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| 1 | Why I stopped being the guy who just reacts to storiesChatGPT has new community guidelines which have made it less helpful in pickup | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Need help with solo night game difficulties1 - can you loop these sets into pre-approval? Ie, make eye contact, tell them, “I’d like to go talk to her” invite her and her friends into the set? Or are these relations strictly business and won’t mix well with friends? Would they judge you or would it affect your business? 2 - no one notices the guy who is alone. I’ve been that guy, always just say you’re there to unwind. I go to bars a lot alone, and it’s primarily to be alone, but not isolated. I have found a lot of people “get it” and ha… | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Why I stopped being the guy who just reacts to storiesdefinitely do not only rely on apps | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 01:35 PM |
| 92 | Why I stopped being the guy who just reacts to storiesReal life approaches are intoxicating. Don’t settle for online bullshit. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it common for competent women to go after submissive guys?I disagree. The point I was trying to make is you shouldn’t be bending yourself to someone else’s desires. You should develop yourself so that you’re satisfied and in control yourself. All the methods and aspects of game help to demonstrate this externally, but to develop yourself internally is what works long term without burnout. You shouldn’t give a fuck what women want. You should be evaluating them to see if they are someone you want. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 70 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?You have, they just weren't obvious. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 34 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?They really are skittish, much more afraid of you than you are of them. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for competent women to go after submissive guys?Who cares. Develop yourself, and become someone you would be proud to let your daughter date. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone.Best thing is to know how you need a woman to "show up" for you. Her not meeting those expectations is the same as ghosting you. Women are very fickle, and just don't understand how lonely many of us are. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Good shows/movies to watch?First and second season are probably the best. It just sort of got me in the headspace of not giving a fuck, and treating the conversation like my own personal source of entertainment. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Good shows/movies to watch?I always was successful on a night out after watching an episode of Californication. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.This sub has been infiltrated by incels. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Wingman DubaiWhat are you doing in Dubai? Don’t the women there already have certain expectations which align with why they are there to begin with? | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Fumbled the frame after car meetup — worth trying again or just move on?Well… seems like you both started playing games with each other when she was wanting something with a bit more substance. Then things may have gotten adversarial with both of you leaving each other on read. That’s not a fun game to play, and usually ends with the end of the interaction. At this point it’s kind of a “hey I miss you let’s grab drinks” Hail Mary sort of play… At a certain point you do have to show some form of emotional investment, otherwise it’ll just be confirming to them that yo… | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?you should be dating so many women and have so many options that you don't even notice. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?no they don't. they do this to guys they aren't sexually interested in, but provide other "benefits" ($$$). The age-old adage "if they wanted to, they would" always applies. Ditch this person, OP. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:19 PM |
| 18 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?This is called "breadcrumbing" and she is trying to keep you within her orbit "just in case" She doesn't actually like you, but you serve a purpose to her. Maybe she'll use you for dinner, drinks, to make another guy jealous. You don't have a future with her though. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Im getting puzzled at women.Why ignore her? Why not have a normal conversation with her? You don’t have to escalate if you don’t want to. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I not look like a loser in a club?They probably thought “wow that guy is really in his own head, better leave him alone” Unfortunately it’s a compounding problem and tough to break when you’re spiraling. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How to gauge if someone is DTF or just interested?Read up on physical escalation, touch ladder, things like that. If you mean over text, read up on “seduce her with text” bring up that you’re only here for a few days if she doesn’t know already | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How to gauge if someone is DTF or just interested?Escalate | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women taunting after being interested before?Well keep advancing, escalating with people you like. If someone says “wait I thought you were gay” just laugh it off and say “she really didn’t take that rejection well, haha” | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Women taunting after being interested before?Well… keep that in mind. They are pitiable people. Their only security comes from putting people down… they feel very vulnerable when they have “liked” someone that has seemingly rejected them. Just keep in mind that they have a lot of growing to do. Welcome them into your space if they have the courage to step into it. Continue to be a symbol of strength. How old are you? It’s like when strippers call you gay for not wanting to get a dance from them. It’s more pathetic than anything. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 07:49 PM |
| 13 | Why are hot girls easy to pick up than unattractive ones ?I think it's just that attractive women understand the game. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Women taunting after being interested before?I had a girl in middle school have a crush on me. Apparently she was very experienced, but I was like… 12-13. I think she was 14-15 (held back and such)? Had already had sex and given blowjobs. She did NOT take kindly that I was oblivious/inexperienced. So after I “missed my chance” she made sure to say often and loudly, “I can’t believe I ever thought you were cute.” It comes from a place of insecurity. Don’t worry about it. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How to buildGetting worse by the day | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How do i seduce my chachi (Wife of my Father's brother)How old are you? | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Summary of an idea from RSD Tyler's "Blueprint Decoded".Speaking of… has anyone seen Owen cook recently? Dude has let himself go. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Chaotic ex got in touch and i want herYou know what. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Toga party tmrIf you are pledging, then just respect the pecking order. Have a good time, don’t get too drunk. Be social, but I wouldn’t try to fuck anyone tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 07:07 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you decide to close the door forever?Ask yourself (or chatGPT), "what would a confidant man with numerous options would do." Then do that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Gathered courage and talked to my gym crush. Turned out that she's older than me. Is it over or I should play my shot?stop with the limiting beliefs | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Questions to askThis sub is no longer about seduction. It is about finding the “magic words” … This sub is going to die soon. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | What happened to u/HistorianOk2573OOTL, he harassed a woman IRL and Reddit found out? Or he was harassing a woman on Reddit? | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Should I dm her?Maybe wait until she posts something interesting on her story, or look at her profile and find something you like. Or just “hey long time no see, I really enjoyed talking to you last week spoke” | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Guilt Is Not An Aphrodisiacexactly haha sorry | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Guilt Is Not An Aphrodisiacsean connery comes to mind lol i forgot the quotes, the firm hand is "thats not acceptable to me, but good luck with your goals in life." | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Guilt Is Not An Aphrodisiaca lot of the time that "firm hand" is, thats not acceptable to me, but good luck with your goals in life | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Guilt Is Not An Aphrodisiaccorrect. if they act like a child, don't bother telling them in order to guilt them into acting the way you want. they'll resent you for it. just withdraw your attention/effort and place it where it's deserved. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How to not have the girls get attached?Ha seriously! We were sexting/engaging weekly (we both work a ton and have kids), but i guess it just wasn’t meant to be. At the end of the weekend she sent me a text at 6am Sunday asking if I was free, and I just texted back “no” | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to not have the girls get attached?Yeah I’ve kind of had someone on the hook for like 6 months now and then when we finally had a time nailed down she ghosts last minute. Haha, oh well, I was very busy 😬 | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to not have the girls get attached?How long do you go in between? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Are women more on the average side more receptive to cold approach (daygame)? (18-20 range)i think i just like crazy chicks lol | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 10:44 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Talk About When Being Charismatic?Your passions. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 01:56 AM |
| 18 | Are women more on the average side more receptive to cold approach (daygame)? (18-20 range)The only consistency with women is their inconsistency. This is why frame control and qualification is so important. You (as a man) are the anchor…. They are the storm lol. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring flirty cashier to wake interest. What could go wrong?and you're judging someone you barely know as "trouble" for some reason. This just seems like it's not coming from the best place | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring flirty cashier to wake interest. What could go wrong?exactly :) no need to try to psychologically manipulate the person making your coffee, just have fun with the interaction | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Ignoring flirty cashier to wake interest. What could go wrong?That’s why OP is pissed off… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring flirty cashier to wake interest. What could go wrong?But… that’s what you’re doing by being here… learning to be flirty and magnetic to everyone. This seems kinda hypocritical. Why not just flirt back with her and have fun with it? How did she hurt you? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Im going to a senior party tomorrow and im nervous asfGood to know! At this stage in your life. TALK TK EVERYONE. I’m 35, and I never think about anyone I met or interacted with in high school. Put yourself out there, see what works, see what doesn’t. Don’t worry about what people will think about you, because for the rest of their lives, they won’t. You are in an AMAZING position to be doing this now, with lots of people available to talk to, and almost no long term repercussions. Enjoy your life dude. SO MANY people would kill to be in the positi… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Im going to a senior party tomorrow and im nervous asfSenior………… college? High school? NURSING HOME? Edit: were you at bro. I will help you with mindset and expectations 😎 | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Are older women easier than young ones?Bullshit better 😂 the bullshit is what makes them women | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 05:34 PM |
| 8 | Are older women easier than young ones?There is less bullshit. They’ve been playing the game longer so they know the “rules” and the “plays” | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 16 | In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once?Typically they sleep with one guy at a time, but they might be talking to 10. And they may rotate through them. But in their mind it’s still “one guy at a time.” | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I felt super anxious and confused around a new cute girl in the gym today! Need direction.Try saying it to her with a confidant frame | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I felt super anxious and confused around a new cute girl in the gym today! Need direction.lol honestly if you said, “I'm unhinged by your presence,” in a confident frame that may actually work. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried AI dating assistants? How effective are they?And if gives great response, even saying why different texts would work or not. Crazy world we live in | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 02:41 AM |
| 18 | Has anyone tried AI dating assistants? How effective are they?Honestly if you just upload full pdf books of texting/flirting to ChatGPT it functions pretty well… The people who “made” those apps probably just took every book on game and uploaded it to an AI to analyze and give responses. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if a girl likes you if she is nice and flirty with everyoneJust keep advancing with her. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 11:50 PM |
| 5 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?Woman you just met? 10/10 bad. Woman you’re been with a few years? Still bad, but it will determine whether she’s worth wasting any more time on. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 11:48 PM |
| 2 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?Women have no idea what league you are in. We assign them a league based on looks they assign us a league based on how we carry ourselves. This outs us at the advantage. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Car FunWat. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Idea: Seduction LLMhey, so opened up a convo with chat GPT and just uploaded the whole book to the ai, and then had it analyze previous chats, and help with new messages. it does take a little coaching but like... it's fucking amazing. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Keeping up spark in LTRThey wear off for everyone :) that's why relationships become a commitment. I joke, but there's a little truth when i say my wife and I have a "business relationship" with a side of amazing sex. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Keeping up spark in LTRhmm... i think just keep planning fun dates for her. once you're in a long term committed relationship, trust, emotional openness and other factors come into play. you can't keep purely "gaming" your wife. This is the point at which you need to spontaneously buy flowers, or just plan a whole night for her and have a dress waiting for when she gets home. At that point in your relationship, the things that really work are having a hot bath waiting for her when she's had a rough day. Giving her a m… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How to follow a sugar momnah dude, you're looking for a sugarmomma to pay your bills. what you need to do is be 6 foot tall, in shape, big penis, and all the other stuff that a gigalo needs to be successful. watch "Deuce Bigalow, Male Gigalo" and model your life after Oded Fehr. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 02:12 AM |
| 3 | How to follow a sugar momThat’s not seduction… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Keeping up spark in LTRHow long is long term? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | First text after getting a number?Crazy running into you, “call back nickname.” I’m guessing you enjoy doing that to all the guys you just meet | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | First text after getting a number?Why are people using so many alternative forms of texting? Why what’s app? Why snap? | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Is it generally normal for people in your culture to talk to strangers?Can’t meet people unless you talk to strangers. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Idea: Seduction LLMHonestly I’ve been using that for a couple convos. I give them a background, and it spits out suggestions, I refine the suggestions, and tell it what I ended up sending and how they responded | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:05 PM |
| 20 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meand just to reply to this. it's called game because that's what this all is. It's a game between you and her. If she's not good at playing the game (like she is demonstrating), then she loses, just like you used to lose when you didn't know how to play. I wouldn't even say "cut your losses" so much as stop playing the game with this person who isn't reciprocating appropriately. Dating should be fun. This is why frame is so important. If you keep frame, then this is just a flaky girl who isn't wo… | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Idea: Seduction LLMI actually just did this! Works very well | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Idea: Seduction LLMI’m on board with this. I’m reading “seduce her with text” right now and it has a bunch of great examples. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 12:34 AM |
| 4 | I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her.Was about to say the same thing | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:07 PM |
| 10 | Leaving her in the pastI do too dude. Best to move on and focus on yourself and your own growth. The woman of your dreams will meet you on your path. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Why you shoud not double text a woman that's making you chase or ghosting youEVEN I NEEDED TO READ THIS. Everyone needs to read this. We need this pinned. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 07:36 PM |
| 13 | Fake muscle suits for dating?God damn wtf is wrong with this subreddit. Between this, everyone focused on getting back with their exes, and the posts with no grasp of English. I think this sub is dying. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to you guys “re-attract”?so you want to analyze his exact situation, but apply surveys and studies which are based on numerous couples... that's just a faulty application of the data. are you this guy's alt or something? let him live his life. He's young, he should be dating multiple people and not worrying about settling down. He shouldn't be hung up on someone he dated briefly, months ago. It's not healthy for anyone. if she's right for him, she'll come back to him once he gets his confidence back. i'm trying to get h… | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to you guys “re-attract”?if he were gonna blow right past my cynical view, he would have done it already. He's been trying to get this girl back for months now. He would be better served moving on, rather than getting false hope and perseverating online with strangers. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How to you guys “re-attract”?lol jesus dude. This story is what every guy has lived through. They want their ex back. How many people have you personally known where that works out? his situation will not work out because he is DESPERATE. and as you said ALMOST ALL girls find this offputting. He broke up with her months ago. He's probably already tried the grand gestures, and now he's trying to manipulate the situation to his benefit because he's a desperate loser. I don't know anything about this particular girl, but do yo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How to you guys “re-attract”?experience? the point is he seems like he's way over-invested in this specific relationship. She may be amazing, but this isn't how to win her back. The harder he pushes at this point in his life with this particular girl, it's more likely to blow up in his face. He's posted several times over the past 2 months about winning his ex back. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Warning on John Elite dating coachMost of the online coaching I’ve seen is part of a pyramid scheme. This is the next version of MLM. He coaches you, but eventually you coach others. He has a coach himself. All any of this is (and I’m talking about every single person you see on IG selling a course), is people demonstrating value, saying they have a course to sell you to become successful like them, but the real path to success is selling courses to others, and coaching them to become successful. The guy who did the million doll… | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 09:58 PM |
| 5 | How to you guys “re-attract”?The premise is flawed. Why is she so great that you need to re-attract her? She’s not. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 03:38 PM |
| 35 | Do you step up or check out when a woman has high standards?Because once you start, they’ll never stop presenting hoops to jump through. It’s like chasing a promotion at work. | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Talking to my girl “friends”made me realise I’m actually not that guyHonestly you should just laugh at them and live your life. “My boyfriend such an asshole!” Haha you chose him. The fuck you want me to do about it. I’m busy going out and having fun. You choose your misery. These women you talk about sound worthless. Keep meeting women until you find someone worth your time. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 09:19 PM |
| 5 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?you aren't stressed about work. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are some women rude despite being into me?latinas are not your type. they're hot, but they're feisty. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Bro do your job. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Which book worked for you the most?I got amazingly far on his newsletters alone… holy fuck everything he wrote was seductively witty and sexually charged. The man had a way with words. SPANK. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?better than starting in a few more years | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 04:53 PM |
| 12 | Which book worked for you the most?Double Your Dating, by David DeAngelo | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 01:42 PM |
| 15 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?That’s what every man does in every aspect of his life. You start with zero success in something, and then once you start practicing and working at it you eventually have many successes. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 01:31 AM |
| 12 | Are We Dating the Same Guy FB GroupsYou know who you don’t want to date? Someone who spends all their time on Facebook gossiping. Next! | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Hard to cum second time.Is this sub getting brigaded by bots? | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | QuestionsWhat the fuck is with all these ESL posts!? | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | A lot of you are not nice (guy) and kindWhy have there been so many broken English posts recently… | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Lose weight guysI think you missed the point a bit. It’s not the in shape body, it’s what it represents. I didn’t do the post justice, so if I ever find it I’ll post it. I’m still looking for the 4chan seduction posts | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 01:34 PM |
| 3 | How to know if the girl you're texting not into you or just playing hard to get or do not wanna be perceived as despo?Tell her how much you want to eat her ass. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 01:39 AM |
| 22 | Lose weight guysSo I think I can maybe summarize one of the 4chan posts related to this. It has entirely to do with control and the way that is outwardly expressed in our society. The first sign that a man has complete control over his own life, is if he is in shape. It demonstrates consistency, drive, and total control over what he puts into his body, and what he makes his body do. It is impossible to have a great body without having a great diet and work ethic. In order to have a great body, you must have con… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Stop asking if intimacy is “on the table” before the date happens. Attraction is spontaneousThis is actually my go-to if she is just too wet for me. It dries her right up. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I have better/more sexual conversations with girls?Craig Ferguson is an AMAZING example of fun, sexy banter. He had every woman in aging out of the palm of his hand on his show (granted they were all drinking on his show). | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 84 | How to Pick up milfsYes. Please post results. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 12:25 AM |
| 3 | How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ?This is why it’s good not to care about outcome, and to just advance. Good post. | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.I don’t think either of these are true… There are many reasons why women may not express their sexual desires in the way that men do, and that they may avoid having casual sex… But I have found women to be very lustful and willing to have one night stands. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Approaching can be so difficult without looking like a creepThe only difference between a creep and a chad is the reception. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 06:54 PM |
| 167 | What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from menYour presentation (cleanliness and understanding a little bit of fashion) is the gatekeeper. Sexual attraction is entirely how you make her feel. Obviously if you are such a specimen that you ooze sex appeal, that can start you off on a great foot… But every gorgeous motherfucker can fuck it up for himself if he’s an awkward loser. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Should I focus on myself i.e. get better looking, before I chase women? Or both at once?Nothing is “genuine” or comes naturally this first time you do it. Approach sections (conversation) like weight lifting. Get your reps in, push yourself beyond, learn and recuperate. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I focus on myself i.e. get better looking, before I chase women? Or both at once?Well… hate to break it to you, but “seduction,” the art of communicating with the opposite sex… IS self care. You should be doing both. You should be doing it all. Every day. Take that with a grain of salt, but you really should be working to better yourself each day, and having productive, positive, fun conversations with women is part of that. There is enough time in the day. Cut out the bullshit. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 06:31 PM |
| 187 | This is all you need - Old 4chan gemI love the old 4chan seduction material. I’ll look for my folder, I was very involved from 2006-2011. Good stuff from that era. Just people wanting to improve. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 04:07 PM |
| 9 | What do you do when a woman takes a position of ambiguity?I usually use these as “experiments” and just throw random shit at her to see what sticks. It’s all practice anyway. Use it as an opportunity to throw out a “I wonder what it would be like to wake up next to you” or a “I usually don’t fuck on first dates, so you’re really gonna have to bring your A game” Have fun with it. Who the fuck cares. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why my girl is not ready to commit to our relationship?I only read the title, but it sounds like you need to date someone else. If she ain’t ready to commit then keep dating others. The whole idea of this is to get a slew of girls who want to commit to you, and then you can pick whoever. But whatever is going on in your relationship ain’t it. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome the frame of "I don't have sex in the first date/that early/only in a relationship"Is it ever? | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 04:34 PM |
| 17 | Should i use a hat to approach women if i have a receding hairline?Use a fedora | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I change my beliefs?Your “belief” statement is weak. “I AM attractive, and if has NOTHING to do with my monetary wealth. I am a person worthy of love.” “I AM attractive, because I have an inner STRENGTH that makes me keep fighting on despite monetary hardships.” | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that?I try to be honest with them up front since they don’t like finding out later. Plus I have my daughter as my background. I don’t try to hide it 🤷🏼♂️ As far as how I met her… I got lucky. I met someone with similar life experiences, and over time we’ve been more open about what we both want, and since we’ve committed to each other and we have grown so much together, we have slowly evolved into this. I think ultimately it comes down to our belief in what love and marriage is. Love isn’t a feeling… | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?I am 35 now, it was in my early/mid 20ms that I “figured it out” I was very frustrated for about 10-15 years because it just appears that some guys sort of know the language when speaking to girls. I didn’t understand it, but eventually it clicks. Girls (people) want to have FUN. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 47 | I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that?Genius billionaire playboy philanthropist. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:23 PM |
| 24 | I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that?You’re walking on a knifes edge. Some girls will see you as one or the other no matter what you do, but as many have said, be clear with your intentions. Stay true to your vision. Even doing that you may fall into fuckboy territory sometimes or you may be too much of a gentlemen at other times. Logistically… you ARE trying to be two things at once. This isn’t impossible. It’s just difficult. I am a husband, but I also sleep around (with wifeys permission), but at the same time we don’t like othe… | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:22 PM |
| 29 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?You’re missing the point, yes it’s a long journey, but this is the inflection point you need to internalize before becoming attractive to other people. You need to be attractive to yourself, and stop thinking about how people view you. If you can’t even entertain yourself during a conversation, how are you going to entertain anyone else. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Should I Give Them My Number or Should I Be Getting Theirs?Do you want to lead the interaction or not? | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:54 AM |
| 286 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?I stopped trying to entertain them with conversation, and started to focus on just… entertaining myself. And then I really gained some success and stopped caring entirely about outcome. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I just don’t get it.It’s more general vs specific. Your general intentions are to get laid. But you don’t have your heart set on one person or target. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:28 AM |
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