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I used to go to a personal trainer for rehab. He wanted to start up a fat loss program that offered long term check ins and follow up classes because - he said - 90% of money spent on fat loss programs is wasted. People either don’t lose weight or only keep it off for a few months. For the vast majority weight is not easily changeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:41 PM
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Wow, a sensible balanced view. Are you sure you should be on Reddit? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:11 PM
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I’m fine with a vent that says “I’m having a hard time with dating, hardly any replies and no dates, it’s like applying for 200 jobs and getting three replies that all say No, I’m doing my best but it’s really wearing.” That seems ok. But when it’s “women are awful about dating they all hate short guys like me and they’re rude and manipulative and just want money…” then you’re not venting about your dating experience you’re just attacking 51% of the population. Is it a participation award proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:04 PM
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Thank you for your compassion. Yes, I’m confident that lack of male role models, mentors etc are part of the problem for a lot of the extreme difficulties some guys face. And yes, I very much want women to raise boys who have self-confidence, and who know that the stereotypical physical drawbacks guys worry about really can be quite strongly counteracted by good choices in raising them. And of course good choices in raising them can include things that go some way to preventing some physical al …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:10 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:15 PM
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That wasn’t proposed. That’s not the only way of potentially improving “fairness” in a civilised society that is capable of organising and behaving better than during the Stone Age, and understands the reasoned advantages of doing so. One of the criticisms of some feminism that has long rung true to me is that of generalisation. A lot of the crimes/ethical complaints accurately laid at the door of men were/are true for many successful men. But far less so for the low status men. Distribution of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:44 PM
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When I learned that among the incel community it was a popular belief that guys could not approach women or initiate and had to just do their best to appeal while basically standing around… “Well, there’s your problem.” Or a big one of them. One of the incel murderers even had it in his manifesto - summary: “I’ve done everything I can, nice car, good clothes, great hair cut, cool shades, but the cute girls still don’t come up and ask me for a date.” (His logical conclusion being he’d better k*ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:26 PM
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Yes, in support, not opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:04 AM
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Soo… I’m not married or in a relationship. After major surgery I’m living with my father again. When he goes to the shops he asks if he can get anything for me. When I go to the shops I ask if I can get anything for him. He occasionally asks if I’ll replace a corn pad on the end of his elbow because, of course, he can’t see it properly. We each do some of the dishwashing - I put things in the dishwasher as they accumulate through the day, and he particularly likes scrubbing out saucepans. Etc et…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:13 PM
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Can’t speak to women because it’s assault? I’m pretty sure my nephew spoke to his girlfriend before they got together, and she didn’t charge him with assault. And I talk to women every day, often numerous times, and have done for many years, including women I’d like to be in a relationship with, and I’ve never been charged with assault. How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:06 PM
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Have you tried cleaning up pus and vomit and faeces and urine? Changing the diaper on a 99 year old dementia patient with friable skin and brittle bones? Being shouted at half the day by narcissistic surgeons and specialists? Having to lift obese patients around? How about working in cafeteria kitchens with 100 litre pots of boiling soups and stews? Or how about looking after toddlers all day? Not much clean about that. Yes, women get all the clean jobs. Open your eyes and invite the big picture…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:59 PM
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Who says it’s anyone’s problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:38 AM
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Frankly, I think young women should have as much sexual fun and freedom as young men so often do. But it’s wise for them to keep it quieter than men do simply because of societal bullshit. When a young man who has been “sowing his wild oats” wants to get married around 25-35 they say “Isn’t it nice he wants to settle down now”. When a young woman who has been doing the same, metaphorically, wants to get married they say “ewww, no chance, she’s been such a slut.” “They” is only a proportion of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:31 AM
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You’re too young. These guys want a good girl to marry when they’re about 28-32. Right now they’re virtue signalling while while trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:36 AM
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I agree with what you say. But a man with few social skills and difficulty reading people (or specifically reading women) is genuinely going to feel like a performing monkey when trying to do those things. Even so, externalising the blame to women in general is a further misunderstanding if social interaction (or straight up misogyny, or both). Women have general preferences as well as individual requirements for liking someone. Same as men. If you invariably feel like you have to perform it’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:08 PM
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That definitely isn’t the worst that could happen. I agree entirely with it being ok to approach women in almost any environment with awareness and respect. But the reality is that occasionally a woman will call rape or harassment when it isn’t happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:06 PM
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External locus of control. Bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:21 AM
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I said science. Not subjective values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:48 AM
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What is the “science” of the term “degenerate behaviour”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:45 AM
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Umm, have you considered that the phrase “privilege is invisible to those who have it” might apply to you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:46 AM
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Totally agree with that last sentence. Be humble about it and know you could be wrong, and be sensitive enough to hear and accept that without taking it personally, and remember you can still be supportive even if you’re not great at empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:32 AM
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I’ve experienced both sides. I was raped when I was a child, leaving me with serious sexual trauma, as well as medical issues. When I was old enough to start dealing with it I realised that the support I found, and the research that helped me understand it better, came about because abuse feminists had fought for sexual assault of women and girls to be recognised and taken seriously both psychologically and legally. And I found some feminists in online support groups very supportive. But I also …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:06 AM
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Any human characteristic varies so yes, of course some people have exceptional empathy skills. I don’t believe you can only empathise if you’ve experienced the same thing - certainly not exactly the same thing. A woman can empathise with a man feeling very horny; it isn’t exactly the same for her, perhaps, but it’s enough. Likewise loneliness or trauma and so on. That there are differences shouldn’t mean it’s impossible to empathise. A guy being mugged will probably not fear being raped as well,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:52 AM
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Thank you for responding. Is your point that paying for any sort of sexual interaction is a huge turn off or disturbing? I get the impression you also mean immoral. Is that so? I think the variety of experiences is definitely relevant. I’m not generally in support of absolutes. So, for example, a sex worker who only sees men and women with disability and/or sexual trauma to help them heal is an experience I say is positive. The SW is in control, they can consult with the client’s dr and therapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:58 AM
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I’m not fine with that for myself. But I’m a child sexual abuse survivor and have met a lot of similar in support groups and in real life, including current and former sex workers. From what they’ve said you’re oversimplifying, dismissing their agency, and in some cases denying them the possibility of good safe income despite mental health problems that preclude them from working elsewhere. No, it isn’t simply matter of “having sex with someone who doesn’t want you”. Sometimes they’re fine havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:23 AM
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Yes, that’s very much how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:11 AM
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I said “not simply selling consent”. Do you consider it “selling consent” for massage, chiropractic, surgery, or nursing? That’s where I pay for someone to do something with their body that will make me feel better or heal me. And if it’s selling consent in sex work, then it’s not black and white. Some only sell consent to look at their feet, some to whip you, some will massage topless so you have consent to look at their breasts. In that way it’s like consent in a relationship. Yes, you have co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:10 AM
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Flashing money at a woman who has rejected you is… gross, plus other things. But I realise it is likely to work sometimes in some circumstances - poverty in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:57 PM
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I very much agree. Any work done coercively is wrong. A hotel cleaner, a sweat shop clothes factory, a father forcing his kids to work for nothing in the family business. Coercion, even through less visible social forces like women being underpaid for equal work in many countries, is the wrong part. Not the sex work in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:55 PM
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Depends on the situation. A woman working on her own and employing a bodyguard at the door is almost certainly not simply “selling consent”. They still have boundaries, they can turn away anyone they want. Yes, it’s not the commonly held perception of sex work, but if you’re going to make sweeping generalisations then watch out for the contradictory instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:51 PM
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It’s ridiculous to call it “buying a human being”. That’s no more true than seeing a masseuse, a surgeon, a dentist, a proctologist, a chiropractor and any other practise where someone works with your body and theirs. Each of these is different but in none of them are you “paying money for a human being”. Try visiting a sex worker and see if you get to take they’d body home and keep it in a closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:48 PM
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First two things to open up in a new mining town - a church and a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:44 PM
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I don’t think the person you’re replying to is unaware of that. She says clearly that she was in an unusual situation. But to me the lesson is that it’s possible to have safe respectful sex work. Where that doesn’t happen is where there’s insufficient legislation and enforcement, plus corruption, commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:38 PM
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Exactly. Sex work is different in different places and different businesses. The sex work itself isn’t the problem, it’s the appropriate legislation and enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:33 PM
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That might be the “glamorous” side of it to some but IMO the far more glamour it’s suds would be women working for themselves and making $5000 for a two hour appointment. Of course it’s rare, but that high end of the scale (and that’s not the highest) is very far from the basic end, and there are niches all the way in between, plus different sorts of sex work - eg dominatrices, massage, strip, as well as different levels of service from different providers - feet only, for instance. I have a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:30 PM
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Women are generally thinking in terms of relationships, not pickups. And their advice is for the guys who can’t get any dates, not for the average guy. So if you don’t wash your ass or your hair, don’t use deodorant, and wear a greasy food-stained t-shirt to a nightclub then work on your appearance. And if you’re looking for a relationship rather than a fuck then big muscles aren’t enough. But if you’re a guy who just wants a fuck then be the physical stand out, especially with a bit of self-con…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:14 AM
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What? ZZ Top were wrong??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:17 AM
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I certainly think it’s a fantasy for many men that a woman might be the old fashioned head of the nymphomaniac who will bed any man and the more modern idea of the more in one go the better. And I agree that it’s badly faked. But it is a genuine fantasy for some women, and it’s genuinely enjoyed that way by some porn women. If you’re familiar with BDSM it’s the idea of “topping from the bottom”, in some cases. In others it’s the freedom of responsibility to choose, and being taken to the limit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:16 PM
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Yes, fair point. Women’s text porn does commonly have more detail about the men than just their dicks, but not always - glory hole or women blind-folded, for instant. I only discovered the breadth of current romance novels this year. When I was a teenager/young man it was only marriage-focused couple based, with the occasional love triangle. Now it’s everything you can imagine in video porn, including monsters and tentacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:25 AM
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Maybe read some spicy romance fantasy for women? There’s a strong trope of being dominated by big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:52 AM
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I think men being reduced to a life-support system for a penis and ejaculation from the woman’s point of view counts as “sexualising”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:28 AM
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I think men being reduced to a life-support system for a penis and ejaculation from the woman’s point of view counts as “sexualising”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:28 AM
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Umm… a lot of hardcore porn seems to involve women sexualising men. The image of the sexually voracious woman who wants dick is pretty much essential to the industry. And for men I’m pretty sure at least some of the point is believing such a woman would want their dick, no matter their age, weight, looks, intelligence, personality, or any characteristic other than being a dick-possessor. I think that ends up encouraging some men to the “she wants it” point of view, which doesn’t seem to work out…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:41 AM
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The brain keeps developing throughout life. It used to be thought scientifically it stopped around 18-20. In the 1990s - the “Decade of the Brain” - it was shown that it keeps developing after that age. But a lot of old school neuroscientists and psychiatrists insisted there must still be some point at which it effectively stopped developing so you could say a person was strictly and definitely a “mature adult” after that point. (You can see how politics was involved already.) So they argued it …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:24 AM
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