" by getting her commitment. It's the same reason why women genuinely don't understand why it could be an issue that they made Billy Beta wait for sex but another Alpha Fucks got it freely and easily. The male perspective is whoever is boning her earliest and with the le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:50 PM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sexif I didn't I wouldn't get to the point of putting my peepee in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | What women wantAlpha/beta gets misused because it's applied on people as if people themselves fit into the dichotomy of being one or the other. Alpha/beta are the traits themselves and all guys sit on a spectrum in both. The other thing is that people falsely assume that if they aren't alpha then they're automatically beta, when you can actually be neither. Beta traits gets you laid and steady relationships. If you don't have arousing qualities or attractive qualities, you end up an incel which is someone with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 17 | What women wantAs a guy that's been with my wife for almost 10 years, had a dead bedroom phase but now have a very good sex life much the same as when we were dating, I post about this topic pretty often. I'm going to repeat what I always say; Arousal and attraction are two different things for women. This is the alpha game vs beta game dichotomy always discussed here. When trying to rejuvenate sex lives, guys focus on the wrong thing to get women in the mood. Beta game, which are attraction cues, are not arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with some guys trying to poach you specifically when they find out that you have a bf?You really shouldn't talk to them anymore, it's a sign of very poor moral character on their part. If a guy sees you this way then he will always see you this way and even if you bring him in line with behaving appropriately, he is still thinking of how his moment is going to come. It's not going to be an honest relationship. You don't need to create a scene or anything, you can barely be cordial associates with people like this. I know guys like this, even other guys think they're pathetic and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexSome of this is incorrect and is understanding men through a feminine perspective. Men and women don't process things the same or express things the same. It's not social conditioning, men just do not process things this way, as a rule of thumb. It's the same reason why little boys are drawn to play with toy cars and machinery and little girls are drawn to dolls. It's inherent that comes with the hormonal differences. Men handle things like trauma and attachment differently. There might be some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:33 AM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexIt does for dead bedroom relationships. Women don't understand why their libido is down. They rationalize that's it's normal for long term relationships or whatever reasons they can come up with to explain why they don't feel the desire to fuck their husband like they used to. The truth is arousal and attraction are two different things for women and satisfying stuff involving respect, emotional support and love is nothing to do with arousal. Guys try doing this and the dead bedroom doesn't get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:21 AM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexI know women don't understand their own sexuality, for starters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:12 AM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexWomen really don't understand their own sexuality. Respect, love and emotional support does not bring a woman to arousal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 02:14 AM |
| 57 | Great Family Life - Dead in the BedroomI went through this during a period with my marriage but got the sexlife back. We are almost 10 years together and fucking much the same as when we were first dating. If anyone wants advice in a bit more detail from what I'm about to explain, I can help out a bit. First you have to understand that arousal (alpha) and attraction (beta) are two different things for women. That is the alpha vs beta dichotomy of the redpill. Attraction cues (beta) are easy, it's everything women say they want in a m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?It doesn't really work like this though. Instead women explore their options through their 20's and then arrive in their 30's with the idea of kind of man they want in a partner - but oh no they're all taken now! and there's younger women to compete against! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Men value beauty less as they get olderThe other sock in the pair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)It's not concious validation. But this is the kind of sex women enjoy the most. It's the sex with the hot guy who's showing interest in you. As opposed to sex with your hubby because it's his birthday and you promised him you would do it this week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Half TBP and half TRP | Has anyone here tried this?There's some good women out there, but relationships are work, that'll never change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Half TBP and half TRP | Has anyone here tried this?I consider myself red pilled but imo the sex craze within the manosphere is because it's full of porn addicts. The problem with the community is that every day there's new band of men going through the anger stage of grief and they are always the most active and loudest online. It's why I don't really post on theredpill subreddit because it's just perpetually full of guys in the anger stage and I can't stand it. TRP isnt about getting laid or even about hating women. It's about understanding fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 32 | So you have ED, What are you going to do about it?Quit porn. If you are fine getting hard in porn but struggle with the real thing then you need to quit porn. Yourbrainonporn has accumulated a lot of research papers into porn habits and its side effects. ED was not a common thing before high speed porn. ED is the biggest reason people get into shit like noporn but there's a laundry list of negative effects on your brain chemistry and function from porn use. It's a superstimulant on your dopamine circuit in much the same way hard drugs are. Quit… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/21 11:22 AM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?around about how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)Thats the first option I gave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Men value beauty less as they get olderyes it decreases but that doesn't factor into valuing beauty I don't think. It's the experience that does. Trophy wife stuff isn't that common but I do see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are biologically hardwired to fuck frequently. It's not just TRPers, that's all men. From this biological hardwiring, there are two different directions men go to fulfill that. There's alpha game where men are trying to fuck lots of women and there's beta game where men are trying to lock down a single woman to fuck her frequently. Either of those would work to fulfill male hardwiring which is fuck frequently. A lot of women give into sex in hopes to lock down a guy into interest in her. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Men value beauty less as they get olderI don't think it's so much that your libido decreases, you just become more experienced and recognize red flags and personality flaws. There are some guys, usually very successful and ambitious guys, that still want a tidy piece next to him because it's kind of a status symbol in itself if you're able to attract a really hot girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 15 | Men value beauty less as they get olderI think it's true to *some* degree, like if they followed the particular path I did. I was able to get with 8's and 9's in my 20's. This was a dream come true because before I finished puberty I had no girls at all. But it turned out really hot girls are god damned insane. It has something to do with the constant validation and lack of society grinding down their edges like what happens to normal people.. I learned to prioritize some other qualities in a long term partner after going through som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 5 | I don’t see what’s wrong with “ pick me “ girlsIt's a red flag dude, don't judge by words, judge by actions. When you get into your 30's the number of "pick me" girls skyrockets as they all start looking to settle down. Some of them have quite the history and it's important not to give in to a girl just because she's showing interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 04:59 AM |
| 6 | I don’t see what’s wrong with “ pick me “ girlsOlder guys aren't so naive to trust it. Back when I was like 20-21 I used to know a "pick me" girl who is now a "pick me" woman in her 30's. To everyone that knows her, she's still a church-every-Sunday Christian girl. But for me, she's the sneaky and demure church girl that gave me a bj at her house while her dad was about 20ft away playing poker on his laptop with his back turned to us, we were close enough to hear him clicking his mouse. Eventually she's probably going to find a nice guy from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)not always. Ideally women want alpha and beta traits in their partner. Women will prioritize one or the other depending on where they are in their maturity. Generally women in their early 20's prioritize alpha traits and when they get into their 30's they prioritize beta traits. Somewhere around 37-38 women often go through a rebirth of sexuality and start lusting after alpha traits again for a few years. There's a misconception that alpha/beta is about alpha guys and beta guys. There's certainl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)He wouldn't care about that if he can be used as a dildo by you. That's mission accomplished. That's how guys want to be treated. Guys that don't have alpha game want to be valuable so they can dick you. That's beta game. Guys develop beta game out of an inability to attract women and not understanding female sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)Yes that's red pilled - if he isn't, dead bedroom or soul crushing levels of beta game. This is an extremely common issue in marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)Yes I know, beta game is attractive traits, he still has to be physically attractive and good at sex among all the good person traits. Alpha game is arousal qualities and the rest of the stuff doesn't matter. Standards are lower if he's got the right arousal cues. That's the entire alpha (arousal) vs beta (attractive) dichotomy we are discussing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)You just said in that comment your standards for casual sex are if he's attractive and you think he'll be good at it. That's alpha fucks. That's different standards than applied to men for potential partnership. My view of sex in marriage is fine. My wife and I fuck pretty close to how were were when we were first dating even after 10 years together. Most marriages aren't like this. It's because I understand alpha game vs beta game. Before I understood this my past relationships would go dead be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)It really hasn't changed since the 1940's. The sex he is getting is in exchange for his beta game, his good boy points. If your hubby gets out of line you will stop putting out because you won't be in the mood. He hasn't earned it. This is as opposed to validational sex which is sex for you and what you give to guys with alpha game, these are the guys you are using as your dildo, as you said in an earlier comment. That's sex for you and you don't give a shit about them. Guys will actually want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)Nope it's the kind of sex you get from a woman when she thinks you're really hot. It's very validating for her when the hot guy is into her and she's more open to drop her rules and standards. Women don't fuck the same when you're in a steady relationship in the long term. All women are like this, they have sex which is validating and self-affirming which they give out to alpha game and then there is the dutiful kind of sex they give out for beta game. The sex with your beta isn't going to be as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)It's not concious validation. It's being fucked by the hot guy, which is validating. Like getting lots of upvotes or likes on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Women what made you have a one night standyes you just had to tell him you're dtf it's how all guys are. The guy would be laughing to be told he was seduced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)sex for women fits two categories which is validating or transactional. It fits into the alpha vs beta dichotomy. Validational sex is the hottest kind of sex for a woman and it's the kind you get from your casuals or alpha fucks side. You don't get this kind of sex from a good beta hubby, he doesn't give you the right kind of tingles for it. The sex with your beta hubby is the transactional kind, it's given in exchange for his good beta game. Your partner has beta game sorted and you award him w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:41 PM |
| 9 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)yes as established earlier in another thread you're completely following the red pill Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks dichotomy. You have a simp partner but your sexual gratification really comes from guys you would deem as casuals. Your simp hubby hasn't got much option because he holds such low sex appeal among regular women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women what made you have a one night standwait are you saying the guy was seduced? You don't need to seduce a guy you just ask them if they want to fuck and they'll say yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)Women want both alpha and beta in a man. They want alpha (arousing), for fucking. The hottest sex for a woman is the self-validating kind she can get from an alpha. His arousing cues put her in the mood. Read the replies in the thread from women they even admit to using men for sex that they don't want a relationship. Those are men that met the arousing cues (alpha) but not the beta cues (beta). Women will get into a relationship with an alpha in the hope/expectation she will turn him into a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)the difference between alpha and beta is arousing vs attractive traits. These are two different things for women. arousal traits (alpha) is masculine good looks and badboy archetype. Attractive traits (beta) are all the things women say they want in an ideal partner/husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:09 AM |
| 2 | The problem with alpha fucks/ beta bucks (AF/BB)not really, Alpha and Beta are traits, not people (although you can certainly assign an archetype to both). Alpha traits are arousing traits and beta traits are attractive traits. Arousing means masculine good looks and badboy archetype. Attractive traits are everything a woman tells you (kind, generous, dedicated, funny, smart, high power job, ambitious, etc). The distinction is important because you can be neither alpha or beta if you have neither enough arousing or attractive traits going for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Yes that's the redpill, that's what the redpill is saying. The people in rage are just in one of the stages of grief but they get through it. Every day there's new people entering the anger stage and new people leaving it, so you perpetually have angry men online. At the end of the day it just produces more fuckbois in the world as they learn that beta game only gets you second rate sex for a whole lot more effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Where's the homophobia? I wasn't making a statement on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Yes beta Bux simp is your standard we can tell. Your partners are the limp wristed type. That's your standard. What's your partner like in the bedroom? Any good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 07:30 AM |
| 3 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?No you really don't understand, i actually think you're incapable of it seeing as you're 35 as seemingly have no idea about how men view things at all. You've gone through life this far and still have this little understanding over how men think, you actually lack the capacity for cognitive empathy. You really aren't capable of it. Your insight is more common among women in their early 20's that haven't developed the life experience yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 07:27 AM |
| 6 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?The point wasn't missed I'm well aware women see these men for sex. That's the red pill. That's what the red pillers are saying. Alpha fucks / beta bucks. Two types of men for two purposes. I think guys wouldn't be upset or raging if it didn't all turn out to be a big huge lie, that bega game is unnecessary for some men and that they have to live life on hard mode. Betas are figuring out they've got the short straw in life and things are harder for them. You having such little sympathy for them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 06:33 AM |
| 5 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?That surprises me because your lack of perspective made me think you were in your 20's. You haven't cares enough about the men you were with to understand them. Well done in roping in the simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 05:02 AM |
| 5 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Well it directly relates to you. Betas don't want sloppy seconds. It's emasculating to find out you're the beta and some guy got to be used as a sex toy by his woman. It's important for yourself to understand the male perspective because one day you'll be in your 30's and wondering why nobody wants to commit to you and you'll die alone with dogs. Men largely already operate with an awareness that nobody cares about them. That's why they get into beta game to make themselves attractive to women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 04:42 AM |
| 5 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?You should probably try to gain some insight because you just plain aren't understanding anything. It's not the fuckbois feeling screwed over. They aren't involved in this. They aren't the ones internet complaining. It's the non-fuckbois that are raging. A fuckboi is a guy that can fuck you without going through any hoops you put up for the other guys. The fuckboi is the winner in all this. He won | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 04:27 AM |
| 5 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?That's not what's going on, that's not the fuckbois raging. The raging is coming from guys that operated under the understanding that beta game mattered. For average guys they live through very different experiences with women and can't relate to how a minority of men live in this world. It's extremely betraying to find out beta game doesnt really matter and sometimes even their own partner opened their legs for some random guy while they had to jump through all the hoops. The man operating unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 04:13 AM |
| 3 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?The guys that care that if value them are the ones using beta game to get you in the first place. Those are the ones that want you to value them. Guys able to pants you easily do not care what you think either way. They got what they wanted. That's why they're so cool and care free, it's very genuine. They really don't care. Theyre already fulfilling their biological urge. The most hurtful thing you can do to their ego is NOT have sex with them because after they get that out of you theyve recei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Ok I will repost it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 03:39 AM |
| 6 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Your comment is the feminine perspective and you aren't understanding something very fundamental here about men and how men think; guys are biologically wired to fuck and fuck lots. Men develop two different strategies to fulfill this urge based on their experience with women in their youth. On one side they develop alpha game which are those "fuckbois" you are speaking about. These guys are fulfilling their biological hardwiring which is fucking loads of different women and easily. Average men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?what do you mean? not understanding your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 03:13 AM |
| 9 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?lol yes that's the red pill. Arousal and attraction are two different things for women. This is the dualistic mating strategy of women. Alpha fucks and beta bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?Of course it's to do with being with a woman for a long time. Lots of younger woman showing interesting and one thing leads to another.... When you become HVM it's women that initiate and these dudes have loads of opportunities. Any stale marriages are in for a world of hurt. Look at those numbers, men are cheating more as they get older. That's as they get higher status in the world and more women in general show interest in them. Most men don't get attention like this in their 20's and it's on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?A link in that article contradicts itself that age has no impact to self reported cheating. It has a link in that very article showing cheating among older men is more more common. Those are the men on high incomes and I see it in the real world, banging younger women in the office. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?they tricked volunteers to believe they were reach to show the impact on psychology when a man perceives he's higher status, relatively They're also misreading their own data. Their own study is showing older men are 2x and 3x more likely to cheat then young men. That's the very demographic earning the big bucks in high status jobs! Those are the HVM! I don't see any breakdowns of income brackets in that study but you can be sure as fuck which age demographic they're in. Also I always wondered h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do men in trades cheat more?I can find plenty of studies indicating the opposite such as; https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/06/04/the-curious-relationship-between-how-much-married-people-make-and-how-likely-they-are-to-cheat/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/the-truth-about-exercise-addiction/201605/are-wealthy-people-more-likely-cheat I can tell you why this is happening, from the masculine perspective. Men are hardwired to chase unlimited sexual experience. They are programmed to sow their seed. Whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?it's not societal brainwash, that's our base hardwiring from our ancestors over a hundred thousand years of mating. It takes our rational mind to ignore our base hardwiring and look past this to see other qualities. For guys and girls it often takes time making mistakes with badboys / hotgirls to understand this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Why do men in trades cheat more?ashley madison appeals to a certain demographic, it's a fantasy for lower-middle and middle class types. It's not even a real thing, the huge leak years ago revealed it's something like 95% male sausagefest on there, it isn't appealing for women. The very high earners are prolific cheaters though, but they're a lot more clever and discrete and generally don't get caught so easily. It's all happening on 'work trips' and behind reasons they aren't home which isn't suspicious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:02 PM |
| -1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?yes that's true and it's to do with male vs female mating strategy. Men look for fertility cues and women look for success cues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:58 PM |
| -1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?There's the bell curve displaying the averages and then there's you on the far end of it. It's usually women that care about what their partner is earning and not the other way around. A woman's income doesn't usually factor into her value to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?Ok ignore the acronym HVM because you and me are both using different definitions of it. I'll explain it this way; Men cheat a lot more as they earn very high amounts and get more status. These guys have women throwing themselves at them because they're hot commodities in on the market. They don't need to go to website like ashley madison because the opportunities present themselves to them. I work with these guys they're all in good shape, highly confident and highly successful. They're in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Why do men in trades cheat more?You're definitely a woman and you really don't understand men at all. The biggest reason men flip from being a non-cheater to a cheater is because they aren't getting enough at home or if it's relationship problems it's because they aren't feeling appreciated and some girl comes into their life who is showing appreciation. It's why a lot of men cheat when women are pregnant or they have very young kids (<2 years old). My friends who have cheated had mostly cheated around this age. It's when wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Why do men in trades cheat more?HVM dont need to use ashley madison or any such thing to cheat, women go to them and they say yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Why do men in trades cheat more?when he's talking about HVM he's talking about men earning like $400k+ a year which these women are chasing. When guys are on this level they don't have to go to ashley madison to cheat, women are chasing them and they just say yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Is the Red Pill fair to women?Male and female mating strategies are opposed, it's kind of zero sum where one side gains and the other loses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Women what made you have a one night standoh me too for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:28 AM |
| -1 | Women what made you have a one night standOk in that context I can understand a wingwoman, just in the comment you mentioned about coming on strong to a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:04 AM |
| -2 | Women what made you have a one night standComing on far too strong can be a real put off for some dudes. It just comes off as crazy. Wingwoman is unnecessary, women do not have to seduce or have game to attract a guy. When women have tried to pick up I notice they will normally hint something strongly to encourage the guy to make "the first move". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Women what made you have a one night standYou weren't vibing, it's exactly because he was hot. I was popular with girls when I was in my early 20's before I got overweight. Women are fucking terrible at judging personalities of guys. Women thought we were vibing too but I was just in it for some ass. Halo effect is very very real for good looking guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Research: Dual mating hypothesis studies fail to replicate.The way you frame it makes it seem like it's intentional and women are conciously identifying who is provider and who is for genetic contribution but it's not what I mean. Cuckoldry rates are a lot higher than you'd think you should read up into it. Rates are typically 10-30% depending on many factors like country, town, socio-economic status. 30% seems to be the very upper end of it but rates of 10% aren't that uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieSome women look their best at different ages but women as a whole look their best before 25. While women prefer men around their own age. Graphs are in here. https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/amp/ All men would be banging younger women if they could. Men are wired to chase fertility cues which peak in women's youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Research: Dual mating hypothesis studies fail to replicate.I see both happening, you probably don't understand what you're seeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Research: Dual mating hypothesis studies fail to replicate.I think both hypothesis' have truth to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieYour feelings don't justify anything either, between two consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 6 | Research: Dual mating hypothesis studies fail to replicate.You aren't understanding alpha vs beta dichotomy at all. She's monkey branching when she think she's got better options and the guy takes her. The alpha vs beta thing is the difference between arousing and attractive traits. Women have a dualistic mating strategy in the sense that arousal and attraction traits are two different things. They want them both in the same guy really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Research: Dual mating hypothesis studies fail to replicate.It's not so much change their preferences so much as they get horny af after their period. Its tuned like a fucking Swiss watch, anyone that understands women sees them go in and out of heat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieIt's nothing to do with being a coward or a monster. Women are at their best looking between 18-25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieAre you a woman in your late twenties or older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"A lot of men are like this and I was like this myself. Problem with being equal partner or letting her lead was killing arousal cues (alpha) and we had a dead bedroom. Very frustrating for me, but going beta just kills libido. I'm more comfortable in my beta state because I wasn't popular with women as a teen. I was very popular in my early 20's. So I've experienced both sides of it. I work on my beta qualities and I'm alpha when I need to to keep sex drive alive. You need to manage two states a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieNo, you are going by your feelings as morality. Men and women both do it from the masculine and feminine perspective. Then you've made rationalizations around your feeling, which you're calling now calling morality. In the same way it feels wrong (among homophobic people) to see two dudes kissing and they develop rationalizations around it. In reality these are two consenting adults doing their thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to Die18 year old is an adult yes. Deemed old enough to legally get married, raise her own baby, join the army, buy some cigarettes, les out with another woman, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieYeah part of being an adulthood is dealing with consequences of your actions. You can make life changing mistakes at any age and plenty of people do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"It's not a hard science, it's just abstractions in order to have a prism to understand women through. Once you get the alpha vs beta dichotomy it's a good predictive frame work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"Delete your comment and redo it if you want to discuss it more. I'm happy to explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DiePredatory isn't the case, I've already explained she's an adult and voluntarily agreeing to this for her own gain. Otherwise we should ban her from getting married or joining the army because she's not mature enough. In which case, play that card. It's nothing to do with maturity at all. Men are hardwired to seek youthful women because of their fertility cues. The same way we are hardwired to like big tits and a nice ass. Women's sexuality has its own hardwiring around what's arousing to them. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 0 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"It's not a single axis. It's two different axis. Arousal and attraction are two different things for women, that's two separate axis. That is the source of alpha vs beta dichotomy. Arousal comes under alpha traits which is the badboy archetype, typically masculine good looks and high confidence. Attraction comes under beta traits which are all the traits women say they want in a partner (caring, kind, high status job, good father, generous, polite, etc). Theres your X and Y axis and every man is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 10 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieNo it doesn't. 24 years is a fully functioning adult. 6 years into being able to drink alcohol in most countries. 6 years into being able to die for your country in most countries. 6 years into being able to make permanent life changing decisions like getting tubes tied or getting married, a commitment for a lifetime. He probably isn't going to have a whole lot in common with her but they both agree to this voluntarily because they both perceive they have something to gain. Meanwhile, you're scr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 18 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to Die"she's only 24 you sick fuck!" That's you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 07:52 PM |
| 7 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"Yes that's definitely very alpha. It's not a good thing. I keep telling guys they need to have both traits. Work on both. A lot of sexually frustrated guys try to reinvent themselves as alpha but it's not a happy operating system because you really have to be dark triad to function like this and not hate yourself. Most people actually enjoy helping and providing and being reliable and kind, which is beta traits. You need to work on both alpha and beta traits or you become a cunt like your dad or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:30 PM |
| -1 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"That's from people that misunderstand it. It's just traits split into a mating strategy there is alpha and beta mating strategy. If put a guys traits in a list he will always be on the spectrum of the two. Some guys have significantly more than the other. Some guys have both. A lot of guys have neither and are invisible to women. People assume if they aren't alpha than they're beta but a lot of guys have nothing going for them. Typically incel types. People that don't understand the abstractions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:25 PM |
| -2 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"That's not what they are and you guys don't understand what you're criticizing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"It's very common in men in long term relationships. From personal experience and guys I know, the man doesnt feel or self identify as beta, you just see your wife/gf lose her libido and you get a deadbedroom relationship where every night there's an excuse. That happens when the guy betas out over time and lose their arousing traits (alpha) during an LTR. I got my sex life back by understanding these abstractions and women's sexuality. Women don't even understand their own sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Having a "Madonna Whore dichotomy" is normal and naturalYou're projecting female sexuality where arousal and attraction are different things. Arousal and attraction are different things for women, but not really the case for men. In women, attraction comes with husband/partner qualities and arousal comes with badboy archetype. Men don't really have this kind of distinction so much. Whoever is getting with Madonna archetype is also wanting to fuck her frequently. Men are wired for unlimited sexual access to unlimited women and women are wired by hyper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:47 AM |
| 6 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I don't think trp is for or against LTR or marriage. It's just a prism to understand gender dynamics through. I consider myself red pilled and I'm happily married. I think men and women get the best out of themselves when they're with someone else. TRP is just a prism to understand a woman through and predict behaviour. Edit: guys in trp community becoming hateful and bitter about women are in the anger stage of grief from becoming unplugged and finding they were living under the wrong assumptio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Experiences dating as a betaIt's easy to understand if you can understand that arousal and attraction are two different things for women. Attraction is all the qualities women will tell you they want in a husband/partner, While arousal comes from more primal driving things going on. Any dude that passes some arousal threshold (typically extremely handsome men) lives in a world where none of the 'attractive' qualities matter, in fact the men that are deep in this spectrum don't even get why guys are being nice to women. Ave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.Women don't understand their own sexuality and a lot Redpillers don't understand this is not Machiavellian on the part of the woman (unless she's got narcissism etc) even when wanting to open the relationship. The arousal cues go away for them as their husbands soften up and drop their alpha side but women still lust that kind of sex. The equivalent for a man psychologically would be marrying a hot girl who gains 100 lbs. You wouldn't be interested in sex anymore either. It kills the arousal whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.their wives completely lack perspective as do many women living their lifestyles. I think the guys are high risk cheaters (I think one is doing it already tbh) because they just get no sex at home and it's so important for a man's best mental functioning. These guys dropped all their old alpha qualities after years of being in LTR's with their wives so that's all arousing qualities gone. The one that I'm pretty sure is already cheating has a 6 pack and muscles from strict gym 2 hrs per day and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:09 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.It's not that unrealistic I know a bunch of dudes like this, I work with them. All on 6 figure incomes and in very good shape. And their wives are still unappreciative because they have no sane point of reference. This is exactly the kind of show their wives would be watching. They love the bachelor and all this kind of 'hmmm what would my choice be' kind of shit for women. These guys get absolutely no sex from their wives despite being in very good shape, tall and high status. Through the redpi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.The show appeals to a certain kind of woman susceptible to divorce porn. These are women who have men with all the beta game going for them but lack the alpha game. Women that don't have a man with beta game wont like the show because they will find the main character unappreciative of how good she's got it. These women won't he able to identify with the main character and millions of married women who have doting, loving husbands but their husbands lack all that's arousing with alpha game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.It's purely divorce porn for women in relationships with a man lacking the arousing cues and without alpha game. These are women that might have the man with beta game but he's lacking in the alpha game. 30's+ Women who don't have a man with the beta game, the loving, generous, kind husband - won't like the show because they'll find the main character very unappreciative of how good she's got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Different requirements for different purposes...how many dogs does she have now? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How can women get a man to commit to her?Money in itself was never actually a huge factor for women in comparison to status and ambition which are (somewhat related to money anyway). Money in itself doesn't define the top 5-10% of dudes. Looks and social intelligence certainly impacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:26 AM |
| 5 | How can women get a man to commit to her?What is the metric you went by? Wealth/income? There's more to it which makes up the top 5-10% women are chasing. Also keep in mind the rich and famous are some of the most prolific adulterers despite being married. They have women throwing themselves at them, it happens to all top tier men.... and the way men are wired to sow oats... They're wired to take advantage of the opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:09 AM |
| 24 | How can women get a man to commit to her?You think the question is about average guys but the question is about the top tier men who some women chase for commitment. Regular guys are so completely invisible to some women they aren't even aware of the error in this kind of question. Men at the top don't commit because they get pussy on tap. Sharing is the price women pay for being with the men at the top. There isn't really a struggle over getting regular dudes (90-95% of all men) to commit. In reverse of top tier men, regular dudes wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 02:11 AM |
| 10 | I caught a live one!Oh alright I can see how this played out then. But it's quite interesting to see how they seem to have absolutely zero ability to place themselves into another person's shoes to test how their strategy might play out in the most simple thought experiment. You can imagine a doctor or small business owner who has all the HVM qualities and he's browsing these profiles and reads this. What is it in the profile he sees that makes him swipe right as opposed to the other profiles? Why is he going to be… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/21 06:57 PM |
| 39 | I caught a live one!Those results don't surprise me at all. I don't understand how they developed such a failure of a strategy to attract HVM. I couldn't think of anyone in my life I've ever met where this strategy would work on them. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/21 12:32 PM |
| 9 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitYou've very much interpreted this incorrectly as do many many men, unfortunately. Beta bux are attractive but in all the qualities that make up a good partner and provider. The attraction women see in the beta bux is that he's kindhearted, loyal, respectful, funny, intelligent, ambitious, generous, status job, etc. This is billy beta that will have to wait for sex, he will have to prove he's committed to her before she will get romantic with him. Billy beta can be conventionally handsome. Relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 7 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThe dichotomy you've just described about why women handle sex differently with different guys is exactly redpill. That's alpha fucks and beta bux. You're just rationalizing it. That is how a woman gets used, not by banging Chad That's an inherently female perspective on it. From a male's point of view, Chad provided nothing to her. He pumped and dumped. He used her for his own gratification and moved on. Average men navigate their relationships with women worlds apart than Chad's do and through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:08 AM |
| 67 | I caught a live one!I don't understand FDS. Who the fuck are the kinds of men responding to this kind of profile? No high value man responds to this shit so what are they attracting? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/21 07:56 AM |
| 11 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitI assure you, it's not worse than America. white American men are the most doting, 'happy wife happy life' kind of guys I've ever known. Although I don't know about Gen Z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:47 AM |
| 7 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitOh man you're so naive. Do you personally know any good looking dudes and heard any of their stories? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:16 AM |
| 6 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitNot strictly in these terms, it's on a spectrum. But you will routinely find that men find the most hurtful part of cheating to be in the act of sex and women find the most hurtful part of cheating to be the emotional betrayal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 8 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitIn the sense of operating firmware I discussed things in, women don't care about this nearly as much as men do. It's because men are wired around considering paternity so a loose woman is more off-putting to a man relative to how a woman sees a loose man. That's in all cultures worldwide. Men and women experience jealousy in their partners a little differently. Men often feel far more betrayed if their woman is fucking another dude, women feel far more betrayed if their man develops a love-inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 6 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitIt's not the common way things pan out. Most guys are not used to getting forward attention from women, they their develop attractive qualities for the purpose of getting sex, for getting some appeal from women. Getting sex is largely the ultimate motivator for the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 11 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThat's not exactly how I mean it. It's an abstraction to understand the dichotomy of womens mating selection. It's all taking place unconcious. When you're attracted to a guy who's ambitious and generous, these are satisfying the provider side of the dichotomy. You don't love him because "he's my provider", you love him because he's kind, good hearted, ambitious, driven, funny, makes you feel wanted, etc, all the attractive traits aka provider traits. Money in itself isn't actually hugely attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:03 PM |
| 13 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitFDS is just concious and total embracement of hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 63 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThat's exactly the point of OPs post. What you're saying is exactly the redpill of female nature. She sees one man as a provider and needs to establish commitment from him. Sex is a woman's most effective agency so she withholds that from him in exchange for what she can benefit from him. She sees the other guy as a genetic opportunity, she doesn't need commitment from him, just a good dicking. None of this is conciously decided, it's all taking place on an unconcious level and it's part of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?women have it easiest in their lives attracting a man when they're in the ages of 18-30, while they're still young. It's a biological reality just as much as women prefer taller guys and baboons are attracted to bright red asses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:37 AM |
| – | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.who's to say porn addiction only hits LVM? anyone can get addicted to shit man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 15 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?A lot of this stems from envy/jealousy, as well as bitterness of their personal experiences and heartaches. People going through the stages of grief will hit Anger at some point so you will perpetually see guys with this orientation of thinking speaking in quite angry tones. In fact, it's why I couldn't stand theredpill subreddit, because it's full of these guys in this stage. Guys in this stage can be god damn insufferable. However, a lot of this also comes from the fact that millions of women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I am not fond of hearing the truth, so I will call it ridiculous! Women being too picky past 30 is just us knowing what we want!im stealing this. It's a great summary | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?the decline in sex for men coincided with the introduction of the smart phone in 2008 and accessibility of fast speed internet for porn catalogues like redtube and youporn. That's when the trend first began and you see the hockey stick trendline of male virginity increasing. the trend kept increasing as a new generation of young men came into this new world of high speed porn. Tinder came 4 years later. The reason tinder evolved was because in the beginning everyone would have tried it as an alt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 8 | What adds to n-count, in your opinion?Not anal but I used to get my dick sucked by a church going virgin who is still very public about how she is saving herself for marriage. Many of her church girlfriends were working off the technical definition of a virgin. She eventually stopped giving me head because she said [paraphrased] she felt it was morally wrong because of her Christian values but in reality I think she was just no longer attracted to me as I beta'd out and started getting feelings for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 11 | What adds to n-count, in your opinion?Yeah I have an ex fling that proudly announces her virginity on social media, which is probably technically true, but she is a god damn superstar at giving head. Her church friends were much the same (but not with me). No sex with this girl but giving head was ok. But even with giving head she had all kinds of stipulations on what was immoral to do and how I was allowed to finish. Some people can rationalize their way through anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Yes, too much artificial fun to the point that it makes everything else seem dull. Like it all becomes chemically/hormonally boring for you. The damaging sequence of events is easily recognisable. If you are scrolling/searching for reward like on Facebook, Reddit, porn, pokies machine etc, then you are hitting this dopamine circuit with artificial hits. Porn is far more addictive than any of these though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Research shows people are truthful when self reporting past partner count and sexual historyI really think it depends on the person and their background. Girls from religious/conservative backgrounds are most prone to lie about their body count because it reflects badly on them. I think most other girls are fairly honest though. You can tell when someone has had a very vanilla sexual history and hasn't done stuff like given head before or done anything besides boring old missionary. A girl that's been on the CC knows how to get fucked has no awkwardness getting into to doggy position, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Men want relationships more than womenPurely anecdotal but I have a hard time believing men want relationships more among the 30+ people. Being in this demographic myself, I'm finding men are far more comfortable and self assured while women are all playing musical chairs, clamouring for the last chairs now that the music has stopped. My social media is disproportionately made up of unhappy 30+ single women that I know are scrambling to settle down. Some of them are settling down with dudes I know they wouldn't have given the time o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?There's all sorts of secondary issues with it. It demotivates you to get involved in any productive activities to better yourself. Youre content to just sit in front of a computer, instead of developing social skills or hobbies and interests which all give you opportunities to get laid in the long term. So it's not the as simple as making you hornier, it drastically reduces your quality of life in other aspects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Despite the increasing obesity, women are still fucking as much as they always did. It's men overall fucking significantly less. Because men sedate themselves on porn it's easier to satiate sexual appetite through that than jump through all the hoops needed for a 3D woman. Junk food and social media also overstimulates the brain and does its damage but porn is even more so. It's not the orgasm high doing you damage, it's the release of dopamine you get when scrolling through porn when searching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Because porn is supremely addictive above all those things and it's just as widely used. Video games and social media are also part of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?So the issue doesn't apply to you. I didn't project porn addiction so much as I recognised two interesting trends since high speed porn came to common use. 1) young women are having the same amount of sex as they always did and losing their virginity at much the same age too. 2) conversely, there has been a steep increase in the number of men not having sex and the age of losing virginity has been pushed back further too. If you can understand that porn is a form of escapism and sedates young me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Nope. My life is in order and all that. I quit porn ages ago just to try it out and I've seen both sides of the fence. You will feel very very different after quitting porn for 3 months even if you think you're just a casual user. You're probably addicted but unaware. Just try to quit it for 3 months, you won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?It's a collection of research papers. You get sceptical of libraries too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Wrong again, these here are all neurological based studies; https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/#brain The founder is just collecting all the works of "actual scientists". Try again! It's changed my life and it's changed the lives of thousands on nofap and you can read the testimonies of everyone from Yourbrainonporn so I guess we all accidentally hit placebo lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?The science says it's not so I guess you don't have a clue what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Tinder is just one Avenue of many to get laid. Masturbating and porn have all kinds of secondary impacts which reduce your chances of getting laid in the long run. It makes you less motivated, less social, in fact if you get addicted all you want to do is sit in front of a computer. This is as opposed to what people used to day before which is go out and socialise. Back when I quit porn I started getting bored at home so I just went out and any opportunity to socialise I took it. Doing shit I ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Porn is a form of escapism for men. The attachment to it and addiction builds from that because it's HIGHLY addictive. It works the same way for smokers and junk food addictions. Smoking and junk food aren't a symptom either dude. You start off on it because you enjoy it and soon enough the habit feels essential to your day to day being. That's addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:44 AM |
| 4 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?porn has become a form of escapism and basically sedates young men. If it wasn't access to high speed porn, millions of men would be forced to go out there and do what they can get laid as its a biological imperative for men to blow their loads. Porn has all kinds of secondary effects which reduce a man's desire to even go out in the first place. With zero opportunities there just isn't going to be much chance of sex. It lowers your overall mood, gives you feelings of guilt and shame, lowers you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?if we are talking about getting laid specifically, I'm in the right on it. Women obviously can use their better judgement to assess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?yourbrainonporn the website has an entire collection of studies of the last 10 years showing it's bad for your overall mental health. The book/audiobook is basically a breakdown of why it's bad for you as well as the kinds of damage it does to you. I can't recommend this book enough, it is life changing for anyone who is a regular porn user. There's no moralism behind this at all because people like to take this to a religious angle with sinning and all that. But these artificial dopamine squirt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?porn is evil. It's a supernormal stimulant on your dopamine circuit and long term use will fuck up your brain. Reduce overall grey matter, reduce function of your frontal cortex. It's linked to depression, anxiety, concentration issues. The science shows it is bad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?I think most women do actually. If a guy is popular with women it kind of vets him to the other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?He thinks he's making himself seem more valuable though. Like "oh my lots of girls like him he must be high value" kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Modern men are largely sedated on porn which paradoxically has made them more sex obsessed but less incentivized to do something about their predicament outside of the internet. I know ugly dudes getting women. I know short dudes getting women. Guys can still do it but my finger is at porn for ruining young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:09 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?These are all kinds of red flags for me but I'm in my 30s. Am I already old fashioned by the standards of today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?what kind of 'boyfriend material' dude is going to want to settle down with someone dating 4 guys at once? That would be a complete put off to any dude I know except the ones with the lowest self esteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:01 AM |
| 8 | Have you ever felt or been unwillingly part of a soft harem? Can you recognize the signs?heads up but when guys brag about sex and dating they're getting they're poorly trying to bluff how desirable they are in a bad attempt to make them more desirable in your eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 6 | What are the difficulties for a 25F to get in a relationship and settle down?You need to increase your social circle which increases your second degree contacts. It increases your chances of meeting these kinds of guys. The best way to meet a partner has always been through other people, because it's a good vetting system to ensure you have someone that knew them before you did. You can't get this out of online dating etc. So go expand on your social circles. It might mean taking on hobbies. Friends widen your potential pool of guys. And if you're overweight, lose the go… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?I think in the USA it's actually remained fairly equal over the decades. It's men that are having far less sex than in the past. As in the same number of women are fucking but they're fucking far fewer men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.I mean the whole 'vibing' thing is just in your head. That's really the redpill take on 'breaking rules for alphas and making rules for betas'. Some girls are concerned they are perceived as slutty so they put in the timetable, which you are saying is not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.From personal experience it does. Girls make some guys wait months and some guys days or same day. It's the guy that's making her comfortable. One time I had a one night stand with a girl and her friends went ape at me because she hadnt done that kind of thing before, like it was my fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:54 AM |
| -2 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?It's really not true. Her credentials don't add any value in the eyes of high value, well performing men. They don't see this as a compliment to success so much as a young and beautiful woman does on his arm. I'm talking about ambitious and performance driven guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.It's all in your head. I've had sex with girls that thought they were vibing with me in reality I had absolutely no interest in them than the bedroom. I'm not even doing anything Machiavellian I'm just hanging out. Your sense of comfort is all in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.I assume the personal comfort has to do with the guy they're with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.I think the red pillers go too far on this 'make rules for beta and break rules for Chad'. My experience is women will make up their minds very quickly if they want to fuck someone, it's definitely not taking 3 dates to figure that out. But SOME women will set up rules, not for the Beta, but to assure themselves they aren't being a slut. They don't want to think of themselves as the kind of girl that fucks on same day. I've even had a girl on a second date tell me we were going to have sex on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.those are not the kind of women worth dating anyway and it's absolutely delusional to think all women open their legs so easily even for top tier guys. Women will often make men wait just to assure themselves they aren't being a slut. That's the way women self-delude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.That's not what you said the first time; Chad tricking women into thinking he is in a relationship with them is what causes alpha widows It doesn't necessarily have to be a pump and dump. If you want to break it down further, it's the validation from a top tier guy that sets her standard of what she thinks she's worth. She gets it in her head that if she has done it before she can do it again and 'settling' just leaves her unhappy with her imagination on what could have been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.as long as you aren't browsing porn during it. it's the act of searching through porn to find the right clip which is damaging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men are forced to date crazy to gain experiencehonestly if it wasn't for the dragons I probably wouldn't have recognized or appreciated the good qualities of my wife when I met her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.That's not the cause of alpha widows. It's just when a woman fucks or has a relationship with an alpha she doesn't want to downgrade and is never happy after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | A Public Service Announcement: Getting off is good for you.The real answer is dopamine. Go read Yourbrainonporn it will explain to you that masturbating to high speed porn is nowhere near the same as sex or even masturbating to a porno mag. The act of scrolling through a porn catalogue to find the choice clip to masturbate in the moment is a supernormal stimulant of dopamine to your brain and will give you brain damage over time, the kind of brain damage seen in all drug addicts. The book explains it but if you don't want to read it then flick through m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:16 AM |
| 7 | Men are forced to date crazy to gain experienceYou have to slay a few dragons to get to the princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Nobody said it doesn't make you want to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:07 AM |
| 0 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No it's not the sugar and porn itself that's creating symptoms of ADHD, it's the overstimulation from dopamine which over time will give you brain damage. Evidenced with reduced grey matter and reduced functionality of the frontal cortex. That's what addiction does. There's a whole range of studies in my link on neurological impact of porn, sex and internet addiction. All addictions contribute to this as they all ride the same dopamine circuit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.It's the whole process of scrolling through to find the right clip which hits the novelty that the dopamine circuit is looking for and then the feel good hormone which is released after (from jerking off). It's the process which dopamine is working within and that's damaging. It's the same thing going on when you're pulling the lever at a pokies machine or scrolling through FB. Except porn is more damaging because a lot more dopamine is involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 26 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.what don't you get about it? generously tall, generous girth and length, generous with his six figure income.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No, it's the porn itself, it's not the ejaculation. You haven't read the OP which explains why it's the porn itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.yes a lot of studies are finding all sorts of negative impacts on the brain. Reduces grey matter. Reduces your ability for self control due to impacting your frontal cortex. Reduces your ability to concentrate (brain fog). Depression. ctrl + F ADHD to find the one talking on that. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/#brain From my personal experience quitting porn I think it's all true. I had milder forms of all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.ED is a symptom of porn addiction but also comes back during withdrawal and the quitting process. Yourbrainonporn had a theory behind what might be driving the limp dick during withdrawal but it admitted it wasn't necessarily accurate or scientific; just opinionated that it might be to do with the dopamine circuit normalizing off porn. I'm interested to hear that you can just quit it without issue. When I quit porn I had limp dick for about 2 weeks but it came back fine. I'm reading some young p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Men and women both need to stop with the revenge porn and grow up.it's called having your cake and eating it too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.It's actually just a collection of papers and their reviews by professionals in that field. The guy running the website put it altogether. If you're trying to take the side of pro-science, well the papers are all there for you to go through. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/#brain This page contains two lists (1) neuroscience-based commentaries & reviews of the literature To date, all but one of the 56 neurol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.you don't need nofap because you're not a porn addict. Nofap isn't cope, it's for people with addictions. nah I didnt masturbate for months and even when I do I rarely watch porn, I get a random boner and I masturbate. Yeah I don't take meth either but I don't go around spouting rehab clinics are placebo effect either. How fucking dense are you. Of course you aren't going to understand the issues discussed here when you rarely watch porn anyway. You are one of the rare ones. 40% of couples meet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.The book explains people tend to need more crazier niche porn as they become more addicted. It thrives on novelty as do all things related to dopamine. On the extreme end are men into bestiality, trans, violence/rape, etc. If you find yourself getting bored of amateur and trying to move onto crazier and weirder things to get off then just be aware it's part of the porn habit and you might need a break a bit to reset back to something more normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Ah good because the book explains people in your generation seem to not be so affected by all this and explains its likely because you went through adolescence without high speed porn, your access to it was after your brain was already matured. The issue is more so for the young generation coming through now that have had access to high speed porn since they were very young. They're finding the younger they are the harder the withdrawal symptoms, for example many people have 2-8 weeks of limp di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Yourbrainonporn puts forward the case that since it's a supernormal stimulant there's probably no 'safe' level of porn consumption, it's all brain altering to some degree. There's way more people addicted than you'd probably realize. See if you can abstain from porn for a month without cravings bringing you back. Jerking off is fine, but try to do that without porn and see the withdrawal symptom come into it Porn addiction doesn't have to be hours a day at all. There are casual users dropping po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.It's been life changing for me. But I'm sure everyone that spent a few monoths in nofap is wrong. I'm sure all the testimonials and recommendations from Yourbrainonporn are wrong. You're right dude keep living in denial. only 34% of young men are able to have real sex and you are saying the rest shouldnt even watch porn. I'm saying this is partly to do with porn. Porn is a coping mechanism for men that stops them from going out and meeting people and taking the right risks. No incentive to go ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I'm a man that broke out of porn from casual use and saw the other side. I'm telling you from the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.significant spelling error in one Masturbating from high speed porn isn't biologically the same process as sex or porn magazines. As for this; That's an excess of choice/selection and it's the same for food, social media etc. Nothing to do with excess of choice. It's specifically utilizing the seeking-reward loop, which psychologicaltoday called it. I've read it called the 'search and find' circuit. which you tried to pull semantics on me later over it. It's you searching for the clip that will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Interesting you say this, because porn addiction reduces proper activity of your frontal cortex and reduces your ability for impulse control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.If you google search 'supernormal stimulant' it will take you to a list of examples, which includes porn. There's enough scientific studies to show that it absolutely is https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/#brain >To date, all but one of the 56 neurological studies published offers support for the addiction model (no studies falsify the porn addiction model). The results of these 56 neurological studies (and upc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No, porn is a super-stimulant on our dopamine circuit it is a lot worse than how most habits will interact with it. It's not in the same league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Realistically, what type of damage can constant validation do to someone's brain?she got dogs a little bit bigger than my feet. She followed the path of many single women in their 30's, trying to fill a void that was supposed to be children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.the explanation behind 'rewiring' is just metaphorical. The book Molecule Of More explains the role of dopamine and how it works with our motivation. The author puts dopamine as the conductor of the orchestra (which is also metaphorical!). Porn addiction as with every addiction will tamper with dopamine in our system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:08 PM |
| 8 | Men have a very different perception of what women find attractive than women doArousal and attraction are two different things for women and they aren't even aware of it. Arousal = muscles and bad boy cliches Attraction = everything women say they're attracted to women shift between what they prefer depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Your study is from 2014. Yourbrainonporn has a great resource available on all the literature available on this topic https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/#brain And here are professional reviews of studies and literature https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/ There's hundreds here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No the website and book have plenty of studies regarding physiological changes to the brain. Such things as reducing capacity for self control, risk assess, laziness, depression, burnout, adhd, all sorts of quality of life issues. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/internet-video-game-addiction/studies-demonstrating-porn-use-or-internet-use-causing-negative-effects-or-neurological-changes/ The book also touches on casual use of porn. Porn is a supe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I'm addressing you on his behalf. You're welcome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:40 AM |
| -2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.How old are you? Have you ever tried to abstain from porn for longer than a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.The study is from 2014 good god man get with the times. yourbrainonporn pulls apart this kind of terribly flawed studies from the earlier period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.That's all it takes. Try to abstain from porn for a month and see how you go. If you can't do it, well that's the addiction. You have no perspective, before and after abstaining so you don't know how you feel without it. Go to the nofap community and see what people are saying after doing it for 3 months. It's life changing. The reason is because it's doing more damage to your brain than you realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.After reading yourbrainon porn abstaining from porn, yes I do. I think it's a factor that plays into a lot of issues going on right now and people just don't know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do dating coaches and PUA teachers get so much hate when they produce resultsAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I think more negative on women than it is for men. Porn is making men docile, lazy and apathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:07 AM |
| -1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Are you trying to be funny or just being thick? High speed porn meaning access to unlimited and instant porn like off Pornhub. As opposed to the old picture books and dialup connections people used to rely on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I'm in my 30's. Guys are softer than ever, don't delude yourself. They're getting laid less than ever too. They use porn as escapism. If you want to get into the science of the issues, yourbrainonporn the website has it all so you can stop ignoring the issue because you 'feel' like it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No I didn't. I made a comment about ancient cultures having control of women and no porn. It was previous poster before me claiming porn stops women from gaining control. Men don't have control. They're putting pussy on a pedestal more than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.So did men get some control back of their lives or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.True but this; The more porn, the less inherent power women have over men by using sex as a bargaining chip Is just wrong. Porn makes you sex obsessed and objectify women as sex objects. There's no better way to give pussy power then pump every male mind with porn. Otherwise ancient cultures would be subservient to pussy power, which is just not the case anyway. Go to nofap and speak to peoples own experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Men and women both need to stop with the revenge porn and grow up.Your comment is unreadable. Take an english lesson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:44 AM |
| 8 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.The opposite. Long term use of porn makes you sex obsessed and objectify women. If you abstain from porn for awhile you'll see it my way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:42 AM |
| 9 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.No he shows studies look at the website. Are you saying porn isn't addictive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:59 AM |
| -3 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Uhuh so why did men have more control over women in all societies until wide spread high speed porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I do! Your Brain On Porn the website has all the science behind it, and now you'll pretend science doesn't matter! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.If you had actually read the thread before dismissing it at the title you'd find out! Your laziness might even stem from this issue! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Realistically, what type of damage can constant validation do to someone's brain?The single cat lady trope is so widely known and shameful that it's moved on to dogs. Something to fill the empty space. She always wanted kids, problem was she needed a husband for that. Nobody met her impossible standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do dating coaches and PUA teachers get so much hate when they produce resultsI'm not saying that. Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male approach is much better and lays things out as a frame of mind and list of rules. If you understand it through the lens he does you don't need this prescriptive approach of negging, peacocking, PUA shit. Even Rollo says he can't give advice on PUA but he can explain why it works. This step by step approach to PUA isn't addressing root causes and it's why all these ex-PUA guys ended up as betabuxxers for 35+ women after having their time with so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Idea for dating appthink of it by plotting it on a bell curve, the amount of girls and guys that see things where height and weight aren't a disqualifier are very marginal to the mainstream. in terms of tinder, what were they swiping against? Physical qualities. It's always the predominant filter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 11:38 PM |
| 14 | Idea for dating appIt won't work because regardless of what people say, the first filter applied is always looks. It's why tinder had such immediate success because if they didn't pass the looks filter you're looking at the next profile in a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do dating coaches and PUA teachers get so much hate when they produce resultsI hate them because I find all the prescriptive, scientific approach to it very cringeworthy and it's probably the wrong approach for most young men wanting success with women. I find it even more cringeworthy when people use the slangs and acronyms from all this which I'm guilty of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 11 | I want to be a house wifeSeems you already go to church so you need to widen your social circle to have more church going friends. More friends = more friends of friends and your prospective pool widens. There is a % of men that are good husband material and your chances of bumping into one are increased by broadening your social circle. The best way for both genders to meet partners always is, and always will be, through friends. Because that way you have some way to vet them on their past. You need to broaden your soc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Realistically, what type of damage can constant validation do to someone's brain?I don't know about brain damage, but over-validation will definitely over-inflate a someone's self worth to some bad consequences. My personal story; I had a serious gf in early college around the time FB came out. She was strikingly good looking so she was getting metaphorically bukkaked by validation on social media and it was back when nobody really knew the dangers of it. I saw the change in her first hand. Her sense of self-worth exploded and she was becoming insufferable. It was around the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 08:15 PM |
| – | A huge part of what makes a man “Alpha fux” material or “beta bux” material is based on the way they present themselves, act around their peers, the girls they pursue, and the circles they put themselves in. It’s not all just inherent biology.It's easier if you think about it this way; For women, arousal and attraction are two different things with separate cues. Attractive cues are all the things women talk about which is kindness, sense of humor, good manners, etc. Arousal is the alpha fux cues which is all the bad boy stuff. Ideally women want both in a guy but when people talk about dualistic mating strategy of women they're talking about the separation between arousal and attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | People wonder why they are on Tinder looking for love? This has me cracking up for the past 20 mins.no she won't, she'll get dogs! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Women don't need to lower their standards. They need to raise them massively.Height is the biggest disqualifying attribute before all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?No it doesnt stop making those chemicals. I can still love. I love my wife. I just can't love the same way as I did the first time because that's when I had a very idealistic idea of love and I learned it's not reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?I came out of puberty a very good looking dude, before this I was a pimply, lanky guy with a bit of facial assymmetry. When I came out of puberty my experience with girls was completely different. I had that kind of love you're talking about with the very first girl I had a serious relationship with. I had a period in my life I was in good shape and good looking and my experiences at work and any social groups I joined taught me a lot of stuff women think they care about doesn't actually matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?I haven't felt this since I was a teenager, a young and idealistic male. I'm too 'redpilled' on female nature for that to have this anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?It's all in the book Your Brain On Porn actually there's a website for it if you google it. Plenty of scientific research backing this up. But to explain it; the mechanism ruining you isn't the act of cumming itself. It's the novelty you can get in porn by scrolling through Pornhub searching for the ultimate clip to cum to in the moment. The dopamine reward circuit is better called the 'search and find' circuit. Dopamine is released in the process of searching ie. Searching through porn, pulling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.I'm not going to read your entire post it's just logically wrong in the headline. Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships. Men fit different categories on the standard for hookups and the standard for relationships. That's the different standards for different men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 22 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your boyfriend used to date Stacies?Yikes. That is such a non-Stacey thing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.You haven't answered if you're male or female yet, I'm interested to know. When I say break rules I don't mean she will lose her shit and do something uncharacteristic (although this occasionally does happen too!). I mean girls will break rules like "I don't have sex in the first month of dating!" Or "I don't give blowjobs!" Etc which are rules she sets up for others but will break for bad boys / hot guys to make them happy. I can tell you this from personal experience from dating when I was in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?That's how addiction work! It feels necessary! Once you break out of it (scientifically speaking, you reset your dopamine circuit to normal) you look back and wonder what the appeal to so much porn was in the first place and how you ended up as deep as you were | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Yes they're two different things but they aren't mutually exclusive either. If a woman lusts after a man she will break her own rules to get a good dicking. Love for women is just oxytocin and it gets released at it's most after sex. Women struggle a lot harder not to develop feelings for the man who has just given her a good pounding. Are you a girl or guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Are you a woman or just extremely naive? Women will absolutely drop her usual rules if she finds the guy is hot. It's not different rules for different situations, it's different rules for different kind of emotion a man makes her feel. I have enough personal anecdotes from my own youth to see it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:59 AM |
| 4 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?that's your dopamine circuit resetting to normal which increases grey matter in your brain and gives you a fully functioning frontal cortex which is the part of your brain that assesses risk and your ability for self-control. Keep doing what you're doing but the benefits you've seen are because you stopped artificially stimulating dopamine squirts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 3 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?Start with Your Brain On Porn it will scare you right away from porn and talks a lot about it's influence on your dopamine circuit. Molecule of More is a great book on dopamine in general and touches a lot on addictions. It will also help you understand why some people are high achievers etc too it's an extremely influential chemical on the way you live your life and helps you understand yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:02 AM |
| 9 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?you don't have to do semen retention to avoid this kind of damage. If you want to jack off then do so with a porno mag or with your imagination. Don't scroll through an internet website looking at videos and pictures. This engages your dopamine circuit. The problems of porn really kicked off with high speed internet and smart phones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?no. It's high speed porn and the novelty of flicking through all the videos to find the perfect one that's doing it to you. You're even relatively much safer just flicking through porno magazines. It's the novelty of unlimited women through scrolling endless pictures/videos of them, searching for perfect one to jack off to, which is doing the damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?Your brain on porn the website has plenty of scientific work behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?Yes. Picture mags and Audio is definitely much better for you than high speed porn. The danger of high speed porn comes with feeding the novelty which is what your dopamine circuit is chasing. The whole part of scrolling through something like pornhub and searching for that perfect clip to jerk off to is your dopamine circuit at work. Something like Pornhub where there are a thousand categories and you can spent 15 mins scrolling through to find what's your niche for the night... Be careful that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 07:33 AM |
| 8 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?I copied this entire comment up to the edit above High speed porn usurps the dopamine reward circuit exactly the same way as heroine or crack cocaine does and harms you in much the same way but to a less extreme degree. The process that happens is your brain develops a tolerance to dopamine and what SHOULD be enjoyable to you, such as; basic social interaction, living in a tidy environment, cooking a good meal, learning something new (etc etc etc) all becomes dull and uninteresting. You eventual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 07:27 AM |
| 19 | How much do you think porn has affected the average person's sexual taste?It psychologically pulls you away from enjoying the emotional connection of sex and the beauty of human form.and instead steers you towards wanting to fulfil some niche fantasy because plain boring sex just doesn't give you the same sexual high. High speed porn is actually damaging to your brain in the same sense as addictions such as gambling, video games and drug abuse. It usurps your dopamine reward circuit and impacts your brain structure. Your Brain On Porn is an excellent book/audiobook re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymorehttps://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america%3famp The issue is single women at this age largely become aware of their fading looks, decreased window for having a kid, and go through major hormonal shifts. I can believe women in their 20's might be happier unmarried and childless, but that changes fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreMen are just better at it. In terms of suicide attempts, women are in the lead by far, but they usually go for less effective methods like cutting their wrists and self poisoning which gets them hospitalized but saved. Men tend to go for more gory but more effective techniques for self ending like shooting themselves in the head. Surveys are showing single 40+ women are the unhappiest demographic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreI disagree somewhat. The unhappiest people right now are single women 30+ and especially 40+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenI'm talking about reality. Why do you think stuff like fifty shades of grey and so many romance novels have a male interest with violent tendencies. Dark triad is connected to the bad boy persona. I'm not saying all women go for this because obviously they can use their better judgement, but dark triad is arousing much light visual cues get a man aroused. Dark triad traits aren't attractive in a man, they're arousing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allYou're right, female sex workers should all be forced to marry lonely men. We cannot allow women to continue to take advantage of sad and lonely men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allThey're not trying to be cute, they're trying to make some money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allSo men should be forced to marry people they don't want to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allShould they lower their prices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The saying goes “they come back when you least expect it” why is that?I think if you get all the information, you'll find it's quite logical why ex's come back. My story, I'm a male in my 30's and I used to date a hot chick during college. She was very good looking and got a lot of attention quickly realized she could do better than me. There really wasn't any reason for the breakup other than she realized she had better options than me. About 10 years later when we were both around 30 I had well moved on by then. Got a good job and a wife and kids, and a big hous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allAre they blackmailed to pay up or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:22 AM |
| -1 | Do we need political and economic change in order to et social change to happen?Like all of human progress it will take men to lead the change. As concepts of TRP go more mainstream you will see women fall in line accordingly. It's not going to change overnight it's going to be a steady grind, just like it was to get to this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allNo, they're being paid to do it just like men pay women to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allMaybe your standards are too high. Men aren't bigger assholes than they used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenbeing fake compassionate, empathetic, nice guy isn't anything to do with narcissism. That's just bad game from guys that don't know any better. Women don't give a shit about a guy's narcissism when they're horny for him. They just want to be held down and fucked doggystyle while getting their hair pulled. That's 90% of women and the other 10% want it rougher than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenThe issue is more that dark triad traits in men is arousing to women, which is not the same thing as being attractive which is qualities such as witty, funny, kindness, warmth, basic decency, etc. If you can understand that attraction and arousal are two different things for women then you can see how this doesn't contradict anything said here. Although, I would put zero stock into any surveys asking women what they like. You'd get more accurate surveys if you ask women what they think other wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?I became very handsome coming out of puberty which lasted until I got fat at like 24-25. I've lived in both spheres. If women find you attractive they always shoot their shot. That's from anywhere between telling you to come back to their place to hinting strongly they want you to make the first move on them. Some women expect men to make the first move but if they find you attractive they will find some way to tell you to make a move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 07:20 AM |
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