CrwlingFrmThWreckage Archive

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2	What do you think of venting subreddits banning posts about dating voes? I used to go to a personal trainer for rehab. He wanted to start up a fat loss program that offered long term check ins and follow up classes because - he said - 90% of money spent on fat loss programs is wasted. People either don’t lose weight or only keep it off for a few months. For the vast majority weight is not easily changeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 10:41 PM
2	What do you think of venting subreddits banning posts about dating voes? Wow, a sensible balanced view. Are you sure you should be on Reddit? 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 05:11 PM
5	What do you think of venting subreddits banning posts about dating voes? I’m fine with a vent that says “I’m having a hard time with dating, hardly any replies and no dates, it’s like applying for 200 jobs and getting three replies that all say No, I’m doing my best but it’s really wearing.” That seems ok. But when it’s “women are awful about dating they all hate short guys like me and they’re rude and manipulative and just want money…” then you’re not venting about your dating experience you’re just attacking 51% of the population. Is it a participation award proble…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 05:04 PM
–	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. That wasn’t proposed. That’s not the only way of potentially improving “fairness” in a civilised society that is capable of organising and behaving better than during the Stone Age, and understands the reasoned advantages of doing so. One of the criticisms of some feminism that has long rung true to me is that of generalisation. A lot of the crimes/ethical complaints accurately laid at the door of men were/are true for many successful men. But far less so for the low status men. Distribution of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 03:44 PM
–	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. When I learned that among the incel community it was a popular belief that guys could not approach women or initiate and had to just do their best to appeal while basically standing around… “Well, there’s your problem.” Or a big one of them. One of the incel murderers even had it in his manifesto - summary: “I’ve done everything I can, nice car, good clothes, great hair cut, cool shades, but the cute girls still don’t come up and ask me for a date.” (His logical conclusion being he’d better k*ll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 03:26 PM
1	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Yes, in support, not opposition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 01:04 AM
14	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Soo… I’m not married or in a relationship. After major surgery I’m living with my father again. When he goes to the shops he asks if he can get anything for me. When I go to the shops I ask if I can get anything for him. He occasionally asks if I’ll replace a corn pad on the end of his elbow because, of course, he can’t see it properly. We each do some of the dishwashing - I put things in the dishwasher as they accumulate through the day, and he particularly likes scrubbing out saucepans. Etc et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:13 PM
5	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Can’t speak to women because it’s assault? I’m pretty sure my nephew spoke to his girlfriend before they got together, and she didn’t charge him with assault. And I talk to women every day, often numerous times, and have done for many years, including women I’d like to be in a relationship with, and I’ve never been charged with assault. How come?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:06 PM
6	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Have you tried cleaning up pus and vomit and faeces and urine? Changing the diaper on a 99 year old dementia patient with friable skin and brittle bones? Being shouted at half the day by narcissistic surgeons and specialists? Having to lift obese patients around? How about working in cafeteria kitchens with 100 litre pots of boiling soups and stews? Or how about looking after toddlers all day? Not much clean about that. Yes, women get all the clean jobs. Open your eyes and invite the big picture…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:59 PM
4	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Frankly, I think young women should have as much sexual fun and freedom as young men so often do. But it’s wise for them to keep it quieter than men do simply because of societal bullshit. When a young man who has been “sowing his wild oats” wants to get married around 25-35 they say “Isn’t it nice he wants to settle down now”. When a young woman who has been doing the same, metaphorically, wants to get married they say “ewww, no chance, she’s been such a slut.” “They” is only a proportion of so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/26 04:31 AM
3	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes You’re too young. These guys want a good girl to marry when they’re about 28-32. Right now they’re virtue signalling while while trying to get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 02:36 AM
1	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? I agree with what you say. But a man with few social skills and difficulty reading people (or specifically reading women) is genuinely going to feel like a performing monkey when trying to do those things. Even so, externalising the blame to women in general is a further misunderstanding if social interaction (or straight up misogyny, or both). Women have general preferences as well as individual requirements for liking someone. Same as men. If you invariably feel like you have to perform it’s m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 12:08 PM
2	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? That definitely isn’t the worst that could happen. I agree entirely with it being ok to approach women in almost any environment with awareness and respect. But the reality is that occasionally a woman will call rape or harassment when it isn’t happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 12:06 PM
1	Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man. External locus of control. Bad idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 05:21 AM
3	What do you actually want women to do? I said science. Not subjective values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 01:48 AM
2	What do you actually want women to do? What is the “science” of the term “degenerate behaviour”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 01:45 AM
1	Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men? Umm, have you considered that the phrase “privilege is invisible to those who have it” might apply to you too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 01:46 AM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. I’ve experienced both sides. I was raped when I was a child, leaving me with serious sexual trauma, as well as medical issues. When I was old enough to start dealing with it I realised that the support I found, and the research that helped me understand it better, came about because abuse feminists had fought for sexual assault of women and girls to be recognised and taken seriously both psychologically and legally. And I found some feminists in online support groups very supportive. But I also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 01:06 AM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. Any human characteristic varies so yes, of course some people have exceptional empathy skills. I don’t believe you can only empathise if you’ve experienced the same thing - certainly not exactly the same thing. A woman can empathise with a man feeling very horny; it isn’t exactly the same for her, perhaps, but it’s enough. Likewise loneliness or trauma and so on. That there are differences shouldn’t mean it’s impossible to empathise. A guy being mugged will probably not fear being raped as well,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 12:52 AM
6	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing Women are generally thinking in terms of relationships, not pickups. And their advice is for the guys who can’t get any dates, not for the average guy. So if you don’t wash your ass or your hair, don’t use deodorant, and wear a greasy food-stained t-shirt to a nightclub then work on your appearance. And if you’re looking for a relationship rather than a fuck then big muscles aren’t enough. But if you’re a guy who just wants a fuck then be the physical stand out, especially with a bit of self-con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 08:14 AM
4	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing What? ZZ Top were wrong??!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 02:17 AM
1	We should start sexualizing men I certainly think it’s a fantasy for many men that a woman might be the old fashioned head of the nymphomaniac who will bed any man and the more modern idea of the more in one go the better. And I agree that it’s badly faked. But it is a genuine fantasy for some women, and it’s genuinely enjoyed that way by some porn women. If you’re familiar with BDSM it’s the idea of “topping from the bottom”, in some cases. In others it’s the freedom of responsibility to choose, and being taken to the limit. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 09:16 PM
3	We should start sexualizing men Yes, fair point. Women’s text porn does commonly have more detail about the men than just their dicks, but not always - glory hole or women blind-folded, for instant. I only discovered the breadth of current romance novels this year. When I was a teenager/young man it was only marriage-focused couple based, with the occasional love triangle. Now it’s everything you can imagine in video porn, including monsters and tentacles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 02:25 AM
2	We should start sexualizing men Maybe read some spicy romance fantasy for women? There’s a strong trope of being dominated by big dicks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 01:52 AM
2	We should start sexualizing men I think men being reduced to a life-support system for a penis and ejaculation from the woman’s point of view counts as “sexualising”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 03:28 AM
4	We should start sexualizing men I think men being reduced to a life-support system for a penis and ejaculation from the woman’s point of view counts as “sexualising”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 03:28 AM
9	We should start sexualizing men Umm… a lot of hardcore porn seems to involve women sexualising men. The image of the sexually voracious woman who wants dick is pretty much essential to the industry. And for men I’m pretty sure at least some of the point is believing such a woman would want their dick, no matter their age, weight, looks, intelligence, personality, or any characteristic other than being a dick-possessor. I think that ends up encouraging some men to the “she wants it” point of view, which doesn’t seem to work out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 12:41 AM
11	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. The brain keeps developing throughout life. It used to be thought scientifically it stopped around 18-20. In the 1990s - the “Decade of the Brain” - it was shown that it keeps developing after that age. But a lot of old school neuroscientists and psychiatrists insisted there must still be some point at which it effectively stopped developing so you could say a person was strictly and definitely a “mature adult” after that point. (You can see how politics was involved already.) So they argued it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 08:24 AM