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DiscussionCryptoThroway8205/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:21 PM
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BJJ and Billiards are competitive. You're beating other men too. Makes me think of rams butting heads. Instruments isn't unless it's a talent show but top musicians are highly respected and high earning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:20 PM
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Hasan is Soros for followers of Asmongold. Some Bogeyman the general public doesn't know or doesn't care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:33 PM
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They're fine as long as they're not speed dating. I'd say they're pretty good. How tall were the Chads, maybe it was a personality thing, and were they employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:38 AM
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It's a 16 year old study where almost 80% of men still stayed with their wife. Cancer patients tend to be older and I'd argue older men have more old fashioned beliefs. Older men also know they have the sexpat option. I'm not sure if wife goggles are a thing but 79.2% of men staying doesn't disprove its existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:30 AM
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I think men just have higher libido so most relationships one party will want more sex unless you are dating a really high libido girl. (This is not an invitation to brag about a high libido girl you dated) Maybe we just need an agreement guys can masturbate if it's bed time and she's not interested. You just get up, leave the room, and go on cornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:54 PM
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East Asians have caught up on height. Skin color can only do so much as you can see by the average sexpat who's like 40+, with a huge belly, bald and only wealthy by Thai/Filipino standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:49 PM
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Absolutely on the race stuff, but I'm almost certain this post gets deleted for rule 7. Nothing you can do but be better and tell yourself to behave as confidently as a mid white guy approaching Asian girls. 21 year old girls rejecting you for being 31 is normal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:16 AM
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Yeah people were saying this was all for clout or his wife was getting revenge on him for saying dumb shit. Who makes themselves look like a cuck or slut for clout? Well... I guess people do become adult film stars for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:07 AM
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Average income even of office workers is low relative to western standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:58 AM
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It won't help. He'll know they're there for money unless he were delusional in which case he wouldn't need to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:20 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:17 PM
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Personally I like it even though I know I'm not needed. It's not always done with the intent of patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:19 PM
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5% of guys get 90% of the matches on dating apps. 10% of men get 58% of the likes Top 40% get ~96% of the likes Top 5% get 41% https://qz.com/1051462/these-statistics-show-why-its-so-hard-to-be-an-average-man-on-dating-apps Unless you have a better source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:32 AM
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Dude you type like a 12 year old that got held back 3 grades randomly capitalizing everything. I don't keep up with Elon enough to know he's divorced apparently. My point is that people often get together or even married despite not being looksmatch due to things like money. Some of them are in love and happy despite marrying a fat sack of narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:09 AM
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IDK ask Elon and Trump if they're happy. Ask like any celeb with a far poorer spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:33 PM
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Often people just think of each other as their own looksmatch but on average society would categorize one higher. There's usually something else making up for looks mismatches like money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:24 PM
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In traditional ppd sense, the top level redpill comments know nothing. Gay bars are common in bkk and amsterdam and there were a few in Shanghai before covid. Passport broing was always about sex tourism, not finding a partner. Look through the threads on ppb subs and see how many are complaining about their marriages vs the hookers they slept with on a 1 week vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:41 PM
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Most woman at a healthy BMI are attractive though. A man at a healthy BMI still has to be tall, few other things, and earn as much or more than the women he's targeting. Like how 80% of men on Okcupid were at or below average and a normal distribution for women replicated in other dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:18 AM
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There's definitely hot guys, at least hot when they started dating, who do minimal housework in relationships where women don't leave. I think that was the user's point. Plenty of ugly guys who keep their places pristine who don't have a chance. Not to mention that you can't land a good job if you don't know how to wash your clothes or eat enough healthy nutritious food to stay awake during the workday. Lots of famous celebs love crap foods. Trump has coke on a button at the white house. Buffet …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:07 AM
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Why keep going? From a time and money perspective it's a waste. We know why guys get laid, they approach a lot of girls and are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:11 AM
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Guys who go to the club but almost never get laid there, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:58 AM
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If robots are that good there'll be handful of people doing the maintenance and the rest will live in tents or rent. You don't need to sell anything as long as robots keep your standard of living high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:46 AM
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Nah everyone tries less after a while in a relationship. It happens so much there's terms like lovebombing. I don't think it's intentional or evil like some women do, people just really get into relationships at the start and common criticism is that it leads to abusiveness but I don't think that's necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:32 PM
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It's just how brains are wired. You release more oxytocin and try harder at the start of relationships then sex frequency decreases over time even in other animals. I agree people let themselves go a bit too much. Food especially is in abundance compared to how we evolved so overweightedness is a big problem. There's a lot of creature comforts and distractions. You see a lot of guys who get addicted to games and don't help with childcare or housework despite the wife/gf working on stopgaming. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:29 PM
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I take it you didn't grow up poor. Most dual income families don't use nannies or babysitters (daycares yes since it's 1 to many, the cost is lower). They just leave the kids at home alone or with an older sibling or drop them off at the grandparents. Nannies are kinda a luxury thing. Babysitters for upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:49 PM
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If the economy does get worse, they'll change the narrative. Like after brexit England's wages dropped relative to inflation. Then they started allowing way more immigrants to revitalize the country's GDP despite lowering immigration being one of the reasons for brexit in the first place. Brexit started by promising immediate improvements to the economy too before the narrative changing to being about 25 years down the line. In Trump's celebration Trump said he wanted to make Musk the Chief effi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:40 AM
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No, she asked me. She was scared I was gonna be too much of a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:23 AM
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She asked me unprovoked tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:51 AM
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We were in my bedrooom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:13 AM
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Told a girl my count was 10. I only said it cuz she agreed to say hers. She said "oh I just have to say a number? 0." I don't think it's 0. We're in our 30s. She ghosted me but I don't think it was cuz of this. I'm gonna start saying 6 now (it's higher). I think saying 2 would sound too much like a loser. Too high and I sound like a fuccboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:24 AM
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Not true. Asian women support republicans more than Asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:39 AM
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It's really just the women on twox upvoting a post, which begs the question: why are MRA guys even on twox?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:36 AM
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People are saying it's just to drink dem tears and it's a joke. I should really try to avoid politics for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:24 AM
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I started taking creatine and my energy levels are way higher. I can definitely lift more and my muscles are sore after a workout. I've done some research on steroids and it sounds like your body stops producing testosterone naturally when you take it which means you either are on it forever or have this long period where you're depressed and lose your muscles as well as effects on fertility. I'd say steroids are much harder to stop than makeup where you just wash your face. But also much easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:09 PM
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You can't negotiate it but levels of attraction do increase the longer they're together. It's how people develop types. When female rats are given fur suits male rats develop a fetish for furry females and spurn ones without hairy jackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:02 AM
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My bad for not sharing it right away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:11 PM
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I agree with /u/kalashhhhhhhh but at 19-20 you go to University and students are no longer jail bait or living at home so girls can date older guys or legally go on dating apps. A lot of guys, myself included, on tinder have matched with a girl who said "I'm actually 2 years younger teehee" because they started using the app at 16. Men are still scared of getting Chris Hansoned. After 23 men no longer have classes to meet women since they've graduated unless they're in grad school or delayed gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:37 PM
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Not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:53 PM
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Vance was given the spot of VP because he was a white man too. His wife being Indian probably got him the spot since it appeals to minorities. Both sides want votes. Yeah Kamala got her spot as VP because she brought in PoC women voters for Biden. Just like Trump, Vance, and Waltz being white men got them their spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:05 PM
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A PoC woman might have been the right choice in 2020 as VP but was probably the wrong choice for Presidential candidate in 2024. Maybe a half black man like Obama would've had more of a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:27 PM
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I think it also shows that women don't always support other women. A common criticism among redpill is that women support each other while men don't. Like we had a few topics on why men don't build shelters just for men. But 44% of female voters voted for Trump. Maybe because it's because Trump is a man and men are viewed as more assertive even by women voters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:18 PM
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First one but I'd still say it's delusional for a 4' something broke girl to want a 6 ft guy in finance with blue eyes and a trust fund. Second one isn't as delusional. Like a 5'8 girl can still require the guy be 6ft. But the average height difference between men and women is closer to 6 inches and I don't think she'd care if the guy were 6'2. She probably wouldn't be like "you're too tall" to a 6'5 guy either. I think standards drop as women get older as they're reminded of their biological cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:24 PM
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Asked this in one of the dailies lol Most answers were rich and ugly iirc but some answered beautiful and poor since they could become rich again but they couldn't become tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:36 PM
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Ah I wasn't trying to ask difficult questions. 🤓 Now how would you say your relationship with your mother is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:30 AM
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I think at least 20% of people have cheated but likely far more. https://www.techopedia.com/statistics/cheating-statistics This source has 23% of men and 19% of women admitting to it. I've heard of others as high as 50% among college students. This one says 40% have cheated with just colleagues at work. Most people don't want to let surveyors know they cheated since if it's found out it just makes their relationships harder. It may be harder for average men to cheat but there definitely are some…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:06 PM
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It's often not someone better, sometimes it's just someone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:41 PM
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Aww I kinda want a dog later but what's the point if it doesn't get me laid \s How ripped are you? Visible abs? What do you mean still feel invisble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:23 AM
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Okcupid's subreddit was dying even before they killed off free searches. There was almost no one still using it since swiping was faster and easier dopamine followed by the same few lines everyone copies from r tinder or a list of name puns hosted somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:52 AM
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Coolidge effect is more pronounced in men but exists in women too. Plenty of spark chasers or women who fall out of love with what they describe as a decent husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:04 AM
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It didn't work though. Tinder was more popular and even on OKC a lot of people didn't read questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:49 AM
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Thought about asking this question but really hate this sub sometimes. It'd be easy to just spray people with oxytocin up the nose at mixers with incentive$ for going and pairing. Government funded fitness and ozempic programs would help a lot as well as increased insurance premiums for overweight individuals. Worst case you have those hentai sex ed programs \s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:14 PM
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Yeah so many passport bros abandon the kids, hide equity in crypto, and avoid alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:09 AM
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They're not mutually exclusive. Environment is nurture but brain chemistry is the product of nature and nurture. Fetishes come from media and repetitive relationships with the same group. You can literally train rats to have fetishes. Brain chemistry for people is the same with other emotionally monogamous mammals. 50% nature/50% nurture idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:07 AM
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Are there any similar subs that do allow looks discussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:16 AM
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From what I heard in an audiobook, brothers used to accept mild domestic violence from brother in laws towards sisters back when DV was legal. They only intervened when it got really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:14 PM
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Why would std rates increase due to dating apps though? I also see that the rate is highest for women ages 18-24. The article from the cdc says half. I can totally see that being true cuz that's the young dumb and full of cum age where people are fine with not using condoms till they get a scare. And then men overtake women in gonnhorea at 25. This article also shows that syphilis rates are higher in men. Women lead in Chlamydia and hpv is asymptomatic in most men. https://usafacts.org/articles/…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:11 PM
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You can see it like a transient thing the way buddhists view things. Even if you pass away in hospital beds at 95 right next to each other, marriage isn't permanent, it lasted 60 years. I think if you don't want kids you could not go through an expensive wedding to limit the cost of marriage and subsequent potential divorce. A lot of people of both genders seems unenthusiastic about their partners so it's not worth investing into. A lot seem to just not want to be alone and someone good enough c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:47 AM
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I think when you combine this chart with IQ to profession and profession to income (chart 4) you'll see that for the most part women prefer men who are more intelligent with exceptions like women not liking software developers despite their income for perceived incompatibilities or lack of physique, while preferring average intelligence and lower income occupations like police officer that are still respectable and require physical exams (at least on entry).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:56 PM
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I have no idea where you're quoting this person from or in what context since you replied to a mod comment. Next time perhaps just reply to the comment directly. And I don't know why you find high IQ alone insufferable. Idiots are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:36 PM
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So if IQ doesn't affect ADHD then women are equally likely to meet a low IQ individual with ADHD and a high IQ individual with ADHD. ADHD has no relevance on women not preferring higher IQ guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:31 PM
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There's no correlation between adhd and iq. I don't know if there is for autism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:34 PM
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You can just ask if you're willing to date a guy 3 inches taller or as a hetero guy 3 inches shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:46 PM
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I'd look more into AAS for muscles and get some acne scarring reduced. My main fear with steroids are the lasting side effects like reduced natural testosterone after going off cycle. Everything else is good enough. I'm aware steroids aren't surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:26 PM
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Finding someone thru passions is overrated. Tell every redditor to hold their breath for their anime girl who'll grind video games with them for 8 hours a day weekends. Or every drunken hookup that led to a relationship or marriage cuz love chemicals were released by sex and elevated afterwards. As long as your career doesn't require traveling the world you can date anyone. If you're thinking of hobbies people need time away from their partners too. Everyone watches shows on netflix together as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:45 AM
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Option 5: I think government might intervene. Vance said some stuff about cat ladies. I think he wants more Americans to procreate (at least certain demographics). https://www.nbcnews.com/now/video/vance-under-fire-for-childless-cat-ladies-comment-215952453731
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:04 AM
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Study doesn't seem to account for MtF trans possibly just having more natural testosterone production. Even without the testes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:39 AM
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Maybe lesbians just have more testosterone on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:29 AM
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I heard last year was the first year since 2006 that America started getting skinnier. Article says it's cuz of ozempic. https://www.science.org/content/article/breakthrough-of-the-year-2023
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:04 PM
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No but saw a girl yesterday at a Halloween party that looked like a kdrama main character. I didn't freeze. I didn't get to talk to her much either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:02 PM
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For sex, standards are low, especially for men on juice. For relationships, they tend to be much higher but many men are ok with a girl who's poorer provided the relationship is more traditional. So maybe more progressive men have higher standards when it comes to the woman's education and income but I still wouldn't say it's high (like a billionaire man will be ok marrying a millionaire woman). I think relationship standards for looks are high unless the man has high testosterone. Age is anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:27 PM
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Yeah it's hard to tell how much the scientists were just reaffirming their own biases with unreplicable experiments. A lot of the studies are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah part of the reason I asked is cuz I was listening to a book called "The Chemistry Between Us" which breaks down what causes tingles/"chemistry" responses in the brain and goes over research into sex. Topics like animals going in heat, strippers making more when ovulating, women being more horny when ovulating, men not being bothered if a girl is fat when given testosterone, how female rats behave when another female rat is made available to a male rat, and how a female rat will behave aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:24 AM
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What percent of club outings would you say lead to a hookup for men and then for women? Like if Chad Thundercock goes out would it be 90% of the time? But like 2% of the time for chud thundergut? What about for women as an average? I feel like people go clubbing cuz they wanna hookup but I know that's a controversial take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:14 AM
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I'm not surprised by Washington DC being so high. Foreign dignitaries and the massive business from politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:16 AM
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I put on my hinge that I like it when girls split the bill. I'm sure it lowered my match rate by at least half but I met a lot of really wealthy ladies who don't seem to mind as much paying for part of the dates. Forgot about having it on my hinge and was pleasantly surprised whenever they offered to pay for some parts of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:07 AM
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Society is getting less religious and lack of religion isn't religious, that's regarded. Dude is too far gone. Are u interested in dating him? Why do u care what he thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:36 PM
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Ban uggos from coming. The council of bouncers (3 women for men, 3 men for women) determine who's an uggo. Uggos go to the uggo corner with no drink tickets and only like one platter of crackers. There's a quota of uggos and pretties. Members caught giving contacts out are disqualified. If a pair decides to match they may exchange contacts but may not talk to anyone else of the opposite gender and must set up a date with this individual. At the end you must set up a date with one individual or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:02 AM
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Nooooo!.... maybe I'd probably split bills more instead of covering most of it and just swipe looking for rich, attractive, smart girls. Be more wiling to break up if I didn't feel like they liked me enough or were too high maintenance knowing I had more girls I could date. It's that secretary problem with more secretaries to interview. I wouldn't lie and say I was looking for long term when I wasn't which is kinda a prereq to being a player. If they were down for situationships and being fuck b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:53 PM
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Offer a photoshoot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:20 AM
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I knew a shorter guy who was very charismatic and always hyperactive. I honestly thought he was gay till he brought his girlfriend to dance class. He might've also been dating someone he knew from classes as he was younger and still in school. Better face too. He did have a 6pack which he enjoyed showing off. At the time I was around 12% body fat but no 6pack. He was also a better latin dancer than me, flamboyant, and didn't apologize as much over botched moves. I also knew a much younger guy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:42 PM
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You see what women dating in their 30s are saying too. It's often just non commital guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:09 AM
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Dr k shared an interesting stat that men are more likely to seek emotional help from an ex than from other men. My friend says it's cuz men suck with emotional stuff. To answer the question tree can't help so SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:04 PM
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Blank profiles of attractive people scored higher on personality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:42 PM
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Yeah argue with stats, not just anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:28 PM
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Or did it confirm something’s you already suspected? Yeah confirmed what most people know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:41 AM
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Subreddit for women. Used to be some wild takes on femaledatingstrategy till that became only mods and quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:35 PM
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True. I just notice that people tend to be more honest in spaces where they won't get criticized. Eg. Misandrist feminists on twox, passport bros on sexpat forums, red pillers on redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:49 PM
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You won't get a lot of accurate answers. No one wants to admit they slept with someone ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:31 PM
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Not any less horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:57 PM
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Same as straight guys going to lesbian bars hack. Less competition
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:45 PM
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I'm sure the questions been asked here before. What were the answers like then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:35 PM
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Good point. Maybe the ai will generate things to say and stream it to their Google/apple glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:48 PM
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Yeah bumble founder made a claim people would use ai more in dating recently. Imagine curators that only swipe on certain guys or girls for you. Writes messages, banters with their ai, then plans a date for you. Not just companions. https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/internet/ai-personas-are-future-dating-bumble-founder-says-many-arent-buying-rcna151738
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:35 AM
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Often women put up with a lot and don't end the relationship. How many mothers went through physical abuse for a lifetime? Or "I make the money I call the shots" but stayed for the children? Some put up with cheating too but that goes both ways. I've heard of educated women giving up decent careers to move to small towns because of a man but again goes both ways nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:01 PM
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I have a hard time imagining an attractive girl I got along with that well with but I didn't feel love hormones for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:11 PM
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Probably different for PoC. I imagine Regina and Victoria are a lot less diverse than Toronto and Vancouver. Average income and education will be lower though so if you're working remotely you can compete there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:12 PM
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I'm just citing facts. That doesn't make me racist. Some of my best friends are grizzlies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:47 PM
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Media plays a part. Modern music is mostly romance, some songs are supposed to remind you of sex subconsciously. Can't watch 10 movies without 9 having romance. Feeds into peer pressure where guys made fun of me for not having had sex when I was younger. They didn't know either if I was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:23 PM
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Media plays a part. Modern music is mostly romance, some songs are supposed to remind you of sex subconsciously. Can't watch 10 movies without 9 having romance. Feeds into peer pressure where guys made fun of me for not having had sex when I was younger. They didn't know either if I was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:15 PM
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I choose black bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:55 PM
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"Here's how to write 'Hello World' which will get you a job. Buy my programming course" Kinda. It was a street interview montage. That's honestly just as bad if not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:37 PM
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I think immigration is the big one here. Quick Google says most of the population came from Brazil. A global snap removing 40% of the male population means immigration would still leave spots with fewer men. I guess you'd get more passport sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:08 PM
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Oh this is a fun one. We've not had a large disparity in modern times. We're more progressive than post ww2. In college lots of girls went for older guys but it was a lot better to date since there's often more girls than guys and everyone's experimenting. Not necessarily on apps but at parties despite more guys at every party. Right after college it was still hard but I got lots of dates. At 70:30 male sex workers like the rental girlfriends in Japan would be common. Society would restructure i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:15 PM
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It was a social media survey right? Everyone who answered was deep in the echo chamber to even see the poll. Just response bias. I don't take the poll seriously. I didn't even know there was a poll till I came by here. My feed is mostly dogs, some skits, gym stuff, and programming grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:42 AM
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Is it a black bear or a grizzly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:35 AM
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I think they cause me to do better. Even if sometimes through nagging. Like I'll make more money and try harder to work out or lose weight. They tend to be more organized. You see it in just our writing in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:45 PM
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He doesn't run the club. He gets stuff for the strippers like drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:36 PM
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You sure they know you have a boyfriend? They might just not have seen/believe it. Still a bunch of horny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:04 PM
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He does sell the mc to an organ harvester for vials of medicine for himself. But yeah I see why women like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:33 PM
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I did not know he cheated. I also don't think that mattered to the girls I went to school with who fawned over Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:32 PM
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Was it proven. Sorry trying to stay out of celeb worship so not up to date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:26 PM
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There's also far more Asian women coming than men. Don't have the stats for Filipinos specifically but I'd assume it's high considering how popular it is for passport broing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:49 PM
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Yes of course. Guy I know used pua on strippers ignoring them cuz they had daddy issues to have easy sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:41 PM
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Lol the insult disguised as a question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:35 AM
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Depends how much you like the new person I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:34 AM
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How would you get enough members in the same location? We don't all live in one city.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:19 PM
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Love is irrational. It's hormones that override logical thought. I met a friend recently who's becoming a doctor. She's dating a guy who worked as a strip club runner for 5 years. It's not the first time I've seen a girl date down for a guy who's tall, white, and buff. We need love as it's allowed our species to survive. But a lot of guys know they're not the right person for a woman. My friend is fit, smart, and steers clear of drugs. The guy she's with sounds like a dumbass by comparison who k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:59 PM
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Probably how much they're considering marrying the girl and how much it's just for casual sex. Have they ever cheated on a girl and if so why. If they think they deserve the girl and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:17 PM
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There aren't enough women into crypto to be seeking those. With this strategy not all cryptobros would find a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:12 PM
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So do you believe people are truly emotionally unavailable? No. It just means they're not attracted enough to you. Getting over someone is easiest by getting with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:36 AM
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Depends. Some women won't do any work and will reduce my survival chances more than a well trained German shepherd that could help me hunt. What's the food situation like? Dogs can't survive on just berries like people. Rarely a person (maybe this woman) has bushcraft skills. Average woman/dog we'd both end up dead. Average dog is too domesticated to survive in the wilds just like the average person. You'd need big game and to be in a temperate climate without the tools to make a permanent shelt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:17 AM
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Yeah I just imagined this as if you were on a hiking trail since I wouldn't be in the woods unless I was camping or hiking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:10 AM
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Baggage is fairly normal as is thinking about exes from time to time. Apparently men are more likely to reach out to an ex than the boys when dealing with emotional issues. That's a bit too far though but it explains why so many people get back together. Personally I feel I think least about exes when I'm with someone. I may have let some relationships go on too long because it helps to get over someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:42 AM
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It's really just about how distant in the past and whether theres a double standard. If the friend stayed last week and trashed the house and 5 other guys were staying in between that time and I can't stay over even though I'm a similarly close friend then obviously it has nothing to do with the other friends trashing the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:59 AM
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Yes they lie. Dr. K talks about the struggles with male dating in a stream yesterday. He mentions that when surveyors were asked if a pen were worth $9 most would say it was because of nice features. When asked if they would be willing to shell out $9 he recalls only like 20% did. It's the same with women and virtue signaling. "Would you rather be in the woods with a man or bear?" "Bear" "OK here's the bear good luck!" "No wait I changed my m...!" Or surveys like "would you be willing to date th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:06 PM
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I mean as a whole these are the 2 groups that suffer the most due to racism in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:20 AM
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I think guys can have types. Met a gym rat white dude who was into Latinas. At a mixer I asked if he wanted to talk to some white girls and he said he was more into the "caramel". It comes from the kind of women who are into you which is why there's so many white men who date tons of Asian women. I have guy friends who prefer big chests. I don't want to date single moms or poorly educated or fat girls. Per the question you asked everyone it's really just the Asian guys and black girls who miss o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:19 AM
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Bruh those guys on alone drop with like 10 things like lighters and a saw or axe and bow and arrow. They mostly can't survive 50 days. Average person would die unless the island had abundant food and a built shelter. I'd die if I didn't somehow glean enough knowledge to make workable shelter in the first 2 days while I still had some energy. Even a leanto. Men tend to win the Alone series. There's been 10 seasons, men have won 9. But they're so good at bushcraft and get training for the show I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:23 PM
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Had no idea actual meth was prescribed for adhd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:57 PM
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Dude, I know athletes use it but it's basically worse effects than caffeine for weightlifting. It doesn't kill pain. It's adhd treatment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:36 AM
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Did you use steroids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:17 AM
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I think there's some logistics to it but even if you live with your parents, it's better to be "6'5 and muscular" than living on your own and 5'6 and mildly overweight. Girls who have their own place will invite the former and girls who don't have their own place will prefer 6'5 as well and find the next tallest to go home with. There's also hotels but those are expensive. I've traveled with guys in hostels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:35 PM
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I think it's a race thing. The rapper sounds like he's hood and could be black and some men don't like white women being into that because it means they could be into black men. You see some instagram rage bait about a white guy raising a half black baby after the black dad walked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:17 AM
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Absolutely a line dancing group
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:16 AM
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There's guys in the back too. Probably just a group who go line dancing (american kpop) at the local pub that got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:15 AM
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You guys know anyone pig butchering scammed? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLPpl2ISKTg I remember matching with 1 bot and several scammers on one app in the past. Never got scammed by it (even looking at my name you can tell I'm already familiar with crypto) but still, felt bad whenever it was made clear the girl was actually Rajesh in Cambodia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:14 PM
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Change happens slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:11 PM
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Doubt it. Depends on the guy. I think guys on average (median) masturbate twice a week but some can go 3+ times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:53 PM
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Any concrete examples to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:34 PM
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Aziz Ansari is brown and short and had enough girls sleeping with him to get him entangled in #metoo. I'd characterize his body type as skinny with a big stomach and minimal muscles too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:01 PM
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I think the low standards are for sex rather than relationships. Eventually it becomes sunk cost. If the girl in a relationship doesn't cook or do household cleaning the guy is going to see it and extrapolate that's what married life will be like. Look at this woman who outearns her boyfriend. But I was okay with it until now because I wasn't too serious. Now she's considering marriage. Starting to think getting that 15% body fat with muscles is a financial decision more than a health one. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:19 PM
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Does that lead to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:37 PM
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Yeah but usually outside of a party or bar where alcohol is also involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:25 PM
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I've never smoked cigarettes, but I don't think they lower inhibition like alcohol and weed do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:11 PM
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You mean weed right? Not cigarettes? I've hung out at some dispensaries and met people there. No sex but might be good to bring over hangout dispensaries to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:59 PM
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I think people don't know what it means to be masculine. If you asked people to define it people would say it'd be lifting weights, chopping wood, and fixing cars or plumbing/electricity without hiring an electrician. It's more biological. We want our kids to succeed so raising kids and providing are masculine traits. There's a belief that men today are weak(emotionally) but they're spending more time with their kids and I think that just means they're returning to a natural behavior like their …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah I think you're generally right but there's a large conservative force in parts of the world where men are ok having sex with someone who finds them disgusting. Passport bros despite what they say are overwhelming older than their girlfriends and the vast majority are fat as fuck. I recently learned 3 US states, including Missouri after a recent law, don't allow pregnant women to divorce from a reddit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:24 PM
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I've been thinking about a friend of mine who over a decade ago used to sleep with fatter women. He's Eastern European, but grew up in the west, tall, reasonably fit, with blonde hair. My other friend thought he was into fat girls because he slept with them so much. I corrected him that fat girls were probably just easier to sleep with. This was before tinder was a thing and well before the term Chad had been coined. To some degree women haven't had their expectations change that much due to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:53 PM
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I know there's a massive echo chamber of racists who think Canada is being ruined by colored people. I'm aware my aunts are painted as monsters who kill their own children for being girls and my friends as ones who buy up all the houses making it impossible for white Canadians to buy them, despite the foreign ban doing nothing to curb housing price increases, and the vast majority of home purchases being from Americans, not the small minority of wealthy Chinese. I know more recently brown people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:41 PM
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So 1%. Temporary residents don't count since most will have to leave eventually, those colored guys won't be stealing "your" women from you. The illegals are overstaying, not sneaking over from Mexico. It's nowhere near the problem it is in the US. Being illegal means a whole host of issues, I doubt it's this boogeyman you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:05 PM
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Not everyone has to, but enough do. Pew has the data on increasing interracial relationships benefits white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:00 PM
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It'll continue to benefit white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:03 AM
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Do you speak Spanish? Or I guess since Idk where you went do you speak the common language there? If all you spoke was English you see the same Gaijin hunters as everyone else from what I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:14 PM
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140k in 38 million isn't a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:08 PM
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People in general are largely irrational and controlled by hormones. Pursuing sex at a club is irrational and a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:00 PM
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Feminist influence is in many ways larger than in the west among youths. China and Japan love Taylor Swift. https://nationalpost.com/news/world/taylor-swift-vs-conservative-china
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:39 PM
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Broke: nah. She should work if only for now Under 50k, absolutely. The woman doesn't get to decide that a man can't date and the advice seems insulting to poorer men. Women who live at home: sure Video games: this is a plus for a lot of us, myself included Debt: it depends how bad it is. It'd be a downside I looked at the numbers and society and realized I don't have as many options as Chad. I've also not been raised to care about a woman's income besides only ever having dated women with career…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:28 PM
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Do you mean high libido people select less for intelligence so they end up with dumber kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:00 AM
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I feel like passport broing like westerners have been doing will pick up like you've said. But the poorer men will have a harder time. Crude divorce rates sound like a bad stat to use since it doesn't take into account population distributions. It's bad but China's divorce rates have come down a bit due to the 30 day cooling off period. Even with stigma on not getting married the average first age of marriage in Beijing is like 29 for women and rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:19 PM
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I do have family who were born undocumented. Or other tricks like adopting a girl to have 2. She still got an education but is very quiet perhaps to having to hide herself as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:13 PM
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I've seen this hentai
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:55 PM
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Yeah I watched alone. No way the island can sustain 101 people too even if 100 are women who eat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:47 PM
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Oh I don't care about the few men not being chosen for ONS unless they're not being chosen for their race. It's not fair that men are biased against for their race but it doesn't have to be fair. Every year something like 60 thousand (might be 600k have to double check) more Asian men than women will never marry in the US just because of their race. It's not like lookism just applies to hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:51 PM
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There was a time where the argument was that women didn't need to have autonomy over their bodies or sex lives. That the world didn't need to be fair to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:36 PM
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Yeah, but taken to an extreme nothing needs to be fair. Society could pool all the power to wealthy white men. They could take away women's voting rights and force them to marry and pop out babies. They could bring back shit like partial lobotomies and electrostatic shock therapy if a woman is deemed hysterical by her husband. They could make the colored folks work the fields and wrestle for entertainment. It's really a matter of who has power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah I can see that. I didn't play the games so I'm not as religious about a lot of the changes in the story. MC removes his helmet kinda early but it does allow us to see emotions for instance rather than be a self insert in a video game where protagonists don't generally show much emotion. And there's obviously a love interest in Makee rather than Cortana. I don't know if you'll like it if you were hardcore into the games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:49 PM
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I think sex is like a varied diet like meat with veggies and rice and prostitute sex or masturbation would be like bread and water. You won't die getting one or the other (as long as you take multivitamins) but one is obviously better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:39 AM
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Good luck incel jesus! But you probably shouldn't. It sounds delusional to believe you can build a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:37 AM
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You can not want to be a sole provider and recognize that earning more money as a man, also as a woman but less so, makes you more attractive. Since sole provider often implies relationships with a SAHM let me clarify that this is for childless by choice individuals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:33 AM
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This was a great video
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:29 AM
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It just felt like we were past this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:50 PM
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Yall notice in every TV or movie comment section there's people commenting how the show is too woke? Saw a bunch for Halo because a small Asian lady apparently "took down 4 grown men." She barely killed one by stabbing him in the head, outran 2, and somehow got another out an airlock offscreen. Ok to fuck not to respect I guess. It's like half the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:35 AM
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Just gonna point out that outside Japan(not gonna argue with tenga's study) Asians don't have smaller penises. There's some white supremacist penis studies that claimed Asians had smaller ones in the 70s and some that did measurements poorly, measuring flaccid for Asians and from a base erect for western, otherwise penis lengths are the same. https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna7588582
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:34 AM
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I like stats fighting misinformation. Don't worry about the 2 digit IQs that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:29 AM
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It's reddit. Every one of us has 8 inches minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:08 PM
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I know right? As a fellow 8 incher, who even needs that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:16 PM
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Yeah lots of passport bros are convinced that women in poorer countries love them for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:30 PM
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Yeah the whole good relationship > single > bad relationship thing is missing that for a lot of people, single/situationship/fwb > good relationship at a certain time in their lives. And that the definition of good relationship has been changing over time slowly. Doubt we'll have artificial wombs any time soon. But artificial insemination seems like it'll be more acceptable. I had a friend say she wanted to try it and even went by a clinic. The girls I talked to about it have all resoundingly sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:25 AM
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We did a survey. Iirc there were a few fatties on this sub but by and large far lower than the US national average for both genders. Maybe there's nonresponse bias. Yeah I just checked the survey. Median BMI is 24 which is still healthy for men. The sub I believe skews younger with only ~35% over 30 so fitness is better there and non Americans being skinnier generally also helps. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/184sun9/survey_results_new_mods_and_other_jannyisms/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:59 AM
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I'm guessing you're meaning treated poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:34 PM
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If people don't have kids in America because of the poor social net, then the net in the Nordic countries is supposed to encourage them to have kids. As redditors we've all seen that 3 minute ad about how the government would pay for their vacation flights because vacations cause people to have more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:29 PM
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What are you missing out on with insta? Vacations and food? Internet celeb content creator stacy girlfriends? Or if you're a girl their chad boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:35 PM
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I think the point was the government would help with healthcare costs and maternity leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:08 PM
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Yeah most women by like 25 would still have kids if birth control was unknown technology and society would value sex after marriage far more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:03 PM
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I know Japan and China have some shows like Japan's anime where the main character has kids, the show where kids walk alone, and China has shows from divorced people. Korea has something similar in love after divorce. Not sure if they're doing anything else to help with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:55 PM
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I had a video call once predate. Filters are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:15 AM
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I think she likes money and there's risk she's a gold digger. If she made more I wouldn't care if she were. Women will do the same if they're high earning IMO in more cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:47 PM
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It's legal to be polyamorous. Why does it matter what randos on the internet think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:14 AM
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To the same point the East Asian women who only date white guys are "fetishists" and are probably why so many white men approach Asian women. The claim women aren't fetishists, men are, is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:39 PM
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I think your perspective is different because you had to go to a mosque and follow Muslim traditions as a kid. I'll tell you that non converts aren't considering Islam for marriage unless they have a Muslim girl going after them. In America we still view Muslims as terrorists or terrorist sympathizers. The Israeli conflict shows the disregard we have for the lives of distant brown people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:14 PM
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Debt can't be maintained forever. Eventually they won't lend anymore unless you're high earning and they think you can pay it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:21 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:42 AM
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You found a good therapist. Bad therapists I hear make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:18 PM
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I understand that certain IUDs reduce the pains of periods, reduce their frequency, or stop them entirely. I recently learned inserting them is painful though. What are your thoughts on IUDs to reduce period cramps and pains? When not trying for a kid obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:04 PM
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Interesting. What's the demographics of the school? Besides virtue signaling I think putting the male and female age gaps together forces the poller to confront double standards immediately which results in closer answers to both. For the virtue signaling I don't think this is close to true: Would you date someone who has the opposite political views from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:56 PM
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There was that period where nobles in Europe started wearing high heels, makeup, and wigs. Then women stole heels from us! Give us our heels back! https://www.racked.com/platform/amp/2015/2/3/7997175/high-heels-history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:41 PM
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Depends on the therapist. They're not supposed to give you suggestions on how to change yourself unless you say you're suicidal or have self harm ideation. You're supposed to have epiphanies yourself and if you're Aparna from Netflix Indian Matchmaking picky maybe the therapist will guide you towards being less picky on certain things and overcome past trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:32 PM
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Homosexuality is supposedly genetic. To what degree I'm not sure, at the very least it's more acceptable these days to be on the spectrum so more young men will admit to being bi or have tried sexual relations with another man despite genetics not changing. It's like changing left handedness vs overcoming social anxiety (not autism) or trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:28 PM
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Since others are using daily thread as a diary I will too. Lost my job recently but still chatting with a girl. I think I'll try to ask her to be my girlfriend next time I see her. She's on a trip but will be back b4 valentines. I told her I lost my job and she doesn't seem to mind as long as I try to find another one. I'm lying about how much I'm slacking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:31 PM
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Yeah I mean it matters as much as you're 6 inches over the girl for marriage? Like you'd expect it to be an 8 inch gap in marriage height due to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:18 PM
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You're so deep down the goosepill there's no point trying to convince you. Canadian geese would mutilate any babies you had when you weren't looking then shit on their corpses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:11 PM
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According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the average age-adjusted height for American men 20 years and older is is 69.1 inches (175.4 cm), or 5 feet 9 inches tall, and the average height of an American female over 20 years of age is 63.5 inches (161.5 cm), or 5' 3.5" tall. https://www.disabled-world.com/calculators-charts/height-chart.php In an editorial in the Atlantic by MPRC Faculty Associate Philip Cohen tries to explain the reasons why couples comprising talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:00 PM
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/r/femaledatingstrategy has just been mod posts for a while. Dang scrotes turned it into just a sub for grifters 🙍‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:05 PM
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Shit if craving mcdonalds is PMS maybe I have it. Kinda want some. How do I get tested?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:58 PM
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Her math is off right? $2000 a week but $1660 for rent of a 2 bedroom. Ignore that a 2 bedroom can be split with a roommate. 1660 is for a month and she's making $50 an hour. Unless that's Canadian that's pretty good, 6 figure salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:55 PM
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Passport bros existed 20 years ago too. They just hadn't rebranded yet. Sex tourism in SEA followed the Vietnam War and War brides from Korea and Japan were common before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 PM
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You're right. I misunderstood that his was for all marriages with people aged 25-64. Still, even when you factor in for dinks the source has the distribution with 48% men making more, 32% similar, 20% women making 50% more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:02 AM
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In 55% of opposite-sex marriages, men are the primary or sole breadwinners, earning a median of $96,000 to their wives’ $30,000. Meanwhile, in 16% of marriages the wives outearn their husbands as the primary (10%) or sole breadwinner (6%). In these marriages women earn a median of $88,000 to their husbands’ $35,000. The entire article tries to spin facts but the facts are there. Here's the source, pew: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:52 AM
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I don't know how many women have kids out of wedlock and then marry, but for new marriages 55% of men earn at least 50% more than their wife. 16% the other way around. https://www.cnn.com/2023/04/16/success/husbands-wives-earning-division-of-labor-pew-survey/index.html Unless the wife was taking care of kids or pregnant as she was getting married, it doesn't factor into it. Single mothers remarrying might factor into this as well, but I still think the discrepancy is too big to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:33 AM
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We're already seeing lower marriage rates. Childbirth rates are declining. I think people like to think themselves immune to brainwashing from media but they aren't. Maybe media will show more high earning women dating low earning men as that experience becomes more common. Asian women imo already outearn their non-Asian spouses. Or maybe it'll be more socially acceptable to date poorer just like it's acceptable to use dating apps or play video games or like superhero stuff now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:33 AM
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Are you saying you're 15 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:12 PM
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"Yeah that's true for the other guys on this sub, but not me" - Every guy on the sub right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:33 PM
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The 84 cents on the dollar doesn't fully explain the gap in husband vs wife earning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:44 PM
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Easier not to link stats usually. I spent at least 10 minutes trying to find a study then reading through it to disprove claims that height isn't as important as muscularity and reading through a study about it. I didn't even disprove it, just that the study never made that claim. Whereas people can link a tiktok they found cuz they were scrolling anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:41 PM
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Ok but if the woman is acting interested in the man for his looks or personality, and is rebuffed because she earns more than him. Is that not just perpetuating the idea that women only have worth if they need looking after? I think guys like this are idiots. The only concern is that women who earn more are more likely to divorce but maybe the women are just willing to put up with less since they're financially independent. It's wrong to keep someone in a marriage just because they're afraid of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:34 PM
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Again, this was his personal profile only for IRL friends he never shared on his coaching profiles, I just managed to find it with some digging. Traveling through SEA? Because travel relationships especially in SEA where he earns more may be easy to form by lying about intent to marry and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:48 PM
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I think it's shown that being a white man helps with dating. Media representation seems ok except for with Asian men. Asian women in media often get with non Asian guys but not the other way around. Where's the psyops?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:28 PM
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I like how you acknowledge that FWB doesn't mean the 2 people are friends. Even the movie by the name FWB has 2 people try to keep from catching feels or doing anything outside of sex. I've seen some women recently argue that it's somehow different from fuckbuddy. Situationship might actually imply dates but not FWB. To your point yeah everyone has contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:06 AM
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I've been thinking of movies like Queen and A Tourist's Guide to Love. They basically have the same plot. Woman dates an asshat who doesn't want to commit. Woman goes to foreign country. Realizes that man was asshat and they should get over him. In Queen she meets some guy friends, in A Tourist's Guide to Love she meets a guy who seems slightly better but still deeply flawed. In both, she rejects the first guy who came crawling back and booked a flight to see her. Other than Gatsby there's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:18 AM
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"Yeah that's true for the other guys on this sub, but not me" - Every guy on the sub right now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:25 AM
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I swear women have so much mental gymnastics about how they or someone on reddit tried it once and it hurt their emotions so they don't approach anymore. Imagine if a guy said he just didn't approach anymore, he just waited at clubs and expected women to approach him lmao. Unless he's white and tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:28 PM
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I still see plenty of approaching at gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:20 PM
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How much would you pay for a subscription for a gf? For a rental girlfriend? Cuz it sounds like you're not interested in kids or marriage. There's a time cost too to relationships. It's up to you to determine if that's worth it. A lot of people, men and women, are not looking because they don't think it's worth the effort or are too busy at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah checked out a study yesterday from like 2007 that said average men used to have higher lifetime sexual partners. Being too tall used to be a disadvantage. Dating apps changed that real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:31 PM
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Yeah that's a good question. How much of the desire is nature and how much is society telling us?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:30 AM
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Self esteem? Poor selection pool because rural (fewer people) area to being with? Met when 5 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:07 AM
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He means he used to play league of legends or dota
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:02 AM
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Talking phase is so new and more non commital. You used to just go on dates but I guess it's easier to text from home while doing whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:19 AM
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22.5 is healthy bmi though for women. https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/hand-drawn-bmi-infographic_37115987.htm#query=bmi&position=0&from_view=keyword&track=sph&uuid=7a6cb15b-32ee-480d-99c9-bdaa0d940fa0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:19 AM
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Omad might work. I'm afraid I'd food coma afterward though. I been too lazy to track calories but I think that's an alternative. For what it's worth I think 128 is a low weight for most heights but I'm guy and don't know your bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:13 PM
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I have seen women throw massive tantrum to their boyfriends over a minor issue but nobody questions this and men don't complain because they're used to women behaving this way. If a man did this it would be seen as manchild behavior. How often is this just pms?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:45 PM
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You can't drive down to the gym every time you want to punch. I do often go to the gym for this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:07 PM
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I mean, it's great for some races.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:03 AM
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Hitler seeing interracial dating statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:00 AM
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Men go to the gym for themselves, not at all for women Women wear makeup for themselves, not at all for men Yeah you want to look good but there'd be far fewer asexuals in gyms who want to be alone forever and have never tried to date. Most women do want to look good for others and that includes the sex they're attracted to. Most contradictions come from what people say and what the data shows on people's selection of partners surrounding things like race and height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:30 AM
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I think they're very smart. Putting themselves in that situation is their choice and they value hookups and having fun (aka tall and white) more than finding someone to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:03 AM
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I've recently met a phd and a girl with a masters both with good careers who've just gotten out of a fuck buddy situation or only been in situationships with guys. Both were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:34 AM
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I guess grass is greener assuming you really are tall, white, and fit. Are you in a fairly liberal city? There's a higher ethnic diversity in large cities where your race gives you a larger advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:28 PM
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Who? For arguments sake we can say he looks like wish Jude Bellingham but he ate too much ham and has a slight beet gut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:13 PM
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Let's say you meet someone and they're great. But they're moving back to a much poorer country forever. You've been dating for a year and know your salary will go down to like half and you don't speak the language. Actually you can't read a single word. Do you break up or go?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:03 PM
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I ain't reading all that. I'm happy for you though, or sorry that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:46 AM
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I've heard it can affect future pregnancies like they scrape out the embryo or collection of cells and it makes future pregnancies harder. I'm pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:07 AM
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Been addicted to nonograms since yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:50 PM
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I think it's because there's a nihilism against how little effect protests have as well as how protesting would just be the same as wearing an "I'm an incel" t shirt even if they were marching with their gf or wife. Writing to governors has the same effect. What would you have them do? Also fits more in trp subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:20 PM
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Still have to increase your chances of that luck happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:49 PM
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https://youtu.be/Cisj3kYdE1k?feature=shared Tate groomed multiple younger women to be cam models by promising they were different from the other cam models and that he actually loved them. Branded several with tattoos too. Is every guy who offers little kids candy inside his white van bad? Nah maybe one actually just has a lot of candy he wants to give away. Kids should probably still stay away. Agree on the sexpat movement too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:18 PM
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If he were my friend I'd still feel bad for him but I get where you're coming from. Had a rich friend complain about a $10 entry to a party lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:42 PM
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I think it's closer to 3% with a lot probably not diagnosed but yeah. https://www.autismspeaks.org/autism-statistics-asd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:36 PM
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What if he just didn't tell you his actual count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:14 PM
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I'm not really a fan of this dating norm - that you can see multiple people at once as along as you haven't had the "exclusivity talk". Just feels bad when you decide to cut ties with some other great potential partners and then it doesn't work out with the person you focused on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:53 PM
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Bulky sounds like he at least works out? Either way good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:34 PM
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Hard to say. The saying goes no one discovers ppd on their best day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:12 PM
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Sounds like he kpop maxxed beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:14 PM
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I've really liked this dumb luck falling into relationships for average guys pill that's been circulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:05 PM
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I believe in hypergamy NAWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:31 PM
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That's fucked but explains so much about how much people defend cheating "maybe the relationship was already over" "its a yellow flag not red". That second one was in a top comment on /r/datingoverthirty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:28 PM
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Most tests are probably shit because they're not actually measuring a person's character well like orange peel where asking "why?" is a fail. Maybe it's irresponsible for a woman to have her boyfriend watch a niece or nephew or maybe women just don't watch their nieces and nephews that often if they even have them. Also most girls like words of affirmation and sometimes the tests are playful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:43 AM
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I once brought up a prenup. Since we knew about Ali Wong had signed a prenup to be with her ex-husband who came from a wealthy family it sort of made sense, and she really like Ali's shows. It didn't work out even though she agreed to sign one and so we never had to draft one up. Prenup was a close to last resort. I understand they're going to look bad to women unless the woman earns more or believes they'll earn more than me. There's no societal expectation to accept one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:45 AM
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Probably just testing to see if the guy would be a good partner or would make them raise the baby alone when they want someone to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:36 AM
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Your response makes me think perhaps there's a spectrum rather than a hard and cut line for when people start falling for someone. Like I'm wrong that everyone who falls in love after a relationship starts is settling and everyone before isn't. I guess to settle you need to have standards whether conscious or otherwise of who you want and then to not meet these standards. And everyone's standards are already influenced by what they think is attainable. Even delulu women who want a man who earns …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:08 PM
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Isn't this a no true Scotsman argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:48 PM
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Your talking about ego reminds me of that dumb buzzer game college students play where if you hit the buzzer first to reject the other person you don't feel the shame of getting rejected and like 80% of the contestants reject before getting a single sentence out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:10 PM
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Did the shrine happen before or after dating them? Because if your brain released enough chemicals after then I'd still say the person settled as it would happen with a lot of potential partners the shrine builder could have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:06 PM
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Love the flair! Any interesting data you found recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:03 PM
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99.9% with the exception being someone getting with their celeb/high school crush they built a shrine for. Your definition doesn't include people who settle for looks before 25 for someone tubbier than they want. It doesn't include someone dumber or who earns less than they want and there's not really a maximum income people want in a partner. Do high schoolers settle for Tom in their class who looks alright compared to the 10 other guys before they start using apps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:56 PM
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I wouldn't even say most japanese NEETs are very red pilled. Same for western ones. They probably don't watch tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:48 PM
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Maybe his closets advisor, his dog, wrote the speech for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:56 AM
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Onesie event tonight. Didn't go cuz don't own a onesie. There's a bar event tonight but it looks like mostly guys going and last time wasn't that fun cuz of it. I think I'll stay home and get this down in text otherwise I'll keep thinking I should be going out and shoshulizing... wait most of the guys there are in tech. I can network.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:44 AM
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Where'd you get this photo of me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:42 AM
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So? It says her last marriage was to another millionaire actor, Justin Theroux, though obviously not as popular as Rachel from Friends. She can get with George Clooney and be the envy of all the white women over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:31 AM
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Why do I keep seeing threads like this?! Wrap it up you fumb ducks! Stop leaving bastard kids in Asia! Avg passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:04 AM
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He's the alpha. The other dogs are beta barks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:01 AM
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I can see her wiping her tears with benjamins
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:00 AM
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Damn, big age gap. You find her passport broing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:57 AM
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Inspired by a thread someone linked where the woman lost weight after a pregnancy but while fat the husband wanted didn't want to touch her and insulted her. Made me think perhaps to some degree looks don't matter as much. We all turn uglier, but I guess some 60 year olds are still fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:30 AM
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Not enough info. Someone says they looked at the OP's other comments and he sounds like an asshat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:21 AM
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Guys who want kids or have had kids: your boo has ur kid and she gets fat cuz preggers. She hasn't lost weight since 3 months after giving birth and it's been a year. Tell me how you'll stay with her anyways even though now she looks like those 6s we swipe left on on dating apps. edit: found the link that inspired this https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/198z9u6/ive_28f_lost_weight_and_now_i_want_to_divorce_my/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:12 AM
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Still some shallow kids. Some kids in college looking for a 30 yr old. But I have heard that girls who lose their virginity fall in love with that guy and put up with anything. My first relationship felt like that but I felt the same about her. In the first relationship you've never experienced breakup and so you believe you'll be with that person forever. You're not jaded by past cheaters or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:19 PM
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Most people believe lab these days. Just as the dhs mandated
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:57 AM
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As a totally real American man who is not paid by the Domestic Homeland Security, I disagree that tax dollars are being wasted. I urge all readers to stop being violent to women and also to stop reading these rubbish conspiracy theories. Some of the guys here seem like plants tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:46 AM
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Funny/exciting/assertive. There's a reason Indian & Chinese men don't dominate the dating game despite being one of the highest earning demographics. Being a good worker bee doesn't translate into dating success. Plus estimation of own SMV isn't usually accurate. Redditors when it comes to judging men on race: "Sounds good to me." When judging men on lack of sexual history: I would personally date a man who is a virgin, but that doesn’t mean I can be rude to him about his sexual experience or ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:21 PM
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now dating an older, pudgy, fairly unattractive single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:13 PM
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2.1M likes. I don't think he cares, he might be a trophy husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:27 AM
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Dunno. What race are they? Could be exceptions like someone else said. Usually there's something redeeming about the guys like they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:40 AM
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Hard to say to what degree civilization in the last 4k years+ has had an effect on evolution. Like there's 2 commandments not to commit adultery. Did they kill cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:10 PM
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Yes. Think of it this way if you have 2 guys both in their 20s, one has played football since he was 6 and one who has never played a snap of football who will team scouts find a better fit for their team? The one with more experience obviously. Dating is no different especially the older you get. It's not really something people train for. Some people become worse partners or stay the same no matter how much experience they get and we have an entire n count sticky when you have too much of one …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 AM
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Can I ask in good conscience where you think race preference comes from then? Thinking about it more maybe you're right about height. Maybe taller men indicated they had better nutrition in the past which showed more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:24 PM
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They want to make money so they pick the most handsome men. Any small preference is then amplified from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:33 PM
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Modern media including social media. Kids these days know how to use a phone before they know how to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:03 PM
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I think height preference is largely taught. Throughout most of human evolution getting enough calories to reach maximum height was a challenge anyways. And the disadvantages of weaker joints and certain medical disorders were real when spraining your ankle or breaking your leg was a death sentence to your productivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:55 PM
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When humans lived in tribes the genetic variability between different people in the tribe wasn't that high. Basically I don't see the need for a tribal leader to kill the old tribal leader's kids when the kids of the old tribal leader were likely similar to him in genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:48 PM
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In small tribes where humanity evolved Unga wasn't that genetically different from Dunga. So say Unga bonked Stacya and Dunga helped raise the kid. Maybe Unga died because his tall height caused his joints to break while getting chased by a mammoth. Genetically it's not that much different from Dunga raising his brother's kids which means some of his genes go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:47 PM
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Lots of comments. This might be a good candidate for /r/ihavesex or ihadsex lol Everything I wanted to say has already been said on the topic of differences. I don't think I'm allowed to be picky about it but some are better in bed for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:28 PM
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I'm a 5. Didn't think I was that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:06 PM
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I think it's easier in high school and college. There's that phrase from a hinge director "look for a life partner not a prom date" implying people are less mature in high school since prom is a high school thing. But imo people in high school and college are less focused on looks at that age surprisingly. In addition people care less about how much you earn cuz everyones broke. Even the doctors in training. After that maybe I'd slow down on the apps but keep dating offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:28 PM
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I'm under no delusion that people multildate and I also like to. Been kicked too many times for breaking contact with other girls thinking I'm getting along with 1 so I wait to dtr now before being exclusive. I'd take issue with the woman holding other men to a different standard eg. sleeping with them on date 1 and making me wait. I understand some guys are relationship material and some are not but it's awfully strange how the not relationship material guys are able to get an easy fuck buddy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:20 PM
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It's temporary till you marry for the rest of your life or hers. Every relationship before that is an expense. But more guys make more than their girlfriends so they spend more on gifts and travels as well as dates even past the first few dates. You can easily be net out $5k+ USD on dates and other expenses before marriage. Drop in the bucket I guess. Live in downtown Manhattan dating New Yorkers while working in a high paying job? Easily $10k+
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:47 AM
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For women too, but wow, some women here really hold double standards on how much they can whine to partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:03 AM
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I'm still starting to see someone but I was busy all day at work today and then after a nap didn't talk to her that much. Forgot I was supposed to be planning a date. I'd miss the free time. I don't want her to tell me to not nap or not play games or something that'd limit my enjoyment of life. She didn't want me to nap yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:27 AM
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I doubt anyone gets banned. Even the trainers are part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:21 AM
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Yeah and also statistically speaking people in the gym are either self conscious of their body and want validation or want to get in shape to attract someone. Probably higher sex drive due to being in shape too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:53 PM
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Yeah exactly. Even if most women went through hoe phases they'd eventually find a "Beta buck" imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:34 PM
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I see a handful of guys approach every attractive girl. First time it's advice but after that just small talk. They're not really there to talk about your form (they never give guys pointers) but I guess they are attractive because gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:36 PM
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Jesus she actually believes having kids at 50 isn't a big deal (if you're rich) and plastic surgery can fix everything and keep you looking young at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:33 PM
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I'd like to see for myself anyways Per the article if one state requires people to upload id the feature could exist for every state and perhaps globally. It's a small cost to have it the same everywhere like when EU introduces cookie laws the sites have US customers agree too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:47 PM
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I really wanna see the guys on are we dating the same guy groups. Sounds good. Most apps have incognito modes to hide you from friends/partners though so I doubt the marriage stuff works. Tinder+ is basically Ashley Madison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:37 PM
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There's more sociopaths who approach because sociopaths are more confident. At the very least promiscuous chads are more likely to approach than shy guys. For the record, I do approach, a lot. I just don't like this rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:23 PM
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The lost bladesman because honor, loyalty, and slicing muthafuckas with a longsword
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:10 PM
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But why tho? I get that they taste like they look but you don't have to take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:47 PM
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A lot have been stated so here's one I didn't read here. Women are outperforming the average man and some have difficulty finding a man who matches them since men by nature seem more minimalistic and many of the higher earning men men are fine settling down with women who make less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:19 AM
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The black makeup doesn't look feminine though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:01 AM
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Most narcissists are confident and they don't have to earn shit. Just be born with some genes or be coddled to express them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:25 PM
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Like Michael Phelps in his documentary on Olympians?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:22 PM
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Confidence is often just hiding your bad side. You don't believe it exists and so other people don't find it. Maybe it's that. I don't think 6 ft Chad at the club tells girls he's struggling with depression or bangs lots of chicks on the side. He has enough experience knowing what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:20 PM
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Being white gets you pretty far in Asia apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:18 PM
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Most of the times the guy probably just treats it as a one night stand or situationship though. There's no intent to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:15 PM
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Only if men took the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:13 PM
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Every sex can have baggage though. I admit older people have more baggage though and can corroborate on people who have been cheated on being overly suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:47 PM
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Ya'll don't argue with enough stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:39 PM
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I heard recently that men don't ejaculate as much semen when watching porn. We know when we're masturbating and when we're having sex even subconsciously. Overuse of porn is definitely harmful if it leads to ED or death grip or both. And maybe some men think that straight to jackhammering and some more degenerative moves are the ideal sex move for women when they aren't, just like porn affects people's perception of average dick size or attractive partner. But I wouldn't equate the 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:47 PM
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Just more accepted because the sexual revolution happened here earlier because the place is richer and therefore people had access to abortions and contraceptives and women entering the workplace earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:27 PM
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I used to avoid hard working women who seemed difficult because I thought our relationships would have too much arguing. There's still boundaries I'd set on what I'd put up with but overall I see benefits to arguing over things now to vent out frustrations. My mom's inability to not speak her mind is sometimes a good thing as she doesn't let resentment fester. Obviously better to just find someone who gets lighter periods or argues less but you do want someone to push you to do well enough to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:41 PM
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What's their cultural background?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:21 PM
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It depends. Easiest time to hookup for me would've been college, there were house parties at my house. I had other opportunities I blew more recently and some that were too hard to blow. I'm not mid 30s yet but I think dating would've been easiest around 26 for me. Demographics in your city matter, as well as what age range you're targetting. I kinda stopped pursuing college girls when I was in my mid 20s but someone who didn't could've more easily found a relationship there. I still meet girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:14 PM
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They probably worked far less than someone at McD for a year though. I'd hope the average OF creator who put in like 6 hours in a year made less than minimum wage yearly salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:24 AM
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When were you growing up? Cuz back in like 2008 it was closer to 40%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:01 AM
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Why can't u do a poll. Nah too expensive for what you're getting and no validation that I'm attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:07 PM
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Must feel worse for girls especially short girls. You have all this appetite for food and have to have a bagel with low fat cream cheese and call it girl dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:02 PM
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What about the group of women who date/marry men who earn less? I think it's like 16% that make 50% or more than the husband. https://www.cnn.com/2023/04/16/success/husbands-wives-earning-division-of-labor-pew-survey/index.html 55% for men I want a sugar momma my age for sure. Willing to settle for someone who makes less though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:30 PM
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Condemn not condone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:32 PM
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Most men are promiscuous or would be given the chance though. Any advantages the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:06 PM
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I think my body count is 5-8? 5 confirmed. You never forget the first man you kill... after that you get used to it. Even enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:36 PM
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Maybe he wants to keep getting his dick wet? Maybe he doesn't think he can do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:01 PM
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There's some speed dating events near me where men pay but women don't. They're trying to attract women As per your first link, everything with a robotic voice is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:20 AM
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Yeah, also the woman is black in the UK. Race plays a huge role in finding someone who wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:49 AM
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It doesn't show that either. Purplepilldebate debunked that because the author of a book didn't understand what "present" meant https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ozfyqb/single_women_are_not_happier_than_married_women/ There's been people who've claimed that it's true anyways or the other way but as a social science it's hard to say what's correct till some large less biased party like PEW or the US census weighs in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:03 PM
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The 63% is off. More recent data from PEW (same source) has it lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:58 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:36 PM
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Not really. Sexpatting is defended in the US as it "could be real love" even if the parties can't talk to each other and have a 40 year age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:34 PM
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Paternity fraud should absolutely be public record.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:27 PM
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So why is marriage so repulsive to men now but still desirable for women? Women are also seeking marriage less or at least that's the vibe of datingoverthirty and here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:42 AM
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The only one that has any chance of happening is like 5. Government can make their own apps if they feel not enough people are pairing. It's so fucking easy. Guess it's hard when it's government though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:42 AM
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You can already buy male sex toys. Don't think they're that advanced or popular though. I do think vr tech will get better and being single will be more accepted in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:03 AM
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Can't edit on mobile. I've seem it firsthand a few times while traveling with guys. One had a girlfriend coming in a few days, one had a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:54 AM
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I've seen datingoverthirty defend cheating calling it a yellow flag in a thread on defining red flags and to tell someone to be ok with their partner admitting to being a cheater. They also told someone to break up for not getting Christmas presents in a 3 month relationship despite not being asked to get presents and being wonderful otherwise. Besides showing how materialistic people are these days it shows that enough people have cheated to sway opinion on how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:52 AM
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7 Outlaw contraception \s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:23 AM
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Yeah that was Dr. K's reasoning as well, that women were articulating their feelings better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:20 PM
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It's far more than 39%. The stats put people meeting on the apps and going to a bar first date as "met at a bar". I think we're well above 60%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:17 PM
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I feel like women would make an attempt to help a woman who was crying. Usually. One girl I knew got her fake ID taken at a club and started crying. The other girls stayed and danced without even saying goodbye once lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:12 PM
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On the one hand there were some guys at my old gym who approached every attractive girl or group of attractive girls to chat them up. The girls rationalize that the guys are just being friendly and making friends if they enjoy it. On the other twox is so far gone. I can't even ask a woman for directions because google maps is a thing? What if I'm traveling and google maps is off or I'm near tall buildings or trying to find an entrance somewhere when I'm close or my phone is dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:06 PM
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Neighbor's wifi, stolen laptop, at a Starbucks, using a drink someone forgot to throw out to make it look like you paid, hopped the turnstiles of the subway, snuck into the back of the bus, living at home 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:56 PM
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My parents got a snow blower. Lift with your knees keep your back straight even though no one does lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:52 PM
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Saw Dr. K talking about how therapy doesn't give much to men. I think an issue men have with therapy is they get told to man up when they open up. Then Dr. K touches on couples therapy in one of his videos as well. Men feel like majority women therapisrs take the wife's side. I've opened up in therapy to another guy though. He seemed ok to listen but only to get paid and nothing got resolved. Oh well, insurance paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:34 AM
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It depends largely on your personality. These days you're expected to grieve at most like 3 months for a breakup and then you're good to go for the next one. Also the breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:27 AM
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Hating women and not dating are both symptoms that probably lead to a negative feedback loop It is interesting that the redpill subreddit is shrinking despite no bans but the percent of people in relationships is predicted to shrink according to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:14 PM
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I think it's both. 1. People who are in an unhappy marriage should get a divorce. 2. People put far too much emphasis into looks and whatever hollywood pushes out basically choosing someone to marry that isn't likely to work out. This among other things leads to too high a divorce rate. Divorce rates are much lower among 2 educated individuals who got married later in life for the first time and I would assume happiness too. Most people who divorce once divorce again, I think meaning they still …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:57 PM
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Haha nah. Maybe a shithole state will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah people don't have a firm grasp on probabilities. Our monkey brains never evolved to do simple addition like 8+9 and some of our ancestors never did in their lives. Like the birthday paradox where you just need 17 people to have a 50% chance to have 2 people with matching birthdays or something. Not to mention recall biases
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:52 PM
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How much is the bid on your flair up to? ( not interested in buying)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:12 AM
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https://www.census.gov/data/tables/2021/demo/families/cps-2021.html Check the data under FG3. I think the casual dating between WMAF happens too but they eventually marry Asian. That falls right into AF/BB though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:47 AM
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To be fair a billionaire marrying a millionaire is like a millionaire marrying a thousandaire \s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:48 AM
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There's a lot of wasteful spending. Luxury goods are not necessary and something I consider wasteful. The op says he makes 175k which is enough to buy a home even in the highest cost of living places in the world. He can provide a house and car which is valuable for raising kids. He won't provide for a dozen designer handbags a year. And for east asians they do usually have a joint account for marriages. Not always but usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:30 PM
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I CAN get behind the dogpill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:01 PM
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Do you see yourself alone in 20 years? China has that house and car requirement but young people living at home still date today. It's much more transactional. White people don't really know what it's like as an Asian guy dating in East Asia because they don't have to pay 100% for dates or need to fit into any of the customs so you might get some ignorant comments like "just don't date those kinds of girls". But even in East Asia we're getting more women starting to outearn local men and going d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:44 PM
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I just mean the concubine's children often took resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:03 AM
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I think the wealthy have always had concubines. Tom Brady, Bill Gates, Tiger Woods, and Melon Tusk have all been lusted after for their fame and resources. These days that leads to divorce and a lot of money for the wives. Women want a man to give the resources all to their own children or to themselves, not to whoever a man is cheating with and potentially fathering children with (our monkey brains don't understand contraceptives or abortion clinics)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:51 AM
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See any of the guys going up to the ladies with "form tips"? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/L0zGfTC63Pc I see this all the time. I've gone for years and had one guy help me with spinning back kicks and asked one girl about planks. Makes me feel like I should be treating gyms as a singles mixer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:11 PM
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What's the benefit to lots of sleeping around? You don't have more money, and still have to work since they're likely not paying for you unless you find a wealthy old or ugly woman who wants to pay for you. Would you rather be poor and have sex with lots of women because you're white and 6' or rich but too ugly to be part of hookup culture? You're not even passing on genes due to contraceptives. The ones who passed on the most genes are the ones who donated sperm by lying while hiding their ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:47 PM
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Race pill disproves blue pill and it's against the rules to post about it here. Maybe this comment in a looks thread won't be deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:07 AM
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You can write a will and have the money go to someone who is not your child legally. Marriage isn't necessary for writing a will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:03 AM
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North Carolina is fairly religious so I thought it'd be lower despite the high military personnel rate. Still this isn't evidence that cooling off doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:52 PM
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I'm ok with using weed edibles for relaxing after work and prescribed methylamphetamines for adhd. I don't want to date a meth-head
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:11 PM
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She'd also be approached more unless ugly so women not approaching isn't a cause for oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:08 PM
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For 1 I see a lot of "I never thought I'd marry again till I met this 23 year old pinoy while traveling" or similar for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:05 PM
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Do the Asian women you know mostly date white dudes? How much the other way around? Why would you say that Asian men suffer so much worse than Asian women in dating? Why are 600k more Asian men than Asian women going to die alone every year in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:27 AM
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BMI says he's smack in the middle of healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:46 AM
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How so? Emotionally unavailable and constantly falling into depresssive episodes about her ex. She wasn't doing well financially so I paid a lot and I got called a simp for eg. delivering a movie over so she and her friend could watch it. She did get hit on all the time. She was easy to invite to places so she wasn't terribly hard to get along with outside the crying. She also seemed really ditzy in conversation. The friend and her got into some argument so I had to walk them home separately onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:29 AM
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Dunno, only dated one girl who I think was super hot. Wasn't with the super hot girl for too long so I don't know what she was like. Hung out with a model for a while. The model and her model friend seemed really hard to deal with. She will have the power of being able to bed a super handsome man instantly Lol any not overweight girl can do this You're thinking too hard about this. If you find yourself dating a super hot girl, just be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:09 AM
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I think they're steps in the right direction. China gets a lot of crap but I think they introduced good divorce legislation due to rising divorce rates: married couples have a "cooling off period" of 30 days where they are allowed to submit divorce papers but can't get it finalized. In the event of physical abuse the cooling off period is called off. The results were dramatic as divorce rates went down 44%. I'll probably marry anyways if the person I want to marry wants kids. Without it's a hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:42 PM
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Looked up what Inositol is used to treat. Apparently it's used for PCOS and insulin resistance. PCOS being when women have too much of androgens (male sex hormones that shouldn't be too high in women). When it's too high women can form cysts in their ovaries that cause all sorts of issues. But damn a lot of these symptoms seem undetectable. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos The symptoms of PCOS may include: Missed periods, irregular per…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah I just downvote any questions like "hey women would you date a short 5 foot brown man?" because I know the answers will all be virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:52 PM
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Could be. I just googled it. You're right, looks heavily biased. Removed, I know the Paul Dolan claim was debunked too https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ozfyqb/single_women_are_not_happier_than_married_women/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:27 PM
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I think after baby fever age they gradually become more complacent about being alone. Stats show happiest people are married couples with kids, followed by married couples without, finally singles regardless of gender but of course correlation != causation and some people are happy with kids because they're rich and aren't divorced https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey biased source
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:15 PM
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1 and 2 seem fine to me. Haven't seen much of 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:09 PM
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I saw a 5'10 guy start talking about height when he was with his girlfriend, another girl, and 2 shorter guys. I feel like he wanted to put down the shorter guys to make himself look better because he felt threatened. (he was comparing the height of one of the girls to one of the guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:57 PM
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You should bring this up at the next global men's convention. I'm sure you can get most of us to sign them and call them the 2024 [REDACTED LOCATION] Accords.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:44 PM
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You can always get introduced to the girl and see if you like her. Beta bucking or simping for a girl u like isn't a bad thing imo. Like if she's pleasant to be around who cares? As long as she's not wasting all your shared money on jewelry, clothes, and luxury cars. Buying jewelry for your wife during anniversaries isn't considered simping in most cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:36 PM
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One girl I was with showed her sister she had over 10k likes or matches. Another girl, an Asian model when we were like 24 showed me the messages she was getting daily. Definitely a stark contrast compared to myself, but you don't need to see it in person to know it exists. And I took it less personally when a girl ghosted in the messaging phase. 20 more likes every day competing for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:32 PM
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Kinda started giving up since I stopped swiping but I do have 1 date coming up and another girl I wanna see when she gets back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:28 PM
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You're probably right about the subset of women who use "happy wife happy life" to give you a sad miserable life. But plenty of women give more to their partners too probably due to feeling inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:17 AM
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Yeah by the year 2023 I read that we'll only have to work 4 hours a day! https://www.reddit.com/r/freefromwork/comments/101y84y/100_years_ago_new_york_scientist_charles_p/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:25 PM
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Hard to say after reading the responses. I do think billionaires should stay in shape though even if their wives will stay with them because the divorce laws in their country or state don't provide the woman with half the marital assets earned during the marriage. Way too many fat ugly sexpats too. Fucking get a gym membership and stop eating burgers and sugar When you're Warren Buffet or Charlie Munger's age, sure let yourself go. Not in your 40s geez
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:01 PM
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Maybe he got Dory. Haven't seen the sequels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:41 PM
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Issue is they need stats if they're gonna make these claims, not cherry picked talking heads like the girl who doesn't know North America and South America are continents. Are literacy rates going down among Gen Z or is she wrong here, if it's down is it just due to covid? And if she's wrong here is she wrong in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:40 PM
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You guys notice any media where the characters are encouraged to remain single? Used to be everything needed a happily ever after. Now we have Frozen where Anna is tricked by Hans and then Elsa has to save her but it's not Hans' kiss that saves her, it's Elsa's (true love is between family not with some jerk who wants you for your status as Princess). Then we also have Barbie. After Ken embraces the red pill patriarchy and has his way being a fuccdoll for a while Ken gets rejected and Barbie adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:29 PM
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We're very greedy by nature because we evolved to be. Genes in our nature that worked in the environment where we evolved our natures are not like in our present day environment. Not that it was all sunshines and rainbows as some tribal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:14 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:07 PM
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Being a net positive is such a little ask. An S&P growth of .5% in a year is a net positive. I don't believe the average man can't be a net positive to an average woman considering we're biologically programmed for sex. I could be wrong. But data seems to indicate married women and men are happier except for that one guy's studies. So it's not like our nature is working against our own happiness either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:04 PM
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Yeah most of the single men at meetups seem autistic to me. They're smart and most seem to have good jobs, but a lot of them are ugly due to something like facial blemishes, race, and or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:33 AM
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My last relationship I had a gun pointed to my head and I was forced to sign a couples agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:03 PM
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PMS is probably a big reason for divorce/breakups and men wanting to be alone or forming vent groups. Not sure about the other stuff below my comment if ur sorting by new though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM
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"I volunteer as tribute!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:42 AM
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I think most men will sleep with a woman they see potential for a relationship with on a first date. They'll do the same for someone they see no potential with. This might be the disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:26 AM
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🤮 I preferred Tarja's voice. But I understand she was hard to work with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:01 AM
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Not sure what that last sentence says but good for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:44 AM
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I cancelled meal delivery just now cuz I feel like I could make something like that for cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:32 AM
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My mom was incompetent, had poor genes, and just all around is miserable to be around. But my dad is incredibly intelligent. Nothing is good enough for my mom and she's worse than what red pill describes. Within my extended family the women are fierce and probably need to be. For one, I think financial stability was a huge concern. They were encouraged to marry young. My mother openly says red pill thoughts about how women's divorce rates are too high and how they're just after money and will di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:59 AM
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I think living with your mom can be a good thing but it's probably the thing women don't like most on this list if it's the parent's place. Your clothes should fit even if they're $5 shirts. The car can be new or not have issues even if it's not luxury. I recall a survey of things people are least likely to put up with when dating and the biggest one was living at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:22 AM
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Boston, kinda feel the same but women do have high standards. I met someone looking into sperm donors and I just thought we were too young in our early 30s for that. Their standards are high enough to consider sperm donors over someone like me who makes barely 6 figures. I think they want someone who makes more and had their own place and car. Some partnered off already because their only qualifications were looks or their standards weren't as high when they were younger or less established in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:02 PM
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I've read many times about the paradox of choice and how it applies to dating. If people have 20 jams to pick from they'll try 2 and not buy any due to analysis paralysis. If there's 2 flavors they'll try 2 and are much more likely to buy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:56 PM
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All apps already have algorithms. I think they're all based on attractiveness and swipeability these days. Sites like okc introduced tinder clone features since it didn't matter what you answered on the quizzes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:45 PM
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They're just reaching an age where fertility is becoming an issue, and since women like to have men at their level, if they're wealthy and have their lives together themselves, their standards will naturally be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:34 PM
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Doesn't seem to be what you mean but even at 32 I see wealthy women reacting positively to the idea of having a kid through a sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:29 PM
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A lot of the time the more feminist men aren't white. Conservatives are overwhelmingly white men whereas women tend to be more liberal. Second, young White men tend to vote differently than young people as a whole, and if past trends persist they could be swing voters in the 2020 general election. According to CIRCLE’s 2016 post-election poll, young White men ages 18-24 preferred Donald Trump to Hillary Clinton in 2016 by 22 percentage points, whereas young White women, young women of color, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:27 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:10 PM
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Oh but you would never date a woman regardless. I'm just clarifying since I saw your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:18 PM
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Are you a lesbian then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:07 PM
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Link to such stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:45 AM
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We're messy af and live with the bare minimum. Like some men are good at trying to be fit. But their rooms are the bare minimum with tvs on boxes and a single folding chair not even an Ottoman. Two laundry bins one for clean clothes and nothing folded. Food a lot of meal prep or delivery (they're basically the same thing) and no idea how to cook recipes outside chicken breast and rice with frozen broccoli. This could be taken as a sign of immaturity as of course not all men. We like showing off …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:12 AM
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It's not always about what it lets you do but how it makes you feel. Just seeing the person makes you giddy after a long time of not seeing them. But just spending time doing our own thing in the same room is nice. Or watching dumb netflix shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:25 PM
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People's standards lower as they're not met over time. I think "how to not die alone" by Logan Ury goes over the idea well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:52 PM
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Hehe money brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:41 PM
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A 6 dating a 6 is settling. A 6 wanting a 10 and settling for an 8 is still settling. It doesn't have to be a bad word. Just about everyone who gets married settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:40 PM
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Yes. Fat people find other fat people. I recall they don't find other fat people more attractive they're just usually aware of their own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:37 PM
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Yes absolutely. Makes weeding out gold diggers harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:33 PM
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There are a lot of older women who go after younger guys these days. Like guys usually outnumber girls at clubs so they'll hit on older women. And there's a front page post on datingoverthirty of a 37 year old woman bragging about how her mid 20 coworkers hit on her not realizing her age so she'll go after younger men. Still more 37 year old men going after 24 year old women though and more 24 year old women open to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:00 PM
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The not willing to lie is so important. It's so much easier to hookup for guys if they just say "yeah I'm interested in long term with you" when they aren't or just fudge their height on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:15 AM
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32M here. 23 year old girls don't interest me for LTR and I think I'm pretty childish. Like I know divorce rates are higher in these relationships and a bad marriage is worst case scenario. So 30ish women are more attractive. They also make more and seem more likely to split dinner bills which also means less pressure to provide. I also care what people would think if I told them I were dating someone 9 years younger. And I'm not sure about kids anymore but it feels like early to mid 20 girls ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:37 PM
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What an educated message
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ChP1j41omlE Thought of this thread when I saw this. Not a jab at you op!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:57 AM
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Research shows that sex releases oxytocin, the "love hormone" that mothers get when pregnant or during labor. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8360917 I think if a guy is willing to sleep with a woman they're more likely to form attachment to that woman. Obviously there's guys who don't and keep promising every girl that they're looking for a long term until after sex. But my point is that usually after sex it doesn't matter that the makeup is off, the guy has formed attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:38 PM
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It could be why women are rated more accurately society wide than the other way around. Women take much better photos and makeup means that men will rate a less attractive woman higher if she's good with makeup (camera angles and filters too). Like maybe if women took photos like men and wore just as little makeup 80% would've been rated below average on that okcupid data blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:24 PM
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Unfortunately our brains are wired to want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:15 PM
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Datingoverthirty is majority women and there's lots of complaints there on lack of commitment and lots of situationships in general Why isn't ppd or similar communities big with women? IDK reddit gets more engagement from gamers that tend to be men. Maybe insta and tiktok see more balanced engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:34 PM
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On a date, more than 10 less than 30 probably. I'll estimate 30% accept and don't flake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:18 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/blog/darwins-subterranean-world/201901/the-psychology-the-backup-boyfriend-or-girlfriend shows that about 50 percent of women always have a plan B. That source says it's 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:28 PM
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I think most doctors start seriously dating after they get their degrees since the workload is high. That or they're with their high school/bachelors sweetheart. So maybe their surge in popularity after getting a doctorate is due to that. For the other degrees there's probably more success for engineers in theirs 30s than ones who already had their lives together in their 20s. But while most women don't want the "unfinished product", looks can make up for being "unfinished". There's a beauty pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:56 PM
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Biological. Sperm cheap childbirth and pregnancy expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:23 AM
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Since this is a movie based in nothing the kid is his. But yeah Jenny had a rough life and Forrest forgave her for all the shitty ways she treated him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:39 AM
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I would argue that on many fronts, men are better relationship material than prior generations. But when people have genuine liberty to choose, and the means to be independent, suitors need to meet a high standard to be worth giving up that independence. Yeah. Still a lot of misogyny but I suspect a lot of the stuff I see on blind and insta are just young men disillusioned by lack of healthy relationships lashing back. Like guys, these are skits on insta between a very happy couple and I see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:12 PM
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Yeah the biggest issue here is the usage of the word "dominated"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:50 PM
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I'm certain people have been complaining about overpopulation for a while but we've also predicted for decades that it would level off at around 10 billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:23 PM
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OMG that's like totally me. (insert popular singer) totally gets me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:20 PM
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Statistically people who've divorced once are very likely (60+ then 70+%) to divorce again. Not sure why. Problem with all these "assume the coefficient of static friction is 0" hypotheticals is that they don't exist in the real world and I'd need to know more information about both. 2 people can't have vastly different experiences and end up identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:17 PM
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I'd assume it's around child support and divorce equity division. Sea travel groups often talk about slipping plan b in drinks or leaving a lot of half white bastards around they don't pay child support to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:12 PM
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That there's hypergamy. Insta model wasn't a thing a generation ago. I follow a few guy streamers who are just as entertaining and higher skilled than girl streamers. If I'm in the girl streamer's chat for 5 minutes (maybe it was a raid when I was away) there's a 50% chance I get a gift sub just because they often have more gift subs and regular subs than viewers. Almost never true for guy streamers. Guys are still more willing to date someone who has lower expected earning potential than the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:57 PM
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Plenty of underage Vietnamese girls were shipped to US army camps during the Vietnam war. https://revcom.us/en/a/689/american-crime-case-8-war-in-vietnam-and-sexual-subjugation-of-women-en.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:16 PM
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I think it's helpful to vent but otherwise probably not. At least it's not an echo chamber though each individual thread can feel like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:58 PM
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They usually don't live there long term or learn the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:17 PM
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In this case women can just approach a man that she wants and then turn him down if she finds something that makes them incompatible? There's no magic spell that makes men who approach a woman less likely to string her along for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:45 AM
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They should say that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:37 AM
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Friend once asked me how I wasn't religious. He obviously was very Christian. I said that's how I was raised and was the truth. Had I gone to church everyday the brainwashing might've made me religious. In your examples you can avoid these people but if you don't have much choice when dating it becomes harder. Everyone compromises in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:31 PM
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There's some gymbro on insta who only talks about sad shit and has tons of female followers. Like "you wouldn't think a bro like me be sad but I just miss her man" shit. Just one guy but there's clearly a market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:42 PM
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I remember one Asian girl admitting to having a boyfriend. I'm like "you know he's gonna find out about this right?" so I figured it was scripted There's a very clear scene that she's being forced to do something, objects making a face, and they cut and stop. Lmao she said she just wanted spending money and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:18 AM
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Thanks. Interesting read. Another predictor of infidelity was attractiveness. A person's own attractiveness was negatively associated with infidelity among women but not men - meaning less attractive women were more likely to have an affair. A partner's attractiveness was negatively associated with infidelity among men but not women - meaning men were more likely to be unfaithful when their partners were less attractive. A person's history of sex was a predictor of infidelity, too. Men who repor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:31 AM
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I think the casual smokers are casual because they smoke casually. No one smokes regularly without getting addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 AM
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Are some people wired a certain way that they can't not cheat? Like an autistic person can't act normally no matter how hard they want to. Are hot people more likely to cheat knowing that it'd be easy to find another person? I know uggos cheat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:11 AM
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Yeah and Kevin Hart really skyrocketed short people's attractiveness and we live in a post race world and unicorns live on rainbows that lead to a leprechaun's pot of gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:08 AM
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They ranked the Asian guy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:04 AM
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I won't ever know if someone's using me for food unless they order a ton. But those are usually scammers. Screw scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:08 PM
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Video probably just virtue signalling even if they rank the guy who lost his best friend last. These things are a waste of time to watch. Since I have to answer the question, usually vulnerability in women is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:46 PM
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Same for adhd?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:11 PM
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I think autism is different from lack of experience. Maybe the autism sub has advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:30 PM
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I see. Maybe the doctor meant it as a temporary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:38 PM
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Who gave you that advice and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:25 PM
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The stuff you mentioned isn't too bad. But I do know a girl from my Uni who married a very quiet guy. I don't know if it was arranged(they're both Indian), one day she was just married to a random guy I don't think anyone in our friend group knew or went to the wedding. She's always been a bit hotheaded but not exactly a party girl in Uni. Since then she's posted a lot on socials of her going to raves and shuffle dancing but the guy is never there. I don't think they fit well together. But at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:00 AM
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Even if current technology let us select whatever height we wanted our kids to be I imagine women would still favor having children naturally and go after taller men for a couple decades. IVF and polygenic screening already exist. The technology is too expensive to be mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah. Girls will tell their girlfriends. Some guys complain to their guy friends "my wife did this blah blah"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:34 PM
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You know that meme on relationshipadvice subreddits where one partner is like "I love my boy/girlfriend and they're really good to me but recently he/she's been eating sandwiches cut diagonally and not sideways" and the advice is always "boy/girl you need to dump her/his ass and not put up with sandwiches cut diagonally" I find this is true of a lot of subreddits but also IRL. People will excuse cheating since they've cheated and know there are conditions for it. But recommend breaking up for sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:24 PM
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I'm usually turned off by the price of these. Are they expensive compared to what you can get alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:48 PM
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Do you think a buff fitness instructor who's buff because he moves heavy things for work, or a skinny software developer because he's shown mastery over a valued craft that earns more money would be more desirable? Does it depend on age? Obviously the software developer can work out too but it's easier to get in the lifting when it's part of your job description. Assuming they're the same height but the fitness instructor talks to more girls for work and therefore has more charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:58 PM
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It's not just libido. A lot of us guys here do have high libido but it's also attachment styles. Some of us didn't grow up receiving the amount of love we wanted as children and are looking for it in a partner or for validation through casual sex. Libido suppressants cause erectile issues so if you do get lucky you can't perform. It's a constant fear when dating. Also removes some joy from masturbation and motivation for life. Like we work to become more attractive and provide for children. Of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:42 PM
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Eh I don't mind. I hate the new rule the mods made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:19 AM
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Mods made a sticky post (always at the top of the subreddit in green) just this week saying they're not allowing posts on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:11 AM
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I recently looked into my attachment style. I recommend you do the same. Children of divorced parents tend to be more anxious/avoidant since they don't have that healthy childhood with 2 parents providing love and may feel abandoned by one. It can happen to anyone. But the probability is much lower for certain demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:41 PM
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No she worked. An ex of mine brought it up because she wanted an allowance too. I said no lol, I don't want to buy a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:50 PM
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I do know a guy who gave his gf an allowance. They're getting married if not already though. What bothers me is her ex didn't make as much and didn't have to pay an allowance. Ex was more stereotypically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:59 PM
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I'm finally meeting more women willing to pay for a portion of the dates. One offered to get a round of drinks for us at a mixer without anyone else offering. I think it's getting better or older women are more financially secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:48 PM
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There was a time I turned down sex with an attractive friend because she had a boyfriend. If you or your friend have a partner I think it's fine to remain friends with people who don't try to sabotage the relationship. If they're part of your friend group or coworker that's also often a nonstarter. That said plenty of people get with the best opposite gender friend a month after breaking up with someone else. I guess there's always risk but the alternative is to forbid close friendships with peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:34 PM
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How dare you leave the looks quarantine thread?! D:< Agree JDBF is probably enough for most women to get first dates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:14 PM
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I think most people put themselves first. Most people don't volunteer or donate their own belongings when it means less time for themselves. I can't speak for everyone but I feel like my difficulty in finding friends after college and the years immediately after, aren't due to not trying. I meet a lot of guys. They just don't want to meet up online in games and a lot are younger guys. But if a girl meets another girl they seem to instantly bond. And guys will often put more effort into talking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:42 PM
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More successful in what way? I hung with a bunch of nerds in uni and they tend to be pretty successful now. We socialized too. You think mathletes just don't talk? Not being able to talk to the opposite gender isn't the norm for nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:46 PM
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Absofuckinglutely not but most people wouldn't exist for just small changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:51 PM
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The bigger question is how are so many able to make money off this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:50 AM
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Under your conditions probably most men. But I might be seeing things from my own perspective. 12 months is a long time and 21 days is maybe 3 dates. The hardest condition is probably the 21 days and it can lead to a relationship so it's not even casual. I've also overestimated before. Apparently when I was in HS only 20% of people had sex before graduating and I thought it was a lot higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:33 PM
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In general, men of color are far more open than white men to dating average women, and African Americans and Latinos, but not Asians, are significantly more likely to prefer a thick or heavy body type. We don't need anecdotes. We have data! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2698977/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:49 PM
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It's easy to override with conditioning from media but yeah who you see at school and home should have an effect. Kids of color often pick white dolls at a higher rate than dolls of their own ethnic background at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:26 PM
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Whatever you feel like. I'm speaking in generalizations backed by data https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2698977/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:05 PM
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It depends on the race of men. Black and Latino men are more accepting of weight in women. Asians and White men less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:18 PM
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Sometimes it feels like I'm shooting myself in the foot putting an accurate height on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:42 PM
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If it's a recent change that still suggests it was for all users who used search filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:35 PM
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Overweightness is considered unhealthy weight and differs by gender. For instance 25% or even 30% bodyfat for women is just barely fine but 30% is obese for men. In America obesity is a big problem for both genders. Basically what you're saying is already factored in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:06 PM
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I think it's because guys have a lower bar for sex and sex leads to relationships and sex with fatter people leads to you liking fatter people Whereas most fit women won't have sex with an obese guy so they never develop that attraction for them. Of course some people get fat or fatter after getting into the relationship and the fitter partner stays with them too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:23 PM
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Boston marathon bomber literally had women who were defending him saying he couldn't have done it that he was too attractive. I remember reddit was only talking about who he was and accusing random people but when he was found out some women formed facebook groups on his attractiveness. I think it's just that fame made him liked by more people. Eg. if 1% of women are living in delulu land then of the millions that saw him that's still a lot that like that mophead bomber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 PM
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I think the best way to look better for most people is to eat a tapeworm egg rather than working out for a full year lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:59 AM
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It depends on your social setting too I think. I did a lot of latin dancing but very few girls liked me and the ones that did tended to be unattractive to me. If I were from the same country as some of the girls or spoke Spanish/Portuguese fluently it would've been easier to find someone to date. I did best asking girls of the same ethnic group out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:54 AM
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I just mean in general on insta posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:27 PM
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The comments are either all from men who hate women or the other way around. I think a lot of people are just jaded and it may be increasing with the newer generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:51 AM
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Probably the gifts people on twitch give. I've seen guys give ipads and $1000. I know for a fact some get bigger donations. Unfortunately a lot of the times the guys giving the donos aren't rich and ask for it back in the future only to learn there's no refunds. And the girls can be millionaires with a hidden boyfriend. I'm sure it happens to good looking guy streamers too though those are rarer. There was this autistic weirdo making well into 6 figs in a poor country in a travel group I was in.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:33 PM
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You don't need a poll. There should be recent surveys covering this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:09 PM
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It's 5% of the population - not just men. That's a good point. Wish I had the full study dataset, I wanna see the exact percentile men overtake women in sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:59 PM
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Than the bottom 50% combined It does corroborate that this mythical Chad does exist. Plenty of people here on this sub say he doesn't. Chart from the study 2006-2010 I believe the amount of sexual partners women have has increased since 2010 when this study was done. It seems women do have more sexual partners than men if you overlay the 2 charts but the top percentile of partner men have more partners than top women. The national average number of sexual partners was 14.8 for the United States …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:22 PM
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Because attraction is relative for the general population. That 5'8 shorty that girls reject on dating apps would've been Chad Yetison in Napoleon's time standing among 5'6 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:20 PM
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We were sold a lie that women don't care about looks much and that they care more about wealth or personality. But maybe that seemed true to an older generation when fewer women were working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:58 PM
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Thanks for checking. I probably should've done that. It's possible their dataset doesn't include things about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:22 AM
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I figured they copied it over to make a statement that it's not just 1 gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:16 PM
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They even added a minimum age range for women. I can't select just 18 year old men. The site automatically makes it 18-23. 2 different domains, 2 different devs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:02 PM
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Yeah. Imo drop the Asian requirement. As an Asian yourself, it's not like most Asian women have an Asian requirement. It might not help too much though. You can multiply the percentage by a bit in larger cities since the obesity may be lower and and demographics better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:00 PM
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Sex itself may not be bad but modern morality is against lying because it harms people and harming people causes revenge which can be bad for society. If someone gets hurt they can fight back and then you can end up with fewer members in a tribe. So we made up rules to strengthen tribes. We're also morally and legally against rape and many are morally against large age gaps, cheating, and grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:06 PM
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I think the guy who gets settled on in his 30s does usually get desired, and more so later. It's a secondary attraction. Unfortunately for people without primary attractiveness, that's the first filter people use. Tinder killed personality based dating apps years ago because most people only cared about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:37 PM
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Biology makes it so no one wants their son to be unable to have kids. If a woman has a son with a short or ugly man, the son will likely be short or ugly. Then other women won't want the son. Then her genes don't get passed down. Socialization does come from lots of places. And yes, this should affect people who don't want kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:00 PM
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I was watching love is blind Japan on Netflix. One of the girls said that she went on the show because every guy she's ever dated before was just because he was attractive. She'd be arguing with the guy over something and she said she'd look at him and be like "nevermind he's so attractive". Have you seen guys get away with stuff like this because they're attractive? I've also heard of guys who let their SAH wives (no kids) squander a 500k salary on 30k/month shopping and luxury cars. Presumably…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:45 PM
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Ok that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:06 PM
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80% of all sexual activity is within committed relationships and only 5% of people have more than 5 partners a year (5 partners total not 5 partners casually).https://datepsychology.com/how-many-sexual-partners-did-men-and-women-have-in-2021/ Some sources have it closer to 10-11 now https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/average-number-of-sexual-partners-by-country By age 25 only 2% of men are virgins. I don't see a part in your source disproving that 27% of under 30 men are virgins …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:28 PM
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I tend to make more. I also paid a lot more. I'd say it was more than 70/30 my side, maybe 80/20 but with an ex I stayed at her place on weekends and I wasn't paying rent. On resentment, I enjoyed the relationships. It's not like I lost a 6 figure house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:55 PM
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I think it's ok to acknowledge working 40 hours a week for most of your after education life, with 2-3 weeks vacation a year sucks, but people should still try to do it. You need money to live. Just like getting ghosted and having fewer matches than you'd like sucks but I do think it's possible to compete barring really shitty genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:02 AM
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And Napoleon was only 5'2 according to British Propaganda and 5'6 according to measurements using French inches. There should be a name for this. Let's call it the Short Dictator Complex!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:52 PM
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Asian Americans are different from Asians in Asia. There's slightly more unity in America since in school you don't care that the other kid is from Cambodia or Hong Kong or China. You care that they get bullied for the same things and look like you. https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/167f67n/are_hapas_accepted_in_asian_american_clubs_at/ I think white Americans are distant partially out of intimidation. Argument falls apart when you consider the amount of white guys with Asian girls. How ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:31 PM
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You can try. Plenty of people try FWB but then someone or both catch feels. Literally the storyline of the movie by the name FWB. Hormones are powerful and people tend to fall in love with people they have sex with. One of the big rules of mens travel groups is not to fall in love with a hooker because it happens so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:12 PM
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You would prefer people only date within their own race? (I’m not trying to be confrontational, just wanna make sure I understand what you’re saying.) I don't mind dating outside my race but the only group that shows interest to me tends to be Asian women. I get very few latina, black, or white matches. There is some appeal to passing on my language to kids so they can always go to my home country if for any reason it's better than here when they're older. If someone dad is white and mom is blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:03 PM
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How about race? Asian women grow up with Asian brothers and friends and then many end up preferring white guys. Inb4 "But I saw one half Asian guy with a white girl 6 months ago. Maybe he was just her senior in the research department though" or "It's because Asian guys are short, even though that's not true" China and Korea having the same height as the US and Russia even considering lower nutrition in southern China
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:46 PM
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Do it and update me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:53 PM
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I see a lot of people getting jaded over dating. I came here thinking it was an age thing and after 30 people start divorcing or getting sick of the other gender. But perhaps it was like this when I was more into dating when I was younger too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:48 PM
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He has average % of right likes (I heard it's 2.5% on /r/tinder but not sure) but there's supposedly a long tail distribution where some guys get 10%+ match rates and some guys get .5%. Probably top 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:47 PM
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Mostly that some stats are fake like that women are happier single than married. It's amazing how badly people and the author who popularized the idea misinterpreted a study. Or that 60% of men are single. Spend a few minutes on google and you find out the source is pew and their data on this varies wildly by year and in the most recent years it's closer to 30 something percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:17 AM
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I think Lois Griffin is depicted as a drug addicted woman child who had everything fed to her by rich parents. You're right that the idiot dad trope in these tends to marry a smarter woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:25 PM
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Lol, at least there's male sex icons like Vin Diesel and the Rock who rock a sexy bald look. There's like no guy who rocks a sexy short look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 PM
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No one puts the interest of the group over the interests of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:27 PM
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I've noticed that many women over 30 are now dating men in their mid to low 20s. It makes sense. The women are basically going for someone who's younger with a lower refractory period, lower body fat percentage on average, more energy, and who last longer in bed per ejaculation. No kids, lower risk of ED, easier to gain muscles, and more hair on average too. A mod in one of my groups is in her late 30s dating a 25 year old guy. She probably doesn't care about his salary as she's gotten time to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:20 PM
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I feel like this question was asked around a month ago but I can't find it. I don't think it's really possible that I never find someone. If somehow I haven't found someone in 8 years I probably travel abroad where my wealth is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:11 PM
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I think there's growing division between the sexes. It's probably growing in youths but not a majority yet. Someone mentioned that they "I cook, clean, take care of the house, cars, finances, social calendar, am dedicated to self improvement in every way, am respectful, caring, generous and attentive, and have been a great partner (and am recognized regularly by friends as someone who will "have no issue finding someone amazing when I decide to start dating again")." and the dating over 30 sub i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:22 AM
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Maybe the answer is rooted in biology. In the past if a woman slept around you couldn't be sure who the father was. Today a promiscuous woman can still not be sure who a baby daddy is if she goes through with a pregnancy. We've all seen Jerry and Maury clips "you are not the father". If a man slept around and the state doesn't find out he's the father he won't have to pay for the child. If he does, then sucks to be him, he has to pay child support assuming the 2 aren't married, and assuming he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:14 AM
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Right but often both people are traveling to the place so neither one speaks the language or knows travel tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:22 AM
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The CS program is much better than ECE. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:16 AM
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In a facebook travel group some guy asked if people could sponsor him for his trips today. The comments made fun of him and said maybe if he were a woman. There were tons of comments lol. The group does have a lot of guys trying to find a girl to travel with though. I feel like a lot of men pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 AM
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Misogyny and Misandry are both accepted within their own communities. Misogyny might get reported and taken down like some reddit subs. Unfortunately I do think social media (algorithms cause echo chambers) has started making a divide between two groups of people. Those who hate most men and those who hate most women. The problem is that if you go into relationships with this mindset then they're likely to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:34 AM
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If society collapses the way you describe then it's not something you or I can stop and a sudden collapse due to anything like AI would cause people to clamor for war. Germany started WW2 due to economic hardships from sanctions. Hopefully for any people hiding in bunkers that survive they'd learn the right lessons. Declining population isn't something we can affect. If you were Biden perhaps you could figure out a system where women are paid for the first 2 children they have in a country and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:00 AM
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Most people don't even know what an incel is. I wouldn't even say the majority of guys on this sub agree. What you're saying doesn't pass a basic logic test. Not wanting to be alone isn't a uniquely male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:46 AM
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I do think some women will have to settle to find a matching man. For instance women are now getting higher educational backgrounds than men in China and the US. That doesn't mean they're smarter than men. But it does mean that some women will have to settle for someone with a lower educational background.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:12 AM
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This is many men’s: Good relationship > bad relationship > single Bad take. Most men would also prefer being single to a bad one. Technically you said many but a vast majority would prefer no sex and no relationship to sometimes sex and a shit relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:39 AM
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I lived in a party house in Uni. Do you know how many couples I saw form that started as a drunken hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:09 PM
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The issue with these exercises is they're mental masturbation because except for people who become post op they never have to experience the situation. And trans would grow up differently. It's like a guy saying if they were a girl, and they were asked how many kids they wanted, they just answered they'd keep popping them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:05 PM
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Yeah I think I'm fitter than ever at 32 and it isn't easier. Didn't lose my hair either. But I did change locations. I think my previous location was better for me and I could hang out with friends while we all swiped together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:39 AM
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I did go to the bars and clubs after though. I'm not looking for advice, just sharing my learnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:00 PM
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I did a latin dance for a while. Doesn't get more social than that. I don't think anyone became a friend I saw much outside the hobby or randomly after dance parties. I do think girls showed more interest in guys they considered more attractive. I had to approach, but wasn't that successful and was worried that if I asked out too many there'd be a reputation about me asking everyone out which is weird since we all know each other. In my girlfriend's groups there were people who were exes which a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:17 AM
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It's not like the single mothers pool is that large and most probably aren't going to be making a lot while most likely single parenting except the ex-bf/husband gets every other weekend if that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:54 AM
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I think it's media. You look at Thor in God of War Ragnarok and see media pushing it as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:36 AM
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Just looked that up. Seems really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:06 AM
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Right, so the guy on the right doesn't have the ab definition most women consider ideal today as without flexing that's a 1 pack. And neither one has the required muscle definition standing without flexing in their thighs. Hard to say how much of that is modern exercise and diet. Also obviously these guys workout like it's a part time job which most guys can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:42 PM
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The thing is though women like muscles that can be naturally attained. If you go fully natural and only lift weights at the gym multiple times a week, you will end up with a frame that women like. Do you know exactly what muscles can be naturally obtained though? Almost everyone in Hollywood uses PEDs. But some could be naturally obtained if you have the right genes and workout very frequently. I've only recently started to learn exactly what's obtainable without steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:11 PM
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I think steroids are "cheap" as I've heard you get muscles from them even not working out. Like getting growth hormones. But maybe people aren't confident they can acquire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:07 PM
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Have you gotten in shape before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:06 PM
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There's a 6 year gap in age of mortality in the US and a 2 year gap in ages of average couples iirc. The age gap of international women with American women might not be counted in the marriage stats since the marriages often take place out of country. But even if they were that's an 8 year difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:01 PM
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It depends on the woman too. And I don't just mean that the supportive always nice kind push their husbands to achieve the most. I feel like I've tried hardest when I had a girlfriend who wanted me to do more. It's like when you have a strict mom who causes you do to well in school, it's a trial by fire. Probably the same for breadwinner women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:02 PM
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That might be because men die younger and especially in age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:55 PM
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An average-height guy will do better with muscles enough to take down an AC himself and a healthy body weight than one who's average height and obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:40 PM
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Have you seen "How Can She Slap?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:35 PM
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Attraction is partly nurture. You could make lazy eyes and obesity attractive if you controlled the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:40 PM
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I think under 12% is ok but close to pushing it. Under 9% and you're basically a full time athlete or a holocaust survivor. Skipping one meal will make you irritable and tired. Being underweight comes with many health deficiencies just like being overweight. Maybe as a teenager when you're still growing it's fine to be that skinny as when I was younger I'm sure my body was putting all those calories to growth and learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:14 AM
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There's a lot of blaming when it comes to more intelligent men. "Oh it's their fault they're too introverted". I'm an engineer. My friends were some of the smartest people in the country, they were mostly normal if a bit introverted. There's a stigma against liking women who are too smart as well but notice how no one's saying smart women are introverted and blaming them. People say it's because men don't like smart or ambitious women. Well we can say it's the same for women since my friends wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:03 PM
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What about the argument that you cannot get love from sex workers? Are people concerned about this? There's common advice on men's prostitution advice groups (basically just travel groups in Asia) to not fall in love with a hooker because it happens to literally every guy. Sex releases love hormones. That's the bigger concern, and some men do date or marry these hookers. Can going to sex workers save money? I guess it'd depend on the going rate, how frequently you go, and how much you spend on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:26 PM
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Ability to acquire and keep a harem Stability of harem and enjoyment Being judged for not settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I guess another point to make is that the payments often only happen if both parties are married for a long time and child support only if they had children. For short marriages with no children, I don't think divorces are as bad for the higher earning party since there'll be no child support and little alimony. You can't marry Bezos in Cali, divorce him the next day, and then get half his assets. People who think they're great judges of character and are child free shouldn't really run in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:22 PM
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I knew alimony wasn't paid out often. I didn't know child support was also that low. This is the stuff I come here for. I think there's 9 states with community laws on divorce, not 3: There are nine community property states in the U.S.: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. The general rule in a community property state is that assets acquired during the marriage are divided 50/50 in a divorce. https://helloprenup.com/divorce/community-prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:45 PM
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Everyone settles. You can't go to build a boyfriend workshop. Maybe there's some celeb fanatics that are so obsessed with a celeb they marry a cardboard cutout of that celeb that wouldn't be settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:49 PM
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In your example she might be mentally weird outlier. Like there's a weirdo who married a life sized cutout of the Twilight Lead Guy Vampire. Certainly not someone to base things on. A lot of people do need spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:59 PM
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Out of curiosity did your lost 30 lbs flatten your stomach completely, are there visible abs, or is there still a bit of a belly even when you haven't eaten for a while or just woke up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:27 PM
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It's not like guys get an erection to every hot girl they see. Maybe at best it's a head turn but even then go to a city center and a guy will see hundreds of girls a minute. We're not constantly turning our heads to each hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:14 PM
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I think it's hormones which can come from attractive guys. Like when a girl sees Jungkook or Harry Styles on stage and says they got wet that's hormones. Hormones are shown to be affected by light touches. That's also a PUA tactic. Same as eye contact though idk if that's a PUA tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:51 PM
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I read a thread yesterday where a 24 year old girl was feeling shame for having just under 20 sexual partners. The women who commented said ncount doesn't matter and many said they'd stopped counting. That's all fine, what bothered me was that one woman said that she should run if a man ever asks about her body count and then started to talk about how men tend to coerce or force women into sex. It seemed like she doesn't understand that women also ask about body count. Since in my experience wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:08 AM
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I think redpill is just as bad tbh. One of the threads was about how nothing else matters you just need to be a girl's best fuck. It had a bunch of upvotes. Like nah bro, your neckbeard ass isn't gonna keep a girl around just because you jackhammered for 30 seconds after 10 seconds of foreplay and then asked if she was there yet before falling asleep. I don't remember it ever being anything but extreme. So I'll say it's like how people describe Trump, Peterson, and Tate's beliefs "some of it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:30 PM
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It's happening less because the've entered the workforce and don't need a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:17 AM
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This 280lb 5'7 girl got a 20% match rate on tinder and posted today: 10 dates, 7 fucks, 2 relationships. The 20% is only as low as it is imo since she's bi. I agree appearance is important for men but it goes to show there's a lot more leeway for women than men. No man with a similar bmi would get that kind of match percentage (unless they were fit but had a high bmi). I'll admit that for the number of swipes the number of dates is ridiculously low. And a lot of the matches were guys who swipe f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:19 AM
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To answer the title: women entering the workforce. Women don't need to marry to survive when their families pressure them to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:06 AM
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Now almost half women are single moms. Think about the disaster this is. Your claim doesn't line up with the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:38 PM
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You guys try out Feeld yet? So many couples. Many of whom seem to have a mismatch between the guy and girl's body fat percentage. I understand Feeld attracts a type and couples are probably overrepresented just like there's dating apps I do well on and dating apps I don't. It really makes me feel like dating has changed now seeing all these couples that don't care if you sleep with their partner either separately, together, or together but only with them watching. They tend to be older generatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:30 PM
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This is like a trolley argument. What's the point? You'll never be presented with it in real life just like guys will never go from having no options to suddenly having a ton of options unless they win a lottery or get liposuction and learn to keep down the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:16 PM
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I didn't say only 20% slept around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:58 PM
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I hate pareto principal. It's just a lazy excuse to not use stats like so: "20% of women make it really easy for 20% of hot guys to sleep around. The other 80% aren't sloots." edit: your friend who doesn't speak English. I've seen that kind of guy. When I was traveling a girl brought him to sit with them at a restaurant and he couldn't speak at all. Dude left because it was boring and he was just arm candy. Later another girl bumped into him on purpose with 3 of her guy friends next to her (pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:31 AM
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Yeah I have a friend who lives like 6 hours away from his partner by train/car and so he can go every other weekend. I think that's barely workable. But the ones who never seeing in person just sound like penpals I meet on boo or like those AI bots (without a body) people talk to to not feel as lonely. Or like the people who develop parasocial relationships with streamers they never see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:13 PM
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I can definitely see it being better for single parents with majority custody since then you have less time to date anyways and it's companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:10 PM
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Fair point on the makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:10 PM
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I've been thinking about LDR and tbh I don't think it's much different from just being single. Like most people don't have video calls everyday when long distance. The again in one of my past relationships I had video calls everyday when I wasn't LDR when we weren't together. But in my experience girls I've known have just had the relationship fade till they got cheated on by their LDR boyfriends. And to be honest I think it's often an excuse girls give to their parents and potential suitors tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:12 PM
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Something historic passed down. In the past when there were no contraceptives or easy abortion any woman who had sex out of marriage might get pregnant and then have to raise the child of someone their family didn't want to sell/give them off to. Then the other guy's family wouldn't want them anymore. Girls got married off when they were in their early teens as young as like 11 to guys as young as 13 until the Victorian era but even during the Victorian era girls were often arranged into marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:53 PM
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I'm a fan of voting and personal freedom. If the majority of people want a nuclear end then I say launch them all! If the majority of people want to stay child free and fewer people date then so be it. I don't care if society suffers. That's a problem for government to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:54 AM
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Is that what they're calling it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:07 AM
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Sometimes people say libido drops due to kids. People argue over who gets to sleep or whatever after having them and pregnancy affects hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:50 PM
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Then how are we supposed to get accurate numbers? lol. It's not like friends will give me an accurate rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah it's possible guys overrate their attractiveness. The rateme subs are all trash. There's one sub that rates Steven Yeun a 5 called like truerateme and you never see girls 8 or above unless a mod rates them that first. Several celebs in their 20s and and 30s are like 7 or lower. And people get used to only seeing pretty individuals. But there is an anonymous website that's supposed to give ratings. I've been wanting to put my photos in there. And I recommend everyone else do the same. I like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:10 PM
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Do you know what programming languages ​​or fields of IT are worth pursuing in order to have a remote job? It's probably less about what field you're in and more based on demonstrating knowledge at work and ability to be self accountable during at home days for hybrid jobs. Amazon for instance is really going hard on bringing everyone back to office but they will make very special exceptions for people who are talented resources that can't be easily replaced. More often the person just gets let …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:35 PM
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Bad Idea Right is lit bro 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:36 PM
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I've been thinking about how contraceptives and easily accessible abortions have changed the relationship landscape over history. For most of human history we would've lived in tribes. Women would've fucked a few of the guys in the tribe even if the chief or top 20% whatever wanted them all to himself. Then as a community they'd have raised the kids who were genetically similar to them because their gene pools were smaller than Alabama's. But for the period of history we think of most after civi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:28 PM
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I think most people look at it like an investment like a 401k. Like if you have kids and raise them well they might see you when you're older. If you max out your 401k every year and retire as a millionaire in stock assets, you won't have to worry about selling your home or whatever else old millionaires do (gamble? travel?). But for those first 40 years you could've used the money from your 401k on trips, unemployment stints, and living above your means with cars and rent. You can be an aunt bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:41 PM
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weirdly is adamant she wants men in their twenties As long as she still can. Obviously, lots of younger men want a hole where they can get one and it's not like you see a lot of wrinkles at 35. So the men will settle at least short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:34 PM
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Firstly language. Secondly finding work. The job market is oversaturated at entry level. More so for remote work. A recruiter told me it's like 10% remote now. I see a lot of moves to hybrid atm. Third time zones. Fourth just not having all the amenities one is used to or friends and family nearby. You're gonna want to be fit too. SEA girls do notice overweightedness in men, more than girls in the west imo. Slightly overweight in the US is like obese there. Height matters too, but if you're weal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:08 AM
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Are you applying all this? I'm a CE grad, work out 3 times a week and have for over 2 years, and have done the whole traveling through Asia thing. For the average white guy here there's going to be tons of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah I hear housing prices haven't shot up under the Ocean yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:28 PM
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I've never dated a girl who wanted children outside of marriage, maybe it's the type of women I attract. I know plenty of army recruits have kids out of marriage though with the promise of marriage later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:38 PM
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A lot of women won't have kids with someone who won't marry so if you want kids it's necessary. Even if you have a kid out of wedlock you have to pay child support in case of a breakup. The justification I've heard is that it's a commitment. You spend a lot of money and face (if it's in front of friends and family) on the wedding and the rings and any bride gifts. If a divorce is initiated they lose all that "investment" Divorce stats are far lower under certain conditions like income or educati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:13 PM
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Government doesn't want more kids growing up with a single mother who can't afford to provide the child with an equal education or healthcare. Those kids provide less to the economy. Not using taxpayer money, besides looking inhumane, is just worse for the government later on when they have to deal with more homelessness and crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:26 AM
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Bingo! I call Purple pill bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:30 PM
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I once asked a bunch of tourist girls if they wanted to join a table of tourist guys I was with. A girl replied "No thanks we're gay" lmao. I sarcastically replied "what a coincidence so am I". We were in an open space with like no other groups in the tables right next to us. Everyone was drinking. They came up and sat at the table next to us after we got there and started drinking. To be fair her friend was nicer and lightly chastised her for being a bitch and just said they weren't looking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:30 PM
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Most of us do have other options but we're lazy. Improving your physique and finances will make it so you don't need escorts or strippers even if you're 5'6" but it looks like people here don't want to hear it. On topic who cares what society thinks? Certainly not the guys who use escorts or strippers. Also in Asia there's hostess clubs and karaokes where a girl will pretend to be interested in you. Doesn't interest me though. Doubt it'd help my confidence since I'd know it's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:02 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAwWtLukePc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:38 PM
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I think the 60% is off. Pew hasn't issued a correction but I've seen other data of theirs saying it's closer to 36% I believe the 63% or whatever was from 2015 which is weird since it went down a lot in 2018 and 2021 iirc but was also high in 2009
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:51 PM
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I'm starting to not trust pews other stats after seeing some inconsistencies in their data. Like there's large swings in this exact stat in 2009, 2012, 2015, 2018, and 2021. I believe the 68 or whatever stat came from 2015. And I've also seen other stats from pew showing that it's closer to 36%/39%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:08 AM
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even if she has no chance of locking down an 8. I wouldn't even say they have no chance with the 8. Zuckerberg married an average looking Chinese girl he met in uni. Of course Zuckerburg isn't attractive in our eyes nor was he rich when they met. Maybe he's not a good example. I'm sure Bezos', Musk's, and Trump's newest wives think they've married up. Every little girl is told the Cinderella story of how a dirt poor nobody attracts a wealthy handsome prince merely by being pretty. Everyone wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:16 PM
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Not all girls like nightclubs so if you want someone who doesn't like nightclubs then they're pretty bad places to meet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:08 PM
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I will point out that Trump remarried younger. lol. He's rich enough that his first wife doesn't speak out against him though (I'm sure part of the divorce settlement was contingent on her not speaking ill of him and him providing her with money for their kids). Not sure if he paid for his kid with his second wife. Why did so many conservatives pick him in the primaries again? Dude graduated on to a third ex model wife from a poor country. Trump cheated on his first wife with his second wife Mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:40 AM
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I'd like to see the age gap of couples and marriages. A lot of men are fine dating someone younger for sex but I suspect many would rather marry someone of their standing. Your data is for couples living together which is a commitment closer to the marriage side. 2 of Trump's wives were like 20 years younger. I'm sure that helps normalize the relationship for conservatives when they see him with his 24 year younger ex model wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:34 PM
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A lot of the guys on this sub are conservative and want a traditional style relationship where women pop out babies and in their minds are available for sex when they come home from work. They're not representative of the overall more liberal groups your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:19 PM
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Some apps have age filters. So like on hinge or okc girls would often put that they wanted a guy much older than them. I've seen many girl's profiles that were like 25 looking for 30-40. It does happen "intentionally" but I think more often it's unconscious. Like say a girl gets hit on by 2 guys in 1 day. The first one is her age and doesn't have a car or his own place yet or the money to take her on vacations, go on nice dates, and to dress well. The second one does but is fatter and balder. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:08 AM
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I think a big issue is that the younger person, usually the girl, will change much more from age 20-30 than the man will from 40-50. She may want to travel or experience sex with someone who's not fat and has more stamina and energy as well as a higher libido and lower refractory period. I'd argue the men in these relationships have already started losing their looks and that's evident in how like the average 35 year old guy has started suffering from hair loss or is already bald. I agree most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:01 AM
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I just lump that all under personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:57 AM
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I think most women don't like the risk of drug dealers. Those that hang with them are drug addicts. Chris brown is a famous singer. People like Dicaprio despite him only dating women up to age 25. Also he's wealthy. The attractive mugshot guy I think you're referencing is a literal walking meme like that gigachad guy. He has the same facial hair and facial structure and has aryan characteristics (blue eyes, presumably blonde hair if he had any) that the media tells women is superior. Great proof…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:40 PM
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I think the big tip is to consider how 43% of over 20 year olds in America are obese. This isn't a big thing in your early to mid 20s but in your 30s there are so many obese people left on the market. If you're young be aware that many of the people you hear commentary from here are obese. "American women are a lost cause. Go to pooristan" - probably comes from a fat guy "Men are pigs" - probably fat Their advice may be irrelevant to you if you stay fit. Don't always picture random strangers on …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:10 AM
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Bill and Melinda divorced. She couldn't handle Bill having an affair with a young coworker every year anymore or maybe Bill had more affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:36 PM
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I think parts of it went too far on the female dating strategy feminist side like when they're blaming everything on men. Yeah there's some really shitty men, most of the ones looking for traditional housewives are conservatives though. It's not the liberal men asking for the supreme court to take away abortion rights. And it's not enough to add "oh but not all men, Allen is cool" as an afterthought. I guess to some women All Men are Bad just like for redpill AWAB or for BLM ACAB. The Barbies wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:47 AM
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My ex was much smarter than me but she still liked it when I took the initiative in setting up dates. I don't think I'm red pill but a lot of girls like it when their boyfriend will coddle them when they're sad or angry. A lot of guys like feeling strong and useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:41 PM
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You could maybe get good sex but real companionship requires real people. I've said it already since this topic gets brought up a lot but you need sentience for companionship and once AI gets sentient the world changes drastically such that relationships are a small concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:22 PM
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I think signs of lifestyle creep become an issue. If she's interested in buying designer bags and the only thing stopping her is not enough wealth at the moment then that's going to become a point of contention later on in a relationship. If they make more than me and buy designer bags it's less of an issue as long as that doesn't actually cause a lack of savings. If they make income now but intend to become a housewife with no kids that's also going to cause resentment. I make enough but it's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:26 PM
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It's not a tinder study. Fair point that women use makeup and better angles. Often filters too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:48 AM
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I think you're finding a rationalization for the data but it's impossible to prove. Every study has limitations and people can draw their own conclusions. What I've noticed however is that for instance the vast majority of women don't like Asian guys and the vast majority of men won't date black women. There are studies on how race plays into attractiveness to corroborate what I've seen. Attractiveness in looks is standardized across women just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:22 AM
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I would've loved for the social experiment to see if the women would've gone on a second date had they still thought the guy was fat. They might've just been nice to him. Also it's a sample size of like 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:14 PM
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When men rated women they had a bell curve around 50% being above average. So they're accurately rating women. It's true some women might like beards and some might not and therefore a non bearded guy might get a girlfriend. Or another guy might be bald and a lot of girls don't mind a bald look as long as he shaves it all of. But it's the same for guys. Some don't want a girl taller than them. Some don't want a fat girl and others desire thickness. Ethnicity plays a large part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:11 PM
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Unless this is from before my time, you could message anyone on okcupid no matter how you rated them or they rated you. The feature was just there to rate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:06 PM
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Don't break your rules just because the guy is conventionally hot. Does he need to have a career? Does there need to be any mutual interests? Does he need to know the sun is bigger than the earth? If you're gonna filter by this stuff be consistent. If you want to wait till 7 dates before sex don't break that rule just because the guy has his own company you don't know the salary of and he's tall and your preferred ethnicity. Most girls I sleep with or bring back to my place happen on the 4th dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:53 AM
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I just don't think our current version of sexbots: tenga toys and blowup dolls is anywhere near what you want from a relationship. They don't offer realistic companionship, you need sentience for that and by the time AI becomes sentient our whole world will dramatically change. I didn't think we'd get convincing AI conversations capable of writing articles yet either but chatgpt kinda came out of nowhere for a lot of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:09 AM
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If the majority of men can't talk to women how do the majority of women know how to "communicate to a man, how to be sensual, how to connect with him, how to spike his interests". This sounds like more "80% of men are below average" crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:48 AM
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You can't just make claims like 1/3 people will stay unpartnered without a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:18 PM
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It's the secretary problem in effect. Society has progressed to a point where more and more women work and don't need a man to survive. So they don't need to marry young. I think that progression is a good thing and I'd rather women can and do work. There's arguments that women misread who they're able to fuck and who they're able to settle down with when applying the secretary problem. But that's a problem with delusion rather than the fundamental logic. There are those at 24 who've had more se…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:32 PM
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I know redditors don't represent the majority opinion. Even in this subreddit I think far more guys are against adoption or raising another woman's child than the general population of men. But I've been scrolling through /r/datingoverthirty and it seems like there's a lot of girls who want a relationship but are just getting screwed by the guy they're with and they're ok settling for that guy. The megathread is a fucking disaster zone, like not a single traditional monogamous relationship in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:42 PM
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It's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:57 PM
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This counter argument comes up so much that there's a common counter argument to match it that most of the 80% are just a reply like "hey" and then ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:54 PM
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Don't think this happens that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:16 AM
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Passport sisters are still far smaller percent of people than passport bros though in disadvantaged countries. And they wouldn't be looking for a relationship there or marriage since the men there make less than them unless the man is well educated and can be brought back for a Western salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:12 PM
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You don't ever have to comment. Can just lurk and read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:57 PM
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I think you're incredibly naive on this subject. I mean that without ill intent. If you'd like to learn about the subject I'd recommend some Thai discord groups to get experience from guys with their feet on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:04 AM
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I'm a guy. I was in Thailand. Most of the guys there are there for sex tourism. Some might be married to a girl many years younger. Some of the younger guys might be banking on brainwashing from media and white worship. Like the way dogs worship their owners some girls in Asian countries worship white guys. But outside of a handful of guys, almost everyone single there was there for sex as a primary reason. One American Middle Eastern guy was cheating with his wife and trying to get with 2 marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:58 AM
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A lot of men try to gain status or build muscle to attract women I think exercise and improvement is often for the self. So the premise is flawed. And if you want a relationship you have to go out and look for one as a guy. Girls don't ask you out 95% of the time. Men aren't too fixated either. They play video games and watch anime even if far fewer girls do and it's not something many girls want in a partner. Some guys focus too much on it but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:31 PM
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I don't wanna raise someone else's kids, OP clarified the kids would be adopted. Otherwise wife easy. I have a hand. Sex toys look fun..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:23 PM
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I think the marriage age gap is lower than the dating one. 21 year old girls might not go for 30 year old guys but 25 year old girls might. They consider themselves "mature for their age". Nearly four in ten (39%) have previously dated someone with an age difference of 10+ years. Men are more likely to have dated someone 10+ years younger than them compared to women (25% vs. 14%). Meanwhile, women are more likely to have dated someone 10+ years older than them compared to men (28% vs. 21%). I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:38 AM
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Do you mean shaving the light fur over their mouth or their vagina areas? Legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:30 PM
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If you're an Asian guy, you'll probably only be able to date Asian girls. You're expected to pay for every date till marriage or breakup. I know a guy who paid his girlfriend, same age as him, similar career but earning less than him, a monthly allowance. It's not even uncommon. After marriage it's joint account which is pretty fair though very trusting. If one party were to funnel the money to another country and leave, divorce courts could never get it back but that's true of any joint account…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:05 AM
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Sure, then what about fairness? Sure you can provide for someone who doesn't work but everyone wants a relationship that's fair. Or risk of injury or health conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:40 PM
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Because then if you stop earning as much because of financial hardships which seem to happen often even for wealthy people, or lifestyle creep surpasses your earning potential then it leads to an expensive divorce. That and you're constantly under pressure to earn more due to lifestyle creep. I've been reading a few posts on /r/divorce where men have to pay half their salary for kids that weren't even their own. These were, in their own words, wealthy loyal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:00 PM
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It depends on your race too. I think on average black and latino men are more accepting of higher BMI women than Asian and white men are. Obviously there are exceptions. I know plenty of Asians who want a thicc girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah those doctors are going to make way more than all the people in dev except for the lead+ in fortune 100s. They'll definitely catch up on net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:48 PM
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Even if you made a lot why would you want a gold digger? Making money so someone else can flaunt it on social media and be unemployed doesn't sound like a great life. It comes with huge risks if for some reason you end up not being able to provide that lifestyle or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:15 PM
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