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| 2 | Do you think people find you boring?Nah, I’m pretty interesting hell idek what the fuck I’m up to half the time tbh but its usually entertaining for those watching and dangerous for those involved. Just take as many opportunities as you can in life to do shit and try things and you’ll never be bored or boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 11:10 PM |
| 11 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Imma be real I gotta ask who tf this guy is… there’s only like a few thousand billionaires on the whole fuckin earth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI’m happy for y’all man, that was always my dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel that growing up in strict, religious environments makes men lack confidence?Definitely. When parents/religions drill into your head that sex is evil outside of marriage, you’ll end up believing it and acting according for some amount of time. The longer you conform, the more developmentally behind you are compared to everyone who started banging in middle/high school. That alone starts to fuck you over and gives you anxiety/confidence problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:31 PM |
| 67 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?The implication is directly there that you’re a second choice, not as good, unfulfilling, etc. Which obviously hurts your self worth, and makes the idea of marriage seem forced and unloving, and cheating/divorce is written on the wall for the moment she finds a guy who’s not a “settle.” That’s why guys cringe when they’re called husband material… I actively avoid demonstrating “long term” mate qualities, make myself as non-husband-material as possible, because FUCK being in the friend zone until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:20 PM |
| 4 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI know and I agree 100% I just have given up on the idea of marriage and long term relationships. Gen z is a lost cause. Millennials already at less than 50% marriage and 50% of those fail. So right now only 1 in 4 people pull off successful marriages. With the new heights that hookup culture has reached I bet that drops to 1 in 8 for our generation. Basically not worth trying, you’ll probably lose. So the only option is play the game or be an angry celibate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 09:12 PM |
| 4 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itExactly. Swear to god, as a younger man I wanted to marry my first love and be a loyal man. Only after years of hurt and rejection playing that game did I give up and realize I had to play dirty or lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsSo wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsExactly. I’m in a frat, these guys have almost no respect for women and it’s because they’ve seen SO much cheating and slutty shit that they have trust issues. It’s hard to respect someone when they don’t respect themselves… If you want me to fuck you like 45 minutes after we met, for the sole reason of me being in the same family line as someone else, you lack self respect in the view of myself and most other guys I know. Even sexually successful men believe it’s a woman’s role to be the gateke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsThis is dead accurate. I’m in a fraternity and see it every day, the guys that fuck the most are textbook misogynists to an aggressive degree. Apparently a sizable pool of women find that attractive in a man if he’s 6’ with abs and social status. One new member this year in particular stands out, freshman guy coming in with 25 bodies already keeping a consistent rotation of 3 pretty sorority girls (with no commitment required), and managed a threesome, while genuinely being the most misogynistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:01 PM |
| 4 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI’m just shy of 6’ and reasonably good looking but not hot. Not an athlete either and don’t work out consistently, but I do maintain a healthy weight and lean build. I’ve had one night stands with 5 different girls this year from 4 different sororities. Thats a pretty average, unimpressive statistic in the fraternity, could be higher, but I’m not a down bad virgin anymore so I don’t pursue every opportunity that comes my way, like I said I really don’t like hookup culture that much. There are mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”I gained the insight a while ago that the majority of young men (and women) are extremely insecure, and their sexual success is often dependent on how they express their insecurities. If a guy copes by being avoidant and overly nice, he’s getting milked and mocked by all of society. If a guy copes with narcissism and alcoholism he’s gonna get a ton of sex from insecure women (and a lot of the times, still be secretly miserable). I’m in a fraternity, I know a lot of guys that fuck, and the ones f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 09:21 PM |
| 6 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itWorks for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP believe that the best way to solve this dating problem, is too become the problem?This is exactly how I interpreted it. Few years ago I was a pudgy awkward nice guy still virgin as a college freshman, and it hit me all at once that I’d been lied to and the jocks from high school were still the type cleaning up. So I got new clothes, new haircut, got in shape, pledged a frat, literally practiced being a narcissist and getting inebriated, and sure as shit now I’m part of the problem. The problem is really bad, too. I’m not quite this good at the game yet, but there’s several gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsMy fraternities alumni board is like 50% boomers and I can tell half of them have been drinking heavy since graduating in the 60s. Never heard of any getting throat cancer. I also worked at an old engine repair shop for a few years and it was basically run by 50-something year old alcoholics with yellow eyes and pale skin that drank 2 cases a night and smoked 2 packs a day and none of them even got throat cancer. Obviously it CAN happen but that’s exceedingly rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsMy fraternities alumni board is like 50% boomers and I can tell half of them have been borderline alcoholics since graduating in the 60s. Never heard of any getting throat cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:54 PM |
| 13 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itWomen like to think this but you’re lying to yourselves. I’ve slept with several hoes this year. I knew they were easy before I did, and turned them back loose the minute I was done. Guys who are getting laid the most aren’t feminists, they’re usually the ones throwing around “slut” and “bitch” the most and we all know it. The difference is they have the confidence, social status, and looks necessary to get away with it. Case in point: most rappers write lyrics where they’re full on explaining t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:47 PM |
| 7 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itAgreed. I panicked about being a virgin when I was 19 so I skipped straight to fraternity fuckboy and I’m still very unsatisfied. I’ve never had sex with a girl I loved and it really does feel like glorified masturbation for the sake of bragging rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:37 PM |
| 10 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itThis. I used to hate hookup culture because I was on the losing end. Now I’m in a fraternity and that pretty well turned the tables, but yeah, too much free beer has its downsides. Hard to find a girlfriend when half the girls you know have fucked three of your brothers. Hookup culture is so normalized now that actual stable relationships without cheating are rare. You have to completely remove romance and love from sex or things get messy, and it’s really not fulfilling that way. Certainly bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Do women really believe that toxic masculinity is the common factor of sexless lonely men?Exactly. I was socially awkward and insecure in high school, no thanks to COVID, and so were most of my friends. Nothing drives women away like that combination and sure as shit we were all virgins. I got to college and knew I had to do something, so I made the “only rational” choice and pledged a frat to compensate... it more or less worked and I’ve been a brother for a year now, and I’ve seen a lot. Just like you’d expect, frat boys run through women by being as toxic as possible. A lot of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beThey’re essentially playing on male difficulty, that is rather unfotunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beI’m friends with this one girl who’s VERY attractive, hot enough that she’s had weird mfs make shrines to her type hot. Obviously she isn’t gonna date those guys, but she has plenty of quality men toss themselves at her regularly. That illusion of choice and ego inflation has made her chronically single because nobody’s good enough. She lamented about a being on a 2 year dry streak the other day and I couldn’t help but laugh at her, you’d think some women could starve in a grocery store. The gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosLivvy Dunne’s net worth would hit 0 dollars overnight lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Women with high standards should date unattractive menI think it’s funny that women are still even trying to deny this. On a daily basis I see pretty girls make their rounds in and out of my dirty unkempt frat house to come see their obnoxious, gym rat, alcoholic, cheating boyfriends… and help them do homework so they don’t fail out. The craziest part is that like half of the guys (myself included) are purposefully acting this way because they know it’s what will get them girls. Women have 100% created their own problems (and problems for most men)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Basic biological impulse that results from thousands of years of selective mating and evolution. Men that try/aspire to be top dog are more likely to actually become so than those who don’t. Therefore they reproduce more, and their genetics become more predominant. End result is the natural male impulse and experience is to crave being the best or as good as possible. Typically how it works out for every sexually reproducing species. Of course, it causes a lot of misery, because many will play a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?This shit blows my mind every day. I have a unique insight on it, I think. I’ve never had a serious/long term girlfriend cuz I was a loser in high school, then went hard red pill in college to compensate and ended up only having fwb/hookups since. End goal used to be gf but with all I’ve seen now I’d rather stick to what I’m doing cuz I value my freedom and sanity too much. When I got “hard red pilled” as a shy STEM major freshman my conclusion was to join the most fratty frat I could get a bid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skillsIf the claims you just made about alcohol were actually true then fraternities wouldn’t have alumni because they’d all be dead before graduating. But that’s not the case… imma keep drinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:55 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedI just got back from my fraternity’s mountain weekend. I had my brother set me up with a random date. I showed up already drunk, before I even met her, and after we briefly talked I spent the night doing dumb shit and getting blackout, paying her no attention. Apparently I went missing for an hour or two at some point and my date called me several times without me answering. I was too drunk to remember where I went or why I was missing, but I remember finding my date again eventually. Within 30 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthThe right amount of substance abuse allows you to fake confidence, and that’s how half of “bad boys” are doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthOP hit the nail on the head. This post summarizes my evolution from virgin nice guy son of a single mom to red pilled frat boy perfectly. I got bombarded with the nice guy narrative from birth, father wasn’t around, no older brothers. Tried to be nice for years because I trusted my mom and sisters advice (my fucking bad, I know, but 10 year olds usually do). By the time I realized it was bullshit my image was pretty fixed in my hometown circles so high school fucking sucked. But I knew what I ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Men want what they would never allow to womenMost men aren’t attractive, and most women aren’t attractive. But most women have make up, hair dye, tanning beds, high heels, and daily hour-long beauty routines to appear as though they’re actually hot. Men have 0 of those options, but have money and social status as a potential cope, though they’re much harder to acquire and influenced by your appearance in the first place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 05:38 PM |
| – | Do Red Pill men try to eat their cake and keep it too with the: "Modern women are sluts... Women today have so high standers."?You’re right! They’re mostly terrible guys, not truly “1%” quality. But women don’t care about that, clearly, cuz they’re still the ones having the most sex. It’s obvious that being 1% in looks is BY FAR the biggest advantage you could have, to the point where you can be an otherwise AWFUL person and still sleep with beautiful women. You just pointed out the problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:43 PM |
| – | Do Red Pill men try to eat their cake and keep it too with the: "Modern women are sluts... Women today have so high standers."?Yea no the confusion is that OP thinks “standards” includes a man’s personality and behavior. None of that really matters to women, unless the looks bar is reached. Only then do those factors come in to play, and only until a more attractive man becomes available, at which point their relevance plummets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillThe sad thing is most guys here probably could learn the lifestyle but have never really tried. I was just a shy virgin engineering student until a year ago when I had enough and forced myself to rush a fraternity. Neuroplasticity kicks in eventually if you force yourself, and you learn to enjoy a party. Also, once you do drugs a couple times you realize everyone around you more or less has the same amount of insecurities, but they’re just getting fucked up to deal with it until they sort their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillIt truly is insane. I know very average guys that sell and sure as shit, they’ve got more than they can handle. Bored sorority girls with daddy’s money realllllyyyy like to ski. They’ll be gorgeous too, you’d have no idea they’re crackheads at first. Fucked up world, but you can’t hate the player… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:56 PM |
| – | Is anyone else engaging in hook ups as a defence mechanism?I waved the white flag on doing things the “right way” once I was in college for a semester and saw just how wild everyone’s daughter gets when they leave their hometown and discover frat houses for the first time. Now I’m on the same mission… if you can’t beat em join em, I’ll be damned if I get married to a woman with 20 bodies while I have like 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:21 AM |
| 8 | You can't say you we're lied to.Exactly. I’m not stupid, I always knew looks mattered to at least some degree. But I was more or less raised to believe good looks were just icing on the cake to a woman- that they were more interested in personality, because women are more mature, and don’t care as much about sex or superficial things (or something to that affect). And I truly believed it… most kids just believe what they’re told by adults when they’re young. I started to realize it was bullshit as I got older but it took years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeOf course they’re bitter. But they’ve still accepted it. You can “accept it” all you want, but due to human nature you’ll be bitter about it. You just described a scenario in which a man realizes his odds of finding general life success/contentment and romantic success are far shittier than those of the previous 5+ generations of men, in part because of their mistakes, and in part because of the way he looks. He’ll have to fight tooth and nail to get any affection from women or sympathy from soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesThe most “alpha” guy I’ve ever met is 5’7, but at the same time when he gets drunk his behavior gets a little sloppier and the observant bystander comes to realize he’s just cultivated Napoleon syndrome to a pretty successful degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:30 PM |
| 4 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyBeing raised by a single mom had me fucked up until reality hit me all at once when I went to college. An absent father hurts a mans esteem in ways he can’t comprehend or realize in the moment. Wish it was talked about more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?Couldn’t have said it better. I’m extremely logically minded and spent my teen years alone because I was trying to use logic and reason to understand what was going on. Doing this you just end up overthinking everything and miss the obvious. Looking back to high school I had several opportunities at a relationship with a girl and I talked myself out of it in my own head. I eventually realized that logic plays nearly no role in romantic decisions, especially for younger women. So I forced myself … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?It’s funny cuz it’s true, that’s what worked for me. Real talk, if you’re smart and overthinking is what’s screwing your love life up, start smoking weed. You can potentially slow your brain down enough to be at peace and interact normally. Ive talked to other guys and even girls that admit to doing this too. It worked miracles for me until I built a tolerance but by that point I kinda figured out what I needed to do anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe himY’all hating but he right in a way. I was “Brad” at 19. This was before Andrew Tate but I eventually realized the only difference between me and the guys fucking was that the guys fucking were just cocky, treated women as expendable, and partied all the time. So I figured the only thing to do was become that, and go figure, I was right. Pledged a frat, faked an ego, now I fuck. Most women are repulsed by behavior that indicates weakness and are turned on by displays of strength. Having a strong … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is being a tall woman a bad thing ? Why are man attracted to petite woman ?I think it’s a power thing. You mentioned high profile men have tall wives. What they lack in stature relative to their wives they make up for with wealth and status. Beyond that most men don’t have the confidence or “power” to deal with a woman being taller than them, and most women aren’t as attracted to a man shorter than her anyway. So most guys don’t bother with taller girls. I’ve become fairly good at dealing with women but if a girl is about my height or taller it does subconsciously affe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Every single plot for women main characters is them getting wet over a bad boy when they dont want toWord of advice for men out there: If you can’t beat ‘em, join em I was pressed about this for years. I was always the nice guy that got no bitches in high school. Finally I realized, fuck it, might as well be a bad boy if that’s what women want. So I got a nice car, started working out, rushed a fraternity, started drinking and smoking, started partying, started hitting on girls, just generally being obnoxious. Sure as shit, the women followed. Stop being afraid of the consequences of your actio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?Exactly what you’d expect. Loose sorority girls. I always wanted to settle down with “the one” and live happily ever after, but western society pretty much has destroyed that fantasy, and I ended up 19 with no experience and no prospects. First year of college I met a really sweet Christian girl and we became friends. Started taking her out to lunch and stuff, thought things were headed in a good direction, till the day she started telling me about her boy problems. That, and finding out this “w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?Yes and no. I spent all high school being “nice” and spent my freshman year of college outside the Greek scene being a nice guy trying to date what I thought were nice girls. By nice guy I don’t mean total simp, just conservative and traditional. Either way, the nice girls ended up having no interest in me, and I ended up being a shoulder to cry on when their latest frat hookup moved on. After trying for years to be a good guy I finally ran out of sympathy. From my perspective my hand was more o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 52 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?It’s pretty black and white. I had 0 bitches, got mad at myself for being a loser, rushed a frat and became a douchebag, and now I have a couple girls I casually sleep with and they don’t care that I won’t commit. It’s honestly saddening, I didn’t want it to be this way, but there’s like no good girls left that aren’t taken after high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?I’d say not. I have a 7” dick and for most of my teenage years I had no confidence. Just recently started feeling a little. Conversely I know two guys with tiny dicks that have 15+ bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 12:11 AM |
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